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- 0:02Speaker 1: This is teddy tea pod with cabinet. Guys. Welcome to
- 0:13Speaker 1: this week's teddy Te Pod. I am so excited to
- 0:15Speaker 1: have Tori Spelling and Whitney Carson joining me. We're gonna
- 0:18Speaker 1: talk about all the things that you know that we've
- 0:21Speaker 1: given up since being a mom, or maybe things that
- 0:23Speaker 1: we've added or not. But really it's just gonna be
- 0:25Speaker 1: a super fun episode. I'm so excited to talk with them.
- 0:28Speaker 1: You guys also have to tune into Tories podcast. So
- 0:31Speaker 1: good nine O two one, o MG amazing. Plus, Whitney
- 0:36Speaker 1: has an incredible diaper line bag coming out with Juju b.
- 0:41Speaker 1: For updates on her diaper line bag, follow her on
- 0:43Speaker 1: Instagram at Whitney Carson. So the first segment is people
- 0:48Speaker 1: wrote in questions, so we're just gonna rapid fire go
- 0:52Speaker 1: through them. Uh you are a new mommy, right, Whitney, Yes,
- 0:57Speaker 1: I'm a new mommy. I'm he's three months, three and
- 1:00Speaker 1: a half months. Oh my goodness, congratulations. How are you feeling?
- 1:05Speaker 1: I feel absolutely crazy. Uh. Everybody's like, oh my gosh,
- 1:11Speaker 1: it's gonna get so easy, and I'm like, when is
- 1:14Speaker 1: it going to get easy? Because still like no sleep.
- 1:19Speaker 1: I'm trying to work and like be a mom, it's insane.
- 1:22Speaker 1: You guys, I don't know how you guys do it.
- 1:24Speaker 1: You guys are incredible, Like Tori, you seriously like an author,
- 1:29Speaker 1: your producer. You're like, I don't know how you have
- 1:32Speaker 1: five kids and you still work, Like how busy? People's
- 1:37Speaker 1: the best that my moms can get so much done. Seriously,
- 1:43Speaker 1: I'm like, what is the secret? But Tori, don't you
- 1:46Speaker 1: think it's the hardest after the first because that's when
- 1:49Speaker 1: like your life totally like you're not fully ready when
- 1:52Speaker 1: all of it's happening, Like you think in your head like, oh,
- 1:55Speaker 1: I know what's gonna happen. I know exactly what being
- 1:57Speaker 1: a mom is gonna be like, and then all of
- 1:58Speaker 1: a sudden, it's like whack, No, you had no idea.
- 2:01Speaker 1: That's how I feel. I feel like I've gotten like
- 2:04Speaker 1: whip flash, and like I seriously thought before I got pregnant, like, oh,
- 2:07Speaker 1: this is gonna be so easy, Like I've seen my
- 2:10Speaker 1: sister in law's do it like they've got it together,
- 2:13Speaker 1: and then it happens to me and I'm like, this
- 2:16Speaker 1: is so hard. It's amazing. But it's what about the
- 2:21Speaker 1: fact that you had COVID when you were giving birth.
- 2:24Speaker 1: Can you believe that not COVID when you were giving birth? Yes?
- 2:28Speaker 1: So I actually so. For the whole nine months that
- 2:31Speaker 1: I was pregnant, we didn't go anywhere, like literally, like
- 2:35Speaker 1: no restaurants, like nothing, because I was so worried and
- 2:39Speaker 1: I didn't get it. I didn't get it. I didn't
- 2:40Speaker 1: I didn't get it. And then when I went into labor,
- 2:43Speaker 1: they tested me for COVID and I was positive for COVID.
- 2:46Speaker 1: It was mind blowing. I was like, of course this
- 2:50Speaker 1: would happen to me right now when it actually matters. Um.
- 2:54Speaker 1: But luckily everybody was healthy, everybody was safe, the baby
- 2:58Speaker 1: was good. Um. But it was so scary. It was
- 3:01Speaker 1: the scariest day of my life. Well, I got emotional
- 3:04Speaker 1: looking at the picture of you with like your mask on,
- 3:06Speaker 1: because when I had baby Dove, it was a couple
- 3:09Speaker 1: of weeks before everything kind of shut down, so it
- 3:12Speaker 1: was we could still have visitors and all that kind
- 3:14Speaker 1: of stuff, and seeing that picture of you, I was like, oh,
- 3:16Speaker 1: my gosh, I can't imagine. It was hard. It was
- 3:19Speaker 1: honestly a really hard birth, and I've just kind of
- 3:24Speaker 1: been struggling I've been kind of open on it with
- 3:25Speaker 1: social media. If you guys follow me tour, you probably
- 3:28Speaker 1: are like, I have no idea who you are, but
- 3:30Speaker 1: that is not just kidding. I know who you are.
- 3:35Speaker 1: I'm a big fan, so I'd be honored to expect
- 3:37Speaker 1: you to know who I am. So don't work, Oh, Presley,
- 3:40Speaker 1: I actually watched your reality show, um growing up, So yeah,
- 3:45Speaker 1: I know who you are. Well, I know you're two
- 3:47Speaker 1: on to so okay, how do you make sense? But
- 3:52Speaker 1: my mom is obsessed, so I've heard it about it.
- 3:58Speaker 1: Go oh my gosh. But I definitely feel older now
- 4:01Speaker 1: that I have a kid. I'm like, I'm twenty seven
- 4:04Speaker 1: now seven Yeah, I'll turn twenty eight in October. But anyway,
- 4:09Speaker 1: it was just a couple of weeks, guys, not all,
- 4:13Speaker 1: but I'm going to be and literally in a couple
- 4:18Speaker 1: of weeks like, well you don't look you look amazing. Um,
- 4:24Speaker 1: But yeah, the birth was just kind of a crazy experience.
- 4:27Speaker 1: I just I wanted that, like normal vaginal delivery so
- 4:31Speaker 1: bad and just with complications and his heart rate was
- 4:35Speaker 1: too high and I pushed for so long and they're
- 4:38Speaker 1: just like, we're gonna have to do an emergency c sections,
- 4:41Speaker 1: so they rushed me in and cut me open. And
- 4:44Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys had c sections, but
- 4:46Speaker 1: it's really it's Tori. You have have you had it
- 4:50Speaker 1: for kids? All five c sections? Five It was the
- 4:53Speaker 1: same experience that you're talking about with my first. Our
- 4:57Speaker 1: seventeen hours in labor and then just his heart rate,
- 5:00Speaker 1: So emergency. I think it's almost better that way. I
- 5:03Speaker 1: was devastated that I didn't get to do it vaginally,
- 5:06Speaker 1: but um, if I had had time to think about
- 5:09Speaker 1: a C section, it would have sent me over the edge.
- 5:11Speaker 1: So the fact that they were like, we're going now,
- 5:13Speaker 1: I was like what And then it's just too late.
- 5:15Speaker 1: You're in it. So yeah, and then you have the baby. Um,
- 5:18Speaker 1: so did you do a vback for your second or no?
- 5:21Speaker 1: You didn't know? And I don't really believe in regrets,
- 5:24Speaker 1: but that is one of my regrets that my doctor
- 5:27Speaker 1: was like, you didn't dilate fully, like you only hit
- 5:30Speaker 1: a certain point. It's not going to happen the second time.
- 5:32Speaker 1: But I wish I would have tried, because if it
- 5:35Speaker 1: had work, then I could have had all mine, you know, vaginally, Okay,
- 5:39Speaker 1: because I'm trying to debate. I'm like, I don't know
- 5:42Speaker 1: if I want to go through all of that again.
- 5:44Speaker 1: I mean, the pushing, honestly was the worst part, just
- 5:47Speaker 1: because there was no progression at all, Like I would
- 5:50Speaker 1: just push, push, push, push, and like his head would
- 5:52Speaker 1: just not come out. And the doctor said my pelvis
- 5:55Speaker 1: was shaped weird, Like have you guys ever heard that?
- 5:58Speaker 1: They said the same thing, mind, But what it caused
- 6:01Speaker 1: an issue for me was actually getting pregnant because my
- 6:04Speaker 1: pelvis was tilted. So it was very hard for me
- 6:07Speaker 1: to get pregnant naturally. Was my first two I don't
- 6:10Speaker 1: know how miraculously got pregnant at thirty eight with nothing
- 6:13Speaker 1: after I v f an insemination with the other. But
- 6:17Speaker 1: they said that my pelt, my pelvis was tilted and
- 6:19Speaker 1: that's why it like wasn't going up and over. Yeah, okay,
- 6:23Speaker 1: so weird, but anyway, so that's what happened to me
- 6:26Speaker 1: and C section, and I feel like I've mourned like
- 6:29Speaker 1: that natural delivery for so long, but I finally come
- 6:33Speaker 1: to terms with like, you know what, everybody who gives birth,
- 6:37Speaker 1: no matter what it is, is a hero to me,
- 6:40Speaker 1: because it is freaking hard and it's amazing, so I'm
- 6:43Speaker 1: like finally like come to terms with it. But and
- 6:48Speaker 1: I mean bright side, you're not gonna pee your pants,
- 6:51Speaker 1: That's I mean true. I had I can't jump on
- 6:55Speaker 1: a trampoline. I can't break it to you guys, I've
- 7:00Speaker 1: had five C sections. That's not true. Are you mean no?
- 7:05Speaker 1: It still happens, so there's no works No, I mean
- 7:09Speaker 1: it's not crazy. I you know, I have friends that
- 7:12Speaker 1: definitely like it happens to them more. But I think
- 7:14Speaker 1: just as you get older, naturally things are not working
- 7:18Speaker 1: the way I used to it. I definitely feel that still,
- 7:22Speaker 1: Like I'll work out sometimes and I'll be like I
- 7:25Speaker 1: am exhausted, Like my hips are totally jacked up, Like
- 7:29Speaker 1: this baby put me through the ringer for sure. I
- 7:32Speaker 1: don't know how I'm going to go back to dancing.
- 7:35Speaker 1: That's gonna be a whole Well, you're you just had
- 7:37Speaker 1: a bit. It just takes time, and the first one
- 7:39Speaker 1: that really you're just you gotta like just give yourself
- 7:42Speaker 1: grace and know that you're gonna like come to but
- 7:44Speaker 1: also know like you're in it with so many other moms.
- 7:47Speaker 1: Even if I like that now more moms are talking
- 7:50Speaker 1: about all the things that they go through because I
- 7:53Speaker 1: feel like back ten years ago, even that wasn't happening,
- 7:56Speaker 1: Like people weren't being my vocal on social media. People
- 7:59Speaker 1: weren't talking the good, the bad, and the ugly of
- 8:01Speaker 1: you know, childbirth or how you feel afterwards. Yes, I
- 8:05Speaker 1: like for me, when I see other moms struggling, like
- 8:07Speaker 1: it's kind of like, oh good, so everybody's going through this. Yeah,
- 8:13Speaker 1: So it's really important too, especially for me to be
- 8:17Speaker 1: honest and open about it, because I'm like that has
- 8:19Speaker 1: helped me so much when other people do that, so
- 8:22Speaker 1: hopefully hopefully other people can relate and we can all
- 8:26Speaker 1: just come together and be strong. So the next thing
- 8:31Speaker 1: that they asked, which now we already know the answer,
- 8:33Speaker 1: is did you guys get the husband stitch? Which I
- 8:37Speaker 1: got with the first and then they said I didn't
- 8:40Speaker 1: need it afterwards, which I was like, that's even worse,
- 8:44Speaker 1: like the husband's what do they mean you don't need it?
- 8:47Speaker 1: Like I was already prepared, like there was no me,
- 8:51Speaker 1: Like there was no ripping. Oh, there was no ripping.
- 8:56Speaker 1: I was like that, I don't know what's worse. I
- 8:58Speaker 1: feel like it's better that you get a stitch and
- 9:00Speaker 1: no that she's down there than not. Oh my gosh, well,
- 9:07Speaker 1: I have no idea. I mean I was dilated to
- 9:09Speaker 1: a ten um, so I didn't have obviously any ripping
- 9:12Speaker 1: or anything, and it just kind of went back the
- 9:14Speaker 1: husband's stitch they mean like sex right, they say they
- 9:18Speaker 1: call it the husband's stitch because it's supposed to make
- 9:20Speaker 1: it better afterwards. But my doctor wasn't saying to me
- 9:25Speaker 1: like do you want the husband stitch? He just stitched.
- 9:27Speaker 1: But like then you know, you realize after what You're like,
- 9:31Speaker 1: oh this is really painful and what what else is
- 9:34Speaker 1: going on down there? And then they feel you in.
- 9:38Speaker 1: But I heard now it's a thing that the doctors
- 9:40Speaker 1: are like, hey, bro like wing wing to the husband,
- 9:42Speaker 1: Like I'm just gonna do it anyway, whether there's or not.
- 9:45Speaker 1: It's like instant badge rejuvenation, Like is that true? Like
- 9:49Speaker 1: I don't know, who knows. Maybe my doctor came in.
- 9:52Speaker 1: He had like a baseball cap on. He's like, what's
- 9:54Speaker 1: that part of people? I'm like, I'm like ten centimeters dilated?
- 9:58Speaker 1: Can we like get this show on the Like I
- 10:00Speaker 1: hate to bother you. What what would you guys say?
- 10:04Speaker 1: Was your number one hospital bag necessity, hospital bag necessity.
- 10:10Speaker 1: I loved having my own shampoo conditioner and like my
- 10:14Speaker 1: own soap because I felt like after I had the surgery,
- 10:18Speaker 1: I was just like not myself at all, So just
- 10:20Speaker 1: to have a piece of something at home was like
- 10:24Speaker 1: so key for me. So I would say, like my
- 10:26Speaker 1: shampoon conditioner, like to like in the hospital impressed. I know.
- 10:31Speaker 1: I was like what I had to I was a
- 10:36Speaker 1: complete disaster. I was like sweating, like my hair is
- 10:39Speaker 1: just like all over the place, so I had to
- 10:42Speaker 1: there was like blood, I don't know where I was.
- 10:45Speaker 1: I'm not mad, and I have the same hair stylist.
- 10:47Speaker 1: We would have been like Laura, where you come over
- 10:51Speaker 1: because I couldn't even be bothered to wash my hair today,
- 10:54Speaker 1: let alone right after. I know. But was a long
- 11:01Speaker 1: phone cord because I like to like have music or things,
- 11:04Speaker 1: and the first time around, I had a little tiny
- 11:06Speaker 1: phone cord and I was like trying to like use
- 11:09Speaker 1: it while I was plugged in. But I liked having
- 11:11Speaker 1: it so I could like have my music near me,
- 11:14Speaker 1: like I had a playlist for the last one, like
- 11:16Speaker 1: I learned things throughout. And also like comfy, uh like
- 11:20Speaker 1: a comfy road because I was like, the hospital gown, yep, yep, yeah,
- 11:24Speaker 1: I just used the hospital gown. I didn't even really care.
- 11:27Speaker 1: I did bring a ton of that though, and and
- 11:30Speaker 1: the chord is key. That was very key for me
- 11:32Speaker 1: because I was like texting everybody and any so it
- 11:37Speaker 1: was it was good to have that right there. Next year,
- 11:40Speaker 1: I actually designed my own hospital gowns, but hold on
- 11:44Speaker 1: for the first four and then the fifth one, I
- 11:46Speaker 1: just used the old ones. Bothered, Oh my gosh. But
- 11:52Speaker 1: it was like the fabric so scratchy, and I was like,
- 11:54Speaker 1: I want to look cute, and I just felt like
- 11:56Speaker 1: they weren't cute. And there were some out there, but
- 11:58Speaker 1: they weren't great. So I went and picked a fabric
- 12:01Speaker 1: and just had it made with all the right snaps.
- 12:04Speaker 1: My doctor approved it. It was hospital grade. Like whatever,
- 12:07Speaker 1: I love you, you you couldn't find one, so you just
- 12:09Speaker 1: designed it. It's like, I'll just make my own, make
- 12:12Speaker 1: my own thanks for myself, you know. Not. Another big
- 12:26Speaker 1: thing that everybody's asking is what is like the one
- 12:29Speaker 1: thing you did to try to make yourself feel like
- 12:31Speaker 1: sexy after having a baby, like feel good, feel comfy
- 12:35Speaker 1: in your own skin? Like I remember right after like
- 12:40Speaker 1: when you're sent home the first time and those mesh
- 12:42Speaker 1: underwear that's not underwear, it's like a pamper. Yeah. And
- 12:48Speaker 1: I mean I wasn't. That wasn't even on my mind
- 12:50Speaker 1: for weeks, Like it wasn't. I was not nowhere near
- 12:54Speaker 1: rushing into it, nowhere thinking about feeling sexy. I was
- 12:58Speaker 1: mainly like worried about my milk coming in. What about
- 13:00Speaker 1: you guys? Oh for sure. I literally was like I
- 13:06Speaker 1: don't even know who I am. Like I looked in
- 13:07Speaker 1: the mirror and I was like, this is so different
- 13:11Speaker 1: than what I'm used to And I just kind of
- 13:12Speaker 1: like broke down crying. If we're going to be real
- 13:15Speaker 1: for a minute. And I definitely I was not thinking
- 13:19Speaker 1: about being sexy at all. I was worried about nursing,
- 13:22Speaker 1: like you, Teddy, and just like all like keeping this
- 13:25Speaker 1: kid alive. Like literally I just didn't I didn't know
- 13:29Speaker 1: the first thing. I mean, you slowly start to figure
- 13:31Speaker 1: it out, but I was just mostly just so scared,
- 13:34Speaker 1: So I didn't even have that in my mind. But
- 13:36Speaker 1: I think when I started getting a little bit more
- 13:38Speaker 1: comfortable and I started like seeing my body change a
- 13:41Speaker 1: little bit more, and I kind of had like a
- 13:43Speaker 1: better grip on things. Um, I just had like a
- 13:47Speaker 1: piece of Lauderie, And I feel like that kind of
- 13:49Speaker 1: helped me just to be like, oh I still fit
- 13:52Speaker 1: in these, Okay, I feel a little bit sex here. First, baby,
- 13:56Speaker 1: You're so lucky. I definitely didn't fit in anything nothing
- 14:01Speaker 1: for the first that was underwear, though. You just gave
- 14:03Speaker 1: me like such a fond memories. I I cried I
- 14:07Speaker 1: took home. So when I got to my fifth I
- 14:09Speaker 1: love those mesh underwear so much that I actually asked
- 14:12Speaker 1: them at the hospital for a stack more than I
- 14:15Speaker 1: needed to take home, and I cried. I think when
- 14:18Speaker 1: the last one was gone, like far beyond needing them.
- 14:21Speaker 1: I just thought they were so cozy, and I don't know,
- 14:24Speaker 1: I fully agree with you. I thought they were really cozy.
- 14:27Speaker 1: They're really comfy. And then now they have these like
- 14:29Speaker 1: frieda ice packs you can also put in, and I was,
- 14:32Speaker 1: I was like, those were amazing, amazing, I mean, and
- 14:37Speaker 1: then you they have like even like a little sticky
- 14:40Speaker 1: strip where you just on stick it and then you
- 14:41Speaker 1: put it right in the mesh. Yeah, it's like those
- 14:44Speaker 1: hot packs used when with skiing, except it's like ice
- 14:47Speaker 1: pack to go, it's a badge cover since I had
- 14:51Speaker 1: my last baby. Oh my gosh, I missed out. But
- 14:53Speaker 1: I always thought there was a way to transition those
- 14:55Speaker 1: mesh underwear to like cute ones that we would wear,
- 14:58Speaker 1: but I don't know, make it action. Yeah, I would
- 15:02Speaker 1: definitely buy that. I mean, I definitely was not feeling
- 15:05Speaker 1: sexy after any of mine, except uh, you know, especially
- 15:09Speaker 1: with a C section. They say to wait six weeks
- 15:11Speaker 1: before you have sex again, and my third and fourth
- 15:15Speaker 1: are only ten months apart. Oh hey, I just did
- 15:20Speaker 1: the math. I'm not that I'm not that bright when
- 15:22Speaker 1: it comes to math, but I just got it. I'm terrible.
- 15:26Speaker 1: So that was four weeks. Four weeks, right. It was
- 15:29Speaker 1: the first time, the first time, and I was like,
- 15:31Speaker 1: you know, I feel like each time my husband was like, uh,
- 15:35Speaker 1: can we have sex now? I was like the first one,
- 15:37Speaker 1: I'm like, with the second one, I'm like, no, we've
- 15:38Speaker 1: to wait six weeks. Something's going to happen bad. Then
- 15:41Speaker 1: as you have more kids, you're like, I guess it'll
- 15:43Speaker 1: be okay. Yeah, the first time after we had sex
- 15:46Speaker 1: after the third baby got pregnant with Oh my gosh,
- 15:49Speaker 1: So were you when you found out that you were
- 15:51Speaker 1: pregnant ten months after. Were you like so excited or
- 15:55Speaker 1: were you devastated. I found I was pregnant. She was
- 15:58Speaker 1: a month and I was like, this can't be true.
- 16:01Speaker 1: I went to the hospital for a migraine. I had
- 16:03Speaker 1: a really bad migraine. Went to the hospital and they said,
- 16:06Speaker 1: we have to check your ear where we can treat
- 16:07Speaker 1: you with medication. And I said, oh, don't worry, I
- 16:09Speaker 1: have a newborn, like I'm breast being I'm a newborn,
- 16:12Speaker 1: and they said it's protocol. They did it, and they
- 16:14Speaker 1: came in. It was like a soap opera, like you know,
- 16:17Speaker 1: you know, excuse me was spelling. We'd like to inform
- 16:20Speaker 1: me you're pregnant. I'm like that's not possible. And they're like, well,
- 16:23Speaker 1: we could do a blood test and I was like,
- 16:25Speaker 1: please do so and they were like, you're pregnant. Yeah,
- 16:28Speaker 1: I would die. So your baby was a month old.
- 16:30Speaker 1: She was a month old. I would die. O god.
- 16:34Speaker 1: So in other words, be careful with it could happen.
- 16:38Speaker 1: It doesn't really happen, and you think it can't happen.
- 16:42Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you don't really do the math. You're like,
- 16:44Speaker 1: it probably won't happen. What it's the likely exactly? Well,
- 16:49Speaker 1: it took us like five months to get pregnant, and
- 16:52Speaker 1: so I didn't even worry about that at all. So
- 16:55Speaker 1: luckily I'm not pregnant, because that scared the crap out
- 16:58Speaker 1: of it. Worried. Yes, So definitely for the second one,
- 17:03Speaker 1: I will be for sure to get some protections. But
- 17:06Speaker 1: I already have my I U D in six weeks after.
- 17:08Speaker 1: I was like, boom, well then you're then you're you're
- 17:11Speaker 1: probably pretty covered. Then you're pretty good. Well Torison's you
- 17:15Speaker 1: have older kids? Have your kids ever walked in? Oh? Yeah,
- 17:19Speaker 1: what do you do? We're not there yet. We like
- 17:22Speaker 1: to have to do closet time or like random times
- 17:25Speaker 1: and locations. Because I'm like panicked about that conversation. M okay,
- 17:30Speaker 1: So I guess my question for you guys then would
- 17:32Speaker 1: be he having to reverse it? Like at what age
- 17:35Speaker 1: do you still do it in the room with him
- 17:38Speaker 1: there and think it's okay? Oh? I don't know. I
- 17:42Speaker 1: feel weird still, like we'll go to different and he's
- 17:46Speaker 1: just he's three months old, so obviously it's fine, but
- 17:49Speaker 1: I don't know why for me I have to go
- 17:50Speaker 1: in a different room I don't know. I was okay
- 17:54Speaker 1: while doub was in the snow because like she's like
- 17:57Speaker 1: a little burrito in there's that they didn't have a
- 18:00Speaker 1: probably when you had your last one either, Tori. But
- 18:02Speaker 1: like I was like, she is such a little breed
- 18:05Speaker 1: over there. She has no idea what's going on over here.
- 18:07Speaker 1: But then the second she like got to the point
- 18:09Speaker 1: where like she wasn't swaddled anymore, I was like, no,
- 18:11Speaker 1: can't she can be up and look at what he
- 18:14Speaker 1: would even know? Yeah, I think it was to the
- 18:17Speaker 1: point with our first that, you know, when he was
- 18:20Speaker 1: like getting up and he we turned around at one
- 18:23Speaker 1: point and he was holding onto the railing and he
- 18:25Speaker 1: was like jumping and looking at us. I was like, oh,
- 18:28Speaker 1: that's weird from his nap, I mean, and he was
- 18:32Speaker 1: like under he was like a year you know. But yeah,
- 18:36Speaker 1: well it's even crazy now that like my daughter will
- 18:39Speaker 1: come home and talk about crushes at school, or like
- 18:44Speaker 1: my son was like you know this guy's this guy's
- 18:46Speaker 1: given me a hard time and calling me chicken butt
- 18:49Speaker 1: and like these, you know, all these different things. So
- 18:50Speaker 1: you're just watching your kids, like so as they start
- 18:53Speaker 1: to get older, you watched them like start to go
- 18:55Speaker 1: through these emotions, and you want them to always share
- 18:57Speaker 1: everything with you, but then sometimes you're like the advice
- 19:00Speaker 1: you want to give. What he was telling me that
- 19:02Speaker 1: somebody was calling the chicken butt, I was like, look,
- 19:03Speaker 1: then you need to go up. And then I was like,
- 19:05Speaker 1: take a breath, like how did you handle that kind
- 19:10Speaker 1: of stuff? Tory? Because your kids are a little bit
- 19:12Speaker 1: older than mine. I mean when they say you don't
- 19:14Speaker 1: get a manual, they mean you don't get a manual,
- 19:17Speaker 1: and then you never get the books. Throughout the whole
- 19:20Speaker 1: like journey, like it just keeps evolving and there's new
- 19:24Speaker 1: things that come up and you're like, wait, I'm not
- 19:26Speaker 1: prepared to deal with this, and then you think like
- 19:28Speaker 1: how did my parents handle it? And then it's like, no,
- 19:30Speaker 1: that kind of that was a whole different generation. It's
- 19:33Speaker 1: really difficult. It's hard, and I feel all the time
- 19:36Speaker 1: I say I am not I always say to myself,
- 19:40Speaker 1: I'm not prepared to talk about this, and I'm like,
- 19:42Speaker 1: I'm not an expert on this, but I do my
- 19:44Speaker 1: best of going between the fine line of being a
- 19:47Speaker 1: parent and a friend because I still feel like at
- 19:50Speaker 1: that age where I'm like I want to talk to
- 19:52Speaker 1: my My daughter is almost thirteen, and sometimes I feel
- 19:55Speaker 1: like I'm talking to her like a friend, and I
- 19:56Speaker 1: have to check myself and be like, okay, you're still
- 19:58Speaker 1: her parent. Reel it back. You know. It's so hard
- 20:01Speaker 1: and I never know what to say because I don't
- 20:04Speaker 1: like for me, I was always you know, I didn't
- 20:06Speaker 1: have a voice. I was very like I wouldn't stand
- 20:09Speaker 1: up for myself. But I want my kids to stand
- 20:11Speaker 1: up for themselves, so I can't go by what I did.
- 20:14Speaker 1: I have to kind of reassess the situation of how
- 20:17Speaker 1: I think they should handle it. How do you think
- 20:20Speaker 1: you transitioned to having a voice now? How do you
- 20:22Speaker 1: think you were able to grow and create that confidence
- 20:26Speaker 1: in yourself. It's taken a long time, UM, And I think, honestly,
- 20:33Speaker 1: it has a lot to do with kind of my
- 20:35Speaker 1: public persona. I think I was so much. I grew
- 20:38Speaker 1: up on TV, and you know, back in the nineties,
- 20:41Speaker 1: people you didn't have an outside persona, Like people knew
- 20:44Speaker 1: what they saw you in interviews, where your media trained
- 20:46Speaker 1: to say just this and that's it, um, and what
- 20:49Speaker 1: they see on screen and what they kind of envision
- 20:52Speaker 1: your life to be and the perception they have. So,
- 20:55Speaker 1: you know, when we started having social media and I
- 20:57Speaker 1: started doing reality TV, start writing my books, I was
- 21:00Speaker 1: able to have a voice because I was always like,
- 21:02Speaker 1: I think people would like me if they knew me,
- 21:04Speaker 1: rather than making up in their heads what I am
- 21:07Speaker 1: based on television or based who my dad is. Um So,
- 21:10Speaker 1: I think that's what gave me a voice honestly, which
- 21:13Speaker 1: is different advice than I give my kids obviously, But yeah,
- 21:16Speaker 1: so how did you how do you how are your
- 21:19Speaker 1: kids like dealing with this spotlight because obviously you grew
- 21:24Speaker 1: up in the spotlight, but how how is it for
- 21:27Speaker 1: them like having a mom so famous. I've always wondered
- 21:29Speaker 1: that about celebrities and how they kind of deal with
- 21:32Speaker 1: that attention they were I mean, Teddy knows this too.
- 21:35Speaker 1: I mean they were born into it. Um So, they
- 21:40Speaker 1: that's all they really know. But they all compared to yeah,
- 21:45Speaker 1: they also have an opinion, like they definitely you know
- 21:49Speaker 1: there they understand like when we're out and there's fans,
- 21:52Speaker 1: um you know, well before the pandemic that you know,
- 21:55Speaker 1: I would sign autographs and I always hug my fans
- 21:58Speaker 1: and and they get that up. But then they're also kids,
- 22:01Speaker 1: so they were in moments they'd be like, Mom, you
- 22:02Speaker 1: know we're in Disneyland. We just want to go on
- 22:04Speaker 1: the rides, or you know, we just want to keep
- 22:06Speaker 1: popping room. You know, we're out getting school clothes. Like
- 22:09Speaker 1: so they go back and forth, but they handle it
- 22:11Speaker 1: graciously and they say hello. They get recognized to like
- 22:14Speaker 1: my my fortunal people come up to them and they're
- 22:16Speaker 1: like monkey and he's like, mom, because that's what on
- 22:20Speaker 1: Reality TV when he was born, I called him monkey
- 22:22Speaker 1: and they recognize him from a baby and they're like
- 22:25Speaker 1: monkey and he's like that's embarrassing. Well that's good. They
- 22:29Speaker 1: can kind of laugh it off and and kind of
- 22:33Speaker 1: social media. I mean, now I've taught them. I'm like,
- 22:36Speaker 1: you know what, you have to develop thick skin. There's
- 22:38Speaker 1: always gonna be the haters, the trolls out there. There's
- 22:40Speaker 1: nothing we can do about it. And they're like, you know,
- 22:42Speaker 1: that really sucks, mom. But now they go through like
- 22:46Speaker 1: when I've been putting up videos lately, and they're like
- 22:48Speaker 1: really positive and people are laughing at them. And then
- 22:51Speaker 1: there's also the people that write horrible things about me.
- 22:54Speaker 1: So my two only with my two oldest because there
- 22:57Speaker 1: he's fourteen, she's almost thirteen. We go through them and
- 23:00Speaker 1: and Liam's like, mom, listen to this one. He picks
- 23:02Speaker 1: out like the most horrible one, and he's like, can
- 23:05Speaker 1: you believe that. I'm like, oh, that's a good one.
- 23:07Speaker 1: That's a great one. You guys clap back or do
- 23:11Speaker 1: you let it be? No? No, I never. I don't know.
- 23:16Speaker 1: I've had moments where I have clapped back, but I
- 23:19Speaker 1: feel like it just starts. And then you have the
- 23:22Speaker 1: people that say the meanest thing about you, and as
- 23:24Speaker 1: soon as you answer them, they're like, oh my, so sorry,
- 23:27Speaker 1: I love you. I'm sorry. I'm like they just wanted attention.
- 23:31Speaker 1: I'm like, it's so bizarre to me, because have you
- 23:35Speaker 1: ever commented something? Have you ever gone onto somebody's page
- 23:39Speaker 1: you don't know, never met, and written them mean to them. No? Never,
- 23:46Speaker 1: not even if my worst enemy, I wouldn't do that too. No.
- 23:50Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like I'm fine. If people
- 23:53Speaker 1: attack me, I usually laugh it off, but like lately,
- 23:55Speaker 1: like when they attack the baby, that's when I'm just
- 23:58Speaker 1: like they together. Yes, I mean, I've had a few
- 24:03Speaker 1: times where people are like your your kid is like
- 24:07Speaker 1: so like he always has a scowl on his face.
- 24:09Speaker 1: Something's wrong with him. You need to go to Oh
- 24:11Speaker 1: my god. And I'm like, okay, I'm so, I'm trying
- 24:15Speaker 1: to hold in my mama bear so hard, but it
- 24:18Speaker 1: is it's difficult when they go after your kids, Like
- 24:21Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm I'm learning to laugh it off,
- 24:24Speaker 1: but it's it's hard. It's hard because social media gives
- 24:27Speaker 1: people a voice to say whatever it is they want,
- 24:29Speaker 1: which can also which we saw like kind of play
- 24:31Speaker 1: out in the press this week with Demi Levado, like
- 24:35Speaker 1: talking about the Big Chill and all these things back
- 24:37Speaker 1: and forth. Then it plays out publicly though, So even so,
- 24:42Speaker 1: no matter what the situation is, when it comes to
- 24:45Speaker 1: if you're in the public eye and you have an
- 24:47Speaker 1: opinion and you're putting it out there, nine times out
- 24:50Speaker 1: of ten, it's gonna backfire, right, yeah, exactly, Like I mean,
- 24:56Speaker 1: I just think it's so social media can be so
- 25:01Speaker 1: damaging because then you you say something, you make a mistake,
- 25:04Speaker 1: you do the wrong thing, and then you know your
- 25:08Speaker 1: choice is to apologize or to not and then you
- 25:10Speaker 1: just you're you're kind of going down some sort of
- 25:13Speaker 1: spiral and then people have more of a reason to
- 25:15Speaker 1: kind of come for you. Yeah, you have to be
- 25:19Speaker 1: really careful what you put out there, but that's just
- 25:21Speaker 1: kind of it. Like if you want to share your
- 25:23Speaker 1: life with everybody, you've got to know that that negative
- 25:26Speaker 1: backlash can happen and good backlash can happen. I always
- 25:29Speaker 1: tell myself, I'm like, you could be like so sweet
- 25:32Speaker 1: like a peach, but there's gonna be people who don't
- 25:34Speaker 1: like peaches, and then you're just gonna find with that.
- 25:38Speaker 1: That's a nice way to put it. Like now it's
- 25:43Speaker 1: like it's on the other way, Like I feel like
- 25:46Speaker 1: no matter what you do or say, someone will find
- 25:50Speaker 1: something about it that's wrong. Like I understand being PC.
- 25:54Speaker 1: Of course we all want to be PC, but it's
- 25:56Speaker 1: gone the other direction about things I don't know, Like
- 26:00Speaker 1: it could be anything. I'm trying to look around for
- 26:02Speaker 1: anything I have on my desk because you could say
- 26:04Speaker 1: something that I'd be like, why do you have that?
- 26:06Speaker 1: You can't have that? And I've had that so much
- 26:09Speaker 1: with kind of mom shaming to like I'll be I'll
- 26:12Speaker 1: be like having Leo sleep like in his little I
- 26:16Speaker 1: don't know if you guys know what a docata is,
- 26:17Speaker 1: but it's just like no, and he'll just be napping
- 26:21Speaker 1: like on my bed, and then he's supervised and everyone's like, um,
- 26:24Speaker 1: you're not supposed to do that. That's really unsafe and
- 26:27Speaker 1: actually he could get sits and die and I'm like, okay,
- 26:30Speaker 1: he's supervised. Like there's just so much that like people
- 26:34Speaker 1: have to say something about it's crazy. I think it's
- 26:37Speaker 1: just because they're lonely and they're looking for some sort
- 26:41Speaker 1: of rise out of somebody or some sort of communication.
- 26:44Speaker 1: And you know, it drives me crazy too, especially when
- 26:48Speaker 1: it comes to my kids. Like they'll say it about
- 26:51Speaker 1: Dove often about like her her dot band, which is
- 26:54Speaker 1: her helmet. She's already had neurosurgery. Anybody that's followed me
- 26:57Speaker 1: for a long enough time like knows the whole situation.
- 27:01Speaker 1: But then you've got the people like what do you
- 27:03Speaker 1: what did you do to your kid that she has
- 27:04Speaker 1: to wear this helmet? And how much longer? And you're
- 27:06Speaker 1: just like testing, you know, like and then you want
- 27:10Speaker 1: to clap back, but then you're like, then you know
- 27:12Speaker 1: that that will be the post that they look at
- 27:14Speaker 1: the most exactly exactly. Yeah, it's almost better just not
- 27:17Speaker 1: to give any attention to the negativity. All right, I'm
- 27:20Speaker 1: getting I'm getting I'm getting told that I need to
- 27:22Speaker 1: fire through more of the questions. All right, sorry, how
- 27:29Speaker 1: all right? When was the last time we went to
- 27:33Speaker 1: the toilet alone? Fourteen years ago? Between kids and dogs,
- 27:42Speaker 1: I never go to the toilet alone, all right? And
- 27:47Speaker 1: then final one before we take our break is do
- 27:51Speaker 1: you guys have the same parenting style as your as
- 27:53Speaker 1: your person, like as your husband? Yeah, I would say
- 27:59Speaker 1: pretty close to you're chaking your head. I don't, but
- 28:03Speaker 1: do you know you might not know how you haven't
- 28:09Speaker 1: gotten to the disciplinary so like I'm the disciplinarian and
- 28:14Speaker 1: my husband's like Disneyland dad. That is shocking. That's shocking, Teddy,
- 28:21Speaker 1: really shocking. And I'm the opposite, which isn't gonna shock Teddy.
- 28:25Speaker 1: I'm the Disneyland mom and not the time and can't
- 28:28Speaker 1: for all rules, not organized. Yeah, it's you couldn't find
- 28:31Speaker 1: more polar opposite Tori and I. But also like love
- 28:35Speaker 1: her so much, She's so much fun at the best part.
- 28:37Speaker 1: But I need people like you because I am the
- 28:40Speaker 1: way that I am. Yeah, let's take a quick break
- 28:44Speaker 1: and then we'll come back and chat. Mark, Okay, guys,
- 28:55Speaker 1: welcome back to Teddy Teapot. You don't want to miss
- 28:58Speaker 1: this because we're dishing all things mom with Tori and
- 29:01Speaker 1: Whitney and I'm so grateful. Um, I was just reading
- 29:04Speaker 1: this article, you guys. Katie Perry recently admitted she quit
- 29:07Speaker 1: shaving her legs since becoming a mom, and she like
- 29:09Speaker 1: even put her leg up on American idol and you
- 29:12Speaker 1: could like see the hair on her legs. What are
- 29:14Speaker 1: things that have shifted with you, guys? I feel like everything,
- 29:21Speaker 1: Like I feel like I really pampered myself. Like my
- 29:24Speaker 1: morning routine was like, you know, I'm gonna shower and
- 29:28Speaker 1: exfoliate and try it and um do a hair mask
- 29:33Speaker 1: in a face, like just all of this pamper And
- 29:35Speaker 1: now I'm just like I need to hurry get it.
- 29:38Speaker 1: The baby screaming and I'm just like a mess. So
- 29:41Speaker 1: I feel like any sort of grooming in general grooming, Yes,
- 29:47Speaker 1: I literally this hair style every day, just a pony.
- 29:50Speaker 1: You look great, You're you look like it every day,
- 29:53Speaker 1: keep it so nice. I had the same answer, but
- 29:59Speaker 1: mine was more like external, like I would go out
- 30:01Speaker 1: and get like manicures and pedicures every week. I would
- 30:04Speaker 1: get my eyebrows done. Um, I would get waxing down there.
- 30:10Speaker 1: I haven't done that since. Yeah, I was like, forget it,
- 30:13Speaker 1: I'll shave every once in a blue moon. You know,
- 30:16Speaker 1: like that hurts more. I swear as I get older,
- 30:18Speaker 1: I think waxing hurts more. I'm like, I don't have
- 30:21Speaker 1: that is really too painful for me. Laser is what
- 30:24Speaker 1: it's all about. Laser. I know I need to get
- 30:27Speaker 1: around too. It's I haven't really done it yet, but
- 30:31Speaker 1: I heard it's amazing. And then did any of you
- 30:34Speaker 1: guys have like postpartum or anxiety or anything like that
- 30:37Speaker 1: after having the babies? I did not. You didn't, did
- 30:43Speaker 1: you hire ahead? I did a little bit. I feel
- 30:46Speaker 1: like I am not an anxious person by nature, Like
- 30:50Speaker 1: I feel like I'm pretty easy going and I kind
- 30:52Speaker 1: of just live in the moment. And my husband is
- 30:55Speaker 1: kind of the O c D like anxiety like warrior,
- 30:58Speaker 1: and so every time, you know, he'd go through these
- 31:01Speaker 1: like phases, I would just be like, it's fine, like
- 31:04Speaker 1: just don't worry about it, like not really understanding. And
- 31:07Speaker 1: then after I had Leo, I was like, Okay, I
- 31:10Speaker 1: understand your anxiety now because I have it, Like I
- 31:14Speaker 1: feel like I just would wake up in the middle
- 31:16Speaker 1: of the night and just touch him and make sure
- 31:18Speaker 1: he's breathing. Like I feel like I had that sort
- 31:21Speaker 1: of anxiety of like, Okay, I need to keep you
- 31:24Speaker 1: alive kind of thing. So I don't know if it
- 31:26Speaker 1: was like full on postpartum anxiety or depression, but it
- 31:30Speaker 1: definitely was some sort of anxiety that I've never had before. Yeah,
- 31:34Speaker 1: I had it pretty bad after after my first and
- 31:38Speaker 1: then even after my second, and that's when I had
- 31:40Speaker 1: to like completely like switch my life around and do
- 31:44Speaker 1: a complete transition, like where I had to like take
- 31:47Speaker 1: action every day and do the steps and follow the
- 31:49Speaker 1: things that that worked for me. But it's anxiety is
- 31:52Speaker 1: something that it's been with me forever, you know, and
- 31:55Speaker 1: it's just exacerbated by whatever is going on, you know,
- 31:59Speaker 1: like if one of my kids is sick or something,
- 32:01Speaker 1: you know, then all of a sudden, it's like this
- 32:03Speaker 1: adjustment anxiety where I'm not it's like I'm not prepared
- 32:06Speaker 1: for it. And then I go back to like some
- 32:07Speaker 1: of my old ritualistic type things like making lists and
- 32:11Speaker 1: like just all of those things, and I'm like, why,
- 32:15Speaker 1: like the amount if you guys saw my paper calendar
- 32:17Speaker 1: right now. The level it's like between my eye twitch
- 32:21Speaker 1: and the paper calendar. Like, yeah, so how do you
- 32:25Speaker 1: deal with that anxiety? Is that what you do? You
- 32:27Speaker 1: just write it all down and you make a plan.
- 32:30Speaker 1: So for me, it's like I have to do some
- 32:33Speaker 1: sort of like exercise, even if it's just being outside
- 32:36Speaker 1: going on a walk, like I have to move, I
- 32:38Speaker 1: have to like get vitamin d um, I pray, I
- 32:41Speaker 1: do devotionals, I do journals, I do all pretty much
- 32:45Speaker 1: all the things you can potentially do, and some days
- 32:48Speaker 1: it's just still there. Yeah, because I feel like with anxiety,
- 32:51Speaker 1: all you wanna do is just like close off and
- 32:53Speaker 1: you just want to watch a movie and not do
- 32:55Speaker 1: any of it. Like I'm like, I just want to
- 32:58Speaker 1: like sit here and just like think about it until
- 33:02Speaker 1: I go crazy, and then I love the thing you do. Yeah,
- 33:06Speaker 1: I feel like I'm permit crap, And I just like
- 33:09Speaker 1: what if you go on your heads and you can't
- 33:11Speaker 1: get it out and it's just there and it's just
- 33:14Speaker 1: running through your mind and you think if you keep
- 33:16Speaker 1: thinking about it, it'll solve itself, but it never does.
- 33:20Speaker 1: But the one thing that I did kind of learn
- 33:22Speaker 1: as the kids got older, is whenever I am struggling,
- 33:25Speaker 1: it's always best for me to be straightforward with my
- 33:28Speaker 1: kids and just kind of like, hey, like, mommy is
- 33:31Speaker 1: not having the world's best day. I just want you
- 33:33Speaker 1: to know it has nothing to do with you. I
- 33:35Speaker 1: love you so much. I'm a little anxious today. I
- 33:39Speaker 1: don't know why. I have a bunch of meetings or
- 33:40Speaker 1: whatever it may be that's you know, creating, or maybe
- 33:44Speaker 1: it's nothing. Maybe it's just you know, because it's what's
- 33:47Speaker 1: going on inside of me. But I just feel like,
- 33:51Speaker 1: you know, if you tell them, then there they at
- 33:53Speaker 1: least feel like, okay, um, I know love a problem
- 33:57Speaker 1: when my four year old literally like he did something
- 34:00Speaker 1: and he like got it frustrated and he's like, my life,
- 34:05Speaker 1: oh from me, Oh when I'm like frustrating her anxious,
- 34:12Speaker 1: like I think I just like will be like and
- 34:14Speaker 1: then I'm like, oh, it's such a you know, I'm
- 34:17Speaker 1: just saying it because that's like the topical word fml
- 34:20Speaker 1: my life. Like I don't really mean it, Like, you know,
- 34:23Speaker 1: we have a great life. I'm so grateful for everything.
- 34:25Speaker 1: It's such a small thing and I'm probably anxious over
- 34:28Speaker 1: but I stay it out loud, and I was like,
- 34:29Speaker 1: I gotta curb that, because now he thinks that's like
- 34:32Speaker 1: when he's something's frustrating, he says my life and I'm like, oh,
- 34:37Speaker 1: you're like, that could happen to anybody, you know what,
- 34:39Speaker 1: he wouldn't heard it from somebody else, I mean in
- 34:41Speaker 1: the Okay, So final final question, what's the one thing
- 34:47Speaker 1: you wish you told yourself before having kids? Oh? Where
- 34:54Speaker 1: middrift top? One last time? Where are your booty shorts? Be?
- 35:00Speaker 1: You get into this? My god would have I would
- 35:03Speaker 1: have worn like a fong bikini and like gone to
- 35:06Speaker 1: the beach and be like look at me, Oh my gosh,
- 35:10Speaker 1: I love you. That's an amazing I don't know. I
- 35:14Speaker 1: would just tell myself to just know that it's going
- 35:18Speaker 1: to be harder than you think, but it's also going
- 35:20Speaker 1: to be better than you think, and you're gonna have
- 35:22Speaker 1: a lot of ups and downs and just roll with
- 35:25Speaker 1: the punches and don't worry about stressing about naps or
- 35:30Speaker 1: anything that doesn't really matter, and just like enjoy it.
- 35:34Speaker 1: Just trying to enjoy it. I feel like I tried
- 35:35Speaker 1: to plan every single thing so exact, and I was like, oh,
- 35:39Speaker 1: I'm I'm going to do this, I'm gonna put him
- 35:42Speaker 1: to sleep but this time and feed at this time,
- 35:46Speaker 1: and it just like didn't even work, and so that
- 35:48Speaker 1: ended up making me more stressed. I think I would
- 35:51Speaker 1: just tell myself just let it all go, have fun,
- 35:55Speaker 1: enjoy it, because you know they're gonna grow up so fast.
- 35:58Speaker 1: Like I can't believe how fast he's grown in three months.
- 36:01Speaker 1: I like was just getting rid of his newborn clothes
- 36:03Speaker 1: and I was like fallowing my eyes out. I think
- 36:08Speaker 1: for mine, I would be travel and do as much
- 36:11Speaker 1: as you can before you have kids, because you will
- 36:13Speaker 1: never be on it that type of vacation ever. Again,
- 36:17Speaker 1: that's true. You will never all of a sudden your
- 36:20Speaker 1: baby will be sleeping in the bathroom in a pack
- 36:22Speaker 1: and play and you'll be like trying to figure out
- 36:24Speaker 1: where you're gonna go botty in the middle of the
- 36:26Speaker 1: night because you don't want to wake them up. Vacation
- 36:28Speaker 1: will will change forever once you have kids, So do
- 36:31Speaker 1: what you can after all of this craziness ends in
- 36:33Speaker 1: the world. Um, because traveling with kids it's fun, but
- 36:40Speaker 1: it's a next level, it's it's work. Yes, we've done
- 36:43Speaker 1: a few trips already and I'm like, wow, I'm never
- 36:46Speaker 1: going on a trip again. Like Grandma is gonna have
- 36:49Speaker 1: to watch you. You come back from your vacation needing
- 36:53Speaker 1: a vacation for sure? For sure? That is so accurate.
- 36:58Speaker 1: All right, Tory, will you tell me a little what
- 37:00Speaker 1: about your podcast? Yes, my podcast is nine o two
- 37:04Speaker 1: one OMG with my best friend Jenny Garth, and we
- 37:07Speaker 1: do a rewatch nine o two and we started season one,
- 37:11Speaker 1: just wrapped our first season, headed into our second season,
- 37:15Speaker 1: and then obviously we've been best friends for thirty years,
- 37:17Speaker 1: so we get a little girlfriend's stories in there and
- 37:20Speaker 1: go off on wild tangents like we did today. Do
- 37:23Speaker 1: you have a favorite episode episode ever? Oh my gosh,
- 37:27Speaker 1: I guess I should technically say the one where it's
- 37:30Speaker 1: Don and Martin graduates, who fans say to me the
- 37:33Speaker 1: most um, But for me, it was anytime I got
- 37:35Speaker 1: to do comedy because it was a teen drama primarily,
- 37:38Speaker 1: and then I felt like I was kind of like,
- 37:40Speaker 1: I want to do comedy, which you know, they allowed
- 37:42Speaker 1: me to do, which was great. So it's probably like
- 37:45Speaker 1: Spring Dance or Halloween when I wore a mermaid costume.
- 37:48Speaker 1: I couldn't walk in Whenever I like funny stuff, I
- 37:51Speaker 1: love it. I love it. I can't wait to watch.
- 37:55Speaker 1: I need to go back and watch all nine o
- 37:57Speaker 1: two and oh now that I have met you, Tori,
- 37:59Speaker 1: and and I'm so excited to listen to your podcast,
- 38:02Speaker 1: It's gonna be fun. Well, you're gonna love it. You're
- 38:05Speaker 1: gonna love it when you tell us a little bit
- 38:07Speaker 1: about your diaper bag line. Oh, I'm so excited. So
- 38:11Speaker 1: I've got three different bags in my diaper bag line.
- 38:13Speaker 1: It's actually with Juju b And I just felt like
- 38:16Speaker 1: I needed something organized because I feel like with all
- 38:20Speaker 1: my other diaper bags, I was the kid was screaming
- 38:24Speaker 1: and I just was rummaging through stuff I couldn't find anything.
- 38:26Speaker 1: So we designed something that is super organized but also
- 38:30Speaker 1: like aesthetically so beautiful and it's like a nice brown
- 38:34Speaker 1: It's called Spice. Um. But I'm really really excited about it,
- 38:38Speaker 1: and I know any mom that tries it is gonna
- 38:41Speaker 1: love it. So perfect timing now that everybody's starting to
- 38:45Speaker 1: go out and do stuff, so they're gonna need that bag.
- 38:48Speaker 1: Juju is so amazing. Well, um, I can't wait to
- 38:52Speaker 1: try one because I feel like diaper bags, Like if
- 38:55Speaker 1: you have a good one, it transitions to the rest
- 38:57Speaker 1: of your life exactly. And we've actually traveled with it too,
- 39:01Speaker 1: and I'm like, there's a pocket for literally everything, Like
- 39:04Speaker 1: it makes your life so much easier. So I can't
- 39:07Speaker 1: wait for you guys to try it. It's gonna be awesome. Well,
- 39:09Speaker 1: you guys, thank you so much for joining me this week.
- 39:12Speaker 1: We could go on for hours and talk all different topics,
- 39:14Speaker 1: right know, but we're gonna have to wrap it up.
- 39:16Speaker 1: But thanks you guys for tuning in, and thanks you
- 39:18Speaker 1: guys for joining me. Thank you, Thank you so mud
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