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Tolyamory: The New Toxic Dating Term · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: So what is this new dating term?
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  Speaker 2: All right, So it's called tollyamory, and if you haven't heard.
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  Speaker 1: It, you're not allowed memory. I've not heard tollyamory.
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  Speaker 3: It's basically when someone knows or strongly suspects that their
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  Speaker 3: partner is having a romantic relationship with someone else, but
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  Speaker 3: instead of sitting down and talking about it.
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  Speaker 2: They kind of just tolerate it and keep the relationship going.
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  Speaker 3: Experts say it's much more common than people realize, and
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  Speaker 3: the big difference is that it isn't polly amory with
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  Speaker 3: a P because there's no mutual agreement with polyamory.
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  Speaker 2: That what that means exactly, y'all agree.
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  Speaker 3: Like, so it's like you're going to have an open
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  Speaker 3: relationship or see other people. I'm aware of it and
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  Speaker 3: I'm cool with it. Find blah blah blah. But relationship
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  Speaker 3: experts say that the reasons are often less. It's not
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  Speaker 3: so much about the relationship. It's more about maybe they
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  Speaker 3: have kids, Maybe it's finances, maybe it's because they own
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  Speaker 3: the house together, like and so people just turn a
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  Speaker 3: blind eye.
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  Speaker 2: To these men or women on them because.
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  Speaker 3: They think that that's the way to live their life,
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  Speaker 3: which I am like I could never live this.
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  Speaker 1: Tolly amory means you just look the other way. That
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  Speaker 1: by definitely just turn a blind eye, look the other way.
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  Speaker 2: Right, like in denial essentially right?
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  Speaker 1: I mean do people do it out of love? Like
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  Speaker 1: what if they really love someone so much that they
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  Speaker 1: just don't want to deal with the conflict.
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  Speaker 3: That it's also fear of starting over again, or maybe
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  Speaker 3: they just don't think they don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Their worth well. As Tany said, none of the amoris
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  Speaker 1: are good.
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  Speaker 4: No, I don't like any of the amories on air
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