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FLAME MONROE - Succotash · Eating While Broke

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  Speaker 1: Hmmm, y'all had all the booby.
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  Speaker 2: I ain't got I don't have boobs, so I got them.
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  Speaker 2: I had them for like three seconds when I had
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  Speaker 2: a baby.
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  Speaker 1: I borral man. They alone, They going back.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Eating While Broke. I'm your host,
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  Speaker 2: Coleen Wit and today we have Emmy nominated flaming role
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  Speaker 2: in the building comedian, actress, writer, entertainer, podcaster. Also, what's
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  Speaker 2: what's the name of your podcast? Learn? You guys could
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  Speaker 2: check her out on the Black Effects. So today what
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  Speaker 2: do you have us eating?
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  Speaker 1: She forgot dad, mom, brother.
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  Speaker 2: It's sad because I did leave that out on purpose.
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  Speaker 2: But then no, that is probably the hardest title, right
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  Speaker 2: that is that is.
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  Speaker 1: The hardest, the most joyful, and the most pain.
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  Speaker 2: And how many kids you?
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  Speaker 1: Three? Three? He wasn't playing just wait, I wouldn't with
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  Speaker 1: tight with it out mistakes, not at all. Thank you
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  Speaker 1: for having me. Hello everyone, eating Eating Broken. You know
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  Speaker 1: what we're gonna have? This is what I ate when
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  Speaker 1: I was broken.
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  Speaker 3: Scutas suckutash is a poor man's meal, but it will
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  Speaker 3: feel you up.
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  Speaker 2: How do you how do you spell that sucker tash?
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  Speaker 3: Now you asked me some difficult questions, sucker tash. So
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  Speaker 3: I'm thinking it's s U C c A T t
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  Speaker 3: A s h.
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  Speaker 2: I think did you make it up?
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  Speaker 1: No?
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  Speaker 3: Absolutely not. My grandmother May used to make this all
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  Speaker 3: the time. It was a bunch of us, so she
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  Speaker 3: had to stretch it out.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so what are the ingredients?
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  Speaker 3: So the ingredients actually is our whole curnel of corn cutokra,
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  Speaker 3: a tomato, onion, green pepper, celery, and whatever season you
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  Speaker 3: season to taste however you want. And usually bacon. I
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  Speaker 3: don't see the bacon up here, and you put it
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  Speaker 3: over a bit of rice.
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  Speaker 2: We do have bacon, and you.
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  Speaker 3: Can imagine feeding about nine kids screaming and it will fill.
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  Speaker 1: And it was healthy because it was ventance.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because I saw Okrah. And when I saw Oprah,
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  Speaker 2: I said.
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  Speaker 1: Oh heck no. I'll tell you about okrah.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all young kids say macaroni and cheese. Let us all
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  Speaker 3: here say Okrah. I'm gonna let you sit on there
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  Speaker 3: and think about that for a minute.
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  Speaker 2: Something. You have to be very good at cooking. I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna tell you a little story. Okay. My mom is
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  Speaker 2: Jamaican and she would do the whole Okrah thing. It's
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  Speaker 2: my mama was a great cook. But me and my
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  Speaker 2: siblings would band together that every time the Okrah rent
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  Speaker 2: like came to the front of the freezer, it was
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  Speaker 2: like someone's job to go and hide it to the
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  Speaker 2: back of the freezer. And that was the job of
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  Speaker 2: us kids, was just to hide the Oprah and she
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  Speaker 2: would never find it.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, it's pretty tasteless though.
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  Speaker 2: It really is flimey though well, and then okay, and
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  Speaker 2: then I was in North Carolina with Nick Cannon and blimey.
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  Speaker 1: I was.
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  Speaker 2: I was out there and I had told him like,
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  Speaker 2: I really hate Okra and he was like, you ain't
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  Speaker 2: never had fried Okra? And I said, okay, you know,
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  Speaker 2: I'll take one for the team. And I still hated it,
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  Speaker 2: So I can't mess with Okra. So I'm going to
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  Speaker 2: gracefully take this one for the team for eating while broke.
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  Speaker 2: But we do have bacon. Do you want me to
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  Speaker 2: like bacon?
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  Speaker 1: Yes? Please? Because bacon is the starter.
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  Speaker 2: All right, So we're now back, So we have your
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  Speaker 2: apple with bacon, all right, So let's get the cooking.
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  Speaker 3: Let me drop a little olive oil here, saying, oh,
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  Speaker 3: I brought you a gift before I get started.
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  Speaker 1: I brought you a fan.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, what is your face? I want to see you
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  Speaker 3: pop it too? Here we go, Hey, what is that?
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  Speaker 1: What is that?
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  Speaker 2: Can't bitch do what I do?
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  Speaker 1: I believe it.
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  Speaker 2: This is this is the this is gonna be the
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  Speaker 2: model for the rest of my life.
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  Speaker 3: Everybody mindset is what he's she we That is my
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  Speaker 3: own preferred pronoun. He's wet because I pretty much feel
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  Speaker 3: like they kick me out the community. I got my
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  Speaker 3: own pronoun. Man stands for he cast the check, she
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  Speaker 3: make the money. We spent the same person saying the
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  Speaker 3: same person?
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  Speaker 2: Is I like that? I like that?
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  Speaker 1: I cover all the bases?
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  Speaker 2: Is that you?
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  Speaker 1: That is me?
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  Speaker 2: Okay?
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  Speaker 1: And in my sexty day, I was.
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  Speaker 2: Young, So you started out. So let's kind of take
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  Speaker 2: it back to you call it succotash circuit circuitans. So
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  Speaker 2: what was going on in the era of sutash.
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  Speaker 3: We were living in the projects of Chicago on the
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  Speaker 3: West Side and hearing horn the projects. My grandmother Big
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  Speaker 3: jip That's what everybody called my grandmother, Big Jipu. She
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  Speaker 3: was my grandmother ran guns, so candy, uh so women
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  Speaker 3: so drugs.
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  Speaker 1: This was the gains of other.
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  Speaker 3: Projects, and it was a bunch of grandkids. She had
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  Speaker 3: a bunch of grandkids, so she had to stretch food
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  Speaker 3: out in between when it was high and low.
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  Speaker 1: My grandma was a blu leg My grandmother is a pimp.
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  Speaker 1: I love my grandmother. May she rest in peace.
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  Speaker 2: And she raised you.
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  Speaker 3: She pretty much raised my mama. Was bucked while my
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  Speaker 3: mom was out doing her thing. My mother was seventeen
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  Speaker 3: when she had me, so she was a kid. And
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  Speaker 3: I didn't understand that when I was a kid, But
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  Speaker 3: now that I have my own children, I get. I
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  Speaker 3: couldn't imagine my daughter, who's nineteen, having a baby now
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  Speaker 3: because she's not responsible at all. So I can only
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  Speaker 3: imagine what Valerie was like. That's my mother, Valerie. So
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  Speaker 3: my grandmother stepped up, you know, and a lot of
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  Speaker 3: black grandmother's back then, not only just black. I'm weller,
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  Speaker 3: that is how you say it in Spanish.
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  Speaker 2: Well I have no idea.
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  Speaker 1: Oh well, you look like I'm so well.
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  Speaker 3: Anyway, a lot of grandmothers had to step up to
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  Speaker 3: help raise the grandkids because the moms were young, or
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  Speaker 3: they were working, they were trying to better themselves, to
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  Speaker 3: make a better life. So my grandmother stepped up and
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  Speaker 3: it was but I was the first grand baby. I
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  Speaker 3: was the most spoiled, and I was the most loved.
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  Speaker 3: I hope my other my other siblings don't hear that.
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  Speaker 2: I guarantee you and you'll get that random phone call.
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  Speaker 2: So this was the signature edition Grandma's house.
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  Speaker 3: This was the poor man's meal when money was tight
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  Speaker 3: and we knew money was this how we But she
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  Speaker 3: would always like fry a big thing of chicken wings.
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  Speaker 1: Chicken wings was dirt cheap back then. Good guy, you.
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  Speaker 3: Could get a whole bag of chicken wings and feed
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  Speaker 3: the family of twelve for fat dollars.
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  Speaker 1: Fat dollars, my bag. You want chicken wing needs to
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  Speaker 1: go around? Good God.
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  Speaker 2: Yesterday's prices, Yeah, yesterday's prices. So you grew up with
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  Speaker 2: your grandmother. How did you get into comedy? How did
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  Speaker 2: you get into the entertainment?
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  Speaker 1: Like?
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  Speaker 2: What was that first step?
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  Speaker 1: Well? I never I could not sing, I couldn't dance.
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  Speaker 3: Well, what a lot of people don't know about me
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  Speaker 3: is that when I graduated high school, I graduated CVS
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  Speaker 3: High School in Chicago.
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  Speaker 1: I had a four year music scholarship to the Cookman.
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  Speaker 1: I played the obo.
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  Speaker 3: I was in All City Orchestra and man, I almost
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  Speaker 3: set first chair to us at second chair.
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  Speaker 1: What instrument the obo?
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  Speaker 2: I don't even know what that is.
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  Speaker 1: It's a double ree instrument. I was.
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  Speaker 3: I was masterful at it. My teacher, mister Harold Anthony Bradman,
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  Speaker 3: he rest in peace, just was a teacher that was
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  Speaker 3: diligent and the things that he got away with as
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  Speaker 3: a teacher back then he would be under the jail
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  Speaker 3: with now. But it instilled such a drive in us,
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  Speaker 3: and we wanted to make him plou proud. We wanted
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  Speaker 3: to please him because we could see the smile of
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  Speaker 3: pride on his face when we did a great job.
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  Speaker 3: I don't I think that's what's missing with teaching now.
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  Speaker 3: The teachers, a lot of teachers, not all, because it's
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  Speaker 3: still some great teachers out here, don't want the children
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  Speaker 3: to show pride. You show the pride the kid makes
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  Speaker 3: you proud. It makes the kid a better kid. To
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  Speaker 3: me life, it's too soft to now everybody get a ward.
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  Speaker 3: Oh everybody didn't get a war. When I was a kid.
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  Speaker 3: If you didn't do well, you got okay, we'll see
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  Speaker 3: you next time. It made you thrive to do better
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  Speaker 3: and be better to all these kids and everybody. Get
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  Speaker 3: a ward.
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  Speaker 1: Little Johnny, it's not deserve board. He was too slow.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so yeah, that's low heat.
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  Speaker 1: I got it on low heat. Let me.
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  Speaker 3: I ain't got my real glasses on the girl. I
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  Speaker 3: can't even see you right now.
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  Speaker 1: You know, when you get old like hair.
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  Speaker 2: I'll put it on four. Yeah, there you're good.
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  Speaker 1: I was gonna see you don't even want you don't
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  Speaker 1: even cook? Girl. What's the name of this show? Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Cook? I thought sleep on me?
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  Speaker 1: Guys.
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  Speaker 3: So what you do is you saw you get to
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  Speaker 3: bake it heated up, and then you start start tearing
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  Speaker 3: the onions and bell pepper and celery with it as
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  Speaker 3: it heats up, because then you get all the flavors going.
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  Speaker 3: And then you season the veggies and the meat while
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  Speaker 3: they're in there, and you add the corn and the
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  Speaker 3: the tomatoes and the celery, I mean the okra last,
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  Speaker 3: because the okra takes no time. It's just pretty much steamed.
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  Speaker 2: Now, is there a reason why you went my frozen
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  Speaker 2: corn and frozen okra?
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  Speaker 3: Because it's quick and I got three kids not being
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  Speaker 3: a hurry. But when you got time, you got time
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  Speaker 3: to shut the corn and roll with tomato. Get cut
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  Speaker 3: into dice the tomatoes up.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't got time for that girl. Three kids, you know,
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  Speaker 1: two of the same age and they're not twins.
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  Speaker 2: How oh, never mind, just.
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  Speaker 1: You forget already.
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  Speaker 2: I got olds at the same time, two different.
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  Speaker 1: And both my baby mama's named Tasha.
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  Speaker 2: I know someone that their baby mama's one named the
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  Speaker 2: kid Aja and the other one named the kid a.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, two different baby mamas.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I said, they must have been beefing, but your
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  Speaker 2: baby mama's got along well it well, probably not.
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  Speaker 1: Know each other like that.
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  Speaker 3: But both of their names was Tasha, but their names
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  Speaker 3: weren't Tasha when I met them.
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  Speaker 1: See, both my baby mamas are very masculine.
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  Speaker 3: Stood girls like so that you know, we all come
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  Speaker 3: up with our own name.
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  Speaker 1: I'm flaying that ain't my legal name.
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  Speaker 3: So I didn't know they was Tasha's until after the
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  Speaker 3: deed had been done.
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  Speaker 2: Wow. Wow, So you and all your baby mamas get
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  Speaker 2: along with.
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  Speaker 3: My son's mom who my first born, my son, Jamaicas,
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  Speaker 3: His mom passed last year from diabetes. But my other
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  Speaker 3: my daughter's mom two daughters. Yeah we cool, We okay,
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  Speaker 3: that's the truth. Okay, we're okay, And I can say
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  Speaker 3: that now because there was a time I couldn't say that.
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  Speaker 3: There was a time we were feuding and bitter because
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  Speaker 3: I got full custyer other kids the entire time. But
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  Speaker 3: that's not what we were feuding about.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, were you a young mom?
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  Speaker 1: I mean I was thirty seven when I had my
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  Speaker 1: first baby.
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  Speaker 2: Oh okay, you like me?
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  Speaker 3: I was, you know, because I watched my mother, my aunties,
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  Speaker 3: who all had children young, lose their lives. Not lose
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  Speaker 3: like they died, but they were never able to live
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  Speaker 3: and thrive. So I knew I wanted a family of
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  Speaker 3: my own, but I wanted to be flaming roofus as
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  Speaker 3: long as I could before I did that.
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  Speaker 1: So I was so. You know, a lot of people
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  Speaker 1: go when they get older.
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  Speaker 3: They say, oh, I'm reliving my childhood. There's no need
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  Speaker 3: for me to relive my childhood.
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  Speaker 1: I did.
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  Speaker 3: I was playing my whole twenties. I didn't have a
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  Speaker 3: baby to thirty seven, so I was allowed to be met.
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  Speaker 3: But I am ready to be an empty nester again.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh your kids still live with you?
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  Speaker 1: Hell? Yeah? What? Your pandemic slowed everything? Down, including them.
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  Speaker 2: So your kids grew up Now I'm gonna go a
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  Speaker 2: little deep with it. So your kids grew up in
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  Speaker 2: an environment having a situation that's not traditional I guess
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  Speaker 2: in the world sense when they were going through it,
• 11:30
  Speaker 2: like cause right now we're in a world where trans
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  Speaker 2: and all all this is like it's actually almost in
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  Speaker 2: everything you turn on. You turn on the TV, commercials, movies, whatever.
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  Speaker 2: But your kids grew up in an era where that
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  Speaker 2: wasn't the norm.
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  Speaker 3: Right, Well, I don't know if it was an era.
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  Speaker 3: You're not only twenty. They just grew up in the
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  Speaker 3: house with me, you know. And will I say that
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  Speaker 3: we grew up together? Probably yes, you know, even though
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  Speaker 3: that I was thirty seven, I never had kids, but
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  Speaker 3: I had a baby brother that I raised, so it
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  Speaker 3: wasn't like I was, you know, new to its just
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  Speaker 3: having my own. And then I thought that me and
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  Speaker 3: my my daughter's mom were going to be married and
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  Speaker 3: be together and be in love. And because I love
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  Speaker 3: that woman with everything in me, but she didn't love
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  Speaker 3: me back. I realized after the fact that I had
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  Speaker 3: two children with somebody who never loved me.
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  Speaker 2: You had two children.
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  Speaker 1: With somebody who never loved me, how do you figure that?
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  Speaker 3: Well, you know, you don't figure it while you're in it,
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  Speaker 3: because love is blind, and you take way more than
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  Speaker 3: you should.
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  Speaker 1: That's anybody.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: But when I got out of it and I realized
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  Speaker 3: the things that she could say to me, and I
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  Speaker 3: think that didn't say Dick could say to me what
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  Speaker 3: she did, I realized this person never loved me. You
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  Speaker 3: know a lot of us put love and all this
• 12:44
  Speaker 3: emphasis on love and oh they love me, and you
• 12:47
  Speaker 3: take abuse, and it don't always have to be a
• 12:49
  Speaker 3: physical abuse, it really does. Mental abuse is to me
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  Speaker 3: is way more damaging because you can't the pain don't stop.
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  Speaker 3: You hit me in my arm. That pain gon hurt
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  Speaker 3: now gonna eventually go away, But them words that cut
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  Speaker 3: the scars of your heart don't never go away. That's
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  Speaker 3: why I tell people all the time, I'm not afraid
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  Speaker 3: of a new love. I'm a picturepad of that old
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  Speaker 3: hurt because I loved this woman with everything in me.
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  Speaker 3: But it just didn't work. But I did get cussy
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  Speaker 3: other kids. I was happy, and we had and the
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  Speaker 3: kids still talk to her. They always have talking. I
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  Speaker 3: never stopped them from talking.
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  Speaker 2: To Okay, okay, perfect, So you you're going to school
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  Speaker 2: for music, how do you transition from there?
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  Speaker 3: So let me tell you when I went to so
• 13:32
  Speaker 3: because I'm from the c Chicago. I'm from Chicago. And
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  Speaker 3: if I was speaking like I got a list, I
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  Speaker 3: got five screws in my mouth right now. So I'm
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  Speaker 3: getting into implants. I'm in the process of process, and
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  Speaker 3: so I'm speaking weird to me. But I was born
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  Speaker 3: and raised on the West Side. I was educated on
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  Speaker 3: the South Side. I came out on the North Side,
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  Speaker 3: but I did my best work on the East Side.
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  Speaker 1: That's me being koy.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't even know I wanted to play music. I
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  Speaker 3: went there was a in the band in CBS High
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  Speaker 3: School band. The years that we were there, I'm not
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  Speaker 3: going to tell you all the years do the manu.
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  Speaker 3: We were the number one band in the country. We
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  Speaker 3: were invited to d C and everywhere to play because
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  Speaker 3: I band director Harold Bray was such a fantastic teacher
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  Speaker 3: and I went into it was called the be Have.
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  Speaker 3: I went in one day. I was really really short
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  Speaker 3: that in high school until I came a junior, I
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  Speaker 3: was only like fort eleven OAU.
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  Speaker 2: Right now, you're what you're like? You got to be
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  Speaker 2: like six. No, no, no, I'm only five, only five eight.
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  Speaker 1: I'm only five.
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  Speaker 3: A look, I just have a big princi I'm sure,
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  Speaker 3: and I wear really high heels on stage because I
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  Speaker 3: want to be really tall. I envy tall people. That's
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  Speaker 3: what I always wanted to be. I always wanted to
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  Speaker 3: be tall. Everybody thinks I'm really tall. I just got
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  Speaker 3: a big ass mouth and a big you know shape. Oh,
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  Speaker 3: let me stick keep starting my food and uh. I
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  Speaker 3: went in and I just joined the band.
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  Speaker 1: And it gave me because I didn't have a dad
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  Speaker 1: at home.
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  Speaker 3: My mom was on drugs for such a long time,
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  Speaker 3: and gave me a family that was my first outside
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  Speaker 3: of my real friend because my uncles and I were
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  Speaker 3: gangsters and my aunties was out doing anything. So it
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  Speaker 3: gave me a sense of family and community. So I
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  Speaker 3: was like, it was God dignos exactly what he's doing.
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  Speaker 3: Whenever you think you're wrong or you're on the wrong
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  Speaker 3: path of things ain't going the way you want him
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  Speaker 3: to go. I promise you he know what he's doing,
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: and when you get to where he wants you to
• 15:23
  Speaker 3: get to, he's going to let it all reveal itself
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: to you. That I did it this way for this reason.
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: Like you'll have an aha moment, Yeah, like.
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: Why did I join the band? And then way out
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: later I'm like, wow, that was a great experience. Then
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: you know, so it was out he always knows what
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: he's doing.
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: I know we questioned it, but so you joined this band.
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: Joined the band started off with the saxophone. Then I
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: moved to the clarinet, and then I moved to the flute.
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: Saxophone was my first joy, I thought, so was the clarinet,
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: and then the food I was really good at. But
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: then Harold Brace say, Marcus, that's how it used to
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: call my name. I want you to try to oboe.
• 16:02
  Speaker 3: It's because you're a good reader of music. Because I
• 16:04
  Speaker 3: could read the music really quickly, and I hated to
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: think it gave.
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: Me a headache.
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: I read not only in trouble clip not a base clap,
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: because you have to roll your lips in to blow,
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: and it was very hard.
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: I couldn't roll my lips. I'm like, that hurts.
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: But when I got it, it was something about the
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: instrument would just soothe me. So whatever drama was going
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: on at home, whatever disrespectful names I was being called
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: or whatever abuse I was going through in my own house.
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: My instrument brought me peace. So that's why I touched it.
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: Since I left high school.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: I do have whatever disrespectful names you recalled.
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, my mother was quite abusive. She was.
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: My mother was on drugs though, and she my grandmother,
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: was abusive to her, from what she tells me. And
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: a lot of times we don't understand that, especially when
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: it comes to mothers. We don't know what what they
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: went through growing up. And when you were a kid,
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: you don't give a damn. You want my mom to
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: be nice to me. I don't know what your mama
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: did to you. Yeah, because I'm too young to understand that.
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: But a lot of times parents need to stop thinking
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: that these kids don't hear and see everything. Because kids
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: here and see everything. Talk to them like their little adults.
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: They are one day they will be adults. They're just
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: little people. They're not babies. They're little people. Sometimes you
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: got to give it to it. And I wish my
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: mother would have told me being why she was so
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: angry and so hurt and so broken, and then you
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: take the shit out on me, you know. But a
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: lot of times we don't know, and we don't understand
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: that as children until we get older, and some of
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: us cannot forgive that. Now me and my mother's relationship
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: has been completely repaired.
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah we did.
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: We both did the work to prepair it. Or did
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: you just do a whole lot of forgiving on yourself?
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: We both did a lot of forgiving on us. I
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: had to talk to my mother to understand why she
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: was so angry and so mean all the time. It
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: wasn't about drugs. It was about either a man or
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: she what my grandmother put her through, but she broke.
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: I wasn't a girl, so the cycle. You can't do
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: to me what she did you. But the name she
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: called me was some of those names. Those names hurt
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: to this day.
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: I have a question, and this is an off off
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: topic question, but as a parents in questions is someone
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: new parents, do you agree it's better for a kid
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: not to see the parents show any emotion or do
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: you think it's okay for a kid to see parents
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: go through emotions?
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: Absolutely, you should show you if.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: You should, like if I cry? Should I? Is it
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: okay to cry in front of a child or is
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: it not okay? You hide and protect.
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: I think it makes a child more attenked to you
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: because when my mother used to cry when I was
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: a baby or when I was a kid, I would
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: cry too because my mother was my mother was hurt.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: I felt that emotion.
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: I think that this world that we live in now
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: is trying to make us touch free and emotionless.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: I think you should show your children child emotions. How
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: is it going to pass on?
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: Okay? Yeah?
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: So you know if you if something hurts you, you
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: cry about it. If something bothers you, you want to
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: speak up about it now.
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: So why would not show all of them?
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: When you're happy, it's a happy emotion, So why would
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: you show all the emotions?
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Everything is not a dai
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: of emoji to stay new generation.
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: But I just thought because with kids, you know, the
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: assumption is, you know, uh, I guess you just want
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: to like protect them from.
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: The world that we live in.
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: You can't protect your kids from going to the grocery store, church,
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: or school because you don't know what's going to happen.
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: What you have to do is be the best you
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: that you can be. There is no book, There is
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: no right or wrong way. There is a wrong way
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: to be a parent, But there is no correct way
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: to be a parent. You be the parent that you
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: want that you want. That's the best thing you can do.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: Be the parent that you want.
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: So after music, where does comedy? Is comedy? The next step?
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: Like where is? I feel like something had to happen
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: between music?
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: Like what I had a girl? Drag? I started doing drag.
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: But you know what made me know that I was
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: quick with it was when we were in high school
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: we played the dozens. You know, we used to play
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: this game called beat Yo Coup Chae, beat Yo.
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: My name is Flame. I'm having fame, you know, like
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: that I got good games, okay yo, Mama is lame. Okay, okay.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: So when we were on the.
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: Bad buses, because we used to do the games and
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: we were all together, it was just great fun.
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: And looking back on that, I'm like a lot of
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: these kids because.
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: They they on their phone, they don't even look at
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: each other, and I'm like, they don't never understand what
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: that was like. And I'm glad I have those memories.
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: I hope I never lose my memory. I can lose
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: my dad mad, but I want to lose my memory.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: So in those interactions you started to I.
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: Real fell out because I had to fight girl. You know,
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: if you did too bad, they will fight you. So
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: I used to get beat up.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: A couple of times.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: At the point.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: You're some boy was a gay boy.
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: I was the openly gay boy. And I was always sissy.
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: I was always assistant. That's not everybody would that's sissy Marcus.
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: But I was always me because my grandmother in stead
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: just be happy, just be just be happy. She knew
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: I jumped double dutch. I was the best jumping up
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: double dutch rope jumper and everything. But and I got
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: into a lot of fights. But it was a different
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: type of bully, and it toughened me up. And also
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: nobody died. You know, we didn't have the internet to say, oh,
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: a hundred people say you you funny looking, and a
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: hundred people agree with it. First of all, I don't
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: know the person who said it, and damn show don't
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: know the other hundred that agreed with it. So it's
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: just it was a different time, and I don't know,
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: it made me strong. And then when I got out
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: of high school, because it took me five years to
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: get ou of high school, did you catch that. Yeah,
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: that's because I wouldn't go. I wasn't going. My mother
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: was going. I moved out and everything, and so I
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: was doing my own thing.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: I thought I was.
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: Grown for real, but I wanted my high schoo It
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: was the Plumber because my band teacher told me to
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: come back. He begged me to come back to school. Okay,
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: that's why I said that. Man was great to me.
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: And then I started doing drag shows. We were We
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: graduated high school and I took a year to go
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: to a little like a little local college. It was
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: some kind of word processing thing. I was good at typing,
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: but I didn't want to do that. I discovered the
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: night life and we started going to the gay bars.
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: And I went to this club called the Baton Show
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: Lounge in Chicago. The Baton is still around too. It's
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: a female impersonation club and girl, I saw these men
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: dressed up as women, and I was fascinated.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it. I was like, I never do that.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: You said you wouldn't do that.
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: I said I would never do that. Halloween came. I
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: didn't want to be a clown. I didn't want to
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: be a fire Trucker. I wanted to be a girl
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: good goud, I said, I was gonna do it one time.
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: Here we are thirty some years later, cities and Jesus,
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: that's why I tell people all the time, you never
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: know what your life, where life is going to take you,
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: So don't make decisions that are that you can't take.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, so he started with the drag and then
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: so how long are you doing the drag for it?
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: So when you say doing drag, like that's not.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: A career, right, Oh my god, that was a career.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: So you would make money doing I was.
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: I did the drag shows in Chicago. So and then
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: let me tell you, I never wanted to be on
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: the microphone.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: We would.
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: I was just one of the one of the one
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: of the girls, one of the players. They always had
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: to host. My sister Tasha Thomas, May she rest in peace.
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: Ages took a lot of my friends in the agies.
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: Took a lot of my friends.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: And she was like.
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: When I first did drag, the very first time, it
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: was at the Baton, But then I went to the
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: black club, it was called Club Laray, the greatest club ever,
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: and I did a Teina Marie song you make love
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: like springtime.
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: Remind you. I did the Black Song at the White
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: Club and the White song at the Black Club. This
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: is this is me wow.
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: So uh, she said, what did you do, baby, I
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: said the attend She looked at me, she said, yeah, baby,
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: drag ain't for everybody.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: Oh girl, my heart was broken. I was so hurt
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: behind that.
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: But I wasn't hurt to a point because Harold Bray,
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: the teacher, had made me tough. I wasn't hurt to
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: a point where I'm gonna go home and I ain't
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: gonna never do drag again. I'm gonna stick my head
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: into saying I was at the point of, oh, but
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: you don't tell me what I can't do. I'm gonna
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: show you. Yeah I did, and I got better and better.
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: And so then she got into a fight with another
• 24:22
  Speaker 3: young lady at the club. Okay, and the frank corner
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: my business.
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: For anyone that doesn't know, And I'm gonna say anyone
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: because me, I'm gonna say for me when you say
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: drag queen, because I kind of know and I kind
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: of don't. So I've been to a club and I've
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: seen drag queens at like Hamburger Marie in La. Yeah, okay,
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: and they performed. So when you say you did drag,
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: that's what you were doing. Your performing, you're on stage. Okay,
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: I got it.
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: But we had a different breed of drag. I was
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: to me was very different. This is a very different
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: era of drag. But so we were at a club
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: called the Clubhouse. Tatter got into a fight with another
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: young lady named Casey. Makes you rest in peace? I
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: told the agent through out of my friend. And so
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: a guy named Mark, the manager, Tino guy, came in
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: a judgement. He said, Tash, she got suspended night. We
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: need a host. So we all live in the mirror puting.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: Now make up on it.
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: I ain't paid no attention because that was never something
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: I was going to do. He says, flame you do it?
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: I said, oh, absolutely not. He said, well, I said,
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: I'm horrible on them, like, I don't want to talk
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: to these people.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: I don't know them.
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: They want to see me be a girl. They don't
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: want to hear me talking nothing. So I went out there.
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: I did he put He forced me, I give you
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: an extra fifty bucks. I said, oh okay. I went
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: and I was terrible. Oh, no, I was terrible. So
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: he said, come back next week and do it again.
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: I said, I don't want to. I don't want to
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: do this. He said, do it again. I did it again.
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: I was worse the second week than I was the
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: first week, almost to the point where the audience was
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: going to move me because it was a gay audience.
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: They played no games. Then he said one more time.
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: I said, why do you keep making me do this?
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: Which which is a testament to sometimes people see something
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: in you that you don't see in yourself. I went
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: out the third week and somebody heckled me from the
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: audience and said something really horrible.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: I don't even remember, but whatever my comeback was. The
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: room erupted.
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: I said, oh, yes, that's what you're supposed to do.
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: Ever since then, I was so I was born.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: Now, mind you.
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: I hosted the drag shows for seventeen years successfully in Chicago.
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: I would have five or six hundred people come out
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: on a Monday Thursday night in the middle of a
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: blizzard fifty degrees below zero to see flame moro.
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: Okay, and you're at this point just hosting. You're not
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: doing stand up.
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: No, I hadn't done stand up yet, so we went
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: to all jokes aside. One night, me and a couple
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: of friends of my comedy club just you know, just
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: we want to go to the comedy club. I think
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: it was like an open mic night or something, and
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: Damion Williams was the host. So I was never a
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: passable transforman, like you knew, you know, I mean, the
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: body was banging, but you knew. The face was like, uh,
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: that ain't no girl. And I'm not offended by that
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: because I'm very comfortable with who I am and who
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: I was. And so he started with me from the
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: from the stage. He didn't know he had met mother Goose,
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: so I told that ass up. So he invited me
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: to come up on stage and we went back and forth.
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: And at the time, I was on house arrests and
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: I had on pants and I had on a teddy
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: because teddies were popular at the time, and sure you
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: have the way back that was. And he said, I said,
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: don't play with me. Play are you know I'm only
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: out on loan, I'm on house arrests. I pulled my pants,
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: laid up and show my house arrests ain't cle And
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: the whole club went crazy.
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: Why were you on house arrests.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna get to that. So that's what That's
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: what I knew. I'm like, oh yeah, this is what
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: I'm supposed to do.
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: So I was on house arrest because I went to
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: I went to prison for the scept of practice in
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: nineteen ninety one.
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: What does that mean? What is practice?
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: Girl openeding fictitious bank accounts underfect names and you know,
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: like stealing bank robin, I'm funny in Clyde together, I'm.
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: Buddy in Clyde together.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: And I was sentenced to three and a half years.
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: My first defense, I had never got caught. That ain't
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: mean I had never done a crime. I had never
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: got caught.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, so you was gangster.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: I told you.
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: I was raised by all Gates's grandmama and every but
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: the judge that sendence me her name. I want you
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: to remember this name in Google. Her name was just
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: Joan core Boy. She I had a great lawyer, Jeffrey.
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: Jeffrey's last name. I can't think that number man somewhere else.
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: I was about to say Epstein, that's name is damn sure,
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: ain't no Jeffrey, no no. But he was a Jewish guy,
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: very very nice. He charged me a gang of money.
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: All the money I saw out there, I gave it
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: to him to get me out of jail. But he
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: told me that she had been data that she had
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: a ninety seven percent conviction rate for black and brown
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: me and this was ninety one. So I'm like, he's like,
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: she's going to send this you to prison just to
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: put the eggs on you. I'm like, okay, he said,
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna get your at least typing possible. Now, mind you,
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: I'm twenty one years old, maybe brand new breast and
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: plants I got in Tijuana, Mexico for sixteen hundred dollars.
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: I've been taking hormones for a couple of years. I
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: was I had got silicon in my hips, I was shaped,
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: I had long red head to my shoulders, my own
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: haird They didn't make you cut your hair anything. They
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: put me and if she sentenced me to a me
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: and spenitentiary for three and a half years.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: Exactly.
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: There was no trends in jail at the time. There
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: was nothing like me. I was a complete anominal.
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: That's very dangerous, right, if.
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: You didn't have my mindset in my mouthpiece.
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: Thank god that I was raised by the people that
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: I was raised, because the intimidation didn't work with me.
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: So the thing to do was to lock me up
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: in the hospital because that's what they could say, they
• 29:19
  Speaker 3: could keep me safe.
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: I didn't want to be in a hospital. Wasn't nothing
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: wrong with me.
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: I wanted to be out with everybody else because at
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: that time it was a different time with prison.
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: So so you preferred to go to regular per.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah I was. I was. I didn't want to
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: go to jail at all. Yeah.
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: I didn't want to be locked up. I didn't want
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: to be confined. I didn't want to be put in segregation.
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: I hadn't done anything wrong. So they tried to do
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: that because I was trains and there was no place
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: for your Now you send me to prison, now, girl,
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: they got a whole wing of training. I got trains
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: every they got a whole trans prison, I think. And
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: but I incited three riots in thirty days and didn't
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: even know that. I'd say it right because I had
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: to wear the state issued T shirts, and the T
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: shirts were paper thieves, so you could see my area,
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, and my friend used to sew up
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: my jogging pants for me to make him fit like
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: stretch pants.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: This was ninety one.
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: Wasn't those stretch pants he was sewing up. I got
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: with four a pack of cigarettes. So I was in
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: there just causing a ruckus. Mind you, I had a
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: full bread and it didn't matter. It did not matter.
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: So the warden at that time came and found me.
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: He says, are you Parker b whatever my institution name was.
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: I said I am. This was forty six days in.
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: He says, bait you coming up out of my prison.
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: You got these inward uneasy? That's exactly what he said
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: to me.
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: Two days later I was in my own house. I
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: served eleven and a half months on house arrests in
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: my own house.
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: That's crazy.
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: Look at Godo, no catch this story. Let me finish
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: the story. We ain't get back back to the judge. Meanwhile,
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: about a year later, the judge was on vacation with
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: her family in Boca Raton, Florida. True story, Google it,
• 30:54
  Speaker 3: and she was killed in a freak accident. You know
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: how you have to push the clicker and the electrical
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: gate closes. The electual gate when you know when you
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: the sensor. When it hits ther sensor, it is supposed
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: to stop. There was no censor. It never stopped. The
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: gate crushed and killed her family, suit and got twenty
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: million dollars. Oh no, did I fail to mention that
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: I got an A on my online electricians class while
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: I was on house to rest. That's a joke. I'd
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: never been in the vocal Town, Florida. But the story
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: is true.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: Google it.
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So how do you go from Chicago seventeen
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: years to where you're at today? I'm trying to catch.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: Up, catch up today.
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: So I met Tasha for first Tasha my son's mom,
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: and we was just kicking the bobos and we ended
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: up getting pregnant.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: So I wanted her. She had already had a son
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: and maybe two years older.
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: This is the one you love, right.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: No, this was the boy I was just kicking the
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: bobos with the first Tash. Tasha too was the one
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: I love.
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: And she said and what I respected about her, may
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: she rest in peace. May you rest in peace? Tasha
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: was She was like, I don't want another baby, fling,
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: I said, just have my baby. I'd never actually for anything,
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: I never had to go to court. We never had
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: to set no papers. It was I took him home
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: from the hospital. If she wanted to see him, she could,
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: but it was my baby and he stealed my baby.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: My baby got full rat to TSU. Last year.
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: He only did one semester Tennessee State Universey made the
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: Ding's list that he hated it.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: So you asked her for the baby, and then she
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: did it.
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: And never gave me no grief over the years. Now,
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: the other one who I loved, we went back and forth.
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: I had to go to court eleven times here in
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: Long Beach just to get custy with my kids.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: Eleven times.
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: I didn't go in drag, I didn't go dressed up,
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: I didn't go over the top. But the judge, because
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: I was my presentation is transgender, made me come to
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: court eleven times just from my own biological children. Wow,
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: Illinois told me no. Illinois just said absolutely not. That's
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: why that was the reason we moved from Illinois to California.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: Everybody said you was chasing your dream.
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: I was chasing that too, But I wanted custody of
• 32:57
  Speaker 3: my children and I didn't even need no colleges. And
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: why I'm living in life. I'm living who I am.
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: This is who I was when they were conceived. Why
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: would anything change? Yes, please, why would anything change? So
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: that's where we're at.
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: Okay, so now you're in LA you have your children.
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: How does flame and Roll turn? You know, to flame
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: and roll?
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: So I was working at Hamburger, Mary's and Long Beach
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: for a long time.
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: Really, Oh yeah, I wonder if you went to you
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: were there when I went You were in Hollywood, right, yeah,
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: the Hollywood.
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I never really went there. I used to work
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: at the one in Loan Beach. But they were very
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: racist behind the scenes. Let me just say that publicly,
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: because racism does exist within the game community. You know,
• 33:43
  Speaker 3: you love to say we're not racist.
• 33:45
  Speaker 4: Bush yeahs added so just corn okras, celery, onions, tomato.
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: And some lawries.
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: I had some accent. I put that to that.
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: And that's with MSG now without okay, without that's like
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: having sex with no kindom good god. Uh So yeah,
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: And so I worked there and then I did botched
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: in maybe twenty sixteen, and they fixed my left boot
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: because my left booth had encapsulated. It was kind of
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: Gangmang and leaning to the left. It was thank and
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: I didn't know. I was never in any paint or anything.
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: And because when I worked at hammerger Mary's, I tell you,
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: God put you where he needs you to be. I
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: was miserable there. I made tons of money. I was
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: the biggest girl there as far as would make all
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: the money. But I was miserable because they were just
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: they were just it just wasn't for me.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: Okay and uh.
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: We were taking pictures and the guy was like, have
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: you been on I thought about going on boys? I'm
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: like for what He was like, Oh no, we'll fix
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: your nose or if you got breathe with just because
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: your story is so interesting, because he knew I had
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: kids and everything, and I was like no, And you
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: know everybody in Hollywood will tell you.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: I'm a producer. I'm yeah.
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: He said, I said, I'll give you my email address,
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: and so I gave him my email address and longer hold.
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: Two weeks they reached out to me and I went
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: to see doctor de Bry and I told him I
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: wanted to make my breast and plant smaller. And when
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: they did the X ray, he showed me that my
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: left breast was completely busted. When you watched the episode
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: on YouTube. You'll see it.
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: I didn't even know that because I wasn't in no pain.
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: I was.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: I was. I was slipping off the stage and everything.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: And he was the nicest man.
• 35:18
  Speaker 3: Oh, he was the nicest, nicest doctor Deboro and that's
• 35:22
  Speaker 3: it was nice too, But the bro just was the
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: sweet got very expensive surgery.
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: They gave me great boobs.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: Too, and they gave it to you. They didn't comp it.
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was for free because you know my story.
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: But I had to be on TV boom My wig
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: off and with my fat belly at that time, I
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: was a little thicker. And when idea the reveal at
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: Hamburger Mary's, Tiffany had it, who had just taped Girls Trip.
• 35:41
  Speaker 3: We were already friends. We were already cool and not
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: like close close friends, but we worked on the circuit
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: together and we were always very personal with each other.
• 35:50
  Speaker 3: She she came and introduced me. She had taped Girl Trip,
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: Girls Trip, but it hadn't dropped yet, so she hadn't
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: become the superstar that she become. So I told him,
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: I asked her when she introduced me. She said, yeah,
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: she came out to the club. She introduced me and
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: woo wooh, And I told the producer, I said, you
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: need to watch this girl. This girlgle we magnificent. Tiffany
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: came behind the scenes after the fact that she saw
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: me talking with him, and she says, when I make it,
• 36:14
  Speaker 3: I'm going to come back and get you. She did,
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: she did, and she did, and when she got an
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: opportunity to do Stay Ready, she called me. And there
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: were forces on that show that did not want me
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: on that show, that did not want no parts of
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: me on that show, and Tiffany was like, Nope, this
• 36:31
  Speaker 3: is who I want.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: This is who's gonna be on the show.
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: They didn't want me so bad that they didn't want
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: to submit my episode, and my episode was the only
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: one submitted and got nominated for Emmy.
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: Tiffany had his present Stay Ready. And I'm not saying
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: that like I'm gloating. I'm saying that because I had
• 36:51
  Speaker 3: to prove somebody wrong. I know what works for me.
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: I'm very comfortable with flame Moro, and I know what
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: my weaknesses and my strengths are.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: So where did comedy come into play?
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: I don't know. And y'all gonna be mad at me
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: about this. Comedy is not my first live. Stand up
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: is not my first live as I'm an MC. And
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: the reason I say that people say, well, isn't it
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: the same thing? Absolutely not. A lot of comedians can't host,
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: and a lot of hosts can't do stand up. Luckily
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: I can do both. But I love to host because
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: what that allows.
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: Me to do is excuse me. Is whatever curtain or
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: fear or shield you have in.
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: Front of you, after sitting with me, listening to me
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: self defecate, laugh, make jokes about what's happening in the
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: world from a human aspect twenty minutes here, you're going
• 37:44
  Speaker 3: to be so familiar with me. You're gonna be like
• 37:46
  Speaker 3: I forgot the flame was trans slame. Is my uncle
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: or my auntie or this is?
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: That is my gift. My gift is to bring people together,
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: not to separate us.
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because I could see that the first time we met.
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: Was I want to say, was it like eight months ago?
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: We may have been nine months ago. We were at
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: the iHeart some iHeart things for the Black Effect, and
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: I met you, and I can honestly say I don't
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: know any trans anything, not in person, like I don't
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: know anybody personally, and I remember like our first interaction,
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: you were like I had all these random questions, like
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: within three minutes of meeting you, and you were like
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: breaking it down and you know you we had some
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: of the same viewpoints, but it was for me. It
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: was so nice to hear it come from you. And
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, okay, so you know, my first interaction
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: with like a trans person where we could like openly
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: talk about stuff. And I was throwing stuff at you,
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: and I remember everybody just looking around like Okay, it's
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: Coley's like just gonna keep going. And I was like, well,
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: was you make me feel comfortable?
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: Thank you? That is my gift.
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: And because I do free voices, which is every Monday
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: night and then we put your shameless plugging at the
• 38:54
  Speaker 3: Hollywood Laugh Factory at seven.
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: Thirty we do a show at the Laugh Factory.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: Huh every Monday night, Monday night, seven thirty pm.
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: I have such a diverse audience and and I'm talking
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: when I say the verse, I'm talking about Asian, Caucasian,
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: Mexican that that come to enjoy me. Because there I'm
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: not going to say there is no color, but there
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: is no race with me. Yeah, everybody gets it. I
• 39:19
  Speaker 3: destroyed black people because I'm glad I destroyed what And
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: when I say destroy, I make you see it for
• 39:24
  Speaker 3: what it is and then make you laugh at it
• 39:26
  Speaker 3: because it's not that serious.
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: Yes, and it just puts everybody at ease.
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: And just every Monday, and I'm telling we have the
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: best you should come out, we have the best time,
• 39:36
  Speaker 3: because that's.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: What I want to do.
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: Every The world is so tight and so disgrunted, and
• 39:40
  Speaker 3: racism ain't going nowhere. Politics is crazy. We have survived coronavirus.
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: This is the forty seventh day of twenty twenty three,
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: and we have had sixty eight mass shootings. Wow, you
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: don't know what's going to happen twenty minutes from now.
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: So live your life and have a great time living.
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: It ain't gonna always be peaches and cream, but it
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: don't take it so serious.
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: Do you feel like you've arrived?
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: No? Absolutely not.
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: Was there a point in your career where you're like, okay,
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: this is it?
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: Like I'm stable in twenty nineteen and then the pandemic
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: hit twenty nineteen. My career was flourishing like a brand
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: new flower in spring. And then I did the Breakfast Club,
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: which I absolutely love, and a lot of my community
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: felt like I didn't speak on their behalf. I didn't
• 40:42
  Speaker 3: because here's the killer right here. Because I'm a part
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: of the lgbt Q I A plus community does not
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: mean that because I got a little shine that I'm
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: supposed to be the spokesperson of the community. That was
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: never something that I wanted. That was never an objective
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: that And if you listen to me on the Breakfast Club,
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: which brought me on as a comedian, they never brought
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: me on because I was trans. They never brought me
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: on because I was black or dead. They brought me
• 41:07
  Speaker 3: on because I was a comedian. I could explicitly said three, four, five,
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: twelve times, I represent flame Unroe.
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: I'm speaking for me, okay.
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: So on that interview, that was the thing that was
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: like the.
• 41:20
  Speaker 3: That was the turning point that made them feel like,
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: I'm not really a trans person or I'm not a
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: trans woman.
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: I'm this.
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: Whatever your opinion is of you never has any re
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: infection on me because what you're saying about me don't
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: don't represent me.
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: Well, the trans community has the not the trans community.
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: The LGBTQ community has so much power. Were you a
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: little bit intimidated when there was a backlash? Were you
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: a little you know they intimidated or nervous because I
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: feel like they have so much power that like getting
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: the wrath from them can be very scary.
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: Well, I have.
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: I've faced the raft since maybe September of last year.
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: I probably lost two hundred thousand dollars in work because
• 42:01
  Speaker 3: of who I am and how I speak.
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: And that's crazy, because you're a part of their community
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: and that you still you can still face some level
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: of punishment.
• 42:11
  Speaker 3: Nothing that I survive the eighties, the nineties and the
• 42:16
  Speaker 3: two thousands.
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: That ain't gonna break me, Okay.
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: And I see women and I know what a woman
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: is to me, and I know what a woman is
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: to this world, which is Mother Earth and every trans
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: woman and trans man and lgbt Q I a plus
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: person came through.
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: A woman, a woman.
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: And that's not to say that however you feel you
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: represent you, that you don't represent you.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: But we came through a woman. Yeah. I'm not a female,
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: I will never be a female. I'm a female impersonator
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: and a very good way.
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: You're still only twenty minutes and that's why you always
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: say that he she we.
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: That's why I say he she we because you know,
• 42:51
  Speaker 3: and there's so many new terminologies with the non binary
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: and you know, and I'm still learning, and I'm a
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: part of the community, but I am a dinosaur in
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: some aspect because I'm still learning. Because every other week
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: it's a goddamn new alphabet latitude, so I'm still learning.
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: I thought it was twenty six y'all. Oh my god, do.
• 43:08
  Speaker 2: You feel obligated to keep up with the with the
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: the new lango.
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: I feel like I have a responsibility that I need
• 43:18
  Speaker 3: to learn it in case I'm ever speaking with some
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: other people. Is that they're dialect That does not mean
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: that I have to use the language that they use.
• 43:26
  Speaker 3: I just need to be able to say that I
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: understand what you're saying to me. Because all the women
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: that I know, biological women do not like the term
• 43:33
  Speaker 3: cis woman, so I don't use cis woman exactly.
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: But okay, let's try your dish. Is it ready?
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: It's pretty much ready? You got some rice?
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: I have rice?
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: Okay, y'all, so we got some?
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: Do we put the rice in your dish or do
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: we put it on your plate?
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: And I'm gonna put it and you put this over
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: top of.
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: The rice, okay, and then I'm gonna put some rice
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: on your plate. So in the crash, so you were
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: you felt like you were doing well before the crash, Yeah,
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: and then the pandemic.
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: Happening, and the pandemic happened, but then I heeart that.
• 44:04
  Speaker 3: So what people don't know is they think that me
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: and Charlomagne had this great friendship that happen. Charlemagne hired
• 44:09
  Speaker 3: me the very first time I did the Breakfast Club.
• 44:12
  Speaker 3: He said, you're coming to work for me, he told
• 44:14
  Speaker 3: me on that day.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: Okay, I say, you ain't got no doubt.
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: You know which power you got? You ain't got nothing,
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: Lord behold. Charlie May signed fourteen podcasts and self included
• 44:22
  Speaker 3: two years ago to the Black Effect Network. He was
• 44:26
  Speaker 3: creating something and you know, and on that excuse me,
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: everybody wanted me to give Charlamagne a hard time with
• 44:32
  Speaker 3: blame he is and he did. When you're going to
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: show tear him up. Charlemagne and Enby were so pleasant
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: to me and so wonderful to me and respectful. You know,
• 44:40
  Speaker 3: even when I went on that time when Boosie was
• 44:42
  Speaker 3: on there a little boosy. He gets a bad rap
• 44:44
  Speaker 3: from the community. His manager is openly gay, and I
• 44:48
  Speaker 3: ain't talking about just regular gay. He the gay with
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: the cape and the s and the ryaningstones and the feathers.
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: That kind of gay. Good.
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: I want a piece of bacon, just just so I
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: can say, I have a piece of bacon, A plate
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: of your pre cooked my pre cooked appleby it sounds
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: very Is there a reason why it has to be
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: apple work?
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: Oh? I love apple baker apple. We just got a
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: flavor to it.
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: Oh and you know who has the best apple bakon
• 45:13
  Speaker 3: gelston It costs three hundred dollars a pack.
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: Oh my god. You know Gelston's is the high end store.
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: I've only shot that Gelston's. Uh, when when there's it's
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: that moment.
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: Let me.
• 45:28
  Speaker 3: I buy an E B T car from a girl
• 45:30
  Speaker 3: sometimes and I go to Gelston's with eb T car
• 45:33
  Speaker 3: and get the strip and crab and lobster and get
• 45:35
  Speaker 3: to the counter and she said hi, cash check, And
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: I say eb T real loud, so everybody look at me.
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: You know what's so funny? You wouldn't even think that
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: about E B T and Gelston's.
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: They take everybody take ebt baby.
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what. When I was younger, I thought
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: you couldn't get fast food with food stamps. But then
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: now it's like, you can get fast food with food stands.
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: This show one PG. I'll tell you what else you
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: can give a food stamp.
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: Hold, it's not what can you get?
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: It was a joke. Okay, you taste it?
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: I taste it. It's you know what. I just want
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: to try the Oprah.
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: Try to it's not gonna even have a you can
• 46:15
  Speaker 3: do it. You can do it, you can do it.
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: I believe in you.
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: Oh god, I still hey, Okra a taste it's Slimmy.
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, I can't do that?
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: Means are you married?
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Well about to be divorced?
• 46:35
  Speaker 3: Is it because you didn't like Slimmy?
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: I got a good comeback for world. No, it's because
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: too many girls like Slimmy.
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: Okay that come on, I got it all the way.
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: If y'all missed that, y'all too young? Grow up?
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. No, but you know what
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: I'm not.
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: I don't like what you know, like Oprah.
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: I don't like what anything? What?
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: What?
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Like that texture? So maybe that could inside joke inside,
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: Exactly what but that the player up under this wing
• 47:15
  Speaker 3: is like, you ain't no fun.
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: I would have divorced you. You don't like what?
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: No, let me tell you.
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: You hear me talk about Okra, that's what I was talking.
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: Let me just tell you so I can just save
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: my own reputation. And god, God, please hopefully my family
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: doesn't listen to this episode. But let me tell you something. Okay,
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: he married me, so I clearly learned how to do
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: the job that I had to do to do it. Okay,
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: so I do I accommodated. Okay, it sounds like a task.
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: I need you to enjoy it. Do you know what?
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: I need you to smile.
• 47:54
  Speaker 3: Like it's the last supper.
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: Look, when we got off the cameras off, I'm I'm
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: gonna show her how I was getting down. Okay, because
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: she will be impressed with me.
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: Okay, she said she, but you show me the right way.
• 48:12
  Speaker 3: This rig might slide back a little bit, and oh
• 48:15
  Speaker 3: my god, let me stop my photi.
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: So you know I did Coming View first.
• 48:20
  Speaker 3: I was the first trans person ever to be on
• 48:24
  Speaker 3: Coming View in two thousand and four, where Ricky Smiley.
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: Was that had to have been a pivotal moment where
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: it was.
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: But but hear me when I tell you, Chris Spencer
• 48:32
  Speaker 3: was the one who got me on Coming View. Chrispincer
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: picked up the phone, made a phone call and got
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: me with Joyce Coleman and I was on Common View.
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: But they tried to market me as a female. They
• 48:40
  Speaker 3: were petrified to market me as a trans in two
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: thousand and four. This is how far we have come
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: because if they marketed me as a trans to controversy
• 48:50
  Speaker 3: along with.
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: You know, but all the world wasn't ready, Oh my god,
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: the world.
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: But when they see it, they wouldn't be able to tell.
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: They could tell, but they really did not want to
• 48:59
  Speaker 3: say the words.
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: This is and this is why I'm saying.
• 49:03
  Speaker 3: We have moved from a space where they wouldn't say
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: trans woman and transman is self explanatory.
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: But can I ask is do you don't think? Well,
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: you would? You would only be the one to know.
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: So is it more proper to say trans woman or
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: just say.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: She see I like both? Okay, there was a time, Okay,
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: you know where he is not? Okay?
• 49:25
  Speaker 3: If if a trans girl's presentation is female, it is
• 49:29
  Speaker 3: disrespectful to call her he. We do that out of
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: shade when we argue with each other, but it really
• 49:35
  Speaker 3: is disrespectful.
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: And some of their play that yeah.
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure a lot of people are gonna didn't
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: know that.
• 49:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah with me because I'm so comfortable who I am
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: and my my pronoun you know, say it's he she
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: weak again. I'm a comedian, so every I make light
• 49:52
  Speaker 3: and fun pretty much of almost everything.
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: By the way, this is delicious. I just moved all
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: the oak run to the side.
• 50:00
  Speaker 3: I wish I had my other seasons, but I'm telling
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: you that, you see, I'm telling you make the same
• 50:04
  Speaker 3: baby you get each other.
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: Look at all that Oprah everybody, how much I hate Oprah,
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: I will never there just nothing, nothing's making.
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: And I'm not going to force that on you either.
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: I want you to hear what I was saying, literally
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: what I say.
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: I'm not going to force that on you, just like
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: I don't force me on people. I earned when I
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: started in comedy in ninety seven ninety eight. I could
• 50:31
  Speaker 3: be in the green room with a room for the
• 50:33
  Speaker 3: comedians and I was invisible. They wouldn't talk to me,
• 50:37
  Speaker 3: They wouldn't speak to me. They wouldn't even make eye
• 50:39
  Speaker 3: contact with me. I earned their respect because I kept coming.
• 50:44
  Speaker 3: They weren't going to chase me away. I was a
• 50:46
  Speaker 3: tough not to crack, and I kept learning and getting
• 50:49
  Speaker 3: on stage, and every now and again I would break
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: through show, kept teeny show and half, and every now
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: and again a comic come and say good job.
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: Like sometimes it was on the low on a choir.
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: But it let me know I was doing I was
• 51:00
  Speaker 3: supposed to do. When they saw that I wasn't going anywhere.
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: And I've been in the game twenty years now, a
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: one male comic and said, ooh, Flame tried to get
• 51:06
  Speaker 3: with me. Flamee tried. That was never the reputation I wanted.
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: That was never what I didn't come in here for that.
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: I came here to do this job. I wanted to
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: play a y'all spint. I didn't want to play in
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: just the LGBT party. It's too limided. I wanted to
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: be a world known comedian, not just a gay comedian.
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: What made Charlotte bring you on the Breakfast Club?
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: Because I had did they ready with Tiffany House and
• 51:26
  Speaker 3: she had did the show. And that's why I said
• 51:28
  Speaker 3: when he brought me on. He didn't bring me on
• 51:30
  Speaker 3: as a trans person. He brought me on as a
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: comedian because we had taped they ready, and so my
• 51:35
  Speaker 3: community got upset with me because they wanted me to
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: be the you know, everybody gets a little shot. No,
• 51:41
  Speaker 3: that was not what I didn't going there to tell
• 51:43
  Speaker 3: him down. I love my sister, but I'm not gonna
• 51:44
  Speaker 3: fight for bullshit. If it's bullshit, I'm not gonna I'm
• 51:46
  Speaker 3: not gonna stand up for that. But if it's something real,
• 51:49
  Speaker 3: like you know what's real to me? Like right now,
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: we all in the tizzy over pronouns and bathroom rights. Meanwhile,
• 51:55
  Speaker 3: the GOP is forcing a don't say gay bill and
• 51:59
  Speaker 3: no more drag, which is how I made my living
• 52:01
  Speaker 3: for a very long time, and a lot of my sisters,
• 52:03
  Speaker 3: including the girls from RuPaul's Drag Race, we make our
• 52:06
  Speaker 3: living off drag shows. Y'all got George Santez, who is
• 52:09
  Speaker 3: openly gay and used to do drag shows in Santa Bill,
• 52:12
  Speaker 3: to say don't say gay and no on drag shows,
• 52:15
  Speaker 3: and we ain't said.
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: Have you heard the community in an uproar about George Santos.
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: No, I don't say gay, That what does that mean
• 52:21
  Speaker 2: you can't say the word.
• 52:22
  Speaker 3: Well, according to Ron DeSantis in Florida, he's trying to
• 52:26
  Speaker 3: He has adopted the bill where they don't want teach
• 52:28
  Speaker 3: the little kids to be able to come to If
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: you were my teacher and I couldn't talk to my
• 52:32
  Speaker 3: mom that I was having feelings for little boys, but
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: you made me feel safe, So I came and talked
• 52:37
  Speaker 3: to you.
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: And you can go to jail.
• 52:40
  Speaker 3: You can lose your job because you're not supposed to
• 52:42
  Speaker 3: have those conversations with these So now these kids have
• 52:45
  Speaker 3: nobody to turn to, nobody to talk to. It's not safe.
• 52:49
  Speaker 3: But we're not in an uproar about that. We're too
• 52:51
  Speaker 3: busy worried about things that are just so insignificant. I
• 52:54
  Speaker 3: don't fight over insignificant. It needs to mean something, and
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: that means something to me.
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: If you had advice to give to someone that's coming
• 53:01
  Speaker 2: up in the same lane as you, what advice would
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: you get?
• 53:07
  Speaker 3: Make great relationships and get as much stage time experience
• 53:11
  Speaker 3: as you can because every room is different, every audience
• 53:15
  Speaker 3: is different, and learn your audience. There is a responsibility
• 53:18
  Speaker 3: on comedians to learn their audience.
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: There is a lot of comedians.
• 53:22
  Speaker 3: I ain't changing myself for nobody, Then you're not growing
• 53:26
  Speaker 3: as a comic because I'm not going to go into
• 53:28
  Speaker 3: a room full of Trumpsters doing my trump stuff knowing
• 53:32
  Speaker 3: that I'm offending these people on purpose. Now I will
• 53:36
  Speaker 3: change it from talking about his politics to talking about
• 53:38
  Speaker 3: his shape or his hair to make it.
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: Funny to them.
• 53:42
  Speaker 3: There is a responsibility, and a lot of times I
• 53:45
  Speaker 3: think that some of these comics that don't change things
• 53:50
  Speaker 3: happen that shouldn't happen because you have to adapt, adapt
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: to the room that you're in.
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: Okay, And then I just have just a couple more
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: questions because we definitely went over the come on, what
• 54:01
  Speaker 2: was the hardest hurdle you think you had to overcome,
• 54:04
  Speaker 2: either personally or professionally in your entire lifetime.
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: Or broken heart?
• 54:10
  Speaker 3: It's the hardest thing I've ever heard that would come
• 54:12
  Speaker 3: because people always didn't like me or I didn't like him.
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: I was always good with that too.
• 54:16
  Speaker 2: But why do you say broken heart? Did it affect
• 54:18
  Speaker 2: you professionally?
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, it made me.
• 54:20
  Speaker 3: It made me step away from the stage for a while,
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: because I'm telling my baby, Mama had me some displaced
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: She had me crazy as a role is and long
• 54:27
  Speaker 3: did it last? For seven years? But I've had my
• 54:29
  Speaker 3: heart broken by a woman and a man when I
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: went to prison. When I got caught, I had a boyfriend.
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: He put me in prison.
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: I was slick. I wouldn't go get caught. He turned me.
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: He turned me. He was angry.
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: Riched Yeah, bitch, ass nigga.
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: Can I say that.
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: I assume you broke up on him when he snitched?
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: Well, I see that. That's show you how damb I was.
• 54:48
  Speaker 3: I got out of prison and went right back to him.
• 54:50
  Speaker 3: But Menjo only did forty eight days.
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: But I went right back to him, Okay.
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: And and what happened was I was blind because I
• 54:59
  Speaker 3: was in it. But after going through the prison humiliation
• 55:02
  Speaker 3: because I never had anything bad happened to me in prison,
• 55:05
  Speaker 3: Thank you Jesus. I was so protected because my uncles
• 55:07
  Speaker 3: were all stones on the West Side. Everybody knew the
• 55:10
  Speaker 3: Gifts and family. Everybody knew us, so they knew who
• 55:13
  Speaker 3: I was, so nobody was gonna bother me.
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: I mean not. I was never worried about that part.
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: But he was just he got drugs and it just
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: hurt me. I don't never want to I'm afraid of
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: love because of that.
• 55:28
  Speaker 2: So what did like you did? Seven years of heartbreak?
• 55:31
  Speaker 2: So what got you out of it? Was it just time?
• 55:33
  Speaker 3: Or was it like she kept she left? You know,
• 55:35
  Speaker 3: she kept leaving. What's the songbody ojy? She says, your
• 55:38
  Speaker 3: body's here with me, but your man is on the
• 55:40
  Speaker 3: other side of town.
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: She stayed on the other side of town. Her body
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: was physically there, but she wasn't there. And she was young.
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: She didn't want to be a mom. She wanted to.
• 55:51
  Speaker 3: I think she wanted to be a mother for her mother,
• 55:53
  Speaker 3: but she really didn't want to be a mommy.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: If you understand what that her mama wanted her.
• 55:57
  Speaker 3: To prove that she was because she was an open legs,
• 56:00
  Speaker 3: looked like a little boy, and her mom wanted her
• 56:03
  Speaker 3: to be girl grandmama. So I think she did that
• 56:07
  Speaker 3: for her mom. I just happened to be the collateral damage.
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: Thank god. I wanted my children though.
• 56:12
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, And then you got back to work.
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: I had to heal.
• 56:18
  Speaker 2: How did how did you heal and get back in
• 56:21
  Speaker 2: the race?
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: That was the that was the hardest part.
• 56:24
  Speaker 3: I have. My oldest daughter's name is easy. My children
• 56:26
  Speaker 3: name is JaMarcus, Ezzy and Isaiah. Isabella Easy looks exactly
• 56:32
  Speaker 3: like her mother. And I'm talking about from day one.
• 56:36
  Speaker 3: So do you know how hard it was to men
• 56:39
  Speaker 3: your broken heart while still functioning. I had a three
• 56:42
  Speaker 3: year old, a three month old, and a three and
• 56:44
  Speaker 3: a half year old, all at the same time by
• 56:46
  Speaker 3: myself with a broken heart in southern California, own food stamps.
• 56:51
  Speaker 3: We couldn't get on Section eight because they said I
• 56:53
  Speaker 3: made too much money struggling, couldn't find no work because
• 56:58
  Speaker 3: I couldn't get my man right. But I couldn't get
• 57:01
  Speaker 3: in a dark hole depressed because I had a bottle
• 57:04
  Speaker 3: to fix. I had daycare, I had a pampa to change,
• 57:07
  Speaker 3: I had to do laundry.
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: God kept me busy so I wouldn't sit and.
• 57:11
  Speaker 3: Wallow in my pain, even though there was times when
• 57:14
  Speaker 3: I went to that bathroom it had meltdown because I
• 57:17
  Speaker 3: didn't have no help. I couldn't leave my kids on
• 57:19
  Speaker 3: my mom. Yeah, you know my mom had She was
• 57:24
  Speaker 3: she was not nice.
• 57:25
  Speaker 2: So how are you working and supporting everything?
• 57:29
  Speaker 3: I was always a master of what I needed to do.
• 57:31
  Speaker 3: I was always a great hustler. I was always a
• 57:34
  Speaker 3: good hustler. You know, I knew how to push the
• 57:36
  Speaker 3: almost illegal boundaries to make sure that my children could
• 57:40
  Speaker 3: And when we were broke, when I had no money
• 57:43
  Speaker 3: and I couldn't get no work because I was ostracized.
• 57:46
  Speaker 3: After I left Hamburger, Mareas and Long Beach in southern California,
• 57:50
  Speaker 3: where I couldn't get no work in the drag shows,
• 57:52
  Speaker 3: I sharpened up my gucca skills. I knew how to
• 57:55
  Speaker 3: go to the grocery store and take a pack of
• 57:57
  Speaker 3: meat and take the censer off and go to the
• 57:59
  Speaker 3: freezer and stick it down my girdle to get out.
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: Oh, I had to feed money.
• 58:03
  Speaker 2: I take it. Your kids know about stash?
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, yes we eat we got money, We
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: still eat it.
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I love that you got personal.
• 58:13
  Speaker 3: Like, well, you know what, why sugar coat the true
• 58:17
  Speaker 3: I did what I had to do to take care
• 58:18
  Speaker 3: of my family. So when when they would take ostracize
• 58:22
  Speaker 3: me and say like they're doing now this whole cancel
• 58:24
  Speaker 3: culture thing, you are starving some possibly starving somebody's kid. Yeah,
• 58:29
  Speaker 3: you know you you mad at this person because of
• 58:31
  Speaker 3: a statement they said, like you don't have an opinion,
• 58:34
  Speaker 3: like you haven't said some things that could offend somebody
• 58:37
  Speaker 3: or have benefits or still offending somebody, and you want
• 58:40
  Speaker 3: to stop somebody because I hurt your feelings. You get
• 58:45
  Speaker 3: over feelings, you don't get over AR fifteens. Yes, you
• 58:49
  Speaker 3: know this country is so backwards and baffling to me.
• 58:52
  Speaker 3: We want to take away books that take away history,
• 58:54
  Speaker 3: but we don't want to We don't want to stop
• 58:55
  Speaker 3: selling AR fifteens. That's making history because air fifteen gonna
• 58:59
  Speaker 3: make you his three.
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you I maybe maybe I'm twisted.
• 59:05
  Speaker 2: No, I'm against. I'm one hundred percent against cancel culture.
• 59:09
  Speaker 2: My husband's a comedian, my little brother is a comedian,
• 59:11
  Speaker 2: and I can only imagine, like, you know, the that
• 59:17
  Speaker 2: area where you know comedy is supposed to laugh at
• 59:19
  Speaker 2: my pain, right, and it's just you know, it's now
• 59:22
  Speaker 2: in an area where you know, now you have to
• 59:24
  Speaker 2: be considerate of the audience's feelings, which usually they.
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  Speaker 3: Want you to walk around on Asia's I can't even
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  Speaker 3: balance their regular shoes. I damn sure they're gonna walk
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  Speaker 3: around the way as you're gonna get it. You're just
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  Speaker 3: gonna get it. And here it is. It's not gonna.
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  Speaker 2: Stop me, but you're not you're not afraid of cancel culture.
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  Speaker 3: I am not afraid of anything but Jesus, that's it.
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  Speaker 3: They have stopped a lot of work for me. But
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  Speaker 3: it's just like you stop work for me. I came
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  Speaker 3: and Sammy for a third year for Laugh and Learn.
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  Speaker 3: The bookings keep coming in from the comedy clubs because
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  Speaker 3: the mouth don't stop.
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  Speaker 1: And the talent is here.
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  Speaker 3: What you're gonna silence me? No, that ain't gonna silence me.
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  Speaker 3: Still in my we ignite, but that ain't gonna silence me?
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  Speaker 2: All right? Well, where can everybody catch up with you
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  Speaker 2: and keep up with you?
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  Speaker 1: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: You can follow me on Instagram at Monroe Flame, on
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  Speaker 3: Twitter at Flame Monroe, on YouTube at Flame Monroe, on
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  Speaker 3: TikTok at Flame Monroe one two five, and on Facebook
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  Speaker 3: at Marcus Flame Monroe Parker. And you can go to
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  Speaker 3: my bio on Instagram to see where my books are
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  Speaker 3: coming up. Because I'm coming to younkers. I'm coming to pleasanton.
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  Speaker 3: But every Monday you can see me at the Hollywood
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  Speaker 3: Laugh Factor on Sunset blahlah blah. We have the best
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  Speaker 3: best adult fund for free voices. Come and hang out
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  Speaker 3: with me. There's no censor and You're going to be
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  Speaker 3: thoroughly entertained.
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  Speaker 1: And this is my nice dress. This is my Christian
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  Speaker 1: dress Monday.
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  Speaker 3: And.
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  Speaker 2: Can bitch do what we do?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, let me see you pop?
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  Speaker 2: Oh you do it right? Okay, I'm not there yet.
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  Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, okay.
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  Speaker 3: When your daughter's like getting on your nerves screaming hop
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  Speaker 3: that fan.
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  Speaker 2: I guarantee you. Once my daughter sees me do this,
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  Speaker 2: that's the only thing she's gonna be doing next. Thank
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 2: you guys for tuning in to another episode of Eating
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: While Broke. The disc soccotash was definitely something you can
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 2: make at home, easy, affordable, convenient. You know, in my
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 2: personal opinion, skip the okra up please peace out.
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  Speaker 5: You better keep it wet.
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