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- 0:00Speaker 1: Children of the 80s is brought to you by Q106. 5
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- 0:29Speaker 2: Welcome back to Children of the 80s. I am one
- 0:31Speaker 2: of your hosts, Jim, and I am joined, as always,
- 0:34Speaker 2: by the lady who, for some reason, thinks that I
- 0:36Speaker 2: am going to run off with somebody named Jolene. It
- 0:41Speaker 2: is my co-host, Lindsay.
- 0:43Speaker 1: Let me tell you, after the way today's been, I'd
- 0:46Speaker 1: let Jolene take you.
- 0:47Speaker 2: What did I do?
- 0:48Speaker 1: Take you on down the road.
- 0:50Speaker 2: What did I do?
- 0:51Speaker 1: It's been a bad day over here.
- 0:53Speaker 2: I have just completely napalmed your idea.
- 0:57Speaker 1: That's okay. It was a bad day. before that. This
- 1:00Speaker 1: whole week has just been sideways. We originally, we were
- 1:04Speaker 1: going to actually do a repeat because I thought I
- 1:07Speaker 1: had a trip I had to take for work. That
- 1:10Speaker 1: just came crumbling and fell all apart. The trip did.
- 1:14Speaker 2: But it didn't fall all apart in time for us
- 1:16Speaker 2: to do our regular show.
- 1:17Speaker 1: At the last minute, it fell apart. And so we
- 1:20Speaker 1: were still like throwing around, I guess we're going to
- 1:22Speaker 1: have to do a repeat. And then... And.
- 1:26Speaker 2: Then sadly... An American treasure passes away.
- 1:33Speaker 3: My..
- 1:34Speaker 1: I don't even know what to call her. I don't
- 1:37Speaker 1: have words. Dolly Parton passed away today at the age
- 1:39Speaker 1: of 80.
- 1:40Speaker 2: Your daughter's icon. Yeah.
- 1:44Speaker 1: I mean, that's a really... If you were just going
- 1:46Speaker 1: to use one word, let's just use that word.
- 1:49Speaker 2: She..
- 1:50Speaker 1: Dolly Parton was and is and will always be an icon.
- 1:54Speaker 1: And the void she has left... In this world, now
- 1:59Speaker 1: that she has moved on to the next, it's just profound.
- 2:03Speaker 1: And I am just not okay with any of it.
- 2:05Speaker 1: Just such a bummer. So I immediately said, okay, we've
- 2:11Speaker 1: got like 45 seconds to throw together an episode, but
- 2:16Speaker 1: we've got to do something to acknowledge her passing.
- 2:20Speaker 2: Yes.
- 2:20Speaker 1: Now, I have put together this afternoon 14 pages.
- 2:23Speaker 3: Wow.
- 2:24Speaker 1: 14 pages? I kid you not. 14 pages. And since
- 2:29Speaker 1: we've got 45 seconds, I've whittled it down to just two.
- 2:35Speaker 1: But I share that because I really think at some
- 2:38Speaker 1: point I want to go and do something a little
- 2:40Speaker 1: bit bigger for her.
- 2:41Speaker 2: Okay.
- 2:42Speaker 1: I think she deserves it. I don't know how you
- 2:45Speaker 1: feel about that.
- 2:46Speaker 2: Well, I mean, yes. Like I said, Dolly Parton was
- 2:51Speaker 2: an American treasure, not just for kids in the 80s.
- 2:54Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 2:55Speaker 2: But prior to that, and she was a movie star.
- 3:01Speaker 2: I recall specifically three movies from her in the 80s. Rhinestone,
- 3:06Speaker 2: Best Little Whorehouse in Texas, and 9 to 5.
- 3:08Speaker 1: Yes.
- 3:08Speaker 2: And then, of course, she had top 40 hits.
- 3:10Speaker 1: Wait, wait, wait, wait. You left off Steel Magnolias.
- 3:14Speaker 2: Oh, Steel. Was that in the 80s?
- 3:15Speaker 1: Yes.
- 3:15Speaker 2: Was that 90? It was in the 80s? Okay. So
- 3:18Speaker 2: Steel Magnolias, yes. She had top 40 hits on the
- 3:21Speaker 2: Billboard and obviously then the country charts as well. She
- 3:25Speaker 2: was just one amazing lady.
- 3:28Speaker 1: Six decades.
- 3:30Speaker 2: Six decades of hits.
- 3:32Speaker 1: Yep. She had songs on the charts for six decades.
- 3:36Speaker 1: So maybe if we have some time here in the
- 3:39Speaker 1: near future, can we do something just a little bit
- 3:41Speaker 1: more planned out? Because I do think she deserves it.
- 3:45Speaker 1: Emmy is a huge Dolly Parton fan. So anybody that
- 3:50Speaker 1: listens knows that I love country music. I grew up
- 3:53Speaker 1: on country. 80s country, 70s country, maybe even before when
- 3:59Speaker 1: it was country western music.
- 4:02Speaker 2: Country and western.
- 4:05Speaker 1: You feel the opposite about country music that I do,
- 4:08Speaker 1: and I felt you pulling Emmy to your side. And
- 4:12Speaker 1: she stayed kind of pulling more closer to your side
- 4:15Speaker 1: than my side until she heard Dolly Parton. And then
- 4:19Speaker 1: she's now on my side and you'll never get her
- 4:21Speaker 1: back again.
- 4:23Speaker 2: No, she's rocking out as well. I think she can
- 4:25Speaker 2: do it all. And maybe when we do the fuller
- 4:28Speaker 2: episode of Dolly, that's when you can get Emmy in
- 4:31Speaker 2: here and ask her the questions that you wanted to
- 4:34Speaker 2: ask her tonight. You did not realize that she was
- 4:37Speaker 2: going to come home from the school of rock with
- 4:39Speaker 2: hours worth of homework and have to take a shower
- 4:42Speaker 2: and with a hurting mouth because I got braces put
- 4:45Speaker 2: on her today. Um, So I think that I napalmed
- 4:51Speaker 2: your plans.
- 4:52Speaker 1: A little bit, but that's okay.
- 4:54Speaker 2: And so therefore you're stuck with me instead of her.
- 4:57Speaker 2: But you can ask me those questions and I'll answer them.
- 4:59Speaker 1: You know what they call me, right?
- 5:02Speaker 2: Go with the flow, Lindsay?
- 5:03Speaker 1: Yes. There's a reason why.
- 5:05Speaker 2: No one calls you that.
- 5:06Speaker 1: Well. So I know Emmy's favorite Dolly Parton song is Jolene.
- 5:12Speaker 2: Yes. I wanted her to bring in her acoustic and
- 5:15Speaker 2: play it. And she was like, I'm not going to
- 5:16Speaker 2: go in there and serenade a microphone. And I'm like.
- 5:19Speaker 1: That's what you do as a musician.
- 5:21Speaker 2: And I'm like, how is it any different than you
- 5:23Speaker 2: playing it in your room?
- 5:24Speaker 1: You're right. What's your favorite Dolly song?
- 5:29Speaker 2: It's either Here You Come Again. I mean, you can't
- 5:34Speaker 2: pick a bad one.
- 5:35Speaker 3: No, you really can't. So, you know mine.
- 5:36Speaker 1: Islands in the Stream?
- 5:37Speaker 3: No.
- 6:01Speaker 1: Well, I snorted that too.
- 6:05Speaker 2: Hard Candy Christmas.
- 6:06Speaker 1: Hard Candy Christmas is my favorite Dolly Parton song.
- 6:09Speaker 3: Me, I'll be just fine and dandy Lord, it's like
- 6:16Speaker 3: a hard candy Christmas I'm barely getting through tomorrow But
- 6:25Speaker 3: still I won't let sorrow bring.
- 6:27Speaker 2: Me way down.
- 6:30Speaker 1: Have we shared this story, the islands in the stream story?
- 6:33Speaker 2: Yes, we have.
- 6:33Speaker 1: We have. Okay. Back when we just first started dating,
- 6:38Speaker 1: before Jim had a grasp of my sarcastic sense of humor,
- 6:42Speaker 1: I looked at him one evening and I said, every
- 6:45Speaker 1: couple has a song. What's our song? And he debated
- 6:52Speaker 1: on hightailing it and running, but he stayed and played
- 6:55Speaker 1: along with me and still joking. I said, I think
- 6:59Speaker 1: our song should be Islands in the Stream. And he
- 7:03Speaker 1: went along with it. And for years, he thought I
- 7:06Speaker 1: was serious. I did.
- 7:07Speaker 2: I did. Because I thought that our song should be
- 7:10Speaker 2: Don't Stand So Close to Me.
- 7:14Speaker 1: Yeah, technically it is. We were married before it finally,
- 7:17Speaker 1: I was like, you know, I was joking, right? And
- 7:19Speaker 1: you had no idea. Because I kept the joke going.
- 7:22Speaker 1: That's what I do.
- 7:23Speaker 2: I didn't understand you.
- 7:24Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 7:24Speaker 2: Still barely do.
- 7:27Speaker 1: I've decided since this is going to be an abbreviated episode,
- 7:30Speaker 1: we're just going to focus on one particular Dolly song.
- 7:36Speaker 2: Okay.
- 7:38Speaker 1: But before we do that, I got a little, I
- 7:40Speaker 1: feel like I need to do a little tribute. So
- 7:42Speaker 1: do you have a second for me to do that?
- 7:44Speaker 2: Absolutely.
- 7:44Speaker 1: Okay. So there are celebrities, there are legends, and then
- 7:49Speaker 1: there are those rare people who somehow become part of
- 7:52Speaker 1: the fabric of our lives. Dolly Parton was one of
- 7:56Speaker 1: those people. For nearly six decades, Dolly entertained the world
- 8:00Speaker 1: as a singer, songwriter, musician, actress, author, businesswoman, and philanthropist.
- 8:07Speaker 1: But even that list doesn't quite capture what she became.
- 8:12Speaker 1: For those of us who grew up in the 70s
- 8:14Speaker 1: and 80s, Dolly seemed like she had simply always just
- 8:17Speaker 1: been there. She was on our radio. She was on
- 8:20Speaker 1: our TV set. She was in our movies. We sang
- 8:23Speaker 1: along with her to 9 to 5. We knew islands
- 8:26Speaker 1: in the stream. We all watched Steel Magnolias except apparently
- 8:30Speaker 1: Little Jim. Our parents knew her songs and then those
- 8:35Speaker 1: songs became our songs too. Somewhere along the way, Dolly
- 8:40Speaker 1: stopped belonging only to country music and she became part
- 8:44Speaker 1: of the American culture.
- 8:46Speaker 2: She did. I would agree with that.
- 8:48Speaker 1: Today I want to focus on one of my favorite
- 8:51Speaker 1: Dolly songs. Again, Hard Candy Christmas will always be my favorite.
- 8:55Speaker 1: One of my favorites. Go ahead and play it for me.
- 8:58Speaker 3: Goodbye, please don't cry. We both know that I'm not
- 9:10Speaker 3: what you need.
- 9:35Speaker 1: That is I Will Always Love You.
- 9:39Speaker 2: Yes.
- 9:39Speaker 1: Do you like Dolly's version or Whitney's version better? Remember,
- 9:45Speaker 1: this is a tribute to Dolly.
- 9:49Speaker 2: I mean, in that case, I'm going to say Dolly's version.
- 9:51Speaker 2: I can't really pick. They're both phenomenal.
- 9:54Speaker 1: They are, but they're actually both very different, wouldn't you say?
- 9:57Speaker 3: Yes.
- 9:59Speaker 1: Okay, so... I want to talk a little bit about
- 10:01Speaker 1: this song, how it came to be, and its evolution
- 10:07Speaker 1: over the years. Dolly wrote I Will Always Love You,
- 10:10Speaker 1: basically one of the greatest love songs.
- 10:13Speaker 2: Of all time.
- 10:14Speaker 3: Kanye.
- 10:15Speaker 1: She wrote it. because she was basically trying to quit
- 10:20Speaker 1: her job and get away from a boss that she
- 10:23Speaker 1: was just over. By the early 1970s, Dolly was ready
- 10:28Speaker 1: to leave the Porter-Wagoner show and establish herself completely as
- 10:32Speaker 1: a solo artist. Porter was notoriously extremely controlling, and he
- 10:38Speaker 1: wasn't having it. Quite frankly, and this is just Lindsay's opinion,
- 10:43Speaker 1: he knew if Dolly got away, he lost his cash cow.
- 10:46Speaker 3: Yes.
- 10:47Speaker 1: Dolly later recalled that they argued about her leaving repeatedly.
- 10:52Speaker 1: She tried explaining that she was grateful for everything that
- 10:55Speaker 1: he had done for her, but she just needed to
- 10:57Speaker 1: move on. So Dolly finally did what Dolly did best,
- 11:01Speaker 1: and she sat down and she wrote a song. And
- 11:04Speaker 1: in 1973, she wrote not just any song. She wrote,
- 11:10Speaker 1: I Will Always Love You. And then she went to
- 11:13Speaker 1: Porter and she sang it for him. And according to Dolly,
- 11:17Speaker 1: after hearing the song, he finally agreed that she could
- 11:20Speaker 1: leave on the one condition that he be allowed to
- 11:25Speaker 1: produce the album or the record that that song would
- 11:28Speaker 1: be on. So one of the most famous love songs
- 11:32Speaker 1: ever written wasn't really originally about the end of a
- 11:34Speaker 1: romantic relationship. It was the end of basically a business agreement.
- 11:39Speaker 1: Her original recording reached number one on the country charts
- 11:43Speaker 1: in 1974. Then she recorded it again for The Best
- 11:49Speaker 1: Little Whorehouse in Texas in 1982, and it went to
- 11:52Speaker 1: number one again. But that's only the beginning of the story.
- 11:59Speaker 1: Years before Whitney Houston ever even dreamed about recording this song,
- 12:05Speaker 1: Elvis wanted to record I Will Always Love You. So
- 12:09Speaker 1: for Dolly..
- 12:10Speaker 2: If I could..
- 12:14Speaker 1: You just can't help yourself.
- 12:15Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I can't.
- 12:17Speaker 1: So for Dolly, this would be huge, right? To have
- 12:20Speaker 1: Elvis cut one of her songs. She loved Elvis, and
- 12:25Speaker 1: she was thrilled that he wanted to record something that
- 12:28Speaker 1: she had written. But just before the recording was supposed
- 12:31Speaker 1: to happen, Elvis's manager, Colonel Tom Parker, told Dolly that
- 12:36Speaker 1: Elvis didn't record songs unless they received a significant portion
- 12:40Speaker 1: of the publishing rights.
- 12:42Speaker 2: Oh, goodness.
- 12:43Speaker 1: Now, remember..
- 12:44Speaker 2: Sorry, Colonel.
- 12:45Speaker 1: Colonel Tom Parker is a crook.
- 12:47Speaker 2: Yes.
- 12:48Speaker 1: That meant Dolly would have to give up part of
- 12:50Speaker 1: her ownership of I Will Always Love You. And Dolly said, Nah. Nah.
- 12:56Speaker 1: Not gonna do it. She later admitted that she cried
- 13:00Speaker 1: all night over that decision. She desperately wanted Elvis to
- 13:05Speaker 1: sing her song, but she knew that giving away the
- 13:08Speaker 1: publishing rights wasn't the right business decision for her.
- 13:11Speaker 2: It was not.
- 13:12Speaker 1: So she walked away. And Dolly just kept her song.
- 13:16Speaker 1: Good for her. Yep. Now, nearly 20 years later, that
- 13:21Speaker 1: decision would become worth millions of dollars. In 1992, Whitney
- 13:26Speaker 1: Houston recorded I Will Always Love You for the movie
- 13:30Speaker 1: The Bodyguard. Have you seen that movie?
- 13:32Speaker 2: Yes.
- 13:32Speaker 1: Okay, good. And everything changed for everybody. Whitney's recording became
- 13:38Speaker 1: a worldwide phenomenon and one of the biggest selling singles ever.
- 13:42Speaker 1: In music history. Of all time. Dolly reportedly earned around
- 13:47Speaker 1: $ 10 million in publishing royalties during the 90s alone from
- 13:53Speaker 1: Whitney's version of the song. And what Dolly did with
- 13:57Speaker 1: some of that money makes the story even better. She
- 14:01Speaker 1: invested some of her royalties into property in a historically
- 14:06Speaker 1: black area of Nashville. Dolly loved the symbolism of taking
- 14:11Speaker 1: money generated by Whitney Houston's extraordinary recording and investing it
- 14:16Speaker 1: back into a black community. She later joked about the
- 14:20Speaker 1: investment and said, this is the house that Whitney built.
- 14:26Speaker 1: Dolly's departure from Porter Wagner wasn't quite as peaceful as
- 14:31Speaker 1: the lyrics to the song make it sound. Their business
- 14:34Speaker 1: relationship became complicated after Dolly left, Porter eventually filed a
- 14:39Speaker 1: multi-million dollar lawsuit against her. They ultimately settled out of court.
- 14:45Speaker 1: But years later, Porter experienced serious financial problems and was
- 14:50Speaker 1: forced to sell assets, including his publishing catalog.
- 14:56Speaker 2: Did Dolly buy it?
- 14:57Speaker 1: That's when Dolly stepped in. She purchased Porter's song catalog.
- 15:03Speaker 1: She knew how much those songs meant to him, and
- 15:05Speaker 1: she didn't want them simply disappearing into someone else's hands. Then,
- 15:12Speaker 1: years later, Dolly gave the catalog back to Porter as
- 15:15Speaker 1: a gift. So you think about that. She wrote, I
- 15:19Speaker 1: will always love you, trying to get away from him. Finally,
- 15:24Speaker 1: she did. He agreed to the terms, right? She let
- 15:28Speaker 1: him produce her album. But then he still sued her
- 15:32Speaker 1: for breach of contract for leaving the show. They had
- 15:35Speaker 1: to settle out of court. Who knows what she paid him.
- 15:38Speaker 1: But decades later, when he needed her help, she was there.
- 15:42Speaker 2: She bought it and she could have kept it like
- 15:44Speaker 2: Michael Jackson did to Paul McCartney.
- 15:46Speaker 1: And maybe that's why the title of that song ended
- 15:49Speaker 1: up being more appropriate than anyone even realized because she
- 15:54Speaker 1: did always love him.
- 15:55Speaker 2: It was an act of love.
- 15:56Speaker 1: Yes.
- 15:57Speaker 3: Yes.
- 15:58Speaker 1: So, full circle moment.
- 16:01Speaker 2: She would have melted Anna with that act of love.
- 16:04Speaker 1: Right? Full circle moment. And that was one I picked
- 16:10Speaker 1: that to focus on when I thought it was going
- 16:12Speaker 1: to be Emmy in here in the podcast studio with
- 16:15Speaker 1: me because I wanted her to see Dolly always took
- 16:19Speaker 1: the high road.
- 16:20Speaker 3: Yes.
- 16:21Speaker 1: Let other people work that out. That's between them and
- 16:25Speaker 1: their God.
- 16:26Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 16:27Speaker 1: That's what my grandmother always said. You take the high road.
- 16:30Speaker 3: Yes.
- 16:31Speaker 1: Everybody's responsible for themselves.
- 16:33Speaker 2: I always take the low road.
- 16:35Speaker 1: I do too. How awesome is it that Emmy has
- 16:38Speaker 1: such a good role model she can always look up to?
- 16:40Speaker 2: Yeah, that's good stuff. And she loves Dolly. She claims,
- 16:43Speaker 2: now this is a girl who's been to Disney World
- 16:46Speaker 2: like 20 times.
- 16:48Speaker 1: Yes.
- 16:49Speaker 2: And been to Paris and claims that our trip to
- 16:52Speaker 2: Dollywood was the best trip ever.
- 16:53Speaker 1: I know she does. She does. And I love that.
- 16:57Speaker 1: We have the most fantastic memories of our trip to
- 17:01Speaker 1: Pigeon Forge, Gatlinburg, Dollywood, that whole area. We had so
- 17:06Speaker 1: much fun.
- 17:07Speaker 3: We did.
- 17:07Speaker 2: We had a lot of fun.
- 17:09Speaker 1: Okay, that's all I got for you, Jim Butler.
- 17:11Speaker 2: Okay, well, I don't have a lot other than, you know,
- 17:16Speaker 2: I love Dolly too.
- 17:17Speaker 1: Well, I'll tell you, you look tired.
- 17:19Speaker 2: Am I tired?
- 17:20Speaker 1: And you're hopping off here and you're doing a podcast
- 17:22Speaker 1: with someone else. I worry for them.
- 17:25Speaker 2: I worry for them too.
- 17:27Speaker 1: Your eyes are a little swollen. They're swole.
- 17:31Speaker 2: My eyes are swole?
- 17:32Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 17:33Speaker 2: I wish my arms were swole.
- 17:36Speaker 1: Martin Lawrence, he's a little swole.
- 17:37Speaker 2: I wish my belly wasn't swole.
- 17:39Speaker 1: I know, right? Okay, so not your typical Children of
- 17:43Speaker 1: the 80s episode. We'll get back on track next week, maybe.
- 17:47Speaker 2: Oh, no, no, no. We will. We will.
- 17:52Speaker 1: But what is back on track? I mean, that's subjective.
- 17:56Speaker 2: We will get back on track with a normal length episode.
- 18:00Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 18:00Speaker 2: But we are also going to do the number 25...
- 18:06Speaker 2: songs of the year for the 1980s, counting them down
- 18:11Speaker 2: from 10 to 1, 10 being the worst, 1 being
- 18:14Speaker 2: the best, as voted on by our Patreon members.
- 18:17Speaker 1: That sounds like fun.
- 18:18Speaker 2: Our Patreon members rank them each song 1 to 10.
- 18:20Speaker 2: I did my little formula.
- 18:22Speaker 1: Did you?
- 18:22Speaker 2: And I've got them set up 1 through 10, and
- 18:24Speaker 2: I have a feeling that you're probably going to be
- 18:26Speaker 2: highly disappointed.
- 18:27Speaker 3: Oh, geez.
- 18:27Speaker 1: I'm sure I will.
- 18:28Speaker 2: Okay.
- 18:29Speaker 1: We'll look forward to that. You can find us. We're
- 18:32Speaker 1: out there on all the socials. We are on Instagram, Facebook, X.
- 18:38Speaker 2: At childrenof _ _ 80s.
- 18:41Speaker 1: Always email us if you would like to reach us
- 18:43Speaker 1: that way.
- 18:44Speaker 2: Childrenofthe1980s at gmail.com.
- 18:47Speaker 1: And we're on Patreon. Yeah.
- 18:49Speaker 2: I was going to say, hey, if you want to
- 18:50Speaker 2: get in that voting and that ranking system and you
- 18:52Speaker 2: want to have a say-so in the show and how
- 18:54Speaker 2: the songs are counted down from 10 to 1. go
- 18:58Speaker 2: ahead and sign up on Patreon for as little as $ 10.
- 19:01Speaker 2: I mean, as little as $ 5.
- 19:02Speaker 1: I mean, but if you want to give us $ 10,
- 19:04Speaker 1: that's fine, too.
- 19:05Speaker 2: Absolutely. But for as little as $ 5 a month, you
- 19:08Speaker 2: can sign up, and then you get to vote in
- 19:10Speaker 2: stuff like that. You get special polls, and you get
- 19:12Speaker 2: our episodes, which, by the way, we will have another
- 19:15Speaker 2: one coming out by next weekend.
- 19:17Speaker 1: Boy, we better get our act together then.
- 19:20Speaker 2: We should.
- 19:20Speaker 3: We should.
- 19:21Speaker 2: We're running out of time here in August.
- 19:24Speaker 3: Well..
- 19:25Speaker 2: Until next time, I'm Jim.
- 19:27Speaker 1: And I'm Lindsay. And we are Children of the 80s.
- 19:33Speaker 3: See you next Wednesday.