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- 0:00Speaker 1: We're geting ready for second d Update. We've got Dax
- 0:01Speaker 1: on the phone. What's up, Decks.
- 0:03Speaker 2: So I'm really into this girl, but I think she's
- 0:07Speaker 2: curving me and and I want you guys to call her,
- 0:09Speaker 2: so help me out figure out what's going on.
- 0:11Speaker 1: Hey, perfect man, that's exactly what this whole segment is
- 0:13Speaker 1: based on. That's what second AD Update's all about. So
- 0:15Speaker 1: we will take on your case. It's the second A
- 0:17Speaker 1: eight update starts next for John Jay and Rich.
- 0:19Speaker 2: Yeah, blood, thanks, there's always some mot.
- 0:25Speaker 3: The next segment we're going to do is called second
- 0:28Speaker 3: Date Update because that's what we're going to try and
- 0:30Speaker 3: get and that's what the bit is called.
- 0:32Speaker 4: Second Date Update starts right now on John Jay and Rich.
- 0:36Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich, time for second aiight update. You
- 0:38Speaker 1: meet somebody, you go on a date, you have a
- 0:39Speaker 1: great time. You expect there to be a second date,
- 0:42Speaker 1: and there isn't. You don't know why, So you come
- 0:45Speaker 1: to us and we're gonna help them out.
- 0:47Speaker 5: Dax, are you there? Good morning?
- 0:50Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm here. I'm here. I'm kind of spiraling here
- 0:53Speaker 2: to be honest. We've been talking non stop for a
- 0:56Speaker 2: while and we had plans to listen to the new
- 1:00Speaker 2: Drake album this weekend, which you know, to me it
- 1:04Speaker 2: felt kind of intimate because, like you know, in these days,
- 1:07Speaker 2: you know, it's kind of like modern day poor play
- 1:09Speaker 2: when you throw on some AirPods and you listen together
- 1:12Speaker 2: to something like that. And basically what happened was she
- 1:16Speaker 2: just like totally disappeared on me. And I texted her, asking,
- 1:21Speaker 2: you know, if she wanted to hang out, and I
- 1:23Speaker 2: heard nothing back, like nothing, like no text, no, no, mean,
- 1:27Speaker 2: you know, nothing at all, which is weird because she's
- 1:30Speaker 2: very communicative normally. And she said of like, you know,
- 1:34Speaker 2: these long texts with like bullet points and all this stuff.
- 1:37Speaker 2: I know she's been stressed and stuff with like schooling
- 1:41Speaker 2: and whatnot. But I don't know. I'm just trying not
- 1:44Speaker 2: to take it personally. But she's not even like opening
- 1:47Speaker 2: my text. So I thought maybe I got curved, And
- 1:51Speaker 2: then I convinced myself maybe she's another guy and she's
- 1:55Speaker 2: joined to cold. I don't know, I just I'm just
- 1:57Speaker 2: like really spiraling, you know, so well.
- 2:00Speaker 1: Joining a cult kind of happens a lot nowadays.
- 2:04Speaker 6: I mean, that might explain why she's not tasting back.
- 2:06Speaker 2: At all, right, right, yeah, So I don't know. I'm
- 2:10Speaker 2: just I don't get it.
- 2:11Speaker 3: Do you know when school ends for her? Because I'm like,
- 2:13Speaker 3: a final is going to be a pretty crazy time,
- 2:16Speaker 3: like in the school year, that kind of stuff. So
- 2:18Speaker 3: it's like, is she just really locked in? Did she
- 2:21Speaker 3: tell you and you just kind of forgot?
- 2:23Speaker 2: Well? She never really. She didn't talk too much about it,
- 2:26Speaker 2: to be honest. I mean I knew she was in
- 2:29Speaker 2: the midst of it, but she, you know, she acted
- 2:31Speaker 2: like she was super confident about you know, like her testing,
- 2:35Speaker 2: and she was she seemed like it was going to
- 2:37Speaker 2: be easy almost. So I don't know. So I don't
- 2:40Speaker 2: think it's that. But who knows.
- 2:42Speaker 1: Anything intimate happened on your day?
- 2:45Speaker 2: Well? Yeah, I mean nothing, just just the normal usual stuff,
- 2:50Speaker 2: you know. I mean we're still kind of feeling each
- 2:52Speaker 2: other out.
- 2:53Speaker 3: I wait, and I'm like, what the normal usual stuff
- 2:56Speaker 3: because there's people that like normally usually do one night
- 2:59Speaker 3: stance and look up on.
- 3:00Speaker 2: The mistakes and other people we haven't got. True, that's true,
- 3:03Speaker 2: we haven't gotten to that point yet. But yeah, but
- 3:05Speaker 2: we you know, we've definitely spent some some good time
- 3:09Speaker 2: together and we've really been connecting more than any cryptic.
- 3:14Speaker 6: I know, but you know, we don't know. But okay,
- 3:16Speaker 6: I mean I respect you not trying to give us
- 3:19Speaker 6: all the details.
- 3:20Speaker 3: That's okay.
- 3:20Speaker 2: Sorry that you said talking about this stuff on the radio,
- 3:23Speaker 2: that's okay.
- 3:24Speaker 5: Well, let's call her, Dax. What's her name?
- 3:27Speaker 2: Her name is Tara? All right?
- 3:28Speaker 5: Can you hang tight?
- 3:29Speaker 1: We get her number and we'll get her on the
- 3:30Speaker 1: phone here in just a second, all right, so hang tight.
- 3:33Speaker 5: Second Date update continues next with John Jy and Rich. John,
- 3:40Speaker 5: Jay and Rich. We are in the middle of Second
- 3:42Speaker 5: Date Update.
- 3:42Speaker 4: This is the story of Dax and Tara. Well, they
- 3:45Speaker 4: got along, they've been texting, but Dax is crashing out.
- 3:49Speaker 4: The plan was to listen to Drake together the new album.
- 3:52Speaker 4: But is she icing him out just like his album?
- 3:55Speaker 4: Is she busy with school? Our turning arctic? Like Drake
- 3:58Speaker 4: says when you're running to the iceman, what you're gonna
- 4:01Speaker 4: do except freeze?
- 4:03Speaker 5: Oh?
- 4:04Speaker 1: Very very topical, very good, good good lines, good quotes
- 4:07Speaker 1: from Drake and the new album Way to Go, Rich,
- 4:09Speaker 1: Way to tie.
- 4:10Speaker 5: It all in. Hold on Payne, Have you heard the
- 4:13Speaker 5: whole ball free Drake albums?
- 4:15Speaker 3: Yeah? I have actually fair a weekend my favorite album
- 4:20Speaker 3: is Made of Honor, just because like that's just my
- 4:22Speaker 3: kind of Drake music. I like to get up and
- 4:25Speaker 3: dance and you know, party. But Iceman's pretty solid.
- 4:30Speaker 5: Hello. Hi is this Tara?
- 4:32Speaker 7: Yeah?
- 4:33Speaker 3: Hi, my name is Payne. I'm with John Jay and
- 4:35Speaker 3: Rich and we just wanted to talk to you on
- 4:36Speaker 3: the radio about a few things if you're free this morning.
- 4:41Speaker 2: Okay, Hi, Hi Tara.
- 4:43Speaker 1: So listen, we do a radio show. Hopefully you're familiar
- 4:46Speaker 1: with the radio show. It's called John Jay and Rich.
- 4:49Speaker 1: And we got a call. Oh, thank you, Well, we
- 4:51Speaker 1: got to call it. You know what we're doing. We
- 4:53Speaker 1: got to call from a guy I hope you know.
- 4:55Speaker 1: He went on a date with you and he thought
- 4:57Speaker 1: that you guys were just it was gelling, things were
- 4:59Speaker 1: doing really well, and now you think you're ghosting him.
- 5:02Speaker 1: He says, you haven't responded to any of these text messages,
- 5:04Speaker 1: and so as he was telling us the story, we
- 5:06Speaker 1: were like, let's just call her. Let's call her and
- 5:09Speaker 1: get her version of the story. So we're calling you
- 5:11Speaker 1: and we're talking about Dax.
- 5:14Speaker 6: I remember, yeah, and do you remember why you didn't
- 5:21Speaker 6: like contact him anymore and kind of ghost him?
- 5:24Speaker 7: Oh, it's not really about Dax. I'm just not really
- 5:27Speaker 7: in the mood to talk to anyone right now because
- 5:30Speaker 7: then I'm going through a lot, and I generally I
- 5:33Speaker 7: don't have time for both right now, just at all.
- 5:37Speaker 3: Do you feel like that's what he's giving you.
- 5:39Speaker 7: Oh no, not not like just him, I mean or him. Basically,
- 5:44Speaker 7: I failed my boards exam, and I'm mortified because I
- 5:50Speaker 7: told everyone I was going to pass, and I was
- 5:52Speaker 7: like basically already mentally shopping for office furniture and posting
- 5:57Speaker 7: inspirational quotes, and now I'm here in sweatpants eating cereal.
- 6:03Speaker 2: It's Dax. I had no idea you failed your boards.
- 6:07Speaker 2: I'm so I'm so sorry. I literally knew your examles
- 6:10Speaker 2: this week, but I didn't know. I didn't know you
- 6:13Speaker 2: failed them. You said you were so confident about it.
- 6:15Speaker 7: Oh my god, no wonder everybody sounds it so weird.
- 6:20Speaker 7: Like I thought Dante was being unusually compassionate.
- 6:23Speaker 2: So I didn't want to ambush you. It's not that's
- 6:28Speaker 2: not my intention here. I just I just honestly thought
- 6:30Speaker 2: you were ghosting me, and I I was just spiraling.
- 6:33Speaker 2: And and when she said you weren't talking to anybody.
- 6:36Speaker 2: It kind of kind of clicked.
- 6:38Speaker 7: Oh god, well, this is mildly horrifying for me because
- 6:41Speaker 7: I sound fully unhinged and.
- 6:42Speaker 2: Realizing, oh no, no, you don't, you don't, you don't.
- 6:44Speaker 2: You just you sound overwhelmed, which is you know, I mean,
- 6:48Speaker 2: and you failed your exam, which is tough, but you know,
- 6:51Speaker 2: failing one exam, it doesn't it doesn't make me think
- 6:55Speaker 2: any anything different about you, to be honest, So okay,
- 6:59Speaker 2: I'm just really sorry.
- 7:00Speaker 7: Thanks. But that's also easy for you to say because
- 7:03Speaker 7: I was acting like I already had my license frame
- 7:06Speaker 7: one the wall. I literally, I literally practiced fake humble
- 7:10Speaker 7: responses for compliments.
- 7:12Speaker 4: Well let's do let's hear what congratulations.
- 7:17Speaker 2: Oh god, you're like the smartest person I know, Kara,
- 7:21Speaker 2: you really are. And I just really like you, and
- 7:23Speaker 2: that's you know, that's I just cared about you, and
- 7:28Speaker 2: I just I felt, yeah, I devastated that I wasn't
- 7:31Speaker 2: hearing back from you because I really care about you.
- 7:34Speaker 7: Gosh, oh you were really nice.
- 7:36Speaker 2: Tax I didn't want you thinking that you had to like,
- 7:39Speaker 2: you know, disappear because you were embarrassed about your tests
- 7:42Speaker 2: and stuff.
- 7:43Speaker 7: So that's nice, I know. And Honestly, that part is
- 7:48Speaker 7: on me. I just have this tendency when I'm disappointed
- 7:52Speaker 7: in myself. I basically turned into a possum, and I
- 7:54Speaker 7: like played it emotionally.
- 7:57Speaker 2: You know, whenever you're ready. You know, I'd love to
- 8:00Speaker 2: still listen to that Drake album with you.
- 8:04Speaker 7: Okay, how about this maybe after I recover, like emotionally
- 8:08Speaker 7: and spiritually and academically.
- 8:11Speaker 3: Okay, makes complete sense. Why Terror kind of ducked off?
- 8:16Speaker 5: At least she feels bad.
- 8:17Speaker 3: Yeah, And I mean when you work so hard for
- 8:19Speaker 3: something and you aren't able to get it done like
- 8:21Speaker 3: that is just the worst.
- 8:23Speaker 7: So I feel for you.
- 8:24Speaker 5: For real.
- 8:25Speaker 1: That's the whole Drake album for real, for real.
- 8:29Speaker 5: That's what he says. That's that's one whole album.
- 8:31Speaker 3: Well at least ax, now you know it wasn't something
- 8:33Speaker 3: that you did.
- 8:34Speaker 2: I mean no, it's a huge weight off my shoulders.
- 8:36Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, you guys, Well, thank both of you
- 8:39Speaker 1: for jumping on the air with us.
- 8:41Speaker 2: Well, thank you. I appreciate it.