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taking your desires off the pedestal · Beauty In Positivity

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SPEAKER_00: Hello and welcome back to the Beauty and Positivity Podcast.
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SPEAKER_00: My name is Alyssa Skinner.
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SPEAKER_00: I built my dream life, dream income, business, physique, marriage, friendships, and home, all with the practices and mindset that I share in this podcast, as well as through my courses.
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SPEAKER_00: Building your dream life really is just a decision.
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SPEAKER_00: It's simple, but we make it very complex.
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SPEAKER_00: So speaking of your dream life, that's what I want to talk about in today's episode.
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SPEAKER_00: Because whenever we are talking about manifesting our desires, creating the experiences that we want in this lifetime, a lot of times we visualize that thing in the moment of receiving it.
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SPEAKER_00: For example, you want your dream car, and so you sit down, you start doing your visualization practices, you're getting the keys at the dealership, you're walking up to your dream car, opening the door, stepping inside, shutting the door, smelling the new car smell, and then you scream out of excitement that you finally did it.
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SPEAKER_00: That's the moment we all go to.
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SPEAKER_00: Or you visualize your dream marriage and you're walking down the aisle looking at your partner thinking, I finally found my best friend.
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SPEAKER_00: We tend to visualize the day the desire manifested, the day that is going to be the most exciting, the utmost relief, the highest amount of joy, and you're going to experience the moment of I did it.
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SPEAKER_00: But what we don't do, because we don't visualize the day that thing becomes stale, and so we put our desires on this pedestal.
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SPEAKER_00: The day that our brand new expensive car needs new tires, needs a brake change, needs an oil change, right?
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SPEAKER_00: We don't go to that day when we think of our desires.
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SPEAKER_00: We don't visualize getting in the car on a random Tuesday morning and seeing the gas tank on empty when we're already running late somewhere.
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SPEAKER_00: That's a little inconvenience of having the desire, right?
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SPEAKER_00: We don't visualize getting in a fight with the love of our life, thinking, does this person even see me?
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SPEAKER_00: We don't visualize arguing with our best friend or not feeling heard or seen.
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SPEAKER_00: We don't visualize the day that our partner doesn't show up for us in the way that we needed.
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SPEAKER_00: But the truth is, that's exactly what our desire becomes.
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SPEAKER_00: It becomes stale, it becomes our new normal.
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SPEAKER_00: Our desires just become another part of our day.
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SPEAKER_00: And at times they inconvenience us.
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SPEAKER_00: Eventually, the new car will need or will become the old car again.
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SPEAKER_00: Eventually, the love of your life is going to be on a different page than you sometimes, right?
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SPEAKER_00: Not every day is gonna feel like the love of your life.
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SPEAKER_00: Most days should though, for sure.
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SPEAKER_00: But I want to use this to our advantage, okay?
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SPEAKER_00: So we are gonna visualize walking around the parking lot because we forgot where we parked the damn car.
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SPEAKER_00: I want you to visualize your best friend and you're calling them, telling them all the tea about the argument you just had with the dream partner you're manifesting.
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SPEAKER_00: I just want you to visualize already having the dream business, but looking at the numbers, thinking, oh, I really don't want to do this accounting work right now.
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SPEAKER_00: How do I even do this?
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SPEAKER_00: How do I learn this?
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SPEAKER_00: How do I get this license and this permit?
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SPEAKER_00: There's still life inconveniences with our desires.
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SPEAKER_00: These are gonna be the true scenes of your life.
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SPEAKER_00: You are going to experience the high of manifesting your desires, but you're also gonna manifest or you're gonna experience the low vibrational days of having your manifestations.
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SPEAKER_00: And this is gonna be just another part of life that you live.
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SPEAKER_00: Life throws curveballs regardless if you have your dream life or not.
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SPEAKER_00: Your dream life isn't, it doesn't mean that everything is perfect every single day.
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SPEAKER_00: It just means you achieved what you wanted.
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SPEAKER_00: It just means that you are powerful, you found your power, and you have learned how to create your dream life.
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SPEAKER_00: I used to dream of the business that I have now, and now it's just a chore to sit down and do all of the admin work at the coffee shop.
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SPEAKER_00: And I used to dream of the home I live in now.
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SPEAKER_00: We've remodeled so much of it, making it look exactly like my vision in my mind.
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SPEAKER_00: And there's plenty of days where I look at it and go, I have to clean the floors again.
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SPEAKER_00: The point is, you only visualize your desires the day that you received it, and you are attached to that outcome because of that.
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SPEAKER_00: You have to release the attachment you have to your desires because they're just gonna be your new normal.
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SPEAKER_00: You have to bring them down from the pedestal that you have held them up on.
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SPEAKER_00: They will just be the background of your life, the new simple day-to-day.
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SPEAKER_00: And they are still beautiful.
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SPEAKER_00: You should still desire them.
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SPEAKER_00: You're still gonna love your dream partner and your best friend, you're still gonna love being a business owner, you're still gonna love driving your brand new car around.
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SPEAKER_00: Neville Guarded says, We always think of the desire, but we never think from the fulfillment of the desire.
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SPEAKER_00: So that is acting as if.
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SPEAKER_00: I talk about act as if all the time.
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SPEAKER_00: You become the person who already has it when you think of these visions.
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SPEAKER_00: Eventually, they become a new part of your life, and then you are sitting there ready to manifest the next best thing.
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SPEAKER_00: Then you're gonna be sitting there ready to trade in that new car that is now your old car.
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SPEAKER_00: You're gonna be sitting there ready to scale your business even bigger.
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SPEAKER_00: You're gonna dream of something new after you achieve what it is you want so badly.
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SPEAKER_00: This just helps shorten the gap from where we are now and where we want to be.
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SPEAKER_00: So it also helps you think from a place of already having it, which speeds up the manifestations.
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SPEAKER_00: So, what inconveniences will your dreams bring into your life only after having them?
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SPEAKER_00: You can still love and desire the desire these things, but I want you to think about the inconveniences that will come only after getting your desires.
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SPEAKER_00: And let me know in the comments if you resonate with this, if you try this, and how it goes for you.
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SPEAKER_00: As always, you can find my Enlightened Babe Academy in my bio at GorgeousBy Alyssa on all social platforms.
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SPEAKER_00: This goes even deeper than any podcast episode ever has, and it helps you rewire your identity.
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SPEAKER_00: This is the exact work that I did to become a different person in six months and actually release the obstacles that were holding me back.
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SPEAKER_00: It's all of the subconscious work, it's the neuroscience part of manifestation.
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SPEAKER_00: It's not just another visualization act, it's the actual science of how you manifest.
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SPEAKER_00: It helps you figure out what your limiting beliefs are and the step by step to actually release them for good.
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SPEAKER_00: For good, okay?
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SPEAKER_00: And then you have access for a lifetime so you can go in and repeat the course every year, every other year, anytime you're trying to manifest something new.
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SPEAKER_00: I am sending you so much love and success.
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SPEAKER_00: Bye.