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Where Not to Practice: Why the Same Skill That Wins in a Bar Can Cost You at Work

You learned to approach, to talk, to lead - and the skills work. So where shouldn't you use them? This episode is the blast-radius rule: why the same honest sentence costs one evening in a bar and your career at the office, why work inverts the whole calculus, and why your social circle forgives a clean courtship but never a technician. Plus the positive half nobody expects: the skill bleeds into everything, and the man who pulls the wallflower into the room ends up running the warmest room in the building. Ten seconds, one question - the highest-leverage social act there is.

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