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How to Avoid Twin Flame Breakups & Arguments · Twin Flame Guides

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  Hi guys, we are at the spa and we decided we were going to make
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  another video about arguments Part 2.
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  Part 2, Episode 2. Yes, because we think it's so
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  sad when you you message twin flame and then you decide to
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  break up like it's so sad. Yeah.
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  There's so many stories of it as well, like people just divorcing
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  their twin flame even when they're already married and all
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  this crazy stuff. So but it can be avoided.
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  It can be avoided for sure and and today we want to show you
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  how that can be avoided. The Love Languages You might
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  have heard about the five love languages, which is words of
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  affirmation, quality time, physical touch, acts of service
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  and and gifts. And gifts.
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  And gifts, yeah. And yeah, so they're all very
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  different ways of expressing your love and affection.
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  And if you use the wrong one with your partner, when they
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  say, if they're expecting, like words of affirmation, for
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  example, and you don't do any of that, instead you just shower
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  your partner with gifts, like physical gifts and stuff.
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  It won't really mean anything to them.
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  And they'll think that you're not showing them love, even
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  though in your head you're giving them loads of gifts and
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  like spending loads of money on them and stuff like this.
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  But if that's not what they care about, then it doesn't matter to
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  them. Yeah, most people have a primary
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  level, which maybe some secondary as well.
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  So go through the list with your partner and see always one flame
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  and see which one discuss which ones when it's yours and which
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  one is theirs and how you better can show your love to that
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  person and vice versa. So for example, with with us,
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  you might have noticed we're always like touching, stroking
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  each other's hair and other sort of stuff because the our shared
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  love language is physical touch. The secondary 1 is, you know, I
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  think it's like close to time. Yeah, yeah, we spend a lot of
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  time together. It's just us, nobody else.
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  Which I guess sort of links to the the fact that we're
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  introverts as well. Yeah, yeah.
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  So we. And that's that brings us to the
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  next topic, INFJ. So if maybe you have never heard
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  INFJ, this is one of the personality types in the Myers
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  Briggs personality test. There are 16 personality types.
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  You should definitely do the test online.
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  We will link it in the description below and find out
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  which personality type your partner is as well.
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  And so that way you will know if they are an introvert or
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  extrovert. So if they need more time just
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  like at home or alone to be charged or if they're more maybe
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  more social and like to party. And then also if they prefer, if
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  they're more like go on intuition or more about facts.
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  And it's a very advanced personality test and you will
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  find a a lot about partners and the way the person thinks and
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  acts. And that way you avoid conflicts
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  when you know how the person acts, right?
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  Yeah, most, I would say like the majority of conflicts can just
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  be avoided by knowing what sort of personality type you're
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  dealing with, what type you are and how you both work and how
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  you interact and things like that.
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  The one thing I didn't want to say though is that so there's 16
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  personality types, right? And there's going to be, you can
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  read all sorts of things online about how certain types are bad
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  for other types and certain types can interact.
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  And I would say in many ways it's just what you make of it.
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  I think that you can make any combination of personality types
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  work, especially if they was going to play.
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  Yeah. As long as you're aware of their
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  personality types, yeah. I guess I guess some
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  combinations might take more work than others.
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  Would you say it's easier if you're like more similar?
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  Or it doesn't have to be that, because it could be that you
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  complement each other. Yeah, you could have it work
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  both ways. For example, we're the same
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  personality type and it works fine, whereas it could also work
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  if one of us was the opposite personality type.
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  Yeah, this first extrovert. Yeah.
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  But one problem is that we both like to be at home and just be
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  with each other, which means we don't get out much and like,
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  socialise. Yeah.
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  Yeah. So there's proof and cons.
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  So don't freak out if you have a very different personality type
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  to your transplant. So in conclusion, check out the
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  links in the description do the the Myers Briggs personality
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  test. And then five love languages
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  tests. Just so you know, like roughly
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  what you're dealing with, if you've already found a twin
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  flame or if you've found who you think is a twin flame, maybe
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  just casually get them to take the test as well.
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  Like if you're just hanging out or something, or if you're even
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  together, take the test, see which what you with are.
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  And yeah, yeah, All right. That's all right.
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  We're going to go now and enjoy the spot.
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  Oh yeah. We're going to go and enjoy the
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  spot now. If you want to see behind the
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  scenes, special scenes, deleted scenes, bloopers, random videos,
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  check out our vlog. We do, we do one.
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  We'll do 1A Week 1 vlog. A week.
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  This week I've already posted. Next week will be the spa.
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  No, you'll probably just see them all at the same time.
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  That's a kind of fun, guys.