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Money Boundaries With Family: Protecting Love and Your Wallet · Becoming Financially Confident

• 1:20
  Family
• 1:20
  asks
• 1:21
  for
• 1:21
  help
• 1:22
  and
• 1:22
  suddenly
• 1:22
  your
• 1:23
  heart
• 1:23
  feels
• 1:23
  torn.
• 1:24
  You
• 1:24
  want
• 1:24
  to
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  be
• 1:25
  generous,
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  you
• 1:26
  want
• 1:26
  to
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  be
• 1:26
  loving.
• 1:27
  You
• 1:27
  don't
• 1:27
  want
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  any
• 1:28
  conflict.
• 1:29
  But
• 1:29
  you
• 1:29
  also
• 1:30
  feel
• 1:30
  stretched.
• 1:31
  For
• 1:31
  many
• 1:31
  of
• 1:32
  us,
• 1:32
  we
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  feel
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  drained
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  and
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  quietly
• 1:33
  stressed
• 1:34
  at
• 1:34
  the
• 1:34
  same
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  time.
• 1:35
  You've
• 1:35
  been
• 1:35
  dealing
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  with
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  late
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  night
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  budgeting,
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  unspoken
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  frustration
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  and
• 1:39
  resentment
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  you
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  didn't
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  plan
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  on
• 1:41
  feeling.
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  And
• 1:42
  before
• 1:42
  you
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  realize
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  it,
• 1:43
  helping
• 1:44
  family
• 1:44
  financially
• 1:45
  starts
• 1:45
  hurting
• 1:46
  the
• 1:46
  relationship.
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  Friend,
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  if
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  money
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  and
• 1:48
  family
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  have
• 1:49
  become
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  complicated
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  for
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  you,
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  this
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  episode
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  is
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  for
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  you.
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  You're
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  not
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  selfish,
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  you're
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  not
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  cold
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  hearted.
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  I'm
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  tired
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  of
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  people
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  saying
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  that
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  you're
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  trying
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  to
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  love
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  well
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  without
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  losing
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  yourself.
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  So
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  let's
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  talk
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  about
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  how
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  to
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  love,
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  but
• 2:02
  love
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  wisely.
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  Here's
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  the
• 2:04
  question
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  we're
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  answering
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  today.
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  How
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  do
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  you
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  set
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  money
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  boundaries
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  with
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  family
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  while
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  still
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  protecting
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  the
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  love
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  that
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  you're
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  trying
• 2:10
  to
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  protect?
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  And
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  here's
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  my
• 2:12
  promise
• 2:12
  for
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  you.
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  By
• 2:12
  the
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  end
• 2:13
  of
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  this
• 2:13
  episode,
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  you're
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  going
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  to
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  know
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  what
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  boundaries
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  actually
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  protect
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  those
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  relationships.
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  Why
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  love
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  doesn't
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  always
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  mean
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  saying
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  yes.
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  Guess
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  what?
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  I'm
• 2:20
  going
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  to
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  tell
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  you
• 2:20
  how
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  to
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  say
• 2:20
  no.
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  And
• 2:21
  how
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  generosity
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  can
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  exist
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  without
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  draining
• 2:24
  your
• 2:25
  peace.
• 2:25
  It's
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  not
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  about
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  guilt.
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  It's
• 2:27
  not
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  about
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  pressure.
• 2:28
  Today's
• 2:29
  about
• 2:29
  wisdom
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  and
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  in
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  the
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  end,
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  freedom.
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  Hey,
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  friend.
• 2:53
  Ralph
• 2:54
  Estep
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  Jr.
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  Here.
• 2:55
  Welcome
• 2:55
  to
• 2:56
  Financially
• 2:56
  Confident
• 2:56
  Christian,
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  where
• 2:57
  we're
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  learning
• 2:58
  how
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  to
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  walk
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  through
• 2:58
  life
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  and
• 2:59
  money
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  with
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  wisdom,
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  with
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  peace,
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  and
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  truly
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  with
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  a
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  heart
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  anchored
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  in
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  God's
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  truth.
• 3:04
  My
• 3:05
  mission
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  on
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  this
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  show
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  every
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  day
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  is
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  to
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  help
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  you
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  break
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  the
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  cycle
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  of
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  financial
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  shame
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  and
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  build
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  those
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  steady
• 3:09
  habits
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  rooted
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  in
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  faith
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  and
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  really
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  become
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  financially
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  confident
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  Christians.
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  And
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  I
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  am
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  so
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  glad
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  you're
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  here
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  today.
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  Now,
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  yesterday
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  we
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  had
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  a
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  whole
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  show
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  talking
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  about
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  combining
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  finances.
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  We
• 3:19
  talked
• 3:19
  about
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  unity
• 3:20
  and
• 3:20
  transparency
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  and
• 3:21
  that
• 3:21
  shared
• 3:22
  vision.
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  And
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  today,
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  once
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  you're
• 3:24
  unified
• 3:24
  at
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  home,
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  pressure
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  often
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  comes
• 3:26
  from
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  the
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  outside.
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  One
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  of
• 3:27
  the
• 3:27
  things
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  I
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  tell
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  my
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  kids
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  all
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  the
• 3:28
  time
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  in
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  a
• 3:29
  relationship,
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  most
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  of
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  the
• 3:30
  time
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  pressure
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  comes
• 3:31
  from
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  those
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  external
• 3:32
  influences.
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  So
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  right
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  now
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  you
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  might
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  be
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  in
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  the
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  middle
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  of
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  this.
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  You've
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  got
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  those
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  extended
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  family
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  requests
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  and
• 3:38
  those
• 3:38
  expectations
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  that
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  are
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  just
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  hitting
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  differently.
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  And
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  what
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  I
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  have
• 3:42
  learned
• 3:42
  is
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  those
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  family
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  boundaries
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  can
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  feel
• 3:44
  harder
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  than
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  any
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  other
• 3:45
  boundary
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  in
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  your
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  life.
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  And
• 3:47
  you're
• 3:47
  not
• 3:47
  alone
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  if
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  this
• 3:48
  is
• 3:48
  feeling
• 3:49
  complicated.
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  So
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  let's
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  walk
• 3:51
  this
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  together
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  and
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  let's
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  do
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  it
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  gently
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  today.
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  Because
• 3:53
  here's
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  the
• 3:54
  question
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  I
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  hear
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  all
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  the
• 3:55
  time,
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  sometimes
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  said
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  carefully,
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  sometimes
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  said
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  through
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  tears.
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  Ralph,
• 4:01
  how
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  do
• 4:01
  I
• 4:01
  help
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  my
• 4:02
  family
• 4:02
  without
• 4:03
  hurting
• 4:03
  my
• 4:03
  own
• 4:04
  finances?
• 4:05
  Or
• 4:05
  even
• 4:06
  better
• 4:06
  said,
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  how
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  do
• 4:07
  I
• 4:07
  say
• 4:07
  no
• 4:08
  without
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  feeling
• 4:09
  like
• 4:09
  a
• 4:09
  bad
• 4:10
  person?
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  How
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  many
• 4:11
  times
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  have
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  you
• 4:12
  thought
• 4:12
  that
• 4:12
  yourself
• 4:13
  I
• 4:13
  see
• 4:14
  that
• 4:14
  question
• 4:14
  matters
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  because
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  family
• 4:16
  and
• 4:17
  money
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  touch
• 4:17
  the
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  deepest
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  parts
• 4:18
  of
• 4:19
  the
• 4:19
  heart.
• 4:19
  They
• 4:19
  bring
• 4:20
  two
• 4:20
  things
• 4:20
  together
• 4:20
  which
• 4:21
  just
• 4:22
  really
• 4:22
  bother
• 4:22
  people
• 4:23
  sometimes.
• 4:24
  So
• 4:24
  if
• 4:24
  you've
• 4:24
  ever
• 4:24
  felt
• 4:25
  torn
• 4:25
  between
• 4:25
  love
• 4:26
  and
• 4:26
  limits,
• 4:27
  you're
• 4:27
  not
• 4:27
  being
• 4:28
  unkind,
• 4:28
  you're
• 4:29
  not
• 4:29
  being
• 4:29
  stingy
• 4:29
  or
• 4:30
  mean.
• 4:31
  You're
• 4:31
  being
• 4:31
  generous.
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  See,
• 4:33
  a
• 4:33
  lot
• 4:33
  of
• 4:33
  times
• 4:34
  people
• 4:34
  will
• 4:34
  give
• 4:34
  more
• 4:34
  than
• 4:34
  they
• 4:35
  could
• 4:35
  ever
• 4:35
  afford.
• 4:36
  They
• 4:36
  say
• 4:37
  yes,
• 4:37
  and
• 4:37
  then
• 4:37
  they
• 4:37
  pay
• 4:38
  for
• 4:38
  it
• 4:38
  later.
• 4:38
  They
• 4:39
  pay
• 4:39
  for
• 4:39
  it
• 4:39
  with
• 4:39
  debt
• 4:39
  and
• 4:40
  all
• 4:40
  kinds
• 4:40
  of
• 4:40
  other
• 4:40
  things.
• 4:41
  You
• 4:41
  know,
• 4:41
  for
• 4:41
  so
• 4:42
  many
• 4:42
  people,
• 4:42
  their
• 4:42
  home
• 4:43
  felt
• 4:43
  like
• 4:43
  stress
• 4:43
  after
• 4:44
  they
• 4:44
  helped
• 4:44
  somebody.
• 4:45
  And
• 4:45
  if
• 4:46
  you
• 4:46
  live
• 4:46
  in
• 4:46
  that
• 4:46
  generosity
• 4:47
  without
• 4:48
  boundaries,
• 4:49
  it
• 4:49
  quietly
• 4:49
  turns
• 4:50
  into
• 4:50
  resentment
• 4:50
  over
• 4:51
  time
• 4:52
  and
• 4:52
  you
• 4:52
  start
• 4:52
  to
• 4:52
  feel
• 4:52
  this
• 4:53
  tension.
• 4:54
  And
• 4:54
  that
• 4:54
  tension
• 4:55
  isn't
• 4:55
  selfishness,
• 4:56
  it's
• 4:57
  wisdom
• 4:57
  trying
• 4:57
  to
• 4:58
  speak
• 4:58
  to
• 4:58
  you.
• 5:00
  So,
• 5:00
  friend,
• 5:00
  that
• 5:00
  tension
• 5:01
  you're
• 5:01
  feeling
• 5:01
  isn't
• 5:01
  selfishness.
• 5:02
  I
• 5:02
  just
• 5:02
  want
• 5:02
  to
• 5:03
  reinforce
• 5:03
  that.
• 5:03
  It's
• 5:04
  your
• 5:04
  heart
• 5:05
  asking
• 5:05
  for
• 5:05
  wisdom.
• 5:06
  So
• 5:07
  here's
• 5:07
  something
• 5:07
  we
• 5:08
  need
• 5:08
  to
• 5:08
  say.
• 5:08
  Clearly,
• 5:09
  boundaries
• 5:10
  are
• 5:10
  not
• 5:10
  rejection.
• 5:11
  A
• 5:11
  lot
• 5:12
  of
• 5:12
  people
• 5:12
  say,
• 5:12
  well,
• 5:12
  if
• 5:12
  I
• 5:13
  say
• 5:13
  no,
• 5:13
  then
• 5:13
  I'm
• 5:13
  rejecting
• 5:14
  them.
• 5:14
  No,
• 5:14
  they're
• 5:14
  not.
• 5:15
  You're
• 5:15
  creating
• 5:15
  a
• 5:16
  boundary
• 5:16
  and
• 5:16
  that
• 5:17
  boundary
• 5:17
  is
• 5:17
  there
• 5:18
  to
• 5:18
  protect
• 5:18
  you.
• 5:18
  And
• 5:19
  honestly,
• 5:19
  it
• 5:19
  protects
• 5:19
  the
• 5:20
  relationship.
• 5:21
  And
• 5:21
  when
• 5:21
  boundaries
• 5:22
  don't
• 5:22
  exist,
• 5:23
  money
• 5:23
  starts
• 5:24
  doing
• 5:24
  real
• 5:24
  damage.
• 5:26
  I've
• 5:26
  seen
• 5:26
  it
• 5:26
  damage
• 5:27
  people's
• 5:27
  peace.
• 5:28
  I've
• 5:28
  seen
• 5:28
  it
• 5:28
  damage
• 5:29
  trust
• 5:29
  and
• 5:29
  hey,
• 5:29
  I've
• 5:30
  seen
• 5:30
  it
• 5:30
  destroy
• 5:31
  and
• 5:31
  damage
• 5:32
  relationships.
• 5:33
  And
• 5:33
  if
• 5:33
  you're
• 5:33
  one
• 5:33
  of
• 5:34
  those
• 5:34
  people
• 5:34
  that
• 5:34
  says
• 5:34
  yes
• 5:34
  to
• 5:35
  everything,
• 5:36
  it
• 5:36
  can
• 5:36
  entirely
• 5:37
  turn
• 5:37
  that
• 5:38
  love
• 5:39
  into
• 5:39
  obligation.
• 5:40
  And
• 5:40
  once
• 5:40
  it's
• 5:40
  obligation,
• 5:41
  is
• 5:41
  it
• 5:41
  love
• 5:41
  at
• 5:41
  that
• 5:42
  point?
• 5:42
  And
• 5:43
  that's
• 5:43
  not
• 5:43
  what
• 5:43
  generosity
• 5:44
  was
• 5:44
  ever
• 5:44
  meant
• 5:45
  to
• 5:45
  be.
• 5:46
  So
• 5:46
  let
• 5:46
  me
• 5:46
  ground
• 5:46
  you
• 5:47
  in
• 5:47
  just
• 5:47
  one
• 5:47
  truth.
• 5:48
  I've
• 5:48
  walked
• 5:49
  with
• 5:49
  many
• 5:49
  people
• 5:50
  through
• 5:50
  this
• 5:50
  throughout
• 5:51
  my
• 5:51
  30
• 5:51
  year
• 5:51
  career.
• 5:52
  I've
• 5:52
  seen
• 5:53
  adult
• 5:53
  children
• 5:54
  still
• 5:54
  supporting
• 5:55
  their
• 5:55
  parents.
• 5:55
  I've
• 5:56
  seen
• 5:56
  siblings
• 5:56
  helping
• 5:57
  their
• 5:57
  other
• 5:57
  siblings,
• 5:58
  relatives
• 5:59
  asking
• 5:59
  again
• 6:00
  and
• 6:00
  again.
• 6:01
  And
• 6:02
  the
• 6:02
  deepest
• 6:02
  struggle
• 6:02
  usually
• 6:03
  isn't
• 6:03
  generosity.
• 6:04
  What
• 6:04
  I
• 6:04
  find
• 6:04
  is
• 6:04
  most
• 6:04
  people
• 6:05
  are
• 6:05
  pretty
• 6:05
  generous.
• 6:07
  It's
• 6:07
  feeling
• 6:07
  like
• 6:07
  you
• 6:08
  are
• 6:08
  never
• 6:08
  allowed.
• 6:09
  I
• 6:09
  use
• 6:09
  the
• 6:09
  word
• 6:09
  allowed
• 6:10
  intentionally.
• 6:11
  You're
• 6:11
  never
• 6:11
  allowed
• 6:12
  to
• 6:12
  say
• 6:12
  no.
• 6:13
  See,
• 6:14
  the
• 6:14
  ones
• 6:14
  who
• 6:14
  struggle
• 6:14
  most
• 6:15
  aren't
• 6:15
  the
• 6:15
  ones
• 6:16
  who
• 6:16
  say
• 6:16
  no.
• 6:17
  They're
• 6:17
  the
• 6:17
  ones
• 6:17
  who
• 6:17
  never
• 6:18
  felt
• 6:18
  allowed
• 6:18
  to
• 6:19
  say
• 6:19
  no.
• 6:20
  So
• 6:20
  let
• 6:20
  me
• 6:20
  give
• 6:21
  you
• 6:21
  one
• 6:21
  real
• 6:21
  life
• 6:22
  picture.
• 6:22
  Picture
• 6:23
  this
• 6:23
  person
• 6:23
  helps
• 6:24
  their
• 6:24
  family
• 6:24
  monthly.
• 6:25
  And
• 6:25
  here's
• 6:26
  the
• 6:26
  problem.
• 6:26
  They
• 6:26
  feel
• 6:26
  guilty
• 6:27
  either
• 6:27
  way.
• 6:27
  They
• 6:28
  feel
• 6:28
  guilty
• 6:28
  because
• 6:28
  they're
• 6:29
  giving,
• 6:29
  because
• 6:29
  it's
• 6:29
  taken
• 6:29
  away
• 6:30
  from
• 6:30
  their
• 6:30
  family.
• 6:32
  They
• 6:32
  have
• 6:32
  this
• 6:32
  resentment
• 6:34
  and
• 6:34
  then
• 6:34
  if
• 6:34
  they
• 6:34
  stop
• 6:35
  doing,
• 6:35
  they
• 6:35
  feel
• 6:35
  guilty
• 6:35
  not
• 6:36
  giving
• 6:36
  at
• 6:36
  all.
• 6:36
  So
• 6:37
  they
• 6:37
  live
• 6:37
  in
• 6:37
  this
• 6:37
  constant
• 6:38
  state
• 6:38
  of
• 6:38
  no
• 6:38
  peace
• 6:39
  and
• 6:40
  see
• 6:40
  the
• 6:40
  real
• 6:40
  issue
• 6:41
  there
• 6:41
  Isn't
• 6:42
  giving
• 6:42
  or
• 6:42
  not
• 6:42
  giving.
• 6:43
  It's
• 6:43
  the
• 6:43
  absence
• 6:44
  of
• 6:44
  that
• 6:44
  clear
• 6:44
  limit.
• 6:45
  It's
• 6:45
  an
• 6:45
  absence
• 6:46
  of
• 6:46
  that
• 6:46
  boundary.
• 6:48
  And
• 6:48
  when
• 6:48
  I
• 6:48
  helped
• 6:48
  them
• 6:48
  set
• 6:49
  that
• 6:49
  boundary,
• 6:50
  the
• 6:50
  resentment
• 6:51
  faded
• 6:52
  and
• 6:52
  they
• 6:52
  started
• 6:53
  to
• 6:53
  see
• 6:53
  things
• 6:53
  clearly
• 6:54
  again.
• 6:54
  And
• 6:54
  guess
• 6:55
  what
• 6:55
  happened?
• 6:55
  The
• 6:56
  relationship
• 6:56
  improved
• 6:57
  because
• 6:58
  expectations
• 6:59
  got
• 6:59
  honest
• 7:01
  again.
• 7:01
  The
• 7:01
  issue
• 7:02
  wasn't
• 7:02
  generosity.
• 7:03
  It
• 7:03
  was
• 7:04
  the
• 7:04
  absence
• 7:04
  of
• 7:05
  those
• 7:05
  boundaries.
• 7:05
  They
• 7:05
  say,
• 7:06
  you
• 7:06
  know,
• 7:06
  good
• 7:06
  fences
• 7:06
  make
• 7:07
  good
• 7:07
  neighbors.
• 7:08
  Well,
• 7:08
  good
• 7:09
  boundaries
• 7:09
  make
• 7:09
  good
• 7:10
  relationships.
• 7:11
  So
• 7:12
  here's
• 7:12
  today's
• 7:12
  question
• 7:13
  we've
• 7:13
  got
• 7:13
  to
• 7:13
  answer.
• 7:14
  Are
• 7:14
  your
• 7:15
  financial
• 7:15
  choices
• 7:16
  coming
• 7:16
  from
• 7:16
  love
• 7:17
  or
• 7:17
  from
• 7:17
  pressure?
• 7:19
  And
• 7:19
  that's
• 7:19
  not
• 7:19
  an
• 7:19
  easy
• 7:20
  thing
• 7:20
  to
• 7:20
  embrace
• 7:21
  today,
• 7:21
  is
• 7:21
  it?
• 7:21
  But
• 7:22
  are
• 7:22
  they
• 7:22
  coming
• 7:22
  from
• 7:23
  love?
• 7:23
  Are
• 7:23
  they
• 7:23
  coming
• 7:23
  from
• 7:23
  pressure?
• 7:24
  Because
• 7:24
  that
• 7:25
  answer
• 7:25
  reveals
• 7:25
  whether
• 7:26
  generosity
• 7:26
  is
• 7:26
  healthy
• 7:27
  or
• 7:28
  is
• 7:28
  it
• 7:28
  quietly
• 7:29
  being
• 7:29
  harmful?
• 7:30
  So
• 7:30
  let's
• 7:30
  walk
• 7:30
  through
• 7:31
  this
• 7:31
  gently.
• 7:31
  I
• 7:31
  want
• 7:32
  to
• 7:32
  ground
• 7:32
  you
• 7:32
  in
• 7:32
  one
• 7:33
  clear
• 7:33
  truth.
• 7:34
  Boundaries
• 7:35
  protect
• 7:35
  relationships.
• 7:37
  They
• 7:37
  just
• 7:37
  do.
• 7:37
  They
• 7:38
  don't
• 7:38
  weaken
• 7:38
  love,
• 7:39
  they
• 7:39
  actually
• 7:40
  preserve
• 7:40
  it.
• 7:41
  Love
• 7:41
  and
• 7:41
  wisdom
• 7:42
  were
• 7:42
  never
• 7:43
  meant
• 7:43
  to
• 7:43
  be
• 7:43
  enemies.
• 7:44
  See,
• 7:44
  you
• 7:45
  can
• 7:45
  love
• 7:45
  your
• 7:45
  family
• 7:46
  deeply
• 7:46
  and
• 7:46
  still
• 7:47
  have
• 7:47
  limits.
• 7:47
  You
• 7:47
  might
• 7:48
  be
• 7:48
  listening
• 7:48
  right
• 7:48
  now.
• 7:48
  You'd
• 7:48
  be
• 7:48
  like,
• 7:49
  man,
• 7:49
  I
• 7:49
  need
• 7:49
  to
• 7:49
  hear
• 7:49
  that.
• 7:50
  You
• 7:50
  can
• 7:50
  love
• 7:51
  your
• 7:51
  family
• 7:51
  deeply
• 7:53
  and
• 7:53
  still
• 7:53
  have
• 7:54
  limits.
• 7:54
  So
• 7:55
  you
• 7:55
  can
• 7:55
  care
• 7:55
  without
• 7:56
  constantly
• 7:56
  rescuing
• 7:57
  somebody.
• 7:58
  Honestly,
• 7:58
  when
• 7:58
  you're
• 7:58
  constantly
• 7:59
  rescuing
• 7:59
  them,
• 7:59
  are
• 8:00
  you
• 8:00
  just
• 8:00
  enabling
• 8:00
  them?
• 8:01
  Are
• 8:01
  you
• 8:01
  actually
• 8:01
  helping
• 8:02
  them?
• 8:02
  And
• 8:03
  yes,
• 8:03
  you
• 8:03
  can
• 8:03
  support
• 8:04
  without
• 8:04
  sacrificing
• 8:05
  your
• 8:05
  peace.
• 8:05
  I
• 8:06
  don't
• 8:06
  know
• 8:06
  how
• 8:06
  many
• 8:06
  times
• 8:07
  I've
• 8:07
  seen
• 8:07
  marital
• 8:08
  relationships
• 8:09
  strained
• 8:09
  because
• 8:10
  husband
• 8:10
  and
• 8:10
  wife
• 8:10
  were
• 8:11
  bickering
• 8:11
  about,
• 8:11
  well,
• 8:11
  why
• 8:11
  are
• 8:11
  you
• 8:12
  always
• 8:12
  helping
• 8:12
  your
• 8:12
  sister?
• 8:13
  Well,
• 8:13
  why
• 8:13
  are
• 8:13
  you
• 8:13
  always
• 8:13
  helping
• 8:14
  your
• 8:14
  parents?
• 8:15
  And
• 8:15
  most
• 8:15
  of
• 8:16
  the
• 8:16
  time,
• 8:16
  it's
• 8:16
  because
• 8:16
  there's
• 8:17
  no
• 8:17
  boundaries.
• 8:18
  And
• 8:18
  when
• 8:18
  you
• 8:19
  don't
• 8:19
  have
• 8:19
  boundaries,
• 8:20
  it
• 8:20
  starts
• 8:20
  carrying
• 8:21
  this
• 8:21
  big
• 8:21
  basket
• 8:22
  of
• 8:22
  emotions.
• 8:23
  You
• 8:23
  start
• 8:24
  feeling
• 8:24
  pressure,
• 8:25
  there's
• 8:25
  expectations,
• 8:26
  and,
• 8:26
  hey,
• 8:27
  a
• 8:27
  lot
• 8:27
  of
• 8:27
  people,
• 8:28
  it's
• 8:28
  this
• 8:29
  entitlement
• 8:29
  mentality.
• 8:30
  And
• 8:31
  eventually
• 8:32
  it
• 8:32
  just
• 8:32
  lands
• 8:33
  in
• 8:33
  resentment.
• 8:35
  See,
• 8:35
  wisdom
• 8:35
  teaches
• 8:36
  us
• 8:36
  that
• 8:36
  love
• 8:36
  sometimes
• 8:37
  says,
• 8:38
  not
• 8:38
  like
• 8:39
  this,
• 8:41
  giving
• 8:41
  is
• 8:41
  good.
• 8:42
  But
• 8:42
  giving
• 8:43
  without
• 8:43
  wisdom
• 8:44
  creates
• 8:44
  harm.
• 8:45
  So
• 8:45
  if
• 8:46
  helping
• 8:46
  family
• 8:46
  means
• 8:47
  ignoring
• 8:47
  your
• 8:47
  own
• 8:47
  bills,
• 8:48
  creating
• 8:49
  conflict
• 8:49
  in
• 8:50
  your
• 8:50
  home,
• 8:50
  living
• 8:51
  in
• 8:51
  constant
• 8:51
  anxiety,
• 8:53
  then
• 8:53
  that's
• 8:53
  not
• 8:53
  healthy
• 8:54
  generosity.
• 8:57
  You
• 8:57
  can
• 8:57
  reframe
• 8:58
  it
• 8:58
  like
• 8:58
  this.
• 8:59
  Not,
• 8:59
  can
• 9:00
  I
• 9:00
  give
• 9:00
  something?
• 9:01
  But
• 9:01
  what
• 9:01
  can
• 9:01
  I
• 9:02
  give
• 9:02
  without
• 9:02
  harming
• 9:03
  what
• 9:03
  God
• 9:03
  entrusted
• 9:04
  to
• 9:04
  me?
• 9:05
  Because
• 9:05
  your
• 9:05
  household
• 9:06
  matters,
• 9:07
  your
• 9:07
  peace
• 9:07
  matters.
• 9:08
  And
• 9:09
  listen
• 9:09
  to
• 9:09
  me,
• 9:09
  your
• 9:10
  future
• 9:10
  matters
• 9:10
  as
• 9:11
  well.
• 9:12
  See,
• 9:12
  stewardship
• 9:13
  asks
• 9:13
  a
• 9:13
  better
• 9:13
  question
• 9:14
  here.
• 9:14
  What
• 9:15
  can
• 9:15
  I
• 9:15
  give
• 9:15
  without
• 9:16
  harming
• 9:16
  what
• 9:16
  God
• 9:16
  has
• 9:17
  entrusted
• 9:17
  to
• 9:17
  me?
• 9:19
  And
• 9:19
  here's
• 9:19
  one
• 9:19
  thing
• 9:19
  I
• 9:20
  want
• 9:20
  to
• 9:20
  tell
• 9:20
  you
• 9:20
  right
• 9:20
  now,
• 9:20
  because
• 9:20
  a
• 9:21
  lot
• 9:21
  of
• 9:21
  people,
• 9:21
  this
• 9:21
  is
• 9:22
  where
• 9:22
  they
• 9:22
  get
• 9:22
  stuck.
• 9:23
  You're
• 9:23
  not
• 9:23
  responsible
• 9:24
  for
• 9:24
  fixing
• 9:25
  everyone
• 9:25
  else's
• 9:26
  situations.
• 9:28
  You're
• 9:28
  Just
• 9:28
  not.
• 9:29
  You
• 9:29
  are
• 9:29
  responsible
• 9:30
  for
• 9:30
  your
• 9:31
  own
• 9:31
  wise
• 9:31
  decisions.
• 9:33
  And
• 9:33
  see,
• 9:33
  when
• 9:33
  you
• 9:33
  set
• 9:34
  those
• 9:34
  boundaries
• 9:34
  up,
• 9:35
  you
• 9:35
  say
• 9:35
  to
• 9:35
  yourself,
• 9:36
  this
• 9:36
  is
• 9:36
  what
• 9:36
  I
• 9:36
  can
• 9:37
  do.
• 9:37
  This
• 9:38
  is
• 9:38
  where
• 9:38
  I'm
• 9:38
  choosing
• 9:39
  to
• 9:39
  stop.
• 9:40
  See,
• 9:40
  that
• 9:41
  clarity
• 9:41
  is
• 9:41
  kinder
• 9:42
  than
• 9:42
  that
• 9:42
  silent
• 9:43
  resentment
• 9:43
  that
• 9:44
  builds
• 9:44
  up.
• 9:44
  That
• 9:45
  unclear
• 9:45
  generosity
• 9:46
  just
• 9:46
  creates
• 9:47
  confusion.
• 9:48
  And
• 9:48
  clear
• 9:48
  boundaries
• 9:49
  create
• 9:49
  respect.
• 9:50
  See,
• 9:51
  clarity,
• 9:51
  and
• 9:51
  that's
• 9:52
  the
• 9:52
  thing,
• 9:52
  even
• 9:52
  when
• 9:53
  it's
• 9:53
  uncomfortable,
• 9:54
  is
• 9:54
  kinder
• 9:55
  than
• 9:55
  that
• 9:55
  silent
• 9:56
  resentment.
• 9:56
  I've
• 9:56
  seen
• 9:57
  that
• 9:57
  so
• 9:57
  many
• 9:57
  times.
• 9:59
  Sometimes
• 9:59
  saying
• 10:00
  no
• 10:00
  is
• 10:00
  the
• 10:00
  most
• 10:00
  loving
• 10:01
  response.
• 10:02
  When
• 10:02
  you
• 10:02
  say
• 10:03
  no,
• 10:03
  it
• 10:03
  keeps
• 10:04
  relationships
• 10:04
  honest.
• 10:05
  It
• 10:06
  keeps
• 10:06
  those
• 10:06
  expectations
• 10:07
  realistic.
• 10:08
  Because
• 10:08
  you're
• 10:08
  saying
• 10:08
  no
• 10:08
  because
• 10:09
  there's
• 10:09
  a
• 10:09
  reason
• 10:09
  for
• 10:11
  keeps
• 10:11
  money
• 10:11
  from
• 10:12
  becoming
• 10:12
  leverage.
• 10:12
  I've
• 10:12
  seen
• 10:13
  that
• 10:13
  happen
• 10:13
  so
• 10:13
  many
• 10:14
  times.
• 10:14
  Money
• 10:15
  becomes
• 10:15
  this
• 10:15
  leverage.
• 10:16
  If
• 10:16
  you
• 10:16
  love
• 10:17
  me,
• 10:17
  you
• 10:17
  would
• 10:17
  do
• 10:17
  this
• 10:17
  for
• 10:18
  me.
• 10:18
  And
• 10:19
  those
• 10:19
  boundaries
• 10:19
  aren't
• 10:20
  creating
• 10:20
  walls.
• 10:20
  They're
• 10:21
  just
• 10:21
  guardrails.
• 10:22
  And
• 10:23
  guardrails
• 10:23
  keep
• 10:24
  love
• 10:24
  from
• 10:24
  crashing
• 10:25
  under
• 10:25
  constant
• 10:26
  need.
• 10:27
  Let's
• 10:27
  move
• 10:27
  right
• 10:28
  to
• 10:28
  our
• 10:28
  scripture
• 10:28
  verse
• 10:28
  today.
• 10:29
  And
• 10:29
  that
• 10:29
  comes
• 10:29
  to
• 10:29
  us
• 10:29
  from
• 10:29
  Proverbs,
• 10:30
  chapter
• 10:31
  4,
• 10:31
  verse
• 10:31
  23.
• 10:31
  And
• 10:32
  it
• 10:32
  says
• 10:32
  this
• 10:32
  above
• 10:33
  all
• 10:33
  else.
• 10:34
  Listen,
• 10:34
  when
• 10:34
  the
• 10:35
  Bible
• 10:35
  says,
• 10:35
  above
• 10:35
  all
• 10:35
  else,
• 10:36
  guess
• 10:36
  what
• 10:36
  that
• 10:36
  means?
• 10:36
  Above
• 10:37
  all
• 10:37
  else,
• 10:38
  guard
• 10:38
  your
• 10:39
  heart,
• 10:40
  for
• 10:40
  everything
• 10:40
  you
• 10:41
  do
• 10:41
  flows
• 10:42
  from
• 10:42
  it.
• 10:43
  Friend.
• 10:43
  Your
• 10:44
  finances,
• 10:44
  if
• 10:44
  you're
• 10:44
  doing
• 10:45
  it
• 10:45
  right,
• 10:45
  flow
• 10:46
  from
• 10:46
  your
• 10:46
  heart
• 10:46
  as
• 10:47
  well.
• 10:48
  See,
• 10:48
  guarding
• 10:49
  your
• 10:49
  heart
• 10:49
  often
• 10:49
  includes
• 10:50
  guarding
• 10:50
  your
• 10:50
  resources.
• 10:51
  It's
• 10:51
  not
• 10:52
  to
• 10:52
  withhold
• 10:52
  love,
• 10:52
  but
• 10:53
  to
• 10:53
  give
• 10:53
  love
• 10:54
  wisely.
• 10:56
  And
• 10:56
  if
• 10:56
  you're
• 10:56
  given
• 10:57
  right
• 10:57
  now
• 10:57
  and
• 10:57
  it's
• 10:57
  breeding
• 10:58
  resentment,
• 10:59
  something
• 11:00
  needs
• 11:00
  protection.
• 11:02
  Here's
• 11:03
  your
• 11:03
  simple
• 11:03
  step
• 11:03
  for
• 11:03
  today.
• 11:04
  I
• 11:04
  want
• 11:04
  you
• 11:04
  to
• 11:04
  decide
• 11:05
  one
• 11:05
  financial
• 11:06
  boundary
• 11:06
  with
• 11:07
  family
• 11:07
  this
• 11:07
  week.
• 11:07
  Just
• 11:08
  one.
• 11:09
  It
• 11:09
  might
• 11:09
  sound
• 11:09
  like
• 11:09
  this.
• 11:10
  Yes,
• 11:11
  we
• 11:11
  can
• 11:11
  help
• 11:11
  you
• 11:11
  once,
• 11:12
  but
• 11:12
  we
• 11:12
  can't
• 11:12
  do
• 11:12
  this
• 11:13
  ongoing.
• 11:13
  I've
• 11:13
  had
• 11:13
  to
• 11:13
  say
• 11:14
  this
• 11:14
  to
• 11:14
  my
• 11:14
  own
• 11:14
  children.
• 11:15
  I
• 11:15
  can
• 11:15
  help
• 11:15
  you
• 11:15
  this
• 11:16
  time.
• 11:16
  But
• 11:17
  this
• 11:17
  isn't
• 11:17
  an
• 11:17
  ongoing
• 11:18
  monthly
• 11:18
  support
• 11:19
  system.
• 11:20
  Maybe
• 11:20
  you
• 11:20
  say
• 11:20
  to
• 11:21
  them,
• 11:21
  this
• 11:21
  is
• 11:21
  what
• 11:21
  we
• 11:21
  can
• 11:22
  give.
• 11:22
  They
• 11:22
  might
• 11:22
  not
• 11:22
  be
• 11:22
  happy
• 11:23
  with
• 11:23
  it,
• 11:23
  but
• 11:24
  this
• 11:24
  is
• 11:24
  what
• 11:24
  we
• 11:24
  can
• 11:25
  afford
• 11:25
  to
• 11:25
  give
• 11:25
  without
• 11:26
  causing
• 11:26
  problems
• 11:26
  to
• 11:27
  our
• 11:27
  peace.
• 11:28
  And
• 11:29
  maybe
• 11:29
  so
• 11:29
  maybe
• 11:29
  you
• 11:30
  have
• 11:30
  to
• 11:30
  just
• 11:30
  say
• 11:30
  this.
• 11:31
  This
• 11:32
  is
• 11:32
  where
• 11:32
  we
• 11:32
  need
• 11:32
  to
• 11:33
  say
• 11:33
  no.
• 11:34
  And
• 11:34
  saying
• 11:34
  no
• 11:35
  doesn't
• 11:35
  mean
• 11:35
  you
• 11:35
  don't
• 11:35
  love
• 11:36
  them.
• 11:36
  It
• 11:36
  doesn't
• 11:36
  mean
• 11:36
  you
• 11:37
  don't
• 11:37
  care
• 11:37
  for
• 11:37
  them.
• 11:37
  It
• 11:38
  doesn't
• 11:38
  mean
• 11:38
  any
• 11:38
  of
• 11:38
  those
• 11:38
  things.
• 11:39
  It
• 11:39
  means
• 11:39
  that
• 11:39
  you
• 11:40
  have
• 11:40
  a
• 11:40
  boundary
• 11:41
  and
• 11:41
  you've
• 11:41
  got
• 11:41
  to
• 11:41
  protect
• 11:42
  something
• 11:42
  different.
• 11:43
  And
• 11:43
  listen,
• 11:44
  don't
• 11:44
  feel
• 11:44
  like
• 11:44
  you
• 11:44
  got
• 11:44
  to
• 11:45
  explain
• 11:45
  everything.
• 11:46
  A
• 11:46
  lot
• 11:46
  of
• 11:46
  people
• 11:46
  say,
• 11:47
  well,
• 11:47
  I
• 11:47
  don't
• 11:47
  know
• 11:48
  how
• 11:48
  I'm
• 11:48
  going
• 11:48
  to
• 11:48
  tell
• 11:48
  them
• 11:48
  this,
• 11:48
  Ralph.
• 11:49
  I
• 11:49
  can't
• 11:50
  help
• 11:50
  my
• 11:50
  children
• 11:50
  anymore.
• 11:52
  That
• 11:52
  clarity
• 11:53
  is
• 11:53
  kindness.
• 11:53
  When
• 11:54
  you
• 11:54
  say,
• 11:54
  no,
• 11:54
  guess
• 11:55
  what
• 11:55
  they're
• 11:55
  going
• 11:55
  to
• 11:55
  figure
• 11:55
  it
• 11:56
  out.
• 11:56
  How
• 11:56
  about
• 11:57
  we
• 11:57
  pray
• 11:57
  together?
• 11:58
  Lord,
• 11:58
  thank
• 11:59
  you
• 11:59
  for
• 11:59
  family,
• 12:00
  thank
• 12:00
  you
• 12:00
  for
• 12:01
  hearts
• 12:01
  that
• 12:01
  want
• 12:01
  to
• 12:01
  give.
• 12:02
  Lord,
• 12:02
  we
• 12:02
  just
• 12:02
  cherish
• 12:03
  that.
• 12:03
  But
• 12:04
  help
• 12:04
  us
• 12:04
  give
• 12:04
  with
• 12:05
  wisdom.
• 12:05
  Help
• 12:05
  us
• 12:06
  to
• 12:06
  not
• 12:06
  live
• 12:06
  in
• 12:06
  fear
• 12:07
  and
• 12:07
  certainly
• 12:07
  not
• 12:08
  live
• 12:08
  in
• 12:08
  pressure.
• 12:08
  Lord,
• 12:09
  teach
• 12:09
  us
• 12:09
  to
• 12:09
  set
• 12:10
  those
• 12:10
  boundaries
• 12:10
  with
• 12:11
  love
• 12:11
  and
• 12:11
  with
• 12:11
  grace
• 12:12
  and
• 12:13
  protect
• 12:13
  our
• 12:13
  hearts
• 12:14
  and
• 12:14
  guide
• 12:14
  our
• 12:15
  decisions.
• 12:15
  We
• 12:15
  ask
• 12:16
  this
• 12:16
  in
• 12:16
  Jesus
• 12:17
  name.
• 12:18
  Amen,
• 12:19
  friend.
• 12:19
  If
• 12:19
  family
• 12:20
  money
• 12:20
  conversations
• 12:21
  feel
• 12:21
  heavy
• 12:21
  or
• 12:22
  lonely
• 12:22
  for
• 12:22
  you,
• 12:23
  you
• 12:23
  don't
• 12:23
  have
• 12:23
  to
• 12:23
  carry
• 12:24
  them
• 12:24
  alone
• 12:24
  anymore.
• 12:25
  I
• 12:25
  built
• 12:25
  a
• 12:25
  community
• 12:26
  with
• 12:26
  a
• 12:26
  safe
• 12:26
  place
• 12:27
  to
• 12:27
  talk
• 12:27
  about
• 12:27
  real
• 12:28
  money
• 12:28
  issues
• 12:28
  without
• 12:29
  judgment
• 12:29
  and
• 12:30
  without
• 12:30
  shame.
• 12:30
  You'll
• 12:31
  hear
• 12:31
  people
• 12:31
  say,
• 12:31
  I
• 12:32
  finally
• 12:32
  felt
• 12:32
  relief.
• 12:33
  I
• 12:34
  learned
• 12:34
  I
• 12:34
  wasn't
• 12:34
  being
• 12:35
  selfish.
• 12:35
  I
• 12:35
  want
• 12:35
  you
• 12:35
  to
• 12:36
  come
• 12:36
  join
• 12:36
  us
• 12:37
  at
• 12:37
  financiallyconfidentchristian.com/join
• 12:40
  again.
• 12:40
  That's
• 12:41
  financiallyconfidentchristian.com/join.
• 12:43
  Because,
• 12:44
  friend,
• 12:44
  you
• 12:44
  belong
• 12:44
  there.
• 12:46
  Protecting
• 12:46
  your
• 12:46
  wallet
• 12:47
  can
• 12:47
  also
• 12:48
  protect
• 12:48
  your
• 12:48
  heart.
• 12:48
  That's
• 12:48
  the
• 12:49
  big
• 12:49
  takeaway
• 12:49
  from
• 12:49
  today.
• 12:50
  Those
• 12:50
  boundaries
• 12:51
  don't
• 12:51
  weaken
• 12:51
  love,
• 12:52
  they
• 12:52
  actually
• 12:52
  preserve
• 12:53
  it.
• 12:53
  And
• 12:53
  even
• 12:53
  if
• 12:54
  this
• 12:54
  has
• 12:54
  been
• 12:54
  messy
• 12:55
  before,
• 12:55
  for
• 12:55
  you,
• 12:57
  even
• 12:57
  it
• 12:57
  was
• 12:57
  messy
• 12:58
  today
• 12:58
  before.
• 12:58
  You
• 12:58
  listen
• 12:59
  to
• 12:59
  this.
• 13:00
  You
• 13:00
  can
• 13:00
  choose
• 13:00
  differently
• 13:01
  right
• 13:01
  now.
• 13:02
  Just
• 13:02
  pick
• 13:03
  one
• 13:03
  boundary,
• 13:03
  one
• 13:04
  conversation,
• 13:05
  and
• 13:05
  just
• 13:05
  one
• 13:06
  peaceful
• 13:06
  step
• 13:07
  forward.
• 13:08
  You're
• 13:08
  going
• 13:08
  to
• 13:08
  be
• 13:09
  okay.
• 13:09
  Now
• 13:10
  tomorrow
• 13:10
  we're
• 13:10
  going
• 13:10
  to
• 13:11
  slow
• 13:11
  things
• 13:11
  down
• 13:11
  together.
• 13:11
  We're
• 13:12
  going
• 13:12
  to
• 13:12
  talk
• 13:12
  about
• 13:12
  love,
• 13:13
  money,
• 13:13
  and
• 13:14
  God's
• 13:14
  design
• 13:14
  for
• 13:15
  unity.
• 13:15
  And
• 13:16
  if
• 13:16
  today's
• 13:16
  episode
• 13:17
  helped
• 13:17
  you
• 13:17
  share
• 13:17
  with
• 13:18
  someone
• 13:18
  else
• 13:18
  struggling
• 13:18
  with
• 13:19
  family
• 13:19
  boundaries,
• 13:19
  you
• 13:19
  probably
• 13:20
  know
• 13:20
  somebody
• 13:20
  right
• 13:20
  now.
• 13:21
  They're
• 13:21
  like
• 13:21
  crap.
• 13:21
  Yeah,
• 13:21
  these
• 13:22
  people,
• 13:22
  they
• 13:22
  got
• 13:22
  these
• 13:23
  family
• 13:23
  members
• 13:23
  that
• 13:23
  are
• 13:24
  always
• 13:24
  on
• 13:24
  top
• 13:24
  of
• 13:24
  them
• 13:25
  and
• 13:25
  they
• 13:25
  just
• 13:25
  have
• 13:26
  living
• 13:26
  this
• 13:26
  constant
• 13:27
  resentment
• 13:27
  and
• 13:27
  tension.
• 13:28
  Share
• 13:28
  the
• 13:28
  show
• 13:28
  with
• 13:28
  them.
• 13:29
  Because
• 13:29
  this
• 13:29
  show
• 13:30
  isn't
• 13:30
  about
• 13:30
  bringing
• 13:31
  financial
• 13:31
  shame.
• 13:32
  It's
• 13:32
  about
• 13:32
  teaching
• 13:32
  us
• 13:33
  to
• 13:33
  walk
• 13:33
  in
• 13:33
  wisdom,
• 13:34
  staying
• 13:34
  steady
• 13:35
  and
• 13:35
  truly
• 13:36
  becoming
• 13:36
  a
• 13:37
  financially
• 13:37
  confident
• 13:38
  Christian.
• 13:38
  God
• 13:38
  bless
• 13:39
  you,
• 13:39
  friend,
• 13:39
  and
• 13:39
  I
• 13:40
  hope
• 13:40
  again
• 13:40
  to
• 13:40
  see
• 13:40
  you
• 13:40
  tomorrow.