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Episode 12 - Brotherhood Over Bullshit: Dimitri’s Blueprint for ENM Leadership · The Bull Brotherhood

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I remember my first splash, and of course, it
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was Atlanta. And I called you. You called me
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back. You called me back. And we talked. And
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I kept saying, I love the way this brother is
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vetting his bulls. Because now that you flipped
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the script on me, you know what I mean? You were
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like, tell me why you want to attend this event.
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You know what I'm saying? And I was like, okay,
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he's looking for what I always say, quality gentleman
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to come to his event. He's not looking for these
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thirsty dudes that just want to come there and
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pour the damn dick out. We all know that's going
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to happen. If you have what it takes. This podcast
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contains explicit adult content, mature themes,
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and candid conversations about sex, dominance,
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power exchange, and ethical non -monogamy. It
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is intended for audiences 18 and over only. Listener
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be interpreted as legal advice, medical guidance,
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If you're not comfortable with frank talk about
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sex, kink, dominance, or emotional power, this
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probably isn't the show for you. But if you're
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ready to step into your masculine edge, and embrace
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a lifestyle that demands mastery, welcome to
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the Brotherhood. Welcome to the Bull Brotherhood
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Podcast, where we talk power, pleasure, and the
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art of dominance in ethical non -monogamy. This
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is not your average lifestyle podcast. This is
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for men who lead, men who master, and men who
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leave a lasting impression. If you're here, you're
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not just curious. You're ready to elevate. hot
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wives, stags, and open -minded explorers, we
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see you. Let's go. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome
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to another informative episode of the Bull Brotherhood
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Podcast. I'm the man himself, the Sigma male,
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Brian Morgan, a .k .a. the lone wolf, coming
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at you. with the other half of my podcast team
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the lovely siren say hello sweetie hello and
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of course my brother from another mother i call
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him nephew the one and only socrates what's good
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brother what's good what's going on y 'all all
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right all right ladies and gentlemen tonight
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we have a very very special guest and i do mean
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special right um There are very few people that
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I can say that I really kind of look up to. But
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this brother right here, from the moment I met
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him at my very first Splash Mocha in Atlanta,
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I knew that there was something about him. All
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right. Not only tall, cool, debonair, he actually
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is the definition, in my opinion, of what a quality
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bull is. Okay. Hailing from the great state of
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Florida. Ladies and gentlemen, I introduce to
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you. And he is a part of Splash Mocha. To me,
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he is Splash Mocha. Ladies and gentlemen, again,
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I introduce to you, Dimitri. Welcome to the Bull
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Brotherhood, brother. Hey, thank you, my brother.
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Thank you, everybody. That was such a warm welcome.
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I want to hear it again. Hey, man, you know me.
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You know me by now. I call it like I see it.
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I call it like I see it. All of respect. And
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ladies and gentlemen, I do, I really do mean,
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I really do mean, I call it like I see it. When
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you meet Dimitri, he really is the definition
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of what that quality bull is, okay? Not only
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a smart debonair, man, I want to ask you sometime,
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where'd you get your wardrobe from, brother?
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Because I know I got some smooth clothes, but
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I'd be, damn, your stuff just be rocking. You
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know what I mean? I came to see your recipe.
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I am known for giving away some stuff. You are
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dapper, Dan. I'm telling you right now. You are
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dapper, brother. You are dapper. I'm telling
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you. Again, ladies and gentlemen, you've been
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with Splash now how long? Since the beginning.
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Since the beginning. Wow. A lot of people think
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Splash Mocha started as Splash Note. It started
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as Splash Takeover. In one of the small rooms,
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we called the chocolate room. Okay, okay, okay.
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Well, I tell you what, it is a pleasure for you
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to be with us tonight because we definitely want
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to know your origin, your origin story, how you
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got into this, what made you get into this. You
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know, where do you see the lifestyle going in
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the future? et cetera, et cetera. You know what
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I mean? Normally, I love to ask questions, but
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I know my nephew has got a hell of a lot of questions
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to ask you along with Siren. So I'm going to
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turn it over to him to kick this party off. I'll
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jump in here and there. All right? Take over
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there, Socrates. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Well, so
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this is our industry segment. So, you know, we're
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going to talk a lot about, you know, your professional
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life. and all of that, you know. But let's just
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start it from the beginning. What got you into
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the lifestyle? And, you know, what's your story
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on, you know, how you got started into this whole
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thing? So I would have to go back to adolescence.
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You know, you have your little crew. And I was
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the pretty boy, you know. I was the pretty boy
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with the jerry cup, you know. Or I'm wearing
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the wave cap. And I was the one that always got
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the girls. So did you put Soul Glow in? Did you
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use Soul Glow? Or which one did you use for the
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curl? It was actually Duke and S -Curl. S -Curl,
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that's what I used. So it was dry, but it looked
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wet. I used Moxie for that. Y 'all don't know
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nothing about Moxie. Oh my goodness. I can tell
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you right now, I'm the reason my mom put plastic
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on the furniture. Because I stained up some shit.
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There's different reasons we put plastic on our
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furniture now. So, D, you've always had that
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swag. In other words, you were born with it.
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Well, let me be honest, I wasn't. I always hung
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out with my older cousins. And, you know, it
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was like that pressure was from them, like, you
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know, coming up. You know, let's say 12, 13.
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And they put that fear, oh, you're afraid of
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girls. So it was more like I had to prove that
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I wasn't when I was. And when I stepped off that
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porch, you couldn't get me back up there. I was
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timing somebody. So, yeah, that's how my journey
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started. So, you know, just hanging out with
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my other cousins. I will say this, and even though
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I'm in my 50s now, I actually told them this
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recently because I dedicated the way I moved
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to three of them. And I told all three, I've
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mended my life and my lifestyle based off what
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I learned from them back then and so right now
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today. All three of my cousins take care of a
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key component of the way I move, talk, walk,
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and stand. It's from those three gentlemen. And
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that goes what I always say. I ain't trying to
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cut you off, but that goes what I always say,
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though, man. If you got some old school cats,
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you know, to teach you or to be like a guide,
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you can't go wrong. Oh, yeah. I mean, you can't
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go wrong. If you got old school cats, you know,
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because that's how I learned. You know what I
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mean? I had the old school guys. You know, they
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taught me how to play ball. They taught me how
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to do. every damn thing you know what i mean
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a lot of a lot of stuff in the lifestyle you
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know what i'm saying that's what it was yep it
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was a i would say you know it was a journey uh
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my father uh i'm pretty sure he was a player
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but he was one of the ones that i took here home
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you know absolutely and i always respect him
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for that because We never had no outside interruptions
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coming to our household and disrupting our household.
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And I remember him telling me a long time ago,
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he said, son, he said, if you could eat one meal
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for the rest of your life, what would it be?
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And I couldn't think of anything. He said, exactly.
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He said, that's how I see people. He said, so
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when you get married, he said, it's okay to give
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your heart. He said, but in a man's man's rules,
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he said. your dick is on the community as you
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want it to be. I thought that was by far the
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funniest thing ever, but he was big and serious.
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That's that old school, baby. That's that old
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school, I'm telling you. It was ignorant as hell,
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but, you know, I just remember those things,
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man. I took it to heart, you know. But, you know,
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it was a journey, and I guess I would say coming
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up and once I... I was very, very, like I said,
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the ladies' man, the pretty boy, but I also was
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a very, very, I was a sports figure as well.
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My parents was either the way, like, you're going
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to work a part -time job or play sports in school.
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So I stayed busy with sports, and, you know,
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that brought on the cheerleaders and so forth.
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You know, I can't just be one. I was that guy.
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I was that guy. Like I said, that for Dan. That
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for Dan. Not much has changed. Well, actually,
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yeah. I'd say the one thing that has changed
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is that I don't lie about it no more. And that's
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because you live this 24 -7 like we do. So it's
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like, why not let everybody know who I am? Well,
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I was a kid. I didn't give a damn. I was a kid.
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I didn't care. It was all fun. So I say once
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my journey really took off was, like I said,
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I was actually recovering in Mannheim, Germany
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in 1995. And I went into a bar and I saw this
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blonde. I'm 6 '3". This lady had to be at least
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6 '5". And she was gorgeous. And she was just,
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she was all about. black American men and GIs.
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And we go to this table and she have a drink,
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a soda, whatever. And she asked me, do I want
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to go play? Well, she said, fuck. And she took
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me to her husband who was doing coke on the table.
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And he said, you want to fuck my wife? I said,
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oh, shit. It was about to go down the pipe. But
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he was so cool. He said, do it right here. And
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he spit the chair around, and she bent over and
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pulled her pants inside. I was like, shit. Fuck
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it. And it went down from there. Boy, I'm so
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glad I got somebody. That's my introduction right
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now. I'm so glad I got somebody, brother, that
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has been to Germany and has experience, wide
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experience. And when I hear somebody say pretty
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much the same things that I've said, you know
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what I'm saying? Mannheim, Germany. Lord have
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mercy. M -A -N -N -H -E -I -M. Lord have mercy.
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Mannheim, Germany. I was in both. We crazed in
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both. You were there in 95. I got there at the
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end of 95 and went straight to Bosnia because
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Bosnia kicked off in 96. So we missed each other.
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We missed each other. Boy, I wish I'd have been
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there. My goodness, boy. Lord have mercy. We
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hooked up in Mannheim and Heidelberg and Ramstein.
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Boy, we had cheering around everywhere. Man,
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let me hush. Keep going, son. Keep going. Keep
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going, brother. Lord have mercy. So let's skip
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ahead to your journey with Splashin' Mocha. You're
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doing the splash events, and there was a dark
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room. When did you guys realize, you know, you
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and the other owners, that you guys had something
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here? So, the gentleman before me that was running
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the chocolate room, you know, didn't, and I'm
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not trying to disrespect you guys, but they didn't
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have a... I guess I would say a backbone. They
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let these couples mistreat them like novices
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and fill -ins and just taboo. And once I became
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into the chocolate world, I brought in, you know,
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self -respect, etiquette, to where these people
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see me eating breakfast with a couple that, you
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know, want to be seen with us, and I just changed
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the whole dynamic. And so we went from, I'd say,
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five guys. The next year, we went to, like, 15
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guys. The next year, we went to, like, 25 guys.
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And it was like, okay, we got something going
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on. And I don't want to say the organizers in
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the owner's name, but we did a birthday party
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for her. And I presented her this cake. And her
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husband was looking at me like, you better back
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the fuck up. But he's a great guy. You know,
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he was super cool. He was great. And we had a
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conversation and he was like, hey, we want to
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give you guys an opportunity to do your own thing.
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And we said, let's go. And we took off in Titansville,
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Florida. Now, if you're looking at money -wise,
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you would say we had a failure. But I call it
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a success rate because there was nothing stopping
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us from getting off the ground. The mark we made
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on the lifestyle to me was so big that we had
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more people coming back the next year. So I didn't
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consider it a failure because we did it the next
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year. And we had a great, you know, better. So
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we put our heads together and said, we have to
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take this to a different location. And we chose
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South Florida. And we got out to the Fort Lauderdale.
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And that's when we really took off. And how many
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people would you say are at that first one? In
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South Florida? Yes. Over maybe a thousand. Oh,
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wow. Wow. Yeah. That ain't no joke. Oh, yeah.
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We sold the whole hotel out. And plus we sold
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out every day and night pass we had. It was a,
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it was a hell of a, it was well organized. It
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was, trust me, it was unique. How many, how many
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bulls did you invite for, do you remember? Okay,
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so when I came on to the staff, I was their right
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-hand man. The position I'm in, there was a gentleman
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before me that took it over because I worked
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beside him. I was his right -hand man. So I would
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say we had maybe a hundred. Okay. That's a lot
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of work for them. A thousand people, a hundred
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bulls. It was working hard. Well, that's pretty
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much what it stayed, right? About a hundred bulls
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every year? It depends on the hotel. So y 'all
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went, y 'all pretty much went from a small room
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to what, within two years or three, I mean, two
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years tops selling out a whole, a whole hotel.
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Correct? Yes. Wow. Wow. And, and how did the
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word get out? did was this just great advertising
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or was this a whole lot of like the the couples
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going back word of mouth you know and yeah we
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did it right about and we so we would pack up
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in the car or a truck or just whatever minivans
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and we would hit local sponsors from like we'll
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go to strip clubs and just hit the dance floor
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hit the stage until they kick us out we'll just
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throw clients everywhere and just be out go to
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the next one And we also was doing house parties
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in the middle of this also to get our name out
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there as well. So it was very, very, it was a,
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it was pretty easy actually because we enjoyed
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what we were doing. It didn't feel like work.
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Well, it was easy. I love that you said it was
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easy, but as a businessman, I want to go back
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over two things. One, the average business takes
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two years to be profitable. So the fact that
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you were profitable, the first one, you're a
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smart businessman by looking at the people. Who
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cares about the money? You're going to expect
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to dump money into a business to get it going.
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And then secondly, as a promoter, now I've done
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everything in this industry except for lifestyle
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professional events. And I've been a part of
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some and I've helped with some, but I've done
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promoting before and I know what it takes. And
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you guys did what it took. Because I know a lot
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of promoters that would not all jump in a van,
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hit up as many strip clubs, stay there and promote
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until they get kicked out. Like, that's serious
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business right there. So it goes back to my original
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question. And you answered it, but I'm going
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to dig a little deeper. When did you know that
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you had some magic sauce? Because when the first
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time I went. I was like, this is it. First, I
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had to pick up my wife's jaw, you know. Facts.
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And then I was like, this is home. And I didn't
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know it was home until like the third time. But
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when did you know there was some magic sauce
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here? Okay. Chocolate sauce. Let's see. I would
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say our very first South Florida because it was
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very, very safe, you know. I mean. Yes, the couples
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come to have fun with the guys and the guys looking
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forward to the meeting. But it was so foreign
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that these couples wanted to know your journey.
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They wanted to have a conversation. You know,
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they wanted to know your life because they saw
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you more than the two of you. You know, they
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saw you as a potential friend. And that moment
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says, hey, Demetrius, come have breakfast with
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us. Hey, Demetrius, let's go eat dinner. But
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just have a conversation instead of, how big
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is your dick? I was like, oh, okay. And I started
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seeing that it wasn't just me. More of the general
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was getting the same responses and reactions.
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And right then, I knew we had something special.
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That we were starting to gain our value. Our
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respect. And let's focus on the marketer lifestyle
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community. I really love what you said earlier
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about that you changed the dynamic just by, you
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know, having that first breakfast with that couple
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and just being out in the public and just being
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recognized and respected by them. And I just
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really admire that is that was like the shift
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for you that started all of this. That's awesome.
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So I was like, you know, like I said, I had guys
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that were older than me. too much pressure out
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in the military. So I still had that go bottle,
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that energy to where you can't tell me, AD, that
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hot wife want to go, she wants to fuck you, so
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you got to go do it. I'm like, fuck you and fuck
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her. You go fuck your own wife. You know, I fuck
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when I want. I want to take my time. I want to
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have a conversation. I want to know your rules.
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I want to know your hard no's, your maybes, and
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your yeses. You know, because at the end of the
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day, we both have to enjoy this experience. So
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it's not like, hey, you get down and go fuck
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my wife. I'm saying go fuck yourself. So when
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they start saying that, out of that interview,
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they're demanding our respect, more guys follow
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suit. And that's the wave I like. They say you're
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gentle about any and everything before they see
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what's in your pants. So let me ask you something.
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Let me ask you this, brother, because I remember
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my first splash. And of course, it was Atlanta.
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And I called you. You called me back. You called
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me back. And we talked. And I kept saying, I
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love the way his brother is vetting his bulls.
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Because now that you flipped the script on me.
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You know what I mean? You were like, tell me,
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tell me why you want to attend this event. You
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know what I'm saying? And I was like, okay, he's,
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he's, he's, he's looking for what I, what I always
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say, quality gentlemen to come to his event.
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He's not looking for these thirsty dudes that
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just want to come down and pull the damn dick
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out. We all know that's going to happen. If you,
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if you have what it takes to make it happen.
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But so what I'm saying is what, or asking, what
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are you looking for when you talk to brothers?
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You know what I'm saying? Before you say, okay,
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yeah, I know you're good to come splash. What
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are you looking for? Well, I'm going to go back
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to an individual. I'm going to go back to you,
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that conversation we had. The conversation you
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and I had, it was so, it was so mixed to where
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I felt like we crossed paths. So when I asked
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you that, because you shared your journey briefly,
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and I said, okay, this is a guy that's experienced.
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Like, this guy is in the know of the know. So
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when I asked you, my eyes flashed. It was like,
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okay, like, you don't just want a team. You got
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something to bring besides your dick. You know,
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I saw the substance. I saw the potential. You
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brought more questions. From how that comes to
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you, I just went more and more in bed with the
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guys I started dating. Again, like, I want to
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see that you want to come long -term. You want
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to make a mark on the brotherhood. You know,
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I tell the guys all the time, this is not a fucking
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race. This is a marathon. But before you think
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of enjoying yourself with the women and ladies,
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embrace the brotherhood. take a step back and
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look at the beauty of seeing 150 guys together
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in unison and in mere replacement of what we
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stand for and embrace that. See that these guys
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are going to hold you up and keep you up and
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will not let you fall. Know that you're a king
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amongst kings, but if you can't wear that fucking
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crown, give me my crown back, hit the door, and
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I wish you a good journey. You know, I'm going
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to wish you well. But I want you to know that
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I'm going to praise you. I'm going to bring your
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self -esteem up. But if you respond to me in
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an inkling of negativity, hey, conversation's
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over. And I was just reaching to you. Okay, my
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brother, I don't think my brain is for you, and
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I don't think you're perfectly fit for us. So
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I wish you well. The functions are out there
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for you. You're free to explore, but it won't
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be a splash. Outstanding, outstanding. And when
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I got to that very first splash and I saw you
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and Mocha, And I've told this story 50 million
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times. I'm standing there. I'm standing there.
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You know what I mean? And here I am, you know,
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at that time. At that time, I was still law enforcement.
25:46
And I'm standing there, and I see you and Mocha.
25:50
And all of a sudden, you two turn towards me
25:53
at the same time and start walking my way. And,
25:56
brother, it takes a lot to, like, make me, like,
25:58
say, damn. You know, like, oh, shit. But, hell,
26:01
I went for my eye. Turned and went for my damn
26:03
gun and forgot that she was in. I got it. That
26:08
was the it factor that the two of you had. You
26:15
know what I'm saying? So I'm saying to myself,
26:16
okay, if both don't own this, one of them have
26:19
to be the owner of Splash. You know what I'm
26:22
saying? That's just the demeanor, the aura, the
26:27
charisma that you guys have. And like I said,
26:31
when you're there, this last flash, I was just
26:35
looking at how you just, dude, you cased a room
26:39
just like I cased a room. You know what I mean?
26:41
Even though I know you're working, but you cased
26:43
a room and it's like, okay, everybody sees me.
26:46
I'm going to go sit right here and just chill
26:49
and make sure everybody is having a great time.
26:52
you make the couples feel so welcome and and
26:55
not only the couples but you you make sure that
26:59
you look after the bulls you know i mean you
27:00
make sure the bulls are having a great time you're
27:03
constantly like you know approaching us you know
27:06
i mean to give you know to show us love make
27:08
sure that we are are not um uh how do i say it
27:12
nervous or anything you know because some of
27:14
the guys it being their first blast is very very
27:17
overwhelming It's very overwhelming. But here
27:20
again, though, you make the guys feel at home,
27:22
and you keep stressing brotherhood, brotherhood,
27:25
brotherhood. And that's what made me feel comfortable
27:28
at my first splash. And I knew, I was like, I
27:31
might not make all of them, but I'm going to
27:33
damn sure come to damn ATL every time. Because,
27:37
you know, I mean, it's just a special venue,
27:42
even though we've now changed. But I don't know,
27:45
it's just a special venue. in georgia and it's
27:49
all because of how you are you know with the
27:52
people and uh like i said i thought you were
27:55
the damn owner i really i thought you would own
27:57
a splash so you know i mean where do you think
28:03
where do you think this is going dimitri i mean
28:07
do you think we're we're like evolved like this
28:10
is evolving you know this lifestyle is evolved
28:13
and here again i hate to say the word lifestyle
28:15
you know because we live this life to the fullest
28:17
do you think this life that we live is like evolving
28:20
uh more people are getting into it um or more
28:25
do you think more people are like coming out
28:26
of the shell saying that you know hey i don't
28:29
care if people know etc etc i mean what do you
28:32
think about that uh well it is exactly evolving
28:36
you know it's very commercial now pretty much
28:41
in any major city and very, very low key commercial
28:43
amongst communities. If you go back to the military
28:47
when they had the hats, if you know what the
28:50
hats are, I always go back to the hats, to how
28:53
secret they were, to how we do a convincing for
28:57
women that wear the hats. So yes, it's such an
29:02
evolution. But I'm going to take a splash, welcome
29:06
to the stars. Absolutely. Do you see yourself,
29:33
do you see yourself like myself evolving? Uh,
29:37
now that we are older, you know what I'm saying?
29:39
Do you, do you, um, foresee like teaching the
29:44
younger guys, you know what I'm saying? How to
29:46
be what you are now? Uh, wait, yes, because I
29:50
was told the guy is a younger gentleman. I said,
29:54
the moment you think you're married, that's the
29:56
moment you become a fucking idiot. I said, you
30:01
gotta always keep your mouth open to learning
30:03
because again, it's always going to be an evolution.
30:06
Because they're going to be that young gentleman
30:07
that you're teaching right now. At some point,
30:11
that young boy is going to have to teach you
30:14
some things or two because it's going to be his
30:16
time. And if you want to stay in the game when
30:19
it's his time, you're going to have to learn
30:21
and know their dynamics, their way, his rules
30:25
and regulations. So, yes, it's going to evolve.
30:29
It's just human nature. It's human nature that
30:33
is going to evolve. And I think misinformation
30:40
is what will slow it down. Misinformation and
30:45
misunderstood people that come in and think they
30:48
know everything. Like, I always tell people,
30:51
I don't know everything. I'm still learning.
30:55
Most of my responses will be opinion -based or
30:59
based off my teachings, my learnings, and my
31:02
experience. But, yeah, I'm very, very humbled
31:07
to say I'm still learning. Absolutely. Absolutely.
31:16
Socrates, Siren, y 'all, by all means, shoot
31:20
away with your questions. I know you got a lot.
31:23
Well, oh, yeah, you know me. So one of my favorite
31:28
things, so, you know, I think I've talked about
31:31
this on, I think it was. I'm not sure if it's
31:35
O -Faces or Keys and Inklets. But when I first
31:40
went to Splash, I had a lot of misunderstandings
31:44
of the way it works. And I thought it was going
31:47
to be a lot of non -quality blend. And I was
31:52
very impressed, very impressed by the gentlemen
31:56
that I've met. And some of these people are now
31:58
my business partners, my best friends, my brothers.
32:03
One of the things I loved is the mandatory class
32:06
that the single men have to attend. So I have
32:10
several questions about it. One, was that always
32:13
something you guys did? And if not, when did
32:16
you realize it was something you needed to do?
32:33
His dating process was completely different than
32:38
mine. So we always brought in guys that I didn't
32:42
feel should have been there. So I would go back
32:46
and, like I said, I was his right -hand man.
32:48
I was giving him some respect. You know, I never
32:51
disagreed with him in the opening or in public,
32:53
but we always had our specs behind us. So to
32:57
make sure things were going in the right direction.
33:01
When he say his little speech, I will go back
33:03
and add more to it. And when God would disrespect
33:07
it or ignore it, I just kick the fuck out. I
33:10
made examples out of it. Like, I don't do strike
33:12
two or strike three. So these rules that we put
33:17
in place, this machine, it only takes one fool
33:20
to destroy for us. And we can't take that risk.
33:23
We just can't, you know. I don't want to raise
33:29
him to this, but... In the lifestyle community,
33:32
being first a single man, trying to go through
33:36
doors in the lifestyle, it was hard as fuck.
33:38
And then being a single black guy, it made it
33:41
even harder. So you had two strikes when you
33:43
walked through that door. So when you come into
33:46
Splash, I'm letting you know you will have no
33:48
strikes, but I grant you only one. But it's preventable.
33:52
Just don't fuck up the rules that they put before
33:54
you. That's it. The rules are that cut and dry
33:59
and that simple. You know, it's a term called
34:03
KISS, keep it simple, stupid. I love that phrase.
34:07
I use it quite frequently. Well, United States,
34:11
the United States military. Yes, exactly, exactly.
34:15
And I made sure whatever I spoke in my meetings
34:18
and my mandatory meetings, I kept it simple,
34:22
stupid. Follow these rules, you will go so far
34:26
within the livestock community as well as splash
34:28
smoker. That door will remain open for you. But
34:31
if you break that one rule, I don't have no reason
34:36
to keep you there because it doesn't mean you
34:37
can break another one. Or somebody going to mimic
34:41
what you're doing and do the same thing. So no,
34:43
I'm going to get rid of that cancer before it
34:45
spreads. I love it. that second meeting that
34:53
we started doing the mandatory meeting because
34:55
we had to put these rules in place. Yeah, that's
35:00
dope. In the meeting, so it wasn't until recently,
35:04
and I thought they were going to ask me this
35:05
sooner. It wasn't until recently until one of
35:07
the staff came to me and said, Socrates, you're
35:13
married. You don't have to go. Why do you go
35:16
every single time? And I was like, one, I love
35:21
everything about Splash. So I like to attend
35:24
everything. And two, I learn a lot. And one of
35:28
the biggest things I appreciated is the staff
35:31
gets up and says basics. Here's the rules. Here's
35:38
some of the fundamentals. But the best thing
35:41
is that the veterans get up and say, now look
35:44
here, youngsters. Look here, you knuckleheads.
35:46
Get your shit together. Don't do this. You know,
35:51
do that. One of the guys got up and said, hey,
35:53
you know, instead of washing your balls in between,
35:56
put a little bit of lemon juice on it. You know,
35:58
that'll help. And I was like, that's pretty dope.
36:02
I'll add that to the acting list. And this brother
36:08
is, you know, he's got, you know, to me, brother's
36:11
a solid dude. And so my question to you is, when
36:16
did you guys learn? Or when did it become obvious
36:22
that, you know, the people coming love it so
36:25
much that they want to get up and, you know,
36:30
really be a part of keeping things in line? Did
36:32
you guys design that or that that just happened
36:35
naturally? Well, my question is, you know. When
36:46
did you guys say, or did you guys say, hey, we
36:49
really want the people coming, the veterans,
36:51
the guys that we know and trust to get up here
36:53
and also give some advice? Or did it just organically
36:57
happen that brothers started standing up and
36:59
saying, hey, you know, get your act together
37:03
here. Try this. Don't do this. Make sure we do
37:05
that. Things like Shot Clock. I was like, man,
37:08
Shot Clock was a great piece of advice. You know,
37:11
things like that. That was very, very funny.
37:15
So I would get a lot of guys that would come
37:18
to me and complain, right? And so I go, are you
37:26
afraid to call that brother out that made that
37:30
infraction? He'd go, oh, yeah, I'm not. I go,
37:33
okay, well, I want you to tell another hundred
37:35
guys, and I will put them on the spot. I want
37:38
you to be able to be comfortable. to get your
37:41
word across to your fellow brothers. You're not
37:43
telling me anything wrong to disrespect them.
37:47
I said it in the beginning. You're trying to
37:49
hold these brothers accountable. And I want you
37:53
to be vocal, and I want you to not be afraid
37:55
to be vocal. For God's sake, I said it over and
37:58
over again. These are your fucking brothers.
38:00
Yeah, you're not going to like it, but you're
38:03
going to respect it because at the end of the
38:05
day, it's to keep you up. Like I said, we're
38:07
building you up to keep you up. Everything is
38:10
not going to be peach and cream that come out
38:11
of our mouth. It's not. So I give everybody,
38:16
hey, if you got something that's going to make
38:18
Splash Smoker better, I will step aside and give
38:21
you five minutes to talk. And on top of that,
38:24
I figure out something, like you said, hey, you're
38:26
a husband. I will tell the husbands, hey, come
38:29
into these meetings. I want you to see what I
38:32
share with these guys so your wife can have a
38:34
better experience. I also want you to know that
38:39
that brother wants also to have a great experience
38:41
as well. So don't think he's just one -sided.
38:45
I want you to know that it's just not, these
38:49
are not just bodies. These are gentlemen with
38:53
great merit of character. You know, they got
38:56
all walks of life, blue -collar, white -collar,
38:58
military, celebrities. They all in there, but
39:01
they're all treated equally and with respect.
39:06
So if you got something that you got to say is
39:08
going to make the class staff better moving forward,
39:12
hey, I have no problem stepping aside. I give
39:16
that floor to anybody. You just have to have
39:20
some substance. Have you ever thought about having
39:23
a class for the ladies? Because there's some
39:26
things I'd like to advise the ladies on. You
39:30
know, Brian, a couple of things I'm talking about.
39:35
So we used to have a ladies group. And let's
39:41
put it this way. We disbanded them because it
39:44
was becoming too much of a problem to where they
39:47
held on to that title, Unicorn. And I had to
39:50
let them know that Spanish smoking is a hot,
39:52
wise convention. You being a unicorn, our platform
39:58
is all built and designed for the single man.
40:03
Not for you. I know you get the open door and
40:06
other establishments and other places, other
40:08
parties. But here, you have to follow the rules
40:11
and follow the lines like everybody else. And
40:14
if you can't, there's a place for you outside
40:17
of Splashbowl. Well, no, I'm not. So you didn't
40:19
want to go by my rules? Yeah. I'm not talking
40:21
about single women in particular. I'm talking
40:24
about all the women. The wives. Two. Because
40:29
there's a few things. I wouldn't mind. So I just
40:35
try to do that in my ladies group. You know,
40:38
I have the Telegram group for my podcast. And
40:40
so in that group, we talk about some things and
40:44
we kind of do a after splash, after action report,
40:49
uncle, and talk about a few things that should
40:54
be better and how ladies, because there's a lot
40:56
of ladies that talk about, you know, they don't.
41:01
know how to approach if a man is in a couple
41:04
or how to know he's in a couple or you know different
41:08
things like that so you know me and mrs mocha
41:11
have been able to talk in that group you know
41:15
coming from stag vixen point of view and having
41:19
husbands who are popular married bulls and being
41:22
able to you know just give them some food for
41:25
thought on different ways of approaching and
41:28
just the respect that can go, you know, for,
41:32
you know, we want to respect everyone that attends
41:34
Splash Mocha, but just the respect that, you
41:38
know, as the wife is helpful in that dynamic.
41:42
So, cause a lot of ladies just, you know, they
41:44
just don't know and they're afraid to ask. So
41:46
I was just curious if there was ever going to
41:49
be something for the ladies, but if there's not,
41:52
we'll just keep doing it. We'll be doing it on
41:54
the side here. I mean, I'm not sure, but what
41:59
we always, kept kept an open door about was uh
42:03
the podcasting because first of all it's it's
42:07
a great experience to do something live at splash
42:09
and uh things like what you and the old faces
42:13
does also uh he's an anchor like you are give
42:18
them also information out to the conference they
42:20
want to have a q a you know we also have when
42:24
you do your podcast live at splash you also have
42:27
an audience that's being recorded and documented
42:30
with their Q &A as well. So we also let that
42:34
be a distinction of what helps us also with our
42:37
rules and regulations. I like it. So... Yes.
42:46
Yeah, so... I want to get one more thing back
42:52
to the men's group. Have you... Have you seen
42:59
an evolution of the men as a result of this?
43:03
Have you seen people come and they're green and
43:06
they make a little few mistakes, they keep coming
43:09
back, they get involved, and then you see them
43:12
just flourishing right now? Have you seen that
43:15
before? I would imagine that would be super cool
43:18
to see. Yes, it is. Let me share a story that
43:26
just happened. Because I told these guys I'm
43:31
going to share this story. There was a gentleman
43:34
that just come to our last meeting, and he was
43:38
a virgin. A splash virgin or a sexual virgin?
43:43
No, no. He was a sexual virgin. Whoa. So, yes,
43:48
we had an in -depth conversation. And he was
43:51
nervous as shit. I said, my brother, this is
43:54
what I want you to do. I said, the two women
43:58
that's about to put you on that bed, I said,
44:00
I want you to give everybody the fuck out and
44:03
focus on them. I said, that's it. I said, pretend
44:07
like you have on a mask and you can be anybody
44:11
you want to be outside of that mask, your face,
44:13
your energy. Imagine who you want people to see
44:16
you to be. And go. When I tell you this guy,
44:21
first time he went, he didn't take both of the
44:23
ladies. And at the end of the Sunday morning,
44:28
he ran up on me and gave me a hug. I want to
44:33
have him on my podcast. Oh my goodness. Ask him
44:38
if he can, if he will be on my podcast. I would
44:40
love to talk to that guy. That's amazing. but
44:53
you completely changed the brother's life though
44:57
you completely changed his life yes all right
45:00
in that three day you know in that three day
45:03
window you completely changed his life because
45:06
damn it's one thing for a couple to come to an
45:12
event like that and they're, you know, event
45:15
virgins, but for a male to come and he is actually
45:19
a virgin virgin and you come to that, I can imagine
45:22
how he felt. I can just imagine. What a way to
45:27
go. Man, I'm so impressed. Well, I also expressed
45:32
to him the importance of life journey also outside
45:35
of the lifestyle. I was like, you know, don't
45:39
let this consume your life. You know, you have
45:41
to also be responsible with your life decisions.
45:44
You may want to have a family. You may want to
45:46
have children. Don't let this little weekend
45:50
uphold your future. Like, always think tomorrow
45:55
and focus, but enjoy the day. And we talked about
46:00
that today. So you were speaking to him, you
46:03
were speaking to him, for me, like a big brother.
46:05
Not necessarily. You're going in bull mode then.
46:08
You know what I'm saying? You were speaking to
46:09
him just like his big brother. Yeah, I had to.
46:14
We'll speak to a little brother. Yeah, that's
46:16
great. Damn, yeah, I'd like to have that dude
46:19
on the show. I really would. I'd love to have
46:23
him on the show. That's a first right there.
46:26
Got a dog, bro. Yeah. That's a first. I would
46:29
give him a call if I was asking. Yeah, yeah.
46:33
We would love to talk to him. love to talk to
46:36
them uh but here again though that's a testament
46:38
to you and and and your knowledge your expertise
46:41
your skills um you know the the experience that
46:46
you have in this so uh to know how to like i
46:50
said turn it off turn off the bull mode and get
46:53
just hey this grown -ass man talking to another
46:56
you know grown man but he's a youngster in this
46:59
in this area right now so uh you know to go to
47:03
go to big brother slash dad mode that's i hope
47:07
all i hope all of the uh yeah all the young brothers
47:11
and other brothers are like listening right now
47:13
because this is what this this is what i'm talking
47:15
about when i say a quality gentleman bull Okay.
47:19
A quality gentleman bull. Ladies and gentlemen,
47:22
we have one on the show right now. Okay. And
47:25
do not hesitate to reach out to this man. I'd
47:28
like to go back to this gentleman. The phone
47:31
call was so funny because we had that brief introduction.
47:36
I'm letting him talk. And so I stopped him and
47:40
I say, okay. I said, I'm going to hang this phone
47:43
up and then I'm going to call you back. Cut all
47:49
that bullshit you told me, because I know it's
47:51
all bullshit, I know it's all lies. I said, you
47:53
have to atone for me. I said, now I call you
47:56
back, there's no telling the fucking truth. I
47:58
said, I'm blocking you. And he said, okay. I
48:02
said, I'm going to hang up the phone, and I'm
48:05
going to call you back. I hung the phone up,
48:07
I waited like five seconds, and I called him
48:09
back, and we had a conversation. I said, now,
48:12
cut all the bullshit out, cut all the bravado
48:15
out, and let's talk as men. i said the same thing
48:19
where do you see yourself why splash do i ask
48:23
a lot of questions and then he just put the truth
48:24
out and i said look you don't have to impress
48:28
me i said you know i'm way past that i'm at this
48:34
moment this is where i try to help you fit in
48:36
i want to help your journey so but you can't
48:40
start your journey off with a lie because you
48:42
become a fictional character and then you become
48:44
that character now you're giving a full line
48:47
And I can't have you go down there and splash
48:49
mocha, but I'm not. So let's start this all over.
48:53
And he humbled himself and he put the truth out.
48:56
Okay, sir, you might as well be out. Yes, I never
49:00
had sex. So, okay, that's no problem. I said,
49:03
fine. I said, now breathe. You feel better, right?
49:07
I said, I didn't hang up the phone. I'm still
49:09
here. So now let's continue the conversation.
49:13
And we had our conversation. Man, that's all
49:16
right. That's all right. That was all right.
49:21
Those lucky ladies. Got a fresh one. I want people
49:27
to know. I'm sorry. No, no, go ahead. No, I want
49:34
people to know, like, I would give anybody, almost
49:41
anybody, an opportunity if they can get past
49:44
my conversation. because I know how I feel to
49:47
have a door closed on you. I know how I feel
49:49
for people to tell you no. I know how that feels.
49:52
I know. So to put a brand together that's all
49:57
they built and designed for you and for me to
49:59
tell you no when I give you an opportunity, be
50:02
set up, be upfront with me. That's all I ask.
50:05
Your word is everything. You send me a picture
50:07
of your dick, that's an automatic no. I don't
50:09
give a fuck about that. You show me your wallet,
50:11
that's an automatic no. I don't care about that.
50:14
I want to know honestly, bluntness, and character.
50:17
Honestly, I want honesty and be completely transparent.
50:20
I said bluntness and character. So, yes, you
50:25
know, just be open to us with me. I've been there,
50:30
so that's why I want people to know. I can't
50:32
start off at the top. Trust me. And the path
50:36
that I'm giving you is way smoother than what
50:39
I had. I want people to know right now still.
50:42
Brother, when I get the space. Yes, I don't know
50:45
what choice. I put that shit together. We sweated,
50:48
I mean, long hours. And then we stay up at the
50:51
end of the night and tear it all apart again.
50:54
The hard work really pay off because we do it
50:56
for the lover. And I enjoy it. I tell you, I
51:02
love that I can give back to the lifestyle and
51:05
the lifestyle community what the rest of the
51:08
world has took from me. You guys, like I said,
51:11
if you like... To know my journey to where, where
51:16
was I? I served five tours. And each tour I served
51:22
combat in, I got fucked up in all those tours
51:24
where I had to go through some type of rehab,
51:27
some type of therapy. And coming home, I felt
51:31
like I was lost. I lost my brothers in the military.
51:35
They were no longer there. I lost that unity.
51:38
And now I'm home with a bunch of people I don't
51:40
know. So I feel lost in three different dimensions.
51:44
And then I found myself walking on the fucking
51:46
beach with two knee braces and little crutches.
51:50
And I just happened to roll across a lady practicing
51:54
yoga with a bunch of people. Oh, that was so
51:58
funny. They thought I was a fucking perv. Looked
52:01
at a bunch of women doing yoga. And she told
52:05
me, what you looking at? She started yelling
52:07
at me. And I had to walk over to apologize. And
52:10
I told her, I said, ma 'am, I said, are you doing
52:12
yoga? She said, no, I'm doing Pilates. And I
52:15
shared with her, I said, ma 'am, I'm sorry. I'm
52:16
going to come back there. I just retired. I said,
52:19
I was told that Pilates and yoga will help with
52:24
your mental as well as physical rehab. And when
52:28
I got all the warm welcoming and thank you for
52:30
your service and all the hoods, they gave me
52:32
a mat and sit me in the back. And trust me. You're
52:37
not gonna try to cross your legs and fold and
52:39
all that shit. Bro, I wouldn't go back to combat.
52:41
That shit hurt. They had to get me off the ground.
52:47
Oh, boy. But the lady that taught the class,
52:53
she was in the lifestyle. And that's how I started
52:59
meeting people back when I came back home. Because
53:03
of her. So the lifestyle gave me so much. No,
53:08
it was because he wore, ladies and gentlemen,
53:10
it was because he wore gray sweatpants and they
53:12
had that print showing. That's what it was. I
53:17
like to be in that. You would be a dickstraction
53:22
for sure in my yoga class. I don't think I could.
53:25
I would be doing some extra downward dog in front
53:28
of you, sir. I would make sure my mat was firmly
53:30
planted right in front of you. Now watch me,
53:34
sir. Watch me. I will show you. Yes, there you
53:38
go. It was such a journey. I feel like, okay.
53:48
My lifestyle generally has been so great to me.
53:52
Now it's time to give back. So that's when I
53:57
started slowing down on the play, and I started
53:59
educating more people. I started entertaining
54:01
more people. I started grooming gentlemen, like,
54:05
just in different areas where there was blackness,
54:09
especially on the top of their fucking brain.
54:11
Because a lot of guys just didn't know. You know,
54:15
a lot of people, a lot of guys come in, oh, I'm
54:17
a bull. What makes you a bull? That's what you
54:20
think, brother? That's what you think? Go back
54:24
to kindergarten. Go back to kindergarten, my
54:28
brother. You either have that or you don't. There's
54:32
nothing to learn there. You've got what you've
54:35
got. But smarts and skills is a whole other direction
54:39
for the bull. Preach. Preach, brother. Preach.
54:42
I'm enjoying just listening to you talk. Preach,
54:46
preach, preach. Boy, I wish I could bottle this
54:49
up and sell it. I'm telling you. And we've been
54:54
preaching, well, I've been preaching the same
54:56
thing for the longest. And here again, to hear
55:01
somebody come on this podcast, on this platform,
55:04
and pretty much reiterate what I've been thinking
55:08
and saying to myself all these years, because
55:11
here I am, I'm just coming out. you know, on
55:14
this podcast, actually talking now, but to hear
55:17
you say the same thing, and pretty much the same,
55:21
almost a similar journey. It's just very, very
55:25
refreshing. And to hear someone that can pretty
55:30
much say the same things that I've been saying
55:33
and feeling, you know, for a long time, how it
55:37
is so much more than just. the sex or you you
55:40
you having the big dick and all that stuff like
55:43
that it has nothing to do with that nothing to
55:45
do with that you know this is about you putting
55:49
together all of those skills all of those skills
55:52
that are required to be that that quality guy
55:55
um that can come in and again like i said learns
55:59
knows how to respect the couple protect her and
56:03
then also love her i .e the physical but also
56:07
claimer trainer and owner you know um exactly
56:12
so it's it's you should write a book though you
56:15
could write a book i'm asking the middle of that
56:18
you are well great great i've been running for
56:21
three years now great the game has to be both
56:26
told and sold right it has to be both told and
56:30
sold uh and i believe there are Well, no, let
56:35
me rephrase that. I know there are so many guys
56:37
out there that would love to be able to read
56:40
what you are saying. You know what I mean? Read
56:44
it. Since you guys are on the line right here
56:49
talking, there are chapters in my story, in my
56:54
book, that's going to involve you gentlemen as
56:56
well. So we're going to have to have a future
56:58
podcast because it's going to be documented in
57:01
my book. Most definitely. Most definitely. You
57:04
guys are not just guests. You're not just friends.
57:06
I told you. I had treatment back in the day.
57:08
I see you guys are expanding now. Exactly. Exactly.
57:11
We share. So you guys are just as much a distinction
57:16
who I am today with making a better person. So
57:19
I'm going to always stay humble today. We feel
57:22
the same about you, Dean. Oh, yeah. Definitely.
57:26
Well, and I just want to say from the woman's
57:28
perspective, too, of, you know, and I'm. I feel
57:32
comfortable speaking for Mrs. Mocha as well on
57:34
this is it's just refreshing and it's comforting
57:38
and to feel so safe at an event and knowing that
57:43
even if my husband didn't attend one event for
57:47
whatever purposes and I went alone, there would
57:51
still be this entire brotherhood of all of you
57:53
guys like watching out for us. And, you know,
57:56
I think that's why. Part of why Socrates, you
57:59
know, we play separately at Splash a lot. You
58:02
know, he feels comfortable, you know, going and
58:04
doing his thing, his direction. And we check
58:06
in with each other. But he knows that he has
58:08
eyes and ears everywhere looking out for me.
58:11
And so I just want to thank and appreciate all
58:13
of you men for that. Well, I want to appreciate
58:15
you two guys because I watch you two. You guys
58:18
are such a teammate. Like, the way you guys work
58:21
together. Hey. If and when I get a woman on my
58:29
side like that, I want her to be just like you.
58:33
I mean, the way you put in women that's comfortable
58:40
for the both of you guys is so fucking amazing.
58:43
And they don't have to be as big as Chile, though.
58:46
What's the vice versa? I love that shit, man.
58:50
I do. Go get them, baby. Have fun. And, like,
58:54
I want you to do this afterwards. And we have
58:56
a really good system for Splash. Like we have
58:58
it written down and we go over it every single
59:01
time before of like how we're going to move as
59:04
a couple through that event. And then every single
59:07
time afterwards, you know, we talk about it.
59:10
Do we need to change anything? Was there, you
59:12
know, any disruptions in the event? You know,
59:14
and every time we make little tweaks. of what
59:19
works for us, like what I need more of or how
59:22
he can support me throughout or how I can be
59:26
a better slut secretary throughout. So we're
59:30
always fine -tuning the system that we created
59:34
together for those events. It is a beautiful
59:37
thing to watch them do. It really is. They are
59:40
a great couple. Well, and I want to tell you
59:43
guys, if you get that woman in your life too,
59:46
that follow that leadership of Socrates because
59:49
that's what gives me, you know, I'm a strong,
59:52
independent woman. Don't need no man before I
59:54
met him, right? But now I'm just putty in his
59:57
hands because he gives me that comfort. He gives
59:59
me that safe place. He is that rock. And the
1:00:02
systems that we have built for these things and
1:00:05
everything that he said, okay, if this happens,
1:00:07
this is what's going to happen, you know, is
1:00:10
true. That consistency gives the woman comfort
1:00:14
to rely on you in all of those situations. I
1:00:18
feel that that's the secret of why we've been
1:00:21
able to move in the lifestyle more quickly. then
1:00:26
maybe someone who didn't have that foundation,
1:00:28
didn't have that research, didn't have the educating
1:00:32
of themselves that Socrates did that work before
1:00:34
he even met me. So you guys are on the right
1:00:37
track with that. You're already doing the work.
1:00:39
You're already laying that foundation. But I
1:00:41
just want to say that is the key to the comfort
1:00:44
for me is all of that going on. I want you guys
1:00:49
to know, and I shared with you guys before, but
1:00:52
I'm going to say it again. As long as I'm at
1:00:55
Splash, that's my platform. It's your platform.
1:00:58
You want to do a podcast, you want to do a seminar,
1:01:01
and I can make that happen, please let me know.
1:01:05
I love to see growth within the circle because
1:01:09
I'm not looking for no give back, no pay back,
1:01:12
no anything. Pay that shit forward to the next
1:01:14
people coming on. And I need that to start at
1:01:18
Splash. It's very, very important for me to have
1:01:22
that start. You know, and you hear this from
1:01:27
me, so you don't have to go, well, no, no, no,
1:01:30
you hear this from me. If there's anything I
1:01:33
can do within my power in the lifestyle community
1:01:35
that can help along the way with your journey
1:01:37
to get to the next level, just say the word is
1:01:40
yours. Thank you. That's wonderful. I appreciate
1:01:45
that. That's wonderful. That means a lot. That
1:01:47
is wonderful, man. Yes, it does. yes thank you
1:01:51
thank you for everything thank you for everything
1:01:52
that you've done for us i mean you're you know
1:01:54
putting us out there like you have so far man
1:01:58
um i really do i mean from speaking from all
1:02:02
three of you know from all for all three of us
1:02:04
thank you so much uh you are you are an asset
1:02:08
you are a true asset to this this life you are
1:02:14
a true asset brother and and i mean if i could
1:02:18
damn do anything, you know what I'm saying, to
1:02:22
help get your book out there, believe me, I'm
1:02:26
all yours, all right? I'm all yours. One thing
1:02:30
I would ask for any three of you guys, when it's
1:02:34
time for me to give you the keys to drive, it's
1:02:37
your time to drive. Drive. All right, then. All
1:02:41
right. Let me see the presents you didn't throw
1:02:43
to me. Damn right. Love it. Love it. I love it.
1:02:49
I love it. Same to you, though. Same to you.
1:02:54
I ain't gonna lie to you. Same to you. And I
1:02:58
believe, I believe, I think it's about time for
1:03:00
us to wrap it up. Usually we try to keep it up
1:03:02
at around, you know, a good hour. You know, I
1:03:08
hate to, I hate to go, but we're not going to
1:03:11
keep you all night long because I can talk to
1:03:13
you all night long. Yeah, I got a beautiful blood.
1:03:15
I got a beautiful blood in my room. Uh -oh, uh
1:03:19
-oh, uh -oh. Wait, did I teleport? Hold on. Let
1:03:24
me go around the room. I'm going to show up at
1:03:29
your door. Let me go around the room right quick.
1:03:32
Let me go around the room right quick. Siren,
1:03:34
Socrates, you got anything for the mutual before
1:03:37
we call it a night? No, just appreciate you.
1:03:40
As you know, when I met my husband three and
1:03:42
a half years ago. He didn't he didn't have any
1:03:45
real friends. And it's just been. I'm not going
1:03:49
to cry. It's been amazing to see you brothers
1:03:53
like come alongside him and just be his true
1:03:56
friends. Like, I can't even imagine how much
1:03:59
it means to him because it means so much to me
1:04:02
that he has true friends now. So thank you. I
1:04:04
love you both. Absolutely. Absolutely. Same here.
1:04:09
Same here. Y 'all know my story. I've been nothing
1:04:12
but a lone wolf pretty much all my freaking life
1:04:15
until now. And, you know, to have met these particular
1:04:23
brothers and, you know, Demetri, you, Socrates,
1:04:27
Damien, Mike C., y 'all are truly pagan. You
1:04:32
guys are truly, truly, I can call y 'all brothers,
1:04:36
my brother. And there's nothing that I won't
1:04:40
do for you. Like I said, can't wait to meet,
1:04:42
to actually get with Pagan. And we all be together
1:04:46
and just chop it up. I know that shit is going
1:04:50
to be comical. I know it is. I know it is. That's
1:04:53
going to be freaking comical. I feel it. I feel
1:04:57
it in my bones, bro. I feel it in my bones already.
1:05:00
You know what I'm saying? I know that's going
1:05:02
to be comedy, man. I know it is. I cannot wait.
1:05:04
I cannot wait. So, again, brother, from the bottom
1:05:08
of my heart, I do. I love you. Love you. Love
1:05:10
you. Along with, of course, the fam, you know,
1:05:13
Socrates and Siren. And I guess we just, hell,
1:05:19
I guess that's how we're going to end it for
1:05:20
the night, ladies and gentlemen. You know. If
1:05:23
there's nothing else to be said, again, Dimitri,
1:05:26
thank you. Thank you. Thank you for coming on
1:05:29
the Bull Brotherhood. And it's indeed been a
1:05:33
pleasure to hear your origin story. Good night,
1:05:37
my brother. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. And for myself,
1:05:41
along with Socrates and Siren, to the brothers
1:05:45
of the Bull Brotherhood, keep it sexy. And as
1:05:49
always, I bid you guys a good night. And to my
1:05:52
lovely hot wives and hot wife couples out there,
1:05:55
you know what I'm about to say. Good morning.
1:05:58
Until we meet again, y 'all, have a wonderful
1:06:01
evening. Good night. Good night.