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- 0:00I'm Stephanie.
- 0:00I'm Meredith and welcome to, this is my circus.
- 0:02so you rearranged a little bit in your office again, a little bit, just to be a little bit more.
- 0:06I wasn't like on top of you.
- 0:09Well, I liked that too.
- 0:11I'm always like, Trying to find just like re situate things like like you were saying feels like it's never perfect Yeah, it's like like there's always something like and I can't figure it out in my office at home either Yeah, I keep switching things around to in there.
- 0:24So I looked into two different mics.
- 0:26Okay.
- 0:26Um, and then, but it said that there is like a way to do it on the Mac with two mics.
- 0:30Okay.
- 0:31But we would have to be like, far away.
- 0:33And then I think we would need two cameras.
- 0:35And then that just got really complicated.
- 0:37And I was like, you know what?
- 0:38One mic's okay.
- 0:39Fine.
- 0:40We're fine.
- 0:40Because it picks us up well without us being, you know, too close.
- 0:43Yeah.
- 0:43I think it's okay.
- 0:44Yeah.
- 0:44So we would have to be on like opposite ends of the desk.
- 0:47Yeah.
- 0:47And then each have our own and then we wouldn't have that like, yeah, vibe, you know, I don't think right.
- 0:53Because if we had unless when we're big time 1 day and we have our own office space, which is not mandatory to go into unless it's a recording day, we'll have 2 desks facing each other.
- 1:05Or we can just have two really comfy chairs and just have a mic.
- 1:10Yeah.
- 1:11We don't need that.
- 1:12No, we don't need a desk.
- 1:14I actually just get me one of those big sleeping things like you have with Rex.
- 1:17Oh yeah.
- 1:18The human dog bed.
- 1:19That'd be fun.
- 1:19So I woke up this morning and Rex was like curl on like the one side of it.
- 1:23Like, and so he had left me all this room to lay in there with him and it was just calling me.
- 1:27So.
- 1:28I jumped in bed with him in his bed and I brought a blanket and we just snuggled for a little bit for like 30 minutes.
- 1:35Now, did you let the, dog sitter person know that that was a prerequisite that they have to, she just was like, I just want to like love on him.
- 1:46It's not gonna be a problem.
- 1:47I don't think so.
- 1:48Yeah, but I don't hurt a love on him too much.
- 1:50I know.
- 1:53Oh Goodness, how you been doing?
- 1:55I'm pretty good.
- 1:56I think nothing.
- 1:57I mean a lot better.
- 1:58You sound a lot better.
- 1:59You sound normal Yeah, nothing really new has been going on Dylan, yeah, don't go to school today.
- 2:07Okay from winter break.
- 2:09Oh my gosh It's like they've been out for six months.
- 2:11Yeah.
- 2:11Well, he started His dual enrollment college classes.
- 2:14Yeah.
- 2:14Today.
- 2:15Okay.
- 2:16So, yeah.
- 2:17So he only goes to school two days a week or two days a week now.
- 2:21Because he has college classes.
- 2:23And they're all online.
- 2:24It's on Mondays and Wednesdays, I think.
- 2:25Okay.
- 2:26So they actually have a teacher that's at the school.
- 2:28They go there, they do their course, and then they have homework and stuff that they can do at home.
- 2:32Cool.
- 2:33You know, that's so good.
- 2:34Yeah.
- 2:35I think next year, he's gonna do his dual enrollment at York Tech, so he can do his actual, like, classes.
- 2:41Yeah.
- 2:41not just, like, English and math or whatever.
- 2:44Oh my gosh, that's crazy to think about.
- 2:46He'll probably, he'll graduate with like a year under his belt.
- 2:49Nice.
- 2:49Yeah, good.
- 2:50I'm not ready for graduation.
- 2:52Let's not talk about it.
- 2:53Let's not.
- 2:53Moving right along.
- 2:55Moving right along.
- 2:56He did, let his coaches know he's not playing lacrosse this season, so.
- 3:01He's 100 percent out.
- 3:02Yeah, I'm a little bummed.
- 3:03I get that.
- 3:04Yeah, it's his decision.
- 3:06Yeah.
- 3:07When it's been such a part of your life, your family's life for so long, and we've talked about before, like.
- 3:15That's where we make our friends and our connect.
- 3:17That's how we met.
- 3:18Yeah.
- 3:19We would have met anyway because the stars would have aligned.
- 3:23But I mean, that's how we make so many connections.
- 3:26So that's that's tough.
- 3:27Yeah.
- 3:28Are you just really enjoy watching him play?
- 3:30Like, yes.
- 3:30Then in that game, like, yeah, he is on fire.
- 3:33And I just I love watching him do his thing on the field.
- 3:35Yeah.
- 3:36It brings me so much joy to send it and just pride to know I made that.
- 3:40Yeah.
- 3:43But yeah, so, I was definitely disappointed not in him, just in the situation.
- 3:48I'm proud of him for making a decision that he feels is best for him.
- 3:50And he really thought it out and he we had a big discussion.
- 3:53Yeah.
- 3:54So it's just 1 of those like, Growing up moments.
- 3:56Yes.
- 3:56And absolutely.
- 3:57so I'm proud of him for making the decision he wanted to make.
- 4:00Yeah.
- 4:01Knowing that that's what was best for him, but I'm bummed for me as a mom.
- 4:04I understand that.
- 4:06I get it.
- 4:06That's gotta be tough.
- 4:07That time comes, For all of us though, just like different, you know, whatever, whether it be the end of their, their aging out, they made the decision or, you know, whatever, but it's just, at least you got a little prepared for it.
- 4:21Just like a bomb drop.
- 4:22Yeah.
- 4:22So it is what it is.
- 4:23Yeah.
- 4:24Okay.
- 4:24Let's not talk about that anymore.
- 4:25Yeah.
- 4:26No crying.
- 4:26No crying.
- 4:27So, sports, Jackson had a basketball game last week and they played against the team from Australia.
- 4:32Oh yeah.
- 4:32Yeah.
- 4:33How did that go?
- 4:34It was good.
- 4:35Was it awesome?
- 4:35It was so much fun.
- 4:36Well, for me, because I don't play.
- 4:38But, so they did good.
- 4:39They had a good time.
- 4:40They ended up playing well.
- 4:42Well, there was like 4 games between the JV and varsity, both girls teams and then JV and varsity boys teams.
- 4:50So, like, we were there for a long time.
- 4:53Of course I go walking around making friends.
- 4:55Of course.
- 4:56So I talked to four girls because I was talking to them while the varsity boys were playing.
- 5:00And I was like, am I going to get you guys in trouble for not watching?
- 5:03You know, they're like, no, we'd love to talk.
- 5:06That was my British accent again.
- 5:08But I talked to Alex, Anna, Bridget, and Liv.
- 5:11And they were So, and I told them, they're like, so they were so kind.
- 5:17I was like, thank you for just entertaining my questions and stuff.
- 5:21I, they were so much fun to chat with.
- 5:23And I was like, you know, this weird old lady that they were just sitting there with.
- 5:26And I'm not old.
- 5:27Stop that.
- 5:28Yeah.
- 5:28Silly me.
- 5:28Oh, weird young lady.
- 5:31So that was so, I didn't comment on the weird, I was like, Oh, well, we know that.
- 5:36I mean, there's no I in that.
- 5:38There's, there's stuff that can hide the old, but there's not stuff that can hide the weird.
- 5:43T shirt, mark that down.
- 5:46But they were like, like we talked about the differences in the schools and stuff.
- 5:49So they were from Melbourne, Australia.
- 5:52So that's like southern coastal.
- 5:54So 30 minutes from the beach.
- 5:55Some of them surfed.
- 5:57And they go to all girls schools.
- 6:00So the people that were there weren't necessarily from one school.
- 6:03It was more, Kind of like a club, like those from the same area, but traveling.
- 6:07Yeah.
- 6:07Okay.
- 6:07Pretty much, but not all of them knew each other.
- 6:10and it was very, it was reasonable.
- 6:12It was like five grand.
- 6:13Oh, and they were here for the, they've got another week.
- 6:16So they're here for three, like three weeks.
- 6:18Yeah.
- 6:18And they have been to California.
- 6:20They've been to Texas.
- 6:21They were here.
- 6:21They went to North Carolina, but they got to do a lot.
- 6:24Um, but yeah, so they indulged me, my little That's Australian kangaroos are real like everywhere.
- 6:34I mean, we knew they were real, but like, they were like, kangaroos are real.
- 6:38they said, you drive by field and there'll be like, a lot in a field like how we have cows.
- 6:45Yes, or dear.
- 6:47Okay.
- 6:47Like you, you know, you just see them and they were like, they're really jacked.
- 6:51And I was like, they're here.
- 6:52Like we said, jacked at the same time.
- 6:54And they were like, y'all say that to us or they didn't say y'all, but you know what I mean?
- 6:58It was just, it was really cool to talk to them.
- 7:00So they have like weird animals that get in their house.
- 7:04I did not ask them that question.
- 7:06I didn't ask them that question, but we talked about snakes, and they have a lot of snakes there.
- 7:10Yeah, they have a lot of snakes there.
- 7:11I did not get to ask them about the wombat.
- 7:14they wear uniforms at school.
- 7:16and they're kind of split with if they like it or not.
- 7:18You know, some are like, I don't have to think about what I'm going to wear.
- 7:23A tie in a suit is crazy.
- 7:26it was it was really really cool and they looked so young But they were older like they were 18 and I thought they were like 16 15.
- 7:35Yeah, they just were all so fresh faced Not a lot of makeup.
- 7:41I don't know.
- 7:42Take all this out.
- 7:44No, but you know, like a lot of times, like all the makeup and the eyelashes and I like all that stuff.
- 7:50Don't get me wrong.
- 7:50If I could do it all, I would, but they didn't have, they weren't doing into any of that.
- 7:54They were just, I mean, they're athletes too.
- 7:56I guess.
- 7:56I don't know.
- 7:57Whatever.
- 7:57Don't make me sound weird.
- 7:59Well, that's awesome.
- 8:00Yeah.
- 8:00That was a lot of fun.
- 8:01So they, have another game tomorrow night.
- 8:04and then it's seasons.
- 8:05Kind of about halfway, so wind it down a little bit now.
- 8:08And they had football awards last week.
- 8:10Okay.
- 8:11Jackson got an award.
- 8:12Yeah.
- 8:13So he got an award for good grades, which he should.
- 8:16Congratulations, Jackson.
- 8:17Yeah.
- 8:18And then he got all region.
- 8:19Oh, wow.
- 8:20And They had to explain to me what that meant because I did not know what that meant.
- 8:24So let me explain it for the people like me who don't know.
- 8:27So it sounds fancy.
- 8:27So that's why I was like, right, right, right, exactly.
- 8:30Like, Oh, so I thought it was like, okay, there's 20 awards.
- 8:33The 20 best best players get the award.
- 8:35That's not how it works.
- 8:36What it is is there's an award for every region, every position.
- 8:41And.
- 8:42Basically, he's the best person in his region, in his position, voted on by coaches, like all the coaches of all the schools in the region.
- 8:51So, yeah, just bragging for a little bit.
- 8:53Good job, Jackson.
- 8:55Very proud of him for that.
- 8:56Very proud of him for that.
- 8:57So, that's been keeping us busy.
- 8:59And then, you know, we had Arctic Storm 2025, such a bust.
- 9:03It was such a bust.
- 9:04Such a bust.
- 9:05And if these eggs don't hatch, Don't the pricing, like first of all, crazy, legit how to go grocery shopping.
- 9:13I was out of stuff.
- 9:13Yeah.
- 9:14I wasn't there because of the storm.
- 9:16I wasn't there freaking out, thinking like I wouldn't have food for 10 days.
- 9:19Right.
- 9:20I legit needed to go grocery shopping.
- 9:22I was out of eggs.
- 9:23I was out of like almond milk.
- 9:24I was out of like the necessities I went to three different stores, three different stores did not have eggs.
- 9:29All there was was like the egg substitute.
- 9:32Gosh, and so I got that because Dylan eats eggs every day.
- 9:35Yeah for breakfast or whatever.
- 9:37And so I got that and After the three stores that I went to, he was going to the gym and he goes to the gym in Clover, so I asked him if he could go stop at Piggly Wiggly.
- 9:45Yeah, see what they got.
- 9:46He said there was nothing there.
- 9:48Gosh.
- 9:48So four stores in our area did not have a single egg.
- 9:52Not even like the super fancy expensive eggs.
- 9:54Right, not like the organic where they basically just catch it when it comes out of the chicken.
- 9:59Don't ever let it touch anything that's not natural.
- 10:02But I was like, Oh my gosh.
- 10:04So, then I went.
- 10:04Today to the grocery store because we still hadn't gotten eggs.
- 10:08I hadn't gone since then and the prices are no see they're crazy.
- 10:13So did you get 12 or 18?
- 10:14I got 18 and I was like 649 is crazy I remember Gather round youngins.
- 10:20Let mom I'll tell you a story But it wasn't too long ago that like a 12 like a dozen eggs were like two bucks What is going on?
- 10:28Are chickens scarce right now?
- 10:30Something about bird flu is what my mom had told me.
- 10:33Eye roll.
- 10:34Emoji.
- 10:35Yes.
- 10:36So, yeah.
- 10:37So, are we gonna invest in some chickens?
- 10:40In my neighborhood, we're not allowed to.
- 10:41We're not allowed to.
- 10:42It's crazy.
- 10:43I live in the middle of nowhere, but we're not supposed to have farm animals, barn, farm animals.
- 10:48We can have barn animals.
- 10:48Somebody's got a pig because, a pig was like roaming loose like a year ago.
- 10:54Down Main Street, like coming into Main Street when I was driving Dylan to school.
- 10:57Somebody had lost a pig in that area.
- 10:59Oh my gosh.
- 11:00And it was on one of the Clover groups.
- 11:03And it was somebody that lived like right in town that had had the pig.
- 11:07We've had random goats show up in our You've got all sorts of animals.
- 11:10Uh huh.
- 11:11Oh my gosh.
- 11:11And a bear.
- 11:12I saw this video of a guy who has a pet goat and like he has fake arguments with this goat.
- 11:22Is it one of the fainting goats?
- 11:23Goat?
- 11:23Goats?
- 11:24No, but he's like, He makes like the funniest noise.
- 11:28He's like, I love, love, love the videos of the goats that are fainting or the little goats wear pajamas.
- 11:35Anything, they're cute.
- 11:36They hop.
- 11:37Oh, yeah.
- 11:37Yeah.
- 11:38And I watched a video the other day.
- 11:39Somebody got their goats a trampoline because they like to jump so much.
- 11:43Oh, yeah.
- 11:44Cute.
- 11:45Oh, I love that.
- 11:46I'm going to have to find the argumentative goat.
- 11:49well I saw this really stupid article.
- 11:52it was this guy cut his face shaving and sued the razor company and got like 6, 350.
- 12:03What?
- 12:04Cause he nicked his face.
- 12:06Shaving.
- 12:06I could have so much money from, thank you.
- 12:09He was saying you know, like the one that you replace the head of the razor.
- 12:12he said it was a faulty razor and I call BS and I'm sure the company was like, it's not even worth give him a check.
- 12:18Yeah, I'm sure.
- 12:19So I found ridiculous lawsuits bring it against companies that we love.
- 12:24Okay.
- 12:25I cannot believe that they made money off of that.
- 12:28That's crazy.
- 12:29It makes me so mad.
- 12:30I mean, if it's like a legit thing that really, like, requires Right.
- 12:33If the blade, like, was broken and cut his neck and he almost bled out.
- 12:38Yeah.
- 12:40I mean, come on.
- 12:41I mean, what just happened?
- 12:42And he had a picture.
- 12:42Like, he took a picture.
- 12:43Yeah.
- 12:43For evidence.
- 12:45And, but he threw out the razor.
- 12:47Oh.
- 12:47He didn't say he was a faulty razor.
- 12:49But he took a picture of the blood dripping down his face.
- 12:51Hopefully, he still lost money by the time he paid an attorney and paid whatever.
- 12:56All right.
- 12:56So, ridiculous lawsuits against the brands you love.
- 12:59Okay.
- 12:59So, starting out with Starbucks.
- 13:02Okay.
- 13:03Chicago woman Stacey Pincus filed a 5 million action lawsuit against Starbucks in April 2016 claiming the company puts too much ice in its cold drinks.
- 13:13The lawsuit accused Starbucks of advertising ice drinks as 24 ounce beverages when the cup only contained 14 ounces of fluid.
- 13:20How can you sue somebody for that?
- 13:22I don't know, but I will say, they do add a lot of ice.
- 13:25They do! Their pink drink is If you took out all the ice, it'd be like this much.
- 13:29Well, and I usually get light ice, wherever I go.
- 13:32so pro tip for everybody there.
- 13:35Okay, what was the result?
- 13:35The result named the most frivolous lawsuit of 2016 by the U.
- 13:39S.
- 13:39Chamber of Commerce Institute for legal reform.
- 13:41The 5 million lawsuit was dismissed by a Chicago federal judge in late 2016.
- 13:46And if you're worried about not getting your money's worth for your iced drink at Starbucks, here's a solution.
- 13:51Request light ice.
- 13:52There you go.
- 13:53I could be a lawyer.
- 13:55That is crazy.
- 13:56I know.
- 13:58It is what it is.
- 13:59It is what it is.
- 13:59Okay, Hershey company.
- 14:00Can I read this one?
- 14:01Okay, Robert.
- 14:02Bratton of Missouri filed a lawsuit claiming that the Hershey Company intentionally sells partially full packages of Whoppers, Reese's Pieces, and other products.
- 14:12In May 2017, his 5 million class action lawsuit was given the green light to move forward by U.
- 14:17S.
- 14:18District Judge Nanette Lowery.
- 14:21The result?
- 14:23On February 16, 2018, Bratton's case was thrown out.
- 14:26U.
- 14:26S.
- 14:26District Judge Lowery Concluded, that Bratton wasn't really harmed because even though he realized that the packages of Whoppers and Reese's Pieces candy weren't full, he continued to buy them.
- 14:36And buy he did.
- 14:37Over the course of a decade, he bought over 600 packages of the sweet treats.
- 14:43Holy moly! Okay, so a decade, 600.
- 14:46So 60 a year?
- 14:48Uh huh.
- 14:48Like, what size packages are we talking?
- 14:50Like, are we talking like the family size?
- 14:51Or are we talking like the ones at the register?
- 14:54Yeah.
- 14:55I need details.
- 14:56I know, I do too.
- 14:57Okay.
- 14:59Subway a whole board in 2013, a group of subway customers filed a class action lawsuit against the chain claiming it's foot long subs didn't always measure up to 12 inches.
- 15:08I remember this one because the lawsuit was consolidated.
- 15:12Some plaintiffs were seeking up to 5 million from the sandwich chain.
- 15:16U.
- 15:17S.
- 15:17District Judge Judge Lynn Aldman called the case quite weak and subway was cleared of deceptive marketing practices but agreed to make sure subs are the proper size in the future and would pay five hundred and twenty thousand dollars in attorney fees and five hundred dollars to each of the ten plaintiffs.
- 15:35520, 000 in attorney fees.
- 15:41The result, just when both parties thought the lawsuit had been put to rest, it was appealed by the Competitive Enterprise Institute's Center for Class Action Fairness, filed in March 2016.
- 15:51The settlement offered no benefit to the majority of the class, just like Subway's bread.
- 15:57The payout came up short.
- 16:00That was a good pun.
- 16:01Yeah.
- 16:03On August 25th, 2017, the Seventh Circuit Court of Appeals rejected the settlement.
- 16:09In the subway case because it would have left the class with nothing.
- 16:12Oh my goodness.
- 16:14They just rejected it.
- 16:16Yeah.
- 16:16But now I want subway.
- 16:19Dylan can I hug you up?
- 16:20No, he's here.
- 16:21He's here.
- 16:22Okay.
- 16:23The Home Depot.
- 16:24Oh, okay.
- 16:27One of the more recent court cases, a group of Chicago plaintiffs filed a class action lawsuit against Home Depot in 2017 because the store's 4x4 lumber actually measures out to be 3.
- 16:385 inches in diameter.
- 16:39by 3.
- 16:395 inches on each side.
- 16:41Size does matter.
- 16:42It does matter.
- 16:44Home Depot and other lumber suppliers have explained that four by four is just the name of the boards as the industry standard dimensions actually are 3.
- 16:535 by 3.
- 16:535.
- 16:54Nevertheless, the plane of salt more than 5 million in damages.
- 16:58The result.
- 16:59On March 12, 2018, U.
- 17:01S.
- 17:01District Judge Sharon Johnson Coleman rejected the plaintiff's claim and dismissed the case against Home Depot without prejudice.
- 17:08This means the plaintiffs are free to refile their complaint if they so choose.
- 17:12So it's just called a four by four.
- 17:14I thought for sure it meant something.
- 17:16I think maybe it used to.
- 17:18Like maybe when boards were first made.
- 17:23Does anybody know the history of 4x4s?
- 17:26You know what?
- 17:27We really don't even want to know.
- 17:28No, I don't.
- 17:29I just assumed that it meant like a measurement.
- 17:31I just assumed.
- 17:32I don't know.
- 17:34Um, all right.
- 17:35McDonald's.
- 17:36California resident Webster Lucas sued the company for 1.
- 17:395 million in 2014 because he only received one napkin with his meal.
- 17:44Are you freaking kidding me?
- 17:45This is, see, this is what makes me insane is that these are fixable things.
- 17:50Like, go get yourself another napkin.
- 17:51Ask for another napkin.
- 17:52Right.
- 17:53Uh, okay.
- 17:54After a potentially racially charged argument with the manager, Lucas was offered free burgers, but he claimed the incident left him emotionally distressed and unable to work.
- 18:03Come on.
- 18:04Right.
- 18:04Unlike the McDonald's hot coffee lawsuit of 1994, no one actually got hurt from the napkin gate.
- 18:09The result, apparently Lucas is no stranger to taking on fast food corporations.
- 18:14According to NBC Los Angeles, prior to filing suit on McDonald's, he had filed Against jack in the box without receiving any compensation for his claims lucas is a vexious Exactly.
- 18:27I use that word a lot A vexious litigant a person who files frivolous claims according to nbc at the time of the mcdonald's lawsuit lucas was Not on California's vexatious litigant list which prohibits those on the list from future filings for a set amount of time But he was as recently as March 2018 with his 2014 case listed as the reason why So he has put on the do not Sue do not let him sue anybody list Or commonly known as a vexatious litigant or whatever it was called Wow Just get another napkin.
- 19:04Get another napkin.
- 19:05I want to know what the jack in the box one was for.
- 19:07Probably the same thing.
- 19:08He didn't receive a straw.
- 19:09I hate when that happens, though.
- 19:11That does make me mad.
- 19:11That is tough.
- 19:12That, that is bad.
- 19:13That is bad.
- 19:13Do you keep extra napkins, like, in your glove box, though?
- 19:15Me too.
- 19:16Have you seen the meme that says people who don't do that are, like, on a whole nother level of income?
- 19:20Uh huh.
- 19:20Um, okay.
- 19:21British Airways.
- 19:22Dr.
- 19:23Edward Gamson and his partner booked a first class flight through British Airways to Granada, Spain in 2014, but a ticket mix up sent the North Bethesda, Maryland couple to the small Caribbean island country of Granada.
- 19:39Oh.
- 19:40Granada was spelled correctly on their tickets, but the couple didn't notice they were headed in the wrong direction until 20 minutes after their St.
- 19:47Lucia bound flight departed from London.
- 19:50In total, they took seven different flights over three days to finally get to Lisbon, Portugal, where Gamson had a conference.
- 19:56The Granada Spain trip was supposed to be an added excursion, which cost 2, 776.
- 20:04The result, he tried to sue British Airways for 34, 000, which he said covered the first class flights and lost wages, but his case was dismissed.
- 20:12Gamson maybe should have stayed in Grenada and had some of the most beautiful beaches in the world.
- 20:18I mean, I guess, check your tickets?
- 20:20Like, I can see that that was, that'd be a tough thing, but.
- 20:23I don't know if they're at fault for you buying a ticket for the wrong place.
- 20:29Yeah.
- 20:30Whatever flight I was on last, they had to check everybody's ticket.
- 20:34Somebody got on the wrong flight and then I'm like, how does that happen?
- 20:36Because when you're giving them your whatever.
- 20:38Yeah.
- 20:38Any, your little QR code or whatever you're doing, should they not be checking that and shouldn't it throw up like a red flag, like wrong flight?
- 20:45Right.
- 20:46I don't understand how that happens.
- 20:47They went through every single seat and made sure that everybody was on the right flight before he took off.
- 20:53Custom Cleaners.
- 20:54Administrative Law Judge Roy Pearson filed a 67 million lawsuit against Custom Cleaners, a Washington, D.
- 21:01C.
- 21:01dry cleaner, for allegedly losing a pair of pants.
- 21:0467 million dollars.
- 21:06Are they made out of gold?
- 21:07Yes.
- 21:08The 2007 civil litigation made national headlines because of its outrageous nature.
- 21:14When the dry cleaner found the pants, Pearson claimed they weren't his and demanded 1, 000 for a new suit.
- 21:19His request was denied, which spawned a lawsuit, which he eventually dropped to a more reasonable price.
- 21:2454 million.
- 21:25Oh my gosh.
- 21:26The result, the judge ruled in favor of custom cleaners and forced Pearson to pay the business court fees, which totaled roughly 1, 000, but Pearson's troubles weren't over.
- 21:35In 2016, the Washington Post reported that the DC Board of Professional Responsibility found that Pearson committed two ethics violations in regards to the custom cleaners case and recommended sanctions that included Pearson being placed on probation from the practice of law for two years.
- 21:53Oh my gosh.
- 21:54Okay, so in his defense though, like he asked for the money for a suit to replace it and they said no.
- 22:01But if those were really his pants, he was just trying to get a new suit.
- 22:05Yeah.
- 22:06They found his pants.
- 22:08Yeah, you're right.
- 22:09I was just stuck on that.
- 22:10They wouldn't give it to him.
- 22:11Okay.
- 22:14Beck's Beer.
- 22:15Australian for beer.
- 22:16Do you remember those commercials?
- 22:18Of course, that's the one I get.
- 22:19In 2013, several Beck's Beer aficionados filed a class action lawsuit against Anheuser Busch seeking upward of 5 million because they claim deceptive packaging caused them to believe the beverage was manufactured in Germany.
- 22:33Production was moved to St.
- 22:35Louis in 2012, but Made in the USA, almost non existent, was on the label.
- 22:40The result The court ruled in the plaintiff's favor and U.
- 22:43S.
- 22:43Magistrate Judge John O'Sullivan approved a settlement for customers who purchased Beck's Pilsner, Beck's Dark, Beck's Light, and Beck's Oktoberfest from May 2011 to June 23, 2015.
- 22:59Those with receipts were able to file a claim for up to 50 per household or up to 12 without a receipt.
- 23:05Okay.
- 23:06I would never even like look at it.
- 23:08I wouldn't either.
- 23:09Never.
- 23:10Nike.
- 23:11Imprisoned pimp Sergio.
- 23:16Let me start over.
- 23:17I wasn't expecting that.
- 23:22Okay.
- 23:23Imprisoned pimp so Giorgio?
- 23:25Mm hmm.
- 23:26That's a, that's a name.
- 23:27Mm hmm.
- 23:28Oof.
- 23:28Maybe her is Sir Giorgio.
- 23:32You know, a prison pimp, Clardy, sued Nike for a hundred million in 2014 claiming his Air Jordan sneakers should have come with the warning that they could be used as a dangerous weapon.
- 23:44Clardy received a hundred year prison sentence for stomping on the face of Portland, Oregon prostitution customer.
- 23:50He tried to flee a motel without paying.
- 23:52There's a lot to unpack there.
- 23:53A lot to unpack in that one.
- 23:56There's a lot going on there.
- 23:58Okay, the result.
- 23:59Clarty served as his own litigation lawyer appearing by video feed from where he was incarcerated.
- 24:05Nike's lawyer spoke for less than 90 seconds reported the newspaper?
- 24:09Yep.
- 24:10Whereas, Clardy rambled on, often off topic, for most of the rest of the hearing, after he failed to prove his case, it was promptly dismissed.
- 24:17So, the pimp stomped somebody's face and then wanted to blame it on Nike.
- 24:21Mm hmm.
- 24:22For a hundred million dollars.
- 24:23Like, you shouldn't be able to do that.
- 24:25The shoe should stop.
- 24:26The shoe made your foot do this.
- 24:29I wonder if, that basketball player that, like, fell through a shoe.
- 24:32Do you remember him?
- 24:32His name is Zion.
- 24:34Fell through a what?
- 24:34He fell through his shoe.
- 24:35He, like, slid through.
- 24:36He, like, he stopped really fast.
- 24:38And, like, his shoe exploded and he went through his shoe and he lost.
- 24:42Yeah, you would have laughed.
- 24:45I want to say it was his rookie year.
- 24:47And he lost a lot of playing time because of it.
- 24:50I thought you were gonna tell me he lost a toe.
- 24:51No, his toes as far as I know were fine.
- 24:55I thought that's where that was going.
- 24:57His toes were fine as far, allegedly.
- 24:59I guess, oh, my God.
- 25:011 more.
- 25:02Yeah.
- 25:03Okay.
- 25:04Universal Studios.
- 25:05People attend Universal Studios for its annual Halloween Horror Nights to enjoy some fun and frights, but one grandma got more than she bargained for.
- 25:13Miss Peter sued Universal Studios in 1998 for emotional and physical damage stemming from A visit to one of the Haunted House attractions.
- 25:22At the end of the Haunted House, which Peters was visiting with her grandchild, a man wielding a chainsaw prop frightened them, so they ran hurriedly for the exit door.
- 25:31Unfortunately for Peters, there was a puddle outside the door that caused her to slip and fall.
- 25:35She sued Universal for 15, 000 for physical injuries, as well as extreme fear, emotional distress, and mental anguish.
- 25:45Lando sentinel reported the result Peter's lawsuit never made it to trial the case was settled out of court according to the book Of course, it wasn't like she was suing for millions No, and I'm good with that you fall you get hurt.
- 25:58You got doctor's bills.
- 25:59You got to go back and forth to them Yeah When I was in college, I was at a grocery store, however, I was intoxicated.
- 26:05And because it was like a snowy night mm-hmm.
- 26:08In Pennsylvania.
- 26:09And so there was water on the floor, just from people's shoes.
- 26:12Mm-hmm And I, when I tell you I busted my butt.
- 26:14You did.
- 26:15I, it was like the cartoon, like where like your feet slip out and Oh, you end up on your back.
- 26:19Yeah.
- 26:19And I sat and I laughed for like five minutes.
- 26:24you were just laughing at yourself.
- 26:28The workers can they like you okay, and I just I couldn't stop laughing.
- 26:31Oh, we're just like I have a list of things I'd like to tell you about and I want to see how you feel about these Okay, these are the songs that are turning 25 2025 don't do this to me.
- 26:45I'm old breathe by Faith Hill I never liked that song., Smooth featuring Rob Thomas with Santana.
- 26:52I'd have to hear it.
- 26:53I don't know.
- 26:54Do you want me to sing?
- 26:55Yeah.
- 26:55Cause you are so smooth.
- 26:58That did not sound like you.
- 26:59I can't remember any other words.
- 27:01Okay.
- 27:01Maria Maria.
- 27:03Okay.
- 27:04I Wanna Know by Jobe.
- 27:05I can't remember that.
- 27:06I wanna know it.
- 27:09What?
- 27:12Um, Everything You Want by Vertical Horizon.
- 27:14I I'm just gonna do the top 10.
- 27:16Say My Name by Destiny's Child.
- 27:19I Knew I Loved You by Savage Garden.
- 27:21Blech.
- 27:22Amazed by Lone Star.
- 27:23Blech.
- 27:25Bent Matchbox 20.
- 27:26he wasn't man enough by Toni Braxton.
- 27:28Okay.
- 27:29None of those were impressive, but how about the thong song?
- 27:32Um, what a girl wants christina aguilera bye bye bye We don't like justin anymore.
- 27:41No, we don't but it's crazy that they're 25 years old.
- 27:43It's gonna be me That's crazy that those are that old Some creed songs.
- 27:54Yeah, we But you know, I don't really like new music I don't either but I don't like really any of these songs.
- 28:00These weren't my my music like I wasn't a Faith Hill I wasn't a Savage garden not a lone star fan well, my Alligator loving friend.
- 28:12Do you also like crocodiles?
- 28:14I do.
- 28:15well in Indonesia, have you heard this?
- 28:17Tell me.
- 28:18Indonesia, the crocodiles are faking drowning to lure humans into the water to attack.
- 28:25No joke.
- 28:26Like look how, look at this picture.
- 28:28Like they're waving their hands out of the water and they look like hands and trying to lure humans into the water.
- 28:35What?
- 28:37Yes.
- 28:38So this article says that a new video making waves online suggests that the crocodiles may be using clever tricks to capture prey.
- 28:46The clip narrates with a British accent, depicts a crocodile appearing to fake drown in order to attract unsuspecting humans into the water.
- 28:54Well, at first, Lance, this idea may seem farfetched, the possibility of this behavior has captured attention.
- 28:58Could crocodiles be smart enough to lure Taurus into their jaws?
- 29:03That is Craig.
- 29:04Craig.
- 29:05We watch this video.
- 29:06It looks like human arms and hands.
- 29:09They've evolved.
- 29:11So we have the whales attacking boats and now crocodiles faking drowning to eat humans.
- 29:17I'm in shock.
- 29:18So your little, scaly friends.
- 29:22Little scaly friends need to, need to, not, not be so deceptive.
- 29:26Slow their roll.
- 29:27Oh my gosh, that is crazy.
- 29:31That, that looked freaky.
- 29:32Not gonna lie, that looked freaky.
- 29:33Dude, like, the animals are, are, like, Yeah, they are fighting back.
- 29:40Oh my goodness.
- 29:41So crazy.
- 29:42We've all heard of the California fires.
- 29:44Yes.
- 29:44Right.
- 29:44which is horrible.
- 29:45Yeah.
- 29:45And there's so many different theories out there right now about what is actually going on.
- 29:50Because nobody believes it's just fires.
- 29:53Yeah.
- 29:54do you remember, Laguna Beach in the hills, the shows and Spencer Pratt?
- 29:57I didn't watch him, but I remember and, yeah, the name Spencer Pratt yeah.
- 30:01Um, so.
- 30:02Spencer was like the most hated character on our show, and he was made to be the villain.
- 30:06Okay.
- 30:07and him and Heidi are still married to this day.
- 30:09Really?
- 30:09Yeah.
- 30:09Was it like a, was it like a Jersey Shore?
- 30:13Yeah.
- 30:13Okay.
- 30:14Okay.
- 30:15I couldn't think of reality.
- 30:15Yeah.
- 30:16Okay.
- 30:16Um, well, so the Lugan and Beach started out like they were in high school, and then the Hills is when they were starting their careers.
- 30:22Okay.
- 30:23So everybody hated Spencer and Heidi.
- 30:25Well, Spencer has like the driest sense of humor.
- 30:28and he has gone like viral on TikTok right now because his house burned down.
- 30:32Okay.
- 30:33But he was doing, videos like TikToks.
- 30:35Okay.
- 30:35While this was happening, like showing there's nobody coming to, there's no fire trucks.
- 30:40They live right next to a water reserve or whatever, showed like the locks were never taken off.
- 30:44Nobody even tried to access.
- 30:46Those wow.
- 30:47so he has gone viral on Tik TOK he was like, Well, if I knew that my house burning down was to get me to hit a million followers, like what were we waiting for?
- 30:58Such a smart Alec.
- 31:00I like, he is so much fun to watch, but he is like his wife's number one supporter.
- 31:05Really?
- 31:05He is.
- 31:06I mean, people said that they saw him out, Just like walking around, like not anytime recently.
- 31:11Yeah.
- 31:11He had his Heidi Montag shirt on, like, I mean, just always supporting her.
- 31:15Always like, what does she do now?
- 31:16She, she is a singer.
- 31:17I, okay.
- 31:18She made, had an album, I guess like years ago.
- 31:20Okay.
- 31:21I think they just made a new one.
- 31:22Okay.
- 31:23She's still trying to do her music career, but everybody now is supporting them.
- 31:28Well, I've seen, some tic tacs recently and it's like I support you and I was like, what is going on?
- 31:34So if they're trying to make money off of all the tic tacs to rebuild their house or to get a new house or whatever Because they don't I mean they're not rich like they are not like rolling in money They would lived in the Palisades, but it's because his parents bought that house years ago.
- 31:46Okay Um, yeah, those fires out there are crazy.
- 31:49I mean, all the different things about, you know, the water.
- 31:54Reservoirs empty, and they were supposed to have renewed some of that stuff recently and, like, contracts, I think, with the fire departments and so had when he was still present last time.
- 32:08Made, comments about, Gavin Newsome, the governor of California, saying that it was, like.
- 32:14Irresponsible with the water supplies and that the farmers couldn't get water.
- 32:19it was, like, being redirected to some, endangered fish.
- 32:22Somewhere, they couldn't take water from wherever to to refill all of the reservoirs because there was an endangered fish somewhere.
- 32:30And, so none of the farmers were getting adequate water.
- 32:33And so this was back in, like, 2016, when I started making these statements and.
- 32:41We see where we are at now, but there was also something, I forgot what it was called.
- 32:45Like project 2028 or something like that.
- 32:47Mm-hmm They want to bring the Olympics to LA and they wanted it like a carless experience.
- 32:53Okay.
- 32:54And so they wanna build this high speed, train.
- 32:56Railway down the coast and there was a picture of.
- 33:02Where the railway they want to put it and the exact pattern of the fires.
- 33:08And it follows.
- 33:10The exact pattern.
- 33:13Wow.
- 33:14So they said that in order just to get permits to clean up, it takes like forever, like years.
- 33:21somebody had said in one of the previous fires, that their pool had like a bunch of like, Animals in it because the animals were fleeing.
- 33:29and it took a year to get a permit to empty the pool.
- 33:33Oh my.
- 33:34So we have all of these homes.
- 33:35You're not going to get the permits at any time soon to rebuild.
- 33:38If you have the money to rebuild, right.
- 33:40And what happens then the government takes the land.
- 33:43Oh my gosh.
- 33:45For pennies on the dollar.
- 33:46It's just like the Maui fires.
- 33:47Yeah.
- 33:48Yeah.
- 33:49That is crazy.
- 33:51So yeah, you're right.
- 33:52There's, well, we'll, we'll follow that.
- 33:55And then I don't want to say too much.
- 33:56Did you hear with the North Carolina, with the mountains, that there's lithium?
- 34:01Yes.
- 34:02And there's the theory that it's all happened because of the lithium.
- 34:07Well, in California, there is a lake that is sitting on top of the world's largest lithium supply.
- 34:15Okay, is it in this path of the fires?
- 34:18It's in that area somewhere around there.
- 34:20Wow.
- 34:21So I don't know.
- 34:23I mean, these are all just theories But it just seems kind of fishy.
- 34:28Well, Spencer right now wants to do a class action lawsuit against California, because he said that this is not an electrical fire.
- 34:35This is not whatever they're saying.
- 34:36This is caused by.
- 34:38Because he has a, from his Ring doorbell camera, has a video of where there was an explosion.
- 34:44Like, it was not a fire, it was like an explosion.
- 34:48What?
- 34:49Because the thing that I keep hearing, keep hearing, is that a homeless guy started the fires.
- 34:54And then it's just like Well, they had tried, saying that it was an electrical wire.
- 34:58Mm hmm.
- 34:59Never heard that one.
- 35:00And then with the winds, it just spread.
- 35:02Right.
- 35:03And they couldn't contain it.
- 35:05There are people now running around though neighborhoods like setting fire.
- 35:09Like why?
- 35:09Why?
- 35:10Right, right.
- 35:12Unless they're being paid by whatever, whoever.
- 35:14A few, uh, I think it was one night last week.
- 35:17It might even been New Year's Eve whenever that was.
- 35:20I was coming down my road and it was nighttime and you know, my road is kind of windy and it's dark.
- 35:26There's not a lot out there.
- 35:28Well, I can see at.
- 35:30Uh, what I think is that my house flames up, like, to the ceiling.
- 35:36I mean, past the roof.
- 35:36It was crazy.
- 35:37It was terrifying.
- 35:39So I'm going down the road.
- 35:40By the time I made all the turns to get there, it was on the other side of the road from my house.
- 35:45And it was like, they had like a burn pile out there with like pallets and trees and limbs from the storms and stuff.
- 35:51So, and they had told me they were going to be doing it.
- 35:53But in that moment it was just terrifying.
- 35:56Just to see these huge flames, 30 feet in the air from that far away.
- 36:00Yeah.
- 36:01Scared me.
- 36:02not as terrifying though, as this that I found out, huh?
- 36:06Did you know that in Nordic countries, they'd let their babies sleep outside?
- 36:10Yes.
- 36:11And honestly, I'm not really terrified of it.
- 36:13It's fascinating to me.
- 36:15Not for me.
- 36:16Not for me.
- 36:16No, no, no.
- 36:17Like I, it would not be for me.
- 36:18Like I, like as an adult, I want to sleep outside.
- 36:20right.
- 36:21But that is crazy.
- 36:22They like put them in their little prams or whatever they call them and they just put them outside and bundle them up and yeah That is crazy to me.
- 36:31Okay, that's like the animal factor.
- 36:33Yeah A bully mammoth comes Is that where they is that where they are from the nordic region?
- 36:40I don't know well between that and then just crazy people Yeah, but yeah, but I don't think they have the crime like we have here.
- 36:46Yeah well speaking of crime in california at a army, Reserve Center in Orange County, California.
- 36:55They were robbed.
- 36:57And when I tell you this, hold on.
- 36:59Okay.
- 37:00What was taken was eight machine gun vehicle mounts, seven standing machine gun tripods, medical equipment, 40 pairs of binoculars, 18 bayonets, three Humvees, one which was armored, and all the suspects did was break one lock to get in there.
- 37:16So here's my questions for this like there's so much wrong with oh that that is cray cray why is it so easy to break in to where all of the army equipment is?
- 37:25Like why is it one lock right?
- 37:28How can they not have GPS on these vehicles?
- 37:30Mm hmm.
- 37:30There's GPS on everything.
- 37:31Mm hmm.
- 37:32There's GPS on your phone There probably is GPS on them.
- 37:34They're just don't want to look What a security footage like is there not security foot?
- 37:40How is that?
- 37:40Not like mm hmm You have security footage in freakin Walmart, right?
- 37:44Please tell me why they don't have at the Army Reserve Center where they're all this equipment any kind of security footage And is there not security guards or army people there?
- 37:55I don't know.
- 37:56You have security guards walking around regular.
- 38:00Right.
- 38:00I mean, I don't understand.
- 38:01Right.
- 38:03Sounds like an inside job, huh?
- 38:04Exactly.
- 38:05That is, yeah.
- 38:07Have they recovered any of the happy herd?
- 38:08I just saw that yesterday.
- 38:11That is a lot.
- 38:12That's a lot.
- 38:14That's a lot that is obviously more than one person if you're driving three humvees And if it is an enemy person that did this not just like a American idiot, right?
- 38:25Then they're gonna have the same be like they're gonna look like they're right.
- 38:29They'll blend in.
- 38:30Yeah.
- 38:31That is petrifying.
- 38:31That is that So, whatever this place is, fix your security, get better locks, have security guards, get your security footage fixed.
- 38:42They should have seen that going on.
- 38:44Yeah.
- 38:45While it was going on, the thing is, is that's not like I was saying, that that's a group of people.
- 38:50It's not 1 person sneaking in and out.
- 38:53Yeah.
- 38:54And all the other things.
- 38:56Like, carrying 40 binoculars around for a minute.
- 39:00I want to see the security footage.
- 39:01Right.
- 39:02Let's reenact it.
- 39:04Okay, so what we can do is Can I drive the armored Humvee so I don't get hurt?
- 39:08Yes, you can.
- 39:09And we'll just, like, record us carrying, like, 40 dollar store binoculars.
- 39:14This to me sounds like they broke into like a junkyard, you know what I mean?
- 39:17Yeah.
- 39:18This is what I'm envisioning, but it's an army reserve with Right.
- 39:21With tanks! With tanks.
- 39:22And And fiends! And that equipment that they got should have It was like locked up, or it wasn't just laying around.
- 39:29No! Or was it?
- 39:31Was it?
- 39:33Just like blown away.
- 39:34I'm too.
- 39:35By this.
- 39:36That's That's a lot.
- 39:37That's a lot to say.
- 39:38That's crazy.
- 39:39All right, so I have an option for you.
- 39:41So we can do a new Am I the A Hole, or do you remember the Am I the A Hole where the, uncle dodged the kids trying to push them into the pool?
- 39:51Yeah.
- 39:52And the sisters were trying to sue him for the cell phones.
- 39:54Yes.
- 39:55Yeah.
- 39:55There's an update for that one.
- 39:57Okay.
- 39:57So we can either do a new one that has a bunch of updates or we can update Let's update that one.
- 40:03Okay.
- 40:04All right.
- 40:05So this is a year and a half later.
- 40:06He just updated this in December.
- 40:09Okay..
- 40:09I don't know which episode we did this in, but he dodged the kids who were acting like butt heads.
- 40:15Mm-hmm and the kids fell into the pool and the parents jumped in to save the kids'cause they couldn't swim.
- 40:20Yes.
- 40:20And they had their cell phones on them.
- 40:22Yes.
- 40:22And then they wanted to sue the brother, which caused all family drama.
- 40:25Yep.
- 40:25Here we are.
- 40:26Here we are, a year and a half later.
- 40:27Okay.
- 40:29This was, like you said, just right before Christmas this past year.
- 40:32So, in August, my attorney let me know he'd received a letter for me from my middle brother in law.
- 40:38This was the first contact from any of my sisters or their husbands since they'd been arrested.
- 40:43It was a long letter, had a sincere apology, and a lot of information he thought I should know.
- 40:48Biggest thing was that he and my sister are divorced, not separated.
- 40:52He moved out and filed for divorce right after the divorce.
- 40:55We made the settlement agreement.
- 40:57He and my middle sister kept it quiet until it was done.
- 40:59Their house sold in June and she's moved to an apartment.
- 41:03He told me that he's being arrested last year along with my other brother in law.
- 41:07Okay, that's right because they broke into the vacation house.
- 41:10Okay.
- 41:10Right.
- 41:11And he had set up the, um, security cameras.
- 41:14Because he's smart, unlike the army reserve.
- 41:16Right, right.
- 41:17Okay, um, for breaking into the vacation house could have cost him his job and killed his career.
- 41:24And that was a huge moment of clarity.
- 41:26He said that the dynamic between the four of them, my sisters, him and my oldest sister's husband had become totally toxic, that they are all borderline alcoholics or worse, and that he had to get away from that environment.
- 41:37He no longer speaks to my oldest sister or her husband.
- 41:40He also asked if he, my dad, and I could meet and have an extended conversation as there were things he needed to talk about in person.
- 41:47Frankly, I was unenthused, but my wife thought it was worth doing.
- 41:50I asked my dad if he was interested, and he was, so I relayed a response to my now ex brother in law through my attorney, and we met over lunch.
- 42:00We talked for over two hours.
- 42:01It was pretty exhausting.
- 42:02Ex brother in law looked better than I'd seen him in well forever.
- 42:05He's quit drinking, he's in therapy, has lost a lot of weight, and looks fit.
- 42:09He was apologetic about all the BS he'd been involved in, and apologized to my dad for hiding the divorce.
- 42:15Told us therapy is really helping him, asking me if the 5k he'd sent covered the damage to the vacation house.
- 42:22I told him it had, and thanked me for Talking to the county prosecutor, he said he's strongly considering transferring to a new project that would have him living overseas for the next few years that he really needed to reset his life, but was trying to balance his mental health against not being a part of his kids lives every day.
- 42:39Ex brother in law also hit us with.
- 42:41what for me was quite the WTF.
- 42:44Apparently my sisters have hated me since before I was born, but I've always hidden it from the rest of us.
- 42:50They liked things better when there were just two of them.
- 42:53He said when they drank, which was whenever they were together, my sisters would often fuss about me being the favorite child, how my folks gave me more opportunities than they had, how my doing well was a result of that, and that I didn't deserve my success.
- 43:07None of that made any sense to me or my dad.
- 43:09All three of us went to the same public schools, had dumb part time jobs, etc.
- 43:15My folks paid for 100 percent of their college, not mine.
- 43:18I got a full scholarship.
- 43:19I was pretty shocked by this, but my dad was literally speechless.
- 43:23Dad eventually said he had no clue they felt that way as kids and that he and mom never favored any of us.
- 43:29He's still having a hard time with this.
- 43:31Personally, I'm embarrassed that I was clueless about it all my life, but it does explain a lot.
- 43:35Ex brother in law warned that my sisters and remaining brother in law intended to put a full court press to alienate my folks from my wife and me.
- 43:44They also plan to keep the grandkids away from my folks to pressure them.
- 43:48He said that they're still a thousand percent convinced that my folks are sitting on a ton of money.
- 43:53They want some of the ASAP and are sure I'd stop my folks from giving them anything.
- 43:59That got a laugh out of my dad because he and mom simply don't have any real money.
- 44:03They do have their house, of course.
- 44:05Ex brother in law also told us that he and my middle sister had rented out the vacation house a total of six times over the years.
- 44:11He offered to pay me what they'd made.
- 44:13I declined and told him it was in the past.
- 44:16He also told us my older sister and brother in law had never declared the income from renting the vacation house.
- 44:21He did.
- 44:21He didn't want to get in trouble with the IRS.
- 44:24Both my dad and I spoke with ex brother in law separately for a few minutes.
- 44:29Don't know what they talked about.
- 44:30I thanked him for his apology and for making things right financially.
- 44:34Also wished him well and told him I'd be willing to talk with him again down the road.
- 44:37Don't think that's gonna happen.
- 44:39I probably could have been more forgiving but I think he appreciated me not BSing him bad and like all this crap hadn't affected my wife and me.
- 44:46There's more, but it's less important, and this is too long as is.
- 44:49After ex brother in law left, I asked my dad if he, mom, and I could sit down and talk about this.
- 44:54I didn't mean immediately, but that's how he took it.
- 44:56He called mom and let her know I was coming over, so I rolled with it.
- 44:59She was pretty hurt by my sister's plans to ruin her and dad's relationship with me and my wife, and to use the grandkids as pawns.
- 45:07She cried a lot and wanted to confront them immediately.
- 45:10Dad got her to put a pin in that for a while.
- 45:12Mom was also dumbfounded about me supposedly being the favorite.
- 45:16She feels like they were more strict with me because I had a hard curfew and my sisters didn't.
- 45:20To be honest, I barely remember that.
- 45:22It was 25 years ago.
- 45:23Side notes.
- 45:25Middle sister eventually told our folks she's divorced.
- 45:27She's currently living off of child support and her half of the home sales.
- 45:31Supposedly, she's trying to find a job.
- 45:33My parents have gone low contact with both sisters.
- 45:36No idea how permanent that is, but mom seems like she's completely had it with them for the foreseeable future.
- 45:42They're spending a lot of time at the vacation house.
- 45:45were up there over a month at one point.
- 45:48Ex brother in law found my reddit posts.
- 45:50He's not terribly happy about them, but feels they're more or less accurate, though obviously he found them slanted towards my point of view.
- 45:58He disagreed That he's boring, but said to be fair, he finds me boring as well.
- 46:04I can live with that.
- 46:05Our worlds don't have much overlap except my sister.
- 46:08We got the trust set up for my parents house.
- 46:10I'm the trustee.
- 46:11All this has been emotionally draining for me.
- 46:13I decided it'd be a good idea for me to see a therapist again.
- 46:16I've seen one in the past, mainly for stress related issues.
- 46:19I've been doing so far for a while and it's definitely helpful.
- 46:24Therapist tells me, My decision to stay no contact with my siblings is healthy for now, but also wants me to keep an open mind down the road.
- 46:31Merry Christmas to you all.
- 46:33Oh my gosh.
- 46:34Oh my Lanta.
- 46:36You're boring.
- 46:36No, you're boring.
- 46:38I find you boring too.
- 46:40I find you quite boring.
- 46:42That is That was a lot.
- 46:44But that does not surprise me about the sisters because they were awesome.
- 46:47Right, they were terrible.
- 46:49I'm totally picturing the sisters in Cinderella or like that kind of vibe.
- 46:53Mm hmm.
- 46:55Oh, yeah, that's Poor dude.
- 46:57Poor dude.
- 46:58Yeah, but I like the update.
- 46:59I like getting some kind of an update on it.
- 47:01Yeah, me too.
- 47:03All right, so our book listeners, we are going to do our book review of The Boyfriend by Freda McFadden.
- 47:10So if this is not for you, we will talk to you next week.
- 47:15If you are our lovely book listeners, if you're smart, here we go.
- 47:21So we did the blurb last week to give everybody the incentive to read.
- 47:24Yes.
- 47:25So We don't have to read it again.
- 47:27We're not going to read it again.
- 47:28So just a really short synopsis, not like a regular blurb.
- 47:32it's a psychological thriller that follows Sydney who lives a quiet life in New York after a string of failed dates that she went on.
- 47:39she meets a seemingly perfect doctor and starts dating him, but things start to become weird.
- 47:46Things that he's telling her he's contradicting what he's saying.
- 47:50Yep.
- 47:50And so she's on high alert like obvious things, right?
- 47:53His name, his name where he works.
- 47:56Yeah.
- 47:57so I did not love this book.
- 47:59You didn't I didn't.
- 48:00Okay.
- 48:00so I had read this one before and I had totally forgotten until like two thirds of the way through the book.
- 48:05But when we had read some Frida stuff before, I think I was just downloaded another one.
- 48:09Um, one thing that I liked about this book is you get all the information at the very beginning of like, who's involved.
- 48:18There's no surprise characters.
- 48:20You hear what's going on with who, and it does that past and present thing.
- 48:25Did you find that?
- 48:26I didn't like the dual timeline.
- 48:29because we don't get Tom until later.
- 48:32Not later, but like, I don't know, like a third through the book as an adult.
- 48:36Yeah.
- 48:36And so you're sitting here listening to this, like, well, where's this guy going to come into play?
- 48:40Right.
- 48:41I didn't love this book at all.
- 48:43I think the characters were so basic.
- 48:45I think sitting up is like, you're just basic, Yeah, 30 something girl who is completely Stupid, I thought she was stupid and just superficial.
- 48:54Yeah.
- 48:54Yeah, I get that.
- 48:55I Think that even like the trigger for her find figuring out that tom was her friend that died's boyfriend by finding a black scrunchie, right?
- 49:07A black scrunchie, right?
- 49:08I mean, well, and it was funny because they were like, and I don't know what year this book is from, but it's like, who were scrunchies anymore?
- 49:15And I was like, well, a lot of people back now.
- 49:17Yeah, I, so, like, I don't know.
- 49:19I, I just, I thought the characters were super basic.
- 49:22I thought, like, they were like, your average characters.
- 49:23I didn't not a lot of depth.
- 49:25I didn't really build on her ex Boyfriend was like, I'm just picturing like, you're like, clean cut white dude.
- 49:31Yeah.
- 49:31Yeah.
- 49:32Yeah.
- 49:32Like nothing.
- 49:33You're basic, right?
- 49:34I thought everything was so basic.
- 49:35Yeah.
- 49:36I didn't feel like any like depth to any of the characters.
- 49:38Okay.
- 49:39I guessed the ending.
- 49:41No way.
- 49:42That last twist.
- 49:44I mean, we can do spoilers.
- 49:45Yeah.
- 49:45With, with Gretchen being Daisy.
- 49:47Yeah.
- 49:47Okay.
- 49:48Yeah.
- 49:48I figured slug would gonna do something stupid and get himself off.
- 49:53Yeah.
- 49:54Okay.
- 49:54Well, so my thought process through the whole book was that, Randy, that was the dude's name.
- 49:59Randy was slug.
- 50:01Yeah.
- 50:01And it kind of.
- 50:03Yeah.
- 50:03Especially with the ant farm, right?
- 50:05And like, it wants you to think that.
- 50:07Yeah, I initially thought the same thing, then I thought, well, maybe Kevin was Slug for a minute, and that was the purpose of the book, was to make you guess it, but I figured it out, I was like, it's either Slug or it's the girl, and I didn't believe that daisy died.
- 50:23Yeah.
- 50:23When he said that, because he was so cryptic about it.
- 50:25I didn't believe that.
- 50:26I liked this 1, but I didn't feel like there was.
- 50:29I mean.
- 50:30Like I said, I had read it before and forgot I listened to it to the end.
- 50:33Yeah.
- 50:33but the only thing that I did appreciate about the book was that it reinforces to trust your intuition on a date.
- 50:41Like if you are not vibing, like it's okay to be rude.
- 50:44It's which the Sydney is not right.
- 50:47Smart enough to do that.
- 50:48She wanted to be the nice girl or whatever all the time.
- 50:50but it's okay to be rude.
- 50:52Like if you are not comfortable, trust your gut.
- 50:54Yeah.
- 50:55And.
- 50:56That led her to being almost assaulted.
- 50:58Mm hmm.
- 50:58So This book just was not for me.
- 51:00Yeah.
- 51:01Okay, I get it Yeah like I said I'd read it before apparently didn't pull any triggers for me because I Was halfway through the book again before I even remembered that read it.
- 51:10So, I thought it was basic Frida But it was still a fun ish read.
- 51:16Like, it still, it kept me engaged.
- 51:19Like, I didn't find it boring like some of our past books.
- 51:22I enjoyed it, but not my top 10.
- 51:24Yeah.
- 51:24There's other books of hers that I have liked.
- 51:26Yeah.
- 51:26This was not one of them.
- 51:28I feel like we've read another Frida one that we didn't like either.
- 51:31Yeah.
- 51:31I think it was made or something.
- 51:33I don't know.
- 51:33There was one that we were like, this is exactly like the storyline of a different book.
- 51:36Yeah.
- 51:37I give it like Three and a half, four.
- 51:40Okay, I'd give it like five or six.
- 51:41Okay.
- 51:42Yeah You're wrong So next week's book is catch the Sun by Jennifer Hartman, I know nothing about this I didn't either it was just a wreck on book talk.
- 51:55Mm hmm give us the blurb.
- 51:56It is not like a murdery.
- 51:58Okay.
- 51:59Thanks for the prep.
- 52:00Yes.
- 52:01at seven years old, Ella Sunbury and Max Manning were inseparable until life scattered them in different directions, forcing Ella to abruptly leave town.
- 52:09A decade later, she returns to their senior year of high school, moving in across the street from her childhood best friend.
- 52:15But she's not the same girl Max once knew.
- 52:18She now lives in the shadow of her brother, a notorious felon on death row, convicted of a crime that shook the nation.
- 52:23Reeling from the fallout and shunned by her peers, all Ella wants to do is fade into the background.
- 52:28Max has little room for distractions juggling responsibilities for a disabled father and a distant twin brother, but Ella's return reignites something within him.
- 52:37He wants to be close to her again to understand her and to turn their friendship into more.
- 52:42But as their relationship blossoms, new tragedy strikes and darkness threatens to tip their delicate balance.
- 52:47In order to find the light, they'll have to navigate the shadows and to catch the sun they must first endure the flames.
- 52:54I think it sounds still good, even though nobody does.
- 52:57Well, somebody dies.
- 52:58Well, I mean, but like the brothers in jail for murder, but like, none of our characters are murdering that we know of.
- 53:04Yeah.
- 53:05because it still sounds intriguing.
- 53:06Yeah.
- 53:07I think this is like more like soap opery.
- 53:08Yeah.
- 53:09Is the vibe I'm getting not like serial killer, not glory or right.
- 53:14so I think it's just drama.
- 53:15Yeah.
- 53:16Yeah.
- 53:17It's like a chick drama.
- 53:19Yeah, I'm down.
- 53:21I'm down.
- 53:21I was just looking it up to make sure that it was available for me I need to grab it real quick.
- 53:25So I got on hoopla.
- 53:26I am like three hours in okay So I liked it so far good.
- 53:30Good.
- 53:30Good.
- 53:31Good.
- 53:31Yeah, okay next week We will be reviewing catch the Sun by Jennifer Hartman so I think it wraps up our episode.
- 53:39It does wrap up our episode.
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