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radio Bret Quincho. Well, hello ladies and
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gentlemen. My name is Brett Keene and you
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I wish I could tell you all that everything's been perfect.
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Everything's been great as when I took time off away from
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YouTube and a majority of social media sites.
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But I've had some downfalls as well as some positive things.
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But today we're going to focus mostly on the negative,
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unfortunately, because the negative is pretty big deal.
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Well, not too long ago my the sister, she ended up as I had
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said on the radio, he'd married a second husband, got a divorce
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to her first a guy named Sean, and then ended up hooking up
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with this guy named Joey. Well, Joey from the get go had
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some issues. Joey like to drink alcohol all
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the time and I don't know if he did other kind of drugs.
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I just know that he was majorly into alcohol.
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The few times I got to see him in life, he was drinking, drink,
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drink, drink. Always had a beer in his hand or
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something, was always drunk. And yeah, however, even with
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these flaws, even though he was clearly an alcoholic, he was a
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good man. He was kind, he was decent.
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He was outspoken, very extroverted type of person, hard
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worker. You if you knew the guy, he
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would know that he would make a good friend.
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He was loyal, he was honest, he was kind, he was good to my
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sister and he ended up having a third child with my sister and
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the other two were with her first husband and the the third
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still a baby. Well, what ended up happening is
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there was a a time where I didn't talk to my sister for a
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very long, long time, probably a couple years.
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She just got on with her life and decided that she didn't
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really want to associate with not only me, but my brother and
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everybody else that is related to her.
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She got into real estate, she got into all kinds of different
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things and her career took off. She started making a lot of
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money and she went from a pretty hard poor life.
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You really, really carrying herself and and going somewhere
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with herself. And I guess once she hit a
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certain place in her life, she decided to leave what she refers
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to as all negative vibes and people behind.
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Sometimes people do that. Sometimes people get lucky in
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life or they grab onto an opportunity, and once they get
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that opportunity, suddenly everybody and everything they
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cared about before kind of vanishes.
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Or maybe there's a choice that's made where you just don't want
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to. You just want to live on an
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island by yourself, away from everybody, or at least anybody
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that reminds you of the past or reminds you of what you used to
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be whenever you're trying to recreate yourself.
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And so she meets this Joey guy. He's a hard worker.
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He's making good money. He's got a supportive family.
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He's got, you know, people behind him.
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He's a good father. But unfortunately towards the
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end he started getting in trouble with my sister because
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she put up with the drinking. She put up with that issue, but
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then he started getting himself in trouble by putting his son,
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which is a baby, in the vehicle with him driving while under the
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influence, which instantly took him from the loving, caring,
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responsible father who works real hard to a threat to the
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very existence of the family. I don't think my sister would
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have pestered him or bothered him.
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He constantly said my drinking, I'm fine, I'm OK.
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You know how Alcoholics do it. And he was doing all right, but
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then he started putting the kid in the car when driving and
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started putting himself in really bad positions.
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Though my sister ended up telling him he's got to go
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unless he goes into rehab and gets himself fixed.
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You don't want to have nothing to do with them.
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So what ends up happening is he goes and he lives out in his van
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for a while, lives with his family for a little while.
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And the more this is going on, for some reason the family
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doesn't feel as though he deserved the treatment.
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And I can understand that because he was a good guy.
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He was, you know, like I told you, he was loyal, he was kind,
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he was a good father, except for these issues that started coming
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up and my sister didn't know what else to do.
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She couldn't talk to him about it.
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Being an alcoholic. You can't talk people out of an
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addiction. I guess there's those rare cases
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where there's some people they can put down things and go cold
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Turkey. But he had been drinking since
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he was young, so the separation continued.
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And my sister and him talked off and on on the phone.
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And he didn't keep him away from his son or anything.
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He could come over anytime he could visit.
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And apparently towards the end, they were trying to work things
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out. And, you know, I guess he was
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saying some of the right things or what she wanted to hear.
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And it seemed like there might be some kind of compromise made.
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But something weird happened. He started getting sick, though.
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He went to the hospital and they told him he had a cold.
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He kept getting worse. He goes to another hospital,
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they tell him he's got the flu, goes to another hospital, gets
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another opinion. And then that very same day, I
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guess from what I've been told, he things got so bad they ended
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up having, he went into a kind of, I don't know how to describe
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it. I'll put it this way, he
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couldn't breathe on his own, so they needed to hook up all kinds
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of contraptions to him. My sister describes as well as
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my father because apparently my dad went with her to see him in
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his last days. Something was wrong with his
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immune system. I don't have a lot of
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information on that and apparently he couldn't fight
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whatever was happening to him and he ended up dying.
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He that was it. Well, the suffering and misery
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didn't stop. Apparently the family of him
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blamed my sister and they made the dumbbells impossible for her
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to be able to spend time with him whenever he was alive in the
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hospital. They wanted to take full
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guardianship or responsibility and all that.
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And they also wanted to be the ones that decide, you know,
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should they pull the plug if it comes down to it.
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But they didn't have a chance. He just, his body simply gave
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out, couldn't do it. According to my sister, they
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ended up having an open casket and he was, whatever it was that
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he had, it messed him up so bad that it deformed him.
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It destroyed his eyes. And basically she said that
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whenever he was in the casket, he didn't look anything like the
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man that she married. He was just totally pulverized
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by the condition. I do know that she spoke of him
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having some kind of black liquid coming out of him and that his
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eyes, he was in such bad shape, he couldn't even close his own
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eyes. They had to put something over
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his face because his, I guess they describe it as his eyes
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went Milky. You suffered pretty miserable.
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It was a painful, slow death. I know for a fact that he
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believed in God and he shared a lot of my politics and views.
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But like I said, my sister had made the decision that he didn't
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want people around so I didn't get to know him as much as I
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would have liked to. I got to know her first husband
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and he was cool, he was nice, but they had separate type of
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problems on that issue. So I have tried repeatedly to
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reach out to my sister and let her know that if she needs to
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talk or needs some I listen to or needs her Big Brother, I'm
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here. She did eventually, after a
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couple months of after the event that happened, finally invited
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me out to her home and I went out and visited with her and,
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you know, listen to her talk and the sadness and you know what
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the future brings for the three children and all that.
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And I am, although it was sad and miserable, I assumed that we
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were getting along and that I would be able to be back in her
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life again. But she she's kind of taken long
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time periods to get back to me. And whenever I text her or try
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to call, I can't get through. And if she does respond, the
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responses are I'm busy, I'm in the middle of something.
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So that's where I find myself from that I don't know if a
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connection's going to be made. It feels like the way it was for
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the last couple of years. So I don't know where we're
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where we're going with that. I know some people out there,
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you're probably going to listen to my video and go, bro, why do
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you share such personal content like this?
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Why do you why do you make material for this?
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Well, when I do this, I don't really do it for the listener.
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This is my way of being able to express myself.
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My wife, she works all the time and whenever I'm not doing my
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thing and she's doing her thing it's hard for us to find moments
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where we can talk about stuff and when we do we spend about
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10-15 minutes if we have it. I usually try to give my wife
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her private space so she can play on her computer and her
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phone and and do her thing because she puts so many hours
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in. I don't want to absorb all of
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her time when she could be being entertained or doing something
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Take her mind off all the aggravation she put up with that
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day. So that's kind of like where
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we're at. We're in love with each other
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and we care about each other. But when you become an older
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couple, you have to kind of learn to give each other space
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so you know, person can relax when they get home from work,
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that kind of thing. Got some other crappy news just
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recently. My son, he as he's gotten older,
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he likes to, he works a whole lot over and over and over.
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And unfortunately me and him have communication issues when I
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do see him, which isn't very often anymore.
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We don't have like a problem with each other or anything like
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that. Just he's become a young man and
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now he's doing his own thing. And sometimes when kids get
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older they don't spend as much time with their parents or their
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family anymore. Don't know why that happens,
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don't know what the deal is. I come from a family where
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people didn't want to be around me whenever I was a kid is where
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my children have two parents that love them and adore them
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and love to spend every minute we possibly can with our kids
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because we know life is short, especially with health issues.
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So when my son does come around and I asked him how he's doing,
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I asked him, is everything OK? Is your bills paid, that kind of
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stuff. Yeah, Dad, everything's good.
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Everything's cool, you know, nothing to worry about.
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Well yesterday I got a my wife got a call and apparently my
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son, while he was on his way to work or going home from work,
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not going to work but leaving work, he was pulled over by the
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police and apparently he hadn't been paying his insurance and
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his plates were old. I've told him over and over that
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he should get a job that's closer to home and I'm always
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constantly when I get an opportunity, ask him how he's
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doing financially because if he's in a rut as a father, I'm
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more than happy to help him out if I can.
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And but he doesn't tell me anything.
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He always says everything's fine dad, everything's cool and now
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his fiance or girlfriend is heading up with my wife.
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She should be sleeping because she's got to go to work later on
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today and but instead she's going to be going up and trying
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to bail my son out of jail. If he would have only said
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something and told me about the plates, if he had said he was
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struggling with the insurance, me and my wife would have been
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more than happy to help him out with that.
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But he doesn't tell us anything. It's always the last minute.
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Everything's got to wait until the last minute.
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A lot of my family members, the the ones that the handful that's
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still alive, most of my family members are dead, as I've said
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in prior stuff. But the handful that are still
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around, they're the type of people where a majority of them
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don't get a hold of you unless they need something.
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Unless they need some money or need you to help them with
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something. They rarely reach out just to
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ask how are you doing? You know I've missed you.
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I'd like to talk to you. That kind of thing.
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It's exhausting spiritually, mentally, emotionally, all that
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kind of stuff. I've learned my way of dealing
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with things nowadays is I've become like, it used to break my
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heart dealing with that kind of with these kind of people
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whenever I was a young adult and teenager.
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But as I've gotten older. I do something.
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I kind of separate myself emotionally from people now.
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It's like a disconnect where you just always figure everything's
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going to be worst case scenario no matter what.
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No matter what you do, no matter what you say, the routine and
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pattern is always the same. So you just kind of get to a
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point where you say it is what it is.
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Boy, oh, boy. It's cold outside today.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I bet, though.
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I bet he was scared being told to get out of the vehicle.
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Put your hands behind your back, have the old cold shackles
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thrown on and then put in the back of a police car driving
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away, seeing your vehicle sitting there and being hauled
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off to you don't know where. Oh man, that sucks.
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Well. You just got to have faith, I
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suppose. You just got to deal with the
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punches when they come, roll with it.
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You only got a couple choices in life.
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You either move forward and you deal with what life throws at
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you. Try to make sure that you've
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learned from your mistakes and do better next time.
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It's all you can do. Unfortunately, some people, you
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know, the story of Joey, he let the mistakes catch up with them.
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He didn't stop what he was doing.
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He kept going down that same Rd. and now he has no second chance.
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It's over, he's gone, he's in the ground.
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People need to realize whether you have children or family,
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life is short time will defeat us all.
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You got to remember that if you have a mom or a dad, you should
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probably call them every once in a while and tell them you're OK
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and and be truthful about it. And if you go into trouble,
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remember your parents know what it's like to be a kid or a young
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adult and know what it's like to struggle.
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You're not going to be condemned or judged for it unless you got
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rotten ass parents. And I think the best suggestion
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they can give anybody out there is don't get into drugs and
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don't get into alcohol, especially when you have a
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child, a baby. He's not going to be able to
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watch his kid grow up. He's not going to be able to see
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his kid go somewhere in life. All he had to do was not pick up
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that first drink, not use it as an escape.
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It's too late now. Empty words, empty grave.
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Next time you see your friends or your family, ladies and
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gentlemen, tell them you love them.
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Tell them you care about them. Remind them and plead with them
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to keep in touch. Don't become a stranger.
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Don't let the time run out. Doesn't matter how young you
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are. My sister is the youngest
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sibling. You know, my brother's the
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medium, and I'm the oldest brother.
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Joey was a pretty young guy. I don't even think I don't think
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he even got beyond 30 years old when this happened.
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All right, Well, God bless and peace be upon all of you.
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