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Decisions, Decisions: Baby Makin (Ft. Jacquess) · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say
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  Speaker 1: decisions decisions.
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  Speaker 2: It sounded like you was talking to you definitely say
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  Speaker 2: to welcome, welcome to the new podcast. Oh you want
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  Speaker 2: to say together the decisions decisions all y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Well, we were just gonna jump right into this ship,
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  Speaker 1: this show what best friends, baby Daddy. I ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: hold y'all.
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  Speaker 3: This is probably crazy because I normally don't bring people
• 0:29
  Speaker 3: like that.
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  Speaker 1: I know like this. I think the truth they be fighting.
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  Speaker 1: Put the camera. We're not gonna do d y'all. We
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  Speaker 1: have Jack Queis in the building today.
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  Speaker 3: And I am really excited because, Yeah, I had a
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  Speaker 3: prepro call with your fiance.
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  Speaker 1: First Off, First off, I ain't gonna hold y'all.
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  Speaker 3: Let me tell y'all how I'm sitting here, like letting
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  Speaker 3: her know kind of the questions and conversations we're gonna
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  Speaker 3: have on the pot.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, here go John Queens and the background. Man, I
• 0:56
  Speaker 1: heard y'all. Ship, y'all better not make my episode boring.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, man, I don't give me all that other ship.
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  Speaker 1: That's funny.
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  Speaker 2: All right, you have, but see, we have to now
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  Speaker 2: because now we can't dig into the hose, because if
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  Speaker 2: we're the ones who dug into the past, we're gonna
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  Speaker 2: be like, why the you put my medal?
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  Speaker 3: Just know we're gonna get to the sexiness of it all,
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  Speaker 3: the baby making of it all before we.
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  Speaker 2: Get to the sexiness. Can I tell you, every time
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  Speaker 2: I hear your name, I think of one thing. You know,
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  Speaker 2: just as like a fan of listening to songs for yours,
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  Speaker 2: My favorite song is a song that I would have
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  Speaker 2: to go through hell and high water to listen to.
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  Speaker 2: And I get so excited anytime I hear to beat
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  Speaker 2: because all I want to say is.
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  Speaker 1: I got a right on my gun. It will take it.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, Brady to me, I ain't gotta get made.
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  Speaker 3: You said the gun off safety. Oh this is when
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  Speaker 3: you like fucking Niggasho had guns under the pillow.
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  Speaker 1: So I just said, I resonated with that's my ship.
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  Speaker 1: I get so happy when the DJ just takes it
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  Speaker 1: off track. Yeah, you know, I really hate reading this,
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  Speaker 1: but fuck when he's better than this song, here we go.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 2: I love ELM too, but like honestly, I was really
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  Speaker 2: upset like the DSPs.
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  Speaker 1: It was killing me. Bro I on YouTube.
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  Speaker 2: I bought YouTube premium for the day you swear Swear
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  Speaker 2: to God. I love, love, love love your voice, and
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  Speaker 2: that song was really fun to listen to, and it's like,
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  Speaker 2: just it was such a good song.
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  Speaker 1: You but yeah, like that a fun time, right.
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  Speaker 3: And also you know what, I wanted to own and
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  Speaker 3: you sold the thunder from her again not y'all having
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  Speaker 3: babies around the same time.
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  Speaker 1: She had her baby as well. Oh that's hard.
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  Speaker 4: Congrats, hud. It used to be cool with me back
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  Speaker 4: in the day.
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  Speaker 1: Did you when you were singing that song?
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  Speaker 2: Because the clip I remember, did you really the audios
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  Speaker 2: from you singing in the car?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, yeah not so that day I was out
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  Speaker 4: the country. I was in London.
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  Speaker 5: And it's crazy because her best friend used to run
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  Speaker 5: around with me, you know what I'm saying in London,
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  Speaker 5: like she had worked for like cash money and Republic
• 2:55
  Speaker 5: like out there. It was like they had like a
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  Speaker 5: second part out there or whatever out the country and
• 3:00
  Speaker 5: she used to run around with me whatever. So I
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  Speaker 5: was like, man, one day, I was like, man, I'm
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  Speaker 5: finna make this video to trip, you know what I'm saying, Like,
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  Speaker 5: I'm finna make it in a car. My managers like, man,
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  Speaker 5: don't do that. Whatever, you shouldn't do it, whatever, Like
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna do it. So I just recorded on the
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  Speaker 5: phone and that's the clip. I was just lip singing
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  Speaker 5: what I had already recorded, and I just threw it
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  Speaker 5: on the ground. And when that went viral that same day,
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  Speaker 5: I was already shooting a video.
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  Speaker 4: To it, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 5: So I was like, you know, I always do quick
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  Speaker 5: me because I didn't know it was gonna be that crazy.
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  Speaker 5: When I put it on the ground, they had got
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  Speaker 5: like they had got like ten thousand plays like in
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  Speaker 5: a minute or something crazy, something, something ridiculous had happened
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  Speaker 5: in like ten minutes.
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  Speaker 1: I remember, cause we got the Hood version of the song.
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  Speaker 1: That's why.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I remember, like I ain't even gonna cap
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  Speaker 5: like I remember when I dropped that stuff, Like I
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  Speaker 5: remember like like they are coming from Cali, like you
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  Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, like playing it like like what
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  Speaker 5: was this like two thy eighteen or something like this,
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  Speaker 5: Like I remember that coming from California, like in the neighborhood,
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  Speaker 5: like just everybody in the neighborhood of California just out
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  Speaker 5: the windows playing trip like it was crazy.
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  Speaker 3: Like that was a crazy we mix it still something,
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  Speaker 3: especially like with everyone using samples or remixing and doing
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  Speaker 3: all that shit, but also it not being money out
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  Speaker 3: of it because shit ain't get cleared.
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  Speaker 1: Is that something you still doing? Does it make sense
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  Speaker 1: to do?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, y'all still do it.
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  Speaker 5: I just dropped the Queen's project at the top of
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  Speaker 5: the you okay, you feel me? I did it because
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  Speaker 5: I'm like, man, my fans be asking for it, and
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  Speaker 5: that was what was going viral if you see, like
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  Speaker 5: the little shit that was like a.
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  Speaker 4: Damn ye, everybody was going to let dances.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So it's like I always do something to end up
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  Speaker 4: going viral.
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  Speaker 1: I actually had a really interesting conversation about.
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  Speaker 2: That moment in time with I was in this meeting
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  Speaker 2: about it was a TV show that I was working
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  Speaker 2: the EP and they wanted to hire this influencer who
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  Speaker 2: was popular for copying something from another woman. And the
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  Speaker 2: conversation was like, yo, but like this was kind of
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  Speaker 2: fucked up. I'm like, yeah, but they're two black creators.
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  Speaker 2: Like all TikTokers do the same thing, they just remix it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, what.
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  Speaker 2: About John Queens think about that moment it's time. Like
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  Speaker 2: I feel like we all agreed that, Like, Okay, I
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  Speaker 2: understand why you perform this.
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  Speaker 1: It's not like people are paying the ticket to see
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  Speaker 1: you do this. One thing. Can they not do this?
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  Speaker 1: I will, I will say that.
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  Speaker 3: That is another thing about I think our first time
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  Speaker 3: meeting DeAndre and shit, I gotta share this.
• 5:20
  Speaker 1: I gotta share it.
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  Speaker 3: So I find out that one of our best friends
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  Speaker 3: is dating Jacquez and she calls me and it's like, listen,
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  Speaker 3: Jack queens my friend. We talk about music and I
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  Speaker 3: don't really know if she listens to your music that well.
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  Speaker 1: And she say that she is not the king of
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  Speaker 1: R and B. So when we come to New York,
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  Speaker 1: swear to God.
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  Speaker 3: When we come to New York, I'm gonna bring her
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  Speaker 3: to your show, so so she could.
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  Speaker 1: See how you get down. Baby.
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  Speaker 3: And I went to the show and the visuals in
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  Speaker 3: the bag, the dancers and literally he comes backstage and
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  Speaker 3: he was like, I did that.
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  Speaker 1: Shit didn't say that was like our first time meeting.
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  Speaker 3: And I did want to want to get into so,
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  Speaker 3: you know, decision decisions. You know, we talk relationships, we
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  Speaker 3: talk sex. We're gonna get into baby making the new project.
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  Speaker 3: But before getting into the project, I wanted to bring
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  Speaker 3: up a just a very real topic about our interaction,
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  Speaker 3: maybe something that people often go with or deal with.
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  Speaker 1: And I'll be real with you because you.
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  Speaker 3: Already know I wasn't a fan of you personally at first.
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  Speaker 3: Of course, there was a lot around the pregnancy, the
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  Speaker 3: announcement of it, what was going on with your previous
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  Speaker 3: relationship as it intertwined with this previous with this current relationship.
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  Speaker 3: And I will tell you, I don't know if you know.
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  Speaker 3: There was a decision whether she was going to keep
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  Speaker 3: the baby or not. And I sent her flowers that said, realize,
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  Speaker 3: bit you give a fuck about a nigga. I support
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  Speaker 3: whatever decision you make, but it happens, I'm not gonna
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  Speaker 3: lie as a friend because that took place during your relationship.
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  Speaker 3: I do want to commend you in having to go
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  Speaker 3: against and earn the trust, the love from her family members,
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  Speaker 3: her brothers, the mama, her best friends, and everything around,
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  Speaker 3: because I think it's been a lot for y'all to
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  Speaker 3: go through a high risk pregnancy, but also for you
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  Speaker 3: as a man, a first time father, having to go
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  Speaker 3: against everything and also really being excited about this moment
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  Speaker 3: and I did want to commend you because I do think.
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  Speaker 1: It's hard, like a lot of people out there have,
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  Speaker 1: you know, get pregnant with eight shit. Nigga's not saying
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  Speaker 1: that you are, but those men.
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  Speaker 3: There is a battle in wanting to be excited because
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  Speaker 3: this is a baby that's coming into the picture, wanting
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  Speaker 3: to stay with this woman though there's been some ups
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  Speaker 3: and downs, and then also fighting to prove that I'm
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  Speaker 3: gonna be the man that I know I can be
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  Speaker 3: in this relationship. And I do want to say from
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  Speaker 3: a personal standpoint, y'all, every time I have seen you,
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  Speaker 3: you have done nothing but show up as a partner,
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  Speaker 3: as someone embracing the family, even though you knew we
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  Speaker 3: hated you.
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  Speaker 1: A little bit.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, real talk.
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  Speaker 3: And I did want to ask you how how was
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  Speaker 3: that moment of wanting to celebrate your first child and
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  Speaker 3: then also as the man trying to just give advice
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  Speaker 3: to maybe other men dealing with this, like how you
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  Speaker 3: let them know like I'm gonna be here and I'm
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  Speaker 3: gonna be a good father and I'm gonna be a
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  Speaker 3: good partner to this woman.
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  Speaker 5: Oh well, really, it's like it's just a decision a
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  Speaker 5: man gotta make. Honestly, that's what I think. You know
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  Speaker 5: what I'm saying, because like us as dudes like, it
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  Speaker 5: come a time where it came a time in my life.
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  Speaker 5: Well I'm like, man, I gotta stop really playing with fire,
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  Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. I was always the type
• 8:47
  Speaker 5: of dude to like play with fire. You dig what
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  Speaker 5: I'm saying. I would always think I can have it
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  Speaker 5: my way.
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  Speaker 4: Period.
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  Speaker 5: That's just how I was thinking. I was just like, man,
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  Speaker 5: I'm jock Queeze, I can have shit my way, you
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  Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. And it just came to a
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  Speaker 5: halt because when I was thinking that, it's like everything
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  Speaker 5: started to fumble, he did, know what I'm saying, Like other
• 9:07
  Speaker 5: places in my life started to fumble. And I'm like,
• 9:09
  Speaker 5: I ain't got no discipline nowhere, you know, And if
• 9:12
  Speaker 5: you ain't got no discipline nowhere, then everything goes started
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  Speaker 5: to fumble. So once I got disciplined with myself and
• 9:17
  Speaker 5: I stopped drinking.
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  Speaker 1: And how that discipline happened, Yeah, Like my girl was
• 9:21
  Speaker 1: big on that.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I was big on drinking. You know.
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  Speaker 5: I was just really like a drinker, you feel me,
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  Speaker 5: like a nigga that just like to drink, but it
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  Speaker 5: was taking me somewhere that I had never been, and
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  Speaker 5: I was like starting to lose myself in a way.
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  Speaker 5: But then I had somebody like DeAndre that's right there,
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  Speaker 5: that seeing me in such a light, that was seeing
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  Speaker 5: me go down like that that she really just couldn't
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  Speaker 5: believe it type of things, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: Well, she couldn't drink during the propricity, so they kind
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  Speaker 1: of went on that sobriety journey together, you.
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  Speaker 4: Know what I'm saying. So it was like that.
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  Speaker 5: But see, while she got pregnant, I was still turn
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  Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. So I didn't turn down
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  Speaker 5: until like three months after.
• 10:01
  Speaker 1: Do you think that.
• 10:02
  Speaker 2: Men need a moment of like I feel like to
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  Speaker 2: any man that's ever dated me, there was a moment
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  Speaker 2: where they had to almost lose me to be like
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  Speaker 2: oh okay, And for you, I don't know if that
• 10:14
  Speaker 2: moment was just you know, drama online and X or whatever,
• 10:18
  Speaker 2: but do you think that it takes that Like do
• 10:21
  Speaker 2: you think if you didn't have that moment you could propose?
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  Speaker 1: Like is there moment? Yeah? Yeah, without the moment, I
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  Speaker 1: could have still proposed. Do you think that that really
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  Speaker 1: showed you the value.
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  Speaker 2: Though I'm not saying obviously this woman like the Futroy,
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  Speaker 2: but it doesn't make you feel like, oh nah.
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  Speaker 5: It's like all the BS did for me really was
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  Speaker 5: just showed me that she believe in me to be
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  Speaker 5: someone better. You know, she gave me an opportunity to
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  Speaker 5: be better from forgiveness. Yeah, it's like it's like she's
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  Speaker 5: she like you know when somebody know like, nah, that
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  Speaker 5: ain't you. You know what I'm saying, they'd be like, nah,
• 10:49
  Speaker 5: I don't believe as you You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 5: They could see the good and you like, like the
• 10:52
  Speaker 5: real greatness in you?
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  Speaker 1: Did you also feel like the liquor was turning you
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  Speaker 1: into someone that you weren't proud of.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like, because I would
• 10:59
  Speaker 5: use it for like a coping mechanism for different things
• 11:01
  Speaker 5: that I was fighting myself, you know what I'm saying. Like,
• 11:04
  Speaker 5: So if I wanted to be at a certain place
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  Speaker 5: in my career, like you feel me, if I done
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  Speaker 5: got mad at motherfuckers for stuff I could control and
• 11:10
  Speaker 5: not knowing, I would just sit there and just drink.
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  Speaker 1: And then I would just drink till I fall asleep.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, wake.
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  Speaker 5: Up the next day and just like drinking the day. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: I'll just wake up, you feel me go do something.
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  Speaker 5: Then I'll figure out a way to be like, oh,
• 11:22
  Speaker 5: I got a flight, I'm gonna go to the bar,
• 11:24
  Speaker 5: sit down to the flight like, oh the flight, I
• 11:25
  Speaker 5: got two more men's the board. I'll run down there.
• 11:27
  Speaker 5: If you even get on the flight, Oh they got
• 11:29
  Speaker 5: some drinking. This like all right, I'll just drink, go
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  Speaker 5: to sleep, wake up, then just do a show.
• 11:35
  Speaker 4: Then niggas be like, how the fuck did he kill
• 11:36
  Speaker 4: the show? Like this?
• 11:37
  Speaker 1: Nigga was just backstage like like.
• 11:40
  Speaker 5: Niggas thought I was crazy. Oh wow, I'll be fucked up.
• 11:43
  Speaker 5: But then I get on stage and be.
• 11:45
  Speaker 1: Like functioning alcoholic.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I'm not gonna lie straight up.
• 11:48
  Speaker 1: You know. I'm currently going through my socer journey right
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  Speaker 1: now too, And it awakens you in so many of
• 11:54
  Speaker 1: your relationships how you show up with the dependency of
• 11:57
  Speaker 1: liquor to either ease stress anxiety, just being codependent, also
• 12:03
  Speaker 1: as being an artist. Yeah, you're constantly around drinking and
• 12:07
  Speaker 1: things like that.
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  Speaker 5: But but it wasn't even like but you can't turn
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  Speaker 5: the fuck up. I like when folks turn up, Like
• 12:18
  Speaker 5: I hate when folks come around me and they be
• 12:20
  Speaker 5: like like, if a motherfucker came around me that drinking,
• 12:22
  Speaker 5: don't drink, I'm gonna be mad.
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  Speaker 1: Like I know, I ain't gonna lie.
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  Speaker 3: I sneak to the to the bar now and be like,
• 12:27
  Speaker 3: give me your self to put a line in me
• 12:30
  Speaker 3: so it looked like it, or I get like the
• 12:33
  Speaker 3: zero percent because it's stilling a beer bottle, you know
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  Speaker 3: what I'm saying.
• 12:36
  Speaker 1: So I be looking like I'm drinking. It's like it's
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: just a vibe.
• 12:39
  Speaker 5: Like I swear now that I started getting the mocktails
• 12:41
  Speaker 5: and ship, I promise you sometimes I'll be feeling like
• 12:44
  Speaker 5: I'm drunk.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I'm like this ship might be in my
• 12:49
  Speaker 4: head for real.
• 12:49
  Speaker 5: I'm like I told my aunt the other day, I'm like, bro,
• 12:52
  Speaker 5: I don't think I like, I'm really the same, like regardless,
• 12:56
  Speaker 5: like you know what I'm saying. Then I had gotten
• 12:57
  Speaker 5: to a point where it's like liquor be fun. You
• 13:00
  Speaker 5: did you know what I'm saying? And then I was like,
• 13:03
  Speaker 5: you know, you being like some shit where it's like
• 13:05
  Speaker 5: you know, both of y'all do that shit.
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  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 5: I was in stuff like that, like where we both
• 13:09
  Speaker 5: I was in relationships where we both enjoyed drinking, and
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  Speaker 5: then I was the one who couldn't like grasphold of it.
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  Speaker 5: Like I even look back on like past situations now
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  Speaker 5: and be like damn, Like you know, it was certain
• 13:20
  Speaker 5: things that people were trying to tell me the past
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  Speaker 5: that I understand now, do you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: Like, God, make no mistakes, you know what I'm saying.
• 13:27
  Speaker 5: But I be thinking like my whole my whole life,
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  Speaker 5: like a lot of times in my twenties with different
• 13:30
  Speaker 5: relationships I was in, it was like a lot of
• 13:32
  Speaker 5: times liquor was always the downfall.
• 13:34
  Speaker 4: But you know what, though, you know what I'm saying.
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: Everybody, somebody famous. Women feel so much pressure to not
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: be the fun girl. You want to be everything. You
• 13:43
  Speaker 2: want to be the fun girl. You want to do this,
• 13:44
  Speaker 2: you want to leok them you down, like like.
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: I feel like I.
• 13:47
  Speaker 5: But then but then the dude will let you know
• 13:49
  Speaker 5: you ain't got to be because yes, sometimes the nigga
• 13:51
  Speaker 5: will be like, no, I don't want that from you.
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  Speaker 2: But I don't think women are leading with that. I
• 13:56
  Speaker 2: don't think that most women that famous men meet gin
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  Speaker 2: or being the their real selves.
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  Speaker 4: I could believe that.
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: I think they being the woman that they think that you.
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  Speaker 4: That's a fact. It's gonna take.
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  Speaker 5: It probably takes the dude to break down or something
• 14:09
  Speaker 5: to the form to show their real self for you.
• 14:11
  Speaker 3: I think I'm curious because we have this conversation. We've
• 14:16
  Speaker 3: had dating coaches on here, and they they say how
• 14:19
  Speaker 3: long someone should be with somebody before the question is popped,
• 14:22
  Speaker 3: before you.
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: Make it serious.
• 14:24
  Speaker 3: Do you remember the moment that you were like, I'm
• 14:27
  Speaker 3: gonna go buy a ring and propose to DeAndre. Yeah,
• 14:30
  Speaker 3: we knew you had the gender reveal the baby shower,
• 14:34
  Speaker 3: which is where you proposed, But what was the exact
• 14:36
  Speaker 3: moment where you were like, I'm gonna propose to this woman?
• 14:40
  Speaker 5: Like, well, you gotta think at a gender revillal, I
• 14:42
  Speaker 5: wouldn't even think about getting married, you know what I'm saying.
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: Like I was only two muths apart from each other.
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: Damn it.
• 14:47
  Speaker 5: Like I'm saying, I was just like now, just like
• 14:50
  Speaker 5: one day we'll get married. But I was just like,
• 14:52
  Speaker 5: you know how niggas be like you know one day
• 14:54
  Speaker 5: we'll get married, but you never really know when They
• 14:56
  Speaker 5: always say it just come to you.
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, How long are dropping day?
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: Even before you proposed, Let's see if right?
• 15:02
  Speaker 4: Uh?
• 15:02
  Speaker 5: Me and DeAnda, she came on the tour last year,
• 15:05
  Speaker 5: she came on my tour. We went on tour bout October.
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: Had this up because we had a dating coach.
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: Now, man different because she was pregnant in three months.
• 15:14
  Speaker 3: So now, yeah, she was pregnant in three months of dating. Yeah,
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: so she was pregnant in January. Yeah, facts, So it's
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: different here the timeline.
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: But you don't have to marry a woman just because
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: they're pregnant.
• 15:25
  Speaker 4: Valance, That ain't That ain't why I married him. You
• 15:27
  Speaker 4: gotta think.
• 15:28
  Speaker 3: So gender revealed was April, you didn't know, and in
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: April you didn't want to propose, But the baby shower
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: was in junior July. Between April and the summer, what
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: moment or what did she do or what happened to
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: where you were like this needs to be My wife.
• 15:45
  Speaker 5: Was like, really, we start going to church and stuff,
• 15:47
  Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying, So we start going to
• 15:49
  Speaker 5: change church.
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: We gotta get we gotta get me.
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: He can play it on he could play it on
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: the laptop.
• 15:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we started going.
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: We started.
• 15:58
  Speaker 5: We started going to church, and then honestly I had started,
• 16:03
  Speaker 5: like after the General revealing. You know, I'm watching them
• 16:06
  Speaker 5: seeing I go, like seeing what we're doing and stuff
• 16:08
  Speaker 5: like that. I'm at the crib, like I got a schedule.
• 16:10
  Speaker 5: I'm working out in the morning, you know, making my smoothies.
• 16:13
  Speaker 5: Won't come back then, and I'm doing what I'm doing out.
• 16:15
  Speaker 5: So I'm like okay, because I'm like, okay, I can,
• 16:18
  Speaker 5: Like you know, first you just try to see the
• 16:20
  Speaker 5: routine first, you'd be like, okay, can I do this
• 16:22
  Speaker 5: every day?
• 16:23
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. Like, so I'm asking myself that.
• 16:26
  Speaker 5: I'm like, Okay, I like waking up over here, making
• 16:28
  Speaker 5: my smoothie, going to the gym, coming back, shout it
• 16:31
  Speaker 5: right here, I do this, I do that. Okay, I'm
• 16:33
  Speaker 5: waking up. Okay, now I'm doing this shit too much straight.
• 16:36
  Speaker 5: I still feel straight. Like you know what I'm saying,
• 16:37
  Speaker 5: I'm like, okay, like okay.
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: Just like it feels easy.
• 16:41
  Speaker 5: You know, I'm just like adding it up. I'm trying
• 16:43
  Speaker 5: to see, like what I'm gonna be missing, you know
• 16:45
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: Then I'm working he started thinking, Yeah, Then I'm working
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: out one day and I'm working out and I'm running
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: on the trail mill and I'm looking at this dude.
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: It's this black dude in the gym.
• 16:54
  Speaker 5: So every time it's like black people in the building,
• 16:55
  Speaker 5: I always be like, oh, this is dope, Like I'm
• 16:57
  Speaker 5: gonna have a conversation with.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, you know what I'm saying.
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: So I was I was like, man, what's up? Man?
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: Like you know what I'm saying. What was in the jail?
• 17:06
  Speaker 4: He was like, man, what's up?
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: Whatever?
• 17:08
  Speaker 5: And I was talking to him and he was like, man,
• 17:11
  Speaker 5: I'm I'm a pastor. I couldn't believe he was a
• 17:12
  Speaker 5: pastor because he's swagged.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: Was not pastor. You expect pastors not to be swagged.
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: Saying he was swagged up, you feel yeah, you know
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: you just are you.
• 17:23
  Speaker 5: Saying, but he's just had sauce, like you know, he
• 17:25
  Speaker 5: looked at like you just talked to it the crib
• 17:27
  Speaker 5: like the one that got some money or something.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: You know, it wasn't the one Mary that was married
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: to Jasell Bryant wasn't he got the church? What what
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: the church?
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: The church Atlanta said, let.
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: Me Jamal Bryant. Looko m Bryan.
• 17:45
  Speaker 5: It wasn't him, So I remember he swaggy brot.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: He look like, you know what I'm saying. You maybe
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: probably Victory, that's the other big church. It wasn't Victory.
• 17:58
  Speaker 4: It was a small church.
• 18:00
  Speaker 5: He was just basically in that talking about how people
• 18:02
  Speaker 5: talking about marriage just random, you know what I'm saying.
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: And I was like, man, you know I just listening
• 18:07
  Speaker 4: to the first day, All okay.
• 18:08
  Speaker 5: Then he came back to the gym and uh, he's
• 18:11
  Speaker 5: this other white guy, super cool who'd been in the
• 18:13
  Speaker 5: gym with us and stuff. He always be like, hey
• 18:16
  Speaker 5: your cueees man, you dating? You know Sanders, you know
• 18:19
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying. I'd be like, yeah, man, you know
• 18:22
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying. Yeah, that my girl whatever. You know
• 18:23
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying, Like, Yo, man, it's dope, man, stay focused, man,
• 18:27
  Speaker 5: all right, you know what I'm saying.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: So then.
• 18:30
  Speaker 5: That the pastor you know, the one we call doc
• 18:33
  Speaker 5: or whatever. He like, hey Doc, he just giving me
• 18:36
  Speaker 5: some game whatever. So I'm like, man, I might get married,
• 18:38
  Speaker 5: you know what, I'm saying. So he was like, oh,
• 18:40
  Speaker 5: for real, doc, giving me some little games. So I'm like, yeah,
• 18:43
  Speaker 5: I might do it. I'm just really throwing it out
• 18:44
  Speaker 5: there to see what the og gonna say for real,
• 18:47
  Speaker 5: say like, yeah, doctor, that'll be good for you. Know
• 18:49
  Speaker 5: I'm saying, don't number for real, they're telling me that'll
• 18:50
  Speaker 5: be good for you. So I like, okay, okay. So
• 18:53
  Speaker 5: I'm just sitting around, so I started writing this letter.
• 18:55
  Speaker 4: You feel me.
• 18:56
  Speaker 5: So I'm like, let me start writing this ladder. Let
• 18:58
  Speaker 5: me just see what's going down. So I start writing
• 19:00
  Speaker 5: a letter. Then I started writing it. Then I called
• 19:02
  Speaker 5: my mom. I'm like a letter to who DeAndre? You
• 19:04
  Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, the eight minute letter. Yeah yeah,
• 19:08
  Speaker 5: I was writing that letter for four days.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: Shut up. Yeah.
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: And I remember when I was writing a letter.
• 19:13
  Speaker 5: I remember I would be on the balcony and this
• 19:16
  Speaker 5: when we was in the condo in the city, when
• 19:18
  Speaker 5: I was over that standing us spot, and she would
• 19:22
  Speaker 5: be on the sofa, you know, the sofa right here,
• 19:24
  Speaker 5: the balcony right here, and I'll be out there late
• 19:26
  Speaker 5: and she'll be like, I don't worry about you.
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: I'm like, what you worry? You know?
• 19:30
  Speaker 5: DeAndre like that. She was like, they don't worry about you.
• 19:32
  Speaker 5: I was like, I'm like, what you worry about? I'm
• 19:34
  Speaker 5: right here, you know what I'm saying.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: But you were writing a lot in your but but
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: you know, I always write down stuff anyway, So I'm
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: making it seem like, yeah, I got a lot of ideas.
• 19:42
  Speaker 5: I'm making it seem like yeah, I got a lot
• 19:44
  Speaker 5: of ideas and stuff. Like I'm just writing some ideas
• 19:46
  Speaker 5: and stuff. I'm thinking about some lyrics and stuff. So
• 19:48
  Speaker 5: she's like okay. Then it went on for days. She
• 19:50
  Speaker 5: kept saying like, I'm just worried about you, you know what
• 19:51
  Speaker 5: I'm saying. So now I asked my mama, like, hey, Mom,
• 19:53
  Speaker 5: I think I'm married DeAndre. She's like, okay, cool. She like, well,
• 19:56
  Speaker 5: you need to ask her her short term goals and
• 19:58
  Speaker 5: her long term goals, you know what I'm saying.
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: She wasn't a conversation y'all had already, my mama, No,
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: you you and the short term and long term goal conversation.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: Oh, I guess you just kind of get in and
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: know each other. You've got the new thing going on.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, oh wow, we didn't.
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: It was Frisch.
• 20:16
  Speaker 5: So, uh, my mama like, make sure you know how
• 20:18
  Speaker 5: short term goes and a long term goes.
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: Because my mama had already told me she was the
• 20:21
  Speaker 4: one on tour. You know what I'm saying.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: Really, I mean DeAndre had came on my tour. She
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: really snuck on tour with that came.
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: That's what I gotta do. I gotta sneak on to
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: and you gotta try to sneak on a tour. I
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: see ug, I'm finna do it too.
• 20:37
  Speaker 5: Came to a show. She brung up brothers to the
• 20:40
  Speaker 5: first show she came to. She brong your door and
• 20:42
  Speaker 5: Bucky and then uh, she was like, I want to
• 20:46
  Speaker 5: come to another show. I want my friends to see
• 20:47
  Speaker 5: you before you know what I'm saying, And.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: She had us pull up every city. She was like
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: I got friends in this city.
• 20:53
  Speaker 5: Yeah, coming to the city and I was meeting and
• 20:57
  Speaker 5: then she was telling her mama for real, like I
• 21:00
  Speaker 5: think he'd won, Like I caught with for them saying like,
• 21:02
  Speaker 5: oh he don't want like you feel. I'm hearing that
• 21:04
  Speaker 5: you feel it, so like oh ship they think the
• 21:07
  Speaker 5: one like what there?
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: What type of things do you think mean?
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: The one we had Bro Timmy on YEP and he
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: talked about in such specific things.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: I'm just curious, like what did.
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: She pay herself to come on that tour? That's what
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: Bro Timmy said. Bro Timmy said he knew her.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: This woman was the one she Africa Africa to l
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: A Yeah, because she wanted to see him.
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: And then now she was paying to get them.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: Damn it.
• 21:40
  Speaker 5: We all got to pay to be with these niggas. No,
• 21:43
  Speaker 5: they got paid for to get that one probably one time.
• 21:45
  Speaker 5: But how the show she went to I need to
• 21:47
  Speaker 5: Knowdre started out on the one show and then she
• 21:51
  Speaker 5: finished the tour like after like before Halloween. DeAndre was
• 21:55
  Speaker 5: there with us on Halloween. We all had on costumes.
• 21:57
  Speaker 5: She had friends with us and costumes. Then she was
• 22:00
  Speaker 5: there with us the whole tour. She was on the
• 22:01
  Speaker 5: whole tour like she just popped up every city. She
• 22:03
  Speaker 5: brought herself. No, she stayed on the bus, She organized
• 22:05
  Speaker 5: my room, she had her her she said, I'm gonna
• 22:08
  Speaker 5: work at everything organized like she came and changed the
• 22:11
  Speaker 5: whole game.
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: Let me ask you this, somebody is going to watch
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: this and people are enjoy hating on what you have,
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: right or happy people whatever. It's like, even Deandra's post
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: about pregnancy, I have fibrays. I couldn't believe the comment
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: that shit really triggered me. And I don't even know
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: DeAndre like that. I know her through Mandy when she
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: comes to a show. I was fucked up reading this.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: I'm like, bro, you can't even make a choice for
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: yourself because people just.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: Want to be angry about the that she has.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: So people, I feel like will be excited to hear
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: the DeAndre paid to come, because I really do.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: I feel like this. Someone's gonna watch this and be like,
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: see to the side.
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: Tell me why Deandra doing this on her own ools
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: taught you that she was the one or spoke to you?
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: What did that show you? If anything?
• 23:06
  Speaker 4: I mean, you gotta think we was friends first anyway.
• 23:09
  Speaker 5: So DeAndre always being my birthday parties and all that
• 23:11
  Speaker 5: type of stuff.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: Anyway, So it's like like I was with.
• 23:15
  Speaker 5: Her on her thirty third birthday. I remember she was
• 23:16
  Speaker 5: telling me when she turned thirty three. She was like, oh,
• 23:18
  Speaker 5: this is my Jesus year, you know what I'm saying.
• 23:20
  Speaker 5: Likes soon as she turned thirty three, I think that's
• 23:21
  Speaker 5: the same year she got pregnant it is you know
• 23:23
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying. And she was like, this is my Jesus.
• 23:25
  Speaker 5: I was like, what that means? She was like, you
• 23:26
  Speaker 5: know this just she was explaining it to me, and
• 23:30
  Speaker 5: I think I just got lost what.
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: You asked me.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: I'm saying, like with her spending money to come, oh yeah,
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: I feel like saying what did it mean?
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: It was like did that mean something?
• 23:37
  Speaker 5: I mean, like I said, we was already friends and
• 23:40
  Speaker 5: just going back to her telling me it was a
• 23:41
  Speaker 5: Jez year and stuff like that, it was like we
• 23:42
  Speaker 5: already had like a special connect.
• 23:45
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. It was already connected.
• 23:46
  Speaker 5: So for her coming to my shows, it was really
• 23:48
  Speaker 5: like for her coming to see me, it's.
• 23:50
  Speaker 4: Like, yeah, my like DeAndre pulling up on me.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: Okay, so hold on, how do you start fucking your friend?
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: Because I feel like nobody gonna let us wrong, nobody's
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: gonna let us have a whole point.
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: Ever again, I'm saying, what you want me to love her?
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: Not? No?
• 24:04
  Speaker 6: No?
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it really goes there. I feel like I feel
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: like when a nigga get, when a nigga get when
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: a nigga either got problems in its spot for real,
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: when a nigga got problems in his spy and a
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: nigga just tied of what he got, and a nigga
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: just ready to just explore, like when you're ready to risk,
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: were ready to jump, you gotta be ready to just
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: like like I mean, I mean, I mean, okay, well
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: let's rephrase it.
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: That's what it is.
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: Okay, I think we need to go back here rewinded.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: Can I just tell you how that you made it
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: sound kind of just like made it seem like she's
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: a home record. No, you made it sound like she
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: was just there.
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: Oh no, I mean you got to think we were friends.
• 24:45
  Speaker 5: We met probably on one of those days, like not
• 24:47
  Speaker 5: not one of them days, like one of them times.
• 24:48
  Speaker 5: You know how you're in a relationship with someone, you
• 24:50
  Speaker 5: not with someone for some time, Like you might have
• 24:52
  Speaker 5: been dating somebody for years, right, but y'all might have
• 24:54
  Speaker 5: not been a relationship for like three months. You know
• 24:57
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying, You might have met someone that became
• 24:58
  Speaker 5: your friend. That's how you met somebody like I met
• 25:00
  Speaker 5: her in a period like that, Okay, you know what
• 25:02
  Speaker 5: I'm saying. I met her like when she turned thirty one,
• 25:04
  Speaker 5: like Pat Man Jones had called me the singer happy birthday.
• 25:07
  Speaker 5: I didn't know nothing about her, you feel me? He
• 25:09
  Speaker 5: was just like, man, I'm with I'm with DeAndre. I'm like,
• 25:11
  Speaker 5: who is that. He's like, man, it's the young daughter.
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: You feel me. It's like my little sister, it's her birthday.
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: Singing to her.
• 25:15
  Speaker 5: I'm like, what, don't be singing the folks on the phone.
• 25:18
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, y'all get crazy?
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 25:20
  Speaker 5: And he like and he like, brother, just saying, so
• 25:22
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna put on the phone. He put on the phone,
• 25:24
  Speaker 5: and when I sing it, I'm like, oh, she's super pretty.
• 25:26
  Speaker 5: I started singing. I ain't no never seen the people
• 25:29
  Speaker 5: on the phone, you know what I'm saying. I just
• 25:30
  Speaker 5: started singing. And she was just like, oh thank you.
• 25:32
  Speaker 5: And I was like, oh damn. I was like that, yeah,
• 25:38
  Speaker 5: shy bad. And I just started DM her and I
• 25:41
  Speaker 5: met her in Miami and then we just started kicking it,
• 25:46
  Speaker 5: like we was kicking it so hard.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: I couldn't believe she was Deone Sander's daughter.
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: You feel me?
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: Like we was just kiding, gonna lie, that's a risk
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: to your life.
• 25:52
  Speaker 5: Like I was just like, I was just like dang
• 25:55
  Speaker 5: like shouty, really like cool as hell, like you feel me?
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: She was so real.
• 26:00
  Speaker 5: I was just like, damn, like this ship crazy you
• 26:03
  Speaker 5: feel me? I was really blown, like this don't make sense,
• 26:08
  Speaker 5: like shty too real.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: I love that it's gotten into I haven't talked to
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: her name Atlanta so long. You heard yeah Joe buddy,
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: and don't do that crazy, that's crazy. I want it
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: because the holiday season is coming up and again digging
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: into relationships and how to navigate them. I have a
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: hypothetical that I want to throw at you.
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: Because we are in the season of gift giving, so
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: I want to see how you would react to this
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: incident happened and didn't feel free as well, because you
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: are dude, and so sometimes I know it could be
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: seeming like we're ganging up on ship. So if you
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: got to step in, you gotta step in shit.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: So so, Queen.
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: You get your partner a gift for the holidays. Let's
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: say you buy her back. Then she absolutely hates the gift,
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: but doesn't tell you. Two months later, you see her
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: wrapping it to regift it to one of her close friends.
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: Don't you How do you respond to this?
• 27:15
  Speaker 4: Don't hurt. Adam met hurt before like like I'm like hurt.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because you gave a gift to someone and they
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: didn't like it and you gifted it.
• 27:24
  Speaker 4: I mean.
• 27:26
  Speaker 5: It's like, yeah, like you regifted it. Now if it's
• 27:28
  Speaker 5: like you would have told me like all right, I
• 27:31
  Speaker 5: don't like these?
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: What is it now? Let's hold on. We got to
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: help the audience. It's the season of giving. I really
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: think men have an awful awful time getting gifts that
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: women actually like. Fact, Weezy and I have come on
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: here on Patreon and had to share how niggas spent
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: money and we ain't.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: Like that ship and then oh I'll never forget money, bitch.
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: It was just as read as your pants.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: She hated it. She had to come on and was like,
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: I know it's tough.
• 27:58
  Speaker 5: It's tough about women gifts. I tell you that all
• 28:00
  Speaker 5: the time. I come in the house with stuff.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: She told me.
• 28:04
  Speaker 4: About her again, Yeah, I tell her because.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: You know, I wanted to ask you something before, So
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: how did you pick up the ring? Oh?
• 28:12
  Speaker 4: So I had my sister's with.
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: Me, but did they know what shape? Because I realized
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: now I knew, I knew. I'm like I want to.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: I want her like, I'm like, I want harringe to
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: be like my earrings.
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: Wait, you knew what you wanted her to wear, but
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: did you know what type of ring she wanted to want.
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: I don't know what she wanted, but I ended up
• 28:28
  Speaker 4: buying her dream ring. Oh god, you.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: Got Look you know what I think about when I
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: think about a bad ring sex in the city when
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: she threw up.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: You remember that moment? M m. She found the ring
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: reference in the closet and threw up, and everybody was like,
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: what made you throw She was like, it was a
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: pair of shaving. It just kind of man. It was
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: all sick to the stomach, and I'm like, yo, I
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: would be so happy. I would just live with it. Bro,
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: I feel like I want it. I wanted. I won't
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: want to in my handle.
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: You got it?
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: You got it?
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: Are you saying you seen shot ring?
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: Oh no, it's not. He that thing was listening. I
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: told my friend.
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: Girl, let me say put it like you know, I
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: will say this though. If I'm dating I mean your
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: RnB singer rapper Energy my Ring.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: Can't be mad.
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, No, can't be telling me my nigga can't
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: go through TSA without taking everything off and I have
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: to put your normal ring.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: But to be fair, you also just brought up not
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: liking well my d don't go off in ts. No,
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: I'm saying like I just thought you have to take
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: off everything because he said you say metal bit. You
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: know what he said. I don't have to sorry, I
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: honestly and when I said it, it didn't come out of
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: my mother and something.
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: So then you so, as men who are thoughtful and
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: gift given, if your partner doesn't like it, it does
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: have an impact on you. But then how would you
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: want your partner to say, hey, babe, I don't.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: Really like it.
• 30:00
  Speaker 5: Only got an impact on you by the reaction of
• 30:02
  Speaker 5: how they do when you give them a gift. Like
• 30:03
  Speaker 5: if I give somebody something they like thank you, but
• 30:06
  Speaker 5: I don't, it'll make.
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: You and then come to you like, hey babe.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it because you could either be younger.
• 30:14
  Speaker 5: I it depends on how you said, Like if you
• 30:17
  Speaker 5: say it on some cool funny ship like that, I
• 30:18
  Speaker 5: might laugh and be like, you know, like, damn, what
• 30:21
  Speaker 5: the fuck I.
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: Gotta make a joke of the gift you gave me.
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: Tell me how to tell a nigga, I don't like
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: what they got because you never know how hard a
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: nigga went to get it.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: Can okay, can you give her a gift real quick?
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: And then okay you respond wheezy, you don't like the gift?
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, you got me? Oh my god? Okay?
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: So wait, as a man, would this reaction be okay
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: even though it's even though you know it's a little
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: bit of a lie.
• 30:58
  Speaker 4: H Yeah, I would be a little sick.
• 31:03
  Speaker 6: You know.
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: My grandmother says to me one time, God rest, I
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: got her a fucking sweater I'll never forget.
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: She opened the box on Christmas that's like twenty fifteen,
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: and she went like this. Oh.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: I was like, what's wrong with it? And she was like,
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: I don't think I like it. I said, Grandma's have
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: thought that count She said, don't think about me. I
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: was like, that was my life, that's real. Don't think
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: about it for real? So can we can we bring
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: that up?
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: Though?
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: Is there a moment where it actually is the thought
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: that counts? I think that the bulls a line.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: I told you, it's like this, I feel like, what
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: a gift.
• 31:35
  Speaker 4: You should be thankful regardless.
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: So I disagree and let me bring up the phone.
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna bring up the flowers, bitch, Dad shut up.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: So my nigga and I argued over Mandy, I told
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: you he showed me.
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: Right, Okay, okay, So to me, the thought that counts
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: a brings it down to being something bare minimum.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: We all have thoughts, we all and when holidays come around,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: it's almost like second nature.
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: Fuck, I gotta get a gift when Valentine's they come around,
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: birthdays come around, when there's moments that come around where
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: technically gift giving is a part of it. The thought
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: that counts actually is the bare minimum because you already
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: know there's going to be an exchange of something. So to me,
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: being intentional with a listening to me or getting me
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: something that you know will enhance my whatever my life
• 32:25
  Speaker 3: in whatever way, or that I've actually asked for. So yes,
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: I'm okay, I'm not gonna bring up the flowers, but
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: I'm a bring I'm gonna bring up the surprise party.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: So when I was.
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: So when I was in my previous relationship, I'm not
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: big on celebrating birthdays. I don't want to do birthday dinners.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: I don't want everyone around and in the moment, I
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: just wanted.
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: A spa day with my nigga. That is it.
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: I was very adamant let all my friends know I
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: don't want I don't even want nothing but a spot day.
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: There was a lot going on with work my birthday.
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: He gives me a surprise party. All my friends are there,
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: there's a cake, there's food. I'm surprised with a surprise party.
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: I roast that nigga on a podcast the next week
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: and bring up how much I absolutely hated it because
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: I thought, you know what, this nigga didn't even listen
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: on what I wanted. No, I told him.
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: I told him that following week, and then we got
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: into an argument, which is why I brought it up
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: on the podcast. I brought it up on the other pot,
• 33:31
  Speaker 3: but I ended up being upset because in that moment
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: me telling him I didn't like it, he said, I've
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: never done that for anybody, and he made me feel
• 33:41
  Speaker 3: like I was ungrateful because he went out of his
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: way to get me something I didn't want.
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: There's a problem there.
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: There's an intentionality of you literally going out of the
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: way to give me something I don't want. And now
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: you're trying to make me seem ungrateful because you got
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: me the one thing I said I didn't want. You
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: don't get a pat on the back for the thought
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: of doing something that meant something to you and not
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: to me. And so I think it's the same thing.
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: Let's bring up the example. No, but don't do that.
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: Wait is that no? Do you know I want to
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: I want to bring up pop culture. I don't know.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: Did y'all see this year? Even Swizz Beats went on
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: a on an interview and say, yo, I got I
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: got Alicia on one.
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: I think there was only seven cars made. Uh this
• 34:28
  Speaker 3: certain type of car. Look up the car at it
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: if you can. And he went on and he was like, man,
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: there was only like seven of these made. I got
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: it for her birthday. And that ship collecting does she
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: ain't even drove it. She don't like it. I spent
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: all this money on it.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: Well it's a it's virgils three hundred thousand dollars. Yes. Yeah,
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying I hate rich people because they want.
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: To be on but literally and what he what he
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: even came to realize in that moment, was I bought
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: or something that I wanted myself.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, five five hundred thousand dollars car.
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: She hated it, didn't drive it, and he was like, damn,
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: I realized in that moment, that's not even what my
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: wife wanted. And he did feel like she was fucking
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: awful for.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: Not being hold on what the only I ain't hard?
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: Give me what I like.
• 35:21
  Speaker 5: Nigga, Now I gotta say to somebody what you said?
• 35:23
  Speaker 5: So boom So you had told buddy like you were like,
• 35:30
  Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying.
• 35:32
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.
• 35:33
  Speaker 5: You all that you told buddy basically like damn, it's
• 35:38
  Speaker 5: my birthday. You know what I'm saying, Like I really
• 35:39
  Speaker 5: don't want to do nothing this year. I just want
• 35:41
  Speaker 5: to have a spot day, right, Bama, tell you something,
• 35:43
  Speaker 5: I dues think my niggas ain't right. Niggas ain't like
• 35:46
  Speaker 5: because then especially who you are, right, niggas think like damn. Okay,
• 35:50
  Speaker 5: Shotty said she didn't want to do nothing for her birthday. Okay,
• 35:54
  Speaker 5: I'm trying to wild shot it. Like whenever nigga here
• 35:56
  Speaker 5: girl say she don't want to do something for a birthday,
• 35:58
  Speaker 5: a nigga atually get to think like now we're doing
• 36:00
  Speaker 5: some for a birthday because I know she wanted to
• 36:02
  Speaker 5: do something for a birthday. Maybe maybe ain't got it
• 36:06
  Speaker 5: shot like or maybe shouty like trying to figure it out.
• 36:09
  Speaker 5: So I'm gonna figure it out for a boom. Hey,
• 36:10
  Speaker 5: you know, shy like, let's have a surprise party.
• 36:13
  Speaker 4: Boom.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: You know what's crazy.
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: I'm not even fake reaches for my wallet to pay
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: for a date. You know exactly what you're getting with me,
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: So that me.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: Saying what I wanted to do? What did you get
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: at the spots? Also? Oh, three breakups later because I
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: had a coupon Thank you Erica and meet Love for that. Okay, wait,
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: now let me just say this one thing from him.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: I got it from my friends, but you.
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: Always been My friends got me a two hundred dollars
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: so Joe Spot gift card because my friends listen to
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: what I want.
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: But see he trying to go to the spot already
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: and do it right. This is I didn't really think
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: of it like this, But now that you said this,
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: a lot of niggas that date me.
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: Feel like it's hard to give me anything because I
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: always get it myself. My nigga said to my face,
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: like when you took me to so like, thank god
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: you ain't fucking been here.
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: You don't think I could have throw myself a surprise party. No,
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: I don't think you can throw yourself. It's an effort.
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: But that's the point. But see, so that's so this
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: is my point for men. It's the effort to me,
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: then the gift in what you do, the gesture becomes
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: about you, not about your partner. Why do you think that, though, Well,
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: that's because.
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: Because literally, yo, I'm going out of my way to
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: do this. He brought up that he'd never done it
• 37:27
  Speaker 3: for a woman before that he felt proud of that
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: moment and so it did something for him.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: But you literally went out of your way.
• 37:34
  Speaker 5: But it's like you made him feel like that. Oh wow,
• 37:37
  Speaker 5: it's like you made It's like, yeah, you made him
• 37:39
  Speaker 5: want to go out of his way. Did know what
• 37:41
  Speaker 5: I'm saying? It's like you made a nig. It's like
• 37:43
  Speaker 5: it's like I like you so much. You make me
• 37:45
  Speaker 5: want to go call out your friends and go out
• 37:47
  Speaker 5: my way to celebrate you. Like I like you that much.
• 37:50
  Speaker 5: Like I heard you say that you ain't want to
• 37:51
  Speaker 5: do nothing for your birthday, but I know you Mandy
• 37:53
  Speaker 5: like it. So it's like I heard you say you
• 37:56
  Speaker 5: ain't like but but it's your birthday though, like if
• 37:58
  Speaker 5: we celebrate you like, that's how.
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: An you know, I did not think I was gonna
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: be team red Pants instead of that's crazy. But that's
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: how they So you'll say overall, because this is the
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: consensus I'm getting, are we saying?
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: Then in gift giving women should just literally it's the
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: thought that counts. And to not share whether they hate
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: something or not. Should should we eat that?
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: Then to not?
• 38:25
  Speaker 4: It just depends on hold on, we got we.
• 38:27
  Speaker 3: Got we got an audience to say she said no,
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: But that's what I'm hearing because of the effort that
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: the man puts in. So then how can we be
• 38:35
  Speaker 3: honest in a relationship? I think it was not involved
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: where we can share whether we dislike something.
• 38:40
  Speaker 5: Well, I mean it's like this, my girl can tell
• 38:42
  Speaker 5: me she don't like something. I'm not gonna just be heart.
• 38:45
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying might be like you just
• 38:46
  Speaker 5: say I came in the house with something. I went
• 38:48
  Speaker 5: to Louis and I brought the yards or something in
• 38:49
  Speaker 5: this spect and then she.
• 38:51
  Speaker 4: Was like, oh, may I don't like that, I'll be like,
• 38:53
  Speaker 4: will let go return this ship? Right?
• 38:55
  Speaker 5: That's what I would say, No, cap, just like that,
• 38:58
  Speaker 5: I'd be like, well, let go turn this ship right?
• 39:00
  Speaker 4: Okay, that's me though.
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: I wish I would have told the truth about that
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: one gift that was bit you did you?
• 39:05
  Speaker 5: You the NF I see wrapping it up, trying to
• 39:06
  Speaker 5: give it a man, and I'll be like, what, let
• 39:10
  Speaker 5: me get this ship.
• 39:13
  Speaker 4: Like this?
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: That's why, God damn let it go to you. Somewhere.
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: I think there's there's a thin line of like letting
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: someone know that you're grateful. So, man, let me tell
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: you something. Mandy just said her homegirl did and I
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: was like, this bitch is insane.
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: So this episode comes out before hid so we know.
• 39:33
  Speaker 4: That's why I was gonna try to go whatever.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: So because this is this isn't the same kind of family. Okay.
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: Her homegirl just started dating a nigga okay three four months,
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: asked him to get her a toe bag.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: Sorry, she asked for one, Yes, she asked for bad.
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: She asked like, what was like, I need a bag?
• 39:54
  Speaker 4: Can you give me a bag?
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: I don't like how you work you praise that way.
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: I'm sure wasn't praised way. So the dude gets like that,
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: don't do that. And this is why we got to
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: buy a home up the ship that you said, I
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: really think.
• 40:09
  Speaker 4: It's Tates her real ship.
• 40:11
  Speaker 5: When I was first getting with DeAndre right like this,
• 40:13
  Speaker 5: before we was dating anything like like we was first
• 40:15
  Speaker 5: kind of like liking each other and know me, like,
• 40:17
  Speaker 5: I was always go in the Louis store, right, and
• 40:19
  Speaker 5: she would always be like, buy me something like I
• 40:22
  Speaker 5: never would you feel me? I just never would you
• 40:25
  Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. I remember she brought me a
• 40:26
  Speaker 5: Lowis hat, right. She would never give it to me,
• 40:31
  Speaker 5: that is, but.
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: So she just took a picture of it. It was like, God,
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: this way you baby, but never came it.
• 40:37
  Speaker 4: Got it, she rocked it. I never wore it. She
• 40:40
  Speaker 4: wore she said, I'm aware this, yo.
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: That's really funny that together. Have you ever seen that
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: little meme when a gift she was like, he's not
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: your nigga, your nigga, that's me. That is funny. Okay.
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: So the friend asked for the bag, right, he gives
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: her bag. That's our bag, it's Mark Jacobs. What was
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: her response, I don't.
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: Do you have Mark Jacobs in your closet? Why do
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: you think Mark Jacob? Look at the jaw drop.
• 41:06
  Speaker 4: I got Mark.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: Jacobs, but he did it felt like, if you don't
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: have Mark Jacobs in your closet, you have go Yard,
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: you have Gucci, you have all these other things.
• 41:15
  Speaker 4: Why are you doing this for me?
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: Do you do you think I'm less than what you think?
• 41:20
  Speaker 5: It's just like, does this Does this bag show how
• 41:25
  Speaker 5: much I value you?
• 41:26
  Speaker 4: Does this bag show your value?
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: You asked for it.
• 41:30
  Speaker 5: If you wanted some specific I mean, yeah, you asked
• 41:32
  Speaker 5: for a new bag. I don't know it had to
• 41:34
  Speaker 5: be Gucci. She would have threw me off. Okay, I
• 41:38
  Speaker 5: would have been like, yeah, I'm straighted on you, you trimp,
• 41:40
  Speaker 5: because this ain't even about none of this ship you.
• 41:43
  Speaker 5: You asked for a bag like I could have brought
• 41:45
  Speaker 5: you a jan sport You feel I could have.
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: Sport is hold on, We're not gonna let you get that.
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: All you need?
• 41:59
  Speaker 4: What type of man?
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: We talked, Okay, you need something walk around with like
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: we got my song rock his sport.
• 42:06
  Speaker 4: I'm talking about how we coming you need something?
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: Wrong? He said, you know this is real, This is
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: I got you to make. But you're not all right.
• 42:13
  Speaker 4: Let you one thousand.
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: If I got you fruit of the loons, where you say, yo,
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: I want some nice boxers, you'd be like you went
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: to Walmart.
• 42:19
  Speaker 5: You gottah, I promise you. All they gotta do for
• 42:21
  Speaker 5: me is be all black. I don't even I don't
• 42:24
  Speaker 5: even know what but this I but you know what,
• 42:27
  Speaker 5: like I'm a different type of nigga.
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: So I thought the toe bad comment was crazy. I
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: honestly was like, Yo, this is some bird ship like.
• 42:35
  Speaker 4: But for something else.
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: But I think that what did I just say? But
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: I think the main thing about it that's looking at
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: that nigga bags like, Okay, if I get with him instantly,
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get what he gets. But you can't.
• 42:46
  Speaker 4: You can't think you getting with a man.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: Get you said what you said. He's as broken he
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: made like he just real estates. But it's like what
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: don't got no problems?
• 42:57
  Speaker 4: I mean, but what I make, like what a man make,
• 42:59
  Speaker 4: don't got to do it a woman nothing.
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: It's like I can a man. I just feel like
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: I can have nothing to do with a woman.
• 43:06
  Speaker 6: No.
• 43:06
  Speaker 5: I feel like I could make a million dollars and
• 43:08
  Speaker 5: you could work at Marshalls. I don't have to give
• 43:10
  Speaker 5: you my money.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: We're not gonna break up. God that is, We're not
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: gonna do it. We're not gonna do it. We're not
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: gonna do We don't talked about the Marshall's story and
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: that the audience knows about Mark. People did not believe it.
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: He makes in the hundreds millions, right, This nigga started
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: dating a girl was a TJ Max. It was TJ
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: Max and literally he was like, she cut it off
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: with him because he was trying to give her money
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: to go to school do different shit, and she was like,
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: I like managing in retail, Like I went in retail.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: So why I mean, why did they break up? He
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: was trying to He was like, I'm not gonna do
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: She said that.
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: He wasn't happy with being with her. She believed it,
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: and he literally he met her in the airport. She
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: was going on some solo trip and when he called
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: me about it, he's, Yo, this bitch so dope, like
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: she's about to go back back into jungle by herself.
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: And when he found out she managed TJ Max, he
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: said it was slightly embarrassing, but like he was how.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: Was that embarrassing. That should have turned him on more.
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: He not a real nigga. I think. I think it's
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: more so like I want the woman i'm with.
• 43:59
  Speaker 4: He not a real nigga.
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: Hold on thicking up because that's your friend. But lamb
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: talk lame getting it off.
• 44:04
  Speaker 5: No, but how he's not a real nigga. This man
• 44:07
  Speaker 5: just said Shoorty worked at TJ Max. I was embarrassed.
• 44:10
  Speaker 5: Let me tell you some rich shiit DeAndre. That's my
• 44:13
  Speaker 5: girl regardless. We're just talking out. Were just talking right
• 44:15
  Speaker 5: If I was Jack Queeze and my girl worked at
• 44:17
  Speaker 5: fucking TJ Max, but I would be.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: I was standing on that ship like, yeah, my girl,
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: like she loved that ship.
• 44:22
  Speaker 4: Was she the imaginer down there at TJ Max?
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: And he?
• 44:24
  Speaker 5: I ain't gonna tell you all which one, but Shorty
• 44:26
  Speaker 5: love that ship. That ship would turn me on Mark, Okay,
• 44:28
  Speaker 5: hold on, go buy shorty everything.
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: I didn't think anything was wrong.
• 44:32
  Speaker 5: No, No, I started to understand everything that she ever
• 44:36
  Speaker 5: wanted because it's like she not looking for a nigga
• 44:38
  Speaker 5: for nothing.
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: He should have married her, you feel me?
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: Well, she broke up with him because she he said
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: he was making a lot of gestures to like start
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: a business, give her money to her, and she was like, yo,
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: you you really don't fuck with me and cut him off.
• 44:51
  Speaker 4: He was trying to buy here.
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: You want me to be?
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: Are men not allowed to want women in a different bracket?
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: Bracket? But is that what you want for yourself? That
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: a serious question now, right? I gotta be honest.
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: While I agree you make a hundred million dollars, really
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: don't matter where your bitch work. There was a point
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: in time where he started to be like, I don't
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: know if I could be with someone that don't really
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: want more than a tjal.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna that's wrong.
• 45:20
  Speaker 4: Now, that's not wrong. That's not wrong, you thybe.
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: He wasn't trying to buy her.
• 45:23
  Speaker 4: Maybe he was a lot.
• 45:25
  Speaker 5: The only part why I say they weren't real because
• 45:26
  Speaker 5: he said he was embarrassed by a job. Now he
• 45:28
  Speaker 5: wants a woman that wanted to think hired. Now that's cool.
• 45:31
  Speaker 5: Ain't nothing wrong with that. He's just that type of nigga,
• 45:33
  Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. It's different types of guys.
• 45:35
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. He just like, we'll showy.
• 45:37
  Speaker 5: I want a girl that want to be the president
• 45:38
  Speaker 5: of the United States. You do know what I'm saying.
• 45:40
  Speaker 5: I don't want to go to just want to think
• 45:41
  Speaker 5: at TJ MA. I want my girl to be the
• 45:43
  Speaker 5: president you want. You know what I'm saying.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: I mean and honestly because back and forth with.
• 45:49
  Speaker 5: Most niggas don't care about all that. Most niggas just
• 45:51
  Speaker 5: want it's gonna be with them. You got my bangs teammates,
• 45:56
  Speaker 5: he's a he's a man, little man. What I want
• 45:59
  Speaker 5: is someone that got my back, someone I can depend on,
• 46:03
  Speaker 5: someone who loves that goes back to confidence in me,
• 46:06
  Speaker 5: and someone that I could deal with.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: Would you say that if you worked at TJ Max,
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: would you be just okay with someone that just supports
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: you if you.
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: Worked at Max?
• 46:14
  Speaker 4: If I worked at t Mex right now, hold.
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: On, wait, you're already someone that can provided to me.
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: If I worked at TJ Max asked me the question.
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: What I'm saying is, I think it is very easy
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: for successful man to say it doesn't matter.
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: I don't want a question, that is it.
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: I'm not asking a question. Before you said that, I said,
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: rich niggas talk like that.
• 46:31
  Speaker 3: She said, she said, if you worked at TJ Max,
• 46:34
  Speaker 3: for maybe the men listening that have just the nine.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: To five you would need to know who you would
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: care at one moment. I disagree with that too.
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: The question is if you were not this super breadwinner
• 46:47
  Speaker 3: or this famous person, then you were just a regular
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: nine to five.
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: Work would the woman you want?
• 46:52
  Speaker 3: Would you also still just want her to be your
• 46:56
  Speaker 3: your the person that supports you, that is there for you,
• 46:59
  Speaker 3: or would you want to partner?
• 47:00
  Speaker 4: It depends on what position I'm in.
• 47:02
  Speaker 5: If I just got this million dollar plan and I'm like, baby,
• 47:05
  Speaker 5: all I need you to do is ride with me.
• 47:07
  Speaker 5: You ain't got to do nothing else. I just need
• 47:08
  Speaker 5: a You just need to support me right now. I
• 47:10
  Speaker 5: got everything else, then I don't need her for that.
• 47:14
  Speaker 5: So so and then and then if I'm a nigga
• 47:17
  Speaker 5: that's just sitting on my ass, you know, working at
• 47:19
  Speaker 5: TJ Max, I'm like, shit, I do want a new house,
• 47:22
  Speaker 5: but I don't feel like putting in that more work.
• 47:24
  Speaker 5: I am going I ain't gonna need you know, because
• 47:28
  Speaker 5: he ain't gonna have something to do to work at it,
• 47:29
  Speaker 5: because a woman is just extra. But then whant a woman?
• 47:32
  Speaker 5: When a man do get a woman, it does need
• 47:34
  Speaker 5: to be a team. This is like my girl. I
• 47:35
  Speaker 5: like to depend on her for certain stuff, you know
• 47:37
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying.
• 47:37
  Speaker 4: I told her.
• 47:38
  Speaker 5: I told her that before we got married, Like I'm
• 47:39
  Speaker 5: I mean, before we got engaged. I'm like, I'm gonna
• 47:41
  Speaker 5: have to lean on you for certain stuff. You know,
• 47:43
  Speaker 5: if I ever need you. You know what I'm saying, You
• 47:44
  Speaker 5: gonta have to be there. I remember it was certain
• 47:46
  Speaker 5: stuff we had to pay for for the baby shower.
• 47:47
  Speaker 5: This one I knew I could marry.
• 47:48
  Speaker 4: All right. We was going over the list.
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: Of tenure.
• 47:54
  Speaker 5: I'm looking at the expensive so I see some ship
• 47:57
  Speaker 5: for like thirteen hundred and it's a paid so I'm like,
• 48:00
  Speaker 5: oh shit, I'm thinking about but I'm thinking in my
• 48:02
  Speaker 5: head like I didn't pay for this shit. But I'm
• 48:04
  Speaker 5: thinking I'm like, okay, I'm like, ey, babe, this shit say.
• 48:06
  Speaker 5: She was like, oh, yeah, pay for that. I was like,
• 48:08
  Speaker 5: oh damn, thank you. But I was like that was dope.
• 48:09
  Speaker 5: I was like, this this is the marriage conversation.
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: Don't happen.
• 48:11
  Speaker 4: But she don't know. I'm like, uh, I'm like, babe,
• 48:13
  Speaker 4: that was dope.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: She was like, uh, I'm like, see, I'm gonna need
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: you to I'm gonna need you to be doing.
• 48:18
  Speaker 4: That type of stuff.
• 48:19
  Speaker 5: She was like, I don't be paying for that because
• 48:21
  Speaker 5: I knied he's gonna get back. I'm like, what you mean?
• 48:23
  Speaker 5: She was like, oh, yeah, I'm not paying for nothing else, right.
• 48:25
  Speaker 5: So that's when I was kind of scared. My heart dropped,
• 48:27
  Speaker 5: like fuck. So then I'm like, uh, I'm like uh,
• 48:32
  Speaker 5: I'm like, man, I'm like, nah, look, I ain't gonna
• 48:35
  Speaker 5: be working hard for you to just like I'm not
• 48:37
  Speaker 5: paying everything in the pot for you to just be
• 48:39
  Speaker 5: pulling out of it. I'm like, just imagine if I
• 48:42
  Speaker 5: put in the pot, you put in the pot, and
• 48:44
  Speaker 5: then now we got ten thousand in the pot, we
• 48:46
  Speaker 5: want to go to the mall, we take out five thousands.
• 48:48
  Speaker 5: We got five thousand left. You know what I'm saying.
• 48:50
  Speaker 5: I'm like, you know what I'm saying. You bring two
• 48:51
  Speaker 5: thousands to the pot. I bring three thousand to the pot.
• 48:53
  Speaker 5: We got five thousand in the pot, you know what
• 48:54
  Speaker 5: I'm saying. She's sitting that list and I'm like, yeah,
• 48:56
  Speaker 5: just imagine I gonna make fifteen, you're gonna make three thousand.
• 48:58
  Speaker 5: We got eighteen thousand. You know what I'm saying we
• 49:00
  Speaker 5: want to take our eight thousand. We got ten thousand
• 49:02
  Speaker 5: the pot. She's like, yeah, I'm like, you know, we
• 49:04
  Speaker 5: could just play like do it like that? She's like, oh, yeah,
• 49:06
  Speaker 5: that may sound like yes, So I'm gonna be near you.
• 49:08
  Speaker 5: You do what I'm saying, like, because I can't be
• 49:09
  Speaker 5: out here hustling that heart and I'm making all my
• 49:11
  Speaker 5: money and just take it from the pot.
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: That's not gonna add up. We ain't gonna look in
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: the pote.
• 49:14
  Speaker 5: I ain't gonna have and we're gonna have a next
• 49:16
  Speaker 5: She's like, oh, okay, that that makes sense. Okay, well okay,
• 49:18
  Speaker 5: well you can keep that on that. You don't got
• 49:20
  Speaker 5: to give me that bet. That's why I like, Oh
• 49:21
  Speaker 5: I can marry thank you.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: I love that.
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: I want to play a quick video we like reactionary.
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: And then after this video and after this conversation, we're
• 49:37
  Speaker 3: gonna get into the nasty talk. Okay, but for this one,
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: this still has to do with a little bit of
• 49:43
  Speaker 3: pop culture. Not sure if you saw a couple of
• 49:46
  Speaker 3: weeks ago, uh, Nick Cannon, what a guest on The
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: God Show. Shout out to Ray Daniels and Ray Daniels.
• 49:55
  Speaker 4: That's my name.
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's my name, Charlatne the only person to have
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: showed that name the Galls G A U d S.
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: The God Show.
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: And so he went on there and pretty much spoke
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: about his relationship with Mariah Carey and how he felt
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: as a man in that relationship. Uh, you want to
• 50:12
  Speaker 3: go ahead and click that that video. I want you
• 50:15
  Speaker 3: to listen to what you have to say, and then
• 50:17
  Speaker 3: well we'll respond.
• 50:19
  Speaker 6: Got married in my twenties, still, you know what I
• 50:21
  Speaker 6: mean to the biggest star in the world. My trajectory
• 50:24
  Speaker 6: was here and then hers, She's already in a different stratosphere.
• 50:28
  Speaker 6: I would lay up at night thinking like, is this
• 50:31
  Speaker 6: who I am? Yeah, I'm Mariah's man? Yeah?
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: Is that what my life is supposed to be?
• 50:39
  Speaker 6: But I'm like yourself. And then when you have children,
• 50:45
  Speaker 6: your man ship is like, wait, I can't. I'm carrying
• 50:49
  Speaker 6: a purse, the diaper bag. You know, I'm standing on
• 50:52
  Speaker 6: the corner, you know, like she rocking being.
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: All the alpha that well, by the way, she deserves it.
• 50:59
  Speaker 4: I believe he needs dude like that.
• 51:02
  Speaker 6: I'm just not that dude. Her and I never had problem,
• 51:05
  Speaker 6: never argue, never even even with even with me struggling
• 51:09
  Speaker 6: in this space. She's so understanding and so evolved and
• 51:13
  Speaker 6: lives in her own world. That's the thing when someone
• 51:14
  Speaker 6: has their own world, and you got to be a
• 51:17
  Speaker 6: participant in that, you know what I mean, Like I'm
• 51:20
  Speaker 6: I'm main character. It was like muscle Atrophy, I'm not
• 51:24
  Speaker 6: being the dude that God put me on this earth
• 51:27
  Speaker 6: to be. The love kept me there even, you know,
• 51:30
  Speaker 6: made it work so well because I was like, Oh,
• 51:32
  Speaker 6: you need somebody, you need a support system. You need
• 51:34
  Speaker 6: somebody that don't want you for your money. You need
• 51:36
  Speaker 6: somebody that's sincere. You need somebody that's willing to build
• 51:39
  Speaker 6: a family, raise some you know, amazing kids together. And
• 51:42
  Speaker 6: that was my goal. But then there was just something
• 51:45
  Speaker 6: constantly in.
• 51:45
  Speaker 4: Me, like I got it.
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: I hated everything about this clip because a and also
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: the fact that he left this relationship just to put
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: babies and six other women. That's a whole other topic.
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: But he was I mean, but he has yeah, he
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: has twins. He has like two sets of twins.
• 52:06
  Speaker 3: He got a whole bunch of I don't know, he
• 52:07
  Speaker 3: got a lot nough. Yes, he got like twelve or
• 52:09
  Speaker 3: nine of thirty five. I don't fucking know he got
• 52:11
  Speaker 3: a lot though there was a few I would say
• 52:14
  Speaker 3: red flags about this, And I do want to bring
• 52:16
  Speaker 3: it up to you as someone who is now coming
• 52:18
  Speaker 3: into a relationship as a father, but also with a
• 52:22
  Speaker 3: woman who has her own life and you entered her world,
• 52:26
  Speaker 3: right there was so well and I want to talk
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: about it because I do think we all have our
• 52:33
  Speaker 3: own worlds. I think she entered your world and going
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: on tour, and I think you entered her world in
• 52:39
  Speaker 3: the way her family moves, in the way they celebrate holidays,
• 52:42
  Speaker 3: in her dad being on the pedestal that he's on,
• 52:45
  Speaker 3: and her name caring.
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: The way they did.
• 52:46
  Speaker 3: I know there was a conversation even about the last
• 52:49
  Speaker 3: name of the baby for a long time. Right, So
• 52:52
  Speaker 3: in this in this thing, he talks about needing to
• 52:55
  Speaker 3: feel alpha, needing to be the main character in a relationship.
• 53:00
  Speaker 3: How do you think what is a healthy way for
• 53:05
  Speaker 3: a man to show up in partnership without feeling like
• 53:07
  Speaker 3: his manhood is attacked when maybe he has to carry
• 53:10
  Speaker 3: the diaper bag, maybe he has to play the role
• 53:12
  Speaker 3: of the quote unquote woman, Maybe he has to be
• 53:15
  Speaker 3: more of the submissive. I think that's what Nick Cannon
• 53:19
  Speaker 3: had the biggest problem with being with someone that was alpha.
• 53:22
  Speaker 3: He mentioned that how does a man show up being
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: a man while also leaning into his feminine in a
• 53:28
  Speaker 3: relationship or not being the main character all the time.
• 53:37
  Speaker 4: Like the main character in a relationship. I don't really
• 53:40
  Speaker 4: know about that, you know what I'm saying.
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: I didn't say you didn't like that. Yeah, I just
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: don't know about that, you know what I'm saying.
• 53:45
  Speaker 4: Watch it?
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: Did you feel like I'm saying, he was? Now what
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: I just took from it? And Nick Cannon, my nigga,
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: you know we're just talking.
• 53:50
  Speaker 5: I feel like, you know, just from watching that from
• 53:52
  Speaker 5: a man's perspective of like just by me trying to
• 53:55
  Speaker 5: get married or whatever. I'm just listening, you know what
• 53:57
  Speaker 5: I'm saying, and I'm just thinking, like, Okay, Nick seem
• 53:59
  Speaker 5: like Nick seemed like okay, Mariah Carey, Like he said,
• 54:02
  Speaker 5: like she already who she is. You know what I'm saying,
• 54:04
  Speaker 5: You got this woman, she already who she is. You know,
• 54:05
  Speaker 5: he's already who he is. But like he said, he
• 54:08
  Speaker 5: dealing with.
• 54:08
  Speaker 4: Somebody up here. He's still trying to get up there,
• 54:10
  Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying.
• 54:11
  Speaker 5: So her world is automatically her system automatically bigger than
• 54:15
  Speaker 5: his system, you know what I'm saying.
• 54:16
  Speaker 4: So it's like he couldn't.
• 54:18
  Speaker 5: It sounds like he like, man, I ain't all the
• 54:20
  Speaker 5: way where I need to be in life, you know
• 54:21
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying.
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: Do you think it was him projecting his insecurities at the.
• 54:24
  Speaker 5: Time, I mean, I don't know. Like from me listening,
• 54:28
  Speaker 5: it just sounded like, damn. He felt like, Damn, I
• 54:30
  Speaker 5: got this lady, I'm locking myself down. She already got
• 54:33
  Speaker 5: her millions. I ain't got mine yet, Like I need
• 54:36
  Speaker 5: to go get Momy.
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: Definitely has them. Now.
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: I want to ask you, is there a difficulty, and
• 54:41
  Speaker 3: let's generalize this, is there a difficulty for men to
• 54:45
  Speaker 3: be with women who are more successful or more accomplished
• 54:49
  Speaker 3: than them that you know, even with your friends and
• 54:52
  Speaker 3: what conversations are normally had.
• 54:54
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: I mean shout out to the ladies, you know what
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: I'm saying.
• 54:57
  Speaker 5: I love the women, but I don't think I've ever
• 54:58
  Speaker 5: dated a woman that was more acomplished to me.
• 55:01
  Speaker 4: Oh, that ain't no disrespect.
• 55:03
  Speaker 5: Okay, women should want a man that's like doing any thing,
• 55:06
  Speaker 5: you know what I mean. But I should want a
• 55:07
  Speaker 5: man that is more accomplished than them. No, they should
• 55:10
  Speaker 5: want a man that's that's accomplishing things period. But if
• 55:13
  Speaker 5: it just so happened that your man is accomplishing more
• 55:14
  Speaker 5: than you, shouldn't be jealous or anything. I'm just sitting
• 55:17
  Speaker 5: down saying I've never known. I never had that experience.
• 55:19
  Speaker 5: I've never dated a woman with more than me when
• 55:22
  Speaker 5: I was young. Now, I do know how I feel
• 55:23
  Speaker 5: to like somebody and be around somebody with more than me.
• 55:26
  Speaker 5: Like when I was a young nigga, when I was
• 55:27
  Speaker 5: coming in the game, I was around a lot of females.
• 55:30
  Speaker 5: We had to have paper, you do you know what
• 55:31
  Speaker 5: I'm saying, Like I used to be around females like
• 55:33
  Speaker 5: thirty thousand in they pocket.
• 55:35
  Speaker 4: I had a thousand, Like, I know how that feels.
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: How did that feel? That just felt like I ain't
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: made it. I'm like, damn shot at them falling.
• 55:41
  Speaker 4: Like this.
• 55:43
  Speaker 2: Because I think now it's making me wonder when you're
• 55:46
  Speaker 2: around with men that I'm more accomplished than you or
• 55:49
  Speaker 2: have more money than you, does that make you your
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: man help feel?
• 55:53
  Speaker 4: It just depends. It just depends. That's on real shit.
• 55:56
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, like it just depends, so
• 55:58
  Speaker 5: you have to, like you have to get yourself in
• 56:00
  Speaker 5: a state where you don't give a fuck about that,
• 56:02
  Speaker 5: like when you're a young nigga, like when you just
• 56:05
  Speaker 5: in this shit like for real, Like you could come
• 56:06
  Speaker 5: around some niggas and you like man like, you know
• 56:09
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying, because either yo, who you done been
• 56:12
  Speaker 5: with that made you feel insecure about something, or you know,
• 56:16
  Speaker 5: you just don't feel like you ain't where you're supposed
• 56:18
  Speaker 5: to be, Like you know what I'm saying, Like I
• 56:19
  Speaker 5: feel like I ain't never been a hater, you know
• 56:22
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying, So I never hated on what another
• 56:24
  Speaker 5: nigga had, you know what I'm saying. But have I
• 56:25
  Speaker 5: ever felt like it was places I was supposed to be?
• 56:28
  Speaker 5: You know I wanted to be. Yeah, you know what
• 56:29
  Speaker 5: I'm saying.
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: But you know that's what you're saying. Though. It's interesting
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: because it kind of shows whether you're you in a
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: Canada cool how it is fucked up that when it
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: comes to somebody you're with a woman, your masculinity is
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: taken by their accomplishment, not what he said.
• 56:48
  Speaker 5: Oh No, I love I love like I love like
• 56:51
  Speaker 5: women that's accomplishing things Like I remember when I first
• 56:53
  Speaker 5: started dating women that was in the industry, I thought
• 56:55
  Speaker 5: it was I was fascinated because I was like, wow,
• 56:58
  Speaker 5: like they like look how these people dressing them up,
• 57:00
  Speaker 5: like they got to get it makeup, like get their
• 57:02
  Speaker 5: hair downe somebody doing their hair and they make up
• 57:04
  Speaker 5: at the same time. Like I was like blown away,
• 57:07
  Speaker 5: like this shit, coolest fuck now you're being blown away
• 57:09
  Speaker 5: by the hair and making. I was just I had
• 57:11
  Speaker 5: never seen that ship, Like I was just a nigga,
• 57:13
  Speaker 5: like coming from like all the camps I was within
• 57:15
  Speaker 5: the industry. It's just been like real camps. So it
• 57:18
  Speaker 5: was never like no females in our camps, you know
• 57:20
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying. And even if it was females in
• 57:22
  Speaker 5: our camps, they wouln't getting they makeup and hair done
• 57:24
  Speaker 5: and ship, you know what I'm saying. So when I
• 57:25
  Speaker 5: first seen that ship, I was just like, damn that
• 57:28
  Speaker 5: shit dope.
• 57:28
  Speaker 2: I will tell you this, watching somebody go through glam
• 57:31
  Speaker 2: like when you know, like famous famous people, you're like,
• 57:34
  Speaker 2: oh shit, like when the stylist is changing the clothes.
• 57:40
  Speaker 5: Especially when you I was just coming up right, you know,
• 57:43
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying. So it's like, but but just with anything,
• 57:46
  Speaker 5: like even with d I'm happy for it. Like I'm
• 57:49
  Speaker 5: trying to figure out a way to how to get
• 57:50
  Speaker 5: in there to make some mod.
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: You know, a question.
• 57:53
  Speaker 3: And Eddon if you want to jump in on this too,
• 57:55
  Speaker 3: and we the you two, I think we we use
• 57:57
  Speaker 3: this word a lot. Jealousy is the human emotion, right,
• 58:02
  Speaker 3: do you feel like it's healthy or natural or wrong
• 58:07
  Speaker 3: to be jealous.
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: Of your partner? Wrong?
• 58:10
  Speaker 4: Wrong? Yeah?
• 58:11
  Speaker 3: Okay, even though it okay because I know we talk
• 58:14
  Speaker 3: about it in friendship.
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: Like what would be an example of being jealous my partner?
• 58:18
  Speaker 4: Maybe you make more money than you. Yeah, that's terrible.
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: You know what, partnership. I think it's wrong in jealousy.
• 58:24
  Speaker 2: We've been having an in friendship. We've been having this conversation.
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: I think there's a malicious jealousy. And then yeah, for example,
• 58:30
  Speaker 2: let's just say we sitting here, Mandy's like bitch fashion nova,
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: just about to take mendnership to choice, and Keke.
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: Goes, fuck you.
• 58:37
  Speaker 2: I don't not want her to have this, but I'm
• 58:39
  Speaker 2: gonna be a little jealous. I'm not on the beach
• 58:42
  Speaker 2: or a little jealous that I didn't get chosen.
• 58:43
  Speaker 5: But you ain't gotta be a little jealous. You could
• 58:45
  Speaker 5: just be like, oh damn, like Dawn that she would
• 58:46
  Speaker 5: have been five, I would have came. But you could
• 58:48
  Speaker 5: really have no emotion.
• 58:49
  Speaker 2: But that's the thing, that jealousy that I'm talking about
• 58:51
  Speaker 2: for something like this. Yeah, I think that's a real
• 58:54
  Speaker 2: emotion that can be naturally human.
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like you would want that, but not the expense
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: of her losing it exactly.
• 59:00
  Speaker 2: I don't want you to not get it, but I
• 59:01
  Speaker 2: wish I can get I wish. Yeah, Like on a
• 59:03
  Speaker 2: peer level. The reason I think romantically it gets tough
• 59:07
  Speaker 2: is because partnership is sharing a bit, and if you
• 59:11
  Speaker 2: can't share in this pleasure, then I'm getting you can't
• 59:14
  Speaker 2: be excited for me because you want this thing too
• 59:16
  Speaker 2: when it gets there.
• 59:17
  Speaker 5: That's yeah, that's that's very tough, and that happens in relationships,
• 59:21
  Speaker 5: especially when y'all both do the same thing.
• 59:23
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying.
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: That's that's why I don't want no podcast, Like that's
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: you know. I always used to think about Kim and Kanye.
• 59:31
  Speaker 4: I mean, like when you yeah, that's.
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: I always thought like you got the biggest of each thing, right,
• 59:36
  Speaker 2: B and Jay, I don't know.
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: I feel like Jay, they don't care, not E and J.
• 59:41
  Speaker 2: No B and J.
• 59:42
  Speaker 4: I'm saying, like, don't count.
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: Why they don't count? They do the same ship but Ja.
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know what it is, they're both really
• 59:53
  Speaker 2: the best that they own artistry.
• 59:56
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 59:56
  Speaker 2: So I think with Kim and Kanye, it's like Kim's
• 59:58
  Speaker 2: kind of famous for nothing. Not saying she's not a
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 2: business woman, but it's like she's so fucking famous everybody's
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 2: on her dick. Kanye literally makes art. I hate this nigga,
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 2: but like literally I love him.
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: Damn. Look at what he did.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 2: He didn't speaking of birth and ship, you had some
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 2: baby making sex to become a father, and I want
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 2: to get we gotta get into baby making.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: We gotta get into it. This is where y'all if
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: you were ready to hear how nasty and freaky this
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: motherfucker beginning in the back. He is not on the market, y'all,
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: So just sit in your puddles at work.
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 3: You cannot have this man. But uh, let's talk about
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 3: baby making. Let's get into it. I just like to
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 3: ask this question to all artists before we get into
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 3: the music, do you fuck to your own music? Because
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 3: I ain't gonna hold you. Deandro already told me she
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 3: sneaks you into the playlist, and I'm like, bro, why
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 3: would you do that?
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: Why would you sneak your nigga into the playlist? Baby?
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: He don't want to hear himself. What's the song that
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: ends up coming on?
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 4: It's a song called Always It's Me and my Cousins.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: She loved it and it's on the it's on thet
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: it's on the playlist.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but I got like it. Play you feel.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: Fucking ad dick to the song to the song.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 4: That I made that ain't nothing. No, that's fine that
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 5: Like your music, Yeah, I mean you know you make
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 5: it the funk to I mean yeah, like you know
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 5: you put the use.
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's how you know it's that's how you know
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 4: it's Oh wait.
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: You're telling me when it don't randomly come on, you
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: don't be like ship.
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 4: What the fuck? Sometimes sometimes you be like damn, here
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 4: I go y.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 2: You know, I mean I got a song come on
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: to aig and I was fucking someone else and I
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 2: was like, okay, no way, I do.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: Oh you heard a nigga? I do?
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 3: I do have a question because I know you was working,
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 3: Like I don't know how long you've been working on
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 3: this project, but you know how they be talking about
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 3: there ain't no baby making music now happening, and the
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 3: R and B niggas is just toxic and they not
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 3: making it to where you want to fucking love anymore.
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 3: So is there a time where you go into the studio,
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 3: you record a song and then you you put it
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 3: to the test in the bedroom to see if it
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 3: if it hits like it should in the bedroom.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 5: This baby making project really got put it put No
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 5: way you.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: You tested it out in the bedroom already. Yeah.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 4: She loved this project. Okay, yeah, she loved this.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: And so what can what can we expect from it?
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 5: And I do also it's one of them like it's
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 5: like if you're talking sex like with your with your partner.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 4: With this album, we're about to.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: Have a baby boom in twenty twenty.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah, like because you can go for the ride, you
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 4: know what I'm saying.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 5: It's like it can go for the ride, like you
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 5: can go you got your ship like it gonna start
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 5: off how you wanted to Like, that's just a like honestly,
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 5: if you like I think this is me? This is
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 5: me right if I'm if I'm doing this ship, I'm
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 5: gonna already be in it before I press play.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: It's the first song toutdown.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 2: Saying that makes you want to play it and have
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 2: a plan be right there not a player vat I
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 2: mean to be already like have it on your tongue.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: Already, like you know what?
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 3: Can I ask you a question in terms of you
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 3: got baby making right? I want to ask you what
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 3: is the difference between good sex and love making? Or
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 3: do you feel like there's a difference. I know that's
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 3: a real question.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: I know we talked about our good engineer Wolf. He
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: don't even like eye contacts, so I don't think he's
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: ever made love. But have you never made love? Have
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: you ever made love? What is the difference to you
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: between just a good round of sex and actually making
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: love to somebody?
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 4: I think like sex is like that ship could just
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 4: like feel good. You know what I'm saying, Like sex
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 4: just feel good?
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, And there after you know
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 5: it's like like you you.
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: Like way too hard like you because I get it.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: We get that.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 5: It's like so, but it's like when you making love,
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 5: it's like, damn, you know what I'm saying.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 4: You might rollo sit in it.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 2: I can't wait to get my foody in the morning
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 2: with you.
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 4: Now you have just got done looking in the sky.
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: You're like, we did that. That's how don't you looking
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: at the sky?
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 4: Then?
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: I always get to eat, honey, you want something to eat?
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know why feeding the dude after we
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 2: fun and it's specific to love Baker, it'd be like
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 2: the extra little lady.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: Is that intimate? Do you do? You want food from somebody?
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: You just fun?
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 4: You see this stuff? I mean yeah, it's like I
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 4: mean yeah, for sure. It's like you got to have
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 4: the food. You hear me.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 5: The food just a part of you either gonna eat
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 5: before you know what I'm saying. You've got to have
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 5: the food. It's a part of it. See what I'm saying.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 4: You gonna get a wet rag.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: You know it's my favorite thing? After you it question
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: and a nigga just be like they can't move. I
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: love when a nigga. I love seeing a little weakness.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying a dog or anything. But I love
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: when you see.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 4: A body I say, you like an go to sleep.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: I just want to know that. I want a nigga
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: to say his knees is out. Yeah, I want a
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: nigga he can't walk. He get off the bed and
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: he almost stumbled because he don't know how work. Legh.
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: That's my eager. I like that. I don't know if
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: I want to picture on my ass on Instagram and
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: get a million LIFs or that. That's It's the same feeling.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 3: When when when a nigga like smiles after sex. I
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 3: feel empowered. But what is that for men? What can
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 3: a woman do that makes you know you just did jo?
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 3: Don't ask her did you come baby? No, no words?
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: What actions happened to let you know? You just laid
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: it down?
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 5: Yes, she can't move, it'sye.
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: The A C was off.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 4: No, it's like either I think either I think either
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 4: she like go to sleep.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, she go to sleep, or
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 5: she like you know when she like look at you
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 5: and then like look at.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: The yeah, yeah.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 4: One of them look at you like it's them.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? It's so bad, I'll start crying.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: You cry, oh my god. But then literally if it's
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: ship you know, so you know what I'm It's not
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: even super emotional. It's just like this crazy.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 2: I came so hard the first time I cried with
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 2: a dude that I wasn't like close to anything like that.
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: In the middle of crying, I was like, it's not you,
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: It's just a release, you know what I need.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 3: I think I need to lead into my feminine because
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 3: I'll be like, you never cried, bitch.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: I'll be when it's done.
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 3: This is how I hate be like you did that.
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why you that's why you're talking about it.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 4: You got to be a little bit more. I'll be
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 4: like you did that, all right.
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: I cried in that threesome y'all.
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 2: They don't know it because I was like, I can't
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 2: cry from this whole we just met, but I can't
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 2: even so hard I started crying four.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: I tried to do one of these with the hair
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: so they ain't see the tears. I gave a Nigga
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: I high five one time.
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 6: You.
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: I'm market on it. I need to. I need to
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: be Maybe I gotta get you know what he just dropped.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: Maybe when you see, he said, Gagstu.
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 2: You said what the text that you were sharing on
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 2: the tour where you said gain is dicky about?
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, no no, no, because so last tour, I said, okay,
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 3: hold on, so you know went to our podcast last year.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 3: Last year we were on tour and we decided to
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 3: share text messages with what our booty calls look like
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 3: and my booty call.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: I text this nigga like where you at? And he
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: was like or it was like, I said, what's the
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: and he said, what's up? Gang?
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 3: I was like, come gang, that dick in my mouth? Yeah,
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 3: kind of how we talk. And that was how we
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 3: set it up. And I don't show you feel me.
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 3: I mean that shows that's how you coming. That's your niggas.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: Know, like maybe I could be more feminine and get these.
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 5: Niggas be like, but then your niggas. Ain't y'all gonna
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 5: lose all funness. That's your thing?
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: Okay? I like that. I love making moments. Don't do this.
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: I'm serious. I'll make love. I did in my last relationship.
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: We made love.
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 3: We cried one time together, but we were on shrimps.
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 3: So I don't know if that helps.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 5: I used to cry all the time. Wait when I
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 5: first got with you, Wait, you cried just be out
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 5: of town. So Ship, I'll probably just thinking about you.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 5: Have you ever how much you love me?
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: Have you ever cried during Wait? Wait?
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 4: I was just trying to say, I think the injury
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 4: and everything one time.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 3: Pregnancy, hold on, hold on, you know, you know on trigger.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 3: The nigga sent me an old picture in the hospital.
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 3: So what you mean you you faked it?
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 5: Had the wheelchair and everything pushing me and everything. Wait
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 5: then I just hopped out the wheelchair. Man, I ain't hurt.
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 5: I didn't want to see you left.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: Okay, don't test me. You really in love? I'm telling
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: you that you what is wrong? Would you?
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 2: You know what when you get in love like that,
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 2: you start doing dumb ship. Well, I might have to
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 2: cut this.
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 6: You know.
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: I mean my nigga did the other day. Do you
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: keep it in We edited? He wanted to.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 2: Answering the phone right, and I was like, oh my god,
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 2: He's like damn, Barrel was in the toilet.
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: I was like, I want to be in there with you.
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: I want to be in there with you.
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 4: Girls do that.
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: I want to see it, girls like you want to
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: be in the bathroom while he's I'm like, really, take
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: the FaceTime, put it down. I want to say, wait,
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: you wanted to You asked him, and you wanted to
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: be in the bathroom while he was.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 4: Taking girls some crazy ship.
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: Calm down, He'd be doing the same ship now. But
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: I locked the door. He was like, you know, I
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: want to see that. You want to see into the towilet.
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: I'm fucking crazy.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 3: I'm look this okay. You know why I don't want
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 3: to see that because I eat ass. I don't want
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 3: to be in the bathroom. You should have seen me
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 3: on my period.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: He yo, ship, I actually want to believe you never ship.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm here. I cannot wait to get
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: He asked way too much to want to see you
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: like I want to. I don't even want to imagine
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: that a nigga sit on the city. I know that
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: you use the bathroom standing up, sir. I want to
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: keep that in my mother out.
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 2: I'm be honest with you, my love, and gone too far.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 2: It went too far, like literally got ready to be bro.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 2: We were talking about doing some ship under the full moon.
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: I was like, let's cut our hands into some blood.
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: Brother ship. I love it. He got see, I got
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: a different type of dread. He's a wolf type the
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: whole TP nigga.
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like he wants to fast
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 2: in the morning, only eat raw fruits and ship. So
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 2: he already on that crazy ass Like you really connect
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 2: with people when they're that spiritual, if feeling like they
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 2: don't have a limit, like what we're gonna do next, Yes,
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 2: let's talk to you a lot, like who's up there?
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: Soon y'all gonna be sparing each other, ship on each
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: other like sm that ship.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 2: Once we peede peed and the all, Like once we
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 2: did the pee, then I knew, oh yeah on them
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 2: he peede on you each other and what that means.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: I just felt like I marked my territory, Like that's
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: my nigga. I really look like.
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 4: Bro like drenched like real.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: We were into loom. It doesn't count, no wall because
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: we were in another country, don't no, No, I did
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: it during that Vegas trip like home on I gotta
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: be you know, it's crazy. I used to think this
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: was so white.
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 2: I thought it was crazy, but then I was like,
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 2: oh no, you really gotta love a niggas.
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: So how you doing so we ask you questions like
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: this too. We was in Vegas. We went to the
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: Point of Wards. We were up for a podcast awards.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: We drunk.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 2: We went to Gez with Mandy whatever I I I'm
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 2: in the bathroom. Don't do the whoop the wood. Yeah,
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 2: so I'm in the bathtub. He ain't about to go
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 2: to the bathroom. I was like, wait, wait, wait, because.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: He was in the such like do it on me,
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, each feet on your face.
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: D wait, hold on, let me tell you what may
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: be bad. So the first time, right, it was just
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: a chance.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 2: But for some reason because I asked for it again,
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 2: he was like, no, I hope your mouth.
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: That's the whole I didn't do it. I'm not I'm celibate.
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: I don't even have sex. I'm not ready to drink
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: the brial, no liquor in those sex.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 4: For real? What happened to you?
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: No?
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 4: For real?
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: What I'm going for ninety days?
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 4: Okay?
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 2: He was like, Yo, this shi ain't funny that that
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 2: was really fun working because you know what, we all
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 2: do this. Every time somebody that told me they haven't
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 2: been drinking for four years, I'm like, they.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: Killed somebody you know, just going through sobriety and that's beautiful.
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 3: Though it is you, it's it's it's tough, but you
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 3: know I'm getting through it. Back to the album, what
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 3: is your favorite?
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, back to the album people Love Love is not
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: on the album, by the way.
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 5: My favorite song probably, honestly to be real, probably middle
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 5: of the Night and sex like this.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: Oh, like this sounds good.
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 4: I'm like middle of the night.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 5: Now we both with But I really love all of them.
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 5: It's like tomorrow I might have some more favorites. It's
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 5: one of them.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: Typean just said her favorite was drip. Okay, Now I
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: know I like to be able to think of what
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: things are about. I assume it's about the dripping of
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: a pussy of course.
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 5: Yeah. The whole song is like she got that drip,
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 5: not the Peter rip. It's like when it's like it's
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 5: like when they asked me, why fuck with you?
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 4: I said, it is what it is.
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: She got that drip was the pregnancy drip? Crazy?
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like super crazy. Now it's extra crazy, Like
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 5: it's like I thought it was crazy, that it's crazy.
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: Make it better.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 5: Oh, you ain't gonna get it neither of us. Oh man, God,
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 5: I gotta go hair one whoa whoa.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna be honest with you.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 2: I I started taking from my hair.
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: I wanted my hair to grow.
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 2: My pussy was so crazy and I literally thought, I'm
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 2: gonna get pregnant if I keep this up.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: It was like I was peeing on myself. It was crazy.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 4: So what your man say? He can't get you pregnant?
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: Bro? We had, we had, we had, We had to
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: take a home. Calm down, we have Jesus Christ want kid.
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: We have worked to do. Know we're we're planning on album.
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 4: You're gonna be You're gonna get pregnant.
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: I'm now gonna ban it from her home.
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 2: That's no, don't okay? Well do you know many met
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 2: my nigga. We all got drunk. We had to get time.
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: We went out and I said, I can hear her
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: telling him no, I'm lied at Happy and Ship. But
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: me and Ben's got a portage and I ain't got
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: had his whole pregnant like our family planning. Okay, but
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: you lucky to start. We got going on talk. Don't
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: take her out.
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 4: I don't want to get pregnant, I said.
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 2: He no, I'm gonna tell you why. The other day
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 2: we was out, We was dancing, We was out till
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 2: four in the morning. We just having fun. We love
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 2: going out to like piano ship and like afrobees parties.
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 4: Y'all different, fuy.
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 2: Like we love a dance party, disco party. Like he
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 2: loves soul train type ship.
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 4: Y'all like soul mats. Oh yeah, yeah, y'alling on each other. Ship.
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: No.
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 2: We woke up and he was like, bro, like, imagine
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 2: if we had a baby right now, whos to do that?
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 2: Because it hit like, yo, I just had a bad day.
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 2: We ended up, you know, it's New York. Ship though
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 2: five in the morning. He was like, I don't know.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 2: We was saying two years, maybe three, And I think
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 2: there's a lot of things that get scary for y'all.
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 4: Y'all use a condom everything, y'all.
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: Fuck no, I'm on birth control. Not look like a girl.
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 4: You're on birth control. You gotta get off of that.
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: What what are your throwing? Wait? What are your thoughts
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: on birth control? I think y'all should have a baby. No, no, no, no,
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: come down.
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 3: Do you do you want to fly? Do you have
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 3: general thoughts on women being on birth care.
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: No, I just like heard it got like there's a
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: lot of bad Yeah, like you know what I'm saying.
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: It's like now it's like all right, everybody grown, Like
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: just tell your boy pull out. Yeah, you're grown. The
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: pull out does not work.
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 4: That ship it works.
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: Did you just hear this everybody telling them pull out?
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: I got the pull out method. I'm sad now when
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: you got that Dripney Bruh.
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 2: Let me tell you when we were in Atlanta for
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 2: the Black Effect Show, I wasn't on birth control, right,
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 2: he didn't pull out and he literally after he came
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 2: it's still inside of me. I said, are you about
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 2: to are you telling me you? He's like, I'm so sorry.
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 2: I know you don't want to hear this, but that
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 2: ship was so good, and I'm.
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: Like, no, I gotta be on motherfucking plan b No.
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: After that, that was when birth control started. You know
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: what it is.
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 2: It's the anxiety of not being able to plan. I
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 2: would love to have children with this person, but at
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 2: the end of the planet, yeah, I really want to play.
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: I know that. I was about to say, if you're
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: dealing with a nigga who believes the pull out method yeah,
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: not really. Yeah, we see how that baby happened.
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 5: I mean your pulling out though, Like that's the thing
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 5: about it, all right, Some niggas just no, like, yeah,
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 5: I'm not pulling out.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 4: That was me.
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like and clearly your swimmer, swim my.
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 4: Niggas get up through that.
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 2: You know what I've always wanted to ask somebody in
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 2: this podcast, not you, I've always wanted to ask a man,
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 2: just like a whole as to come out, like how
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 2: many abortions have you had?
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: Oh? That's such a hard question to ask somebody, Like
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: we don't ask women that, but like, but a man
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: never had abortion, but you don't know how many paid
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: for a man never had he paid for eleven? Wow, whoa,
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: that's crazy nasty. Yep, you know what.
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 2: He looked good and rich and I bet every bitch
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 2: be waiting on it. He was like, yo, I'll be
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 2: at the deal. He's like I literally He's like, no,
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 2: that's a lot of men have entitlement and they don't.
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 4: I mean, but he showed me nothing in them, knowing
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 4: that he don't want a baby.
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree.
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 4: It's like it's like he putting her thoughs unnecessary ringer.
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my goodness. Hello.
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like the Internet.
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: Don't like you. Yeah, it's like, why the fuck you
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: blessing in a food?
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 2: You know what? I really appreciate you saying this because
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 2: the selfishness of men being so detached from her pregnancy
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 2: it exists.
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's like, why blessing her? Bro?
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: If you don't want a kid, that's the dumbest shit. Hello, Nick, Sorry, no,
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: he wanted fifty kids? Are not you? Hey? All of
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: our opinions are ones of our own, no whatnot?
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 2: Actually, I'm not even gonna say, Nick Cannon. He does
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 2: seem like he was intentionally having a bunch of kids.
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 2: Who's the little young nigga that got twenty five kids?
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 2: He's too, twenty two or.
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: Something, young boy who might be going to jail? NBA,
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: young boy? Is that it? And dirt for young boy? Sorry?
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: And dirt? Wait?
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 2: Is it?
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: Dirt? He said for everybody? But he got a lot
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 1: of kids. Both of them got a lot of keys. No,
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 1: I know one of them got it like ten and
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: twenty two.
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 5: Young boy has yeah, eleven at twenty three, damn, while
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 5: we got a long kid.
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: Bro.
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 4: He just welcome, yeah, he just welcome the new one.
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 4: Twenty three, welcome to Oh sorry, Oh yeah, I'm sorry.
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah twelve, hold.
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: On wait, it's just a dude to be like. I
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: don't want to fuck me too, that's I don't know
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 1: the young nigs. You don't know NB A young boy.
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I get confused with the any chopper the young
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 1: boy than the other ones. Yeah, the letters a lot,
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: it's a lot, but I know the difference. Hold on eleven.
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: Sorry when you twelve twelve, he's only twenty two. How
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: do you think he knows all their names? I mean
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: he just had one with may wether daughter. Oh yes,
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: right now, you know what we're talking about. Anyway, baby,
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 1: make it out now? Where can everybody listen?
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 3: By the way, I would like to say too, when
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 3: we have artists, if you really want to support your artists,
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 3: make sure you purchase, not just stream so you can
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 3: go into the app store.
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: How much is it?
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 3: Nine ten, nine twelve nine nine, baby, y'all pay that
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 3: ship Netflix, and y'all don't even like all the shows
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 3: on that bitch. If you want to support artists, make
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 3: sure you dropped that that nine let's just.
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 5: Say it cost fifty plan and you can go to
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 5: the store and by this album too. On November fifteenth,
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 5: it'll be in the stores. Okay, you go by physical.
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 5: That's out now November fifteen, y'all can go get it
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 5: in the stores, baby, making.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: Wait for real. I'm not even trying to be funny. Yeah, wait,
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 1: where did you think go about albums? Now?
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 4: Like at Target?
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: Walmart?
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 4: Well, I'm not sure.
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 1: Where they putting it in?
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 4: Like, yeah, you just look it up online.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 5: You can find it ya now, But I ain't gonna lie
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 5: at your local stores that sell like CDs or probably
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 5: like selected like Walmarts and Targets, you can get it
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 5: like no, kids, Yeah, I'm.
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 1: Gonna buy this album. But where are we gonna put
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 1: what you mean gonna wait? What are you gonna wait?
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 1: What do you play a CD in?
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 4: Now?
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 5: I got? Well, I ain't gonna lie. I took, I
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 5: changed my seat, my cars I had. I had a
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 5: call with a CD player.
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 4: I changed. That's what I mean.
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 1: Where did they play a CD?
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 4: Noway?
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 1: The card is you have with a CD player? You
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: gotta think, my lumbo when I'm has got it was
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: five ahead, my lambo. It was all a job.
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 3: Let everyone know where they could follow you. Support you, y'all, baby,
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 3: making is out.
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 4: It's tholes now, Yes, it's out.
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 5: Y'all can follow me at jock Queize if you haven't
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 5: already j A C q U E s at jock Queeze.
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 4: That's on everything, Uh love y'all.
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: Y'all know what it is, and y'all already know.
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 3: If you want to support us to hear more horror stories,
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 3: make sure you go to Patreon as patreon dot com
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 3: backslash Horrible.
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 1: Sure, and yeah, y'all.
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 3: Make sure y'all have a good one and we'll see
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 3: y'all next week, Same time, baby,