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- Lucas: You know how people say your network is your net worth? That's one of those phrases that sounds profound until you actually try to do something with it. Luna: Right. It's like — okay, sure, I have 800 LinkedIn connections. But how many of those people could I call with a real career question tomorrow? Lucas: Exactly. And most of us can't answer that question honestly. That's why I want to talk about something called a career network audit — a structured way to figure out if your professional connections are actually serving your next move. Luna: I love this. Because we talk a lot about skills audits, values audits, energy audits — but the network is often this invisible thing we assume is fine. Lucas: Right. And it might not be. So let me ground this in a real example. I worked with a marketing manager named Priya a few years ago. She was talented, great results, but she kept getting passed over for director roles. She thought it was her resume. It wasn't. Luna: Let me guess — her network was all peers? Lucas: Bingo. She had 400 connections, and 90 percent of them were other marketing managers at similar companies. Great for commiserating, terrible for hearing about VP openings or getting sponsored. Luna: So the audit revealed that she was in a bubble. What did she do? Lucas: She started by listing her top 20 most important professional contacts — not friends, not family, people who could actually influence her career. Then she categorized them: peer, mentor, sponsor, industry insider, connector. Luna: And I'm guessing she found she had zero sponsors and maybe one mentor. Lucas: Exactly zero sponsors. Connectors? Two. One of them was her former boss who had moved to a different industry. That was her only weak tie to a different world. The rest were strong ties within her own silo. Luna: And that's the problem. Strong ties are comfortable, but they rarely bring you new opportunities. It's the weak ties — acquaintances, former colleagues, people you met at a conference once — who open doors. Lucas: Right. The research on this goes back to Mark Granovetter's 1973 study, 'The Strength of Weak Ties.' He found that people were far more likely to hear about a job through a weak tie than a close friend. The reason is simple: your close friends run in the same circles you do. They know the same people, see the same posts. Luna: So a weak tie is like a bridge to a different neighborhood. You might not visit often, but that neighborhood has totally different opportunities. Lucas: Exactly. So a network audit forces you to look at the composition of your map. Are you all in one neighborhood? Do you have bridges to three or four different ones? And are any of those bridges connected to people senior enough to advocate for you? Luna: So what's the actual process? If someone listening wants to do this today, what are the steps? Lucas: Three steps. Step one: export your LinkedIn connections — or just open your phone contacts — and pick the 20 people who have had the most professional impact on your life in the last two years. Don't overthink it. Luna: And by impact, you mean they gave you advice, referred you, hired you, mentored you, or just taught you something useful. Lucas: Right. Step two: categorize each person. I use four buckets: supporter, mentor, sponsor, connector. A supporter is someone who cheers you on but can't open doors. A mentor gives advice. A sponsor actively advocates for you when you're not in the room. A connector introduces you to people outside your circle. Luna: And most people have tons of supporters, a few mentors, almost no sponsors, and maybe one or two connectors. Lucas: That's the pattern. So step three: look at the gaps. If you have zero sponsors, that's your priority. If all your connectors are in the same industry, you need to find connectors in adjacent industries. Luna: What did Priya end up doing? Did she land a director role? Lucas: She did. But it took about eight months. She started by intentionally building relationships with three senior leaders in adjacent industries — SaaS, because she was in consumer goods. She asked for advice, not jobs. And one of those leaders eventually sponsored her for a director role at a B2B company. Luna: So the audit gave her a specific focus. Instead of 'network more,' she had a clear target: find sponsors outside her industry. Lucas: Exactly. And that's the power of an audit. It turns a vague anxiety — 'I should network more' — into a specific action plan. You can even map your network visually. Draw circles for each category, put names inside, see where the clusters are. Luna: I've done that with a few mentees. One woman realized she had 15 supporters but zero mentors. She was getting lots of encouragement but no strategic guidance. So she started reaching out to senior women in her company's leadership development program. Lucas: And that's the key insight. Your network doesn't need to be huge. It needs to be diverse and intentional. Five well-chosen weak ties can be more valuable than 500 random connections. Luna: I want to push on that a bit. Because someone might say, 'I have a strong network — I know lots of people.' But the audit might show they're all the same type of person. Lucas: That's actually the most common finding. Especially among mid-career professionals. You build a network that reflects your current role, not your future one. A marketing manager has a marketing network. But if you want to become a CMO, you need connections in finance, operations, and strategy. Luna: Right. So the audit also reveals the diversity of function, seniority, and industry in your map. If all your contacts are at your level or below, you have no upward visibility. If they're all in your function, you have no cross-functional insight. Lucas: Exactly. And this is where the concept of 'network return on investment' comes in. You can ask: which of my connections gives me the highest return in terms of information, opportunity, and advocacy? And which ones are just taking time? Luna: That's a little uncomfortable. But probably necessary. I had to let go of a few networking groups that were just social hours with no career value. It felt rude at first, but it freed up time for more strategic coffees. Lucas: And that's part of the audit, too. Not every connection needs to be strategic. But you should know which ones are. If today's episode gave you a useful framework, you know, the way this show stays ad-free is through listener support. If you found value, consider buying us a coffee at buy me a coffee dot com slash fexingo. It helps us keep doing episodes like this. Luna: Yeah, seriously. Even a small contribution makes a difference. And it keeps us independent, which means we can keep drilling into topics like this without worrying about sponsors. Lucas: Alright, back to the audit. One more thing I want to mention — frequency. Your network changes, so the audit isn't a one-time thing. I recommend doing it every six months, or any time you're considering a career move. Luna: And what do you do if you find a gap? Say you have zero sponsors. How do you actually build that relationship? Lucas: Start small. Identify three senior leaders whose work you admire. Follow them on LinkedIn. Engage with their content thoughtfully. Then ask for 15 minutes of advice — not a job. Frame it around a specific challenge. Most people are happy to help. Luna: And then nurture that relationship over time. Send updates on how their advice helped. That turns a one-off conversation into a ongoing connection. Lucas: Exactly. And if they see you executing on their advice, they're more likely to think of you when an opportunity arises. That's how a mentor becomes a sponsor. Luna: So to sum up: do the audit, identify the gaps, and take one small action this week to fill the most critical one. Lucas: Perfect. And remember — your network isn't just about who you know. It's about who knows what you can do. And an audit is the clearest path to closing that gap.