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421: Unmute Your Mission: Turn Your Calling into a Clear Message · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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Speaker 1: Come here to become an unshakable human and build an unshakable business according to your human design.
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Speaker 1: I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
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Nicole Laino: Hello and welcome to Unshakable with Human Design.
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Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino, and you and I are here, just the two of us today.
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Nicole Laino: And I don't know what I'm calling this episode at the time that I'm recording it.
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Nicole Laino: Sometimes the names don't come to me right away, but this was inspired by some people that I've been talking to.
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Nicole Laino: We are getting ready for the last Authority Accelerator masterclass.
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Nicole Laino: And now I had started by saying that this was the Last1 of 2025, but I believe this will be the last one we ever do.
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Nicole Laino: Something new is coming through.
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Nicole Laino: Things are changing.
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Nicole Laino: A lot of things are changing in my world.
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Nicole Laino: So while I love the Authority Accelerator Masterclass and what we have been able to do with that, the amount of people that we've been able touch, the impact that we've made through this five day free masterclass, it's really incredible and I'm so grateful for it.
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Nicole Laino: But this will be it.
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Nicole Laino: And I have been meeting with people because I do rewrite Masterclass before everyone.
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Nicole Laino: I do shift the messaging, I do talk to the people who are coming to the masterclass and I offer these little connection calls to do with me leading up to the masterclass.
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Nicole Laino: So we're, if you want to come to our final Authority Accelerator masterclass, you can.
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Nicole Laino: If you want to grab one of those connection calls with me, if we have any left, you can do that too.
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Nicole Laino: And these are a chance for me to get to know you.
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Nicole Laino: And then what we do is I'm taking all of this information in from these people and I'm saying, like, what needs to be said in this masterclass?
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Nicole Laino: What do they need to hear?
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Nicole Laino: What is it that's coming through right now?
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Nicole Laino: Because I could talk about the stuff all day, but who's sitting in the audience is what matters the most?
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Nicole Laino: What are they going to receive?
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Nicole Laino: What do they need to receive?
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Nicole Laino: Now, I'm also a manifesting generator, so that response that I get, the interaction is priceless to me.
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Nicole Laino: So I love that we get to do this, but we won't be doing it anymore.
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Nicole Laino: But if you want to come to our final one.
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Nicole Laino: All you have to do is DM me the word masterclass On Instagram, I am at Nicole Lano official, and you can just send me the word masterclass over there in the DMS, or you could go to nicolelaino.commasterclass and we will register you right there on the website.
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Nicole Laino: But in these calls that I do with people, I'm really just getting to know them.
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Nicole Laino: I'm really just getting to know what they're interested in, where they're at, what are they looking for, what do they hope to get out of the masterclass?
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Nicole Laino: And, you know, we just finished up another little program that I ran like this.
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Nicole Laino: This program I ran called answering the call, which was all about your incarnation Cross and your purpose.
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Nicole Laino: But I didn't call it the incarnation cross.
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Nicole Laino: I called it answering the Call, because that is what's really coming through for me right now is the need for everybody to answer the call.
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Nicole Laino: So many people are looking for answers with human design.
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Nicole Laino: And you, if you've listened to this show for a while, you've probably heard me say, if you're looking for answers in the chart, you might be disappointed or you might find yourself frustrated because that's not usually how answers like this come.
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Nicole Laino: They don't come through.
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Nicole Laino: Oh, I know what that means.
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Nicole Laino: So therefore, now I know the answer to what my purpose is or what I'm supposed to be doing, what my job should be, what my message should be.
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Nicole Laino: But if you are looking for insight, you will be very happy.
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Nicole Laino: It will be a fruitful expedition that you go on through the journey through the human design chart because it is a constant source of inspiration and insight into who you are.
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Nicole Laino: It's remarkable, for that screws a lot of people up, is that it's almost something that keeps you stuck is the looking for answers.
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Nicole Laino: But in my conversations that I've been having with people and in prep for the masterclass and these connection calls I've done, and in Answering the call, where the focus was about answering the call, not just what's your incarnation Cross, it's what are you here for?
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Nicole Laino: What is your mission?
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Nicole Laino: And what we find is that a lot of people can get stuck in what is the mission.
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Nicole Laino: We don't know exactly what it's going to be.
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Nicole Laino: We don't know the whole thing.
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Nicole Laino: You just have to start walking in the direction of it.
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Nicole Laino: And there was something that came to me where I was like, you know, what I notice is that a lot of the people in my world that look to human design, what they are looking for is the unmute button on themselves.
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Nicole Laino: They know that they are here on a big mission.
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Nicole Laino: They have a purpose, and it's big, which can be intimidating.
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Nicole Laino: Sometimes it can be intimidating.
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Nicole Laino: Mine is intimidating.
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Nicole Laino: And I think that's part of the reason that I have to let go of some of the things that I'm letting go of, that I have to shift and change because I can't step into my purpose more fully.
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Nicole Laino: Holding all of it's going to require me to be lighter.
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Nicole Laino: It's going to require me to go in some different directions, and I'm going to have the ability to do that.
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Nicole Laino: I have to have the time and the bandwidth to do it.
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Nicole Laino: I have to have the creativity to come up with these new things.
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Nicole Laino: I. I have to have the space to show up and be the voice that I need to be out there, right?
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Nicole Laino: So what I see is a lot of people, they're looking for that unmute button.
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Nicole Laino: They're like, where's that button that I can hit?
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Nicole Laino: What's the gate?
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Nicole Laino: What is the, you know, center, or what's the work or what's the thing I have to do to unleash what I know is inside of me?
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Nicole Laino: There's something dormant or there's something.
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Nicole Laino: And I don't mean to make it sound like everybody is sitting at some square zero.
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Nicole Laino: Stuck is relative.
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Nicole Laino: Currently, I am stuck at the level that I am at because I have a goal and I have something that I want to achieve, and I want to be more aligned with my purpose, and I want to step my game up so that I am living in alignment with my potential and not with my limitations.
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Nicole Laino: So currently, yeah, I'm stuck at the level that I'm at.
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Nicole Laino: By definition, I'm not at the next one.
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Nicole Laino: So therefore, I am here.
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Nicole Laino: I don't look at it like I'm stuck.
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Nicole Laino: I don't look at it like that.
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Nicole Laino: I look at it like I'm evolving.
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Nicole Laino: And this is the level that I'm at currently, and this is the space before the next space.
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Nicole Laino: So a lot of people, you know, when I say stuck or when I say like, you know, they're looking for that unmute button.
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Nicole Laino: Some of it.
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Nicole Laino: We're.
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Nicole Laino: We're looking to turn the dial up.
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Nicole Laino: I'm looking to turn the dial up.
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Nicole Laino: I always am.
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Nicole Laino: I know that there are things that I could be saying right now.
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Nicole Laino: I know that there are ways that I could be showing up big, but they're sort of in a slightly different direction.
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Nicole Laino: I felt I have to untether myself from a lot of the things that I think have to happen or that should happen or that are safe.
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Nicole Laino: And I think that's universal.
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Nicole Laino: This is something that I've noticed, come up with a lot of people that I've been talking to through Answer the Call, through these calls that I'm doing as well, before the masterclass that, you know, these people feel pulled, but they are scared.
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Nicole Laino: You know, they can't bring themselves to shout from the rooftops what they believe or what they know they need to say.
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Nicole Laino: And what they often think is that, oh, well, I don't know what to say and I don't know how to say it.
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Nicole Laino: And there's some truth to that, but usually that is a much smaller piece than you're just not allowing yourself to say it.
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Nicole Laino: And that's the problem that needs to be solved.
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Nicole Laino: Because otherwise that's how we end up with the graveyard of programs and strategies and things.
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Nicole Laino: Because, yeah, you know, like, okay, I just need to know how to.
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Nicole Laino: How to edit a video.
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Nicole Laino: I just need a studio.
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Nicole Laino: I just need.
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Nicole Laino: You know, it's like when we go out and buy all the gear, I'm gonna buy all the podcast gear, right?
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Nicole Laino: Who's done this?
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Nicole Laino: I have the microphone.
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Nicole Laino: I'm gonna go and research microphones and lighting equipment, and I'm gonna get all of these things together and I'm gonna see what software I need, and I'm gonna going to find out about hiring an editor.
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Nicole Laino: But they've never hit record.
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Nicole Laino: They've researched all of that equipment, they've done all of that, but they don't actually put out the show.
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Nicole Laino: I see that a lot with people busying themselves and worrying about things that don't really matter.
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Nicole Laino: That all that matters is doing the thing that's the hardest, is having the courage to step out and say, hey, I'm here.
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Nicole Laino: And this is what I have to say.
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Nicole Laino: And I know that the world is really noisy right now, and I know that it doesn't feel good.
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Nicole Laino: Doesn't feel good to me, doesn't feel good to a lot of people.
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Nicole Laino: There's a lot of uncertainty.
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Nicole Laino: There's a lot of sticky energy.
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Nicole Laino: There's a lot of denseness in what's happening.
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Nicole Laino: There's a lot of uncertainty, which is making everybody feel a bit anxious.
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Nicole Laino: But if anything, that means that your voice is needed more now than ever.
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Nicole Laino: The good voices, the lightworkers, the people who have something, I believe that we are shifting as a consciousness.
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Nicole Laino: I believe that we are being called to step up as people.
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Nicole Laino: And I believe that human design has a very unique role in all of this.
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Nicole Laino: And I think that is why so many people are looking to systems like this and shows like this one.
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Nicole Laino: People like me who can help them unlock that piece of themselves that makes them feel free enough to say what.
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Nicole Laino: What they mean.
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Nicole Laino: And it's unfortunate because the other voices we're hearing from, all the ones that are not here for the highest good of everybody, they don't have a problem.
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Nicole Laino: And what I see is the truly good hearted people, the good ones, the ones with integrity, the ones who want to see positive change, the ones who want to make a good life for their families and for other people's families and to be a force for good in the world, they know this.
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Nicole Laino: They know that they are here for something big and they know they're here for something good.
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Nicole Laino: They see the other people and they're like, ooh, that icks me out.
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Nicole Laino: I don't want to be on social media.
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Nicole Laino: Ew.
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Nicole Laino: I don't want to be here.
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Nicole Laino: Ew.
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Nicole Laino: Because it's become so toxic.
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Nicole Laino: Well, if you let them take over, it will be.
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Nicole Laino: We need more of the positive.
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Nicole Laino: We need more of the people with integrity, with big hearts and souls on a mission.
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Nicole Laino: So a message comes from your mission in my world.
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Nicole Laino: And this is what human design can clue you into.
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Nicole Laino: This is the portal that you can step through.
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Nicole Laino: You can choose to step through.
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Nicole Laino: Because remember, like I said, I didn't call answering the call, the incarnation Cross program, because it wasn't about that.
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Nicole Laino: It was about exploring your purpose and then doing something with it.
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Nicole Laino: To the mission, to the action.
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Nicole Laino: You have a mission.
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Nicole Laino: It cannot be fulfilled without action.
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Nicole Laino: And that action, if you want to be a thought leader, if you want to step on a stage, if you want to have a podcast, if you want people to listen, you must speak.
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Nicole Laino: And it's funny because I talk to people who are very comfortable talking to me, who are very comfortable talking to the people that they are close to.
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Nicole Laino: That if you get them going, they will go.
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Nicole Laino: But you hand them a microphone and they go, wait, how should I do this?
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Nicole Laino: That's fear.
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Nicole Laino: That is not all the other things and labels that you put on it.
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Nicole Laino: That's just plain old fear.
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Nicole Laino: And it's not always conscious fear.
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Nicole Laino: In fact, most of the time it's not.
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Nicole Laino: It's not necessarily something that you can fix with.
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Nicole Laino: I was saying this in Business by Design this week.
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Nicole Laino: You know, our past fears and our past experiences can cause trauma.
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Nicole Laino: Hot stove moments that cause us to not take steps forward because we're afraid we'll get hurt.
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Nicole Laino: Again, now.
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Nicole Laino: Now, some people will say things like, you know, there are witch wounds, there are past life experiences that we can carry into these life.
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Nicole Laino: Now, I don't have any evidence of that.
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Nicole Laino: I don't know anything about it.
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Nicole Laino: I don't have gifts that have clued me into any of it.
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Nicole Laino: So I'm not.
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Nicole Laino: I am not saying that doesn't exist, and I'm not saying that it does.
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Nicole Laino: But I know a lot of people who believe this.
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Nicole Laino: And I have worked with people, energy healers and spiritual workers who have helped me through their sessions where I have felt better.
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Nicole Laino: I don't know what happened in those, but where I have shifted and things have changed.
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Nicole Laino: So I believe that this stuff exists.
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Nicole Laino: However, I can't prove it.
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Nicole Laino: And I'm always very clear with these things.
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Nicole Laino: I don't mean to.
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Nicole Laino: I never want to make people feel misled.
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Nicole Laino: But these wounds that we have from past lives, if we do have them, the only cure, you can heal all you want, but the healing is so you take action.
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Nicole Laino: The healing is so you go and hit the unmute button.
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Nicole Laino: You have the unmute button.
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Nicole Laino: We think it's outside.
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Nicole Laino: It's not.
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Nicole Laino: The call's coming from inside the house, babe.
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Nicole Laino: It's in you.
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Nicole Laino: You have the ability to do this.
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Nicole Laino: It's a choice.
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Nicole Laino: And that's what I was saying to my clients.
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Nicole Laino: I was like, you know, your old experiences are what tether you to the past.
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Nicole Laino: They're what keep you from moving forward.
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Nicole Laino: We can cut the tether, but you still have to make the choice to move forward.
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Nicole Laino: Because you can still stand there feeling like you still have a rope tied to your back when in fact you don't.
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Nicole Laino: You cut it.
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Nicole Laino: And you know how to cut it again.
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Nicole Laino: If by some chance it shows up again, you know what to do.
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Nicole Laino: You know how to do it.
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Nicole Laino: It's a choice.
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Nicole Laino: The choice that we make to move forward no matter what.
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Nicole Laino: The choice that we make that the future that we want is more important to us and more powerful than the past or the fears within us that are telling us that it isn't safe to go in that direction.
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Nicole Laino: Or we're wondering what people will think of us or wondering whether they will buy, or we're wondering whether we'll be canceled.
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Nicole Laino: Bravery is not cheap, but it does reward us.
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Nicole Laino: If sometimes it's with riches and with monetary gain and all the things, the trappings of this life that we look for.
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Nicole Laino: And sometimes it's just with knowing that I fulfilled my purpose.
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Nicole Laino: I'm living up to my potential personally I like both.
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Nicole Laino: I like to feel like I can feed my family, like we live a better than comfortable life, that we can live freely, but then also that my soul feels free and that I'm doing what I'm meant to do here on Earth, because I feel like I'm living up the potential that was granted to me, which has not come easily to me.
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Nicole Laino: Living up to my potential is a lifelong journey and struggle.
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Nicole Laino: But here I am.
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Nicole Laino: And human design actually can break down for you and how you get there.
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Nicole Laino: That's what's so beautiful about it.
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Nicole Laino: Again, if you're looking for insights, you're looking for mechanics.
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Nicole Laino: So something like the way that I work myself through this, I know that I have to make shifts.
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Nicole Laino: Closing down the Authority accelerator, that's a big thing for me.
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Nicole Laino: I've been doing this workshop for a while.
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Nicole Laino: It's very successful.
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Nicole Laino: It is something that I do love, but I know it needs to change.
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Nicole Laino: That came from an internal feeling like it needs to change, like it can't be this anymore.
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Nicole Laino: We have to shift things.
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Nicole Laino: And I don't know what it's going to look like exactly on the other side.
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Nicole Laino: I don't know.
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Nicole Laino: And that's very scary.
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Nicole Laino: But I'm a manifesting generator, and I know the change has to come.
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Nicole Laino: The one line in me is very afraid.
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Nicole Laino: The one line is like, don't rock the boat.
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Nicole Laino: We love a good, solid foundation, but I do have time and I do have plans, and I trust myself.
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Nicole Laino: And that trust comes from a combination of human design and also just being somebody who has learned to take chances and realizing that I can handle anything that I grow.
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Nicole Laino: If I walk in the direction of my purpose, I'll get there.
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Nicole Laino: I can either get the lesson that I want.
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Nicole Laino: I either get the result that I want, or the lesson that I need, always.
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Nicole Laino: That's a skill.
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Nicole Laino: That's a muscle I've built, and it's one you can build, too.
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Nicole Laino: So when you're crafting a message from your mission, sometimes your mission grows and your message has to change, and we have to step up into that bigger.
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Nicole Laino: And sometimes we have, like, I see people all the time come into business by design, telling me that they want to grow a certain type of business, and then they start exploring themselves, and they realize it's a different type of business that they want to build and they want to change things and they want to shift things.
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Nicole Laino: Pivoting is scary because we're saying this works and we're going to choose to do something else that might not work.
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Nicole Laino: So there's risk involved.
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Nicole Laino: But we have to trust ourselves to do that, because otherwise this is where things get difficult.
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Nicole Laino: This is where you face resistance.
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Nicole Laino: You will face horrible headwinds if you're going against your purpose.
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Nicole Laino: Why?
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Nicole Laino: Because the universe will step in and start to change the course for you.
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Nicole Laino: You can choose to listen to the signs and the signals that you are getting when your intuition is telling you that something needs to shift, that something needs to change.
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Nicole Laino: Or you can ignore it.
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Nicole Laino: And eventually those signs and signals will turn into things that you cannot ignore.
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Nicole Laino: So that's the only choice that you have.
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Nicole Laino: It's not if you answer it's when.
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Nicole Laino: How long will you wait?
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Nicole Laino: So this is what we are going to be talking about in the final Authority Accelerator Masterclass.
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Nicole Laino: We start on November 10th.
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Nicole Laino: If you would like to join us, please do.
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Nicole Laino: I would love to see you there.
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Nicole Laino: If you join very soon, you might be able to grab one of those connect calls with me.
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Nicole Laino: We send you a little email after you register and you can book one of those calls.
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Nicole Laino: They're just quick little chats with me where we can talk about where you're at and what you're hoping to get from the masterclass and I can try to deliver for you guys in those five days.
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Nicole Laino: But to register, all you have to do DM me on Instagram, I'm icolenofficial.
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Nicole Laino: Or go to nicolelaino.commasterclass and you can register right there on the website.
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Nicole Laino: I thank you for being here.
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Nicole Laino: I appreciate you as always.
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Nicole Laino: And remember, in order to have an unshakable business, you must first become an unshakable human.
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Nicole Laino: So thanks for letting us help you become unshakable with human design.
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Nicole Laino: We will see you next time.
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Nicole Laino: We'll see you there.
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Nicole Laino: Sam.