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- 0:00So
- 0:00there's
- 0:01quite
- 0:01a
- 0:01lot
- 0:01out
- 0:01there.
- 0:02But
- 0:02as
- 0:02you
- 0:03say,
- 0:03you've
- 0:03also
- 0:04got
- 0:04to
- 0:04be
- 0:04wise
- 0:04in
- 0:04terms
- 0:05of
- 0:05who's
- 0:06saying
- 0:06what
- 0:06and
- 0:07what
- 0:07they're
- 0:08trying
- 0:08to
- 0:08protect
- 0:09and
- 0:09what
- 0:09vested
- 0:10interests
- 0:10they
- 0:10have.
- 0:11My
- 0:12vested
- 0:12interest
- 0:12is
- 0:13simply
- 0:13I
- 0:13want
- 0:13the
- 0:13law
- 0:14to
- 0:14be
- 0:14accessible.
- 0:16I'm
- 0:17Becca
- 0:17Poutney,
- 0:17wedding
- 0:18business
- 0:18marketing
- 0:18expert,
- 0:19speaker
- 0:19and
- 0:19blogger,
- 0:20and
- 0:20you're
- 0:20listening
- 0:21to
- 0:21the
- 0:21Wedding
- 0:21Pros
- 0:22who
- 0:22Are
- 0:22Ready
- 0:22to
- 0:22Grow
- 0:22podcast.
- 0:24I'm
- 0:24here
- 0:24to
- 0:25share
- 0:25with
- 0:25you
- 0:25actionable
- 0:26tips,
- 0:26strategies
- 0:27and
- 0:27real
- 0:27life
- 0:27examples
- 0:28to
- 0:28help
- 0:28you
- 0:29take
- 0:29your
- 0:29wedding
- 0:29business
- 0:30to
- 0:30the
- 0:30next
- 0:30level
- 0:31in
- 0:31if
- 0:31you
- 0:31are
- 0:31an
- 0:32ambitious
- 0:32wedding
- 0:32business
- 0:33owner
- 0:33that
- 0:33wants
- 0:34to
- 0:34take
- 0:34your
- 0:34passion
- 0:35and
- 0:35use
- 0:35it
- 0:35to
- 0:35build
- 0:35a
- 0:36profitable,
- 0:36sustainable
- 0:37business
- 0:37doing
- 0:38what
- 0:38you
- 0:38love,
- 0:38then
- 0:39you're
- 0:39in
- 0:39the
- 0:39right
- 0:39place.
- 0:40Let's
- 0:40get
- 0:41going
- 0:41with
- 0:41today's
- 0:41episode.
- 0:43Today
- 0:43I'm
- 0:44chatting
- 0:44with
- 0:44Russell
- 0:45Sandberg,
- 0:45professor
- 0:46of
- 0:46Law
- 0:46at
- 0:46Cardiff
- 0:47University.
- 0:48His
- 0:48particular
- 0:49expertise
- 0:49is
- 0:50in
- 0:50law
- 0:50and
- 0:50religion.
- 0:51Russell
- 0:51has
- 0:51become
- 0:52a
- 0:52known
- 0:52figure
- 0:52in
- 0:52the
- 0:52world
- 0:53of
- 0:53celebrants
- 0:53because
- 0:54of
- 0:54his
- 0:54writing
- 0:54and
- 0:55involvement
- 0:55in
- 0:55the
- 0:55much
- 0:56talked
- 0:56about
- 0:56UK
- 0:57marriage
- 0:57law
- 0:57reform.
- 0:58Today
- 0:58I
- 0:58wanted
- 0:59to
- 0:59get
- 0:59him
- 0:59on
- 0:59the
- 0:59podcast
- 1:00to
- 1:00help
- 1:00us
- 1:00all
- 1:01understand
- 1:01what
- 1:01this
- 1:02reform
- 1:02is
- 1:02all
- 1:02about
- 1:03and
- 1:03how
- 1:03it's
- 1:03going
- 1:03to
- 1:04impact
- 1:04the
- 1:04industry
- 1:04here
- 1:05in
- 1:05the
- 1:05uk.
- 1:06Russell,
- 1:06welcome
- 1:07to
- 1:07the
- 1:07podcast.
- 1:08Thank
- 1:08you
- 1:08very
- 1:08much.
- 1:08I'm
- 1:09delighted
- 1:09to
- 1:09be
- 1:09here.
- 1:10I'm
- 1:10glad
- 1:10to
- 1:10have
- 1:11you.
- 1:11I
- 1:11think
- 1:11this
- 1:11is
- 1:11the
- 1:11first
- 1:11time
- 1:12I've
- 1:12ever
- 1:12had
- 1:12a
- 1:13professor
- 1:14on
- 1:14my
- 1:14podcast.
- 1:15So
- 1:15thank
- 1:15you
- 1:15so
- 1:15much
- 1:16for
- 1:16taking
- 1:16the
- 1:16time
- 1:16to
- 1:16be
- 1:17here.
- 1:17Delighted
- 1:17to.
- 1:18Now
- 1:19you
- 1:19are
- 1:19talking
- 1:19to
- 1:20an
- 1:20industry
- 1:21full
- 1:21of
- 1:21creatives.
- 1:22Here
- 1:22we
- 1:23are
- 1:23florists
- 1:24and
- 1:24photographers
- 1:24and
- 1:25cake
- 1:25makers,
- 1:25so.
- 1:26So
- 1:26you
- 1:26may
- 1:26need
- 1:26to
- 1:26start
- 1:27by
- 1:27explaining
- 1:27to
- 1:28us
- 1:28why
- 1:29you
- 1:29wanted
- 1:29to
- 1:29go
- 1:29into
- 1:30law,
- 1:30because
- 1:30that
- 1:31is
- 1:31a
- 1:31long
- 1:31way
- 1:31from
- 1:31most
- 1:32of
- 1:32our
- 1:32mindsets.
- 1:33Well,
- 1:33like
- 1:34most
- 1:34things,
- 1:34it's
- 1:35happenstance
- 1:36and
- 1:38as
- 1:38with
- 1:38most
- 1:39things,
- 1:39it's
- 1:40not
- 1:40designed
- 1:40because
- 1:41that's
- 1:41the
- 1:42thing
- 1:42with
- 1:42a
- 1:42career,
- 1:42right?
- 1:43You
- 1:43sort
- 1:43of
- 1:43look
- 1:43back
- 1:43at
- 1:44it
- 1:44and
- 1:44you
- 1:45can
- 1:45make
- 1:45this
- 1:45sort
- 1:45of
- 1:46thread
- 1:46and
- 1:46people
- 1:47can
- 1:47look
- 1:47at
- 1:47a
- 1:47CV
- 1:47and
- 1:48go,
- 1:48oh
- 1:48yeah,
- 1:48that's
- 1:48the
- 1:48thread
- 1:49and
- 1:49that's
- 1:50complete
- 1:50nonsense.
- 1:51It's
- 1:52basically
- 1:53right
- 1:53time,
- 1:53right
- 1:53place,
- 1:54and
- 1:55often
- 1:55defined
- 1:55by
- 1:56what
- 1:56you
- 1:56don't
- 1:56want
- 1:56to
- 1:56do.
- 1:57So
- 1:57I
- 1:57knew
- 1:57that
- 1:58I
- 1:58was
- 1:59useless
- 1:59at
- 1:59science,
- 2:00I
- 2:00was
- 2:01better
- 2:01at
- 2:01sort
- 2:01of
- 2:02humanities,
- 2:02that
- 2:02kind
- 2:03of
- 2:03thing.
- 2:03And
- 2:04you
- 2:04know,
- 2:04so
- 2:04that
- 2:04sort
- 2:05of
- 2:05rules
- 2:05out
- 2:05sort
- 2:06of
- 2:06medicine,
- 2:06that
- 2:06rules
- 2:07out
- 2:07sort
- 2:07of
- 2:07dentistry.
- 2:08So
- 2:09what
- 2:09professors
- 2:10are
- 2:10left
- 2:10with
- 2:11basically
- 2:12the
- 2:12law.
- 2:13And
- 2:13yeah,
- 2:13I
- 2:13mean,
- 2:13I
- 2:14enjoyed
- 2:14the
- 2:14subjects.
- 2:15I
- 2:15was
- 2:15studied
- 2:15at
- 2:15a
- 2:15level
- 2:16and
- 2:16to
- 2:16an
- 2:16extent
- 2:16I'm
- 2:17still
- 2:17doing
- 2:17most
- 2:18of
- 2:18them
- 2:18because
- 2:19I
- 2:19studied
- 2:19sociology,
- 2:20religious
- 2:20studies
- 2:21and
- 2:21history
- 2:21and
- 2:22I
- 2:22write
- 2:22about
- 2:22all
- 2:22three
- 2:23in
- 2:23terms
- 2:23of
- 2:23their
- 2:23connection
- 2:24to
- 2:24the
- 2:24law.
- 2:26But,
- 2:26yeah,
- 2:26I've
- 2:27got
- 2:27no
- 2:27idea
- 2:28why
- 2:28I
- 2:28then
- 2:29sort
- 2:29of
- 2:29went,
- 2:29I'm
- 2:30off
- 2:30to
- 2:30study
- 2:30law.
- 2:32So
- 2:32I
- 2:32studied
- 2:32law
- 2:33with
- 2:33sociology
- 2:34back
- 2:34in
- 2:35the
- 2:35day
- 2:35at
- 2:35Cardiff
- 2:36and
- 2:37haven't
- 2:38moved
- 2:38since.
- 2:39Basically
- 2:40just
- 2:40become
- 2:40part
- 2:41of
- 2:41the
- 2:41furniture.
- 2:42And
- 2:42again,
- 2:42it's
- 2:43just
- 2:43complete
- 2:43happenstance
- 2:45that,
- 2:46you
- 2:46know,
- 2:46in
- 2:47year
- 2:47one,
- 2:47as
- 2:47a
- 2:48fresher,
- 2:49my
- 2:49personal
- 2:49tutor
- 2:50was
- 2:50someone
- 2:50who
- 2:51wrote
- 2:51about
- 2:51the
- 2:51law
- 2:51of
- 2:52the
- 2:52church.
- 2:52And
- 2:53so
- 2:53that's
- 2:53of
- 2:53triggered
- 2:54off
- 2:54an
- 2:54interest
- 2:54in
- 2:55terms
- 2:55of
- 2:55how
- 2:55the
- 2:55state
- 2:55deals
- 2:56with
- 2:56religion.
- 2:57And
- 2:58then
- 2:58I
- 2:58collaborated
- 2:59with
- 3:00a
- 3:01senior
- 3:01professor
- 3:01of
- 3:01a
- 3:02law
- 3:02school
- 3:02whose
- 3:03expertise
- 3:03was
- 3:03in
- 3:03family
- 3:04law.
- 3:04And
- 3:05so,
- 3:05yeah,
- 3:06it's
- 3:07just
- 3:07sort
- 3:07of.
- 3:09It's
- 3:09been
- 3:09a
- 3:09pragmatic
- 3:10evolution
- 3:13and
- 3:13evolution
- 3:14overplays
- 3:15in
- 3:15terms
- 3:15of
- 3:15your
- 3:16back
- 3:16and
- 3:16forth,
- 3:16back
- 3:17and
- 3:17forth
- 3:17between
- 3:17various
- 3:18different
- 3:18ideas.
- 3:19And
- 3:19like
- 3:19I
- 3:19say,
- 3:20many
- 3:20ways,
- 3:20I'm
- 3:21still
- 3:21doing
- 3:21exactly
- 3:21the
- 3:22same
- 3:22thing
- 3:22I
- 3:22was
- 3:22doing
- 3:22at
- 3:22the
- 3:22age
- 3:23of
- 3:2318,
- 3:24which
- 3:24is
- 3:25either
- 3:25great
- 3:26or
- 3:26slightly
- 3:27depressive.
- 3:28What
- 3:29is
- 3:29it,
- 3:29do
- 3:29you
- 3:29think
- 3:29about
- 3:30the
- 3:30law
- 3:31and
- 3:31religion
- 3:31and
- 3:31that
- 3:32intersection
- 3:32that
- 3:32is
- 3:33just
- 3:33become
- 3:34so
- 3:34interesting
- 3:35to
- 3:35you?
- 3:35Is
- 3:35there
- 3:35something
- 3:36you
- 3:36go,
- 3:36you
- 3:36know,
- 3:36if
- 3:36you
- 3:37were
- 3:37trying
- 3:37to
- 3:37pitch
- 3:37me
- 3:37on
- 3:38why
- 3:38I
- 3:38should
- 3:38be
- 3:38interested
- 3:39in
- 3:39law
- 3:39and
- 3:39religion,
- 3:40what,
- 3:40why?
- 3:40Well,
- 3:41I
- 3:41think
- 3:41it
- 3:41comes
- 3:41back
- 3:42to
- 3:42sort
- 3:42of
- 3:43the
- 3:43thing
- 3:43that
- 3:43really
- 3:43interested
- 3:44me
- 3:44at
- 3:44a
- 3:44level,
- 3:45I
- 3:45mean,
- 3:45we're
- 3:45way
- 3:46back
- 3:46now,
- 3:48was
- 3:48where
- 3:48I
- 3:49was
- 3:49learning
- 3:49about
- 3:49stuff
- 3:50which
- 3:50was
- 3:50in
- 3:50the
- 3:50news,
- 3:51which
- 3:51was
- 3:51current,
- 3:52which
- 3:53was
- 3:53sort
- 3:53of
- 3:53everyday.
- 3:54And
- 3:54studying
- 3:55law
- 3:55is
- 3:55studying
- 3:56everyday
- 3:56stuff
- 3:57because
- 3:57sort
- 3:57of,
- 3:57you
- 3:57know,
- 3:57every
- 3:58sort
- 3:58of
- 3:58news
- 3:58story
- 3:59has
- 3:59a
- 3:59legal
- 3:59dimension
- 4:00and
- 4:00your
- 4:01everyday
- 4:01life
- 4:01has
- 4:01a
- 4:02legal
- 4:02dimension
- 4:02too,
- 4:03you
- 4:03know,
- 4:03quite
- 4:03often.
- 4:04So
- 4:05what
- 4:05was
- 4:05interesting
- 4:06was,
- 4:06as
- 4:06I
- 4:06was
- 4:07sort
- 4:07of
- 4:07finishing
- 4:07my
- 4:08undergraduate
- 4:08degree
- 4:08and
- 4:08then
- 4:09doing
- 4:09my
- 4:09PhD,
- 4:10my
- 4:10doctorate,
- 4:12sort
- 4:13of
- 4:13issues
- 4:13concerning
- 4:14religion
- 4:14were
- 4:14everywhere
- 4:15in
- 4:15the
- 4:15news
- 4:15and
- 4:16issues
- 4:16concerning
- 4:16law
- 4:17and
- 4:17religion
- 4:17were
- 4:17everywhere
- 4:18in
- 4:18the
- 4:18news,
- 4:18in
- 4:18terms
- 4:19of
- 4:19wearing
- 4:19of
- 4:19Islamic
- 4:20dress
- 4:20at
- 4:20schools,
- 4:22whether
- 4:22or
- 4:22not
- 4:22you
- 4:22can
- 4:23discriminate
- 4:23on
- 4:23grounds
- 4:24of
- 4:24religion,
- 4:25whether
- 4:25religious
- 4:26people
- 4:26can
- 4:26discriminate
- 4:27and
- 4:27religious
- 4:27groups
- 4:28can
- 4:28discriminate
- 4:28on
- 4:28grounds
- 4:29of
- 4:29sexuality,
- 4:29for
- 4:30instance,
- 4:31you
- 4:32know,
- 4:32whether
- 4:32it's
- 4:32a
- 4:33criminal
- 4:33offense
- 4:33to
- 4:34blaspheme
- 4:35or
- 4:35to
- 4:36incite
- 4:37religious
- 4:38hatred,
- 4:39reforms
- 4:41in
- 4:41relation
- 4:42to
- 4:42charity
- 4:42law
- 4:42concerning
- 4:43religion,
- 4:43education
- 4:44law,
- 4:45marriage
- 4:46law,
- 4:46though
- 4:46not
- 4:47many
- 4:47reforms
- 4:47there
- 4:48yet,
- 4:48but
- 4:48we'll
- 4:49come
- 4:49to
- 4:49that
- 4:49shortly.
- 4:50But
- 4:50yes,
- 4:51it
- 4:51offers
- 4:52a
- 4:52different
- 4:52way
- 4:53of
- 4:53looking
- 4:53at
- 4:54the
- 4:54law,
- 4:54actually,
- 4:54a
- 4:55different
- 4:55way
- 4:55of
- 4:55kind
- 4:55of
- 4:56looking
- 4:56at
- 4:58current
- 4:58affairs.
- 4:59And
- 4:59yeah,
- 4:59who
- 4:59knows,
- 5:00had
- 5:00I
- 5:00been
- 5:01doing
- 5:01that
- 5:01sort
- 5:02of
- 5:02decade
- 5:02before,
- 5:02I
- 5:03might
- 5:03have
- 5:03been
- 5:03writing
- 5:03about
- 5:03something
- 5:04completely
- 5:04different.
- 5:06It's
- 5:06happenstance
- 5:08yeah,
- 5:08but
- 5:08it's
- 5:08actually
- 5:08really
- 5:09interesting
- 5:09because
- 5:09you
- 5:10just
- 5:10mentioned
- 5:10a
- 5:10lot
- 5:11of
- 5:11things
- 5:11that
- 5:11I
- 5:11would
- 5:11not
- 5:12even
- 5:12have
- 5:12considered
- 5:13to
- 5:14be
- 5:14connected.
- 5:15And
- 5:15actually
- 5:15you're
- 5:16right,
- 5:16it
- 5:16does.
- 5:16There
- 5:17does
- 5:17is
- 5:17a
- 5:17lot
- 5:17of
- 5:17intersection
- 5:18and
- 5:18there
- 5:18is
- 5:18a
- 5:18lot
- 5:19in
- 5:19the
- 5:19news
- 5:19about
- 5:19the
- 5:20connection
- 5:20between
- 5:21religion
- 5:21and
- 5:22law.
- 5:22So
- 5:22yeah,
- 5:23I
- 5:23can,
- 5:23I
- 5:23can
- 5:23see
- 5:24why
- 5:24you're
- 5:24interested
- 5:25piquing
- 5:25my
- 5:25interest
- 5:26already.
- 5:27Now
- 5:27let's
- 5:27talk
- 5:28about
- 5:28marriage
- 5:28then,
- 5:29specifically,
- 5:29because
- 5:29obviously
- 5:30that's
- 5:30what
- 5:30people
- 5:30are
- 5:31thinking
- 5:31about
- 5:32here.
- 5:32And
- 5:33I
- 5:33don't
- 5:33know
- 5:33if
- 5:33I'm
- 5:33right
- 5:33in
- 5:34this,
- 5:34but
- 5:34I
- 5:34read
- 5:34online
- 5:35that
- 5:35a
- 5:35lot
- 5:35of
- 5:35the
- 5:36marriage
- 5:36laws
- 5:37date
- 5:37back
- 5:37to
- 5:37something
- 5:37like
- 5:381836.
- 5:39That
- 5:40seems
- 5:40like
- 5:40a
- 5:41long
- 5:41time
- 5:41ago.
- 5:41Yeah,
- 5:42I
- 5:42mean
- 5:42the
- 5:42actual
- 5:42law
- 5:43is
- 5:43found
- 5:43in
- 5:43act
- 5:44of
- 5:44Parliament,
- 5:44the
- 5:44Marriage
- 5:45Act,
- 5:451949,
- 5:46but
- 5:46that
- 5:47act
- 5:47of
- 5:47Parliament
- 5:48basically
- 5:48brings
- 5:48together
- 5:49older
- 5:50laws.
- 5:51So
- 5:51quite
- 5:51a
- 5:51lot
- 5:51of
- 5:52the
- 5:52laws
- 5:52there
- 5:52are
- 5:52found
- 5:53are
- 5:53the
- 5:54same
- 5:54laws
- 5:54that
- 5:54would
- 5:54have
- 5:55applied
- 5:55in
- 5:551836,
- 5:56some
- 5:56even
- 5:57earlier.
- 5:58And
- 5:58so
- 5:58yeah,
- 5:59it
- 6:00really
- 6:00is
- 6:01a
- 6:01historical
- 6:01construct.
- 6:03And
- 6:03actually
- 6:03it's
- 6:04exactly
- 6:04the
- 6:04same
- 6:05as
- 6:05I
- 6:05was
- 6:05saying
- 6:06about
- 6:06careers
- 6:07in
- 6:07that
- 6:07it's
- 6:08often,
- 6:09it's
- 6:09not
- 6:10design,
- 6:11it's
- 6:12pragmatic
- 6:13response,
- 6:13it's
- 6:13compromise.
- 6:14And
- 6:15so
- 6:15our
- 6:15history
- 6:15of
- 6:16marriage
- 6:16law
- 6:16is
- 6:17the
- 6:17history
- 6:17of
- 6:17compromise
- 6:18in
- 6:19terms
- 6:19of,
- 6:19you
- 6:19know,
- 6:19originally
- 6:20saying,
- 6:21right,
- 6:21okay,
- 6:21we
- 6:22need
- 6:22to
- 6:22formalize
- 6:22this.
- 6:23And
- 6:23we
- 6:23need
- 6:23to
- 6:23formalize
- 6:24this
- 6:24by
- 6:24saying
- 6:24you've
- 6:25got
- 6:25to
- 6:25get
- 6:25married
- 6:25in
- 6:26the
- 6:26Church
- 6:26of
- 6:26England
- 6:27church.
- 6:27Oh,
- 6:27hang
- 6:27on
- 6:27a
- 6:28minute.
- 6:28What
- 6:28about
- 6:28Jews?
- 6:29Oh
- 6:29yes,
- 6:29of
- 6:30course
- 6:30we're
- 6:30allowed
- 6:30Jews.
- 6:31What
- 6:32about
- 6:32Quakers?
- 6:32Of
- 6:32course
- 6:32we're
- 6:33allowed
- 6:33Quakers.
- 6:33And
- 6:33then
- 6:34time
- 6:34goes
- 6:34on.
- 6:34And
- 6:35what
- 6:35about
- 6:36other
- 6:36forms
- 6:36of
- 6:36Christianity
- 6:37which
- 6:37are
- 6:37now
- 6:38starting
- 6:38to
- 6:38become
- 6:38lawful
- 6:39again?
- 6:40Oh
- 6:40yes,
- 6:40okay,
- 6:41we'll
- 6:41find
- 6:41ways
- 6:42to
- 6:42deal
- 6:42with
- 6:42them,
- 6:43but
- 6:43we'll
- 6:43deal
- 6:43with
- 6:44them
- 6:44differently.
- 6:45How
- 6:45we've
- 6:45dealt
- 6:45with
- 6:46the
- 6:46Church
- 6:46of
- 6:46England,
- 6:47how
- 6:47we
- 6:47dealt
- 6:47with
- 6:47Jews,
- 6:48how
- 6:48we've
- 6:48dealt
- 6:48with
- 6:48Quakers.
- 6:49So
- 6:49actually
- 6:51what
- 6:51the
- 6:51history
- 6:51of
- 6:51our
- 6:52marriage
- 6:52law
- 6:52shows
- 6:53is
- 6:54that
- 6:55changing
- 6:55the
- 6:56law,
- 6:56adapting
- 6:57the
- 6:57law,
- 6:57modernizing
- 6:58the
- 6:58law
- 6:59to
- 6:59fit
- 7:00change
- 7:00in
- 7:00social
- 7:01needs
- 7:02has
- 7:02been
- 7:02the
- 7:03norm.
- 7:03And
- 7:04actually
- 7:04the
- 7:04last
- 7:0580
- 7:05years
- 7:06or
- 7:06so
- 7:07has
- 7:07been
- 7:07atypical
- 7:08because
- 7:08yes,
- 7:09there
- 7:09have
- 7:09been
- 7:09pieces
- 7:10of
- 7:10law
- 7:10reform,
- 7:11most
- 7:11notably
- 7:12same
- 7:12sex
- 7:12marriage,
- 7:13but
- 7:14that
- 7:14has
- 7:14just
- 7:15been
- 7:15sort
- 7:15of
- 7:15copy
- 7:16and
- 7:16pasted
- 7:17into
- 7:17existing
- 7:18laws
- 7:19rather
- 7:19than
- 7:20going
- 7:20back
- 7:20to
- 7:21change
- 7:22the
- 7:22foundations.
- 7:24And
- 7:25most
- 7:25countries
- 7:26when
- 7:26they
- 7:26and
- 7:27most
- 7:27of
- 7:27our
- 7:27neighboring
- 7:27countries
- 7:28when
- 7:28they
- 7:28introduce
- 7:29same
- 7:29sex
- 7:29marriage,
- 7:30used
- 7:30as
- 7:31an
- 7:31opportunity
- 7:31to
- 7:32modernize
- 7:32their
- 7:32marriage
- 7:33laws.
- 7:33England
- 7:34and
- 7:34Wales
- 7:34went,
- 7:35no,
- 7:35we're
- 7:36not
- 7:36doing
- 7:36that.
- 7:37That's
- 7:37far
- 7:37too
- 7:38complicated.
- 7:38There's
- 7:39far
- 7:39too
- 7:39many
- 7:39vested
- 7:40interests
- 7:41in
- 7:41that.
- 7:42We
- 7:42will
- 7:42just
- 7:43copy
- 7:43and
- 7:43Paste
- 7:43stuff
- 7:43from
- 7:44existing
- 7:44marriage
- 7:44law
- 7:45and
- 7:45build
- 7:45the
- 7:46civil
- 7:46partnership
- 7:47and
- 7:47then
- 7:48same
- 7:48sex
- 7:48marriage
- 7:49on
- 7:49top
- 7:50of
- 7:50this
- 7:50already
- 7:51rickety
- 7:53ancient
- 7:54structure.
- 7:55That
- 7:55makes
- 7:55perfect
- 7:56sense
- 7:56to
- 7:56me.
- 7:56So
- 7:56we've
- 7:57basically
- 7:57just
- 7:57been
- 7:57patching
- 7:58it
- 7:58up
- 7:58all
- 7:58of
- 7:59the
- 7:59time.
- 7:59Oh
- 7:59yeah,
- 7:59we'll
- 7:59just
- 8:00add
- 8:00that
- 8:00patch
- 8:00and
- 8:00we'll
- 8:00just
- 8:01add
- 8:01that
- 8:01patch.
- 8:01But
- 8:02actually
- 8:02the
- 8:02thing
- 8:02as
- 8:02a
- 8:03whole
- 8:03isn't
- 8:04really
- 8:04working
- 8:04or
- 8:04is
- 8:05a
- 8:05bit
- 8:05outdated
- 8:05and
- 8:06not
- 8:06fit
- 8:06for
- 8:06purpose.
- 8:07So
- 8:07then
- 8:07talk
- 8:07to
- 8:08me
- 8:08about
- 8:08the
- 8:08marriage
- 8:09law
- 8:09reform,
- 8:10because
- 8:10that's
- 8:10the
- 8:10thing
- 8:11that
- 8:11wedding
- 8:11industry
- 8:12people
- 8:12are
- 8:12hearing
- 8:13about
- 8:13now.
- 8:13It's
- 8:14been
- 8:14talked
- 8:14about,
- 8:14I
- 8:14believe
- 8:14it's
- 8:15been
- 8:15talked
- 8:15about
- 8:15for
- 8:16quite
- 8:16a
- 8:16while,
- 8:16but
- 8:17it
- 8:17seems
- 8:17to
- 8:17suddenly
- 8:18have
- 8:18re
- 8:18entered
- 8:19the
- 8:19public
- 8:19sphere
- 8:20again
- 8:20a
- 8:20little
- 8:21bit
- 8:21more
- 8:21widely.
- 8:22What
- 8:23is
- 8:23the
- 8:23aim
- 8:24of
- 8:24that?
- 8:24Is
- 8:24it
- 8:25to
- 8:25take
- 8:25it
- 8:25back
- 8:25to
- 8:26basics
- 8:26and
- 8:26rebuild
- 8:27the
- 8:27whole
- 8:27thing
- 8:27or
- 8:28is
- 8:28it
- 8:28just
- 8:28another
- 8:28patch?
- 8:29It's
- 8:30to
- 8:30rebuild
- 8:30the
- 8:30whole
- 8:31thing.
- 8:31It's
- 8:31comprehensive
- 8:32law
- 8:32reform
- 8:33to
- 8:33look
- 8:33again
- 8:34really
- 8:34and
- 8:35to
- 8:35change
- 8:35the
- 8:36underlying
- 8:38premise
- 8:38of
- 8:39our
- 8:39law.
- 8:40Because
- 8:40our
- 8:40underlying
- 8:41premise
- 8:41of
- 8:42our
- 8:42law
- 8:42at
- 8:42the
- 8:42moment
- 8:43is
- 8:43buildings
- 8:44based
- 8:45on.
- 8:45So
- 8:46under
- 8:46The
- 8:46Marriage
- 8:47Act
- 8:471949,
- 8:48in
- 8:48order
- 8:48there
- 8:48to
- 8:48be
- 8:49a
- 8:49legally
- 8:49binding
- 8:50marriage,
- 8:51it
- 8:51has
- 8:51to
- 8:51be
- 8:52either
- 8:52a
- 8:52civil
- 8:52marriage
- 8:53in
- 8:53a
- 8:53registry
- 8:54office
- 8:54or
- 8:54approved
- 8:55premises,
- 8:56or
- 8:56Church
- 8:56of
- 8:57England
- 8:57marriage,
- 8:57or
- 8:58Quaker
- 8:58marriage,
- 8:58or
- 8:59Jewish
- 8:59marriage,
- 9:00or
- 9:00religious
- 9:01marriage
- 9:01in
- 9:02a
- 9:02registered
- 9:02place
- 9:03of
- 9:03worship.
- 9:04And
- 9:05that
- 9:05obviously
- 9:05excludes
- 9:07non
- 9:07religious
- 9:08marriages
- 9:09in
- 9:09terms
- 9:09of
- 9:10humanist
- 9:10marriages,
- 9:11independent
- 9:12celebrant
- 9:12marriages.
- 9:13It
- 9:13also
- 9:14excludes
- 9:14quite
- 9:14a
- 9:14lot
- 9:15of
- 9:15religious
- 9:15marriages
- 9:16because
- 9:17they
- 9:17don't
- 9:17always
- 9:17occur
- 9:18in
- 9:19a
- 9:19place
- 9:19of
- 9:19worship.
- 9:20So
- 9:21the
- 9:21problem
- 9:21has
- 9:21been
- 9:22that
- 9:22our
- 9:22law
- 9:22hasn't
- 9:23kept
- 9:23up
- 9:23to
- 9:23date
- 9:24with
- 9:24these
- 9:24significant
- 9:25changes.
- 9:26And
- 9:27so
- 9:27all
- 9:27those
- 9:28weddings
- 9:28are
- 9:28not
- 9:29legally
- 9:29binding
- 9:30unless
- 9:30and
- 9:30until
- 9:32the
- 9:32couple
- 9:32also
- 9:33go
- 9:33through
- 9:33the
- 9:34legal
- 9:34formality.
- 9:35So
- 9:35that
- 9:35basically
- 9:36means
- 9:36two
- 9:36ceremonies
- 9:38and
- 9:38medicinal
- 9:39cost.
- 9:39And
- 9:40there's
- 9:40quite
- 9:40a
- 9:40lot
- 9:41of
- 9:41data
- 9:42which
- 9:42shows
- 9:43that
- 9:43in
- 9:43some
- 9:43communities
- 9:44it's
- 9:44also
- 9:45misunderstood.
- 9:46So
- 9:46for
- 9:46instance,
- 9:47in
- 9:47the
- 9:47Islamic
- 9:47community
- 9:48it's
- 9:48often
- 9:48misunderstood.
- 9:49And
- 9:49so
- 9:49they
- 9:50think
- 9:50they
- 9:50are
- 9:50legally
- 9:51married
- 9:51and
- 9:52that
- 9:52becomes
- 9:52a
- 9:53problem
- 9:53if
- 9:54and
- 9:54when
- 9:54the
- 9:54relationship
- 9:55breaks
- 9:55down
- 9:56and
- 9:56suddenly
- 9:57they
- 9:57don't
- 9:57have
- 9:57the
- 9:57rights
- 9:58on
- 9:58divorce
- 9:58which
- 9:59they
- 9:59normally
- 9:59would
- 9:59have
- 10:00because
- 10:00there's
- 10:01no
- 10:01legal
- 10:01marriage
- 10:02to
- 10:02divorce.
- 10:04So
- 10:05over
- 10:05the
- 10:06last
- 10:06decade
- 10:07or
- 10:07so
- 10:07there's
- 10:08been
- 10:08moves
- 10:08for
- 10:09marriage
- 10:09reform.
- 10:10They
- 10:11were
- 10:11originally
- 10:12spearheaded
- 10:12by
- 10:12the
- 10:13humanists.
- 10:14And
- 10:14the
- 10:14humanists
- 10:15wanted
- 10:16the
- 10:16kind
- 10:16of
- 10:16piecemeal
- 10:17reform,
- 10:18the
- 10:18kind
- 10:18of
- 10:18pact
- 10:19we
- 10:19just
- 10:19talked
- 10:20about.
- 10:20And
- 10:21they
- 10:21lobbied
- 10:22parliament
- 10:23in
- 10:24the
- 10:24government
- 10:24in
- 10:24the
- 10:25same
- 10:25sex
- 10:25marriage
- 10:25legislation
- 10:26in
- 10:272012.
- 10:28And
- 10:28they
- 10:29basically
- 10:29got
- 10:30two
- 10:30things.
- 10:31They
- 10:31got
- 10:32parliament
- 10:32to
- 10:32agree
- 10:33and
- 10:33it's
- 10:33in
- 10:33the
- 10:34act
- 10:34that
- 10:34there
- 10:35would
- 10:35be
- 10:35A
- 10:35consultation
- 10:36on
- 10:36humanist
- 10:36marriage.
- 10:37And
- 10:37then
- 10:38there's
- 10:38a
- 10:38power
- 10:39which
- 10:39allows
- 10:39a
- 10:40government
- 10:40minister
- 10:40to
- 10:41enact
- 10:41humanist
- 10:42marriage.
- 10:43Now,
- 10:43one
- 10:43of
- 10:43those
- 10:44things
- 10:44have
- 10:44come
- 10:45to
- 10:45pass,
- 10:45the
- 10:45other
- 10:46thing
- 10:46hasn't.
- 10:47So
- 10:47the
- 10:47consultation
- 10:48took
- 10:48place
- 10:48and
- 10:49the
- 10:49consultation
- 10:49came
- 10:50out
- 10:50basically
- 10:50with
- 10:51the
- 10:51view.
- 10:52Yes,
- 10:52but
- 10:52it's
- 10:53complicated.
- 10:53And
- 10:54so
- 10:54what
- 10:54they
- 10:55then
- 10:55said
- 10:55was,
- 10:55there's
- 10:56a
- 10:56need
- 10:56for
- 10:56the
- 10:56Law
- 10:57Commission,
- 10:58which
- 10:58is
- 10:58a
- 10:58body
- 10:59in
- 10:59England
- 10:59and
- 11:00Wales
- 11:00that
- 11:00looks
- 11:00at
- 11:00areas
- 11:01of
- 11:01law
- 11:01which
- 11:01are
- 11:01in
- 11:02need
- 11:02of
- 11:02reform.
- 11:03It's
- 11:03sort
- 11:04of
- 11:04headed
- 11:04up
- 11:04by
- 11:04commissioners,
- 11:05often
- 11:05sort
- 11:06of
- 11:06academics,
- 11:07who
- 11:07are
- 11:07sort
- 11:08of
- 11:09assigned
- 11:10to
- 11:10it
- 11:11for
- 11:11a
- 11:11particular
- 11:11period
- 11:12of
- 11:12time.
- 11:13And
- 11:13so
- 11:13the
- 11:13Law
- 11:14Commission
- 11:14then
- 11:15brought
- 11:15out
- 11:15a
- 11:15consultation
- 11:16paper,
- 11:17a
- 11:17scoping
- 11:17paper
- 11:18originally,
- 11:18then
- 11:18a
- 11:18consultation
- 11:19paper,
- 11:19then
- 11:20a
- 11:20final
- 11:20paper.
- 11:20And
- 11:21as
- 11:21you
- 11:21can
- 11:21imagine,
- 11:22this
- 11:22all
- 11:22takes
- 11:23years.
- 11:24And
- 11:24so
- 11:25they
- 11:25then
- 11:26came
- 11:27out
- 11:27very,
- 11:27very
- 11:28clearly
- 11:28in
- 11:28their
- 11:28final
- 11:29report
- 11:29in
- 11:292022
- 11:30and
- 11:30said
- 11:30there
- 11:31needs
- 11:31to
- 11:31be
- 11:31a
- 11:32move
- 11:32from
- 11:33buildings
- 11:34regulating
- 11:35buildings
- 11:35to
- 11:35regulating
- 11:36people.
- 11:37And
- 11:37that
- 11:37would
- 11:37open
- 11:37the
- 11:38door
- 11:38to
- 11:39humanist
- 11:39celebrants,
- 11:40that
- 11:40would
- 11:40open
- 11:40the
- 11:40door
- 11:41to
- 11:41independent
- 11:41celebrants,
- 11:42that
- 11:43would
- 11:43open
- 11:43the
- 11:43door
- 11:44to
- 11:44religious
- 11:45marriages
- 11:45outside
- 11:46of
- 11:47religious
- 11:48buildings.
- 11:49And
- 11:49then
- 11:50the
- 11:50thing,
- 11:51the
- 11:51Law
- 11:51Commission
- 11:52publishes
- 11:52a
- 11:52report
- 11:53and
- 11:53the
- 11:53government
- 11:54then
- 11:54needs
- 11:55to
- 11:55respond
- 11:55in
- 11:55six
- 11:56months.
- 11:56That's
- 11:56part
- 11:57of
- 11:57the
- 11:57deal.
- 11:58Well,
- 11:59the
- 11:59Conservative
- 12:00government
- 12:00never
- 12:01responded,
- 12:03so
- 12:03nothing
- 12:04happened
- 12:04for
- 12:04years.
- 12:05Then
- 12:05Labour
- 12:06came
- 12:06to
- 12:06power
- 12:06and
- 12:08they
- 12:09in
- 12:09opposition,
- 12:10were
- 12:10keen
- 12:10on
- 12:11it,
- 12:11it
- 12:11has
- 12:11to
- 12:11be
- 12:12said,
- 12:12and
- 12:12were
- 12:12pressing
- 12:13the
- 12:14Conservatives
- 12:14on
- 12:14it.
- 12:15So
- 12:15vacant
- 12:16to
- 12:16power
- 12:16amendment,
- 12:16and
- 12:16said,
- 12:17yes,
- 12:17this
- 12:17is
- 12:17something
- 12:17we
- 12:18want
- 12:18to
- 12:18look
- 12:18into.
- 12:20But
- 12:20obviously
- 12:21the
- 12:21Law
- 12:21Commission's
- 12:22final
- 12:22report
- 12:22was
- 12:22only
- 12:22500
- 12:23pages
- 12:23long.
- 12:24It's
- 12:24a
- 12:24huge
- 12:24technical
- 12:25document
- 12:26about
- 12:26how
- 12:26you
- 12:26could
- 12:27do
- 12:27this.
- 12:29So
- 12:29they've
- 12:29taken
- 12:29their
- 12:30time,
- 12:30understandably,
- 12:31as
- 12:31we
- 12:32said,
- 12:32to
- 12:32get
- 12:32their
- 12:32heads
- 12:33around
- 12:33it.
- 12:34And
- 12:34then
- 12:35about
- 12:36a
- 12:36fortnight
- 12:37or
- 12:37so
- 12:37ago,
- 12:39just
- 12:39out
- 12:39of
- 12:39the
- 12:39blue,
- 12:40there
- 12:40was
- 12:41a
- 12:41press
- 12:41release
- 12:41from
- 12:42the
- 12:42Ministry
- 12:42of
- 12:42Justice
- 12:43saying,
- 12:43yes,
- 12:44we
- 12:44are
- 12:44going
- 12:44to
- 12:44move
- 12:44on
- 12:45this.
- 12:45Yes,
- 12:45we're
- 12:45going
- 12:45to
- 12:45follow
- 12:46the
- 12:46Law
- 12:46Commission,
- 12:46yes,
- 12:47we're
- 12:47going
- 12:47for
- 12:47comprehensive
- 12:48reform.
- 12:49Yes,
- 12:49we're
- 12:49trying
- 12:50to
- 12:50solve
- 12:50those
- 12:50issues,
- 12:51which
- 12:51I've
- 12:51just
- 12:51explained.
- 12:52In
- 12:52terms
- 12:52of
- 12:52humanist
- 12:53marriage,
- 12:54in
- 12:54terms
- 12:54of
- 12:55religious
- 12:55marriages,
- 12:56they
- 12:56didn't
- 12:56mention
- 12:57independent
- 12:57celebrants
- 12:58or
- 12:58they
- 12:58did
- 12:59not
- 12:59mention
- 12:59independent
- 13:00celebrants,
- 13:00if
- 13:00you
- 13:00see
- 13:00what
- 13:01I
- 13:01mean.
- 13:01We
- 13:01can
- 13:02get
- 13:02into
- 13:02that
- 13:03if
- 13:03you
- 13:03want.
- 13:05And
- 13:06they
- 13:06said,
- 13:06right,
- 13:06okay,
- 13:07the
- 13:07next
- 13:07step
- 13:07now
- 13:07is
- 13:08another
- 13:08consultation
- 13:10next
- 13:10year,
- 13:11but
- 13:11this
- 13:11will
- 13:12now
- 13:12be
- 13:12presumably
- 13:13a
- 13:13consultation
- 13:13on
- 13:14the
- 13:14actual
- 13:16proposals
- 13:17rather
- 13:17than
- 13:17on
- 13:18the
- 13:18problem,
- 13:18which
- 13:18is
- 13:18what
- 13:18we've
- 13:19had
- 13:19up
- 13:19until
- 13:19now.
- 13:20So
- 13:20there
- 13:20will
- 13:20be
- 13:21a
- 13:21consultation
- 13:22once
- 13:22there's
- 13:23a
- 13:23consultation,
- 13:24depending
- 13:24on
- 13:24the
- 13:25results
- 13:25of
- 13:25that,
- 13:26then
- 13:27there
- 13:27will
- 13:27be
- 13:27a
- 13:27bill
- 13:28put
- 13:29forward
- 13:29if
- 13:30and
- 13:30when
- 13:30there
- 13:30is
- 13:31time.
- 13:32So,
- 13:32you
- 13:32know,
- 13:32we're
- 13:33not
- 13:33looking
- 13:33for
- 13:33an
- 13:33immediate
- 13:34change
- 13:34here.
- 13:35We're
- 13:36not
- 13:36looking
- 13:36for
- 13:36something
- 13:36we
- 13:37sort
- 13:37of,
- 13:37you
- 13:37know,
- 13:37in
- 13:37terms
- 13:37of
- 13:38this
- 13:38is
- 13:38going
- 13:38to
- 13:38affect
- 13:38couples
- 13:40who
- 13:40are
- 13:40looking
- 13:40to
- 13:41get
- 13:41married
- 13:41in
- 13:41the
- 13:41short
- 13:41term,
- 13:42unless
- 13:42they're
- 13:42looking
- 13:42for
- 13:42a
- 13:43very
- 13:43long
- 13:43engagement,
- 13:44it's
- 13:45probably
- 13:45not
- 13:45an
- 13:45issue
- 13:47will
- 13:47engage
- 13:47them,
- 13:48but
- 13:48it
- 13:48is
- 13:49an
- 13:49issue
- 13:49which
- 13:49should
- 13:49engage
- 13:50stakeholders
- 13:51in
- 13:52terms
- 13:52of
- 13:52this
- 13:53will
- 13:53make
- 13:53the
- 13:53law
- 13:53much
- 13:53clearer.
- 13:55This
- 13:55will
- 13:57save
- 13:57couples
- 13:58money
- 13:58in
- 13:59terms
- 13:59of
- 13:59not
- 13:59having
- 13:59to
- 14:00do
- 14:00it
- 14:00twice
- 14:01effectively
- 14:02and
- 14:04will
- 14:04have
- 14:05quite
- 14:06sort
- 14:06of
- 14:06significant
- 14:07effects.
- 14:08And
- 14:08the
- 14:08key,
- 14:09key,
- 14:09key
- 14:09thing
- 14:09I
- 14:10think
- 14:10is
- 14:10that
- 14:10the
- 14:11press
- 14:11release
- 14:12from
- 14:12the
- 14:12Ministry
- 14:13of
- 14:13Justice
- 14:13a
- 14:13couple
- 14:13of
- 14:13weeks
- 14:13ago
- 14:14was
- 14:14framed
- 14:14in
- 14:14this
- 14:14very
- 14:15much
- 14:15in
- 14:15economic
- 14:15terms
- 14:16because
- 14:16they'll
- 14:17say
- 14:17no,
- 14:17this
- 14:17is
- 14:17going
- 14:17to
- 14:18liberalize
- 14:19things.
- 14:19This
- 14:19is
- 14:19going
- 14:20to
- 14:20allow
- 14:20marriages
- 14:21on
- 14:21the
- 14:21beach
- 14:21which
- 14:22are
- 14:22legally
- 14:22binding,
- 14:22etc.
- 14:23And
- 14:23so
- 14:24the
- 14:24more
- 14:24that
- 14:24the
- 14:25wedding
- 14:25community
- 14:25can
- 14:26get
- 14:26behind
- 14:26it,
- 14:27the
- 14:27more
- 14:28likelihood
- 14:28a
- 14:29of
- 14:29it
- 14:30getting
- 14:30through
- 14:30the
- 14:30consultation
- 14:31phase
- 14:32because
- 14:32there
- 14:32are
- 14:32people
- 14:33with
- 14:33vested
- 14:33interests
- 14:34who
- 14:34don't
- 14:34want
- 14:34this
- 14:34to
- 14:34go
- 14:35through
- 14:35and
- 14:38there
- 14:38was
- 14:38a
- 14:38lot
- 14:38of
- 14:39opposition
- 14:39to
- 14:39the
- 14:39law
- 14:39commission
- 14:40stuff
- 14:41and
- 14:41those
- 14:41voices
- 14:42will
- 14:42come
- 14:42out
- 14:42again
- 14:43here.
- 14:44So
- 14:44that'll
- 14:44be
- 14:44an
- 14:44important
- 14:45period
- 14:45of
- 14:45time
- 14:46and
- 14:46then
- 14:46apply
- 14:47in
- 14:47the
- 14:47presser
- 14:47to
- 14:47go,
- 14:48look,
- 14:48you
- 14:49want
- 14:49to
- 14:49do
- 14:49this,
- 14:49we
- 14:50want
- 14:50you
- 14:50to
- 14:50do
- 14:50this.
- 14:50When
- 14:51will
- 14:51you
- 14:51do
- 14:51this,
- 14:51please?
- 14:52Okay,
- 14:53so
- 14:53basically
- 14:54it's
- 14:54a
- 14:54very
- 14:54long,
- 14:55complicated
- 14:56process
- 14:56that
- 14:56doesn't
- 14:57happen
- 14:57quickly.
- 14:58Takes
- 14:58a
- 14:58lot
- 14:58of
- 14:59time,
- 14:59a
- 14:59lot
- 14:59of
- 15:00years,
- 15:00a
- 15:01lot
- 15:01of
- 15:01knowledge.
- 15:02And
- 15:02then
- 15:02when
- 15:02they
- 15:02put
- 15:03out
- 15:03a
- 15:03press
- 15:03release,
- 15:04the
- 15:04industry
- 15:04goes
- 15:05into
- 15:05a
- 15:05tailspin
- 15:05because
- 15:06they
- 15:06don't
- 15:06really
- 15:06understand
- 15:07it.
- 15:07That's
- 15:07what
- 15:07I've
- 15:08seen
- 15:08happen
- 15:09over
- 15:09the
- 15:09last
- 15:09couple
- 15:10of
- 15:10weeks
- 15:10and
- 15:10I
- 15:10think
- 15:10you
- 15:11beautifully
- 15:11explained
- 15:12it
- 15:12there
- 15:13especially,
- 15:13especially
- 15:14with
- 15:14regards
- 15:14to
- 15:15independent
- 15:15celebrants,
- 15:16because
- 15:16as
- 15:16you
- 15:16said,
- 15:16they
- 15:17weren't
- 15:17mentioned.
- 15:18But
- 15:18they
- 15:18also,
- 15:19you
- 15:19know,
- 15:19they
- 15:20weren't
- 15:20mentioned.
- 15:20It
- 15:20doesn't
- 15:20mean
- 15:21anything
- 15:21for
- 15:21or
- 15:22against
- 15:22them.
- 15:22They
- 15:23just
- 15:23weren't
- 15:23in
- 15:23there.
- 15:24Which
- 15:24I
- 15:24know
- 15:25did
- 15:25cause
- 15:26some
- 15:26concern
- 15:27for
- 15:27some
- 15:27of
- 15:28them
- 15:28as
- 15:28well.
- 15:29So
- 15:30let's
- 15:30look
- 15:30at
- 15:30what's
- 15:30going
- 15:31on
- 15:31in
- 15:31other
- 15:31countries.
- 15:32Is
- 15:32this
- 15:32the
- 15:32same
- 15:33model,
- 15:33having
- 15:33the
- 15:33idea
- 15:34that
- 15:34you,
- 15:34you
- 15:35give
- 15:35the
- 15:36approval
- 15:36to
- 15:36the
- 15:36person
- 15:37rather
- 15:37than
- 15:37the
- 15:37building?
- 15:37Is
- 15:38that
- 15:38what
- 15:38they
- 15:38do
- 15:38in
- 15:38America?
- 15:39Is
- 15:39that
- 15:39what
- 15:39they
- 15:39do
- 15:39in
- 15:39Australia?
- 15:41I
- 15:41don't
- 15:42know
- 15:42if
- 15:42Tom,
- 15:42in
- 15:42about
- 15:42those
- 15:43two
- 15:43jurisdictions
- 15:44because
- 15:44it
- 15:44varies
- 15:44by
- 15:45significant
- 15:45significantly
- 15:46depend
- 15:46on
- 15:47the
- 15:47country
- 15:47and
- 15:47depend
- 15:48on
- 15:48the
- 15:48legal
- 15:48system.
- 15:49But
- 15:49that's
- 15:50what
- 15:50they
- 15:50do
- 15:50in
- 15:50our
- 15:51neighboring
- 15:52jurisdictions
- 15:53now.
- 15:53So
- 15:53that's
- 15:53what
- 15:53they
- 15:54do
- 15:55in
- 15:55Scotland,
- 15:56that's
- 15:56what
- 15:56they
- 15:57do
- 15:57in
- 15:57the
- 15:57Jersey
- 15:57islands,
- 15:58et
- 15:58cetera,
- 15:58et
- 15:58cetera,
- 15:59et
- 15:59cetera.
- 16:00Things
- 16:00are
- 16:00very
- 16:00different
- 16:01on
- 16:01the
- 16:01continent
- 16:02because
- 16:03on
- 16:03the
- 16:03continent
- 16:03they've
- 16:04got
- 16:05well
- 16:05entrenched
- 16:06this
- 16:06two
- 16:06ceremony
- 16:07idea
- 16:08where,
- 16:09you
- 16:09know,
- 16:09there
- 16:09is
- 16:09the
- 16:10state
- 16:10ceremony
- 16:11and
- 16:11then
- 16:12the
- 16:12religious
- 16:13or
- 16:13other
- 16:13ceremony.
- 16:15And
- 16:15so,
- 16:15you
- 16:15know,
- 16:15I
- 16:16was
- 16:16at
- 16:16a
- 16:16conference
- 16:17this
- 16:17summer
- 16:17about
- 16:18something
- 16:18else,
- 16:18some
- 16:19sort
- 16:19of
- 16:19overconference
- 16:20meal.
- 16:21Someone
- 16:21was
- 16:21asking,
- 16:22you
- 16:22know,
- 16:22what
- 16:22else
- 16:23are
- 16:23you
- 16:23working
- 16:23on?
- 16:23I
- 16:23was
- 16:24talking
- 16:24about
- 16:24marriage
- 16:25reform
- 16:26and
- 16:26they
- 16:26just
- 16:27didn't
- 16:27get
- 16:27it.
- 16:28And
- 16:28sort
- 16:28of,
- 16:28it
- 16:28was
- 16:29literally
- 16:29sort
- 16:29of
- 16:29a
- 16:29minute
- 16:30into
- 16:30the
- 16:30conversation
- 16:30I
- 16:31raised.
- 16:31I
- 16:31get
- 16:31the
- 16:31reason
- 16:32why
- 16:32you're
- 16:32not
- 16:32getting
- 16:32this
- 16:33is
- 16:33because
- 16:34for
- 16:34you
- 16:34this
- 16:34is
- 16:35not
- 16:35a
- 16:35problem,
- 16:35this
- 16:35is
- 16:36your
- 16:36norm.
- 16:38And
- 16:38you
- 16:38know,
- 16:39if
- 16:39we
- 16:39were
- 16:40starting
- 16:40from
- 16:40scratch,
- 16:41that
- 16:41might
- 16:41be
- 16:41what
- 16:42we'd
- 16:42go
- 16:42for
- 16:43in
- 16:44terms
- 16:44of
- 16:44simplicity,
- 16:45but
- 16:46we're
- 16:46not
- 16:46starting
- 16:47from
- 16:47scratch.
- 16:47And
- 16:47you
- 16:47can't
- 16:48start
- 16:48taking
- 16:48rights
- 16:49away
- 16:49from
- 16:49people
- 16:50and
- 16:51away
- 16:51from
- 16:51organizations.
- 16:52I
- 16:53mean,
- 16:53vested
- 16:54interests
- 16:54are
- 16:54kicking
- 16:55off
- 16:55enough
- 16:55as
- 16:55it
- 16:55is
- 16:56without
- 16:56actually
- 16:57taking
- 16:57away
- 16:59the
- 16:59right
- 17:00to
- 17:00legally
- 17:00marry
- 17:01people.
- 17:02So,
- 17:02yeah,
- 17:03it's
- 17:03common.
- 17:04And
- 17:04one
- 17:04of
- 17:04the
- 17:05good
- 17:05things
- 17:05about
- 17:05the
- 17:05law
- 17:05Commission's
- 17:06report
- 17:07is
- 17:07it
- 17:07does
- 17:07look
- 17:07at
- 17:07other
- 17:08jurisdictions.
- 17:09My
- 17:10book
- 17:10on
- 17:10the
- 17:10topic
- 17:10actually
- 17:11does
- 17:11the
- 17:11same
- 17:11in
- 17:12terms
- 17:12of
- 17:12neighboring
- 17:12jurisdictions
- 17:13because
- 17:14it
- 17:14looks
- 17:14at
- 17:16how
- 17:16then
- 17:17you
- 17:17can
- 17:17actually
- 17:18put
- 17:18these
- 17:19ideas
- 17:20into
- 17:20legislation
- 17:21because
- 17:21it
- 17:21goes
- 17:22well,
- 17:22okay,
- 17:23what
- 17:23have
- 17:23they
- 17:23done
- 17:23about
- 17:24this
- 17:24in
- 17:25Scotland?
- 17:26What
- 17:26have
- 17:26they
- 17:26done
- 17:26about
- 17:26this
- 17:26in
- 17:27Ireland?
- 17:28If
- 17:29we
- 17:29merge
- 17:29those
- 17:29two
- 17:30together,
- 17:30we
- 17:30can
- 17:30get
- 17:30something
- 17:31that
- 17:31suits
- 17:32us.
- 17:32Where
- 17:33a
- 17:34couple
- 17:34of
- 17:34countries
- 17:34have
- 17:35come
- 17:35unstuck,
- 17:35and
- 17:36this
- 17:36is
- 17:36where
- 17:36Scotland
- 17:36have
- 17:37come
- 17:37slightly
- 17:37unstuck,
- 17:38is
- 17:38they
- 17:38haven't
- 17:39recognized
- 17:39independent
- 17:40celebrants.
- 17:41And
- 17:41what
- 17:42that
- 17:42has
- 17:42meant
- 17:42is
- 17:43that
- 17:43a
- 17:43lot
- 17:43of
- 17:43independent
- 17:44celebrants
- 17:46have
- 17:46become
- 17:46humanist
- 17:48north
- 17:48of
- 17:49border
- 17:49in
- 17:49order
- 17:50to
- 17:50get
- 17:50legal
- 17:50recognition.
- 17:51And
- 17:52so
- 17:52that's
- 17:52one
- 17:52of
- 17:53the
- 17:53reasons
- 17:53why
- 17:53we
- 17:54wanted
- 17:54to
- 17:54try
- 17:55and
- 17:55get
- 17:55something
- 17:55a
- 17:55bit
- 17:55more
- 17:56sort
- 17:56of
- 17:56broader
- 17:58and
- 17:59fairer
- 18:00here.
- 18:01Because
- 18:01otherwise
- 18:02you're
- 18:03just
- 18:03removing
- 18:03one
- 18:04discrimination,
- 18:04replace
- 18:05it
- 18:05with
- 18:05another.
- 18:06And
- 18:07in
- 18:07terms
- 18:07of
- 18:07the
- 18:07question
- 18:08of
- 18:08what
- 18:08is
- 18:08a
- 18:08non
- 18:09religious
- 18:09belief
- 18:09or
- 18:10what
- 18:10is
- 18:10a
- 18:10humanist
- 18:11belief,
- 18:12that's
- 18:13quite
- 18:13a
- 18:13soft
- 18:13border.
- 18:14And
- 18:15so
- 18:15that
- 18:15can
- 18:15lead
- 18:16to,
- 18:17as
- 18:18I
- 18:18say,
- 18:18issues
- 18:19there.
- 18:19So
- 18:20explain
- 18:20it
- 18:20to
- 18:20me
- 18:21then
- 18:21in
- 18:21simple
- 18:22to
- 18:22understand
- 18:22terms
- 18:23because
- 18:23I
- 18:23have
- 18:23heard
- 18:23people
- 18:24say,
- 18:24well,
- 18:24if
- 18:24I'm
- 18:24independent,
- 18:25I'll
- 18:25just
- 18:25have
- 18:25to
- 18:25become
- 18:26a
- 18:26humanist.
- 18:26But
- 18:26I
- 18:26don't
- 18:27agree
- 18:27with
- 18:27what
- 18:27the
- 18:27humanists
- 18:28do.
- 18:28So
- 18:28what
- 18:29is
- 18:29the
- 18:29difference?
- 18:30What
- 18:30makes
- 18:30someone
- 18:31a
- 18:31humanist
- 18:32celebrant
- 18:32or
- 18:32what
- 18:33makes
- 18:33someone
- 18:33an
- 18:33independent
- 18:34celebrant?
- 18:35Well,
- 18:35the
- 18:35difference
- 18:35is
- 18:35the
- 18:36humanism
- 18:37if
- 18:37it's
- 18:37Humanist
- 18:38uk,
- 18:40is
- 18:41aligning
- 18:41yourself
- 18:42to
- 18:42a
- 18:42particular
- 18:43organization,
- 18:43a
- 18:44particular
- 18:44belief
- 18:44system.
- 18:45So
- 18:45a
- 18:45humanist
- 18:46belief
- 18:46system
- 18:47is
- 18:47a
- 18:47belief
- 18:48system
- 18:48which
- 18:48is
- 18:48not
- 18:49religious,
- 18:51whereas
- 18:52independent
- 18:52celebrants
- 18:53are
- 18:53offering
- 18:53ceremonies
- 18:54which
- 18:54are
- 18:55utterly
- 18:55bespoke
- 18:56to
- 18:56the
- 18:56individuals
- 18:57and
- 18:58are
- 18:58not
- 18:58aligned
- 18:58to
- 18:59any
- 19:01traditional
- 19:02from
- 19:02the
- 19:02perspective
- 19:03of
- 19:03the
- 19:03celibate.
- 19:04So
- 19:04that's,
- 19:05that's,
- 19:05that's
- 19:05effectively
- 19:06the
- 19:06difference.
- 19:07I
- 19:07mean,
- 19:08you
- 19:08know,
- 19:08in
- 19:09relation
- 19:09to
- 19:09particular
- 19:09ceremonies,
- 19:10it
- 19:10might
- 19:10be
- 19:10difficult
- 19:11to
- 19:11actually
- 19:11spot.
- 19:13But,
- 19:13you
- 19:13know,
- 19:13as
- 19:14I
- 19:14say,
- 19:14a
- 19:14humanist
- 19:15celebrant
- 19:15is
- 19:15coming
- 19:16from
- 19:16a
- 19:16particular
- 19:17belief
- 19:18perspective
- 19:19in
- 19:19the
- 19:19same
- 19:19way
- 19:19that
- 19:20a
- 19:20Catholic
- 19:20priest
- 19:21would
- 19:21come
- 19:21from
- 19:21a
- 19:21particular
- 19:22belief
- 19:22perspective.
- 19:23The
- 19:23difference
- 19:23being,
- 19:25I
- 19:25suppose,
- 19:26how
- 19:26sort
- 19:27of
- 19:27mainstream
- 19:29those
- 19:29beliefs
- 19:30are,
- 19:30you
- 19:30know,
- 19:31and,
- 19:31and
- 19:33that
- 19:33there
- 19:33is
- 19:33a
- 19:33difference
- 19:34between
- 19:34them.
- 19:35And
- 19:35it
- 19:35is
- 19:36not
- 19:37ideal
- 19:37to
- 19:37have
- 19:37to
- 19:38kind
- 19:38of
- 19:38say
- 19:38you're
- 19:39a
- 19:39humanist
- 19:39celebrant
- 19:40when
- 19:40you're
- 19:40not
- 19:40in
- 19:41order
- 19:41to
- 19:41get
- 19:41legal
- 19:41recognition.
- 19:42Yeah,
- 19:42absolutely
- 19:43not.
- 19:43And
- 19:43I
- 19:44do
- 19:44hope
- 19:44that
- 19:44they
- 19:44will
- 19:45recognize
- 19:45independence
- 19:46as
- 19:46well.
- 19:47If
- 19:47you
- 19:47are
- 19:48a
- 19:48humanist
- 19:48celebrant,
- 19:49and
- 19:49I
- 19:50don't
- 19:50know
- 19:50if
- 19:50you
- 19:50know
- 19:50the
- 19:50answer
- 19:50to
- 19:51this,
- 19:51but
- 19:51are
- 19:51there
- 19:51restrictions
- 19:52on
- 19:52what
- 19:53you
- 19:53can
- 19:53do
- 19:53in
- 19:54a
- 19:54ceremony?
- 19:54Because
- 19:54I
- 19:55know
- 19:55a
- 19:55lot
- 19:55of
- 19:55independent
- 19:55ceremony
- 19:56celebrants.
- 19:56One
- 19:56of
- 19:56the
- 19:57key
- 19:57things
- 19:58is
- 19:58that
- 19:58they
- 19:58can
- 19:58bring
- 19:59in
- 19:59different
- 19:59religious
- 20:00elements
- 20:00that
- 20:00maybe
- 20:01registrars
- 20:01can't,
- 20:02even
- 20:02if
- 20:02they're
- 20:02in
- 20:02a
- 20:03different
- 20:03place.
- 20:04If
- 20:04they
- 20:04were
- 20:04to
- 20:05say,
- 20:05oh
- 20:05no,
- 20:05I'm
- 20:05going
- 20:05to
- 20:06be
- 20:06a
- 20:06humanist,
- 20:06because
- 20:06that's
- 20:07what
- 20:07the
- 20:07law
- 20:07might
- 20:07recognize,
- 20:08will
- 20:09that
- 20:09restrict
- 20:09them
- 20:10from
- 20:10doing
- 20:10that
- 20:10or
- 20:10are
- 20:10they
- 20:11still
- 20:11free
- 20:11to
- 20:11do
- 20:11what
- 20:11they
- 20:11like?
- 20:12Well,
- 20:12it
- 20:12would
- 20:12depend
- 20:13on
- 20:13how
- 20:13the
- 20:13law
- 20:14was
- 20:14framed.
- 20:15But
- 20:15the
- 20:16way
- 20:16in
- 20:16which
- 20:17the
- 20:18law
- 20:18commission
- 20:18is
- 20:18recommending
- 20:19it
- 20:19is
- 20:20that
- 20:20if
- 20:20your
- 20:20human
- 20:20is
- 20:21celebrant,
- 20:22you
- 20:22would
- 20:23be
- 20:23regulated
- 20:25by
- 20:25the
- 20:25state,
- 20:26but
- 20:26you
- 20:26would
- 20:26also
- 20:27be
- 20:27regulated
- 20:27by
- 20:29the
- 20:29body,
- 20:30Humanist
- 20:31uk.
- 20:31So
- 20:32that
- 20:32would
- 20:32be
- 20:32a
- 20:32question
- 20:33for
- 20:33them
- 20:33in
- 20:33terms
- 20:34of
- 20:34what
- 20:34they
- 20:34are
- 20:34willing
- 20:35to
- 20:35permit
- 20:36to
- 20:36go
- 20:36out
- 20:36in
- 20:36their
- 20:36name,
- 20:37if
- 20:37that
- 20:37makes
- 20:38sense.
- 20:39So,
- 20:40you
- 20:40know,
- 20:40I
- 20:41know
- 20:41it.
- 20:41Humanism
- 20:42is
- 20:42a
- 20:42broad
- 20:42church,
- 20:44no
- 20:44pun
- 20:44intended
- 20:45there,
- 20:45but
- 20:47quite
- 20:48how
- 20:48brutal
- 20:48England
- 20:49is
- 20:50the
- 20:50question.
- 20:51And
- 20:51I
- 20:51mean,
- 20:51you
- 20:52know,
- 20:52and
- 20:52a
- 20:52lot
- 20:52of
- 20:52this
- 20:53also
- 20:53comes
- 20:53down
- 20:54to
- 20:54the
- 20:54sort
- 20:55of
- 20:55the
- 20:56local
- 20:56level.
- 20:57So
- 20:57I
- 20:57remember
- 20:57a
- 20:57few
- 20:58years
- 20:58ago
- 20:58going
- 20:58to
- 20:59a,
- 21:00what
- 21:00I
- 21:00was
- 21:00told
- 21:01was
- 21:01a
- 21:01humanist
- 21:02funeral
- 21:03in
- 21:04the
- 21:04South
- 21:04Wales
- 21:05Valleys
- 21:05and
- 21:06turned
- 21:06up
- 21:06and
- 21:08the
- 21:08celebrant
- 21:08was
- 21:09clearly
- 21:09also
- 21:10the
- 21:10chapel
- 21:10minister,
- 21:11because
- 21:11you
- 21:11could
- 21:12tell
- 21:12that
- 21:12just
- 21:13by
- 21:13the
- 21:13way
- 21:13he
- 21:13spoke,
- 21:14right?
- 21:14He
- 21:14had
- 21:14that
- 21:15sort
- 21:15of,
- 21:15you
- 21:15know,
- 21:15Welsh
- 21:16chapel
- 21:16minister
- 21:18vibe
- 21:18going
- 21:18on
- 21:19and
- 21:20he
- 21:20was
- 21:20basically
- 21:21just
- 21:21doing
- 21:22a
- 21:22Christian
- 21:23light
- 21:23version
- 21:24of
- 21:24what
- 21:24he
- 21:24would
- 21:24normally
- 21:25do.
- 21:26And
- 21:26so
- 21:26sort
- 21:27of
- 21:27halfway
- 21:27through,
- 21:27we
- 21:27started
- 21:28talking
- 21:28about
- 21:28God.
- 21:29I
- 21:29was
- 21:29like,
- 21:29hang
- 21:29on
- 21:29a
- 21:30minute.
- 21:30This
- 21:30is
- 21:30not
- 21:31a
- 21:31humanist
- 21:31underbrand,
- 21:33humanist
- 21:34funeral.
- 21:34So
- 21:34yeah,
- 21:35I
- 21:35think,
- 21:35you
- 21:35know,
- 21:36my
- 21:36perspective
- 21:37and
- 21:38others
- 21:38disagree
- 21:38on
- 21:39this,
- 21:39but
- 21:39my
- 21:39perspective
- 21:40is
- 21:40that
- 21:41as
- 21:41long
- 21:41as
- 21:41there's
- 21:42checks
- 21:42and
- 21:42balances
- 21:43in
- 21:43place
- 21:43in
- 21:43the
- 21:44system,
- 21:44I
- 21:45think
- 21:45you
- 21:45should
- 21:45go
- 21:45as
- 21:46broad
- 21:46as
- 21:46possible
- 21:46in
- 21:47terms
- 21:47of
- 21:47who
- 21:47could
- 21:48conduct.
- 21:49And,
- 21:49you
- 21:49know,
- 21:49I
- 21:50think
- 21:50that
- 21:50if
- 21:50you're,
- 21:50if
- 21:51you're
- 21:51concerned
- 21:51with
- 21:52protecting
- 21:52and
- 21:53allowing
- 21:54people
- 21:54to
- 21:54manifest
- 21:55their
- 21:55beliefs
- 21:56through
- 21:57the
- 21:57question
- 21:58of
- 21:58how
- 21:58they
- 21:58get
- 21:59married
- 21:59and
- 21:59who
- 21:59marries
- 22:00them,
- 22:00then
- 22:01there's
- 22:01no
- 22:01limit
- 22:02on
- 22:02that.
- 22:02And
- 22:03sort
- 22:03of,
- 22:03you
- 22:03know,
- 22:03I
- 22:04see
- 22:04no
- 22:04problem
- 22:04in
- 22:05terms
- 22:05of,
- 22:05you
- 22:05know,
- 22:06people
- 22:06getting
- 22:06married
- 22:07on
- 22:07a
- 22:07football
- 22:07pitch
- 22:08by
- 22:09someone
- 22:09from
- 22:09the
- 22:10football
- 22:10organization.
- 22:12You
- 22:13know,
- 22:13to
- 22:13me
- 22:14that
- 22:14is
- 22:14a
- 22:14sign
- 22:15of
- 22:15their
- 22:15belief
- 22:16in
- 22:16the
- 22:16same
- 22:16way
- 22:16as
- 22:17a
- 22:17couple
- 22:17at
- 22:18the
- 22:18altar
- 22:18in
- 22:19the
- 22:19parish
- 22:19church.
- 22:20Yeah.
- 22:20And
- 22:20also
- 22:21from
- 22:21my
- 22:21perspective,
- 22:22I
- 22:22think
- 22:22it
- 22:22should
- 22:23be
- 22:23able
- 22:23to
- 22:23be
- 22:23the
- 22:24other
- 22:24way.
- 22:24So
- 22:24as
- 22:25a
- 22:25Christian
- 22:25myself,
- 22:26I
- 22:26should
- 22:26be
- 22:26able
- 22:26to
- 22:27get
- 22:27married
- 22:27on
- 22:28a
- 22:28football
- 22:28pitch
- 22:29with
- 22:29a
- 22:29Christian
- 22:30ceremony.
- 22:30Whereas
- 22:31actually
- 22:31if
- 22:31you
- 22:31want
- 22:31a
- 22:32Christian
- 22:32ceremony,
- 22:33you're
- 22:33pretty
- 22:33restricted
- 22:34to
- 22:34getting
- 22:34married
- 22:34in
- 22:35a
- 22:35Christian
- 22:35place
- 22:35of
- 22:36worship.
- 22:36And
- 22:37you
- 22:37can't
- 22:37get
- 22:37married
- 22:37in
- 22:37a,
- 22:38a
- 22:38beautiful
- 22:38venue
- 22:39because
- 22:39then
- 22:39you
- 22:39can't
- 22:39have
- 22:40the
- 22:40religious
- 22:40aspects.
- 22:41And
- 22:41so
- 22:41I
- 22:41think
- 22:41it
- 22:42does,
- 22:42it
- 22:42works
- 22:43both
- 22:43ways
- 22:43for
- 22:43everyone.
- 22:44I
- 22:44think
- 22:44there's
- 22:44a
- 22:44lot
- 22:44of
- 22:44misunderstanding
- 22:46about
- 22:46it.
- 22:46I
- 22:46remember
- 22:47my
- 22:47sister
- 22:47getting
- 22:48married
- 22:48and
- 22:49she
- 22:49grew
- 22:49up
- 22:49in
- 22:49the
- 22:50church
- 22:50but
- 22:50doesn't
- 22:50go
- 22:51to
- 22:51the
- 22:51church
- 22:51anymore.
- 22:51And
- 22:52so
- 22:52she
- 22:52wanted,
- 22:53you
- 22:53know,
- 22:53more
- 22:53of
- 22:53a
- 22:54state
- 22:54type
- 22:54wedding.
- 22:55But
- 22:55she
- 22:55did
- 22:55want
- 22:55my
- 22:56grandparents
- 22:56to
- 22:56be
- 22:57able
- 22:57to
- 22:57say
- 22:57some
- 22:57prayers
- 22:58because
- 22:58she
- 22:58knew
- 22:58that
- 22:58would
- 22:59mean
- 22:59a
- 22:59lot
- 22:59to
- 22:59them.
- 23:00And
- 23:00so
- 23:00she
- 23:00went
- 23:01down
- 23:01the
- 23:01route
- 23:01of
- 23:01an
- 23:01independent
- 23:02celebrant
- 23:02and
- 23:02getting
- 23:02married
- 23:03in
- 23:03a
- 23:03registry
- 23:03office,
- 23:04but
- 23:04only
- 23:04because
- 23:05she
- 23:05had
- 23:06to.
- 23:06Like
- 23:06she
- 23:06was
- 23:06restricted,
- 23:07but
- 23:07she
- 23:07didn't
- 23:08understand
- 23:09before
- 23:09she
- 23:10started
- 23:10digging
- 23:10into
- 23:10the
- 23:11wedding
- 23:11planning.
- 23:12I
- 23:12think
- 23:12a
- 23:12lot
- 23:12of
- 23:12people
- 23:12don't
- 23:13realize
- 23:14the
- 23:14restrictions
- 23:14are
- 23:15there
- 23:15and
- 23:15how,
- 23:15and
- 23:16they
- 23:16just
- 23:16don't
- 23:16understand
- 23:16why
- 23:17they're
- 23:17there
- 23:17either.
- 23:18Well,
- 23:18and
- 23:19to
- 23:19be
- 23:19fair
- 23:19to
- 23:19the
- 23:19law
- 23:19commission
- 23:20in
- 23:20their
- 23:20report,
- 23:21one
- 23:21of
- 23:21the
- 23:21things
- 23:21they
- 23:21looked
- 23:22into
- 23:22as
- 23:22well
- 23:22was
- 23:23whether
- 23:23the
- 23:23law
- 23:24on
- 23:24restrictions
- 23:25in
- 23:25civil
- 23:25ceremonies
- 23:26could
- 23:26be
- 23:26relaxed
- 23:28because
- 23:28again,
- 23:29sort
- 23:29of
- 23:29that's
- 23:29historical
- 23:31happenstance,
- 23:31that's
- 23:31historical
- 23:32compromise.
- 23:34So,
- 23:34you
- 23:34know,
- 23:35there's
- 23:35no
- 23:36real
- 23:36reason
- 23:37for
- 23:37them
- 23:37to
- 23:37be
- 23:37there
- 23:38other
- 23:38than
- 23:39to
- 23:39firmly
- 23:39demarcate
- 23:40civil
- 23:41from
- 23:41religious,
- 23:42which
- 23:42again,
- 23:43seems
- 23:43to
- 23:43be
- 23:43a
- 23:44distinction
- 23:44which
- 23:45we
- 23:45don't
- 23:45actually
- 23:46need.
- 23:46You
- 23:46know
- 23:46what
- 23:46I
- 23:46mean?
- 23:48We
- 23:48can
- 23:48start
- 23:49if
- 23:49we
- 23:50focus
- 23:50on
- 23:50the
- 23:50people,
- 23:52if
- 23:52we
- 23:52put
- 23:53more
- 23:53weight
- 23:53and
- 23:54more
- 23:54importance
- 23:54and
- 23:55more
- 23:55legalities
- 23:56in
- 23:56terms
- 23:56of
- 23:56preliminaries,
- 23:57which
- 23:58is
- 23:58what
- 23:58the
- 23:58Law
- 23:58Commission
- 23:59suggests
- 24:00we
- 24:00do,
- 24:00then
- 24:01we
- 24:01can
- 24:01be
- 24:01much
- 24:01more
- 24:02liberal
- 24:03in
- 24:03terms
- 24:03of
- 24:03the
- 24:03actual
- 24:04ceremony.
- 24:05And
- 24:06that,
- 24:07to
- 24:07me
- 24:07makes
- 24:08perfect,
- 24:08perfect
- 24:09sense.
- 24:09Because
- 24:09you're
- 24:10right,
- 24:10all
- 24:10these
- 24:10distinctions,
- 24:11finely
- 24:11drawn
- 24:12distinctions,
- 24:12complex
- 24:13distinctions,
- 24:14are
- 24:15not
- 24:16understood.
- 24:17And
- 24:17they're
- 24:17not
- 24:17understood
- 24:18because
- 24:18they
- 24:18don't
- 24:18make
- 24:19sense.
- 24:19They
- 24:19don't
- 24:19fit
- 24:20what
- 24:20we
- 24:21need
- 24:21today.
- 24:21And
- 24:21so
- 24:22the
- 24:22law
- 24:22needs
- 24:22reform.
- 24:23Yeah,
- 24:23absolutely.
- 24:24So
- 24:25talk
- 24:25to
- 24:25me
- 24:25about
- 24:25how
- 24:25you've
- 24:26become
- 24:26so
- 24:26involved
- 24:27in
- 24:27this
- 24:27yourself,
- 24:28Russell,
- 24:28because
- 24:28you've
- 24:28become
- 24:29somewhat
- 24:29of
- 24:29a
- 24:30celebrity
- 24:30figure
- 24:31in
- 24:31the
- 24:31world
- 24:31of
- 24:32the
- 24:32wedding
- 24:32industry
- 24:32and
- 24:33celebrants
- 24:33and
- 24:33quite
- 24:34often
- 24:34your
- 24:34name
- 24:34comes
- 24:35up.
- 24:35If
- 24:35I'm
- 24:35talking
- 24:36with
- 24:36celebrants
- 24:36and
- 24:36this
- 24:37topic
- 24:37comes
- 24:37up,
- 24:37oh,
- 24:38you've
- 24:38got
- 24:38to
- 24:38follow
- 24:38Russell,
- 24:39you
- 24:39got
- 24:39to
- 24:39talk
- 24:39to
- 24:39Russell,
- 24:40you've
- 24:40got
- 24:40to
- 24:40watch
- 24:40Russell's
- 24:41videos.
- 24:42So
- 24:42how
- 24:43have
- 24:43you
- 24:43found
- 24:43yourself
- 24:44as
- 24:44a
- 24:44professor
- 24:44in
- 24:45Cardiff,
- 24:45being
- 24:46front
- 24:46of
- 24:46center
- 24:46of
- 24:47the
- 24:47celebrant
- 24:48wedding
- 24:48industry?
- 24:49Well,
- 24:49not
- 24:49quite
- 24:49so
- 24:49about
- 24:50the
- 24:50celebrity
- 24:50status,
- 24:51but.
- 24:52But
- 24:52yeah,
- 24:52again,
- 24:52it's.
- 24:52It's
- 24:53pure
- 24:53happenstance,
- 24:54as
- 24:54I
- 24:54say,
- 24:54sort
- 24:55of.
- 24:55You
- 24:55know,
- 24:55I
- 24:56was
- 24:56writing
- 24:56about
- 24:57law
- 24:57and
- 24:57religion
- 24:58and
- 24:59then,
- 25:00oh,
- 25:00about
- 25:0110
- 25:01years
- 25:02ago,
- 25:04we
- 25:04tried
- 25:05to
- 25:05get
- 25:05funding
- 25:06to
- 25:06do
- 25:07an
- 25:07empirical
- 25:07study
- 25:08into
- 25:08religious
- 25:09courts
- 25:09and
- 25:10how
- 25:10they
- 25:10determine
- 25:11questions
- 25:11of
- 25:11divorce
- 25:12and
- 25:13we
- 25:13didn't
- 25:13get
- 25:13it.
- 25:13And
- 25:14then
- 25:14the
- 25:14then
- 25:14Archbishop
- 25:15of
- 25:15Canterbury,
- 25:16Dr.
- 25:17Rowan
- 25:17Williams,
- 25:18gave
- 25:18this
- 25:18speech
- 25:19to
- 25:19lawyers
- 25:20where
- 25:20he
- 25:20mentioned
- 25:21Sharia
- 25:21law
- 25:22and
- 25:22suddenly
- 25:23everything
- 25:24went
- 25:24mad.
- 25:24It
- 25:25was
- 25:25front
- 25:25page
- 25:26of
- 25:26the
- 25:26newspapers.
- 25:27Call
- 25:27him
- 25:28out
- 25:28on
- 25:28it.
- 25:28In
- 25:28terms
- 25:28of
- 25:29trying
- 25:29to
- 25:29bring
- 25:29in
- 25:30Islamic
- 25:30law.
- 25:30He
- 25:31wasn't.
- 25:31It
- 25:31was
- 25:32no
- 25:32bitters
- 25:33of
- 25:33stoning
- 25:33on
- 25:33the
- 25:3310
- 25:34o'
- 25:34clock
- 25:34news
- 25:34or
- 25:34this
- 25:34kind
- 25:35of
- 25:35thing.
- 25:35So
- 25:35we
- 25:36put
- 25:36the
- 25:36research
- 25:36bid
- 25:37back
- 25:37in
- 25:37for
- 25:38funding
- 25:38and
- 25:39this
- 25:39time
- 25:39we
- 25:40got
- 25:40the
- 25:40money
- 25:40because
- 25:41it
- 25:41was
- 25:41topical.
- 25:42So
- 25:42we
- 25:42spent
- 25:43a
- 25:43year
- 25:44looking
- 25:45at
- 25:45a
- 25:46particular
- 25:46Sharia
- 25:46council,
- 25:47a
- 25:47Beth
- 25:48Dane,
- 25:48a
- 25:48Catholic
- 25:49tribunal,
- 25:50which
- 25:50was
- 25:51basically
- 25:51the
- 25:51priest's
- 25:52living
- 25:52room
- 25:52in
- 25:52Cardiff.
- 25:54That
- 25:54was
- 25:54a
- 25:54glamorous
- 25:55visit.
- 25:56And
- 25:57so
- 25:57as
- 25:58a
- 25:58result
- 25:58of
- 25:58that,
- 25:58I
- 25:58started
- 25:58writing
- 25:59about
- 25:59this
- 26:00issue
- 26:01because
- 26:01what
- 26:01we
- 26:01were
- 26:02finding,
- 26:02one
- 26:02of
- 26:02the
- 26:02key
- 26:03things
- 26:03we
- 26:03found
- 26:03was,
- 26:04was
- 26:04that
- 26:04a
- 26:05significant
- 26:05number
- 26:06of
- 26:06people
- 26:06who
- 26:06were
- 26:06using
- 26:07the
- 26:07Sharia
- 26:07council,
- 26:08Muslims
- 26:09using
- 26:09the
- 26:09Syria
- 26:09Council,
- 26:10were
- 26:10using
- 26:10it
- 26:10because
- 26:11they
- 26:12were
- 26:12not
- 26:12legally
- 26:12married.
- 26:13Right.
- 26:13So
- 26:14it
- 26:14kind
- 26:15of
- 26:15came
- 26:15from
- 26:15that
- 26:15angle.
- 26:16So
- 26:17then
- 26:17you.
- 26:17I
- 26:18sort
- 26:18of
- 26:18spent
- 26:18a
- 26:18couple
- 26:18of
- 26:18years,
- 26:19every
- 26:19now
- 26:19and
- 26:19again,
- 26:19would
- 26:20sort
- 26:20of
- 26:20dabble
- 26:20with
- 26:20the
- 26:21issue.
- 26:21And
- 26:22then
- 26:22I
- 26:22became
- 26:23aware
- 26:23the
- 26:23Law
- 26:23Commission
- 26:24was
- 26:24looking
- 26:24at
- 26:24it
- 26:24and
- 26:25the
- 26:25Law
- 26:25Commission
- 26:25came
- 26:26and
- 26:27spoke
- 26:27to
- 26:27a
- 26:27couple
- 26:27of
- 26:27us
- 26:28at
- 26:28Cardiff
- 26:28Myself
- 26:28and
- 26:28other
- 26:29family
- 26:30law
- 26:30academics,
- 26:32and
- 26:32I
- 26:32could
- 26:33sort
- 26:33of
- 26:33see
- 26:33that
- 26:34that
- 26:34could
- 26:35be
- 26:35an
- 26:35avenue
- 26:35of
- 26:36sort
- 26:36of
- 26:37helping
- 26:37to
- 26:38solve
- 26:38this
- 26:38issue.
- 26:39So
- 26:39I
- 26:39sort
- 26:39of
- 26:40contributed
- 26:40to
- 26:40that.
- 26:40And
- 26:41I
- 26:41thought,
- 26:41right,
- 26:41okay,
- 26:42this
- 26:42seems
- 26:43to
- 26:43be
- 26:43an
- 26:43issue
- 26:43where
- 26:43there
- 26:44seems
- 26:44to
- 26:44be
- 26:44quite
- 26:44a
- 26:44lot
- 26:45of
- 26:45misunderstanding.
- 26:46So
- 26:46I
- 26:46wrote
- 26:46a
- 26:46short
- 26:46book,
- 26:47I
- 26:47wrote
- 26:47a
- 26:47short
- 26:47book,
- 26:47it
- 26:48came
- 26:48out
- 26:48in
- 26:482021,
- 26:49called
- 26:49Religion
- 26:50and
- 26:50Marriage
- 26:50Law
- 26:50the
- 26:51Need
- 26:51for
- 26:51Reform.
- 26:52And
- 26:52all
- 26:53that
- 26:53was
- 26:53designed
- 26:54to
- 26:54do,
- 26:54really,
- 26:55was
- 26:56to
- 26:57outline
- 26:57what
- 26:57was
- 26:57the
- 26:58problem,
- 26:58to
- 26:58outline
- 26:59what
- 26:59the
- 26:59local
- 26:59mission
- 27:00at
- 27:00that
- 27:00time
- 27:00was
- 27:01suggesting
- 27:02as
- 27:02the
- 27:02solution,
- 27:03and
- 27:04to
- 27:04see
- 27:04whether
- 27:05or
- 27:05not
- 27:05that
- 27:05was
- 27:05viable.
- 27:06It
- 27:06came
- 27:06out
- 27:07broadly
- 27:07in
- 27:07favor
- 27:08with
- 27:08a
- 27:08few
- 27:08sort
- 27:09of
- 27:09tweaks.
- 27:11And
- 27:12as
- 27:12I
- 27:12was
- 27:13writing
- 27:13it,
- 27:13I
- 27:13was
- 27:13aware
- 27:13that
- 27:14it
- 27:14was
- 27:14getting
- 27:14more
- 27:14attention
- 27:15than
- 27:15most
- 27:16of
- 27:16the
- 27:16stuff
- 27:16I
- 27:16wrote,
- 27:17to
- 27:17be
- 27:17frank.
- 27:18So
- 27:19I
- 27:19thought,
- 27:19hang
- 27:19on,
- 27:21this
- 27:21seems
- 27:21to
- 27:21be
- 27:21hot
- 27:22potato.
- 27:23So
- 27:24we
- 27:24did
- 27:25a
- 27:25big
- 27:25online
- 27:25launch,
- 27:26we
- 27:26got
- 27:26Lady
- 27:27Hale,
- 27:27who
- 27:27had
- 27:28just
- 27:28retired
- 27:28from
- 27:28the
- 27:29Supreme
- 27:29Court,
- 27:30just
- 27:31to
- 27:31speak
- 27:31at
- 27:31it,
- 27:32and,
- 27:32you
- 27:33know,
- 27:35didn't
- 27:35sort
- 27:35of
- 27:36see
- 27:36any
- 27:36holes
- 27:37in
- 27:37the
- 27:37argument
- 27:38either.
- 27:39So,
- 27:40yeah,
- 27:40I
- 27:40sort
- 27:40of
- 27:41started
- 27:42posting
- 27:42about
- 27:43it
- 27:43and
- 27:44then
- 27:44before
- 27:45I
- 27:45knew,
- 27:46sort
- 27:46of,
- 27:46I
- 27:47was
- 27:47aware
- 27:47that
- 27:47sort
- 27:47of
- 27:48some
- 27:48celebrants
- 27:48were
- 27:48starting
- 27:49to
- 27:49follow.
- 27:50And
- 27:51so
- 27:52then,
- 27:52you
- 27:52know,
- 27:52the
- 27:52odd
- 27:53invitation
- 27:53would
- 27:54come
- 27:54and
- 27:54it
- 27:55kind
- 27:55of
- 27:55snowballed.
- 27:56And
- 27:57like
- 27:57I
- 27:58say,
- 27:58it's
- 27:58taken
- 27:59the
- 27:59last
- 28:00five
- 28:00years
- 28:00retractively
- 28:01materialized
- 28:02in
- 28:02terms
- 28:02of
- 28:02something
- 28:02which
- 28:03the
- 28:03government
- 28:03is
- 28:03now
- 28:03planning
- 28:04to
- 28:04actually
- 28:04do.
- 28:05But
- 28:06there's
- 28:06been
- 28:06all
- 28:06sorts
- 28:07of
- 28:07sort
- 28:07of
- 28:08little
- 28:09events
- 28:09on
- 28:10the
- 28:10way
- 28:10there
- 28:11in
- 28:11terms
- 28:11of
- 28:12sort
- 28:12of
- 28:12positive
- 28:12mention
- 28:13in
- 28:13Parliament
- 28:13there,
- 28:14a
- 28:14roaring
- 28:15debate
- 28:15about
- 28:16something
- 28:16else
- 28:16there,
- 28:17you
- 28:17know,
- 28:17so
- 28:19it's
- 28:19been
- 28:20something
- 28:20which
- 28:20has
- 28:20sort
- 28:20of
- 28:21been
- 28:21bubbling
- 28:21away
- 28:21as
- 28:22I
- 28:22sort
- 28:22of
- 28:24work
- 28:24on
- 28:24other
- 28:25stuff.
- 28:25So,
- 28:25yeah,
- 28:26it's
- 28:26sort
- 28:27of,
- 28:28as
- 28:28I
- 28:28said
- 28:28earlier,
- 28:29you
- 28:29never
- 28:29know
- 28:30where
- 28:30career
- 28:30takes
- 28:31you
- 28:31and
- 28:31you
- 28:31never
- 28:32know
- 28:32what
- 28:32sort
- 28:33of,
- 28:33you
- 28:33know,
- 28:34I've
- 28:35written
- 28:35things
- 28:35which
- 28:36have
- 28:36been
- 28:36completely
- 28:37and
- 28:37utterly
- 28:37ignored
- 28:37and
- 28:37never
- 28:38read.
- 28:39And
- 28:39you
- 28:39never
- 28:39know
- 28:40when
- 28:40you're
- 28:40writing
- 28:40something
- 28:40whether
- 28:41it's
- 28:41going
- 28:41to
- 28:41be
- 28:41one
- 28:41of
- 28:41them
- 28:42or
- 28:42whether
- 28:42it's
- 28:42going
- 28:43to
- 28:43take
- 28:43off.
- 28:43You
- 28:44always
- 28:44hope
- 28:44that
- 28:44it's
- 28:45going
- 28:45to
- 28:45be
- 28:45one
- 28:45that
- 28:45takes
- 28:45up,
- 28:46because
- 28:46for
- 28:46you
- 28:46at
- 28:47the
- 28:47moment,
- 28:47it's
- 28:47something
- 28:47that's
- 28:48important
- 28:48and
- 28:48something
- 28:49that
- 28:49you're
- 28:49passionate
- 28:49about,
- 28:52but
- 28:53you
- 28:53never,
- 28:53never
- 28:54know.
- 28:54And
- 28:54I
- 28:54could
- 28:54sort
- 28:55of
- 28:55tell
- 28:55because
- 28:55I
- 28:55was
- 28:55also
- 28:56writing
- 28:57in
- 28:57the
- 28:57same
- 28:57period
- 28:58about
- 28:59changes
- 29:00in
- 29:00education
- 29:00law
- 29:01to
- 29:01do
- 29:01with
- 29:02religion,
- 29:03and
- 29:03by
- 29:03contrast,
- 29:04no
- 29:04one
- 29:04was
- 29:04interested
- 29:05in
- 29:05that.
- 29:06So
- 29:06you
- 29:06could
- 29:06tell
- 29:07the
- 29:07difference
- 29:07quite
- 29:08clearly
- 29:09in
- 29:10terms
- 29:10of
- 29:10sort
- 29:10of
- 29:11every
- 29:11social
- 29:11media
- 29:11post.
- 29:12If
- 29:12I
- 29:12post
- 29:13about
- 29:13that,
- 29:13it
- 29:13Gets
- 29:13nothing
- 29:14if
- 29:14I
- 29:14post
- 29:14about
- 29:14it,
- 29:15gets
- 29:15something.
- 29:16So,
- 29:17yeah,
- 29:17it
- 29:18was
- 29:18a
- 29:19happy
- 29:19accent,
- 29:19but
- 29:19they've
- 29:20been
- 29:20brilliant
- 29:21to
- 29:21work
- 29:21with
- 29:22and
- 29:22it's
- 29:22been
- 29:22really,
- 29:23really
- 29:23useful,
- 29:24actually,
- 29:24to
- 29:24get
- 29:25that
- 29:25perspective.
- 29:26Because,
- 29:26you
- 29:26know,
- 29:26I'll
- 29:27be
- 29:27honest
- 29:27with
- 29:27you,
- 29:27when
- 29:27I
- 29:27started
- 29:28working
- 29:28with
- 29:28this,
- 29:28I
- 29:29didn't
- 29:29know
- 29:29what
- 29:29an
- 29:29independent
- 29:29settlement
- 29:30was
- 29:32and
- 29:33sort
- 29:33of,
- 29:33you
- 29:33know,
- 29:34it's
- 29:35added
- 29:35a
- 29:35much
- 29:36richer
- 29:38dimension
- 29:38to
- 29:39the
- 29:39research
- 29:39and
- 29:40actually
- 29:40made
- 29:41quite
- 29:41a
- 29:42lot
- 29:42of
- 29:42the
- 29:42point
- 29:42I
- 29:43was
- 29:43making
- 29:43about
- 29:44discrimination,
- 29:44about
- 29:45equality
- 29:46and
- 29:46about
- 29:46fairness,
- 29:47about
- 29:47accessibility,
- 29:48even
- 29:48more
- 29:48important.
- 29:49So
- 29:50it's
- 29:50been
- 29:50a
- 29:51delight,
- 29:51but
- 29:52it's
- 29:52been
- 29:52a
- 29:52hell
- 29:52of
- 29:53a
- 29:53surprise.
- 29:55Well,
- 29:55I
- 29:55know
- 29:55that
- 29:56they
- 29:56are
- 29:56so
- 29:57thankful
- 29:57for
- 29:57what
- 29:57you're
- 29:58doing
- 29:58because
- 29:59you
- 29:59are
- 29:59someone
- 29:59that
- 30:00is
- 30:00tackling
- 30:00something
- 30:00that
- 30:00is
- 30:01very
- 30:01complicated
- 30:02and
- 30:02yet
- 30:03is
- 30:03going
- 30:03to
- 30:03have
- 30:03a
- 30:03massive
- 30:04impact
- 30:04on
- 30:04both
- 30:05them
- 30:05and
- 30:05the
- 30:05wedding
- 30:05industry
- 30:06as
- 30:06a
- 30:06whole
- 30:07and
- 30:07make
- 30:07it
- 30:07more
- 30:07accessible
- 30:08to
- 30:08them.
- 30:08So
- 30:09please
- 30:09continue
- 30:09your
- 30:09good
- 30:10work.
- 30:10I
- 30:10will
- 30:10link
- 30:10to
- 30:11your
- 30:11Instagram
- 30:11in
- 30:12the
- 30:12show
- 30:12notes
- 30:12as
- 30:12well,
- 30:13so
- 30:13that
- 30:13people
- 30:13can
- 30:13keep
- 30:14up
- 30:14to
- 30:14date
- 30:14on
- 30:14this.
- 30:14And
- 30:15I
- 30:15think
- 30:15when
- 30:15this
- 30:16big
- 30:16stuff
- 30:16comes
- 30:16out
- 30:16and
- 30:17people
- 30:17panic,
- 30:18you're
- 30:18a
- 30:18great
- 30:18voice
- 30:19of
- 30:19reason
- 30:19to
- 30:19go,
- 30:20no,
- 30:20it
- 30:20doesn't
- 30:20say
- 30:21anything.
- 30:22Don't
- 30:22panic.
- 30:23Just,
- 30:23you
- 30:23know,
- 30:23this
- 30:24is
- 30:24what
- 30:24we're
- 30:24going
- 30:24to
- 30:24do
- 30:24next.
- 30:25Now,
- 30:25talking
- 30:25of
- 30:26what
- 30:26we're
- 30:26going
- 30:26to
- 30:26do
- 30:26next,
- 30:26you
- 30:27mentioned
- 30:27quite
- 30:27a
- 30:27bit
- 30:28earlier
- 30:28on
- 30:28in
- 30:28the
- 30:28conversation
- 30:29that
- 30:29now's
- 30:30actually
- 30:30quite
- 30:30a
- 30:30crucial
- 30:31time
- 30:31for
- 30:31us
- 30:31as
- 30:31an
- 30:32industry
- 30:32to
- 30:33get
- 30:33behind
- 30:33this.
- 30:34But
- 30:34a
- 30:34lot
- 30:34of
- 30:34people
- 30:34listening
- 30:35to
- 30:35this
- 30:35will
- 30:35think,
- 30:35I
- 30:36just
- 30:36don't
- 30:36even
- 30:36really
- 30:37understand.
- 30:37I
- 30:37don't
- 30:37even
- 30:38know
- 30:38what
- 30:38I
- 30:38can
- 30:38do.
- 30:38So
- 30:39can
- 30:39you
- 30:39just
- 30:39give
- 30:39us
- 30:39some
- 30:39practical
- 30:40things?
- 30:40If
- 30:41people
- 30:41are
- 30:41like,
- 30:41yeah,
- 30:41this
- 30:41needs
- 30:42to
- 30:42happen,
- 30:42we
- 30:42want
- 30:42to
- 30:42get
- 30:43behind
- 30:43it,
- 30:43what
- 30:44do
- 30:44you
- 30:44think
- 30:44they
- 30:44should
- 30:44be
- 30:45doing?
- 30:45Well,
- 30:45the
- 30:45key
- 30:45thing,
- 30:46I
- 30:46think,
- 30:46is
- 30:46to
- 30:47speak
- 30:48to
- 30:48their
- 30:48mp,
- 30:49to
- 30:49email,
- 30:50to
- 30:50send
- 30:50a
- 30:50letter
- 30:50to
- 30:51the
- 30:51mp,
- 30:51and
- 30:52to
- 30:52keep
- 30:52that,
- 30:53at
- 30:53the
- 30:54moment,
- 30:54very,
- 30:55very
- 30:55straightforward
- 30:56and
- 30:56very,
- 30:56very
- 30:57simple
- 30:57in
- 30:57terms
- 30:58of
- 30:58we're
- 30:59in
- 30:59favor
- 30:59of
- 31:00marriage
- 31:00law
- 31:00reform,
- 31:01because,
- 31:01you
- 31:02know,
- 31:02and
- 31:03as
- 31:03I
- 31:03say,
- 31:03sort
- 31:03of.
- 31:03But
- 31:04pressing
- 31:04the
- 31:04economic
- 31:05argument
- 31:05which
- 31:06the
- 31:06government
- 31:06has
- 31:06made,
- 31:07highlighting
- 31:08also
- 31:08the
- 31:08social
- 31:09element
- 31:10and
- 31:11as
- 31:11you
- 31:11mentioned,
- 31:12a
- 31:12religious
- 31:13element
- 31:13as
- 31:13well,
- 31:13a
- 31:14philosophical
- 31:14element
- 31:14for
- 31:15some.
- 31:16And
- 31:17what
- 31:17would
- 31:17be
- 31:17very,
- 31:18very
- 31:18useful,
- 31:19I
- 31:19think,
- 31:19would
- 31:19be
- 31:20the
- 31:20education
- 31:21of
- 31:21MPs
- 31:21before
- 31:22this
- 31:22hits
- 31:22them,
- 31:23because
- 31:23I
- 31:23would
- 31:23imagine
- 31:24most
- 31:24of
- 31:24them
- 31:24are
- 31:24in
- 31:24the
- 31:24same
- 31:25situation
- 31:25as
- 31:25I
- 31:26was
- 31:26in
- 31:26terms
- 31:26of
- 31:26not
- 31:26knowing
- 31:27what
- 31:27an
- 31:27independent
- 31:27celibate
- 31:28was.
- 31:30I
- 31:30think
- 31:31a
- 31:31lot
- 31:31of
- 31:32them
- 31:32will
- 31:32see
- 31:32this
- 31:32as
- 31:33sort
- 31:33of,
- 31:33well,
- 31:33people
- 31:34already
- 31:34get
- 31:34married
- 31:34on
- 31:34beaches,
- 31:35don't
- 31:35they?
- 31:36And,
- 31:36yes,
- 31:36they
- 31:37do,
- 31:37but
- 31:37it's
- 31:37not
- 31:37legally
- 31:38binding
- 31:39and
- 31:39that
- 31:39causes
- 31:40these
- 31:40issues.
- 31:41Okay,
- 31:41so
- 31:42for
- 31:42me,
- 31:42in
- 31:42my
- 31:43office
- 31:43here
- 31:43in
- 31:44Bedfordshire,
- 31:45I
- 31:45want
- 31:45to
- 31:45speak
- 31:46to
- 31:46my
- 31:46mp.
- 31:46I've
- 31:47never
- 31:47done
- 31:47that
- 31:47before.
- 31:47I
- 31:48have
- 31:48absolutely
- 31:48no
- 31:48idea
- 31:49how
- 31:49I
- 31:49do
- 31:49it.
- 31:50Could
- 31:50I
- 31:50ask
- 31:50to
- 31:51meet
- 31:51with
- 31:51them?
- 31:51Can
- 31:51I
- 31:51go
- 31:52to
- 31:52a
- 31:52clinic?
- 31:52Should
- 31:53I
- 31:53write
- 31:53a
- 31:53letter?
- 31:54Because
- 31:54I
- 31:54would
- 31:54like
- 31:55to
- 31:55have
- 31:55my
- 31:55voice
- 31:55heard
- 31:56by
- 31:56them
- 31:56and
- 31:56I
- 31:56probably
- 31:56could
- 31:57educate
- 31:57them
- 31:57on
- 31:57a
- 31:58thing
- 31:58or
- 31:58two.
- 31:58All
- 31:58of
- 31:58the
- 31:59above.
- 31:59All
- 31:59the
- 31:59contact
- 32:00details
- 32:00on
- 32:00the
- 32:01UK
- 32:01Parliament
- 32:01website,
- 32:02you
- 32:02can
- 32:02only
- 32:03talk
- 32:03to
- 32:03your
- 32:03mp.
- 32:04That's
- 32:05the
- 32:05way
- 32:05it
- 32:05works.
- 32:06So
- 32:06if
- 32:06you
- 32:07see
- 32:07someone
- 32:07in
- 32:08terms
- 32:08of,
- 32:08you
- 32:08know,
- 32:08I
- 32:08want
- 32:08to
- 32:08talk
- 32:09to
- 32:09that
- 32:09person
- 32:10because
- 32:10they're
- 32:10the
- 32:10minister.
- 32:10No,
- 32:11that's
- 32:11not
- 32:11how
- 32:11it
- 32:11works.
- 32:12You
- 32:12have
- 32:12to
- 32:12work,
- 32:13you
- 32:13have
- 32:13to
- 32:13talk
- 32:13to
- 32:13your
- 32:14mp.
- 32:14So
- 32:14on
- 32:15the
- 32:15parliamentary
- 32:15website,
- 32:16there's
- 32:17contact
- 32:17details,
- 32:19so
- 32:19that's
- 32:19usually
- 32:20the
- 32:20best
- 32:20way
- 32:20in
- 32:21terms
- 32:21of
- 32:21sending
- 32:21an
- 32:22email
- 32:22that
- 32:23will
- 32:23get
- 32:23to
- 32:24them.
- 32:25Obviously,
- 32:25most
- 32:25MPs
- 32:26are
- 32:26also
- 32:26on
- 32:27social
- 32:27media
- 32:27and
- 32:27so
- 32:28keep
- 32:28an
- 32:28eye
- 32:28on
- 32:28there
- 32:29in
- 32:29terms
- 32:30of
- 32:30things
- 32:30like
- 32:31their
- 32:31own
- 32:32local
- 32:32meetings
- 32:33and
- 32:33that
- 32:33kind
- 32:33of
- 32:34thing
- 32:34where,
- 32:34you
- 32:34know,
- 32:35where
- 32:36you
- 32:36can
- 32:36make
- 32:37contact.
- 32:37It
- 32:38has
- 32:38to
- 32:38be
- 32:38said,
- 32:38you
- 32:39know,
- 32:39celebrants
- 32:40had
- 32:40significant
- 32:41success
- 32:41in
- 32:41terms
- 32:41of
- 32:42speaking
- 32:42to
- 32:43MPs,
- 32:45and
- 32:45there
- 32:45is
- 32:46a
- 32:46broad
- 32:47body
- 32:47of
- 32:48support
- 32:48here.
- 32:49But
- 32:50like
- 32:50I
- 32:50say,
- 32:51the
- 32:51key
- 32:51thing
- 32:51is
- 32:51educating
- 32:52them.
- 32:52What
- 32:52we
- 32:52need
- 32:53is
- 32:53comprehensive
- 32:54reform,
- 32:54as
- 32:55the
- 32:55Ministry
- 32:55of
- 32:55Justice
- 32:56is
- 32:56now
- 32:56saying,
- 32:57rather
- 32:57than
- 32:58the
- 32:58patch
- 32:59approach,
- 33:00which
- 33:01Humanist
- 33:01UK
- 33:01is
- 33:02still
- 33:02in
- 33:02favour
- 33:02of,
- 33:03because
- 33:03they
- 33:04want
- 33:05it
- 33:05just
- 33:05to
- 33:05be
- 33:05a
- 33:05patch
- 33:05for
- 33:06humanists
- 33:07and
- 33:07then
- 33:07everything
- 33:08else
- 33:08to
- 33:08be
- 33:08considered
- 33:09later.
- 33:10Well,
- 33:10that's
- 33:11not
- 33:11going
- 33:11to
- 33:11work,
- 33:11right,
- 33:12in
- 33:12terms
- 33:12of
- 33:12if
- 33:13Parliament
- 33:13feels,
- 33:13if
- 33:13it's
- 33:14dealt
- 33:14with
- 33:14the
- 33:14issue,
- 33:15it's
- 33:15going
- 33:16to
- 33:16move
- 33:16on.
- 33:17It's
- 33:17been
- 33:17tough
- 33:17enough
- 33:18to
- 33:18try
- 33:18to
- 33:18get
- 33:18on
- 33:18their
- 33:19agenda
- 33:19up
- 33:19until
- 33:20now
- 33:21and,
- 33:21you
- 33:22know,
- 33:22if
- 33:23something
- 33:23is
- 33:24seen
- 33:24to
- 33:24be
- 33:24solved,
- 33:25even
- 33:25if
- 33:25it's
- 33:25not
- 33:25a
- 33:26complete
- 33:26solution,
- 33:27it's
- 33:27not
- 33:27going
- 33:28to
- 33:28register.
- 33:29So
- 33:29I
- 33:29think
- 33:29that's
- 33:30the
- 33:30key
- 33:30thing
- 33:30and
- 33:31sort
- 33:31of,
- 33:31you
- 33:31know,
- 33:31for
- 33:32people
- 33:32who
- 33:32are
- 33:32listening
- 33:32to
- 33:33this,
- 33:33who
- 33:33are
- 33:33sort
- 33:33of
- 33:34independent
- 33:35celebrants,
- 33:36I
- 33:36think
- 33:36that
- 33:37the
- 33:37key
- 33:37thing
- 33:38is
- 33:38to
- 33:38remember
- 33:39that
- 33:39the
- 33:39Law
- 33:39Commission
- 33:42final
- 33:42report
- 33:43proposed
- 33:44a
- 33:44system
- 33:44which
- 33:45could
- 33:45include
- 33:45both
- 33:46humanists
- 33:46and
- 33:47independent
- 33:47celebrities
- 33:48and
- 33:48said
- 33:49it's
- 33:49a
- 33:49question
- 33:49for
- 33:49the
- 33:50government
- 33:50to
- 33:50decide
- 33:50whether
- 33:51it
- 33:51does
- 33:51or
- 33:51not.
- 33:52So
- 33:52they
- 33:52are
- 33:52still
- 33:53very,
- 33:53very
- 33:54much
- 33:54in
- 33:54the
- 33:54picture.
- 33:55Unless
- 33:56and
- 33:56until
- 33:56the
- 33:56consultation
- 33:57says
- 33:58different
- 33:59to
- 33:59those
- 33:59who
- 34:00are
- 34:00outside
- 34:00the
- 34:00celebrant
- 34:01community,
- 34:03they
- 34:03might
- 34:03think
- 34:03they've
- 34:04got
- 34:04less
- 34:05of
- 34:05an
- 34:05interest
- 34:06in
- 34:06this,
- 34:08but
- 34:08actually,
- 34:09this
- 34:09could
- 34:09transform
- 34:11the
- 34:11industry
- 34:12going
- 34:12forward
- 34:13and
- 34:13could
- 34:13make
- 34:14a
- 34:14significant
- 34:15difference
- 34:16not
- 34:16least
- 34:16in
- 34:16terms
- 34:16of
- 34:17if
- 34:17it's
- 34:17saving
- 34:17the
- 34:18couple
- 34:18the
- 34:18price
- 34:18of
- 34:19the
- 34:19second
- 34:19ceremony,
- 34:20then
- 34:20that
- 34:21money
- 34:21could
- 34:21be
- 34:21spent
- 34:22elsewhere.
- 34:23And
- 34:23also,
- 34:24you
- 34:24know,
- 34:25ceremonies
- 34:26outside
- 34:26of
- 34:28approved
- 34:28premises
- 34:29are
- 34:29ready
- 34:30and
- 34:30religious
- 34:31premises,
- 34:31but
- 34:31like,
- 34:32already
- 34:32popular,
- 34:33but
- 34:33this
- 34:34will
- 34:34make
- 34:34them
- 34:35even
- 34:35more
- 34:35popular.
- 34:37And
- 34:37so,
- 34:38you
- 34:38know,
- 34:39it's
- 34:39a
- 34:39real
- 34:40opportunity
- 34:41there
- 34:42to
- 34:42grasp
- 34:43it
- 34:44and
- 34:45to
- 34:45start
- 34:45making
- 34:47partnerships.
- 34:48So
- 34:48in
- 34:48terms
- 34:48of
- 34:48sort
- 34:49of
- 34:49wedding
- 34:49venues
- 34:50and
- 34:50that
- 34:50kind
- 34:50of
- 34:50thing,
- 34:52how
- 34:52many
- 34:52of
- 34:52them
- 34:53are
- 34:53where
- 34:54and
- 34:54in
- 34:54contact
- 34:55with
- 34:55independent
- 34:56celebrants?
- 34:57Because
- 34:58at
- 34:58the
- 34:58moment
- 34:58they
- 34:59don't
- 34:59particularly
- 35:00want
- 35:01to
- 35:01be,
- 35:01because
- 35:02they
- 35:02will
- 35:02want
- 35:03their
- 35:03marriages
- 35:03to
- 35:04be
- 35:04approved
- 35:05by
- 35:05registrars.
- 35:06So
- 35:06it's
- 35:07legal
- 35:07in
- 35:07assets.
- 35:09But
- 35:09this
- 35:10change
- 35:11will
- 35:11completely
- 35:12and
- 35:12utterly
- 35:13revolutionize
- 35:14that
- 35:15and
- 35:15open
- 35:15it
- 35:16up.
- 35:16And
- 35:17also
- 35:17this
- 35:17is
- 35:17incredibly
- 35:18important,
- 35:18make
- 35:19it
- 35:19much
- 35:19more
- 35:20straightforward.
- 35:21And
- 35:21that's
- 35:21for
- 35:22everyone,
- 35:22particularly
- 35:23the
- 35:23couples.
- 35:24Who
- 35:24are
- 35:24completely
- 35:25confused.
- 35:26Well,
- 35:27yeah,
- 35:27I
- 35:27mean,
- 35:27you
- 35:27know,
- 35:28who
- 35:28talks
- 35:29about
- 35:29their
- 35:29marriage
- 35:29as
- 35:29the
- 35:29happiest
- 35:30days
- 35:30of
- 35:30their
- 35:31life?
- 35:31Right.
- 35:31You
- 35:31know
- 35:31what
- 35:32I
- 35:32mean?
- 35:32It
- 35:33goes
- 35:33completely
- 35:33and
- 35:34at
- 35:34the
- 35:34counter
- 35:35to
- 35:35everyone's
- 35:36idea
- 35:36about
- 35:37what
- 35:37a
- 35:37wedding
- 35:37is.
- 35:38So
- 35:40it
- 35:40doesn't
- 35:41fit.
- 35:41It
- 35:41hasn't
- 35:41fitted
- 35:42for
- 35:42some
- 35:42time.
- 35:42It
- 35:43needs
- 35:43to
- 35:43go.
- 35:44Now,
- 35:44you
- 35:44mentioned
- 35:45two
- 35:45areas
- 35:45who.
- 35:46I
- 35:46know
- 35:46both
- 35:46will
- 35:47be
- 35:47listening
- 35:47to
- 35:47this
- 35:47as
- 35:47well,
- 35:48who
- 35:48may
- 35:48be
- 35:48actually
- 35:49a
- 35:49little
- 35:49bit
- 35:49worried
- 35:50about
- 35:50the
- 35:50reform.
- 35:50So
- 35:50I'd
- 35:51just
- 35:51like
- 35:51to
- 35:51tackle
- 35:51that
- 35:52before
- 35:52I
- 35:52let
- 35:52you
- 35:52go.
- 35:53One
- 35:53is
- 35:53venues.
- 35:54Venues
- 35:54are
- 35:55concerned
- 35:55that
- 35:55if
- 35:56people
- 35:56can
- 35:56get
- 35:56married
- 35:56on
- 35:56a
- 35:57beach
- 35:57or
- 35:57in
- 35:57their
- 35:57garden,
- 35:58that
- 35:58they
- 35:58will
- 35:58lose
- 35:58business.
- 35:59And
- 36:00secondly
- 36:00is
- 36:00the
- 36:01registrars
- 36:01themselves
- 36:02who
- 36:02are
- 36:02saying,
- 36:02well,
- 36:03if
- 36:03they
- 36:03can
- 36:03have
- 36:03an
- 36:04independent
- 36:04celebrant
- 36:05who
- 36:05could
- 36:05do
- 36:05all
- 36:05of
- 36:05these
- 36:05things,
- 36:05and
- 36:06we're
- 36:06super
- 36:06restricted,
- 36:07restricted
- 36:07in
- 36:07what
- 36:07we
- 36:07can
- 36:07do
- 36:08as
- 36:08a
- 36:08registrar,
- 36:09are
- 36:09we
- 36:09also
- 36:10going
- 36:10to
- 36:10lose
- 36:10out
- 36:10here?
- 36:11So
- 36:11have
- 36:11you
- 36:11got
- 36:11any
- 36:12thoughts
- 36:12for
- 36:13those
- 36:13two
- 36:13sets
- 36:13of
- 36:13people?
- 36:14Well,
- 36:14it
- 36:14depends
- 36:14on
- 36:15what
- 36:15comes
- 36:16out
- 36:16in
- 36:16terms
- 36:16of
- 36:17the
- 36:17final
- 36:18consultation,
- 36:18in
- 36:19terms
- 36:19of
- 36:19the
- 36:20final
- 36:20bill.
- 36:21But
- 36:21in
- 36:21terms
- 36:22of
- 36:22registrars,
- 36:22I
- 36:23think
- 36:23it's
- 36:23highly
- 36:23likely
- 36:24that
- 36:24the
- 36:24opportunity
- 36:25will
- 36:25also
- 36:25be
- 36:25made
- 36:26to.
- 36:27Will
- 36:27be
- 36:27used
- 36:28to
- 36:28liberalize
- 36:29the
- 36:29law
- 36:29on
- 36:29that.
- 36:30And,
- 36:30you
- 36:30know,
- 36:31I
- 36:31think
- 36:31sort
- 36:31of
- 36:32the
- 36:32key
- 36:32thing,
- 36:33the
- 36:33message
- 36:34I
- 36:34would
- 36:34give
- 36:34to
- 36:34registrars
- 36:35and
- 36:35those
- 36:36involved
- 36:36in
- 36:37sort
- 36:37of
- 36:37policymaking
- 36:38there
- 36:39would
- 36:39be
- 36:39to
- 36:40see
- 36:40this
- 36:40as
- 36:41what
- 36:41it
- 36:41is
- 36:42and
- 36:42to
- 36:42see
- 36:42this
- 36:42as
- 36:43embodying
- 36:43choice.
- 36:44And
- 36:44so
- 36:44actually,
- 36:45I
- 36:45think
- 36:45the
- 36:45key
- 36:46thing
- 36:46is
- 36:46that
- 36:46sort
- 36:47of,
- 36:47you
- 36:47know,
- 36:47at
- 36:48the
- 36:48moment,
- 36:48it's
- 36:48a
- 36:48real
- 36:49postcode
- 36:49lottery
- 36:50in
- 36:50terms
- 36:51of
- 36:51what
- 36:51you
- 36:51can
- 36:51get
- 36:52in
- 36:52registrar
- 36:52offices.
- 36:53And
- 36:54the
- 36:54more
- 36:54that
- 36:55can
- 36:55change,
- 36:56I
- 36:56would
- 36:56suggest,
- 36:57the
- 36:58less
- 36:58likely
- 36:59that
- 36:59this
- 37:00is
- 37:00going
- 37:00to
- 37:00have
- 37:00any
- 37:00sort
- 37:01of
- 37:02financial
- 37:04detrimental
- 37:05effect.
- 37:05On
- 37:05them.
- 37:06Because
- 37:06you
- 37:07know,
- 37:07there
- 37:07are
- 37:07a
- 37:07lot
- 37:08of
- 37:08approved
- 37:08premises
- 37:09which
- 37:09people
- 37:10will
- 37:10still
- 37:11want
- 37:11to
- 37:11get
- 37:11married
- 37:11in.
- 37:12They
- 37:12already
- 37:13now
- 37:13include
- 37:13outside
- 37:14spaces
- 37:15of
- 37:15those
- 37:15approved
- 37:16premises.
- 37:16That
- 37:16is
- 37:17now
- 37:17that's
- 37:17been
- 37:17law
- 37:17for
- 37:18the
- 37:18last
- 37:18couple
- 37:18of
- 37:18years.
- 37:20And
- 37:20so,
- 37:21you
- 37:21know,
- 37:21I
- 37:21think
- 37:22the
- 37:22more
- 37:22they
- 37:22can
- 37:22make
- 37:22the
- 37:23most
- 37:23of
- 37:23that
- 37:25and
- 37:26have
- 37:26different
- 37:26options
- 37:27available
- 37:27for
- 37:28different
- 37:28couples,
- 37:29the
- 37:29better
- 37:29because
- 37:30it's
- 37:30not
- 37:30one
- 37:30size
- 37:30fits
- 37:31all.
- 37:31I
- 37:31think
- 37:31that's
- 37:31the
- 37:32problem
- 37:33there
- 37:35in
- 37:35terms
- 37:35of
- 37:36venues,
- 37:38I
- 37:38think
- 37:38exactly
- 37:39the
- 37:39same.
- 37:41It
- 37:41will
- 37:41be
- 37:41about
- 37:42marketing
- 37:43what
- 37:43is
- 37:44special
- 37:44about
- 37:45your
- 37:45venue
- 37:46and
- 37:46also
- 37:47it'll
- 37:47be
- 37:48crystal
- 37:48clear
- 37:49that
- 37:49weddings
- 37:50that
- 37:50take
- 37:50place
- 37:50there
- 37:51will
- 37:51be
- 37:51legally
- 37:52binded,
- 37:52whereas
- 37:52at
- 37:52the
- 37:53moment
- 37:53is
- 37:53only
- 37:53as
- 37:53if
- 37:54it's
- 37:54an
- 37:54approved
- 37:54premises
- 37:55and
- 37:55there's
- 37:56strings
- 37:56attached
- 37:57to
- 37:57that.
- 37:58So
- 37:58actually
- 37:59in
- 37:59many
- 37:59ways
- 38:00this
- 38:00will
- 38:01place
- 38:02obligations
- 38:03which
- 38:03were
- 38:04formerly
- 38:04on
- 38:05the
- 38:05place
- 38:06on
- 38:06the
- 38:06celebrant.
- 38:07So
- 38:07there
- 38:07are,
- 38:08there's,
- 38:08there's
- 38:09good
- 38:09news
- 38:09for
- 38:09them
- 38:10in,
- 38:10in
- 38:10that
- 38:11regard.
- 38:11And
- 38:12you
- 38:12know,
- 38:13the
- 38:13difference
- 38:13they
- 38:14will
- 38:14have
- 38:14over
- 38:15a
- 38:15outdoor
- 38:16place
- 38:16like
- 38:16a
- 38:16beach
- 38:17is
- 38:18that
- 38:18they
- 38:18can
- 38:18offer
- 38:18the
- 38:19whole
- 38:19thing,
- 38:20the
- 38:20ceremony
- 38:21and
- 38:21the
- 38:22reception.
- 38:23So
- 38:23you
- 38:23know,
- 38:23I
- 38:24don't
- 38:24think
- 38:25it's
- 38:25going
- 38:25to
- 38:25radically
- 38:27change
- 38:28overnight
- 38:29how
- 38:29people
- 38:29get
- 38:30married.
- 38:31I
- 38:31think
- 38:31what
- 38:31it's
- 38:31going
- 38:31to
- 38:32do
- 38:32is
- 38:32it's
- 38:33going
- 38:33to
- 38:34make
- 38:34certain
- 38:36ways
- 38:36of
- 38:36getting
- 38:37married
- 38:37legally
- 38:37binding
- 38:38and
- 38:38so
- 38:39remove
- 38:39the
- 38:39need
- 38:40for
- 38:40that
- 38:40second
- 38:41ceremony.
- 38:41And
- 38:42ok,
- 38:43that's
- 38:43going
- 38:43to
- 38:43cost
- 38:44if.
- 38:44Anything,
- 38:45depending
- 38:45on
- 38:45what
- 38:46happens
- 38:46and
- 38:46what
- 38:46the
- 38:46reform
- 38:47says.
- 38:47And
- 38:48going
- 38:48back
- 38:48to
- 38:48my
- 38:48point
- 38:49earlier
- 38:49about
- 38:49maybe
- 38:49you
- 38:50could
- 38:50end
- 38:50up
- 38:50having
- 38:50a
- 38:50religious
- 38:51ceremony
- 38:51on
- 38:52a
- 38:52football
- 38:52pitch.
- 38:53Actually
- 38:53if,
- 38:53if
- 38:54that
- 38:54is
- 38:55able
- 38:55to
- 38:55happen,
- 38:55then
- 38:56it
- 38:56actually
- 38:56opens
- 38:57up
- 38:57more
- 38:57opportunities
- 38:58to
- 38:58those
- 38:59venues
- 38:59whereby
- 39:00people
- 39:00who
- 39:00were
- 39:01only
- 39:01able
- 39:01to
- 39:02get
- 39:02married
- 39:02in
- 39:02a
- 39:02place
- 39:02of
- 39:03religion
- 39:03may
- 39:04now
- 39:04actually
- 39:04be
- 39:04able
- 39:05to
- 39:05book
- 39:05and
- 39:05have
- 39:06that
- 39:06ceremony
- 39:07in
- 39:07their
- 39:07venue
- 39:08which
- 39:08could
- 39:08actually
- 39:08open
- 39:09up
- 39:09a
- 39:09huge
- 39:09new
- 39:09market
- 39:10to
- 39:10them.
- 39:10Absolutely.
- 39:11And
- 39:11it'll
- 39:11be
- 39:11a
- 39:12question
- 39:12of
- 39:12those
- 39:13venues
- 39:14having
- 39:14connections
- 39:15with
- 39:15a
- 39:16wide
- 39:16range
- 39:16of
- 39:16celebrants
- 39:17that
- 39:18will
- 39:18be
- 39:18key
- 39:19rather
- 39:19than
- 39:19just
- 39:20sort
- 39:20of
- 39:20doing,
- 39:21offering
- 39:22what
- 39:22they've
- 39:22always
- 39:22done,
- 39:23if
- 39:23that
- 39:23makes
- 39:23sense.
- 39:24But
- 39:24yeah,
- 39:24absolutely.
- 39:25You
- 39:25know,
- 39:26I
- 39:26think
- 39:26that
- 39:26there's,
- 39:26there's
- 39:27huge
- 39:27potential
- 39:28here
- 39:28and
- 39:29you
- 39:29know,
- 39:29the
- 39:30key
- 39:30key
- 39:30winners
- 39:31I
- 39:31think
- 39:31are
- 39:31couples.
- 39:32And
- 39:32that's
- 39:33how
- 39:33it
- 39:33should
- 39:33be.
- 39:33Yeah,
- 39:34absolutely.
- 39:35Now
- 39:35if
- 39:35people
- 39:35want
- 39:36to
- 39:36find
- 39:36out
- 39:36more
- 39:36or
- 39:37stay
- 39:37informed
- 39:37because
- 39:38this
- 39:38is
- 39:38an
- 39:38ever
- 39:38changing
- 39:39but
- 39:39slow
- 39:39moving
- 39:40beast.
- 39:40I've
- 39:41already
- 39:41mentioned
- 39:41your
- 39:42Instagram.
- 39:42Are
- 39:42there
- 39:42any
- 39:42other
- 39:43trust
- 39:43trusted
- 39:44sources
- 39:44places
- 39:44they
- 39:45should
- 39:45be
- 39:45looking
- 39:45for
- 39:46this
- 39:46information?
- 39:46Because
- 39:47I
- 39:47know
- 39:47it's
- 39:47a
- 39:48bit
- 39:48of
- 39:48a
- 39:48mixed
- 39:48bag
- 39:48out
- 39:49there
- 39:49and
- 39:49some
- 39:49of
- 39:49it's
- 39:49quite
- 39:50biased
- 39:50towards
- 39:50certain
- 39:51areas,
- 39:52where's
- 39:52the
- 39:52best
- 39:52place
- 39:53for
- 39:53them
- 39:53to
- 39:53find
- 39:54as
- 39:54much
- 39:54neutral
- 39:54information
- 39:55as
- 39:55they
- 39:55can?
- 39:56Well,
- 39:56the
- 39:56Law
- 39:56Commission,
- 39:57when
- 39:57they
- 39:57publish
- 39:58their
- 39:58big
- 39:58500
- 39:59page
- 39:59report,
- 40:00also
- 40:00published
- 40:01some
- 40:01summaries.
- 40:02So
- 40:02they're
- 40:03very
- 40:03useful
- 40:03in
- 40:03terms
- 40:03of
- 40:05a
- 40:05fairly
- 40:06short,
- 40:07in
- 40:07comparison
- 40:08to
- 40:08500
- 40:08pages
- 40:10account
- 40:10of
- 40:11what
- 40:11they're
- 40:11proposing
- 40:12and
- 40:12the
- 40:12issues.
- 40:14My
- 40:14book
- 40:15on
- 40:15the
- 40:15topic,
- 40:15as
- 40:16I
- 40:16mentioned,
- 40:17deals
- 40:17with
- 40:17it.
- 40:17And
- 40:17on
- 40:18the
- 40:18book's
- 40:18website,
- 40:19on
- 40:19Bristol
- 40:19University
- 40:20Press
- 40:20website,
- 40:21there's
- 40:21a
- 40:21couple
- 40:21of
- 40:22other
- 40:23documents,
- 40:24a
- 40:24policy
- 40:24document
- 40:25which
- 40:26basically
- 40:26summarizes
- 40:28the
- 40:28main
- 40:29arguments.
- 40:29The
- 40:30book
- 40:30is
- 40:30there
- 40:30and
- 40:30that's
- 40:31freely
- 40:31available,
- 40:33so
- 40:34there's
- 40:35quite
- 40:35a
- 40:35lot
- 40:35out
- 40:35there.
- 40:36But
- 40:36as
- 40:36you
- 40:36say,
- 40:37you've
- 40:37also
- 40:38got
- 40:38to
- 40:38be
- 40:38wise
- 40:38in
- 40:38terms
- 40:39of,
- 40:39of
- 40:39who's
- 40:40saying
- 40:40what
- 40:40and
- 40:41what
- 40:41they're
- 40:41trying
- 40:42to
- 40:42protect
- 40:42and,
- 40:43you
- 40:43know,
- 40:43what
- 40:43vested
- 40:44interests
- 40:44they
- 40:44have.
- 40:45My
- 40:46best
- 40:46interest
- 40:46is
- 40:47simply
- 40:47I
- 40:47want
- 40:47the
- 40:47law
- 40:48to
- 40:48be
- 40:48accessible.
- 40:49I
- 40:49want
- 40:49to
- 40:50try
- 40:50and
- 40:50remove
- 40:51things
- 40:51which
- 40:51are
- 40:52causing
- 40:52discrimination
- 40:53and
- 40:53inequality.
- 40:55You
- 40:56know,
- 40:56I've
- 40:57got
- 40:57no
- 40:57sort
- 40:57of
- 40:58stake
- 40:58in
- 40:59the
- 40:59game
- 40:59other
- 40:59than
- 41:00that.
- 41:01So,
- 41:02yeah,
- 41:02I
- 41:02mean,
- 41:02like
- 41:02I
- 41:02said,
- 41:03there's
- 41:03those
- 41:03materials,
- 41:04the
- 41:04Law
- 41:04Commission
- 41:05stuff.
- 41:06Yeah,
- 41:06the
- 41:06summaries
- 41:07are
- 41:07very,
- 41:07very
- 41:07useful.
- 41:09Perfect.
- 41:10All
- 41:10right,
- 41:10as
- 41:11we
- 41:11finish,
- 41:11then,
- 41:11I'm
- 41:12going
- 41:12to
- 41:12ask
- 41:12you
- 41:12one
- 41:12final
- 41:12question,
- 41:13which
- 41:13is
- 41:14why
- 41:14should
- 41:14the
- 41:14industry
- 41:15as
- 41:15a
- 41:15whole,
- 41:15the
- 41:16wider
- 41:16industry,
- 41:16not
- 41:17the
- 41:17celebrants,
- 41:18why
- 41:18should
- 41:18we
- 41:18care
- 41:19about
- 41:19this
- 41:19at
- 41:19all?
- 41:20Well,
- 41:20I
- 41:20think
- 41:21the
- 41:21reason
- 41:22it's
- 41:22worth
- 41:22caring
- 41:23about
- 41:23is
- 41:23that
- 41:23it
- 41:24will
- 41:24make
- 41:24things
- 41:25easier
- 41:26to
- 41:26explain,
- 41:27it
- 41:27will
- 41:27make
- 41:28things
- 41:28more
- 41:28accessible,
- 41:29it
- 41:29will
- 41:29make
- 41:30things
- 41:30more
- 41:30equal
- 41:31and
- 41:31it
- 41:31will
- 41:31open
- 41:32doors
- 41:32which
- 41:33have
- 41:33previously
- 41:33been
- 41:34closed
- 41:35and
- 41:35that
- 41:36will
- 41:36make
- 41:36a
- 41:36difference
- 41:37in
- 41:38terms
- 41:38of.
- 41:38It'll
- 41:38make
- 41:38a
- 41:39difference
- 41:39to
- 41:39the
- 41:39couples,
- 41:40but
- 41:40it'll
- 41:40make
- 41:40a
- 41:41difference
- 41:41to
- 41:42various
- 41:43different
- 41:43stakeholders
- 41:44and
- 41:44various
- 41:45people
- 41:45involved
- 41:45in
- 41:45the
- 41:46wedding
- 41:46industry.
- 41:46And,
- 41:47you
- 41:47know,
- 41:47have
- 41:48a
- 41:48look
- 41:48at
- 41:49the
- 41:49Ministry
- 41:49of
- 41:49Justice
- 41:50press
- 41:50release.
- 41:51It
- 41:51framed
- 41:52this
- 41:52very
- 41:53much
- 41:53in
- 41:53economic
- 41:54terms.
- 41:54And
- 41:55so
- 41:55if
- 41:55you're
- 41:55someone
- 41:56who
- 41:56makes
- 41:56their
- 41:57money
- 41:57out
- 41:57of
- 41:57weddings,
- 41:58it's
- 41:59going
- 41:59to
- 41:59have
- 41:59an
- 42:00effect
- 42:00on
- 42:00you.
- 42:01And
- 42:01the
- 42:01key
- 42:02thing
- 42:02is
- 42:02that
- 42:03A,
- 42:04it
- 42:05happens,
- 42:06which,
- 42:06as
- 42:06I
- 42:06say,
- 42:07is
- 42:07no
- 42:07done
- 42:07deal
- 42:07at
- 42:07the
- 42:08moment,
- 42:08and
- 42:08B,
- 42:09it
- 42:09happens
- 42:09in
- 42:09a
- 42:10way
- 42:11that
- 42:12doesn't
- 42:12cause
- 42:12your
- 42:13detriment.
- 42:14So
- 42:14it's
- 42:14something
- 42:14that's
- 42:14definitely
- 42:15worth
- 42:15engaging
- 42:15with.
- 42:16Yes,
- 42:16it's
- 42:16complicated.
- 42:17Yes,
- 42:17it's
- 42:17often
- 42:18dull.
- 42:19Yes,
- 42:19it's
- 42:19one
- 42:19of
- 42:20those
- 42:20things
- 42:20which
- 42:20is
- 42:21incredibly
- 42:21slow
- 42:22moving,
- 42:22but
- 42:22every
- 42:22now
- 42:23and
- 42:23again
- 42:23something
- 42:23happens
- 42:24out
- 42:24of
- 42:24the
- 42:24blue.
- 42:24I
- 42:25mean,
- 42:25you
- 42:25know,
- 42:25probably
- 42:26it'll
- 42:26be
- 42:26a
- 42:26random
- 42:27Wednesday
- 42:27afternoon
- 42:27when
- 42:28the
- 42:28consultation
- 42:28papers,
- 42:29it
- 42:29sort
- 42:29of
- 42:29comes
- 42:30out
- 42:31and
- 42:31it'll
- 42:31take
- 42:31us
- 42:32all
- 42:32by
- 42:32surprise.
- 42:34But
- 42:35nevertheless,
- 42:36this
- 42:36is
- 42:36important
- 42:36stuff.
- 42:37It's
- 42:37once
- 42:37in
- 42:38a
- 42:38generation
- 42:39an
- 42:39opportunity,
- 42:40really
- 42:40to
- 42:41get
- 42:41a
- 42:41marriage
- 42:42law
- 42:42which
- 42:42is
- 42:42suitable
- 42:43for
- 42:4321st
- 42:44century.
- 42:44Amazing.
- 42:45Russell,
- 42:45thank
- 42:45you
- 42:46so
- 42:46much
- 42:46for
- 42:46your
- 42:46time.
- 42:47I'm
- 42:47sure
- 42:47this
- 42:47won't
- 42:47be
- 42:48the
- 42:48last
- 42:48time
- 42:48we
- 42:48speak.
- 42:49I'm
- 42:49sure
- 42:49that
- 42:49we
- 42:49will
- 42:50speak
- 42:50again
- 42:51when
- 42:51updates
- 42:51come
- 42:52in
- 42:52the
- 42:52future.
- 42:52But
- 42:53let
- 42:53me
- 42:53reiterate
- 42:54again,
- 42:54we
- 42:54are
- 42:54thankful
- 42:55as
- 42:55an
- 42:55industry
- 42:55that
- 42:55you
- 42:56care
- 42:56about
- 42:57what's
- 42:57going
- 42:57on
- 42:57in
- 42:57our
- 42:57industry
- 42:58and
- 42:58also
- 42:59really,
- 42:59really
- 43:00understand
- 43:00it
- 43:01and
- 43:01can
- 43:01help
- 43:01us
- 43:02all
- 43:02understand
- 43:02it
- 43:03in
- 43:03more
- 43:03simpler
- 43:04terms.
- 43:04So
- 43:04thank
- 43:05you
- 43:05for
- 43:05the
- 43:05time,
- 43:05the
- 43:06energy,
- 43:06the
- 43:06effort
- 43:06that
- 43:07you're
- 43:07putting
- 43:07into
- 43:07it,
- 43:08and
- 43:08I'm
- 43:08sure
- 43:08once
- 43:08this
- 43:08podcast
- 43:09episode
- 43:09is
- 43:09released,
- 43:10you'll
- 43:10be
- 43:10even
- 43:10greater
- 43:11a
- 43:11celebrity
- 43:11in
- 43:12the
- 43:12wedding
- 43:12world
- 43:12than
- 43:12you
- 43:13were
- 43:13before.
- 43:13And
- 43:13I'm
- 43:13sure
- 43:14lots
- 43:14more
- 43:14people
- 43:14are
- 43:14going
- 43:14to
- 43:15follow
- 43:15along
- 43:16to
- 43:16just
- 43:16get
- 43:16those
- 43:17updates
- 43:17from
- 43:17you.
- 43:17So
- 43:18thank
- 43:18you
- 43:18so
- 43:18much
- 43:19for
- 43:19your
- 43:19time.
- 43:19I'm
- 43:19excited
- 43:20to
- 43:20see
- 43:20what
- 43:20comes
- 43:20next.
- 43:21Thank
- 43:21you
- 43:21very
- 43:21much.
- 43:21As
- 43:22am
- 43:22I.
- 43:22I
- 43:22hope
- 43:22you
- 43:23enjoyed
- 43:23that
- 43:23episode
- 43:24with
- 43:24Russell.
- 43:24I
- 43:24know
- 43:25that
- 43:25it's
- 43:25complicated,
- 43:26I
- 43:26know
- 43:26that
- 43:26it's
- 43:26heavy
- 43:27going
- 43:27trying
- 43:27to
- 43:27get
- 43:27your
- 43:28head
- 43:28around
- 43:28this
- 43:28law,
- 43:29but
- 43:29now
- 43:29is
- 43:30the
- 43:30time
- 43:30for
- 43:30us
- 43:30as
- 43:31an
- 43:31industry
- 43:31to
- 43:31act
- 43:32and
- 43:32to
- 43:32get
- 43:32behind
- 43:32this.
- 43:33As
- 43:33Russell
- 43:33said,
- 43:34this
- 43:34is
- 43:34a
- 43:34once
- 43:34in
- 43:35a
- 43:35generation
- 43:35opportunity
- 43:36to
- 43:36have
- 43:36an
- 43:37input
- 43:37in
- 43:37this.
- 43:38And
- 43:38I
- 43:38believe
- 43:38now
- 43:38it's
- 43:39the
- 43:39time
- 43:39for
- 43:39not
- 43:39just
- 43:39the
- 43:40celebrants,
- 43:40but
- 43:40the
- 43:40wider
- 43:41industry
- 43:41as
- 43:41a
- 43:41whole
- 43:42to
- 43:42go
- 43:42and
- 43:43talk
- 43:43to
- 43:43their
- 43:43MPs
- 43:44to
- 43:44make
- 43:44their
- 43:44voices
- 43:44heard
- 43:45on
- 43:45this
- 43:45matter
- 43:46so
- 43:46that
- 43:46we
- 43:46can
- 43:46have
- 43:47an
- 43:47impact.
- 43:48If
- 43:48you
- 43:48want
- 43:48help
- 43:48with
- 43:49that,
- 43:49reach
- 43:49out
- 43:49to
- 43:49me,
- 43:50reach
- 43:50out
- 43:50to
- 43:50Russell.
- 43:51We'd
- 43:51love
- 43:51to
- 43:51chat
- 43:52more
- 43:52with
- 43:52you
- 43:52about
- 43:53it
- 43:53and
- 43:53I'll
- 43:54see
- 43:54you
- 43:54all
- 43:54next
- 43:54time.