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Favorite Way to Naturally Induce Labor · Podcast - Big 98.7

• 0:07
  Speaker 1: Angie, do you want to explain to the class what's
• 0:10
  Speaker 1: going on with your feet today?
• 0:14
  Speaker 2: I'm so upset with myself.
• 0:17
  Speaker 1: This is the first thing Angie said to me when
• 0:19
  Speaker 1: I walked in the door today, Not not Normally, Angie
• 0:21
  Speaker 1: hits me with a good morning or a hello, and
• 0:23
  Speaker 1: then it's usually followed by a I gotta tell you something.
• 0:27
  Speaker 1: I found this out yesterday, and then it.
• 0:29
  Speaker 2: Start off with tea.
• 0:30
  Speaker 1: Generally it's a pleasant morning. Today it started off on
• 0:34
  Speaker 1: pun intended a bad foot.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I made the mistake today of coming into work
• 0:41
  Speaker 3: wearing my house shoes, so now I have to get
• 0:45
  Speaker 3: new house shoes. My house shoes are a pair of
• 0:47
  Speaker 3: very comfortable, like memory technology flip flops, that's what. That's
• 0:55
  Speaker 3: not fancy, but they're just so comfy. And the thing
• 0:58
  Speaker 3: is today head to tell So I'm not looking great, Okay,
• 1:02
  Speaker 3: I have to save my hotness energy for the weekend.
• 1:05
  Speaker 3: My sister is having an elopement over the weekend in Vegas,
• 1:10
  Speaker 3: so I'm trying to save all my hotness energy to
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  Speaker 3: look pretty for that. So I can't every day this
• 1:16
  Speaker 3: week try to look like a human woman.
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  Speaker 2: Can't do it.
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  Speaker 4: So today we're getting a pass.
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  Speaker 3: Today, I'm in like comfy pants and like a zip
• 1:25
  Speaker 3: up little jacket and a sports It's not great. But
• 1:29
  Speaker 3: then at the very least I was going to wear
• 1:33
  Speaker 3: real shoes. But I did not switch out of my
• 1:37
  Speaker 3: house shoes into the real shoes. I don't know what
• 1:39
  Speaker 3: was going on in my brain. I don't know, but
• 1:41
  Speaker 3: I didn't switch out. So Mikey was driving me to work,
• 1:44
  Speaker 3: per the usual, and we're halfway to work and I
• 1:49
  Speaker 3: realized I didn't switch my shoes because my feet felt
• 1:53
  Speaker 3: too comfortable. I noticed my feet were nice and comfy
• 1:57
  Speaker 3: and cozy, and then I thought, great, I made a mistake,
• 2:01
  Speaker 3: And sure enough, as comfortable as they are, and I
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  Speaker 3: love them for house shoes.
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  Speaker 2: These are not.
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  Speaker 3: Good flippy floppies to be out in the world. And
• 2:10
  Speaker 3: I just felt like I had to call it out
• 2:12
  Speaker 3: on myself first before anyone noticed. You had to get
• 2:16
  Speaker 3: get out ahead of a Yes you ever see eight mile?
• 2:19
  Speaker 1: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, when b Rabbit says all the stuff about himself
• 2:22
  Speaker 3: first so that his opponent can't say it, That's like,
• 2:25
  Speaker 3: that's what I lived my life by, Like I will
• 2:27
  Speaker 3: call it out first so that you don't That's why
• 2:29
  Speaker 3: I always be talking about my.
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  Speaker 2: Mustache, like, I know I got a mustache.
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  Speaker 3: Don't try to don't come for me and try to
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  Speaker 3: say anything about it. I know, and so I will
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  Speaker 3: mention it first.
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  Speaker 2: All that to.
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  Speaker 3: Say, Gabe, you told me probably no one would have noticed. Yeah, no,
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  Speaker 3: but now I've brought so much attention to it to
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  Speaker 3: the point where we.
• 2:44
  Speaker 2: Talked about it on air.
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  Speaker 3: If you see me out in the streets today because
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  Speaker 3: I'm not going straight home, and.
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  Speaker 1: Keep it right well, and you can't be the only
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  Speaker 1: one who has done that, Okay. I guarantee someone this
• 2:56
  Speaker 1: morning will have left the house with their shirt on inside,
• 3:00
  Speaker 1: or the kid going to daycare has two different shoes on,
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  Speaker 1: or maybe your socks are inside out. Has something like
• 3:07
  Speaker 1: this ever happened to you? Seven oh one two eight
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  Speaker 1: zero one nine eight seven. Have you ever just had
• 3:13
  Speaker 1: one of those mornings like everyone on earth has had? Yeah,
• 3:17
  Speaker 1: where you walk out and you get halfway to work
• 3:19
  Speaker 1: and you go, you know, I didn't put on any
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  Speaker 1: underwear today.
• 3:24
  Speaker 3: Imagine what if today, like the owner of the building
• 3:28
  Speaker 3: comes in today like I'm not in good.
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  Speaker 1: Shape for this now, you know, things just work out
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  Speaker 1: for me, So that would be hilarious.
• 3:34
  Speaker 2: Yea, well you look nice today. Shut up.
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  Speaker 4: I have a T shirt and shorts on.
• 3:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but like I like the T shirt and you
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  Speaker 3: got the chain on. The fact that you have the
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  Speaker 3: chain on always ups your game.
• 3:46
  Speaker 4: Thank you. I appreciate that.
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  Speaker 1: Well, if you have ever left the house and got
• 3:50
  Speaker 1: halfway to work or halfway to wherever you had to
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  Speaker 1: be and he went, oh darn, you know, I forgot
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  Speaker 1: to put a bra on this morning, any of something
• 3:57
  Speaker 1: along those lines, let us know about it. At seven
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  Speaker 1: zero one two eight zero one nine eight seven, as
• 4:03
  Speaker 1: Angie is walking around, it looked like a dirt bag
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  Speaker 1: and some flip flops that they have are bringing dirt
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  Speaker 1: bag energy this morning, that's for sure.
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  Speaker 4: Celebrating life's little victories.
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  Speaker 5: Victory every morning we practice gratitude on Big ninety eight
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  Speaker 5: point seven.
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  Speaker 1: If I could, I would keep this feeling in a
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  Speaker 1: basket job busted out when it was someone's acting hard.
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  Speaker 5: I just really needed to win, you know, Sure your
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  Speaker 5: little victories with us. At seven oh one two one
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  Speaker 5: eight seven.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Angie, and before you get started, we do
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  Speaker 1: have a big shout out to Erica today. She said,
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  Speaker 1: she fixed her fan Now, Erica, I am not hating
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  Speaker 1: on your little victory at all.
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  Speaker 4: This is what little victories is all about. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes it's oh hey I won five hundred dollars. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: sometimes it's I fixed my fan. It was making a
• 4:55
  Speaker 1: lot of noise and barely blowing any air. I took
• 4:58
  Speaker 1: it apart, cleaned it all out, sit it off, got
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  Speaker 1: the grime out, and now it works like a charm.
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  Speaker 1: That is what little victories is all about, right there.
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  Speaker 2: I am impressed, Erica. I would be like, I guess
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  Speaker 2: we get in a new fan.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, there's a little bit of like some mechanical engineering
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  Speaker 4: going out.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm impressed.
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  Speaker 1: I'm the same as you. I congratulation. I'd chuck the
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  Speaker 1: fan and buy another. I'm the same stuff. But that
• 5:20
  Speaker 1: you know, some people say that that's what's wrong with
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  Speaker 1: the world today is no one tries to fix anything anymore.
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  Speaker 1: So good for you, Eric, I think that's awesome.
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  Speaker 2: I'm fully what's wrong with the world today.
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  Speaker 4: That's fine, Angie, do you have a little victory.
• 5:33
  Speaker 2: I'm never beating the big back allegations.
• 5:35
  Speaker 3: I am elated because I remembered I brought in dilly
• 5:42
  Speaker 3: bars the other day, and I grabbed a dilly bar
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  Speaker 3: from the freezer and I'm halfway through it right now
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  Speaker 3: for breakfast, for breakfast and for you you know what
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  Speaker 3: it's about to be that time of the month.
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  Speaker 2: I'm feeling away. I wanted a dilly bar.
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  Speaker 4: You know what, then, I think you deserve a dilly
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  Speaker 4: bar if you would like a dilly bar.
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  Speaker 2: I appreciate.
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  Speaker 1: It is strange when our little victories happened to line up.
• 6:03
  Speaker 1: Mine is also food today yesterday. Yeah, so uh, Corey's
• 6:08
  Speaker 1: mother is staying at our house this week just to
• 6:11
  Speaker 1: help around with the dog and you know, if and
• 6:14
  Speaker 1: when baby g arrives at some point soon here. But
• 6:18
  Speaker 1: we got Indian Palace yesterday Indian food. And I have
• 6:24
  Speaker 1: driven past this place a billion time. We always go
• 6:26
  Speaker 1: to like taj because it's just closer. Yeah, And Corey
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  Speaker 1: ordered the food on whatever, it was a pickup order. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and she was like, oh, this is closer to the house,
• 6:36
  Speaker 1: not even close at all. It's actually way, way way
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  Speaker 1: further away. But I've always wanted to try it because
• 6:42
  Speaker 1: I've driven past it a billion times.
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  Speaker 4: It's sort of kind of close to where we work here.
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  Speaker 1: And brought it home and it was delicious, and boy,
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  Speaker 1: I cannot wait for one one thirty today when I
• 6:55
  Speaker 1: dive into some lefties because there's always so much extra food.
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  Speaker 4: When you would Indian food, there's always extra food.
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  Speaker 2: The portion sizes are incredible.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, so I am looking forward to having that for
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  Speaker 1: probably lunch and dinner tonight. But it was delicious, so
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  Speaker 1: big shout out to Indian Palace. It was great stopping
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  Speaker 1: in there yesterday.
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  Speaker 2: I want to get Indian Palace now.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just I've driven past it so many times.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I wonder what's it look like in there.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying. I don't just want to walk in there
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  Speaker 1: like an idiot.
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  Speaker 3: Yea.
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  Speaker 1: So it's nice to go in there actually getting something
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  Speaker 1: for Yeah. So shout out to them this morning. Well,
• 7:34
  Speaker 1: I have great news for you. I am here todayat
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  Speaker 1: news for me.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. So no baby G just yet.
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  Speaker 1: We're still just kind of sitting and waiting and waiting
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  Speaker 1: and sitting basically at the Glitten House.
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  Speaker 4: I do think I am getting a bit antsy.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, yes, come on, hurry, hurry it up.
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  Speaker 4: Leave it to a.
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  Speaker 1: Glitten to be late, all right, But we are still
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  Speaker 1: just kind of waiting for that moment when baby G arrives.
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  Speaker 2: It will be the.
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  Speaker 4: Loudest silence ever because I just won't be here.
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  Speaker 2: Oh gotcha, you'll know, all right, just hear this shrill voice.
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  Speaker 4: That's exactly right.
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  Speaker 1: And we well, maybe not shrill, but and we asked
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  Speaker 1: on the Big ninety eight point seven Facebook page, and
• 8:23
  Speaker 1: let me tell you, the Big ninety eight point seven
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  Speaker 1: Facebook page comments section is undefeated and defeated. What is
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  Speaker 1: or was your favorite way to naturally induce labor? And
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  Speaker 1: there are a lot of wonderful, actual, you know, comments
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  Speaker 1: that can help. Yeah, there are a lot of comments
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  Speaker 1: that really just are for laughs, which is also great. Like,
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  Speaker 1: for example, Julia said, pitted dates with peanut butter and
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  Speaker 1: chocolate six a day can help ripen your cervix.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, I don't even know what that is.
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  Speaker 1: Date.
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  Speaker 3: It's a fruit and then you obviously pit. It means
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  Speaker 3: there's not a pit in it, so it's easier to
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  Speaker 3: eat it with chocolate.
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  Speaker 2: And that is really good.
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  Speaker 1: I thought a pitted date was when you went on
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  Speaker 1: with someone on a date with someone because you felt bad.
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  Speaker 2: That's a pity date. I can't stand you. I cannot
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  Speaker 2: stand you.
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  Speaker 3: But Costco sells pitted dates in a by the container
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  Speaker 3: now I'm realizing I have a very ripe and deuterous.
• 9:25
  Speaker 1: We had Tammy, who said, back in the day, I
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  Speaker 1: was close to my due date and I mowed the
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  Speaker 1: lawn front end back.
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  Speaker 4: The neighbors thought I was crazy.
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  Speaker 2: When I tell you, I know for a fat gabe
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  Speaker 2: that you will not let your wife mow the lawn
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  Speaker 2: even if it induces lady.
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  Speaker 4: No chance.
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  Speaker 1: That's my one like one thing. I don't want my
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  Speaker 1: neighbors to see my wife mow the lawn. Yeah, exactly right,
• 9:49
  Speaker 1: can't do it, Casey said. We live on nine acres
• 9:52
  Speaker 1: with some woods and a few trails through them. Both pregnancies,
• 9:56
  Speaker 1: I walked around the uneven trails, and two days later
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  Speaker 1: I was in labor my second pregnancy. I also went
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: on TikTok and found some labor inducing exercises. Wasn't my
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  Speaker 1: favorite way because well, I was very pregnant, but was
• 10:10
  Speaker 1: determined to induce labors. I see stretches and squats and
• 10:14
  Speaker 1: what have you.
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  Speaker 3: When I was wildly pregnant with Liam, like I was
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  Speaker 3: in the final days, I did do the thing if
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  Speaker 3: if you guys have one of those big yoga balls,
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  Speaker 3: sitting and bouncing on the yoga ball can help induce labor.
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  Speaker 3: It didn't work for me, but it worked for my
• 10:30
  Speaker 3: girlfriend who was also pregnant at the same time.
• 10:32
  Speaker 1: It was wild right on, Tracy said, I'm told that
• 10:35
  Speaker 1: my mom's friends took her bowling the night I was born.
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  Speaker 4: But I kind of liked that my little date night.
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  Speaker 3: So worried I would be so worried that the water
• 10:46
  Speaker 3: would break, people would slip.
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  Speaker 2: But that's not bad bowling, I guess.
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  Speaker 1: And then I have two more for you, Angie. And
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  Speaker 1: these two were fairly common. I like this one a lot.
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  Speaker 1: They were talking about not they, but individuals on our
• 10:57
  Speaker 1: Facebook page were talking about like pumping.
• 11:00
  Speaker 4: If you pump, it just kind of gets things going
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  Speaker 4: or something. I've never thought of it.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I've never heard of that. That sounds terrifying.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And then finally there's a lot of people with some
• 11:10
  Speaker 1: innuendo jokes on there, Angie. They're talking about the deed,
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  Speaker 1: the horizontal mambo. Now I'm an innocent guy. I don't
• 11:16
  Speaker 1: know what the horizontal mambo is or the deed. I
• 11:19
  Speaker 1: thought that's what I thought, that's what it was when
• 11:21
  Speaker 1: you owned a house.
• 11:22
  Speaker 3: Oh, that's really funny because the deed is how your
• 11:25
  Speaker 3: wife got pregnant in the first place.
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  Speaker 1: Gave Oh oh oh, well, I guess that would be
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  Speaker 1: a quick exercise.
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  Speaker 4: Do you know what this is?
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  Speaker 2: From sleeping beauty? OBV.
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  Speaker 4: That's right.
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  Speaker 1: A growing number of couples are trying what's called or
• 11:48
  Speaker 1: being called a sleep divorce, choosing separate beds or even
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: separate bedrooms to avoid snoring, different schedules, fighting over the thermostat,
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  Speaker 1: and there are supporters who say better sleep makes them
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  Speaker 1: happier partners during the day, but experts do warn couples
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  Speaker 1: they still need intentional time together so the distance doesn't
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  Speaker 1: become emotional distance.
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  Speaker 4: Do you and Mikey sleep in the same room?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we definitely do.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like this thing about sleep divorce circulates every
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  Speaker 3: you know so often, and I do agree that if
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  Speaker 3: your sleep schedules, like if you have work schedules where
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  Speaker 3: you have really different hours, and if you're kind of
• 12:29
  Speaker 3: a light sleeper, it does make sense to not sleep
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  Speaker 3: in the same bed as your partner if they're gonna
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  Speaker 3: be just ruining the actual sleep. But in my case,
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  Speaker 3: Mikey and I we sleep in the same We go
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  Speaker 3: to bed at the same time, and we wake up
• 12:44
  Speaker 3: at the same time, so it's fine. But I and
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  Speaker 3: he does not snore, nor do I. I'm not a snorer.
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  Speaker 3: I'm a drooler, but he doesn't care that I drool,
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  Speaker 3: so that's fine. So yeah, but in terms of like snort,
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  Speaker 3: when I was with my ex, he was I mean
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  Speaker 3: white the snorer. Sure, and so we started sleeping in
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  Speaker 3: separate beds. But I can guarantee you that is not
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  Speaker 3: why we split. In fact, that's probably what kept us
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  Speaker 3: together longer, because.
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  Speaker 4: If I have well rested those arguments.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, because if I had to sleep in that or
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  Speaker 3: not get any sleep in that snoring cavern, then we
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  Speaker 3: would have split a long time ago.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, I fully support sleep divorce as long as
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  Speaker 3: you are making like time intentionally to be with each other.
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  Speaker 3: I think, like snuggle in bed until a certain point
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  Speaker 3: and then okay, I gotta go, And then you sleep
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  Speaker 3: in separate rooms.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Seven oh one two eight zero one nine eight seven.
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  Speaker 1: If you're someone who sleeps in a separate bed or
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  Speaker 1: a different room or or different wing of the house entirely,
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  Speaker 1: then your partner, why does it work for you or
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  Speaker 1: why did you begin doing it? Let us know this
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  Speaker 1: morning here on Big ninety eight point seven.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like you might.
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  Speaker 3: It's different for every couple, obviously, but once baby g
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  Speaker 3: is in the picture, depending on how like feeding and
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  Speaker 3: whatever goals during those night shifts, sometimes it makes sense.
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  Speaker 2: For you guys to sleep in different rooms, you and
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  Speaker 2: your wife.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we haven't talked a ton about that and how
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  Speaker 1: the schedule works. I think we're kind of just gonna
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  Speaker 1: wing it and then yeah, I mean you can't really know. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna find out what works and what doesn't. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and it'll just it'll be kind of interesting for someone
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  Speaker 1: who gets up at four, yeah, in the morning, and
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  Speaker 1: what you know, am I taking like the late shift
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  Speaker 1: and just kind of powering through the night? Am I
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: kind of doing the all the afternoon shift while Corey
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  Speaker 1: tries to sleep a little bit. So that will be
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  Speaker 1: kind of interesting. I will say, I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: I'm like destined for a couch at any point.
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  Speaker 4: Uh, but you never know. I mean, we do have
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  Speaker 4: another bed in the house. I guess I.
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  Speaker 2: Cold you acting she might send you to the couch.
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  Speaker 1: She might, I suppose, but yeah, no, Corey and I
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  Speaker 1: we sleep in the same bed every night. I don't
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  Speaker 1: even think we've ever even discussed. We don't snore either. Now,
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  Speaker 1: I will say on a Saturday night after some karaoke
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  Speaker 1: and I don't know, twelve bush lights, like, yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: probably do snore, but sober sleep, neither of us really
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  Speaker 1: snore at all. So it's never been a problem. And
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  Speaker 1: we do have kind of a biggish bed, and by we,
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  Speaker 1: I mean Corey's had one forever and I just got
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  Speaker 1: to be a part of it.
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  Speaker 2: Oh nice.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And so the dog wakes us both up in
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  Speaker 1: the morning early, so there's not really a sleep schedule
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  Speaker 1: thing there. She's usually up by six, I think. So
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: there's not a whole difference of sleep schedule at our house.
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  Speaker 2: But we kana Hey, he does not believe in no,
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  Speaker 2: I swear.
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  Speaker 1: I just thought of that when we were going through
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  Speaker 1: the beginning here where he said, you got to get
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: rid of the king's size bed.
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  Speaker 4: It ain't good for the marriage.
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  Speaker 5: Man.
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  Speaker 2: You got to sleep in the same bed, and it
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  Speaker 2: better be a small bed.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's right.
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  Speaker 1: We do have Vanessa on the phone. Vanessa, what's your
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  Speaker 1: story with separate beds?
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  Speaker 6: My spouse turns into an Olympic level blanket seat and
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  Speaker 6: somehow manages to sleep diagonally across the king size bed.
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  Speaker 6: After months of waking up hanging off the edge, we
• 16:01
  Speaker 6: tried separate rooms and it has been the best sleep
• 16:04
  Speaker 6: of my life. Yeah.
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: Man, I didn't even think about the blanket thievery Yeah, well,
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: I will say Corey and I what do they I
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: think it's very European.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: We each have our own blanket. We don't share one
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: big giant comforter. No, it's too hard with the dog
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: in the middle. If one of us, if one of
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: us is cold, or one of us is hogging the
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: blanket and then you have this seventy pound dog, you
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: might as well just put on a hoodie because you're
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: gonna freeze.
• 16:30
  Speaker 4: There's no way to get back under that.
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: Oh that makes sense. Is that a European thing?
• 16:35
  Speaker 4: I think it is.
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so euro I love that using two different blankets.
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure. I don't like I should do.
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: That because I get really the one thing where sometimes
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: I get up in the middle of the night and
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: I go to the couch for a little bit and
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: then I come back.
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: Is that I'm an overheater. Yeah, I hop yeah, And
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: we have one blanket.
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: He should take that big old blanket and then I
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: should get like a lighter one.
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, why didn't I ever think when Gabe teaches me
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: new things that are useful?
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: This is am I the problem? It's me, hill On
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: the problem.
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: It's me.
• 17:12
  Speaker 5: We'll hear one side of the story and with your
• 17:14
  Speaker 5: help probably decide if it's right or if maybe you're
• 17:20
  Speaker 5: the problem.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: That's right, I am a problem.
• 17:23
  Speaker 4: On Big ninety eight point seven.
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: Rachel wrote into us just this first sentence, I feel
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: like it immediately is going to make you feel away, Gabe.
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: I've been married for four years and have a great
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: husband and two kids. I'm very happy. Let me say
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: that first.
• 17:40
  Speaker 4: Congratulations.
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: The other day, I was talking to an old friend
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: from high school, and she brought up that my high
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: school sweetheart, who broke up with me after freshman year
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: of college, just got a divorce and that apparently he
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: had cheated on me for a year with this girl
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: back in college. I got so mad because he was
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: always accusing me of cheating just because I had guy
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: friends in the dorms, but he was the one cheating
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: the whole time. When I told my husband, he got
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: really annoyed and mad that I seem to care so much,
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: as though I haven't moved on with my life to
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: be with him and have kids. Am I the problem
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: for being pissed off that my ex boyfriend cheated on
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: me even though I'm happily married? Now?
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: Wow, what are your thoughts?
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: There's kind of a lot of gray area I would
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: say here, like, is are you angry at this ex
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: boyfriend that cheated on you and now your anger is
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: spilling into your household? That would be insane. But I
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: also think this is completely ridiculous, Like, yeah, you are
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: the problem one percent? Who cares? It has been forever?
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: Who cares? Oh my gosh, move on, it doesn't matter.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: I'm on the opposite side.
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: Guy's divorced, his life's ince shambles. You're doing great. Who
• 18:57
  Speaker 4: cares what he did when you were eighteen nineteen years old?
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: I care?
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: So I am?
• 19:02
  Speaker 4: I figured on this side?
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: Am on Rachel's side? What do you think?
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: Seven oh one two eight oh one to nine eight seven.
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: We also have this up on the Big ninety eight
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: point seven Facebook page, and of course you can call
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: us text us.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: I'm team Rachel on this one.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: Uh.
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: I think that for her husband to get annoyed and
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: mad like, bro let me be annoyed and mad.
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: Because this is new information.
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: Yes, it happened a long time ago, but this is
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: new information.
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: Yes, this is new information. She didn't know, so I
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: would be mad.
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: I would be looking back at all the times he
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: accused me when he was the one doing the thing.
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: I would be so mad.
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: Now she's not saying I want to leave my husband
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: and be with the ex like he's She's not saying
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: anything other than that she's really mad about that situation.
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: I would be really upset. So I get where she's
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: coming from, and like, you know what, maybe just some things.
• 19:59
  Speaker 3: Don't tell your husband, sure, like that's a conversation. Maybe
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: you tell your ear it's like as you tell Yeah, however,
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: I don't know Rachel's husband. Now, maybe you're the problem,
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: because why shouldn't she be able to just like tell
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: you how that really upset her?
• 20:14
  Speaker 6: Well?
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: I always the thing I've noticed a lot for am
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: I The problem is words matter a ton. And she said, uh,
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: mad that I seem to care so much as though
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: I haven't moved on with my life.
• 20:27
  Speaker 5: What have you?
• 20:29
  Speaker 4: If you've really moved on?
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: How why are you mad.
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: About this that happened? I don't know how old she is,
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: but clearly at least five to six plus years ago.
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: It would be different if she was still mad about
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: it now and had known this information back when it happened. Sure,
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: if she was still mad, then I'd be like, girl,
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: you gotta let it go. Maybe I'm a.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: Grudge holder to watch. Yeah, yes, you gotta let it go.
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: But she just learned this information. The fact that it's
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: new information makes me think, like, you're okay, your go
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: ahead be upset about it. I do kind of think
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: you are onto something though.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: That's definitely like, that's just like a convo with your
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: besties getting mimosas your hobby doesn't need to know that.
• 21:10
  Speaker 4: He doesn't care, but.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: Your hubby should be your best friend.
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: Also, I think she should have been able to say
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: it without him getting Now. He seems insecure to me, Rachel,
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: maybe your husband's actually a red flag. No, that's too strong.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: He's not a red flag. I do think it's ridiculous
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: for him to be upset that she was upset.
• 21:28
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know, it's just knowing you.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about you as the human that I have
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: hung out with countless times.
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: With you and Mikey.
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: I'm just I'm very curious if Mikey were to find
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: out some new information about maybe one of his exes
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: and was to bring it up it unhinged. I could
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: I know the quote that would come out of your mouth,
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: And to be honest, I can't even.
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: Say it on the radio, Righty, You mean if I
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: would be hating on the ex as much as he's
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: hating on the ex In fact, I bring up his
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: exes on my own say on them.
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: It's true.
• 22:02
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that is very true, all right?
• 22:04
  Speaker 5: Right?
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: In fact, if he found new information, we're raising that
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: horse back up from the dead.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: Seven one two eight zero one nine eight seven. Is
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: there someone who's at fault here? I think they both
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: kind of right in a weird way.
• 22:19
  Speaker 4: They're right wrong.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: She's allowed to be bummed, he's allowed to be annoyed
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: that she's hung up on this. I think there's a
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: lot of gray in this. But I also think this
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: is like talk about to you.
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, this is why we turned to you. You let
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: us know what you think. Seven one two one nine
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: eight seven. On the problem with Rachel.
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: Wanted to know she was the problem. She's happily married
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: with two kids, but she just found out that her
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: high school sweetheart, who broke up with her after freshman
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: year of college, was cheating on her the entire time.
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: This is new information.
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: She just found this out, and so she got real
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: upset about it and confided in her husband that she
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: was really upset about.
• 23:09
  Speaker 4: Her first mistake. Not I'm just kidding.
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: And then her husband in turn got mad that she
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: was so annoyed because it made it seem like, girl, like,
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: haven't you moved on? Why are you so upset about this?
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: So she wants to know she's the problem for feeling
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: such a strong way about it.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: I'm team Rachel.
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: I think because it's new information, she has every right
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: to like, process it, grieve it, be mad about it,
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: and then let it go.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: Gabe thinks it been.
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: I think it's stupid.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there we go.
• 23:43
  Speaker 4: To put it bluntly. Yeah, so we asked you what
• 23:46
  Speaker 4: you thought.
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: We also put this up on the Facebook page. And
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: what I love is when I see the words I
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: agree with.
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: Angie, Julia said, you haven't read through it yet.
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: You just what No, I'm just kidding, she said, I
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: agree with and Youie, No, you are not the problem
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: for being upset about this. Two conflicting things are true here.
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: You can be happy and in love with your life
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: and husband now, and you can be upset about discovering
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: a huge betrayal like.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: This when it called your character into question.
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: Also, you just found out you're allowed to have anger
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: and upset feelings about it exactly.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: Is Julia a therapist?
• 24:20
  Speaker 6: I like this?
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: This is great. She summed it up better than I did.
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: You any response to that shit?
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: Yes, I don't know. There are some times we get
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: an am I the problem? And I do appreciate all
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: of them. I think they're all wonderful and they're very
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: fun to discuss here on Big ninety eight point seven,
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: and it's really fun when people chime in about them.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: But there are some where I'm just like, man, is
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: there anything else going on in the world that you
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: could be upset about this?
• 24:48
  Speaker 4: Dude? Who cares? Who cares?
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: They dad?
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: Oh, it doesn't. It's like, do you know when you're like, let's.
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: Say you have a ten year old, right, mm hmm,
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: your mom, you have an eight year perfect, you have
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: a nine year old, Yes, you have a nine year old,
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: and you do something that upsets your nine year old,
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: and then in ten years, however long they've been together.
• 25:11
  Speaker 4: He's like, do you.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: Remember that time when I was nine and you did
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: this and this? You're gonna get annoyed about it?
• 25:15
  Speaker 6: Right?
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: Literally, Liam brings up something I did four years ago.
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: See all the time, And.
• 25:22
  Speaker 4: What do you tell him?
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: I laugh?
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you laugh, it's funny. Let it go, this hubby, dude,
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: who cares? Just let your wife be mad. It's not
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: that big a deal. So you did do a one eighty.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: You are on the husband's side before.
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: Well, I still am on his side in a way.
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: There's just too much gray area here.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: If if her being upset is like really taking a
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: toll on their house and the kids, and she's walking
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: around mad and taking it out on everybody, give it up,
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: Let it go.
• 25:50
  Speaker 5: This guy.
• 25:51
  Speaker 4: Life is in shambles right now. You one, okay, you're happy.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you can sit there and laugh and enjoy the
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: fact that this dude is some crusty, dusty loser.
• 26:02
  Speaker 5: Let it go.
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: It doesn't matter if she keeps harping on it and
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: like brings it up every chance she gets to her husband,
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: then I would understand if her husband was upset.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: The thing is, you bring it.
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: Up to your husband once just to let him know
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: that this was the thing that happened that you're feeling
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: because like you feel comfortable talking to your husband, but
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: then any other time you want to bring this up
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: and beat the dead horse, you do that with your girlfriend.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's the hard part with it because we
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: don't always get the full story, Like was this hubby
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: shit point?
• 26:34
  Speaker 5: Was it?
• 26:34
  Speaker 6: Yeah?
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: Was he genuinely upset? Bro let it go?
• 26:37
  Speaker 6: You know?
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she can be mad, that's fine. What has she been,
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: you know, carrying this around for days and days and days?
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: And finally Hobby was like, okay, I've had enough, Like
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: can you can we not talk about this? Then he's
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: totally right. So how do we say who's right or
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: wrong in this situation? We don't know the full story.
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: That is the beauty of Amma the problem. We get
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: one side of the story and then make a decision.
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: Now, Francis did say, yes, you are the problem. You
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: know what you need to do, and he posted a
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: gift from Frozens let it go, And that made me laugh.
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: So I like, Francis, I like that, let's have done that.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: Note every time there is a buzz from my phone
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: here in the Big ninety eight point seven studio, and
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: she's like, oh, are you having a baby?
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: I checked the phone here basically any day At this point,
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: I think I think I'm getting a tiny bit antsy.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: I'm kind of like, all right, come on, Glinden, hurry
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: up and get here. I know Cory's pretty ready to
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: be done, I do think. And it's just so hard
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: to tell, you know, because obviously we never done this,
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: but contractions they can start stop, yeah, not come back
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: and then start later and then ramp up out of nowhere,
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: slow down out of nowhere. It's just kind of whenever
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: baby G is ready. But this weekend does seem like
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: probably a pretty solid.
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: Guess, yeah, fingers crossed, because I just I want this baby.
• 27:59
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: But by five pm today I could be texting Angie going, hey,
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: everything we plan for the show tomorrow, scrap it because
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: you got to do it yourself. And one thing Angie
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: and I were talking about yesterday, just you know, in
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: my office, was what does Corey want as that first
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: postpartum meal? And I kind of panicked real quick for
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: a second. And when I have no clue, I should
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: probably figure that out. Yeah, And so we asked that
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: question to you this morning here on Big ninety eight
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: point seven and on Big ninety eight point seven's Facebook page. Ladies,
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: what was that first postpartum meal? And no matter what
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: it was, I bet it was the greatest meal you've
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: ever had in your life?
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: Seven oh one two eight zero one, nine eight seven?
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: What did you have? What'd you have? Angie?
• 28:41
  Speaker 3: Okay, so I've had two kids. First kid, My first
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: meal after was the largest size I could get of
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: h I was in Vegas of a Capriotes sandwich called
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: the Bobby, which is essentially Thanksgiving in a sand It
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: was so good. I like wolfed that thing down. You
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: would think I had been starving for a month. It
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: was so incredible. And then for Liam, I got this
• 29:12
  Speaker 3: huge salad from Cafe Rio, not a healthy salad, like
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: a taco salad kind of salad, the one that no
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: doctor recommends. And I housed that one super quickly too.
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: I'm hungry now. That postpartum meal. You will never as
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: a man like I'm salvating. As a man, you will
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: never understand, never the way that postpartum meal hits.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: And you know what, that's what we deserve for birthing children.
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: That's what we get. We get a dope meal.
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well I don't know, Angie, you've never had a
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: nine to fifteen am cup of soup.
• 29:49
  Speaker 4: Okay, let me tell you.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: But what I'm seeing a lot on Facebook, there's a
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: lot of people who have said sushi. Nicole said her
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: husband brought her sushi. There was more sushi coming.
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: Can't have sushi during pregnancy, yes, if you're.
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: Wrong, Yeah, so if you want it, I suppose you
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: have to kind of wait all that time. I also
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: see a lot of sandwiches on their Jersey, Mike's other
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: various sandwich shops.
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: You can't have Delimeats.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: Exactly, which is funny because I did just text Corey
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: right before we started talking here. I said, hey, I
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: never really have asked you, but what do you want
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: for food? You know, after the time, And it was funny.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: She said a sandwich and then runny eggs. We make
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: eggs every weekend for breakfast pretty much, you know, pretty consistently,
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: and we always got to really make sure they're cooked
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: all the way because she obviously can't have undercooked eggs.
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: That's so funny, And yeah, I wouldn't have even thought
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: of that.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: Runny eggs she wants a sandwich, runny eggs, and then
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: to just sleep on her stomach, that part which she
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: has obviously not been able to do. But there's a
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: lot of people saying sandwiches, which is what Corey has said.
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: Julie said, both babies six inch subway sandwich. Yeah times
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: and about that Deli means sandwiches just hit a little
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: bit different. Seven oh one two eight zero one nine
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: eight seven your first post part of meal? What was it?
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: And did you love it?
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: Is there a social an unwritten social rule that you
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: think you know, we just go ahead and write that
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: into actual written law.
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like there are so many. One
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: I would say, is you put your shopping cart back.
• 31:24
  Speaker 4: That should be a law.
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: That should be a law. You should be penalized.
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: It should be the same thing. It should as whatever
• 31:30
  Speaker 4: littering is.
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: Same, Yeah, same penalty. You gotta do that. What are
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: some other things? Gabe?
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: You had one share the one from the other day,
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: because I felt that in my soul. We were on
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: our way to Gosa, Mexico for lunch, and there's a
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: lot of road work going on, so already driving these
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: streets ain't the most fun.
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: And then this happened.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: Angie and I are on the way to cost in
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: Mexico and a young man is crossing the street where
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: he should not be crossing.
• 31:59
  Speaker 4: Right, what do we call it?
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: Do?
• 32:01
  Speaker 4: Go that jwalking? That's right?
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: And you know I had to tap on the brakes
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: to safely let this man cross the street, which obviously
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: I would do.
• 32:09
  Speaker 4: I'm a caring member of society. I don't want to
• 32:11
  Speaker 4: hurt anybody, right.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: There is nothing worse on planet Earth than when you
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: slow down your vehicle to let someone cross the street.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: And I swear you can almost watch them walk slower
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: to get to the sidewalk. If I hit the brakes
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: to let you cross the street where you shouldn't cross,
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: what I expect instantly is a foot going backwards, planted
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: into the ground to propel yourself forward in a somewhat jogging,
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: full sprint motion. To be honest, because let's not act
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: like I didn't just do you a favor and saved
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: your life. Yea, if my truck and your body collide,
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: I will win one thousand times out of one thousand.
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: I expect a little hitch in your gidea up, Well,
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: I allow you to cross the street for saving your life.
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: Call me Captain America. Yeah, no, I.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: Agree with you wholeheart.
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: Like, if someone is doing you the kindness that you
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: better put some pep in your step. So while we're
• 33:11
  Speaker 3: at it, if someone holds the door open for you,
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: you better put some pep in your step and do
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: that awkward shuffle of gratitude and get your butt in
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: that door.
• 33:21
  Speaker 4: Yep.
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: And I'm not a big fan of when you tell
• 33:23
  Speaker 4: people to smile, but you know what you do.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: You probably look at the person, get them a little
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: smile and say thanks, yes, acknowledge that you know they
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: exist and yeah, and say thank you.
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: Speed it up and say thank you. If I'm holding
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: the door open for you, speed it up and say
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: thank you. Now there is a certain distance where it's like, now,
• 33:41
  Speaker 3: why are you holding.
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: The door open?
• 33:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah, now you're trying to show up.
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: But there is this like gray area where it's like,
• 33:47
  Speaker 3: I'm just gonna hold it open because if I don't,
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna look rude. So if I'm holding the door open,
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: just be a little hustle in it, yeah, and then
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: say thank you.
• 33:56
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: I think and I've thought about this actually way too
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: many time since Monday when this happened. If you know
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: I'm allowing you to cross the street whilst I'm in
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: a vehicle, and you know you're slowing down my day,
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: which obviously I was not in a big hurry.
• 34:09
  Speaker 4: It's not that big of a deal.
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: But if I noticed that there's not a little extraop
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: in that walk, Yeah, to get across the street loitering.
• 34:21
  Speaker 4: I need some.
• 34:23
  Speaker 5: Starting off the day with something good. This is Gabe's
• 34:27
  Speaker 5: good News on Big ninety eight point seven. When I
• 34:31
  Speaker 5: read this this morning, it kind of gave me a
• 34:32
  Speaker 5: little smile, Angie.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: A brand new support group in Fargo is helping people
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: with hearing loss realize they don't have to face it alone.
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: The group it brings together people with certain implants or
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: hearing aids, and it brings in their families as well
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: to share experiences, offer encouragement, and help one another navigate
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: life's challenges. Organizers say hearing loss can feel incredibly isolating,
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: which I think you could have imagine. Unless someone speaks
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: sign it can be kind of hard to communicate with
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: other people, especially if you obviously have trouble with hearing.
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: But people also are doing a great job of truly
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: understanding that they can make a difference by going to
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: these meetings and being a part of them.
• 35:16
  Speaker 4: It's a reminder that.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: Sometimes medicine isn't necessarily the best prescription. It's knowing that
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: someone else is walking the same path with you.
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: Representation and community matters.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: And you know my favorite quote, if you don't, we
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: end the show with this. Every single day, broken Crans,
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: They still color and the world is full of nice people.
• 35:35
  Speaker 4: If you can't find one, you gotta be one.