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- 0:00Welcome back to Reformed Thinking.
- 0:01We are doing another deep dive, this time into a section of
- 0:05scripture that, well, it can feel a little jarring if you're
- 0:08not ready for it. It certainly can.
- 0:10It turns our whole value system on its head.
- 0:12We're in the Sermon on the Mount, of course, Jesus's
- 0:15foundational teaching for life in his Kingdom, and he kicks it
- 0:19off with the Beatitudes. These these declarations that
- 0:24just seem to invert everything the world values.
- 0:26And we're landing on one of the most inverted of them all.
- 0:29That's right, our focus today is Matthew 5.4.
- 0:32Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
- 0:35A statement that seems like a complete contradiction.
- 0:37It does joy that starts with sorrow, happiness that begins
- 0:41with tears. It doesn't compute.
- 0:43So our mission today is to really unpack this.
- 0:45We want to figure out what kind of grief Jesus calls blessed.
- 0:49And just as critically, how it's different from, you know,
- 0:52regular worldly sorrow or just feeling sorry for yourself.
- 0:56Exactly. And then how does God actually
- 0:58fulfill this incredible promise of comfort?
- 1:01You know, if you miss the specific nature of this grief,
- 1:04you really miss the heart of what Christian character is
- 1:07supposed to look like. The world says get comfortable
- 1:11so you can avoid mourning. Christ says the path to real,
- 1:15lasting comfort is through a certain kind of mourning.
- 1:19All right, let's start with that first word.
- 1:21The condition itself. Jesus calls the mourners
- 1:24Macarios, which we translate as blessed.
- 1:28But in our culture, blessed is all over the place.
- 1:31It can mean anything from having a nice day to getting a new car.
- 1:34It feels a lot like just being happy.
- 1:37And that's the first hurdle we have to get over.
- 1:39The sources we looked at are all very clear on this.
- 1:42Macarios is not a feeling, it's not a passing emotion.
- 1:45It's a settled spiritual status. OK, a status.
- 1:48Unpack that for us. Well, if you look at how the
- 1:50word was used in classical Greek, it was often for the
- 1:52gods, they were macarios, or maybe for the Super wealthy.
- 1:55You know, the people who were so rich and secure, they were
- 1:57totally free from the normal worries of life.
- 2:00It meant having an untouchable kind of good fortune.
- 2:03So it's a state of being completely secure above the
- 2:06fray. Exactly.
- 2:07So think about how radical it is when Jesus takes this word, this
- 2:10concept reserved for the gods or the untouchably wealthy, and
- 2:14applies it to the poor in spirit and to those who mourn.
- 2:17It's a total subversion. He's saying that the real status
- 2:21of divine favor, the settled approval from God, isn't tied to
- 2:25your circumstances at all. Right.
- 2:26It's tied to your spiritual state, your absolute dependence
- 2:29on Him and, as we'll see, your sorrow over sin.
- 2:32So it's not about how I feel when I wake up on a Tuesday
- 2:35morning. It's about my actual standing
- 2:37before God. That's it it.
- 2:38It's a verdict. Macario's means you stand under
- 2:41God's smile because you've been justified.
- 2:44And to really get that, you have to look back at the Old
- 2:47Testament roots. You're talking about Psalm 32,
- 2:49right? The source is all pointed there.
- 2:50Yes, Psalm 32, verse one. Blessed is the one whose
- 2:54transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered.
- 2:56See the blessedness. The Macario state is the direct
- 3:00result of sin being dealt with. It's tied to justification.
- 3:03It is. The blessing isn't about
- 3:05avoiding pain. It's about being forgiven, it's
- 3:08God's declaration of approval, and that stands firm no matter
- 3:11what difficulties you're facing. So the world pities the person
- 3:14who is mourning, but Jesus looks at that person, assuming it's
- 3:18the right kind of mourning, and says that person is secure.
- 3:21That person has divine favor. That's the upside down Kingdom
- 3:24right there. True goodness, true blessedness,
- 3:27is measured by spiritual realities, not by physical
- 3:30comfort or emotional ease. OK, so that's the blessed
- 3:33condition. Let's move to the action itself.
- 3:37Morning Jesus doesn't use a mild word for sadness here.
- 3:40The sources really stress the intensity of the Greek verb
- 3:43penthuge. Yeah, that word choice is so
- 3:46important. In Greek, you have a lot of
- 3:48different words for sadness. You have mild distress, you have
- 3:50deep physical pain. But penthes is one of the
- 3:53strongest. It means a serious, deep lament.
- 3:56It's often the word used for mourning a death.
- 3:58Mourning a death that's profound loss.
- 4:00So what's the spiritual equivalent?
- 4:01What has died that requires this level of grief?
- 4:05It's grief over the death that sin causes, the death of
- 4:08righteousness, the spiritual loss.
- 4:10This isn't just a general vague sadness about the state of the
- 4:13world or feeling bad that you made a mistake.
- 4:16It's more specific. Much more specific panties is a
- 4:20sorrow that is weighty. It's a conscious grief over what
- 4:23sin has actually done, what it's done to God's glory first and
- 4:28foremost, what it's done to your own soul, to others.
- 4:31It's a total rejection of sin and its effects.
- 4:34It sounds like this is the emotional reaction to the
- 4:37intellectual realization in the first Beatitude.
- 4:40Exactly, Matthew 5.3 Blessed are the poor in spirit.
- 4:43That's the moment you realize I am spiritually bankrupt before a
- 4:47holy God. And Penthes is the proper
- 4:50emotional response to that bankruptcy.
- 4:52It's the grease that follows the diagnosis.
- 4:54And we see this word used elsewhere with that same kind of
- 4:57intensity. The sources pointed to James
- 4:59Chapter 4. A critical cross reference, Yes,
- 5:01James tells these worldly minded believers be wretched and mourn
- 5:04and weep. It's a command he's telling them
- 5:06to have, this heart wrenching visible turning away from their
- 5:09love of the world and back to God.
- 5:11So it's not a personality type, it's not that some people are
- 5:13just more melancholy, It's an active spiritual response.
- 5:16An active, sharp spiritual lament.
- 5:19It's the recognition that your sin is a spiritual catastrophe,
- 5:24and you know that seriousness is what makes the promise of
- 5:27comfort so incredible. If you treat your sin lightly,
- 5:30you'll treat the comfort of forgiveness lightly.
- 5:32To the depth of the morning is proportional to the appreciation
- 5:36of the comfort. That brings up the structure
- 5:38here. These beatitudes aren't just a
- 5:40random list, they flow 1 into the next.
- 5:43Matthew 5.4 about morning comes right after 5.3 about being poor
- 5:48in spirit. The sources say this is an
- 5:50intentional sequence. Absolutely.
- 5:52There's what some call an inner line here that reflects the
- 5:55order of salvation, of conversion.
- 5:57The link between the 1st 2 is just unavoidable.
- 5:59First comes a recognition of your state.
- 6:01I am poor in spirit. I have nothing.
- 6:03The objective. Fact, the objective fact.
- 6:05And the second beatitude is the necessary emotional response to
- 6:08that fact. And my bankruptcy grieves me to
- 6:10the core. But why must it lead to that
- 6:12kind of grief to Penthege? I mean, couldn't someone just
- 6:15realize they're spiritually bankrupt and just be resigned to
- 6:18it or indifferent? A natural person would be, and
- 6:21that's where the work of the Holy Spirit comes in.
- 6:24A person who is spiritually dead doesn't care about their
- 6:26spiritual poverty. When the Spirit of God opens
- 6:30your eyes to see God's perfect holiness on the one hand, and
- 6:33the true ugliness of your sin on the other, indifference is no
- 6:37longer an option. So it's not just recognizing a
- 6:40lack, it's recognizing an offense.
- 6:42That's the key. Poverty of spirit is knowing you
- 6:45lack the righteousness God requires.
- 6:48Mourning is grieving that your lack is a direct offense, a
- 6:51transgression against the God you were made to love and obey.
- 6:55The Beatitudes are a portrait of a converted heart.
- 6:58It sees its poverty, It grieves its offense.
- 7:00And then in the next Beatitude, it bows in meekness.
- 7:03So this isn't a checklist where some Christians are mourners and
- 7:06others are meek. It's one cohesive character
- 7:09portrait. It's a single portrait of every
- 7:10true citizen of the Kingdom. You can't separate the parts.
- 7:13The person who has the Kingdom in verse 3 must mourn in verse 4
- 7:16because they now hate the sin that once kept them out of.
- 7:19It that makes perfect sense. And it also seems that the
- 7:22promise of future comfort is what makes the present grief
- 7:25even possible. Yes, how could you possibly face
- 7:29the crushing weight of your spiritual bankruptcy without
- 7:32being annihilated by despair? You can only do it because the
- 7:35promise of comfort, the guarantee of forgiveness in
- 7:38Christ is already there. So knowing you're forgiven
- 7:41actually frees you to mourn your sin properly.
- 7:44It does. You can look at the ugliness of
- 7:46your sin without flinching because you know it's penalty
- 7:48has been paid. Your grief isn't punitive
- 7:50anymore, it's restorative. Without the Gospel, this kind of
- 7:54mourning would just collapse into despair.
- 7:56Which brings us to a really critical distinction.
- 7:58We have to separate the morning Jesus blesses from the kind of
- 8:02sorrow the world is full of. The sources all go to 2nd
- 8:05Corinthians 7 point sin. Worldly grief produces death.
- 8:09This is probably the most important distinction to make in
- 8:11this whole discussion. Worldly grief is sorrow, but
- 8:14it's sorrow without faith, sorrow without any hope in
- 8:17Christ. It's fundamentally
- 8:19self-centered. How does that play out
- 8:21practically? How can you tell the difference?
- 8:22I mean, if someone messes up their life with sin and they're
- 8:25weeping over it, it all looks like sorrow.
- 8:28How do you know if it's worldly sorrow over the consequences or
- 8:32godly sorrow over the sin itself?
- 8:34You have to look at the direction of the heart.
- 8:37Worldly grief is all about lamenting the consequences, the
- 8:40broken reputation, the financial hit, the ruined relationship.
- 8:43The person is grieving the disruption to their own comfort,
- 8:46their own security, their own ego.
- 8:48So the focus is still inward. I'm sad because my life is
- 8:52harder now. I'm sad because people think
- 8:54poorly of me. Precisely.
- 8:56The person might feel terrible, but deep down they may still
- 8:59love the sin, they just hate what it costs them.
- 9:02If they could have the sin without the painful fallout,
- 9:04they do it again in a heartbeat. That kind of grief never turns a
- 9:08person to God. It just leads to despair or
- 9:11bitterness or self pity. It's a dead end road.
- 9:13And the classic chilling example of this is Judas Iscariot.
- 9:16The perfect illustration. Judas felt deep remorse.
- 9:20He returned the money. He even confessed I have sinned
- 9:23by betraying innocent blood. His pain was absolutely be real.
- 9:27But his sorrow was over the mess he had made of his own life, the
- 9:30exposure, the guilt. And crucially, it never drove
- 9:34him to the one person who could offer mercy, Jesus.
- 9:37It drove him to despair and self destruction.
- 9:40His grief produced death because it was entirely self focused and
- 9:43had no faith in forgiveness. And you contrast that with
- 9:46Peter. After he denied Christ three
- 9:48times, he also wept bitterly. Yes, but his sorrow led him back
- 9:52to Christ. It led to repentance and a
- 9:54restored life of service. That's the difference between
- 9:56life and death. Both men sinned grievously.
- 10:00Both felt terrible sorrow. One's grief was self lacerating
- 10:03despair. The others was hope filled
- 10:05confession. OK, so if worldly grief is
- 10:08inward focused, let's define the focus of blessed morning.
- 10:10You said it's God word. The chief sorrow, The primary
- 10:12focus is God Word. The main reason for the grief is
- 10:15that God's honor has been dragged through the mud.
- 10:17His glory has been diminished. Sin is seen first and foremost
- 10:21as an assault on God. Like David in Psalm 51, after
- 10:25everything he did to Bathsheba and Uriah, his confession is
- 10:28against you. You only have I sinned.
- 10:31Exactly. He's not ignoring the horrific
- 10:33damage he did to other people. He's recognizing that the
- 10:36ultimate offense, the root of the sin, was against God's
- 10:39holiness. The personal guilt is real.
- 10:42It's weighty, but it's seen through the lens of God's
- 10:45perfect standard. Now, the sources say this grief
- 10:48extends beyond just our own personal sin.
- 10:51It does. Once your heart is softened to
- 10:53mourn your own sin, you can't be isolated.
- 10:56It extends outward to communal sin.
- 10:58You start to lament the sins of God's people, the spiritual
- 11:01decay in the church. So like Ezra or Nehemiah, who
- 11:05wept and confessed the sins of the whole nation as if they were
- 11:08their own. Yes, they didn't stand off to
- 11:10the side and point fingers. They took the broken covenant of
- 11:13their people personally. They grieved over the
- 11:15worldliness and compromise they saw creeping into the community.
- 11:18And then there's an even wider circle, what the source is
- 11:20called cosmic sorrow. Cosmic sorrow is grieving over
- 11:24the general brokenness of creation that sin caused.
- 11:27It's resonated with what Paul talks about in Romans 8, the
- 11:29groaning of creation. It's mourning over injustice,
- 11:32sickness, oppression, death, all the disorder that sin unleashed
- 11:36on God's good world. That sounds like an incredibly
- 11:39heavy burden to carry. Personal sin, Communal sin?
- 11:42Cosmic sin? How does a person not just get
- 11:45crushed by all that? It doesn't crush you because
- 11:48it's always tied to hope. This sorrow isn't just despair
- 11:51over the brokenness. It's a lament that's brought
- 11:54before God with an eye fixed on His promise to make all things
- 11:58new. And this is critical.
- 12:00This kind of comprehensive mourning is not natural.
- 12:02The sources are emphatic about this.
- 12:04It is the fruit of the Holy Spirit.
- 12:06Only the Spirit can give you a heart that hates sin this much
- 12:09and loves God's holiness this much.
- 12:11So this God word Greece is also productive.
- 12:14It's not just a state of being sad.
- 12:16It's meant to do something. The sources place it right at
- 12:19the heart of repentance. Yes, it produces a turning.
- 12:21It's the engine of repentance. Again back Second Corinthians 7
- 12:24point turn in godly grief produces a repentance that leads
- 12:27to salvation without regret. The grief is the spiritual and
- 12:31emotional force that actually initiates the change of
- 12:33direction. That phrase without regret seems
- 12:36really important. It is.
- 12:37It contrasts perfectly with Judas's regret.
- 12:40Worldly regret is often I regret I got caught, or I regret the
- 12:45pain this brought me. But this repentance that leads
- 12:48to salvation is regret over the sin itself.
- 12:51It's a change of mind where you finally agree with God that your
- 12:54sin was wicked, and at the same time you believe His mercy is
- 12:59big enough to cover it. So the repentance process is
- 13:01something like seeing your sin for what it is, grieving it, and
- 13:05then turning from it to God in obedience.
- 13:08That's the sequence, the intellectual part seen the sin,
- 13:11the emotional part grieving it. That's the pantheish.
- 13:14And then the volitional part, the actual turning.
- 13:15The morning is what bends the soul away from the sin and
- 13:18toward God. That's why it's blessed.
- 13:21It doesn't leave the Sinner paralyzed in shame.
- 13:23It moves them toward new life. The tears aren't earning God's
- 13:26favour, they're evidence that you've received His favour and
- 13:28now your heart is soft enough to hate the thing that offended
- 13:31Him. That's the Reformed
- 13:32understanding in a nutshell. Repentance isn't penance, it's a
- 13:35gift. And godly grief is the proof
- 13:38that the gift is at work, that God's kindness is leading you to
- 13:40that turning. But the Beatitudes aren't just
- 13:43about the moment of conversion. They describe the ongoing
- 13:46Christian life. So this morning has to continue.
- 13:49For a believer. How does that work?
- 13:52Becomes a key instrument of sanctification.
- 13:54It's part of how we die to sin and live to righteousness.
- 13:58The ongoing grief over the sin that still remains in US is what
- 14:01keeps us humble, what keeps us dependent on Christ.
- 14:06That seems counterintuitive though.
- 14:08Wouldn't you think that as you grow more mature as a Christian,
- 14:11you'd more and less because you're sinning less?
- 14:13You would think so, but it's actually the opposite.
- 14:15The sources use a great analogy. Imagine you're in a pitch black
- 14:18room. You can't see any dust in the
- 14:20air and someone opens the door a crack and a little beam of light
- 14:24comes in. Now you can see a few dust motes
- 14:26floating around. The more you open the door, the
- 14:29brighter the light gets and the more dust you see.
- 14:32The light is the light of God's holiness.
- 14:34As we grow closer to Christ, that light gets brighter in our
- 14:37lives and we start to see specks of dust, sins of attitude,
- 14:42subtle pride, selfishness that we were completely blind to
- 14:45before. So the holier the Saint, the
- 14:47more aware they are of their own remaining corruption.
- 14:49Exactly. And that heightened awareness
- 14:52triggers fresh grief. It's like a spiritual alarm bell
- 14:56that sends you running back to the cross for cleansing and
- 14:58gives you the resolve to fight that sin.
- 15:00But again, doesn't that get discouraging to feel like you're
- 15:03seeing more sin in yourself? It could be, but this is where
- 15:07the pastoral side of this comes in.
- 15:09The grief doesn't crush the believer because it exists
- 15:12alongside the joy of being justified.
- 15:15When your sorrow over sin is joined with faith in Christ,
- 15:18that very sorrow becomes evidence of grace.
- 15:21Fact that your sin bothers you so much is proof that the Holy
- 15:25Spirit is alive and working in you.
- 15:26It's a confirmation that God hasn't left you alone in your
- 15:29sin. An unbeliever can grow
- 15:31comfortable with their sin, but a true believer can't.
- 15:34So if I find myself genuinely grieving over a recurring sin,
- 15:38that act of mourning itself when I take it to Christ is actually
- 15:41a sign that I'm one of the Macarios, one of the blessed
- 15:44ones. It's powerful confirmation.
- 15:46It shows you have a new heart that hates what your old heart
- 15:50loved. This ongoing morning is one of
- 15:53the most reliable marks of a true citizen of the Kingdom.
- 15:56All right, let's turn to the promise for they shall be
- 15:58comforted. This is the great payoff.
- 16:01The sources are very specific that this comfort comes from one
- 16:04place and one place only. It is entirely divine, and you
- 16:08can see that right in the Greek grammar.
- 16:10The verb is paracleatheosonti. It's a future passive verb.
- 16:14That passive voice is so significant.
- 16:16Why passive? Because it means the mourners
- 16:18aren't comforting themselves. They're the ones being acted
- 16:21upon. They're being comforted.
- 16:22God himself is the one doing the comforting.
- 16:25They are the recipients, not the source.
- 16:26It's a gift they receive. A gift, and it pulls on all this
- 16:30prophetic hope from the Old Testament.
- 16:31Think of Isaiah 40. Comfort.
- 16:34Comfort my people, says your God.
- 16:37The comfort is a sovereign act, a promise from God to meet the
- 16:40tears of His people. And the whole Trinity is
- 16:42involved in delivering this comfort.
- 16:44Let's start with Jesus. The comfort is secured entirely
- 16:47by Christ's work on the cross. The only reason the mourner
- 16:50isn't crushed forever by their sin is because Jesus was crushed
- 16:53for it. The comfort begins with the
- 16:55objective fact of justification. The penalty has been paid.
- 16:59And he's not some distant deity, he's uniquely suited to give
- 17:04this comfort as a man. Yes, Scripture calls him a man
- 17:07of sorrows and acquainted with grief.
- 17:09He knows what human suffering feels like.
- 17:12He wept. He was tempted.
- 17:14He felt that ultimate spiritual anguish in the garden and on the
- 17:17cross. As the Book of Hebrews says,
- 17:19he's our sympathetic high priest.
- 17:21So he meets us in our morning. He does with mercy and strength.
- 17:24He suffered so we wouldn't have to suffer eternally.
- 17:27He mourns so that we could be comforted.
- 17:29Then you have the Holy Spirit who applies that comfort to our
- 17:32hearts. Right.
- 17:33The Greek word for comfort, paracleteasanti, is from the
- 17:36same root as the name Jesus gives the Holy Spirit in John's
- 17:39Gospel. The Paracleteus, The Nulper, The
- 17:43Comforter, the Advocate. So it's the spirit specific job
- 17:46to make this real for us. It is the Spirit take the
- 17:49objective comfort that Christ won on the cross and makes it
- 17:52subjectively real to the believer's heart.
- 17:55He assures us we are adopted children of God, prompting us to
- 17:58cry out ABBA Father. He uses the means of grace, the
- 18:02Word, prayer, the sacraments to steady our hearts and remind us
- 18:06that our forgiveness is secure even when the grief feels fresh.
- 18:10OK, but the promise is in the future tense.
- 18:13They shall be comforted. We've talked about comfort now,
- 18:16but the verse points forward. How do those two things fit
- 18:19together? It's a now and not yet reality.
- 18:22The fulfillment is twofold. It begins in part right now, the
- 18:25moment you're justified. But it reaches its absolute
- 18:27fullness in the future, in glory.
- 18:29So what does the now part of the comfort look like?
- 18:32The now comfort is grounded in our peace with God.
- 18:35Romans 5.1 Because Christ has covered our sin, we are no
- 18:38longer God's enemies. That's the foundation.
- 18:41We may still mourn the presence of sin in us, but we are no
- 18:43longer under its condemnation. The indwelling of the Spirit
- 18:47provides real tasted comfort day by day.
- 18:49So even in the middle of grieving a sin, I can have the
- 18:51comfort of knowing I'm forgiven for it.
- 18:53That's the partial fulfillment. But the future tense points us
- 18:57to the last day for the full, complete comfort, because true
- 19:01total comfort means the complete and final end of sin, death, and
- 19:05pain. The removal of the very cause of
- 19:08mourning. Exactly.
- 19:09The final comfort comes when our sanctification is complete.
- 19:13Revelation 21.4 gives us the picture.
- 19:16God will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall
- 19:19be no more. Either shall there be mourning,
- 19:22nor crying, nor pain anymore. It's incredible.
- 19:24The deepest sorrow Jesus blesses is guaranteed to end in a future
- 19:28where sorrow itself doesn't even exist.
- 19:30That is the scope of the promise.
- 19:32The comfort isn't just a Band-Aid to make us feel better
- 19:34while sin remains, it's a pledge that sin itself will one day be
- 19:38destroyed. The tears we shed today over our
- 19:40sin are noted by God and they will receive a final eternal
- 19:44answer in the new creation. Now, having this precise
- 19:47definition of blessed morning helps us see what it stands
- 19:49against. There are a lot of ideas out
- 19:51there, both in the culture and sometimes in the church, that
- 19:54this verse directly rejects. It does.
- 19:56It stands as a strong polemic against several errors.
- 20:00First and foremost, what you might call therapeutic
- 20:03spirituality. What?
- 20:04Do you mean by that? The modern idea that guilt is a
- 20:07sickness, that feeling bad about your moral failures is a
- 20:11psychological problem to be fixed with positive
- 20:14affirmations, self forgiveness, and messages about your own
- 20:17innate goodness. And Matthew 5.4 turns that on
- 20:20its head. Completely.
- 20:22Jesus calls the person whose conscience is pierced blessed.
- 20:25He gives divine favor to the one who feels the weight of their
- 20:28guilt. The therapeutic model wants to
- 20:30remove the conviction to make you feel better now.
- 20:34Jesus says the path to true, lasting blessing runs right
- 20:37through that conviction in the grief it produces.
- 20:39It also pushes back against a kind of shallow cheerfulness.
- 20:42Doesn't. It Oh, absolutely.
- 20:43It rebukes any theology that says Christians should just be
- 20:45smiling all the time, that there's no place for genuine
- 20:48sorrow over our ongoing sin. That kind of thinking creates a
- 20:52false choice between joy and our justification and grief over our
- 20:55sanctification. Jesus says the blessed person
- 20:58holds both. What about prosperity teaching
- 21:01the idea that being blessed means health and wealth?
- 21:04Prosperity teaching has no category for this verse.
- 21:07It's whole system is built on equating God's favor macarios
- 21:11with earthly comfort and success.
- 21:13Jesus redefines blessing entirely.
- 21:16He gives it to the mourner, the one experiencing the exact
- 21:18opposite of worldly ease. This Beatitude proves that your
- 21:22bank account and your health chart have zero bearing on your
- 21:24standing with God. And finally, what about
- 21:26antinomianism, the idea that since we're under grace, we
- 21:29shouldn't really dwell on our sin anymore?
- 21:31Antinomianism just gets grace completely wrong.
- 21:34It claims that because Christ has pardoned us, we are freed
- 21:37from the need to mourn sin. But this verse shows that
- 21:40genuine grace doesn't harden the heart to sin, it softens it.
- 21:44The clearest sign that you are truly under grace is that you
- 21:47have begun to hate the very sin that nailed your Savior to the
- 21:49cross. That ongoing grief is what keeps
- 21:52you from growing complacent. When you put it all together,
- 21:56the contrast is stark. Whirly grief is self-centered.
- 21:59It focuses on consequences. It leads to death.
- 22:02Godly grief is God centered. It focuses on the offense
- 22:04against Him. And because it's mixed with
- 22:06faith in Christ, it leads to life and a guaranteed divine
- 22:09comfort, the tears of a believer shed out of hatred for sin or a
- 22:13sure sign of the Spirit's work. It's the great paradox.
- 22:16The people who are the saddest over their sin are the ones who
- 22:18are made most glad by Christ's forgiveness.
- 22:20And that promise that they shall be comforted is God's own pledge
- 22:23to one day destroy the very source of those tears, sin and
- 22:27death and all corruption. So here's a final thought for
- 22:30you to consider. What does it mean for your daily
- 22:32fight against sin to know that the tears you shed now, that
- 22:35very grief over offending a holy God, are not only seen by him,
- 22:39but are guaranteed an everlasting total answer in the
- 22:41new creation? Thanks for joining us for this
- 22:44deep dive.