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CAN TWO BOYS DREAM COME TRUE??? · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables.
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  Speaker 2: You are about to be a part of something historic.
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  Speaker 2: You're going to be a part of a global radio
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  Speaker 2: premiere because the songs I am going to play you
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  Speaker 2: have never ever been played before on live radio, and
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  Speaker 3: songs from the EP Batty on the radio, and we
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  Speaker 1: But we know it's happening in six minutes. We're waiting
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  Speaker 1: for all three.
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  Speaker 3: To be played by a lovely baddie named Lisa on
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  Speaker 3: the radio station.
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  Speaker 1: But how are you feeling, Jake, I'm feeling very good,
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  Speaker 1: and I just don't want to miss anything.
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  Speaker 3: We've got six minutes out. I just want to start
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  Speaker 3: playing it now so we make sure we catch everything.
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  Speaker 3: So we're not going to mess around. Guys, this has
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  Speaker 3: been a fucking journey. We're so excited to share it
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  Speaker 3: with you. But just see what happens ten playing an
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Please Hello, Hello everyone, Leaspy Monday. You're tuned into
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  Speaker 2: eighty eight point seven KBBR Core Vallas. I'm Lisa hold
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  Speaker 2: Brand and I'm going to be your host for this
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  Speaker 2: upcoming hour, and I got to tell you everyone, I'm
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  Speaker 2: really really excited about what's coming this hour because anyone
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  Speaker 2: who is listening, that's you listeners, you are about to
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  Speaker 2: be a part of something historic. You're going to be
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  Speaker 2: a part of a global radio premiere because the songs
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  Speaker 2: I am going to play you have never ever been
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  Speaker 2: played before on live radio, and eighty eight point seven
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  Speaker 2: KBVR is the station that's going to be doing it.
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  Speaker 2: I know you're probably all freaking out right now, just
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  Speaker 2: as I am, so contain yourselves. Here's here's a little
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  Speaker 2: bit of background about what's going on. So the three
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  Speaker 2: songs that I'm going to play for you are from
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  Speaker 2: a newly released EP called Baddie. The songs have been
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  Speaker 2: written and performed by two amazing Australian dudes called Jake
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  Speaker 2: Craig and Audie Clark. They are the hosts of a
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  Speaker 2: podcast called Relatables. Relatables is a conversational podcast where Jake
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  Speaker 2: and Audie discuss relationships and love and just life in general,
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  Speaker 2: and they do it with a very feminist sort of
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  Speaker 2: take and perspective.
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  Speaker 5: Which is very refreshing.
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  Speaker 2: It's it's hilarious, it's informative and wholesome, but most of all,
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  Speaker 2: it's relatable. So yeah, just a plug there, give them
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  Speaker 2: a listen. You won't you won't regret it.
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  Speaker 6: There.
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  Speaker 2: It's a lot of fun anyway. So Jake and Audie
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  Speaker 2: they've created this EP of songs based on some of
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  Speaker 2: the conversations that they've had on the podcast. And when
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  Speaker 2: they released this EP a few weeks ago, they had
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  Speaker 2: a mission a campaign dare I say a dream? A
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  Speaker 2: dream to get one of their songs played on live radio. Well,
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  Speaker 2: here at KBVR, at OSU and Beaver Nation, we make
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  Speaker 2: dreams come true. So not only am I going to
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  Speaker 2: play one of their songs, I'm going to be playing
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  Speaker 2: their entire EP for this full hour because their songs
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  Speaker 2: deserve some love and you know, who knows, we might
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  Speaker 2: get bragging rights for making these guys music superstars. So
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  Speaker 2: the songs, they're a lot of fun. They're all very
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  Speaker 2: different genres, so I think there should be something here
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  Speaker 2: for everybody to enjoy. So that's my preface done. It's
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  Speaker 2: almost I'm for this global radio premiere of the Batty
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  Speaker 2: EP to happen. But before we get to it, Jake
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  Speaker 2: and Audie have recorded a special message for everyone listening
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  Speaker 2: on kbvr FM all.
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  Speaker 5: The way from Australia.
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  Speaker 2: And then right after you hear their little message, you
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  Speaker 2: will hear the first song from the EC which is
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  Speaker 2: called Love a Boy's Version. So get ready, everyone, hold
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  Speaker 2: on to your horses. You are about to be part
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  Speaker 2: of a global radio premiere.
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  Speaker 6: Enjoy.
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  Speaker 1: Hey guys, it's Jake and Audio from the Relatable and
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  Speaker 1: we're so excited to have our EP debuting on the
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  Speaker 1: radio at kb VRFM.
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  Speaker 3: This AP is called Battie, featuring three songs, Love a
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  Speaker 3: Boys Version. He's pav Salant and there's something in there
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  Speaker 3: for everyone.
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  Speaker 1: We hope you enjoy.
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  Speaker 7: Es it. Man, I think I'm in love.
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  Speaker 8: Come on, be realistic.
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  Speaker 3: Wait, no, I'm serious.
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  Speaker 8: I think this one's different.
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  Speaker 7: That's what you said the last time.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, for the last time, I didn't feel I think we.
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  Speaker 9: Set out makes deep, that two starts lasting.
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  Speaker 3: Shot, I'm gonna ask you to be my girlfriend already
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  Speaker 3: that kind of quick, maybe, but it just feels different.
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  Speaker 7: You're only twenty four.
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  Speaker 8: That I felt something, but don't feel whole. Maybe I
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  Speaker 8: have to maybe this is all lay side storm. I
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  Speaker 8: never had that.
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  Speaker 10: Ah like this, No, so I don't want gave me
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  Speaker 10: straight Hill, I can't scratch makes.
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  Speaker 8: A smile live.
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  Speaker 7: Like two stars.
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  Speaker 11: Last time the child that stop what if I love
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  Speaker 11: what she don't is saying, what's the moment?
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  Speaker 8: What if?
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  Speaker 3: That is my.
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  Speaker 8: What if? I if you take the chance, then take me.
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  Speaker 8: It's real. Hell, I can't despis sive.
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  Speaker 11: Guys were like two stars lasting to each other.
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  Speaker 10: But this time it's red Hill.
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  Speaker 8: And that's im a chance on that need to go.
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  Speaker 8: Maybe it's friend was me man, I think, I.
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  Speaker 7: Think I'm in love.
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  Speaker 5: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: So that was the first time that Love a Boys
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  Speaker 2: version from the EP bad D was played on the radio.
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  Speaker 5: I just I love that song.
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  Speaker 2: I can't you just picture a crowd full of people
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  Speaker 2: waving lighters and camera.
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  Speaker 5: Phone lights from left to right and swaying. It's just
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  Speaker 5: it's so, it's so great.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna we're gonna keep on going here With
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  Speaker 2: the second song from the e P this one is
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  Speaker 2: called his p O V.
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  Speaker 5: It's like I said.
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  Speaker 2: Earlier, there are a little bit of different genres, so
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  Speaker 2: this one's a little more a little more rocky, so enjoyed.
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  Speaker 1: This is his p O V.
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  Speaker 12: Yeah yeah, always missing in ambition, walking circles in my room,
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  Speaker 12: running off views, nothing too.
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  Speaker 8: She lets his jokes, but she's texting me to today's
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  Speaker 8: the day. That's where I was saying, my throat, but
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  Speaker 8: I still delay it.
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  Speaker 9: Still.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: I know that she's ready, that's ano fact. But do
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  Speaker 8: ever see me like that?
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  Speaker 7: I've been waiting what to do? You told me yet
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  Speaker 7: he'd let you down right, hanging around to about something
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  Speaker 7: but not too close.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, you mean right, Maybe it's stupid, maybe
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  Speaker 3: he's lay, but I'm tired of saying, say you look
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  Speaker 3: at me.
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  Speaker 6: I'm almost right, but never quiet and enough to find
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  Speaker 6: Why can't we give this a try?
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  Speaker 7: When you spray way way, my.
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  Speaker 1: Gosh, it's c O B.
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  Speaker 5: I love that one.
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  Speaker 2: It's so it's so fun, it's a rocky. So many
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  Speaker 2: good lines in that one. My favorite is she laughs
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  Speaker 2: at his joke, but she's texting me too.
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  Speaker 5: I just love it. It makes me. It makes me
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  Speaker 5: laugh every single time because it's so relatable. Am I right?
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  Speaker 8: Ladies?
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  Speaker 1: All right?
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  Speaker 2: For the third and final song of the EP, You
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  Speaker 2: know I love them all, but this one might be
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  Speaker 2: my favorite everyone. It's just it's it's it's dancy, it's upbeat,
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  Speaker 2: it's just so fun. So this third and final song
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  Speaker 2: of the batt e Ep is called Chalant, and I
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  Speaker 2: hope you enjoy it all.
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  Speaker 5: Right, here we go, He's well, I.
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  Speaker 1: Don't know how to liver in the eyes.
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  Speaker 13: Is the effort even worth this time? I missed the
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  Speaker 13: way we talked all night. Now it's just silence on
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  Speaker 13: both sides, and I'm holding on to something that's gone. Wow,
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  Speaker 13: you're chasing shadows that could never look like He's smiling,
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  Speaker 13: stuck in a loop, stuck in the ruins.
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  Speaker 8: People think condo.
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  Speaker 6: Lulu, don't you the sweet illusion? But we cracked in
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  Speaker 6: the haze of your confusion. Don't want you to be here,
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  Speaker 6: don't need.
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  Speaker 8: To be equal, just want you to be you. Then
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  Speaker 8: we can start again.
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  Speaker 7: Smoking my lungs bad.
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  Speaker 1: It's not from the flame?
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  Speaker 8: Is the way we went?
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  Speaker 7: Now?
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  Speaker 1: No one to blame.
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  Speaker 14: You told me you had it off, and now you
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  Speaker 14: barely call our root. Played the nights with the UFO post.
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  Speaker 14: Now let's use your voice through with die with tone?
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  Speaker 14: Was it ever real or was it just blood? Because
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  Speaker 14: you left me.
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  Speaker 6: On red and caught the time trying to hold.
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  Speaker 8: On to the sweet illusion?
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  Speaker 1: But we crab your computation.
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  Speaker 8: Don't want you to be Hi, don't be the behicle,
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  Speaker 8: Just want you to be.
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  Speaker 1: Then we can start again.
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  Speaker 13: You say you're fine, but I know your tone. We
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  Speaker 13: keep on dancing with the unknown. You change the lips,
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  Speaker 13: but I kept the king, still holding on to what
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  Speaker 13: we used to be.
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  Speaker 8: I guess it turned into that shadow, just not the
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  Speaker 8: one you wanted to be. We had gone. Now it's
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  Speaker 8: dust in the light.
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  Speaker 7: I guess some love face.
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  Speaker 8: Did you even fine to hold on to the sweet illusion?
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  Speaker 8: But were cracking the hate of your confusion? Don't want
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  Speaker 8: you to be his? I don't need to vehicle, just
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  Speaker 8: want you to be.
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  Speaker 13: Then we can start again.
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  Speaker 8: To hold on to the sweet allusion. But we're cracking
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  Speaker 8: in the haze of your confusion.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want you to.
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  Speaker 8: Again.
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  Speaker 2: Ah my gosh, everyone, thank you for being part of
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  Speaker 2: the first round of that EP, because guess what, We're
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  Speaker 2: gonna do that all again for the next hour. Listen
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  Speaker 2: to those three amazing songs from the EP. Baddie Bye, Uh, oh,
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  Speaker 2: my gosh, I just forgot their names. Uh Jake, Grag
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  Speaker 2: and Audie Clark from the Relatables podcast.
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  Speaker 5: Man Chalant is so fun. I think it's so great.
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  Speaker 2: Jake and Audie on the Relatables podcast, they they've discussed
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  Speaker 2: this topic of men and relationships being too nonchalant, like
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: not displaying any excitement or enthusiasm, not taking initiative, and
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  Speaker 2: it is so frustrating. And as someone who has experienced
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  Speaker 2: the nonchalant neess, if that's a word of men that
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  Speaker 2: I have dated, this is. It's just such a relatable
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  Speaker 2: song song. So thank you Jake and Noughtie for you know,
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  Speaker 2: shedding some light. Thank you this urgent matter and writing
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  Speaker 2: a song about it. So yeah, as I said, we're
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  Speaker 2: gonna we're gonna give these songs some airtime. So we're
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  Speaker 2: just gonna play those through again. I hope you enjoy
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: them second time around. Maybe this time you'll you'll remember
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  Speaker 2: some of the lyrics. So we're gonna we're gonna do
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  Speaker 2: with the Holy p again. Love a Boys version followed
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  Speaker 2: by his POV followed by Chalant enjoy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Wow, Well that was I'm so happy.
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  Speaker 7: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: We have to say a big shout out to Lisa
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  Speaker 3: and all of the baddies for making that happen. Thank
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  Speaker 3: you guys, because honestly, on our podcast journey, I think
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  Speaker 3: this might be my best moment right now, our best
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  Speaker 3: moment together.
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  Speaker 7: This was.
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  Speaker 1: It's surreal. Yeah, honestly so cool. I got a text
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  Speaker 1: halfway through that good thing. I was on silent. I
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  Speaker 1: was on do not disturb, but Beth goes through I
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  Speaker 1: do not disturb. Yeah, she sent me a text or caps.
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  Speaker 1: Congrats on your song on the radio. Yeah, it's fucking gov. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you're dating an artist.
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  Speaker 3: Honestly, love a boy version. I can see the vision lights. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: just in the crowd. I think live show.
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  Speaker 1: When live show comes around forrmanly we start with that
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  Speaker 1: little duet, I say, he's okay, okay, live show. We
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  Speaker 1: start eating whenever we do. We started with one of
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  Speaker 1: the songs, right, so you get a lucky dip every
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  Speaker 1: now and then little easter egg. One of us comes
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  Speaker 1: out and does a solo of the songs we've just
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  Speaker 1: done ourselves. Yeah, that would be crazy, but first live
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  Speaker 1: show we do. We set it up. We're wearing like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, sick we we think of some sick uniforms.
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  Speaker 1: We could be wearing our pajamas from book clubs, and
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  Speaker 1: we come out. We do a duet with auto tune
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  Speaker 1: turned up to the max. Bro just do a duet,
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  Speaker 1: and we just get right everybody, get your out now.
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  Speaker 3: We'll make it happen. It all starts with the live shows.
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  Speaker 3: I see the vision, I really do.
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  Speaker 1: It's gonna be sick. I can think about it because
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  Speaker 1: we're stressed about live shows filling in an hour of
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: entertainment and stuff that's like three minutes. That's like, that's
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  Speaker 1: like two minutes. It's probably a good five minutes right
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  Speaker 1: after the standing ovation, of course. Yeah, and then ever
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  Speaker 1: we run back, we bow, we can dress in normal clothes.
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  Speaker 1: We come back, here we go. Yeah, we don't know
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  Speaker 1: who that was, but thanks for starting the show.
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  Speaker 7: Guy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah that's a great.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, we got alter egos that are coming out
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  Speaker 1: pretty soon. Guys and guys.
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  Speaker 3: We have the rest of our episode to shoot, and
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  Speaker 3: we might just pop in in and out of kb VFM.
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  Speaker 1: ads and you can't stop yourself from the popcorn. You
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: start with one control. Do you sit down? So you
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: sit down? You've got your popcorn there? You had to start,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: You think, I just have one, just one at a time.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: It's like macis fries right, one a time, and these
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: tark on I.
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: Understand two or three, and you starts shoveling that shit
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: in your mouth and you just can't stop the salt,
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: and you just you want to finish it all and
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: then have a fucking sippy Pepsy Max.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: When I'm reading Akawar, it's exactly I cannot control myself.
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: I genuinely cannot fucking control myself. It's insane. And so
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: basically what I've done is I've started reading a book
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: called One Dark Window. Suggested to me it's a two
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: book series. There's no more coming out, so I can
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: smash through them, be done with that series. And I
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: asked for books that are good but would most likely
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: not be good for the podcast. This book's fucking sick.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: It's probably not good for the podcast because there's only two.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know, but I think like if I
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: knew what the book was like, I would have said
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: no podcast for sure, because the fact that it's two
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: books is like kind of cool because you get from
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: a start to a conclusion within maybe two months. Because
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: they're just ever so slightly shorter than they're like the
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: same length as akatar In Akamath and Aka war Along. Yeah,
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: and dude, they're fucking's like so far, it's actually pretty
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: sick and it's the magic systems hechnic blah blah blah
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: blah blah. But I was thinking, I can't come on
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: here and start doing a book club on the main
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: episode because that defeats purpose of us having a book club.
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: I rekaony, do it on your ig. Yes, I'm going
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: to start making the VISI on my idea, I think,
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: And I've made a fable. I've got a fable account.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: My name is the fourth bat Boy, and my group
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: is called Residents of Vlarus. So go join my fable.
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: The one thing I'm concerned about is I know you
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: as a person, and you get addicted to things for
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: a very very short period of time. So I'm wondering
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: if this one will last. So that's what I was
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: I'm praying it like because it went the gym, yeah, surfing, Yeah,
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: golf surfing was first surfing gym. They're gone.
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: Oh the gym's kind of there still now the gym
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: I'm still going completely gone.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, surfing's gone. Go and the book club is
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: the new thing, well book club? Yeah, but what else
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: have I done? I don't know what else I've done,
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: but I love it. I've been camping. I've been camping
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: for a long time. No, really a phase. I liked camping.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: You got rid of that when you got read of
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: your car? True, Yeah, I just don't have anything to
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: camp in anymore. So I was thinking about this the
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: other day and I was like, I don't pray to
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: God because I'm not religious, but I was the other
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: day sitting in my computer and I was thinking, like
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: and I was praying. I was like, I pray my
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: ADHD brain doesn't just make this a quick little phase, hopefully.
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: Because it's fantasy and there's so much intricacies to the stories.
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I think your ADHD brain is.
• 23:48
  Speaker 7: What likes it.
• 23:49
  Speaker 9: You know what.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: One reason I think that it's not gonna go away
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: or it's gonna last a long time is because I
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: love movies and these are like a movie. Yeah, absolutely
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: fucking It's funny, Love Hobbit, Lord of the Rings. I
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: love all that fake fantasy shit.
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: It's funny because I really think it's came down to
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: because I'm really enjoying it. As well, maybe not as
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: much as you, but I still I'm really enjoying. Yeah,
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: but prior to this, we talk a lot about frontal
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: lobe development, and I don't think a year, eight eight
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: months ago we had the frontal lobe to enjoy such
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: a story.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think we had the Ah. Maybe it's ego.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: Maybe I think our egos were too I don't want
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: to say too big, but they're in a different place
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: where I wouldn't have accepted that.
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: I would like, well, as a young man, young man
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: who doesn't know a lot about the world, you're.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Like fairy porn. Yeah, you're like, yeah, you're like, oh no,
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to listen to I'm not gonna watch that.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: I'm going to read that. And also I thought fairy
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: was like a little fucking thing with fucking tinker our Yeah, legit.
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: But I think it's just being It's also it's a
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: combination of where it's like our mass and feminine sides,
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: and we've learnt how both like are equal and opposite
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: and you need both of them to be a man.
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: And I think that comes even not to simple thing
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: of reading a book. Masculine and feminine energies. A lot
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: of men think the masculine traits are very poor. No,
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: that yeah, and I think we last eighteen months front
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: of low masculine female energies, like it's really come into fruition.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: I still stand by the fact that no one has
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: suggested these books for the storyline. Why why I still
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: think that's a secret. Well, it must be a secret.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: Why is no one? It's barely porn. It's barely porn.
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: I was reading the other day on the stairs at
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: the gym and I felt hot, Yeah, bit of sexy.
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: It wasn't a sexy came on and I felt hot, yeah,
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: felt a bit naughty someone next to me.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know if I should be
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: next to anyone.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: I've listened to the gym and a couple of times,
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: and I just think this is one of those prime
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: moments where you know people are thinking, he's.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: Probably just listening to the hip hop or something.
• 25:56
  Speaker 8: Not at all.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: I mean, to be fair, I was gonna say, it's
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: not I'm listening to a fucking ten out of ten stories,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: Sarah J.
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: Matt, I'm lost in pretty okay, But up next, guys,
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: is ig Question of the Week and we've got something
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: a little bit different. So this is tell us what
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: he did, and we'll tell you if it's boyfriend or
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: situationship energy.
• 26:21
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: So there's a lot of actions that men have done
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: in like said stage, boyfriend or situationship, and we're going
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: to get to the bottom of them. Do you want
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: me to go first or you you go first? Okay,
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: tell us something he did. He told me it's ordinary
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: to love the beautiful, but it's beautiful to love the ordinary.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: I want to can we change situationship to fuck boys?
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: I feel like we can add that in there.
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: That's something a fuck boy would say. Oh, I was
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: thinking the opposite of that. It's ordinary to the beautiful,
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: but it's beautiful to.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: Love the ordinary. It's giving boy. That's red Marcus Aurelia. Yeah, bro, Well,
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: but if he's actually telling the truth, it's kind of
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: like boyfriends. It's on the fence. But I think it's
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: slightly too cringe. That's fuck boys.
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: I just think that because it's so unoriginal. Yes, no,
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: no one's gonna people don't think like that cliche.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: It seems to be. Yeah, that's like a very He
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: definitely saw that somewhere. He definitely didn't come up with
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: that because it's not original. I'm gonna go with fun
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: boy because he's trying to sweep.
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: Right, Okay, we'll add that in there, dy boys in there.
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: And again, the cool thing about this, right is so
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: we said, we asked everyone tell us something that he did.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: So we said, we'll give our opinions of one of
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: those boyfriend energy situationship an energy, and we're going to
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: add fun boy energy. The the cool thing is they
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: didn't tell us that it was their like if it
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: was their boyfriend they said it, or their situationship that
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: said it. And so the funny thing is is some
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: of these things could have been said by a situation
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: and we're going to say it's boyfriend energy, and they're
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: going to be thinking, well, why hasn't he asked me
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: to be his girlfriend?
• 28:04
  Speaker 9: Then?
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: And the same goes for if it's something a guy
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: said and we said and it's a boyfriend and but
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: he we're like that situationship energy. This girl's gonna be thinking,
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: I don't want to get anyone, you know, spiraling, but
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: I also want to get people thinking.
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: But it's also good because the people who sent these
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: in sometimes do spial, especially in situationship scenarios. Yeah, and
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: we are like a third point of view who can
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: tell the honest truth. And normally people around you have
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: to be nice and beat around the bush, but we can.
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: Just be like, hey, he's a fuck boy. That's a
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: good point. Yeah, okay, so he took me to five
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: of his friend's weddings. Five boyfriend material for sure, boyfriend
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: energy for sure. I would say one's borderline even one.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: I think it's such a personable thing. I think taking
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: someone to a wedding, well in movies. I know, life
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: isn't a movie, but for some reason, maybe it's an
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: American thing or different family type thing, but you get
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: invited to a wedding, and quite often I think traditionally
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: you go to something like that with someone. Yeah, but traditionally,
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: so I we're not traditional anymore, but traditionally you go
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: to something like that with a date. So I think
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: sometimes it's actually not uncommon to just ask someone, say
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: someone you've been on two dates with you go, hey,
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: I get my friend's wedding, would you like to be
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: my plus one?
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: Also date contradictory of that, though, like I see, a
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: wedding is such a personal thing, and like I only
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: want people actually know yeah or like have met. I
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: don't want some randy here, like it's oh yeah, this
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: is my date.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: Who the fuck's at. I wouldn't go to a good
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: friends whe for like a third date. No, no, no, no, personally,
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: but some people do. I do think it's an American thing.
• 29:49
  Speaker 9: I do.
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: Also, I feel like their weddings would be fucking huge.
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: Everything's bigger in Texas.
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: That's very true. But I'm going to say, this is boyfriend.
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, okay, tell us something he did sent me
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: a picture of himself on the toilet with the catch
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: just caption hashtag birthing, Oh boyfriend, Yeah, that's boyfriend energy,
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: confident boyfriend.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: Birthing. Yeah, taking a ship and sending a photo to
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: someone and saying birthing is crazy. He couldn't do that
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: in the situationship stage. She would run. Definitely could not
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: do that. But he got way too comfortable, way too quick.
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's fucking fine. Do you remember did
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: our friend group grow through a phase where they started
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: sending video like a photo of our ships to our group? Yeah?
• 30:41
  Speaker 7: I do.
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: I feel like I think it was in the mix
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: of COVID yeah for some reason I remember, and everyone
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: was like, yeah, good one.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: Photos of big ones getting sent in it's so gross. Okay,
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: tell us something he did. Well, tell you if it's
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: boyfriend energy, situations, your energy, or fuck boy energy. Unfollowed
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: every girl on Insta when we started dating didn't even.
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: Have to ask boyfriend's boyfriend boyfriend. Yeah, that's a good man,
• 31:16
  Speaker 3: especially because she didn't have to ask.
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, just randomly calls me just to hear me.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: Ooh here you what voice? Yeah, randomly calls you just
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: to hear you. I'm gonna say boyfriend. And the reason
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: I say yeah, that's boyfriend energy regardless, because that's kind
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: of another level of saying. That's like saying that your
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: voice calms me, your voice makes me feel Goodah, soothing.
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: That's something a boyfriend should be doing, so he better
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: be making it official.
• 31:50
  Speaker 9: Girl.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: Okay, he said he loved me after the first date.
• 31:57
  Speaker 8: Ye.
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: I don't think that's boyfriend material, love bomb. I think
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: that's break up material. It is.
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: I understanding if someone said that to me on a
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: first date, I'm like, oh, okay, yeah, imagine how nice
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: to meet you. You watched you watched our mate my mother. Yeah,
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: Ted Mosby, Yeah he did that.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: On the first day. He runs back to a restaurant,
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: picks up that blue trumpet, steals that shit, gives it
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: a robin.
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and he's like, I love you well yeah, and
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: then for fucking nine seasons nothing happens between.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: I feel like every friendship group has a friend like
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: Ted Moseby.
• 32:28
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: Who's the house we know? Becan't I think I can?
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: I know definitely who you think it is. Yeah, yeah,
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: I know who I think it is. Is it different?
• 32:38
  Speaker 7: No?
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: No, no, no no, I just think that we may
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: have more than one.
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: It's cute but also cringe. All right, tell us something
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: he did. He offered to wipe my running nose on
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: his T shirt when I didn't have a tissue.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: Oh boyfriend energy?
• 32:54
  Speaker 8: Yeah? Is it though?
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: Why wouldn't it be new boyfriend energy? New boyfriend, new boyfriend?
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: And you wouldn't do that?
• 33:03
  Speaker 8: Now?
• 33:03
  Speaker 7: Fuck? No? Really?
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: Best you want to wipe your want on me? You're
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: snort on my T shirt? How wout I teach you
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: how to fucking snot rocket? Jesus Christ, bet what are
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: you talking about? Let just walk into a macasine, get
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: a napkin, you're not doing that ship. I see you're thinking.
• 33:21
  Speaker 7: That.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: True. True, True. It's funny too, because when me and
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: Cassie go running like I can snot rock it on
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: the go, same Cassie can't. She has to stop and
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: she doesn't want to get obviously she doesn't want to get.
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: I don't mind a bit of snot goes on my
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: T shirt when I'm running, on my face, wipe it off.
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah I'm already sweaty. But she stops and I'm like, od,
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: it's so cute the way she does it.
• 33:41
  Speaker 7: That so.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: Okay. He noticed I shortened my nails.
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: Wants to be boyfriend or his boyfriend. At tentative, I
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: would say, yeah, that's that's boyfriend. Yeah that's really good.
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: That's a tough thing to notice too. Sure of the nails, Yeah,
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: I would.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: I believe I would consider it bare minimum. And I
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: shouldn't be saying this, but I would be impressed if
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: someone noticed the change of color and nails. Cassie recently
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: got a different shade of red. I didn't notice. Yeah,
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: of course, but are you kidding? And I was like, fuck,
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: I should have got that. Beth came back the other
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: day with new nails, and she she told me she
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: shortened them, and I was like, wonderful. I didn't even
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: as soon as she came in, ooka shorten him anything.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: It's good when they do that. You didn't have to
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: notice a thing.
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, tell us something. He did a booty tap
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: at the gym, respectful and discreet.
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: Okay. So obviously she's seeing this guy. He could be
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: her boyfriend, or he could be her situationship. And he
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: did a little booty tap at the gym. Boyfriend. Yeah,
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: boy I'm going boyfriend. I think too much confidence. Situationship. Yeah, boyfriend.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: Situationship wouldn't do that. And if he's doing that, and
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: it's the right to be asking you to his boyfriend.
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: If he's still in that situations he needs to write
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: like a consent form before he does it or something. Yeah, okay,
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: only asks to see me on weekdays. He's never free
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: on weekends. Oh that's the opposite of what I thought
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: you were going to say. What's he doing on the weekend.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: I have a theory. Is he going out and fucking?
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: I have a theory here?
• 35:28
  Speaker 7: What is it?
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: I think you might be his side piece? Yeah, oh,
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: I've heard his girlfriend before, doesn't live with her yet. Okay,
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: he's got a girlfriend, doesn't live there. Yeah, so during
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: the week he's busy at work, they don't see each other. Yeah,
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: twenty minutes thirty minute drive apart from each other, so
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: maybe they don't see each other. They're both busy. So
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: during the week he does what he pleases. Yeah, the
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: weekend is with his girlfriend. You're his old reliable during
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: the week. I don't know. I could be.
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: He could be making you would think it's almost the
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: other way around, like the that you're with your girlfriend
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: on the week Yeah, and the weekends for the side,
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: I'm going to say that's fuck boy.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like that, Like you shouldn't have a
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: time restraint on when you hang out. You should have
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: seen when you want to see. Yeah, okay, tell us
• 36:16
  Speaker 3: something he did added me to his close friends when
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: we just met.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: Fuck boy. Really, I think fuck boy, because I think
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: you're the only one in there too.
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: A lot of guys don't have close friends and they
• 36:35
  Speaker 3: just add like a girl. It's funny how you can
• 36:37
  Speaker 3: have a close friends they just have one person on that.
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: Guys don't have close friends. It's a crazy one neither.
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: I don't know how to do it. Neither do I. Yeah,
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: I literally don't know how to do Sometimes it suggested
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: joint puts in your close friends. I'm like, where's it going,
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: I don't have any friends. I'll just send it to Addie.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: I'll just stuff that would stuff that people normally put
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: on their close friends. I just put on my story. Yeah,
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: who has that many friends to have close friends? Actually
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: about it? Just fucking put it out to the world. Okay.
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: I see stuff in close friends and think that was
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: actually funny. Show all your followers. Yeah, my sister does
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: it all the time. I feel like having a close
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: friends is asking for attention. I don't know why. I'm sorry,
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Hot take. That's a hot take. I
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: do agree. I don't know why I feel that way.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: I actually have nothing to back it up.
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: But I feel as though having a close friends story
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: on Instagram for some reason is asking for attention.
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: And I don't know what I see it. I see it. Okay,
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: he said good night at eight pm, but he was
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: online to two a m. Two am. Fuck boy, Yeah he.
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: Could be boyfriend, like playing video games. He's fucking around
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: to be fair, like I get off my phone at eight.
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: Oh no, but I just like watch TV and I'll
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: occasionally go on to like check the littlest thing, but
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: then I go to to ten. Sometimes I will say, so,
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: now I live with Beth, I don't ever do it,
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: But when we didn't live together, I would say good night,
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: knowing that honestly, because I'm about to go to bed
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: in maybe thirty minutes. Right, I know I'm about to
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: be asleep in thirty minutes, and I say good night.
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure she does this too, right, Because now I.
• 38:16
  Speaker 3: Want uninterrupted Yeah exactly, I'm saying that because I don't
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: want to.
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: I don't want to keep texting you. I love you,
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: but I want uninterrupted time. You've got a half an
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: hour time gap. I've got about an hour, okay, he's
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: got what's that six hours eight am too.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: That's six hours eight pm, eight pm to two am
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: and six hours. Yeah shit, yeah, I think that's fuck boy. Yeah,
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: he's out doing something. Tell us what he did? Held
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: me down and farted in my face. I'm gonna go boyfriend.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: If he's not boyfriend, called the police. Please, either boyfriend
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: or brother? Did you do that with Jonah. Yeah, I
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: mean I'll fight around her and ship and then I
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: get pissed off when she fast. Okay, made dinner. But
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: he knows I have less than a month left in
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: town and we only started hanging out recently. Oh now
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: he just wants the fuck. Yeah, boy boy, he was
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: again in your pants. He knows.
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: He's like, I've got to get out jail free card.
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I'm gonna be boyfriend until she leaves. Get everything, boyfriend.
• 39:36
  Speaker 3: All I want is a girlfriend for a month.
• 39:38
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: Win, not for you though, Okay, tell us what he
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: did introduce me to his dog. Woit I think that
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: that's boyfriend would personally yea because of how high up
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: I hold my dog. I think most people do. Yeah,
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: I put Henry up on. Like the other day, for instance,
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: Beth's younger sister, she went to our house to check
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: on the dogs because they were there for eight hours
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: alone and they're fine. But if she has the chance
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: to do it, we like to just let her go
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: see high to them. So then they see someone. Dra
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: other day and Beth said that the guy that her
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: younger sister is seeing came with her and this guy
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: said the first time Henry was meeting him.
• 40:23
  Speaker 8: I don't like this guy.
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: I've met him once and had him before. He has
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: Oh lucky. I was gonna say, came into the house unannounced. No, no, no,
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: we weren't there. Yeah, Caitlyn brought in and so I
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: was mad at Caitlyn. I was like, Kenn, what are
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: you doing, Henry? Why is this guy get the privilege
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: of meeting Henry if he's not even gonna ask you
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: to be his fucking girlfriend? I see, I see. It's
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: a bunch of bullshit.
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: Brother, Yeah, and I don't care about saying it all
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: out here. This guy needs to be called out the
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: fucking left, right and center.
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: That type of guy wouldn't listen to this podcast. No,
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: he wouldn't. He can get fun.
• 41:00
  Speaker 8: Hear that.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: Caitlyn. You know she doesn't listen any Sometimes her mom does.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: And it's scary. It's scary knowing that. I feel like that. Okay,
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: he bought me an eight dollar came up candle for
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: my birthday? How old is she? Hope she's hopefully she's
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: like twelve eight dollars. Hopefully this is like a year
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: six relationship, because I would say he's a good if
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: it's under the age of fourteen, good boyfriend, his mom
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: bought it. Anything older than that, I would say, run
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: girl and came. I say, that's fucking that's abysmal energy.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: That's a great ideaund partner's next birthday as a piss take.
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: I have really good presence hidden. Just get some terrible
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: eight dollar candle. I told Bet the other day that
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: I already got her birthday present. She goes, what is it?
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: Where is it? I'm gonna go And I told her
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: it's here. Yeah, it's a digital thing. But I should
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: rock on her birthday, should wake up. I should give
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: you a candy. I can even go shit away like
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: something worse.
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: This is what I'm talking Aboutally goes like soap or
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: something that's like custom made soap or something customs.
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: Kind of cute.
• 42:20
  Speaker 3: All right, I got one or two more. Tell us
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: something he did. He got into a car crash and
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: called me first.
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: Boyfriend. Yeah, yeah, boyfriend, man, definitely boyfriend.
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: Have you had the sort of the stage in your
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: relationship Probably unconsciously did it. You've ever been like signing
• 42:37
  Speaker 3: up to a gym wave and it's like next of kin. Yeah,
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: I used to do like Michael Clark, my dad or
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: always did my dad, and now I'm like, oh, I
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: bet as my emergency contact.
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: Where one time I did you as my emergency contact.
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: Sometimes I do you and then write my own number
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: because I can't I go if I put you down,
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: I looking for your number sometimes like if it's.
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: Something stupid, I'm not going to die. I'm like, yes,
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: write down my own number again. Annoying something. Okay, he
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: gave his rolex to me to ensure that he will
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: talk to me after his two months long boy's trip.
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: The thinking process of some dudes.
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: It's like coming back on promise when I feel though,
• 43:26
  Speaker 3: when I feel like I want to cheat on you,
• 43:29
  Speaker 3: I'm just gonna remember you have my rolex.
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what how did you think that was a good idea?
• 43:36
  Speaker 15: It's crazy, Well, it's obviously, I actually do think it's
• 43:41
  Speaker 15: boyfriend energy. No no, no no no no no no
• 43:44
  Speaker 15: no no no, like very stupid dumb boyfriend energy. Like
• 43:49
  Speaker 15: if we're talking about energies, it's like someone i'd want
• 43:51
  Speaker 15: to break up with, the thinking.
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: Of it is still boyfriend energy. Okay, okay, okay, okay,
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: I got one last one. Tell us something he did
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: brush my hair whilst watching Task Master Boyfriend.
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good show. Is it kind of funny? Actually,
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: the British one is quite funny. The New Zealand also
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: randomly is also very funny. Oh, I don't know why.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: The New Zealand one is just like really good. That's
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: the accents and the ship they do. But it's a
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: weird concept of a show. I haven't seen it. It's
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: like basically get they get comedians in that's why it's funny,
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: and they get them to do tasks, random, super difficult tasks.
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: You probably see videos of Si on Facebook and they
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: just do these tasks and they compete and the fuck
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: they're honestly so funny. Okay, it's weird. It's definitely boyfriend
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: if it's like that. Okay, my last one flew to
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: Sydney to see him. He got so drunk the night
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: before he forgot to pick.
• 44:44
  Speaker 9: Me up.
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: That man. Never see him ever again. Fucking.
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• 45:15
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• 45:21
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• 45:35
  Speaker 13: Chack the even worth the time I missed the way
• 45:48
  Speaker 13: we talked all night.
• 45:55
  Speaker 8: Holding on.
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: Dance guys. Let's uh, let's do a dilemma and one
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: and then to check in after. Okay, actually, okay, I
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: know I want to go first on dilemmas, so I've
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: got an update from one if you want to submit
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: a dilemma. We actually got a lot last week. I
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: was going through to the.
• 46:17
  Speaker 8: Holy Moly.
• 46:18
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• 46:22
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• 46:24
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• 46:26
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• 46:29
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• 46:31
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• 46:35
  Speaker 1: Quote we'll not quote more of a title. I dumped him, Yes,
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: we love that. So quick update about the man that
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: said I love you, but I'm not in love with you.
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: Remember that, I do remember. I gave myself a few
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: weeks to process what he said and what I was
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: willing to deal with and not in a relationship. I
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: don't really know, I must have. After a few discussions
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: about it, I went with my gut and was going
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: to break up with him after he got back from
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: a Bucks weekend we had discussed prior. My one boundary
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: for the weekend was that I was okay with him
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: going to a strip club, but I didn't want him
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: paying for a lap dance. Fast forward, He paid for
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: a lap dance, told me, and I took your advice
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: and broke up with him over text. Lol. Fast forward
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: to now rekindled an old flame that the universe has
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: brought back to me. We met at eighteen and we're
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: now twenty five. Who lives in Sydney and I'm in Yapoon,
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: So have booked tickets to Sydney for a long, sexy weekend.
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: Don't let your boyfriend stop you from finding your husband.
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: See you there boys. Oh, so see you boys their
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: XX because we live in Sydney. I was like, I
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: don't want to go to that. I was thinking when
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: I first read this, I was like, I was like, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: And I was thinking, oh, but hey, if all it
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: is just a fun sexy weekend.
• 47:49
  Speaker 12: Go for it.
• 47:49
  Speaker 8: Nah.
• 47:50
  Speaker 3: No, I think she might have rekindled something that could
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: be a future man. I like it and I'm glad
• 47:56
  Speaker 3: you listen to your gut. Yes, little recap story, she
• 48:01
  Speaker 3: sent a dilemma and the guy said I.
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: Love you, but I'm not in love with you.
• 48:05
  Speaker 8: It was weird.
• 48:05
  Speaker 3: And then he's been sus about a Bucks night and
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: she was saying a gut made her feel like she
• 48:10
  Speaker 3: wanted to break up, and he said do it. Yeah,
• 48:12
  Speaker 3: trust that which we have shifted gear recently and started
• 48:17
  Speaker 3: listening to our gut and telling some guys do actually
• 48:20
  Speaker 3: need to be broken up with when they need a
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: bit of a kick in the ass, or they're not
• 48:23
  Speaker 3: doing the bare minimum or not even being a nice
• 48:25
  Speaker 3: man in general.
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm happy for you. You sound super happy. Yep.
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: It's good to hear the end of the dilemmas because
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: I like that. We just give advice, and then it's
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: I've been keen on updates, and if you're going to
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: do an update, send it to the same place. Yeah,
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: and just big caps update yeah, and then little just
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: like update. This was the dilemma. Here's the update. Yeah,
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: I love the updates. But okay, we'll do my dilemma
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: and then we'll listen to we'll see where the radio
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: is at. Okay, boys, I'm dying a bit dramatic and
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: in need of help asap. I've been with my boyfriend
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: of almost three years now, but I think I want
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: to break up with him, although I'm not super sure how.
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: For a bit of context, I feel like a last
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: priority all the time. For example, he's currently on an
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: eight week holiday to Europe with the boys and not me. Oh,
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: and I feel like he just kind of likes the sex. Okay,
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: I didn't at the time, but now I think the
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: time apart has really opened my eyes to some behaviors
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: and I low key miss being single in brackets perhaps
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: toxic toxic of me. Here's the kicker. We are planning
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: to move overseas together at the end of the year
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: with some other people as and everything is paid and booked.
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: Fuck that.
• 49:49
  Speaker 3: If you're ever having the thought that you want to
• 49:52
  Speaker 3: break up with someone even though he is a dog
• 49:54
  Speaker 3: and he's gone on an eight week boy's trip, he
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: deserves to be broken up with and not being a
• 50:00
  Speaker 3: relationship where someone is thinking that having those doubts.
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: I guess, actually, how do you feel about so when
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: you're in a relationship they've been together for three years?
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: Because I think, definitely you need to be able to
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: have time apart and be able to go do things
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: with your friends. But for some reason, I do see
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: an eight week trip to Europe with just your mates.
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: I kind of think, reading between the lines, that's crazy.
• 50:28
  Speaker 3: I think that's the same. I think that's kind of wild,
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: Like eight weeks, it's weird. I think, like thinking back
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: to when I was like eighteen, nine and twenty, that's
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: something I might have done.
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, been like I need to do this with the boys, yea,
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: yeah yeah now and yeah exactly just with me, but yeah,
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: I was just with you.
• 50:49
  Speaker 3: But now my mindset would be even if I still
• 50:52
  Speaker 3: had a really close knit group of friends who were
• 50:55
  Speaker 3: going into Europe, I'll be like, oh, I want to
• 50:57
  Speaker 3: go to Europe for I'm going to go two weeks
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: with them, and do you want to meet me over
• 51:00
  Speaker 3: and we'll.
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: Do the other six weeks together.
• 51:02
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: I think that there's things where even let's say, you know,
• 51:05
  Speaker 3: very far out of it, you know, they're talking about
• 51:07
  Speaker 3: the trip and say, you and I want to go
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: on this big long trip or whatever, and then we
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: ask our girlfriends to come, and they're like, oh.
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: I would love to blah blah blah blah blah meh,
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: but like just for some reason they couldn't. I would
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: understand if it was something you really wanted to do
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: with them, and then maybe you and I go Okay,
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: fuck it, well we'll go just here together, and then
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: how could you come for just this small amount of
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: time and we'll meet up blah blah blah blah, like
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: we're trying to work something out, but not even being invited. Yeah,
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: not being invited. I think that's crazy. After being together
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: for three years, even.
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: That thought of he just likes the sex, it's probably
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: right then if you're having that thought true, if you
• 51:43
  Speaker 3: feel like he's just there because like it's using you
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: for sex, then yeah, I think that's Yeah, it's not
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: very nice at all. And well her dilemma is she's
• 51:52
  Speaker 3: This is really really relatable because when you're in a relationship,
• 51:54
  Speaker 3: you book things in events, and she's obviously put a
• 51:57
  Speaker 3: lot of money down to.
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: Move overseas well.
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: The question firstly is still you still do you want
• 52:02
  Speaker 3: to do that being single or without him? But I
• 52:06
  Speaker 3: think if you don't want to move overseas, fuck it,
• 52:08
  Speaker 3: cut your losses. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I've always said five
• 52:10
  Speaker 3: ten thousand dollars, fuck it. You can make a back
• 52:12
  Speaker 3: who cares whoever booked it. Also, if he's a nice guy,
• 52:15
  Speaker 3: do it on amicable terms. He hopefully will be like,
• 52:18
  Speaker 3: all right, let's get a refund for what we can.
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: He might not want to go either. Yeah, probably can't
• 52:22
  Speaker 3: get some flights and stuff, and you'll lose a couple
• 52:24
  Speaker 3: thousand dollars. But I think your piece is much more
• 52:28
  Speaker 3: important than five ten thousand dollars. I prefer to lose
• 52:31
  Speaker 3: ten grand and be happy, then make then make that
• 52:36
  Speaker 3: ten grand worth it.
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: And be unhappy. Yeah, when you say it out loud,
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: it sounds pretty obvious, right, And never stand in a
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: relationship for monetary reasons. Yeah at all? I think how
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: does she do it? He's over seas for a weeks.
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: M hmm, chicky face time. I don't know what do
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: you do? Like, do you want it to be over
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: and done with?
• 52:57
  Speaker 7: Now?
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: You just wait till he gets home and just say
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: I've been thinking about things. The thing about with a
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: breakup is sometimes I think you don't need a reason,
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: but people always demand a reason.
• 53:06
  Speaker 15: Why?
• 53:06
  Speaker 7: Why why?
• 53:07
  Speaker 3: I don't think you need a reason. I mean, simple
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: as you don't want to be with them anymore. Ah well,
• 53:12
  Speaker 3: the tough thing here is too though, so spiraling a
• 53:15
  Speaker 3: little bit. If she does it over the phone, he's
• 53:17
  Speaker 3: just going to go out and fuck heaps in Europe.
• 53:20
  Speaker 3: But also then it's over, so then you kind of win.
• 53:23
  Speaker 3: But also do you owe it to him to do
• 53:26
  Speaker 3: it in person because it's been three years. But then
• 53:28
  Speaker 3: also I kind of think in person is probably wait.
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so just wait. And also if you wait till
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: he's home and he's faithful overseas, that means when you
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: do it in person at home, And because if you
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: do what overseas, he would go probably try and have
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: sex with people overseas. And again, if you break up
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: with him, within his rights, but you can also stop
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: him from doing.
• 53:48
  Speaker 3: It petty, because hey, why not he's where for the
• 53:54
  Speaker 3: girl is so like mentally start checking out now and
• 53:58
  Speaker 3: then when he gets here, like, yeah, well thanks for
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: leaving me here eight weeks.
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: But it made me realize that I don't like it
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: that much. A eight weeks is so long. Two months,
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: that's crazy, that's crazy. I think.
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, anything over like two weeks, three weeks, we've had
• 54:12
  Speaker 3: a contingency plan of how I'm going to see you again,
• 54:16
  Speaker 3: unless it was like work, if he was with.
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: His family, it might be different. But with your mates,
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: the boy with your mates, yeah, I don't know.
• 54:23
  Speaker 3: I don't know who do you want to hang out
• 54:24
  Speaker 3: with our friends for that line at all? We're done
• 54:28
  Speaker 3: after a date because they just get pissed.
• 54:29
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he's just immature.
• 54:32
  Speaker 3: So I think you're slowly realizing it two girls. So
• 54:34
  Speaker 3: when you do fully realize it, you'll be like, yeah,
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna trust my gut and do what.
• 54:39
  Speaker 9: I know is right.
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think just break up with him, right knowing
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: like just you need to accept the fact that you
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: may just lose your money with the trip overseas thing.
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: But if he's also kind of thinking, oh, you're amicable
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: about it, and like actually thinking the same thing. Then
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: you guys can go, well, let's train where you're out
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: so we can both train it much money back as possible. Yeah,
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: if if that's the way it goes. But again, just
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: go into it thinking now I'm probably just gonna take Yeah,
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: you know what time.
• 55:07
  Speaker 3: It is, Simon is we're like itching to see where
• 55:09
  Speaker 3: we're at, Where we are, where we're at, headphones off.
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: Hopefully it's not over. Oh oh shit, what's next?
• 55:23
  Speaker 8: Oh I don't know again.
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: Oh that's what they're up to, you guys. I think
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be over soon.
• 55:36
  Speaker 3: We'll try and call Lisa maybe at the end to
• 55:38
  Speaker 3: give some advice is available, and that I was crazy, Okay,
• 55:43
  Speaker 3: next dilemma. So long one for you, guys. My ex
• 55:46
  Speaker 3: boyfriend and I had been together for five years. We
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: broke up in twenty twenty three due to ongoing struggles.
• 55:52
  Speaker 3: We ended up getting back together a few months later.
• 55:56
  Speaker 3: When we had that conversation, I admitted to cheating on him,
• 56:00
  Speaker 3: and that's why I became more withdrawn in the relationship.
• 56:04
  Speaker 3: I regret it immensely, and it was a one night
• 56:06
  Speaker 3: stand with someone I knew. During this conversation, he admitted
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: sleeping with a prostitute at the start of our relationship.
• 56:14
  Speaker 3: I accepted this as an equal mistake on both our parts,
• 56:18
  Speaker 3: as did he. In the end, we broke up in
• 56:20
  Speaker 3: twenty twenty five because our values and goals weren't aligning,
• 56:23
  Speaker 3: not because of the cheating, as we had forgiven each other.
• 56:26
  Speaker 3: For that pause before we get to the actual dilemma bit.
• 56:28
  Speaker 3: We talked similarly about this of another dilemma on Patreon,
• 56:33
  Speaker 3: which I think is a very interesting conversation to be had.
• 56:36
  Speaker 3: So here we go, going forward into new relationships and
• 56:40
  Speaker 3: into dating scenes. I want to be very honest about
• 56:42
  Speaker 3: my past mistakes, as I feel like it's a part
• 56:45
  Speaker 3: of me and my story. It's something I would never
• 56:48
  Speaker 3: ever do again, as it's caused so much mental distress
• 56:51
  Speaker 3: and grief. With the guilt I was carrying in brackets,
• 56:54
  Speaker 3: I cannot understand how people cheat consistently and brackets. So
• 56:57
  Speaker 3: my dilemma is if someone told you they had cheated
• 57:00
  Speaker 3: in the past and shared this story, would that make
• 57:03
  Speaker 3: you trust them less and therefore strain the new relationship
• 57:06
  Speaker 3: or would you accept them for who they are and
• 57:08
  Speaker 3: trust that their words are true. Also, when would you
• 57:11
  Speaker 3: tell something like this in the stages of dating.
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: Fuck okay, okay, okay, okay, definitely I think honesty best policy, right, Yeah,
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: how would I feel? Because this has never happened to me,
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: so I actually don't know what I would feel initially,
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: but knowing me, I think I would at the time
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: they tell me, I think I would think, oh shit,
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: a bit of a bomb drop. Yeah, that's what I
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: would think, right, And then I would have this feeling
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: in my stomach of oh, maybe I don't want to
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: see them. Maybe I don't Maybe I think this is
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: a bad idea because I would go through that spiral
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: that everyone would go through, or if they can cheat,
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: then can they do it again? But then I would
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: probably I think in the past, asked, I would have
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: stuck to the unhealthy mindset. But thinking about it now,
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: I think maybe with growth but a frontal low develpment,
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: I would probably think, Yeah, people make mistakes all the time.
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: I don't know what she was going through at the
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: time or what you know this person was going through
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: at the time of the cheating, and I would probably
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: maybe just want to talk to them about it and
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: be like, oh, I've never been with someone that's done it.
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: I've never done it. I just want you to know that.
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, I obviously don't know your story, and I
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: would just be like, I just think like I would
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: definitely give them a chance. I agree. I think it
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: would be a thing of needing to be I don't know,
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: maybe just I don't know how to approach it.
• 58:45
  Speaker 3: I think it's actually a really good way to filter
• 58:48
  Speaker 3: out shallow men, because, like you said, I had the
• 58:52
  Speaker 3: same initial reaction where I was like, oh shit, yeah,
• 58:55
  Speaker 3: shock reaction, and then my first thinking was like, if
• 58:59
  Speaker 3: she could do it once, you'll do it again. I
• 59:01
  Speaker 3: think that's what that sort of yeah back in the day, Yeah,
• 59:03
  Speaker 3: I'm saying, but even more thinking about it, the type
• 59:08
  Speaker 3: of person and how admirable it is for someone to
• 59:11
  Speaker 3: own up to that and tell me in confidence is insane,
• 59:16
  Speaker 3: and if someone can appreciate that, I think it's the right.
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: Thing to do.
• 59:21
  Speaker 8: You know what.
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: I think you saying that if someone has cheated in
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: a past relationship and they tell someone that they're dating
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: about the cheating, I actually think that it's a green
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: flag because someone that has the capability to cheat again
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: just wouldn't bring it up exactly. Yeah, So I think, oh,
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: He's right, You're going to filter out a lot of
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: guys that think very poorly, and you're going to find
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: a guy that thinks. Oh, I appreciate you for telling
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: me that. Obviously it hurt you a lot to do it.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: I mean, you hurt someone in the process, but like
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: the guilt probably.
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 3: Was very she's verbally showing her growth, yeah, and what
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 3: she's gone through to overcome said thing, yeah, which I
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 3: think is super admirable and such a green flag.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: Like you said, so yeah, I think that, Yes, someone
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: that admits to cheating in the past is actually more
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: inclined to probably not cheat, yeah, because if they if
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: they didn't say it, they'd cheat again or they yeah,
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: they might have the capacity to cheat again.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 3: And in interesting, very interesting, And when do you reckon
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 3: is a good stage within dating to tell someone that
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 3: because initial shock value, like we said, is oh shit,
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 3: But you do need time to think about it, and
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 3: you kind of don't you want like a little bit
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 3: of rapport there, So definitely not like the first two
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 3: three dates, I don't think. Okay, when do you start
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 3: having those like sort of really deep conversations and start
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 3: opening up about your past and stuff?
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: Some people kind of have a pretty quick bite. True.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: You know, everyone's different. Some people take a old warm up,
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: some people warm up like that. Yeah, So I'm gonna
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: say just literally, whenever you your gut is telling you
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: the time is right, whenever you think, Okay, I really
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: like this person, I see it going somewhere, I straight
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: away want to have the chat of I really like you,
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: Like I'm not dating anyone else, and you know, but
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: I want to be one hundredercent honest from a start
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: in the past. Do you just tell them what happened,
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: Like I've cheated in the past, fucking maybe feel like shit,
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: never ever gonna do it again. But I just think
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: that you deserve to know that.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think really listen to your gut and just
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 3: gauge the conversation, Like every single relationship will be different
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 3: with each person because those conversations do come up in
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 3: different stages. So when both of you start opening up
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 3: about different things, you'll be like, oh, this could be
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 3: my time. Yeah, don't just do it like randomly over
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 3: like the start of a dinner.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: I'm going back. Actually, is it the wrong thing to
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: also not tell them they don't have a right to
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: know their past?
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 9: Yeah?
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: It's not that they Yeah, they don't have the it's
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: not their right to know. But I mean, you you
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: telling them is just you being open and notes. But
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: here's my thinking is like, is ignorance bliss? Well, I
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: think the devil's advocate.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 3: By the way, Either way, it's up to the person
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 3: who's cheated because they could not tell them because they think, oh,
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 3: they don't need to know. But they also could not
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 3: tell them because they haven't healed. So depending which one
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 3: that is, Yeah, because it doesn't really matter because the guy,
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 3: say in the scenario, is one who is just a
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 3: new guy.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: He doesn't have deserve to know what Bony means. She's
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: trying to think, yeah, yeah, like is there actually a wrong?
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: Is there a right and wrong approach?
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 3: Because well, I think in this scenario there isn't a
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 3: wrong approach because she has healed.
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but if some she knows she's not going to
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: do it again.
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she knows, so she can do whatever she wants
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 3: and she's done the right thing. But someone who's cheated
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 3: before and is hiding it, and that kind of feels
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 3: like maybe they'll.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: Do it again. Well that's wrong, and he doesn't. Yeah,
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: And then doesn't tell anyone that I cheated in the past.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: That's the wrong thing. This is an interesting one. I
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: actually i'd like comments on this. I would like to
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: know what everyone thinks, like, yeah, definitely the person, the
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: new partner, the new Yeah, they don't have the right
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: to know. But what do you think is the right
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: thing to do? Because I'm a little torn. I don't
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: think I would. Yeah, I don't think anything is right
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: or wrong. That's interesting, very interesting. I do think there's
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: a right and wrong approach from the person being told though.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: That's what I think is interesting as well. Oh yeah, yeah,
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: the receiver. The receiver, definitely, their reaction could tell you
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: so much. Yeah, it's funny how much I think our
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: I don't want it to our own.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 3: Horn, but our development of being a man in our
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 3: sort of like maturity levels and feminine and masculine energies
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 3: have sort of been accelerated because of this podcast and
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 3: being exposed to hundreds of thousands of women's thoughts, which
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 3: we're very very Yeah. Yeah, but I think it is
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 3: we have quite a unique insight into dating because of that.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 3: But it is it's hard when you go out and
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 3: date and then you see men who have that initial
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 3: shock value and they never get over that, and you're like,
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 3: it's just you can see that appeal.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: I get a weird This is like kind of off topic,
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: but from I guess from doing this podcast with GiB
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: like you said, having a lot of dilemmas from women,
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: different insights from women, you know, our own girlfriends, and
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: then also just having grown up with our friends. The
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: vibe for some reason that I get is a man's
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: mindset when he starts to date someone new, is that
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: this woman that they almost think so this that they
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: think this woman is mine and how dare she have
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: lived a life before me? Type of situation. I don't
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: think they don't think that word for word in their head,
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: but when they get told things about the woman's past
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: that they think that they don't like, it's still that
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: purity question. It's like, yeah, it's about purity. They think
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: that they deserve to have someone that's pure, and their
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: definition of pure is low body count, not having to
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: have a cheated like all these things right, But for
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: some reason, women are way more accepting to the fact
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: that the new person they're dating has lived a life
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: before them. Oh yeah, for some reason, Yeah, I feel
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: like men don't accept that life has been lived before.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know, and I could be wrong, but it's
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: just a vibe I get.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 3: I've always been lucky to for some reason think like
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 3: I'm only like taking into consideration the person in front
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 3: of me right now. Yeah, but also you saying that
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 3: it's funny. I had a little bit of an epiphany
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 3: recently because I've talked about before we both have friends
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 3: drifting apart, and we have different directions in life and
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 3: not unhappy to say that we don't really have that
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 3: many friends anymore because we have such a unique job.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 3: But I also had an epiphany being I also think
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 3: we drifted apart because of how they do view women
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 3: and how we consciously we Yeah, I think we subconsciously
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 3: first before my mental state could catch up sort of.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 3: I remember being eighteen and nineteen, so I think a
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 3: lot of men go through this and they never have
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 3: the actual shift. And they say how these dudes view
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 3: women of like sort of sex objects or not being pure,
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 3: and you're like, sort of, that's just how hears. That's
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 3: how I would think when I was eighteen, Like, that's
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 3: just how what to name is, That's how what's name.
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 3: But realistically now I'm like, actually, I really don't align
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 3: with how he views women, and I've taken a step
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 3: away because I can't have that in my life.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and yeah, that's how that's just him, but I
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: don't want to be a part of that. Yeah. Subconsciously
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: we've just been like fuck that.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And I remember, I remember being uncomfortable when I
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 3: was aiding, but I still was like, oh, no, that's
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 3: just my mate, that's how he is.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: But now I'm like the wrong which also created is
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: actually that's actually almost a bigger problem then, you know,
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: just saying oh, that's just how he is, he's just
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: a man, and not calling them out as almost a
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: bigger problem then the actual shit that men do because
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: they need to be fucking called out random I forgot
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: to actually I want to do do this at the
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: start of the episode. But New South Wales, so Western Australia,
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: has this. There is a law that got It was
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: a law that first happened in England. It's called Claire's Law.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: It's been in England for a while, I believe, and
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: what it is is a woman named Claire. I don't
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: know the full story, and maybe I won't repeat the story.
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: We should look it up, and they do it in
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: next week's episode, but just so we get it proper.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: But basically, what Claire's Law is is if a woman
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: starts dating a man and she has good reason to
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: believe maybe he has a pass of domestic violence, she
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: can go use Claire's Law at a police station and
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: get his past domestic violence history. So the police officers
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: they have it. There's a thing you need to fill
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: out and they will deem whether or not that you
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: have a good reason to see this guy's history, and
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: then they'll give it to you and they'll say either
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: he does have past domestic violence or he doesn't. And
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: so that means that if a girl does have a
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: reason to believe that a guy she's seeing, even if
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: she likes him, has something has a history of domestic violence,
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: and the police say he actually does, she can get
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: out of it before it even happens. That's good, which
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: is sick. So Western Australia has it. New South Wales
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: there's currently a thing a petition to sign to get it.
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: Oh when't they just deprove that? So I don't know,
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: I don't know why they need to prove it her way.
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: So Beth brought it up to me the other day
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: and she has there's a petition that she said she signed,
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: and I was like, fuck, I need to get the
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: link from her. We need to put it in the
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: description of this episode, and everybody go sign that fucking link.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we can get some Let's hopefully let's get some
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 3: fucking signatures on this thing, and let's get Claire's Law
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 3: a thing in New South Wales because repeat offenders, like
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 3: people that have offended once are the people that are
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 3: going to offend again.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 3: And also what I'm talking about is sort of like
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 3: the star of then the star of the spectrum. Yeah,
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 3: like they're just the stereotypical blokes, which I don't like saying,
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 3: but they're just the way they view women is completely
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 3: wrong and it's no balls effect into those sort of
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 3: problems one hundred percent. And I guess going back to
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 3: our group of friends wasn't that bad by any means.
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 3: But a simple sort of scenario, if I was eighteen
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 3: and in a scenario where two guys in the front seat,
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 3: I'm in the back seat with another mate and their
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 3: cat calling a girl's walking past, my friends never did this,
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 3: But if it did, I wish I had the tools
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 3: as an aideen, you old two voice up and be like, hey, man,
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  Speaker 3: don't fucking do that.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: But it's set. The problem is we just keep quiet. Yeah,
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: And that's the thing that sucks is a lot of
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: men need to admit, right. So when I say this,
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: I'm not attacking you, I'm not attacking me. I'm not
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: attacking anyone. But if you're in a situation where you
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: think you should be calling your friends out but you're
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: to quote unquote scared, that's the problem or the problem
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: is us when men don't have the capability or tools
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  Speaker 1: to do it, and we just need to stop being
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: fucking babies. That's literally, it's it's a simple thing. It's
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's a simple thing. And in
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: this situation, I too am a pussy and I need
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: to accept that. But it's a thing where if you're
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: in the situation, it's just got to be like fright.
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: I think it's more than that.
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  Speaker 3: It's that we didn't realize the magnitude the issue, not
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 3: that we're pussy. Maybe, Yeah, it's like we didn't realize
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 3: that was the problem when it was happening.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: But now we can realize that it's funny. It's like
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: I can call someone out for littering. Yeah, I can't
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: cast some for dick. Yeah, literally, fucking what literally?
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 3: And if you start it there, this snowball effect doesn't
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 3: happen as frequently hoping.
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I find that link. Definitely, Yeah, definitely we
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: think that. But why do they not just think, Yeah,
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: this is a pretty good lord to have. Let's just
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: do it.
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 3: I don't know common sense with like all that comment
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 3: shit doesn't really make sense.
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: It's eleven ten. I think our hour is over. We
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: can't listen to the song we call Yeah, see if
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: she picks up. Hello. We listened to it on the podcast.
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 8: We've Got Everything.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 6: We've got it all.
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 3: You just made our day, our year, our artist's career,
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 3: our podcast career.
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: You just made everything. Guys. That was so much fun.
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 3: Wait, so we were sitting here, we started like five
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 3: We started playing the radio like five minutes before, just
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 3: to like make sure we got everything.
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: And we didn't know you were going to come on
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: do like proper radio stuff. You sounded. Yeah, we could
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: see that podcast award you got. Yeah, you have a
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: podcast word for a reason.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 5: Guys, I told you I'm fully trained, and yeah, an award.
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: And we're still on the podcast, by the way, so
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: I should have said that.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 2: Oh that's all good basically.
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 3: So I saw your message. Then, So there were seven
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 3: full rounds of the songs, yeah yeah, yeah, No, seven
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 3: full rounds of the EP yeah yeah.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: Did you like break the charts or anything? Get some
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: comments saying this is the best radio It was the
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: radio station crashing, so many leap of people tuned in,
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: like that's.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 5: Exactly what it was.
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 2: You know, I'm gonna I'm gonna have to speak to
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 2: the radio team to get all the numbers file for us.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: Oh god, thank you, thank you. Mention what we're gonna do, Well,
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: we're gonna so I asked you, I got your adjust
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: to saying some merch we've got We've got hats and
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: then the old merch, but we also have I don't know,
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: we've said this kind of privately, subtenly. I don't know
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: if people picked up we have new merch coming in.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: It's actually been ordered. So we'll send you there's two jumpers,
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: like two hoodies and one T shirt. Will send you
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: that to stuff.
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 5: Well, kit it out fun Oh my gosh, thank you
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 5: guys so much. I had was a flash.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: I'm so glad you had a good time because you
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: full drove like an hour to.
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 8: Do this, didn't you.
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: I did? Yeah.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 5: I mean I'm doing other things here too, so don't worry.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: I don't want it to be a full lte of them.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: In evening I saw people from it saying Lisa is
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: a real bad Yeah. Actually I want to say, Lisa,
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: you actually might be the baddest bad.
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 11: Stop it stop.
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 5: You can't be giving away that title so lately.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: Guys, can anybody contest? Yeah, studio, we had party poppers.
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: The floor is still crazy.
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 2: Oh did you guys pop any champagne?
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: Unfortunately, we don't drink if you're a real bad. But
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: thank you so much, Lisa. Thanks again.
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 5: It was my sincerest pleasure you guys.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: I had.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 13: Yeah, I had so much fun.
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we need to We hope you have a great afternoon. Bye.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 5: Thanks you guys have a great morning.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 3: Bye.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 7: Wow.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well legend, well, I mean hey, look, I mean
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: maybe no comments this episode a little bit differently.
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 3: We're too excited. We want to say thank you for
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 3: everything bad. He's not only for this song and the
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 3: radio campaign, but just the support recently. Thank you for
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 3: the life you've given us, love, your stay bad, stay.
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 8: Bad, and wasn't a man. I think, I think I'm
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 8: in love.