Latest / Johnjay & Rich On Demand / JJR COUPLES THERAPY: Happy LOVE month from Kyle & Fish!
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- 0:02Speaker 1: What do you want to talk about?
- 0:04Speaker 2: I started, Yes, my mouth is full.
- 0:08Speaker 1: So you're just having a lazy, relaxing day. Huh. Hold on,
- 0:14Speaker 1: Oh boy, I'm not starting over.
- 0:17Speaker 2: You literally didn't even ask me.
- 0:20Speaker 1: You're in the biz, need to be ready all the time.
- 0:27Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to have a lazy day today because
- 0:32Speaker 2: I did not sleep well last night and did not
- 0:34Speaker 2: get very much sleep all last week. Next week is
- 0:38Speaker 2: a very busy week, so I kind of need to
- 0:41Speaker 2: like recharge. But you you've been go, go go since
- 0:50Speaker 2: early in the morning.
- 0:51Speaker 1: Huh, got no choice?
- 0:54Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I.
- 0:56Speaker 1: Feel like I woke up in twenty twenty six and
- 0:58Speaker 1: I the you. Demand has just been ratcheted up for work.
- 1:05Speaker 2: Everything well, you are, You're a high demand person and
- 1:10Speaker 2: your skills are very particular set of skills. It I
- 1:19Speaker 2: should give your skills a shout out because this week
- 1:22Speaker 2: you got some very good news.
- 1:24Speaker 1: That's true.
- 1:25Speaker 2: You are the voice of the Tim McGraw Tour, Tim mcgrawl,
- 1:31Speaker 2: Tim V Tim mcgrawl. That's pretty awesome. That's a big one.
- 1:37Speaker 2: It is a huge legendary artist. I've heard of him,
- 1:41Speaker 2: and he hand chose you.
- 1:46Speaker 1: He did you want to hear it?
- 1:47Speaker 2: Yeah, I do.
- 1:50Speaker 1: Summer.
- 1:53Speaker 2: We're not allowed to have any music on podcast.
- 1:57Speaker 1: Now. It would be funny if we like just it
- 2:00Speaker 1: out and we're like, oh yeah, it sounds great, let's
- 2:03Speaker 1: do that. Let's do that.
- 2:04Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I guess if you if you want to
- 2:07Speaker 2: hear it, you can call up the show and we
- 2:09Speaker 2: can play it on the show.
- 2:11Speaker 1: You can call up the show.
- 2:13Speaker 2: Although it's you know, it's a country artist. So but
- 2:17Speaker 2: it's still pretty and cool because I feel like Timer Graws.
- 2:19Speaker 2: It's Timber gross Spans, timber Gras, Timber timber Gras. You
- 2:28Speaker 2: also have some actually big duty happening coming up.
- 2:32Speaker 1: Hold on, I have a picture of timber Gras and myself.
- 2:36Speaker 2: No way, Uh huh? When did you meet timber girl? Uh?
- 2:41Speaker 1: Last year?
- 2:43Speaker 2: What?
- 2:44Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 2:46Speaker 2: Where was I?
- 2:47Speaker 1: You're at his concert? You didn't come with me? Where
- 2:51Speaker 1: is it? I want to show you.
- 2:53Speaker 2: Go to the Timber Growl concert.
- 2:55Speaker 1: I want to show you because the are hiding.
- 2:58Speaker 2: It was secret life.
- 2:59Speaker 1: That's Timber is wearing a Sea Thru shirt and I
- 3:04Speaker 1: forgot to wear mine that night. Timber Gral it's backstage
- 3:09Speaker 1: that timber Gras. Nice guy looks great.
- 3:16Speaker 2: This was last year. Yeah, he's a twenty twenty five
- 3:20Speaker 2: or four. Yeah, why do I have zero recollection of
- 3:25Speaker 2: this happening to you?
- 3:27Speaker 1: Ye?
- 3:28Speaker 2: Maybe you should Was it here in town?
- 3:30Speaker 1: Or was it?
- 3:31Speaker 2: Was it here in town? Or was it it wasn't
- 3:34Speaker 2: it your little thing that you go to in Nashville?
- 3:38Speaker 1: It was here?
- 3:40Speaker 2: Was it like on a weeknight?
- 3:42Speaker 1: I think?
- 3:42Speaker 2: So, like, why would you not take me to me
- 3:44Speaker 2: timber Gral because I like timber Growl.
- 3:47Speaker 1: It was on a weeknight. I'm sure.
- 3:51Speaker 2: That's really cool. That was a big deal for you.
- 4:00Speaker 1: Big deal. And so when I was auditioning for timber
- 4:03Speaker 1: Graw's uh tour, I sent that picture along. It's like, eh,
- 4:09Speaker 1: I know Timber.
- 4:10Speaker 2: Oh that's why they picture. He remembered me. Me yoh.
- 4:16Speaker 1: So I auditioned and then I checked back in. They
- 4:18Speaker 1: said your audition was good, and it's with Timber. Now
- 4:22Speaker 1: he's trying to.
- 4:23Speaker 2: Decide, well that's okay. So I feel like we have
- 4:26Speaker 2: to explain. So, so Scott does radio and TV voiceovers,
- 4:31Speaker 2: but he has also started voicing concert tours. So he
- 4:35Speaker 2: is currently the voice of the Pitbull Concert Tour, the
- 4:39Speaker 2: Timber Grawl Concert Tour. And you have also done like
- 4:47Speaker 2: she had Joe Bros up on Jovie. Okay, that was
- 4:50Speaker 2: what I was trying to think of in my head.
- 4:52Speaker 2: It was Bruce Springsteen, Yeah, okay. And then there's another
- 4:56Speaker 2: like old rocker guy.
- 4:57Speaker 1: Like that, Luke Comb's I did, Did I do Creed?
- 5:02Speaker 1: I think I did Creed Green Day, Miranda Lambert, who's
- 5:10Speaker 1: the I've done a bunch of comedians.
- 5:12Speaker 2: I feel like the cool thing about it is like,
- 5:14Speaker 2: like like you just said, they actually send your voice
- 5:17Speaker 2: over to the artist and they pick it. Yeah, Like
- 5:20Speaker 2: it's not their people picking it. It's literally the Joe Bros.
- 5:23Speaker 2: And the Joe Bros. Actually they've chosen you for like
- 5:26Speaker 2: the last three concert tours, all of them, yeah.
- 5:29Speaker 1: Most of them. And same with Luke Combs. I've done
- 5:31Speaker 1: every tour for Luke. But one time, when I was
- 5:35Speaker 1: doing John bon Jovi's stuff, I got an email that said,
- 5:42Speaker 1: I'd like you to sound a little bit more like
- 5:44Speaker 1: this John. So that was from John bon Jovi.
- 5:50Speaker 2: You got an email from the John John bon Jovie
- 5:55Speaker 2: from Jan. By the way, I hear, he doesn't like
- 5:57Speaker 2: when you call him bon Jovi.
- 5:59Speaker 1: His that's a band. His name's Jan.
- 6:03Speaker 2: That's pretty that's pretty sweet. That's pretty big time. Hunt.
- 6:07Speaker 2: You got a lot of cool things happening in your world.
- 6:10Speaker 1: Cool things including coming up a week away.
- 6:13Speaker 2: Yeah, so marry some people. Scott gets to officiate my nieces.
- 6:20Speaker 2: I guess it's our niece, now right? Is that what
- 6:22Speaker 2: you call.
- 6:23Speaker 1: When I say it it's your niece because it's on
- 6:25Speaker 1: your side of the family.
- 6:27Speaker 2: But you're married in so you are an uncle, So
- 6:30Speaker 2: it's your niece. It's our niece. Scott gets to officiate
- 6:34Speaker 2: the wedding, and you were.
- 6:37Speaker 1: Yeah, did we talk about how that fell into place?
- 6:40Speaker 2: That came up on the radio show, the John Jay
- 6:43Speaker 2: and Ridge program.
- 6:44Speaker 1: Wells as time goes by, and I hear actually how
- 6:47Speaker 1: it went down. My mother in law threw me under
- 6:50Speaker 1: the bus on that one.
- 6:52Speaker 2: No, she I feel like you have to worry it differently.
- 6:55Speaker 2: She didn't throw you under the bus. She threw you
- 6:57Speaker 2: into the ring.
- 6:58Speaker 1: Yeah. She offered me up and said I was ready
- 7:00Speaker 1: to go.
- 7:01Speaker 2: I hadn't even been asked into the ring.
- 7:04Speaker 1: So I married my best friend and his wife. He
- 7:09Speaker 1: actually did all the work to get me officially ordained.
- 7:13Speaker 1: I can't remember through whom. It's an organization in San
- 7:17Speaker 1: Diego and.
- 7:18Speaker 2: You're officially ordained from life.
- 7:20Speaker 1: Well, when when I was told that I was officiating
- 7:24Speaker 1: the wedding, I was hope hoping that maybe my license
- 7:27Speaker 1: had expired.
- 7:28Speaker 2: Yeah, because I was like, are you going to do
- 7:31Speaker 2: this or are you not? I don't even know if
- 7:34Speaker 2: my license is still in effect. I don't even know.
- 7:37Speaker 2: It's probably expired, expired, expired.
- 7:41Speaker 1: So I went through all of my paperwork as a
- 7:46Speaker 1: ordained minister, and it's for life.
- 7:53Speaker 2: So I see this as a side hustle. You can
- 7:56Speaker 2: now marry people. Well, send your inquiry is Scott Fisher
- 8:01Speaker 2: Theeffician dot com.
- 8:03Speaker 1: Because I do voiceovers for a living, which means I
- 8:07Speaker 1: hide in a closet behind a microphone by myself, by
- 8:12Speaker 1: yourself all day and I love it. I am a
- 8:16Speaker 1: behind the scenes kind of guy, So this I am
- 8:20Speaker 1: not looking forward to.
- 8:22Speaker 2: But it is quite the honor that they chose you.
- 8:26Speaker 1: They chose me because the price was right.
- 8:29Speaker 2: I don't I think they could have done other people.
- 8:32Speaker 2: I think they chose you because, like we chose your
- 8:36Speaker 2: brother to officiate our wedding, it makes it more special
- 8:38Speaker 2: when it's somebody.
- 8:40Speaker 1: He actually does that for a living.
- 8:41Speaker 2: Yeah, but it makes it more special when it's somebody
- 8:44Speaker 2: that's a part of your life.
- 8:46Speaker 1: Yeah, I appreciate you trying to connect the dots. It is.
- 8:49Speaker 2: It's not trying to connect the dots that's but here's
- 8:53Speaker 2: the deal.
- 8:54Speaker 1: I've embraced it. I'm gonna make it special for this
- 8:57Speaker 1: young couple.
- 8:58Speaker 2: I think you should.
- 8:58Speaker 1: I'm going to make it special.
- 9:00Speaker 2: Have you begun writing, said Sarahmony.
- 9:02Speaker 1: I haven't. I figured that. I'm going to start either tomorrow. Yeah,
- 9:07Speaker 1: I gotta start tomorrow, and it's just going to be chat.
- 9:09Speaker 1: Chat's going to do it for me?
- 9:11Speaker 2: Well, because it's literally one week away.
- 9:14Speaker 1: It's a week from tomorrow. Yeah, from tomorrow. And but
- 9:18Speaker 1: I've got something in my back pocket. There's a big
- 9:21Speaker 1: star that owes me a favor.
- 9:24Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Timber, timber Grawl.
- 9:27Speaker 1: I'm asking Timber to come sing.
- 9:29Speaker 2: Emil and Timber. We should have Timber Gral sing Timber
- 9:35Speaker 2: as Timber growl, like that could be his alter ego.
- 9:40Speaker 1: The Kesha song Timber.
- 9:42Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well that is exciting. I think they are
- 9:47Speaker 2: very excited. I think they we did not know. They're
- 9:54Speaker 2: very young, super young, but they're twenty and twenty one.
- 9:58Speaker 1: They're cute, which you it's tough out there.
- 10:02Speaker 2: It's a tough world out there. But they are high
- 10:05Speaker 2: school sweethearts. And you know what's crazy is since they
- 10:10Speaker 2: have gotten engaged, I have spoken to so many people
- 10:17Speaker 2: who are still married as high school sweethearts, which I
- 10:20Speaker 2: think is very encouraging, kind of cool. That's really cool
- 10:25Speaker 2: to for the bride my niece, her name's Michela. For
- 10:32Speaker 2: her bridal show, I wanted to do something personalized, so
- 10:36Speaker 2: I got them like bride and groom sweatsuits, but I
- 10:41Speaker 2: wanted their mister and missus name embroidered on them. And
- 10:44Speaker 2: as you know my mom, she's got a lot of connections.
- 10:47Speaker 2: As her connection to the officiant Scott Fisher was. She
- 10:51Speaker 2: also has a really good friend who does embroidery work
- 10:54Speaker 2: and she connected us right.
- 10:56Speaker 1: No, she just told that person that they were going
- 10:59Speaker 1: to do it.
- 10:59Speaker 2: I know she did that. She was like, do you
- 11:02Speaker 2: think you could help her out? Which is what she did.
- 11:04Speaker 1: That's interesting. No, that's not how it went down with me.
- 11:07Speaker 2: Yes, it is. Well that's what she said to me,
- 11:09Speaker 2: and I was like, of course he can do it.
- 11:11Speaker 1: So here we go. This is it. So you and
- 11:14Speaker 1: your mad.
- 11:15Speaker 2: I would love that, Okay, so anyways, she says she
- 11:19Speaker 2: when I was picking up the sweatsuits, she was like,
- 11:23Speaker 2: you know, tell me about the bride and groom, And
- 11:25Speaker 2: I was telling her. I was like, yeah, they're really young.
- 11:27Speaker 2: She's like, what doesn't matter. She's like, I married my
- 11:29Speaker 2: high school sweetheart and we've been married forty nine years.
- 11:32Speaker 1: Yeah, my parents were high school sweethearts.
- 11:36Speaker 2: And that's so beautiful. And they got married really young too,
- 11:39Speaker 2: right they did. And your nephew slash also, my nephew
- 11:46Speaker 2: just got married. Same thing here, pretty pretty young, twenty two, right,
- 11:52Speaker 2: I think so?
- 11:52Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 11:53Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think it's like.
- 11:56Speaker 1: Ours would have been weird because I'm older than you.
- 11:59Speaker 1: I would have been by your babysitter. That would be awkward.
- 12:02Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of good we didn't get married when
- 12:04Speaker 2: we were that young. That would have been creepy. Who
- 12:08Speaker 2: would have been strange?
- 12:09Speaker 1: Your live in life phase?
- 12:13Speaker 2: Hey, be glad that I did. I'll never have a
- 12:15Speaker 2: midlife crisis because of that. Not come with people's don't.
- 12:21Speaker 2: I don't think so, I don't. I think we got
- 12:25Speaker 2: all the fun out.
- 12:27Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't have any fun anymore.
- 12:29Speaker 2: Usually it was funny. It's just literally, uh, we have
- 12:33Speaker 2: We have friends that I believe we've talked about on
- 12:35Speaker 2: this podcast that we're very close to and we spend
- 12:37Speaker 2: a lot of time with. We go on vacation with,
- 12:40Speaker 2: and our kids play sports together. And we were actually
- 12:42Speaker 2: at a football game just the other night and they
- 12:48Speaker 2: had kind of a clash of worlds because they have
- 12:51Speaker 2: other friends that are also on the team that we
- 12:55Speaker 2: well on one group of friends we actually know and
- 12:58Speaker 2: like we don't all hang out a lot, but we're
- 13:00Speaker 2: like friends with them now too. And there's like this
- 13:04Speaker 2: new couple coming in and it's so funny because we
- 13:09Speaker 2: feel like our friends have way more fun with them,
- 13:11Speaker 2: like they're way or like, wait a minute, why do
- 13:16Speaker 2: they hang out with us? They definitely seem like they
- 13:18Speaker 2: have more fun.
- 13:18Speaker 1: We've never seen them more happy than when they're hanging
- 13:22Speaker 1: out with someone other than us. It feels so bad
- 13:26Speaker 1: that they hang out with us because definitely we don't
- 13:28Speaker 1: have as much fun. Well just when they hang.
- 13:30Speaker 2: Out with them, And was there I know I know
- 13:32Speaker 2: that it's not because I know the plans that that
- 13:35Speaker 2: they had, but was there a small part of you,
- 13:38Speaker 2: Like we hang out with them a lot on Saturday nights,
- 13:41Speaker 2: like almost like would you say three out of four
- 13:44Speaker 2: Saturday nights a month were with them?
- 13:47Speaker 1: It's just like four out of four.
- 13:48Speaker 2: Okay, Anyway, were you at all thinking that we did
- 13:53Speaker 2: not hang out with them on Saturday night? Did you
- 13:56Speaker 2: at all think that's because Friday night they realized they're
- 14:03Speaker 2: not even that fun? Why are we going to be
- 14:05Speaker 2: hanging out with them on Saturdays? Did that even cross
- 14:09Speaker 2: your mind? Because it did well, it did gross.
- 14:11Speaker 1: Let me go back to I work by myself all
- 14:15Speaker 1: day long and I enjoy it. So more power to
- 14:19Speaker 1: them if they have found other friends in their lives.
- 14:25Speaker 1: I am not offended at all, and I am happy
- 14:29Speaker 1: for them.
- 14:30Speaker 2: It's so mature of you.
- 14:32Speaker 1: That's so mature because you're a little offended.
- 14:36Speaker 2: I'm a little offended. I feel like we're fun, but
- 14:40Speaker 2: then I think about it, and I'm like, when like
- 14:43Speaker 2: usually we do fun like date nights with them, but
- 14:47Speaker 2: like when we hang out as families, it's really just
- 14:50Speaker 2: like dinner and a hang like it's truly we really
- 14:53Speaker 2: just talk all night, which isn't totally necessary quote necessarity
- 14:58Speaker 2: necessarily quote unquote fun.
- 15:01Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you I wish you'd wish we could
- 15:04Speaker 1: have like visual examples because like one time they're like
- 15:13Speaker 1: bent over laughter, hugging fall the ground and just being
- 15:19Speaker 1: so like high energy, high energy on Cloud nine, Cloud nine,
- 15:25Speaker 1: and then with us, it's just it's very chill and
- 15:28Speaker 1: we just talk about life stuff.
- 15:30Speaker 2: Here's what I like to think so that I'm not offended,
- 15:34Speaker 2: is there's a level of comfortability with us where they
- 15:38Speaker 2: don't have to perform. They could just be real, you know,
- 15:42Speaker 2: they could just be themselves.
- 15:44Speaker 1: I think I think you're just trying to make yourself
- 15:47Speaker 1: feel better because I think we're a third third, third place, third.
- 15:53Speaker 2: Option, maybe fourth because they have those other friends.
- 15:56Speaker 1: Could be fourth. Yeah, anyway, we don't have them.
- 15:59Speaker 2: We don't have a lineup of couple friends. Like what's
- 16:02Speaker 2: weird is is like you have a couple of your
- 16:05Speaker 2: friends that like you never actually hang out with, but
- 16:08Speaker 2: like you talk on the phone every once in a while
- 16:09Speaker 2: and like probably the test.
- 16:12Speaker 1: Really longgoing group group. Yeah that's it.
- 16:15Speaker 2: But but you guys are tight friends in your mind.
- 16:19Speaker 2: And I have a group of girlfriends that I'm very
- 16:22Speaker 2: close with that you know, we've had for decades, and
- 16:29Speaker 2: we don't really have like the couple friends. We did
- 16:34Speaker 2: quite a bit hanging out with my brother. I would say,
- 16:37Speaker 2: there are are other couple.
- 16:39Speaker 1: Friends, yeah, but they're like.
- 16:41Speaker 2: But they're family, so it's it's their friends. But it's
- 16:43Speaker 2: different because it's family.
- 16:44Speaker 1: And plus they they've got busy kid schedules. Yeah, we
- 16:48Speaker 1: got busy kids schedules and they don't really mash the
- 16:52Speaker 1: busy kid schedule.
- 16:54Speaker 2: So like, we don't have friends, and that's perfect.
- 16:57Speaker 1: Just keep it that way. Perfect.
- 16:59Speaker 2: That makes me sad. I love friends.
- 17:01Speaker 1: Talk to you in about a month when we have
- 17:03Speaker 1: to do this podcast again.
- 17:04Speaker 2: Okay, my goal is in the next month to get
- 17:08Speaker 2: new we make one other couple friend. If you had
- 17:11Speaker 2: to pick one other couple friend right now, if you
- 17:14Speaker 2: just had to, who would you hang out with? Like
- 17:18Speaker 2: if I said, oh my gosh, we have this thing
- 17:20Speaker 2: to go to. We have two extra tickets, act now
- 17:24Speaker 2: aren't available. James and Aaron aren't available. Who are we taking,
- 17:29Speaker 2: I'll say all my family is not available, right, because
- 17:32Speaker 2: then I would go to I would go to my
- 17:33Speaker 2: sister's next obviously, But if no one in the family
- 17:37Speaker 2: was available and we had we had we can't waste
- 17:39Speaker 2: these tickets. It's to Timber Girl.
- 17:42Speaker 1: Well, I was gonna say, I really like to hang
- 17:45Speaker 1: out with Tiger Woods.
- 17:46Speaker 2: No, like, are realistic? Realistic people? Are Are there any
- 17:51Speaker 2: other people on like our kids' sports teams?
- 17:55Speaker 1: Actually?
- 17:55Speaker 2: You know what you know it's just hitting me right
- 17:57Speaker 2: now is when my older sisters kids, they are now
- 18:01Speaker 2: in their second year of college, but when they left
- 18:03Speaker 2: the house and they were not in sports anymore. She's like,
- 18:05Speaker 2: you don't understand. It's really hard to make friends when
- 18:08Speaker 2: your kids aren't in sports. And I get it because like,
- 18:10Speaker 2: where else are you going to make friends? I know,
- 18:15Speaker 2: pickleball team. We are totally doing a kickball league. We
- 18:19Speaker 2: are totally doing a pickleball league. We're doing all the leagues.
- 18:23Speaker 2: I'd like to do a softball league as well. Are
- 18:25Speaker 2: you in? Okay, well, just so you know, I'm doing
- 18:28Speaker 2: them and I'm going to make us new friends.
- 18:30Speaker 1: Okay, well that's kind of how it went down the
- 18:33Speaker 1: first place too.
- 18:35Speaker 2: What do you mean? Yeah, it is kind of and
- 18:39Speaker 2: I think you will you appreciate it eventually. No, Okay,
- 18:44Speaker 2: we always end up talking about how I like to
- 18:46Speaker 2: make friends and you don't on this podcast.
- 18:48Speaker 1: Just trill just wired very differently than you are, and
- 18:52Speaker 1: that's my thing.
- 18:52Speaker 2: I love each other to chat. We've been through this.
- 18:54Speaker 1: Of the population understands.
- 18:57Speaker 2: You know, we've been through this. We understand, and you
- 19:00Speaker 2: know what brings us together. Ice cream. Let's go have
- 19:05Speaker 2: some ice cream. You're like, that's a great conclusion to
- 19:11Speaker 2: our podcast. Was it a good ten minute or it's
- 19:14Speaker 2: twenty you know what. Thank you so much for hanging
- 19:17Speaker 2: out with us. Remember your assignment. If you'd like to
- 19:20Speaker 2: hear Scott Fisher voice the timber Graw concert, you can
- 19:23Speaker 2: call eight seven seven nine three seven one oh four seven.
- 19:28Speaker 2: Is there a child coming in here?
- 19:29Speaker 1: Really quick? I think so?
- 19:30Speaker 2: Hello?
- 19:32Speaker 1: Oh it's bubbyes Bubby.
- 19:35Speaker 2: Buddy, you say hello.
- 19:37Speaker 1: Say hi.
- 19:38Speaker 2: He also is your spawn and likes to be behind
- 19:40Speaker 2: the scenes. He doesn't like to talk a little. You
- 19:42Speaker 2: don't want to say hi. No, he just absolutely not. Okay,
- 19:46Speaker 2: thank you. This concludes our broadcast day