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Episode 5 - The Pleasure Provider: Why Sigma Bulls Win Without Chasing · The Bull Brotherhood

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the bull brotherhood podcast where we talk power
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pleasure and the art of dominance in ethical
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podcast this is for men who lead men who master,
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and men who leave a lasting impression. If you're
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here, you're not just curious. You're ready to
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elevate. So to all the bulls, hot wives, stags,
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and open -minded explorers, we see you. Let's
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go. Good evening, ladies and gentlemen, and welcome
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to another informative episode of the Bull Brotherhood
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Podcast. I'm your host, one -third of your host
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team. I'm Brian Morgan, a .k .a. The Sigma Male.
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And I'm here alongside my wonderful co -hosts,
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the husband and wife team of The Seductive Siren,
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as well as my nephew, the philosopher himself,
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Socrates. How's everyone this evening? Doing
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great, Brian. What's good? Wonderful, wonderful,
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wonderful, wonderful. Tonight we have a topic
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that's like near and dear to my heart, ladies
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and gentlemen, because I exemplify one of these.
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male hierarchies it's the alpha male versus the
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sigma male and how both of these guys navigate
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in the hot wife lifestyle at least what we've
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seen in the lot in the hot wife lifestyle and
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i'm talking about like seeing at parties such
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as splash mocha other events etc etc um let me
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say this to all the alpha males out there i am
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not trying to talk about talk bad about you in
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any type of way I'm just letting you know exactly
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what I've seen as a Sigma male compared to what
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you guys bring to the table. So let's get started.
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Yeah, so as we always do, I'm going to be the
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one answering the questions. And I'm going to
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get both of you guys' perspectives. And then
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I'm going to share some of my nerdy definitions
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of it. One of the things that, you know, before
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we get into some of the more, you know, nitty
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gritty things is I wanted to say that you really
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changed everything for me when you introduced
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the Sigma male concept. Because I identified
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with it when you first talked about it. But then
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when you broke down the certain types of Sigma
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males. which we can talk about what mine is later
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because I think we should, you know, talk about
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my type and your type later on in this podcast.
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But when that broke that down, it allowed me
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to say, okay, I identify with this. This is who
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I am. But things like sitting back in the cut
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and watching everybody else and letting them
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come to me is not natural, but it is where I
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want to be. So it made sense. It made even the
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things that I'm not doing that I wanted to do
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make sense, the things that came naturally to
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me. So I'm really excited about these getting
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the distinctions because this is what made me
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say, I want to fuck with this dude. I really
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want to, yeah, like I really want to be around
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him. I want to understand his perspective on
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this. you know, I want to follow where he's leading.
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So, so yeah. So talk to me about, I'm going to
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take it even further back into the entire framework.
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Can you tell me what all of the types of males
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are? Cause I don't, I know there are more than
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three, right? I mean, if you don't know it, that's
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fine, but just the ones that you do know. I'm
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not like looking at them at any notes of any
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kind right now. So it was like. Do you have it
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written down? Because I can't remember exactly
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all of the types. There are several. There are
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several. Here again, let me explain who I am,
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how I am. I am the introverted alpha, okay? If
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you watched me at Splash Mocha, that was a perfect
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example. That's exactly how I am 24 -7, okay?
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You saw me navigate the room a couple of times.
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Then I came back. You knew already when you came
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out of that doggone elevator, I was going to
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be sitting in one of the two spots there in the
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driveway, correct? Right, right. And here again,
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I see everything. I see everything. I saw several
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different types of couples, several different
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types of women walking around. But here again,
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I'm never... thirsty. I'm never like going up
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to anybody really talking to them. Um, as I said,
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I let you see the goods and then I sit down and
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it's the, it's the, it's the aura. It's the aura
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that I have. It's, it's that mystery about me.
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That's what people used to say. And you know,
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they usually come up to me and a lot of times
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they said, well, I didn't know that you were
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going to be this approachable, you know, but
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I am once I start talking to you, you know, and,
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and I feel comfortable. then, you know, it's
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on after that. But I am very much the introverted
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alpha. I told you, if an alpha male is considered
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like a general, you know, who leads his army
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in the battle, then I'm that Sigma. I'm just
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that one man army by myself. I fight my battles
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all along. So, you know, I'm never around a bunch
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of guys other than you guys, you know, by three
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or four that I call brotherhood. Other than that,
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I'm a one man show. So, I mean, that's me. That's
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me in a nutshell explaining myself without giving
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you an old definition of Sigma male. And I like,
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I like to really stretch analogies out. And what
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I like is if you use that analogy as, as an alpha
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male, as a general, I would say a Sigma male
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is a head of a special forces team because you're
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more laser focused. You're more, you know, you're
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a specialist is going to come in under the radar.
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get the mission done, get out. And you won't
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know years down the line that it was a SEAL team
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or that it was a, you know, Ranger team or, you
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know, whatever special forces it is. You know,
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it's best that you don't know, right? That's
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a damn good analogy right there. I like that.
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I refer to it as you being a part of the unit.
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And that's what that is, you know, when you are
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SF in the military. um like i said you you you
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in and out uh nobody knows nobody really knows
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notices that you're there but you get the mission
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done in a timely manner the mission is always
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great and then boom you're out of there so yeah
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that's what a single male is okay equally as
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powerful as an alpha equally as powerful i like
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i said if alpha's a lion and sigma's a tiger
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okay equally as powerful but we just do things
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a little bit different that's all yeah well let's
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talk about that difference um How would you define
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an alpha male and then sigma? And then we can
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go over. There's actually six types. We can go
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over those if you want or whenever you're ready.
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But how would you describe an alpha male? And
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then how would you describe a sigma male comparatively?
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And then we definitely want to get Siren's opinion
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on how she feels in the presence of either one,
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right? Let me let me say this. I'm going to I'm
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going to describe an alpha male as I have seen
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them at, say, like events like Splash or other
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events. You know, I mean, the alphas that I see
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at Splash, they are they're dominant, assertive,
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you know, usually usually. Sexually, they're
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like they're like they're the attention seekers.
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You know what I mean? They're there to conquer.
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They are sexual seekers. Whereas myself, I'm
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a pleasure provider. The Sigma is, here again,
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that lone wolf, you know, self -assured, always
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confident, always in the cut, gets what he wants,
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but goes about it a little bit differently. Okay?
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I don't want just your body. I want your mind.
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I want to get inside your head. I want to get
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inside the lady's head. I want to get inside
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the couple's head because I want both of them
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to have a great experience when they're with
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me. You know, if the husband is there watching,
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then I want him to be like, okay, we're going
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to definitely put Brian Morgan's name in our
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telephone because we want to see him again. So
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that's how I see an alpha versus a sigma at something
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like Splash. Got you. So you're talking about
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their approach to it, right? yes how they're
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going to do themselves gotcha yes exactly exactly
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and um so siren wifey hello without naming names
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i want you to picture like i want you to picture
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uh an alpha that you may have played with or
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want to play with and then i want you to picture
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a sigma that you may have played with or wanted
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to play with. And I want you kind of to describe
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how you feel with either one and comparatively.
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So first of all, I want to say same. I did not
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even know about Sigma male. I always heard Alpha
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and Beta, which I just equated before lifestyle
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with strong and weak, you know, and I do. There
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had to be like a good mixture, you know, something
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in the middle. That was closer to an alpha, but
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had that softness. You know, a man of steel and
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also velvet. And I think that that's what in
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my feminine mind, I think of. Oh, sorry. Yes,
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sir. That's a nicely put. He built. Thank you.
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It's actually the name of a book. That's where
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I got it from. But it just when I got to know
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Socrates, I was just like, that's just what I
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thought of a man of steel and velvet. And then
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when. he told me about the Sigma male, then I
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just was like, that's him completely. And, you
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know, the way, you know, that he might move about
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being a Sigma male and the way you might move
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about being a Sigma male could be a little bit
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different, but still the same characteristics,
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principles, and, you know, and a lot of the same
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goals. So back to what Socrates was asking me.
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I think of like when I play with someone that
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I think of as more alpha, I think of it being
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more of a faster, more aggressive play experience.
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Sexual style? Yes. And even in their approach
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to me too is a little bit more like, hey. let's
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go up to the broom you know it's just like telling
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me what to do um yeah which i don't i don't mind
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i like both of the experiences for different
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reasons um but i'll tell you what i gravitate
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towards a little bit more at the end of my answer
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so You know, that more alpha guy is just like,
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come on, baby, let's go. We're going to go play.
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And so we go do. And then usually he doesn't
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come close to me. He stays up kind of, you know,
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maybe some ladies would refer to him as the pounded
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out guys. But some people don't prefer that.
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Some people do. I like a little bit of everything.
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So that's what I think of when I think of more
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of the alpha male play experience, you know.
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And when I feel that I'm in the presence of more
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Sigma males, I feel that the approach is more
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conversational. Like they've all got this little
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thing that they do. I've pointed them out to
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Socrates. I said, ah, this guy, he does this.
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He will talk this certain way. Or this guy is
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in the chats flirting, but he's really good at
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making each lady feel special. They've all just
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got their little thing that they're trying to
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hone, you know, a little uniqueness about them.
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i .e. a pleasure provider yes i .e. a pleasure
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provider that's what he is and they all just
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have a different way of bringing that about you
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know one guy it's the way that he looks up at
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you between when he's between your legs you know
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there's just the way what he how he looks at
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you with his eyes or another guy the way he words
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things you know he doesn't say i want to eat
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your pussy he has like a whole poem about it
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I eat myself. I'm a talker. I'm a storyteller.
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I'm a storyteller. And then with the actual play
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experience, they always come close to you at
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some point. They are always like chest to chest,
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kissing you, talking to you, providing that experience.
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And that is exactly the main thing that I first
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noticed about my husband when I first... started
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having sex with him is that you know he would
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bring me close and it was like a very different
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feeling and connection so yeah he got i .e i
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.e he got inside of your head yeah all right
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as well as well as well your your mind your soul
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everything all in one okay yes um that is what
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that is what my baby girl tells me okay she says
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the same thing she said she said daddy you you
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You just click all the buttons. You click all
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the buttons. And that is what I like to bring,
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you know, to a couple, to a woman. I want her
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to have the ultimate, and here again, it's more
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than just like the boyfriend experience. It is
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just the ultimate, what I just call man, what
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a man is supposed to do, you know, to a woman,
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both sexually. Well, I mean, excuse me, both
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physically, both mentally, as well as emotionally,
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even intellectually, you know, when I'm talking
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to her. I want to talk about a variety of things,
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not just, hey, because we're at Splash and, you
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know, you got a sexy outfit on showing everything
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and, you know, we're about to go upstairs or
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something like that. No, I want to get to know
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you. I want to know the lady, okay? I want to
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know the husband. I want to know the couple.
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And what does that establish? That establish
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trust, respect, rapport. companionship, et cetera.
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And that makes what the most ultimate experience
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possible. You know what I mean? When you come
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back downstairs and, you know, I give you back
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to the husband, you know, for reclamation, you
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want to be like, oh, shoot, I definitely want
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to see him again. Definitely want to see him
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again. That sounds so official. That sounds so
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official. Reclamation. Well, that's dope. Well,
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because that's what you're doing. You know what
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I mean? When I give you back, when I give her
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back to you, you are reclaiming. You're reclaiming
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your wife. I love to be reclamated. Yeah, you
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are reclaiming your wife. You are reclaiming
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for the reconnection. You're reclaiming her so,
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you know, so you guys can... You're reclaiming
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in me. But that's the way it is, though. You
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are reclaiming. You are reclaiming so you can
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reconnect. You know? And that's the beautiful
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thing. I love it. That's a beautiful thing. That's
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a beautiful thing. You know? And Socrates. Yes,
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sir. You were talking about the types of Sigma
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males. I had to go back and dig and find them,
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my brother. We're talking about like the stoic,
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the stoic Sigma. You remember when I told you
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that? Yep. You know what I'm saying? Very, very
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unshaken. Numb to emotions. You know what I mean?
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He's a great listener. Accessible. And he, again,
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often says less. He knows that silence is his
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power. And what do I always tell you? My power
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is what? My voice of silence when I'm out there,
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right? When I'm at events. That's my power. That's
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the one I need to recall. I was just pointing
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at him and saying, oh, that one's not really
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you. We all know Socrates' last two asked questions.
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I think this is nephew right here, the paradoxical
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thinker. The paradoxical thinker. He can move.
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He can move, holding multiple ideas in his head
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without breaking a stride. That's you, Socrates.
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That is you. Deeply comfortable with complexity.
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You know, looks at problems from multiple angles.
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That's you. That's your nephew. That is you.
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The paradoxical thinker. When you said that,
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when you said that, I was sold. Because the Sigma
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stuff, there's some things I'm like, yeah, I'm
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not there, but I'd like to be. There's some things
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like, that's just me. Okay, it was cool. But
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when you said that type of, I was like, oh, yes.
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Because I do. I look at even, we're talking about
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ethical non -monogamy, but you can apply these
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principles anywhere. But I look at approaching.
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women and the lifestyle from several angles i
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have i'm thinking of okay i just read a book
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on reading you know body language because it's
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very important in things like splash or or yes
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absolutely because nobody's going to tell you
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no they're not going to tell you no i'm not interested
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well maybe one percent they're going to say maybe
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later they're going to say you know see how i
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feel You know, they're going to say, well, I'm
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recovering. And some of this is probably true,
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some of it's not. But I'm sitting there holding
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the idea of body language, the idea of active
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listening, the idea of me trying to focus and
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make sure I have good eye contact. I'm trying
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to hold all these in once, and I do it all. And
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if I'm not holding several different concepts
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in my hand, I actually start losing interest.
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There you go. There you go. Compared to, here
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again, I'm not talking about the alpha males
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in a bad way, but the majority of the time, the
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alpha, he's looking for that conquest. I'm the
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king, and let's go. I don't care if there's a
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lot of eye contact. I know that there's the physical
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right now. I'm seeing TNA, tits and ass, and
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that's what I want. Compared to, like I said,
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myself, that doesn't faze me. that doesn't events
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like splash don't faze me you know what i mean
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i go to have a great time yes but i've had so
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much of a great time in the past that i can sit
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there and actually not do anything for about
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two maybe three days and and i'm fine you know
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maybe i have some fun on a saturday i may have
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some fun on friday but i don't have to be out
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there 24 7 like the majority of the guys do you
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know and i'm not going to settle for anything
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that's not going to happen okay that's why we
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look at ourselves in the mirror and and you know
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we're like okay if if this is the standard i'm
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looking at in the mirror then the standard that's
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going to be with me is going to be equal or higher
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period facts yeah i love that um yeah let me
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ask you a different question so let's say somebody's
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listening to this podcast and they're like, you
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know what? Yeah, I kind of resonate with what
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he's saying, but they're not sure. What are some
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other things or what are some characteristics
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that they can look for in themselves to say,
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yeah, man, that's me. I'm, I'm really a Sigma
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male. If you, okay. If, if this person say like
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a 10 splash, if you're 10 splash and I'm, I'm,
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I'm, you know, I asked yourself, how do you,
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How do you attract splash women? How are you
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when you're at splash? You know what I mean?
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Are you kind of a mystery man? You know, do you
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like you kind of not say be standoffish, but
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like I said, you walk the room a couple of times
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and you get back, you sit, you have a drink and
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you observe. You observe. Do the women come to
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you or do you have to pursue them? If the women
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come to you while you're sitting down and stuff.
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and they, you know, hey, how you doing, et cetera,
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et cetera, and you start a conversation and it
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goes from there, then you're probably a sigma,
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not necessarily alpha. Okay? Like you said, body
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language. What is your body language? All right?
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When you're standing out there in the hallway
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or something, are you standing confident? Chest
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out, tall, you know, exuding dominance, but not
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in a menacing way. You understand what I'm saying?
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When you're talking to a lady, are you always
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like standing close to her? When you're standing
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close, you're doing what? You're giving them
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their complete attention, and they're doing what
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also? They're beginning to feel what? Comfortable,
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safe, relaxed with you, correct? Calm, safe,
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and excited. Okay. All right. I like that. I
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like that. That's a little thing we came up with.
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Okay. Previously. When I talk to a lady, one
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of the things I do when I'm talking to a woman,
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I usually mirror what she does. Okay? I might
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imitate a gesture. If she smiles, I smile. You
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know what I mean? See, if we're walking down
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the hall, I might hold that hand, and we walk
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at the same pace. Here again, that exudes what
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when we're walking at the same pace? That lets
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us know that, hey, there's nothing else. around
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right now that means anything other than me and
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you. You know? Here again, that leads to a feeling
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of what? Connection, trust, increases your rapport,
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you know, and then you have a great time. Um,
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what's your sense of style? Oh, sorry to say,
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you got a chance to see me in what? Shirt, slacks,
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some shoes. Yeah. Saturday night, right? Mm -hmm.
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Okay. What do I always say? Sharp, but never
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flashy. Most alphas will be, they might be trying
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to have the chest showing, arm showing, something
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that accentuates the body. Well, hell, if you
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got a body, it's going to show anyway, correct?
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So, I mean, just put on a nice shirt, nice form
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-fitting shirt, put on some slacks that fit you
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the right way, curl some shoes. Hey, you heard
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Michael say, hey, he's got his church shoes on.
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Hell no, dude, those damn Giorgio Patini's. I
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deal with some very nice Italian slippers. Nothing
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more. Sharp, never flashy. And let me ask this
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question. When have you guys ever seen me without
25:15
a clean shave, bald head, and face? Yeah, never.
25:19
That's my signature. That's my signature. So
25:23
here again, look at yourself. What is your style?
25:26
I mean, what do you bring to the table? If you
25:29
that. kind of loud guy who, you know, thinks
25:31
they're the king and everything and wants to
25:33
be seen, then you're probably an alpha. But if
25:36
they're a dude that, if you got that six back,
25:38
you know, in the cut, observes, let things come
25:41
to you, then you're more than likely going to
25:45
sleep with a male. Did I answer your question?
25:48
Yes, sir. Yeah. I love it. You know what I mean?
25:52
I soak this stuff up. You know. So. On the flip
26:00
side, we talked about, you know, this isn't not
26:03
this isn't something against alphas either. Right.
26:06
So we are. Let me say this. Let me say this.
26:10
We are very, very similar. We are very similar.
26:13
I, if not the same, but we just do things a little
26:17
bit differently. That's all. That's why the Sigma,
26:20
when you look at the at the male hierarchy chart,
26:24
you will have alpha, beta, gamma. I forgot what
26:29
else it is. I brought five. But then outside
26:32
of the chart, because we don't do things, we
26:35
do things out of the norm. We do things our own
26:37
way. As I said before, we don't answer the five
26:40
W's. Where, what, when, why, and all that stuff.
26:43
We don't, okay? So they put us outside of the
26:47
hierarchy, but we're right beside alpha. So that's
26:50
what I mean. We are the same. We are very much
26:53
the same. We just do things differently. That's
26:55
all. But go ahead. Yeah, no, I just wanted you
26:59
to tell me the things that you like about Alphas
27:04
that are different from you. That are different
27:08
from me? Being that I am a military man at heart
27:15
all the time, their sense of purpose, integrity,
27:20
honesty, you know, responsibility. They always
27:28
have a confidence about them. They have a confidence.
27:31
Some people say it's cocky. I don't think it's
27:34
cockiness. I really don't. I don't think it's
27:36
cockiness. I just think it's just that ultimate
27:39
confidence. You know, there's nothing wrong with
27:42
you walking around knowing that you are a king,
27:46
okay? But you don't have to come out and let
27:48
the world know that you're a king. But definitely,
27:53
I mean, hey, if you got it, you got it. It's
27:55
fine. You know what I mean? When I look at guys
27:58
on television, you know The Rock. That's my guy.
28:02
Dwayne The Rock Johnson, he is an alpha male.
28:05
Like, through thick and thin. But at the same
28:08
time, though, he's a very, very personal boy
28:11
and giving dude. Very, very personal and giving.
28:15
So, you know, I love that. Their determination.
28:20
They are very, very determined and they're very,
28:22
very ruthless. When they want something, they
28:25
go get it, and nothing is going to damn stop
28:27
them. Nothing's going to stop them. They're driven
28:29
at everything that they do. Most alphas are successful
28:34
in life. They're successful in whatever they
28:37
do, whether it be business, family. They are
28:42
the epitome of what women want in a marriage,
28:47
I think, and a husband. I mean, they just take
28:52
care of business. They really take care of business.
28:54
But here again, though, the majority of them
28:57
like to be out in front. They, you know, they
29:00
want to lead from the front. And as a Sigma,
29:03
am I a leader? Yes. I just choose to lead by
29:06
example and not out of the front. So that's what
29:10
I like about outfits. That's, that's where I
29:12
identify. Like the way I run my businesses, I'm
29:15
like, Zach, I like they, the ladies run it. You
29:18
know, I like to lead from. From, you know, from
29:22
behind and from the darkness and, you know. I
29:26
like it when you lead from behind. Siren. Just
29:29
saying. Speaking as you do, Siren. Let me ask
29:34
you. Siren, what turns you on about Alphys? There's
29:42
very little decision making for me. And as somebody
29:47
who, like you said, runs businesses. It's just
29:51
very nice that they just come up and they're
29:53
like, hey, you, let's go, you know, pretty quickly,
29:57
you know. And I just like that it just it just
30:01
kind of sweeps you away. Like you don't it frees
30:05
your mind like instantly. You're just like, oh,
30:08
this guy wants me. And then all you have to decide
30:12
is yes or no. for yourself right and then away
30:14
you go and then from there on out like he is
30:17
leading the entire play experience from start
30:21
to finish and it's usually like I said quicker
30:25
than a Sigma male like the whole experience might
30:27
be shorter but it's very whirlwind -y and it's
30:30
like it's energizing okay so those fast and merriest
30:36
experiences that might last 30 to 45 minutes
30:38
those to me are like more energizing than like
30:42
a The other play experience. Marathon session.
30:49
Yeah, I love it. Yeah, it made sense. Yeah. Siren,
30:57
so rinse your mental mouth out. Get the alpha
31:01
taste out of it. Or your sexual mouth out, whatever.
31:07
And then, so tell me what really turns you on
31:10
about Sigma males. that well they free my mind
31:15
too but in a very different way like they cause
31:19
me to like be curious about them and what might
31:23
happen and then I find myself like I have certain
31:29
things that I have tried to add into my play
31:31
recently that I've been talking about a lot lately
31:33
and I find I don't really do them with alphas
31:36
because of the experience being more fast and
31:39
furious but the sigmas get to draw out of me
31:43
a completely different experience type of experience
31:46
a more sensual and more touching experience from
31:49
me to them too and so the whole thing is just
31:53
a lot more passionate and then those are probably
31:57
the ones that I have become actual friends with
32:01
later and been able like one guy we were literally
32:04
playing we're talking about like five other women
32:07
and a couple other things in the beginning of
32:09
the play and we're just laughing you know about
32:12
it and we're just like having that mental connection
32:14
and like talking about other people and then
32:17
we and then at one point he's like what are we
32:19
worrying about these people for let's get to
32:21
us and then you know we start the play experience
32:25
and then it's just very connecting and you know,
32:29
just a lot more memorable, actually, I think
32:32
overall. Yeah. I tend to lean that direction
32:37
as far as preference. But although I do enjoy
32:40
the Alpha experiences, I definitely have a preference
32:45
for the Sigmas. The Alpha here, again, it's about
32:50
his dominance. It's about him during the sexual
32:54
act or about me during the sexual act. You have
32:58
pleased me when you choose me to go upstairs.
33:02
So now the pleasure is all mine to please you
33:06
to the utmost. And not only am I trying to please
33:09
you, you know, with what I have, but I want to,
33:13
here again, I want to get inside your head. I
33:15
am a storyteller. I can be a storyteller when
33:19
I'm having sex. But you can get several versions
33:23
of me. Okay, you just have to ask my baby girl.
33:26
She can tell you all about that. You can get
33:28
the talkative version. You can get the version
33:33
like she got yesterday, the very, very dominant
33:37
version. And to be honest, she had never seen
33:40
that before. It blew her mind. And then you can
33:43
get the porn star version, which is like the
33:46
alpha. So, again, that's what I bring to the
33:52
table. I can't speak for all signals, but that
33:54
is what I bring to the table. And that's why...
33:57
I can always say I might not be on your bones,
34:00
but I'm always on your mind because I keep you
34:02
thinking. I keep you thinking 24 -7. And that's
34:05
the mystery of Brian Morgan. So that's what has
34:09
made me successful for 32 freaking years. So
34:13
let's hear from Socrates of what he believes
34:16
that he brings to the table as a Sigma male.
34:20
I like the fact that, you know, Brian Morgan
34:23
brought out that ability to hold complex. you
34:27
know thoughts at one time so because i'm able
34:31
to do that i'm able to simultaneously when i
34:34
play with women i love like he says i'm i'm a
34:37
giver of pleasure so i'm just exploring your
34:40
body to see um physically what's going to do
34:44
it but i'm also exploring your thoughts and your
34:46
emotions i'm doing all that while focused on
34:50
you as if the only thing i'm doing is interacting
34:54
with you And I can do that because I'm, I am
34:58
simultaneously enjoying the fuck out of you and
35:01
your body and you know, action. But I'm also
35:03
like literally in the back of my head saying,
35:06
okay, how should I respond to this in a way that's
35:09
authentic, but at the same time gets her to a
35:12
place that she's going to enjoy herself. So I
35:15
think they, I think the ladies that have, you
35:18
know, said that they enjoy playing with me, you
35:21
know, have shared how I make them feel. And I
35:24
love the fact that they don't know behind that
35:27
is a whole lot of brain processing. That is good
35:32
tip here. Well, I mean, you, because they don't,
35:39
you know, they don't have that wifey connection,
35:42
right? So they don't have to even think about
35:46
what you might be thinking behind all that. They
35:48
just get to enjoy the experience. I know there
35:50
was one lady that was like, she came to me and
35:53
she's like you get that all the time and i said
35:56
oh i never get what you get sweetie and she was
35:59
like oh what do you mean what do you mean and
36:01
i was just like don't you i said what you have
36:04
to understand about my husband is that each experience
36:07
is completely unique to whoever i i'm i'm never
36:11
going to get what other women get other women
36:13
are never going to get what i get because each
36:15
time i'm not even getting the same thing that
36:17
i got from him before because the energy is different
36:20
the mood's different the day's different the
36:23
combination of how he's feeling and i'm feeling
36:25
is different and he's just very in like in touch
36:29
with that um on every level when you know he's
36:33
with me and i know that other women have said
36:36
similar things that that make me understand that
36:38
they're experiencing that uniqueness as well
36:40
but it was just fun to kind of shock that lady
36:44
a little bit you know i'm sure she was thinking
36:46
something negative but you know just to explain
36:49
to her that to get it really just got her attention
36:51
so and i will i have to i have to shout out mr
36:55
mocha from um um oh faces from oh faces faces
36:59
yeah because he's the one that literally helped
37:05
me accept, be celebrating, and take pride in
37:10
how diverse of a person I am. And I looked at
37:16
it as a sad story, and he looked at it as like
37:18
every diverse situation you grew up in added
37:22
a diverse skill, which added up to these, you
37:27
know, a collection or profile of skills that
37:30
are kind of unique to me. So I say all that to
37:33
say, That allowed me to be like, oh, if she needs
37:37
dominance, if she needs BDSM level dominance,
37:42
and me and my wife have an understanding that
37:46
I can do that, I can give it to her authentically.
37:48
If she needs kind of like a laid back cowboy,
37:51
because I grew up in a lot of farm and cowboy
37:55
scenarios, yeah. If she needs kind of a thug,
37:58
Since I genuinely was raised around gangster
38:01
niggas all the time. There you go. Drug dealers.
38:04
She can get that. If she needs an intellectual.
38:08
Right. And if I, if she needs an intellectual,
38:12
I'm that too. Cause I read like four or five
38:15
books a month. You know what I'm saying? So,
38:17
you know, it was Mr. Mocha that said, man, celebrate
38:21
it. You know, just be you. Don't make any excuses.
38:25
Exactly. You know? Exactly. I think that's what
38:28
makes me a Sigmund. Well, and it's just, you
38:30
authentically acclimate to the emotions and needs
38:36
of each play partner. And then, you know, and
38:41
then even me with your wife, it's like, you know,
38:43
we're always just honing our skills. Sometimes
38:45
we learn something new from our plate partner.
38:48
A lot of times we learn something new from each
38:50
other that we can take into the play world. Some
38:52
things, you know, a few section of things we
38:55
keep just for each other right now. But, you
38:58
know, he just authentically acclimates. And that's
39:01
what I can say that I've seen, heard and experienced
39:04
from being his wife and playing in the same room.
39:08
And that is why you have the wonderful and unique
39:13
marriage, friendship, partnership, ride or die
39:18
that you have. And that's what everybody wishes
39:22
they had, in my opinion. I know this. I've talked
39:27
to too many vanilla couples. I have too many
39:31
guy friends that I grew up out with, and they
39:35
all wish that they had the same thing and a partner.
39:39
You guys, it's beautiful to see. It really is.
39:43
It's beautiful to hear both of you saying that,
39:46
and it's beautiful to witness at an event how
39:51
you guys can, A, be together and be so happy,
39:54
or you can be separate. and know that the other
39:58
one is coming back to the other. And that's what,
40:02
to me, that's what this lifestyle brings. And,
40:05
you know, I wish, here again, I have my baby
40:08
girl, so I no longer say that I wish I had it
40:11
because now I do have it. I do have it. I really
40:14
do. And it was a test for me at Splash to see
40:20
if I could be the boyfriend and, you know, make
40:23
sure that she was taken care of. And we had a
40:26
great time. So, like I said, this is what it's
40:28
all about. Alpha males, they're nothing against
40:31
my brothers. They are my brothers, you know,
40:33
but I wouldn't change being a Sigma from nothing
40:36
in the world. Yeah, I love it too. Thank you
40:39
for all the hair, sweet things that you, you
40:43
know, I know you're speaking authentically. The
40:44
truth, you just appreciate it. It's very encouraging.
40:54
When I see it, I'm going to say it. When I see
40:56
it, I'm going to let you know. And you guys exemplify
40:59
that. You really do. When other people see the
41:03
good that you're putting out into the world through
41:06
your relationship, it makes it really, I hear
41:10
those voices on the hard days, you know, because
41:13
every couple of us has them. And so, you know,
41:16
that sometimes what keeps me going too is like
41:18
a little extra boost of like. OK, there's other
41:22
people out there looking up to us, you know,
41:25
and I want to be able to tell them how we got
41:26
through something tough, you know. Yeah. And
41:30
that's what, you know, that's what this podcast
41:31
is about. So, you know, this is focused on bulls
41:37
from a bull's perspective. And then we have a
41:40
hot wife and a vixen who, you know, her perspective.
41:46
But it's all about helping. You guys live the
41:50
kind of life that all three of us are living.
41:52
So we know that Mr. Morgan wants his queen and
41:56
he's going to find her. But he's actually living
41:59
a hell of a fucking life right now. As I say,
42:02
I actually have the queen now. But here again,
42:07
though, we are a throuple. We are a throuple.
42:10
She said today in a text, she was like, I couldn't
42:13
have asked for more. She's like, I feel like
42:16
I hit the lottery. You know, I have the two men
42:20
in my life. You know, one on my right side, the
42:23
other on my left side. And I'm loving it. So,
42:26
you know. Yeah, she's a very blessed and lucky
42:29
woman. Awesome. Yeah. And we did it as a couple.
42:34
So I wanted to nerd out. This is going to be
42:38
the nerd out section, y 'all. And I GBT'd this
42:42
bad baby, and I pretty much. For my nerds, my
42:46
prompting was pretty simple. And the only reason
42:49
why is because I have what's called a project
42:52
inside of ChatGBT. It helps us think about these
42:56
things in a certain way. And all of my AI nerds
43:00
know what I'm talking about. So my prompt was
43:02
really simple. And I just asked it what types
43:04
of examples of males. And I used the examples
43:08
of the alpha male, sigma male, beta male. And
43:12
I just wanted to, it gave me, there's actually
43:14
six. And then it gave me, you know, traits, roles,
43:20
and dating. I'm not going to go through each
43:22
one. But I do want to read the first three. So
43:27
I'll tell you all six of them. And then I'm going
43:29
to kind of go over all three. And then I want
43:31
to get you guys' opinion on them. So the six
43:35
are alpha, beta, sigma, delta, gamma. and omega
43:42
right so um you know we're gonna go through the
43:46
first three and kind of break it down and then
43:48
maybe in a next episode or something we can talk
43:50
about the other three but it's like a bull fraternity
43:53
exactly um so the first alpha is the traits is
43:58
confident dominant assertive outgoing and a natural
44:02
leader and i think that follows a lot of what
44:05
mr morgan was saying their role is often seen
44:09
as a leader of the pack takes charge in social
44:12
and professional settings so again fits everything
44:16
you're saying typically attractive to many women
44:22
due to high status and charisma i like that so
44:28
beta traits loyal passive supportive dependable
44:35
agreeable and i like this because i think betas
44:40
are always um you know express from especially
44:43
from many alphas from their perspective a beta
44:46
is not good and i i look at it as these are all
44:52
natural characteristics with pros and cons and
44:57
that's how i look at it so their role is the
45:01
nice guy prefers harmony over confrontation and
45:05
often a follower okay i see those as positive
45:10
and negative and neutral aspects to them. To
45:14
me, dating is often struggles in dating dynamics
45:17
in perceived as lacking confidence or an edge,
45:21
right? And then Sigma male. So independent, mysterious,
45:28
introverted percentile, right? Self -sufficient
45:32
and strategic. Their role doesn't follow traditional
45:37
hierarchies. marches to the beat of his own drum.
45:40
That is so much me. It ain't even funny. And
45:44
I know it's you, Unc. Amen. Dating can be very
45:49
attractive due to mystery, confidence without
45:54
arrogance, and emotional control. There you go.
45:58
I would just say you're an extroverted Sigma,
46:00
though. Yeah, I am an extroverted Sigma, for
46:03
sure. Yeah, we are the opposite in that. You
46:06
are an extrovert, and I'm an introvert. I'm an
46:09
extroverted introvert. Yeah, I'm definitely.
46:14
And that's, you know, that's why I didn't think
46:17
I was a Sigma. I thought I was faking an alpha
46:20
because I am very extroverted. I don't have a
46:23
problem with being in the leadership or in front.
46:26
I don't want to be, though. You know, I don't.
46:28
I've been on stage at times in my life. You know,
46:32
I'm totally better off stage. I'm totally better
46:37
behind. So, you know, I get that. So, yeah. So
46:42
Siren, like, tell me, have you ever played with
46:46
somebody you can identify as a beta and then
46:49
you had a good time? And why? And if not, why?
46:52
No, I didn't have a good time because I'm too
46:55
much of an alpha female. So I can, I obviously
47:00
surrender to an alpha male because he's going
47:03
to be more dominant than me. I'm happy to not
47:07
be an alpha in the situation. And a Sigma is
47:10
kind of a shared power. And then he relaxes me
47:13
out of my alpha, but a beta male has never, I
47:18
don't think that I've ever tried to play with
47:21
one since I've been in the lifestyle, but I've
47:23
definitely had sex with them before the lifestyle.
47:26
And yeah, we'll talk about that. Like, how was
47:29
it? I don't want to just, I just didn't, I know
47:36
a couple of them, I like left. Like I just got
47:42
up and left. I was just like, this is not, this
47:45
is not going well. Just like, they act like they're
47:49
having an asthma attack. Like, I don't know.
47:52
I think it wasn't even, I don't, there was a,
47:55
it wasn't a black man. It was a white man. Well,
47:59
if the confidence is not there, it doesn't matter
48:03
if it's black, white, Hispanic, or whatever.
48:05
It's not going to be good. I mean, you know what
48:08
I mean? That's the key. That's the key. Are you
48:11
confident in yourself? Are you confident in yourself?
48:15
Are you confident in your skills? It doesn't
48:17
matter what you have, package -wise or body -wise
48:21
or whatever. Confidence is everything. If I get
48:24
a woman in a run. and we've had great conversation
48:28
already. When I get you in the room, hey, I know
48:31
what's going to happen. Okay? I'm very, very
48:35
confident. Here again, you don't know what you're
48:39
going to get depending on the conversation that
48:41
we have. Or let's say, for instance, we haven't
48:45
had a conversation yet, but we have this plan
48:47
to meet. You know what I mean? I may turn the
48:50
encounter into... an encounter slash conversation
48:56
okay that's something that most men can't do
49:00
that's something that like will will will take
49:03
a woman and and make her think like oh shit you
49:06
know i mean we were doing something here in a
49:08
minute but he still got his dick in me and we're
49:10
having a conversation and i'm liking it so that's
49:13
here again that's the mystery that's the mystery
49:16
what you bring to the table how you keep her
49:18
head and her juices flowing you know that's that's
49:21
that's the beauty of a sigma male And that, what
49:24
I just explained, that comes with age also. That
49:28
comes with maturity. But we were adrenaline.
49:32
Beta males. And you're trying to make it all
49:36
positive and nice again, Brian. And we were trying
49:39
to get true feelings. Okay, but listen. As far
49:46
as the beta, though, here again, I was explaining
49:47
the confidence thing. How that beta doesn't have
49:50
that confidence. You know what I mean? That beta
49:53
doesn't have that confidence and never will.
49:56
Okay? My like lonely single mom days. Yeah, I
50:02
think those are my lonely single mom days where
50:04
I was just like, I don't know. You probably didn't
50:07
even know they were a beta until they, yeah.
50:10
I probably didn't know they were a beta male.
50:12
I probably didn't know they were a beta male.
50:14
I probably just swiped right, was like wanting
50:18
to get some dick. And then I didn't know they
50:20
were beta until we joined up. Exactly. But like
50:25
I said, that was before you met Socrates and
50:27
your life changed. Oh, yeah. Correct. Before
50:30
I was even in the life. All right. Yeah. Exactly.
50:33
Exactly. Okay. Brian didn't like talking about
50:36
beta males. I can tell. No, no, no, no, no, no.
50:40
I have nothing against. He's just trying to keep
50:46
it so positive. Here again, I know a lot of guys
50:49
who are beta. I can't hold a conversation with
50:55
you or go work out with you or go have a meal
50:57
with you. But they understand that I have something
51:02
else. They definitely understand that. Well,
51:04
there's plenty of women that would like that,
51:07
but just me as a more dominant female. It's just,
51:12
it's not what the energy that I'm looking for
51:14
because I need something more powerful than me.
51:18
And that actually calms me down in this situation.
51:23
Yeah. So we all have our preferences. Oh yeah,
51:29
definitely, definitely. Well, I actually think...
51:36
So I got some... You're going to throw something
51:38
into the... I sure am. You know me too well.
51:45
I'm like, oh, he has that look on his face where
51:47
I'm like, hmm. Well, one thing I wanted to say,
51:51
too, I'm actually going to agree with both you
51:55
guys on a subject you were talking about earlier
51:57
as far as, like, you were... Siren was mentioning
52:01
the black thing, and then... Brian rightfully
52:06
so said well, you know, these are it's a principle
52:09
and no matter what race is displaying it But
52:12
I do want to say both of you guys are right at
52:14
the same time and what I mean by that is in the
52:16
black culture We are we have an exterior That
52:25
presents as dominant no matter what, even the
52:29
gay men No matter what body type you have, it
52:33
doesn't matter. Whether you're muscular, whether
52:35
you're a big guy, whether you're a skinny guy,
52:38
it doesn't matter. And that's what attracted
52:40
me to Black men over and over and over was nothing
52:44
about what people joke about, the dick size,
52:47
which is great. But it's not what attracted me.
52:51
What attracted me was that dominance and the
52:55
decision -making and the, you know. Hey, I'm
52:59
going to pick you up at 7. We're going to go
53:01
do this, this, and this. And I would say, sounds
53:04
great. Meanwhile, someone else, not a black man,
53:07
would be like, you know, very intimidated by
53:11
me, could barely breathe just to try to ask me
53:13
out for a cup of coffee. And by the time he got
53:15
through asking me, I was exhausted. Because he
53:18
was wanting me to make 15 decisions just for
53:21
him to take for a cup of coffee. Oh, where are
53:24
you going to go? Whose car do you want to drive?
53:26
I'm like, oh, my goodness. Just you're the one
53:29
asking me, you know, like, please just have the
53:31
plan in place before you even come up. That's
53:34
what black men would do consistently. And that's
53:37
why I was like, I'm a single mother. I run a
53:40
company. You know, by five o 'clock, I'm done
53:43
making decisions. I even tell my husband that
53:45
I said, I love that you men are. I said, you
53:49
know, you guys are on the clock 24 hours a day
53:50
for the decision making stuff. But I said for
53:53
me as a woman, like by five o 'clock, like I
53:56
want to be clocked off with that, you know, and
53:59
then just come into your comfort. So I appreciate
54:01
the men that are more dominant and make decisions,
54:05
whether they are Alpha or Sigma. Yeah. So go
54:08
ahead. No, I was going to say, I think that confidence
54:13
thing about black men, I think that just goes
54:16
back to, I mean, it goes way back. We had to
54:21
be confident coming up. We had to be aggressive.
54:27
We had to stand up for ourselves. It's just the
54:32
way it's been for the black man. And even now,
54:37
we still have to be. We have to be a certain
54:39
way when we're out here in the world. We can't
54:44
be, and I hate to say the word soft, but we can't
54:48
be soft, though. We can't be soft. We have to
54:50
be assertive. We have to be confident. We have
54:54
to be dominant. We have to be sure of ourselves.
54:57
We have to dot the I's and cross the T's all
55:00
the time. You know what I mean? Because we are
55:02
constantly being looked at in every situation
55:06
and every walk of life. So that's that here again,
55:09
that's where the, the, the attraction. And like
55:13
you said, uh, it's not, well, what was the exterior
55:17
was inside the pants. That's extra. You know
55:20
what I mean? That's bonus, but exactly. That's
55:24
a bonus. But what you're getting is the definition
55:28
of what a real man is supposed to be. I, what
55:33
a, what, what a, what a husband. should be to
55:36
his wife and his family. You know, what a boyfriend
55:39
should be to his girlfriend. What a dad should
55:42
be to his kids. That's the essence of what, you
55:47
know, a black man is out here in the world. And
55:50
that is why we are so loved by all races of women.
55:55
You know, that's why we're loved by all races
55:58
of women and feared by a lot of men. So I think
56:03
that pretty much kind of like Sums it up, doesn't
56:06
it? Yes, sir. What puts a bow on it? So, yeah,
56:09
we're going to end it there, guys. I think we
56:12
learned a lot, and I learned a lot about myself.
56:16
And, you know, this is not going to be the end
56:18
of that conversation because, you know, that's
56:21
one. Oh, no, that's just part one. This is part
56:23
one. This is the foundation of what the Bull
56:26
Brotherhood is about, is the perspective from
56:30
the Sigma male perspective. And we believe. that
56:34
is the best perspective to present the entire
56:37
case because I feel like we have a little bit
56:41
of all of them in us. And cause we, we see things
56:46
as tools as opposed to identities. And I think
56:49
that's why we're kind of outside the spectrum,
56:51
but at the same time kind of sharing that leadership
56:53
position. So we're going to be excited about
56:55
talking about it guys. And I don't know, boss,
56:58
we'll, we'll let you finish it out on whatever
57:01
thoughts you got on. Hey, man, I think you just
57:05
summed it all up right there. I really can't
57:10
follow up with anything else other than what
57:13
I always say to my Bull Brothers out there. Good
57:17
night, and to all my lovely hot wives and unicorns
57:22
and vixens out there, good morning. This has
57:25
been another informative episode of the Bull
57:29
Brotherhood podcast. our lovely and seductive
57:33
siren. And we're going to call it a night until
57:37
we meet again. Everybody, stay sexy, stay seductive.
57:42
And to my brothers out there who think they're
57:44
Sigma, definitely stay Sigma. Have a good night,
57:48
y 'all. This is who we are. Old, confident, seductive.
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Dominant and classy. We're standing tall, never
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fall. Bull Brotherhood. Luxury untaught