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Vocal De Frag Episode 207 Stop Whoring Out Your How · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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  Speaker 1: The goal was to create a place where you had
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  Speaker 1: the power of choice. That's the reason why we created
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  Speaker 1: Aero dot net, a r r oe dot net, twenty
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  Speaker 1: different daily podcasts for you to say, yeah, no way, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: for the love of God, please, Oh, there's no way
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  Speaker 1: I'm going there. Ooh, here's one that I might be
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  Speaker 1: interested in. See what I mean? We do it every
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  Speaker 1: day on Hulu, Netflix and everything else, including Disney Plus,
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  Speaker 1: So why not do it with your podcasting too, one place,
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  Speaker 1: big variety, Ero dot net, r r oe dot Net.
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  Speaker 1: Enjoy your exploration. Hey Sarah, and welcome to Vocal defrag.
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  Speaker 1: Defragging is giving yourself permission to ask yourself the questions
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  Speaker 1: and then question the answers in the way of really
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  Speaker 1: just being open and transparent with the self that you are.
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  Speaker 1: We spend so much time leaning in on other people
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  Speaker 1: and we think that they are so much more wiser
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  Speaker 1: than you. And yet I don't understand that that theory
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  Speaker 1: at all, because with wisdom would mean that they have
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  Speaker 1: the experience. And I don't think those people that you're
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  Speaker 1: asking questions to, I don't think they've ever worn your shoes.
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  Speaker 1: So then where is the experience? I mean, did you
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  Speaker 1: wear their shoes to where you can relate with where
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  Speaker 1: they're coming from. Probably not. So that's why I always
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  Speaker 1: ask the questions and then question the answers, because in
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  Speaker 1: your own world, your own mind, your heart, the one
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  Speaker 1: that has endured so much, you're relying on somebody who
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  Speaker 1: hasn't scept one foot on your path. I don't understand that.
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  Speaker 1: And maybe that's just the revel inside of me. This
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  Speaker 1: is vocal de ragging. So the subject today hit me
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  Speaker 1: while in the recording studio, and it's based on one thing.
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  Speaker 1: The experiences that you go through, the changes, the challenges,
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  Speaker 1: the downs, the twists, the urns, the spinouts, the failures
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  Speaker 1: as we dub it, and the very little moments of victories.
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  Speaker 1: I have to ask that question is to become a
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  Speaker 1: valuable tool to other people who several years down the road,
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  Speaker 1: are now going through what you did. It's almost like
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  Speaker 1: you were a scout. You were out there on this path,
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  Speaker 1: this desert floor. You've got a lay of the land
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  Speaker 1: right there inside your imagination, and you said, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: make it no matter what, I'm going to push down
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  Speaker 1: these walls and these fortresses that sit here and try
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  Speaker 1: to convey that I am this big blah blah blah
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  Speaker 1: in the world of exploration, as well as deportation, because
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  Speaker 1: how many times have you deported everything that you've always
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  Speaker 1: wanted to do as a success story. You've deported it
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  Speaker 1: from your mind, body, and soul because oh well, nobody
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  Speaker 1: else supported it, So I'm going to deport it. Get
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  Speaker 1: out of here. Come on. Now, that's not the way
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  Speaker 1: it works, but there are a lot of people that
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  Speaker 1: are depending on you. When you do get busted, you're fired,
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  Speaker 1: you're thrown out, you're eliminated, you're taking off the team.
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  Speaker 1: We've all been in situations like that, and everybody's just
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  Speaker 1: thankful that didn't happen to them because they weren't mentally
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  Speaker 1: or physically prepared for what was going to be in
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  Speaker 1: front of them. But you did, You took it on,
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  Speaker 1: and you made a story out of it. And now,
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  Speaker 1: several years down the road chapters as I like to
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  Speaker 1: call them, these people are turning to you, going show
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  Speaker 1: me how, And it's almost like show you how where
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  Speaker 1: were you when I was going through the how? So
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  Speaker 1: that I could really have a discussion with somebody through
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  Speaker 1: those upstowns, twist spins, ins outs, and boing boing boyings
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  Speaker 1: and oh my god, it's another valley floor show. You how?
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  Speaker 1: Why weren't we talking during the creation of that how?
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  Speaker 1: And we could spend all day trying to defend your personality,
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  Speaker 1: your presence, your legacy, because you're right, nobody ever shows
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  Speaker 1: up when you are rebuilding and replenishing your how, and
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  Speaker 1: now that they need what's in your how, the question
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  Speaker 1: is do you just easily give it up? Do you say, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I've been there before. Okay, we've been here before, because
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  Speaker 1: this is how we open it up. Your how really
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  Speaker 1: has nothing to do with their how, because we said
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  Speaker 1: it in the very beginning. Unless you have worn their
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  Speaker 1: shoes or they have worn yours, you have no how.
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  Speaker 1: You can suggest an idea, Hey, you could try this,
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  Speaker 1: but don't invest in my idea because the reason why
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  Speaker 1: I came to the conclusion of that being a step
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  Speaker 1: that I had to take was because of my how.
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  Speaker 1: Now you may not go through this how. Boom stop
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  Speaker 1: right there. It's like a bad dream. Somebody who doesn't
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  Speaker 1: wake themselves up out of a dream something that's wrong there.
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  Speaker 1: The same is true about the successes in your lif
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  Speaker 1: life is that if you have not ever been inside
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  Speaker 1: a podcast studio, someone who has been there seven days
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  Speaker 1: a week, seven days. Most people do one day, some
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  Speaker 1: people do one or two a month, seven days a week.
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  Speaker 1: Unless you have bled the blood that I put into
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  Speaker 1: every inch of work that I do, I don't expect
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  Speaker 1: you to ever ask me how, because you don't have
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  Speaker 1: the right to ask how. And that's the way we
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  Speaker 1: should be with our own personal lives. Stop giving it away.
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  Speaker 1: What you learn in the creation of your how is
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  Speaker 1: your lesson. It's priceless to you. The moment you give
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  Speaker 1: it away personally, I think you just horrid yourself out.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm not the only one who thinks like that.
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  Speaker 1: I have been trained by the best, not that I've
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  Speaker 1: walked in their shoes. Until somebody has ripped off your how.
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  Speaker 1: Ask yourself the questions, question the answers. This is vocal,
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  Speaker 1: deep raying.