Latest / The Bull Brotherhood / The Triangle Debates mixdown part 3 - Curiosity-Driven: Is “Super Dick” Real—or Just a Failure of Emotional Discipline?
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- 1:03for you but if you're ready to step into your
- 1:05masculine edge and embrace a lifestyle that demands
- 1:09mastery welcome to the brotherhood welcome to
- 1:15the bull brotherhood podcast where we talk power
- 1:18pleasure and the art of dominance in ethical
- 1:21non -monogamy this is not your average lifestyle
- 1:24podcast this is for men who lead men who master,
- 1:28and men who leave a lasting impression. If you're
- 1:31here, you're not just curious. You're ready to
- 1:34elevate. So to all the bulls, hot wives, stags,
- 1:38and open -minded explorers, we see you. Let's
- 1:42go. When we deal with these couples, especially
- 2:08the newer couple, we're bringing in an energy
- 2:12that is completely foreign to them. Especially
- 2:17cats like B Morgan. Cats like Mr. Mocha, a .k
- 2:23.a. Super Dick. You know what I'm saying? There's
- 2:27a certain kind of energy. Don't give me that
- 2:29title. Hell no. I don't want that one. Listen,
- 2:35the shirt is already on the way, brother. The
- 2:36shirt is already on the way. The shirt is already
- 2:40on the way. But no, I'm saying, like, and so,
- 2:45but at the same time, knowing you brothers the
- 2:48way that I do, I know that you're cognizant of
- 2:51that. You know what I'm saying? You're cognizant
- 2:54of the fact that, you know, as our brother who's
- 2:57not here, Pagan, is fond of saying, what do you
- 3:01call it, that, was it black sex magic? You know,
- 3:05like, we got that shit with us, bruh. And you
- 3:11know you got that shit with you. You can be as
- 3:13humble as the fuck you want to be, but you know
- 3:15you got that shit with you. You know what I'm
- 3:17saying? Like, B, know he got that shit with him.
- 3:22Socrates is learning that he got that shit with
- 3:24him. I know I got that shit with me. Dimitri
- 3:27know he got that shit with him. Pagan know he
- 3:30got that shit. That's why we brothers. You know
- 3:33what I'm saying? So you know when you hitting
- 3:35somebody with something. And it ain't just the
- 3:37dick. I mean, we laugh and joke and say it's
- 3:39super dick, whatever. But the super dick is all
- 3:41-encompassing. It, you know, it's Mr. Mocha's.
- 3:48I don't give a fuck. I'm going to tell you what
- 3:50I feel because I'm confident in what I'm saying.
- 3:54You might not like what I'm saying to you, but
- 3:56you know I'm spitting truth. And if the truth
- 3:58hurts, so be it. It's that confidence he has
- 4:02in what he says. I mean, it's B. Morgan's combination
- 4:06of masculinity and sensitivity. You know what
- 4:11I'm saying? The way he throw that baby girl around.
- 4:13I mean, he know what the fuck he's doing when
- 4:15he throw that baby girl around. He know the effect
- 4:18that that's having. Baby girl, right? You know
- 4:21what I'm saying? He know what he's doing. Like,
- 4:25ain't none of us new to this. So that's when
- 4:29I talk about the ethical part is we know what
- 4:33we're capable of. We know that bartender is serving
- 4:36you straight, honey -proof liquor. I know there's
- 4:39a possibility that you're going to get drunk.
- 4:41So as the bartender, it's up to me to be like,
- 4:43you know what? Why don't you take this cup of
- 4:46water right now? You didn't have too much. I'm
- 4:48going to cut you off. Because if I leave it up
- 4:51to you, you're going to keep buying shots. But
- 4:54I don't want to get sued when you wreck your
- 4:55car after leaving here. So I'm going to give
- 4:58you water for this next hour. That's what I mean
- 5:02when I talk about the ethical part. We know what
- 5:05we're working with. We're not oblivious to it.
- 5:09We see it. We see ourselves in the mirror every
- 5:11day. That's one of the things I've learned about.
- 5:15I still have to push back from the... I think
- 5:21there's a such thing as being confident, but
- 5:24I also... And maybe it's what I personally, just
- 5:31my personal values. I don't believe that I have
- 5:35the ability to take... I don't think that I have
- 5:39the ability to come between two people who are
- 5:42in love with each other and who have their shit
- 5:43together. You know, that same woman who might
- 5:47decide to leave her husband for her bull is the
- 5:50same woman, you know, the same type of woman
- 5:53that would, you know, leave her husband for the
- 5:56guy at the office. There's a lot of those people
- 5:58out there in the lifestyle and outside of lifestyle.
- 6:01And then there's going to be the women who I
- 6:03don't give a fuck. How much swag or how young
- 6:07or how good looking or how much money you have.
- 6:10You can't take her from her man. So I think that.
- 6:16Yeah, I can. I can break a board. That's cut
- 6:21a quarter of the way through. So she's already
- 6:25has cracks and fractures. Yes, and I can break
- 6:29her. People being new to the lifestyle. Being
- 6:34new to this type of life does not mean that they
- 6:37have cracks and fractures. In fact, if they came
- 6:39into the lifestyle the way they're supposed to.
- 6:41They just don't know. They just don't know. But
- 6:44no matter what I don't know, no matter what my
- 6:47wife don't know, you're not going to convince
- 6:50us to do some shit that's outside of our current
- 6:55programming. Like me and the Sigma male spoke
- 6:58about earlier. If she's on my program. And we're
- 7:03on the same page and somebody else comes in and
- 7:07she allows them to interrupt my programming.
- 7:11Me and her got smoked, not me and him. And I
- 7:14personally don't believe that super dick or anything
- 7:17can can interrupt the thing that's not broken.
- 7:22Now, if it's broken, then it's susceptible to
- 7:26to me. Or to the lame -ass dude who we'd be like,
- 7:31how the fuck did you let that guy get you? That's
- 7:34not super dick. Because she was already susceptible.
- 7:38You know what I mean? So I can't give it to,
- 7:41hey, I appreciate the compliment. Maybe somebody
- 7:44will listen to this and be like, I want to suck
- 7:47his dick. You know what I'm saying? I'll be like,
- 7:49well, ma 'am, here it is. But I don't believe
- 7:52that I'm not willing to take away. Her her freedom
- 7:59of choice and her ability to make decisions,
- 8:02because now I feel like I'm weakening her. If
- 8:05anybody told my wife that there is a dick somewhere
- 8:08so good that you'll get stupefied, I'd say go
- 8:11fucking kill yourself because you're insulting
- 8:12her emotional intelligence as well as her own
- 8:16intelligence and her ability to make an educated
- 8:18or uneducated decision. No, fuck that. You do
- 8:23some outsiders programming. You did it because
- 8:24you wanted to. Not because some dick was so good.
- 8:28You done sucked a thousand dicks in your life
- 8:30and all of a sudden you found the golden penis?
- 8:32Get the fuck out of here. I don't believe that.
- 8:35You know what I'm saying? And that's relative
- 8:38because if you're stepping into the lifestyle
- 8:40properly, usually you guys are strong enough
- 8:43and you're exciting. And yeah, you're going to
- 8:45make some mistakes between the two of you. But
- 8:48mistakes like, oh, this guy's cock was so good
- 8:51I left my family for it? Nah, I don't believe
- 8:55that. But you've seen it before. With somebody
- 9:03who was fractured, when you have a woman or a
- 9:07couple who shit went together. There's a lot
- 9:10of fractured couples in this lifestyle. A lot.
- 9:16That's very true. There's a lot of fractured
- 9:18couples in this lifestyle. And all I'm saying
- 9:20is, as an experienced... I agree with that. I
- 9:24do agree with that. And you would never know
- 9:27it. I'm able to recognize, like I know I can
- 9:31push a solid couple further than I can push a
- 9:37fractured couple. You know what I'm saying? I
- 9:41know that they can endure more and take more
- 9:44and explore more than a couple who might not
- 9:49be on solid footing. You know what I'm saying?
- 9:51Now, the way that I feel about myself personally
- 9:53is I can handle those type of couples because...
- 9:58not all the time, but oftentimes I can help them
- 10:02get to that place. Sometimes I fail, but I'm
- 10:06not afraid to try. If that makes sense. I'm saying
- 10:09like, I don't, I don't run from that smoke. You
- 10:13know, I know I, but I get, I totally get the
- 10:15guys who are like, man, I don't feel like dealing
- 10:17with that. I didn't sign up for that. That kind
- 10:21of situation doesn't deter me because of the
- 10:23way my brain works. I'm saying, um, And you're
- 10:30also a real, you're a real bull and you accept
- 10:32that challenge. I wouldn't say that a guy is
- 10:36not a real bull for not accepting that challenge.
- 10:39Some guys just don't want those complications.
- 10:40Some guys just like my life is complicated enough.
- 10:43I don't need to be introducing that type of energy
- 10:46into my day -to -day shit. Like I didn't get
- 10:49into this lifestyle to be a therapist. Like I
- 10:52would never fault anybody for that just because
- 10:54that happens to be my jam. I'm saying. You know,
- 10:57I just happen to have a thing for damaged people.
- 11:00That's just my own character flaw. If you want
- 11:02to call it a flaw, you know what I'm saying?
- 11:05That's how I got to this point was by dealing
- 11:08with people that have problems. And then I figured
- 11:10out how to, you know, work through those problems
- 11:13and what, you know, what added to those problems
- 11:16and what caused those problems. And that's how
- 11:18I got a podcast because that kind of thing interests
- 11:21me. You know what I'm saying? But I would never
- 11:24knock anybody for not. wanting to do that kind
- 11:27of heavy lifting. You know, this lifestyle is
- 11:29supposed to be fun. Like I'm not trying to deal
- 11:31with the real life implications behind this shit.
- 11:34I'm in this shit to have fun. My regular life
- 11:37is complicated enough as it is. So I would never
- 11:40knock anybody or say to somebody who's not a
- 11:43real bull for not wanting to play therapist also.
- 11:46That just happens to be something that, you know,
- 11:50that doesn't turn me away or doesn't turn me
- 11:52off. You know what I'm saying? Michael, can I
- 11:55propose a question to you? Sure. My real -life
- 11:59situation. So this is what I'm really getting
- 12:01at. Like you said, you helped me go from lack
- 12:05of confidence and lack of ability. Mr. Mocha
- 12:08as well, Brian Morgan, Pagan, you guys all helped
- 12:12me. I'm getting to the point where, oh, okay,
- 12:15you know, like we talked about in Utopia, some
- 12:19of these skills are starting to pay off, right?
- 12:22So let's take my love. Yeah. No, they starting
- 12:26to, they, they paying off now. So let's say I'm,
- 12:31but I'm still new. There's, there's things I
- 12:34haven't accomplished. Like I haven't owned a
- 12:36couple yet. All of y 'all have, right. I haven't
- 12:39gone to that stage yet. So I'm, I'm developing,
- 12:41I'm learning. So let's say me, I don't think
- 12:44I'm broken, but I'm new and I'm learning. And
- 12:47I get with a couple. I don't know they're broken
- 12:49yet because I'm still learning. Right. And me,
- 12:53I give it my all. I know some guys say, I can't
- 12:58give it all to you. I got to leave some leftover
- 12:59for next time. Okay. That's cool. I don't think
- 13:02that way just yet. So I'm giving you, I'm giving
- 13:05you as much super dick as I got. And it ends
- 13:09up to where I'm in this situation that like Mr.
- 13:12Mocha said, well, she tripping, but I don't know
- 13:14that she tripping as much as I, as much as she
- 13:16should be considering what I gave her. And I'm
- 13:19in that situation, and it falls apart. And she
- 13:21ends up saying, I'm leaving my man. You did.
- 13:25And I want to be with you. And I'm like, number
- 13:28one, I'm married. Number two, I ain't here for
- 13:30that. I've been here for a good time, not a long
- 13:32time. Whose fault is that then? Is that my fault
- 13:37because I didn't know what I was doing? Is it
- 13:40her fault because she shouldn't have been susceptible
- 13:43to that? Is that their fault because... I didn't
- 13:45make no vows. They made vows. Who's fault would
- 13:48that be? What I'm about to say is going to sound
- 13:51contradictory. I'm aware of that as I'm about
- 13:53to say it. Hey, man. Hey, hey. Don't take shit
- 13:57away from me because you know I would have enjoyed
- 14:00telling you that. Don't put disclaimers on it
- 14:05to keep my mouth shut. It ain't going to work.
- 14:08Carry on. And I know we've all been in this position,
- 14:19especially the three of us, where it's like,
- 14:21especially when you're talking about a cuckold
- 14:25dynamic. When both parties are new, that's when
- 14:30I take out the popcorn. I'm like, shit's about
- 14:33to get really interesting when the bull is new
- 14:35and the couple is new. You know, it's like, okay,
- 14:39this shit is about, the fireworks are about to
- 14:43start. What I would say about the contradictory
- 14:46part where I'm contradicting myself is, and I
- 14:50say this to you, Brother Socrates, with love.
- 14:55The one thing that Brian, myself, and Mr. Mocha
- 14:59have in common, and the brothers that ain't here,
- 15:02Dimitri and Peyton, we got trialed by fire, man.
- 15:06We took out bumps and bruises. We learned. You
- 15:10know what I'm saying? We went through it. We
- 15:13made mistakes. We put our foot in our mouths.
- 15:15We put ourselves in fucked up situations and
- 15:17positions. And, you know, we love giving you
- 15:22that knowledge. We love giving you that information.
- 15:25But at the same time, there's no substitute for
- 15:29real world experiences. So I say that to say,
- 15:33bro, you got to just get out there and take your
- 15:36lumps, man. You got to take your fucking lumps.
- 15:39You got to get out there and try shit and be
- 15:41like, oh, that blew up in my face. I don't want
- 15:44to try it like that again. We can give you as
- 15:46much education as we can, and you can take it
- 15:50all in as much as you can absorb, but there's
- 15:54no substitute for real -world experience. There's
- 15:57no substitute for being in a situation and then
- 16:02going home and thinking about that situation
- 16:04and saying to yourself. Okay, if I'm in that
- 16:07situation again, what would I do differently?
- 16:10Or, hey, this situation looks really familiar
- 16:12to another situation I was in. I wonder if I
- 16:15can pull that lesson from that situation and
- 16:18apply it to this situation. Oh, shit, it worked.
- 16:21Or, oh, shit, it didn't work. Okay, let me scramble
- 16:26and come back and try it again. You know, you're
- 16:29talking to three guys that, B, how long have
- 16:32you been doing this shit? 32 years. Okay, Mr.
- 16:37Mocha, Methuselah, how long have you been doing
- 16:39it? Probably 24. Yeah, and myself, 25 plus. So
- 16:45we've been, trust me, we did not all start as
- 16:49the refined product our listeners, our combined
- 16:52listeners are listening to now. You know what
- 16:55I'm saying? Hell to the no. Hell no. I applaud
- 17:00the hell out of you. Like, I wish I would have
- 17:03had Mr. Merkle or B. Morgan, you know, there
- 17:09to lay the groundwork for me. But at the same
- 17:12time, I know how valuable that real -world experience
- 17:19was to me. And I don't want you to be afraid
- 17:23to make mistakes. And so I like to make mistakes,
- 17:25bruh. As long as you're not making the same mistakes
- 17:28over and over and over. No, brother, I think
- 17:31you misunderstand my question. And you know that's
- 17:33my gospel. I'll tell anybody. I don't care how
- 17:36many books I read, how many times I sit under
- 17:37these people's feet. Experience trumps that.
- 17:40I'm not saying that. What I'm asking you is,
- 17:42all things being equal, it sounds to me like
- 17:47you got the bull's fault. It's the bull's fault.
- 17:49It's like you got all these skills. And I got
- 17:53all these skills. I don't know that these women
- 17:55are reading body language books or talking to
- 17:57a bunch of other people, experts in their field
- 18:00and therapists and all of these kind of things.
- 18:02I don't know that the couple's doing that. I
- 18:04just know what I'm doing. So I'm saying if I
- 18:06come in with my new, with all of these masters,
- 18:09I mean, like you said, I get to call all you
- 18:11brothers. And I will probably talk to one of
- 18:13y 'all every day. If I ain't talking to Mr. Mocha,
- 18:16I'm talking to you. If I ain't talking to you
- 18:17or Mr. Mocha, I'm talking to... Brian Morgan.
- 18:20If I ain't talking to him, I'm trying to call
- 18:22Pagan and try to get him on the line. And if
- 18:29I can't pick him up, I'll get deep. So it's like,
- 18:34I don't know that they have that, but what I'm
- 18:38asking you is, if I go put my super dickness
- 18:41on them and it turns out that it blows up and
- 18:43she's ready to leave her husband, that's my fault?
- 18:47I have the ethics. I might tell her, don't leave
- 18:49her. I'll tell her, don't do that. I'll tell
- 18:52her, I'm here for a good time, not a long time.
- 18:54I'll tell her all the things she needs to hear.
- 18:56Are you aware that you put, and again, when I
- 19:01say super dick, I'm not referring to just a dick.
- 19:05You know what I'm saying? I'm referring to the
- 19:09whole package. Communication, exploring, confidence,
- 19:14building them up. You know what I'm saying? Encouraging
- 19:18them like, like everything that comes with it.
- 19:20But the thing is, whenever I do that, I know
- 19:24what I'm doing. Like I'm fully aware of what,
- 19:27like I'm not doing it by accident. You know what
- 19:30I'm saying? So knowing that I'm keeping my eyes
- 19:34open, like, okay, she's coming along. She's coming
- 19:37along. She's coming along. Oh shit. She's getting
- 19:39caught up. Now I got to put the brakes on because
- 19:42I, because that's the reaction that I don't want.
- 19:45I don't want her getting caught up. You know
- 19:48what I'm saying? I want her to be confident.
- 19:50But they came with what, though, Mike? But they
- 19:56came with what, though, Mike? Your experience,
- 19:58right? You talked about on -the -job training.
- 20:00Yeah, experience and understanding. I think,
- 20:04okay, great. And like you said, 20 -something
- 20:07years of experience. You know what I mean? For
- 20:09that young dude, for that young boy that's just
- 20:13starting out, He probably doesn't know no other
- 20:17way but to bring fire and stage five from the
- 20:27jump. He don't know how to turn it off. He don't
- 20:29know how to communicate the right way. He doesn't
- 20:31know. He doesn't know. So if he does bring the
- 20:35super deep at first and he makes her feel some
- 20:40kind of way. And here again, technically, yeah,
- 20:43he is at fault. You know what I mean? Because
- 20:45like I said, he's not experienced. He doesn't
- 20:47know. He doesn't know. He wouldn't make those
- 20:50errors if he's been in it for 20 plus or 30 years
- 20:55like we are. You know what I'm saying? Because
- 20:57we're able to read. We're able to read the room.
- 21:00You know, we know what they look for. We know
- 21:02how they look at you a certain way. So we know
- 21:06how to tune it. You know how to tune it down.
- 21:08But for that new guy. He doesn't know. He doesn't
- 21:12know. Something that we're all familiar with,
- 21:15and it's fucked up that we're all familiar with
- 21:17it, but it is what it is. We've all lived in
- 21:21neighborhoods, been around neighborhoods, visited
- 21:24neighborhoods that got fucked up by crack. Right.
- 21:30So it's like the motherfucker that's out there
- 21:32slinging. Like, yeah, I'm not making these people
- 21:35come to me. I'm not making these people buy this
- 21:37shit from me. But at the same time, every once
- 21:41in a while, you'll talk to a dude who used to
- 21:43do that, who understands the damage that he wrought
- 21:45on his community. So what about the dude who
- 21:50gets into this? And he, because this is something
- 21:55that's a thing that I just, over the last few
- 21:57years, because like being Morgan, the Sigma male,
- 22:01I was pretty much a lone wolf myself. So once
- 22:07I started, socializing with more dudes within
- 22:10the lifestyle, I started seeing there's a whole
- 22:12lot of dudes out there really catching feelings
- 22:15for people's wives. So is it the wife's fault
- 22:20for giving out that good pussy? Has she got the
- 22:24super cat? Does she bear no responsibility for
- 22:27making this motherfucker lose his mind? I need
- 22:31to know because if I can find some scientific
- 22:33evidence, I'm about to start losing it. I love
- 22:36that. I'm joking. I'm joking. But, you know,
- 22:41so no matter what we say that we feel like the
- 22:45guy has some sort of response. I mean, and listeners,
- 22:48please understand this is not something that
- 22:50happens all the time. Honestly, I've most of
- 22:55the guys who I've spoken to in lifestyle, it's
- 22:57only a small percentage of guys, in my opinion,
- 22:59who experience, you know, the situation where
- 23:02you've you've. Interacted with so many different
- 23:06people throughout the lifestyle, throughout your
- 23:08lifestyle experience where you come across a
- 23:12person or two who who creates this inappropriate
- 23:18or attempt to create inappropriate attachment.
- 23:21Now, honestly, and I feel terrible for saying
- 23:25this, but until the last few years, I didn't
- 23:30realize that there are some guys out here. who
- 23:35are creating these attachment to, to marry women
- 23:39or the hot wives or cuckoldresses in the lifestyle.
- 23:44And I mean, inappropriate, like claiming this
- 23:49is my woman, you know, not, not with the wife
- 23:53or the husband's permission. So, so does the,
- 23:57is the bull responsible for everything? Does
- 23:59the, the couple have no, Bear no responsibility,
- 24:03especially seeing as how most of the couples
- 24:06have been in the lifestyle longer than many of
- 24:09the bulls. So is it based upon experience? I've
- 24:13got X amount of years of experience, so therefore
- 24:16I'm responsible if the woman gets too attached
- 24:18to me. But if the couple has 25 years of experience
- 24:21and they get a young bull, then he gets attached.
- 24:24Is it now their fault that he's attached? That
- 24:30goes back to the comment that I just made about
- 24:34when you have both parties that are relatively
- 24:37new to this, when you kind of sit back down.
- 24:40That wasn't the question. That wasn't the question.
- 24:43Yeah, yeah. So you said that the couple is experienced?
- 24:47Yep. Yes, this couple has 20 plus, yeah, 20 plus.
- 24:51Yeah, and that situation, the responsibility
- 24:54falls to the more experienced party. Can we all
- 25:02agree on that? The responsibility falls to the
- 25:04more experienced part? I don't agree. Listen,
- 25:07I don't agree, but I think you're finally being
- 25:09fair. I will take it because you're being fair.
- 25:13God damn it. He's being fair. He's being fair.
- 25:19You know what I'm saying? My complaint before
- 25:21was the lack of fairness and the fact that at
- 25:25least for once you've been fair. You know, I'm
- 25:27about to make a lot of noise. You know what I'm
- 25:29saying? I'm making a lot of noise because, you
- 25:32know, usually you be on that bullshit. So thank
- 25:36you for being fair. I still don't agree, but
- 25:39I like the fairness. I want to hear what Socrates
- 25:44has to say because he quickly said, no, you know,
- 25:48I disagree. What's your take on that? I mean,
- 25:53you got to listen to it. Listen to it good now.
- 25:57Because we talk about, you and I talk about experience
- 25:59all the time. You know what I mean? We talk about
- 26:02experience all the time. We got a young boy here.
- 26:07We got a young dude that's just getting started.
- 26:10He's just getting started. We won't say age,
- 26:13but we're going to say he's in his 20s. Okay,
- 26:16he's a young dude. You know what I mean? We got
- 26:18a couple here that let's say they've been in
- 26:21his 20s. 20 years at least. So we're going to
- 26:24say they're in their 50s. Is that safe to say,
- 26:29y 'all? Let's say a 50 -year -old couple. A seasoned
- 26:33couple. A seasoned couple. All right, Socrates.
- 26:36Now give me your, I just laid out that. You know,
- 26:39like Mike was saying, give me your reason for
- 26:41saying that it's not the couple's responsibility
- 26:44to like maybe bring that, maybe school that young
- 26:48man. Go ahead. No, no, no. Michael was saying
- 26:51that whoever has more experience is the responsibility,
- 26:56right? Okay. Well, in this case, I disagree with
- 27:00that. I disagree with that. Yeah. So here's why
- 27:03it is real simple. One thing, are they married?
- 27:09Yes. A couple married. Okay. So I didn't say
- 27:14no vows. I said some vows to my wife and, um,
- 27:19My vow is that if I meet one of these, like,
- 27:22what is it called? Mr. Mocha said, super cat.
- 27:24If I meet a woman with a super cat, my commitment
- 27:29to my wife is I work that shit out. I got to
- 27:33let that super cat go. I got to do something
- 27:35because we've made a commitment. I didn't make
- 27:39no commitment to you. Even if I'm your boyfriend
- 27:42and you want me to be your boyfriend, you didn't
- 27:46say. Hey, you are applying now for the job of
- 27:49replacing my husband. No, you said y 'all are
- 27:53together. You guys are committed. And I always
- 27:57ask that question. Are you guys in a happy relationship?
- 28:00Because I don't want no smoke. I don't want no
- 28:02problem. So you guys are committed. I didn't
- 28:06make no vow to you, woman. I didn't make no vow
- 28:08to you, Mr. Cuff. I made a commitment. I'm going
- 28:11to bring as much of my skills as I can, and we're
- 28:14going to enjoy each other's company. I'm not
- 28:16responsible for you. You ain't responsible for
- 28:18me. They made a vow to each other. So if I put
- 28:21super dick on you, and even if I fit in my opinion,
- 28:25if a super dick come to Siren and put it on her,
- 28:29like all the way on her, like he has, he's unethical.
- 28:34He don't care. My mentality is, even if I'm lacking,
- 28:39you made a vow and a commitment to me that we
- 28:42got to work this out. Right. And if you would
- 28:45have said, well, I'm looking that look, I'm out.
- 28:48But if you're like, we're getting into this for
- 28:51fun and we're going to expand our relationship
- 28:54or maybe he's got some things like, I don't role
- 28:57play. It's hard enough to be. Right. I don't
- 29:02role play. So I'm like, please go get yourself
- 29:05a brother that can play cop or robbers or whatever
- 29:08the hell y 'all want to do. I ain't doing it.
- 29:10So that's our commitment. She's committed to
- 29:14me. I'm committed to her. So now I don't care
- 29:16what y 'all experience got. I don't care if the
- 29:19dude, I just, we technically only been married.
- 29:21We have our anniversary for first year is coming
- 29:24up a couple of weeks. I don't care if the dude
- 29:26got 20 years experience. If Mr. Morgan can take
- 29:29my wife away from me, then that's on me. I dropped
- 29:33the bag. I have a problem. And that's my problem.
- 29:37Cause I made a commitment to her. She made a
- 29:38commitment to me. I don't care what. I don't
- 29:40get 55 years of experience. No. Okay. Okay. Okay.
- 29:45Flip the script. Flip the script. Flip the script.
- 29:48All right. Let's say the wife, the wife throws,
- 29:53what do you call it? What do you call the mocha?
- 29:56Super cat or super cat? Super cat. Super cat.
- 30:00What if she throws super cat? What if she throws
- 30:04super cat? Okay. What if she throws super cat
- 30:07on that little 20 -some -year -old? And he goes
- 30:11ballistic. He goes ballistic. He goes walking
- 30:14around, you know, like Mike said, he tell him,
- 30:16yo, this is my girl, and yada, yada, yada, and
- 30:19unbeknownst to the couple. Y 'all don't even
- 30:22know that he's saying that. You know what I'm
- 30:23saying? So you're saying the cubs don't even
- 30:26know. The cubs don't even know. The couple doesn't
- 30:30even know. The couple doesn't even know. You
- 30:32see what I'm saying? They just thought they had
- 30:33a great day. Yada, yada. Okay, got it. All right.
- 30:36You know what I mean? But, you know, she rocked
- 30:38bottom, okay? She hit him with the rock bottom.
- 30:41You know what I'm saying? Now he messed up. So
- 30:44are they at fault because they didn't, you know,
- 30:49like bring him on slowly, you know? And like
- 30:53somebody told me, you don't give it all to him
- 30:56at one time or what? I'll take it even further.
- 31:03I was going to bring this up earlier. I studied
- 31:06hypnotism. And so back in the 70s, they were
- 31:16starting to put subliminal messages in the movies.
- 31:20And I forgot what the governing body of that
- 31:24did that. But they said, you can't do that because
- 31:26there are some people susceptible, so susceptible
- 31:30to. hypnotism, that they will start losing a
- 31:36part of their ability to resist, right? So I'm
- 31:41saying there are people out there that you don't
- 31:44have much, you have a very hard upward battle
- 31:48of resisting what they're doing. I'm saying even
- 31:52further away from super dicks. I'm talking about
- 31:54some of these guys that are CIA masters or they
- 31:58are You know, hypnotizing masters, they study
- 32:01the game like that. I'm saying you can put all
- 32:04that on me, but as a bull, I don't know one bull
- 32:08on this planet that doesn't understand the concept
- 32:10of you. I don't know one bull in America. What
- 32:15was that name? Union. Marriage. Right? Okay.
- 32:20You can put all that super... They don't give
- 32:24a fuck, but they understand the concept. That's
- 32:26different. What I'm saying is... You got a 20
- 32:29-year -old couple. You got 20 years of togetherness,
- 32:32right? And you got some young cat. Yeah, you
- 32:36can put it on him and make him want to act stupid.
- 32:39You can put it on him and have him fucked up.
- 32:41He can't concentrate at work. He can't take his
- 32:45mind off her. But there's a line that every man
- 32:49in this country knows. You do not cross that
- 32:52line. Every man knows that. I mean, if you initiate
- 32:5821 and years old, yeah, you are not. I don't
- 33:02care what she put on you. You're wrong. You got
- 33:04some huckabuckas, as I call them out there. You
- 33:09got some huckabuckas that don't understand that,
- 33:11though, brother. You got some out there. You
- 33:16got some out there that they get so caught up
- 33:18in that thing and so good that they do forget
- 33:21and they lose their mind. And, you know, now
- 33:25you got a mess. No, I'm taking it even further.
- 33:28You got some guys, you got some women and some
- 33:30people that are so skillful at it. They damn
- 33:33near can make a court case. I'm saying it don't
- 33:37matter. It just takes it from murder to manslaughter.
- 33:41You still paying the price on me. You still crossed
- 33:44the line. Well, I was hypnotized. Your hypnotized
- 33:48ass crossed the line. I don't care how much experience
- 33:51they got. I need to understand this. So from
- 33:55your standpoint, because earlier we talked about
- 33:58when a guy interacts with a couple and the wife
- 34:02gets attached to him and she wants to leave the
- 34:05husband for that guy. Mike feels like the guy
- 34:10bears a certain amount of responsibility for
- 34:13that. Now, the other side of that question is
- 34:16if, you know, a young guy meets a couple and.
- 34:22You know, the wife is phenomenal. She's a great
- 34:25woman. He gets really attached to her and he
- 34:28wants her for himself or he wants to take ownership
- 34:31of that woman. The you don't feel like it's.
- 34:37Her fault. Because her pussy was so good. Correct.
- 34:45If she's the more experienced one. So if she's
- 34:48the more experienced one, do you feel like she
- 34:50bears responsibility for the level of attachment
- 34:52that the young man has to her? Because we're
- 34:56just switching the roles. She bears responsibility
- 34:57for turning him out? Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Because
- 35:03whenever you turn, I mean, you've turned somebody,
- 35:05I'm sure you've turned somebody out before, right?
- 35:07You're no stranger to having turned somebody
- 35:09out. And I'm not talking lifestyle. I'm just
- 35:12talking about just period. Like you've turned
- 35:14somebody out before. Okay. It's not a, it's not
- 35:26a, it's not a Monday. They were cool. Tuesday.
- 35:30They were turned out kind of thing. You know
- 35:33what I'm saying? Like if your eyes are open,
- 35:36you see it happening. Now, whether you choose
- 35:40to acknowledge it or not, that's a different
- 35:42story, but you see it happening. Like, it's usually
- 35:48some type of gradual thing. Like, it's not instantaneous
- 35:51for the most part. You can acknowledge it. You
- 35:56can acknowledge it. Yeah, you can acknowledge
- 35:58it. But if she is too far gone and nothing can
- 36:03change, I mean, you know that you have turned
- 36:08the tables in her life, and there is, like, I
- 36:14mean, she's ready to give. everything up for
- 36:17you she's ready to give up the husband she's
- 36:20ready to give up she has a child she doesn't
- 36:22even care if the husband keeps the child she
- 36:24wants you that's all that she sees when she goes
- 36:28to bed that's all that she sees when she wakes
- 36:30up she comes to your job and and will find reasons
- 36:35to stay there you know what i mean yeah that's
- 36:40been through it brother been through it okay
- 36:43you You get pulled from your job for 30 days
- 36:48for an investigation because of that shit, okay?
- 36:52We're going to circle. I just want you to know
- 36:54we ain't just going to glance over this. On the
- 36:56next podcast, we will circle back to that because
- 36:59that is one hell of a story. Yeah, yeah. I got
- 37:04pulled from my damn office for 30 days. To this
- 37:10day, I still don't know exactly where I was sitting.
- 37:13for 29 days until the investigator came and told
- 37:16me that the other ladies who wrote statements,
- 37:22who I was guilty as hell because I was sleeping
- 37:25with them too, but they had too much to let go.
- 37:30So they wrote statements that made me look like
- 37:32Mickey Mouse. They really did. And I got out
- 37:38of that shit because of that. They could not
- 37:41find... anything to prove that i was doing what
- 37:45you know allegedly but was i doing it yes i was
- 37:48doing it Absolutely, what's fucking? I was doing
- 37:55the same job. I hope the statute of limitations
- 37:56is done. I was Dexter's same job, brother. I'm
- 38:01trying to tell you right now. The part that he
- 38:03looks out is he was doing it well. Just for the
- 38:07listeners, we ain't talking about no legal shit.
- 38:09We talking about ethical shit. You know, a lifestyle
- 38:11situation that went sideways when the wife was
- 38:14like, hey, I want that dick to be mine. And she
- 38:17was willing to ruin the man's career. Yeah, yeah.
- 38:21You know what I'm saying? And this happened twice
- 38:23to me. Two times. Happened twice. I do not deserve
- 38:28the title of super dick. He deserves the title
- 38:31of super dick. Happened twice on two different
- 38:36freaking installations. It happened twice. Happened
- 38:40twice. And both of them, one ended in, later
- 38:45on, ended in divorce. And then the other one,
- 38:48they ended up leaving, going elsewhere. But later
- 38:51on also, they divorced also. So, you know. So,
- 38:55Mike, was it his fault? Was he the more experienced
- 39:00one? Was I the more experienced? Yeah, I was.
- 39:11The dogs are judging you, B. The dogs are judging
- 39:14you. The dog is like, nope. I'm not saying that
- 39:21it's an easy thing to accept that responsibility.
- 39:25I'm not saying it's an easy place to get to and
- 39:29to do so in a flippant manner. But you asked
- 39:33me my opinion. And I'm always going to put the
- 39:36onus on the person who's seen it before, the
- 39:40person who has more experience. Now, part of
- 39:45that is, you know, and maybe it's unfair, but
- 39:49I don't run from that responsibility. And the
- 39:54bulls that I know, the cats that I fuck with,
- 39:57they don't run from that responsibility. So,
- 40:00yes, I hold people to that standard. I'm not
- 40:06saying it's fair. I'm not saying it's right.
- 40:10But that's what I do. And if you fuck with me,
- 40:13that's what you're going to get. When I run dealing
- 40:18with a new couple, I come to that conclusion
- 40:20pretty quickly of who's the more experienced
- 40:23person in this scenario. If it's them. I move
- 40:30accordingly. If it's me, I move accordingly.
- 40:35When I find that it's me that's in that position
- 40:37of more experience, you best believe I'm very
- 40:40much aware of every move that I make. Because
- 40:45I don't want shit to get complicated. I do agree
- 40:50with that. Is it your fault? I take it as my
- 40:56fault. Oh, so when shit goes sideways, you take
- 41:01in the heat. Yeah. Because I'm looking at it
- 41:05like I didn't do, I didn't have my eyes on the
- 41:09prize the way I needed to. So what if there's
- 41:13a couple, what if it's a couple that's masterful
- 41:18at hiding those tickets? What if it's a couple
- 41:22that's like, they're not letting you know, they
- 41:24got all kinds of turmoil. What was that? They
- 41:27got all kind of turmoil in the background, but
- 41:31you don't know about it. Okay. Yes, sir. But
- 41:41you asked me that question, so I'm going to answer
- 41:50that question for you. Yes, sir. I'm not saying
- 41:55it's impossible. I'm a hard person to hide shit
- 41:57from because I ask a lot of fucking questions.
- 42:01You know what I'm saying? And it's not just that
- 42:03I ask questions, but I'm listening to what you
- 42:07say. I'm listening to what you don't say. You
- 42:11know what I'm saying? Like, I don't ask questions
- 42:14just to ask a question. Like, I'm asking a question
- 42:16to see how you answer it. What are you omitting?
- 42:21I mean, what are you copping to rather quickly?
- 42:23So, again, I can be fooled just like anybody.
- 42:25I'm not a super nigga. But it's not easy to do.
- 42:36It's not easy to do. So if you're going to play
- 42:40that role, if you're going to lie, if you're
- 42:43going to be deceitful, I'm going to make you
- 42:45earn that bread because. Like I said, I'm asking
- 42:51questions, and if you answer a question, I'm
- 42:53like, hey, well, that's not consistent with what
- 42:54you said before. You know what I'm saying? Or,
- 42:58you know, I've told many a chick. I've known
- 43:02chicks for years, and she'll use a phrase the
- 43:05first time, and I'll be like, that's the first
- 43:06time you've ever said that. Why did you say that?
- 43:10What was different about this conversation that
- 43:13made you say that right now that didn't happen
- 43:15in the previous two years that I've known? So
- 43:18I'm always going to question shit. Bitch, stay
- 43:22away from the dictionary, bitch. Yeah, I'm...
- 43:26Put this as far as that. Do not better your education.
- 43:34You stay simple when you talk to me, Mitch. That
- 43:39name got my daddy's blood on it. Come right here
- 43:45with the big -ass words. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
- 43:53I had to throw that in there. So to answer Socrates'
- 43:57question, I'm not saying that it's not impossible.
- 44:00I mean, I can have game run on me. It's not the
- 44:03first time. But if you do run game on me, you
- 44:08are going to be really, really, really good with
- 44:10it. Like, I'm not going to make it easy. I'm
- 44:13not going to make it easy on you. So the really,
- 44:16really good couple ran game on you. I haven't
- 44:20met them yet. I'm not saying it's never going
- 44:23to happen. It hasn't happened yet. In a fictional
- 44:25world. I'll give you an example. This is not
- 44:28lifestyle. I'll give you an example. It's not
- 44:29like you thought of some galaxy far, far away.
- 44:32Shit. Yeah. No, I'll tell you something, but
- 44:35this is only reason why it's not, is this not
- 44:37lifestyle. So I've never told this story too.
- 44:40So, um, there was this, uh, Mr. Mocha slipping.
- 44:47You got a sound effect for everything else. But
- 44:49you ain't got a sound effect for no new drop?
- 44:51He just said he ain't never said that before.
- 44:53Hey, look, I'm too busy getting nervous seeing
- 44:58which direction this is going in. I don't know.
- 45:00Like, wait. I'm sorry. Hold on. Let me find something.
- 45:06I got nothing yet. I got one, I think. Let me
- 45:09see. Some Funkmaster Flex new drop? Some new
- 45:11hotness? Something? Hey, look. I got one. I got
- 45:16one. What you got? I don't know if it's appropriate.
- 45:22We don't do appropriate here. Y 'all act like
- 45:24y 'all ain't never listened to a mixtape. Let
- 45:28me tell y 'all a new story. That's all I got.
- 45:37So, it was, now that I think about it, oh, there
- 45:44you go. Now I think about it, I'm like, Yeah.
- 45:48Okay. So I wasn't lifestyle. I wasn't calling
- 45:51myself a boy. But I met this couple at my job,
- 45:55you know, say the job. And the husband, now that
- 46:00I think about it, was always like, yeah, man,
- 46:02you know. I was promoting in a nightclub. And
- 46:05he was like a video. He was one of the first
- 46:10VJs that I met. So he was like trying to teach
- 46:14me VJing. And he was like. My wife really thinks
- 46:17you're cool and she can go get some graphics
- 46:20and she can do this and she can do that. Long
- 46:23story short, she ends up falling for me. And
- 46:27I was like, I didn't do anything with her. I
- 46:30was like, look, like, you know, I don't want
- 46:33to get involved in this kind of stuff. Right.
- 46:35So she was just like, but it's your charm. And
- 46:38I've never been with a black man. And, you know,
- 46:40I don't, you know, you know, my husband don't
- 46:42talk to me the way you do all this kind of stuff.
- 46:45It caused a lot of problems, a lot of problems
- 46:48between the two. You know what they did? They
- 46:50up and moved because of me. And I never told
- 46:54that story because I felt really shitty about
- 46:56that. And I always think, well, what did I do
- 46:58wrong? They upended their whole fucking life,
- 47:01moved to Arizona because, you know, the job I
- 47:05had had jobs in Arizona and they had jobs in
- 47:07New York. And I was in Calgary. So my point is.
- 47:12They were married for a long time. I was a single
- 47:15guy. I didn't have no skills. I was just in a
- 47:19different, I was just a completely different
- 47:21experience for her. And she had enough gum shit.
- 47:25She had enough ethics in her relationship to
- 47:28be like, if I stay around this dude, it's going
- 47:32to be some problems. So we need to get away from
- 47:34him. And I'm like, I'm not the only brother in
- 47:38that town where I live. It's about 40 % black.
- 47:41So I'm like, I don't know what you're talking
- 47:42about. What do you mean? But she took it on herself,
- 47:47and they both took it upon herself to leave town.
- 47:49My plan is, like, you guys got to vow. You guys
- 47:54made commitments some on, you know, till death,
- 47:58right? Till death do us part. We want to do this.
- 48:02My thing is, how am I responsible? Because I'm
- 48:04mastering my craft. Well, you're wearing your
- 48:07lifestyle then, so that's not even... But I was
- 48:11mastering my craft. My point is, I'm mastering
- 48:14my craft. It ain't my fault if what I'm doing
- 48:19disrupts your life. It's not my fault. I didn't
- 48:24make no commitments to anybody. How is it my
- 48:26fault? I'm just trying to be the best bull I
- 48:28can be. I'm trying to be the bulliest bull in
- 48:31that book. Based on what you just explained to
- 48:34me. Was it instantaneous? Like, was it one day
- 48:37she was cool and the next day she was, or were
- 48:40you just like, nah, I'm not seeing what I'm seeing.
- 48:43Nah, she don't really mean that. Like, was there
- 48:46some denial on your part where it's like. Yeah,
- 48:48yeah, I did. I did. Yeah, yeah. Okay. That's
- 48:52where it comes in because as an ethical bull,
- 48:55you don't dismiss those signs. Right. Yeah, you
- 48:58got those signs head on. Like, oh, okay. I see
- 49:01what you're doing. Nah, we're going to nip this
- 49:04shit here in the bud right now. But what if I
- 49:08try to nip it, and then she's like, nah, you
- 49:11don't want it. What if I say, nah, man, we ain't
- 49:14doing this. She can't rape you. Trust me, you're
- 49:18going to take it away eventually. Eventually,
- 49:21they're going to go look elsewhere. Now, that
- 49:24can take a long time, but you can't wait. It
- 49:30can take a while. Yeah, but it'll happen. Listen,
- 49:35if you're doing it, here's the thing. I'm not
- 49:40saying you can't throw your marriage away. I
- 49:42can't control you throwing your marriage away.
- 49:45What I can control is you ain't going to throw
- 49:47it away for me. You know what I'm saying? Like,
- 49:51I can remove myself from the equation. If I got
- 49:55to ghost you, if I got to ignore you, whatever
- 49:58the fuck I got to do. I can remove myself from
- 50:02the equation. It's late at night, and I'm sitting
- 50:05home horny, and I see that text message. It's
- 50:09up to me if I want to respond to that text message
- 50:12or not. That is true, but they can also get crazy
- 50:19and foolish and start, like I said, coming to
- 50:22your job. I feel like a fucker. I know, but I'm
- 50:26just saying how that can get. You know how that
- 50:30can look. You know what I'm saying? Somebody
- 50:31knocking on your door at 3, 3 o 'clock in the
- 50:36morning. You just came from the club with a chick,
- 50:38and they out there banging on your doggone door.
- 50:40I know you in there. I know you in there. You
- 50:42know what I'm saying? That's not a good look.
- 50:46I understand what you're saying. Yeah, I'm still
- 50:48not going to do such and such. But the things
- 50:50that can happen before she finally says, you
- 50:54know, forget it. If she ever says forget it.
- 50:57But my thing is, like, the responsibility, I
- 51:02mean, either, maybe I'm a scumbag, okay, because
- 51:07it's already established. Yeah, clearly, because
- 51:14someone else is, it's like, if my wife comes
- 51:20home and says, hey, there's some dude at my job
- 51:22who's falling in love with me and he won't get
- 51:24out of my face. I'm not going to be like, hey,
- 51:27that's your fault. You don't bear any responsibility
- 51:31for another person's emotional state. Now, I
- 51:36do agree with Mike. So I was using that to compare
- 51:40to Socrates' situation with the lady because
- 51:43he said he felt guilty that they moved out of
- 51:45state. I felt bad. I mean, you didn't put no
- 51:49dick on her. You know, wait. According to you,
- 51:53you didn't give her the meat. You know what I'm
- 51:55saying? You might have gave it to her. I'm fucking
- 51:57with you. I'm fucking with you. I'm fucking with
- 52:01you. In that context, in that context, but in
- 52:06the lifestyle context, you know, here's the thing
- 52:11that I advocate for. I believe that everyone
- 52:17should have the freedom. To take responsibility
- 52:22for their emotional state. If the second that
- 52:27I have the ability to look at somebody in their
- 52:30face and go, hey. You're not emotionally stable
- 52:34enough to be in this lifestyle or situation.
- 52:38Now, I can say you're starting to make me feel
- 52:42an uncomfortable attachment, at which point I'm
- 52:45a pull away from that. To me, I would definitely
- 52:48do. However. When I'm looking at some bull, because
- 52:55I love to say it's only the inexperienced guys,
- 52:58but over the last two years, I've had multiple
- 53:02conversations about multiple bulls who are experienced
- 53:06and are known in the lifestyle who formed an
- 53:12unnatural attachment to a wife within a couple,
- 53:15her and him both, being what I would consider...
- 53:19I would and the husband would definitely consider
- 53:21unethical. Do I think that he is doing some scumbag
- 53:27shit? Absolutely. Do I agree with it? I do not.
- 53:32Do I think that the husband should be mad at
- 53:35him and not the wife? Because the husband is
- 53:38telling me, you know, that fucker, he did this,
- 53:41blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. You know, he knew
- 53:44how she feel. And so now he's not mad at her.
- 53:50He's mad at the dude. I don't believe that any
- 53:55person outside of relationship should have that
- 53:58much emotional responsibility because either
- 54:01you're strong enough to be in the lifestyle emotionally
- 54:02or you are not. And if you're not strong enough
- 54:07to be in a lifestyle, anybody can take you or
- 54:11any situation can take you. It may not even be
- 54:15the bull. The bull may just be the catalyst.
- 54:18So am I going to thank you? Thank you. Am I going
- 54:25to tell somebody else to take emotional responsibility
- 54:28or accountability for someone else's actions?
- 54:33No, I'm not going to do that just because I wouldn't
- 54:37do it. I'm not going to blame it. And if some
- 54:40someday some dude came around and my wife decided
- 54:43she'd rather be with him, it would break my heart.
- 54:46But. I can't look at him as the bad guy because
- 54:51he didn't break a vow. I got a heart. Hey, I
- 54:57got a heart for that one. God damn it. That's
- 55:00my soft spot. So, hey, look, fella, we in deep
- 55:07on this. We like two and a half hours in. You
- 55:11got to do this in like two, three parts. Yeah,
- 55:13we have. Y 'all eating up my memory card. Yeah,
- 55:17we almost three hours into this one, man. I think
- 55:21we forgot that we was recording. I can say that.
- 55:24I forgot that we was recording. Hey, hey, I was
- 55:29online. I had to go online while we was talking
- 55:31to order an SD card because y 'all blew mine
- 55:33all the way up. I ran out of space. Yeah, it
- 55:37was like an eight -mile stretch. Don't worry,
- 55:39I'm still rolling. I'm still rolling. I got the
- 55:42big boy card over here for y 'all. Don't worry
- 55:44about it. Hey, no. No, no. No, Brian is super
- 55:51dick. Hey, I can't take that mantle. I can't
- 55:55take that mantle. Listen, hey, I done had some
- 55:58crazy situations. You can't run from your destiny.
- 56:00You can't run from your destiny. Hey, look. Hey,
- 56:05look. Hey, he had two chicks try to get him knocked
- 56:09off. On two different installations. Uh -uh.
- 56:12He the winner. He is the winner. I mean, I'd
- 56:16have had a chick tossing lawn chairs around in
- 56:19my front yard, but that was just between me,
- 56:21her, and my neighbors. You know what I'm saying?
- 56:26All right, fellas. Hey, let's wrap this thing
- 56:31up. We'll do a sound off on Mr. Mocha from the
- 56:35Old Faces podcast. And for me, this segment will
- 56:39be on our cutting board episode, which we're
- 56:42probably going to wind up breaking up into three
- 56:43parts. Gentlemen. Hey, man, this has been real.
- 56:55I think this is the first time that all the brothers.
- 56:59have been, you know, together in a long time.
- 57:03And I'm looking forward to continuing this because
- 57:06this is something we can talk about damn near
- 57:08all night. Really. I can't speak for y 'all,
- 57:13but for me and Mr. Mocha, this is a Wednesday.
- 57:15Oh, yeah, yeah. It's like work. Yeah, I know
- 57:17it is. I know it is. I know it is. It's indeed
- 57:20been a pleasure sitting here just listening,
- 57:23you know, to the three of you guys go at it and
- 57:26then, you know, cutting in when I can. But definitely,
- 57:30though, we're going to have to continue this
- 57:31another time. And I'm really looking forward
- 57:34to it. No, absolutely. Absolutely. Mr. Mocha
- 57:37noticed is one of the big reasons why I love
- 57:38him. We can go in each other's neck for two hours.
- 57:44And, you know, sometimes we agree. Most of the
- 57:48times we agree to disagree. But I always love
- 57:54the fact that he challenges me. I mean, and it's
- 57:57like, okay, motherfucker, let me see how much
- 57:58you believe that shit you're saying. Ditto, ditto.
- 58:02Yeah, I like to think I do the same to him. Absolutely.
- 58:07So it's that whole iron sharpens iron thing.
- 58:10So, you know, I'll release this on some version
- 58:13of the China shop. And so we'll make sure we
- 58:17catch people from all sides. No matter who they
- 58:19listen to, they're going to hear this. It's a
- 58:22long time. I don't know if they're going to stick
- 58:23around for the whole thing. Hopefully they will.
- 58:27Like I said, I think it got to a point where
- 58:29we forgot we were recording. Yeah. Just having
- 58:35fun. And we need to fellowship more often just
- 58:41like this. You know what I mean? Regardless if
- 58:42we are recording or not. Indeed. Well, Mr. Mocha
- 58:47won't let you talk for more than 10 minutes before.
- 58:50He says we need to be recording this. Correction.
- 58:56As soon as there's the slightest bit of disagreement,
- 58:59it's like, okay, we need to be recording this.
- 59:01That's because we didn't talk for five hours,
- 59:03man. We was like, hey, we probably should have
- 59:05recorded that. Yeah, no, no. We definitely let
- 59:08some gold slip out of the way by just being lazy.
- 59:11But no, sometimes, like B says, sometimes I just
- 59:14want to talk. Yeah, I just want to close it,
- 59:17man. We don't always have to record, but it's
- 59:20always fun when we do. Until next time, fellas.
- 59:23I mean, it's your podcast, so you got to be the
- 59:26one to sign off. Socrates ain't signed off yet.
- 59:30Socrates, what you got to say, baby? Yeah, yeah.
- 59:34Socrates signing off. And I think what we'll
- 59:37do as the producer, I think we're going to put
- 59:40this on the bull table, but I'm not sure if that's
- 59:43going to be the title of it. But that will be
- 59:45on that segment as well. So, yeah, it's a pleasure
- 59:49as well to be in the presence of these masters,
- 59:52man, and me to sit under y 'all's feet. And I
- 59:55want to say this, too. You're at the table, bro.
- 59:58You're at the table. Yeah, well, that's right.
- 1:00:00Yeah, that's true. To be at this table and to
- 1:00:04have an input with these brothers is just a pleasure.
- 1:00:09I'm still working on mastery. I can't claim master
- 1:00:12yet. Yeah, me either. But, you know. All right,
- 1:00:18man. Okay, well. Brian was the only quiet one,
- 1:00:21so we'll say. Hey, Brian didn't jump and say,
- 1:00:28you don't call me that. Hey. He is the older
- 1:00:32brother. Yeah. Brian is big, bro. Hey, he a vet.
- 1:00:37He can't let his younger brothers know that he
- 1:00:40don't know everything. Hey, look, I don't know.
- 1:00:45You know what I'm saying? I don't know everything,
- 1:00:48man. That's why we need the fellowship like this
- 1:00:50more often. You know what I'm saying? So we can
- 1:00:52come together and put all these great minds together
- 1:00:56and all these thoughts together and stuff, man.
- 1:00:59Because here again, we're all at a point in our
- 1:01:02lives now where we need to be giving back. We
- 1:01:05need to be teaching. These younger ones. You
- 1:01:07know, they're talking about younger ones. And
- 1:01:09even the older ones who just don't have the experience
- 1:01:11yet. You know what I mean? They're just getting
- 1:01:13into it. We need to be teaching. We need to be
- 1:01:17teaching. All right? This is the world that we
- 1:01:19live in. This is the world that we live and love
- 1:01:2024 -7. And, you know, we ain't going nowhere.
- 1:01:23This is who we are. And that's what younger cats
- 1:01:26can learn. You can bust balls and learn at the
- 1:01:28same time. Exactly. Exactly. Exactly. That's
- 1:01:32why I love this. Because I know you two motherfuckers
- 1:01:34are going to go at it. I know y 'all are going
- 1:01:37to go at it. We live for this shit. I know y
- 1:01:41'all are going to go at it. You know what I'm
- 1:01:43saying? We live for this shit. And I can't wait
- 1:01:46until Pagan is on the other line also. You know?
- 1:01:51Good luck tracking him down. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 1:01:54You done said that. He must be hard to get. He
- 1:01:58must be hard to track. That's Pagan, a .k .a.
- 1:02:01Milkbox. It's like he's on the side of the milkbox.
- 1:02:04There you go. There you go. We're going to fish
- 1:02:05him up. There you go. Hey, once he hears this
- 1:02:09one, he's going to show up. He's going to be
- 1:02:12mad he missed this one. He's going to be mad
- 1:02:14he missed this one. All right, fellas. Good deal.
- 1:02:17Love y 'all. Well, hey, man. It's been a pleasure.
- 1:02:21It has really been a pleasure. And as I usually
- 1:02:25say on our podcast, you know, for the brothers.
- 1:02:29of the brotherhood out there uh good night and
- 1:02:33for all those sexy hot wives good morning That's
- 1:02:42that boom baby girl shit I was talking about
- 1:02:45right there. He wanted to close up by wetting
- 1:02:49up some panties real quick. Let me wet some panties
- 1:02:52before you wrap this thing up. You know the context
- 1:02:57of what he means when he says good morning. That
- 1:02:59means I'm laying behind you and I'm just going
- 1:03:00to reach over and just say good morning in your
- 1:03:02ear. You know me, brother. That's that ism as
- 1:03:06we call it down in the South. You know what I'm
- 1:03:08saying? That's that ism. But ladies and gentlemen,
- 1:03:11we hope you have enjoyed this podcast for the
- 1:03:13night, this episode for the night. And here again,
- 1:03:16we will talk to you soon. Everybody, good night.
- 1:03:19Good night, fellas. All right, kill it. Three
- 1:03:21hours of my night talking to y 'all, motherfucker.
- 1:03:39This brotherhood's for men whose stories need
- 1:03:42to get told. Say it loud. Oh, say it loud. This
- 1:03:46is who we are. Old, confident, and seductive.
- 1:03:50Dominant and classy. We stand tall, never fall.
- 1:03:54Bull brotherhood. Luxury untold.