You're Not In Love. You're In Project Management
In this episode I'm unpacking what it really means to date someone you've quietly turned into a project, why the managing, the fixing, the constant arranging feels so much like love and so little like rest. You're thoughtful, you're capable, you show up in every possible way for the people you love. But if you're always the one handling everything, it might not just be that you're a good partner. It might be that staying busy keeps you from having to find out whether you're actually chosen. We get into why your nervous system mistakes effort for closeness, what the shadow underneath all that…
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