Latest / The Joe Rogan Recap / Daryl Davis & Jeff Schoep (2025) - Deradicalizing Neo-Nazis
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- 0:00Welcome to the Joe Rogan recap. Today we're digging into
- 0:03something really pretty extraordinary.
- 0:06JRE tatch 2399. Yeah, this one had Darrell
- 0:09Davis, the musician. You know the D radicalization.
- 0:12Expert sitting down with Jeff Shoop.
- 0:14Who was the head of the National Socialist Movement for, what, 25
- 0:17years? No, a really intense pairing.
- 0:19And our mission here really is to unpack how Davis does what he
- 0:23does. How?
- 0:23That dialogue actually works because it's not just talk, is
- 0:27it? No, not at all.
- 0:28I mean the results are kind of staggering.
- 0:30Davis has gotten over 200 people to leave.
- 0:33Groups like the KKK, neo Nazi factions, high level members.
- 0:37200 that number is just, it's hard to wrap your head around.
- 0:40And it all kicked off with that one story, right?
- 0:43Daryl, a black man, meets a Klansman.
- 0:46And the guy is just floored by how nice Davis is.
- 0:49How respectful. And he quits, hands over his
- 0:52robe and hood. That was the moment, the proof
- 0:54of concept. But there's a real strategy
- 0:56behind it. What was Davis actually trying
- 0:58to achieve in these conversations?
- 1:00Well, he makes it clear it wasn't about, like, arguing them
- 1:03out of it or converting them on the spot.
- 1:05Right. It wasn't about winning a
- 1:06debate, no. His goal was simpler, maybe more
- 1:09profound, just to give them perspectives they literally
- 1:12couldn't get inside their bubble.
- 1:14New information, new ways of seeing things.
- 1:16And he operates on this interesting idea that hate.
- 1:20It's just exhausting. It's.
- 1:21Counterintuitive, isn't it? We think of hate as this
- 1:23powerful driving force. We do.
- 1:27But Davis sees the flip side. Think about the energy it takes,
- 1:31the constant vigilance, maintaining the anger, the
- 1:34suspicion, policing your own thoughts, dehumanizing people
- 1:37day in, day out. It wears you down.
- 1:40South, introducing just basic human connection becomes like a
- 1:44crack in that exhausting facade. Exactly.
- 1:46It creates this friction, this dissonance that the person
- 1:49eventually just wants to resolve because it's tiring.
- 1:51Which it kind of leads into this buddy effect he talked about.
- 1:54Yeah. How does that work?
- 1:55Because that seems really clever.
- 1:56It is So say 1 extremist refuses to talk to Davis.
- 2:00Fine, Yeah, that maybe their friend, someone they trust from
- 2:02the group, does talk to him. OK, then that friend leaves the
- 2:06movement and crucially, the first guy sees his friend's life
- 2:10improve. Ah.
- 2:11So it's not just leaving, it's seeing the positive outcome
- 2:14afterwards. Right.
- 2:15They get better jobs, Their family life gets better, less
- 2:18stress. The skeptical buddy sees
- 2:20tangible proof that leaving isn't failure, it's actually
- 2:25better. That real world evidence must be
- 2:27incredibly powerful, more than any argument Davis could make.
- 2:31Way more powerful at plants, that seed of doubt.
- 2:34Maybe this isn't the only way. Maybe life outside is OK.
- 2:37And underpinning all of this, he has these 5 core human values.
- 2:41He figured these out after traveling everywhere basically.
- 2:45Yeah, 64 countries. He boiled it down to these five
- 2:48things he says everyone wants. Doesn't matter who you are or
- 2:51where you're from, OK? What are they?
- 2:53To be loved, to be respected, to be heard, to be treated
- 2:57apparently and truthfully, and #5 to want those same things for
- 3:01your family. Love, respect, being heard,
- 3:05fairness, family. Pretty fundamental.
- 3:07Super fundamental and he says if you approach any conflict even
- 3:10with someone who professes to hate you, with those values in
- 3:13mind. It changes the dynamic, smooths
- 3:15things over. Instantly makes it less hostile,
- 3:17more possible to connect. OK, let's get into the actual
- 3:21technique, the relational dialogue strategy.
- 3:24He talked about staying calm when the other person escalates,
- 3:27like when Shu pounded the table. Yeah, how does he do?
- 3:30That, well, it's not just about willpower, it's a deliberate
- 3:33tactic, right? He knows if they escalate
- 3:36yelling, slurs, fists and he gives no reaction, he's
- 3:41perfectly calm physically, emotionally it.
- 3:44Messes with their expectations. Totally.
- 3:46They're geared up for a fight, for confirmation that he's the
- 3:49enemy they believe him to be when they don't get that fight.
- 3:51They get frustrated, confused. Exactly.
- 3:54That frustration weirdly makes their defenses drop.
- 3:58Their wall comes down, as Davis puts it.
- 4:00And in that moment of confusion, curiosity creeps in.
- 4:03Because he's respecting their right to speak, even if he hates
- 4:06the words. That's the key distinction,
- 4:08respecting the right to speak, not the content.
- 4:11It disarms them. It makes them actually start to
- 4:13listen to his perspective, maybe for the first time.
- 4:15It's. Like emotional judo, using their
- 4:17energy against them. Yeah, that's a good way to put
- 4:19it. OK, so to really grasp why this
- 4:21works, we need to understand the other side, Jeff Shope's side,
- 4:26how deep this stuff runs. Commander for 25 years.
- 4:31How does someone even get started down that path?
- 4:33Yeah, his story is interesting because it wasn't like family
- 4:36tradition exactly. He wasn't raised to hate.
- 4:38No, no, He said it started really young, like 4th grade.
- 4:42He looked up to his grandfather, his great uncles who had fought
- 4:45in Hitler's army. So there was a sort of
- 4:48fascination, maybe an admiration, but he sought out
- 4:51the movement himself as a teenager.
- 4:53And how he found them is just old school pre Internet.
- 4:57Right, He found a sociology book in the library.
- 4:59In the back, there were addresses for Nazi
- 5:01organizations. Seriously.
- 5:03Addresses. Yep, and he wrote physical
- 5:05letters eventually connected with the group that became the
- 5:07NSM. Wow.
- 5:09Yeah, that takes a certain kind of determination.
- 5:12It does, and there's this contradiction too.
- 5:13He described himself back then as a long haired rock'n'roll
- 5:17singer. A rock singer?
- 5:18Neo Nazi? Yeah.
- 5:19It feels like Yeah. Jumbo shrimp, like they said.
- 5:21Yeah. More intuitive.
- 5:22It shows that these movements aren't always monolithic, right?
- 5:25They attract people looking for something, identity, belonging,
- 5:28even if they don't fit the stereotype initially.
- 5:30So he finds this group, gets involved, yeah.
- 5:33And then it becomes everything. Total immersion.
- 5:35The echo chamber effect. His entire world revolves around
- 5:39the ideology. And then comes that doxing
- 5:41incident. He was only 19.
- 5:42Yeah, 19 on a radio show they revealed his real name, his
- 5:47parents info. And his mother was running for
- 5:49judge. An attorney running for judge in
- 5:51Minnesota, The governor denied her the position specifically
- 5:55because of Jeff's leadership in the NSM.
- 5:58OK, you'd think that would be the wake up call, seeing the
- 6:01direct devastating impact on his own family.
- 6:03Logically, yes, but what did he do?
- 6:06He doubled down. Completely shaved his head, quit
- 6:09the band, went all in. Why?
- 6:11How does that happen psychologically?
- 6:12It's a defense mechanism, right? Instead of internalizing it as
- 6:15my actions hurt my mom, he flipped it.
- 6:19He saw it as proof the system was out to get them.
- 6:21Exactly, the system is persecuting my family because of
- 6:24my beliefs. It validated the whole narrative
- 6:27the NSM was pushing, made him dig in even deeper, confirmed
- 6:31his worldview. So OK, 27 years total in the
- 6:34movement, 25 as leader, deeply entrenched.
- 6:38How does someone like that even begin to get out?
- 6:41Well, he said his process was kind of backwards.
- 6:44He started de radicalizing while he was still, you know,
- 6:47technically involved. While still the leader.
- 6:49Yeah, bits and pieces starting to unravel internally.
- 6:52The first really big moment was meeting Darrell Davis.
- 6:55For that documentary, Accidental Courtesy in 2016.
- 6:59Right. And Shoop just found himself
- 7:02getting along with Davis too well.
- 7:03Getting along too well with the enemy, that creates a problem
- 7:06for the ideology. A huge cognitive dissonance
- 7:09problem. But the real shift, the sort of
- 7:11emotional turning point, came from someone else.
- 7:14Dia Khan, the filmmaker. She's Muslim.
- 7:16Yes, and she didn't debate him on politics or history.
- 7:19She told him how his ideology, his group's rhetoric, made her
- 7:22feel as a child. How did she?
- 7:24Put it. Less than ugly.
- 7:26And that hit him hard, he said. That's when he realized when you
- 7:29dehumanize someone else, you lose your own humanity in the
- 7:34process. Seeing the real human cost.
- 7:38Not abstract enemies, but a person's childhood pain.
- 7:41That's often what does it the emotional impact, not just
- 7:44intellectual arguments. So after that he tried to reform
- 7:48the NSM, change the symbols that kind of.
- 7:50Thing. Yeah, he called it.
- 7:51Putting lipstick on a pig. Tried swapping the swastika for
- 7:54an older rune, trying to make it seem less overtly Nazi.
- 7:59But realized it was pointless. Pretty much.
- 8:00He finally officially left in March 2019.
- 8:04OK, so he's out, but leaving. That's not the end of the story,
- 8:08is it? It sounds incredibly difficult.
- 8:10Oh, it's immensely challenging. And this is where a lot of
- 8:12people falter or even relapse. Think about it.
- 8:15What are the biggest hurdles? First, the public admission.
- 8:17He had to basically say I was wrong to thousands of people he
- 8:20personally recruited. That takes a lot.
- 8:23Huge amount of humility and probably facing incredible
- 8:26backlash from the movement. Absolutely 22nd, the practical
- 8:29stuff. His entire income came from the
- 8:31movement A record label merchandise.
- 8:35So he left with nothing. Financially wiped out and then
- 8:39third. Imagine writing a resume.
- 8:42Previous experience Neo Nazi commander 25 years.
- 8:45Yeah, how do you ever get a job? The stigma is enormous.
- 8:48Permanent. Almost.
- 8:49Exactly. And this is where Darrell
- 8:51Davis's point about support becomes so vital for society,
- 8:55not just for the individual. You can't just expect people to
- 8:58walk away from their entire life structure, social, financial,
- 9:02ideological with no safety net. No, they need help finding those
- 9:065 core things again. A new community you know, for
- 9:08love and respect. Therapy maybe, to be heard.
- 9:11Practical help too, right? Job connections, maybe financial
- 9:14advice, housing, all of it. Fair treatment, help providing
- 9:18for their family. Without that support structure,
- 9:20the pole to go back to the only group that might still accept
- 9:23them. Well, it's strong.
- 9:24It's easy to see how relapse could happen.
- 9:26Very easy. But Shoop, he seems to have made
- 9:29a truly remarkable turn from raging anti semite.
- 9:33Who'd had zero contact with Jewish people before?
- 9:36Now working with the Simon Wiesenthal Center.
- 9:38A leading Jewish human rights organization.
- 9:41It's a complete 180. And he mentioned something
- 9:43really poignant about that. Yeah, he said the Jewish
- 9:46community, the very people he spent decades demonizing, have
- 9:49actually been the most welcoming to him since he left.
- 9:52That says a lot about them, and maybe about the potential for
- 9:56change. It really does.
- 9:57It points towards something like restorative justice, maybe the
- 10:01capacity for forgiveness even from victims.
- 10:04Before we wrap this up, there was one more piece Davis brought
- 10:06up kind of chilling. Look at what's fueling extremism
- 10:10now, this fear about the year 2042.
- 10:14Right, 2042 or maybe closer to 20452050 that window.
- 10:19That's when the US Census predicts.
- 10:21Predicts that the white population will become a
- 10:23statistical minority in the US, the so-called Browning of
- 10:27America. And that fear is being
- 10:28weaponized. Massively.
- 10:30It's a huge recruitment tool for white supremacist groups.
- 10:32It directly feeds the white replacement theory.
- 10:35They will not replace us. Chance we saw exactly.
- 10:38That comes directly from this demographic anxiety.
- 10:40And it's not just about recruitment, is it?
- 10:43This fear motivates violence. Definitely.
- 10:46It leads to people stockpiling weapons, preparing for what they
- 10:50call Rehoa racial holy war. Or the boogaloo?
- 10:53Is that the current term? Yeah, that's the slang for the
- 10:56civil conflict or societal collapse they anticipate or even
- 10:59hope for. The narrative becomes If
- 11:02demographic change happens, violence is the only answer.
- 11:05Which connects directly to these lone wolf attacks acts,
- 11:08individuals acting on that belief.
- 11:10Precisely, they see themselves as soldiers in that war,
- 11:13fighting for survival against this perceived replacement.
- 11:16So pulling all this together, it's heavy stuff, but what's the
- 11:20main take away? Is there hope in this?
- 11:22I think there is. The biggest thing is what's
- 11:24learned can be unlearned. Hate isn't like in.
- 11:27It's not like a leopard spots. It's acquired.
- 11:30Ann Davis's work, Shoop's transformation.
- 11:34They prove it's possible to change even from the absolute
- 11:37extremes. Yeah, even high profile leaders
- 11:39can fundamentally shift, which tells us something important
- 11:42about how to deal with these ideas, which is confrontation,
- 11:45not suppression. Trying to silence bad ideas
- 11:49often just backfires. Makes them seem forbidden.
- 11:52Validates the persecution complex.
- 11:54So, better ideas, better arguments.
- 11:56Better, smarter, more articulate ideas, but delivered through
- 12:00that respectful relational dialogue.
- 12:02Davis Models meeting hate with humanity, basically.
- 12:06And Davis had that great point. Not everyone has to do what he
- 12:09does. Not everyone needs to be face to
- 12:11face with a Klansman. Right.
- 12:13He talks about different lines of effort.
- 12:14You can be on the frontline like him or the backline doing
- 12:18research, providing intelligence.
- 12:20The sideline offering support, mentoring those who leave or
- 12:23online countering the hate messages, promoting positive
- 12:26stuff. All equally important, he says.
- 12:29All part of the same goal. Which?
- 12:30He calls just being pro human. Simple as that.
- 12:33Pro human, it gives everyone a role to play.
- 12:35That idea being pro human, it leaves us with a final pretty
- 12:39challenging thought, doesn't it? Thinking about Shoop again, the
- 12:42guilt he carries, the impact on his mother.
- 12:44Yeah, the. Consequences are real and
- 12:46lasting. So if we as a society genuinely
- 12:50want people to leave extremism behind, to reintegrate safely,
- 12:54and if even their former targets, like the Jewish
- 12:56community in Shoop's case, can show acceptance, what does that
- 13:00demand from the rest of us? It really forces you to ask, how
- 13:03do we handle forgiveness? How do we deal with that
- 13:05permanent stigma, the very real damage someone caused, while
- 13:08still allowing for the possibility of change and
- 13:10reintegration? A.
- 13:12Tough question. Definitely something to think
- 13:14about long after this deep dive ends.