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Episode #249: Mundane to Magnificent · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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  Speaker 1: Let's do it.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, everybody, welcome to tea time with Amy and Bev.
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  Speaker 2: We are flying by the seat of our pants right
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  Speaker 2: now in a spur of the moment to get this done.
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  Speaker 1: You get record. I was already saying, let's do it
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  Speaker 1: that I noticed. I said recording and progress like oh so,
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  Speaker 1: so if anybody heard a funny sound at the beginning
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  Speaker 1: of this, you know what that was about. It wasn't it.
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  Speaker 1: You weren't hearing anything like out of body or like
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  Speaker 1: it was me.
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  Speaker 2: It was just you know, accessing that other voice.
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  Speaker 1: That's right, I was channeling.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, there you go.
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  Speaker 1: How are you.
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  Speaker 2: Okay? Had a huge project, just finish up. We have
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  Speaker 2: to have to have to do a wrap up meeting
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  Speaker 2: and then then that project is done. It's been a
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  Speaker 2: projecting going on since AGA. So that's a relief. And
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  Speaker 2: I'm very grateful that I have learned to have better
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  Speaker 2: organization skills, skills because of all the moving pieces I've
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  Speaker 2: had going on for a while now. So to car
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  Speaker 2: compart compartmentalize. Sometimes when you think about a word and
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  Speaker 2: you can't say it, but when you just say it,
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  Speaker 2: you can say, it's one of those words. Okay. So
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  Speaker 2: compartmentalizing the different things going in on my life and
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  Speaker 2: being able to prioritize each one in their rightful manner.
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  Speaker 2: And yeah, so I've done really well with that over
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  Speaker 2: these past few months. Will since August. So, but five
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  Speaker 2: months things turned out great in my from my perspective
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  Speaker 2: based on where I'm at compared to where I used
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  Speaker 2: to be, and super proud moments that I was able
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  Speaker 2: to facilitate this and oversee this project. It was great,
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  Speaker 2: turned out great.
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  Speaker 1: Everything's great. It's great. It's just great. Everything is grist great.
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  Speaker 2: It's this thing fine, it's fine. So it was all fine.
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  Speaker 2: I would say, it's great, nice, I like it.
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  Speaker 1: I like it. I was listening it's I'm processing different things.
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  Speaker 1: I was listening to Kyle Sace Alex far Oh, yeah, I've.
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  Speaker 2: Been watching that and I didn't watch the whole thing. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: yeah it was. That's so funny, and I.
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  Speaker 1: We it is it is. It's great. I would probably
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  Speaker 1: I would recommend it to everybody to listen to. It's
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  Speaker 1: got humor in it, but it's in a way that
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  Speaker 1: you could understand it and you hear things that are
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  Speaker 1: so different. He talked about how we we we've kind
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  Speaker 1: of put money on a pedestal in a lot of ways,
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  Speaker 1: which is true. We make it so much more bigger
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  Speaker 1: than it is, almost like up there with the soul
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  Speaker 1: and all that kind of stuff, and it's just a
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  Speaker 1: freaking energy. He talked about that kind of stuff, and
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  Speaker 1: he talked about following your passions and how and I've
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  Speaker 1: done it, I've done this. How we'll say things like, man,
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  Speaker 1: I wish if I had lots of money right now,
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  Speaker 1: I would just go do this and I would follow
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  Speaker 1: my passions. And he says, you, basically, you're robbing yourself
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  Speaker 1: or you're not allowing yourself. You're you're ripping yourself off
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  Speaker 1: and so many in so many words by not following
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  Speaker 1: those dreams, by not following that passion, because you'll actually
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  Speaker 1: gain more from that passion than you ever would have
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  Speaker 1: imagined that was possible. So it's like we limit ourselves
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  Speaker 1: so much because we think it's not possible. How I
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  Speaker 1: can't afford to do that? And it's like you can't,
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  Speaker 1: you cannot not afford to do it? Like really, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think if I said that right, But really,
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  Speaker 1: ideally it's to go for it because the universe will
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  Speaker 1: find ways to fulfill you. God will find ways to
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  Speaker 1: fulfill you. You'll always be Everything's always taken care of,
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  Speaker 1: and it's it's when we get sideways on stuff. There's
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  Speaker 1: so much information that's out there these days. My gosh,
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  Speaker 1: I've spent some time on TikTok and it's talking about
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  Speaker 1: these quantum you know, just quantum perspectives, and it's like
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  Speaker 1: it's so huge. You don't know that, you don't know
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  Speaker 1: until you find out you didn't know, you know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean about how you can create things and how
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  Speaker 1: were these Yeah, I do believe we're a master manifestor,
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  Speaker 1: but like where do you go from there? And then
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  Speaker 1: it's like finding people. You find people, but they actually
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  Speaker 1: find their way on your path. It's like you're guided
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  Speaker 1: by spirit to go look at it. And maybe that
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  Speaker 1: might have been through TikTok. It might have been going
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  Speaker 1: to the grocery store and you're overhearing a conversation. It
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  Speaker 1: could be so many different things, right. The information always
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  Speaker 1: shows up, and it's like it's just an It's an
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  Speaker 1: awesome place to be because we're used to being in this.
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  Speaker 1: We're used to I'm used to being this. Bev The
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  Speaker 1: wakes up every morning and has the same thing that
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  Speaker 1: happens or the same experiences or whatever, maybe a little
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  Speaker 1: bit different each day. I'm used to I know who
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  Speaker 1: that BEV is, but I don't know what that looks like.
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  Speaker 1: Opposite of that, I don't know what it looks like
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  Speaker 1: to besides seeing in my mind's eye, like when you're creating,
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  Speaker 1: how you see yourself in the world is pretty amazing,
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  Speaker 1: Like do you see yourself standing tall? Are you well dressed?
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  Speaker 1: Are you what are you driving? Are you happy? What
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  Speaker 1: are what's happening for you? Like you walk into the
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  Speaker 1: store and people just hand you a card, Like it's
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  Speaker 1: this whole thing that you kind of create within yourself,
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  Speaker 1: and it feels isn't from a feel good place. It's
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  Speaker 1: not from a feel bad place, because you can create
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  Speaker 1: that way too, but it just does it's not going
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  Speaker 1: to be what you want. It's going to come from
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  Speaker 1: a place of lack or like this energy is not
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  Speaker 1: very good. So it's just there's just so much information
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  Speaker 1: that's out there, and I'm so grateful and thankful for
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  Speaker 1: these applications that we can go look at and that
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  Speaker 1: can bring information to us. And I do it the
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  Speaker 1: same way I would do anything. I'll told someone before,
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  Speaker 1: if I was going to go smoke marijuana, I would
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  Speaker 1: set my intentions to have to meet up with God
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  Speaker 1: or have the biggest you know, whatever whatever I'm looking for.
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  Speaker 1: And I do the same thing if I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: go on the TikTok, I'm like, okay, God, like show
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  Speaker 1: me some good stuff, Like show me some stuff that's
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  Speaker 1: gonna light me up. And it's like when you when
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  Speaker 1: you set your intention there, you have those expectations of
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  Speaker 1: that you get lit and not lit in the old
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  Speaker 1: way of like let's have a couple of cocktails, but
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  Speaker 1: how tattie or something. It's not like that. It's so different.
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  Speaker 1: And then it's like recognizing from that space, Oh, I'm
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  Speaker 1: passionate about this, and that's awesome. It's awesome to find
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  Speaker 1: those spaces and it's like, Okay, well I have passion
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  Speaker 1: for that. What do I do with it?
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  Speaker 2: Now? As you were talking, Yeah, a couple things came
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  Speaker 2: to me when you're talking about Kyle sees the I
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  Speaker 2: like the part and I've heard him talk about it
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  Speaker 2: before in some of his content, But that whole idea
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  Speaker 2: of our relationship to money, if money was actually sitting
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  Speaker 2: there with us, and we talked to it the way
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  Speaker 2: we thought about it, like money, no wonder, money would leave,
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  Speaker 2: no wonder, money doesn't show up further, like, bitch, don't
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  Speaker 2: talk to me like that, right because it would leave
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  Speaker 2: because I'd be like, I need more of you.
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  Speaker 1: You're not giving me enough, and you're never enough.
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  Speaker 2: You're never enough, and I always need more. And yeah,
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  Speaker 2: So just like a demanding relationship on money. And so
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  Speaker 2: when we learned to have a more fun relationship or
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  Speaker 2: energy towards money, then it gets better and better. And
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  Speaker 2: I will attest to that because things are happening that
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  Speaker 2: have been a lot of fun. I wrote down a number.
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  Speaker 2: So every twice a month, sit down to pay our
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  Speaker 2: bills and stuff, and every month I write down this
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  Speaker 2: particular number in the thousands, and I'm like, as an
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  Speaker 2: income each month. And every time I write it down,
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  Speaker 2: I put boohoo, we did it right, with big capital
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  Speaker 2: letters and exclamation points, and I put a lot of
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  Speaker 2: excitement in it when I write it. And at this
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  Speaker 2: moment on just for a monthly income between my husband
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  Speaker 2: and I, I am just two hundred dollars shy of
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  Speaker 2: reaching that goal. Nice, so I'm super excited because I
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  Speaker 2: just just before we did this, I just got done
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  Speaker 2: paying our bills for the month, and I'm just like,
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  Speaker 2: this is working. This is And then I thought your
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  Speaker 2: goof why aren't you doing this for your business?
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  Speaker 1: So it's next.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes I'm a little slow, but I get cat catch on.
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  Speaker 2: So I wrote down a number for a monthly income
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  Speaker 2: for my business and I put it with my paperwork,
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  Speaker 2: and so every time I see that, right, So anyway,
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  Speaker 2: the relationship with money is super important. And yeah, I
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  Speaker 2: will be sharing that that link in my in my
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  Speaker 2: on my social media platform to to have people you know,
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  Speaker 2: watch it. But yeah, he has a great sense of humor,
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  Speaker 2: which was a professional comedian, and his humor in the
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  Speaker 2: way he brings it into the personal development field or
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  Speaker 2: the expansion field, it's just it's a lot of fun
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  Speaker 2: and it's it's it is, it's where you can hear
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  Speaker 2: it and understand it. Yeah. But the other thing I
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  Speaker 2: wanted to talk about was just recently we had a
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  Speaker 2: conversation at work, and it's you have eighty percent of
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  Speaker 2: the you give eighty percent of your attention toward those
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  Speaker 2: who want to be part participants in whatever they want
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  Speaker 2: to get out of their membership with our business. So
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  Speaker 2: you give eighty percent of your effort towards them, it's
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  Speaker 2: eighty percent effort towards the twenty percent that want to participate.
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  Speaker 2: That makes sense. So it's like really dialing in on
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  Speaker 2: where am I giving my time and energy and attention,
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  Speaker 2: because if they have a membership and they're not participating
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  Speaker 2: in several of the modalities that we have to help
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  Speaker 2: them grow and expand their business, then they're not reaping
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  Speaker 2: the benefits of their membership. And then it's a oh, well,
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  Speaker 2: I think I'm going to cancel or and then they
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  Speaker 2: just don't show up or whatever the case may be. Well,
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  Speaker 2: if we're focused on them and the idea that we're
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  Speaker 2: going to lose their membership, but we have this group
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  Speaker 2: what we hear that's really participating and flourishing, Like we
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  Speaker 2: have to decide where do we want to give our
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  Speaker 2: time and energy and what do we want what do
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  Speaker 2: we want to provide them? So then as you were talking,
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  Speaker 2: I was like, okay, so because you said, you know,
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  Speaker 2: in this in this human suit, almost every day is
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  Speaker 2: the same. There becomes a routine. We wake up, we
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  Speaker 2: take shower, we get ready for the day. We have
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  Speaker 2: our coffee, we drive to work, We work our eight, ten,
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  Speaker 2: twelve hours whatever it is, with the same people, and
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  Speaker 2: we have those same feelings towards those people, whatever that
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  Speaker 2: might be. Then we leave work, we go home, we
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  Speaker 2: have dinner, we send for a TV, we have right
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  Speaker 2: that would be probably a mundane type of lifestyle, and
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  Speaker 2: then we wake up and do it all over again. Well, okay,
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  Speaker 2: so if you had eighty percent of that stay the same,
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  Speaker 2: eighty percent of your routine stays the same, but each
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  Speaker 2: day you focused on twenty percent of being different. That
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  Speaker 2: twenty percent could be listening to a podcast of you know,
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  Speaker 2: Alex Ferrari on Next Level, So it could be reading
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  Speaker 2: a book, or it could be spending more time outside.
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  Speaker 2: It could be spending more time moving your body. So
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  Speaker 2: you just took that twenty percent each day and did
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  Speaker 2: something different, then that twenty percent grows and it becomes
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  Speaker 2: your eighty percent, and then the twenty percent you don't
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  Speaker 2: you still want to change, you can change like so
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  Speaker 2: so it was just interesting how that just came to
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  Speaker 2: me as you were talking, like, ooh, that's really good.
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  Speaker 2: If we if we did just keep the eighty percent
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  Speaker 2: that's the same, but we know there's something we want different,
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  Speaker 2: then focus on that twenty percent to help start shifting.
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  Speaker 2: And twenty percent really isn't that much out of your day,
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  Speaker 2: So yeah, that it's that one percent idea too that
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  Speaker 2: you stay your course. But if you make a one
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  Speaker 2: percent adjustment, one person adjustment, then it takes you from
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  Speaker 2: a straight line. It takes you that one percent and
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  Speaker 2: pretty soon that you're just way off over in another
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  Speaker 2: direction doing something else. That just because you gave that
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  Speaker 2: one percent shift.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's cool because I liked how you said all
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  Speaker 1: that too, because it does make sense to me, and
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  Speaker 1: it makes sense. It doesn't have to be overly organized,
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  Speaker 1: but it's being present about where your attention is going to. Really, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: my dog's in here, one of my dogs, but it's
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  Speaker 1: it's really paying attention to that, and it's it's recognizing
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  Speaker 1: because I've been doing kind of some different stuff. It's
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  Speaker 1: like the last after a group last Sunday, i was like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm driving through the orchard and I'm like, I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to do a recording, and so I just did one
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  Speaker 1: on my It's just was a quick thing, but what
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  Speaker 1: I caught myself, So it's like this it's a growing
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  Speaker 1: thing right and sometimes at twenty percent can get kind
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  Speaker 1: of scary. Even though that's a little bit, but it's
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  Speaker 1: like I keep telling people, if you put your shoe on,
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  Speaker 1: always on the right foot, start with your left foot right,
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  Speaker 1: you know that's that's yeah. If you brush your tis
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  Speaker 1: with the right hand, switch over to a left hand
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  Speaker 1: or vice versa, whichever it is. If you always brush
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  Speaker 1: your hair with your right hand, brush it with your
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  Speaker 1: left hand. Like changing things and being because it brings
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  Speaker 1: you more into awareness. Right now, you're more present because
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  Speaker 1: you got to be a little bit more cognizan event
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  Speaker 1: cognizant how you're using that brush with that left hand
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  Speaker 1: or whatever. But it's like, so I did a recording.
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  Speaker 1: I've done a couple of anything, come from a major.
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  Speaker 1: It was stepping out and doing it and then I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to post the video and it's like I
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  Speaker 1: stopped not posting the video because I looked at myself
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, holy hell, like who are you? Like,
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  Speaker 1: who is this person I'm seeing in this in this camera?
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  Speaker 1: And then it's like it was funny because that's when
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  Speaker 1: Kyle Cees came up because he's like, you know, I
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  Speaker 1: thought I had to be. If I had thought I
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  Speaker 1: had to be all these things before I did these
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  Speaker 1: things that the acting and the stuff that he's done,
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  Speaker 1: he would never have made it. It would have screwed everything up.
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  Speaker 1: But he was come out being himself. And so it's
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  Speaker 1: like I got to be myself. And the thing that
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  Speaker 1: got me the most because I was telling Brian, like,
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  Speaker 1: would you just I sent you guys that video? Did
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  Speaker 1: you guys check it out? You know, I just was
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  Speaker 1: looking for your opinion or whatever. And I told her
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  Speaker 1: about what was going on, and I said, yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: just looked so frumpy and I look like this whatever
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  Speaker 1: the things I was saying, some things I was saying
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  Speaker 1: about myself, and she says, you know what I see.
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  Speaker 1: I see my mom. And it's like I got so emotional.
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  Speaker 1: I get emotional every time I hear that, because it's
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  Speaker 1: like it's the truth. Though, it's like we get so
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  Speaker 1: caught up in this this comparing ourselves in the three
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  Speaker 1: D how things should look in order for people to
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  Speaker 1: hear you, And it's like, no, that was my soul
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  Speaker 1: showing up. So I'm going to show up with my soul.
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  Speaker 1: And however the outside package looks that's how the outside
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  Speaker 1: package looks. I'm not going to decorate it. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: going to go do my hair. I'm not going to
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  Speaker 1: go do all these things. Now, I might curl it.
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  Speaker 1: I might figure out a way that makes me feel comfortable.
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  Speaker 1: My hair is growing out. My dad's real stuff. But
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  Speaker 1: it's like it's not being so hard on And it's
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  Speaker 1: like these little things that happen to come up to
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  Speaker 1: trigger you just for you to look at. It's just
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  Speaker 1: for you to feel where that's at. And it's not
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  Speaker 1: to have an attachment to a situation or a person
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  Speaker 1: for these feelings and emotions, but it's to stop for
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  Speaker 1: a second and then just fill that emotion in the body,
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  Speaker 1: like where's it at. Oh, that's where it's at. It's
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  Speaker 1: right at my heart level. Oh, what's at my solar plexus?
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  Speaker 1: And it's like when we start doing that kind of stuff,
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  Speaker 1: then we start doing that same thing with money. Like
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  Speaker 1: when I think about money, if I say, if I
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  Speaker 1: close my eyes and I say the word money, what
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  Speaker 1: do I feel? Do I feel good about me? Don't
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  Speaker 1: I feel I feel like someone sucker punched me in
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  Speaker 1: the solar plexus. So it's like it's processing all that stuff.
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  Speaker 1: It's not I don't have to go looking at experiences,
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  Speaker 1: but it's processing that. Okay, well I feel that. God,
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  Speaker 1: what can I do to change it? What can make
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  Speaker 1: it different so that I can feel good about money
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  Speaker 1: or a relationship or whatever, or having kids or not
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  Speaker 1: having kids or being a grandparent. It's like there's a
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  Speaker 1: million things. Do I take that? Does that? When I
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  Speaker 1: think about doing so and types of jobs? Do I
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  Speaker 1: feel feel? What does that feel like in my body?
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  Speaker 1: Does it feel Do I feel giddy? Do I feel excitement?
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  Speaker 1: Do I feel anxiousness? Do I feel nervous? And it's
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  Speaker 1: like all those things. I don't have to use those words,
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  Speaker 1: but I just feel it in the body. And then
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  Speaker 1: it's like it just dissipates it, it transmutes itself into
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  Speaker 1: something else. And then the next thing you know, you're
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  Speaker 1: doing something that you didn't plan on doing video and
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  Speaker 1: it's like the next day I'm driving through it. I'm like, nope,
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  Speaker 1: I'm putting it up there. I don't care love me
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  Speaker 1: or leave me. It doesn't matter. If this is my
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  Speaker 1: journey and this is who I where I'm at right now,
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  Speaker 1: and that's all that's what matters, And it's okay because
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  Speaker 1: if I can't be okay in my skin, how can
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  Speaker 1: I expect someone else to be okay and their skin
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  Speaker 1: after watching my stuff?
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it goes along with two for in my case,
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: for example, leadership, Well, first of all, confidence, it's been
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: a huge thing for years, are going on that myself,
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: and so now that I'm feeling a little more confident
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: in myself now, leadership has become a focus. And I've
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: been listening to like John Maxwell and of course Ed
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: my Lett, Tony Robbins and all the all the influencers.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: In December. At work, so we do a lot with
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: our community college here, a lot of collaboration, and they
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: have a leadership program that they're doing that is a year,
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: once a week for a year.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: That's awesome, and.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: The three key people at work and where I work
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: are doing it. So every Tuesday morning we have a
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: two hour session for this leadership program. So it's like
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: when you think about those things, like what do you
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: want focus on it? Not in a lack of mentality,
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: but wow, it would be great if I had something
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: where I could actually attend it and it's not costing me.
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: In fact, I'm getting paid the two hours to sit
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: there in this class. So it's just kind of like,
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: this is awesome, right, So having like things are flowing
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: when the more I'm just open to allowing that process
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: of receiving because that's been a big issue too for
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: so many years. I will give and give and give,
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: but had a very difficult time receiving. And now it's
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: it's a thank you, thank you for this, whereas before
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: it would have been a whole worthiness thing. Well I
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: don't I don't deserve to take this year long class
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: and not have to pay for it and get paid
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: to like total guilt. There would have been total guilt
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: around the whole thing for whatever reason. And now I'm
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: just like, hey, I manifested this, thank you very much.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: I am taking it. I am going to do this right.
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: So that this overseeing this project that was totally about
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: leadership because this year I'm a vice president in a
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: nonprofit organization next year, So overseeing this big project was,
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: let's say, just a classroom to learn how to be
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: in the position of president next year. So it's like
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: a precursor to get yourself used to doing these different
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: key things in an organization type of experience. So had
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: I not. And this goes back to that eighty twenty
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: or that one percent, had I not taken the time
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: and energy and focus to know, first of all, acknowledge
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: I need to do something with my confidence because it
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: is in the toilet like it's swirling around in this shit.
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: Like nobody's flushed the toilet, yet it's still swirling in there.
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: And so recognizing that for me to move forward in
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: a different light of this life, I had to do
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: something different in myself. And the path that I took
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: helped me build on that, build my confidence and for anybody.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: And I just had this conversation the other day. We
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: had a we had an evening social with this organization
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: and with the ladies of the organization, and somebody asked me, well,
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: what different in you? Because I said, if you would
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: have known me, like twenty thirty years ago, well you
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: probably wouldn't know me because I wouldn't be sitting here
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: with you because this is not be my jam. And
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: they're like, well, what's changed? So I worked on myself.
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: I built my confidence. Right, I did something different. If
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: I was still running that same show, that same routine,
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: doing the same things that I was doing thirty years ago.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: I've said it before. You and I would not be
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: here together doing these these recordings. I wouldn't be a
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: vice president of a nonprofit organization. I wouldn't be holding
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: an executive assistant title at the place of employment I'm at, like,
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't be having in facilitating classes or workshops like that.
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: I would have never done this. So it comes down to,
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: if you don't like something in your life, then what
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: are you going to do to start changing it? And
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: it's not, for the most part, probably not going to
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: happen overnight. People want to People want to lose a
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: hundred pounds, but they don't want to take the time
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: to allow that one hundred pounds to dissolve. They want
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: to take a magic pill and when we be done
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: with it because they don't want to put in the
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: time and the energy and the effort. Wow, big things
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: take time.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: So that's just that's also appreciating where you're at right
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: that moment. It's just appreciation. It's like, for me, it's like,
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: I can we're having this while we're having this conversation,
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking. For me, it's like even having the confidence
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: to even do a video at all, right, because I
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: would never have done it before. And then too, it's
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: like it's just to be whoever I am, just to
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: allow that flow and not to be not to judge it. Really,
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: that's there's a lot to a lot to be said
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: about a lot of that stuff too. It's just it's
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: part of this. It's a it's a personal journey, and
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: it's like wherever it takes you, just if you just
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: like you said that twenty percent, if you decide to
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: make those changes, the difference, it makes all the difference
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: in the world because it then it changes. Now you're
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: open for the next thing. Now you're open for the
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: next thing. And I'm not I'm not spending time in
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: it judging it like I was before. It's a totally
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: different places. It feels different, it feels comfortable. And then
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: it's like I've done another video and can't for the
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: life like TikTok's just it gets to ninety six percent
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: and that's about it. So it's like, okay, so that
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: means live, So I'll just go live next time and
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: that and maybe make it a little bit shorter or
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: whatever whatever, whatever the content is, just to have it
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: up there. But it's just doing it and it doesn't
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: matter whatever happens of it. Who freaking cares? Like, who cares?
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: Nobody cares. But if it reaches one person, then it
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: makes a difference. If it changed me just by doing it,
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: it makes the difference. So it's like doing it anyways,
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: it's just doing it.
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's it comes down to it's similar to this,
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: is it Is it for everybody else? Or is it
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: for us?
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: Right, it's exactly that idiot for everybody to see. Or
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: is it just for me to get out of my
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: comfort zone and do something different dule and be seen
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: and use my own face right and get comfortable with that.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's being okay, it's just being your true
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: authentic self. And so I'm learning what does that look
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: like for me? And that's kind of the process. That's
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: the process I'm at right now. That's what it looks
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: like for me. Walk in the walk and you know,
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: living the life. And it's funny because I feel like
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: I'm a little bit behind you on some of the things,
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: like you were like we do our I've got my
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: twenty twenty five reading here, and it's like I've got
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: this month's stuff, and of course this month is appreciation.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: Last month was all about God and community on my side,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: and this month's about carrying an appreciation and it's and
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: it's and it's like, it's funny because the affirmation kind
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: of matches everything kind of matches along with something and
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: what does my thing say at the top of my
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: February leap of faith? I got to take the leap
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: of faith?
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: Nice I didn't, Ah, Man, I'm like a couple of
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: days behind here. I did not pull out my February Yet.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: I do it every night. If I don't have time
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: in the morning, I do it in the evening. And
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: it's it's awesome because even Freeman will be like, did
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: you journal today? Because sometimes I don't have time in
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: the morning, and then I'll be on my way to
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: bed and it's like, shit, I haven't done it yet.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: Because that's for me. I'm keeping my word to myself
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: to make sure that I do this every time, and
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: whether I channel write or whether I just journal. Sometimes
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: I'm just writing appreciation stuff. That's it, that's all I have.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: Or sometimes I'm in a in a in a space
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: where I'm going through some processing and I'm writing down
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: like what the f God like what the hell am
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: I doing here? What's my freaking purpose? How do I
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: bless the world? And and how how can I show
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: up best for the world and serve and and and
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: I might be in a whole crappy crap. There's been
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: a there. There's a few days I got I got
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: a documented people, but that I didn't It's like I
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: had nothing good to say. But I'll tell you what
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: I feel. I felt lighter afterwards, I felt more peace,
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: I felt more ease. And it's just not having an
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: attachment to the outcoming. But it's also not not having
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: an expectation. Every time that I sit down, I'm in
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: a channel, right, It just I don't I'm not in
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: the mood sometimes And this past week I have had
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: feelings of being more tired. So I feel like I'm
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: going through more processing, I'm releasing more, I'm receiving more,
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: all at the same time energetically. So it's like it's
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: it's honoring it's honoring self.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, mind us This month is children as teachers nice,
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: so they remind us to remember our own inner child
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: and to recognize and heal and he hurts or fears
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: the child in us has that are with us now
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: as adults. Children remind us have fun and think outside
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: of the box.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: So nice.
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: Which is funny because I've been feeling lately a little
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: bit of giddiness, like, oh, I get to I get it,
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: we got paid, I get to sit down and do
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: my I didn't used to feel that way. Trust me.
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: It was a dreadful thing to sit down and look
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: at the bills and the checkbook because I knew there
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: was like not going to be anything left. But I
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: get giddy about it, and I get it. It's just
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: been fun. Life has been fun, and it's been such
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: a joy to have such an incredible different difference, noticing
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: the difference in me and in my experiences and the
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: synchronicities and all the things, how they line up, and
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: how was that? I want? Okay, So I went, I
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: just saw this real quick, and then we'll we'll wrap
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: up here quickly. I went to Wally World, and then
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: I decided to I had to make a phone. So
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: I sat in my vehicle and I made this phone call. Well,
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: I put me on hold, and I was like on
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: hold for a while, and I thought, you know what,
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: I'll just call him back later. I hung up. Now
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: mind you, I have to. After I thought about I
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: was kind of being guided. It was like, don't wait.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: So I'm like, yeah, okay, So I hung up. I'm
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: walking towards Wally World and the friend of mine is
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: coming out, and I seriously I got within probably six
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: feet of her before she realized I was standing in
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: front of her. I was walking right straight towards her
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: and she and we said are highs and blah blah blah,
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: and she goes. I knew I was gonna see you
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: because I saw six two four the other day was
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: six two four is one of my numbers that I
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: see a lot, and she knows it. But the whole
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: synchronicity of it that I decided to go to Wally World,
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: that I decided to sit in my vehicle and make
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: that phone call, and then I decided, no, I'm not
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: gonna wait on hold, I'm gonna go and get my
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: stuff done. And then as I'm walking in, she's walking out.
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: And if any of that would have been interrupted, I
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: wouldn't have seen her. So just the synchronouses like that,
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: It's just been a lot of fun. So that is
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: all contributed to me making that one percent change or
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: focusing on a twenty percent different, something different each day
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: for that twenty percent to become my eighty percent now,
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: and then if there's twenty percent that I'm not excited about,
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: then what am I going to do about it? It
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: just comes back to me. There's no external stuff about it.
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying, well, bev if you did this things, no,
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: I would be happy. If you would know, I would
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: love you more. No, it's me. My life is going
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: to be better when I do some thing.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: Yes, and so.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, ending to all that would be if you don't
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: like it, change it, yeah, because it's it's a C word, right,
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: it's our choice.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: But it's like it's recognizing you're the writer, you're the director,
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: you're the you're you know, you're the publicity, we're all
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: of the things, and it's totally up to us. It's
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: not up to another person. And when you recognize that,
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: that can be scary to some people, but it could
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: be so empowering and I find it more empowering. Yeah,
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: I really do. I'm actually going to send you a
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: TikTok that I listened to with everybody else. Probably won't
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: have it on here, but it's really she's talking about
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: the quantums, and she's talking about a lot of this
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: information and how easy it is to manifest and how
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: easy it is to create, and she was very she
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: I liked what she said. I was like almost automat
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: like I'm gonna go sign up for a class with her?
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: Does it? But then my mind got it's like no,
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to do that right now, but I'll
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: go and check her out because I want to first
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: check out all of her videos on that and then
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: just see what she says, because it's just it's it's
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: for us to stop for a second and check how
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: does that resonate in my body? How does it feel?
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: And it felt right? Yeah, it felt right.
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: I just had a coaching session this morning and I
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: told her, I said, this is our second session and
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: I and I have been having her focus on what
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: does your body feel like when you see this person?
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: What does your body feel like when you're having these conversations,
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: What does your body feel like when you're looking in
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: the mirror right focus on how it is showing up
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: in the body, because your body will tell you is
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: it is it feel good or does it not feel good?
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: And then making adjustments from there.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: It's our greatest tool, and it's so underutilized. It was
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: because I'm utilizing mine that way all the time when
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: I'm listening to someone, Oh I got the goosebumps, or
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: or oh I don't like the way that felt inside
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: of me, or do I feel it? Man, Like, I'm
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: really paying attention to all of it, and then even
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: paying attention to what do I say? What am I
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: what's coming out of my mouth? If I'm if I
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: recommend somebody to go do something, you know, you really
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: to think about your gut health. I need to think
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: about my gut health. So it's this whole process. It's
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: all this it's you don't recognize it unless you stop
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: to listen to it all the time. So it's almost
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: as if you're watching yourself from a third party perspective
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: to gain this information. So I'm almost like outside of myself,
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: watching myself give out this information. So I'm like, okay, yeah,
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: to write that down. Okay, I need to write that
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: down because it's information that's flowing through us, right.
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: And you're like, oh, that was important exactly exactly. Social
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: media and uh well yeah, social media, but especially to
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: talk tiktoks, videos and there's some things that I'm watching
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: just to kind of feel out and being informed of
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: world events right now. Yeah, just to be in the know.
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: It's not like I get hung up on it and
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: I need so none of that. But I when I'm
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: listening to these videos, the chills I get, I'm like,
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: because I'll go, oh, that sounds good, and the chills
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: will just like the god bombs, goosebumps, whatever. It's not
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: chills like I'm cold. It's chills like ooh, that was
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: like truth, Like they're speaking truth. And that's my indicator
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: and it usually is for most people that when you
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: get those those god bumps set somebody speaking truth and
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: and and when I get that from somebody from from
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: somebody who's doing videos, I will go follow them because
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, what they're sharing is more on the
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: this is actual instead of I'm trying to divide.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, reliable sources, because that's that's what that's our discernment,
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: that's our that's how we can concern. And I've been
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: doing the same thing, and that's where I get my information.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: A lot of my information I'm getting because I get
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: it from Freeman as well, because he gets he follows
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: a lot of the world stuff, and so I'll get
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: it from him, but I also get it from there.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: And it's like I'm excited, Like I'm excited because the
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: stuff that I keep getting it's exciting.
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, me too. I think I think things to be interesting.
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: It's going to be bumpy, but it's also exciting. So
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: it's changed, it's changed, and people don't like change and
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: so but however, uh, in the midst of it, change
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: can feel very chaotic and uncertain, and we can know
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: that it can bring me a lot of amazing goodness.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: So it's about perspective. So, all right, my friends, a
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: lot of a lot, a lot a lot of information.
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: That's one. Yeah, I made a note to to put
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: in our notes the link to next Level Next Next Level,
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: so with Kyle Cees and so that they can just
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: go check that out for themselves and listen to that video.
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: And as we do for other podcasters and information, you
• 36:32
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• 36:34
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• 36:59
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• 37:06
  Speaker 1: Words, take time to honor yourself and you're you're the
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  Speaker 1: writer of your story. So let's start start sharing your
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: story with.
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  Speaker 2: Us and change the twenty focus on twenty percent of
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  Speaker 2: your day that you don't like.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll thank it. Make a change.
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  Speaker 2: So all right, my friends, thanks for hanging out with us.
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  Speaker 2: Tea time with Amy and Bev and we'll see you
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  Speaker 2: next time.
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  Speaker 1: Goodbye,