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HEARTBREAK TO HEALING! DIANA'S FINAL WISH, JOE JONAS' NEW PEACE & JASON SUDEIKIS' DATING CONFESSION · Naughty But Nice with Rob Shuter

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Speaker 1: Advice. Suree, it's time nice hell level love love love
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Speaker 1: it's Thursday. Normally on Thursday we have our delicious friend
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Speaker 1: Mark Lupo Loopy joins us. He's traveling the world. He's
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Speaker 1: off having a fabulous time. So guess who we are
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Speaker 1: lucky enough to have one day early? One day early,
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Speaker 1: our dear friend Corey Andrew. Heye, Corey, are you there?
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Speaker 2: I am here, darling, And it's one of the few
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Speaker 2: times in my life I've ever been early to anything.
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Speaker 2: So but how could to be here?
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Speaker 1: I'm I'm quite early. I don't know why that is.
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Speaker 1: It's almost in my DNA. I have drinks tonight with
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Speaker 1: a friend at six and I will get there at
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Speaker 1: five point fifty nine. What time would you get there, Corey?
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Speaker 2: Tomorrow? Like the next day. I'd be like Grace Jones.
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Speaker 2: You know how Grace Jones like shows up later. She's
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Speaker 2: like Nann even there. She shows up like a whole
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Speaker 2: day after the photo issue.
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Speaker 1: It makes me giggle, like kylet's jump into the show.
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Speaker 1: What time is it, my friends? It is tea time
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Speaker 1: big story at the top of the show. So, a
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Speaker 1: newly discovered letter from Princess Diana reveals her deepest hopes
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Speaker 1: for her sons, Prince William and Prince Harry. This hope
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Speaker 1: is devastating because we now know what the outcome is.
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Speaker 1: They're not closed, they're not even speaking at the moment. Well,
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Speaker 1: what Diana really wanted her hopes for her boys as
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Speaker 1: they grew up. She wanted a stronger, more meaningful bond
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Speaker 1: between them. Oh gosh, this is heartbreaking. So it was
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Speaker 1: written in nineteen ninety five after her explosive BBC Panorama
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Speaker 1: interview remember that begin to view where she said there's
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Speaker 1: three of us in this marriage. Diana reflected, I'm moving
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Speaker 1: forward with her life and the importance of communication, and
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Speaker 1: according to the letter, it's just being discovered. She looked
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Speaker 1: forward to teaching her sons the value of connection on
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Speaker 1: a deeper level and understanding one another better. She wanted
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Speaker 1: a different life for them than the life that she
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Speaker 1: was living. The emotional correspondence is now headed for auction,
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Speaker 1: which creeps me out a little bit of private letter,
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Speaker 1: but offers a real poignant glimpse into Diana's personal thoughts
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Speaker 1: as a mother. Now nearly three decades later, her wishes remain,
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Speaker 1: especially moving as the brothers are as strange. So she
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Speaker 1: wanted these two boys to be closed. She always thought
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Speaker 1: it was the three of them verse the monarchy, and
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Speaker 1: she knew not as soon as it happened, obviously, but
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Speaker 1: they were younger. Parents don't live as long as their
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Speaker 1: children in the natural order of things. She thought that
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Speaker 1: eventually these two boys would be one another's rock, that
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Speaker 1: when she was no longer around to look after them,
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Speaker 1: to give them advice, they would always have each That's
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Speaker 1: why she wanted two children. She knew how difficult it
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Speaker 1: would be to just have one. She wanted these boys
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Speaker 1: to be each other's support system, each other's safety net,
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Speaker 1: each other's comfort blanket. And it is beautiful. And when
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Speaker 1: she put those words down on paper, I think she
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Speaker 1: believed that would happen. We all believed that would happen
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Speaker 1: until it didn't. And that these two are not even
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Speaker 1: speaking heartbreaking.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it really is. And I think it also has
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Speaker 2: a bit of irony because the main reason why they're
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Speaker 2: not so close is because one of them sort of
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Speaker 2: chose the family lineage as his path, where the other
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Speaker 2: one totally rejected it. So it's interesting because you know,
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Speaker 2: Diana's whole thing was this family is going to tear
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Speaker 2: us apart, and she thought she could protect them from it.
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Speaker 2: But one of them actually chose that, and one of
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Speaker 2: them rejected it. So it just shows you how children
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Speaker 2: kind of grow up and no matter how much you
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Speaker 2: parent them, they are going to become their own visual people.
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Speaker 1: It's sort of a beautiful thing. I'm going through a
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Speaker 1: bit of stress at the moment with one of my
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Speaker 1: sisters who's pretty much rejected the family. She's the harry
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Speaker 1: of the situation. She doesn't really want to be in
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Speaker 1: our lives, but then she does pop up every so
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Speaker 1: often on birthdays, and it's just now too painful for me,
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Speaker 1: and I think I have to put an end to it.
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Speaker 1: I think I have to say we either have to
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Speaker 1: talk about this this big ugliness that I think are
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Speaker 1: your decisions she probably thinks they're mine, or we have
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Speaker 1: to stop talking because this half in, half out doesn't
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Speaker 1: really work and I don't want that stress in my life.
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Speaker 1: I don't think about this one sister very much, if
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Speaker 1: at all, but occasionally, and I know my birthday's coming up,
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Speaker 1: I know it. I was talking to my other sister, Christine,
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Speaker 1: my dear sister who I'm closest to. I will get
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Speaker 1: a text from the strange, the estranged sister on my birthday,
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Speaker 1: and I don't know how to respond to that. And
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Speaker 1: I think, here, this is very difficult because they do
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Speaker 1: love each that they grew up in the same house.
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Speaker 1: They're the only two people in the world who know
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Speaker 1: what it's like to be a child of Charles and Diana.
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Speaker 1: They're the only two. They are the only two people
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Speaker 1: in the world that know what it's like to have
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Speaker 1: a place in Buckingham Palace where one of you is
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Speaker 1: going to be the king and the other one is
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Speaker 1: going to be the spare And so they have this
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Speaker 1: extraordinary history that they do share. But they've chose different paths.
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Speaker 1: I wonder is it possible to choose different paths when
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Speaker 1: it comes to the family and still be part of
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Speaker 1: that family. Maybe not if you reject it. It's very
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Speaker 1: tricky live families, relationships, siblings. Are you close? Do you
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Speaker 1: have brothers and sisters? Callin?
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Speaker 2: You got the story I've shared before, how I'm an
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Speaker 2: only child to my mom.
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Speaker 1: But yeah, when I.
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Speaker 2: Was thirty eight. You know, a couple of years ago
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Speaker 2: a brother found me and through him, I actually met
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Speaker 2: my father who I had never met, and nine other siblings.
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Speaker 2: So I went from having none to a football team
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Speaker 2: and so a lot of but five of us are
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Speaker 2: building relationships with each other now, so I don't have
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Speaker 2: that same dynamic, you know. But but when it comes
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Speaker 2: to Harry and William, I will say, uh, I'm listen.
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Speaker 2: I'm not convinced that Harry is Charles's kid. I know
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Speaker 2: that's an old rumor. But Honey, when you look at
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Speaker 2: the difference in those boys and you look at that guy,
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Speaker 2: I hate to bring up this rumor, you look at
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Speaker 2: that guy. I think.
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Speaker 1: I think.
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Speaker 2: I think that William and Harry carry that forward.
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Speaker 1: I don't know.
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Speaker 2: I don't know if they're sure if Charles is Harry,
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Speaker 2: I don't know. I think it.
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Speaker 1: Creates let's get we need to get ourselves some more.
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Speaker 1: I love that. I love it. Okay, we're gonna We're
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Speaker 1: going to get to the poll of the day. Princess
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Speaker 1: Diana Letter has revealed that she wanted her sons to
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Speaker 1: have an extraordinary bond closer to have a really meaningful bond.
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Speaker 1: Would she be disappointed if she what was going on today?
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Speaker 1: I think she does know would she be disappointed? I
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Speaker 1: think the AD's a pretty obvious, But what do you think? Hey?
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Speaker 1: Go vote on at Twitter x page at Naughty Nice
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Speaker 1: Rob at Facebook page is Nudi Jozib and be sure
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Speaker 1: to check back Tom Avrau to hear your results. Hey, Corey,
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Speaker 1: what do you work it up? Yes?
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Speaker 2: Well, Joe Jonas is revealing a very surprising silver lining
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Speaker 2: after his bitter divorce battle. So it's been nearly two
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Speaker 2: years after his highly publicized split from Sophie Turner and
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Speaker 2: the custody battle that followed. Now the singer is praising
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Speaker 2: the co parenting relationship that he's built with his former
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Speaker 2: wife and for how well they are parenting as co
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Speaker 2: parents for their daughters, Willa and Delphine. And it's really
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Speaker 2: important people, you know, we're just talking about the importance
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Speaker 2: of parenting with Diana. It's really important when kids go
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Speaker 2: through divorced parents that the parents become the growing ups
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Speaker 2: in the room and really help make sure the kids
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Speaker 2: are okay. So Jonas that he's grateful to have a
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Speaker 2: co parent who helps him navigate both the good days
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Speaker 2: and the difficult ones. And the singer also shared an
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Speaker 2: emotional reflection on fatherhood, calling his children his greatest source
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Speaker 2: of purpose and happiness. Now it's funny for me, Rob,
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Speaker 2: because I met these boys. I met the Jonas brothers
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Speaker 2: when they were like ten years old, and I worked
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Speaker 2: at Sony Music BMG, and I get in and these
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Speaker 2: three little cute boys had instruments that were bigger than
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Speaker 2: they were, And so it's just funny for me to
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Speaker 2: see what they've become. Amazing artists and stars in their
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Speaker 2: own right, and and quite good looking. They grew up
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Speaker 2: to be quite good looking.
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Speaker 1: Man. These are a handsome family. Talented. Yeah, they're pretty
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Speaker 1: Did you know did you know back then that they
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Speaker 1: would become this big when you were working at the record.
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Speaker 2: Life, No, because we would see listen, you know, you
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Speaker 2: had hopefuls. I was one of them.
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Speaker 1: I was.
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Speaker 2: I thought I could get a backdoor into the industry
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Speaker 2: by working as a writer. But yeah, we saw, we
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Speaker 2: saw tons of young kids who came in and did showcases.
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Speaker 2: I can't name any that I have remembered that have
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Speaker 2: gone on to do anything except for the three of them.
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Speaker 1: And so that's howitive that is, you know, Yeah, it
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Speaker 1: really is it's amazing to have Some times you see
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Speaker 1: these talents. I saw Alsa Alicia Keys before I worked
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Speaker 1: with her, and she was doing a showcase and I
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Speaker 1: went and she was extraordinary, just extraordinary the talent levels.
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Speaker 1: And I said to a friend, she's going to be huge,
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Speaker 1: and she was. I don't think I've got a good
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Speaker 1: eye at pointing out who's going to make it and not.
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Speaker 1: And often if I like you, you're not going to
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Speaker 1: make it, because I like nice people and you need
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Speaker 1: to have really sharp elbows. In fact, if I don't
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Speaker 1: like you, you're probably gonna make That's how it is
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Speaker 1: in the reality world. Every reality star I've met that
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Speaker 1: I liked has sort of been fired or has disappeared
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Speaker 1: to all the ones that I thought were just awful,
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Speaker 1: Like I knew better day before before Housewives, she was awful,
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Speaker 1: even back then when she had nobody, no fame, and
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Speaker 1: I just knew she's going to be successful. She was.
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Speaker 1: She was, Oh, just awful. Teresa. I met Teresa before
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Speaker 1: first season of Jersey and she was just awful. I
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Speaker 1: said to my friends, she's gonna make it. And the
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Speaker 1: ones that I really liked, like Alex and Simon, disappeared,
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Speaker 1: the Viva dresser. I love them, just that didn't make
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Speaker 1: it because they were interesting to me and they were ship.
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Speaker 1: When you go for dinner we talked. It was normal.
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Speaker 1: That's interesting, Okay, isn't it. If I like you, you're
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Speaker 1: in trouble. Okay. Moving along, Do a Leaper's secret wedding
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Speaker 1: was just the beginning. So Do a Leaper and Callum Turner,
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Speaker 1: who is handsome, handsome, the two of them are were
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Speaker 1: just married in a bit of a secret ceremony in London.
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Speaker 1: Only eight people there, so by the time they got
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Speaker 1: back into their cars to leave the ceremony, they they
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Speaker 1: were married. Nobody knew these two even got married, exchanged
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Speaker 1: intimate ours in London. But they're heading to Sicily for
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Speaker 1: a three day wedding extravaganza. All their friends are going
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Speaker 1: to be there, I'm told to A source tells me
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Speaker 1: Elton John might turn up and perform. This is going
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Speaker 1: to be massive and it is so interesting. Palamo that's
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Speaker 1: where they're going. Sources tell me I know a few
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Speaker 1: people who have been invited that this is such a
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Speaker 1: new interesting way to maybe do a wedding. You get marriage,
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Speaker 1: you do all the legal stuff, you do the religious stuff.
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Speaker 1: You do do the stuff with your family, and then
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Speaker 1: you wait a few days and then you have a big,
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Speaker 1: big party. Weddings can be really long days, and you
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Speaker 1: can get really exhausted, and sometimes you get a little
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Speaker 1: bit nervous. And the people that I wanted to witness
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Speaker 1: me getting married were not exactly the same people. But
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Speaker 1: I wanted to party, right, And so I think this
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Speaker 1: might be a new, really interesting way. If I got
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Speaker 1: married again, I would think about doing it like this,
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Speaker 1: having a really small wedding, maybe ten people or less,
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Speaker 1: and then a few days later having a big party.
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Speaker 1: Don't worry, I can't afford Elton John, but maybe I
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Speaker 1: could get boy those But what do you think about that?
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Speaker 1: It's fascinating. I think this is a good idea.
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Speaker 2: Well, first of all, I mean that's also a destination wedding, right,
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Speaker 2: because that means that people who are going to join
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Speaker 2: you unless you're paying for them to go. In this case,
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Speaker 2: it's sicily not like she she didn't like book a
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Speaker 2: banquet hall down the road, so it's a little different
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Speaker 2: because she's got the means. I wonder though, of Elton John.
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Speaker 2: You know he's done these sorts of wedding things before,
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Speaker 2: but he's been paid for them. He didn't just like,
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Speaker 2: hey girl, let me sing a couple of songs for you,
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Speaker 2: darling didn't.
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Speaker 1: Didn't she record one of his songs? Yeah? They did,
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Speaker 1: like a single it's tiny dance or so she yes, she,
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Speaker 1: And so maybe doesn't feel like the ozer, but she
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Speaker 1: made him a lot of money yecause she got Elton
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Speaker 1: back in the top ten. And so maybe he'll do
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Speaker 1: a freebie if we had Elton jobs like I had
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Speaker 1: to do alfriend O, honey, we'll have to have Countess
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Speaker 1: Lue and we next get married. That's terrible, it's awful.
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Speaker 1: It's all okay, moving along. What's going on with Jason
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Speaker 1: Sadecas What what's he starting to tiptoe back into the
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Speaker 1: dating pool?
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Speaker 2: What's First of all, I have such a crush on
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Speaker 2: that man, But that's a whole other story. He's just
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Speaker 2: such a cute delici.
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Speaker 1: It's good, it's a good but.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, So Jason Sadekas, he's admitting that modern dating feels
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Speaker 2: daunting after he split with Olivia Wilde, so he's getting
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Speaker 2: candid about life after heartbreak. The ted Lasso star revealed
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Speaker 2: that six years after he split from a Living Wild,
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Speaker 2: he still finds that, you know, that dating thing is
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Speaker 2: sort of overwhelming. And I agreed that, like you just
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Speaker 2: talking about if you ever got married a second time
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Speaker 2: or got married again, how things would be different. I
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Speaker 2: can't imagine dating now. I mean, I've been with Joe
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Speaker 2: for twenty six years, so I can't imagine getting back
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Speaker 2: out into the dating world. But anyway, rather than juggling,
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Speaker 2: you know, multiple relationships, he says that he prefers a slower,
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Speaker 2: more meaningful approach. So the actor explained that his priorities
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Speaker 2: are clear. He has two children. They come first, and
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Speaker 2: a head of romance that children come first, and even
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Speaker 2: they come before himself, as many parents will tell you,
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Speaker 2: they put their kids before themselves. He said devoted. He's
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Speaker 2: devoted father, and he says any potential partner would have
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Speaker 2: to understand that family will always be his top focus.
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Speaker 2: He's an Emmy winning writer and introducer, and he admitted
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Speaker 2: that he remains open to finding the right person and
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Speaker 2: having more children someday even but right now, you know,
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Speaker 2: he will have to make sure that his children that
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Speaker 2: are here are his priority. So he seems very much
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Speaker 2: like with that response, it.
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Speaker 1: Doesn't he just doesn't. He's getting a little bit of
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Speaker 1: bout clash at the moment. So Hannah Wadding Cam I
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Speaker 1: think her name is, had a very very controversial thing.
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Speaker 1: She did the cover of Varioting, and when you do
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Speaker 1: the cover of those, you do a big long interview.
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Speaker 1: It's like an hour and you say a few things
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Speaker 1: we all do. If you spoke to me for an hour,
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Speaker 1: I'm going to say something stupid. And she said she
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Speaker 1: had a love hate relationship with Jason, and then he
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Speaker 1: changed the scenes in the last minute and it was
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Speaker 1: a perfectionist and all of it I think was meant
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Speaker 1: in love, but they felt as if there was a
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Speaker 1: little frustration there. So this has blown up and now
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Speaker 1: people are interviewing folks who have worked with Jason and
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Speaker 1: are saying it was difficult. He wasn't easy. He's a perfectionist.
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Speaker 1: Then he approached the TV show like SNL where they're
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Speaker 1: changing sketches right till the last minute, and Hannah's like,
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Speaker 1: I don't work like that. I'm a classically trained actress
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Speaker 1: from the West End stage. I like my script months
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Speaker 1: in advance, I learn my lines and I go out
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Speaker 1: and perform. And so now you're going to read a
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Speaker 1: lot of stories, take them with a little bit of
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Speaker 1: a pinch of saltea. I hit the phones and people
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Speaker 1: did say it's difficult. But he's a good guy. He's
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Speaker 1: not mean, he's not nasty. He has like the ways
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Speaker 1: he wants to do stuff and the reason that show
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Speaker 1: is his success. And the only reason Hannah is on
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Speaker 1: the cover is because of ted Lassa. So be careful
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Speaker 1: about that. Biting the hands that feeds you often. I
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Speaker 1: think these actors think that they can be funny or witty.
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Speaker 1: You'll say something controversial and it's going to bite them.
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Speaker 1: You don't need to say. She didn't need to say this.
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Speaker 1: She wasn't ambushed by TMZ or me or RAG. This
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Speaker 1: is just yes, she offered this up. I'm told they're
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Speaker 1: all a little bit a little bit disappointed in Okay,
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Speaker 1: we're going to take a quick break and we will
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Speaker 1: be right back. Welcome back to the Naughty but nice.
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Speaker 2: And this is just nice because you know I'm always
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Speaker 2: love Jessica. She's that person. She's a very sweet.
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Speaker 1: She's that person. Yeah, I saw it firsthand when I
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Speaker 1: was working with Jessica. She was a drunk. She would
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Speaker 1: drink all day. She'd get a photo shoots and would
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Speaker 1: sneak bottles of whiskey into the shoots she was actually doing.
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Speaker 1: I did chuckle because it's so naughty. She was doing
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Speaker 1: a fitness photo shoot where she was doing shots of
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Speaker 1: whiskey in between crunches and it was all because of
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Speaker 1: the pain. I have a rule. I can drink to
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Speaker 1: have fun. I can't drink to cover my pain. And
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Speaker 1: I say that to myself when I go out. I
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Speaker 1: love going out for my friends. I love drinking, I
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Speaker 1: love laughing. I love sitting around a table at Bottina's gossiping.
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Speaker 1: But it's fun. I'm not there to cover up a pain.
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Speaker 1: I have been there, I have done. It never works,
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Speaker 1: It never ever works. So enjoy your friends, enjoy your alcohol.
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Speaker 1: But the minute that you realize you're doing it for
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Speaker 1: the wrong reasons, stop won't help. Okay, And I noticed
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Speaker 1: the dayyughty, it's me. I'm the naughties of the day.
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Speaker 1: So Mega mortals candle controversy has bit me in the bottom.
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Speaker 1: So Critics have pointed out that in twenty sixteen, Meghan
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Speaker 1: did an interview where she called one hundred dollars candles
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Speaker 1: totally obnoxious. Well, then the internet exploded. I jumped in line.
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Speaker 1: I didn't check it, and I was like, how hipocritical
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Speaker 1: Meghan's now selling these candles. She's not. Her candle is
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Speaker 1: sixty one dollars, and if you put inflation in that
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Speaker 1: one hundred dollar candle is now about one hundred and fifty,
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Speaker 1: so her candle is almost half so she is making
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Speaker 1: candles for people who can afford them. Sixty one dollars
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Speaker 1: is still a lot of money, sixty bus it's a
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Speaker 1: lot of money, but it is less than the hundred
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Speaker 1: that she said. And so with Megan, it's so easy
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Speaker 1: to jump on something and not check it, and I
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Speaker 1: regret it. So everybody out there that pointed out and
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Speaker 1: called me out, thank you very much. I'm the naughtiest
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Speaker 1: of the Dailer's end with a moment of don't delay
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Speaker 1: your happiness, enjoy the journey right now. Too many people
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Speaker 1: are postponing their happiness until they reach your goal, or
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Speaker 1: earn more money, or get skinnier or meet the guy.
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Speaker 1: But life isn't about a finish line. No, it's happening
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Speaker 1: right now. Celebrate the small victories, appreciate the progress, and
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Speaker 1: find joy in the ordinary days. That's what people who
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Speaker 1: are happy can do. They find joy in the ordinary days.
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Speaker 1: Is it easy for me to be excited when I
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Speaker 1: get free tickets to see Madonna? Yes? Is it easy
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Speaker 1: for me to be excited when I'm invited for a
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Speaker 1: fancy meal? Yes? Where I want to be excited. Where
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Speaker 1: I want to be happy is when I'm sitting on
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Speaker 1: the couch by myself reading a book. When I'm sitting
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Speaker 1: in my living room looking at TV, when I'm going
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Speaker 1: for a walk with my dog. It's those simple moments
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Speaker 1: that you must must learn to find happiness in. Stop
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Speaker 1: waiting for life to begin, it already has. Hey, that
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