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151: Q&A - Backshots & Broomsticks · Wine & Audacity

• 0:04
  Speaker 1: M hm, Hey, I'm a little low.
• 0:11
  Speaker 2: You're low low. Yeah, in your headphones?
• 0:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, turn them up, turn them up. Put some right there,
• 0:22
  Speaker 3: up some more.
• 0:23
  Speaker 2: Up, a little bit more, all right? Bitch? Is you death.
• 0:29
  Speaker 1: Six or eight?
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  Speaker 4: That's what's wrong with you? Your fucking heard drums ain't working.
• 0:33
  Speaker 4: You need a hairna how loud you want this? Motherfucker?
• 0:37
  Speaker 4: You can't hear yourself?
• 0:38
  Speaker 3: No, I'm smart, right, it's a little bit more after
• 0:44
  Speaker 3: that should be taking you to a doctor's appointment.
• 0:46
  Speaker 4: You got to go see your ear nose and throat specialists.
• 0:51
  Speaker 2: Did you know I figured out what the name of
• 0:53
  Speaker 2: that actual doctor is, Like, the actual medical name of
• 0:55
  Speaker 2: that field is. It's Ontoe Laren Golledge. Hold on, hold on,
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  Speaker 2: hold on.
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  Speaker 1: It's not my ministry, Damn, you're funking around.
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  Speaker 2: It's it's a Ato Laryingloge Onto laryinglogist. It's a medical
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  Speaker 2: surgical specialist training to diagnose some treat conditions of the
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  Speaker 2: ear nose, throat, head and neck. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Interesting, team is much better doctor doctors is. Doctors is
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  Speaker 1: crazy as because you go to you.
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  Speaker 3: Go to medical school and then be like, I'm want
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  Speaker 3: to focus on that, just just that be like, I
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  Speaker 3: want to.
• 1:42
  Speaker 4: Focus on feats, right. It is my belief that they
• 1:46
  Speaker 4: have foot fetishes.
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  Speaker 2: I am your host braind is a card and I'm
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  Speaker 2: joined by two of my favorite people in the borough.
• 1:58
  Speaker 2: How y'all feeling this week?
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  Speaker 4: How does like? That was a legit question? Who decides
• 2:02
  Speaker 4: they want to look at feet all that damn lights?
• 2:04
  Speaker 2: So are you saying.
• 2:07
  Speaker 1: Yes?
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  Speaker 5: Problem?
• 2:09
  Speaker 4: According to my sister cousin, she said, any man who
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  Speaker 4: decides to be a g y n is a perfer.
• 2:16
  Speaker 4: That's what she said. And I had a male g
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  Speaker 4: y n.
• 2:21
  Speaker 3: O wait, dance all the smells and this smells peppers
• 2:25
  Speaker 3: and honey.
• 2:26
  Speaker 4: Oh hell, not the peppers and honey. Again. I still
• 2:31
  Speaker 4: would like clarification on that question, mister sir, I would
• 2:34
  Speaker 4: like to know what kind of peppers we are speaking of?
• 2:36
  Speaker 4: Is it sweet peppers, banana peppers, pepper, black pepper, white pepper,
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  Speaker 4: white pepper make your sneeze harder than black pepper? Did
• 2:52
  Speaker 4: white pepper? Spicy?
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  Speaker 2: Is this the stuff that we having in Italian delis
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  Speaker 2: the g R denaria that sounds like a black mold.
• 3:04
  Speaker 1: Honey?
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  Speaker 4: I understand, but past this garden mm hmm.
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  Speaker 2: Don't bring it's a card. This is the podcast. Hey,
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  Speaker 2: y'all have happy survey. I mean Wednesday, it's certainy for us,
• 3:16
  Speaker 2: but it's Wednesday for y'all.
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  Speaker 4: I would know question if you happen to see this
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  Speaker 4: or you know who wrote that fucking question, would know
• 3:27
  Speaker 4: what kind of peppers? He was speaking of questions that
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  Speaker 4: real specific sir, very very pacific.
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  Speaker 2: So so it is interesting, how you know. I thought
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  Speaker 2: about that when I went to the dermatologists like a
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  Speaker 2: year or two ago, I got the mold on my
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  Speaker 2: leg removed. I was like, hum, I don't really see
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  Speaker 2: black male dermatologists, you know, because you know, the skin
• 3:52
  Speaker 2: is the largest organ of the body.
• 3:54
  Speaker 3: Skin is, But y'all didn't know that ship the more
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  Speaker 3: you know, I'm just saying that, like, like you go
• 4:04
  Speaker 3: to medical school for like eight years.
• 4:06
  Speaker 2: Four years, and then you do undergrade for four years,
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  Speaker 2: medical school for four years resident residency for I think
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  Speaker 2: it's three to six depending on the specialty, because some
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  Speaker 2: people if you do that's know.
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  Speaker 3: But but that's what I'm getting. At specialty, you'd be like,
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  Speaker 3: you want to be.
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  Speaker 2: A surgeon, a neual neurosurgeon.
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  Speaker 3: And then it's then then want you want you to
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  Speaker 3: be like, all right, I want to be a surgeon.
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  Speaker 3: And then it's like, now you got the heart. I
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  Speaker 3: want to specialize and right through stuff. Right, what wows
• 4:34
  Speaker 3: this digestion?
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  Speaker 4: Digest doctor? Damn?
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  Speaker 2: This internal medicine.
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  Speaker 1: Is all about the internal medicine exactly.
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  Speaker 4: But what what does the.
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  Speaker 3: Gast okay gastrost guess?
• 4:51
  Speaker 1: Because yeah, it's just wild.
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  Speaker 4: Shout out to y'all who went through all the day
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  Speaker 4: and deal with that on a daily basis. All that,
• 5:00
  Speaker 4: I'll be watching debt. Look, I ain't gonna hold y'all.
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  Speaker 4: I'm squeamish, right, but he got me hooked on doctor
• 5:08
  Speaker 4: pimple Popper. And so when she finally like I used
• 5:12
  Speaker 4: to see the videos, when she finally got a show,
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  Speaker 4: I found myself watching it and I was sitting there.
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  Speaker 1: Like and you'd be like, yo, it's really interesting. When
• 5:20
  Speaker 1: did this start at this?
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  Speaker 2: Like twins assist.
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  Speaker 4: All we have to do is drain it and we
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  Speaker 4: have to take the sack out and livid straining that
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  Speaker 4: ship and it looks like oatmeal or yo, girl, the
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  Speaker 4: body is interesting.
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  Speaker 2: Thing have you seen to borrow? Yeh? Was the t
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  Speaker 2: C or.
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  Speaker 4: Toe borrow? Was hard to watch? Was rough looking with
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  Speaker 4: the black female and the black it was a male
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  Speaker 4: doctor's a black female. Yeah, I watched and you know
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  Speaker 4: this when couldn't do it, you know he don't like
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  Speaker 4: feet nod. Then again I'm like, yo, how the you
• 5:56
  Speaker 4: was like yo, yo, I wanted I want to do this.
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  Speaker 4: I want I want to surge be able to surgically
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  Speaker 4: repair feet like people.
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  Speaker 5: Know.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, I just want to know that.
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  Speaker 3: I just want to know the thought process, the thought
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  Speaker 3: process of going like you know, be like yo, you
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  Speaker 3: want to zero in on that one thing, like what
• 6:13
  Speaker 3: the wout you to be like like this, Okay, I
• 6:18
  Speaker 3: mean if it is a foot fetter, I can make it.
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  Speaker 3: You can make a foot fetish work like yo.
• 6:21
  Speaker 1: I love see. I don't ever want to see nobody up.
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  Speaker 2: So what about people who are like orthopedic surgeons, so
• 6:26
  Speaker 2: they had like back fetishes.
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  Speaker 6: I don't think that's the thing probably, I mean your
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  Speaker 6: two thousand and yeah, nothing.
• 6:38
  Speaker 3: Just like the lick, that like lick, that lottle, that
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  Speaker 3: little dip right down with the dimples. Yeah, I just
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  Speaker 3: want to look the little.
• 6:49
  Speaker 2: You get your ass. Yeah, oh I heard nigga. You
• 6:58
  Speaker 2: know you need some cheese for.
• 7:02
  Speaker 4: I don't know indeed save it.
• 7:10
  Speaker 7: It's it's like, well, that's interesting, feel good move tell
• 7:17
  Speaker 7: me the bus specked the butt while you being weird
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  Speaker 7: to me. But that's a difference in it, like, well,
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  Speaker 7: wasn't expecting that, my brother, Look.
• 7:36
  Speaker 2: Got your too, I need your back.
• 7:43
  Speaker 4: Oh sorry, man, I got excited, come stratching my damn slipper.
• 7:50
  Speaker 2: You notice he never responded to the question. I asked,
• 7:53
  Speaker 2: guilty niggas do ship.
• 7:54
  Speaker 4: That's called my sister and Lord, we can get that
• 7:57
  Speaker 4: for me. M hm mn.
• 8:02
  Speaker 1: What do y'all haveing know me not to eat a
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  Speaker 1: full plate?
• 8:05
  Speaker 2: My nigga ship? I raised him, right, Ship, I told
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  Speaker 2: you I'm built like a refrigerator. I don't waste my
• 8:16
  Speaker 2: food fright down front or b built like a deep freezer.
• 8:28
  Speaker 2: So can I say this first again? We're gonna say
• 8:32
  Speaker 2: it every week this month, but happy black heads three month, y'all.
• 8:37
  Speaker 2: I don't know where y'all are in the world seeing this,
• 8:40
  Speaker 2: but here in the Baltimore slash d n V region,
• 8:43
  Speaker 2: it's been cold for sixty five billion days, just for
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  Speaker 2: spectful cold, nigga, and.
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  Speaker 4: The kind of cold that you walk out the door
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  Speaker 4: and then slap you on your face and you look like,
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  Speaker 4: what it's that kind of it's cold. You would say that,
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  Speaker 4: you would say.
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  Speaker 2: That he don't like coats.
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  Speaker 4: You would say that nigga used to wear long sleeve shirts,
• 9:01
  Speaker 4: scullies and gloves. And there'll be sixteen degrees outside.
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  Speaker 2: My nigga. It is currently currently time for weather on
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  Speaker 2: the nine eights about one or not. It is currently
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  Speaker 2: sixteen degrees outside with sixteen with a wind chill of full.
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  Speaker 4: The number some of y'all was when y'all had y'all
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  Speaker 4: first child. Not judging, my mother was seventeen.
• 9:24
  Speaker 3: She hit ooh, that was a that was a that
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  Speaker 3: was a nice ass gunshot brow.
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  Speaker 1: So ship.
• 9:35
  Speaker 4: So we don't judge, but we judge. Smeach.
• 9:40
  Speaker 2: I'm joking back to the wonder part weather report. It's
• 9:45
  Speaker 2: supposed to get down to four degrees tonight with the
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  Speaker 2: windshill of negative ten.
• 9:48
  Speaker 4: The disrespect.
• 9:50
  Speaker 2: The snow has not melted. There's ice everywhere, so ice everywhere.
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  Speaker 1: And when you walk on and when you walk on
• 9:56
  Speaker 1: that side with the snow, you're taking you're taking a
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  Speaker 1: chance to go.
• 10:00
  Speaker 2: Listen.
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  Speaker 4: We went out to celebrate my cousin's birthday last night. FaceTime,
• 10:07
  Speaker 4: and I dropped my on off at home and she
• 10:11
  Speaker 4: went to go walk on the sidewalk. And when I
• 10:13
  Speaker 4: tell you, I ain't never praised so hard in my life.
• 10:15
  Speaker 4: But I said, little please don't let her slip. Jesus, Please,
• 10:18
  Speaker 4: don't let her slip, Jesus please. I didn't. I didn't realize.
• 10:21
  Speaker 4: I was holding my breath until she stepped on solid ground.
• 10:23
  Speaker 3: And I was like, yeah, listen, it don't even be
• 10:28
  Speaker 3: the slipping on the ice, or it'll be that you
• 10:30
  Speaker 3: step into that little snow hill.
• 10:33
  Speaker 4: You that motherfucker doing the uh the James Brown.
• 10:36
  Speaker 3: Like, you don't know that for your life. You don't
• 10:40
  Speaker 3: know what the mother is gonna be hollow or solid? Boy,
• 10:42
  Speaker 3: you stepped down, Give me one leg, go down?
• 10:44
  Speaker 4: You like this. We were out back digging out my
• 10:47
  Speaker 4: parking pad the other day, right getting the rest of
• 10:48
  Speaker 4: the snow off my parking bed so I can pull
• 10:50
  Speaker 4: back onto my pucking pad. And Trey stepped on a
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  Speaker 4: pile of snow. And what people don't realize it's hard
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  Speaker 4: on top that because the ice came down on top
• 10:57
  Speaker 4: of the snow. But once you start breaking it up,
• 11:00
  Speaker 4: it's still soft snow and tray stepped on that thing
• 11:02
  Speaker 4: and his leg.
• 11:03
  Speaker 3: When I said, oh, that's what I'm saying, I said,
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  Speaker 3: trade you felt we did? Yeah, wed that nigga that
• 11:09
  Speaker 3: are unattested on yoga pos.
• 11:11
  Speaker 4: I said, that looks like that hurt.
• 11:16
  Speaker 2: I also wanted to say, mm hmmm, my bad. No,
• 11:24
  Speaker 2: not about you.
• 11:25
  Speaker 4: H He looked like he was about to say some bullshit.
• 11:28
  Speaker 2: It's not bullshit. But this this weather event has has
• 11:33
  Speaker 2: shown me, has learned me on the fact that some
• 11:38
  Speaker 2: people just don't know how to fuck government works. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 11:42
  Speaker 2: And I say that because people are complaining about you know,
• 11:48
  Speaker 2: roads and ship and then the stuff ain't been plowed yet.
• 11:51
  Speaker 2: You don't do realize it's like four inches of ice
• 11:54
  Speaker 2: on top of the snow and it's been like twelve
• 11:56
  Speaker 2: degrees in the past two weeks. Right, it's not like
• 12:01
  Speaker 2: it's just a regular snowstorm where you can go out,
• 12:03
  Speaker 2: Oh it did snow last night. You know the ship
• 12:05
  Speaker 2: you could just wipe off, keep going right. It's a dusting, right,
• 12:08
  Speaker 2: a dusting. This was like snow and then ice on
• 12:11
  Speaker 2: top of the snow. That's why they can't move ship.
• 12:14
  Speaker 4: It's as well. We need y'all to understand though, and
• 12:15
  Speaker 4: why y'all not shovel on y'all sidewalks and if y'all
• 12:19
  Speaker 4: know y'all got elderly neighbors, get your ass out there
• 12:21
  Speaker 4: and shovel them people snow for them. You know, street
• 12:26
  Speaker 4: just got a new hip. Get out there and shovel
• 12:30
  Speaker 4: this ship yourself. The city and the county has never
• 12:34
  Speaker 4: really responsible for your sidewalks, your walkways. You do your steps,
• 12:40
  Speaker 4: and I will all of that is on you. It's
• 12:43
  Speaker 4: been like that for years. I don't know why y'all
• 12:44
  Speaker 4: acting brand new, like you ain't lived in Baltimore your
• 12:45
  Speaker 4: whole life and you ain't never seen snow before. Now
• 12:48
  Speaker 4: the streets and ship that you can cut the asses
• 12:50
  Speaker 4: out for because they did a terrible job, Baltimore County
• 12:52
  Speaker 4: and Baltimore City.
• 12:53
  Speaker 2: Let's be real, and I will say this, the Entrepreneurggas
• 12:56
  Speaker 2: is out here making coins.
• 12:58
  Speaker 4: They was charging motherfuckers one fit a parking space to
• 13:01
  Speaker 4: shovel out.
• 13:02
  Speaker 2: Parking was charging two hundred ship and people were taking
• 13:05
  Speaker 2: up on it because like we've been snow there for
• 13:07
  Speaker 2: three to four days.
• 13:07
  Speaker 4: Let men, if you're watching this, let me hold something.
• 13:10
  Speaker 2: She had had a snowblower.
• 13:12
  Speaker 4: Let me they had axes. That was smart.
• 13:15
  Speaker 2: They was out there. That was so, you know, I
• 13:17
  Speaker 2: stayed at my aunt's house. They was gonna work at
• 13:19
  Speaker 2: my house each way they take me. You're gonna talk
• 13:22
  Speaker 2: about that. But I was in the city when the
• 13:24
  Speaker 2: snowstorm had the first one here. You know, I had
• 13:27
  Speaker 2: enough sense to go out while it was snowing, right
• 13:30
  Speaker 2: before it turned in the ice and started shoveling my
• 13:33
  Speaker 2: aunt's walk away so we can get from the front
• 13:35
  Speaker 2: door to the curve, because she got a long driveway.
• 13:38
  Speaker 2: So I was like, I ain't gotta do the rest
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: of the shit. Let me just make a nice little
• 13:41
  Speaker 2: pass so we can get from the front. I cleaned
• 13:43
  Speaker 2: off the whole landing and the steps. I said, all right,
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: let me get my ass from from the bottom of
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: the steps to the end of the driveway. And I
• 13:51
  Speaker 2: was saying, I can go back in house because out
• 13:52
  Speaker 2: here it took me three days to make a little
• 13:55
  Speaker 2: path to get to the thing. And then when these
• 13:56
  Speaker 2: came she and then she dug us out. I was like, hey, niece,
• 14:01
  Speaker 2: I'm going back to work for niggas.
• 14:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah. Trey and Brian did the porch and the walkway
• 14:10
  Speaker 4: and all of that, and they initially did the sidewalk
• 14:13
  Speaker 4: in front of my house too, but then it snowed
• 14:15
  Speaker 4: again over top of that. But anyway, and then they
• 14:18
  Speaker 4: dug me out of parking space because I couldn't get
• 14:19
  Speaker 4: in the alley to get on my park and paid
• 14:21
  Speaker 4: Trey cleaned my park and pay it off. But then,
• 14:23
  Speaker 4: like I said, it snowed again, and then I guess
• 14:25
  Speaker 4: APPLOI finally came through the alley because it pushed it
• 14:27
  Speaker 4: up in our driveway. So that's what me and Trey
• 14:29
  Speaker 4: had to go break down the other day because I
• 14:32
  Speaker 4: wasn't you know, Brian working night shift. I've been working.
• 14:34
  Speaker 4: They had been working thirteen hour damn.
• 14:36
  Speaker 2: Shift, shawna and point. So she had to go to
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: work in the snow.
• 14:39
  Speaker 4: I ain't got stuck and my neighbors had to dig
• 14:42
  Speaker 4: me out.
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: And we beat off.
• 14:47
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I've been working a whole lot. I've seen a
• 14:50
  Speaker 4: lot more of my co workers than I would like
• 14:52
  Speaker 4: to you in the last.
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: Few weeks that have been noticing. Motherfucker's got like moles
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: and like you know what, I just came to a
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: revelation I didn't know you had Again, I bet I don't.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: Very much like.
• 15:07
  Speaker 4: I don't really much care for you. I can only
• 15:09
  Speaker 4: take you in small doses, eight hours a day. This
• 15:11
  Speaker 4: has been a lot. I don't think I like you
• 15:14
  Speaker 4: very much.
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but who that's what we've been dealing with over here.
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: We moun tied. Baby.
• 15:27
  Speaker 4: I finally got me a day off. Baby, I may
• 15:28
  Speaker 4: love to my goddamn bed. I got there like you
• 15:30
  Speaker 4: been waiting for me.
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: Hey, baby, that.
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: Was when I went home that first day.
• 15:33
  Speaker 8: I was like, I was like my house plants ben.
• 15:40
  Speaker 4: Listen all fish.
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: I don't care. But nobody say traveling is fun, hanging
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: out and seeing the world is fun. Fucking bed house.
• 15:53
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, facts, if it's just something about it.
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: That's why.
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: That's why they say you get home faster, and you
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: get you get home faster than you're gonna then you
• 16:02
  Speaker 3: went on your vacation, Shaid, boy.
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: Look at it took us.
• 16:06
  Speaker 3: It took us when we drove up there, it took
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: us about I want to say, almost twelve hours with
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: a break.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: I ain't taking no break. I ain't taking no break.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: When we left, y'all, when we Shaid, I drove that's
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: where I was straight like man.
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: And then crash and crashing. I got and I walked
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: through the door. I was like, lead them, man, lead them,
• 16:25
  Speaker 3: bags in the car.
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm one of those people. Maybe I don't think
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: I'm type, but whenever I can't let ship. I don't
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: like clutter in my house. So whenever I get home
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: from trips, I unpack immediately and stuff dirty launer on
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: the clean clothes get put away. Suitcases is put up.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: I don't.
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: I can't do.
• 16:47
  Speaker 4: My suitcase might sit on the end of my bed
• 16:49
  Speaker 4: for a day or two. You ain't gonna hold you.
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: I ain't gonna lie. I might pour some shit out
• 16:54
  Speaker 4: there I need, like, oh, let me take my my my.
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: At the bare minimum bag case back a day too later.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: But the clothes is gonna be unpacked. Ships put put away.
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: I get up and look right at it, like, yeah,
• 17:06
  Speaker 4: let me. I've been home for two days. Probably ship
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: the suitcase, probably because my slides at.
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: Yeh, niggas don't start looking at niggas, don't start going
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: through that ship. I'm like, damn, oh, ship, I got
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: clean drugs and god damn well, I might as well
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: unpacked the ship.
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, something over.
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  Speaker 4: I took last when I went on a cruise the
• 17:28
  Speaker 4: year before last. It was a seven day cruise. I
• 17:32
  Speaker 4: probably took thirteen fourteen days worth for clothes. I ain't
• 17:35
  Speaker 4: I took today. I took multiple bathing too. I probably
• 17:39
  Speaker 4: think I had one or two of them. I didn't
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: wear a couple of days. I did change clothes, you know,
• 17:45
  Speaker 4: because like we went, especially like port days port days.
• 17:49
  Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, I got a bathing too. I went
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: back to the room. Probably you would throw sun dress
• 17:53
  Speaker 4: or something on. But then I was like, did you choose?
• 17:59
  Speaker 4: So I put on the different What did the Jessy
• 18:02
  Speaker 4: That's what mister Brown called it. Did Jessy chi?
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: All right? That was about was in my head, like
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: mm hmmm, that's funny. Funny.
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: Get ready for the question of the week.
• 18:17
  Speaker 4: Before we get in a question of the week, I
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: need to get I need to say this while I'm
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: thinking about what I'm thinking about. No, it's birthday, shout out.
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: I gotta do it while I'm thinking about it. We
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: missed the birthday earlier this month. Happy fiftieth birthday to
• 18:30
  Speaker 4: my cousin Tiffany. Big five, Oh you or she gonna
• 18:38
  Speaker 4: hit you with they cane. Watch she gonna beat your ass.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: Tiffany, I ain't say nothing.
• 18:43
  Speaker 4: She's gonna beat your ass. Happy we miss Valentine's say
• 18:46
  Speaker 4: Happy Valentine's times Day. There's no eminent Valentine's Day. Happy
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: nine year anniversarity to my mom and my bonus dad.
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: Happy anniversary, y'all.
• 18:56
  Speaker 4: And let's see. Happy birthday to my aunt. Her birthday
• 19:00
  Speaker 4: is the sixteenth, that's my bookcakes. Happy birthday to my
• 19:04
  Speaker 4: my favorite person, one of my favorite favorite favorite people
• 19:07
  Speaker 4: in the world, my favorite on Ruth. Her birthday is
• 19:09
  Speaker 4: a seventeen birthday.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: And happy third, say our birthdays. It's not not in February,
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: I said.
• 19:14
  Speaker 4: One of my favorites anyway. And happy third birthday to
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: my little baby August. His birthday is the eighteenth. Is
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: that my birthday?
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: Birthday your bonus mo?
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: Yeah, my birthday was in January. I believe we said
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: that at.
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: The beginning, had the birthday.
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: Episode of January. But if we did not have birthday
• 19:38
  Speaker 4: charged it. To my mind and not my heart, Happy
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: birthday to the absolute best bonus mom anybody can ever
• 19:43
  Speaker 4: have in their life. To my mind, Teresa, Happy, happy, happy, happy, happy,
• 19:47
  Speaker 4: happy birthday. I was so mad because I was stuck
• 19:49
  Speaker 4: at working. I didn't get to be wrong on our
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: actual birthday. We'll do something for her, but I made
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: it up to it the following week.
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: Tell me, I told you.
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: All I did was tooking something to tackle Tuesday. Gonna
• 20:00
  Speaker 4: do something, yeah, actual for her birthday.
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: She was eaving me out.
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: I do not And happy birthday, bull Ship end not
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: my brothers which one both our niggah their birthdays is Mike. Yeah,
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: it was four days because we missed. We missed Jesus
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: in January. The birthdays Happy birthday, Happy.
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: Birthday, Brand and the thirties, yeah.
• 20:25
  Speaker 4: Lord oh Ship, and happy birth birthday to Bray. We
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: left our brother in Laure, Happy birthday, Ray Birthday. I've
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: got him in tifth birthday the same day.
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: If you all mhmm, anybody, that's it.
• 20:41
  Speaker 4: Look I I just happened to look at the calendar.
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: I just wanted to before I get three words and
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: then she cut me off again and say, oh, by
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: the way, her birthday, Pooky.
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: Who the fuck is Pooky? I don't know. I ain't
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: got a pooky, got a.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: Man poo. He died in a fire, A fire, a
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: fire they kill.
• 21:01
  Speaker 9: And now what's signed for the Question of the Week
• 21:02
  Speaker 9: segment of the show. If you figure how to work
• 21:14
  Speaker 9: this sad for you have to do our whole sound effects.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: I know that's not my fault. And on the sweet.
• 21:36
  Speaker 8: I think Brady puts them in our breakfast.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: That's why we like it, because I actually ain't before
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: we recorded this, Nigga, so we I'm not sure if
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: we had a conversation about breakfast sandwiches on the podcasts,
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: but before we get into the question of the week's segments,
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: we got to talk about breakfast sandwiches. Right. Do y'all
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: like savory and sweet together? I don't get it. It
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: baffles fuck out of me. I don't get savory and
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: sweet together.
• 22:06
  Speaker 4: I don't only get jelly on my sandwich.
• 22:07
  Speaker 8: Dude, that's weird.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: I don't like I don't like mcgriddles. When I ate McDonald's,
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: I didn't. I never had.
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: I like sausage mcgrittles, but pancakes and syrup, yeah, why?
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: And Chick Filate has had a chicken and waffle sandwich fantastic.
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: I don't know if they still got it because it
• 22:27
  Speaker 4: was only supposed to be for a limited time only,
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: and it only really apparently had him in Maryland because
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: my mother went to get one in Philly and they
• 22:33
  Speaker 4: was like, oh, we don't have that, And my mother
• 22:36
  Speaker 4: was like, why.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't get the whole mix of savory and
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: sweet on the breakfast sandwich. I like, if you have
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: like a like a bacon, egg and cheese, it's gonna
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: be on a Plaine bagel or like a like like
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: a like a savory bagel, like an onion bagel or
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: everything bagel.
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: I don't want no and egg and cheese on nab
• 22:57
  Speaker 4: motherfucker cinnamon sugar bagel.
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: Just slacked dad Bro slapped damn.
• 23:03
  Speaker 4: That shi was five slap like your mom used to
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: slapt in your mouth when you was disrespectful.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: And this nigga got straw ray jelly on his sandwich.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: I got the order I might have just then when
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: I made it, but it was like you want on
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: a baker nigga and cheese.
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: It was fabulous. Th HB Yeah, I may make a trip.
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: The closest one of here is in the Owens Mills
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: near the Costco.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: I'll go to about it.
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: And if you don't want to do that, you're going
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: s Paul Street. Not right before you had black Ball
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: and the Black on the Black Broadway.
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: Paul, not the host.
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: That's not what I'm saying. It's multiple you right, Oh yeah,
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: No I'm talking. I'm talking college roll. I'm talking college roll,
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: not the yeah you got to be more pacific act.
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna smack the shut up.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: And order the question of the Week segment. At the show,
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: I sky with the interwell, read my fy pp is,
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: because where the hell else what I love? I find
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: posts that have questionable comments save him in our second
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: group chat, which I've kind of kind of gotten away from,
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: and then I pull him up to read on the show.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: So you're ready to get into this question? Yeah, like
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: the hit here. It opened this time because last week
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: I was struggling boom. Maybe I should start wearing context anyway,
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: I'm bored and extremely nosy, like like that tell me
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: the one family see that you weren't supposed to know
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: ship anyway.
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: Yes, I kind of carrying on.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: Uh get to see you ready, bitches, I'm getting my
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: throat together.
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: I'm ready.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: That's what she said.
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: That's what he said.
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: Todd me, me, me me, he's been the seconds thrown out.
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: Let's saying started, y'all I'm bored and extremely nosy, aren't
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: we all? Tell me the one family secret you weren't
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: supposed to know but somehow found out. Anyway. My great
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: aunt unallowed her abusive husband in the seventies with herbs
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: and flowers from her garden. She was a botanist, she
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: told me before she passed and said they never believed me.
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: So I just decided to pay the part of the
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: grooving widow and handle it myself.
• 25:30
  Speaker 4: They never believed me, shout out Auntie. H m hm
• 25:34
  Speaker 4: mm hmmm. She said they never believed me. Mm hmm.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: But I used them leafs.
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: All right, Well, I hope, I hope you left you love,
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: left for recipe book, for your for your for your
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: family to be like, hey, you know, just passing down there,
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: all the women in your family, I will.
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: Say herbalists botanists are an important part of the community.
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: She wants to take all the music. They calm you down,
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: They help you with cycle stop a heart beat two,
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: you know, because what you need. Yeah, yeah, shout to erbalists.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: The Lord right out here doing God's work. Rating that's
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: diabolic coors.
• 26:19
  Speaker 4: Fu Damn. I don't think we ever had a diabolical
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: one early.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: And the first one die by dangerous.
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: I need you call me him laughing. I followed this account.
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: It's a couple. They run a farm in central California,
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: and the wife is a she's a botanist, she's a erbalist,
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: and the daughter, her stepdaughter, comes saying, I'm having cramps.
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: So I'm having like a headache. I have this. Well,
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: let's go on to the garden. She's growing fresh, like
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: fresh everything, fresh time, a regular rosemary, she's growing mint,
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: she grows, Bella Donna, she grows, she grows everything. She said, Well,
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: we're gonna make it a regular team.
• 26:58
  Speaker 4: You know when he said Belladonna, all I thought about
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: the go go bad, Bella done.
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: Oh, I thought was poor. Yeah, I'm about to say bitch.
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: I thought she was about to say the porn. I
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: was like, wait a minute, yeah yeah, And that bitch
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: was that bitch was wild wow, like we know like
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: took took a baseball bat wild.
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: I'm bored. Shouldn't know tell me the one fans secret.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: You weren't supposed to know. We're gonna move past that.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: But you weren't supposed to know, but found out somehow anyway,
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: my god. Today, I'll just say this. We haven't reached
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: the statue of limitations for this crime yet, but you
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: just need to know that my mom is a badass smart.
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: Some of y'all be in this comment is telling y'all mess.
• 28:00
  Speaker 4: Y'all be incriminating folk, and we thank you appreciate it.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: That's the second. What's that? Look?
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: I tell you, I'll tell you this. I'll tell y'all
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: the full story in about like two years, two more years.
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: That way they can't charge him m.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: Raiding raiding.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: That's the second. That's diabolical.
• 28:19
  Speaker 4: You're just wasting my time. Okay, next one, just in
• 28:23
  Speaker 4: box to me.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm bored in, extremely nosy. Tell me the one
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: family secret you weren't supposed to know but somehow found out. Anyway,
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: I knocked over my aunt's toiletree bag on accident. A
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: heart shaped locket was in it. It was a picture
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: of my late father. I don't understand because that was
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: my mom's sister.
• 28:42
  Speaker 4: Why why, why what what you got a picture of
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: my daddy for? Was you hunching my daddy? Hope, I'm
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: gonna tell my mom. I'm gonna tell my mom. My
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: grandmother always said you was a little fast and ass back.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: In the day.
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: Wait, wait, hold up, but what if but what if
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: it was the dad your daddy. That's fine, that's the and.
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: So he was always my number one, always with my
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: number one.
• 29:10
  Speaker 4: I don't give he was married to your sister, sister
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: Sha and even one of your work for damn.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: He he tried to had that like it, bro, and
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: like had that like it in this day and age.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: And she's still holding on to speating it off the frame.
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah he yeah, he was probably first mattress everything. He
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: was her first, her first, her last, and her everything.
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: That still and I'm still gonna be. Don't give very White.
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: My first, my right.
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: About to go meet Berry White, bitch h h. Next one,
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: I'm bored and extremely nosy. Tell me the one family
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: secret you verst of us to know, but somehow found out. Anyway,
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: my uncle had a secret affair and child, and that
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: kid grew up and became bessies with his daughter that
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: he had with his actual wife. No one knows but me.
• 30:14
  Speaker 4: Going around. That's almost y'all went to school with y'all
• 30:19
  Speaker 4: siblings and ain't know it. Noybody used to say, well,
• 30:21
  Speaker 4: y'all looked just like there was a reason for that.
• 30:26
  Speaker 4: One of both of your parents were.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: Not necessarily a little promiscuous. Maybe what's the difference? It's
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: nicer hmm, y'all know them like we know them.
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: You know, Braden and go to hell. Let's move on, y'all.
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: I'm born an extremely nosy Tell me the one family
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: secret you weren't supposed to know but somehow found out. Anyway.
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: My grandpa was diabetic and never told anyone. We found
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: out when he had a medical emergency close to the
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: time of his passing. He said that he didn't tell people,
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: including the family, because he wanted to eat what the
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: hell he wanted?
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: Well, Pop Hoop died, happened. He might have been missing
• 31:13
  Speaker 4: a couple of toes, but yeah, teeth might have been gone. Yeah,
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: big Mama, your arm, you know, literally, she said, ain't
• 31:26
  Speaker 4: nobody gonna cut by, And that's final. They cut their
• 31:30
  Speaker 4: motherfucking leg off, didn't it, Because y'all you wanted the
• 31:38
  Speaker 4: hog Marge and children's every Sunday. You can't. You can't,
• 31:43
  Speaker 4: you can't, Big Mama.
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: Ain't nothing that a little butter won't care.
• 31:47
  Speaker 8: Little turp time on my herbs.
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: My favorite would that'd be my favorite part of a
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: bunch of movies, movies and TV shows. More like I'm
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: not doing it at that set and the next scene
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: possibly on the.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: Wait to put up.
• 32:06
  Speaker 4: You've been here the whole time.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: Shout out to Irma P. Hall and Brandon Hammond that
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: pictured them together a year or so nostalgia she had
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: just turned ninety and Brandon Hammond, who played the model
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: soul who went to see it and they grew up
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: to be found.
• 32:21
  Speaker 8: I was like, oh God, not a mind, not a mind.
• 32:25
  Speaker 4: That boy grew up to be found with that bird.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: He's sure for her. They like me, you like them to.
• 32:39
  Speaker 4: They my fault. They want to ride this ride.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: You come in, my little open.
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: Come in, my little daughter. You need to be this.
• 32:52
  Speaker 4: Traffic Yep, exactly what it is they like to ride.
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: I'm trying to be the damn.
• 32:59
  Speaker 3: Ride or you be riding now because they bealssing you
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: a big ass round child. Please don't nigga ever talks
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: me around the little nigga ouse.
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: Next one. I'm bored an extremely nosy tell me the
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: one family secret you weren't supposed to know but somehow
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: found out. Anyway, My racist family on my mom's side
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: claim just being Native American as the reason for their
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: dark skin. When I took a DNA test, it turned
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: out there was a little more African American dnames than
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: my native floating around in.
• 33:30
  Speaker 4: My gene to the house with fried chicken and watermelon.
• 33:36
  Speaker 4: Have you been craving this lately?
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: You know?
• 33:38
  Speaker 4: They said us blacks love this stuff. And I bought
• 33:44
  Speaker 4: some brown kool Aid, brown Koolid, purple and red mixed
• 33:48
  Speaker 4: the cattle.
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: You know what.
• 33:52
  Speaker 4: Mm hmm.
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: Black sludge and shit and nigga like, nah, you keep
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: that ship? See red or blue.
• 34:01
  Speaker 4: Or purple? We don't know flavors. We know colors red, blue, purple.
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: You know, Black people only drink orange sold and grape soda,
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: an occasional strawberry.
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: And we love a pepsi braiding, a pepsi ice cold,
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: pepsi ice cold. When you sip it, you go. My grandmother,
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: God rest her soul, used to keep her mugs in
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: the freezer. That door wasn't used for nothing but the
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: mugs that she would drink her pepsis out of. You
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: can put shit in them doors. She had mugs lined
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: up fur on the top row four in the bottom.
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: Bro open that door to get something the freezer. Brandy,
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: give me a mug off the freezer. Oh, give me
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: a pepsi.
• 34:47
  Speaker 4: Okay, grandma ice, cool pepsi. We're gonna freezer for a
• 34:51
  Speaker 4: little while. So I got a little slushing.
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: Oh that's the best. Unless the more time you forgot
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: it was in there and then you had frozen frozen.
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: Run that bitch, onder some cold or some hot water,
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: or exploded all in the front.
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: Got pepsi all over my breakfast sauce, like.
• 35:04
  Speaker 4: God, damn it.
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: Ranch it off the sound of a movie.
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: You find a lot of it on only fans nowadays.
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: I'm tell me the family. See, you weren't supposed to know,
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: but somehow found out anyway. My cousin is the famous
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: friendly bank robber from Cincinnati, Ohio. He got by wearing
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: his bank robbing costume to a family Halloween party. What
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: about own family members snitched him out?
• 35:35
  Speaker 4: Fuck the family member that snitched through that ba That
• 35:37
  Speaker 4: money is insured at the bank. He ain't hurt. Nobody
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: snitch it, ass bitch a friendly bank robber. Hey, excuse me,
• 35:47
  Speaker 4: I mean interrupt your day, but give your money? Can
• 35:51
  Speaker 4: you put all the money in the bank. Please, thank
• 35:54
  Speaker 4: you so much. Have a beautiful day.
• 35:56
  Speaker 8: You know, this is just this is just here.
• 35:58
  Speaker 4: You know, we let you know. I'm serious. Yeah, don't
• 36:02
  Speaker 4: put no die pegs and don't reach over and press
• 36:04
  Speaker 4: that button. Don't put that money clip if I watched
• 36:07
  Speaker 4: set it off. Okay, all right, thank you, have a blessed,
• 36:12
  Speaker 4: blessed and wonderful day. Thank you so much.
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: You know it's a nigga that's doing this ship because
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: she said, I don't feel that I watched set it off.
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: Oh no, baby, he's white. The lady never started. This
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: is white. And but that's hey there guy, Hey, that's
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: a good.
• 36:31
  Speaker 4: I'm here to rob you. You know it's going to
• 36:34
  Speaker 4: be a little bit of an inconvenience. Hey, I promise,
• 36:36
  Speaker 4: you know, just give me the money. I'll be out
• 36:38
  Speaker 4: your way work.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: Strange of things that has happening.
• 36:40
  Speaker 4: Right now, and you can take early lunch break today.
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they're going to investigate how you doing. Look a
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: little stressed, don't be. This is just here for this
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: is me and this is my more support. Yeah, go
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: ahead and feel the bag. It's beautiful day today.
• 36:58
  Speaker 4: I know on the ground, count to one hundred out
• 37:02
  Speaker 4: your hair.
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: I love your haircut, by the way, beautiful.
• 37:06
  Speaker 4: Figure it out those highlights, bring out your.
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: Eyes to tell you, nigga, that's still the money. That's
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: still the money from you. And then and then tip
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: you to the barber shop like.
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: You know. I was at the bank the other day
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: and well, here's your time.
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: I saw a haircut and I want to get anybody
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: if I take a picture.
• 37:27
  Speaker 4: Thank you, inspiration.
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: Thanks, have a blessing. Look be safe now, sir, I've been.
• 37:34
  Speaker 4: Very nice to you. Why are would you try to
• 37:35
  Speaker 4: reach for your gun? Mister security guard?
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: Who would you do that?
• 37:39
  Speaker 8: I don't want to hurt anybody.
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: I just want to, you know, have a little extra.
• 37:42
  Speaker 4: Out in the pocket. You know, you know I got
• 37:44
  Speaker 4: I got you to take a few surgeries to pay
• 37:46
  Speaker 4: for it.
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 37:47
  Speaker 4: Oow, why are you making things hard for me right now?
• 37:51
  Speaker 4: You're trying to make me get ugly. I don't want
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: to get ugly.
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: Next one, shout out to the friendly bank.
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: That that's that's a crazy a sketch.
• 37:58
  Speaker 4: Ain't gonna hurt nobody.
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: You just dancing your m.
• 38:04
  Speaker 4: Say how to my mama?
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: Y'all they can't see it, but hey, ma hey, but
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: they might actually hear it now because you way farther
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: away from Cam. She's standing right behind you. Y'all can't
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: see it, but y'all can hear a funny. I'm bored.
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: Tell me the one family secret you weren't supposed to
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: know but found out anyway. My mom was never adopted,
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: just kidnapped.
• 38:28
  Speaker 4: Oh oh oh, is not hand sandwich?
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: Not that nas ship bro lord had mercy damn the
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: amount of trauma.
• 38:42
  Speaker 4: But in the Lifetime movie network is going on here?
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: What any of your birth certificate and social security called
• 38:50
  Speaker 4: is not valid? It's going on.
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: Here if you don't know about her research Colorida White
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: because that story was wild.
• 38:57
  Speaker 4: And Kamala Mobley. What was that little girl name that
• 39:02
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• 39:07
  Speaker 4: My life.
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: With m next one. I'm bored and extremely nosy. Tell
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: me one family secret you weren't supposed to know but
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: found out anyway. My uncle unallowed my grandma in a
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: schizophrenic episode after he locked his whole family in the house.
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: He thought she was the devil doing makeup in the mirror.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: My God, Jesus, wouldn't it shining.
• 39:31
  Speaker 4: That's that's that's a lot, that's a lot.
• 39:36
  Speaker 3: Lokat us just shining Amityville horror all together like he
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: ty m, that's the bicle mm hmm.
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: To follow up to this, the same person left. The
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: follow up comment was after after somebody responded, somebody responded,
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: that breaks my heart. He knew and reached off for help.
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: So many people let him down. I'm glad he has
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: you and his family support. And then the original proster
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: op replied, it's okay, we all forgave him. He never
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: did it intentionally. A couple of days before he knew
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: an episode was coming on, he was medicated. He went
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: and tried to check into the hospital. They said, sir,
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: you don't have insurance. He said, yeah, we can figure
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: that out later, and even tried to say that he
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: felt like he was going to spiral, that something bad
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: was going to happen. They told him that leave a
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: note for his doctor to increase his meds, and that's
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: all they could do. He had to do ten or
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: so years incarcerated from when I was told he's good
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: now and he lives every day missing his mommy, all
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: because of the system failed him.
• 40:40
  Speaker 4: Jesus damn. That pisses me off. That pisces me off
• 40:47
  Speaker 4: that they so often people are overlooked in it because
• 40:53
  Speaker 4: of shit like that inance. Yeah, they turned people away,
• 40:58
  Speaker 4: and that should be if it's not legal or it's
• 41:01
  Speaker 4: not nothing to preventing that, it should be to be
• 41:04
  Speaker 4: able to turn people away. Y'all will survive treating somebody
• 41:10
  Speaker 4: without insurance. You'll get over it, You'll be okay. It's
• 41:14
  Speaker 4: not like it's a private practice. If somebody goes to
• 41:16
  Speaker 4: a hospital or something like that asking for help, they
• 41:18
  Speaker 4: shouldn't be able to turn them away. That's it it.
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: Next one, I'm bored and extremely nosy. Tell me the
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: one family secret you weren't supposed to know but found
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: out somehow. Anyway, my great grandfather was a snitch. Those
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: two brothers didn't unallow themselves. They were taken up by
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: the mob because of him. So he moved to America
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: and changed our family's last name.
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: Yo.
• 41:47
  Speaker 4: Movie was that ear snitch bitch snitching nass bitch Empire,
• 41:54
  Speaker 4: That's what it was. Snitch bitch snitching nass bitch. Ain't
• 42:00
  Speaker 4: made this song about? Who made that damn song? Was
• 42:02
  Speaker 4: it about Frank Gat?
• 42:04
  Speaker 8: Yeah?
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think Lucia's. Yeah, Lucia's made the maid the ship.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: But so you hm, that's.
• 42:15
  Speaker 4: Crazy, that's crazy. That that's that's about a nine. We
• 42:21
  Speaker 4: changed their.
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: Last name, he said, I'm getting the fun up out
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: of his in this boat, right.
• 42:27
  Speaker 4: Their last name went for Petrollo to Jones.
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: Next one. I'm bored and extremely nosy. Tell me the
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: one family secret you weren't supposed to know but somehow
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: found out. Anyway, My aunt was actually my grandpa. They
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: told me he died of Vietnam, but turns out she
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: just became aunt Rose.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: I mean technically he out did die Vietnam.
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: Your grandfather became your aunt? Interesting? Very interesting?
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: Hm hm hm.
• 43:11
  Speaker 4: Not your grandfather became your grandmother. You became your auntie? Why?
• 43:16
  Speaker 4: Very interesting? Mm hmm.
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: Okay, all right, ready we got questions, don't we all?
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: Mm hmm yeah, yeah we yeah, we won't get that
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: a question about nigga like.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: Because what we'll return to that later. Explain this.
• 43:36
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• 43:40
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• 43:46
  Speaker 4: I must take got a good old, good good some
• 43:50
  Speaker 4: good ass work done for you not to know that
• 43:51
  Speaker 4: aunt roads was what's your uncle? This is your this
• 43:59
  Speaker 4: is grand.
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: Grand Can I say somebody actually do that at the funeral, y'all.
• 44:11
  Speaker 4: I would do it. I should have did it for Poppap,
• 44:16
  Speaker 4: but Grandma probably would would have beat me.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: You know, he would be laughing at it.
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: I'm bored and extremely knows he Tell me the one
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: family secret you weren't supposed to know but found out anyway.
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: My family always said that our great great grandfather had
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: an affair and left Italy to come to America with
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: his affair family.
• 44:43
  Speaker 8: Wrong.
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: We were the afair family. I told everyone after doing
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: my ancestry and genealogy, first of.
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: All, what the what the fuck is well? What the
• 44:54
  Speaker 3: fuck is up with these other people fleeing the country?
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: Had he out and did some ship?
• 45:00
  Speaker 4: Oh ship? There's a lot of fan families out there.
• 45:03
  Speaker 4: Hold you told you that's why your grandmother couldn't stand
• 45:07
  Speaker 4: Miss Shirley down the street, because Shirley was hunting on
• 45:09
  Speaker 4: your pop up.
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: Moving on, I'm bored in extremely nosy. Tell me the
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: one family secret you weren't posting up but found out anyway.
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: My mom catfished dozens and dozens of army men in
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: the early than two thousands. She even told one I
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: was her roommate, not her daughter.
• 45:30
  Speaker 4: Oh, follow up question, what's she getting paid? Did you
• 45:40
  Speaker 4: ever go without.
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: Mommy had to do?
• 45:43
  Speaker 4: I'm not saying it was right. This biscus army, and
• 45:50
  Speaker 4: why said a different name, nigga.
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: She was a different picture. She was the real pup
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: girl pictures.
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: She was.
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: She was the real sunny circles.
• 46:00
  Speaker 4: It's just a fucking Maryland Monroe. They're like, oh my god,
• 46:02
  Speaker 4: you look just like Marylyn Monroe. She's like, oh, I
• 46:03
  Speaker 4: hear that all the time. The next one thinks she
• 46:06
  Speaker 4: motherfucker with the kid.
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: Baby, this not I didn't eave this jack kid. Yes
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: you did, Dorothy dan Rich, That's that's your jacket. I'm
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: not even in this unit.
• 46:16
  Speaker 4: Yes you are, dang Carol.
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: Kay.
• 46:24
  Speaker 4: She even said one of them niggas a picture of
• 46:26
  Speaker 4: mother fucking paddle Lea.
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: Bell, her face cut out, cutting into the picture.
• 46:31
  Speaker 4: His life. This was Halloween.
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: Mm hm.
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: That's diabolical.
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: It's that is diabolical because it's basically got a whole
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: fucking ring, like a catfish ring. Yeah, she's sending letters
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: to EAT's two different squadrons, so you know what I mean.
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: So so, Infinity Stone, this is I'm serving my country.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: Yes, she sermon con towny laying low.
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: And spreadant wine, laying lowish bread and wine, definitely serving
• 47:07
  Speaker 3: a tree.
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm bored and extremely nosy.
• 47:13
  Speaker 4: She was trying to serve.
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: Tell me the family secret you weren't supposed to know,
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: but somehow found out. Anyway, I have a great uncle
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: who was stuck in a Mexican prison in the seventies,
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: and my great grandma found out a way to break
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: him out. He since passed away several years ago to
• 47:35
  Speaker 2: the old age. Now she she broke it.
• 47:41
  Speaker 4: What in the family matters?
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: Ship didn't even make it to do the.
• 47:50
  Speaker 4: Mexico to break wall though out of jail.
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: A buler of scaling walls mm hm.
• 47:57
  Speaker 4: She tied a chain to the back of a pickup
• 47:58
  Speaker 4: truck and pulled.
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: The wall off the side it was before though.
• 48:05
  Speaker 5: This bumper belong to the bush.
• 48:18
  Speaker 4: You gotta always got a domnza. After thought, there wasn't
• 48:22
  Speaker 4: a fucking API. Thought that was like a sixth And then.
• 48:32
  Speaker 8: Oh we are rude.
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: I mean granted we about an hour and at this point,
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: but being beneto no t c us see, I'm bored
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: and extremely nosy. Tell me the one family secret you
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: weren't supposed to know, but somehow found out any My
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: dad not only had multiple wives, but he was cheating
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: on them all with each other, so when he divorced one,
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: he remarried but still see his ex wife. My mom
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: never knew, but I did.
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: Your dad is a whore, and fuck you for not
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: saying up and take your mother, bitch, Your disloyal is hope.
• 49:29
  Speaker 4: Always take your mama's side unless your mama.
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: Was the hole.
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: And then now you got niggas like YA don't know
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: her like I know her?
• 49:47
  Speaker 8: Well, oh god, you don't know he liked I.
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: Want to place you're by and extremely know you tell
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: me the one family secret you weren't supposed to know
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: but found out anyway. Before my mom met my dad,
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: my mom dated a guy and a girl at the
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: same time. Then they both left her to go to
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: New York together. She also used to have lots of
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: drag queen friends and went to Pride often. But now
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: she gets mad if I do that.
• 50:23
  Speaker 4: Your mom was a hypocrite. You don't want you to
• 50:28
  Speaker 4: she had and they left her for each other.
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah give a little Yeah, MoMA don't want him to
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: meet his real daddy.
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: I'm boy and the extremely know tell me the one
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: to know, but somehow found out anyway, No, my mom
• 50:55
  Speaker 2: sold me the traffickers in Las Vegas at seven weeks
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: old so she didn't have to move to Virginia with
• 50:59
  Speaker 2: my dad. I was then found in an abandoned warehouse
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: and giving back to my dad. Yeah, I'm no contact.
• 51:07
  Speaker 8: What in the entire fuck?
• 51:09
  Speaker 4: What in the lifetime movie of the week?
• 51:12
  Speaker 2: What?
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, nigga, who told you this story?
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: I'm guessing the daddy did when they found it in
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: an abandoned.
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: Wear Oh today, tomorrow and after that, nigga, I'm sorry,
• 51:26
  Speaker 3: like I got I'm a little skeptic because it's like
• 51:28
  Speaker 3: it sounded felt like a daddy told the story about
• 51:30
  Speaker 3: your mommy and mama and mama left her for a
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: black man.
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: Fuck that bitch, Rachel, you're gonna leave me, bitch, I'm
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: gonna assassinate your fucking cat. Oh ship, Yeah she started. Yeah, Cassie, Cassie,
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: he's walking with a box. Cassie. She sold you, and
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: she showed you your mother wasn't worth a dad and
• 51:59
  Speaker 2: I for door no matter what he had on, what
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: he had on, I went, I went to Vegas I
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: went to Vegas like the father and taken tracked you
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: to an abandoned warehouse.
• 52:11
  Speaker 4: Because what they didn't know was I put a tracker
• 52:13
  Speaker 4: in your ass when you were born.
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: I always know where you wear, honey, always.
• 52:19
  Speaker 4: Mother's a whole, mother's a whore. She left me for
• 52:23
  Speaker 4: that slick talking nil.
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: Nigga, nice gentleman, Earl. I'm not racist.
• 52:36
  Speaker 4: I'm not racist for some people. You know how those
• 52:39
  Speaker 4: people are.
• 52:40
  Speaker 2: You can't trust those people.
• 52:41
  Speaker 4: Can't trust those people.
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they're not all bad.
• 52:46
  Speaker 4: That group v U that that group, that group v
• 52:49
  Speaker 4: v D said you can't trust the big button smile.
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: You can't trust them on the big digs eat. Yeah, yeah,
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: that's why she left me. Yeah, and who were I mean?
• 53:02
  Speaker 3: It was like drive, It was like driving, throwing the
• 53:04
  Speaker 3: hot dog down the hallway, she said, She said, I
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: didn't fulfill her.
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: But Earl Fielders, I'm bored and extremely nosy. Tell me
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: the one family secret you were supposed to know, but
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: somehow found out. My mom's first husband was also her
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: first cousin, and he still visits and sleeps in her
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: bed fifty years later. My own cousin was the one
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: who told me ex husband, Mike and cousin Mike are
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: the same person.
• 53:31
  Speaker 4: Ill, my mother's a fucking weirdo eyes Yeah, mm hmmm,
• 53:42
  Speaker 4: that's the three.
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, cousin Mike and Mike is first that thinking mad
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: because the mother moved on.
• 53:54
  Speaker 4: That's disgusting.
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: Next one, I'm bored and extremely nos tell me the
• 54:00
  Speaker 2: one family secret you weren't supposed to know but somehow
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: found out. Anyway, My uncle got a step mother pregnant
• 54:06
  Speaker 2: and she had an abortion or some amortion. She was
• 54:12
  Speaker 2: the same age as my uncle. My grandpa had married
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: a woman twenty years younger than him. She and my
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: grandpa had already had my aunt together, and her fing
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: with my uncle was going on for years still.
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: I mean, I mean she was trying to keep it
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: all in the family.
• 54:29
  Speaker 2: Bro, She kept it all in the family.
• 54:32
  Speaker 4: One side fucking brothers and my brother cousin's days.
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: Was that day, not the baby being the grandson and
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: the stepson.
• 54:45
  Speaker 4: That's my uncle. He was the uncle, your uncle and your.
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: Brother oh or bronkle h, bronco, bronco something better.
• 55:01
  Speaker 2: Next one, I'm bored an extremely nosy. Tell me the
• 55:04
  Speaker 2: one family secret you weren't supposed to know. But I
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: found out anyway. When I was ten, my family and
• 55:09
  Speaker 2: I were at our county fair. We passed the family
• 55:13
  Speaker 2: and my dad said, that's your real dad right there.
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: Argued all night. When I was twenty nine, I had
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: a DNA test for another reason, and that confirmed that
• 55:21
  Speaker 2: he was not my dad. I remember the man's facing
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: name to this day. But see no need to tear
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: of my families.
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: What the fuck? Y'all shout out to y'all hold on
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: me wanting to conflict.
• 55:38
  Speaker 4: What the fuck?
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: Because the scene out of me? Boy? What my what?
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: Show you got better restrength than me? Better or sister?
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: You want to help them? I'm bored an extremely nosed.
• 55:53
  Speaker 4: African coworkers to day they worked out day. I squealed,
• 55:57
  Speaker 4: tell me is a d mon?
• 56:02
  Speaker 2: I'm bored in extremely nosy telling me one family secret
• 56:05
  Speaker 2: you weren't supposed to know, but found out anyway. It wasn't.
• 56:10
  Speaker 2: It wasn't a vacation home. It was a safe house.
• 56:12
  Speaker 3: Excuse me, Oh wow, hey baby, we're going on a
• 56:19
  Speaker 3: vacation for a little bit. You don't need to pack nothing.
• 56:21
  Speaker 3: I got all get bags in the car, getting the car,
• 56:23
  Speaker 3: just getting the car. Stuff there we'll be going. Don't
• 56:25
  Speaker 3: worry about it. I'm bored in extremely nosy. Tell me
• 56:28
  Speaker 3: the one family secret you weren't supposed to know but
• 56:31
  Speaker 3: somehow found out anyway. My grandpa had an affair. Got
• 56:40
  Speaker 3: this lady pregnant baby died during birth on Friday the thirteenth.
• 56:43
  Speaker 3: Fast forward a couple of years, and my mom was
• 56:45
  Speaker 3: born on Friday the thirteenth. Also, my mom and her
• 56:48
  Speaker 3: sister looked nothing alike.
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: Your mom is a demo.
• 56:54
  Speaker 4: Your mom is the divorced baby. That lady baby ain't
• 56:56
  Speaker 4: died doing birth. Your mama is that baby started to
• 57:00
  Speaker 4: be the one to tell you that's a lot.
• 57:06
  Speaker 3: One born black and of the extra space, no one
• 57:08
  Speaker 3: got chinky eyes, rading, daddy dirty.
• 57:14
  Speaker 4: Somebody still lying. That's the reading and.
• 57:19
  Speaker 2: Is last one. I'm bored and extremely nosy. Tell me
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  Speaker 2: That was almost twenty years ago. Jesus, who's gonna check you?
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: Boe?
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  Speaker 4: The first question of the week. We gotta inbox, y'all
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• 1:00:15
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• 1:00:24
  Speaker 4: aka Casts Shout out to you bou and the title
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 4: is when a twenty year friendship hits its expiration date.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 4: Oh Lord, I am writing you today with a glass
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 4: of Hennessy and a heavy heart. My kind of carrying
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 4: on cast. My name is Cassidy and I've been friends
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 4: with someone for twenty years, literally through every major milestone
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 4: of my life. Lately, though, I feel like the friendship
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 4: has run its course. We just don't align anymore, and
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 4: the effort fills one sided. Been there, Got there, got
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 4: the T shirt and the PTSD cast. So my question
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 4: for you guys, since you said your friendship is almost
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 4: thirty years old, how do you handle the breakup of
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 4: a friendship that's old. Is it better to have a
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 4: formal it's over conversation out of respect for history, or
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 4: is the slow fade more appropriate when you've just outgrown
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 4: each other? PS? Loved the show, Cassidy aka cast PS again,
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna read this second set of questions after we
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 4: answer this, because she asks us individual questions as well.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 4: All right, so Castile. These questions essentially is how do
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 4: you deal with a friendship that you feel has run
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 4: its course?
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 2: So I'll start off and say there aren't three dreams,
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 2: they're actually six. Let's see FI two F three No,
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 2: So our friend group core friend group originally had six people,
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 2: and not just the three lovely faces, well three plus
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: our bonus co host key. But the friend group initially
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: had six people in it, Key, who was our original
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 2: co host, who was on I think the first seventeen
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 2: or eighteen episodes of the Ship. Shauna and Key actually
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 2: met first. They met in the first grade. I moved local,
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 2: moved to the area and met Shawna in the fourth grade.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 2: Key left fourth grade year and came back at fifth.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 2: I met Key fifth grade year, and then we all
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 2: went to middle school. We met Aaron in the sixth grade,
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 2: and our other friend who we will discuss in the
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 2: second and we met our friend Rodney, who was on
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 2: the podcast was it last season? Him and him and
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 2: his wife Sheena were on the podcast last season. But
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 2: we met Rodney in high school. So the group of
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 2: six and of course other friends and tangential groups, because
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 2: you know, people are in multiple groups, but it was
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 2: the six of us for several years. Friendships have gone
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 2: through ups and downs throughout the years. There was a
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 2: period of time, believe it or not, but we're in
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 2: high school with Sean and keanum were not getting along
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 2: at all. They were beefing for pretty much all of high.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 4: School dumb shit from probably ten to twelfth grade.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 2: I think me and this nigga was in the middle. Well,
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 2: I moved away and came back, was like, what the
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 2: fuck are y'all? Fuck niggas? But anyway, there were some
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 2: There was a situation that occurred, and I'll let Seana
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 2: talk talk about that in detail because it is their
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 2: relationship and I'm not sure what she does or does
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 2: not want to reveal from them from the situation. Although
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 2: they may not be friends anymore, you know, I think
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 2: there's still a level of respect for the relationship and
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 2: what it was, and revealing the levels of everything in
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 2: traumas is just not the thing. But I think to
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 2: give a higher level review as a person who was
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 2: like switching in in the situation. Sometimes friends friendships run
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 2: their course. We all were brought together because we went
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 2: to school together with in each other's classes. They lived
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 2: close to each other, so friendships naturally form, like a
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 2: lot of childhood friendships do. But once you graduate from
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 2: high school, some people go off to college, people a
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 2: way to go to school, people start working. Everybody's lives
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 2: fragment off in the different directions, and sometimes you can
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 2: keep up and we did that for a period, but
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 2: there was also periods where all of us because we
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 2: were all you know, different things. I was in school
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 2: over East Baltimore. They were working multiple jobs. Sean very
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 2: young nineteen and twenty, so everybody was living in different lives,
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: and the would be peers where we would hang out
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 2: and then go a couple months without talking or a
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 2: couple months without seeing each other because everybody's busy. Sometimes
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 2: friendships run their course. And I talk crap about Tyler Perry, right,
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 2: but I brought up the greatness that is his place
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 2: because his plays always have a lesson in it that
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 2: you can apply to life. In media Goes to Jail,
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 2: there was a reference of you know, when Sonny was
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 2: talking about the wife that left him for the guy
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 2: who smelled like you know, Friends and relationships can be branches.
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 2: They could be leaves on the tree that blow off.
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 2: They could be the branches that are a bit sturdier,
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 2: but after time roots, and they could be the root.
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  Speaker 1: To the true.
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  Speaker 2: And sometimes as time goes on, people have different personalities.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 2: Some things that happen cause people to clash. It's okay
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 2: to mourn the relationship for what you had. I do
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 2: personally think that if you are at a point where
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 2: you know that the relationship has reached a point of
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 2: no return, where you're not interested in continuing it because
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 2: you've grown beyond them. I think it's worth having a conversation.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 2: Whether you choose to do it in personal via texts
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 2: up to you will over FaceTime, But if you respect
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: the person enough because of your history together, I would say, hey,
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 2: write them an email or find a way to communicate
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 2: your feelings so they aren't blindsided by a person who
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 2: is or was a friend of their suddenly not responding
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 2: to them or ignoring them in public, and that person
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 2: not knowing what's happening.
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  Speaker 3: You know, that's funny because it took me thirteen years
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 3: to realize that that form in particular, stop being friend
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 3: and stop being my friend.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 3: And I pinpointed on a day that the day of
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 3: Time Memorial, when Seana running late and she was like,
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 3: she's trying to rush to get that, and you know,
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 3: I dud was like, she did, ain't like she going anywhere?
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he said that, Yeah, and she didn't check them.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 4: She didn't check them.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 2: I didn't know that.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we knew. And I actually didn't say anything right away. Yeah,
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 4: he was already upset enough and I didn't say anything
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 4: right away. So that kind of for me was the
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 4: beginning of how I started to feel about him. So
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 4: the situation that Brandon was speaking of this was from
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 4: my perspective, we had, like Brandon said, it was a
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 4: group of us who had been friends pretty much essentially
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 4: our entire lives right since we were kids. The issue
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 4: that happened with our friendship coming to end with this
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 4: person was essentially a lot of the things that she
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 4: started doing with her life for me and as the
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 4: fact that she was a mother at the time, were
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 4: reckless and she was making decisions that could ultimately end badly.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 4: But what really caused the friendship to essentially come to
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 4: an end was she didn't like being told that the
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 4: decision was a bad decision, you know. And even if
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 4: we say okay, well we said how we felt, were
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 4: gonna leave it alone, were wanted to move on. She
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 4: dwelled on things. So what the the the destroyer broke
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 4: the Camel's back for me was that I helped her
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 4: out of a particular situation and she went right back
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 4: to it. Now we all did, yeah, we all me,
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 4: specifically me, Brandon and Key because at this point she
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 4: had already kind of pushed Aaron to the side because
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 4: of the insecurities of her partner. That's what it all
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 4: boils down to. He had an issue with the fact
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 4: that she was still friends with Aaron and her and
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 4: Aaron dated Jer They dated in sixth grade. They don't count.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 4: We were eleven, right, Actually, he had an issue with that,
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 4: and she made a decision that was who the person
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 4: she was gonna be with, and he was uncomfortable with it,
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 4: so she started pushing air in away. Now me and
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 4: Kei personally felt some type of way about that, because
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 4: it was like, we all been friends of all our life.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 4: How are you allowing him to come in between friendships?
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 4: And honestly, in the back of our mind we never
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 4: spoke on it, but we kind of figured eventually he
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 4: was going to try to come between all our friendships,
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 4: and that's exactly what ended up happening. She tried to
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 4: make it like it was about something else now, like
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 4: Brandon said, me and keep it out of this friends group,
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 4: me and keep it the first ones to meet. We
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 4: were friends for many years before we met the rest
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 4: of them. So we've been essentially coach. Me and Key
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 4: have been through a lot of stuff to gather. Key
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 4: has been there for some of the most pivotal times
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 4: in my life. She has helped me throw a lot
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 4: of things in vice versa, right, So of course we're
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 4: super super close. Her family is my family, My family
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 4: is her family. When she was called when she made
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 4: the decision to get back from the spouse, that we
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 4: helped her get away from that, she said she wanted
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 4: to get away from She said she was done. She
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 4: just wanted to coll parents, She just wanted to move
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 4: on with her life. Right, we helped her out of
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 4: the situation. She went right back into the situation. Me
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 4: Brandon and he actually went into our savings accounts and
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 4: gave her the money to move into her own place
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 4: so her and her daughter would have a roof over
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 4: her head and she wouldn't have to move back in
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 4: with her mind. Essentially what ended up happening and she
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 4: chose to go back to that spouse. Me being me,
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 4: I asked why. I asked it what changed, because it
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 4: was all of these things they caused y'all to break.
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 4: They literally fully got divorced, the divorce was finalized, like
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 4: they wanted to separated, and the next thing you know,
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 4: they was back together. And I asked questions. I asked,
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 4: what made you? What's different this go round? What's different?
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 4: And I never really got a concrete answer. She even
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 4: brought him around and I asked him to his face
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 4: what was different? And there was a bunch of bull
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 4: a bunch of gas lighting. But hey, I had to
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 4: be in a relationship with him, so I said, I
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 4: don't like it, I don't understand it, but you're my bestie.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 4: I'm always gonna have your back because I love you.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 4: You're like my sister. I'm not gonna ever stop calling
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 4: you out when you do dumb ship. But because if
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 4: if you if you're best he can't call you out again.
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 2: You understand, the end of the day, we'll have each
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 2: other's back when it comes to things. But we always
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 2: tell each other.
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 4: Hey, that's a good fucking idea.
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 2: You're fucking up.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 4: We've done it with him, They've done it with me,
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 4: like we've all done it right again. She didn't like that,
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 4: and at the end of the day, what it all
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 4: ended up boiling down to you was she made a decision.
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 4: She thought she had to choose between us and him.
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 4: Because a lot we Brandon is a lot more understand
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 4: He's the most understanding this work. He is him and
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 4: him and him and Rodney are the more understanding ones
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 4: out of this entire friends group. I'm gonna be honest
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 4: about that. They stayed out of it. Aaron for the Actually,
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 4: he ended up staying out of it too, But I
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 4: made it known that I would prefer not to be
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 4: around him now if it was something for her or
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 4: her daughter, who was who's my god child. I still
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 4: consider her my god child. Even though I have to
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 4: talk to her mother in a long time. The love
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 4: has not changed. Stole love. She felt she had to
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 4: make a decision between us, when all it was saying
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 4: I was saying was if I'm having an event or something,
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 4: I would prefer that he not be there because it's
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 4: something for me. Now, if it's your event, it's something
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 4: for the baby, I can't control that, and I have
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 4: the option to show up or not show up, and
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 4: he being me trying to be the peace maker, I'm
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 4: going to show up to support you, But if it's
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 4: something for me or my child or something like that,
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 4: I don't want him there because he's not my people.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 4: He's not my He talked about me and Key horribly
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 4: behind our back because we were single. But if he
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 4: knew what we knew, he would be thinking us because
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 4: we helped save his marriage multiple times, multiple times. Okay.
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 4: He also spoke ill of Key's sister and brother in
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 4: law who had stepped into help with their daughter when
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 4: he wasn't doing right by his daughter, and she allowed it,
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 4: and she would come to us and tell us stuff
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 4: when she was upset with him, and then when she
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 4: got over it, she would expect everybody else to get
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 4: over That's why they always say, when you going through
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 4: with your spouse, if you ain't planning on leaving them,
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 4: or you don't want your family to have an opinion,
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 4: shut the fuck up because now you're mad. You're not
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 4: mad no more. You kissing and boohoo woo boo boo
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 4: boo all up and your family it's like, no, we
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 4: don't with that nigga to cook out the fucking wrong
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 4: with you. Yeah, you understand what I'm saying.
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 2: Keep it to yourself.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 4: Sorry, y'all. I I started rambling. At the end of
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 4: the day, you asks, rather a conversation is required. That's
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 4: on the case the case basis. Yeah, I had a conversation.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 4: Things were supposed to change. Nothing changed. If you feel
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 4: like it would make you feel better to get some
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 4: kind of closure and to get it off your chest.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 4: Say how you feel and why you feel that way.
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 4: You know they may never react in a way that
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 4: you want them to, so be prepared for that. Be
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 4: prepared for them to say, oh, well, I didn't do this,
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 4: I didn't do you know, not to take accountability, and
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 4: that's okay, And you can always end it. I still
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 4: love you, but I'm gonna love you from a distance,
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 4: and it's okay. Sometimes people grow apart. It happens in family,
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 4: it happens in romantic relationships. It's okay if you feel
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 4: the need to have a conversation, Cassidy, have the conversation,
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 4: but make sure you get everything that you need to
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 4: say off your chest. And if you think the friendship
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 4: can be saved, maybe it can't. But pay attention to
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 4: everything that's being said. Pay attention to how they react
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 4: to you expressing yourself. Pay attention to how many oh
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 4: about I didn't do it, but you, but you? But you,
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 4: pay all attention to all the day. And at the
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 4: end of the day, it's about your mental health and
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 4: your well being, and it's okay to pull away from
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 4: anything that is not serving you or that it's having
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 4: an effect on your mental health. This particular situation where
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 4: and she's not the only friend, but she was the
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 4: closest friend that I've lost out of I've had friends
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 4: who are my friends. They my people I love. I
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 4: love for most people, and when I bring you around
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 4: my family, I consider that she was. I consider her
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 4: my sister, you know. So that hurt me. I've lost
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 4: other friendships that I got over and be like, oh, whatever,
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 4: it is, what it is. But if I'm being honest,
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 4: that's all I know how to be. That particular loss
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 4: of that friendship did hurt me. It hurt me because
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 4: I gave so much of myself to you. I was
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 4: there for you. I had to beg I've been defending
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 4: you and fighting for you since we were eleven years old,
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 4: and you essentially gave me your ask the kiss behind
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 4: a motherfucker who's been hurting you the entire time they've
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 4: been in your life. Yeah, and she actually ran.
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 2: Into you one of my aunts, like a couple of
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 2: years ago.
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 4: This, Yeah, it was a couple of years ago. Because
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 4: we haven't spoken, it's been at least three years at
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 4: least three or fought was It was after my party,
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 4: after my thirty fifth birthday party, which she brought him
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 4: to without my permission, and I let it go. I didn't.
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 4: We talked about it later, but at that moment I
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 4: let it go because I was happy and I was
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 4: drunk as a skunk, and I had no worries at
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 4: that moment.
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 2: So be five years of this year.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 4: So it'll be five years because I spoke to her
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 4: after after the part later in that year, and in
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 4: the beginning of the following year, I spoke to her
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 4: when I called the wish the baby a happy birthday,
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 4: and we had a conversation and I'm gonna start coming
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 4: back around. I'm gonna start coming to Taco Tuesday again
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 4: and all that, and then that's the last time I
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 4: heard from I think that the same year, she may
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 4: have wished me happy birthday and that was it. So
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 4: it's been about four years.
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 2: Well, no, I think that was the year because now
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 2: I remember this part you wished her she wished you
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 2: a happy birthday.
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 4: Then she missed Trad's birthday, birthday. She then I wished
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 4: she missed your birthday.
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 2: She wished you happy wisthday.
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 4: We wished her a happy birthday.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 2: Her response and well, no she responded to you.
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 4: That year she was to me.
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 2: She didn't respond to me, And our birthdays are a
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 2: few days, five six days.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 4: Yeah, So I was like, okay. And then the following year,
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 4: her baby's birthday is in March. I reached out to
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 4: tell a baby happy birthday. Didn't get a response. And
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 4: then my birthday came up and I didn't hear anything.
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 4: And then what I something I don't know if I
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 4: told y'all, is that I discovered last year when Trey
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 4: went to junior prom. When I was sending out the
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 4: invitations for his prom Sin Dog. You know, Brandon has
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 4: her niece with the same dame. I accidentally sent it
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 4: to both of them. She never opened it, you know,
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 4: I tell you she never opened it. So I just
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 4: like it's okay. But again, but I was about to
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 4: say about about two years ago, maybe two or three
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 4: years ago. Both two years ago, she ran into my aunt.
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 4: They were both on lunch break and she ran into
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 4: my aunt and my aunt said she spoke to uds.
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 4: She came up and gave her the hug and everything,
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 4: and she said, what's going on with you and Sean.
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 4: Y'all have been friends entirely too long for you know,
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 4: y'all just to lose your friendship like this. And she
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 4: told my aunt, I don't know how to fix it,
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 4: and my aunt said, it's so funny, that's why she's
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 4: my favorite aunt. As we thinking like have you tried,
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 4: have you, have you called? Have you made it any attempts?
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 4: And she kind of just looked at my aunt with
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 4: the dumb deer stuck in the head like look, and
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 4: I said, it's the simplest thing. As hurt as I am,
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 4: and I'm not gonna act like I'm not still hurt, because,
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 4: like again, that was my family. If she calls me
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 4: right now, I'll answer the phone and I'll hear her
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 4: out because I loved her that much. But that does
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 4: not mean that the friendship will be the same, be
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 4: the same. And even as upset as hurt as I am,
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 4: you don't wish no ill will on her. And I
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 4: want her to thrive in life. I want her to
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 4: get everything that she's been fighting for all these years.
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: I do.
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 4: I wish her nothing but the best. My wish is
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 4: for her to see her work. It's because also She's
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 4: a dope ass person. She really is.
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 2: Family families are so connected. We're still friends with the
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 2: at least on social media. I'm still friends with her mom.
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 2: I still text my mom every year for her birthday.
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 2: Every year I took some other for her birthday. Her
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 2: younger sisters on Facebook.
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 4: My sister's birthday, it's the same day as my my
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 4: is my brother Brian, her middle sister. I still tell
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 4: her Happy Birthday every year on social media. I don't
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 4: have nothing against anybody, but sometimes now I've had some
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 4: other friendships that end it, and I give a fuck.
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 4: You understand what I'm saying because I always kind of
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 4: sorted those for I learned early on that those friendships
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 4: were one side. It was always me, me, me, me,
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 4: me doing something for everybody else. You know, is a
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 4: long time to be friends with somebody, and there's there's
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 4: always gonna be a sense of love there. But sometimes
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 4: you have to walk away and it's okay.
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 1: Walked away from you.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 4: Just pay yourself And some people are never going to
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 4: be honest with you about why you'd be a friend.
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 4: Now who still won't admit to this day why she
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 4: walked up another friend who was a childhood friend and
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 4: re reconnected as adults, and she walked away from my friendship.
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 4: I don't know why she just stopped speaking to me,
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 4: and I know for fact I never did anything to her,
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 4: but I noticed that she was a completely different person
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 4: depending on who was around.
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 2: You will be surprised to see how many adults don't
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 2: have conflict resolution skills. They don't know how to talk
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 2: about their issues and problems with people. They would rather
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 2: shut off, not say anything, go go ghost and actually
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 2: address a problem, or know how to communicate that they
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 2: have a problem with issue, about something or with something.
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 4: They rather just start speaking to you. They rather to
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 4: just ghost on you.
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 3: I ain't gonna hold you. That's that's how I felt.
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 3: I mean, that's how I felt. That's the way the
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 3: distance became. After the after the after the that food
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 3: truck festival. We went to that that I went to,
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 3: which I like, when I got sick the day I
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 3: want to say, yeah, I want to say two days later.
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 4: Was that's crazy and he got sick. No, thank Jesus,
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 4: I made it home.
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I sat on the phone with explaining myself
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 3: like like, which pissed me off. Twenty ye know it
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 3: was so young of me because that's my you know
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 3: that that was you know, that's that's my friend. You know,
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 3: she always had a soft spot for, like soft spot for.
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 1: I mean it's like I don't want you. I don't
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 1: want to put you in no kind of like, no
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: kind of drawma or nothing.
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 4: Being married.
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 3: And it's like, you know, it was like didn't want
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 3: you know, I don't want nothing like nothing come nothing,
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 3: nothing bad come your way, especially in your relationship.
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 1: But then it's like I realized, you know, as a
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 1: like as an older adult.
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. It's like then I'm sitting as
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 3: you know, as now as a grown man, like an
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 3: older man.
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: It's like, yo, I.
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 3: Really did sit here and explain myself to this nigga
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 3: about my relationship with his bitch.
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 4: Like that was some insecure for Like I don't care
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 4: if you boy from when y'all was five, but that.
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 2: Speaks to your character as a person and as a
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 2: man that you would say, this is what I'm coming
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 2: to you, man to man, this is what the situation is.
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 2: This is what it's not.
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: I mean, ask me, my buddy, I ain't gonna lie
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 1: to you.
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 2: The same way when Shawna and Trey's father were together
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 2: and I got on that nigga when they were going
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 2: through something and he decided he wanted to be a
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 2: man the Holy field, and I said, nigga, not that one.
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 2: I don't here the fuck who she called me hated
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 2: him the phone, and I cussed him to fuck out
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 2: on the phone to the nigger. I don't give a
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 2: fuck what you're going through. I don't give a fuck
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 2: what you got going on. You put your hands on her?
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 2: What talk to me?
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 4: This was after he got jealous of when I said.
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 4: He called me one day to ask me what I
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 4: was doing. I was like, I'm about to go out
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 4: with brand If you mean you're going out with this
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 4: he hadn't met Brandy yet. I said, baby, wait till
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 4: you find out that this man is a is one
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 4: of the girls. And he pulled up, What time are
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 4: you leaving? And he pulled He didn't lift fall from me.
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 4: He pulled up at my house at the same time.
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 4: Brandy pulled up in that day and his mama and
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 4: we had some of the best times in that damn band.
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 2: Take the key out the call with Store room, and.
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 4: He pulled up and Brandon go out of the car
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 4: and was like, what's up. How you doing? He was like,
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 4: I said, that's what your dumb ass get now what
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 4: oh y'all go ahead a good time, okay, even if
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 4: he wasn't even how you're going to tell me who
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 4: I can and still can't be friends with? You rob
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 4: your friends with way before you came along.
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 2: But that.
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 4: People the brand and girlfriends tried it when some of
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 4: Aaron girlfriends and tried it with me and Key I've
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 4: had you know. That was the one who tried to
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 4: demote my my son's father.
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 2: And I checked that nigga every.
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 4: Time, and especially with the Aaron and Rodney of course
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 4: are straight, but once he so he didn't.
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 2: I was straight at the time. I wasn't out grout,
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 2: but we.
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 1: You shut the He was in the best like them
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 1: claws on the door like he was peaking up.
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 4: Ain't right there, but Shook and Rodney and it was
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 4: something he tried to befriend them because and befriend he
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 4: My my son's father has a war concept of thinking
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 4: that he has all this charm and and stuff that
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 4: he can gas like people and people and it didn't
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 4: work friends, they would play along with it and it
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 4: would be funny and like, Sean, what the.
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 2: Fuck did you get?
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 3: You know, don't don't play, don't try to get, don't
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 3: get me, hand me no motherfucking motherfucking Heineken, bitch on them.
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 3: But like you gonna share a bed, I don't know.
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 3: I don't drink that ship nig.
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 8: Yeah, so.
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 1: You trying to get me some don't even know. Motherfucker.
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 4: Expect for our friends to have other lives. Yes, if
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 4: you're a true friend, what you want for your friend
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 4: is to be in a healthy, happy relationship with somebody
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 4: treat them well, because you know what you see in
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 4: your family. But what right you want somebody to do.
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 4: That's something I actually spoke about at my brother cousin's
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 4: funeral about my sister cousin. I said that when I
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 4: got up to speak, I said, all you ever want
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 4: for your sister, your brother, your your best friend, is
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 4: for them to have somebody who's going to love them genuinely,
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 4: who's going to take the kind of care of them
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 4: that you would take care of them. That's a that's
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 4: on my list of things. When I finally get a man,
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 4: you gotta take care of me the way Brandon, but
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 4: take care of me. Brandon is at the bar. You
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 4: got to date me, you have to go. You got
• 1:26:02
  Speaker 4: to feed me, You got to do your other ship
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 4: that I'm used to. My brothers treat me like queens,
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 4: So I'm not going to.
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 1: I mean, a princess. Maybe I ain't that well you feel.
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 2: Like you every woman is.
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 8: Whoa, whoa, whoa.
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 4: So yeah, my brothers treat me like a queen, So
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 4: I'm not going to accept nothing different from a man.
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 4: Have I in the past, we all have, we all
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 4: we all have, and I expect the same thing from
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 4: whoever there was.
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 2: But that's just that just goes to show you, just
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 2: just to bring it back around. Sometimes you have friends
• 1:26:41
  Speaker 2: that get into relationships or end up with people that
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 2: don't gel with people in the group. And sometimes those
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 2: to use that example, that partner may not gel with
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 2: the friend group, and if that person mind in love
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 2: and they want to make that work by any means necessary,
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 2: they will get rid of the friend group to keep
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 2: that person my my all.
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 4: When it was with me and my son's father, I
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 4: tried to do my best to make everybody get along
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 4: because I wanted everybody I love to get along. Now
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 4: at this grown ass age, not doing it anymore. Yeah,
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 4: I'm not gonna do I'm not gonna do that. I'm
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 4: never going to put my people in a position where
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 4: they feel uncomfortable or feel as if I'm letting them
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 4: be disrespected. In the same sense I wouldn't put my
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 4: partner in that situation, because sometimes it's the other way around.
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 4: You understand what I'm saying. Where your family is the
• 1:27:33
  Speaker 4: fucking isshuit. You know, in this case, for us, that
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 4: wasn't the case, because we were rooting for you, bitch
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 4: Tyler Rank's voice, We were rooting for you.
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 8: We all were rooting for you.
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 4: We brought you in the family, treated you like family.
• 1:27:50
  Speaker 4: But I guess you figured, Oh, they keep putting this
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 4: ship now, he I ain't gonna be able to MANIPI
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 4: depart if they keep telling her she deserved better. So
• 1:27:59
  Speaker 4: she's decided that she rather have her have that situation
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 4: than us, And it's okay. And again I still wish
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 4: her all the best in the world. If somebody called
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 4: me to day or tomorrow and told me something had
• 1:28:10
  Speaker 4: happened to her, it would break me. It would break
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 4: my heart, it would. I still want her. I still
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 4: wish the best for I promise you I ain't just
• 1:28:17
  Speaker 4: still wish the best. I had another friendship recently that
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 4: I hadn't spoken to that person in years. They just
• 1:28:23
  Speaker 4: lost their mother. I reached out to her. I reached
• 1:28:26
  Speaker 4: out and sent to my love and my condolence, and
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 4: it was genuine and I meant that ship because again,
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 4: we were friends for a very long time. So I
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 4: had a relationship, you know, a relationship with my mother.
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 4: Her mother treated me good. I used to be at
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 4: their house. I'm gonna feed me and some more ship.
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 4: So I was broken hearted for them. My mother was
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 4: a good woman, and I wanted them to know that
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 4: I really offered my condolences and I loved your mother,
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 4: and I still love you, still love you, still want
• 1:28:50
  Speaker 4: to see the best for you too. I guess just reached.
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, okay and no fulcom.
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 4: Nah, I'm like y.
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 1: It was, I ain't like I ain't got listen, I
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 1: ain't got it like.
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 3: No no, But for this particular person, I ain't got
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 3: it in me like I ain't got it that it's
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 3: okay because you know what I'm saying no. But it
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 3: took like I'm I'm I just started working this shut
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 3: out like last week, damn just now. It's it took
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 3: me ya yo, it took me thirteen years to realize
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 3: because I started going. I started going through you know, virgo,
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 3: you know virgo, I'm pondering ship, started going through, going
• 1:29:32
  Speaker 3: through all our conversations and everything, and watched how.
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  Speaker 1: Conversations towards me stopped mm hmm.
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  Speaker 3: And then but anyway, like I said, fuck them, you
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  Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, Like, especially if you're a real
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  Speaker 3: dope ass person, fuck.
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  Speaker 2: Them be cast. What I think I'm gonna do is
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna distilled this thing because we've been talking for
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 2: a little bit. But yeah, just just again, it's it's
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 2: always hard with any sort of relationship and mm hmm.
• 1:30:01
  Speaker 2: But prioritize yourself, prioritize the message that you want to
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 2: get across, and ultimately decide what style of communication, what
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 2: method of communication is for you.
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 4: If you you may need to send a text message
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 4: and be done with it. You might want to record
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 4: a damn a video and send a voice note. It's okay.
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 4: Whatever you feel is the best. Star, Hey Barber, this
• 1:30:20
  Speaker 4: is and if you want to cast, you can come
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  Speaker 4: back and let us know what the result was.
• 1:30:26
  Speaker 2: Please, all right, we're here to support.
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 4: We appreciate your now, but it's a ps on cases. Okay,
• 1:30:32
  Speaker 4: email so Caz says, I love your chemistry and your
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 4: T shirts and the way Aaron always wears it is. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I don't be knowing. I just be like Aaron got
• 1:30:45
  Speaker 4: on anime and stuff. I don't know. One more question
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  Speaker 4: for the three of year for Aaron, what is your
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  Speaker 4: favorite anime and what would you suggest for a first
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  Speaker 4: time anime watching?
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  Speaker 3: My My goal to is always n I just started
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  Speaker 3: watching One Piece. What I would say watch We probably
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  Speaker 3: like the intro and maybe maybe Demon Slave.
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  Speaker 2: You can't tell me start with food boards like you
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  Speaker 2: had that.
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  Speaker 4: Okay for branding? What albums are you listening to now?
• 1:31:20
  Speaker 4: And what is your favorite genre? Do you have a
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 4: concert you are looking forward to?
• 1:31:24
  Speaker 2: Hell, Yeah, I'm a R and B head through through
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 2: and I'm R and B head and I listen to
• 1:31:33
  Speaker 2: all all the subgenres of R and B. He put
• 1:31:35
  Speaker 2: me on some dope ship, but I'm always Since college,
• 1:31:39
  Speaker 2: I've been firmly in like an indie slash R and
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 2: B alternative R and B, like indie alternative R and
• 1:31:47
  Speaker 2: B pocket So I listened to a lot of like
• 1:31:54
  Speaker 2: M because I can't name the ship, but if I
• 1:31:57
  Speaker 2: put it, pull up a playlist it to tell me
• 1:31:59
  Speaker 2: what I would listening to, because I don't, I just
• 1:32:00
  Speaker 2: let the ship play. Hold on, please. I love Ambra,
• 1:32:03
  Speaker 2: Mark Duckworth. Isaiah Harn who put out an album count
• 1:32:09
  Speaker 2: Combania last year, was my favorite album of twenty twenty five.
• 1:32:12
  Speaker 4: That's the guy that was on tour when we went
• 1:32:13
  Speaker 4: to the Keisha Colch. When I went to my homeboy Decks,
• 1:32:17
  Speaker 4: it was somebody named Isaiah is something that opened for her.
• 1:32:22
  Speaker 2: He was Leon Thomas, who is who is his stars
• 1:32:25
  Speaker 2: rising recently?
• 1:32:27
  Speaker 4: Shout out to Leon. I think Leon want to Grammy
• 1:32:30
  Speaker 4: shout out to him. And he was a part of
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  Speaker 4: the di' angelo that di' agelo tribute did Lauren Hill did.
• 1:32:36
  Speaker 4: He was really good. He did the first verse of
• 1:32:39
  Speaker 4: Devil's Pie. Yep, he was excellent. Excellent.
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 2: Gavin Turek, She's been putting on music for a decade now.
• 1:32:46
  Speaker 2: Of course.
• 1:32:46
  Speaker 1: I love Kate.
• 1:32:47
  Speaker 2: Trenada, Rochelle Jordan's who else am I listening to? Tone
• 1:32:53
  Speaker 2: Stiff uh, Sampa, of course I loved. I've gotten into
• 1:32:58
  Speaker 2: like my jazz bags over the past. It's like years,
• 1:33:01
  Speaker 2: so a lot of like Venna and Brax and Cook
• 1:33:03
  Speaker 2: and a lot of like dope modern jazz artists are good.
• 1:33:07
  Speaker 2: And the second part of the question concert looking forward to.
• 1:33:13
  Speaker 2: I'm going to see Amber Mark first of March at
• 1:33:15
  Speaker 2: the film and Silver Springs. If you see me, see him,
• 1:33:18
  Speaker 2: And I got tickets to see who I got I'm
• 1:33:20
  Speaker 2: going to see.
• 1:33:20
  Speaker 4: L mean, I'm gonna say tickets for somebody show.
• 1:33:23
  Speaker 2: I go to at least ten to twelve concerts a year,
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 2: so Amber Marks the first show.
• 1:33:28
  Speaker 4: Show I like concerts, okay. And then for me, she
• 1:33:33
  Speaker 4: asked me, what is your favorite TV movie? Oh god,
• 1:33:37
  Speaker 4: do you have a favorite TV show other than Beyond
• 1:33:40
  Speaker 4: the Gates? And now one one.
• 1:33:43
  Speaker 2: Attention, Now we love you.
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  Speaker 4: Cas just moved moved to the top of the number
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  Speaker 4: one list. Y'all got y'all got some competition, now y'all
• 1:33:57
  Speaker 4: paying attention. Oh do I have a favorite to me movie?
• 1:34:00
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, that was not that movie picked me off? Shine,
• 1:34:05
  Speaker 4: Shine Shine. I don't think I have a favorite TV movie.
• 1:34:13
  Speaker 4: Mine might be a series I did and it's so
• 1:34:16
  Speaker 4: funny because I Rooster told me she actually ended up
• 1:34:17
  Speaker 4: watching it.
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 1: I did.
• 1:34:19
  Speaker 4: I like The Dirty d I did like that series.
• 1:34:22
  Speaker 4: The action terrible, but the storyline was pretty dope. That's
• 1:34:28
  Speaker 4: pretty good. I don't know if I have a favorite
• 1:34:30
  Speaker 4: TV movie though. I don't know, because I don't think
• 1:34:33
  Speaker 4: I've ever watched one more than once. I watched it
• 1:34:35
  Speaker 4: and be like, yeah, I'm done favorite TV shows. Oh god,
• 1:34:42
  Speaker 4: up until recently because now it's over. But The Up
• 1:34:46
  Speaker 4: Shows was my favorite TV show. Finish last season? Yeah,
• 1:34:49
  Speaker 4: it was. It was good. I like the way they
• 1:34:51
  Speaker 4: ended it. Miss Pat show is one of my absolute
• 1:34:55
  Speaker 4: faith I look forward to that coming back on of course,
• 1:34:59
  Speaker 4: thank you, Miss past. It is one of my favorite
• 1:35:03
  Speaker 4: shows right now. I Miss Pat is my spirit animal.
• 1:35:09
  Speaker 4: What else? What else do I like right now? The Neighborhood,
• 1:35:14
  Speaker 4: which is also coming to an end. That's one of
• 1:35:16
  Speaker 4: my favorite shows. I love The Neighborhood. And oh I'm
• 1:35:24
  Speaker 4: a true crime junkie, so I like Fatal Attraction, uh
• 1:35:29
  Speaker 4: for my man, and now they have a new one
• 1:35:32
  Speaker 4: called Fatal Attraction. I would kill to be you. That
• 1:35:35
  Speaker 4: just thoughted, Wow, that's yeah, that's only a few weeks
• 1:35:38
  Speaker 4: and that that's been pretty interesting. That's been pretty It's
• 1:35:41
  Speaker 4: like fatal attraction, but it's more so like like like
• 1:35:45
  Speaker 4: friendships and stuff, you know, stuff like that. So I
• 1:35:49
  Speaker 4: like that kind of stuff. Yeah, that's what's amongst my favorite.
• 1:35:53
  Speaker 4: Beyond the Gates is pissing me off a little bit
• 1:35:55
  Speaker 4: right now, but it's still I still watch it.
• 1:35:58
  Speaker 2: So I watched. I not watching it every day like
• 1:36:01
  Speaker 2: I used to, but I kind of like I jump in,
• 1:36:03
  Speaker 2: like an episode here, episode there, at least once or
• 1:36:05
  Speaker 2: twice a week, fucking y fucking leslie with the panties
• 1:36:10
  Speaker 2: and tell this hotel child.
• 1:36:12
  Speaker 4: So I everybody will be filming this ahead of time.
• 1:36:17
  Speaker 4: So by the time y'all see this, I've been to
• 1:36:18
  Speaker 4: watch the episode, but I'm only a couple of episodes behind.
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 1: So I'm like, I'm like a weekend. I'm like a
• 1:36:23
  Speaker 1: week or so.
• 1:36:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I've seen that. I'm caught up until about Wednesday.
• 1:36:26
  Speaker 4: I think of this week. It's okay, thank you again,
• 1:36:31
  Speaker 4: Thank you again for writing now. We really appreciate it.
• 1:36:33
  Speaker 4: You just made out day. Because people don't be following instruction,
• 1:36:37
  Speaker 4: we be looking forward to this kind of stuff. Okay,
• 1:36:41
  Speaker 4: over to hear from you against here, don't forget hit
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  Speaker 4: us back when.
• 1:36:43
  Speaker 2: You follow up.
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 4: All right, got some more curse.
• 1:36:49
  Speaker 2: I do.
• 1:36:49
  Speaker 4: I got a couple more for us before we end
• 1:36:51
  Speaker 4: this thing out. Since we got such an insightful question
• 1:36:55
  Speaker 4: from Kathy, I got to throw some ratchet ship in here. Okay,
• 1:37:04
  Speaker 4: h We're going to brand his favorite thread. Six perimal
• 1:37:08
  Speaker 4: ties is Brandon's favorite thread.
• 1:37:11
  Speaker 3: YA started backing like he best stopped playing like it all.
• 1:37:18
  Speaker 4: We dated for a year. I felt he was entertaining
• 1:37:21
  Speaker 4: another bit, so I made a copy of his apartment
• 1:37:24
  Speaker 4: key and put a track on his car. What he
• 1:37:26
  Speaker 4: found the tracker and put and a tracker a few
• 1:37:30
  Speaker 4: weeks ago and broke up with me. I still have
• 1:37:32
  Speaker 4: my apartment key, though, and my cat still belongs to him,
• 1:37:36
  Speaker 4: so logically his dick still belongs to me.
• 1:37:39
  Speaker 2: No, right, right, No.
• 1:37:43
  Speaker 4: I was tired of playing games for him, so I
• 1:37:45
  Speaker 4: dressed up and let myself into his apartment. He was
• 1:37:48
  Speaker 4: with a fat bitch serving her my dick like what.
• 1:37:51
  Speaker 4: I pulled him by his locks and pounced on him.
• 1:37:54
  Speaker 4: Then they both pushed me into the hallway and threw
• 1:37:56
  Speaker 4: my person keys behind me. I left before the cops arrived,
• 1:38:00
  Speaker 4: but I don't understand what kind of game is he playing?
• 1:38:03
  Speaker 4: Why I throw my person to the hallway with my keys,
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 4: but he didn't take his house key away from me.
• 1:38:08
  Speaker 4: I'm going back. I wear my boots next time in
• 1:38:10
  Speaker 4: case I have to stomp a fat hole out, but
• 1:38:13
  Speaker 4: I want him to invite me over. I'm tired of
• 1:38:15
  Speaker 4: making the first move. How do I make him step
• 1:38:18
  Speaker 4: up and treat me like a priority? Like the priority
• 1:38:20
  Speaker 4: I am advice? Oh lord, he took the glances off.
• 1:38:28
  Speaker 1: Hey, how you doing? Let it go?
• 1:38:34
  Speaker 3: Not but seriously though, like why let that shit go?
• 1:38:37
  Speaker 3: And first of all, because what you did was a
• 1:38:39
  Speaker 3: legal bitch like you don't cluonte this nigga key just
• 1:38:42
  Speaker 3: so you can pop up and then then get mad
• 1:38:44
  Speaker 3: because they beach ass and throw you out like right,
• 1:38:49
  Speaker 3: and you why listen, just let that shit go. Let
• 1:38:53
  Speaker 3: it go, dizzy bitch, i'mnna wearing my boots next time,
• 1:38:57
  Speaker 3: and you just gonna be a bit with boots.
• 1:38:59
  Speaker 4: They got thrown out the fuck like they was.
• 1:39:02
  Speaker 1: Now you're the first time your niggas was nice because
• 1:39:04
  Speaker 1: they got surprised. Yo. The second time, you know you
• 1:39:08
  Speaker 1: might not, you might not walk out with that bitchaw like,
• 1:39:11
  Speaker 1: not that ship. Go dude, you don't belong He don't
• 1:39:17
  Speaker 1: belong to you.
• 1:39:19
  Speaker 4: You are you.
• 1:39:20
  Speaker 1: You don't belong to him.
• 1:39:22
  Speaker 4: You are.
• 1:39:23
  Speaker 1: Your body is your temple.
• 1:39:30
  Speaker 4: I couldn't even keep you straight face and go down,
• 1:39:32
  Speaker 4: go down? Okay, all right? Next one, oh ship who
• 1:39:54
  Speaker 4: staying on? Six brown Chicks. We met at my cousin's
• 1:39:58
  Speaker 4: wedding two years ago. He was with his so called wife.
• 1:40:02
  Speaker 4: He wasn't my type, but he looked like he had money.
• 1:40:05
  Speaker 4: He met me in my prime. I was eighty six
• 1:40:07
  Speaker 4: pounds later back then, and he promised that if I
• 1:40:10
  Speaker 4: kept our relationship on a low, he would give me
• 1:40:13
  Speaker 4: the Barbie lifestyle, a furnished house, transportation, and an allowance
• 1:40:17
  Speaker 4: for my expenses. All I had to do was be
• 1:40:20
  Speaker 4: available for him. I deserved the Barbie life. I wanted it.
• 1:40:24
  Speaker 4: I left the relationship I was in entrusted Rick. Rick
• 1:40:27
  Speaker 4: moved me into his house where his wife lived. He
• 1:40:30
  Speaker 4: told me I was his girlfriend. He told her I
• 1:40:34
  Speaker 4: was the help. She gave me chores. I refused, big fight,
• 1:40:40
  Speaker 4: but at this point I have nowhere else to go
• 1:40:43
  Speaker 4: because I left my man for this shit. So I
• 1:40:46
  Speaker 4: told her she needs to talk to Rick about my
• 1:40:49
  Speaker 4: role because I didn't come here to work. Rick called
• 1:40:53
  Speaker 4: a meeting and told me to clean the house from
• 1:40:56
  Speaker 4: top to bottom in front of her, but whispered. All
• 1:40:58
  Speaker 4: I had to do was him behind her back. I
• 1:41:02
  Speaker 4: stayed for two months. Sometimes I cleaned, but he never
• 1:41:05
  Speaker 4: gave me a dime. I'm just cleaning and freaking for free.
• 1:41:10
  Speaker 4: I want back pay. He promised a lifestyle, and I
• 1:41:14
  Speaker 4: want my old man back. Advice, bitch, what was that?
• 1:41:20
  Speaker 1: Clean as off? Bitch?
• 1:41:25
  Speaker 4: Your name wouldn't happen to be many with it. You
• 1:41:28
  Speaker 4: are the help snookery maid. I said, you got it
• 1:41:34
  Speaker 4: in your maid outfit like you always do. That's nice
• 1:41:39
  Speaker 4: Molly to me, ma'am. She said, I want my old man.
• 1:41:46
  Speaker 2: I want backpack.
• 1:41:49
  Speaker 4: You about to get back handed. I believe him and
• 1:41:53
  Speaker 4: his wife set you up.
• 1:41:55
  Speaker 1: Did that?
• 1:41:57
  Speaker 4: That's what it sounds like the mea sugar. You was kind,
• 1:42:02
  Speaker 4: you were smart. You got to be one of the
• 1:42:10
  Speaker 4: dumbest broads. Oh my lord, ma'am.
• 1:42:15
  Speaker 3: You know how they do it when they get on,
• 1:42:16
  Speaker 3: when they think that a nigga got money, and then
• 1:42:18
  Speaker 3: it's like, oh, like all holes are open, and then
• 1:42:22
  Speaker 3: it's like, well then you find out this nigga with
• 1:42:23
  Speaker 3: money got on got you know, he got a wife,
• 1:42:26
  Speaker 3: and now you make now you make that decision, be
• 1:42:28
  Speaker 3: like and then you make that decision to stay. So
• 1:42:32
  Speaker 3: it was like, Bro, you you got there with all
• 1:42:33
  Speaker 3: that ship. If they know you're living in his house,
• 1:42:37
  Speaker 3: his big ass house, and you stayed for too much
• 1:42:40
  Speaker 3: and you're getting you're saying you're getting and you're saying
• 1:42:42
  Speaker 3: you're getting an allowed once bro, today.
• 1:42:47
  Speaker 4: Clean that's what she's getting, Dick while you scrubbing toilets
• 1:42:54
  Speaker 4: and pushing the vacuum back and forth and back and
• 1:42:58
  Speaker 4: fun and back and forth. Go in there and clean
• 1:43:06
  Speaker 4: up and cook them tackles.
• 1:43:07
  Speaker 1: Back shots some bro sticks.
• 1:43:15
  Speaker 4: Queen Queen.
• 1:43:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's the episode title, back Shots and Broomsticks.
• 1:43:34
  Speaker 2: Is it the only question? Please say it? Don't get
• 1:43:38
  Speaker 2: Can we change something to.
• 1:43:41
  Speaker 8: Back the answer?
• 1:43:43
  Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hurt nobody. I ain't gonna hurt nobody.
• 1:43:48
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• 1:43:58
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