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90 Day Fiancé 1213 “Do I Stay or Do I Go“ Part 1 · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, Welcome back to Vanity Farah. My name is
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Speaker 1: Chris Farrah and I am live in location in Louisiana.
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Speaker 1: I'm going to go to New Orleans and I'm going
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Speaker 1: to try and find me. Though, no, that's not what
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Speaker 1: I'm doing. I am going to New Orleans. But could
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Speaker 1: you imagine if I spend any time I try and
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Speaker 1: actually find this person. Now, I will be enjoying some
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Speaker 1: jazz and watching my dad eat disgusting fried foods and whatnot.
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Speaker 1: But guess what we're talking about. I've already led with it.
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Speaker 1: It's ninety day Fiance. This is season twelve, It's episode thirteen.
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Speaker 1: Do I Stay or do I go? That's called restraint.
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Speaker 1: That's the new me. The new me is that. Yes,
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Speaker 1: of course it makes me think of that song. But
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Speaker 1: do I have to sing at full blast? Now? Can
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Speaker 1: I humme it? Modestly? Demurely? Sure, especially because I'm holding
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Speaker 1: a lava mic. This is what I've decided as a
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Speaker 1: travel option in this moment, and I'm hoping that it
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Speaker 1: works out anyway. So I'm gonna try my best not
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Speaker 1: to just blow your ears out with unnecessary singing, even
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Speaker 1: though I think all singing is in fact, what necessary? Okay,
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Speaker 1: all right, my babes, can you believe what we were given?
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Speaker 1: What a crazy episode? Now? There was already enough? Like
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Speaker 1: already there was enough. Now I think that any rational,
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Speaker 1: normal person would look at this episode and be like,
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Speaker 1: don't we have enough? Last minute? Oh no's? And should
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Speaker 1: we do this or not? Ultimated moments reasons like don't
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Speaker 1: we have enough of those? Storyline wise? I just I
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Speaker 1: don't know, because we also have natural gems like finding
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Speaker 1: out that Josh doesn't like to go down on Katie.
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Speaker 1: I could have explored that longer, except here's the problem,
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Speaker 1: and I guess we'll have to start with them. Katie's
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Speaker 1: friends are horrified by her at every moment and what's
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Speaker 1: gonna come out of her mouth and how they're supposed
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Speaker 1: to react on camera. So they're not equipped and don't
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Speaker 1: want to prod the beast or poke the monster, you
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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like they don't want to invite
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Speaker 1: more crazy because they don't even know how to deal
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Speaker 1: with what's already been served. Why order more? You're full
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Speaker 1: where they gonna go? Okay, So Katie and Josh, now
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Speaker 1: this moment, she's getting ready, Honey, she's putting lipstick on
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Speaker 1: in the mirror, and we're like, oh my godless, it's
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Speaker 1: watch honey. She's putting on dark red. We're like, oh,
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Speaker 1: dark red's always hard, you know. But she knows her
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Speaker 1: power color, honey. And it's red, passion, very sexual color, red,
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Speaker 1: very dominant, fiery red. Life kind of like red is
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Speaker 1: also very like, yeah, just like a certain kind of
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Speaker 1: life force color. Anyway, it actually very much like is
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Speaker 1: a Katie color. So she is putting on this lipstick
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Speaker 1: and at one point she says it looks crazy, and
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Speaker 1: you know what, she has a discernment. I want to
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Speaker 1: give her that she's wearing a black dress, like a
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Speaker 1: black kind of like lace dress, one of those things
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Speaker 1: where it's kind of like a doily kind of looking
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Speaker 1: top and has you know, like thin straps that kind
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Speaker 1: of perhaps razor back or whatnot, and tie in the back.
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Speaker 1: It's very like free People. I bought this one, I
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Speaker 1: guess brawleette by Free People that look just like that
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Speaker 1: that I tried to make work for years and they
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Speaker 1: kept making that brawlet in different colors and on paper,
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Speaker 1: and I mean by paper, I mean online. It looks cute.
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Speaker 1: You're like, oh, my god, that's so sexy, it's so cute.
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Speaker 1: I'll buy it. And then what happens is that when
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Speaker 1: you wear it in normal life and you have boobies
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Speaker 1: like mine, they don't stay in that that like they
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Speaker 1: pretend like they just pretend that raw doesn't exist. They're like, what, bra,
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Speaker 1: I'll tell you, free people means free boobies. I mean,
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Speaker 1: I'm saying it doesn't work for me anyway, but I'm
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Speaker 1: not Katie, and I feel like a lot of for
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Speaker 1: some reason, my obsession with Katie, my OCD about Katie
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Speaker 1: is how different we are. I feel like you can
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Speaker 1: strain together, strained strand the many different times have been
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Speaker 1: like she's this kind of girl, and I've never been
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Speaker 1: that kind of girl. And I'm not saying I mean,
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Speaker 1: you know, parts of me have been envious, but it's like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: like we are so even our coloring is different, but
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Speaker 1: here is something interesting ready for this. I love read,
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Speaker 1: I love friend rud and I great looks good on me.
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Speaker 1: Really not all of the colors, the reds, you know,
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Speaker 1: there's like many different shades. Of course, I'm not the
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Speaker 1: bluish kind of red girl. I'm like a true cherry
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Speaker 1: red honey or any sort of like orange red, like
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Speaker 1: you know, please, Okay, So here we are. So she's
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Speaker 1: getting ready as she is in this black dress with
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Speaker 1: this red dark red lip for a funeral themed bachelor
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Speaker 1: red party. Now, which is funny about this is that
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Speaker 1: there is a certain kind of oh, I don't know
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Speaker 1: how to say it, like trope from like back in
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Speaker 1: the day, like it was something like that happened at
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Speaker 1: like bachelor parties in like the nineteen eighties. They'd be like, uh,
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Speaker 1: he's dead now, you know, like Ralph's getting hitched, you know,
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Speaker 1: like say goodbye to the Ralph we knew whatever. And
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Speaker 1: so it's funny that like she and her friends are like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: that's what you are. You're like the you know, you're
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Speaker 1: the person that's giving it all up or whatever. And
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Speaker 1: it's like also low key disrespectful to Josh, but not
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Speaker 1: just Josh. Any person that is getting married to someone
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Speaker 1: to have a bachelor or bachelorette themed party that is
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Speaker 1: a funeral is shitty. I can't imagine like getting married
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Speaker 1: to my dream person. And then they're like, yeah, you know,
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Speaker 1: like my friends are throwing me like my longtime friends.
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Speaker 1: Yet like all my people that know me really well
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Speaker 1: are throwing me at bachelor party. I'm like, oh cool,
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Speaker 1: Like what do they all think, like, you know, like
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Speaker 1: what's it going to be? And he's like, yeah, it's
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Speaker 1: funeral themed because they're so sad that, like my life
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Speaker 1: is done, I'm dead because I'm marrying you. I'd be like,
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Speaker 1: what what do they think? I'm sorry? Why why would
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Speaker 1: why do they think that that's really fucked up?
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Speaker 2: Why is it your life? Your life should be great?
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Speaker 2: Like ideally, there's two sides to this. The shitty, other
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Speaker 2: toxic side is like, well, life is just beginning now
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Speaker 2: that you're getting married. Now at least life can begin
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Speaker 2: for you because all the things that are supposed to
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Speaker 2: happen to an adult is adulting now marriage and a
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Speaker 2: house and kids. You've done it, You've won the adult
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Speaker 2: lot or even like that's one side of it. The
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Speaker 2: other side of it is like, well, your life is dead.
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Speaker 1: I feel like and again I'm saying this as a
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Speaker 1: single person who's not never been married and not even
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Speaker 1: one proposal, so really take it with a great assault.
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Speaker 1: That shouldn't people's lives be great and are potentially great
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Speaker 1: or on the road too or mostly great? But like
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Speaker 1: you know, with some big dreams and goals and working
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Speaker 1: towards that whatever it is or already done and complete
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Speaker 1: and like happy, and then you're just going to share
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Speaker 1: the next chapter, whatever it is, of your life with
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Speaker 1: someone who you hopefully also think is in the same
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Speaker 1: place as you. Therefore, there would be no funeral because
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Speaker 1: you're life are just going to continue being great and
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Speaker 1: then added to by this newfound other life adjacent to
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Speaker 1: you that's also great or you know whatever. I think.
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Speaker 1: But what But here's the thing. I'm single, So I
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Speaker 1: have to then adherently think that I'm wrong thinking this,
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Speaker 1: and then maybe the reason why I'm single is because
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Speaker 1: this is what I'm doing. I'm thinking, wanting, okay, expecting, Okay,
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Speaker 1: So it's death to the whole life. Sorry, it's called
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Speaker 1: death to the whole life. For some reason. That's hard
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Speaker 1: to say death to the whole life. Okay, I said
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Speaker 1: it correctly the third time, but h and like thhs
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Speaker 1: really can fuck you up. Next scene is that they're
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Speaker 1: in the limo with her friends and they're just trading
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Speaker 1: horror stories. That was horror stories, horror stories of Katie,
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Speaker 1: horror horror stories. I think you know here's the thing.
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Speaker 1: I love that kind of joke, and that could be
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Speaker 1: about anyone horror stories, but mostly her stories, or that
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Speaker 1: she'd make out with people and then you know, things
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Speaker 1: would not work out. And so one thing was that
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Speaker 1: she was like visiting her friend who was in Belgium
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Speaker 1: or something like that, she was hooking up with some
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Speaker 1: guy that was friends with her friend while visiting her
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Speaker 1: in Belgium that her friend and we have a picture
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Speaker 1: of them, ends up saying reminds her of like a
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Speaker 1: D and D person. It's this Heather girl, and Heather's like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: So Katie makes out with this guy and then afterward,
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Speaker 1: you know, like I guess, leaves him and is like
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Speaker 1: hanging out with someone else, and the guy texts me
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Speaker 1: because we're friends, and he's like, I don't have to
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Speaker 1: do Katy and I made out, but then she's like
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Speaker 1: drunk and making making out with many other people, like
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Speaker 1: am I supposed to? Is she okay? What am I
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Speaker 1: gonna do? And then of course her stupid ass friends
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Speaker 1: like follow her, follow her around like a curse. I
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Speaker 1: guess in my mind is like what to take care
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Speaker 1: of her? Because you think that Katie's too drunk to
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Speaker 1: take care of herself abroad at a you know, some
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Speaker 1: bar abroad, which I'm not saying she isn't. She probably is,
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Speaker 1: but at some point you have to know that your
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Speaker 1: friend has to just deal with her own situations. Because
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Speaker 1: of course Katie then is touching her friendly like some
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Speaker 1: weird guy I'm maybe made out with or just fell into,
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Speaker 1: I don't know. It's blurry, is like stocking me. Should
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Speaker 1: I get him kicked out and hit? You know? God,
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Speaker 1: bless Katie. There are tiktoks of her and her mom
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Speaker 1: reacting to watching the episodes, and it's her mother's demeanor
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Speaker 1: surely was interesting on the show now that they're home,
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Speaker 1: but it's also interesting to watch her off the show
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Speaker 1: because it's the exact same, which is this kind of
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Speaker 1: detachment of someone that you would like, and it's sort
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Speaker 1: of like a like a okay, she detaches like a
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Speaker 1: detachment of Katie and also a seemingly not understanding of
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Speaker 1: how to communicate or parents, I mean definitely not parents.
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Speaker 1: Someone she acts like she's just a friend of Katie's
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Speaker 1: that like doesn't want to deal with her, just like
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Speaker 1: how her friends act, just like, oh, what'd you say?
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Speaker 1: Sounds crazy? Ha ha ha. You know it's like it's yeah,
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Speaker 1: it's a very you know, it's very Yeah, I want
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Speaker 1: more information about the mom. Her mom seems hands off
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Speaker 1: in some way, but then again so hands on in
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Speaker 1: the sense of the religious hands, the hands of God. Okay,
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Speaker 1: here we are. So after that story gets you know,
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Speaker 1: talked about, and everyone jokes, they play never have I ever?
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Speaker 1: And the question of the question that opens it is
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Speaker 1: has anyone ever had a one night stand? And it's like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: I have, I do. I mean, I feel like most
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Speaker 1: people not most people. I mean, what do you think
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Speaker 1: what is the percentage of people who have had a
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Speaker 1: one night stand? I surely have. Surely I'm not saying
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Speaker 1: a lot, but yeah. And also what exactly is the
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Speaker 1: definition meeting someone one night and then having sex with
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Speaker 1: that person and then never seeing them again. Mm hmmmm,
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Speaker 1: I'm not yeah, okay, So I would assume the percentage
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Speaker 1: would be sixty nine percent, probably sixty nine percent of
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Speaker 1: people I would say I've had a one night stand?
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Speaker 1: I wonder how many? How many have the percentage of
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Speaker 1: people have had a sixty nine I want to be
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Speaker 1: be the same sixty nine percent of people probably have
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Speaker 1: had have done sixty nine, maybe less because I guess
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Speaker 1: it's like an athletic, but maybe more. I don't know,
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Speaker 1: because I don't know how people consider it. So you
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Speaker 1: could do sixty nine like laying down in a way
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Speaker 1: that isn't like where one person is one like whole
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Speaker 1: back is on a bed and one person's like you know,
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Speaker 1: like not just straddling someone. You could I guess, I
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Speaker 1: don't know. Okay, what am I talking about this? Let's
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Speaker 1: move on. So the question number two is have it never?
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Speaker 1: Have I ever given a BJ? And these questions are
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Speaker 1: remarkably like remarkably like mundane for this group of girls
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Speaker 1: given a BEJ, what's the next one?
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Speaker 3: Like?
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Speaker 1: Who? Who here's given a hand jam? What's a hand jam?
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Speaker 1: You tell me that's when you put lube in your
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Speaker 1: hand and then you give him a hand job. And
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Speaker 1: so you know, there's like already jam in the sandwich. Okay,
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Speaker 1: you're welcome. So anyway, God blast one girl, honey never
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Speaker 1: so like and I mean, I'm shocked, but Katie's like eh,
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Speaker 1: and then Katie says that fun fact Josh has never
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Speaker 1: mine And I mean, like honestly, like I was, I
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Speaker 1: was shocked, like I don't know if it's just like
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Speaker 1: the dynamic of them or like the issues at hand
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Speaker 1: that make me consider what their sex life is like
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Speaker 1: and what they're into. And I think that I'm being
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Speaker 1: led to think about this from the producers because you know,
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Speaker 1: we had or Katie, because like, you know, Katie had
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Speaker 1: the dildos and Katie talked about pegging, and we were
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Speaker 1: you know, like forced to see Josh's reaction. But then
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Speaker 1: we were like, also, like, what is Josh's reaction? Like
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Speaker 1: what and can we isolate what Josh feels? Oh? Sorry,
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Speaker 1: it feels about that. And then the second thing that
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Speaker 1: happened was like, you know, the whole makeout cuckled thing.
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Speaker 1: But then we're gonna get into what actually happens this episode.
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Speaker 1: Like I feel like I'm being forced to either understand
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Speaker 1: Katie's tendencies or his tendencies or what he's willing to
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Speaker 1: put up with for what feels like Katie's like natural,
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Speaker 1: very like dumb personality. She's like a poly dom mistress. Okay,
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Speaker 1: I was shocked, Yet I was shocked that she allows
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Speaker 1: a man to be with her, that she even would
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Speaker 1: think about getting married to a man that doesn't go
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Speaker 1: down on her. Now here's the thing. I'm not saying
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Speaker 1: that's for everyone. I'm there are many people out there,
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Speaker 1: both men and women, who assume don't want that to
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Speaker 1: ever happen to them. They don't want people to go
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Speaker 1: down on them. I think that like the idea of
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Speaker 1: the patriarchal society we live living, and is what I
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Speaker 1: want to say, is that women tend to accept less
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Speaker 1: oral sex than men on like a life basis. And
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Speaker 1: that's either because they think it's not pleasurable and they've
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Speaker 1: never had, you know, like a good experience with it,
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Speaker 1: or they have you know, deep seated ideas of you know,
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Speaker 1: like the attractiveness or pleasure that their vagina could give
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Speaker 1: a tongue in a mouth or whatever, whatever reason and whatever.
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Speaker 1: So I just feel like that aside, Katie seems like
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Speaker 1: someone who wouldn't be like tied down by those ideas,
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Speaker 1: and truly I want no one to be tied down
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Speaker 1: by those ideas. I have my opinion. Obviously, this whole
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Speaker 1: podcast is literally my opinion. I could just start, like
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Speaker 1: with a legal disclaimer my opinion obviously a podcast with
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Speaker 1: my name on it, that it's hard to be with
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Speaker 1: someone in a relationship that you don't go down on
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Speaker 1: and vice like both people vice versa, unless of course,
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Speaker 1: you are for some reason with someone and you both
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Speaker 1: maybe are you know, like not into it for whatever reason,
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Speaker 1: sensory reasons, whatever. I get it. Listen, there's but if
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Speaker 1: one of you likes it, I'm assuming both of you
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Speaker 1: should like it. And if one of you is doing it, well,
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Speaker 1: surely both of you should be doing it. I think
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Speaker 1: that there's just this kind of ultimate now that like,
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Speaker 1: I think there's a lot of ultimate acceptances of people,
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Speaker 1: like in so many ways, like like non sexual ways,
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Speaker 1: non sexual, ultimate acceptance of someone giving someone your pen,
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Speaker 1: putting them on your bank account, right, having a child
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Speaker 1: with them, having sex, I mean ultimate like, but there
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Speaker 1: is like a day to day and like having sex
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Speaker 1: with someone, like putting your mouth on their genitals, like
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Speaker 1: treating their family like yours, you know, like treating their
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Speaker 1: kids like your kids, you know, like making them breakfast
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Speaker 1: as you make them yourself. Like there's this kind of
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Speaker 1: like micro and macro acts of just oneness that I
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Speaker 1: think signifies to me a good relationship. I would not
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Speaker 1: want to be with someone for my entire life that
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Speaker 1: like wouldn't go down on me. This is like, there's
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Speaker 1: obviously I like talking about sex Katie. Katie's friend like
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Speaker 1: also doesn't like to give blowjobs, and she finds that fascinating.
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Speaker 1: And I feel like, if you don't want to give
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Speaker 1: a blowjob, I would first consider if it's just because
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Speaker 1: you don't want to give that person a blowjob. And
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Speaker 1: that is telling because there are people you might kiss
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Speaker 1: if you're drunk, and there are people that you might
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Speaker 1: have sex with, and then there are people that like
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Speaker 1: you'll give blowjobs too, And sometimes I think for some
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Speaker 1: people to blow job it could be the ultimate filter
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Speaker 1: of if you truly like someone, like if you want
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Speaker 1: to do that for them, because it means so many things,
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Speaker 1: a like, you know, you find everything about them great
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Speaker 1: and like pleasurable in some way, but also be that
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Speaker 1: you want them to do like experience pleasure like all
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Speaker 1: of it. You know. I think there's a nice kind
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Speaker 1: of like like alignment of values that kind of can
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Speaker 1: happen if that's what's on the agenda. But that's just
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Speaker 1: for me, so anyway, I couldn't I mean again, could
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Speaker 1: have talked about that for a billion other situations. But then, honey,
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Speaker 1: we get the real deal, which is that Katie's like,
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Speaker 1: here's the other thing. I just don't know, And let
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Speaker 1: me just open up to all of you babes. Could
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Speaker 1: you be with someone and only make out with them
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Speaker 1: for the rest of their life? Of your life, of
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Speaker 1: my life, of Josh's, of me and Josh's life? Can
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Speaker 1: I only make up with Joshua's Like I think no,
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Speaker 1: I mean you guys, what are you thinking in your lives?
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Speaker 1: And they're like yeah, Also, girl, just every time you
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Speaker 1: say make out, is that your code word for like fuck?
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Speaker 1: Like are you saying you want to have sex with
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Speaker 1: other people? Because we can't tell now? Because sometimes I
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Speaker 1: feel like we are dancing like a little girl land
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Speaker 1: But sometimes are her friends like a little sexually not
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Speaker 1: like regressed or immature, but just like different from me?
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Speaker 1: Like I only like I feel like I am too,
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Speaker 1: But like why are we like twenty eight year olds
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Speaker 1: talking about blow jobs and like one night stands in
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Speaker 1: a Have I Ever? Because Chris Ferrah has never done
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Speaker 1: a lot of things I could like she would not
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Speaker 1: raise her hands for a lot of questions that happen
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Speaker 1: in Have I Ever? Like, I'll be honest, obviously, I
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Speaker 1: have like never why do I get myself in these
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Speaker 1: fucking holes. I've like never had a threesome ever, I've
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Speaker 1: never had an I've never had an ang next, and
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Speaker 1: I never hooked up with a girl like pass like
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Speaker 1: certain like you know, like childhood sex games, which are
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Speaker 1: all like questions that many people get asked in that
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Speaker 1: like have I ever? And I would sit down for
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Speaker 1: all of them. So the fact that I'm saying, Chris
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Speaker 1: Fhair is like, yeah, like, have I had a one
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Speaker 1: night stand? Well? Yeah, you all have I? Have I
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Speaker 1: given a blow jump? Does the sun come up and
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Speaker 1: the moon go down? You know you're just like, well,
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Speaker 1: come on anyway. So having said that, her friends are like, girl,
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Speaker 1: are you tiptoeing around saying sex with someone by saying
21:47
Speaker 1: like meg out? Is that your way of saying have
21:50
Speaker 1: sex with someone? And Katie's like is like, well, I
21:53
Speaker 1: don't know, which means yes. They keep showing her one
22:02
Speaker 1: friend's profile, even though it's a horrible shot not of
22:04
Speaker 1: like she. I'm not saying she looks ugly, it's just
22:06
Speaker 1: an awkward shot of someone because you can't even really
22:08
Speaker 1: see her whole profile, But there just keeps showing it
22:10
Speaker 1: because you can tell this girl is like what the fuck.
22:19
Speaker 1: They're like, the wedding is coming, and what does Josh think?
22:23
Speaker 1: And she's like, I don't know. I think I should
22:25
Speaker 1: probably talk to him. They're like, yeah, girl, what and
22:31
Speaker 1: she's They're like, okay, let me just no one asks
22:34
Speaker 1: about more important questions. It's fine, but one girl does ask, like, well, girl,
22:37
Speaker 1: let me ask you this, Katie. If you want this
22:42
Speaker 1: to be the case, you want to like open it
22:46
Speaker 1: up and you're going to have a conversation about it
22:48
Speaker 1: because you just can't fathom a world in which you
22:50
Speaker 1: only are assigned one pair of lips for the rest
22:52
Speaker 1: of your life to kiss besides yours. Uh, and he's
22:56
Speaker 1: not kissing your another lips. Wonderf there's a joke you
23:01
Speaker 1: can do there, like, Josh, I'll stop making out with
23:08
Speaker 1: people if you start making out with this pussy horrible.
23:12
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I wouldn't, you know, Okay, moving on, But anyway,
23:15
Speaker 1: they're like, Okay, how would you feel if Josh then
23:18
Speaker 1: and this open relationship thing were to flirt with someone
23:21
Speaker 1: else and hook up someone else? And this is where
23:24
Speaker 1: Katie's like, m I mean, i'd be jealous, but I
23:29
Speaker 1: just and we're like what wouldn't care? And then she
23:32
Speaker 1: says like I just he's really loyal, so and we're
23:36
Speaker 1: like yeah, you just yeah you want yeah, yeah, you
23:41
Speaker 1: want like a bull or someone that you want to
23:47
Speaker 1: have sex with other people and Josh can or cannot
23:50
Speaker 1: be in the room and you can just tell him
23:52
Speaker 1: about it later like whatever, Like I don't know if
23:55
Speaker 1: Katy necessarily wants Josh in the room, but she maybe does,
23:58
Speaker 1: but she definitely wants to tell him about it, like
24:01
Speaker 1: like I don't know, Josh, can I tell you about this?
24:03
Speaker 1: It was so crazy and also it would be interesting though.
24:07
Speaker 1: She was like, Okay, Josh, how about this. If you
24:09
Speaker 1: don't want to eat me out? Then I get to
24:12
Speaker 1: make out with other guys and they get to make
24:14
Speaker 1: out with my pussy and then I won't have sex
24:16
Speaker 1: with them or maybe I won't, and I'll tell you
24:19
Speaker 1: about that. Josh. Seems like a little bit of and this, okay,
24:34
Speaker 1: nothing about cuckoldry, because I feel like cuckoldry can be
24:38
Speaker 1: kind of like fine if the guy is like, you know,
24:42
Speaker 1: obviously gonna like you know, eat out the woman or whatever.
24:44
Speaker 1: God bless, this is really vulgar and what a like
24:47
Speaker 1: not Safe for Work podcast. But I'm just gonna say this, like, yeah,
24:52
Speaker 1: I find it crazy that he is a little bit
24:55
Speaker 1: like of a pansy but isn't of service to her,
24:59
Speaker 1: if you know what I'm mean. And I find that disrespectful.
25:09
Speaker 1: M I listen. Of course, Josh for a billion reasons
25:15
Speaker 1: should not be with Katie in the kind of like
25:18
Speaker 1: logistical terms that we assume people should walk thro this
25:21
Speaker 1: earth with like, you know, like with respect for the
25:23
Speaker 1: way that you know, like their own sex life and
25:25
Speaker 1: in a traditional sense like all that stuff. But he
25:28
Speaker 1: obviously doesn't feel that way. He's still with her, but
25:34
Speaker 1: he's a little bit just like so wimpy, and because
25:40
Speaker 1: it's like he's a wimpy and not just like he's
25:42
Speaker 1: not primal about it. He's wimpy in like a sheltered
25:52
Speaker 1: Oh there's a train. I've be sit a hold for
26:00
Speaker 1: a second. I'm looking like at a beautiful Louisiana train track. Honey,
26:10
Speaker 1: it's just fried green tomatoes or whatever it is. Honey,
26:13
Speaker 1: just passing me by. Oh, I actually can't hear the train.
26:16
Speaker 1: It was just those two honks. Okay, I can move
26:19
Speaker 1: on all right, anyway to say, Okay, so Basically, the
26:22
Speaker 1: girls are like, would Josh be uh is Josh going
26:25
Speaker 1: to do that as well? And she says, no, you know,
26:27
Speaker 1: I don't think so. Josh isn't the type that, like,
26:29
Speaker 1: you know, I feel like, wants to have sex with
26:30
Speaker 1: anyone else, even though he you know, just wants to
26:32
Speaker 1: like sort of have sex with me what feels like
26:33
Speaker 1: maybe twice a week Josh to Josh's standards, though it
26:38
Speaker 1: seems very happy when they snogged, which, by the way,
26:42
Speaker 1: is like lol. I remember being the nineties and like
26:46
Speaker 1: I went to England when I was like fifteen with
26:48
Speaker 1: my parents and before then though, I was and have
26:53
Speaker 1: been obsessed with the magazines my whole life, Like it's still
26:55
Speaker 1: this is the nineties kids. I understand the print age
26:58
Speaker 1: in a way that like makes me sad for other people,
27:00
Speaker 1: because of course I experienced sassy you and know all
27:02
Speaker 1: that stuff, while I am all that stuff. Anyway, I
27:05
Speaker 1: have that to say. I used to be somewhat obsessed
27:07
Speaker 1: with getting like the British teen mags, and I knew
27:13
Speaker 1: that snog was a word and that snog meant literally
27:19
Speaker 1: what Katie likes to do, like make out. But now
27:22
Speaker 1: the funny thing is Josh is using that word to
27:25
Speaker 1: mean what Katie usually says, make out me means to
27:29
Speaker 1: fuck anyway, So he's very happy to have sex with
27:33
Speaker 1: her for like the whole night. So it's interesting when
27:37
Speaker 1: they seem to be pleasing and satisfying to each others
27:43
Speaker 1: each other in the way in which they don't. Katie
27:47
Speaker 1: says a lot here to her friend. She's like, I
27:50
Speaker 1: know that Josh is stable, and I get that, like
27:56
Speaker 1: that's what I'm supposed to be, So be with Josh
28:01
Speaker 1: sort of gives me a badge of maybe being that.
28:04
Speaker 1: But how do I say this to people who aren't
28:07
Speaker 1: going to be so shocked to hear that I, Katie
28:12
Speaker 1: don't really want to be tied down and stable. Yes, me, Katie,
28:16
Speaker 1: the girl that went on a pet sitting world tour,
28:21
Speaker 1: who just was nannying every shitsu up a storm she
28:24
Speaker 1: could just to move from every Bulgaria to fucking Brussels.
28:29
Speaker 1: You know, you're just like Katie's like, I don't know
28:33
Speaker 1: what to say. Yeah, I just don't know if I
28:36
Speaker 1: want to get married and have it all. And for
28:38
Speaker 1: me the girl really at a funeral themed boucherette party anyway,
28:44
Speaker 1: I just smiled Okay, So I just yeah, I really
28:51
Speaker 1: feel like I wish one of the things happened. I
28:55
Speaker 1: know I said wish too many times. I wish that
28:57
Speaker 1: some of her friends got a little drunker at this
28:59
Speaker 1: event so that we could get their truthful asides in
29:04
Speaker 1: the confessions, specifically that girl that kept, you know, like
29:07
Speaker 1: getting the side profile, Like I need the producers to
29:10
Speaker 1: pull her aside, be like take the shot. It's on us. Okay, girl,
29:15
Speaker 1: what do you think about this? What do you think
29:17
Speaker 1: about that? We think about this situation? But it's what
29:21
Speaker 1: is going through your heads? And why is more people
29:25
Speaker 1: are sorry the word, are more people not like saying
29:28
Speaker 1: like that's what it's crazy? Is she just allowed to
29:31
Speaker 1: do this? Like it feels like her mom. Everyone's just like, girl,
29:34
Speaker 1: that's crazy, Katie. No one's like, well, you're going to
29:38
Speaker 1: really break someone's heart because it's not something that someone
29:41
Speaker 1: is used to being sprung on them unless you've had
29:45
Speaker 1: fun conversations late at night, you know, under the stars
29:49
Speaker 1: or with candle light where you both talk about your
29:51
Speaker 1: deep dark fantasies and then you realize you both align,
29:55
Speaker 1: or I don't know, you do one of those. I
29:57
Speaker 1: don't know how people do this kind of stuff to
30:00
Speaker 1: be some like kink test you do with a partner
30:02
Speaker 1: at some at some like an anonymous partner king test
30:07
Speaker 1: where you just go down the line and be like, well,
30:09
Speaker 1: if you were ever considering this thing, I'm a four
30:15
Speaker 1: on it and I'm interested. You know, it's like what
30:16
Speaker 1: I don't know anyway, was wondering, so too Katie's benefit.
30:21
Speaker 1: She is like, I want to talk about all these
30:22
Speaker 1: things I don't want to get married and then have
30:24
Speaker 1: this resentment happen and then they're like okay, and you know,
30:27
Speaker 1: producers are like, thank you so much for letting us
30:29
Speaker 1: document it and not talking about it earlier on a
30:31
Speaker 1: new relationship. You know, Okay, so let's move on. Marissa
30:35
Speaker 1: and Edward. So obviously we're in the middle of a
30:39
Speaker 1: windy New York City or argument and she is like,
30:45
Speaker 1: I am telling you I am not one hundred percent
30:49
Speaker 1: sure that I can make this choice right now of
30:56
Speaker 1: getting married to you. And he's like, I can't do that.
31:00
Speaker 1: I care do that, and she's like, well, what do
31:02
Speaker 1: you want from me? And then he says, I want
31:05
Speaker 1: you to be one hundred percent real and honest with me,
31:08
Speaker 1: and she's like well, okay, I honestly, one percent honestly
31:21
Speaker 1: can't make a decision if this is a right thing
31:23
Speaker 1: for us yet. And then he's like, I can't do that.
31:28
Speaker 1: She goes, what do you want from me? He goes,
31:30
Speaker 1: I want you to be one hundred percent real and
31:32
Speaker 1: honest with me. She's like, okay, I big breath, I
31:42
Speaker 1: am one hundred percent real, really having a hard time
31:45
Speaker 1: making a decision right now of what we should do
31:49
Speaker 1: with our relationship, honestly right now. And he goes, this
31:54
Speaker 1: sounds familiar. That's my joke. I think I delivered it dryly. Anyway.
31:59
Speaker 1: It's like a back and forth, can you tell? And
32:01
Speaker 1: we're like okay, and he's just like a little bit
32:03
Speaker 1: of a you know, it seems like how I say this,
32:05
Speaker 1: he seems to have what I have And I get
32:07
Speaker 1: it too, like insecure attachment mixed with jealousy, mixed with
32:11
Speaker 1: possessiveness and mixed with like a certain amount of ego
32:14
Speaker 1: a pride. And so I'm on his side. He's like,
32:17
Speaker 1: I want the person that I want to be with
32:19
Speaker 1: to be one hundred percent into me, like for sure,
32:25
Speaker 1: and I want that person to give me affection a lot.
32:34
Speaker 1: What you know, and she's like, hmm m, I don't know.
32:42
Speaker 1: She seems to be a little avoidant, and we know
32:44
Speaker 1: that because she literally avoided his texts for like a
32:46
Speaker 1: whole twenty four hours and then try to like be like, ah,
32:48
Speaker 1: he's crazy, so you know, she's yeah, it just keeps
32:54
Speaker 1: being like, I'm just questioning. I need more time. He
32:57
Speaker 1: walks away, and then they go home together to her apartment,
33:00
Speaker 1: and the next morning we see that she he is
33:02
Speaker 1: sleeping on the couch and she had her bedroom and
33:05
Speaker 1: she comes out and she's like, I'm gonna go get
33:06
Speaker 1: dressed before work, but I think we should talk before
33:09
Speaker 1: I go, and and he agrees, and they go to
33:12
Speaker 1: a place called Cafe Nod, which I mean, my god,
33:15
Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh my god, take me to New
33:17
Speaker 1: York right now? Did also this place have to sign off? Also?
33:20
Speaker 1: Like what is the menu look like? But they do
33:22
Speaker 1: a soft scramble or like poached eggs and those little
33:26
Speaker 1: like poached eggs cups with like little toast strips they dunk.
33:35
Speaker 1: Oh my god, But no, we got'll have to talk
33:39
Speaker 1: about their stupid ass relationship. So instead, yeah, he says,
33:45
Speaker 1: this is what basically happened. We get the old Well,
33:48
Speaker 1: the cameras were here and we were tired, and we
33:50
Speaker 1: were given a scene. We don't want to do the scene,
33:53
Speaker 1: so we did the class like you are gonna spend
33:55
Speaker 1: the night on the couch and I'm gonna spend the
33:57
Speaker 1: night in the room, right, yep, you don't want to
34:00
Speaker 1: talk anymore? Right, nope? Okay bye, And then when the
34:05
Speaker 1: camera's left, conveniently they start talking because that was a
34:09
Speaker 1: fixing and Edwards somehow brought up the fact that she
34:16
Speaker 1: has an ex that she's like friendly with, like they
34:21
Speaker 1: ended on okay terms, and he feels like their relationship
34:26
Speaker 1: or the fact they remained in contact has led to
34:29
Speaker 1: doubt in her mind or gives her like this what
34:34
Speaker 1: if kind of I don't know, like the safety net
34:39
Speaker 1: of like not having to commit completely to this because
34:42
Speaker 1: there's this other which, you know what I get, I do,
34:47
Speaker 1: especially for someone like him, I get it. She's really
34:51
Speaker 1: upset though, she's like aggravated and you know, because she
34:54
Speaker 1: feels like it's manipulative the way that he works within this,
34:57
Speaker 1: and he you know, apologized for that. He's also feeling
35:00
Speaker 1: but hurt, and she also is feeling you know, obviously aggravated,
35:03
Speaker 1: and so she decides that they're going to write down
35:06
Speaker 1: a list of expectations from each other because she wants
35:10
Speaker 1: to have more confidence in this relationship going further. And
35:13
Speaker 1: he's like, Okay, first and foremost, I want you to
35:16
Speaker 1: give me fucking affection. I want you to hug me.
35:18
Speaker 1: I want you to kiss me. I want you to
35:19
Speaker 1: touch me. I want you to tell me ellacot. I
35:21
Speaker 1: want you to like grab my butt. I want you
35:24
Speaker 1: to give me like little smirks. I want you to
35:26
Speaker 1: give me little like raised eyebrows. I want you to
35:29
Speaker 1: give me lots of winks. I want you to give
35:34
Speaker 1: me that thing where like you look at me and
35:35
Speaker 1: you like bite your bottom lip and like in your eyes.
35:41
Speaker 1: I know you just want to like ravage me. That
35:44
Speaker 1: has to happen that exact moment. I just said, like
35:47
Speaker 1: four times a day, I'll sign on the doted line,
35:52
Speaker 1: you know. Okay. So then she's like okay, okay, you
35:54
Speaker 1: like that. I get it. And then she's like, okay,
35:58
Speaker 1: tit for TAT. I want you you to work on
36:01
Speaker 1: your jealousy. He's like, okay, I'll work on my jealousy.
36:03
Speaker 1: And then he's like, I don't want to move forward
36:07
Speaker 1: with someone who isn't one hundred percent. She's like, fuck,
36:14
Speaker 1: it's like literally the exact same conversation. She's like, I
36:17
Speaker 1: want to know what you honestly want from me.
36:20
Speaker 4: He's like, I just said I'm not move forward, but
36:28
Speaker 4: it's not one hundred percent. She's like, okay, well, I
36:30
Speaker 4: a one hundred percent.
36:32
Speaker 1: Really want you to be happy, and so she just like,
36:37
Speaker 1: I think it's so weird. Okay, why this brings me
36:40
Speaker 1: to tears? I think it's like hilarious. Oh you're like, well, Chris,
36:44
Speaker 1: can you can you move? Not? Asia and Maxwell, Oh
36:50
Speaker 1: my goodness gracious. So basically, she's dressed all in white
36:57
Speaker 1: and they are going on a boat and as they're
37:01
Speaker 1: walking down, he is holding her bag and she's like, honey,
37:05
Speaker 1: be prepared to just keep holding that purse. Be prepared.
37:10
Speaker 1: Oh wait, I forgot I told you I wouldn't do that. Well,
37:13
Speaker 1: I'm holding them like high up to my mouth. Maybe
37:15
Speaker 1: I shouldn't sing loudly into it. Maybe anyway, that's what happens, okay,
37:20
Speaker 1: And basically he's like why, She's like, oh, it's because
37:23
Speaker 1: every time I'm holding a purse she'll be holding the
37:24
Speaker 1: purse so I can walk easily. Silly, silly Goose. He's like, oh,
37:36
Speaker 1: you're so naive, young Maxwell. So they talk about the
37:40
Speaker 1: wedding with the whole family, and they use a fun
37:43
Speaker 1: term that we have to explore in real time, which
37:45
Speaker 1: is that they're going to have a white wedding. Mmmmmm okay,
37:53
Speaker 1: didn't do it white wedding, but Billie Idol played through
37:57
Speaker 1: all of our minds, and that's what they're gonna have.
37:59
Speaker 1: They're gonna have a Billie Idol themed wedding in Nigeria.
38:03
Speaker 1: I thought it was interesting. Listen, I was half watching
38:05
Speaker 1: this scene, but that's what they said. They said they
38:07
Speaker 1: were having a white wedding themed and I only assumed
38:09
Speaker 1: that meant Billie Idol themed Nigerian wedding. Just kidding, Okay,
38:15
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry for being dumb, but basically, no,
38:19
Speaker 1: the ironic thing is even though Asia is black American,
38:24
Speaker 1: she's American, which is not Igbu Nigerian, which they're calling white.
38:34
Speaker 1: I think or they're just that's the other the word
38:37
Speaker 1: the other people like, if it's not you know, igu
38:41
Speaker 1: on Igbo, it's a white wedding. I think is how
38:44
Speaker 1: I discerned this conversation, which you know, ha ha. Anyway,
38:50
Speaker 1: so basically, yeah, like they can't have like the full
38:53
Speaker 1: on traditional situation, but they can have like a nod
38:56
Speaker 1: to it. They can have like a fun time you
38:59
Speaker 1: know ceremony where there's a respect for culture and a
39:02
Speaker 1: certain symbolic you know, coming together. And you know, Maxwell's
39:07
Speaker 1: mom's really quick to be like Ash will wear the
39:10
Speaker 1: geelee or gelie which is the head piece, and we
39:14
Speaker 1: know it. We've been saying nothing. Listen. You would assume
39:18
Speaker 1: that I would be able to say it right. You
39:20
Speaker 1: would assume that all of us would be somewhat experts
39:24
Speaker 1: in what happens in a Nigerian wedding. We've been watching it.
39:29
Speaker 1: But also this one is Christian and so there is
39:33
Speaker 1: no alcohol. Now that is interesting for us, sorry for
39:39
Speaker 1: Christians in America, because the Christians in America are fine
39:43
Speaker 1: with alcohol. In fact, the Catholics have it in the ceremony.
39:48
Speaker 1: They're like blood of Christ. But we know what it
39:50
Speaker 1: is that young y come get a little thimble of
39:57
Speaker 1: red wine. Honey, you know, God bless and cool, you know,
40:01
Speaker 1: in the trope of religiousness or whatever. Like now that
40:04
Speaker 1: those stupid words A musing words wrong. In the idea
40:07
Speaker 1: of different religions, we assume that, like you know, the
40:11
Speaker 1: Islam you don't drink any alcohol, So like you know,
40:13
Speaker 1: we're like, oh, Christian wedding, bring on the alcohol, you know,
40:16
Speaker 1: like you know, Jesus is the one that was like
40:18
Speaker 1: you know.
40:20
Speaker 4: This is I'll tell you what this wedding needs.
40:23
Speaker 1: Less water, more wine. I don't need any of that water.
40:28
Speaker 1: Bring those sparklet jugs here, honey, wine, wine, wine, wine.
40:32
Speaker 1: Now you're a wine. Look underneath you you're wine. Now
40:34
Speaker 1: you're all wine. Jugs of water. You know, God bless
40:38
Speaker 1: it's fun. But you know what, different different traditions. So
40:41
Speaker 1: no no alcohol at this wedding. And I'll tell you, Rod,
40:44
Speaker 1: who was already previously aghast at what was happening, is
40:48
Speaker 1: even more aghast. He's like, I'm sorry, what, I'm sorry?
40:53
Speaker 1: What You're getting married in Nigeria to this man you
40:59
Speaker 1: just met who's ten years younger than you because his
41:04
Speaker 1: visa wasn't approved and it's going to be a dry wedding.
41:13
Speaker 1: A dry wedding I could maybe stand like not an
41:22
Speaker 1: open bar, you know, like fine, whatever, doubless, but I
41:26
Speaker 1: would appreciate at least like two hours of something. So
41:29
Speaker 1: he's like, I'm gonna have to bring your own bee,
41:31
Speaker 1: and you know that's not respectful. You know. Also that's
41:34
Speaker 1: like something you can definitely like keep on the inside
41:36
Speaker 1: inside thoughts. Those are things that you're like, I wouldn't
41:38
Speaker 1: You don't have to announce bringing a flask. In fact,
41:42
Speaker 1: the act of bringing a flask is an act of discretion,
41:49
Speaker 1: you know. So you know, this makes Maxwell kind of
41:54
Speaker 1: like lead wrought away.
41:55
Speaker 5: With a hey, let's have a luxture and like, let
41:57
Speaker 5: me give you a luxury about the traditional marriage things
42:00
Speaker 5: that are going to be happening. And they go to
42:02
Speaker 5: like a surf bar, which seems very cobo of them.
42:06
Speaker 1: Like some man opened this honey after they're divorced, just kidding,
42:11
Speaker 1: and you know they have their man and man talk,
42:13
Speaker 1: which is that Rod's like, you know, I'm scammers. Scammers
42:16
Speaker 1: call me all the time, they give me the text messages.
42:18
Speaker 1: They're always you know, pretending to be some lady I met.
42:21
Speaker 5: But you know I was after I text him for
42:22
Speaker 5: a while, realize it's a scammer.
42:25
Speaker 1: And Max was like, look, I'm not gonna lie. Four
42:28
Speaker 1: out of ten four out of ten people here scammers.
42:31
Speaker 1: I know him. I hear him talk. That's not me.
42:33
Speaker 1: I'm not like that. And He's like, I love Asia
42:40
Speaker 1: not because of her money, but because she supports me
42:42
Speaker 1: mentally in every part and facet of my life. And
42:46
Speaker 1: Rod's like, you know what, You're a car salesman. You
42:49
Speaker 1: know how to sell. You know just what I want
42:51
Speaker 1: to hear. And Rod's like, Rod says that you know
42:58
Speaker 1: she shouldn't be marrying potential. And Maxwell gives him his word,
43:04
Speaker 1: but that's not what's happening. Also, fuck you, because I'm
43:07
Speaker 1: gonna be great and you're not gonna stop this. Rod goes,
43:13
Speaker 1: are you give me your word? Is that all you have?
43:19
Speaker 1: With Maxwell was like, well, I mean I have a
43:21
Speaker 1: Rolexes I scam from the Americans at the Americans. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I can give you one of the Rolexes. Wass kidding? Uh,
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Speaker 1: you know, I'm just making horrible jokes, but yeah, like,
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Speaker 1: what what do you want? Rod? Maxwell's like, do you
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Speaker 1: want my hot sister? Listen? I got the hot sister Lase,
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Speaker 1: not Clase. I don't know. It's just an interesting and
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Speaker 1: there is a very interesting situation. Rod seems to have
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Speaker 1: a lot of opinions, and the next previews has like
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Speaker 1: a lunch between him and Asha and for we watched
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Speaker 1: the previews or whatever, like we if you did watch
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Speaker 1: the previous Like, I'm not gonna give anything away. It
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Speaker 1: seems like she gets up and walks away. Maybe she
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Speaker 1: comes back. But I will tell you this, I want
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Speaker 1: so badly, so badly for him to be like, don't
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Speaker 1: be doing this. There's no reason. Don't be marrying potential
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Speaker 1: and you can be marrying me, Rod. I love alcohol. Rod.
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Speaker 1: You know you're just like I know all your sisters.
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Speaker 1: They trust me. But get on a plane and go
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Speaker 1: to my direa with me. Rod. I'm telling you what's up, Rod.
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Speaker 3: For the rest of your life. I wonder if Rod's
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Speaker 3: ever been like Asia, You're not a prophet. That insick
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Speaker 3: thing was like a that song things a fluke girl.
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Speaker 3: I don't know all right? That ends Part one?
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