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Why Dog Training Tips Don't Work for Doodles (And What Does) · The Doodle Pro®: Positive Dog Training for Calm Doodles

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  SPEAKER_00: You called your doodle in from the backyard a hundred times.
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  SPEAKER_00: They heard every single one.
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  SPEAKER_00: They just didn't come.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's not a recall problem.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's a system problem.
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  SPEAKER_00: And today I'm going to show you the difference because my guess is no one ever has.
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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Doodle Pro Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm Crane Gearhart.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you guys, this might be the most important episode I record all year.
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean that.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you only hear one episode of this show, I want it to be this one.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, let me describe something to you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you tell me if this is you.
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  SPEAKER_00: You have a folder on your phone.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe it's saved reels, maybe it's Pinterest, maybe it's screenshots.
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  SPEAKER_00: And in that folder are 47 training tips.
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  SPEAKER_00: The hand signal for sit, the thing with the treats by the door, the trick where you turn your back when they jump.
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  SPEAKER_00: Some ladies' method for loose sleash walking that has four steps, and you remember two of them, a video you saved eight months ago that starts with pet professionals don't want you to know this, which as a side note, we do want you to know things.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's the whole job.
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  SPEAKER_00: 47 tips, and your doodle still loses their entire mind when the doorbell rings.
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  SPEAKER_00: Here's what I want you to hear.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I want you to like really let this land.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is not evidence that you failed or that you didn't try enough.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's evidence that tips don't work.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not for lack of trying, just because of what a tip is.
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  SPEAKER_00: A tip is a puzzle piece with no box top.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a single move with no game plan.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your doodle doesn't experience 47 tips as training.
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  SPEAKER_00: They experience it as 47 different humans showing up in the same body with different rules on different days.
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  SPEAKER_00: Monday, you turned your back when they jumped.
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  SPEAKER_00: Wednesday, you were carrying groceries, so you couldn't.
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  SPEAKER_00: Saturday, your mother-in-law visited and she pet the jumping, and she thinks the jumping's adorable.
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  SPEAKER_00: From your doodle seat, there's no policy, there's weather and a partnership dog, which is what every doodle is at their core, cannot partner with changing weather.
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  SPEAKER_00: They need a pattern.
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  SPEAKER_00: Doodles were bred to work with someone, and with requires the two of you to be running the same play.
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  SPEAKER_00: And here's the part that nobody tells you.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I will.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's not on you.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the store.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let me show you the difference with the recall because it's the perfect example.
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  SPEAKER_00: The tip version is say it once, sound happy, give a treat.
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  SPEAKER_00: Fine, true, even.
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  SPEAKER_00: But a system asks completely different questions, competing with you in that backyard.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because a cheerful cum versus a squirrel is not a fair fight.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we need to know that going in.
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  SPEAKER_00: What's the history of that word?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if cum has meant nail trims and a bath and then the crate, that word carries baggage.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we might need a brand spank a new one.
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  SPEAKER_00: What happens in the three seconds after they arrive?
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  SPEAKER_00: Is the reinforcement actually reinforcing?
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  SPEAKER_00: Or is it like a dry biscuit?
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, the squirrel's right there.
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  SPEAKER_00: And where are we practicing?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because asking for a backyard recall before you built a living room recall is like asking for the final exam before the first class.
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  SPEAKER_00: The tip tells you what to say.
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  SPEAKER_00: The system tells you why it works, when it breaks, and what to fix first.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the difference between owning a hammer and knowing how to build.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now let's take the same lens to the doorbell real quick because I want you to see it's the same everywhere.
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  SPEAKER_00: The tip says, put them in a sit when guests arrive.
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  SPEAKER_00: The system asks, what does the doorbell predict right now?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because for your doodle, it predicts the most exciting 45 seconds of the week.
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  SPEAKER_00: And no sit on earth outcompetes that until we change what the bell means.
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  SPEAKER_00: See it?
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  SPEAKER_00: Same pattern.
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  SPEAKER_00: The tip addresses the moment, the system addresses the meaning.
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  SPEAKER_00: And behavior follows meaning every single time.
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  SPEAKER_00: And here's the part that breaks my heart a little bit.
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  SPEAKER_00: Honestly, I talk with doodle parents every day who are exhausted from trying, not from not trying, from trying.
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  SPEAKER_00: They've done everything.
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  SPEAKER_00: The internet, their neighbor, their father-in-law told them to.
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  SPEAKER_00: They spent the money, saved the videos, bought the special treats that are now in a drawer.
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  SPEAKER_00: And they're quietly embarrassed.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like everyone else got a manual.
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  SPEAKER_00: They didn't.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or maybe their dog just will never get it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Some of them have been carrying the same problem for years.
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  SPEAKER_00: Years, you guys.
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  SPEAKER_00: Listen to me.
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  SPEAKER_00: You are not set up to fail.
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  SPEAKER_00: You were just not set up.
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  SPEAKER_00: Nobody handed you the system.
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  SPEAKER_00: They handed you confetti and called it a plan.
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  SPEAKER_00: So here's what I want to do about it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Four days from now, on Monday night, September 7th, I'm kicking off the five-day doodle parent challenge.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's free, it's live, and it's the system.
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  SPEAKER_00: Five days where I hand you the box top, not 47 tips.
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  SPEAKER_00: One sequence in order where each day builds on the one before it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Built for the way doodles actually live.
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  SPEAKER_00: You'll finally understand why your doodle does what they do.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then in the right order, what to do about it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Last time we did this, doodle parents from 25 states and 10 countries showed up.
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  SPEAKER_00: Barbados to British Columbia.
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  SPEAKER_00: And by day three, the messages I was getting was just incredible.
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  SPEAKER_00: People saying, I understand my dog for the first time in six years.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's day three.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yes, it starts Labor Day evening on purpose.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're already home, the cookout's winding down, and there's no better way to jump into fall than with an actual plan for the fluffy chaos agent on your couch.
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  SPEAKER_00: One night, one hour, in your pajamas, and we're off.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because I actually read those every single one.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I fill the live calls around what you tell me.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is the Doodle Pro Podcast, where we celebrate how doodles are different, wonderfully so.