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Enough Of The Manipulation, Return My Bride Price & Drop My Name - Yul Edochie to May Edochie · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to another episode of Bath
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  Laurencia. How are you all doing?
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  I hope you're doing great. Happy New Year, everyone.
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  Wishing you all a very fulfilled 2024.
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  Now for today's episode, we're going to be talking about Julie
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  Douche. I know it's too early to start
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  with bass boost, but we're just sitting there minding our
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  business, trying to celebrate the New Year, trying to get
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  into, you know, New Year's spirits, creating New Year
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  resolutions and all that. And you need Douche has brought
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  his family matters back on the limelight.
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  We're just trying to still sort out a Mickey Case.
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  I think he gets issue why you were supporting it and making
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  it. Actually.
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  He sent some encouraging words to him last year and people were
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  thinking you led the chase, stay out of this.
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  It is not a business. Your situation is different from
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  making his situation and making, you know marry his second wife
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  while still legally married to his wife.
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  So people are now bashing you with the whole bashing.
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  I think your literature decided to show people basically to show
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  people that all the bashing they did last year, this new year
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  would be better because he, According to him last year was
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  the best years of his life. This hits differently because as
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  we all know you last year lost his son.
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  Also his marriage ended also withhold crises with within the
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  family. How he, he and the current wife
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  were just dragging his first wife made Gucci, how the whole
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  Internet rallied around her, so how he lost a whole lot of
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  endorsement deals basically. So last year was very
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  challenging to say the least for you leadership, but I think to
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  kind of make light of the situation he posted a new
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  message saying that last year 2023 was the best year of his
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  life who were thinking I are you actually OK, you lost a whole
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  human being. You lost your son, your flesh
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  and blood is 16 year old child, even my child a teenager.
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  You know how could you experience that and then say at
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  the same time that that was the best year of your life that did
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  not adopt. So people were not dragging
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  really the chair as this whole thing was going on.
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  May his first wife released her own new year message saying that
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  last year was very challenging. She lost her child.
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  She lost the devil came into her life referring to Judy Austin,
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  basically that everything she worked for you know she just it
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  was a heartfelt message basically thanking her fans, her
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  family, her friends, her online laws for supporting her, for
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  helping her with endorsement deals and a whole lot of other
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  things that she talked about. So people are now thinking
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  comparing you lead the chase new year message to may his first
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  wife message. It was like night and day.
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  So people were now dragging you literature saying that ohh see
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  your wife mentioned her son she mentioned all the challenges she
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  went through and you you're saying that that's the best year
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  of your life. You was not having it.
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  He lashed out or line. He called out me douche saying
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  that she's pretending she's trying to gain and puffy.
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  She was saying that she lost her son, but she actually did a BBL
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  not made it video. She did her breast.
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  She did, you know how Tommy, you know, kind of a mommy makeover
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  basically he was accusing her of doing that without his consent.
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  I think there was a lot of people talking because may file
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  for divorce or even before the whole divorce was fouled, he got
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  Judy pregnant. Judy actually have two kids for
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  you right now. They are married traditionally.
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  So. And you made that.
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  She had told severally said that she's not interested in
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  polygamy. So people are now wondering why
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  are you asking or seeking consent from me?
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  She wants to do a plastic surgery.
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  So she's entitled to that. That's her money.
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  That's her body. And then you guys are no longer
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  married according to her. She said she's not doing
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  polygamy, so why would she want to seek consent from you or you?
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  On the other hand, he's saying that if something had happened
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  to her because he heard she was sick, he called her to wish her
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  well, only for him to later find out that the sickness was
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  actually BL. Now if you don't know BBL in
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  Nigeria now it's like Pilota. Everybody's getting BBL,
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  everybody's getting Tommy talk, everybody's doing mommy
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  makeover. Now, there's nothing wrong with
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  BL if you have the money and you have the willpower to withstand,
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  I mean being caught open, whatever that process entails.
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  If you if you're happy to do that regardless of what you're
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  doing it according to you. He said that May has married
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  boyfriend which everybody is now referring to saying that's all
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  he's referring to a white because me worked very closely
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  with a Y. This is just so messy because
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  you lies being messy in 2024 unnecessarily.
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  This divorce has been going on since last year May fouled.
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  He also came out and said that he requested for the bride price
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  that he paid. Now if you don't know anybody
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  tradition if a marriage is being dissolved the girls family will
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  have to return the bride price. Today man or the man will come
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  with his people to request for the bribe price.
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  Now according to you he has been requesting for the bride price
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  and May has refused to return the bride price.
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  And what people are saying is that May cannot just wake up one
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  morning because you is demanding for the bride price and take the
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  bride price. He has to be tradition.
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  The people that married her, which is basically his dad,
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  stated that she and the family, other family members will have
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  to come to her house to demand for the bride price which will
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  then be returned to then. So they cannot just wake up one
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  morning and then give you whatever he was demanding for in
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  in terms of bride price. And normally how this is done is
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  that maybe Miss getting married to another man whatever that man
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  brings in respect to marrying her will be taking back to let's
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  say you need the that is how some of these traditional things
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  are being settled. But if you rule is the money for
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  buy price and the families are not in support of that because
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  they have kids. They have they had four kids,
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  one passed on so they have two boys and a girl right now.
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  So how is that going to people are now looking at the dynamics.
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  If they return the bride price what is going to happen to the
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  kids? You'll also requesting for me to
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  drop her or his name because may on social media is May you
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  little Che. He is now saying that since they
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  are divorced she's filed for divorce.
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  So why is she still answering me, you little child that she
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  should drop his name that he has requested for her to drop the
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  name. She's refusing to drop the name
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  and as you can see here, please just keep him quiet in this
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  whole thing. So this has been going on the
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  whole. Lots of people have been
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  analysing the situation, saying that you is just a cry baby, you
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  leave married the second wife, you've moved on.
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  This woman has kids for you. So even if she's filing for
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  divorce, she changed her name when she got married.
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  This was about 20 years ago. So it's going to be a whole lot
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  of, you know, change of identity.
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  Everything she has worked for is basically in May you lead
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  douche. So if she's going to change,
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  everything is going to take a longer process, so she cannot
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  just wake up one morning, she's verified on Instagram.
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  If she has to change that, then maybe she's going to lose her
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  blue teeth or something. I don't know how that works, but
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  it's a long process that she has to go through.
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  She has to think about her brand, her image.
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  So it's a lot and I don't understand why if I was in a
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  shoes, I would go through hell and high waters to change that
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  name because he is now holding that, as you know, dangling that
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  is the carrot, like hold you file for divorce.
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  You're still answering my knee. I will change that name.
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  I will change it now so that you know now that the iron is still
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  hot. People can know that, OK, I've
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  changed my name, this is my new brand name, and then things will
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  go from there. But I think the reason why she's
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  not even doing anything, she's just kind of keeping mute
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  because the Duchess family, especially Peter Douche, is on
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  her side. So it's very difficult for you
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  to disrespects, you know, that's honour that is given to you,
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  regardless of how crazy their son is, if they are by your
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  side. Like Rita, Edochie has been
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  drumming support for her. She has been one of our biggest
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  cheerleader. So it's I I don't even want to
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  be in that situation because there is no way I will keep
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  quiet sit down and take all his from nobody just because you
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  know somebody supporting me. It's it's very difficult
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  situation for her to be in and also she has to consider that
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  she has three kids. If you is demanding the bride
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  price, I think one of the she's from I think they said a boy and
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  they said one of the tradition is if the bride price has to be
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  returned to allegedly to the guy, kids will have to go back
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  to her family house. So there's so much.
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  It's not it's not as easy as people think This whole
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  traditional right is. It's not it's not clear courts
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  which I think you does not understand because she was
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  trying to educate him on the implication of what he was
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  asking for. But you I think is a troubled
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  man. He is stressed.
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  He's broke because he has not been doing much lately.
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  All he's doing is just bragging on Instagram about how his wife
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  is Jelly and she's calling him odogwu.
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  You know they are in their bubble.
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  They move from I think Enugu to Lagos to Abuja and somebody said
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  they're living in the face me I face you house.
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  I don't know how true that is but they are facing some
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  challenges that is making them resent me or come after me this
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  2024 it's too early but I think we're going to hear more from
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  Dido chase family we this is not the end of it.
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  Maze lawyer has responded. I don't even want to go into all
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  that because the best thing for her to do right now she's file
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  for the voice. I would suggest drop the name.
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