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- 0:00Carmen Lezeth: Hey, how you doing Cynthia.
- 0:02Carmen Lezeth: Hi everyone, welcome to All About the Joy.
- 0:04Carmen Lezeth: We're early because we want to have a little girl chat before Rick shows up.
- 0:09Carmen Lezeth: If he shows up, I think he will.
- 0:11Carmen Lezeth: Now you can hear me and everything's cool.
- 0:15Cynthia Ruiz: Yes, can you hear me?
- 0:17Cynthia Ruiz: Yes, am I good.
- 0:18Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, we're still having a little digital silliness or whatever, but it is what it is.
- 0:23Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 0:24Carmen Lezeth: Okay, let's talk about 9-1-1 from last week.
- 0:27Carmen Lezeth: You didn't watch it now, did you?
- 0:35Cynthia Ruiz: No, I didn't, but I you know.
- 0:37Cynthia Ruiz: It's so funny, it's been such a crazy.
- 0:39Cynthia Ruiz: I still haven't watched the last 10 minutes of the ending of last week, of last week, I know, so I stopped right at the part when they're in the garage and the bad guy got shot, or yeah, the bad guy got stabbed.
- 0:51Carmen Lezeth: I'm trying to remember what that was.
- 0:52Carmen Lezeth: Oh, okay, you I can't, because the last 10 minutes changes everything.
- 0:57Carmen Lezeth: Okay, let me just give you my overall assessment in general of this three episode arc.
- 1:02Carmen Lezeth: For those of you who don't know what we're talking about, cynthia and I I think Rick too secretly, but he just don't want to say it we are obsessed with 9-1-1, the TV show that stars Angela Bassett and Peter Krause.
- 1:20Carmen Lezeth: So my overall assessment is this it did not work for me it's like where'd the bees go?
- 1:27Cynthia Ruiz: Where?
- 1:28Carmen Lezeth: are the bees, and they don't answer that at the end.
- 1:30Carmen Lezeth: By the way, that's not in the last 10 minutes.
- 1:32Carmen Lezeth: Where'd the bees go?
- 1:33Carmen Lezeth: And also it just I don't know.
- 1:36Cynthia Ruiz: There were a lot of questions.
- 1:38Carmen Lezeth: Okay, look at the little boy, the little nine what is he Eight, nine years old?
- 1:43Carmen Lezeth: The little nine what is he eight, nine years old?
- 1:48Carmen Lezeth: He helps bring in the plane.
- 1:49Carmen Lezeth: Okay, like, and then he's like okay, bye, okay, and nobody's gonna talk about that.
- 1:52Carmen Lezeth: There's like a million cameras no one's gonna.
- 1:57Cynthia Ruiz: No one's gonna talk about the boy.
- 1:58Cynthia Ruiz: No one's gonna talk about the other plane that crashed with Athena's plane like where's that guy and the stewardess that flew out the right?
- 2:13Carmen Lezeth: yeah, so I, I'm just going to tell you that's one of the things I didn't like, because usually what they're really good at, even though it is, I'm going to say this, don't get offended, it is bubblegum tv, and what I mean by that is I say that with sci-fi as well.
- 2:26Carmen Lezeth: Like I don't like BSG or star BSG for those of you who don't know is Battlestar Galactica and Star Wars, and I like those shows, but they're too dark for me, like they're just not.
- 2:40Carmen Lezeth: And so bubble gum sci-fi would be like star trek, next generation, right, well, there's always a happy ending right, yeah, so it's kind of like this show, 9-1-1, which is different from chicago fire, which I think is a little bit darker.
- 2:55Carmen Lezeth: But this show is that it's bubble gum there's always good news, whatever but this just wasn't working.
- 3:01Carmen Lezeth: There's too many loose ends and it's just wasn't working.
- 3:04Carmen Lezeth: There's too many loose ends and it's cheesy.
- 3:07Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, okay, I think he's nine, nine or 10.
- 3:09Carmen Lezeth: I don't give a shit, maybe he's 12.
- 3:11Carmen Lezeth: I think he's 10 years old.
- 3:13Carmen Lezeth: He is not a teenager.
- 3:15Carmen Lezeth: He is not a teenager.
- 3:22Carmen Lezeth: He is a young little man who plays video games and knows everything about a plane.
- 3:24Carmen Lezeth: And when walks onto the plane, he goes to see the pilot and he's oh, this is a airborne.
- 3:28Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, and you're like oh, little man's very impressed with planes.
- 3:32Carmen Lezeth: Okay, you got it.
- 3:33Carmen Lezeth: So when the plane gets hit by a another plane, it's like he helps ang Bassett again saving the world, which also, you know what I mean.
- 3:47Carmen Lezeth: It would have made more sense if that other crew member, the other pilot, actually didn't have the heart attack.
- 3:54Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, like when they were trying to save him and he actually was able to get up Cause.
- 3:59Carmen Lezeth: Then I was like okay, now it's believable, but it was just weird.
- 4:04Carmen Lezeth: So I think they made a mistake there.
- 4:07Carmen Lezeth: And then, okay, here's the other part.
- 4:08Carmen Lezeth: This is not telling you anything about the ending, but here's the other part that pissed me off.
- 4:11Carmen Lezeth: Remember that.
- 4:13Carmen Lezeth: Okay, they land okay, the eight-year-old lands the plane, fine, I'm going to suspend disbelief and believe it because I want to, you know.
- 4:25Carmen Lezeth: But then here is this woman whose husband is a firefighter.
- 4:31Carmen Lezeth: She's been on the police force forever and she's still doing cpr on this guy.
- 4:37Carmen Lezeth: As the cabin is filling with smoke, as everyone is telling her to leave and she's no, I must stay.
- 4:44Carmen Lezeth: I girl.
- 4:47Cynthia Ruiz: I was screaming at the TV.
- 4:48Cynthia Ruiz: I said drag his ass, throw him down the slide and do the CPR on the ground.
- 4:53Cynthia Ruiz: That's what I was saying.
- 4:56Cynthia Ruiz: I was like that five second interval is not going to do anything.
- 5:01Carmen Lezeth: Throw him down the slide.
- 5:03Cynthia Ruiz: Okay, you feel me right?
- 5:04Carmen Lezeth: Oh my God, rick is back on, is not going to do anything.
- 5:06Carmen Lezeth: Throw him down the slide, exactly, okay, you feel me right?
- 5:08Carmen Lezeth: Oh my God, rick is back on.
- 5:09Carmen Lezeth: Can you hear us?
- 5:10Carmen Lezeth: Can we hear you?
- 5:11Rick Costa: Yeah, I do, you hear me okay.
- 5:13Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, we can turn you down a bit, though You're hot, hot.
- 5:17Rick Costa: I'm going to turn you down.
- 5:18Rick Costa: Thank you so much.
- 5:20Carmen Lezeth: You know, that's what I meant.
- 5:22Carmen Lezeth: I love how we all have Listen.
- 5:25Cynthia Ruiz: it is not a requirement to be wearing your olive oil and we did not plan this.
- 5:29Cynthia Ruiz: We did not plan this.
- 5:31Rick Costa: Listen, my hair looked crazy.
- 5:33Rick Costa: So I was like no, we ain't dealing with the hair, we're just going to put the hair on.
- 5:36Carmen Lezeth: You know, I really appreciate it, but this is so dorky, funny, Like we have a uniform now and everything, um so mara just said I said I'll ask angela leave the damn body.
- 5:48Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, I was doing the same thing, cynthia was.
- 5:52Carmen Lezeth: Which is just throw them down, the stupid shoot right, there are other firefighters, other responders.
- 5:58Cynthia Ruiz: That can continue.
- 5:59Cynthia Ruiz: I'm like.
- 6:00Carmen Lezeth: and how many times have we watched this show and people have died after just three or four of those?
- 6:06Carmen Lezeth: Halfway on the plane while it's going down and somebody is still pumping, I'm like come on, I don't know.
- 6:16Cynthia Ruiz: It's definitely been past 20 minutes.
- 6:18Cynthia Ruiz: The man is gone.
- 6:21Cynthia Ruiz: Bitch, he's dead.
- 6:23Cynthia Ruiz: Let him go.
- 6:26Carmen Lezeth: I was not happy.
- 6:28Carmen Lezeth: Oh, my God, I'm so glad you felt the same way, yeah.
- 6:31Cynthia Ruiz: Yes.
- 6:32Carmen Lezeth: You know how.
- 6:32Cynthia Ruiz: The dorky moments too, like I know the clips are cute, like when Bobby's like the plane just stopped right there in front of him.
- 6:41Carmen Lezeth: Standing on top of the truck and then he goes tell me in person which is I love you, cause she's about to die.
- 6:47Carmen Lezeth: People, the plane is about to move.
- 6:50Cynthia Ruiz: There's an eight year old behind the wheel of the plane.
- 6:54Carmen Lezeth: So she's like I love you, bobby, and he's I see you.
- 6:56Carmen Lezeth: Tell me in person.
- 6:58Carmen Lezeth: I was like no, I'm not believing that, and it flies right over.
- 7:11Carmen Lezeth: Stop.
- 7:11Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, I don't know to be cheeky, but I don't know something's changed I'm not happy, yeah we're done with rick.
- 7:15Rick Costa: We're done with I was gonna say this is the show you want me to watch.
- 7:17Carmen Lezeth: Okay, got it no, the show is good, like the like the first.
- 7:21Carmen Lezeth: I'm not gonna pan.
- 7:23Carmen Lezeth: I'm not to say all of it sucks right now, this is just the current season, but the show is good.
- 7:28Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, but I'm just making fun of this arc.
- 7:32Carmen Lezeth: These last three episodes They've been promoting it as B-nado.
- 7:38Cynthia Ruiz: And it really was only the first episode had to do with the bees First and second.
- 7:41Cynthia Ruiz: We don't know where the bees went.
- 7:45Carmen Lezeth: We don't know where the bees went.
- 7:46Carmen Lezeth: We don't know where the bees are.
- 7:46Carmen Lezeth: I'm waiting for the swarm of bees.
- 7:49Cynthia Ruiz: They got 2,000 of them and there's still like 10 million to go.
- 7:53Carmen Lezeth: Why is Eddie Sport in that stupid mustache?
- 7:55Carmen Lezeth: That's not working for me.
- 7:57Cynthia Ruiz: Yeah, he looks like a 1970s porn star.
- 7:59Cynthia Ruiz: He totally does Get rid of that.
- 8:02Carmen Lezeth: He totally does.
- 8:02Carmen Lezeth: And also I'm over that mean boss with the new captain, oh yeah yeah, he's not new though he's, I know he's from the first or whatever.
- 8:12Carmen Lezeth: I'm just, what is that all about?
- 8:14Carmen Lezeth: And he's you need to clean and buff that floor.
- 8:16Carmen Lezeth: And then he spits on it.
- 8:17Carmen Lezeth: I'm like stop, this is a little over the top, this is dumb.
- 8:19Carmen Lezeth: I rick, I'm telling I don't know.
- 8:23Carmen Lezeth: It is a weird divergence these last three episodes.
- 8:26Carmen Lezeth: It feels like they're doing some weird cheeky, like I love Lucy thing and I'm not getting it.
- 8:32Carmen Lezeth: What is happening?
- 8:34Carmen Lezeth: Because none of it makes any sense.
- 8:35Carmen Lezeth: But okay, I just want to make sure you agree with me, cynthia, that I wasn't crazy.
- 8:39Carmen Lezeth: I'm crazy, but not like that.
- 8:40Carmen Lezeth: How you doing, rick?
- 8:41Rick Costa: What's up, what's up but not like that how you doing rick what's up?
- 8:45Carmen Lezeth: what's up?
- 8:45Carmen Lezeth: Doing good, doing good.
- 8:45Carmen Lezeth: How's everybody else?
- 8:46Carmen Lezeth: We're good.
- 8:46Carmen Lezeth: Do you have a tv show you want to talk about, so you don't feel left out?
- 8:48Carmen Lezeth: Not with firemen in it now you don't want to talk about chicago fire.
- 8:56Carmen Lezeth: No, I know I you know, what.
- 8:58Carmen Lezeth: I am a little bored with, kind of some of the shows now, so I'm not watching them anymore now that I've done my.
- 9:04Carmen Lezeth: What do you call it when you watch it all at one time?
- 9:06Charlie Mattera: Cinch watching.
- 9:07Carmen Lezeth: Like I cause I didn't watch it all at one time when you told me about 9-1-1 and I just started watching it.
- 9:11Carmen Lezeth: And then I watched Chicago Fire.
- 9:13Carmen Lezeth: But like I've done, three seasons of Chicago, I'm done.
- 9:16Carmen Lezeth: I'm like, okay, the and I just have you guys ever seen the show the Bear?
- 9:25Cynthia Ruiz: No, I heard it's really good though.
- 9:29Carmen Lezeth: So I didn't know his name was Carmen.
- 9:32Carmen Lezeth: I had no idea and I anyways, it's an interesting show.
- 9:36Carmen Lezeth: You know Eva Girl's from Dorchester.
- 9:38Carmen Lezeth: I know Eva Evo.
- 9:42Carmen Lezeth: I forget her last name, eva.
- 9:44Carmen Lezeth: I forgot E Evo.
- 9:45Carmen Lezeth: I forget her last name, eva.
- 9:45Carmen Lezeth: I forgot Evo something.
- 9:46Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, I'm happy for her and she already won an Emmy and everything, but I don't think I can get into the show that well.
- 9:53Carmen Lezeth: But anyways, I was trying to restart watching that because the next season's out and I'm like, yeah, this, I don't know, I'm not into cooking.
- 10:01Carmen Lezeth: Oh, it's about cooking yeah, it's called the bear.
- 10:03Carmen Lezeth: It's called the bear because they call him the bear.
- 10:07Carmen Lezeth: He's the bear, but his name is carmen.
- 10:10Carmen Lezeth: They and the thing is, for the longest time I kept hearing carm, they keep they call him carmy.
- 10:14Carmen Lezeth: And I mean, I know my name is a man's name or a woman's name, it depends on what country like.
- 10:19Carmen Lezeth: If you're in italy, it's a man's name or whatever.
- 10:21Carmen Lezeth: But it never even dawned on me that his actual name was carmen, even though I've heard it.
- 10:22Carmen Lezeth: In Italy it's a man's name or whatever.
- 10:23Carmen Lezeth: But it never even dawned on me that his actual name was Carmen, even though I've heard it.
- 10:25Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 10:27Carmen Lezeth: Somebody tried to call me Carmi that's what happened the other day and it got.
- 10:30Carmen Lezeth: I was like, I'm sorry, what'd you say?
- 10:32Carmen Lezeth: They're like like the bear.
- 10:33Carmen Lezeth: I'm like, yeah, don't do that again.
- 10:36Carmen Lezeth: No, carmi's not going to work.
- 10:38Carmen Lezeth: When I was growing up, they used to call me carmencita and that would drive me up a wall, which was stupid.
- 10:53Carmen Lezeth: That was Teresa would always call me carmenchu and then she would carmen.
- 10:56Carmen Lezeth: Cynthia, your face call her now.
- 10:56Carmen Lezeth: I swear to god and then she would be like that's what my mother used to call you.
- 10:59Carmen Lezeth: I'm like you know what.
- 11:00Carmen Lezeth: There are some things you can lie to me about my mother, but that's's not going to be one of them, because I don't remember much.
- 11:07Carmen Lezeth: And then, the more I hated it, the more she would call me it.
- 11:11Carmen Lezeth: What was your nickname?
- 11:12Carmen Lezeth: Cynthia?
- 11:14Cynthia Ruiz: I didn't really have one, are you sure?
- 11:17Cynthia Ruiz: My mom used to just call me little angel, but that was it.
- 11:23Rick Costa: Okay, little angel, little did she know ricardo no, no, no, cindy, nothing no cindy, she's latina mom, said anybody.
- 11:36Cynthia Ruiz: He didn't say only family it's funny because, like now, people are starting to call me cindy or sin.
- 11:42Carmen Lezeth: no, You're letting them call you Cindy, oh yeah my friends and stuff I had a problem with.
- 11:49Rick Costa: Sin.
- 11:49Rick Costa: I'm like don't call me Sin, I ain't a Sin, I like Sin my friends call me Carm, my friend friends call me Carm, but not you guys.
- 11:59Carmen Lezeth: But oh wow, sin is cool.
- 12:03Carmen Lezeth: Not like Sin, like S-I-N, it's C-Y-N.
- 12:07Carmen Lezeth: Why do you have to go to the negative?
- 12:10Carmen Lezeth: I'm just joking, okay, I'm just saying religious people.
- 12:14Carmen Lezeth: But be negative, cynthia.
- 12:18Carmen Lezeth: Let's give you a nickname.
- 12:19Carmen Lezeth: Rick, what was your nickname?
- 12:23Carmen Lezeth: You really?
- 12:25Rick Costa: call me Rick, ricky, only Ricardo files in trouble.
- 12:29Carmen Lezeth: Ricardo Rickster.
- 12:31Carmen Lezeth: Nah, nobody said that I'm going to call you Rickster, my Rickster.
- 12:38Rick Costa: Whatever floats your boat.
- 12:39Carmen Lezeth: He's like whatever bitch the Rickster the Rickster, that sounds like a Friends thing, right?
- 12:46Carmen Lezeth: If you have the show the Friends or whatever bitch the Rickster the Rickster, that sounds like a Friends thing, right.
- 12:47Carmen Lezeth: If you have the show the Friends or whatever, oh yeah.
- 12:50Rick Costa: I did have one guy that would once in a while call me that.
- 12:52Rick Costa: Now I didn't think about it, yeah.
- 12:53Carmen Lezeth: I have to take that away from me.
- 12:54Carmen Lezeth: I thought it was my original.
- 12:56Carmen Lezeth: You see how you just did that.
- 12:57Carmen Lezeth: I thought it was mine.
- 12:59Rick Costa: Because I just remembered hey, Victor, I'm like huh, oh me what?
- 13:02Carmen Lezeth: No, it's over, it's over.
- 13:04Carmen Lezeth: Okay, what did I send as a note?
- 13:07Carmen Lezeth: Oh manners, let me tell you what happened.
- 13:09Carmen Lezeth: Let me tell you what happened.
- 13:10Charlie Mattera: I want to ask you what happened was.
- 13:12Carmen Lezeth: You already know what happened, right?
- 13:14Carmen Lezeth: Do you know what happened I?
- 13:15Rick Costa: think so.
- 13:16Rick Costa: Yeah, I heard about it yeah, I'm so mad.
- 13:19Carmen Lezeth: Okay, so this is what happened today.
- 13:21Carmen Lezeth: This is what happened today and it just you know what it's just building.
- 13:23Carmen Lezeth: I don't know what is wrong with people.
- 13:26Carmen Lezeth: Stop being mean, I don't understand.
- 13:30Carmen Lezeth: Okay, so this young man the only reason why I know who he is is because my nieces, my godchildren they're not my nieces, but my godchildren used to love One Direction.
- 13:39Carmen Lezeth: So that young man, who's part of the Harry Styles group, one Direction, died.
- 13:45Carmen Lezeth: He fell out of a window of a hotel and there may or may not have been other circumstances.
- 13:52Carmen Lezeth: We don't know yet because they don't have official autopsy.
- 13:56Carmen Lezeth: It doesn't matter.
- 13:57Carmen Lezeth: A young man who is 31 years old plummeted to his death from a fucking window fall.
- 14:04Carmen Lezeth: So I'm reading an article article, I forget where it was hollywood report or whatever and then I go to the comment section and there are people writing jokes and nasty isms and saying he deserved it not all of them, but a lot of them, like it was probably even.
- 14:24Carmen Lezeth: And then people trying to slam down the people and I'm like what is wrong with us in this world today?
- 14:33Carmen Lezeth: Yes, yes, leo, what's his last name?
- 14:36Carmen Lezeth: I forgot, I wrote it on my Facebook page.
- 14:45Carmen Lezeth: But what is wrong with us.
- 14:46Carmen Lezeth: And here's my thing, and this is the post I put on my facebook page.
- 14:48Carmen Lezeth: I think we need to normalize.
- 14:50Carmen Lezeth: If you can't say something to someone's face, don't motherfucking write it in a goddamn comment.
- 14:55Carmen Lezeth: You stupid, stupid, weak human being behind a keyboard.
- 15:01Carmen Lezeth: I'm sorry it got me.
- 15:03Carmen Lezeth: I, we cannot be those people.
- 15:06Cynthia Ruiz: People are not right in their brain.
- 15:08Cynthia Ruiz: Man.
- 15:11Carmen Lezeth: It's just how we talk to each other.
- 15:13Carmen Lezeth: Of course I'm sitting here screaming or whatever, but I'm just, I'm really looking at, I am one of those people that always believes in the best of people and I just, you know, like the hurricanes that just happened or whatever, that used to be a time when we came together and we'd be like it doesn't matter, we're going to help our neighbor, we're going to do this, whatever, and instead we're vile to each other.
- 15:34Carmen Lezeth: Everything has to be about politics and you know, that's all these conspiracy theories.
- 15:39Carmen Lezeth: It's keyboard warriors.
- 15:42Carmen Lezeth: Thank you, melanie, that's the wording I was looking for and I said keyboard cowards is what I said, because it's just seriously if you can't say to someone's face and look at, 90% of people ain't going to say to nobody's face.
- 15:58Carmen Lezeth: That's why I get called out for being bold or whatever, because I will say whatever I need to say to your face, or I ain't gonna say nothing at all, or I keep my mouth shut plus 99.9 of the people are strangers.
- 16:13Rick Costa: They don't know him thank you, that's a great point why do you have anything to say except thoughts and prayers?
- 16:21Carmen Lezeth: it's just a cruelty and i't know.
- 16:24Carmen Lezeth: I was reading the comments and then I was like, okay, it's just one article, whatever.
- 16:28Carmen Lezeth: And then I was reading another article and the same thing and I'm like what is wrong with us?
- 16:33Carmen Lezeth: So I was wondering where you guys might have.
- 16:36Carmen Lezeth: I was thinking about like when I learned manners and etiquette and tact.
- 16:42Carmen Lezeth: I think we've lost that.
- 16:44Carmen Lezeth: I learned that when I was a little kid.
- 16:46Carmen Lezeth: I learned that from my mother.
- 16:48Carmen Lezeth: I learned it from the elders.
- 16:50Carmen Lezeth: You did not.
- 16:51Carmen Lezeth: You.
- 16:51Carmen Lezeth: You would never disrespect someone like this.
- 16:54Carmen Lezeth: You would never do that.
- 16:55Carmen Lezeth: Death is death so unimportant to us that we can't be better humans during I don't know.
- 17:02Rick Costa: I don't know.
- 17:02Rick Costa: Why is it so easy?
- 17:04Rick Costa: Just because he's a famous person, you get a pass.
- 17:06Rick Costa: No, you don't get a pass right, like they wouldn't do that for some.
- 17:10Rick Costa: Why don't they go on everybody's obituaries and write all that?
- 17:13Rick Costa: They don't do that, but because he's a famous person, I got something to say.
- 17:16Rick Costa: You don't even know him.
- 17:17Carmen Lezeth: Shut up yeah, or they wouldn't say.
- 17:19Carmen Lezeth: If it was someone they knew personally, they'd be throwing up their gofundme pages and their obituaries.
- 17:24Carmen Lezeth: I'm serious, you know?
- 17:26Carmen Lezeth: Please help.
- 17:27Carmen Lezeth: And here's the memorial service.
- 17:29Carmen Lezeth: Oh, I was so mad and it's always someone because I started when I went to look at the other article, I would start looking.
- 17:35Carmen Lezeth: I wanted to go look at their profiles.
- 17:37Carmen Lezeth: It's always somebody who ain't got and I'm not saying always yep and got no followers and got no information.
- 17:44Carmen Lezeth: You, you know what I mean.
- 17:45Cynthia Ruiz: It's like these weird people who are just they're loners, they're bullies or they're just mentally ill.
- 17:51Cynthia Ruiz: Yeah, they're just crazy.
- 17:55Rick Costa: Yeah, they hide their identities, for sure.
- 17:58Carmen Lezeth: I know, but why would you?
- 17:59Carmen Lezeth: Okay, but okay, okay, do you?
- 18:01Carmen Lezeth: I'm asking an honest question.
- 18:03Carmen Lezeth: I am not trying to be Miss Goody, two Shoes at all.
- 18:07Carmen Lezeth: I am asking a question.
- 18:08Carmen Lezeth: Do you ever wake up?
- 18:09Carmen Lezeth: You're like, ooh, I feel like being cruel today.
- 18:13Carmen Lezeth: Let me go on my pretend profile.
- 18:16Carmen Lezeth: Where does that come from?
- 18:21Rick Costa: I don't know Some messed up people in the world, and that's why mental health is such a crazy issue now.
- 18:27Carmen Lezeth: Okay, but are we using mental health as an excuse for just fucking bad behavior all the time?
- 18:31Carmen Lezeth: That's the other thing.
- 18:32Carmen Lezeth: I'm tired of that.
- 18:33Carmen Lezeth: Not to you, rick, I'm just saying that's the next thing.
- 18:36Carmen Lezeth: Right, there's a gun shooting.
- 18:38Carmen Lezeth: It's mental health.
- 18:39Carmen Lezeth: You know what it's bad behavior.
- 18:42Carmen Lezeth: Stop making everything about mental health.
- 18:45Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 18:46Carmen Lezeth: You got angry, you grabbed a gun.
- 18:49Carmen Lezeth: You chose to hurt somebody instead of using your words to have a conversation.
- 18:54Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 18:57Carmen Lezeth: People get mad at me all the time.
- 18:59Carmen Lezeth: They say I'm too bold, I'm too direct, whatever.
- 19:01Carmen Lezeth: We all know the negatives that I get.
- 19:03Carmen Lezeth: It's fine, but you know what.
- 19:04Carmen Lezeth: You know for sure.
- 19:05Carmen Lezeth: I'm going to talk to you or I'm going to I'm too direct, whatever.
- 19:05Carmen Lezeth: We all know the negatives that I get.
- 19:05Carmen Lezeth: It's fine, but you know what.
- 19:06Carmen Lezeth: You know for sure.
- 19:06Carmen Lezeth: I'm going to talk to you or I'm going to tell you where I stand and then I'm going to walk away.
- 19:10Carmen Lezeth: I'm not going to go pull out a gun or go right under my private profile.
- 19:16Carmen Lezeth: You are evil, I hate you.
- 19:19Carmen Lezeth: I hope you die well or whatever.
- 19:22Carmen Lezeth: These things were horrible.
- 19:23Carmen Lezeth: And the jokes I don't know why that threw me more.
- 19:28Carmen Lezeth: I'm not going to repeat the jokes, but you would understand why they were so cruel.
- 19:36Cynthia Ruiz: Just the fact that anybody would say a joke after somebody just died is bad.
- 19:39Cynthia Ruiz: It doesn't even matter what the joke is.
- 19:46Rick Costa: It's just bad in general.
- 19:48Carmen Lezeth: I don't understand it do you think it's because of social media?
- 19:52Carmen Lezeth: See, I think we're also using social media as an excuse, because I wonder if people, if we didn't have social media, let's say, technology was different and it went a different avenue.
- 20:02Carmen Lezeth: I I don't know what that would be, but let's just, you know, think about it, right?
- 20:06Carmen Lezeth: I think as society grows and gets better, there's also the part of us, the evil part, the bad part, that also gets worse.
- 20:17Carmen Lezeth: I don't know if we're using technology now as the excuse.
- 20:24Rick Costa: I think if everybody had to, it was mandatory that you couldn't use any kind of a social media without actual identification.
- 20:32Rick Costa: You couldn't make a fake account.
- 20:33Rick Costa: That would be a game changer, Because again, I can go back and oh, I saw what you said, but when you make a fake name you have no profile.
- 20:41Rick Costa: What am I going to do?
- 20:42Rick Costa: Yell at nobody because they're not going to respond.
- 20:51Carmen Lezeth: Okay, so I own the website globalverificationorg.
- 20:53Carmen Lezeth: A long time ago not a long time ago, it was like 10 years ago I pitched this idea when I was at JP Morgan to this guy.
- 20:57Carmen Lezeth: I said you know, I really think there needs to be.
- 20:59Carmen Lezeth: It's just what you just said, rick.
- 21:00Carmen Lezeth: There needs to be a way in which, like we have passports, there needs to be a way in which you can have a verification of your one name and it's verified everywhere.
- 21:12Carmen Lezeth: It was during the height, when Twitter was Twitter and Twitter was verifying celebrities or government officials or whatever.
- 21:19Carmen Lezeth: And because of the people I worked for, I would get verifications for them, right, you'd go to their agents or managers and they would take care of it, whatever.
- 21:26Carmen Lezeth: And it got me thinking like, don't you want to know if I'm a legit person?
- 21:29Carmen Lezeth: It doesn't matter whether I'm a celebrity or not.
- 21:31Carmen Lezeth: So I bought globalverificationorg as a nonprofit because I wanted to put together a package, whatever.
- 21:37Carmen Lezeth: And it fell through because the person I spoke to wasn't that high end and we didn't anyway.
- 21:41Carmen Lezeth: It was just an idea, but that would be part of it, because then people who don't maybe have a global verification would not be able to comment or, if they did, you would dismiss it because you're like they're not a verified account.
- 21:55Carmen Lezeth: I, I thought about that 10 years ago.
- 21:57Carmen Lezeth: I'm not even lying.
- 21:58Carmen Lezeth: I own that name, by the way, I still own it.
- 22:01Carmen Lezeth: I pay it every year because I'm like you never know, you never know like I was doing a whole quarry check for social media.
- 22:08Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, I mean it would be like a passport, but it would be really hard to implement because you'd have to have every country do it.
- 22:13Carmen Lezeth: You'd have to, you know.
- 22:14Carmen Lezeth: But look at, no one ever thought the internet would be the thing.
- 22:17Carmen Lezeth: No one would ever thought email would?
- 22:19Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean?
- 22:20Carmen Lezeth: Like you have to have big dreams and thoughts or whatever, and I think, using the technology with Bitcoin, right, what is the technology that- Blockchain Blockchain.
- 22:32Carmen Lezeth: That's how I started learning about that.
- 22:34Carmen Lezeth: That would actually be a possibility, Anyways, maybe somebody smarter than I.
- 22:37Carmen Lezeth: I actually reached out also to Mark Cuban at one point and was like it's just an idea, Somebody should do this, because we're going to find ourselves in a situation and I do think that's where we're going where at some point, you're only going to pay attention to legitimately verified people that you know and just dismiss.
- 22:56Carmen Lezeth: I really got all up in a tizzy about this today.
- 23:01Cynthia Ruiz: Yeah.
- 23:02Carmen Lezeth: It just hurt my heart about humanity.
- 23:04Carmen Lezeth: I know that sounds dorky, but I swear there are very few times on the planet that I lose faith in humanity.
- 23:13Rick Costa: Yeah, don't know how they get that way.
- 23:15Rick Costa: I really don't.
- 23:18Carmen Lezeth: Where did you learn right from wrong manners?
- 23:23Carmen Lezeth: Do you remember I know Cynthia's going to say school?
- 23:28Cynthia Ruiz: From my mother.
- 23:29Cynthia Ruiz: Yeah, I was told you know, speak what's spoken to and don't.
- 23:37Cynthia Ruiz: You know, don't interrupt when adults are talking.
- 23:40Cynthia Ruiz: You say please and thank you all the time.
- 23:43Cynthia Ruiz: She would just give me the look and I would know, okay, just sit there and be quiet, like yeah.
- 23:50Carmen Lezeth: So it started from young way back, when it's a very cultural thing too like I would never talk back to an elder.
- 23:58Carmen Lezeth: Even today, I'm shook when it begins talking back to their mothers in the grocery store and the mothers are like honey, I hear you, I'm like you hear her, we all heard her.
- 24:13Carmen Lezeth: Stop that bitch.
- 24:15Carmen Lezeth: No, I'm just kidding.
- 24:16Carmen Lezeth: Like, make her hear you.
- 24:19Carmen Lezeth: Why are you negotiating?
- 24:20Carmen Lezeth: I do not believe in hitting kids.
- 24:21Carmen Lezeth: Negotiating.
- 24:21Carmen Lezeth: I'm not an advocate.
- 24:22Carmen Lezeth: I do not believe in hitting kids.
- 24:23Carmen Lezeth: I'm just metaphorically speaking, but it is shocking to me negotiating with a three-year-old or a four-year-old.
- 24:31Rick Costa: That's crazy.
- 24:32Rick Costa: That is crazy and that's why I was so horrified when it was a few years back, where teenagers little gangs maybe would go around punching old people, knocking them out, and it was a game.
- 24:43Rick Costa: I'm like, are you kidding me?
- 24:45Rick Costa: Like I couldn't believe it.
- 24:47Carmen Lezeth: It was like homeless people too right, they were doing it to homeless people.
- 24:49Carmen Lezeth: I remember that, yeah, I would even say like that.
- 24:57Carmen Lezeth: So that is also part of it is to me there's also another level there that we don't all of us not us, but all of us as a group don't think homeless people are valued anyway.
- 25:06Carmen Lezeth: So it doesn't surprise me that teenagers or whatever would think that'd be a funny, cool game or whatever.
- 25:13Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 25:14Carmen Lezeth: Or old people.
- 25:15Carmen Lezeth: We don't revere elders.
- 25:17Carmen Lezeth: In this culture called America I'm sorry, Latinos do.
- 25:22Carmen Lezeth: I'm sure in Portugal they do there's a very different culture where elders are revered.
- 25:29Carmen Lezeth: I don't know if it's still true today, but I'm certainly not feeling it.
- 25:33Carmen Lezeth: As I'm becoming an elder, I feel I need more motherfucking respect bitches.
- 25:37Carmen Lezeth: No, I'm just kidding.
- 25:39Cynthia Ruiz: I mean, even today, if I'm out with the kids and Gray, my grandson, and if the grownups are talking and Gray will try to chime in or whatever, we'll tell him nope, adults are talking, not for kids.
- 25:55Cynthia Ruiz: And sometimes he'll still chime in and he'll get popped in the mouth and he'll.
- 26:00Carmen Lezeth: It was like wait, you popped in the mouth, you don't mean a little like a tap in the mouth okay, yeah yeah, no stop.
- 26:10Carmen Lezeth: So okay, gray is four.
- 26:12Carmen Lezeth: Six, oh my god six.
- 26:15Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, all right, totally good with it.
- 26:17Carmen Lezeth: Sorry, whatever, yeah, so he'll get like a little pop in the mouth or whatever.
- 26:18Carmen Lezeth: And then, yeah, six, oh my God Six.
- 26:19Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, all right, totally good with it.
- 26:19Carmen Lezeth: Sorry, whatever, yeah, so he'll get like a little pop in the mouth or whatever, and then yeah.
- 26:23Cynthia Ruiz: And then he'll stop and he knows.
- 26:25Cynthia Ruiz: So we're still keeping the tradition going Like the tradition, no respect.
- 26:30Carmen Lezeth: But even I think we talked about this too, like in school.
- 26:33Carmen Lezeth: We talked about this before.
- 26:34Carmen Lezeth: If I got in trouble with one of the nuns because I went to Catholic school for 12 years, shoot me now.
- 26:39Carmen Lezeth: And they called your mother.
- 26:41Carmen Lezeth: It's not like you thought yeah, my mother's going to come and she's going to argue for me and she's going to get me out of here, whatever.
- 26:47Cynthia Ruiz: No, no, no, no no.
- 26:50Carmen Lezeth: We got in trouble.
- 26:51Carmen Lezeth: They always sided with the stupid nuns.
- 26:54Carmen Lezeth: Sorry for all the nuns out there that might be.
- 26:58Rick Costa: Just the mean ones, just the mean ones.
- 27:01Carmen Lezeth: We had sisters of charity, man, I think that mattered, because they were mean.
- 27:06Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, blessed Sacrament.
- 27:08Carmen Lezeth: You went to Blessed Sacrament, cynthia, right?
- 27:10Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, they were sisters of charity, which means they had no money and they were supposed to like it.
- 27:15Carmen Lezeth: They were angry.
- 27:18Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, that was a different time, but I just I don't even know how to.
- 27:24Carmen Lezeth: I don't know if we can fix it, but I think if we don't value people's lives while they're alive, why do we care when they die?
- 27:34Rick Costa: What's the expression?
- 27:35Rick Costa: Give them the flowers while they're still alive.
- 27:37Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, but it's weird, right?
- 27:40Carmen Lezeth: I don't know this.
- 27:41Carmen Lezeth: I couldn't remember his name.
- 27:43Carmen Lezeth: I know I posted it on my thing, but whatever his name was the guy from One Direction, liam Liam.
- 27:48Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, I just was heartbroken, it was just a sad story, that's it Sad story.
- 27:55Carmen Lezeth: And I knew my godchildren would be upset because they used to follow him or whatever, and I was like, oh, that's so sad, and whatever happened doesn't matter if it was his fault or somebody else's, it's just in that moment, that's all you know, and it's a sadness, oh, and you would think him being so young would kick in more compassion because, oh my gosh, he barely lived, you know.
- 28:16Cynthia Ruiz: And how he died.
- 28:17Cynthia Ruiz: You hear stories of little toddlers falling out the windows on accidents and stuff like that.
- 28:23Cynthia Ruiz: It's the same thing.
- 28:24Cynthia Ruiz: It's still a human being.
- 28:25Cynthia Ruiz: It doesn't matter what age you are.
- 28:27Cynthia Ruiz: It's still sad.
- 28:28Cynthia Ruiz: Someone fell out a window or balcony or whatever and died, fell to their death.
- 28:34Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, I think people like to be angry and like to be angry and upset and sad and like to pretend that they're being bold and making a powerful statement.
- 28:46Carmen Lezeth: You know, there was a guy on TikTok.
- 28:49Carmen Lezeth: So somebody wrote something on TikTok about Prince, about some lawsuit that's going on, about a documentary that's not going to come out and it's sad and blah, blah, blah.
- 28:59Carmen Lezeth: And they started off the Tik TOK by saying for a petty reason.
- 29:05Carmen Lezeth: So after I heard the whole Tik TOK, it was like 10 minutes on.
- 29:08Carmen Lezeth: Whatever, I was right, this is not petty, okay.
- 29:11Carmen Lezeth: So of course I get all these notifications and somebody wrote this long thing Like you don't understand who Prince was, and blah, blah, blah, trying to explain to me that this was, for they misunderstood and I miswrote, and so when they wrote their whole thing from this place, of all I wrote was this is not petty.
- 29:34Carmen Lezeth: That's all I wrote.
- 29:35Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 29:36Carmen Lezeth: You could have taken it either way, but they went on their tangent and then I responded I said no, no, no, no, I'm like the biggest Prince fan.
- 29:45Carmen Lezeth: I'm saying this entire thing is a big deal.
- 29:49Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 29:50Carmen Lezeth: My and I wrote my apologies for my mistake and then they responded oh, I misunderstood.
- 29:55Carmen Lezeth: I was like okay, see, okay good okay took a little work, like everybody, bring it down a motherfucking notch, but it's because we think the worst in people.
- 30:06Carmen Lezeth: We do not think the best in people.
- 30:08Carmen Lezeth: Now, I could have written something more so, but it wasn't a thought in my head.
- 30:14Carmen Lezeth: I was just trying to be like quick and pithy and using the person's first sentence as a comment in the opposite way.
- 30:22Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 30:23Carmen Lezeth: But we just are always ready.
- 30:26Carmen Lezeth: You know this one.
- 30:28Carmen Lezeth: You drive in, you do the same thing.
- 30:29Carmen Lezeth: Somebody cuts you Right, not like oh my God, their mother probably died and they're rushing, oh my God.
- 30:38Rick Costa: Or it could be anything yeah.
- 30:39Carmen Lezeth: It could be anything, but our first thing is like I do it, I am not a.
- 30:45Carmen Lezeth: That's where you would find.
- 30:46Carmen Lezeth: If somebody put a camera in my car, a whole image would be destroyed.
- 30:52Carmen Lezeth: Let me just say that.
- 30:53Cynthia Ruiz: It's so funny.
- 30:54Cynthia Ruiz: The other day I read a meme and it's like a husband and wife talking on the phone and the wife is driving and the husband says oh, how was your day?
- 31:05Cynthia Ruiz: So she's oh, it was okay.
- 31:06Cynthia Ruiz: And then it goes and she's driving.
- 31:10Cynthia Ruiz: She's yelling yeah, it was okay, it was an okay day.
- 31:14Cynthia Ruiz: She just goes back to normal.
- 31:15Cynthia Ruiz: The very next day the same thing happened between me and juan.
- 31:21Cynthia Ruiz: He called me while I was driving.
- 31:23Cynthia Ruiz: He's like oh, it's your day, I'm like it was okay I have caught myself too many times.
- 31:38Carmen Lezeth: That is too funny.
- 31:39Rick Costa: Wait, Richard, you said something before and I Well, that story reminded me when my son, my son would drive with me.
- 31:45Rick Costa: He'd be in the back whenever when he was little.
- 31:47Rick Costa: And you know we all get mad because people do stupid things when they drive.
- 31:50Rick Costa: And every once in a while I'd be like, dad, you got anger issues.
- 31:55Rick Costa: They can't even hear you.
- 31:56Rick Costa: Why are you yelling at them?
- 31:57Rick Costa: They can't hear you.
- 31:58Rick Costa: I'm like, let me be mad.
- 31:59Rick Costa: But I was going to say about misunderstanding stuff.
- 32:02Rick Costa: You text years and years ago, somebody, I guess, drew something and it was really cool.
- 32:07Rick Costa: I thought it was amazing and I and I wrote, oh, that's really nice.
- 32:14Rick Costa: And I see, see, see, n-i-c-c-c-e-e-e exclamation, exclamation, exclamation.
- 32:16Rick Costa: Yeah, nice.
- 32:18Carmen Lezeth: Nice.
- 32:19Rick Costa: They get all upset.
- 32:20Rick Costa: Nice, that's all I have to say.
- 32:22Rick Costa: With all that work, nice, I'm like no read it how I wrote it Nice, Like they didn't get it.
- 32:29Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, no, oh, that's yeah, that's too bad.
- 32:31Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, and why would they?
- 32:43Carmen Lezeth: For somebody to say something I did was nice, that'd be good enough, somebody taking the time, but yeah, we're, yeah, the whole car thing.
- 32:46Carmen Lezeth: I have to say I try to stop myself because I have said some things that Eva's shocked to be in the car by myself.
- 32:49Carmen Lezeth: I have said some things.
- 32:52Carmen Lezeth: I'm not going to admit it now, but I have said some things and I get ashamed of myself because I'm like what is wrong with me?
- 32:59Carmen Lezeth: Like it's just a person I didn't mean, especially if you're driving a really expensive car.
- 33:05Carmen Lezeth: I almost one time I think I told you this before, cynthia, I almost I was.
- 33:10Carmen Lezeth: I am so sick and tired of anybody who has a Tesla, a Mercedes and out any car that's like over a hundred thousand dollars, mercedes and out any car that's like over a hundred thousand dollars.
- 33:17Carmen Lezeth: I don't know.
- 33:19Carmen Lezeth: Do they not come with directionals or blinkers?
- 33:22Carmen Lezeth: Do you not?
- 33:23Carmen Lezeth: Do you have to buy those separately or something?
- 33:26Carmen Lezeth: Because why can you not let me know where the fuck you're going?
- 33:33Carmen Lezeth: It is the biggest pet peeve I have, and one time I almost pulled up to this stupid, motherfucking Bentley and that's the car I want next is a Bentley.
- 33:43Carmen Lezeth: I do, everybody knows that but I almost, and I almost did my little with the to the passenger side Because I was going to be like, do you not have a fucking blinker?
- 33:56Carmen Lezeth: But I did it because I caught myself.
- 33:58Carmen Lezeth: I was so angry because here's the thing hit me, rich person hit me because my car is so old and I'm gonna be like, oh, I'm watching those 9-1-1.
- 34:09Cynthia Ruiz: I'm gonna be like that woman who's always doing always me go ahead.
- 34:19Carmen Lezeth: You're gonna have to pay.
- 34:22Rick Costa: That sounds there's these portuguese guys.
- 34:26Rick Costa: They media comedy stuff, but it's like from.
- 34:29Rick Costa: They're american but their parents and everybody were portuguese, so they talk like them, with an accent, and so they do all kinds of skits and for us it's like super hysterical.
- 34:38Rick Costa: But they're like there's one where a guy is driving and it's constantly people ticking them off and one of them, I remember, was like hey, use your blinker, use your blinker.
- 34:49Carmen Lezeth: I think blinker is an East Coast thing Probably.
- 34:53Carmen Lezeth: Because no one knows what that is out here.
- 34:55Carmen Lezeth: Out here they say directional.
- 34:56Carmen Lezeth: I'm like, I don't give a fuck what you call it, use it Turn signal, whatever it is.
- 35:03Carmen Lezeth: I swear they don't put them on the very expensive cars unless you actually ask for them, because that would be the only reason why If I had a Bentley, which is the car I want next.
- 35:12Carmen Lezeth: I keep saying that because visualizing If you visualize it, they're laughing Like.
- 35:17Carmen Lezeth: I feel like if people get like really like they get like an attitude or something, they don't seem to think that people behind you don't need to know where you're going.
- 35:24Cynthia Ruiz: Think about it the Tesla's driving themselves, so they're just like, oh, I have the whole road.
- 35:29Cynthia Ruiz: It doesn't even know how to use the blinker.
- 35:32Carmen Lezeth: Let me tell you, tesla's especially, I don't know.
- 35:34Carmen Lezeth: Okay, so we've had Teslas out here for a long time, but you could just throw a rock Everybody has a Tesla on everybody but now they have those ugly.
- 35:42Carmen Lezeth: Have you seen the ugly Teslas?
- 35:44Carmen Lezeth: I don't know what that is.
- 35:45Carmen Lezeth: Is that what it is?
- 35:46Carmen Lezeth: They all have those here and I'm like seriously.
- 35:49Carmen Lezeth: You're such a loser because you don't need this thing and it's ugly, it's all shaded.
- 35:57Carmen Lezeth: I'm like you people, crazy, it's crazy.
- 35:59Rick Costa: You want the latest toy.
- 36:00Rick Costa: You know what almost ticks me off.
- 36:02Rick Costa: Worse too, it's like a pet peeve about the blinker turn signal whatever you want to call it.
- 36:08Rick Costa: They're driving, they're turning, and after they're already turning, then they turn it on.
- 36:14Rick Costa: I'm like, I already know you're turning.
- 36:17Rick Costa: What are you turning it on now for?
- 36:18Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, I, sometimes I'll try to give them a for effort, cause I'm like, okay, at least you tried, at least you tried I give you some, cause there was a thought process.
- 36:31Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean?
- 36:32Carmen Lezeth: I think the worst is when people just cut you off.
- 36:36Carmen Lezeth: I think that's the worst when people cut you off, and I am one of those people.
- 36:41Carmen Lezeth: If you're coming in and there's like a lot of traffic and you speed by, everybody else is in line and you speed by.
- 36:47Carmen Lezeth: I'm going to get up so close to the other car you are not getting into my space.
- 36:52Carmen Lezeth: I don't care what's going to happen, because you did not wait your turn and now you are creating more traffic and I'm mean about it.
- 37:00Carmen Lezeth: I'm like whatever, whatever, whatever.
- 37:05Cynthia Ruiz: Yeah.
- 37:06Rick Costa: I remember one time I was driving and it was almost to a light and it was two lanes and this giant white truck decided he wanted to come in my lane and you were about to get on top of me.
- 37:19Rick Costa: I had to literally go over the sidewalk on the grass and there's poles every so often on the sidewalk.
- 37:27Cynthia Ruiz: Why didn't you let?
- 37:28Rick Costa: the truck go.
- 37:28Rick Costa: I am so lucky.
- 37:29Rick Costa: No, no, no, he didn't see me apparently.
- 37:31Rick Costa: I'm here and he's just like hello, what are you doing?
- 37:36Rick Costa: He would have hit me.
- 37:37Rick Costa: I had to literally go over onto the sidewalk.
- 37:39Cynthia Ruiz: I would have been on my horn.
- 37:42Rick Costa: He didn't even hear that.
- 37:43Rick Costa: Of course, I'm nothing.
- 37:44Rick Costa: I'm like are you serious?
- 37:47Carmen Lezeth: Okay, melanie just said I'd rather drive an AMC Pacer than one of those ugly trucks.
- 37:52Carmen Lezeth: I don't even know what an AMC Pacer is, but I'm with you Sounds ugly.
- 38:06Carmen Lezeth: I don't drive a lot People.
- 38:08Carmen Lezeth: Melanie said it's an ugly car from the 1980s.
- 38:11Carmen Lezeth: Okay, I'm laughing because they think I don't care if it's an ugly car.
- 38:16Carmen Lezeth: I just think people out here in los angeles, melanie, which you can imagine I love my town, but I will say this every time there's a new anything, everybody has to buy it, even if they don't need it.
- 38:25Carmen Lezeth: And those cars they're not only ugly, they're big and boxy and they don't fit in the right lane and they just feel, I don't know, useless.
- 38:35Carmen Lezeth: But we do have driverless cars.
- 38:36Carmen Lezeth: They're not teslas, but we I don't know if you guys have them in your area all the driverless cars.
- 38:41Carmen Lezeth: Do you have them yet?
- 38:41Carmen Lezeth: I actually was against them.
- 38:44Carmen Lezeth: But you know what?
- 38:45Carmen Lezeth: I don't know if I'll get in one, I will eventually.
- 38:47Carmen Lezeth: But here's the thing that's cool they really do follow the direct, they use their blinkers, okay, but they drive normal, like if everybody drove.
- 39:02Carmen Lezeth: Look at, we all think we're great drivers, right, let's just admit it.
- 39:04Carmen Lezeth: We all think we're the better drivers we do.
- 39:06Carmen Lezeth: I know when I mess up and I will be like I'm sorry, I'll be like sorry, I'll put my hand out, whatever.
- 39:13Carmen Lezeth: You know, people don't care, they mad, they mad, but I try to be like I'm sorry, whatever, but we all think we're the best drivers and I think that's the problem.
- 39:20Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 39:22Carmen Lezeth: So the driverless cars are all automated, so they all really work perfectly.
- 39:28Carmen Lezeth: They can sense when people are around.
- 39:30Carmen Lezeth: They stop they.
- 39:31Carmen Lezeth: You know, do you guys have the delivery services that are the little carts that go on the sidewalk?
- 39:37Carmen Lezeth: They're remote, they're like there's no people If you order food, those are the cutest things.
- 39:46Carmen Lezeth: They're called Coco and they're like you'll just be walking around or whatever, and you'll see this little thing with a long.
- 39:51Carmen Lezeth: You know those bike flags?
- 39:52Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, so it's a little cart with four wheels and it just moves along and then it sees you and it stops and then it moves around you and it goes to wherever it's going.
- 40:02Carmen Lezeth: Then you have a code and you take your food out, but it's just, they're all over the place here.
- 40:06Carmen Lezeth: Carol said, on the Tesla you don't have to press the brakes.
- 40:09Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, I'm not a fan of Tesla.
- 40:12Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, they're little robots, I guess is what they're called.
- 40:16Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, they're little robots, I guess is what they're called.
- 40:17Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, they're little but they're cute.
- 40:19Rick Costa: The only robots I've seen here is in the grocery store, these big things that just go up and down the aisles and you know, if you get in front of it they'll stop.
- 40:26Cynthia Ruiz: Oh yeah, I've seen those.
- 40:27Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, mario said the driverless cars out here are Waymo.
- 40:32Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, what is Waymo, though?
- 40:34Carmen Lezeth: Is that Google?
- 40:34Carmen Lezeth: I don those, those google.
- 40:35Carmen Lezeth: I don't know who owns them, but yeah, they're whammo.
- 40:38Carmen Lezeth: I don't know what they are.
- 40:39Carmen Lezeth: They're cool though.
- 40:40Carmen Lezeth: I like them, yeah, and I do the delivery service thing.
- 40:44Carmen Lezeth: They don't use it for everything, but I think that's cool too, because then you don't have to worry about somebody coming to your house or doesn't amazon have, I guess in certain places, drones that will fly and bring you stuff.
- 40:56Rick Costa: I've heard.
- 40:56Carmen Lezeth: Oh my, god, we're getting so close to Star Trek Next Generation.
- 40:59Carmen Lezeth: I'm so excited.
- 41:00Carmen Lezeth: I have not had a drone deliver anything to me yet, but I have seen drones around our building many times.
- 41:09Carmen Lezeth: I don't know why, but it's our building.
- 41:11Carmen Lezeth: I don't know why, but I see drones more often than not nowadays.
- 41:16Carmen Lezeth: Do you guys see them?
- 41:18Rick Costa: Not really.
- 41:19Rick Costa: You're just so progressive, out there we're behind.
- 41:22Carmen Lezeth: I don't know if we're progressive.
- 41:23Carmen Lezeth: They're all up in our business out here.
- 41:25Carmen Lezeth: That's what I'm starting to realize.
- 41:26Carmen Lezeth: I don't know if it's because people have drones themselves.
- 41:31Carmen Lezeth: I don't know if it's like state-sponsored, but people have them as toys out here too.
- 41:37Carmen Lezeth: Oh yeah, oh my God.
- 41:41Carmen Lezeth: State sponsored, but people have them as toys out here too.
- 41:43Carmen Lezeth: Oh yeah, oh my god.
- 41:44Carmen Lezeth: That is so weird.
- 41:44Rick Costa: I'm just excited that we're getting closer to star trek time.
- 41:46Rick Costa: Yeah, jetsons, we thought that was a cartoon oh, the jetsons made I'm from the jetsons remember the maid.
- 41:53Rick Costa: That's what I'm waiting for somebody clean my house for me.
- 41:56Carmen Lezeth: Thank you you don't have to wait for that.
- 41:58Carmen Lezeth: You just got to pay for it.
- 41:59Carmen Lezeth: You want a fucking robot.
- 42:00Carmen Lezeth: You can have a person.
- 42:03Rick Costa: I heard they're trying to come up with that now.
- 42:05Carmen Lezeth: What.
- 42:05Rick Costa: You could have a home robot and you program it and tell it what to do.
- 42:10Carmen Lezeth: What the iRobot, the vacuum thing.
- 42:12Rick Costa: No, no, no, no.
- 42:13Rick Costa: A physical, human looking robot and dishes and cook and everything.
- 42:19Carmen Lezeth: Okay, why would you want that when you can actually have a person do that for you?
- 42:24Rick Costa: Why would people want the ugly Teslas?
- 42:25Rick Costa: I don't know.
- 42:27Carmen Lezeth: Okay, fair point.
- 42:29Rick Costa: I'm just saying yes, give me that.
- 42:33Carmen Lezeth: Oh chance.
- 42:33Carmen Lezeth: Okay, that's going to be weird Now how.
- 42:35Carmen Lezeth: I don't know if it's not going to be in my lifetime.
- 42:42Rick Costa: It's not gonna be in my lifetime, it's not gonna be in our lifetime transport.
- 42:44Carmen Lezeth: I'll be like carmen I'll be there in five minutes, we doing the show live together, right.
- 42:46Carmen Lezeth: That would be cool, though, right, and then you would just go like on stargate sg1, you would go.
- 42:50Carmen Lezeth: Remember when they do the one where it's too I?
- 42:53Carmen Lezeth: I think they did 2010, by the way, I don't think they went that far in the future.
- 42:58Carmen Lezeth: I think the name of the episode is 2010.
- 43:01Carmen Lezeth: It's so weird, but they go and you just stand there and then it beams you through the Stargate and it brings you to the other thing, like within five minutes.
- 43:09Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, but there was an evil part of those people that gave them that technology.
- 43:14Rick Costa: The aliens?
- 43:15Rick Costa: Yeah, I remember that.
- 43:16Carmen Lezeth: The aliens.
- 43:16Carmen Lezeth: They were bad.
- 43:17Carmen Lezeth: They were trying to get rid of the earthlings and they were wiping them out by giving them vitamin injections.
- 43:24Carmen Lezeth: That was actually making them not able to have babies.
- 43:27Carmen Lezeth: So then they were dying out over time.
- 43:31Rick Costa: And so then Colonel O'Neill and the gang I'm just kidding- Listen, if you could talk about firemen, we could talk about Stargate 4.
- 43:39Rick Costa: We could talk about.
- 43:40Carmen Lezeth: Stargate 4.
- 43:41Carmen Lezeth: They get together and they make a decision that they're going to try to go back in time to send themselves a note not to go to that planet to begin with.
- 43:52Carmen Lezeth: Oh, so fascinating.
- 43:53Rick Costa: And doesn't the note barely make it through, or something?
- 43:55Carmen Lezeth: Yeah right, the note barely make it through or something.
- 43:59Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, the note barely makes it through.
- 44:00Carmen Lezeth: Okay, this isn't even Star Trek, this is Stargate SG-1.
- 44:02Carmen Lezeth: We're really bad sci-fi people.
- 44:06Rick Costa: Yeah, but Black.
- 44:07Cynthia Ruiz: Mirror.
- 44:07Cynthia Ruiz: She mentioned that too.
- 44:09Rick Costa: Black Mirror that's pretty cool too.
- 44:11Carmen Lezeth: Wait a minute.
- 44:11Carmen Lezeth: Wait a minute, Cynthia.
- 44:13Carmen Lezeth: You're not into sci-fi, Eh.
- 44:17Rick Costa: I'm not really a.
- 44:18Cynthia Ruiz: Star Trek person.
- 44:19Cynthia Ruiz: I like Star Wars oh.
- 44:23Carmen Lezeth: You like Hayden, then Wow, you like Hayden and you weren't on the show with him.
- 44:28Carmen Lezeth: We were fighting with him.
- 44:29Carmen Lezeth: Okay wait, cynthia.
- 44:32Carmen Lezeth: Okay, wait, I want to be clear about something.
- 44:35Carmen Lezeth: Okay, you like Marvel, though you like fantasy action.
- 44:38Carmen Lezeth: So you like want to be clear about something.
- 44:39Carmen Lezeth: Okay, you like Marvel, though you like fantasy action.
- 44:39Carmen Lezeth: So you like Marvel and DC comics?
- 44:42Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, not DC, I like Marvel.
- 44:44Carmen Lezeth: Okay, but you could sit through.
- 44:46Carmen Lezeth: I mean, we like we can sit through, we do like Superman, we do wonder woman.
- 44:50Cynthia Ruiz: Wonder woman.
- 44:51Carmen Lezeth: Yes, they just have a bad franchise.
- 44:53Carmen Lezeth: They don't do good movies is what it is.
- 44:55Carmen Lezeth: It's not that we don't like the super friends, right, the super friends, yeah, but you don't like.
- 45:01Carmen Lezeth: Okay, you like Star Wars, like you're addicted to.
- 45:06Cynthia Ruiz: Oh, I have the whole collection, you don't like Star Trek.
- 45:10Carmen Lezeth: I don't even understand that.
- 45:11Carmen Lezeth: Wait a minute.
- 45:14Carmen Lezeth: I'm just hearing this for the first time, me too.
- 45:17Cynthia Ruiz: I'm not a big fan of Star Trek, I'll sit there and I'll watch it.
- 45:22Carmen Lezeth: Okay, wait, wait.
- 45:23Carmen Lezeth: Let's be clear.
- 45:24Carmen Lezeth: Star Trek Next Generation oh my God, rick Dick, are you serious?
- 45:38Carmen Lezeth: And you've never watched stargate sg1?
- 45:39Carmen Lezeth: No, and you've never watched battle star galactica?
- 45:41Carmen Lezeth: No, okay, first of all, you probably, she probably would like battle star galactica because it's dark like star wars that's the irony.
- 45:44Carmen Lezeth: And edward james almost is in it.
- 45:45Carmen Lezeth: I can't believe you've never seen bsg.
- 45:46Carmen Lezeth: Okay, first of all, she probably would like Battlestar Galactica because it's dark like Star Wars that's the irony.
- 45:51Carmen Lezeth: And Edward James Olmos is in it.
- 45:53Carmen Lezeth: I can't believe you've never seen BSG.
- 45:55Carmen Lezeth: The cast is, and it's well-written, it's beautifully done.
- 45:59Carmen Lezeth: I just never want to watch it again Because it's too dark.
- 46:03Carmen Lezeth: So really I did not.
- 46:04Rick Costa: That's one of the shows that actually made me like legit boo-hoo cry Really.
- 46:12Rick Costa: Bs actually made me like legit boohoo cry really.
- 46:13Carmen Lezeth: Bsg battle star yeah, when the president, when she was gonna die.
- 46:15Carmen Lezeth: Oh yeah, answer.
- 46:15Carmen Lezeth: Don't get me wrong.
- 46:16Carmen Lezeth: It hurt me like I was sad, but it's not a show.
- 46:18Carmen Lezeth: I never.
- 46:18Carmen Lezeth: I don't need this.
- 46:19Carmen Lezeth: It's like x files.
- 46:20Carmen Lezeth: I loved x files.
- 46:21Carmen Lezeth: I was a fan addicted.
- 46:23Carmen Lezeth: I watched it, but now I can't watch it anymore.
- 46:26Carmen Lezeth: It's too dark, it it's too scary.
- 46:28Carmen Lezeth: You know symptoms like whatever X-Files.
- 46:31Carmen Lezeth: Did you watch X-Files?
- 46:34Cynthia Ruiz: Yeah, I did watch X-Files.
- 46:36Rick Costa: Okay, but I like that kind of stuff Because that's closer to the horror genre.
- 46:40Carmen Lezeth: That's right, yeah.
- 46:41Cynthia Ruiz: Twilight Zone.
- 46:42Cynthia Ruiz: Twilight Zone.
- 46:43Cynthia Ruiz: I watched it here and there as a kid.
- 46:47Rick Costa: Carol mentioned Black Mirror.
- 46:48Rick Costa: Did you watch?
- 46:48Carmen Lezeth: that I don't know what Black Mirror is.
- 46:49Carmen Lezeth: I don't even know what that is.
- 46:50Rick Costa: It's like a scarier Twilight Zone kind of sort of oh.
- 46:55Cynthia Ruiz: Yeah, I've never even heard of it.
- 46:57Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, I'm shook.
- 46:58Carmen Lezeth: Oh, twin Peaks.
- 47:00Carmen Lezeth: Yes, david Duchovny.
- 47:01Carmen Lezeth: That's when I first started liking him and that's why I watched X-Files.
- 47:10Rick Costa: Loved Twin Peaks.
- 47:11Rick Costa: You didn't watch Twin Peaks.
- 47:11Rick Costa: Stranger Things oh yeah, I like Stranger Things.
- 47:12Rick Costa: If it's horror, she's going to like it probably.
- 47:14Carmen Lezeth: Okay, I can't believe.
- 47:15Carmen Lezeth: I've known you for your 40 years on this planet and I'm just learning that this is game changer.
- 47:22Carmen Lezeth: This is game changer.
- 47:23Rick Costa: Yeah, the Star Wars thing.
- 47:24Rick Costa: I'm shook, I didn't know, I'm shook, I thought you were.
- 47:26Carmen Lezeth: I don't mind if she likes Star Wars.
- 47:28Carmen Lezeth: We all like Star Wars, we're not mad at it, but we would never be like Star Wars over Star Trek.
- 47:35Carmen Lezeth: I can't even say the sentence.
- 47:37Rick Costa: It's like At Star Wars it's more fantasy-based.
- 47:48Rick Costa: Star Trek at least tries to be real.
- 47:50Rick Costa: But you can't force choke somebody in Star Trek.
- 47:53Carmen Lezeth: That's not a thing, I don't know how we can get her to switch.
- 47:57Carmen Lezeth: Can we find her?
- 47:58Carmen Lezeth: I don't know.
- 47:59Rick Costa: I think people are just wired to one over the other and there's a few people that like both equally Not many, but most it's one or the other.
- 48:06Carmen Lezeth: I think there are some people who just are not good people.
- 48:13Cynthia Ruiz: Wow have you ever tried to watch Star Trek Next Generation?
- 48:22Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, like I said, I've watched a few episodes, but I'm not going to sit there and binge watch it all.
- 48:29Carmen Lezeth: Okay, charlie, look at me.
- 48:31Rick Costa: I was like okay, help us, charlie, please help us out, charlie.
- 48:35Carmen Lezeth: He says of course, of course, you're a star trek fan.
- 48:39Rick Costa: Yeah, wrath of khan.
- 48:40Carmen Lezeth: Yeah that's old school, that's even I.
- 48:46Rick Costa: Just I wonder if maybe that's what we need to do get her into the movies, get her hooked through the movies but I what we need to do get her into the movies, get her hooked through the movies, but I wasn't looking.
- 48:53Carmen Lezeth: As much as I appreciate the movies, I don't think they're the.
- 48:56Rick Costa: They're not the there's only some that are.
- 48:58Rick Costa: It's every other.
- 48:59Rick Costa: They say it's like a thing, it's this curse of star trek movies, but maybe no not kirk.
- 49:07Carmen Lezeth: Okay, wait, here's the thing.
- 49:08Carmen Lezeth: I think the episode that kelsey grammar's on.
- 49:12Carmen Lezeth: Do you know which one I'm talking about?
- 49:13Carmen Lezeth: Where?
- 49:13Carmen Lezeth: That might be an interesting one for her to watch.
- 49:16Carmen Lezeth: You know what I'm talking about, right that's the time thing.
- 49:20Rick Costa: Had a time to do time.
- 49:22Carmen Lezeth: You see what I said.
- 49:23Carmen Lezeth: Kelsey don't know nothing because maybe she'll watch one episode one.
- 49:27Carmen Lezeth: That's a good one.
- 49:29Carmen Lezeth: The Cayman one is a good one when Picard ends up going anyway with the flute.
- 49:36Charlie Mattera: Oh, that's so good they call him Cayman.
- 49:38Carmen Lezeth: That's why I know that's really good, that's a really good one, something inner light, I think that's the name of the episode.
- 49:44Carmen Lezeth: It's called Inner Light, cynthia.
- 49:47Carmen Lezeth: Listen, I had to watch all of 9-1-1.
- 49:50Carmen Lezeth: I might need you to watch one or two episodes, one or two episodes of Star Trek Next Generation.
- 49:59Carmen Lezeth: Charlie just said the time tunnel with Jimmy Darin.
- 50:03Carmen Lezeth: Oh my God, I don't even know what that is, charlie.
- 50:06Rick Costa: I don't either.
- 50:07Rick Costa: I'm sorry, I don't know what that is either.
- 50:09Carmen Lezeth: Charlie, I don't know what that is.
- 50:10Carmen Lezeth: I feel like I should know.
- 50:12Carmen Lezeth: Let me look it up.
- 50:13Rick Costa: You know, the other one I really liked and stands out to me is the one where they went into some place and nobody could dream except Deanna Troy and she was having nightmares.
- 50:22Rick Costa: And when you don't dream like it's a scientific fact, you will go crazy.
- 50:27Carmen Lezeth: Okay, but the problem with that is she would have to understand who Deanna Troi is, because that affects her differently than it would most people.
- 50:36Carmen Lezeth: Okay, the Time Tunnel is a classic American science fiction TV series that aired from 1966 to 1967.
- 50:45Carmen Lezeth: Okay, charlie, I love you with my heart, but none of us were born then.
- 50:53Carmen Lezeth: It starred James Darren as Dr Tony Newman and Robert Colbert.
- 50:54Carmen Lezeth: I know it's probably Colbert, but you know what's his name?
- 50:56Carmen Lezeth: Stephen Colbert says Colbert as Dr Doug Phillips.
- 51:00Carmen Lezeth: The show was created by Irwin Allen and revolves around two scientists who find themselves trapped in the time stream, experiencing notable periods of history.
- 51:09Carmen Lezeth: Oh, that sounds like the one with Dracula.
- 51:12Carmen Lezeth: What's the name of the show?
- 51:15Rick Costa: Quantum Leap?
- 51:17Carmen Lezeth: Quantum Leap.
- 51:18Carmen Lezeth: Cynthia, did you ever watch Quantum Leap?
- 51:20Cynthia Ruiz: No.
- 51:20Cynthia Ruiz: I actually watched the new one.
- 51:23Carmen Lezeth: No, the new one wasn't good no you got to watch the one with Scott Bakula I remember it, but I never really watched it.
- 51:34Carmen Lezeth: Okay, I'm going to try to find this the time tunnel with Jimmy Darin, because that sounds good too.
- 51:38Carmen Lezeth: Sounds like where maybe Quantum Leap got.
- 51:41Carmen Lezeth: Ah, quantum Leap got the show.
- 51:44Rick Costa: That's what I talk of the most amusing ones to me is when he jumped into a female's body.
- 51:48Rick Costa: Those were always funny.
- 51:49Carmen Lezeth: It was.
- 51:50Carmen Lezeth: But you know what Great acting they did, really great writing, great acting with that.
- 51:53Carmen Lezeth: Do you know what the premise is?
- 51:55Carmen Lezeth: Cynthia Of Quantum Link, she don't care, she ain't going to watch it.
- 51:59Carmen Lezeth: I can feel.
- 52:00Carmen Lezeth: When you were talking about 9-1-1, I felt joy in my heart because I trust you and I was like you know what.
- 52:12Carmen Lezeth: I'm going to trust my cousin and I'm going to watch one episode.
- 52:13Carmen Lezeth: Let me see how it goes.
- 52:14Carmen Lezeth: I was open to it At first.
- 52:15Carmen Lezeth: I don't like cops, I hate cops.
- 52:18Carmen Lezeth: I'm going to say it again I hate cops and it's about first responders.
- 52:21Carmen Lezeth: It's not just about firemen, by the way.
- 52:23Carmen Lezeth: We just like the firemen.
- 52:24Carmen Lezeth: But I was open to it and see, I have now changed.
- 52:28Carmen Lezeth: I'm bringing all my old EpiPens to the fire station next week, by the way, to recycle them, because I need an excuse to go see the fireplace.
- 52:39Rick Costa: Do they recycle them or?
- 52:40Carmen Lezeth: something.
- 52:41Carmen Lezeth: It's not that they recycle.
- 52:42Carmen Lezeth: They take them Because you don't, I never.
- 52:44Carmen Lezeth: So I get an EpiPen every year, two of them, but you don't ever want to throw them in the trash because people will take them, thinking they can use them.
- 52:54Carmen Lezeth: It's just bad.
- 52:54Carmen Lezeth: And also even something simple, as when people are dealing with the garbage they could accidentally puncture them.
- 52:59Carmen Lezeth: There are just so many reasons why you never want to throw needles into the garbage.
- 53:02Carmen Lezeth: Never throw needles into the garbage.
- 53:04Carmen Lezeth: You have to dispose of them at a place Usually your doctor's office used to take them.
- 53:09Carmen Lezeth: They don't take them anymore.
- 53:10Carmen Lezeth: They won't take them back.
- 53:15Rick Costa: In my company we sell these things.
- 53:16Rick Costa: They're called sharps containers and they're just for putting needles in.
- 53:18Rick Costa: And it's one way.
- 53:19Rick Costa: You can't even go into it.
- 53:20Rick Costa: Like it goes in one way, and that's how you can't take it out.
- 53:23Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, but then what do you do with it?
- 53:24Carmen Lezeth: You have to dispose.
- 53:25Rick Costa: They have to bring it to a certain place.
- 53:27Carmen Lezeth: That's right.
- 53:27Carmen Lezeth: So I'm bringing all of my EpiPens to the fire department because I found out that they accept them there.
- 53:33Carmen Lezeth: I used to have to drive like an hour to go deposit them and I'm like I just because it's just the EpiPen, now I have 10 boxes of them because I haven't been in 10 years.
- 53:40Carmen Lezeth: So I just try to do my due diligence.
- 53:43Carmen Lezeth: Why am I talking about EpiPens?
- 53:55Rick Costa: Any excuse to talk about firefighters, apparently.
- 53:57Rick Costa: Oh my gosh.
- 53:57Rick Costa: I think asking cynthia to watch star trek or quantum leap is like asking andrea to watch field of dreams it's probably not gonna I don't think so because you know what.
- 54:05Carmen Lezeth: I don't think so because cynthia is.
- 54:07Carmen Lezeth: I'll actually watch an episode.
- 54:09Carmen Lezeth: Okay, thank you See Cynthia's much more open.
- 54:11Carmen Lezeth: Andrea and I have a really great friendship, but there is nothing I could be like I'm going to die, please watch it.
- 54:21Carmen Lezeth: She's not going to do it because now it's like a thing.
- 54:23Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean?
- 54:24Carmen Lezeth: It's a thing.
- 54:24Carmen Lezeth: Now Charlie just said I'm going to make a happy stick.
- 54:27Carmen Lezeth: I don't know what that is.
- 54:29Carmen Lezeth: Am I missing something?
- 54:31Cynthia Ruiz: You're going to slap me with the happy stick, slap me with the happy stick.
- 54:35Carmen Lezeth: Isn't that cute.
- 54:37Rick Costa: I'm going to need a definition.
- 54:40Carmen Lezeth: We need more information, Charlie.
- 54:42Carmen Lezeth: I don't know.
- 54:42Carmen Lezeth: Maybe I should just invite him to come up.
- 54:44Carmen Lezeth: We're already at the hour mark.
- 54:46Carmen Lezeth: How did that happen so fast this time?
- 54:48Carmen Lezeth: That was fun Almost.
- 54:50Rick Costa: Oh, because you started earlier.
- 54:51Rick Costa: Yeah, yeah, without me.
- 54:55Cynthia Ruiz: We still have five more minutes.
- 54:57Carmen Lezeth: Okay, I'm going to pop.
- 54:58Carmen Lezeth: You can go smoke and be on the phone with us.
- 55:01Carmen Lezeth: You could do those two things.
- 55:02Carmen Lezeth: How do I do it, rick?
- 55:06Rick Costa: Oh shoot.
- 55:07Rick Costa: I never Facebook Messenger.
- 55:11Carmen Lezeth: I don't even know where to get it now.
- 55:12Carmen Lezeth: I used to know where to.
- 55:13Carmen Lezeth: Oh, here it is.
- 55:13Carmen Lezeth: They change it.
- 55:14Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean?
- 55:15Carmen Lezeth: And then, okay, talk amongst yourselves.
- 55:19Rick Costa: Oh, I said absolutely All right, let's go, let me get them, let me get them.
- 55:22Carmen Lezeth: I'm going to Messenger All.
- 55:30Carmen Lezeth: Oh wait, here's.
- 55:30Charlie Mattera: Charlie, let's wait.
- 55:31Charlie Mattera: Try to configure yourself, though I'm in here somewhere.
- 55:32Charlie Mattera: It's all black right now.
- 55:34Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, why is it all black?
- 55:37Cynthia Ruiz: I'm glad it's not just me.
- 55:39Carmen Lezeth: No, it's not just me, no trust me, here's the better part, charlie's part of Hollywood.
- 55:44Carmen Lezeth: He should be like an ace at this, but it's always the people from Hollywood who don't get this right.
- 55:48Carmen Lezeth: No, baby, why are you in blackness?
- 55:49Carmen Lezeth: It's okay, ace at this, but it's always the people from Hollywood who don't get this right.
- 55:52Carmen Lezeth: Baby, why are you in blackness?
- 55:53Carmen Lezeth: It's okay, it's mysterious.
- 55:56Charlie Mattera: I don't want to be mysterious.
- 55:59Carmen Lezeth: Do you want to log off and try again?
- 56:01Carmen Lezeth: For some reason, your camera is.
- 56:03Carmen Lezeth: Maybe it's not turned towards you.
- 56:05Carmen Lezeth: It's turned.
- 56:06Charlie Mattera: Wait a minute.
- 56:07Charlie Mattera: Is that what it is?
- 56:08Carmen Lezeth: It's probably facing the wrong way because, oh, a minute, is that what it is?
- 56:10Carmen Lezeth: It's probably facing the wrong way because, oh my God, he did that, I didn't do that.
- 56:15Carmen Lezeth: Here he comes.
- 56:15Carmen Lezeth: Is this it yet Okay Is there a way in which you can change the camera?
- 56:25Charlie Mattera: Wait, wait, let's see.
- 56:26Carmen Lezeth: Do you have an iPhone or an Android?
- 56:28Charlie Mattera: No, not that.
- 56:29Charlie Mattera: Wait, this is actually more fun All right.
- 56:33Charlie Mattera: Now, where are you guys?
- 56:36Cynthia Ruiz: We're here, we're here.
- 56:38Charlie Mattera: No way Wait.
- 56:41Rick Costa: Where am I?
- 56:41Rick Costa: This is so much more fun.
- 56:43Cynthia Ruiz: I hate this.
- 56:48Charlie Mattera: Who's going to do stuff?
- 56:50Cynthia Ruiz: We love this.
- 56:51Charlie Mattera: Wait Now, let's see.
- 56:53Charlie Mattera: Yeah, I know you're so, you guys, I want you to see my hat too.
- 56:59Charlie Mattera: Man, I got this.
- 57:00Carmen Lezeth: Oh, come on yeah oh, now I see a cm in the middle okay, we see a cm, so now you just have to turn your video on.
- 57:08Charlie Mattera: Turn the video on.
- 57:10Charlie Mattera: Turn the video on.
- 57:11Charlie Mattera: Turn on the video.
- 57:13Charlie Mattera: I see a CM myself, but I don't see no video.
- 57:16Charlie Mattera: Wait, come on man.
- 57:18Carmen Lezeth: That's okay if you want to be like I was like it's too much.
- 57:21Charlie Mattera: The camera.
- 57:22Charlie Mattera: Add the camera.
- 57:27Charlie Mattera: What the fuck.
- 57:28Charlie Mattera: Look at this shit.
- 57:33Carmen Lezeth: That's awesome.
- 57:34Charlie Mattera: What is this?
- 57:36Carmen Lezeth: You know what's so funny?
- 57:36Carmen Lezeth: This, along with the fact that none of us knew the name of the show you were talking about showing your age.
- 57:42Carmen Lezeth: I don't know.
- 57:45Charlie Mattera: Yes, definitely that I am.
- 57:46Charlie Mattera: I'm an old buzzard.
- 57:47Charlie Mattera: So wait, now I want to see your hat.
- 57:49Charlie Mattera: I'm so confused.
- 57:49Carmen Lezeth: I know If you an old buzzard, so wait, now I want to see your hat.
- 57:50Carmen Lezeth: I'm so confused, I know.
- 57:51Charlie Mattera: If you can't see the hat it says on top, it says vote for Joe, not the psycho.
- 57:57Carmen Lezeth: Oh yeah, Okay, we don't talk about politics on this show.
- 58:00Charlie Mattera: A buddy of mine sent that to me.
- 58:01Carmen Lezeth: Oh, we don't talk about that Okay, but you know we don't talk about politics on this show.
- 58:05Carmen Lezeth: I didn't know that.
- 58:06Carmen Lezeth: Of course you knew that.
- 58:08Carmen Lezeth: How do you not know?
- 58:09Charlie Mattera: When have I ever talked about politics on here.
- 58:11Charlie Mattera: I'm sorry I'm not going to talk about the mental midget that's running for president.
- 58:16Charlie Mattera: I said dope.
- 58:18Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, okay, you were going to talk to us about a TV show, Quantum Leap Ripped Off.
- 58:24Rick Costa: Oh no, Jimmy Darin.
- 58:26Charlie Mattera: Because I knew Jimmy Darin.
- 58:27Charlie Mattera: He passed away like maybe a month and a half ago.
- 58:30Charlie Mattera: You know who he was.
- 58:31Charlie Mattera: Jimmy Darin was Moondoggy in the Gidget movies years ago.
- 58:37Charlie Mattera: He was like a beach bum kind of guy during the Frankie, avalon and that Fudichello movies way back.
- 58:44Charlie Mattera: That's who he was.
- 58:46Charlie Mattera: He was a big star.
- 58:47Charlie Mattera: What was his big song?
- 58:49Charlie Mattera: I forget he had a huge.
- 58:50Charlie Mattera: He was a big star.
- 58:50Charlie Mattera: What was his big song?
- 58:51Charlie Mattera: He had a huge heartthrob in the 50s and 60s.
- 58:55Carmen Lezeth: I don't know, I feel bad.
- 58:57Charlie Mattera: Jimmy Darin.
- 58:58Charlie Mattera: He was a cool guy, very nice guy.
- 59:00Charlie Mattera: I know the name he was a famous singer and did all those old cheese dick movies.
- 59:07Charlie Mattera: I see a picture.
- 59:08Rick Costa: Can you put it up on the screen?
- 59:09Rick Costa: His son is Did all those old cheese dick movies, you know.
- 59:09Rick Costa: Oh, I see a picture.
- 59:10Rick Costa: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, yeah.
- 59:11Carmen Lezeth: Can you put it up on the screen?
- 59:13Charlie Mattera: His son is the guy from.
- 59:16Charlie Mattera: His son is the reporter, the Hollywood reporter guy, jim Moray.
- 59:19Charlie Mattera: That's his son.
- 59:21Charlie Mattera: He does for like Channel 9.
- 59:23Carmen Lezeth: Why do you have two?
- 59:25Carmen Lezeth: You have two things going on here.
- 59:26Charlie Mattera: You have two, I have no idea, I know you can hear me, I can hear you.
- 59:30Charlie Mattera: What's that little button?
- 59:32Carmen Lezeth: I'm just saying, for some reason there are two, press that button, it's okay, you're fine.
- 59:38Charlie Mattera: Press buttons Press the button.
- 59:40Carmen Lezeth: Rick, I meant can't you put it up on the screen?
- 59:42Carmen Lezeth: Share it.
- 59:43Rick Costa: Share it.
- 59:44Rick Costa: Let me see.
- 59:45Carmen Lezeth: I want to see who Jimmy Darin is.
- 59:52Rick Costa: Jimmy Darin is Jimmy Darin.
- 59:53Rick Costa: He was a big dealio.
- 59:54Rick Costa: It's not so easy now, because now I'm using Firefox and the options are different.
- 59:58Charlie Mattera: Oh, Firefox, whatever that is.
- 1:00:01Carmen Lezeth: Okay, Rolling rolling, Charlie.
- 1:00:04Carmen Lezeth: I think it's hilarious that we can't see you.
- 1:00:07Charlie Mattera: Because I'm rolling pot, you know, and it's, it's not illegal anymore.
- 1:00:13Carmen Lezeth: We don't do politics and we don't do drugs on the show.
- 1:00:16Cynthia Ruiz: He used to sing Come Fly With Me.
- 1:00:19Charlie Mattera: Pot is not a drug.
- 1:00:20Carmen Lezeth: I'm messing with you, Charlie.
- 1:00:21Carmen Lezeth: Go ahead, Cynthia.
- 1:00:22Carmen Lezeth: What did you say?
- 1:00:22Carmen Lezeth: Did he used to?
- 1:00:23Cynthia Ruiz: sing Come Fly With Me.
- 1:00:26Charlie Mattera: Come Fly With Me.
- 1:00:26Charlie Mattera: No, that's Frank Sinatra.
- 1:00:29Carmen Lezeth: Oh, come um.
- 1:00:30Carmen Lezeth: No, that's frank sinatra.
- 1:00:31Carmen Lezeth: Oh, we're all like we know that song that's the king charlie, I'm just messing with you.
- 1:00:36Carmen Lezeth: You're just so funny because you're so I don't know what the right word is.
- 1:00:40Charlie Mattera: Like regular guy, but not no, I'm from another planet that's what I'm saying I you know what, when I was a kid, my mom used to say that I was an alien, that they dropped me off on the doorstep and left me there and I'd look at her and she'd go.
- 1:00:55Charlie Mattera: She'd say look at your father, he has earlobes.
- 1:00:58Charlie Mattera: Look at your sister, he has earlobes.
- 1:01:01Charlie Mattera: She goes, I have them, you do not have them.
- 1:01:04Charlie Mattera: She goes your ears are attached to your head.
- 1:01:06Charlie Mattera: She was just a direct sign of aliens.
- 1:01:09Charlie Mattera: Oh, you know who?
- 1:01:12Rick Costa: it is Star Trek Deep Space Nine.
- 1:01:15Rick Costa: He was the lounge singer.
- 1:01:17Rick Costa: Yeah, do you remember the lounge singer?
- 1:01:19Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, Rick put it up on the screen.
- 1:01:23Carmen Lezeth: Why are you not?
- 1:01:24Charlie Mattera: able to share.
- 1:01:24Charlie Mattera: He used to do the Jerry Aldini for Star Trek.
- 1:01:30Rick Costa: Yeah, I put the link in the private chat.
- 1:01:32Carmen Lezeth: What?
- 1:01:32Carmen Lezeth: The James Dean one, the new one with the Star Trek.
- 1:01:35Rick Costa: Not James Dean, jimmy Darin.
- 1:01:38Carmen Lezeth: Darin Gidget Guy, whatever.
- 1:01:41Charlie Mattera: He's been dead forever.
- 1:01:43Rick Costa: Yeah, he was a great singer.
- 1:01:44Carmen Lezeth: Let me see if I can do this.
- 1:01:47Charlie Mattera: Oh, here it is.
- 1:01:48Charlie Mattera: Oh, that's not that one.
- 1:01:50Charlie Mattera: I want the good shit.
- 1:01:51Carmen Lezeth: I don't know who this is.
- 1:01:52Carmen Lezeth: I'm so sorry.
- 1:01:54Charlie Mattera: Oh, here it is.
- 1:01:55Charlie Mattera: Look at these nuggets.
- 1:01:57Carmen Lezeth: What do you mean, nuggets?
- 1:01:58Carmen Lezeth: What are you talking about?
- 1:02:02Charlie Mattera: One person there knows what I'm talking about.
- 1:02:05Carmen Lezeth: Okay, wait, let me see if I can do this.
- 1:02:07Carmen Lezeth: Can I do that Share?
- 1:02:09Charlie Mattera: Okay, wait, let me see if I can do this.
- 1:02:11Carmen Lezeth: Can.
- 1:02:11Carmen Lezeth: I do that Share.
- 1:02:13Carmen Lezeth: Can you guys see it?
- 1:02:14Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, oh my God, look at Cynthia's camera again.
- 1:02:17Carmen Lezeth: We're going to lose her.
- 1:02:19Charlie Mattera: Wow, so that's him right.
- 1:02:21Charlie Mattera: Yeah, that's Jimmy D.
- 1:02:22Charlie Mattera: I don't know who that is.
- 1:02:24Carmen Lezeth: I don't even know him on Star Trek.
- 1:02:26Charlie Mattera: Oh, this is beautiful.
- 1:02:28Charlie Mattera: This is a pretty nugget.
- 1:02:29Charlie Mattera: I got right here.
- 1:02:31Charlie Mattera: Oh my god.
- 1:02:33Carmen Lezeth: Charlie's just going to piss me off now.
- 1:02:36Charlie Mattera: Roll him, roll him, roll him Okay.
- 1:02:42Carmen Lezeth: All right, charlie, yes, dear, did you care that kid died?
- 1:02:48Carmen Lezeth: Did you see those terrible comments that we were talking about earlier today, about people having bad manners?
- 1:02:52Carmen Lezeth: What do?
- 1:02:54Carmen Lezeth: You mean about that young kid die from One Direction.
- 1:02:57Rick Costa: Liam Payne.
- 1:02:59Charlie Mattera: Yeah, what the fuck was that all about?
- 1:03:01Charlie Mattera: Let me tell you something.
- 1:03:01Charlie Mattera: When I saw it, the first thing that went through my head was somebody threw that kid off the balcony.
- 1:03:07Carmen Lezeth: You know what?
- 1:03:08Carmen Lezeth: No one's sure what's happened, but there was some theories of what's going on.
- 1:03:14Carmen Lezeth: Was he in Colombia or something?
- 1:03:16Carmen Lezeth: Where was he?
- 1:03:16Carmen Lezeth: Argentina, argentina, he was in Argentina.
- 1:03:19Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, it's just sad.
- 1:03:22Carmen Lezeth: I was just more upset about how people were making jokes and being horrible.
- 1:03:27Charlie Mattera: There was supposedly three, four people in that room and oh, he went crazy.
- 1:03:30Charlie Mattera: I ain't buying it.
- 1:03:33Carmen Lezeth: We'll wait until the autopsy, until they come up with the whatever.
- 1:03:38Charlie Mattera: Injuries are consistent with a fall, but I'm like what's he got inside of him?
- 1:03:42Charlie Mattera: They didn't say that.
- 1:03:43Carmen Lezeth: Because they're not ready to yet.
- 1:03:44Carmen Lezeth: Charlie's like starting the gossip mill.
- 1:03:47Carmen Lezeth: What are you doing, dude?
- 1:03:48Carmen Lezeth: Are you in Argentina?
- 1:03:49Carmen Lezeth: Are Charlie's like starting the gossip mill?
- 1:03:51Carmen Lezeth: What are you doing, dude?
- 1:03:52Carmen Lezeth: Are you in Argentina?
- 1:03:52Carmen Lezeth: Are you there right now investigating?
- 1:03:53Carmen Lezeth: I am?
- 1:03:54Rick Costa: Where do you think you got them, nuggets?
- 1:03:58Cynthia Ruiz: That's why we can't see his face.
- 1:03:59Cynthia Ruiz: He's undercover.
- 1:04:00Cynthia Ruiz: He's undercover, right no listen.
- 1:04:05Charlie Mattera: Expert opinion.
- 1:04:06Charlie Mattera: Okay, when I first heard this, the first thing that ran through my mind was just don't pass the smell test.
- 1:04:14Charlie Mattera: There's a lot more to this story than anybody's saying, and I don't see a kid who's at the height of his career, with everything to live for, and he's in a room with a bunch of other people and all of a sudden, he's the one who ends up over the balcony.
- 1:04:28Charlie Mattera: The whole thing stinks.
- 1:04:30Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, but it stinks just because he also died.
- 1:04:33Charlie Mattera: I think he had a little help, I think somebody helped him.
- 1:04:39Charlie Mattera: Wow, all right, we'll see.
- 1:04:40Carmen Lezeth: All right, we're going to close out the show before we start the conspiracy theory.
- 1:04:45Charlie Mattera: What a horrible way to do yourself what I said the way the guy died, if he killed himself.
- 1:04:51Charlie Mattera: What a horrible way for no, no, he didn't.
- 1:04:53Carmen Lezeth: I don't think he killed himself.
- 1:04:55Charlie Mattera: I don't think he did that like remember the other guy, ridley scott's brother, tony scott, jumped off the bridge downtown.
- 1:05:01Charlie Mattera: Remember that years ago.
- 1:05:04Charlie Mattera: I'm sure he thought it was a great idea.
- 1:05:06Charlie Mattera: Halfway down he probably said, fuck, this was not a good idea.
- 1:05:09Carmen Lezeth: No, but if you're high as a kite, or drunk or whatever, on drugs.
- 1:05:12Carmen Lezeth: You might not be all there to make a coherent decision.
- 1:05:16Charlie Mattera: I want to know if you jump from a very high place, do you scream and you're like ah.
- 1:05:22Charlie Mattera: And then you run out of breath halfway and you're like ah.
- 1:05:29Carmen Lezeth: This is the movie making mind and process coming up with the script on the fly while he's rolling in joy, trying to figure out what the story is.
- 1:05:39Carmen Lezeth: Okay, everyone, we're gonna jump off because we're past the hour mark.
- 1:05:44Carmen Lezeth: Charlie, thank you for visiting.
- 1:05:46Carmen Lezeth: We'd love to see your face next time.
- 1:05:48Carmen Lezeth: We'll do it better next time.
- 1:05:50Carmen Lezeth: Don't jump off yet, cause I'm gonna get mad at you.
- 1:05:52Carmen Lezeth: Wait till I close the show.
- 1:05:55Charlie Mattera: Somebody's got to go through your stuff and look at all the shit you have.
- 1:05:58Charlie Mattera: No, thank you.
- 1:05:59Cynthia Ruiz: What's it just.
- 1:06:00Cynthia Ruiz: He's just right To end on a good note to put your faith back in humanity.
- 1:06:04Cynthia Ruiz: So my neighbor across the hall came knocking on my door the other day.
- 1:06:10Cynthia Ruiz: Yeah, and she's a very sweet lady, kind of keeps to herself and her kids and stuff.
- 1:06:14Cynthia Ruiz: She comes knocking on my door so I open it.
- 1:06:16Cynthia Ruiz: She has two bouquets of flowers and she goes oh, I want to share these with you.
- 1:06:22Cynthia Ruiz: She goes it's my birthday and I have way too many flowers.
- 1:06:26Cynthia Ruiz: She goes, so I wanted to share them with you.
- 1:06:28Carmen Lezeth: And.
- 1:06:29Charlie Mattera: I thought that was so nice.
- 1:06:30Carmen Lezeth: That is sweet.
- 1:06:31Carmen Lezeth: That's a sweet thing.
- 1:06:33Carmen Lezeth: Oh, that was cool.
- 1:06:34Carmen Lezeth: Do we like her though?
- 1:06:35Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, no, she's really nice, and cool.
- 1:06:37Rick Costa: We like her better now.
- 1:06:40Carmen Lezeth: We like her better now.
- 1:06:41Carmen Lezeth: Oh, you don't want to say her name, in case she comes up next time and we want to talk about her badly.
- 1:06:46Carmen Lezeth: Got it, got it.
- 1:06:49Charlie Mattera: Wait, wait, till you get the bill.
- 1:06:50Charlie Mattera: Don't say her name when you get the bill in the mail.
- 1:06:55Carmen Lezeth: On that note, everyone, we'll see you next week.
- 1:06:59Carmen Lezeth: Thank you for stopping by.
- 1:07:00Carmen Lezeth: Remember it is always all about the joy.
- 1:07:03Carmen Lezeth: Thank you, rick, cynthia, charlie, bye everyone.
- 1:07:07Charlie Mattera: Don't leave, charlie, don't leave.
- 1:07:09Carmen Lezeth: Don't leave yet, charlie, don't leave.
- 1:07:10Carmen Lezeth: I'm not Thanks for stopping by.
- 1:07:13Carmen Lezeth: All About the Joy.
- 1:07:14Carmen Lezeth: Be better and stay.
- 1:07:15Carmen Lezeth: Beautiful folks, have a sweet day.