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Let It Be: Knowing When to Surrender · Spunky Spirit with Cari Mugz

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Welcome to the Spunky Spirit Podcast. I'm your host, psychic medium Carrie Mugs.
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Hello, Welcome to the Spunky Spirit Podcast. Oh I love you guys.
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This just as sometimes the things we talk about are hard, and sometimes
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the things we talk about are funny, and sometimes it's just life changing stuff.
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So the concept we're going to talk to you, that I'm going to
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talk to you about today is something that Spirit's been talking to me about lately
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a lot, and not just for me, but for just the collective and
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just for this month and just for the way things are going. It's Spirit
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just keeps telling me and telling me, you know, this is this is
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this is the message I need to put out for right now. And I
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don't know how that is affecting everybody because it's a hard message. It's one
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of the hardest things It can give. It can trigger, it can trigger
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you know, it can trigger anxiety because so many of us, so many
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people like to have control. They like to control all of the things,
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and even in our spiritual even in our spiritual growth, we like to have
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control. We want it to be easy, we want it to be all
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rainbows and roses, and spiritual growth is not easy. And one of the
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biggest concepts of spiritual growth and in almost anything in life and in manifesting,
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and you know, even me, when I first started readings is I wanted
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so badly to control how the reading went. I wanted to control the information
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that came through. I wanted to control it. And as soon as I
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learned to surrender it to spirit and make it not about me, and make
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it about the sitter and make it about the spirits that want to come through,
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then it was, It just flowed. It just was easy. And
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I think sometimes that's just how life is in general too. We want to
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control it. We want to control the outcome, we want to control all
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the things. And that's kind of what we've been taught, right, We've
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been taught make a goal set, a goal set what you want, Visualize
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what you want, even with manifestation, visualize what you want, Visualize the
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things and then put it out in the universe and then work for it.
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And so this concept of surrendering it is super hard because we think when we
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surrender, we just let it go. We we just let it go and
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we let the universe take care of it. And that is true up to
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a point. We don't surrender our free choice, we don't surrender our beliefs,
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we don't surrender our integrity. We just know that there's a time and
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the place and we've done all the work we can and it's time to let
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the rest go. It's time to let the universe take the rest we can't.
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I always, always, always give this key scenario, but I'm gonna
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go more in depth today. It's about losing your keys. So and I'm
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kind of jumping ahead of myself too, because because when we think of surrendering,
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some people get anxiety. Some people get get it's a trigger for them
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because they have to have some sort of control, which is completely fine,
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because it's fine and that it's normal. It's normal that you get nervous or
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it is. It is something that can cause some anxiety. And that's what
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we're trying to learn to is to let it, let it let it go.
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And I'm going to try and give you tips on how to do that,
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and just know if you can't let it go or you struggle letting go,
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especially intrusive thoughts. Oh my gosh, there's so much stuff with mental
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health too. That is a fine line here that it's kind of hard for
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me to cross that line because I've had intrusive thoughts that you cannot let go
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of. I've had things happen to me that I have dwelled on for two
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or three days. And I had, you know, a reading a couple
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of weeks ago that I dwelled on it for a week before I finally just
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had to let it go. It was done, it was over. There's
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nothing I could do to change it. I had to give it to God
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or I had to give it to the universe. And so I get it.
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I feel like I'm preaching to the choir. So this is just to
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kind of help you, guys, because during your readings all the time,
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people, the number two, you know, the two biggest questions I get
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is what is my purpose? I feel like I'm stuck, which is kind
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of contingent to this, right because and the second one is is how do
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I just let it go? How do I move forward? And and especially
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with death, you can't just let it go. That's not that's not what
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I'm talking about here. But you can't change it right. It happened,
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and so you have to somehow let it be or let and figure out how
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to live your life with it in place. I was the song by Paul
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McCartney, Let it Be the way he wrote it. The reason why he
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wrote it is because he um he had had a dream in the sixties where
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his mom, who was who died of cancer when he was younger. She
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came through. He was worried about some stuff. I think it was I
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think let of Bee was one of the last songs the Beatles wrote together.
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I think there was some stuff going on in the group. I'm not completely
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positive, but that's what I I think I read somewhere and she came and
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his mother's name was Mary. So a lot of people think that that when
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he says mother, Mary comforts me that it's it's the mother Mary, but
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it's it was his own mother, and she came to him in a dream.
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She says it's gonna be okay, just let it be. And some
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people sometimes I even like to add just let it be easy. Let it
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be easy, because sometimes we push and hustle. Some people love the hustle.
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Some people do and we watch the hustle on social media and we watch
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people say you gotta do this, and you gotta do this, and you
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gotta do this, and I get that that works for some people, and
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sometimes I like the hustle too, But sometimes I also like to just let
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it be because sometimes when I'm work in the hustle, and I get so
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caught up in the hustle that it turns negative for me. And when I
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think about the bit the work, or I think about the readings, or
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I think about this was in the past, I'm not like this anymore.
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I would get so tight and anxiety and stressed that I just had to let
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it go. I had to let it be. I had to just know
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if the reading wasn't perfect, and if somebody wanted to to say something about
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it, or if somebody wanted to say something about me being a medium,
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I just had to let it go. I had to let it go and
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not care about it, because you know what it was, I was stopping
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myself. I was stopping myself and so, and we can do this in
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every aspect of our life, especially when you're trying to build a business and
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all of the status quo and all the collective is like hustle, hustle,
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hustle. And there is nothing wrong with the hustle if that's what you love,
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and that's which brings you power and that's what brings you the enjoyment.
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But if you get to the point where you can't stand the hustle and you
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hate the hustle and you don't look forward to the hustle and it's not fun
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anymore, then you got to step back and you've got to revaluate how it's
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going to happen. And that's happened to me many times when I've hustled,
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hustle, hustled, and I finally, if this isn't fun for me anymore,
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and I step back and just it so happens that it worked out anyways,
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even without the hustle. But because I did try the hustle and I
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showed that initiative, it still came through. And so that's kind of what
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we're going to talk about. This key analogy with the lost keys. Right,
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you get this brand new car and you want to take it for a
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drive, and you lose the keys and you can't find them, and in
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a world of everything beautiful, you would be like, okay, Spirit,
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help me find my keys, and you would sit down on the couch and
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the keys would PLoP in your lap. But that is not how life happens.
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So let's say your purpose in life is to drive that car and find
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the keys to drive it. The purpose in life so is to drive that
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car, but you can't drive the car until you until you find the keys,
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which is the journey. Okay, So your purpose is to drive the
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car the keys. Finding the keys is the journey, and you don't want
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to You don't want to do the journey. You just want to drive the
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car. You don't want to enjoy the journey. You just want to drive
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the freaking car. So you ask Spirit, help me find the keys so
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I can drive my car. And if you just sit on the couch,
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Spirit is knocking to just drop the keys in your lap. Now, sometimes,
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in some rare occasions, you will stick your hand underneath the cushion and
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the keys will be there. That happens very rarely, but it can happen.
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It just depends on where you're at and how much you need to enjoy
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the journey. Most of the time you say, spirit, help me find
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the keys, and you've got to actively look, and you've got to act
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actively decide I'm gonna I'm gonna find these keys. I'm gonna help find these
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keys. And you look everywhere you look. You ask the kids, have
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you seen the keys? You look in the bathroom, you look in the
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drawer, you look everywhere you think you've been, you look in the fridge,
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you look everywhere, and you can't find the keys. And suddenly it's
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getting to the point that every time you look at the car, you just
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get so frustrated and angry. And the car isn't supposed to do that.
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The car is supposed to bring you joy. So you keep actively looking and
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actively looking, and finally it gets to be to where you start to get
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angry and you start to get mad, and you're just like, I don't
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even want to drive the car now, I don't even want to do it.
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This is too much work, this is too hard. So you sit
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down and you take a break, and you stop looking for the keys for
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a minute. You start to enjoy the kids. You start to enjoy the
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do whatever you're doing around the house. You start to enjoy hanging out in
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the backyard, You start to enjoy whatever it is. But you're not so
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focused on the keys. You're just all you think is, you know what,
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I'll eventually find him or I'll have to order new ones. But I'll
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eventually get to drive the car. And you visualize I'll get to drive the
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car. I know I'm going to I used don't know how. And then
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all of a sudden, the dog comes from the backyard into the house and
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he drops the keys in front of you on the floor. Here's the thing.
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The dog could have brought it through later while you were sitting on the
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couch, but the universe knew you were actively looking for the keys, actively
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looking. Or another scenario is you go in and you look on the end
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table where you looked a million times, and they just happen to be there
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this time, this time that you looked. So when that the magic happened
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is when you let it go. When it's really hard because some people are
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like, don't get attached to the outcome, and it's hard because you're also
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taught you visualize the outcome. You visualize you doing it, but don't get
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attached to how it's going to happen, because what usually happens is you look
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at a goal and then you kind of look at it backwards saying, Okay,
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how am I going to complete that goal? I got to do this,
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this, this, and this and this. So you're controlling how it's
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going to happen, which is completely fine. You can still do that work.
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But sometimes that work, that procedure, or those steps that you created,
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sometimes they get a fast or they get a slow. Now, who
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knows why you didn't find the keys until the dog brought him in. It
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could be that if you would have taken the car at that precise moment,
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you would have gotten a car accident. Or if you don't ever know,
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all you know is you have to remember that you're at the right time and
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the right place for a reason. You're in this moment for a reason.
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So so it's just the reason why this is so hard is because you hear
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both sites right, Like, you can't just say this is going to happen
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and then just and that's part of the secret. You can The secret says
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you can just say, oh, this is going to happen and you sit
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down any way for it to happen. I guarantee you somewhere in there,
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there's steps that you've taken, visualization, goal setting that you've taken to reach
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that point. It's not just going to happen. Very rarely does it.
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But there are some times that you set ways, you set up the how,
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and the how just doesn't work. And then that's when you've got to
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let it go and surrender. There's just sometimes that life hits you and things
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happen that you can't sit and dwell on it because that's not going to get
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you anywhere. Even with death, you do, you do get permission to
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grief. Everybody grieves in a certain way. But I also want you to
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ask yourself, would your loved one want you to continue living in hell?
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In the hell that you create? So you've got to decide how you're going
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to react. You've got to decide. And sometimes when things are out of
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your control and you've done everything you can to control it and there's nothing you
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can't do, you need to step back and you need to let it go,
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and you need to surrender, and you need to let spirit help you
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because they're there and they will guide you, and they will help you,
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and they're going to help you along the way once you make the decision.
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They can't help you if you're fenciting, right Like, if you're fencitting and
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you don't make a decision and you're just kind of fence itting and saying I
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can't decide what to do, they can't help you with that because they don't
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they don't know what you want to do. But once you decide to make
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once you decide and you say, okay, I'm gonna do this instead,
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I'm gonna do this, they one will go and help you. Because here's
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the thing. Your purpose will never change. You have multiple purposes. If
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you've heard me talk about Walmart, and you send down your prescriptions to Walmart
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and you get your purposes, your subscriptions or your purposes, there's different ways
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to your purpose and your spirit guides are trying to help you find the path
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of least resistance. But sometimes on your path you may fall. But on
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that fall, you might find a beautiful, beautiful crystal that helps you on
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your path even more. And even though you feel like the fall wasn't worth
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it, or you feel like, well, why would they lead me on
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this fall. You've got to remember the fall was there because it helped you
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in some way. So there's different paths to to your to your destination.
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The goal is your guides are trying to help you find the path that is
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for your highest good, because at the end of the day, it's all
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for your highest good, and it's all for everybody's highest good. We just
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don't see that. We see the hurt and the anguish and the pain and
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the hustle, and we get tired. And that's okay. If you're tired,
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take a freaking break. We're not taught that. We're taught sta da
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da, da da all the stuff, and you know what, take a
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freaking break. Just take a break and let and surrender and let your guides
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do some of the work for you. It's totally fine. And so I'm
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going to give you some some some steps to help with the surrendering because it
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can be hard, okay. So number one is this is it let it
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go. You've got to, you know what, give yourself a time limit.
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If you're having intrusive thoughts and or if you're dwelling on something that happened,
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you know, and you can't let it go. You can't then give
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yourself a time limit. Say Okay, I get two days to cry about
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this, or I get three days to do whatever I want or to dwell
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on it, or to think the process through, or to think whatever I
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want to. And at that I got to promise myself that I gotta let
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it go. I've got to try and let it go. And so what
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I do too. When I was going through this certainty a couple of weeks
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ago, every time I would think about it, I'd be like, I
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would tap the top of my chest and I would I would be I would
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shut my eyes, I would take a deep breath, and I would say,
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let it go, let it go. There is nothing I can do
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about it now. It is out of my hands. Spirit will take care
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of it. Spirit will Spirit will protect it, Spirit will guide it,
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Spirit will protect care of it. I've done all I can. I did
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the best I could. Now I got a freaking let it go. And
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so tapping as you can cross your hands over your body like an X over
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your chest, and you can tap your left right, left, right,
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left right, or sometimes you can just go the center of your chest and
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just tap. This helps me to chill or to calm, and so I
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just close my eyes, take a deep breath, and just say let it
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go, let it go. Spirits got this, and I have to keep
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reminding myself of that, and so that's pretty hard, but it helps to
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just know that it's it's guided or spirit's got it, and it's it'll end
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up in your highest good, even if it's not the best scenario that you
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could ever and you can't control it anymore. How it ends up, it's
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out of your hands. You can't control it, and so let it go.
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That's the and those are the steps, the strongest steps I could tell
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you to let it go. Meditation works, but sometimes, honestly, if
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they're intrusive thoughts, they're just going to come to you in meditation unless you
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do a guided meditation keeping busy. Sometimes if you just sit and do nothing
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and dwell on it, that's harder. If you actually go out and do
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something like that doesn't put you in a medita state where you can't think,
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like go swimming or take the kids out where you have to be preoccupied,
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that helps too, things like that. The next one is ignore the noise
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or ignore them. Now, honestly, at the end of the day,
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what I was worried about in scenario one was about other people would think in
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scenario two, and so I had to let that go. It doesn't matter
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what people think. It doesn't and I tell myself that all the time.
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And you gotta tell yourself it doesn't matter who cares. Who cares. You
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could have done the worst thing you possibly could, and you could have,
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like committed the biggest sin. At the end of the day, you can
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go to jail. That's fine. But it doesn't matter what people think,
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because more than likely they're not really thinking about you. They're not. They
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may be talking to check about you for five seconds. Like you, guys,
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remember the Idaho killings. Yeah, they were big for a while and
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now they're like or the Valoe case, all of that. It was big
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for a while and now people still think about it once in a while.
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And people do think that those people, the people who commit to those murders
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are are not mentally well. But you know what, it doesn't affect them
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their day to day and it doesn't affect the people that are in prison.
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It doesn't affect them really either. They're still just living their lives. We're
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still just doing the thing. So ignore the noise, Ignore the outside noise,
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Ignore people telling you what to do. If it's starting to get to
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the point where you're like, you know, like, let's just say,
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I want to build a business and I want to create an email list,
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and all of a sudden, you've got all this stuff all overcoming. This
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is how you do it. This is how you do it. Take my
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course, do this, do that. At the end of the day,
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it's okay to take the course and take the golden nuggets from it that do
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it your way, do it your way. And hopefully the course would teach
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you different ways to do it, but most of them don't. Most of
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them will teach you the one way to do it. And I know that
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out there there's so many different ways for everybody that you've got to teach the
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different ways to do it. So ignore the ignore the noise. And the
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next one is give it some time. It gives give it time, and
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give yourself some grace. Do not expect yourself to be perfect. I tell
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people this all the time. Give yourself some grace. Oh my heck,
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if you think we are all perfect. And that goes to number, that
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goes to number. The next one is don't compare. Give yourself some grace
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here and give it time. Time. You know, the more time that's
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under your belt, the less effect it will have on you, or the
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less pain it will feel, the less Just give it some time. And
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that's what happened. It took me four or five days to finally process what
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happened and get it through and surrender it. But it took some time.
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And that's okay too. If you need that time, take it, but
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just try not to take up too much because really, at the end of
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the day, I look back and it was a waste of time, total
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waste of time, because what I did during that time when I was dwelling
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on it and thinking about it, is I created scenarios in my mind that
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never even happened. I created, Oh, I'm going to do this and
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this and this if this happens, or this and this and this, if
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they say this, or if they want to do this, or if they
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and it didn't even happen. It didn't. I created stuff that I so
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I just worried about it more than I should have. So give yourself some
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time, but at the same time, remind yourself that the more the more
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time you give it is kind of a wasted it's wasted time. And then
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we go to don't compare, which is give yourself some grace. Nobody's perfect,
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and everybody's heard the whole scenario of comparing. He's the thief of joy.
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And you know, this is really hard for me. When I first
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started being doing a medium ship, I got called out. I got a
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reading by by a medium who said, you're jealous of other mediums. I'm
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like, I'm not jealous. I'm not jealous. I just I just wish
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I was as good as them. And I guess that's what jealsey is.
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That's exactly what jealousy is. So I guess I was jealous, but I
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didn't feel like I was jealous in a negative way. But she totally called
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me out, totally made me rethink. And then now when I see mediums,
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I'm like, oh my gosh, that is the coolest thing that she
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came up with. I want to be that good. I am gonna work
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to be that good. I'm gonna put my hours in my hours of mediumship
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to be that good. So don't compare yourself to others. And another thing
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to a stay calm. A lot of times when things took our way or
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we feel like we have to have control and we lose control, we get
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anxious, we get super anxious because we're losing control. And I'm telling you
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what control You know what anger is. Anger is when you don't have control.
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Anger is when you don't have control of somebody else. When you couldn't
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control somebody else, you're angry at them. You couldn't control that somebody else
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didn't want to be with you, You couldn't control that somebody else was mean
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to your son. You couldn't control something, and so now you're angry.
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Anger is you not being able to control what somebody else, somebody else's actions.
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So every time you're angry, I want you to stop and think,
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who am I not? Who am I mad? That I can't control?
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That's that's what it is. You can't control somebody. A lot of times
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it's four year old kids that then that's okay. Sometimes it's your kids,
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Sometimes it's your spouse, Sometimes it's a client, sometimes it's a co worker,
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sometimes it's somebody somebody did something and all at the end of the day,
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at the bottom line is is you couldn't control it. You couldn't control
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what they said. You couldn't control what they did, You can't control their
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actions, and so you got mad. So that's all angry is, so
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you so let it. Try and stay calm, try and not get that
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emotion. I tell my clients all the time on Earth, the frequency our
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emotions are at a dial ten. We return that volume up, so loud
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on our emotions, and we try and and control them. On the other
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side, the volumes a little bit down. They still have emotions, but
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not clear at a ten. And that's part of why we're here, is
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to learn how to control that volume button of our emotions. So try and
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stay calm. Picture that emotion, that emotion and volume, and try and
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turn it down. Visualize you turning it down. Try not to be so
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attached to the outcome, to the outcome, and just try different scenarios.
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I used to do to all the time. I used to be what's the
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worst thing that could happen in this scenario, what's the worst thing that could
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happen? And I would say, Okay, this is what could happen,
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And you know what, I would see if I could deal with it or
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not? How could I do with it? We go on trips all the
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time, me and my husband on road trips, and he rarely talks to
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me on the road, and I used to get offended. I'm like,
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why doesn't he Finally I realize that while he's driving down the road, he
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he comes up with different scenarios that might happen, if the flat tire happens,
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if something runs in front of him, anything that can happen. Instead
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of just like enjoying the journey, he just does this thing where he's like,
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if this happens, I'll do this, If this happens, I'll do
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this, if we get a flat tire here, if we pass this.
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His mind is constantly thinking, and you know what, that's how his mind
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works, and that's okay. But at the same time, he's not enjoying
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the journey, So we work on that constantly too. We work on how
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he can stay in the now and try and enjoy the journey instead of worrying
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about what could happen on this road trip. It's just how he thinks.
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And same with any anywhere we travel. If it's not our first time going,
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if it's if it's if it's our first time going, he does this
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the whole time. Because he's not surrounded by an environment that he knows,
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and so he wants to be prepared for anything that happens instead of just being
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in the moment. And some people are wired like that, and that's okay.
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I do the same thing, just in different scenarios, not in traveling.
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So I used to do it in readings. I'd be like, what
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if it doesn't go this way? What if it doesn't go this way?
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But once I'm in the power, it's completely gone. I don't even know
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why. Like I would sit and worry about it, but then once I
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would sit in the reading and be ready and spirit took over, it would
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be gone. But then as soon as the reading was done, it's stressed
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about the next one. I don't anymore, but that's how it used to
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be. So the next one, number six after stay Coom is own your
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freaking life. Choose choose to be happy. You know that emotional dial.
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You get to choose where the volume's out on that. You get to choose
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where that is. No one, no outside source put you where you are
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today. You did that by your choices. I mean, granted, there
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are things that happen to you, and there are things that weren't great,
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and you get to process that, and that's fine, but you also get
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to choose. I'm not shaming any I'm not shaming anybody for being in victim
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mode. I'm not sure you know what. Honestly, I'm just telling you
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how I feel. And if you don't, if you don't like, you
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don't have to listen. It's just I just know. You get to decide.
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You get to decide your next step. You get to unless you're unless
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you're letting other people control you. You get to decide. So own your
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life. Choose you're happy or you make that choice. If you want to
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be sad, be sad. If you want to be a victim, be
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a victim. But just at the end of the day, no, you're
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choosing that. You choose that. And again this is the very last one.
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Don't be attached to the outcome. Sometimes things don't happen the way we
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plan. Sometimes things don't happen exactly like we wanted them too, and we
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have to we have to bend or we have to adapt to the way it
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did turn out. And we that's when we have to adapt and redirect ourselves
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and we find a different course of direction. And yes, we get to
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wallow in it for a minute and we get to be sad because that's what
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we choose. And then we have to change the cells and we have to
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move in a different direction. And that doesn't mean you can do it happy,
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easy, peasy, limit squeezy. It means it's hard, and it
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means it's it's it might it's gonna be hard, and you can't control it,
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and there's gonna be storms and there's gonna be waves, and there's going
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to be all the things that come, and you get to just do your
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best and at the end of day, that's all it is. And sometimes
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when you're selling that boat, sometimes you do all the things you can.
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You do all the things you can, you do all the things you're supposed
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to, and then there's a time where maybe the storm gets so bad you
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just have to surrender. And that's where we get sometimes in life, sometimes
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on our way to goals, sometimes on our way to achievements, sometimes on
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our way just done the journey alone. We set our cells and we and
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of course we have a destination, right, but sometimes we get pulled off
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track. And as long as we do our best to pull back on track,
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then that's all we can do. And there's going to be a time
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when we just have to surrender and we just have to let it go and
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let it be and just let it be easy. Don't don't try so hard
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that you're killing yourself that it's not fun anymore. Just let it be easy.
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And that's not always doable. There's always you know, this is a
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great scenario and a great like But what I don't want you to is to
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get so far off course and so hard that you lose you lose the fund
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in the journey, because there's just sometimes when you start to lose the fund
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in the journey, that's the time when you need to just let it go
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and you need to surrender it to spirit and let them take care of it.
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So you, guys, I hope that helps. And honestly, it's
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hard and I know and sometimes these but I'm here to talk about hard things
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and I'm not going to sugarcoat it. And if you don't agree, you
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don't have to listen. You like you don't. I'm sure there's people out
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there that are like, well, you don't know what I've been through.
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I know, and you don't know what I've been through either. So you
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there's just we don't know, and there's some hard ass things out there,
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hard ass things, and we can't always control it. And so as long
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as you do your best, and you can stand in front of your maker
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and your creator and say I just did the best I could, that's all
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they that's all they care about. That's all that matters is that you just
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did the best you could. I just want you to picture your child going
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through the most difficult, most difficult scenario that they can and you so badly
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want to help them, and sometimes you do. Sometimes you get that chance
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to go help them and you and sometimes you can't because you know they've got
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to learn that lesson on their own. That's that. And then at the
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end of the day they come to you and say, mom, I just
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did the best I could. Then nothing else matters, right, nothing else
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matters, because I still love my child more than anything. Oh my gosh,
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I cannot believe I got emotional about this, because any time we talk
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about my kids, I dud my kids. Man, they own me.
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That's where I own. That's where I am owned is my kids. I
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will do anything above and beyond for them. So that's where I lose some
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of my is with the kids. So just so you know, you guys,
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we're all in this together. We all are connected and we all help
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each other. We all have our own parts of the recipe that we that
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we give, and the only way to figure this stuff out is to be
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connected to who we are, be connected to others, mostly ourselves, and
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be connected to spirit. So at those points in our lives when we need
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to let go and say I gotta give it up, it's time to let
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go, then you can listen to that. And so this is like perfect
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segue into you know, my connection course honestly, because there's more than one
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way to connect, and you're different and you're going to connet different than everybody
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else. And in this course, I am going to help you figure out
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your way to connect, your strengths, your weaknesses, your way to connect
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at whatever level you're at. Because this life is hard. I mean,
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well, I don't want to say that, because that's putting it out there.
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Life is fun and life is easy, but sometimes it's messy and sometimes
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the magic is in the mess. But and it's just it's just is a
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better or a let it be easy journey? When you know that connection and
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how connected you are to others, the source and to yourself. So I
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love you guys so much and I just wish you the best. And I
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know that we talked about hard things and that's okay because you got this.
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You freaking got this. So just remember you have everything you need inside of
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you and you are the magic and I'll see you next time. You liked
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