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Dirty Little Secret:I Ruined My Son's Relationship! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: It's Dirty Little Secret with Billy the Kid in the
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  Speaker 1: Morning on Mix 102.9.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, if you want to confess anytime, 833-787-1029.
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  Speaker 4: me up on Instagram.
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  Speaker 3: It is at Billy on the radio. At Billy on
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  Speaker 3: the radio, you have a confession.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, man.
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  Speaker 2: So this is probably going to sound harsh, but I
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  Speaker 2: snitched on my own son.
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  Speaker 3: Snitched on him?
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  Speaker 4: To who?
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  Speaker 3: What happened?
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  Speaker 2: So, okay, I hate tears. I don't care who you are, friend, family, stranger.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I apparently met you in my own child.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: What does that mean?
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  Speaker 3: Did he cheat?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, he just turned 16 and he's been dating his
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  Speaker 2: girlfriend for like a year and she's a really sweet girl.
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  Speaker 2: I like her a lot. And as far as I knew,
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  Speaker 2: they were, they were doing great.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, no.
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  Speaker 2: So here's the thing. I still occasionally go through my
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  Speaker 2: son's phone. Yes, I know he's 16. I know some
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  Speaker 2: people are going to say I'm invading his privacy, but
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  Speaker 2: I pay for the phone. So every once in a while,
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  Speaker 2: mama is checking.
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  Speaker 3: I don't blame you for that. I mean, if you're yeah,
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  Speaker 3: he's still a kid.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you have every right to.
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  Speaker 3: Better safe than sorry. So you go through his phone
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  Speaker 3: and what do you find?
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  Speaker 2: Well, a couple of weeks ago, I'm looking for it
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  Speaker 2: and I find all these messages between him and another girl.
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  Speaker 2: And at first, I'm thinking, right, maybe they're just friends, right? Hopefully?
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  Speaker 4: Nope.
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  Speaker 2: Not a chance.
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  Speaker 3: What?
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  Speaker 2: And, yeah, I mean, nothing was super graphic or anything,
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  Speaker 2: but it's very obvious that something had happened between them.
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  Speaker 2: They were talking about kissing, when they could see each
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  Speaker 2: other again, and even making sure, like, certain mutual friends
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  Speaker 2: didn't find out.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, man.
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  Speaker 4: Oh. No.
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  Speaker 3: It's not good. Okay. So you see this.
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  Speaker 2: I was livid.
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  Speaker 3: You were mad.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I would be too. So mad. So mad.
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  Speaker 3: So what do you do?
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  Speaker 2: And, you know, well, first, I'm disappointed because I raised
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  Speaker 2: him better than that. Second, whether he's my son or not,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not letting some cheater run around thinking he can
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  Speaker 2: have a girlfriend and a girl on the other side.
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  Speaker 4: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: So, yeah, I told his girlfriend. You did?
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  Speaker 3: Oh, come on, Mom. So you told his girlfriend.
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  Speaker 2: Technically, I didn't tell her. I made a fake Instagram
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  Speaker 2: account and slid into her DMs.
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  Speaker 3: Wow, so modern of you.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, if you're going to do it, that's... That's the
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  Speaker 4: way to do it. So she doesn't know it was you,
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  Speaker 4: so you make an Instagram account and say what?
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  Speaker 3: What do you say?
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  Speaker 2: I was basically like, you don't know me, but you
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  Speaker 2: might want to ask your boyfriend about this girl. And
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  Speaker 2: then I gave her enough specific details that she knew
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't just some random person trying to start drama.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 4: You snitched on your own son.
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  Speaker 3: Wow. And said, hey, he's cheating.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I don't think you necessarily did the wrong thing.
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  Speaker 1: No, I don't hate this because it's got to stop
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  Speaker 1: at some point.
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  Speaker 4: So what happens then? Did she find out? Did she
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  Speaker 4: get the message and freak out?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, she confronted him and broke up with him. And
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  Speaker 2: he has no idea that it was me. And, you know,
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  Speaker 2: for the past week and a half, my poor boy
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  Speaker 2: walking around the house completely heartbroken.
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  Speaker 4: Oh.
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  Speaker 3: He's angry.
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  Speaker 2: He's upset.
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  Speaker 3: And it's your fault, Mom. No, it's his fault.
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  Speaker 2: No, it's his fault. He keeps saying he doesn't understand
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  Speaker 2: what she found out.
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  Speaker 1: He's not crying to the other girl now?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think so. He really liked his girlfriend.
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  Speaker 2: He loved her.
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  Speaker 3: Do you regret doing this?
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  Speaker 2: No, absolutely not. Do I feel guilty? Yeah, maybe. But
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  Speaker 2: I don't regret it.
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  Speaker 3: You could have talked to him.
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  Speaker 2: His dad is a cheater. Oh, and that's one of
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  Speaker 2: the main reasons that we're not together anymore. So, and
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  Speaker 2: then he actually went to get, went on and got
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  Speaker 2: married again and cheated on that wife too.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So I wanted him to learn and experience the consequences.
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  Speaker 2: You know, you cheat, you lie, you lose somebody you
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  Speaker 2: care about.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: That's it.
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  Speaker 3: You're not wrong. I don't think so.
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  Speaker 4: Well, You're saying, Pooh, if you think it's wrong because
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  Speaker 4: she snitched on her. Yes. So how would you have
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  Speaker 4: handled it? You find out that your son is cheating
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  Speaker 4: on his girlfriend. Do you do anything or do you're like,
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  Speaker 4: that's my boy?
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  Speaker 3: No, I would have had to talk with him.
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  Speaker 4: This brings back memories because back in my high school days,
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  Speaker 4: I had about three or four girlfriends and my mom
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  Speaker 4: told me, cut it out.
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  Speaker 3: And I kept on doing it. And then when Stephanie
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  Speaker 3: showed up, she called Stephanie, Gloria.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Gloria showed up. She called Gloria. My mom still does that. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So my mom did that. I was like, mom, why
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  Speaker 3: are you doing me like that? She was like, no,
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  Speaker 3: you're not. She was doing it on purpose.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: She, she got on me. But, you know, I didn't
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  Speaker 3: learn my lesson until years later. But, yeah. So this
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  Speaker 3: brings back memories. Well, you're kind of supporting the argument.
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  Speaker 3: I think that you've got to teach your kids a lesson.
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  Speaker 3: I know. But, I mean, at least talk to him
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  Speaker 3: first before you do that. You didn't already went through
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  Speaker 3: his phone.
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  Speaker 4: It doesn't mean that, first of all, they're 16. It's
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  Speaker 4: not like most of the time these relationships don't last. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: but that's that heartbreak. That's probably that first.
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  Speaker 1: Well, he brought it on himself.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but he's moping around the house. It doesn't matter.
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  Speaker 3: He did it to himself. Wow.
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  Speaker 4: Sorry.
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  Speaker 3: You're right.
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  Speaker 1: When I got cheated on and I knew the person's mom,
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  Speaker 1: like not well, but well enough that I just thought, wow,
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  Speaker 1: where'd she go wrong? It crossed my mind. Like, wow,
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  Speaker 1: you let this person grow up and to be a,
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  Speaker 1: an adult man, who's going to lie and cheat like this.
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  Speaker 4: Wow. Can you imagine if you would have found like,
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  Speaker 4: what if she would have actually known if my, if
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  Speaker 4: that person's mom knew and she just didn't say anything, right.
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  Speaker 3: You would be like, wow. I mean, come on. I mean,
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  Speaker 3: all of you moms are going to do whatever to
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  Speaker 3: protect their son. I get it.
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  Speaker 4: But at the same time, you also have to teach
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  Speaker 4: them that this is not the way you treat people.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 3: And you don't do that to people. Not women. No. Nobody.
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  Speaker 4: You should definitely not cheat on your partner. I mean,
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  Speaker 4: break up with the person if you don't want to
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  Speaker 4: be with them.
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  Speaker 3: And move on. Exactly. Especially at 16. Who cares anyway?
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: What are you heartbroken about? You can't have your cake
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  Speaker 1: and eat it too?
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  Speaker 3: That's exactly. And he's learning his lesson right now.
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  Speaker 4: I'm curious what people think about this, and I'm going
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  Speaker 4: to see what they have to call in because lines
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  Speaker 4: are already ringing. But, hey, thank you so much, and let.
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  Speaker 3: Us know what happens.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, of course. I will. Absolutely.
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  Speaker 3: Good for you, Mom. Turn them all in. Snitch on everyone.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.