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Ep 72 "The Trade Show" · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically Black women with an opinion who
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  Speaker 1: talk back.
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  Speaker 2: What up, Tammy?
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  Speaker 3: Hey, girl.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Thank y'all for tuning in again for a new episode
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  Speaker 1: of We Talk Back.
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  Speaker 3: It's your girl, Tam-Bam.
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  Speaker 4: Hey. Hey.
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  Speaker 2: And it's AJ. I saw your shit. It's AJ. Get
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  Speaker 2: into the voices, please, so y'all can know who talking
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  Speaker 2: the shit and who ain't. Please. I'm usually the one
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  Speaker 2: talking the shit. It's AJ talking the shit. And I'm
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  Speaker 2: just cracking jokes. And don't give a fuck, okay? I
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  Speaker 2: did say I'm going to stop cursing as much, so
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to try to work on that.
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  Speaker 3: And look at you.
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  Speaker 4: Still cursing.
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  Speaker 2: Cursing is therapeutic for me, okay? It's like meditation a
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  Speaker 2: little bit. Just to get them oomphs out. Motherfuckers don't
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  Speaker 2: understand you sometimes. What did you do over the weekend, bitch?
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  Speaker 2: Memorial Day weekend, y'all. Just chilled out. I did go
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  Speaker 2: to the beach. I noticed that Charleston's water is getting
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  Speaker 2: a little bit prettier, so I might go down there
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  Speaker 2: one day and put my... Feeding. I don't know. But
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  Speaker 2: the beach was really packed. A lot of nice families.
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  Speaker 2: But I went out. I went to the bathroom. And
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  Speaker 2: when I came back to where we were seated, we
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  Speaker 2: went to Coconut Joe's. The white people that was up
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  Speaker 2: there taking pictures and shit basically was taking their pictures
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  Speaker 2: like this. One, two, three, racist. And this is how
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  Speaker 2: they were blatantly being disrespectful. They were saying racist light cheese.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I travel the city with a book bag.
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  Speaker 2: Every place I go, I got this motherfucker book bag.
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  Speaker 2: And it's for this type of activity.
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  Speaker 4: Okay?
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  Speaker 3: So where were you at? Were you on... Sullivan's Island.
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  Speaker 2: We was on Sullivan's Island on the beach. You know,
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  Speaker 2: we got different islands in Charlotte. You got Sullivan's. You
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  Speaker 2: got Isle of Palms. So there's also Sullivan's Island. We
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  Speaker 2: were actually on Isle of Palms at Coconut Joe's. Y'all,
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  Speaker 2: be careful out here because these motherfuckers... They don't even
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  Speaker 2: really want no problems, for real. They just want to
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  Speaker 2: be disrespectful. And a lot of times, people only respect disrespect.
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  Speaker 2: So they be waiting to get spanked. That's all I
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  Speaker 2: can say. But other than that, I enjoyed my weekend.
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  Speaker 2: I had fun.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I went to Atlanta.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I was in McDonough, I think. My niece graduated
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  Speaker 1: from high school. And this was the biggest high school
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  Speaker 1: graduation I ever seen.
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  Speaker 4: In my life.
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  Speaker 3: We got there, first of all, it was at a
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  Speaker 3: race car track. It was at a racetrack.
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  Speaker 1: They were selling hot dogs and peanuts and everything that
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  Speaker 1: you would have at a racetrack. I've never seen this
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  Speaker 1: at a graduation in my life. And it was about
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  Speaker 1: 437 graduates.
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  Speaker 2: God damn.
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  Speaker 3: It was so many.
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  Speaker 1: We was out there from 730 to 10 o'clock.
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  Speaker 2: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: Watching the graduation.
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  Speaker 2: Was it hot?
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 1: Luckily, it was a nice evening. And they had a
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  Speaker 1: firework show at the end of the graduation, so it
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  Speaker 1: was lit.
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  Speaker 2: That's a lot of students. Goddamn.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a lot of goddamn students.
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  Speaker 2: They trying to get these motherfuckers up out of here now.
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  Speaker 3: I said, I was like, damn, I should have brought
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  Speaker 3: my flask.
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  Speaker 1: Have a little twink. Right, because I thought I'd be
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  Speaker 1: out there by 930 at least. No, it's after 10 o'clock.
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  Speaker 1: We still calling names. We still in the W's.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, 10 p.m.? It was in an evening?
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  Speaker 3: 10 p.m. we got out of there. It was, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: it was an evening graduation, 7.30 to 10. Wow.
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  Speaker 2: I never heard of the evening graduation.
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  Speaker 3: I know. It was crazy, but we had a good time.
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  Speaker 1: You know, all the family came out, had on T-shirts
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  Speaker 1: with a little face on it and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't have one because... I didn't order it in time.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I was the last minute.
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  Speaker 2: Rich auntie from out of town.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 1: And then I flew back to Charlotte and then, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: I'm lying. I drove back to Charlotte and then I
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  Speaker 1: went to a slip and slide party at my friend's house.
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  Speaker 1: It was, that was a lot of fun. I didn't
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  Speaker 1: slip nor did I slide because I was moving around.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't want to get wet, but that was a
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  Speaker 1: good time and Then the next day I went to
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  Speaker 1: the Omni Hotel to their pool and just sat out
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  Speaker 1: with my guy.
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  Speaker 3: Baby and stuff like that. So it was kind of
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  Speaker 3: like a chill vibes.
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  Speaker 2: It sounds fun.
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  Speaker 4: No.
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  Speaker 3: Nice productive weekend. Family weekend.
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  Speaker 2: I remember having a slip and slide as a kid.
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  Speaker 2: I used to love that fucking slip and slide.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that shit. I wanted to get on it.
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  Speaker 1: If I didn't have other plans after I would have
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  Speaker 1: slugged my ass down there. But the niggas was just like,
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  Speaker 1: it was like a lot of niggas kind of just
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  Speaker 1: like standing around gawking too. I didn't want to take
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  Speaker 1: my cover up off.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you had to flop that big booty on the
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  Speaker 2: ground and be able to shake.
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  Speaker 3: I know that was waiting on me to slide my
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  Speaker 3: ass down that thing.
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  Speaker 2: Debit card reader at the end of the slip and
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  Speaker 2: slide for all y'all.
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  Speaker 3: What we got going on.
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  Speaker 2: Is stupid ass internet news this week, Chad.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, gosh.
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  Speaker 3: What's the football player, Ricky Williams' name? Ricky Williams and
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  Speaker 3: his wife, he's married to a white woman. And there's
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  Speaker 3: a picture of him circulating. It looks kind of like
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  Speaker 3: Get Out to me.
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  Speaker 2: Looks like Toby.
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  Speaker 3: It's Kevin Toby.
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  Speaker 1: Blue jean, that blue jean shirt in the woods. And
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  Speaker 1: she got on that slave owner hat.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. So his wife.
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  Speaker 1: And he took, yeah, he took her last name, apparently,
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  Speaker 1: to create balance and harmony in their marriage, gender equality.
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  Speaker 1: So instead of her taking his name, He took his.
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  Speaker 1: And I just want somebody to find that nigga and
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  Speaker 1: get a cup of tea and then take the spoon
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  Speaker 1: and spin that bitch in there and see if y'all
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  Speaker 1: can help that nigga wake up.
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  Speaker 2: Dog, this is what, okay, how are we expect? I
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  Speaker 2: guess he's not concerned about generational wealth. Not for just.
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  Speaker 2: Generational wealth for individual Black families, he's not of that thing, right?
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  Speaker 2: And taking on this woman, this white woman's last name, dog,
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  Speaker 2: that's really weird to me. A hundred years from now...
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  Speaker 2: People going to be trying to figure out whether or
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  Speaker 2: not you were black or white, sir. That's really where
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  Speaker 2: you headed at when you're doing some shit like this.
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  Speaker 2: Like you have now, do you exist anymore? Because what
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  Speaker 2: he said was people kind of forgot that she exists.
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  Speaker 2: So there's an imbalance in our relationship, he explained. One
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  Speaker 2: of the ideas that popped into my mind was to
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  Speaker 2: take her last name. They did witchcraft on him. I
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  Speaker 2: just fucking know it. Because ain't no way.
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  Speaker 3: I'm telling you, you need a couple. Earl Gray, bitch.
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  Speaker 3: And find that nigga.
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  Speaker 2: It ain't no way. Because now you're non-existent.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: It's getting weird.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's really weird. But to each his own.
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  Speaker 3: But you know what?
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  Speaker 5: Right.
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  Speaker 3: One power to them. If you want to be Mr.
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  Speaker 5: Mrs.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. Whatever you call it.
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  Speaker 4: Not Mr.
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  Speaker 5: Mrs.
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  Speaker 3: Not the Mr.
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  Speaker 4: Mrs.
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  Speaker 5: Girl.
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  Speaker 2: Did you see the fight with Christian, uh, Krishan Rock and, um,
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  Speaker 2: Blueface's mother and sister.
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  Speaker 3: That shit broke my heart.
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  Speaker 1: I tag Ayala Vanzant under that shit so many times
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  Speaker 1: on social media.
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  Speaker 5: Are you serious?
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  Speaker 1: Y'all look we need you bitch We don't need her
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  Speaker 1: they need her Listen those motherfuckers That shit make me
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  Speaker 1: sad Yeah and it's like a real case Of kids
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  Speaker 1: being raised by the unraised Because why is your mother out.
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  Speaker 2: There And then he put another video out of her
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  Speaker 2: Out of his mom slapping His pregnant baby mom at
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  Speaker 2: the time Slapping food off the table in front of
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  Speaker 2: her Like this is just what they do So I
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  Speaker 2: don't know who to believe Y'all all got fucking mental
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  Speaker 2: health issues As far as I'm concerned.
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  Speaker 1: They just do not have good conflict resolution skills, clearly.
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  Speaker 2: And this little girl, like, where's your family? She needs
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  Speaker 2: to get far away from him because what I did
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  Speaker 2: notice is how he put her on camera to essentially
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  Speaker 2: incriminate herself. And he going to play like he didn't
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  Speaker 2: know what happened. You got your sister's husband knocked out,
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  Speaker 2: sleeping on the ground. You trying to say, Krishan did that?
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  Speaker 2: Who did it?
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 2: So now she doesn't even realize she's being played. He's
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  Speaker 2: putting her on front street to incriminate herself. So if
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  Speaker 2: there's any fucking legal case that comes up, she admitted
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  Speaker 2: to doing these things. I see no other videos of
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  Speaker 2: no other man or woman, aside from the mom and
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  Speaker 2: the sister, saying how they got beat up. Nobody else.
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  Speaker 2: And this girl already got cases traveling across the country
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  Speaker 2: with drugs in his car, all this crazy shit, stealing
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  Speaker 2: his Range Rover. So all this stuff she already got
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  Speaker 2: pinned in. He don't give a fuck about her. Like,
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  Speaker 2: her family needs to get her. This is a little girl.
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  Speaker 2: She's like 22 years old.
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  Speaker 3: She in love. She just tattooed his whole likeness under
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  Speaker 3: her neck. Like, right under her chin.
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  Speaker 2: As far as I'm concerned, she being trafficked.
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  Speaker 4: Okay?
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  Speaker 2: That's really how I feel. That could not be my
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  Speaker 2: little sister. It couldn't be my little sister. It couldn't be.
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  Speaker 2: But anyway, moving along from that stupidity, child. Gina V,
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  Speaker 2: Diddy's forever side bitch. She did an interview with the
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  Speaker 2: Jasmine brand. And she was talking about, you know, she
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  Speaker 2: said that Puff was so charming when they first met.
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  Speaker 2: And she was so young and naive and just crazy
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  Speaker 2: in love. And it was so hard not to talk
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  Speaker 2: to him. Um, she said she felt really, really bad
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  Speaker 2: and she did apologize to Cassie because she was cheating
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  Speaker 2: with Diddy when him and Cassie were in a relationship.
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  Speaker 3: They're together.
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  Speaker 2: Um, as far as I'm concerned, Diddy's always been in
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  Speaker 2: open relationships.
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  Speaker 3: But I've never felt like Diddy was ever really with anybody.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: You know, like.
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  Speaker 2: Me either. I never felt that way. And then, I mean,
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  Speaker 2: she still hasn't been, uh, upgraded to mean yet. because
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  Speaker 2: now you just beefing with um young Miami on the
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  Speaker 2: internet a couple weeks ago so um she talked about
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  Speaker 2: you know her being a girl girl and women empowerment
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  Speaker 2: and that's why she wanted to apologize to Cassie girl
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  Speaker 2: bye we be having some fake ass women empowerment out
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  Speaker 2: here because women keep cheating going your nigga cannot cheat
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  Speaker 2: Unless there's a woman willing to compete.
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  Speaker 3: They both keep it going.
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  Speaker 2: Unless there's a woman willing to compete. That's what it is.
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  Speaker 2: I said what I said. Your man can't cheat unless
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  Speaker 2: there's a woman willing to compete. That's just it. So
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  Speaker 2: maybe we need to be like, we tell men that
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  Speaker 2: they need to be, you know, my brother's keeper. We
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  Speaker 2: need to be our sister's keeper. If we really for
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  Speaker 2: woman empowerment, why are you doing something that's going to
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  Speaker 2: make another woman cry?
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  Speaker 3: She ain't got to know.
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  Speaker 2: This all niggas she just don't know but Diddy is
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  Speaker 2: not a monogamous man like never ever so I expect
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  Speaker 2: all that shit out of him like and it's okay
• 11:02
  Speaker 2: I guess I feel like he'd probably be pretty honest
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  Speaker 2: I feel like Cassie probably just got tied at a
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  Speaker 2: rigmarole and got the fuck up out of there because
• 11:10
  Speaker 2: right she wasn't going to have the type of relationship
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  Speaker 2: she probably wanted with him.
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  Speaker 1: Ultimately Diddy put her on Cassie was, he met her on,
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  Speaker 1: what was that platform back in the day?
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  Speaker 3: MySpace.
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  Speaker 2: Is that how?
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  Speaker 3: It changed her whole life. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I thought Cassie was kind of already out here before Diddy.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, like acting. She wasn't?
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  Speaker 4: No.
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  Speaker 2: I had to look into that. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I've been waiting so long for you to answer my call.
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  Speaker 3: Like, that bitch couldn't even sing. Like, did he put
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  Speaker 3: her on?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I used to like that song, though. I ain't gonna lie.
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  Speaker 3: It went like she was blowing.
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  Speaker 2: You stupid what else happened bitch anything jocelyn and her
• 12:02
  Speaker 2: motherfucking titties jocelyn you remember she was on our show
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  Speaker 2: jocelyn did we talk back last year she definitely flashed
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  Speaker 2: us flashed us with them titties right y'all go check
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  Speaker 2: it out on youtube we blurred it.
• 12:12
  Speaker 3: Now but those are good titties.
• 12:14
  Speaker 2: Those are yeah those are very nice breasts Okay.
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  Speaker 1: I would be, if my titties look like that, I
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  Speaker 1: might be throwing them out there every day.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. She wear these little, uh, crop, little half buttoned
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  Speaker 2: up low shirts. So the titties just sit up so
• 12:28
  Speaker 2: she could just lift them up right quick.
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  Speaker 3: You got good titties too. You should go ahead.
• 12:33
  Speaker 2: These titties are pretty nice now, but when we happen
• 12:35
  Speaker 2: and when I lose weight, they get deflated. They start,
• 12:38
  Speaker 2: they like, it's the first thing that start.
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  Speaker 3: My shit grew in down there. My shit grew in low.
• 12:45
  Speaker 3: I don't know what happened.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to start doing push-ups right now because, man,
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  Speaker 2: them titties start looking like....
• 12:53
  Speaker 3: How do you do a Mars Simpson?
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  Speaker 2: That's what them titties start looking like.
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  Speaker 3: That's what my titties look like.
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  Speaker 2: Titties be sad, honey. So sad. So also, listen, Soulja
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  Speaker 2: Boy said that he feels like the older generation failed
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  Speaker 2: the younger generation by not sharing knowledge. He said, y'all
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  Speaker 2: not kicking back no knowledge to the young niggas. I
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  Speaker 2: agree with him.
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  Speaker 3: But are these young niggas- That's not just in the
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  Speaker 3: music industry. That's all over the world, rampant.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Do these young niggas even want to hear it, though?
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  Speaker 2: That's what I was about to say. Are y'all young
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  Speaker 2: men out here acting like y'all are above reproach? Like
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  Speaker 2: nobody can say nothing to y'all?
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  Speaker 1: Because what's that podcast, Million Dollars Worth the Game?
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: He always be trying to drop jewels, and them niggas
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  Speaker 1: be on there like, yeah, whatever.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. And this is a man who'd spent 25 years
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  Speaker 2: in prison from doing dumb shit. So he'd really be
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  Speaker 2: out here trying to speak to the youth, trying to
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  Speaker 2: save these niggas' lives. But listen, a lot of them
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  Speaker 2: don't want to be saved. I feel like that's- Right,
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  Speaker 2: look at Gunna.
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  Speaker 3: Wasn't he talking to them on an episode?
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  Speaker 5: Yes.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: They are saying that Young Thug is connected to 50
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  Speaker 2: homicides in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: 50?
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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  Speaker 4: All right.
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  Speaker 1: As much as I want to be hollering free thug,
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  Speaker 1: if he killed, if he's connected, if he really had
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  Speaker 1: 50 niggas killed, he's a minister to society, honestly.
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  Speaker 4: Right?
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  Speaker 2: And I also, I know people, you know, Online is
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  Speaker 2: based on- 50?
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  Speaker 3: That's a lot of niggas.
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Online, I know it's based off probably your tax records
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  Speaker 2: and stuff like that, but it's saying that Young Thug
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  Speaker 2: is only worth like $ 8 million or something like that.
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  Speaker 2: I really don't feel like that's enough money to get off.
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  Speaker 2: Not with this type of shit. Not with this type
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  Speaker 2: of case.
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  Speaker 3: Not 50 niggas. Not 50 people. And y'all be like, well,
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  Speaker 3: what did those people do?
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  Speaker 2: 50 people?
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  Speaker 3: Fuck y'all. They ain't doing enough for him to be
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  Speaker 3: out and free. Right. If it's true. It's allegedly.
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  Speaker 1: So if it's true, like, it's not okay. You can't
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  Speaker 1: just be out here killing people, taking people's children away
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  Speaker 1: from them.
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  Speaker 2: That's a bit much. It's a bit much.
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  Speaker 4: For me.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, and one other thing I wanted to mention.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But it is free thug until he's been proven guilty.
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  Speaker 2: Your nigga got 30 years. You going to be saying
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  Speaker 2: that to y'all in goddamn nursing home and shit? Your
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: nigga coming home in the future, okay?
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: Your nigga coming home like life. Like, them niggas sitting
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: at the baseball game.
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: I hate that movie. It makes me cry.
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: I love that movie.
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: I love it, but it exposes how we went from
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: slavery to now we still got the 13th Amendment. What
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: makes it okay to give black men this type of time?
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: Those men on that movie, they went to prison for nothing.
• 15:58
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: And it's still happening today.
• 16:00
  Speaker 5: Yes.
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: Like, a lot of men end up in jail for
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: some real bullshit, like petty crimes. Like, america has the
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: biggest jail population out the world and we're not the
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: biggest there's no slavery yes that's all it is but
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: um one nigga that does need to be in jail
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: is this fool at um popeyes in georgia who punched
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: a 16 year old worker in the face did you see.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: That yes she she was trying to clock out apparently
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: and i guess he's a Said it one time for
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: her to go.
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: Because he punched her dead in her mouth. And I
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: was so upset when I seen that. Like, what kind of,
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: who are they hiring that Popeye's?
• 16:40
  Speaker 4: Exactly.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: So this guy, Marquez Jashon Smith, he's been arrested for
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: cruelty to children in the first degree in Georgia. As
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: he should, because it couldn't be my child, because I'd
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: be arrested for damn murder. I'm going to pull right
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: up to that Popeye's and beat your ass up.
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: And give you a two-piece. I ain't coming to get one.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: Two piece in a dry biscuit, nigga. Look, first of all,
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: Popeyes get on my damn nerves. I literally only eat
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: the apple pies from Popeyes. And why every time I
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: go to Popeyes, I got to wait seven fucking minutes?
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: Do y'all sell these or not?
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: I don't never go to Popeyes.
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: Girl, those apple pies be busting, okay?
• 17:23
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: I can see you there in the drive-thru putting your
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: phone on mute because nobody know you ordered.
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: Apple pies for Popeye's.
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: And I'd be like, listen, do y'all fry this in
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: the chicken grease? I need to know.
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: Because if so, it's delicious.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: No, because if so, I'm not buying that shit. Because
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: some of these people be putting their french fries in
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: the chicken grease. Popeye's put their french fries in the
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: chicken grease. I don't know if y'all know any vegans
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: out there who be trying to just get some fries
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: from somewhere. You better only eat Chick-fil-A.
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: I'm sick of y'all vegans.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: Some of y'all be lying, sneaking meat out the pot
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: every now and then.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: I saw a post like that.
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's true.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: That shit was hilarious because it's true. I went to
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: a football game with my vegan friend and she had
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: a sausage dog with me. I'm like, I ain't say nothing,
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: but I was looking like, this bitch is eating a
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: whole sausage dog.
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: Bitch, you ain't never seen me eat no chicken. You
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: ain't never seen me eat no real live meat like that. Now,
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: some shrimp, fish, pescatarian. Okay, now that's some different meat.
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: I do like that type of meat. But let's get
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: into today's show, y'all. This is the trade show today. Okay.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: And we ain't talk about stocks.
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: All right.
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: So come back. We about to go to commercial. Come
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: back and listen to the trade show.
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: All right, y'all. So remember what we mentioned before the break?
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: Let's get into it. We do have a special guest
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: on We Talk Back this week. To help us, you know,
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: dissect this. Why are you covering your face? Listen, y'all,
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: we got a friend of the show, Big C, not
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: to be confused with the little one, okay? Introduce yourself,
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: Big C.
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: I'm Big C.
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: Bixie can't tell us nothing about himself because he wants
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: to remain anonymous in this whole conversation. Understandably so, because
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: we are about to go there when it comes to
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: the trade.
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah. My personal trade told me I had to go
• 19:41
  Speaker 4: in anonymously.
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: Oh, your personal trade. And see, that's the thing.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: We can't even get any trades to join us.
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: And how you running.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: Shit from the sidelines.
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: I'm confused.
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: For all our listeners who don't know what a trade
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: or the trade is, can you explain that?
• 20:00
  Speaker 5: Well, I know that I heard earlier you say something
• 20:02
  Speaker 5: about what's the difference between DL and trade.
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: It's pretty much the same thing. I think that trade
• 20:08
  Speaker 4: is a little....
• 20:10
  Speaker 5: Or like a little more, they kind of, they go
• 20:15
  Speaker 5: after it a little more. DL is kind of like
• 20:19
  Speaker 5: in the cuts, in the crevices of the internet like that.
• 20:22
  Speaker 5: You know what I mean? They don't be out in public.
• 20:25
  Speaker 5: Like Trey don't come up to me in public or,
• 20:26
  Speaker 5: you know what I mean? I'll start a conversation with you.
• 20:28
  Speaker 5: A lot of times the Trey sells weed and that's
• 20:31
  Speaker 5: how they ring in or, you know, little things like that. Yeah.
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: So trade be the weed man.
• 20:38
  Speaker 4: A lot of times. I met a lot of trade
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: weed men.
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: Yo, okay. Let's be clear. So a trade is generally
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: a man who is gay. He may just be a
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: little bit more discreet. Is that a better way of
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: putting it? And a real man oftentimes probably has a family,
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: a girlfriend. He doesn't want, he's insecure about his sexuality.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: He doesn't really want to know he's gay.
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: But trade don't want nobody to know they're gay either, right?
• 21:10
  Speaker 5: Trade don't want nobody to know they're gay either, but
• 21:11
  Speaker 5: they're not as hyper paranoid and hyper like, you know
• 21:15
  Speaker 5: what I mean?
• 21:15
  Speaker 4: They'll be friends with you. They'll talk to you. They're
• 21:18
  Speaker 4: just discreet about what they do.
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: Where does the term trade come from though?
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: Because someone told me that it means like they'll, if
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: you out them, they'll trade your life, their life for yours.
• 21:28
  Speaker 4: I've never heard that.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, me either.
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: No? I've never heard that.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: So what, do you know where the term comes from?
• 21:35
  Speaker 5: I'm pretty sure the gay community came up with it,
• 21:38
  Speaker 5: but I don't necessarily know the origins of it.
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: I don't have the gay history book.
• 21:48
  Speaker 5: I was just born into this shit. I've been gay
• 21:50
  Speaker 5: since 96.
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: Touche, my nigga. Another definition of trade I also saw
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: was that it may be a man that, again, is gay,
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: but doesn't appear to be gay. Again, leaning to more
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: is being more discreet. I don't want women to confuse
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: trade with down low. Because down low men are.
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: The scary ones.
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 22:20
  Speaker 5: Because like you said, down low men can have family
• 22:22
  Speaker 5: and children and actively date women. A lot of trade men,
• 22:26
  Speaker 5: they may mess with women, but they don't have families
• 22:33
  Speaker 5: and they don't go that far with it. They kind
• 22:36
  Speaker 5: of like the straight guy that don't got a girlfriend.
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying? Right.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: So as a gay man, do you deal with bisexual men?
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: All the time.
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: Men who are out about, okay.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: Because I think I'm openly bisexual or are they typically
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: not openly bisexual?
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: Typically not. Because it's hard to be.
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: A black man.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: In our community, I feel like it's hard to be
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: openly bisexual. You have to be one or the other.
• 23:00
  Speaker 4: To be accepted. Typically not.
• 23:04
  Speaker 5: I know it's probably going to sound crazy, but the
• 23:07
  Speaker 5: kind of guy that I like isn't the guy that
• 23:11
  Speaker 5: is open.
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: You know what I mean? So it's kind of hard.
• 23:16
  Speaker 4: to date and stuff because you don't typically want the
• 23:21
  Speaker 4: guy to be unknown gay. I just like a... I
• 23:26
  Speaker 4: like masculinity.
• 23:27
  Speaker 5: I like... I like... It's wrong.
• 23:32
  Speaker 4: I prefer. I don't want nobody switching and popping. You
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: know what I mean?
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: You want a masculine man.
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: I like masculinity, yeah. But that's the purpose of being gay.
• 23:42
  Speaker 4: If I wanted to be female... I feel the.
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: Same way about like if I were to be a
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: lesbian right I would get I don't know I don't
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: even want a woman that's pretending to be a man
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: I would just want the man right but I guess
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: if I was a gay woman that's what I'm saying
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: if I were a gay woman I would like a
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: feminine woman I would like a regular woman if I
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: were yeah.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: Me too that's my preference not saying that I'm you
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: know just I don't know what you call me am
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: I gay if I like fuck girls when I drink
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: tequila sometimes.
• 24:13
  Speaker 5: Lipstick they call y'all lipstick lesbians because you're like you're
• 24:18
  Speaker 5: like y'all girly and y'all you know get dressed up
• 24:21
  Speaker 5: and nice but you know it's so it's so much
• 24:23
  Speaker 5: more acceptable for you for.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: Accidentally end up eating her coochie vine one night but
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: that don't you know that don't make.
• 24:30
  Speaker 5: Me gay why was it because you know i never
• 24:33
  Speaker 5: tried it before this.
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: Is you ever had oysters.
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: See, look, that's why I don't like slimy shit. Like,
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: oysters and clams are the only, like, slimy shit I'm
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: about to eat. I might even try snails one day.
• 24:50
  Speaker 4: Okay, so I'm 30. I'm 35.
• 24:54
  Speaker 5: When I turned 18, this guy named Ced took me
• 24:58
  Speaker 5: to a strip club. I shouldn't have been with Ced,
• 25:03
  Speaker 5: but I went to the strip club with Ced.
• 25:05
  Speaker 4: It was Studio 54.
• 25:07
  Speaker 5: Oh, shit.
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: You remember that, Tam?
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: Uh-huh. I definitely remember the 50s.
• 25:12
  Speaker 5: And it was the first time my life actually seemed
• 25:14
  Speaker 5: like crutchy. And I don't know if it was the
• 25:23
  Speaker 5: right kind because it was like black and it looked
• 25:26
  Speaker 5: like bacon strips.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: Yo.
• 25:30
  Speaker 4: And after that, it was what happened.
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: You didn't want no you stopped eating bacon and everything.
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: I traded the bacon in for sausage.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: Now you should have went to a better strip club
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: now out of town somewhere.
• 25:43
  Speaker 4: She had glasses too and.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: Uh some cute girls in 54 this.
• 25:48
  Speaker 5: Girl had i remember i remember distinctly she had glasses
• 25:52
  Speaker 5: and she had a shrimp cocktail not a ponytail but
• 25:54
  Speaker 5: a shrimp cocktail see.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: Now that was okay that's a bitch that had to
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: strip you needed to go someplace with women who really
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: like do this shit cause that sounds like somebody who
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: got a strip to eat.
• 26:05
  Speaker 4: Well I told you that when I was 18 I
• 26:07
  Speaker 4: have since then you.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: Was gonna find a problem with Coochie anyway don't tell
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: me that if it was a nice one or not.
• 26:12
  Speaker 4: You was gonna find a problem you don't know.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: She could have been beautiful, pussy looking like a rainbow
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: in the sky.
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: You'd be like, ugh. That's how you would have been.
• 26:21
  Speaker 5: I always tell people that my fascination with women or
• 26:25
  Speaker 5: even my idea of thinking of dating women or whatever
• 26:28
  Speaker 5: died with Aaliyah in the plane crash. Because she was
• 26:31
  Speaker 5: definitely my ideal woman. That's the only woman I can
• 26:35
  Speaker 5: say I really actually had.
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: You were attracted to.
• 26:38
  Speaker 5: Attracted to and had sexual thoughts about. Pictures, posters, I
• 26:43
  Speaker 5: was literally obsessed with her.
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: And then that's it. No other woman?
• 26:47
  Speaker 4: No other woman.
• 26:48
  Speaker 5: It's a lot of beautiful women, but I'm just saying
• 26:49
  Speaker 5: like from that point and then, you know, of course
• 26:52
  Speaker 5: I just started discovering the train.
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: I want to go back to that.
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: I love dick too.
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, me too.
• 26:58
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: But I want to go back to that. So I
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: do have a friend who did confide in me once that,
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: you know, when he was a little younger, he would
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: fuck with DL men a lot. And it was more
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: so about like the sneakiness of it all. Like the,
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: that's what turned them on about it. Like them having
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: to sneak to do it.
• 27:18
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: The thrill of it.
• 27:19
  Speaker 4: I can't. For me.
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: A boy in your house when you're a kid, like,
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: you know, when you're sneaking around.
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: No, just messing with a guy who has a wife.
• 27:29
  Speaker 4: I snuck out.
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: Oh, no, I don't do that.
• 27:31
  Speaker 4: I didn't sneak in. I snuck out. I didn't sneak in.
• 27:33
  Speaker 4: I snuck out.
• 27:34
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 27:34
  Speaker 4: I was out. The weed man. It's always the weed man, right? Yeah.
• 27:42
  Speaker 5: But uh the thrill the thrill of it for me
• 27:45
  Speaker 5: that's kind of non-existent for me just simply because i'm
• 27:48
  Speaker 5: gay you feel what i'm saying so no thrill for
• 27:50
  Speaker 5: me you know i'm saying i'm doing what i need
• 27:52
  Speaker 5: to do for you it may be an adrenaline rush
• 27:55
  Speaker 5: and a thrill because you know you got all this
• 27:57
  Speaker 5: riding on it but i'm a little different though so
• 28:01
  Speaker 5: i may be a little different from a lot of
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: gay guys because um you know a lot of them
• 28:07
  Speaker 5: have stories about like getting bullied and you know coming
• 28:10
  Speaker 5: up a certain kind of way and that just wasn't
• 28:11
  Speaker 5: never my story like you know what i'm saying if
• 28:13
  Speaker 5: anything i was a bully you know what i'm saying
• 28:15
  Speaker 5: growing up and stuff like that so i didn't really
• 28:17
  Speaker 5: necessarily have to like deal with that so a lot
• 28:20
  Speaker 5: of my straight friends and tam probably could attest to
• 28:22
  Speaker 5: this like a lot of my friends my homeboys are
• 28:24
  Speaker 5: straight guys you know what i mean and i'm you
• 28:26
  Speaker 5: know i don't really have any gay friends my only
• 28:28
  Speaker 5: gay friend lives in new york so i don't see
• 28:30
  Speaker 5: him a lot and i don't I don't go to
• 28:32
  Speaker 5: gay clubs. And, you know, for me having to find
• 28:35
  Speaker 5: the kind of guys that I like, they would technically
• 28:38
  Speaker 5: have to find me in the streets. So they would
• 28:41
  Speaker 5: have to, you know, be bold enough to hit me
• 28:43
  Speaker 5: up because I'm not like in the arenas, in the
• 28:46
  Speaker 5: areas where guys are openly gay or, you know, they
• 28:50
  Speaker 5: will be willing to come talk to me because I'm
• 28:52
  Speaker 5: not in the clubs or anything like that.
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: Okay. So, it's difficult.
• 28:58
  Speaker 5: And a lot of times, like, some of my friends,
• 29:00
  Speaker 5: they be like, oh, you know this guy is gay.
• 29:02
  Speaker 5: Because I meet a lot of friends, right? And because
• 29:05
  Speaker 5: I do things in entertainment, a lot of people come
• 29:09
  Speaker 5: for my services or my advice and things like that,
• 29:12
  Speaker 5: you know, with what I do in entertainment. And, you know,
• 29:15
  Speaker 5: we start off these friendships and then my friends be like,
• 29:17
  Speaker 5: he like you. He's not going to sit on the
• 29:19
  Speaker 5: phone with you for three, four hours if he didn't
• 29:21
  Speaker 5: like you.
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: He's gay. He's this, he's that. And I'm like, no, no,
• 29:24
  Speaker 4: it's not true.
• 29:25
  Speaker 5: And then, Months later, he's like, oh, yeah, I like
• 29:29
  Speaker 5: you type shit. So it literally always happens. So now
• 29:33
  Speaker 5: it's just like I've been looking for the signs. The
• 29:36
  Speaker 5: signs be the questions start to come about like, well, so.
• 29:40
  Speaker 4: Why why are you gay or like how does it
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: feel or they start asking questions like that.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: It's a wrap you know They're trying to, like, experience
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: different parts of their own sexuality.
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: There's nothing wrong with that.
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: Right, right.
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: But I done heard you done stole a couple of
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: my niggas. So, I don't like that.
• 30:01
  Speaker 4: What?
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: I said, I done heard.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: You done stole a couple of my niggas out here.
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: Big C, not the little one. Okay?
• 30:11
  Speaker 4: Listen, y'all.
• 30:11
  Speaker 5: It's so crazy because I don't have the NBA player.
• 30:17
  Speaker 5: I don't have the dope boy up the street. You
• 30:20
  Speaker 5: know what I'm saying? So it's just, it's there everywhere.
• 30:23
  Speaker 5: And every producer.
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: The rapper.
• 30:27
  Speaker 4: No?
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: Okay, we're going to leave that one alone.
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: We'll talk. Because it was about three rappers. No, let
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: me see. Yeah, about three.
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: I can believe it, child.
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: Believe it.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: Because, all right, you for me, like, you're a beautiful man. Like,
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: you still give, like, Some masculine energy, but you still
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: have a beautifulness like a woman kind of in your
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: pretty face and stuff like that.
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: I can see where a nigga be like, I like that.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: So my friend, right? The guy who I said used
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: to only fuck with DL niggas. He stopped because, you know,
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: he wasn't being chose. These men are planning on never
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: coming out the closet. The DL. We're not talking about
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: the trade right now, right? So the down low men,
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: they don't plan on ever coming out. So they'll never
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: choose you to be with them. You know what I'm saying?
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: You'll always be in the shadows.
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: In the dark.
• 31:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: I mean, that's what he was tired of.
• 31:26
  Speaker 5: That's definitely has happened to me, you know, obviously a
• 31:29
  Speaker 5: bunch of times, but on the flip side, like I
• 31:32
  Speaker 5: get some guys and they're like, nobody, you know, don't
• 31:37
  Speaker 5: be acting crazy. And then they say, no, they're like
• 31:41
  Speaker 5: grabbing me by my shirt, calling the club and stuff
• 31:43
  Speaker 5: like that.
• 31:44
  Speaker 4: Like you don't want to act crazy now.
• 31:46
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 31:46
  Speaker 4: It's weird.
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: Now that I made you fall in love with me,
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: now you in the club snatching me up. Like, ain't
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: we supposed to be discreet?
• 31:54
  Speaker 4: Right. Interesting. I want to tell y'all so bad about
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: the NBA guy.
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: Tell us.
• 32:01
  Speaker 5: He was a weird. He was a weird. Okay, so
• 32:06
  Speaker 5: he played for the Hawks, right? So this is like...
• 32:13
  Speaker 5: circa 2019 to like 2021-ish. That was the range, right?
• 32:23
  Speaker 5: And we had the same trainer.
• 32:27
  Speaker 4: In Atlanta. I was doing some things in Atlanta and
• 32:29
  Speaker 4: we had the same trainer. Yes.
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: This is getting juicy.
• 32:34
  Speaker 5: Our trainer and you know, I would see him at
• 32:40
  Speaker 5: training all the time and he was having this party
• 32:44
  Speaker 5: and he never said anything to me prior to this.
• 32:47
  Speaker 5: It would just be like hanging by, you know, when
• 32:49
  Speaker 5: we see each other. And he would, he was having
• 32:54
  Speaker 5: this party. So he was kind of going around and
• 32:55
  Speaker 5: inviting people to the party, like Reggie Carter. And what's
• 32:59
  Speaker 5: the tiny door name? They were, they were in the class.
• 33:04
  Speaker 5: T camp was training them as well. And so he
• 33:06
  Speaker 5: was like, yeah, I need to come.
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: I need to come. So then he was like, you
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: want to come to my party? So I'm like, OK, cool.
• 33:12
  Speaker 5: So it's like, what's your number? So I got a
• 33:13
  Speaker 5: number that he sends me like the little invitation and
• 33:15
  Speaker 5: all that. So the day of the party comes. So
• 33:18
  Speaker 5: he hits me like, are you coming?
• 33:20
  Speaker 4: Sure.
• 33:21
  Speaker 5: So my homegirl, she didn't want to go with me
• 33:22
  Speaker 5: to his party. So I was like, damn, I got
• 33:25
  Speaker 5: to go by myself. So I ended up like. catching
• 33:28
  Speaker 5: an Uber there or whatever. I get there and the
• 33:30
  Speaker 5: party is a vibe. Like, everybody's vibing and chilling or whatever. So,
• 33:34
  Speaker 5: it ended up getting, like, later and, like, people were
• 33:36
  Speaker 5: starting to leave and everything. So, you know, like, I
• 33:39
  Speaker 5: don't know if you guys, like, take Ubers to live,
• 33:42
  Speaker 5: but a lot of times, the later you get, the
• 33:44
  Speaker 5: harder it is.
• 33:45
  Speaker 4: To find a ride.
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: And more expensive, too.
• 33:48
  Speaker 5: And more expensive, right. He didn't live in Atlanta. Like,
• 33:51
  Speaker 5: he stayed, like, in Woodstock or some shit like that,
• 33:53
  Speaker 5: which is, like, far.
• 33:55
  Speaker 4: And so.
• 33:56
  Speaker 5: I would get like an Uber and then I guess
• 33:58
  Speaker 5: they would see how far it is and they would cancel.
• 34:00
  Speaker 5: So it just was like, you just spend the night.
• 34:04
  Speaker 5: So I'm like, okay, you know, it's a sizable house.
• 34:08
  Speaker 4: It's, you know, it's cool.
• 34:11
  Speaker 5: I'm not catching any vibes. So the same friend that
• 34:13
  Speaker 5: wouldn't go with me was like, bitch, he's trying to, yeah.
• 34:18
  Speaker 5: I'm like, no, can't be. So he goes, uh, well,
• 34:23
  Speaker 5: I'm hospitable. You can sleep in my bed and I'll
• 34:27
  Speaker 5: sleep downstairs on the couch.
• 34:29
  Speaker 4: I'm like, no, bro. Because the thing is, I barely
• 34:32
  Speaker 4: knew him at this point. You know what I mean?
• 34:34
  Speaker 4: Just hanging by at the gym.
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: And you didn't get the gay vibes from him?
• 34:38
  Speaker 4: I didn't get the vibes. I didn't get the vibes.
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: He's an official DL or trade.
• 34:44
  Speaker 4: I didn't get the vibes. So I was like, no,
• 34:47
  Speaker 4: I won't put you out your bed. I'll sleep on
• 34:48
  Speaker 4: the couch.
• 34:48
  Speaker 5: He was like, no, you get in the bed. This
• 34:51
  Speaker 5: man changed the sheets, everything. So I sleep in the bed.
• 34:55
  Speaker 5: I wake up.
• 34:56
  Speaker 4: He's in the bed. The next morning, did not try anything.
• 35:00
  Speaker 5: Didn't do anything. He just was in the bed. I
• 35:03
  Speaker 5: felt like that was weird, but nothing happened. So today
• 35:07
  Speaker 5: I was able to get a ride out of there.
• 35:10
  Speaker 4: Left. Right.
• 35:11
  Speaker 5: So see him again at the gym, like maybe two
• 35:14
  Speaker 5: days later. He said nothing to me. Not hey, not bye.
• 35:19
  Speaker 4: Now, anything. So, now it's, like, weird. Like, why didn't
• 35:22
  Speaker 4: you say anything?
• 35:22
  Speaker 3: Like, we was just laying in your bed together.
• 35:24
  Speaker 4: And now you don't want to say nothing to me.
• 35:26
  Speaker 4: But it wasn't, like, romantic. It wasn't anything. Like, he
• 35:28
  Speaker 4: didn't touch me. It was nothing sexual. I just woke
• 35:31
  Speaker 4: up and he was in the bed, too. And so,
• 35:34
  Speaker 4: he didn't say anything to me. So, me and that
• 35:36
  Speaker 4: same friend. I'm going to say her name again. Me
• 35:38
  Speaker 4: and that same friend, we ended up going to Sweet Lounge.
• 35:43
  Speaker 4: This place called Sweet Lounge. They had, like, R &
• 35:45
  Speaker 4: B Wednesdays. And I'm cool with it.
• 35:47
  Speaker 5: The producer who is kind of like the promoter for
• 35:50
  Speaker 5: that event so we go he's the guy's there right
• 35:56
  Speaker 5: um he's there with um y'all know sportsman husband or
• 36:00
  Speaker 5: whatever he is now they're like best friends I'm telling
• 36:03
  Speaker 5: everything niggas is.
• 36:04
  Speaker 4: Gonna google fans so um so they were there so
• 36:06
  Speaker 4: um I see him bitch I'm.
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: Saying I'm saying I mean.
• 36:17
  Speaker 5: So, it's this guy that we go with. Like, he got, like,
• 36:23
  Speaker 5: this section. Like, he has this section every R &
• 36:26
  Speaker 5: B Wednesday. He got a section that's locked down. We
• 36:28
  Speaker 5: just go there, tell his name, and they let us in. So,
• 36:31
  Speaker 5: we was with him. And I was talking to him,
• 36:33
  Speaker 5: and he was bringing me drinks and stuff like that. So,
• 36:37
  Speaker 5: I get a text from, oh, boy. I'm going to
• 36:41
  Speaker 5: tell y'all after this who he was or whatever. But
• 36:43
  Speaker 5: I got to text him over.
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: Thank you, because I would have been one of them
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: motherfuckers Googling, but carry on.
• 36:48
  Speaker 4: He ain't nobody.
• 36:48
  Speaker 5: See, the thing is, and at this point, I still
• 36:50
  Speaker 5: don't know what he does, right? Let's keep that in mind.
• 36:53
  Speaker 5: I still don't know he plays in the NBA.
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: I just know he trained.
• 36:56
  Speaker 4: I didn't know anything. That's all I knew. So he
• 36:59
  Speaker 4: texted me, and he was like, oh, are you with
• 37:02
  Speaker 4: that guy? I know him.
• 37:04
  Speaker 5: And I was like, you know, basically, like, what you
• 37:05
  Speaker 5: mean with? He was like, oh, y'all, like, in a relationship.
• 37:09
  Speaker 5: And I was like, no, that's my own boy. Like
• 37:11
  Speaker 5: the man, the man that I was with, like he
• 37:13
  Speaker 5: got a whole wife, which I don't mean anything, but
• 37:15
  Speaker 5: it was nothing like that. Like, he's really just cool.
• 37:18
  Speaker 5: He really was, he really was on my friend, the
• 37:21
  Speaker 5: other guy. So he was like, oh, okay. Because I
• 37:24
  Speaker 5: heard some things about him. I was like, okay, whatever
• 37:27
  Speaker 5: that means. So I'm just, I find it weird that
• 37:29
  Speaker 5: you're texting me and you didn't even say nothing to
• 37:31
  Speaker 5: me when I see you at a gym. And it
• 37:32
  Speaker 5: was just weird. So, That was another weird part. So
• 37:36
  Speaker 5: after that, he started to hit me up, started to
• 37:38
  Speaker 5: invite me out and do things. So we started hanging out.
• 37:42
  Speaker 5: So then the questions started to come.
• 37:44
  Speaker 4: Like, this, you that. Like, does it hurt? What made
• 37:50
  Speaker 4: you that way? Were you molested? Like, all of these
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: different questions or whatever.
• 37:53
  Speaker 5: So now, being gay since 96, you start to see
• 37:58
  Speaker 5: the signs of, okay, well, he's too inquisitive because a
• 38:01
  Speaker 5: real straight guy don't care. They don't want to know
• 38:03
  Speaker 5: if it hurt. They don't want to know how I
• 38:05
  Speaker 5: get down.
• 38:05
  Speaker 4: They don't want to.
• 38:06
  Speaker 5: And so we started getting some questions, and that's when
• 38:08
  Speaker 5: the light bulb started coming off. So he was like, um.
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: That light bulb would have been off when I woke
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: up and he was in the bed next to me.
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: I would have been like, oh, okay. I see what
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: time it is, boo-boo. Take your time.
• 38:22
  Speaker 4: Take your time.
• 38:22
  Speaker 5: See, being a gay man, you're in a very, very
• 38:25
  Speaker 5: dangerous position, right? You don't ever want to assume. So
• 38:31
  Speaker 5: you will not find one guy on planet Earth that
• 38:35
  Speaker 5: has said that Big C came on to them first.
• 38:40
  Speaker 4: Big C put it out there first.
• 38:42
  Speaker 5: I always let them come to me.
• 38:44
  Speaker 4: I always let them bring themselves to me.
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: Nah, bitch, because I see you batting your eyelashes in
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: the club, looking all cute and smiling and joking with
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: these niggas.
• 38:54
  Speaker 3: I see you, bitch.
• 38:55
  Speaker 4: Don't even.
• 38:59
  Speaker 4: I didn't say I didn't do that. What I said was.
• 39:02
  Speaker 4: I don't never.
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: Say that to me, baby.
• 39:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah, like I don't. Like, hey, bro, I want to.
• 39:07
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying? Hey, bro.
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: He don't say listen.
• 39:10
  Speaker 4: I don't do that because it can backfire on you.
• 39:14
  Speaker 5: And you will never have proof or evidence that I
• 39:16
  Speaker 5: came on to you or not. None of that shit.
• 39:18
  Speaker 5: So I always allow them to come first so we
• 39:20
  Speaker 5: can play this game. Like, I literally played a game
• 39:22
  Speaker 5: with some guys for a year or two. because you
• 39:25
  Speaker 5: don't want to say nothing. And I know what you
• 39:27
  Speaker 5: I know how you feel but I'm not going to
• 39:29
  Speaker 5: say nothing you're never going to catch me in that
• 39:31
  Speaker 5: space so boom so then now he's like one day
• 39:35
  Speaker 5: he's like you know I got to go out of
• 39:37
  Speaker 5: town you know work or whatever whatever so he was
• 39:40
  Speaker 5: like hey what's your Instagram I gave him my Instagram So,
• 39:46
  Speaker 5: he followed me. And I feel like he only did
• 39:48
  Speaker 5: that for me to see what he does. So, I
• 39:52
  Speaker 5: followed him and I'm like, okay, never said nothing.
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: Okay, you got a little bag.
• 39:57
  Speaker 4: Never said nothing. Never said nothing. But the thing is,
• 39:59
  Speaker 4: he probably had a bag, but here's me.
• 40:01
  Speaker 5: Here's my thing. I'm not a basketball fan, right? So,
• 40:05
  Speaker 5: if you ain't like Kobe LeBron, Michael.
• 40:07
  Speaker 4: I don't know you. You know what I'm saying? So,
• 40:11
  Speaker 4: you play, but I don't know you. Like, I don't.
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: Clearly, because you said Michael. Michael Jordan, is that who
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: you're talking about? That's a whole bunch of lit niggas
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: right now playing basketball. This nigga bringing up Michael Jordan.
• 40:25
  Speaker 5: But you know the staples of basketball. The Colts, the LeBrons,
• 40:30
  Speaker 5: the Michaels. I'm not watching, so I don't know this
• 40:34
  Speaker 5: guy and that guy and this guy that's on the team.
• 40:37
  Speaker 4: He cute. He cute. That's all I know. So....
• 40:42
  Speaker 5: Um, so I'm like, okay, you know, play basketball. Didn't
• 40:45
  Speaker 5: mention nothing of it. So then one fateful day, he
• 40:51
  Speaker 5: was like, you never invite me to what you do.
• 40:55
  Speaker 4: So I'm like, all right.
• 40:56
  Speaker 5: So I invited him to a place where I was
• 40:59
  Speaker 5: working and, um, he came and he was like, oh,
• 41:02
  Speaker 5: this is hot.
• 41:03
  Speaker 4: You dope. Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah. Oh, whatever.
• 41:05
  Speaker 5: Do you want to go back to my house tonight?
• 41:09
  Speaker 5: we could cook on a grill, chill, you know, smoke
• 41:12
  Speaker 5: a little marijuana. Cause you know, I'm a pie head
• 41:15
  Speaker 5: and I'm like, okay, so I'll go back to the
• 41:17
  Speaker 5: house and we're listening to music and stuff like that.
• 41:23
  Speaker 5: And he's telling me his opinions on things and all that.
• 41:26
  Speaker 5: And so he's like, um, he was like, so are
• 41:30
  Speaker 5: you like involved with anyone right now? And I'm like,
• 41:33
  Speaker 5: I'm talking to people. He was like, so when the
• 41:35
  Speaker 5: last time you gave head, And I'm like, spend a
• 41:41
  Speaker 5: minute because I don't really like doing that. Like, I'm
• 41:43
  Speaker 5: not a head giver. That ain't my thing. I'll do it.
• 41:46
  Speaker 4: Me either.
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: I gotta love you.
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: AJ don't like sucking dick.
• 41:50
  Speaker 4: Hello. I don't like it. And if you're free.
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: I'm very good at it.
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: I like to do it because it makes me feel
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: powerful in that moment. Like, I feel like I got
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: your whole life in my hands.
• 42:00
  Speaker 4: That's the truth statement.
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: Lay back.
• 42:02
  Speaker 5: If I really like you, then, you know, it's going down.
• 42:05
  Speaker 5: I may suck you into me. You know what I mean?
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: But, Right.
• 42:10
  Speaker 5: I just ain't doing it.
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: And if you pre-come... Right, you're just not giving out random...
• 42:15
  Speaker 3: And if you pre-come... I don't think nobody should do that.
• 42:18
  Speaker 5: Forget about it. If you pre-come, forget about it. It's
• 42:21
  Speaker 5: not going down.
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: Hey, I feel you, nigga.
• 42:26
  Speaker 4: I feel you.
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: Even if you really like them.
• 42:28
  Speaker 5: Even if I do do it, you're not going to
• 42:30
  Speaker 5: let it go on my mouth.
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: Even if you really like them.
• 42:36
  Speaker 4: I don't, because I would throw up.
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: Oh, that ain't nothing but a little love song.
• 42:40
  Speaker 4: I would throw up.
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: I would throw up.
• 42:42
  Speaker 4: It makes me gag.
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 42:45
  Speaker 4: I would throw up.
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: I feel you. It's like snot.
• 42:47
  Speaker 5: I would not swallow that.
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: It just makes me gag. I can't do it.
• 42:56
  Speaker 5: So, so he was like, um, so he was like, well,
• 42:59
  Speaker 5: you know, they say guys give the best head.
• 43:04
  Speaker 4: And I said, oh, I said, who was that? He
• 43:07
  Speaker 4: was like, oh, my homeboy said it.
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: Interesting.
• 43:10
  Speaker 4: Catch. The homeboy. The same homeboy.
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: Wait a minute.
• 43:14
  Speaker 5: Remember I said I saw him with a homeboy at
• 43:16
  Speaker 5: the sweet lounge. That homeboy told him.
• 43:20
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 43:21
  Speaker 5: So I'm like, well, what y'all just doing discussing that for?
• 43:24
  Speaker 5: He was like, well, there's some interest there. I don't
• 43:28
  Speaker 5: know if I'll go the whole way as far as intercourse,
• 43:31
  Speaker 5: but I have been interested in And he said that he,
• 43:36
  Speaker 5: you know, watched porn, you know, sidebar a lot of
• 43:42
  Speaker 5: guys that I meet say that. I'm like, well, what
• 43:45
  Speaker 5: made you want to walk this way? And they were like,
• 43:48
  Speaker 5: I was in porn. And I clicked on it and
• 43:51
  Speaker 5: I seen it and it was interesting. I promise you,
• 43:53
  Speaker 5: I've heard that a thousand times. So a lot of
• 43:56
  Speaker 5: these porn tabs is turning niggas out.
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: I mean, that's what it's meant to do. That's why
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: even young kids should not be watching porn. It just
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: desensitizes you and just sends you to a bunch of
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: shit you ain't ready for. That's what it's supposed to do.
• 44:11
  Speaker 5: So I'm like, so basically you want me to do that.
• 44:15
  Speaker 5: And she was like, I mean, if you're down. And
• 44:19
  Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm not really into it.
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: I would have been like, I like to get my
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: dick sucked, sir.
• 44:26
  Speaker 4: But I don't.
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: The fuck?
• 44:28
  Speaker 4: I'm going to touch me not.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: Are you? Oh, okay.
• 44:32
  Speaker 3: I'm going to touch me not. What do that mean?
• 44:35
  Speaker 4: Don't touch me.
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: At all?
• 44:38
  Speaker 4: I handle that. And if you, and within a course,
• 44:42
  Speaker 4: within a course.
• 44:44
  Speaker 5: You know, everybody knows the G-spot is in the anus
• 44:47
  Speaker 5: for a male. So if, you know, you're doing what
• 44:50
  Speaker 5: you're supposed to do, I'll, you know, naturally have a
• 44:57
  Speaker 5: explosion without even touching it.
• 45:02
  Speaker 4: So, I prefer to get mine that way. You know.
• 45:07
  Speaker 5: So, I was like, I don't do it. So, like,
• 45:13
  Speaker 5: he kept asking me, y'all, so I feel bad for him.
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: You gave him some pity head.
• 45:20
  Speaker 4: Yo!
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: Yo!
• 45:24
  Speaker 4: Y'all, After that, I got hooked.
• 45:34
  Speaker 5: After that, like, on me every day, sending car services
• 45:39
  Speaker 5: for me to come to the house. Or at this point,
• 45:42
  Speaker 5: it was like, we can go out together. We can
• 45:44
  Speaker 5: go get something to eat. Like, it wasn't even nothing.
• 45:46
  Speaker 5: Because like she said, like, I don't do too much.
• 45:49
  Speaker 4: So, you know. I'm cool.
• 45:51
  Speaker 5: So, you know, a lot of guys don't mind being comfortable.
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: A lot of guys don't mind hanging out with me.
• 45:59
  Speaker 4: Like, that even goes, especially in my hometown.
• 46:01
  Speaker 5: Like, everybody knows me from just being out and, you know,
• 46:04
  Speaker 5: just being popular.
• 46:05
  Speaker 4: Around the city.
• 46:06
  Speaker 5: So, it's not abnormal for a straight guy to be
• 46:09
  Speaker 5: communicating with me or hanging with me. So, people don't
• 46:11
  Speaker 5: never think about it like that. So, that's why I
• 46:13
  Speaker 5: say I'm a little different because, you know, when I
• 46:16
  Speaker 5: talk to this one guy that does hair out here, um,
• 46:20
  Speaker 5: And he was basically saying to me, like, you know,
• 46:22
  Speaker 5: it's like I'd be ostracized. Like, I don't see how
• 46:25
  Speaker 5: you get to coexist and go to these clubs and
• 46:27
  Speaker 5: stuff like that and be comfortable.
• 46:28
  Speaker 4: And it's like it's just how it's always been. And like,
• 46:30
  Speaker 4: I don't I don't know. So a lot of stereotypes
• 46:37
  Speaker 4: in the ways.
• 46:38
  Speaker 5: That, you know, gay people operate and stuff is a
• 46:41
  Speaker 5: little different sometimes for me because.
• 46:44
  Speaker 4: It's different. You know what I mean? Like, I haven't.
• 46:46
  Speaker 4: Because you don't have to move like that.
• 46:48
  Speaker 5: I don't have to move like that a lot of times.
• 46:51
  Speaker 4: It's not that I didn't have to.
• 46:53
  Speaker 5: You know, sometimes, like, sometimes you see somebody, you're like, whatever,
• 46:55
  Speaker 5: you want to try to make yourself noticed or whatever
• 46:57
  Speaker 5: and put yourself.
• 46:58
  Speaker 4: In the arena.
• 46:59
  Speaker 5: But a lot of times, like, especially when Snapchat came around.
• 47:06
  Speaker 5: When Snapchat came, it was like a DL trade Manhattan.
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: Because it was a delete right after video.
• 47:15
  Speaker 4: That's where it goes down.
• 47:18
  Speaker 5: I get some of everything like dicks, buttholes, titties, pussies,
• 47:25
  Speaker 5: you name it.
• 47:27
  Speaker 4: I'm getting it.
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: I had a Hispanic guy I used to work with, right?
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: Who I befriended. And we started like chatting on the
• 47:35
  Speaker 2: phone and stuff like that. And this nigga would always
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: send me ass shots. And I'm like, I'm a woman.
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: Why are you sending me your ass? Like how I
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: would get in the mirror and take a butt shot.
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: He would send me pictures like that. Is that a cue?
• 47:52
  Speaker 4: I was confused. I mean, I guess now everybody.
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: Don't act like you ain't pegged a nigga before.
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: I've never pegged anyone. Have you pegged him?
• 48:03
  Speaker 3: No, not yet.
• 48:06
  Speaker 4: What you doing after this? What you doing after this?
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: I was trying to get a guy on that I
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: met online who's into that. And he actually said he
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: was with a trans guy once, but he doesn't like it.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: So he does do like the pegging with women though.
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: I was trying to get him on so he could
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: talk about that shit.
• 48:28
  Speaker 4: No.
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: Personally, I'll do some fingers, but no, I'm not strapping
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: up on a man.
• 48:34
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I don't want a man that wants that.
• 48:38
  Speaker 4: To each his own.
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
• 48:42
  Speaker 3: I just want to feel that powerful. Like, yeah, I'm
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: fucking this shit.
• 48:45
  Speaker 4: Out of you. But you really are.
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: But are you going to like him afterwards? Like, you're
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: going to smut him out and not talk to him again.
• 48:52
  Speaker 3: Well, I don't think it would be with somebody. It
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: wouldn't be your man. The type of men that I
• 48:55
  Speaker 3: like wouldn't want that, you know? It'd just be like
• 48:58
  Speaker 3: for an experience.
• 48:59
  Speaker 4: That's me too. Like, the type of men that I want,
• 49:01
  Speaker 4: they don't. They wouldn't. Yeah. They wouldn't want to do that.
• 49:05
  Speaker 4: They want to smut. Throw the penis. But back to
• 49:10
  Speaker 4: the guy, right?
• 49:12
  Speaker 5: Because he turned out to be very obsessive and fucking weird.
• 49:20
  Speaker 4: Right so i'm popping i'm hot like i'm.
• 49:26
  Speaker 5: In atlanta and i'm with the who's who doing the
• 49:29
  Speaker 5: who's what and he started being like, oh, I don't
• 49:35
  Speaker 5: like you going there.
• 49:36
  Speaker 4: I don't like you going to that place, that studio, that,
• 49:39
  Speaker 4: why are you with them? I know them. How you
• 49:40
  Speaker 4: know them? Huh?
• 49:43
  Speaker 5: Then, he would do things like, I'll be just casually
• 49:47
  Speaker 5: mentioned that I want to go to this concert.
• 49:49
  Speaker 4: Oh, this concert coming?
• 49:50
  Speaker 5: Oh, now I come back to Columbia. Totally forget about
• 49:54
  Speaker 5: the concert. Then he's like, oh, you ain't, he hit me.
• 49:59
  Speaker 5: Mind you, we're talking the whole time I'm back in Columbia.
• 50:01
  Speaker 5: He's talking to me. Every day, nothing's changed. We're still
• 50:05
  Speaker 5: on the vibe. And then he goes, oh, so you're
• 50:08
  Speaker 5: not coming back today? I'm like, why would I be
• 50:10
  Speaker 5: coming back today?
• 50:11
  Speaker 4: I told y'all I'm coming back next week. Oh, yeah,
• 50:13
  Speaker 4: because you said you wanted to go to that concert.
• 50:14
  Speaker 4: I got tickets.
• 50:16
  Speaker 5: You would tell me that now at like 7 o'clock.
• 50:19
  Speaker 5: The concert started at 8, and I'm in Columbia, South Carolina,
• 50:21
  Speaker 5: and you're in Atlanta.
• 50:23
  Speaker 4: Stupid shit.
• 50:24
  Speaker 5: Then... My birthday was coming up and it was a
• 50:29
  Speaker 5: Supreme hoodie that I want. It was so dope. It
• 50:31
  Speaker 5: was like pink and it had like the Supreme. It
• 50:33
  Speaker 5: was different from all the Supreme hoodies at the time.
• 50:35
  Speaker 5: Everybody was getting the same basic ones. And I wanted
• 50:37
  Speaker 5: that one, right? So I showed him just like, oh,
• 50:40
  Speaker 5: I think I want this for my birthday. So I'm
• 50:42
  Speaker 5: trying to get him away on my birthday.
• 50:44
  Speaker 4: That's ugly. Like, why the fuck? No. Like, nah, you
• 50:48
  Speaker 4: can get better drip than that. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
• 50:51
  Speaker 4: Week or so later, you FaceTime me with the hoodie on.
• 50:57
  Speaker 4: The one that I wanted. The one that was so ugly.
• 51:01
  Speaker 5: Oh, no.
• 51:02
  Speaker 4: Let's see.
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: What the fuck?
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: He wanted it.
• 51:05
  Speaker 4: It was so weird. It was so weird. And then
• 51:07
  Speaker 4: he ended up getting, like, cut and have to go
• 51:09
  Speaker 4: play overseas and all that.
• 51:11
  Speaker 5: And.
• 51:15
  Speaker 4: He was trying to get me to go to Turkey. Like,
• 51:17
  Speaker 4: I'm not coming to Turkey. Like... No. Like, I'm not
• 51:21
  Speaker 4: coming over there. And then he would get mad. And
• 51:22
  Speaker 4: then he started, like, making pages. Like... To like stop
• 51:27
  Speaker 4: me because I had blocked them.
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: What was his sign?
• 51:30
  Speaker 4: He was a Scorpio. I think.
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: Them motherfuckers do be nuts.
• 51:37
  Speaker 3: And nasty. They like the nasty shit.
• 51:40
  Speaker 4: He just became weird. Like weird as fuck. Weird as hell.
• 51:43
  Speaker 5: Like mad when he seen people liking my pictures or
• 51:48
  Speaker 5: just people that.
• 51:49
  Speaker 4: He might make known. Hell, you got jealous of TK?
• 51:52
  Speaker 4: I'm like, that's my trainer.
• 51:57
  Speaker 3: Like, that's both of our trainers.
• 51:58
  Speaker 5: Yeah, he's, like, huge. I don't like huge, big-ass guys
• 52:01
  Speaker 5: like that. Because I got a smart mouth, and I
• 52:03
  Speaker 5: don't want to get.
• 52:06
  Speaker 4: Hit. So I try to tend to talk to guys
• 52:07
  Speaker 4: that I feel like we might can, you know. Right.
• 52:12
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 52:17
  Speaker 5: I want to be able to talk to. So it
• 52:20
  Speaker 5: just got weird. So I would consider him a trade
• 52:23
  Speaker 5: because down low guys don't get in their feelings. So,
• 52:26
  Speaker 5: I said all that to say I think that's the
• 52:29
  Speaker 5: difference between a DL guy is strictly about the late
• 52:34
  Speaker 5: night encounter and we're out. We're not texting, we're not talking,
• 52:38
  Speaker 5: we're not communicating with a trade. They'll literally have a
• 52:41
  Speaker 5: relationship with you.
• 52:42
  Speaker 3: A relationship?
• 52:44
  Speaker 5: That's just not public or known. And the thing, and
• 52:46
  Speaker 5: it's so easy for me to have those type of relationships.
• 52:48
  Speaker 5: I know you were saying that your friend was saying
• 52:51
  Speaker 5: that he never got picked and that's how he feel
• 52:52
  Speaker 5: like that.
• 52:53
  Speaker 4: I mean, I've been through that before.
• 52:55
  Speaker 5: But I don't want to be P. A lot of
• 52:58
  Speaker 5: guys be weird. Like when the DL guys do talk
• 52:59
  Speaker 5: to me, they're like, oh, you know, I'm DL. We
• 53:01
  Speaker 5: can't do this. We can't do that. We can't say this.
• 53:04
  Speaker 5: But before they can say that to me nowadays, I'd
• 53:05
  Speaker 5: be like, well, you know, I don't really want to
• 53:08
  Speaker 5: run my business.
• 53:08
  Speaker 4: We can't do this. And they'd be looking at me like,
• 53:10
  Speaker 4: God damn, I was ready to tell you the same shit.
• 53:16
  Speaker 3: So you're very discreet.
• 53:17
  Speaker 4: When have you ever.
• 53:19
  Speaker 5: known me to publicly speak on who I'm dating. Now,
• 53:22
  Speaker 5: people may have figured it out and put us on
• 53:25
  Speaker 5: blast and all that. You know what I'm talking about.
• 53:27
  Speaker 5: But other than that.
• 53:29
  Speaker 4: You can't. You can't. You can't.
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 53:33
  Speaker 4: I like doing it.
• 53:35
  Speaker 5: And to be honest, it's a lot of scrutiny with
• 53:38
  Speaker 5: coming out with somebody and being in a relationship. And
• 53:41
  Speaker 5: not that I'm afraid of it because it's not like
• 53:43
  Speaker 5: people don't know what, how I get down, but I
• 53:45
  Speaker 5: just kind of felt like I haven't really met the
• 53:47
  Speaker 5: guy that's worth going through the scrutiny with. Like if
• 53:49
  Speaker 5: I meet a guy that's like, okay, we want to
• 53:51
  Speaker 5: go public and we want to do this and I
• 53:53
  Speaker 5: feel like you're worth it. And that's one thing, but
• 53:55
  Speaker 5: it's like, well, I want to be arguing with people
• 53:57
  Speaker 5: on the internet and all kinds of shit about a
• 53:58
  Speaker 5: nigga that ain't shit.
• 54:00
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 54:01
  Speaker 3: That's my life.
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: So, so my question, so niggas ain't shit. On the
• 54:07
  Speaker 2: heterosexual side. So they ain't shit over there either. Because
• 54:10
  Speaker 2: the heterosexual men be acting like women tripping.
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 54:13
  Speaker 2: So they're still men. So are the treats better on
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: the other side?
• 54:19
  Speaker 4: They are. And it's even worse because.
• 54:21
  Speaker 3: Still just people.
• 54:22
  Speaker 4: It's worse because they have they don't just have women.
• 54:26
  Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
• 54:27
  Speaker 5: Now they can pick men and trans and whatever flows
• 54:31
  Speaker 5: their boat.
• 54:32
  Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
• 54:33
  Speaker 5: So it's like a wider spectrum of who they have
• 54:36
  Speaker 5: to pick from. And I tend to realize and find
• 54:39
  Speaker 5: out over the years that gay men with a bisexual deal, whatever,
• 54:44
  Speaker 5: are very super sexual. Like, everything is sex and everything
• 54:50
  Speaker 5: is sexualized, I should say.
• 54:53
  Speaker 4: Like, you know what I mean?
• 54:54
  Speaker 3: Like, You said with gay men or download?
• 54:58
  Speaker 4: With gay men. I said to download to trade all
• 54:59
  Speaker 4: of them.
• 55:01
  Speaker 2: Download as gay. Trade as gay.
• 55:03
  Speaker 4: Let's be very clear. I had this one guy, y'all,
• 55:07
  Speaker 4: that I was communicating with, right?
• 55:11
  Speaker 5: And we was just communicating and we was just having
• 55:14
  Speaker 5: a regular conversation and we didn't last long. We literally
• 55:18
  Speaker 5: was talking for like two weeks and he said something.
• 55:22
  Speaker 5: I can't remember exactly what he said, but He was like, yeah,
• 55:26
  Speaker 5: but I'm straight.
• 55:28
  Speaker 4: Da-da-da-da-da-da. So I was like, well, you've had sex with
• 55:32
  Speaker 4: men before? He was like, yeah. And I was like, well,
• 55:34
  Speaker 4: you're not straight. He got offended and never talked to
• 55:38
  Speaker 4: me again.
• 55:40
  Speaker 2: And see.
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: Because there are men out there that identify... Look at me.
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: I be saying I ain't gay and then be eating
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: pussy sometimes on the weekend.
• 55:46
  Speaker 2: But we already know that's different. Men are like... I mean,
• 55:49
  Speaker 2: not double. It's like a.
• 55:50
  Speaker 4: I mean, it's different. It's different.
• 55:53
  Speaker 2: Gay women and gay men. It's different.
• 55:54
  Speaker 5: Although I don't Subscribe to that. But it's different. It's
• 55:58
  Speaker 5: different in the way society looks at it.
• 56:00
  Speaker 4: It's different. It's just different. You know what I mean?
• 56:03
  Speaker 4: It's ill when it's two guys and it's sexy when
• 56:05
  Speaker 4: it's two girls. You know what I mean?
• 56:08
  Speaker 3: They was just drunk. Girls would be girls.
• 56:10
  Speaker 4: Girls would be girls. What about guys and guys?
• 56:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 56:13
  Speaker 4: Nothing. You have a popsicle. Just have it.
• 56:23
  Speaker 3: Just having a good time, watching the game, sucking a
• 56:26
  Speaker 3: little dick.
• 56:26
  Speaker 2: And that does get on my nerve when niggas, you
• 56:28
  Speaker 2: act like you can't eat a banana. You can't eat
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: a popsicle.
• 56:32
  Speaker 3: The hot dog.
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: I be eating the glizzy like, I be breaking it
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: too because it just feel weird to be putting that
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: in my mouth too.
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: That type of shit is homophobic. That's homophobic if you
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: can't just do regular shit because it's an issue. Why
• 56:43
  Speaker 2: is your brain even thinking in that way? And I
• 56:45
  Speaker 2: had a conversation with a friend last night. He's a
• 56:47
  Speaker 2: heterosexual man.
• 56:48
  Speaker 4: Nothing.
• 56:48
  Speaker 2: But I told him what we were doing the show
• 56:50
  Speaker 2: on today, right? And he was like, you know, Um,
• 56:54
  Speaker 2: he said he has a cousin. Every time he speaks
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: to him, he's like saying somebody's dropping F-bombs and stuff
• 56:59
  Speaker 2: like that. And he was like, half the time, I
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: don't even be knowing who's gay. I said, because you
• 57:04
  Speaker 2: don't care. You don't care whether or not a man
• 57:06
  Speaker 2: is gay. Men who like go out their way to care,
• 57:10
  Speaker 2: to me, that's definitely a sign. That's definitely a sign.
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: Or when they mean or don't want the server to
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: be the server because they gay.
• 57:19
  Speaker 2: I've been with a man where he always recognized gay
• 57:23
  Speaker 2: shit that's not even on my radar. Like two gay
• 57:25
  Speaker 2: men taking a picture and kissing off in a cut somewhere.
• 57:28
  Speaker 2: How did you even notice that? I saw it, but
• 57:30
  Speaker 2: it didn't register in my mind because.
• 57:32
  Speaker 4: I don't know. You don't care.
• 57:33
  Speaker 2: These are just human beings.
• 57:34
  Speaker 4: I always say.
• 57:35
  Speaker 2: But why do you care so much?
• 57:37
  Speaker 4: Why does that bother you so much?
• 57:38
  Speaker 5: I always say it's too many straight guys concerned about
• 57:41
  Speaker 5: gay people's bedroom. One thing about it.
• 57:44
  Speaker 4: As a straight man, you don't go to your homeboy
• 57:45
  Speaker 4: and be like, hey, did you fuck your wife last night?
• 57:48
  Speaker 4: You feel what I'm saying? So why does it matter
• 57:49
  Speaker 4: what I did in my bedroom? Right. Why does it matter?
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: Exactly. And also, another thing I want heterosexual men or
• 57:57
  Speaker 2: supposed heterosexual men to understand is, Gay men have preference.
• 58:02
  Speaker 2: Just because this is a gay man, that don't mean
• 58:03
  Speaker 2: he want to fuck you, nigga.
• 58:04
  Speaker 3: He want to fuck you.
• 58:05
  Speaker 5: Oh, my goodness.
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: You spoke a thousand words with that one. Because that's annoying. Like, damn,
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: he not trying.
• 58:10
  Speaker 4: To help you.
• 58:11
  Speaker 3: I swear to God.
• 58:11
  Speaker 4: Like, you can't even get bitches.
• 58:12
  Speaker 2: We don't want you and them niggas don't want you. Exactly.
• 58:16
  Speaker 4: You can't even get bitches.
• 58:17
  Speaker 5: Yes.
• 58:18
  Speaker 4: Like, my mom and girl told.
• 58:19
  Speaker 5: Me one time.
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: Gay men have preference.
• 58:20
  Speaker 4: Gay people have preference. My mom and girl told me
• 58:22
  Speaker 4: one time. She was like, listen. She was like, guys
• 58:24
  Speaker 4: are definitely going to come. Guys are going to come
• 58:26
  Speaker 4: for you. Why?
• 58:27
  Speaker 5: Because you're a all your homegirls are bad bitches. So
• 58:30
  Speaker 5: why wouldn't you be the bad homeboy that's with the
• 58:32
  Speaker 5: bad bitches? We're all bad bitches. So it's like, you're
• 58:35
  Speaker 5: no different.
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 58:36
  Speaker 4: So it's just like, I didn't look at it like that.
• 58:38
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying?
• 58:38
  Speaker 5: But I definitely understand that thing about preference.
• 58:42
  Speaker 4: Like, you don't have to be homophobic, bro.
• 58:44
  Speaker 5: I wouldn't fuck you with a 10-foot condom and three,
• 58:46
  Speaker 5: 10-foot pole with three condoms wrapped to the.
• 58:47
  Speaker 4: End of it.
• 58:49
  Speaker 5: So you can go about your business. Like, and a
• 58:51
  Speaker 5: lot of them be fat with no teeth.
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: And relaxed.
• 58:54
  Speaker 4: Boy, bye.
• 58:56
  Speaker 2: Are you able to give us, like, some signs? women
• 58:58
  Speaker 2: can look for in their man.
• 59:02
  Speaker 5: Y'all definitely picked up on the constant gay bashing, the
• 59:07
  Speaker 5: constant gay conversation, the homophobia in just anything that they do. Like,
• 59:14
  Speaker 5: can't watch or see something on a movie or a
• 59:17
  Speaker 5: TV show or, you know, that's definitely.
• 59:22
  Speaker 3: Come on, watch P-Valley with me.
• 59:24
  Speaker 2: Come on. Nah, P-Valley is a bit much. I can
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: understand why a heterosexual man Wouldn't want to watch P-Val.
• 59:31
  Speaker 3: Boy, watch that shit with me.
• 59:32
  Speaker 2: Dog, when that nigga spit in his hand, to put
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: that spit....
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: I was like, ew. Why you can't watch it? You
• 59:41
  Speaker 3: ain't got to participate.
• 59:42
  Speaker 4: You ain't trying to participate.
• 59:44
  Speaker 5: The only reason why I would think that you wouldn't.
• 59:47
  Speaker 4: Want to watch that is because you don't want to
• 59:49
  Speaker 4: be aroused.
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: No, I'm saying, not me. I'm not talking about you.
• 59:54
  Speaker 4: Oh, okay.
• 59:57
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 59:58
  Speaker 3: Because it's not like.
• 59:59
  Speaker 4: They'd be like, I'm just not.
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 3: Used to talking about the show.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 5: Homosexual sex all the time. If you get a scene
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 5: or two, you know what I mean? Like, come on,
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 5: you can get past this 30-second scene. It's not the
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 5: end of your life.
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 3: Right, for the big picture of the show, because it's
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 3: not just.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 5: Because honestly, that's what's going on in the world. There
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 5: are gay people in the world. So why would that
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 5: be depicted on television?
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 2: And that's always my thing.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 5: Well, now, I don't agree with the whole changing cartoon
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 5: characters and all that and making cartoon characters gay and
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 5: gay characters on Sesame Street.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 4: Now, leave well enough alone.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 5: If you want to create a new cartoon that's gay and,
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 5: you know, you want to push that and the parents
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 5: or the children that choose to watch that or allow
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 5: the children to watch that, then that's true.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 4: But don't do it to our classics. You know what
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 4: I mean? Leave that alone.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 5: Now, I will agree with the straight people when they
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 5: say leave Spider-Man and all these people alone.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 4: I get it.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 5: But I just feel like People just act like it's
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 5: not going on in the world. Like it's definitely gay.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 5: And it's 2022.
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 2: It definitely exists.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: I don't like that they turn old characters gay or
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: something like that. They could create a new character and
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: make them gay. That's what I feel like.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 3: Like a gay Muppet baby. You can't make Burton gay now. Like,
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 3: come on now.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 2: But what they were saying was they were always gay.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 3: They just wasn't.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 2: They did.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 4: Yes. So they was the trade. Bernie was trade.
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: Look, here's another sign I want to point out. Did y'all,
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 2: do y'all watch, have y'all watched the current season of
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 2: Real Housewives of Atlanta?
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 4: No.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 2: There was a clip online. I might've been on a
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: show recently, but it was all of them at a table,
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 2: but the spotlight was on Drew Sidora and her husband,
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: Ralph Pittman. And we've had Drew Sedora on We Talk
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 2: Back before, right? He's a super, he's just nasty towards
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: her oftentimes. He's real narcissistic. Sharae basically pulled out receipts
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: from Drew Sedora's assistant that Ralph is gay. And I
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 2: feel like a sign to women, I feel like when
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 2: men are just overly mean to women, they fight.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 5: Or they always got anything, um, Issues with what women
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 5: do or what women wear or just trying to control women.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 4: That's true, too. And also what I realized.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 2: Or even hitting women, beating women. I feel like the
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 2: men who beat women is like the last thing they
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 2: can hold on to to prove that they're a man.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 4: I can see that, too.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 5: Also, I've noticed that a lot of guys that are
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 5: like bisexual or like, you know, gay. and they want
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 5: to front, like, they, you know, still straight, and they
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 5: got the wives and the kids. They always go for, like,
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 5: white women or.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 4: Like, others.
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 2: Because they be down for that.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 3: And it's black.
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 2: I've learned as of the last couple weeks, because y'all
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 2: know I be on Clubhouse and shit, that there are
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 2: a lot of black women out here that's okay with
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 2: bisexual men, too. So, to me, it's all about being
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 2: upfront about what you want. But you first got to
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 2: learn for yourself. And then you can find somebody that's
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 2: for that shit.
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: And see, y'all forgot the biggest sign. And we talked
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: about it. The white beater in different colors outside of
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: black and white.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 4: Word.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 2: Because I swear I never seen a blue white beater.
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 4: Listen, I got burgundy. I got blue. What you want
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 4: to do? But no.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 2: Okay. But no, it's.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 5: Well, I'm telling you, it's so many, but sometimes you
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 5: just really can't tell. I mean, you know, people are
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 5: just that good, just that good at, you know what
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 5: I mean, being discreet.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 2: Being discreet.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 5: I mean, that's the point of being discreet. Nobody's supposed
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 5: to know. So, you know, if you're not, if people know,
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 5: then you're not discreet. So, I mean, I think that
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 5: a lot of people think that signs of gayness is
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 5: always a switch or a, you know what I mean?
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 5: And this, everybody's not there. Everybody's not, don't, everybody don't
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 5: operate like that. Everybody don't move like that. Every, and another,
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 5: another thing, I know I'm jumping all over the place,
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 5: but another thing I also want people to understand is
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 5: femininity doesn't, also doesn't mean gay.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 4: You can be feminine and not be gay.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 5: A lot of people, a lot of people equate feminine
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 5: men to being gay. Some men are just feminine. You know,
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 5: they don't necessarily have to be gay. Um, So that's
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 5: another misconception that I need people to clear up. Just
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 5: because you see somebody's family, that.
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 4: Don't mean they gay.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 2: Right. I'm a firm believer in there don't be no
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 2: gay shit come out about real niggas. So something comes
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 2: out about a supposed heterosexual man being gay nine times
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: out of ten is true. I've found.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 4: What I've learned is a lot of gay guys don't lie.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 2: People just go around saying you're gay.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 4: I've noticed that.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 5: I've seen some guys get exposed and it's like, oh yeah,
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 5: she's definitely going to actually try me.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 4: So that person is not lying.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying? So it's just like, I've
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 5: never been the exposed type. Because you don't get new
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 5: niggas if you're exposed to old dumbass hoes.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you weaponizing being gay.
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 5: That's how I always keep a nigga. Because they can
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 5: never say they see me putting the last one out.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 5: You feel what I'm saying? But it's definitely girls that
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 5: don't care. Like my ex, right? He's no longer with us.
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 5: But he, at a point, with his girl, baby mama, whatever,
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 5: they was going back and forth.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 4: You know how that go? I ain't with her. We
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 4: just live together. I was getting that type of vibes.
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 4: So she put him out for whatever reason. I don't know.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 5: So he had no being here. He had no came
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 5: and stayed with me. And it was going on like
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 5: week two. Now, typically he would watch his kids during
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 5: the day while she went to school or work or
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 5: whatever she did. So while she put him out, she had,
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 5: I guess, found an alternative and all that because she
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 5: was still being upset with him. So she didn't want
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 5: to ask him to watch the baby. So I guess
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 5: she got tired of trying to find babysitters and stuff.
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 5: So she texted him. I seen him being on his phone.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 5: I had a picture of him on my phone. I
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 5: put his picture on my phone up to his lock screen.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 4: And it worked, bitch.
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 3: Damn.
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 4: Tried. Wow. So, get in his phone.
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 5: And I read her text messages. She's basically saying, I
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 5: know you with and I don't give a fuck if
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 5: you need to.
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 4: I know you with.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 5: I looked at his phone and she's like, oh, I
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 5: know you with C. she was like, you can watch
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 5: the son over there.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 4: I don't care.
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: That bitch had to go to work. She got tired
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: of playing with y'all. She's like, get this baby and
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: take him over there.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 3: I don't give a damn.
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 5: Y'all might complain. Y'all have to blame this next part
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 5: out too. She ended up killing.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 4: Him last year. So it's been a year in April
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 4: of last year. She killed him.
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 3: She killed him.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 5: Rumor has it Why? It was because she found out
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 5: he was gay. I beg to differ because of the
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 5: text messages I saw. She knew for that was that
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 5: happened like that happened like maybe a year prior to
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 5: him being dead, getting killed.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 4: So you knew.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 3: I feel like I know what you're talking about. Was
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 3: that in South Carolina?
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 3: And she was helping them look for her?
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 4: No.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 3: She was helping everybody look for her?
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 4: I know what you're talking about, though.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 5: But no, that wasn't it. This happened last year, last April.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 5: April 14th, to be exact.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 2: Damn, that's crazy.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 3: Damn, I'm sorry.
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 2: That's crazy. My ex-boyfriend, the daycare his daughter went to,
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 2: he would drop her off. So the kids knew him
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 2: as her daddy. Like, hey, whatever. They would all come over.
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 2: So I guess the mom saw how her son was
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 2: interacting with him. So when he left the building, she
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 2: ran out after him like distraught and asked him, how
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 2: did he know her son? He was like, I mean,
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 2: your son is in a daycare with my daughter. Like
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 2: I see the kids every day. And she was like,
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 2: you know, I've been going through stuff with his dad.
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 2: She found out the dad was gay.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 2: So now she's trying to figure out who the man
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 2: is that the daddy's sleeping with. So you just going
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 2: to run up on every nigga that interact with your child?
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 2: Like you think this man has had like just random
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 2: niggas around your kid? Like that shit, I was like,
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 2: you know what? that shit is literally driving her crazy
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 2: it drove.
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 5: Her crazy listen I can imagine I can imagine I
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 5: never try to contribute to those situations but a lot
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 5: of times you don't know until it's too late you
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 5: know what I mean I would you know especially in
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 5: the situation I was just talking about like he you
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 5: know basically said and the thing is she will be
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 5: online saying similar things like oh I ain't with my
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 5: baby daddy he just sleep on the couch and blah
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 5: blah blah so I'm like okay well he must be
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 5: telling me the truth because that's the same thing he's
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 5: telling me but then she ended up getting pregnant so
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 5: I knew that was a lie but yeah so it's
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 5: like and she got pregnant after he was staying with
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 5: me and all of that so.
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 4: Bitch you knew.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 5: So that's what to go back to what y'all was
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 5: saying like it's a lot of girls that don't I
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 5: guess that don't care right.
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 2: Did you stop fucking with him after.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 4: A while yeah yeah yeah.
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 5: We'll have to probably talk off of air about the
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 5: rest of it but a lot of it came to
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 5: a head and it caused me to like cut him
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 5: off but he never left me alone though of course
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 5: the bitch was fake number this fake page that trying.
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 3: To talk to the girl y'all had souls I mean
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 3: I love them he loved.
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 2: Me y'all bitches would be surprised who out here having
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 2: relationship issues with your nigga What the fuck?
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 4: That was my nigga.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 3: He come in the house with an attitude.
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 4: That was my nigga. I tell you, I don't do this. Like,
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 4: I promise you.
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 5: Like, you know how you can see, like I was
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 5: looking the other day, you know how you can go
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 5: to somebody's cash app, like your cash app, you can
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 5: see like your cash app history with someone, like how
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 5: much money they sent you. Yeah.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 2: I might got penis envy right now. What the fuck? Like,
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 2: I want that.
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 5: Why don't you have it? Look at you. Your beauty
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 5: mark is even more than mine.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 3: I don't know what you're talking about. Oh, hey, we twins.
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 4: Girl, please.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 2: So, y'all, we're going to go to commercial right quick.
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 2: And when we come back, we're going to see if
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 2: Big C has a dumb bitch story for us. Okay.
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 4: Don't be sorry. Boy, there's no real easy way to
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 4: say this, but look, you're a Sith.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 2: You could be a simp because you are a man.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 2: You could be a simp. Simp series is equivalent to
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 2: a dumb bitch story. So we're not calling people dumb bitches.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 2: We're not calling niggas simps. It's just somebody who got
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 2: taken advantage of. A nice person who got played, right?
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 2: And maybe stayed a little bit too fucking long. So
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 2: I know you got a story or three for us.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 2: Just one, though. Tell us about a time you got played, child.
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 2: Nigga got you out of some money, something.
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 5: Oh, oof.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 3: Hurt your feelings.
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 2: Who you done gave some money to?
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 4: So, this was literally this year.
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 2: Nigga, it's June 1st. So, first two quarters you got played.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: It's okay because the rest of the year is going
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: to be a comeback season.
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 3: You don't even worry about it.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 2: Well, you got some of your PPP.
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 4: I wish I got a PPP. They didn't let me.
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 4: They denied me. I tried.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 5: Okay, so I was communicating with this person, right? And
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 5: he was curious but was afraid. And I was just, like,
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 5: really liking him. And it was just, like, vibes. So, like,
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 5: I wanted to do what we said earlier. that I
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 5: didn't like. No, I wanted to. Like, I wanted to
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 5: because I liked him, right? So he was like, oh, no, no, no, no, no,
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 5: I can't, I can't. So I was like, I'll pay you.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 5: So he was like, okay. So I was like, I
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 5: had $ 100. He was like, no. He kept knowing me
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 5: until we got to $ 600.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 3: You paid $ 600 to suck some dick?
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 4: I was sending y'all the cash out.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 5: That's the way to go y'all if I'm lying I
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 5: got HIV.
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 4: Laughing So, I gave him the $ 600.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 2: That nigga's a bad bitch. He got your ass.
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 5: Listen, I gave him cash number $ 600. So, then it, like,
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 5: took him forever. Like, he wasn't, like, responding. So, I
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 5: thought he was trying to play me. So, then I'm getting, like,
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 5: threatening him. Like, bitch, I know you're not motherfucking playing
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 5: on me. Bitch, I'll tell everybody you motherfucking gay. Like,
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 5: come back, motherfucker.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 4: Like, so, he was like, oh, everybody's trying to trick you.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 4: I don't know $ 600.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 5: That ain't nothing. I was like, bitch, please, you were
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 5: asking for the money. So, therefore, it's something. You know
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying? So, he came, right?
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 4: He came. He pulled up. So I get down to
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 4: doing it, and he would not get hard.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 5: Oh.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 4: He just wasn't into it.
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 5: And he already got my $ 6, 000, and I didn't get
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 5: to suck no dick.
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 4: And I don't even like sucking dick. And he was
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 4: a little tired. Damn, yeah.
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 3: Oh, you saw a tart dip for $ 600. Tart lip
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 3: for $ 600.
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 4: Then, like, the white party was coming up.
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 5: So I'm like, oh, I want these prop shoes. They
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 5: was like $ 750. And I was looking at my account.
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 5: And I'm looking at it.
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 4: And I'm like, man, I could have got.
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 5: My own fucking prop shoes. I'm just trying to suck
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 5: some tart-ass, limp-ass dick. I swear to God, y'all, I'm
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 5: not lying.
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 4: And then, like, he texted me, like, I'll fuck you
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 4: for $ 1, 500. What? Like, no, I'm done with you.
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 4: I mean, I did.
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 5: I used to buy weed from him.
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 4: He was one of the weed guys. He was one
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 4: of the weed guys.
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 2: So he's not gay this guy no he.
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 5: I guess i think he realized in that moment yeah
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 5: or maybe but he'll be gay for pay.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 2: Obviously obviously okay that's another thing we didn't talk about
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 2: there's trade dl and there's gay for pay apparently right.
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 5: I guess i feel like if you i feel like
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 5: if you dare then you you're curious But I think what,
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 5: I think what a lot of people, so should we
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 5: give them a pass if they're curious?
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 4: Because curious means, wait.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 5: No.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 4: Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Because curious means that
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 4: you're exploring, right?
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 2: Exploring. It means you're exploring.
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 4: No, no, no, no. It means you're exploring.
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 5: Like, I'm curious about how, like, fucking frog legs taste
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 5: and I taste them.
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 4: That don't mean I'm a fucking frog leg eater. I don't.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 2: Like, I'm 37. After you eat it one time, you
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 2: a frogling. Yes, that's what I'm saying. But I don't
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 2: like it.
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 4: I'm 37.
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 2: I'm not about to eat pussy no time in my
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 2: lifetime because I don't like vagina. I don't like women
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 2: in that way. And I know that, right? If I
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 2: start eating pussy tomorrow, that means it's been on my
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 2: mind my whole life. That's really how I feel about it.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 2: I've been wanting to do this thing. That's how I feel.
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 4: No.
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 3: No, because I just kind of fell into some pussy.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 4: How?
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 2: How? But you were open to that. I was in college.
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 2: You were open to that. I was drunk.
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 3: I went to liquids. My friend was like, come to
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 3: the house.
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: Came to the house. Next thing you know, I was
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: getting my coochie egg back.
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 4: Do I know this ring?
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you probably do.
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 2: Yo, we got to get the fuck up out of here.
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 2: I really enjoyed this episode. I want you to come back.
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 2: I have to come back as myself. Y'all motherfuckers funny
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 2: as hell, man.
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: Yes, the next time you come back, you come back
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: as yourself and we can just have a conversation.
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 4: I got a lot of stuff to promote.
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 3: All things Big C.
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 2: This is your co-host AJ Holiday 2.0. Y'all follow me
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 2: on Instagram. I wish Big C could plug his shit
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 2: right now, but he ain't with that shit today. Next time.
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 3: He can't.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: So I'll plug mine. Y'all follow me on Instagram. I'm
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: Official Tambam.
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 3: I love y'all. Thank y'all for tuning in. And remember
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 3: to speak now.
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 2: And never hold your peace.