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WHAT DO MEN MISTAKE AS EFFORT ? · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables.
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  Speaker 2: What do men mistake is effort, which is actually the
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  Speaker 2: bare minimum making her finish?
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  Speaker 1: Oh is that bare minimum?
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  Speaker 2: I think it's a bare minimum.
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  Speaker 1: I gotta say, like, I'm happy to admit that's bare minimum,
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  Speaker 1: but I cannot deny about how proud I am when
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  Speaker 1: I do it.
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  Speaker 2: Relatable. The Relatables Podcast is hosted by myself Addie Clark
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  Speaker 2: ak Mummy, and my partner in crime, mister Jake Craig
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  Speaker 2: aka Daddy.
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  Speaker 1: And ODDI is Mummy because he's the one you go
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  Speaker 1: do when you're having some boy troubles, oh, some troubles.
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  Speaker 3: And Jake is Daddy because when you want to go
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  Speaker 3: to the movies, ask him for money and.
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  Speaker 4: He gives it to you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. And the Relatables podcast is about finding a sense
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  Speaker 2: of belonging. Yes, welcome, Welcome all the baddies.
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  Speaker 1: You guys are the baddies by the way.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. To kick things off, Jake, we have been going
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  Speaker 2: on a journey, haven't we We have? And this is
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  Speaker 2: week four of the Boyfriend Olympics. Four weeks in that's
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  Speaker 2: crazy and to start this unfortunately there's no more challenges,
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  Speaker 2: but this week is exciting because we are announcing which
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  Speaker 2: baddies and their boyfriends who have been competing unknowingly progress
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  Speaker 2: to the gold medal matches. Yes, and for this, Jake,
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  Speaker 2: I want you to put your headphones on please.
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  Speaker 4: Oh okay, damn.
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  Speaker 2: So for anyone that's new around here, all the old baddies,
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  Speaker 2: we're a two man team, Mummy and Daddy, Jake and Otti, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: SpongeBob and Patrick.
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  Speaker 1: Some would say Batman myself, Jake, Robin, body some yourself.
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  Speaker 2: But I wanted to outsaw someone to help us with
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  Speaker 2: this Boyfriend Olympic.
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  Speaker 4: Let's go so that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, So I've hired someone, Jake, to give a little
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  Speaker 2: bit of a recap of the challenge so far. You'll see.
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  Speaker 1: So I just wonder what you hired someone to recap,
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  Speaker 1: as in they're telling it quickly. Yeah, I love that, okay.
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  Speaker 1: And also I've inserted all the challenges.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So here is the recap of the Boyfriend Olympics so far.
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  Speaker 5: And so the group stages of the Boyfriend Olympics draw
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  Speaker 5: to a close. Three devoted baddies and three unsuspecting boyfriends,
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  Speaker 5: each competing, though blissfully unaware, in a secret contest of loyalty.
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  Speaker 5: Wit and charm. Soon only one will emerge triumphant crown
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  Speaker 5: champion of this most peculiar of trials. Let us now
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  Speaker 5: revisit the journey so far. In Week one, Baddi Tara
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  Speaker 5: faced off against Baddy Bridget with the curious challenge would
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  Speaker 5: you still love me if I were a worm? The
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  Speaker 5: results were enlightening.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, Hello is that Tara?
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  Speaker 5: Hello?
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to the Boyfriend olympad.
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  Speaker 6: You took up the whole day of work for.
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  Speaker 2: This, No way, let's go? Yeah of course.
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  Speaker 5: So his name is Simon.
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  Speaker 2: He's yeah, yeah, big guy.
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  Speaker 1: Everywhere. Give him a god medal now.
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  Speaker 2: And put in my favorite plan.
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  Speaker 1: Put thank you you've been man? Is that what I haven't?
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  Speaker 1: He was so good at the end.
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  Speaker 6: Hello?
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  Speaker 2: Hello is that Bridget?
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  Speaker 1: Hi?
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  Speaker 2: Yesterday, Welcome to the Boyfriend Olympics.
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  Speaker 4: How are you going?
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  Speaker 1: His name is Matt.
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  Speaker 4: Matt.
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  Speaker 1: We met at school and we've been dating for three
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  Speaker 1: years in September.
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  Speaker 2: Three years okay, so you've got a longer period of
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  Speaker 2: time on the other competitor. They were one year and
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  Speaker 2: eight months. Yeah, so you're winning?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, okay?
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  Speaker 1: Would you love me if I was aware? Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, the most real?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah? Would you love me if I was aware, but.
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  Speaker 2: Let's replay that. Replay Yeah he was slow but the end.
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  Speaker 5: The following week two, region competitors Casey and Emma entered
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  Speaker 5: the free their task to dress badly on purpose and
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  Speaker 5: observe which boyfriend could respond with the greatest grace, A
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  Speaker 5: true test of patience and devotion.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, Casey speaking, Hello Casey, it's taking on you for
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  Speaker 2: the Reliatables podcast. How's it going.
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  Speaker 5: Destroy Glue?
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  Speaker 2: How are you great? Welcome to the Boyfriend OLYMPI.
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  Speaker 6: I have my eyes set on that trophy. Boyfriend doesn't
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  Speaker 6: pull through. Well, we are actually a new couple.
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  Speaker 1: No. I think that's interesting in the game because sometimes
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  Speaker 1: the new ones can actually be better.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm really really.
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  Speaker 6: Going to him. We've been together for like three months,
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  Speaker 6: which is crazy.
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  Speaker 1: His name is Will. He is a super tall man
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  Speaker 1: tlo tool man, really.
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  Speaker 2: Great, six sixix four.
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  Speaker 1: I know he's got me. Man replied and said, are
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  Speaker 1: you trying to impress? Oh?
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  Speaker 5: I was like, oh, okay, okay.
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  Speaker 6: I was like, all right, I guess these ballet pads
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  Speaker 6: are really working for so many evil right now?
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  Speaker 5: Hello? Am I speaking?
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  Speaker 2: Hello Emma. Welcome to the Boyfriend Olympics. How are you going? Hello?
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  Speaker 5: I'm good, thank you?
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  Speaker 1: How are you?
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  Speaker 6: His name is Brodie and we've been together just over
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  Speaker 6: a year. I celebrated our anniversary recently and then he
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  Speaker 6: was like, okay.
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  Speaker 1: It was like I was going to say, he's going
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  Speaker 1: to go out in that. Being honest, he was still
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  Speaker 1: a bit worried about saying something mean.
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  Speaker 5: And then came Week three, the final group stage, perhaps
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  Speaker 5: the most difficult challenge of all. Abby went head to
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  Speaker 5: head with Angie with a now infamous accusation, I had
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  Speaker 5: a dream you cheated on me. The reactions nothing short
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  Speaker 5: of spectacular.
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  Speaker 1: Hello Abby speaking Hello Abby.
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  Speaker 2: It's Jake and Audie from the Relatables. How are you?
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  Speaker 2: We are doing very very well.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to the Boyfriend Olympics.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you so my lovely books.
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  Speaker 1: His name is Will Will.
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  Speaker 2: He is yeah, blessing names William.
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  Speaker 6: He gets cool Willy all the time?
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  Speaker 2: Will second Will that you will?
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  Speaker 1: Really?
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 6: So yeah, I've got a lovely Will.
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  Speaker 2: We've been together for five years now, for a long time.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like you right now?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah? Can you remember true club.
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  Speaker 1: Girl?
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  Speaker 5: Like superhero? Because you said to me you look at
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  Speaker 5: my first too. After He's.
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  Speaker 2: Like him. Good morning, Angie, is that you?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's me.
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  Speaker 6: I'm sorry. It was the cool one. Yeah, like a
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  Speaker 6: metal man like you, like in his like forties or fifties,
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  Speaker 6: even though he's seen twenty.
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  Speaker 1: He's an old soul. Some would saying.
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  Speaker 4: About mustn't under where someone.
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  Speaker 5: Else I'm started, Yes, sorry for pink s. Anthony McCann
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  Speaker 5: was instantly ever seen him in your husband's like him
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  Speaker 5: in trouble, in trouble. Thank god, you're not in trouble.
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  Speaker 5: Still going to I'm sure we arrive. At the present moment,
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  Speaker 5: the trials are complete, the votes have been cast well,
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  Speaker 5: Jake and Otty's opinions carry no weight whatsoever. The baddies
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  Speaker 5: themselves have spoken week after week to decide who will
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  Speaker 5: progress to the medal rounds. And now it is time.
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  Speaker 5: I shall pass you over to the ever handsome Ottie
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  Speaker 5: and to Jake, who alas does not quite reach six
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  Speaker 5: feet to announce the winners.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you. Actually, for legal purposes, it's a
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  Speaker 3: nature documenter. That that wasn't that was a nature documentar.
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  Speaker 3: That is very fair, Nature documenter, Thank you, Nature documentary.
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  Speaker 2: Cust the lot mate us, the lot that is hilarious.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, we got our recap. We've got our recap.
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  Speaker 1: We've got our recap. I hope everyone's caught up. If
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  Speaker 1: you haven't listened to the other ones, well there you go.
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  Speaker 1: So one thing I do quickly want to say before
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  Speaker 1: I give the results is the second week? Oh no,
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  Speaker 1: sorry week three? Week three, was you cheated in my dream?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Abby an Angie.
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  Speaker 1: Abby's boyfriend at the end said something that we couldn't understand,
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  Speaker 1: but we have a comment that has cleared it up.
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  Speaker 1: He says dream Me is a bit vindictive, and that's
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  Speaker 1: why she says, yeah, I don't like him.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, it makes a lot of sense.
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  Speaker 1: We couldn't hear it for the lifeless. But what someone commented,
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  Speaker 1: I think so.
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  Speaker 2: He was like backing himself, kind of like saying, that's
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  Speaker 2: not that's not like dream Me is vindictive. Yeah, well
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  Speaker 2: it sounds of Abby hated to fucking dream him. He goes,
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  Speaker 2: I don't like him. Yeah, that's what put us off,
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  Speaker 2: how much he was like, I don't like him.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, are we ready for the results?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, So how this is going to work is Jake's
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  Speaker 2: going to read all three winners and then we actually
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  Speaker 2: do have a bit of sway and we get to
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  Speaker 2: pick one to go straight to the gold medal match.
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  Speaker 1: We are choosing that. Yeah, okay. Week one was Tara
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  Speaker 1: and Bridge. We counted the votes now coming in at
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  Speaker 1: seventy four point five percent of the votes. Quite a lot,
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  Speaker 1: is Tara, Tara.
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  Speaker 2: Tarah? Congratulations. Shall we give it a ring?
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  Speaker 1: Let's do it?
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  Speaker 6: Hello?
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  Speaker 2: Hello? Is that Tara?
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  Speaker 6: Oh my god, Hi gosh, we are.
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  Speaker 2: Calling to say congratulations. You are going through to the
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  Speaker 2: metal matches.
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  Speaker 1: Sooch congratulations Tara.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, we will be contact over text with all the
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  Speaker 2: details for the next matches, but overall for you and
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  Speaker 2: your boyfriend competing unknowingly congratulations.
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  Speaker 1: Hi, thank you so much, guys.
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  Speaker 6: To be fair, I have been talking with comments for
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  Speaker 6: a couple of days, so you kind.
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  Speaker 2: Of you knew the answer. Still still still all right,
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  Speaker 2: We'll be in contact.
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  Speaker 6: Thanks to Thank you for life guys, and today.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you bye.
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  Speaker 1: All right. Week number two we had Casey and Emma
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  Speaker 1: competing with Dressing bat on Purpose, coming in at ninety
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  Speaker 1: point two percent, so ninety percent. It was Casey. I
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  Speaker 1: like Casey. I liked Casey too. She was the one
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  Speaker 1: that said I want that gold medal.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, let's give her a call. I feel like
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  Speaker 2: this might be a reoccurring team. We're like, oh no, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: the person you're trying to reach is not available at
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  Speaker 2: the time.
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  Speaker 6: Please record your message. When you have finished recording, you
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  Speaker 6: may hang up.
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  Speaker 1: Casey so sorry that you couldn't edser the phone right now,
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  Speaker 1: but it's jaking on it from the Relatables and we
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  Speaker 1: just wanted to let you know that you have made
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  Speaker 1: it through to the metal matches in the Boyfriend Olympics. Congratulations.
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  Speaker 1: All right, week three we have Abby and Angie coming
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  Speaker 1: in at fifty four zero point five percent of the votes.
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  Speaker 1: I was tired, is.
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  Speaker 4: Abby?
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  Speaker 2: Ooh okay, Abby, let's give her being.
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  Speaker 1: Hello.
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  Speaker 2: Congratulations Abby, it's already in take from the Relatables podcast
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  Speaker 2: and you were progressing through to the metal matches. Y, yes,
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  Speaker 2: fucking way. How do you feel?
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  Speaker 6: Oh my god, my best friend literally just listened.
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  Speaker 5: She's like, oh my god, just listened to the That
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  Speaker 5: was so cute.
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  Speaker 1: It's amazing.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna be you're back on now and even next week.
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  Speaker 2: We're going to be in contact with you for the
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  Speaker 2: details again, So make sure you're ready and don't tell
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  Speaker 2: your boyfriend.
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  Speaker 6: I promise, I'm so excited.
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  Speaker 2: Did you know?
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  Speaker 6: Bye bye?
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  Speaker 1: She's somewhere quiet. She had to whisper she's definitely at
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  Speaker 1: work or something.
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  Speaker 2: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: Well, so now we know who's going through to the
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  Speaker 1: metal match, but we get to decide who goes straight
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  Speaker 1: to the gold medal match.
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  Speaker 2: Finally we have some power. Okay, I would like to
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  Speaker 2: put our baddy, Casey up, Casey, your case is your
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  Speaker 2: vote for the gold medal match, which was the dress
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  Speaker 2: badly on purpose? And she was the one who's.
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  Speaker 1: Like, I want to win, and her boyfriend did say
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  Speaker 1: something pretty good, I think where, and it was who
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  Speaker 1: you going to impress?
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  Speaker 2: Whereing that? Or to be fair, should we not go
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  Speaker 2: off like who we liked, who had the best results
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  Speaker 2: the best results? I kind of like saying who we
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  Speaker 2: like to be fair. Tara too had very strong results
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  Speaker 2: and I liked her, so I would.
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  Speaker 1: Like, I'm so sorry, I love you, but it's for me.
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  Speaker 1: It's between Tyre and Casey. Yes, Sam, So I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to go via results here and I'm going to go
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  Speaker 1: via boyfriends.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Tara's man simone, big boy, big everywhere. He said, I
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  Speaker 1: would put you if you were a were, I would
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  Speaker 1: put you on my favorite plant and I'd feed you
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  Speaker 1: and you'd be my little pet. She didn't like the
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  Speaker 1: pet thing. But I don't mind it.
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  Speaker 4: I don't mind.
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  Speaker 1: I don't mind the pet thing. It's like a cute. Look,
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  Speaker 1: it's like a pet name. They called pet names. If
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  Speaker 1: I can't, if you can't be.
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  Speaker 2: My pet, you on Tara. But okay, this is what
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  Speaker 2: I want.
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  Speaker 1: But I do quite like Casey's boyfriend Will six' four fresh,
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  Speaker 1: relationship and he hit her with the straight up who
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  Speaker 1: are you trying to? Impress?
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  Speaker 2: Damn he wants.
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  Speaker 1: Her to feel, good regardless of what she's wearing and
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  Speaker 1: regardless of what he. Thinks, yea, yeah, yeah So i'm, thinking, okay, ah.
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  Speaker 2: Because we need to get we need to. Agree what
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  Speaker 2: if we, disagree then we have a. Problem is that
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  Speaker 2: and we have to settle this Outside. Casey casey is
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  Speaker 2: moving directly to the gold medal, match, yes but otherwise
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  Speaker 2: join us next week to find out what the challenges
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  Speaker 2: are and see who actually takes away the gold medal
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  Speaker 2: with the Boyfriend.
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  Speaker 1: Olympics, ODDIE i have to tell you, something, okay maybe
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  Speaker 1: also maybe it's a. Confess they have to confess it to.
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  Speaker 4: YOU i love.
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  Speaker 2: Confessions, okay did you shoot?
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  Speaker 4: Yourself?
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  Speaker 1: NO i, DIDN'T i kind OF i WISH i.
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  Speaker 2: Did they're my. Favorite it's a great story SIDEBY i.
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  Speaker 2: SAW i think we should buy them just for. Ourselves
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  Speaker 2: they make like a yourself survival, kit you know how
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  Speaker 2: you have like a first aid kit in the car
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  Speaker 2: and if you get like a scab or, something they
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  Speaker 2: make one flag when you hit, yourself and it's got
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  Speaker 2: undies in a when you get a.
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  Speaker 1: Scah cap is of wound.
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  Speaker 2: Healing oh, WELL i mean like when you cut. Yourself,
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  Speaker 2: sorry that's beside the POINTS i thought you'd being excited
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  Speaker 2: about the survival kit for WHEN i like the. Sound
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  Speaker 2: it's got a pair of, undies toilet paper in, it
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  Speaker 2: had some other. Stuff someone sent it to.
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  Speaker 1: Us we should blie TO i like one of, them
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  Speaker 1: AND i would like it to be in the. Car,
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  Speaker 1: yeah SO i can pull, over have something to cover
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  Speaker 1: me and then a bucket to shit in cover it doesn't,
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  Speaker 1: smell AND i can get rid of it.
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  Speaker 2: Wherever but that's beside the. Point so it got. Distracted
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  Speaker 2: SO i have a.
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  Speaker 1: Backstory, yeah as the, baddies and you, Know beth AND
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  Speaker 1: i have been fostering WHEN i first foster Dog, tilly
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  Speaker 1: who sadly has come and. Gone she's not, dead she's not.
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  Speaker 2: Dead she was.
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  Speaker 1: Adopted as sad as that is for, me it's happy for.
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  Speaker 1: Her and THEN i SAW i saw her dog at the.
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  Speaker 1: Beach that was the breed, Again Mini.
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  Speaker 2: Fox, YEAH i see them at the beach all the,
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  Speaker 2: time AND i think. YOU i was going to send you,
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  Speaker 2: video but THEN i was, like, oh that might.
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  Speaker 1: Be a bit TOO i didn't even KNOW i loved
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  Speaker 1: them UNTIL i had.
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  Speaker 2: Them they might pull the heartstrings to the too close to.
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  Speaker 1: Home she's the one that got. Away but we have
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  Speaker 1: another foster. Dog we got her pretty quickly, after and
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  Speaker 1: her name Is. Laney we named. Her she's a five
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  Speaker 1: month old mixed, breed very. Young but we go Through
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  Speaker 1: maggie's rescue and there is other puppies With maggie At Maggie's,
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  Speaker 1: rescue and one Afternoon beth had organized with another foster
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  Speaker 1: parent to bring over a puppy to come and play
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  Speaker 1: With laney because this other puppy didn't have another dog
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  Speaker 1: to play. With laney Has henry to play, with which is,
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  Speaker 1: good but we wanted to give this other dog like a.
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  Speaker 1: Playdate and SO i was home AND i was just
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  Speaker 1: like kind of, working and THEN i heard them. Arrive
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  Speaker 1: SO i went down and said. Hi And henry is
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  Speaker 1: the alpha of the. House whenever there's dogs, around he
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  Speaker 1: Knows beth AND i are top.
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  Speaker 4: Dogs just that.
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  Speaker 1: Way but when there's other, dogs he will and he meets.
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  Speaker 2: Them.
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  Speaker 1: First thing he likes to do is a certain dominance
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  Speaker 1: and then he will be. Fine and so this other
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  Speaker 1: puppy was there and the puppy was ignoring him and
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  Speaker 1: only playing With. Laney So henry was like kind of getting.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: Humpy he was trying to. Intervene and one way dogs
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: are cert dominance is. Humping he usually only hums, males oh,
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: yeah but this one he was, like fuck, THIS i
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: need to let you know What i'm. Bossed and SO
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: i let.
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: Me.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: YEAH i was, like all, Right, henry come back, Father
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: LIKE i, SAID i, said, mate come, on let them.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: Play so come with. HERE i pick him up If
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: i'm hugging him, right and take him upstairs into my.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Office And i'm sitting there on my chair with, him
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: And i'm just kind of like talking him, like, man
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: it's fine to let them. Play like he understands, me
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: and then he's really trying to squirt and he jumps off,
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: me goes runs back, downstairs and it's just just like.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: Whatever beth can deal with. It and THEN i. Start
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: i'm in the office And i'm, like and Because laney
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: isn't toilet, trained she has done quite a few poohs
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: in our, house AND i was, LIKE i could smell
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: poop AND i was, like where is? It LIKE i
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: was looking around all in my.
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: OFFICE i was, like where is. It it's, RIGHT i
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: could it was right.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: Here it's like it was on my, lip, RIGHT i
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: could smell, this.
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: Not where you.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: Were BUT i was, LIKE i can't effing see.
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: It where is?
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: It why you? SWEARING i don't.
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: KNOW i just like have no.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: IDEA i can't fucking see.
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: It And i'm, like, God i'm like this and Then
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: i'm like ALL i look down and there's shit all
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: over my shirt AND i was like what THE i was,
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: like what the? Fuck what IS i was, like how
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: does this? Happen and THEN i was like yelled At.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: Beth my first THING i think Is henry has stepped in.
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: Poo and when he jumped off, me his back legs
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: like kicked off my, chest so he's gotten it all over.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: Me AND i was, like, bes Get henry, outside clean his.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: Paws he's got shit on his. Paws so she's like,
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: okay AND i was, like.
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: Here's the.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: KICKUP i wasn't wearing just any, shirt no one of our.
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: Ones and it wasn't just one of our.
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: Ones, oh the only. Sample we, have.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: The only, sample and it's the only purple, one.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: One of a. Kind it is one of. One AND
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: i was so, Upset.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: ADDIE i took it off AND i threw it on
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: my bedroom balcony AND i was just, like it's still
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: out there to this.
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: Day why don't you wash? It it's got pooh on,
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: it so that comes.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: OUT i best tried to say the same, thing AND i,
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: Said i'm not putting pooh in my washing. MACHINE i
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: made that with love AND i wore it With but
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: now there's fucking dog shin on it and it will come.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Out i'm not putting dog poo in my washing. Machine,
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: well it's a washing.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: Machine hose it off and then chuck in the washing.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: MACHINE i can still have the shirt it's been rained.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: On it could be washed. ALREADY i don't think that's
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: how it. Works but it's even worse when you open.
• 22:19
  Speaker 4: Up, now So i've chucked it's.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: Off it might stay. Now it's been twenty four. Hours
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: MIGHT i mentioned that?
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: Shirt?
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: ALSO i have a samples like two hundred and fifty dollars.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: News it's actually been about two.
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: Weeks what.
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: You're also my favorite fitting? One, yeah because it's more. Cropped,
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: yeah it's slightly more.
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: Cropped, yeah because the other one's.
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: Oversized the other ones are overside two. Weeks it's been
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: out there for a.
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: While, yeah far you're in my bad. Books. Mate it
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: will come out in the, wash it would. Have it
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: might be staying.
• 22:55
  Speaker 4: Now.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: YEAH i was, upset BUT i also was, Like i'm
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: not putting poo in my washing. Machine can take you
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: to a dry. Cleaner, yeah you're not going to do anything.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: There he's gonna throw it.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: Out, Yeah so that is my. Confession, yeah that's QUITE
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: i personally didn't ruin, It, Henry, really do you want
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: to hear another story about?
• 23:16
  Speaker 4: Shit these fucking?
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: Dogs saturday just Gone beth's birthday lunch. Right we actually
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: Got lanie's new parents because she has been, adopted but
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: she's not going there Till, sunday they looked after her
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: for the day because she just got disseext and can't.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: Play we would have just left her With, henry but
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: they can't play her. Off her wound w open, up
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: so her new parents looked after. HER i go through
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: the whole. Day that whole day is the day That
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: i'm getting, sick by the, way because of you backstory. Guys,
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: SORRY i won't go into. That and So i'm like
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: really just like putting a lot of effort into like my.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: Socializing i'm losing my. Voice and THEN i get, HOME
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: i Pick henry, up and THEN i go With henry
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: to Pick laney, up And i'm feeling kind of like,
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: shit AND i wanted to Take henry just to get
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: him out of the house for the day or for
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: the first time that. Day and then WHEN i pick her,
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: UP i bring her back and she's wicked. Excited so
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: we get home and she Is i've. Looked this is
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: a new Saying i've learn from My irish, friend justin
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: that you think it's. Fake she was wrecking my fucking,
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: head all, right AND i like it wreckon my.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: Head she was wrecked an imaginary. Friend, yeah some.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: Might SAY i thought of, that but, no she was
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: wrecking my, head and SO i was just getting to
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: the point WHERE i had to tie her up to
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: just have her be in one. Spot and THEN i
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: was ready for. Bed, Right beth's out, Partying henry's being an. Angel,
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: yeah lady's wrecking my. HEAD i get my pajamas on
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: and THEN i take them out for one more. Toilet
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: laney does a shit, right and while she's doing, it
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: she's backing up and she nearly steps in, it BUT
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: i stop her right And i'm, like, OH i got.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: It she's, done and then she runs into the. House
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: she runs upstairs before, me runs, up runs jumps on
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: my bed next To.
• 25:22
  Speaker 4: HENRY i walk.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Upstairs shit all over my fucking, bed your. Bed she
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: stepped in the. SHIP i didn't catch. It there was
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: shit all over my bed for. You and it was
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: it was. LATE i was getting. Sick she was already
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: doing my head in and ALL i wanted to do
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: was JUST i would never do, it but just throw
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: her out the. WINDOW i would never ever do, it,
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: guys BUT i assume people have had this feeling. BEFORE
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: i was, like leave me. ALONE i HAD i sat
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: down and had to just like. DEFEATED i was, defeated
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: AND i didn't get MY i. DIDN'T i was, mad
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: BUT i didn't like yell at her or. ANYTHING i
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: just took her, downstairs washed, her tied her, up changed
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: my bed, sheets put them in the. Wash added an
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: extra thirty. Minutes wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: Wait so you put them you put them in the,
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: wash but not our beautiful one of one.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: Shirt oh my, god that's so, true you.
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: HYPOCRITE i am a fucking.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: Hypocrite the bed sheets were worth more to me than the,
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: SHIRT i can't believe. It and they were, cheaper, ah
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: because you just had the sample was.
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: Expensive.
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: Wow and that only came out from your tell the story.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: WHERE i didn't think of, that AND i shouldn't have
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: told that story to.
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: Wash, yeah fuck, you fuck.
• 26:44
  Speaker 4: You, Well i'm gonna wash it.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: Tonight, Yeah i'm gonna wash the, shirts And i'm gonna
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: get off the. Bacon i'm gona. Wash i'll text best right,
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: now she's working from. Home i'll get her to, wash all.
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: Right Bad he's up next is Ig question of The,
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: week and a bit of a reoccurring theme on the
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: pod is men thinking they're putting in effort when they're really.
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: NOT i would say it's reoccurring on the, pod but
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: also in real.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: Life OH i, mean, well the pod is a reflection
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: of real. Life oh, yeah they are usually realized.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: Stories, true, true. True so this ig question is what
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: do men mistake as effort which is actually just the bare?
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: MINIMUM i got the first one, okay kick things Off
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: jake right, Now this is.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: Actually one okay getting their girlfriend A patreon subscription for
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: The relatables.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: Podcast, yeah they would think that is, effort but in,
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: life that is literally just a bare. Minimum it's only
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: five dollars a. Month because it's so good over there the, community, man.
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: And we will use this as a way to Plug.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: We will you get an extra episode every single week
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: the Book Club, early we got the summer our, term
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: pretty season finale reaction type.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: Videos we want you to watch us react to, that
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: and we want you over. There we want you to
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: be part of it because we know you're gonna love.
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: It and all the baddies that have been joining and
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: are going, like, wow why did it takes me so
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: long to get over?
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: Here? Exactly and one extra little thing is over On
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: patreon because we love you, guys you get a discount
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: on all the Merch, yes, yes, yes, yes discount code
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: and who, KNOWS i could be feeling generous in the
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: next few days and add an even.
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: You might need to use that discount code because you
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: need a new, shirt, MAADE i.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: Might i'm gonna wash.
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: It, yeah let me go. Next, okay what do men
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: mistake as? Effort which is actually just a bare minimum not?
• 28:44
  Speaker 4: Cheating you?
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: THINK i initially had the same, reaction like that little shock,
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: Factor but THEN i was thinking about, it and dudes
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: do think, like, oh, YEAH i don't, Cheat i'm the
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: best boyfriend.
• 28:58
  Speaker 4: Ever.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah they're, like But i'm. Loyal, yeah, yeah, yeah But i'm,
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: loyal AREN'T. I. Yeah it's kind of, like, okay the
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: easiest thing to.
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: Do, literally wait a, Minute, yeah it's.
• 29:09
  Speaker 4: Actually a good.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: ONE i was BECAUSE i saw a LOT i actually
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: did see a lot of. Them what do men mistake as?
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: Effort but it's actually just the bare minimum actually making
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: plans for a?
• 29:21
  Speaker 4: Date.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah for some, REASON i feel like even like the,
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: counterparts the girls or the other person who's in the,
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: date have been gas lit into thinking that boys who
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: do put in effort to playing the, date like they're so, good,
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: yeah when in reality it is the bare fucking.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: Minimum their friend, says how was, it and she says
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: he planned the whole thing start to. Finish, yeah that
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: you're proud of.
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: That, yeah because when we started the POT i remember
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: we heard that all the. Time i'm, like that's not. Good,
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: yeah like that's just the bare. Minimum that definitely is.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: BAD i don't get men, though, either, too because like
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: WHEN i was, SINGLE i thoroughly enjoyed planning a date
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: and seeing it like turn out and seeing her enjoy.
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: HERSELF i like planning, dates and a couple didn't work,
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: out AND i learned from him for the next, ones
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: the next.
• 30:11
  Speaker 4: ONES i, mean good.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: POINT i, LIKE i have liked planning, dates AND i
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: do like planning dates, still, yeah, True, STILL i found
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: one thing was fostering actually is.
• 30:24
  Speaker 4: Better AND i haven't been on as many.
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: Dates it's like you've got a little.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: Kid it is a bit. Hard, YEAH i won't do
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: a puppy. Again, yeah the puppy is a, lot can't my? Goodness,
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: okay what do.
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: Men mistake is, effort which is actually just a bare
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: minimum listening to their partner when they.
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: Talk, YEAH i, MEAN i think that has been mistaken as.
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: Effort But i'm a good. Listener your body doesn't add
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: are you? Listening, yeah actively? Listening are you?
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: LISTENING i doubt.
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: It they're in Like clash Of clan world or some.
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: Shit is that still that's still? Huge what's the other?
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: One we learned about it the other, day class a
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: clash Forw, yeah MAYBE i was thinking that still either.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: One we spoke about class clans a couple weeks. Ago,
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: yeah it's been around for a long. Time, yeah. Okay
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: what do men mistake is? Effort but it's actually just
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: the bare minimum changing bed?
• 31:26
  Speaker 4: Sheets fuck? Fair?
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yea, yeah, YEAH i always, WELL i don't live
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: with my. PARTNER i always change him before my partner
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: comes over for a. Sleepover.
• 31:35
  Speaker 4: Yep.
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah But i've never once Thought.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: I'm the best boyfriend out like you've never once said
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: change my sheets for.
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: YOU i probably have said, that But i've never actively, thought,
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah i'm the best. BOYFRIEND i do think that this
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: is the bare. Minimum i've been sleeping in it for
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: like a, week fair. Fair what do men mistake is,
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: effort which is actually the bare minimum being in interested
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: in things that your girlfriend's interested.
• 32:02
  Speaker 4: In oh.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: To BE i MEAN i can also see, that like
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: it doesn't it is kind of just a bare, Minimum
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: like you're with this, person it doesn't take much to
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: just actually want to be part of their. Life so
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: interest in what they're interested? In yeah, YEAH i MEAN i,
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: like you don't have to thoroughly enjoy, it but like
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: just put that little bit of effort into. Trying. Yeah.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah and it also it kind of like if you're
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: the reciprocent of, that it hypes you. Up like If
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: i'm talking about the gym and then my girls just
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: LIKE i don't, care like what really this is really
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: important to, ME i, Know but if they're there and they're, like, yeah,
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: yeah how was, it asking, questions actively, Listening i'll be, like, yeah,
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: yeah this is my.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: THING i feel like everyone's into something. Boring, Yeah And
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: i'm trying to, think Has beth got any red flags of?
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: It i'm trying to think If i've ever tried to explain
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: something to, her what do you? Mean like it's Like
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: i'm trying to explain Something i'm super.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: Interesting oh Just na, Podcasting lego golf. GOLF i could
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: take the. BAIT i could take the.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: BAIT i gotta be, honest, Though WHEN i talk about,
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: golf she actually pretends to.
• 33:10
  Speaker 4: Listen that's.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: Good, well, NO i think she's, listening but she pretends to.
• 33:13
  Speaker 4: Care that's, good which is the bare.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: Minimum, yeah what is she interested?
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: In i've watched her favorite. Movie that's.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: GOOD i didn't really like, it BUT i watched.
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: IT i, watched And i'll watch.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: MOVIES i am.
• 33:27
  Speaker 4: The best boyfriend.
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: Ever, Okay, ooh texting while on a night?
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: Out, yeah what's? Weird?
• 33:41
  Speaker 4: Dudes do?
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: Think like IF i text him, Like i'm the best person,
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: Ever like even if it's every once in a. While,
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: yeah but like that is the bare. Minimum but a
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: lot of men don't do it. Either, No, YEAH i.
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: Don't go on my phone When i'm.
• 33:54
  Speaker 4: OUT i want to be.
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: Free what about when you're texting your fucking drug, dealer your, friend,
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: then aren't?
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: You, yeah transferring money to play the? Poke?
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: Exactly about when you go in your front to pay
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: for the? Drink no one carries a wall of these.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: DAYS i wouldn't take a.
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: Wallet on a night out. NEITHER i would lose that.
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: Shit that's a great, Rebuttal, actually if you.
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: Click on your phone to pay for your.
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: Drink, yeah you're not buying. ANYTHING i know you're paying
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: for a million, beers bitch.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: Exactly and, ALSO i know for a fact you're a
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: little anxious.
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: Socialite that's a. Socialite you're a.
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: Little anxious social. Person, YEAH i. Know you just go
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: on that calculator whenever someone comes to trying.
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: To, yeah, yeah, yeah just text, me text, me text
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: me where you're. AT i care fox.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: Sake.
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: OKAY i feel like this one answers the question the. Best,
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: so what do men mistake is? Effort which is actually
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: the bare minimum making her? Finish?
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: Ah is that bare? MINIMUM i think it's a bare.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: MINIMUM i gotta, say, Like i'm happy to admit that's bare,
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: minimum BUT i cannot deny about how PROUD i am
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: WHEN i do. It let me.
• 34:54
  Speaker 4: Go here we.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: Go this, ONE i think answers the question. Brilliantly what
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: do men's mistake is? Effort it's actually just the bare
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: minimum just because? Flowers oh, yeah just getting flowers to get.
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: Flowers yeah, literally not because you did something, wrong and
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: it's not a special occasion you're in.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: Trouble, yeah it's just because you love. Her yeah all, Right,
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: hey other, way banana bread.
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: Freshcar, yeah, okay, sure what do men's mistake is effort
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: which is actually just the bare minimum doing chores as.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: EQUALS i saw a lot.
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: Of like cleaning the, house taking the rubbish, out cleaning the.
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: Bathroom BUT i like this one because it's, there still
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: is in the twenty first sextra. CENTURY i don't know
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: how that Like hierarqi in houses with who does the?
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: Chores so that is a really good. One, yeah doing
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: chores as equals as If like When i'm doing my,
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: Chores i'm not thinking to myself like this is me
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: putting a lot of effort. In, Yeah i'm thinking so,
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: yeah it's wait wait wait wait, No so what she's
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: saying is the way she's answering the question is a
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: lot of men think that it's putting effort in to
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: actually think of the chores as an equal thing when
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: it is bare, minimum that it's an equal, thing, Correct,
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: yeah that's what it.
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: Means, Yeah like when they do do, something they think
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: they're doing it for their partner because that's their. Job,
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: yeah when in reality it's the bare minimum and it's
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: no one's.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: Job yeah, yeah, yeah that was like, confusing BUT i get.
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: It, yeah, yeah all, right.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: This one what the men mistake as, effort but it's
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: actually just the bare minimum in all caps come new
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: near k.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: Shun why do men suck at?
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: IT i don't.
• 37:07
  Speaker 4: KNOW i don't know.
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: EITHER i have no.
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: Idea my last one romantic.
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: Gestures, yeah that is definitely mistaken his.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: Effort men think they're the best because they just do
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: one romantic thing every six.
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: Months that is one hundred percent mistaken his.
• 37:22
  Speaker 4: Effort and what about?
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: That what about the thigu, dude those FLOWERS i got? You? Yeah,
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: fuck there was no. Reason YEAH i got on for no.
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: Reason what about those? Flowers that's so toxic, too if
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: you go back to those.
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: Things, yeah, OKAY i.
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: Got three.
• 37:40
  Speaker 4: This.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: One, okay knowing if your girlfriend is a gold or
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: a silver.
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: Girly, OH i know my girlfriend's, Gold so that was.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: MINE i was gonna ask if you, Knew, YEAH i
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: know that girlfriend's. Complexion go ask your, boyfriends AM i
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: gold or am my? Silver see if they get, It
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: see if they even understand the. Question, yeah we got
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: to straight.
• 38:04
  Speaker 4: Away.
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah well, yeah that's the bare.
• 38:06
  Speaker 4: Minimum, okay it's a bare.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: Minimum, yeah that's all we do around. Here nothing but, yeah, yeah,
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: yeah knowing when my period, IS i would say, yeah yeah,
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: thereabouts oh yeah, yeah within the within a few, days,
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: yeah knowing the twenty eight. Days so, YEAH i. Agree
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: and this, ONE i do not know how men could
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: ever mistake this as effort grabbing the cantael to wipe you.
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: Down, surely surely no man is thinking Like i'm the
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: best doing yeah yeah to, NO i reckon they would.
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: Be there would Be can there be people who have
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: sex and, like are you like let me get?
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: It?
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: No, yeah no.
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: Opposite some wouldn't even do, anything oh, True, yeah some
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: would just be, LIKE i guess lay the bathrooms over.
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: There that's a good. Point, yeah my biggest like that.
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: JOB i feel.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: Special so you think it's, EFFORT.
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: I think it's a bare, minimum BUT i like. IT
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: i just had, sex she's laying. THERE i got a
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: buck from got a. Thing But i've never once the
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: question thought.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: Like this is getting the.
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: Wrong do you ever wipe it for? Her every?
• 39:11
  Speaker 4: Time?
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: Nice, YEAH i say SOMETIMES i split it up depending
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: WHAT i.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: GRAB i go for BECAUSE i have on. Suite, YEAH
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: i just go for toilet paper every.
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: Time, YEAH i sometimes go a little towel or toilet,
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: paper depending What i'm feeling, like but quite.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: Often, Okay so here's my biggest gripe with movies.
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: Is, Yeah i've said this, Recently, cassie they have.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: Sex right lay there and then they're done and they
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: just lay There And i'm, Sorry but first of, all
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: if you've pulled out and done it on her, tummy
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: you're not just laying, there no. Way second of, all
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: if you've done it consensually inside of, her you're still
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: not just laying there because it actually drips out of
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: her and she wants to go clean that. UP.
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: Yea, thirdly if you wore.
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: A condom and it's in the, Condom i'm not laying in.
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: There i'm Not i'm not having my dick stew in this. Condom.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah so, like for some reason in, MOVIES i need
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: a movie to depict it very.
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: Accurately we're right after.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: You give a little like like right after you come you,
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: KNOW i don't, know you like maybe kiss her on the.
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: FOREHEAD i love. You but then you both just get
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: up and have a. Shower best THAT i haven't even
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: been doing a rag thing. Lately both of us straight
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: to the.
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: Shower, Yeah i've also sorry to, like let you guys on.
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: It i've also, said how do people cuddle after Because i'm?
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: SWEATING i don't want to sweat in my. Bed, yeah
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: and then cud off the sweat every. Time, Yeah i'm
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: a sweaty. Guy, shit how hard do you? Guys i'm
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: just a sweaty.
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: Guy, Fair, FAIR i FIND i only sweat in the.
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: SUMMER i sweat you around THAT i won't like lay
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: on the. Bed i'll like sit on the edge of
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: the bed and then we talk and like, breathe like, no,
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: no BECAUSE i don't want to lay down and like
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: put sweat on my. Sheets, FAIR i.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: Suppose, yeah but, yeah that's my biggest cribe in.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: Movies, yeah. Unrealistic it's so.
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: Stupid battie's time for. Dilemmas, obviously if you've been here
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: for a while you. Know but this is a segment
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: where you guys submit your dilemmas via The. Lincoln the
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: description all. Anonymous mommy and daddy over. Here we like
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: to help you.
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: Out, yeah we.
• 41:25
  Speaker 4: Do quick.
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: QUESTION i want to, say if you're enjoying, these we
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: would love it if you could give it a quick five.
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: Stock, yes we would love.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: That that'd be very, lovely but you, know we'll leave
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: that up to. You my. ONE i got a title
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: for this. One boyfriend ghosted me after a year and a. Half.
• 41:44
  Speaker 4: Ghosted, yeah that's.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: Crazy, hey guys love the. Pod SO i have recently
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: broken up with my boyfriend of a year and a
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: half AND i want to know IF i am in
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: the Right, Okay SO i have never been into drugs or. Alcohol,
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: however after going to a festival with my, FRIENDS i
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: was offered a brownie for a festival okay by my,
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: friend AND i was interested and trusted the friend and
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: only ate. Half it didn't really have an effect AND
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: i just kept dancing and had a great.
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: Night that's.
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: Good the next TIME i saw my, BOYFRIEND i told
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: him THAT i had taken the brownie and he went
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: quiet and told me he was disappointed and always loved
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: the fact THAT i don't take. Drugs he said he
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: needed time and then proceeded to ghost me for two.
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: Weeks where does he do?
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: DRUGS i don't, know and ONCE i asked to, talk
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: he just said he needed much more time to. Think
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: AFTER i waited for a month of him barely speaking to,
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: ME i broke up with. HIM i need to know
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: IF i am in the, right you were one hundred
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: percent in the, right one hundred and ten percent in the.
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: Right, yeah fair. Enough this, guy if he's like a
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: straighty one eighty and doesn't take, anything need some time
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: to dwell on his emotions and then talk to. You
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: BUT i would give it twenty four hours. Max not
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: even twenty four, hours twelve. Hours, also it's just. Childish,
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah and you're completely in your right to do whatever you,
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: want like with your.
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: Actions you told him straight away the next, day you
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: are allowed to do whatever you. WANT i, mean.
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: He's allowed to feel however he wants. Too but this
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: is just he is crazy.
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: Unless he has, sorry unless you guys have had a
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: conversation in the past where he's, Like i'm not cool with,
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: drugs LIKE i don't want to be with someone that does,
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: drugs and you're, like oh, no, yeah, yeah, yeah LIKE
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: i don't do. That she would have mentioned, that but
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: BUT i think she would have mentioned. That, Yeah so
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: in this, case obviously they've just you, know gone through their.
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: Relationship he's just liked the fact she doesn't do, Drugs
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: so you can do whatever the fuck you.
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: Want, yeah you did the right. Thing and also this
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: is why People this is why people lie in, relationships
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: because a lot of people wouldn't have the guts to break,
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: up and then they just start lying when they do
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: their said. Thing because of the reaction of this guy
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: who's just a month fucking up a, BROWNIE i get.
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: Cheated that's how he's. ACTING i, MEAN i just.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: Also, think what's the point of not? Talking what do
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: you need time? For, Right so she's done something you don't,
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: like you're allowed to voice. That and then if she, says, oh,
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: YEAH i didn't really like. It ACTUALLY i won't do it.
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: Again if it's something you don't really, Like i'm more
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: than happy to make it a thing that we don't. Do.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: Right but, again even if he did just voice it
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: and he's, like, oh that's not SOMETHING i, like and
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: then she, goes, WELL i like doing. IT i had
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: a good, time AND i do want to do. It
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: so we didn't meet in the middle here or some,
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: shit and then they need to decide whether or not
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: this relationship can. Keep what's with the, Time why do
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: you need so much?
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: Time and also if that didn't, HAPPEN i also don't
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: like that if she says LIKE i don't want to
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: do it for. You i'd be, like, well fuck off
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: And i'm.
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: Disappointed didn't?
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: You?
• 45:01
  Speaker 6: You?
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: Fuck are? You who are?
• 45:03
  Speaker 4: You get off your?
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: Pedestal bro get off that high? Horse what you?
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: Do the right?
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: Thing how proud of you if you came to. Me
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: IF i was actually your mum and you came to,
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: Me i'll be, like good. Job beat More. Brownie, yeah,
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: okay funnily, Enough both The lemmas are highlighting terrible, men
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: but this one hasn't made the decision.
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: To mean funnily. Enough they're all about that.
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: Most sometimes their friendship was so title he ditched me
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: to go to the clubs while my grandma.
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: Died DON'T i don't need to hear?
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: Anymore, Hi jake And oddie love the. POD i listened
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: every single day at. Work i've been with my boyfriend
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: for about a year and a half, now and we
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: were friends at school for years. BEFOREHAND i generally see
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: myself marrying this. Boy we practically live together at this,
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: point since he spends seven nights a week at my.
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: House we have regular tips and, arguments as every couple,
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: does especially since we spend every single day. Together my
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: dilemma is. This when we were about six months in
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: my grandma fell really ill and became terminal so. QUICKLY
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: i was one of the closest in my large family to.
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: HER i used to have tea with her after school
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: three times a. Week she was basically my best. Friend
• 46:18
  Speaker 2: my boyfriend had even started coming along to our weekly
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: teas and he got close with her two he knew
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: how much she meant to. Me On, SATURDAY i got
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: the news that she wasn't going to make it past the.
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: Weekend it was such a sudden. SHOCK i was so
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: upset and distraught and needed my, boyfriend but he had
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: plans to go clubbing for close friend's. BIRTHDAY i called
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: him crying and begged him to stay home with me
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: BECAUSE i was inconsolable and just needed. Support In, brackets
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: he was literally only he was literally only one klomoral,
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: way but he wouldn't come home and instead went out
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: till four. AM i asked him all day and night
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: not to go, out telling HIM i needed. HIM i
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: ended up staying awake all night crying to the point
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: WHERE i actually was. VOMITING i even wrote out a
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: breakup message for the next TIME i saw, him because
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: in that, moment it felt generally. UNFORGIVABLE i was and
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: still am in love with, him and we've had the
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: best year, since but every time we, ARGUE i can't
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: help but feel so much resentment over that. NIGHT i
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: don't Think i've ever really been able to forgive, him and,
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: HONESTLY i don't THINK i ever. Will it hasn't affected
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: us on the day to, day but in every ARGUMENT
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: i always circle back to that moment a year ago
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: and the fact THAT i never forgave. Him SHOULD i
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: have forgiven him by? Now or is this a valid
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: thing to never be able to? Forgive and will it
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: be the downfall of my?
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: RELATIONSHIP i think that it's one hundred percent, valid BUT
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: i think that it did weigh too much harm to the,
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: relationship and choosing to stay was the easy option because
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: you didn't want to go through obviously two heartbreaks at,
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: once because your grandma died and then he was also
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: leaving him would be.
• 48:09
  Speaker 4: Heartbreak but he showed his true colors in that.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: Moment he did, too which is the harsh reality of.
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: It where's he gonna be when you givehim?
• 48:19
  Speaker 4: Birth? Yeah?
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: Question, like SO i don't want to just say break
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: up with him Because, NO i one hundred percent think
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: this guy is a terrible person for doing. That, YES
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: i don't think he deserves a second. Chance, yes but
• 48:36
  Speaker 2: it's been a year and she loves this. Man what's
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: years as it. Happened, yeah and they're still, Together So
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: i'm thinking you have to deal with it. Still it's
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: it's just not something you can always resent him for
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: when you're. Arguing so if you want to make the
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: conscious decision to stay with this, boy you need to
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: deal with it head first and tell him, everything and
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: hopefully he's. GROWN i don't think he deserves a second
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: chef for what he. Did but it's been a, year
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: SO i don't think you should just keep like thinking about.
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: It you need to say to him like that was
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: not ON i thought about breaking up with. You i'm
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: still thinking about breaking up with. You what do you
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: have to say for? Yourself, yeah what's the point of.
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: That you need to get it otherwise if you never say,
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: ANYTHING i think you should break.
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: Up but she says every fight they have that she
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: brings it. Up, no she thinks about. It she doesn't
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: bring it, up or she doesn't actually bring it.
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: Up she thinks about.
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: It thinks about, it.
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: She thinks how MUCH i resent him for. It she isn't,
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: Healthy SO.
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: I would agree with, you IF i actually just don't
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: THINK i agree with. YOU i THINK i just genuinely
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: think they need to break up because she's not over.
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: It and regardless of having the conversation now or in
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: a year or even at the TIME i.
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: Did, IT i would IF i had, options option one
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: would be. Breakup BUT i don't think she will want
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: to break up because it's been a. Year SO i
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: think you have to deal with the situation for what it.
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: Is that's her choice to make.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: That, yeah. Exactly my advice is break. Up your advice
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: is if you don't want to break, up deal with.
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: It, yeah and you do have to deal with. It,
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah i'm saying.
• 50:07
  Speaker 4: Breakup.
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: YEAH i think it's LIKE i, think at them at
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: the time it, happened when you broke the breakup, message.
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: You should have said that. Shit, yeah, yeah one hundred.
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: Percent and it's JUST i also want to, say, like
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: it is hard, too because you've given an extra year
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: of your life to this man who treated you or
• 50:23
  Speaker 2: didn't do anything when you needed his support the. Most,
• 50:26
  Speaker 2: yeah which is really really. Sad but you have to
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: deal with it head. First otherwise it's always going to
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: eat away and that will be the downfall if you
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: don't deal with. It if you want to stay with, this,
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: man go with your. Gut, yeah trust your. Gut if
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: you're honestly only you. Know if your gut SAYS i
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: can't get over, this then, yes you'd have to break
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: up of.
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: It fuck, yeah, YEAH i couldn't say better.
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: Myself it is time for, comments bad. Is if you
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: want to get your comment, read just comment on the
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: episode below and we might get to it the next.
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: Week i'm going to kick things off with rad he
• 51:02
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