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Men Are Just Too Afraid To Approach Us! | Rantzerker 186 · Honey Badger Radio

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  Coming to you live from the windy and beginning to be icy radioactive wasteland.
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  We are the survivors of the all right Apocalypse, the few, the brave,
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  the bitchy, once more wading into the into battle against the froggy lobsters,
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  zombie, whiny hordes with men are just too afraid to approach us.
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  No, they want us. You men want want us, but they're too
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  afraid to approach us. And that's not coke, folks, rant Zurker number
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  one eighty six. Yep, I am your host. Alison, Yes,
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  I did it. I got the number. This is Alison, your host,
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  and with me is Brian. Yes, Karen, yes, I couldn't
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  stop. It's a little and also Karen's dog. Yeah, shut up,
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  Bordt. Anyway, well that one was borat. They were just going nuts
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  because, yeah, the mailman came up the walk and put something in the
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  mailbox, and they had to make sure that you know, he knew,
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  he knew he was not welcome. And then and then like as he turns
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  around and goes back down the front walk, they're like and stay out.
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  And then they turn around look all proud like they chased them away or something
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  like he was coming in. Well, you never know, it's every time.
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  Yeah, I guess you never suspect the mailman, never suspect. But
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  the dogs do. The dogs do. Oh, they're absolutely certain that the
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  mailman or the fifth column. Yeah no, I mean, like, I
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  was so so lucky because, like for four months last summer we had like
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  construction crew in front of the house working on the roads and putting in new
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  sidewalks and everything. And she was just like, oh, they're wearing orange
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  vests and hard hats. Okay, I'm used to these guys. Now they're
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  they're my peeps, right, And she'd just lie there and watch them.
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  It was like TV for her. But but yeah, then someone walked by
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  with a baby stroller and she just fucking lose her mind. Yeah. So
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  ye, Well, I mean it's been several years now and my German shepherd
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  Skipio still considers the neighbors kids to be interlopers of some kind. Yeah.
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  Yeah, I think I think we're slowly getting it to him that, you
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  know, they're allowed to be there. The public sidewalk is actually public,
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  actually public. You know, they people can can walk on that sidewalk that
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  is not your sidewalk. Yeah, okay, all right, we have something
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  uh lovely? Oh do you have to uh well, yes, I'll do
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  the things. I'll do the things. Let me let me put her up
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  on the screen there, Okay, go go ahead. Oops, yeah,
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  to do Lauren? Yeah, all right, all right, So I will
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  shall we say, and let's not let's not get into that. There
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  are strong opinions about there are unsolicited Ah, yes, unsolicited, that's correct.
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  Give us a follow. Their appreciate it so much. Okay, So this
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  is okay. So I don't know, Alison, did you watch this at
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  all? This video? Let me share my the I've actually been Oh,
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  actually I think I did. Yeah, you guys should be able to look
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  at it. So it's it's actually related to the Twitter discussion you had with
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  that guy that was like a dating coach guy or something. So Lauren Chen
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  is actually reporting on that and giving her thoughts yep, on what he had
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  to say or actually no, no, no, she well, I assume
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  that this. I guess this guy's tweets went you know, around the block.
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  So because they blame men, Yeah, so perhaps, I mean there
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  was probably size of relief from from women everywhere that they don't have to do
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  anything and like they're doing everything just fine. So but let's let's get into
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  it. I think I think we should be try to be fair to Lauren
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  because she I think she is trying to be like sensitive to men that are
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  struggling, but she's there are definitely some blind spots in her logic. And
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  I have had Lauren Chen on the show. It was years ago when she
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  was still roaming Millennial, but I did have her on the show once before.
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  So she's okay. I'll just say that she's okay. All right,
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  So make let's make sure that you guys can hear this. I'm gonna play
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  a little bit and I'm gonna check this sound. So we have this really
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  interesting read by an account that I follow. He's at date psych on X
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  and his bio reads quote research interest in attractiveness and dating. But I really
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  want to give him credit for the data we're going to be going over and
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  the thread that he posted about all this. I've been following him for a
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  little bit and the other day he put out this tweet that really caught my
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  attention. It says, why are so many young men single? Are they
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  excluded from a brutal mating market by society? Probably not? Forty five percent
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  of men age eighteen to twenty five have never approached a woman in person.
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  All right, pausing it there in case you guys want to say anything to
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  that, But also because it's been thirty seconds, Okay, Well, first
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  of all, what is his data from? Because I asked him for a
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  citation he never gave one. I'm pretty sure this is a I don't know
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  where he's getting this data zombie statistic. I know it sounds it sounds well,
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  it sounds this plausible. This statistic sounds plausible because we know now that
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  something like sixty percent of men or at least single men and no longer,
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  are approaching women for anything, and that actually means anything that is like even
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  approaching them for the time, approaching them to find directions to the bathroom or
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  to the dash station. Nothing. Yeah, and imagine that the number that
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  aren't approaching women just for for dating. Yeah. No, it's like,
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  well, and here's the thing too, right, like approaching women. This
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  is like you know what a cold call is, you know, like even
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  high pressure sales jobs, right that in home demonstrations and stuff like that.
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  Right, you don't just go knocking on doors, right, you have telemarketers
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  basically phoning cold calling people right to see if they'd be interested in your product,
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  and then you go to their house to demonstrate it and see if they
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  want to buy it. Right, And you know, like I did this
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  for like I don't know, a week and a half, and it gave
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  me ulcers because it's just so it's so stressful trying to convince people to buy
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  something that, yes, it's useful, but nobody really needs it, right,
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  And you know, you're making a hundred bucks per sale, but it's
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  like that means that and the company is making a hundred bucks per sale and
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  these people are paying three hundred bucks per sale, Like the sales office is
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  making a hundred bucks. You're making a hundred bucks and the manufacturer's making a
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  hundred is collecting one hundred bucks, and I'm just like, you know,
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  like, so what you're saying is you could probably sell this in a in
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  a hardware store for like one hundred bucks. Yeah, and consider that that
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  is like with the with a telemarketer. I mean, we can get into
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  more of this, but that's with a telemarketer sort of easing the way in,
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  right, Yeah, that's like the line date you know, can I
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  say yep with my friend kind of situation, yeah, right, as opposed
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  to just approaching some woman in public. And the thing is that the telemarketer
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  in the men's approach scenario has already called the women and said, you know,
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  men are so abusive and toxic and is going to be absolutely exploitative of
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  you. So you should be really with that unless you can get the best
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  deal possible. And now now you approach Kevin, get out of the toilet.
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  You approach when you're a telemarketer has told you're the person you're approaching that
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  you're a cheat and a swindler, and that you are anything that you get,
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  anything you give is going to be a faulty, useless product. I'll
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  end up being more. That'll amend it. Then you try your cold call.
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  Yeah, and then you go knock on the door. Then you go
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  knock on the door, because that's what we're asking men to do. Yeah.
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  Okay, but it's not this statistic that I had an issue with.
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  You know, there's other stuff that sort of suggested it's true. It's the
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  next stuff that he talks about. Okay, let's see what he says.
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  Now, we're going to be going into what these numbers mean a little bit
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  more. But I personally was really surprised to hear this because, you know,
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  we often hear about in cells and just single, lonely young men,
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  and I, apparently wrongly, had just assumed that for a lot of these
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  men, they were single and demoralized because they were constantly being rejected. But
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  according to this data, it seems like a lot of the young men who
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  are quote blackpilled out there or maybe describe themselves as in cells, it's not
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  necessarily that they've been rejected a bunch. It's just that they've never actually bothered
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  to approach a woman because they are so afraid that they would be rejected.
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  Lady, Sorry, Lauren, they're pre rejected. Like, what do you
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  think is going to happen to people if you're constantly maligning their earth as a
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  sex. There's there's they're gender identity worth. You're constantly talking about them as
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  abusive and toxic and a detriment to anyone they get into a relationship with,
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  Like they're pre rejected before they even walk up to a woman, Like,
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  I don't understand why they don't, All right, I don't know, I
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  don't, I don't. These these commentators don't. Yeah, I know.
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  It's it's really infuriating. Can you guys stop? It's infuriating because not only
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  is it like it's not just fear of being rejected by one woman for one
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  thing, right, there's also fear of humiliation, right, like like she's
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  not just gonna say, oh, no, thank you, She's gonna be
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  like as if loser right in front of everybody. Right. And then there's
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  there's also a certain amount of fear uh in success, Right, you know,
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  there's a certain amount of fear in Okay, so there's a date,
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  Well, are you employed? Do you make enough money? Is she going
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  to expect you to take her someplace nice? Is she going to expect you
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  to pay? Is she going to expect you to you know, treat her
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  really great? What happens if you actually yeah? And and what happened?
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  What happens if you actually end up like dating dating her, going out with
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  her, you know, on the regular. What happens then? And what
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  are all the pitfalls, all of the chasms that will open up right in
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  front of your feet as you're navigating through trying to build a relationship with her?
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  How how horrific is the end going to be? How how devastating to
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  your life is the fifty percent chance that she decides to you know, like
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  you're not good enough and find someone else or goes off on her own.
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  How how bad is that going to ring? You? Right, It's not
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  just the approaching the woman and fearing being rejected. It's fearing being publicly humiliated
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  intentionally by that rejection. It's also fearing success, right because because you know,
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  it's it's like, it's it's shitty to be lonely, but you know
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  what, it's shitty to be economically like, financially devastated or falsely accused and
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  lonely. Right, So it's just like, no, I think I think
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  that a lot of young men are. It's not even that the fear of
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  the initial no. It's also the fear of a yes and and then another
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  yes, and then another yes and then boom. Right then she's she's texting
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  you and telling you that, yeah, I'm going to need you to move
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  out, right, someone's gonna do them like like my ex, like my
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  husband's ex did to him. Right. And oh and by the way,
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  you can't see your kid right, like because I don't need a babysitter.
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  I've got a new man. Yeah, yeah, so I got a I
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  got a super chow, which I appreciate, Thank you so much. And
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  this is from Rushak's no for ten dollars, thank you, and he says,
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  am I first, and I first just wanted to say, Hi,
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  I need to write down some of my comments because often I have thoughts after
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  the live show, so I end up rambling to myself. Roommates may think
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  I'm responding to someone at the other end of my earpiece. Thank you,
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  Ruschaks. No for the high It sounds like you're rambling thinks. Think your
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  thoughts and then send them and we will read them all right. So,
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  but like I like I was saying, I mean, there's men are already
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  pre rejected before they even go up to a woman. I mean, how
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  much time? How many times do they have to hear about how they need
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  to take responsibility for domestic violence and relationships and sexual assault and all the horrible
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  things that that women experience when a strange man goes up and talks to them.
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  Oh, yeah, like, I don't know, it's just it's just
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  why is it that these individuals just can't see that well? And you know,
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  and it's it's interesting too, because you know, people didn't used to
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  just go up to strangers like people. This whole idea of you know,
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  sort of the nightclub or the lounge or you know whatever. You know,
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  you're out for the evening and you pick someone up, right, that's relatively
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  new. You know, up until the sexual revolution, how did most people
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  who got married meet They met at work, they met at school, they
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  met through their parents, they met through mutual friends, right, and whom
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  they met through church. They would meet through parties specifically designed for this.
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  Yeah, and the community would put on dances. They would put on oh
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  the Sadie whatever dances. Yes, they would. That's all the way back
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  to like Roman times and the parties for people to meet the Sadie Hawkins dances,
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  if I recall, because this isn't a Canadian thing, it's the US
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  things. So Brian correct me if I'm wrong. Right, the Sadie Hawkins
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  dance. The girls all stand on one side of the hall, the boys
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  all stand on the other side of the hall, and the girls have to
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  go ask the boys to dance. Yeah, I think so, I think
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  that's right. Which is which is a wonderful tradition because it is because it
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  puts girls in young men's shoes. You know, they get to walk a
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  mile in his shoes for a change. Yeah, and maybe be nervous,
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  maybe be scared of rejection, maybe have a real hard time if if he
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  is polite enough to accept the invitation to dance, what you can tell,
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  right, and everybody else can tell that he's not just not into you,
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  right, all of those things. So it's a really wonderful tradition because it
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  it does kind of foster empathy on the part of women for what young men
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  have to deal with. But but yeah, no, it's it's like people
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  once they decided that the workplace was was not a place where you could meet
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  a partner, that that eliminated of the uh, the couple formation opportunities.
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  And the other thing is is that the the the atmosphere now has changed.
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  Yeah. Women, uh like people don't look aren't approachable in public anymore.
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  You're not just sitting at a bus stage, state bus station looking board.
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  You have your head down over your your phone. Yeah, earbuds in.
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  How the hell do you approach to someone like that? Yeah, Okay,
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  let's know, like, I mean, she he has uh, he has
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  some statistics. I think they go further into it. I mean, yeah,
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  she does go in, she does go into more of the data.
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  So all right, let's keep going. Yea acted, which, don't get
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  me wrong, it's also a problem something that we should address. And I'm
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  not bringing any of this to shame anyone, because I know rejection can be
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  scary and dating in general can be really intimidating. But men being too afraid
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  of rejection to even approach a woman is a very different problem to try to
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  solve than men constantly being rejected by women. But you're you're you're failing to
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  realize that Okay, maybe the maybe the woman is it's not just it's not
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  just the risk of rejection though, I mean, like, like we said,
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  you know, maybe the woman, you know, maybe the it's not
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  just the woman like you were saying, Brian, but just imagine, you
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  know, she's sitting in a bus station and every ad is a finger pointed
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  at that man saying you're not worth it. Mm hmm, you're a scam.
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  Only you're stop worth workplace harassment. Only you stop you know, sexual
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  harassment. Only you could eat. Yeah, you remember that that thing that
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  was recent and was called Maye. Do you remember that? Leave Like if
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  she is this, No, I think that Lauren Chen is like one of
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  she She wasn't really around this stuff because of like the circles she travels in.
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  So this is but this is not where most people are. Here's a
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  good. So. One of the other things we almost responded to was this
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  movie trailer called cat Person. I want to show you a little bit of
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  this and I want to get so cat Person is I did. I watched
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  the trailer and it's basically about It's an indie film about a young woman who
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  meets a man and likes him and he's you know, there's a big age
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  difference and everything seems fine, but you know, as it goes on,
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  the man becomes more and more of a threat to her. So it's one
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  of these movies that starts off like and it seems like it's gonna be okay,
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  and then of course things get crazy. But I want to show like
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  the end of this, like the there's like a the kind of tagline.
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  I think it's like men fear rejection. Women are afraid of what men will
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  do. Yeah, So here, I'll play it from here so you guys
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  can see because this is this is important. This is the propaganda that we're
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  bombarded with like all the time. This is the stuff that women respond to.
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  And when you look at the comments under this trailer, you'll see it.
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  You'd be like, oh, yeah, this is my experience. This
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  is my experience. So like what do what do? What does a regular
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  guy that's looking to date someone? What's he gonna take away from that?
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  So let me let me play this bit, didn't you? Yeah what women
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  will say? So what was this go to move of the reverse squad and
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  cowgirl? Where's Catsule's cute? I never saw them? Well, oh,
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  women are afraid having cats because like in cats makes a guy seemed on threatening
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  men might do. He's adding something. So you see that that's like,
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  yeah, this is this is men, like that's what that's what this does.
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  She doesn't realize that, Like, no, she doesn't. She sees
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  it. She probably sees it and says, oh, well, there's no
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  way that women feel this way. Yes, Lauren, a lot of women,
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  if not most women, will watch that and say that's real, you
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  know, like matter what women think. I know, but it's gonna affect
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  what Yeah, it's gonna it's gonna affect how men think of themselves too or
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  other men. Yeah. Let commercial Oh no, good bro. All he
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  was doing was going up to a woman to talk to her. Oh no,
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  that's not cool. That's not cool, bro, that's not cool.
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  Like did did all of everything that happened in the last like two decades just
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  not happen? Yeah? Like, world, all the podiums that tell men,
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  oh, a joke is harassment, Flirting is harassment. Looking at her
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  as harassment, asking her the time is harassment. Being within two feet of
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  her as harassment, you know, like saying hi is harassment. Like did
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  you not see those podiums? Yeah? Yeah no? And just the uh,
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  the like the contradictory rules on college campuses where you know you have to
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  You have to ask at every stage of escalation of any kind of romantic encounter,
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  you know, permission, right, So can I hold your hand?
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  Can I kiss you? Blah blah blah. Right. But then in order
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  to stay on the good side of the sexual assault policy and ask permission,
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  you are in violation of the sexual harassment policy because just the mere act of
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  asking once and taking her even if you take her no for an answer the
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  very first time, right, that is still harassment, right. And it's
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  just like what, like, what are men supposed to do? What are
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  they supposed to do? Right? Because avoiding a sexual assault charge will get
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  you a sexual harassment charge on some campuses. That's just the way it is.
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  And you know, and the whole thing depends on mind reading. Is
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  she going to how is she going to respond to my approach? How is
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  she going to predictability? Right, like clairvoyance and mind reading? Is she
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  into me? You have to know that. You have to know that,
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  and you and you also have to know that even though she thinks that maybe
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  you're kind of cute, right, when you open your mouth and sound like
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  an autist or something, right, is that going to put her off?
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  And is she going to go like pepper spraying you or some shit and saying
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  that you're attacking her, Like who the fuck knows these days with these women,
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  because they've all been steeped in this culture of like life is so dangerous
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  for you because you're a woman, and because you have to spend time in
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  the same physical space as men, or the same internet space as men,
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  right, the same electronic digital space as men. Right, you men are
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  a danger to you no matter how they interact with you. That is the
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  message that women are getting, right, And then these pickup artists are like,
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  well, you know, I'm good looking enough and charming enough that I
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  can like approach women at a bus stop at one in the morning, and
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  you ever scream, right, and it's just like, yeah, okay,
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  that's not all guys. Yeah, like you're not putting two and two together.
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  Then, like you don't realize that, you know, even if you're
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  like something, that's what this guy what's his name, the guy that you
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  ended up responding to that Lauren is talking about, Yeah, dates, Like
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  that's what he doesn't seem to get. Like he'll be like, well,
• 27:02
  I don't have a problem attracting women. Yeah, well you know, you're
• 27:07
  not the average guy, and it doesn't really matter. Like, at the
• 27:10
  end of the day, the main problem is is that whether or not,
• 27:14
  like you know, whatever the outcome is, it's completely up to her and
• 27:18
  it's just whatever she feels in the moment. And if women are on SSRIs
• 27:22
  and birth control and who knows where their brain is at when a man approached,
• 27:25
  what is like seriously, like there's too many other things to take into
• 27:27
  consideration here, yeah, yeah, And if you're not Chris Hemsworth, right,
• 27:33
  Like, why would you why would you even try? Because you already
• 27:38
  have basically looked at the dating market, right, So if you didn't meet
• 27:42
  your sweetheart in high school, right, and you know, through mutual friends
• 27:48
  and stuff, and so like everybody's vetted. Everybody's like, you know,
• 27:52
  and she feels safe around you because her friends like you, and and you
• 27:57
  know, you got lots of people around you who think you're a good guy
• 28:00
  and all of this, right, vetting is really important, right going up
• 28:04
  to what a single woman sitting at a bus stop or uh into a group
• 28:11
  of women at a nightclub or at a at a Christmas party or something like
• 28:15
  that, right and striking up a conversation that feels in any way like there
• 28:22
  might be some kind of opportunity in there for you know, romantic engagement or
• 28:27
  sexual engagement. Right, you're you're taking your job in your hands. You're
• 28:33
  you're looking you're looking at getting arrested or assaulted or being told off by you
• 28:41
  know the woman in you know, in public. Right, Like, no,
• 28:45
  no, because these women, these bitches are so fucking on edge,
• 28:49
  right, they're so on edge because of it sped a steady bombardment of fear
• 28:55
  porne. One movie, right, one movie is not the problem. The
• 29:00
  problem is all of them. This is the overarching narrative. This is not
• 29:07
  about the movie. The movie is just a reflection of the cultural narrative.
• 29:15
  Just imagine, Like what she's saying is, oh, men, the only
• 29:18
  problem is that men are afraid to approach. And they're not even approaching,
• 29:21
  they're afraid of rejection. That I thought it was because of a result of
• 29:25
  all of this rejection that men feel. Lady, look from the don't just
• 29:30
  look at the woman at the bus station. Look at all the ads for
• 29:33
  all of the movies just like that one mm h. And again all of
• 29:37
  the posters for don't be that guy all of the podiums saying everything that you
• 29:44
  could possibly do to a strange woman is sexual harassment. It's not just that
• 29:51
  these guys have actually experienced endless progressive rejection before they even walk up to their
• 29:57
  first woman to be redec They've had their sexuality rejected, They've had their desires
• 30:06
  rejected, they've had their desires cheapened as being purely sexual. Well, I
• 30:11
  mean, I don't even want to say cheapened, but you know what I
• 30:14
  mean. Yeah, like and and they've been presented and framed as sexual abusers
• 30:22
  right out of the gate. They've been rejected every step of the way.
• 30:26
  So when you say, oh, well, men haven't been rejected until no,
• 30:29
  the rejection starts well before a woman says no. Well, the rejection
• 30:33
  starts before a boy even thinks to ask, right, It starts before he's
• 30:38
  even like hit puberty and starts becoming you know, sexually aroused around women.
• 30:45
  So I mean, you're you're looking at a situation where you've basically, I
• 30:51
  mean, don't bombard men and women with anti mail propaganda and then wonder why
• 31:00
  men have internalized it. Yeah, you can only condemn men for being cowards
• 31:07
  with if they lived in a world where they don't have to bear this burden
• 31:12
  of complete rejection before they even walk up to another person. Anyway, let's
• 31:18
  keep going, all right, I got another super chow from Zapierre. Thank
• 31:26
  you for twenty dollars. Thank you, And he says, even before learning
• 31:32
  about men's rights, I've only heard three things for general culture about dating.
• 31:36
  One it's going to be super hard. Two, it's a miracle if you
• 31:40
  succeed, and you can expect it to fail someday. Just cross your fingers.
• 31:44
  It's not an explosive end. And three, we're not lifting a finger
• 31:48
  to help you. I don't understand why I should bother trying lifting a finger
• 31:52
  to help. Are you kidding? The general society is putting he's boughty three
• 31:59
  times of weight on you. Yeah, it's thumb and several jack boots on
• 32:04
  top of men's necks. Mm hmm. You know all you have to stop
• 32:08
  this relentless badgering. No, not badgering. That's what we do. That's
• 32:15
  what we do. Relentless weasel are haranguing, haranguing, harping like harpies,
• 32:24
  harp nagging. Okay, yeah, okay, let's play some more Lauren to
• 32:30
  what this data actually says. So it's explained here with these charts that quote,
• 32:34
  a sizable minority of men are not approaching women at all. In the
• 32:37
  entire data set, twenty nine percent of men said they never approached to a
• 32:39
  woman in person before twenty seven percent said it had been more than one year.
• 32:44
  This was larger for men in the age eighteen to twenty five group.
• 32:46
  Forty five percent had never approached to a woman in person. So you guys,
• 32:51
  you heard that right, From men ages eighteen to twenty five, who
• 32:53
  should, in theory be in their prime years for dating, you know,
• 32:58
  getting out their meeting different people, almost one half of them have never even
• 33:02
  approached a woman. Pausing it there for the banana, there's there's like another
• 33:08
  she does like an ad I want to skip that part. Tim. It's
• 33:15
  like the most annoying internet at ever right now. It's kind of like Wish.
• 33:21
  I think Wish closed down and they rebranded as TM. It's a Chinese
• 33:27
  not not worth it, like it's garbage. Okay, but go ahead,
• 33:31
  Karen, Well, I was just gonna okay before we got onto the TM
• 33:37
  thing. When when you're looking at these days, right, you know,
• 33:44
  these days and you know, ooh, they haven't approached a woman in person,
• 33:47
  right, Well, I didn't approach my husband in person. I didn't
• 33:52
  approach any of the men I dated after I split up my ex in in
• 33:58
  person because I was doing online dating, right Yeah. And you know,
• 34:07
  but unlike most women, I was like wide open to a whole bunch of
• 34:12
  different men, right, like varying heights and income levels and occupations and all
• 34:19
  of this, and hobbies and you know, likes and dislikes and the whole
• 34:22
  bit, and you know, physical appearances and ages and all of that.
• 34:28
  Because it's like, okay, but so you have you have men who are
• 34:36
  they're eschewing the in person thing, maybe because they're shy, maybe because they
• 34:40
  don't have time, maybe because you know, who the hell knows. So
• 34:45
  they're going online to do the dating and it's just swipe left, swipe left,
• 34:51
  swipe left, swipe left, swipe left from women. Right. They're
• 34:54
  not getting any hits yea, their profile, that's true. They're doing the
• 35:00
  online dating thing and there's no approaching that really happens. Yeah. And if
• 35:07
  you if you're doing online dating, right and you're you know, you you
• 35:12
  on a site that kind of matches people up. Oh, you'd be compatible
• 35:15
  or you might be compatible with this person, right, and nobody's ever freaking
• 35:22
  messaging you, right, or you're you're sending a message and you don't hear
• 35:28
  back because she's just inundated, you know. Like it's like it's it's incredibly
• 35:37
  demoralizing for men to you know, and you might be able to you maybe
• 35:44
  maybe you might be able to charm someone in the meat space, right you
• 35:47
  know, Uh no pun intended in my use of the word meat. But
• 35:54
  but you might be able to charm a woman in you know, in real
• 35:59
  life. But why would you do that when even online, even on dating
• 36:05
  apps, you're just experiencing constant, constant rejection, you know, and it's
• 36:10
  just like or just indifference, just complete indifference. So it's like, I
• 36:17
  don't know, I don't know, Like this this is not about This is
• 36:22
  not about men fearing being told. No, this is about the eighty twenty
• 36:28
  rule. And everybody kind of knows it. Everybody knows what's going on.
• 36:34
  You're just not allowed to say it because then the jig is up for women.
• 36:38
  Yep, Okay, shall I keep going? Yeah, let's keep going.
• 36:46
  Who for sponsoring this video. Okay, so apparently we have learned that
• 36:50
  almost one and two young men are not approaching women. Well, that begs
• 36:53
  the question of why why is that? And if you're someone from the red
• 36:58
  pill community or who has inclination toward that type of thinking, your response is
• 37:01
  probably going to be well, because it just doesn't make sense for a man
• 37:05
  to try that. There are all these legal ramifications for things like divorce or
• 37:09
  he even things like me too, where you know, our alligation could ruin
• 37:13
  someone's life, regardless of how flimsy it is. So yeah, maybe men
• 37:16
  aren't approaching women anymore because they just don't think it's worth it, because society
• 37:20
  is increasingly anti male. Yeah, do you remember that picture? The picture
• 37:29
  for the is it the Exposed or something? And like he had lost his
• 37:34
  job he had to go like play for Japan because a woman him, Oh
• 37:38
  yeah, yeah, yeah, I thought you I thought you meant a picture.
• 37:42
  Yeah no, Bower, yeah yeah no, and he he yeah,
• 37:49
  fifty one million dollars. She's like, I want that bag. Mm hmm,
• 37:53
  I want that bag. And all I gotta do is get him to
• 37:55
  choke me out. And those are and those are the you know, I
• 38:00
  like that doesn't really have to fear rejection. I mean, he can have
• 38:04
  whatever woman he wants. It does anyone remember you are a mere yager,
• 38:09
  right some some he's a hockey player, right, okay, and he's one
• 38:15
  of the oldest players in the league. Still like high performer or you know,
• 38:20
  was but he uh, he went to Oh god, I forget where
• 38:28
  he's from, like Czech Republic or something like that. Right, So he's
• 38:32
  in eastern Europe and some some woman he has sex with some woman, yeah,
• 38:39
  and she takes a picture of them naked in bed together while he's sleeping,
• 38:45
  and then she she says, if you don't pay me fifty thousand dollars,
• 38:52
  I will upload this to the internet. And and he's like, bitch,
• 38:58
  I'm not married. Go ahead here, let me do it for you.
• 39:01
  Right. And I was just like, good on him. Right,
• 39:08
  So you're you're looking at like because he's still as far as I know,
• 39:13
  he's still a bachelor, right and he uh, you know, he makes
• 39:17
  he gets lucky with the ladies, still a bachelor and uh and one of
• 39:24
  the top players in the NHL for quite some time. And he was just
• 39:30
  like, bitch, please right, give me a break. Can I upload
• 39:34
  it so I can have bragging rights or what? Look, your titties are
• 39:38
  out. Yeah, let's let's get to the point of this, all right,
• 39:44
  We'll keep going. You're wrong. Even though I don't subscribe to the
• 39:47
  red pill view of the world or consider myself part of that community, because
• 39:51
  I think it's frankly anti Christian and anti family at its core, I do
• 39:55
  agree that society is very got to stop stop pointing out how things are harming
• 40:04
  men. Is anti family and anti Christians. Well, I think I think
• 40:09
  she's I think she's conflating red pill community with pick up artists and you know,
• 40:15
  like the with the recognition that things harm men, like these false accusations
• 40:22
  and et cetera. Yeah, I know, but she's she's also conflating the
• 40:27
  red pill community with and a lot of people think that the red Pill community
• 40:31
  is ruche V before his like big epiphany, you know, wherein he realized
• 40:37
  that traditionalism, you know, might be the better way to go, you
• 40:42
  know, like ruche V when he was still writing books like Bang Denmark and
• 40:46
  Bang Sweden and you know, Bang Germany and Bang Ukraine. Like the red
• 40:57
  Pill community. At least the last I show at which was you know,
• 41:00
  it was years ago that I went on are the red Pill on Reddit and
• 41:07
  and I'm reading the posts and everything, and yeah, there is a lot
• 41:10
  of pickup artist stuff there, like how to how to approach women, how
• 41:15
  to improve your yourself and your life, a lot of Andrew Taty kind of
• 41:20
  stuff. Right, But there's also like a heavily pro nuclear family, pro
• 41:29
  traditional bent to all of it. Yeah, and it is kind of like
• 41:36
  they're like, well, in the absence of women's cooperation with a traditionalist,
• 41:44
  monogamous way of life, nuclear family, okay, can you stop nuclear family
• 41:51
  kind of way of anything in the absence of that, right, then you
• 41:57
  have you have this stop gap measure that will at least let you get your
• 42:02
  dick wet, and you'll probably if you're attractive to women, Okay, if
• 42:09
  you make yourself attracted to women, you make yourself attractive to everybody, to
• 42:13
  employers, right, to other you know, like male friends, to like,
• 42:19
  you know, acquaintances who can help you out, right, because being
• 42:24
  attractive, being a man who's attractive to women means it means you're attractive to
• 42:29
  everybody. Everybody wants to be around. Right, So it's like, so
• 42:37
  even if you don't go out and get laid three times a week cold approaching
• 42:43
  women in nightclubs, even if you don't want to be an Andrew Taate,
• 42:47
  you know, and run a cam girl business out of Romania. Right,
• 42:55
  anything that you do to make yourself more attractive to a WO is going to
• 43:00
  make you more successful in general. Yeah. Yeah, so and then uh,
• 43:08
  you know, maybe women will come around, maybe they will snap out
• 43:12
  of it, and then you can get married and and start a family and
• 43:17
  maybe not have or maybe the laws will change, you know, all of
• 43:22
  these things, and and and it will be okay to settle down with one
• 43:27
  woman. Right. So, and I like when I spoke with Ruche,
• 43:30
  he you know, he gave me the impression that that's really what he wants,
• 43:37
  is like a long term monogamous relationship. He's just he seemed very kind
• 43:45
  of jaded by the whole bang everyone phase of his life. So all right,
• 43:52
  let's get to the actual Like when is when are they actually going to
• 43:57
  put up something worth responding to? All right, all right, we'll keep
• 44:00
  going centric currently, and men have a lot to lose, if you know,
• 44:04
  if they try to hook up with or even marry the wrong woman.
• 44:07
  But according to the data, and here we have something else that's pretty shocking.
• 44:10
  At no, those reasons do not What do you have a means by
• 44:15
  which men can without without any inaccuracy, find the right woman, Because just
• 44:23
  telling men, oh, you found the wrong woman doesn't help. And here's
• 44:29
  one of the problems. It's not the wrong woman, it's the wrong system.
• 44:34
  Ye. And I'll tell you why. Human nature. Okay, let's
• 44:37
  let's let's take out the outliers, like the women who have such a strong
• 44:44
  internal standard of loyalty and a sense of uprightness and fair dealing. Let's just
• 44:52
  take out the moral outliers, like the top five percent of women morally right.
• 44:58
  Everyone below that okay, and let's let's let's say not too low below
• 45:02
  the average moral out morality. Everyone below that who doesn't have that internal that
• 45:08
  strong internal moral locusts is going to be as good as the standard she's held
• 45:15
  to. And there is no standard. Oh yeah, And here's the other
• 45:22
  thing. The system itself creates women who are not loyal. And the reason
• 45:28
  why is because it's moving against human nature. And I'm not even talking about
• 45:31
  paramarning. I'm talking about the process of talking yourself out of a decision.
• 45:37
  Okay, they found that if you choose something. In this case, it
• 45:42
  was you know, they have these people make photographs, and then they said,
• 45:45
  okay, you can only have one. They said to half of the
• 45:49
  people who had like a ten photos, you can only pick your best,
• 45:52
  the best photo that you liked, Okay, and that's it. Then you
• 45:54
  go home and it's it's done. And then they said to the other group,
• 45:59
  will you pay whatever you think is the best and in a week we
• 46:04
  will follow up with you and we'll give you a different one if you want
• 46:06
  it. Right. The people who had to stick with their decision because they
• 46:10
  didn't get doovers. When they asked them, like a couple months later,
• 46:15
  how much they like their picture, it was several times higher than the people
• 46:22
  who got a chance to choose another one. Yeah. No, it's it's
• 46:27
  like basically, you you once you give people options, If people know that
• 46:32
  they have options, well no starts to get in, hit it, kick
• 46:37
  in, and then and then they just so a man in one system where
• 46:42
  a woman's like, well this is the one I got, she is going
• 46:45
  to be happier with that man. Then she is in a system where she
• 46:49
  gets to exchange men for as well as long as she wants, or as
• 46:52
  many times as she wants. And certainly it's not just little or no cost
• 46:58
  to herself like Offen profiting from the It's not just action. So the system
• 47:04
  itself creates discontent in women. Yes, so not only are the the the
• 47:08
  average The average woman who does not have an internal moral locus like this is
• 47:15
  rare. It's rare. It's rare among men. But men are held to
• 47:19
  standards, right even in the word man. To be a real man,
• 47:23
  you have to sacrifice for others. You have to put others first. There's
• 47:27
  no such thing as a real woman in the same in the same way,
• 47:30
  because there's no real external standard for women. I did not even have win
• 47:34
  their mothers anymore, not even when they You don't even have to have a
• 47:39
  uterus or a vagina or ovaries or there's no standard. Yeah, there's so.
• 47:47
  And I'm not even I'm not even gonna go down there because I don't
• 47:50
  give it as much of a care about the physical standard. I'm talking about
• 47:54
  the moral standard. We will only the average woman will only be as good
• 47:59
  as the moral standard she's held to externally, because an internal locus and eternal
• 48:02
  moral standards you're you're talking about the like the the Mother Theresa's and the Joan
• 48:07
  of arcs of history. They're rare. You know, you're not going to
• 48:14
  find a lot of them. Everybody else is pretty much as good as the
• 48:17
  external standard they're held to to a degree. I mean usually they can handle
• 48:21
  a little bit outside of that stepping up. But and it's why you see
• 48:28
  these horrendous, these situations in human history where masses of people just end up
• 48:32
  doing something horrific. It's because everybody else is doing it. So ah,
• 48:37
  I just shove a few in an oven, you know, like it just
• 48:39
  makes sense, right because everybody's doing it, because that's the external standard.
• 48:45
  And you think that if you can see throughout history that when people are taken
• 48:51
  off of external standards, they are put to external standards that are horrifying and
• 48:57
  they still follow along. That's what they do. And you can't see that
• 49:00
  when you take women off of any external standard, they're not going to be
• 49:04
  very good. You know, like you're not going to judge them by their
• 49:07
  behavior to men. You're only ever going to say, well, if if
• 49:12
  you don't behave correctly towards men, it's the man's fault, right, Okay,
• 49:15
  So the system, it's not it's not that there are no good women.
• 49:20
  It's the system is no good uh huh. And it doesn't encourage goodness
• 49:24
  in women. No, it incentivizes badness in women. And honestly, if
• 49:30
  you're gonna say, well men should you know they need they don't jn't pick
• 49:34
  the wrong woman, what are you saying? Ninety five percent of women?
• 49:37
  Yeah, like, and don't give me this shit about Oh well that's you're
• 49:42
  just ante woman. If you have a nasty external standard, most people will
• 49:46
  live up to that. Now, only up to that nasty external standard.
• 49:50
  You tell me the external standard that women are held to when it comes to
• 49:53
  their behavior towards men. You tell me that they're only going to be good
• 49:58
  as good as that. And you can can't tell me that people aren't.
• 50:00
  You know, people aren't influenced very very much by the external standards they're held
• 50:06
  to or the external standard that the society embraces. Okay, all right,
• 50:12
  I just really it really annoys me this whole Oh you just picked a bad
• 50:15
  woman. No, he picked a bad system. Yeah, and he didn't
• 50:19
  take it. He was born into it. Yeah, Okay. On top
• 50:22
  the list of why men are not approaching women, you see here we have
• 50:25
  another graph that breaks down the data. And while we can see that around
• 50:29
  twenty five percent of those who describe themselves as black pill yes do not approach
• 50:34
  women because of a fear of legal consequences, for the overall population, that
• 50:37
  number is way way lower at only around ten percent. Instead, we see
• 50:40
  bigger contributing factories for both black pilled and all men include things like not being
• 50:45
  attracted. Yeah. Yeah, let's look at the chart. That's fine,
• 50:50
  Okay, So black pill men fear rejection, maybe they've internalized more of the
• 50:55
  social attitude towards masculinity and men. They fear legal consequences. Uh, and
• 51:05
  they fear they don't fear social consequences as much as blue pilled guys or what
• 51:10
  they'd consider blue pilled, and they are not in blue pill guys are less
• 51:15
  likely to be attracted to women. Isn't that interesting? So the blue piled
• 51:21
  guys are more fearful of social consequences and I feel less attracted to women.
• 51:28
  That's interesting, isn't it. Yeah, Well, it's because I think the
• 51:32
  red pill, well, black pil guys they know they're already aware of the
• 51:37
  social consequences, so maybe it doesn't affect them as much. But I mean,
• 51:40
  what's fear rejection? Like, I mean, what is it? What
• 51:45
  does that really mean? I did my own like little you know what.
• 51:49
  I'm honestly this is probably just a Twitter survey that he did. Possible.
• 51:54
  Yeah, like again, he never gave me an answer. They made a
• 51:58
  bunch of charts out of it. But that doesn't make it like, you
• 52:00
  know, at all academic. We did like that like one of those survey
• 52:06
  maybe. I mean, I get the sense that he just wanted to blame
• 52:08
  men for not stepping up and and like that was like what he wanted to
• 52:13
  conclude. That's what I also like blue pill men, that's the biggest fear
• 52:20
  is rejection as well. Like it may be the black pill men are fear
• 52:23
  rejection more for whatever reason, whatever rejection means. But anyway, I did
• 52:28
  a Twitter poll and I asked, Okay, so why are why do you
• 52:30
  want one to approach? And the biggest reason was false accusation in my Twitter
• 52:37
  poll followed why men who said they don't feel like they're attractive enough? Well,
• 52:45
  those two are kind of intimately tied. Together, aren't they? Well,
• 52:50
  I mean, because the difference, the difference between a hunk and a
• 52:52
  creep approaching you is basically just good, how good looking you are, how
• 53:02
  attractive she finds you. Oh, my fucking god, doctor Zoidberg, shut
• 53:07
  up. Attractive she finds you? Yeah, And that that means you need
• 53:13
  to be a mind reader. Well, I think there's also something to be
• 53:17
  said for guys who are just like you know, I don't think I'm attractive
• 53:21
  enough for a cold approach in public period. You know, I even if
• 53:24
  I wasn't afraid of a of a false accusation, I just don't approach people
• 53:29
  because I because the thing is that it was the question is why are you
• 53:31
  not approaching women? And uh, and some said false accusation, some said
• 53:37
  a lesser number said they didn't feel like but this was the second highest that
• 53:42
  they didn't feel like they were they were attractive. If they were feared a
• 53:45
  false accusation because they felt like they were unattractive, I assumed that they would
• 53:49
  choose false accusation rather than I feel like I'm not attractive enough. And then
• 53:53
  after that was well, are they allowed to choose both or just no?
• 54:02
  Because it's you only allow four options. Yeah, okay, so that that's
• 54:07
  the thing, right, Like they the fear of not being attractive enough is
• 54:14
  you know, like maybe they they just they self selected out because they felt
• 54:21
  like they weren't attractive enough. And then there was another category where I asked,
• 54:24
  if you're afraid of, you know, the fact that people have been
• 54:28
  telling men that you're going to be creating an uncomfortable experience for a woman.
• 54:31
  That was the smallest category, but there was still a number of men who
• 54:36
  chose it. There are men out there who don't approach women because they've told
• 54:39
  that makes women feel uncomfortable, period U. And that none of that is
• 54:46
  in here. This is this is like it doesn't it doesn't include all of
• 54:53
  the pro social answers, which would be, you know, I've self selected
• 54:57
  out because I don't want I've been told that this women uncomfortable, so I'm
• 55:00
  not doing it. Yeah, I mean the methodology seems to be missing stuff.
• 55:07
  Yes, would be that that would be really useful, like to really
• 55:14
  tease out where this fear is coming from. And but the problem is this
• 55:17
  guy thinks that the fear is illegitimate. Yeah, but we can keep going,
• 55:22
  all right, let's keep going act to anyone, which, okay,
• 55:25
  that's a pretty good reason to not approach someone, also the amorphous other.
• 55:30
  But then higher up there there is a fear of social consequences. Now,
• 55:32
  I suppose social consequences for approaching woman could include things like, you know,
• 55:37
  being labeled creepy or even a harasser. So I mean that's fair enough,
• 55:43
  that's definitely a realma. We can talk about how the Me Too movement may
• 55:46
  have been over zealous in its executions. Literally, their big freaking victim now
• 55:53
  is a guy who was himself a victim, and they are treating him worse
• 56:00
  than any Are you talking about Lawrence Fox, Johnny Depp? Actually, oh
• 56:06
  well Johnny Depp, Yeah for sure. But also yeah, like Lawrence Fox
• 56:09
  for insulting a woman, and like the there was another thing. Marilyn Manson
• 56:15
  is being sort of dragged through the courts right now. That picture I talked
• 56:20
  about. There's countless stories, there's countless stories, go ahead. But my
• 56:25
  point is that Johnny Depp has basically proven that he was the victim and he
• 56:30
  has hated more than anyone. Don't give me this ship about all. Maybe
• 56:36
  ME two didn't went too far, you know it was otherwise good, but
• 56:42
  maybe a step too far. This is your fall. Men don't want to
• 56:47
  approach of course, we're just gonna shame men. Okay, yeah, all
• 56:52
  right, let me see. Oh yeah, okay. So what's really interesting
• 56:59
  is that the number one reason for both all men and even black pilled men
• 57:04
  for not approaching a woman is fear of rejection. What's crazy is that it
• 57:07
  seems the black pilled men are even more likely to say they don't approach women
• 57:12
  because of a fear of rejection than men in general. Now, like I
• 57:15
  said, dating is scary and dating is hard. Nobody likes to be rejected.
• 57:19
  But at the same time, what dating is. Yeah, she's married
• 57:23
  with like children, so yeah, but she doesn't know what dating is for
• 57:28
  men. Yeah, she definitely doesn't know what He's a stunningly gorgeous young woman,
• 57:36
  right, and uh that is you know. And here's the thing too,
• 57:44
  Right when you actually look at attractiveness, right, you know, sort
• 57:47
  of in the universal categories, so that you know, men generally find these
• 57:53
  things attractive in women, and women generally find these things attractive in men,
• 57:59
  right, versal across cultures. Blah blah blah. Right, women cluster around
• 58:07
  the average like they do on almost all the different sex based distribution curves,
• 58:13
  and uh and men, Uh, there are more outliers. There are more
• 58:20
  below average and above average, So there there are more Steve Bussemi's and then
• 58:29
  you know, then h throw mama from the train, ladies, and there
• 58:36
  are there are more uh, Chris Hemsworth's than yeah, what's her name,
• 58:44
  Angelina Jolie than her. But but that middle ground of acceptability, there are
• 58:54
  just fewer. There are more unattractive men than there are unattractive women. That's
• 59:00
  just how it is. Because the average is the curve. The distribution curve
• 59:07
  is different, right, Yeah, so you're looking at you know, women
• 59:12
  are actually having to to maybe look at themselves in the mirror and say,
• 59:20
  well, for physical attractiveness, I have to I have to consider I'm a
• 59:24
  seven. Okay, I have to consider sixes. But women aren't willing to
• 59:32
  do that. They're all going for the eight through tens. For the tens.
• 59:37
  A lot of them are just going for the tens because they've been told
• 59:40
  that they're a ten, and so they're going to try and get what they
• 59:44
  think they're worth. So, in fact, I wouldn't be surprised if they're
• 59:47
  trying to get elevens oh man, Like, my husband works with a woman
• 59:52
  who's like in the process of pricing herself out of the dating market at the
• 59:55
  worst possible time. Right, she's got baby babies, she's not with a
• 1:00:00
  man. She wants to have a baby. She doesn't want to raise it
• 1:00:04
  alone. She wants to be married and have a partner to you know,
• 1:00:07
  have a family. And the clock is ticking and and she's she's like looking
• 1:00:16
  for a promotion, and it's like, what what what are you doing?
• 1:00:21
  You make enough money where you are right now, okay, and you are
• 1:00:27
  about to hit the wall. And it's not even just a matter of you
• 1:00:31
  know that maybe she's not as physically attractive now that she's in her thirties or
• 1:00:36
  whatever. Right, that's not it's not with her anyway. She's got a
• 1:00:40
  gorgeous figure, she's got a nice face, she's you know all of those
• 1:00:45
  things, right, She's she's she's pretty, she's she's solid right in terms
• 1:00:52
  of her attractiveness. House anyway, Now, she's not a brick house,
• 1:01:02
  but she is. She's she's very attractive. She's a very attractive woman.
• 1:01:08
  She's nice, she's all of those things. She even likes doing guys stuff,
• 1:01:14
  right, you know, like the kind of stuff that guys like,
• 1:01:17
  like hiking and camping and freaking physical activity and you know or that a lot
• 1:01:22
  of guys like. Right, And so you're looking at it. But she's
• 1:01:30
  in a rush now, right, So she's like basically in this process of
• 1:01:37
  meeting someone. Right. She didn't meet anyone in her twenties. She's too
• 1:01:39
  busy with her her career, right, So now she needs to meet someone
• 1:01:45
  and she needs to lock that in asap, right, because her eggs are
• 1:01:49
  getting stale. She's got baby rabies. Right. Well, what man wants
• 1:01:53
  to agree to start a family six months after meeting you? Right? Like
• 1:02:04
  what man wants to be rushed like that? Right? Yeah? And especially
• 1:02:10
  if you have higher status in your career, in your job title, maybe
• 1:02:16
  not in your income, but your job title than he does. Right.
• 1:02:22
  It's it's like he's going to be constantly thinking, well, she's going to
• 1:02:25
  take the next better offer that comes her way. Right, So I mean
• 1:02:31
  like you're looking at like leaving it so long, leaving it until you're in
• 1:02:37
  your thirties to even start thinking about finding a partner is the worst advice you
• 1:02:45
  know, like everybody, everybody says, oh, it's sexist to say an
• 1:02:51
  mrs degree, right, you know, she got her Masters of missus right,
• 1:02:55
  her Masters of house whiffery. But okay, at least that makes sense.
• 1:03:02
  She went to college to put herself around men of similar intellect and interest,
• 1:03:08
  right, so that she could quit halfway through her freaking program through her
• 1:03:15
  degree and uh and get married and have kids. Okay, that that kind
• 1:03:21
  of makes sense, right in biological terms, this whole idea that Okay,
• 1:03:25
  I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna go to school, I'm going to focus on
• 1:03:30
  my career, and I'm gonna like work my way up there. I'm going
• 1:03:32
  to climb the greasy pole. I'm gonna work my way up the chain,
• 1:03:37
  right, and then I'm gonna price myself out of the market for any man
• 1:03:39
  who would want me when I'm thirty two or thirty three or thirty five,
• 1:03:44
  right, and then I'm going to be like, well, why won't any
• 1:03:49
  Yeah, baby, yeah, because are you going to date a plumber?
• 1:03:54
  You're at the last you are at the last point of no return. Yeah.
• 1:04:01
  And it's like I've been duped. They've been duped by this and it's
• 1:04:06
  so sad. Eh, not really, I mean this is their own making.
• 1:04:13
  Like, yeah, I know, this is of your own making and
• 1:04:15
  you're just dumb and you won't face your mortality. Just make your fucking choices
• 1:04:20
  and live by them. Yeah, women don't need to be told, oh,
• 1:04:24
  you're being duped. Well, you know what, fool me once?
• 1:04:28
  Jame on, you fool me twice. I mean, she's been fooled to
• 1:04:31
  give up her twenties, now she's fooling herself to give up her thirties.
• 1:04:36
  Yeah. Well, I mean like at this point, I'm thinking, like,
• 1:04:42
  she's gonna have to go to the sperm bank, right and just deal
• 1:04:46
  with being a single mother. I wish men would not give sperm to sperm
• 1:04:53
  banks because that is not Like I don't think that should be an option on
• 1:04:57
  the table a single women. Yeah, I don't think. So. Either
• 1:05:02
  get yourself a man and figure out what you need to do that or embrace
• 1:05:12
  your childless lifestyle. Okay, you know what, you know what I think
• 1:05:15
  too would really help. Okay, if you actually presented it this way,
• 1:05:24
  you take your first two years of your degree, right, and during that
• 1:05:29
  time you settle with the man who's in the similar program. Who's in school.
• 1:05:35
  He's got a good potential, right, Okay, and you get with
• 1:05:40
  him, and you marry him, and you quit and you have your kids.
• 1:05:43
  And then when your kids are school age, right, you go back,
• 1:05:45
  you complete your degree, and then you have your career completely uninterrupted by
• 1:05:51
  babies. And yeah, you're not going to be at the same stage of
• 1:05:58
  your career. You're always gonna have those missing years, right, but those
• 1:06:02
  missing years at least you got kids in return for them. And also tell
• 1:06:10
  women, right, And this is the thing that made me decide that I
• 1:06:13
  was going to definitely have my kids in my twenties. Of course didn't exactly
• 1:06:17
  work out because I had a surprise when I was thirty two, But I
• 1:06:24
  wanted to have my kids in my twenties because it's one thing to have a
• 1:06:30
  baby at thirty five. It's another thing to have a fifteen year old at
• 1:06:36
  fifty yeah, you know, like or at fifteen year old at fifty five
• 1:06:46
  or sixty, right, And do you really want to be in the Sandwich
• 1:06:50
  generation where you're changing two sets of diapers your moms and your kids. Do
• 1:07:00
  you really want to be there? Oh? My god? Is that really
• 1:07:01
  what? You want to do my mother in law's cooking. I think I
• 1:07:08
  smelled something delicious. Oh she sounds useful. Still, yeah, no,
• 1:07:13
  I like her. Let's let's get some more all right, all right,
• 1:07:18
  let's get some more in. Do you want to do any it's been like
• 1:07:21
  an hour. Do you want to do some arm twisting or yeah, I'm
• 1:07:27
  the arm twisting all right, all right, well I will, I will,
• 1:07:30
  I will do another shout out. So guys, if you want to
• 1:07:32
  help me get this, let's let's just face it. The the the books
• 1:07:39
  that are out there now are atrocious. They're a nightmare. They're just adding
• 1:07:43
  to this anti mail sentiment honestly, like it's it's really and like I didn't
• 1:07:48
  set out to write a book that was pro mail or pro relationships or anti
• 1:07:55
  this message of oh men are awful and being in a relationship with one is
• 1:07:59
  like the worst thing you could do. But I seem to have done so
• 1:08:03
  simply by being what I am. And if you would like to see more
• 1:08:06
  of that message get out anywhere, then please go to feed the Badger dot
• 1:08:12
  com slash support. I mean, if we don't support that kind of a
• 1:08:15
  message getting out in whatever way it can I don't think anybody will, and
• 1:08:20
  then our society will implode in like fifty years. People will look back and
• 1:08:24
  be like, well, what happened? Why did they just stop having babies?
• 1:08:29
  Why did they stop having relationships? And somebody needs to be there and
• 1:08:36
  say, well, you know what happened is that they just started to say
• 1:08:41
  to women that having a husband was being enslaved and that men were toxic and
• 1:08:48
  worthless and you don't meet one in your life, and lo and behold that
• 1:08:57
  crashed the birth rate. So anyway, if you want to count that message
• 1:09:00
  in whatever way, we can feed the Badger dot com slash support. It's
• 1:09:02
  up to you, guys. Otherwise, these individuals who don't seem to make
• 1:09:06
  the connection between men feeling rejected and all of the things rejecting them will be
• 1:09:13
  the only ones with a platform or say all right, let's keep Oh.
• 1:09:17
  And also, if you want to send us a message, feed the Badger
• 1:09:19
  dot com slash just the tip so we know we're not screaming into the void.
• 1:09:25
  Somebody out there appreciates us. So it's always wonderful to hear your messages
• 1:09:30
  or see your messages, read your messages, and know that you will appreciate
• 1:09:33
  us, So feed the badger dot com slash just the tip. All right,
• 1:09:36
  let's keep going. All right, let's keep going. I keep on
• 1:09:41
  keeping on. Sometimes you just gotta shoot your shot. No, rejection isn't
• 1:09:45
  fun, but it's also ultimately not the end of the world. And I
• 1:09:48
  feel like a fear of rejection is stopping so many men from approaching women because
• 1:09:54
  men and women no longer hang out together as frequently as they used to.
• 1:09:59
  I mean, go ahead, well, okay, men and women don't hang
• 1:10:05
  out together as frequently as they used to. Maybe that's why men are approaching
• 1:10:10
  women in public. Well, it goes back to that whole circle of friends
• 1:10:18
  thing where you know, the pre vetting happens, right, you know,
• 1:10:23
  and you we introduced to somebody based on you know, the friends network,
• 1:10:30
  right, And people just don't spend as much time physically, you know,
• 1:10:36
  around each other, right, you know, as they used to. I
• 1:10:40
  mean when I was when I was in high school, I was constantly we
• 1:10:45
  were constantly going out places and doing stuff with groups of people, right,
• 1:10:51
  And those are great opportunities to find somebody to that you might want to spend
• 1:10:59
  time with, that you might want to date. Yeah, no, that
• 1:11:02
  that kind of thing doesn't happen so much anymore. People actually just kind of
• 1:11:11
  are stuck on their screens. They're not even even when they're in the same
• 1:11:16
  physical space with each other. They're distracted by by their electronic equipment. And
• 1:11:23
  yeah, women have largely kind of gone into an enclave of just women,
• 1:11:32
  just same sex interactions, same sex friends, and you know, and then
• 1:11:39
  the workplace where you might think, you know that it would be a good
• 1:11:44
  place to meet someone you might want to partner with, that's off limits.
• 1:11:48
  Now it's like, no, can't you can't touch that shit, it's radioactive
• 1:11:54
  poop. And this enclave of women, like and as these women become more
• 1:11:59
  cliquishan on clavy, there are rates of mental illness or skyrocketing, rates of
• 1:12:04
  domestic violence because they're dating each other or skyrocketing, and sexual assault or skyrocketing.
• 1:12:12
  So it's turning into a little cesspit of toxicity, to be honest,
• 1:12:16
  and they're miserable. Yep, who knew? Who knew that women need men?
• 1:12:24
  You need men? And yeah, maybe men should have like, maybe
• 1:12:29
  they learn to be social by socializing with other men before they socialize with women.
• 1:12:38
  Men socializing with other men, Like that's actually toxic because they're plotting women,
• 1:12:45
  right, these enclaves of women, Like it's not like before you know,
• 1:12:49
  where we had the Purple Hat Society women or the quilting or whatever else.
• 1:12:54
  These enclaves of women, they're utterly toxic. They're toxic towards each other,
• 1:13:00
  especially like the radical the radical lesbian separatists. They're probably violent to each
• 1:13:05
  other. It's very culty from what I can see. And like, I'm
• 1:13:12
  not saying that men together is toxic, like and I'm not saying that women
• 1:13:17
  together is toxic. I'm saying women together in this social atmosphere becomes toxic really
• 1:13:25
  rapidly. And men getting together in this social atmosphere is almost as rare as
• 1:13:30
  Hen's teeth. Yeah. Well, I mean you you just look at it.
• 1:13:34
  It's it's like, well, men aren't allowed to get together. And
• 1:13:40
  you know, back in the day, right, you know, you'd have
• 1:13:43
  you'd have a you'd have a family gathering, a barbecue whatever, and the
• 1:13:48
  men would be flipping the steaks and the burghers and the hot dogs and stuff,
• 1:13:53
  and the women would be making the salad and the you know, the
• 1:13:58
  potatoes and all of the in the corn on the cob and all that stuff,
• 1:14:01
  right, and and you'd have the everybody just kind of naturally would gravitate
• 1:14:08
  towards the same sex group. And now it's like you don't have family barbecues
• 1:14:17
  anymore. It's very bizarre. And I mean it's I'm kind of the last
• 1:14:24
  holdover, or you know, my generation is the last of the holdovers from
• 1:14:30
  how things used to work, when you actually knew your neighbors by name,
• 1:14:34
  and you you might arrange a block party. You definitely knew you could knock
• 1:14:43
  on anybody's door. When I was a kid, I could knock on anybody's
• 1:14:46
  door on the street and ask for help if I needed it. So it's
• 1:14:51
  like you're kind of looking at this complete disintegration of the fabric of society,
• 1:14:59
  even outside eye of the relationship between men and women, right, Like I
• 1:15:05
  I don't I don't know whether the old Greek man living next door to me,
• 1:15:11
  you know, like I don't know what his health is, Like I
• 1:15:14
  I know that the Cambodian on the other side of me, he owns the
• 1:15:16
  tree that I'm worried is going to fall on my final last car. But
• 1:15:24
  but you know, like I'm you you I think when suburbia kind of changed
• 1:15:34
  things, and and you everybody thought it was a change for the better,
• 1:15:43
  right, But that was only as for as long as women were mostly in
• 1:15:45
  the home. Mm hmm. And the moment women in the home, like
• 1:15:51
  this is the thing. Everyone's all women in the home. It's also women
• 1:15:55
  in their community circles. Yeah, you women keeping these these connections alive.
• 1:16:02
  Yeah, but without without women there in the neighborhood, right, you know,
• 1:16:09
  and looking at community as their job, you end up with no community.
• 1:16:16
  And and it's it's like things have really really really changed, right this.
• 1:16:24
  We're in a situation now where where when you go up in an elevator
• 1:16:30
  to your apartment, you don't speak to the person who's going up to their
• 1:16:34
  floor, who's in the elevator with you. You don't know who else lives
• 1:16:39
  in your building. Right. It's it's it's not it's not just a man
• 1:16:45
  woman thing. It's not just a coupling thing. It's it's a whole it's
• 1:16:48
  an entire social fabric thing that's just disintegrated into a situation where women are not
• 1:16:55
  used to even people not platonically approaching them in public. Men are not used
• 1:17:00
  to talking to people platonically in public, and then you just heap more of
• 1:17:04
  proborum on men for doing something that nobody is prepared anymore to do, like
• 1:17:12
  you just this is this is the thing, This is this is cope,
• 1:17:16
  this is our society hoping. It's like, ah, we've fucked up every
• 1:17:20
  every human connection. How are men to blame for this? Yeah? No,
• 1:17:28
  no, no, no, you can't blaming men and forgetting about facing
• 1:17:31
  your problems, You're gonna find that it doesn't matter how much you blame men.
• 1:17:36
  Men can't lift all of society, and if they could, they wouldn't
• 1:17:41
  lift this one. Mm hmm. I'm pretty sure. Okay, are are
• 1:17:46
  we? Are we getting close to being No, we're not. We're not.
• 1:17:53
  I know we're not gonna We're not gonna finish, Lauren, No,
• 1:17:56
  no, but we can go ahead. Do you have to go? Do
• 1:18:00
  you get to go soon? Care? I have to go soon because I
• 1:18:02
  have to feed dogs and I also have a man who needs food. Okay,
• 1:18:10
  okay, so soon. Yeah, Well, let's get a little bit
• 1:18:14
  further a. Let's get a little further in because I'm also getting really hungry
• 1:18:17
  and we're going to be watching what is it called Convicting a Murderer. It's
• 1:18:24
  like the Pandasan's sequel to Making a Murderer that was on Netflix a couple of
• 1:18:30
  years ago. It's pretty good. Oh so yeah, Okay, let's continue
• 1:18:35
  we think about it. Due to things like COVID and just remote learning,
• 1:18:39
  even aside from that becoming more and more popular, I feel like those who
• 1:18:42
  are between the ages of eighteen to twenty five have way less experience socializing with
• 1:18:45
  the opposite sex and just a casual environment like high school or college classes than
• 1:18:51
  people who are my age. And on top of that, due to things
• 1:18:54
  like remote work, once those people graduate, they're also still less likely to
• 1:18:59
  interact with the sex on a daily basis. All right, well, can
• 1:19:03
  I just men can't approach women at work, men can't approach women in school,
• 1:19:09
  men can't approach women in public. Like you're saying they're not approaching,
• 1:19:13
  But don't you see the climate, it doesn't matter what men feel like.
• 1:19:17
  You can talk about what men feel about it, but the truth is,
• 1:19:21
  just like Alison said, it's the problem is that we've created a climate where
• 1:19:28
  it's completely, like arbitrarily hostile towards men and women are encouraged to consider men
• 1:19:35
  a threat at all times. It goes back to, well, if they're
• 1:19:42
  not desirable, then they are a threat. So like, you know,
• 1:19:45
  if they are desirable, then they can get away with whatever, probably,
• 1:19:49
  but it doesn't guarantee anything. So I'm not even saying, you know,
• 1:19:53
  be handsome, because that doesn't work either, you know, even if you
• 1:19:58
  could like you know, wish for it from a genie or something. So
• 1:20:01
  it's it's just ultimately, well, you know, Lauren's got a blind spot.
• 1:20:06
  She thinks, oh well, men should be stepping up again, that
• 1:20:11
  you you have to you know, pay attention. You know, this kind
• 1:20:13
  of reminds me. I just want to say this really quick. Laurence Southern
• 1:20:16
  was on Twitter a while back, and a few other people, I think
• 1:20:20
  Britney Venti and some others. We're never talking about how, you know,
• 1:20:25
  men should stop watching or the the whatever podcast or the Fresh and Fit stuff
• 1:20:30
  or whatever, because you know, they were convinced that those women are not
• 1:20:34
  the average woman, that they're that they're exceptionally like awful women or or whatever.
• 1:20:40
  But I don't think that's true. I think that it's like Elsa's that
• 1:20:44
  I think it's cope, because the one thing that everybody seems allergic to doing
• 1:20:48
  is saying, hey, ladies, change your standards. Let's like, you
• 1:20:51
  know, let's let's do what is Let's let's do what's right for society and
• 1:20:57
  not just what you want, you know what I mean? Yeah, I
• 1:21:01
  mean like that. And that's the thing, Like they constantly talk about companionship,
• 1:21:06
  Well, what are you expecting that women have not changed their expectation of
• 1:21:15
  men earning enough so that they don't have to work. That's still in place,
• 1:21:19
  Like nothing has changed since like the nineteen like the eighteen hundreds, nothing
• 1:21:25
  has changed about women's standards. They still want a man who can take care
• 1:21:30
  of them completely that there can be completely financially dependent on. The only difference
• 1:21:34
  now is there are much fewer men who fit the bill for them. Yep,
• 1:21:41
  yeah, that's it. So why why don't you do the work to
• 1:21:45
  work on your standards? Yeah? No, And I you know, like
• 1:21:47
  I get like these are morally neutral concepts, like hypergamy is a morally neutral
• 1:21:54
  concept. Of course, a woman would want a man who can sort of
• 1:22:00
  keep things at the same level while she's laid up having babies. Okay,
• 1:22:09
  when she's not productive enough to support even herself, let alone herself and her
• 1:22:15
  husband and the kids. Right like, it's it's it's a morally neutral preference.
• 1:22:25
  Okay. So but at that point, if you're gonna, if you're
• 1:22:28
  gonna say, well this, this is morally neutral and it makes sense from
• 1:22:31
  an evolutionary standpoint and all of that. Right, what you have to do
• 1:22:36
  is stop artificially propping up women. Stop artificially something's gonna give me giving them,
• 1:22:45
  giving them a boost in a competitive game on the only field where men
• 1:22:50
  are allowed to play, right like literally, your your your your basely saying
• 1:23:00
  well, men have to be x y and z. Women can be x
• 1:23:05
  y and z, and we want them to be x y and z so
• 1:23:09
  that they won't need the x y and Z provided by men, even though
• 1:23:13
  they might want it and even though it might be necessary. Right, Okay,
• 1:23:16
  so let's actually help women cheat. Well, let's put them on performance
• 1:23:24
  enhancing X Y and Z drugs, Okay, and we'll promote them and we'll
• 1:23:30
  preferentially treat them and we'll give them, you know, all this extra stuff
• 1:23:35
  to help them price themselves out of the freakin dating pool. And then when
• 1:23:43
  they're looking around, and they want to have babies, and they want a
• 1:23:45
  man who can take up the slack not just for them, but for the
• 1:23:50
  extra mouths to feed of two or three kids or whatever. Right, Okay,
• 1:23:57
  they want somebody who can handle that while they're taking their time off of
• 1:24:01
  being economically productive. Right Okay, how are they going to find that because
• 1:24:09
  all of the women go promoted and all of the men go passed over.
• 1:24:13
  Yeah, it's it's just like when when I'm watching these individuals talk about this,
• 1:24:17
  they seem to be utterly unwilling to recognize that our society has engaged in
• 1:24:23
  a war on para bonding for generations. Now yeah, now I don't know
• 1:24:28
  if it's a deliberate war, I can't tell you that, but it is
• 1:24:32
  a war our society has said, you know what, that paira bonding.
• 1:24:38
  Maybe like I'm putting intent there, but that's just a just just like a
• 1:24:43
  you know, it's just me being cute as a storyteller. You know that
• 1:24:45
  pair bonding. We sure want to get rid of that. How can we
• 1:24:48
  destroy it? And then after society has done basically everything it can to destroy
• 1:24:54
  paara bonding, it turns around and blames men. Yeah, yeah, that's
• 1:24:59
  nothing anywhere. No, that's the infuriating thing, right. And when you
• 1:25:03
  look at when you look at socioeconomic brackets, right, and this is this
• 1:25:06
  is the hilarious thing, right, because the feminists were like, well,
• 1:25:11
  you know, if men and women were truly equal, right, you know,
• 1:25:16
  as women are able to pull themselves up the socioeconomic ladder, right,
• 1:25:23
  they'll be more likely to marry a man of hypergamy will just go away,
• 1:25:29
  right, And they'll be more likely to marry someone who is not wealthier and
• 1:25:34
  not higher status than them because the only reason why women were doing that,
• 1:25:40
  right, is because they were forced to because they were kept at home and
• 1:25:44
  they weren't allowed to work, and they weren't allowed to pursue careers and all
• 1:25:46
  of this stuff. So if we just let women do this, then people
• 1:25:49
  will fall in love for love's sake, not for money, not for status,
• 1:25:55
  not for all of that stuff. Right, But when you actually get
• 1:25:59
  down to the socioeconomic brackets, you find that low socio economic status women,
• 1:26:05
  low status women are more likely to pair bond down than high status women.
• 1:26:14
  Right. The higher up a woman goes on that ladder, the less likely
• 1:26:18
  she is to actually pair with somebody who's of lower status than her, right,
• 1:26:25
  you know that is just the way it is, because this isn't about
• 1:26:29
  a cold socioeconomic calculation on the part of women or them being forced into anything.
• 1:26:35
  It's it's a preference in their head. And if she has enough money
• 1:26:42
  to raise a child, a firm donor baby all on her own, she's
• 1:26:46
  gonna be pickier, not less picky. Okay, And I think one of
• 1:26:51
  the I was we were on a podcast. I guess. I'm not exactly
• 1:26:58
  sure how it works. Oh, I want to hear about that. Yeah,
• 1:27:00
  yea, was it was? It? Was it hostile? No,
• 1:27:04
  it wasn't hostile? Oh okay, cool, No, it was. Okay.
• 1:27:08
  So I think that it's going out on one of Pearl's channels. But
• 1:27:13
  Pearl wasn't on it. It was Uh. It was a producer of Pearls
• 1:27:15
  who hosted it, I believe. And there were a couple guys I guess
• 1:27:20
  who were life coaches. Perhaps I would say life coach dating coach kind of
• 1:27:26
  thing, and uh and uh. And then there was also Tarrett's pop and
• 1:27:31
  Chandler from from Twitter. I don't know. I've talked to her. She's
• 1:27:36
  a young legal students who's interested in men's issues, and it al was a
• 1:27:41
  good conversation. There was no real hostility. I think we were all basically
• 1:27:45
  on the same wavelength. I may have gotten into it a bit with one
• 1:27:48
  of the dating coaches. But one of the things that that Chandler said is
• 1:27:55
  that she said, says, this woman who's like a high power executive,
• 1:28:00
  and she says, I I'm a I am a high value woman. And
• 1:28:06
  when she was asked, he listed all of her credentials in work, and
• 1:28:14
  people were and she and Chandler pointed out and said, well, she's listing
• 1:28:16
  everything that she desires in a man. And I was listening to this and
• 1:28:20
  I was thinking, but what she's actually listing is her minimum requirements. If
• 1:28:27
  you think about it, when these women go and get these jobs and get
• 1:28:30
  these incomes, what they're doing in in a sense is they are building themselves
• 1:28:39
  into a position of demanding more so a man. Any man who comes around.
• 1:28:43
  It's almost like the guy has to match her. Doubt her her trousseau,
• 1:28:47
  I think is part of the trousseau. So what she's what she's essentially
• 1:28:53
  doing, is she's putting all of this work into building a trousseau to get
• 1:28:56
  a man who's who's better than that, and of course the same process,
• 1:29:01
  she's pricing herself out of the market. And it's like this, it's the
• 1:29:06
  more things change, huh, Like, this is exactly the same thing that
• 1:29:11
  Southern bells did, except the way that they competed was different. Are the
• 1:29:15
  same thing that women in more traditional cultures do to get a true self,
• 1:29:19
  but this, you know, the way that they compete is different. She's
• 1:29:23
  essentially she is building a minimum standard for any man who can be her partner.
• 1:29:30
  And it's it's crazy because nothing changed. And until we look at that
• 1:29:35
  and actually address it and be honest about it, we're screwed. Because the
• 1:29:41
  society doesn't exist if it can't manage this basic function, which is pair bonding,
• 1:29:47
  family formation, or at least getting people invested through some kind of relationship
• 1:29:55
  to the greater society, you know, And we got nothing. We're dead
• 1:30:00
  man walking, We're dead side walking. Yeah. No, the the gentleman
• 1:30:08
  who was on the Pearl Pearly podcast with me and Paul and Chandler and others,
• 1:30:17
  can you guys stop? Yeah, well there's somebody walking by, but
• 1:30:27
  but yeah, no, like he's he's like, we're we're actually heading towards
• 1:30:31
  a demographic collapse, and I would recommended viewing Demographic Winter. I think you
• 1:30:38
  can probably watch it on YouTube. Basically, we're we used to be like
• 1:30:45
  a pyramid like at Giza, right, with the elderly at the top at
• 1:30:51
  the point, right, and all of the productive people kind of the children,
• 1:30:58
  lots of children at the bottom, and then in the middle there was
• 1:31:00
  this big block of economically productive people and that central block they were sandwiched in
• 1:31:15
  between the elderly who need caring for and the children who need caring for.
• 1:31:19
  Right, as long as we're not replacing ourselves, right, Like, and
• 1:31:27
  this is thing like old people are living longer than ever, and so they
• 1:31:32
  need care for longer than ever. Right, retirement age is still sixty five
• 1:31:39
  when you can start collecting your old age pension and all of that. So
• 1:31:45
  we it literally is this sandwich generation, right, Well, our kids are
• 1:31:53
  going to be the sandwich generation, and there's not going to be as many
• 1:31:56
  of them there were in my when my generation was born, Right, That's
• 1:32:01
  just the way it is. So it's you're looking at the people who are
• 1:32:08
  economically productive, the people who are you know, and let's not say economically
• 1:32:13
  productive, let's say resource productive, producing the resources that everybody needs, right,
• 1:32:18
  because it's this isn't about money. It's about electricity and food and transportation
• 1:32:25
  and heavy lifting and you know, building things and fixing things and all of
• 1:32:30
  those things. Right. Yeah, one Rodney the plumber is worth a thousand
• 1:32:34
  Christian grays. Yeah, yeah, absolutely. And it's like, but we
• 1:32:41
  are not replacing ourselves. And so what we're doing, and I brought this
• 1:32:45
  up in the in the Pearly podcast, is you know, like women want
• 1:32:48
  to have their doctorate, they want to have their MD, right, so
• 1:32:51
  they can frame it and put it on a wall, and then take six
• 1:32:55
  years off to have babies, right, and then come back part time.
• 1:32:59
  And then we wonder, what we have a doctor shortage, right, and
• 1:33:01
  it takes two weeks to get just to get an appointment. So then what
• 1:33:04
  do we do We coach doctors that taxpayers in Nigeria and South Africa and the
• 1:33:11
  Philippines and other places like that, right, and Vietnam and all of those
• 1:33:17
  places, taxpayers in those places invested money in training doctors there. Right,
• 1:33:26
  Well, we just invite them to come over here and we'll pay them more
• 1:33:30
  and they can send a little money back home, but we separate them from
• 1:33:32
  their families, right, so their kids are growing up without dads. And
• 1:33:38
  yeah, there's money being sent home, but there's no doctoring going on.
• 1:33:43
  And these are already places that have less access to healthcare than we do,
• 1:33:48
  right, So why are we doing this? This is a fool's bargain.
• 1:33:53
  This is stupidity on a massive scale, totally predictable. Totally predictable. It
• 1:34:00
  costs two hundred if it costs a quarter of a million dollars to train a
• 1:34:03
  doctor, okay, of taxpayer money. This is not this does not include
• 1:34:09
  tuition taxpayer money. Okay, if it costs that much to train a doctor,
• 1:34:14
  I want thirty five plus years of full time doctoring out of that person.
• 1:34:20
  Yeah. I don't want none of this. So I'm gonna go on
• 1:34:23
  maternity leave for ten years and then maybe I'll go back to the office,
• 1:34:27
  just only during office hours, part time. Yeah. No, you can
• 1:34:30
  go fuck yourself, bitch, right, and then don't go and complain about
• 1:34:35
  how ooh, healthcare in the developing world is so difficult, you know,
• 1:34:41
  because people don't have access. Yeah, because you're stealing all of their fucking
• 1:34:45
  doctors. Okay, So anyway, the upshot of this is is that a
• 1:34:57
  civilization doesn't is a dead civilization walking if it can't attend to this stuff.
• 1:35:01
  And unfortunately, you can't just keep blaming men. You really can't. You
• 1:35:09
  really can't. It's not working. Okay, I'm going to go because my
• 1:35:13
  dog. Okay today, all right, we can we can call it here.
• 1:35:17
  That's cool. Hey, can I show you guys something that I've been
• 1:35:19
  working on. I've been showing it to their audience the whole time, but
• 1:35:23
  since yeah, I want to show you. I'm want to share. Let
• 1:35:27
  me share my obs so you guys can see this. So I'm pretty proud
• 1:35:31
  of myself. I had to figure this all out on my own, and
• 1:35:34
  I did I and you see it. I can't join the thing. You
• 1:35:41
  gott to join the thing, Alison, Oh, yes, there I go.
• 1:35:44
  Yeah she is uh no, she's just animated. She's very cute,
• 1:35:51
  she's stacked, she's oh is she very buxom? Yeah? Well, well
• 1:36:00
  she's supposed to be. I mean she's she's not. She's not not much
• 1:36:05
  much bigger than me. If I was wearing a push up bra, you
• 1:36:13
  know, I might look kind of like that, wait too many, let
• 1:36:18
  me turn off. They multiply, they multiply, they multiply. I'm sorry,
• 1:36:26
  So that I got it. There's some more to stuff to figure out,
• 1:36:29
  but that's cool. Yeah, that's pretty cute. Yeah, it is
• 1:36:33
  pretty cute. I love her. I love her sharp teeth. Yeah,
• 1:36:38
  that's like my favorite thing about it is that I can do the shark teeth.
• 1:36:41
  It looks like has a mustache. You know. The tools are are
• 1:36:46
  hard to use, but they'll it'll improve, It'll improve over time. I
• 1:36:49
  will, I will perfect it. I also made a Vivian James, but
• 1:36:54
  I'm it was on the stream, but it would take me too long to
• 1:36:57
  set up right now, I just wanted to show that at so yes,
• 1:37:00
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• 1:37:13
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• 1:37:17
  but the first thing you have to do to solve a problem is actually recognize
• 1:37:23
  what the problem is and what won't solve it, which is usually what you've
• 1:37:29
  been doing this entire time. Well, I mean, let's face it,
• 1:37:31
  our favorite activity as a people is blaming men. Mm hmmm, Like I
• 1:37:39
  I don't even get where people are like, oh, we blame women.
• 1:37:42
  I'm like, really, where are women? Yeah? You know, because
• 1:37:46
  the only time I hear about blaming women is when I do it and h
• 1:37:50
  and when people say, well, use the potential theoretical particle known as uh
• 1:37:58
  blame women. Just some kind of weird mental dark matter that no one's actually
• 1:38:01
  ever identified exists somewhere, and therefore we are justified in not blaming them.
• 1:38:08
  See what I'm saying, Like, the only time they this this thing exists
• 1:38:12
  is when it's used to justify not blaming women. Oh huh, okay,
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  All right, so if you guys, yeah, I know, I'm
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  I'm hoping. I don't know, like I want to get like a voice
• 1:38:38
  mod so she doesn't sound like doctor girlfriend when I talk, you know,
• 1:38:44
  or Bob's Berger's wife. Yeah, oh Linda, Yeah, I've never watched
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