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Cop Recruits His Mother To Shoot Pregnant Ex In Custody Battle · Murder Files Unsealed

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  Speaker 1: Imagine you are sitting in a brightly lit McDonald's parking lot. Right.
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  Speaker 2: Just a totally normal evening.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly. It's about 5.45 p.m. The sun is still out.
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  Speaker 1: Commuters are grabbing dinner on their way home. You know,
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  Speaker 1: teenagers are hanging around with milkshakes.
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  Speaker 2: Cars cycling through the drive-thru.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly. You are just waiting in your car to pick
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  Speaker 1: up your kids. And you feel completely, I mean, undeniably
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  Speaker 1: safe in that environment.
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  Speaker 2: Because of the social contracts.
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  Speaker 1: Right. Right. But as this massive stack of reporting from
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  Speaker 1: Crimewatch Daily reveals in our deep dive today, those social
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  Speaker 1: contracts that keep us feeling secure in broad daylight are, well,
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  Speaker 1: they're completely imaginary.
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  Speaker 2: They really are.
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  Speaker 1: And when someone decides to just tear those contracts up,
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  Speaker 1: the violence doesn't announce itself. There's no ominous movie music.
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  Speaker 1: It just explodes literally right in the middle of a
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  Speaker 1: Tuesday afternoon.
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  Speaker 2: And it forces a terrifying recalibration of how we perceive threats. Oh, absolutely.
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  Speaker 2: Because we are evolutionarily conditioned to look for danger in
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  Speaker 2: the shadows. We look for it in isolation, in the dark.
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  Speaker 1: Right. The classic stranger down a dark alley.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. But the two cases we are tearing apart today,
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  Speaker 2: I mean, while they are radically different in their motives,
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  Speaker 2: both of them hinge on this complete inversion of our
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  Speaker 2: threat radar.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, they show us what happens when extreme lethal detachment
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  Speaker 1: just hides behind the most mundane masks imaginable.
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  Speaker 2: The people you'd never suspect.
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  Speaker 1: Right. So that is exactly the mission of this deep dive.
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  Speaker 1: We're taking you straight into the mechanics of two deeply disturbing,
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  Speaker 1: incredibly different true crime cases.
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  Speaker 2: To figure out the mechanisms behind the violence.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, not just what happened, but how someone's brain... you know,
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  Speaker 1: allows them to cross that line in broad daylight. We're
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  Speaker 1: going to look at the extreme lengths people go to,
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  Speaker 1: the bizarre realities they invent to justify their actions.
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  Speaker 2: And how supposedly airtight criminal plans spectacularly unravel.
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  Speaker 1: The second they hit the real world, it's wild.
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  Speaker 2: It really is. We need to examine the psychological chasm
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  Speaker 2: in both of these scenarios, because one is driven by
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  Speaker 2: this incredibly dense, intergenerational, obsessive family enmeshment.
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  Speaker 1: Right, years of buildup.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. While the other is driven by a trigger So trivial,
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  Speaker 2: so uniquely modern, it just completely defies logic.
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  Speaker 1: Yet both perpetrators end up at the exact same terrifying destination.
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  Speaker 2: A total chilling absence of human empathy.
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  Speaker 1: So let's get right into the first case. Because the
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  Speaker 1: setting is so profoundly normal, it almost gives you whiplash.
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  Speaker 2: This is in Waldorf, Maryland.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Waldorf. It's a middle-class suburb, maybe 30 miles outside
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  Speaker 1: of Washington, D.C., And as I mentioned, it's 5.45 p.m. primetime.
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  Speaker 2: Broad daylight.
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  Speaker 1: Broad daylight. And sitting quietly in their Jeep in this
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  Speaker 1: bustling mall parking lot right near the McDonald's are Crystal
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  Speaker 1: and Robert Maney.
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  Speaker 2: They're newlyweds, aren't they?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, newlyweds. And Crystal is a devoted mother. She has
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  Speaker 1: one child with Robert, and she is currently seven months
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  Speaker 1: pregnant with their second.
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  Speaker 2: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: Right. But she also has two children from a previous
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  Speaker 1: relationship with a man named Richard Conway.
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  Speaker 2: And the location they chose here is... It's the first
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  Speaker 2: critical piece of psychology we have to analyze.
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  Speaker 1: Parking lot.
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  Speaker 2: Right. They are sitting in the specific parking lot for
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  Speaker 2: a scheduled child custody handover. And custody exchanges, I mean,
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  Speaker 2: they're inherently fraught with tension.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, totally. It's almost always awkward or hostile.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. So ask yourself, why do these families, guided by
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  Speaker 2: lawyers and the courts, almost universally choose fast food parking lots,
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  Speaker 2: police station lobbies, or crowded mall complexes, For these handovers.
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  Speaker 1: Because you want witnesses. I mean, you want cameras.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. You want a neutral zone where nobody feels like
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  Speaker 2: they have the home court advantage.
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  Speaker 1: It's the architectural embodiment of a social contract.
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  Speaker 2: That's a perfect way to put it. The presence of crowds,
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  Speaker 2: the daylight. The surveillance cameras, these are all external environmental deterrence.
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  Speaker 1: Right. You rely on the assumption that even the most
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  Speaker 1: hostile individuals possess, like, enough self-preservation to suppress their rage
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  Speaker 1: when hundreds of eyes are watching.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. You meet in public so that the environment itself
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  Speaker 2: forces everyone to remain on their best behavior.
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  Speaker 1: But that social contract only works if both parties actually
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  Speaker 1: care about the consequences.
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  Speaker 2: And in this case, someone did not.
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  Speaker 1: Right. So Crystal and Robert arrive early for a 6.0 p.m.
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  Speaker 2: Drop-off.
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  Speaker 1: They are waiting for Richard to bring her two older children.
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  Speaker 1: And we have to establish who Richard Conway is because
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  Speaker 1: he's not just an angry ex.
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  Speaker 2: Right, he's a police officer.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a patrol officer with the Prince George's County
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  Speaker 1: Police Department. And he actually had majority custody of these
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  Speaker 1: two kids. The split was like 10 days with him,
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  Speaker 1: four days with Crystal.
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  Speaker 2: Which is a remarkably significant split for very young children.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely.
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  Speaker 2: And the living situation adds another layer of density to this.
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  Speaker 2: When the children were with Richard... They were all living
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  Speaker 2: in a house with his mother, Caroline Conway.
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  Speaker 1: The grandmother.
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  Speaker 2: Right. Caroline was acting as the primary child care provider
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  Speaker 2: while Richard worked his unpredictable police shifts. She wasn't just
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  Speaker 2: a grandmother who visited on Sundays.
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  Speaker 1: She was basically raising them.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. Deeply, inextricably woven into the hourly, daily existence of
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  Speaker 2: these children.
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  Speaker 1: Keep that dynamic in mind because it's so important later.
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  Speaker 1: So Crystal and Robert are waiting in the Jeep. 5.45
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  Speaker 1: turns into 5.50, then 5.55.
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  Speaker 2: Just wait.
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  Speaker 1: Just waiting. It's almost 6 o'clock, the exact time they're
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  Speaker 1: supposed to get the kids. But the children do not arrive. Instead,
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  Speaker 1: out of nowhere, a shooter violently yanks open the rear
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  Speaker 1: door and jumps directly into the backseat of their car.
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  Speaker 2: Which, I mean, think about the physiological shock of that
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  Speaker 2: specific spatial violation.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, at the backseat.
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  Speaker 2: Right. A car is an extension of our personal intimate space.
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  Speaker 2: When you're inside your vehicle, doors closed, You feel insulated
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  Speaker 2: from the outside world.
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely. It's your bubble.
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  Speaker 2: To have an armed threat materialize not outside your window,
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  Speaker 2: but physically inside that tiny enclosed cabin.
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  Speaker 1: It completely short circuits the brain's ability to process the threat.
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  Speaker 2: It really does. The fight or flight response requires mobility.
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  Speaker 2: And in a car, you have none.
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  Speaker 1: And the Crime Watch Daily reporting details this horrific split second.
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  Speaker 1: Robert and Crystal look at each other. There is this instantaneous,
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  Speaker 1: silent communication between them, this desperate realization that one of
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  Speaker 1: them has to go for the gun.
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  Speaker 2: But Robert is unable to get to it.
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  Speaker 1: No, the confined space works completely against them.
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  Speaker 2: Because a vehicle interior is a trap. In a car seat,
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  Speaker 2: you are restricted by the steering column, the seatbelt locking mechanism,
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  Speaker 2: the center console.
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  Speaker 1: And the shooter is right behind you.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. The shooter has the high ground and the element
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  Speaker 2: of total surprise. Any defensive maneuver Robert could attempt is
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  Speaker 2: biomechanically restricted.
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  Speaker 1: Robert does manage to scramble out the driver's side door, though.
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  Speaker 1: He falls onto the pavement of the parking lot.
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  Speaker 2: In the middle of everything.
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  Speaker 1: Right. And from the witness accounts, it appears he is
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  Speaker 1: hit at least once while desperately trying to escape the vehicle.
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  Speaker 1: But the attacker does not just let him run.
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  Speaker 2: No, they pursue him.
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  Speaker 1: The shooter jumps out of the backseat, walks over to Robert,
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  Speaker 1: and stands directly over him.
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  Speaker 2: Which is a crucial detail for behavioral analysis.
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  Speaker 1: Literally standing over him like an executioner in the middle
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  Speaker 1: of a McDonald's parking lot and pumps multiple bullets point
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  Speaker 1: blank into his chest.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, this is not a panic firing.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 2: This is not a robbery gone wrong where the shooter
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  Speaker 2: is firing blindly while retreating. Standing over an incapacitated victim
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  Speaker 2: to deliver fatal shots is a localized, highly calculated execution.
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  Speaker 2: It's so complicated. It requires a horrifying level of malice
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  Speaker 2: and commitment to the kill.
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  Speaker 1: But the nightmare is not over because the shooter then
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  Speaker 1: slowly walks around the back of the jeep to the
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  Speaker 1: passenger side. Crystal is cowering, hiding on the pavement on
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  Speaker 1: the other side. And remember, she is seven months pregnant.
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  Speaker 1: She is visibly heavily pregnant. And the shooter finds her, aims,
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  Speaker 1: and fires two to three times directly into her stomach.
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  Speaker 2: It's just unimaginable.
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  Speaker 1: Crystal is lying there on the asphalt, looking underneath the
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  Speaker 1: chassis of a Jeep, and she can see her husband
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  Speaker 1: dying on the other side.
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  Speaker 2: The sheer brutality of targeting a woman in her third trimester,
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  Speaker 2: and specifically aiming for the abdomen, it's an attempt to
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  Speaker 2: eradicate an entire lineage.
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  Speaker 1: To wipe them out completely.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. It is not just about killing Crystal. It is
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  Speaker 2: a physical manifestation of erasing her future, her current family,
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  Speaker 2: everything she represents. It is annihilation, plain and simple.
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  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm. And the chaos around them is absolute. There are
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  Speaker 1: people in the drive-thru whose cars are actually getting hit
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  Speaker 1: by ricocheting bullets.
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  Speaker 2: Right. Innocent bystanders. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: A child in a nearby vehicle actually finds a bullet
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  Speaker 1: fragment and points it out to their grandfather. Emergency crews
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  Speaker 1: flood the scene. They work frantically on Robert right there
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  Speaker 1: on the pavement for 10, maybe 15 minutes, desperately trying
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  Speaker 1: to get a pulse.
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  Speaker 2: But they can't.
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  Speaker 1: No, they can't. Robert dies at the scene, never knowing
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  Speaker 1: if his wife and his unborn baby are going to
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  Speaker 1: make it.
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  Speaker 2: It is a devastating, chaotic tragedy. And the shooter vanishes
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  Speaker 2: into the panic. But in their arrogance, they left behind
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  Speaker 2: the one thing that unravels their entire reality.
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  Speaker 1: Right, because here's where it gets really interesting. Crystal, against
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  Speaker 1: all odds, survives those gunshots to the abdomen.
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  Speaker 2: A miracle, truly.
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  Speaker 1: Absolute miracle. As paramedics are loading her into the ambulance,
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  Speaker 1: the scene is pure hysteria, but she is completely lucid.
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  Speaker 1: She grabs an officer and identifies her shooter.
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  Speaker 2: It wasn't a random attack.
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  Speaker 1: No, it wasn't a carjacking. It wasn't a gang initiation.
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  Speaker 1: Crystal says, it's my ex's mom, Caroline Conway.
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  Speaker 2: The 53-year-old grandmother.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: The woman who bakes cookies and watches the children.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I have to push back on this because it
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  Speaker 1: sounds like a bad movie villain's plot. How does a
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  Speaker 1: grandmother transition from changing diapers to becoming a tactical parking
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  Speaker 1: lot assassin? Like, how does that switch flip?
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  Speaker 2: Well, the switch doesn't flip overnight. This is where we
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  Speaker 2: have to look at the mechanism of psychological enmeshment.
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  Speaker 1: Enmeshment. Right.
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  Speaker 2: It's incredibly common in high-conflict custody practices. battles. Think of
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  Speaker 2: it like an autoimmune disease of the family unit.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, that's an interesting analogy.
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  Speaker 2: An autoimmune disease happens when the body's natural defense system
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  Speaker 2: gets confused and starts violently attacking its own healthy cells,
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  Speaker 2: believing they are a threat. Right.
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  Speaker 1: It turns on itself. Exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. Caroline's maternal instinct, her protective drive over those grandchildren,
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  Speaker 2: mutated into a lethal pathology.
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  Speaker 1: So she thought she was protecting them.
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  Speaker 2: In her enmeshed, distorted worldview, Crystal and Robert were a
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  Speaker 2: virus that had to be eradicated for the host, meaning
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  Speaker 2: the grandchildren, to survive. She didn't see herself as an assassin.
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  Speaker 2: She likely viewed herself as a savior, doing the unthinkable
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  Speaker 2: for the greater good of her family.
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  Speaker 1: Wow. So the police get this identification from Crystal, and
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  Speaker 1: obviously they act immediately. Crystal gives them the address where
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  Speaker 1: Caroline lives with her police officer son, Richard.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: The sheriff's office scrambles an emergency services team, basically a
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  Speaker 1: SWAT unit, and they descend on the Conway house. They
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  Speaker 1: set up a perimeter, expecting a barricaded suspect, maybe a
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  Speaker 1: hostage situation.
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  Speaker 2: But the house is empty.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, when they breach the house, it is completely empty.
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  Speaker 2: Because while the SWAT team is holding the perimeter... An
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  Speaker 2: incredibly elaborate yet fundamentally disastrous getaway operation is already unfolding.
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  Speaker 1: Walk me through the logic of this getaway plan because
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  Speaker 1: it makes zero sense to me. Investigators eventually pull surveillance
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  Speaker 1: video from businesses near the mall and they see Caroline
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  Speaker 1: Conway near minutes after executing a man and shooting a
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  Speaker 1: pregnant woman just casually strolling away from the terror zone.
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  Speaker 2: Unbelievable.
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  Speaker 1: She crosses a busy highway completely unbothered and heads over
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  Speaker 1: to a Dunkin Donuts and a gas station.
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  Speaker 2: The complete shift in physical demeanor there is chilling.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. How do you do that?
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  Speaker 2: Going from active shooter to casual pedestrian requires profound compartmentalization.
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  Speaker 2: She has shoved the extreme violence into a mental box
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  Speaker 2: and is now entirely focused on executing phase two of
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  Speaker 2: the plan.
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  Speaker 1: And phase two involves pulling out a burner phone.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: A prepaid throwaway cell phone, the kind criminals use specifically
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  Speaker 1: because they're hard to trace. She uses this burner to
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  Speaker 1: call her son, Richard. Now, this is where the arrogance
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  Speaker 1: just leaps off the page for me.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, the burner phone purchase.
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  Speaker 1: Where did this burner phone come from? Investigators find out
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  Speaker 1: it was purchased a month prior to the shooting by Richard,
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  Speaker 1: a sworn police officer.
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  Speaker 2: The premeditation here is undeniable. The single object proves that
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  Speaker 2: the murder was not a crime of passion or a
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  Speaker 2: sudden psychological break.
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  Speaker 1: No, not at all.
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  Speaker 2: It was a logistical operation planned weeks in advance.
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  Speaker 1: But the way Richard got the phone is the most
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  Speaker 1: incompetent thing I have ever heard. He doesn't go buy
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  Speaker 1: it in disguise. He takes a 16-year-old kid, a teenager,
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  Speaker 1: drives him to a Walmart, hands him cash, and feeds
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  Speaker 1: him this absurd story.
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  Speaker 2: What did he tell him?
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  Speaker 1: He says, hey, I need a burner phone because I'm
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  Speaker 1: a cop working a huge, highly classified narcotics case with
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  Speaker 1: some guys from New York, and I can't use my
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  Speaker 1: personal phone.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 1: Right. The kid goes in, buys the phone with the cash,
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  Speaker 1: and hands it to the cop.
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  Speaker 2: It is the psychological trap of professional arrogance.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: When you work within the justice system, you learn the
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  Speaker 2: mechanics of how criminals are caught. Sure. You learn about
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  Speaker 2: cell tower data, digital footprints, and financial paper trails. Richard
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  Speaker 2: believed that by using cash and a proxy, meaning the teenager,
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  Speaker 2: he was insulating himself from the digital footprint.
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  Speaker 1: But he was so focused on outsmarting the technology that
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  Speaker 1: he completely ignored human psychology.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, let's unpack this. Richard is a literal police officer.
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  Speaker 1: He knows how burner phones, cell towers, and surveillance work.
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  Speaker 1: How on earth did he think this incredibly sloppy plan
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  Speaker 1: would succeed? You don't think a 16-year-old boy is going
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  Speaker 1: to remember the day a local cop made him act
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  Speaker 1: like a secret agent for a fake New York drug cartel?
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  Speaker 2: He created a massive, highly memorable human witness... while trying
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  Speaker 2: to avoid a digital one. It is a phenomenal blind spot.
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  Speaker 2: Law enforcement officers who cross into criminality often believe they
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  Speaker 2: are the authors of the system and therefore immune to
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  Speaker 2: its basic rules. He overestimated his own criminal competence because
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  Speaker 2: he mistook his knowledge of police procedure for an ability
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  Speaker 2: to control reality.
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  Speaker 1: So Caroline uses this clumsily acquired burner phone to call Richard. Richard,
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  Speaker 1: who has just been circling the area in his car,
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  Speaker 1: picks her up. They then drive to the home of
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  Speaker 1: some family friends, the Gales. This house is about 15
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  Speaker 1: to 20 minutes away from the crime scene. And this
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  Speaker 1: is where the wheels completely come off the wagon. They
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  Speaker 1: arrive at the house. Caroline goes inside and changes her clothes,
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  Speaker 1: putting on a yellow shirt to alter her appearance.
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  Speaker 2: Standard criminal evasion.
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  Speaker 1: But then she walks up to her friends and spontaneously
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  Speaker 1: blurts out, I shot them. I shot them both.
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  Speaker 2: Which is a textbook example of cognitive dissonance collapsing under
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  Speaker 2: the weight of reality.
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  Speaker 1: Wait, explain that mechanism. What is actually happening in her
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  Speaker 1: brain when she walks into that house? You say cognitive dissonance,
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  Speaker 1: but doesn't that imply she felt guilty? Because I don't
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  Speaker 1: see any guilt here. I just see sloppy panic.
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  Speaker 2: That's a great distinction. Guilt and cognitive dissonance are different mechanisms.
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  Speaker 2: Guilt is a moral judgment of your own actions. Cognitive
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  Speaker 2: dissonance is the psychological stress experienced when you hold two
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  Speaker 2: contradictory beliefs or realities simultaneously.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so what were her two realities?
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  Speaker 2: Well, Caroline built an internal reality where she was a stealthy,
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  Speaker 2: justified protector executing a clean, secret plan. But the physical
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  Speaker 2: reality was that she just brutally gunned down two human
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  Speaker 2: beings in a chaotic public space. There is blood on
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  Speaker 2: her clothes, her adrenaline is crashing, and she is terrified.
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  Speaker 1: So her brain just short circuits.
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  Speaker 2: Her brain cannot sustain the friction between the fantasy of
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  Speaker 2: the clean plan and the horror of the messy reality.
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  Speaker 2: The pressure becomes intolerable. She confesses, not out of moral remorse,
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  Speaker 2: but because her brain desperately needs to align the internal
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  Speaker 2: fantasy with the external reality by vocalizing it. She needs
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  Speaker 2: to speak it aloud to make sense of what she
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  Speaker 2: just physically did, completely disregarding the fact that she is
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  Speaker 2: torpedoing her entire cover-up.
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  Speaker 1: And while she is inside verbally torching their plan, Richard
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  Speaker 1: is outside doing it on camera.
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  Speaker 2: The surveillance system.
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: Yes, the Gales have a home surveillance system. And it
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: captures Richard Conway, the police officer, standing outside, taking the
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: murder weapon and the clothes his mother was wearing during
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: the shooting and stuffing them into a white plastic trash bag.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: Again, the collision of procedural knowledge and panicked execution.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: He knows better.
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: He knows exactly what gunshot residue and ballistics are. He
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: knows those clothes are a death sentence in a courtroom.
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: But instead of a methodical disposal, he is hastily stuffing
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: them into household garbage, on a friend's front porch, completely
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: oblivious to the cameras he normally uses to catch other criminals.
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: Okay, let's dissect the next part of this plan because
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: it genuinely defies belief. The Conways had this entire elaborate
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: fake-out designed to give themselves an alibi.
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: Right, the phone call.
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: Remember when Caroline first jumped into the back seat of
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: Crystal's Jeep? Before she started shooting, she held a gun
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: to Crystal and forced her to make a phone call
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: to Richard. And the purpose of that terrifying phone call
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: was to have Crystal verbally changed the custody drop-off location.
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: They forced her to say, let's meet at 7.30 p.m.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: at the La Plata Courthouse instead of the 6.0 p.m.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: McDonald's meeting.
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: This was the architectural core of their alibi strategy. They
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: were trying to manufacture a digital and auditory footprint.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: To prove they weren't at McDonald's.
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: Exactly. By forcing the victim to place a call establishing
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: a new timeline in a new location, they thought they
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: could create a verifiable paper trail that proving they were
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: nowhere near the McDonald's at 5.45 p.m.
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: So after the shooting, after stopping at the Gales house
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: to change clothes and stuff guns and trash bags, Richard
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: and Caroline take the kids and they get back in
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: the car. They are attempting to live out this manufactured alibi.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: They are driving around pretending they are on their way
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: to the courthouse for the 7.30 drop off, acting like
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: they have absolutely no idea Crystal and Robert have just
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: been gunned down. But here is the kicker. They never
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: actually go to the courthouse.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: They don't.
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: No. Surveillance video catches them pulling into a Target store instead.
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: They walk into the Target bathroom, hang out for a minute, leave,
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: and just go home.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: The deterioration of the plan is happening in real time.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: Completely falling apart.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: They likely realized, somewhat belatedly, that a courthouse is surrounded
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: by government surveillance cameras. And showing up there with a
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: shaky alibi might be riskier than just abandoning the plan entirely.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: But this entire convoluted charade, The forced phone call, the
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: burner phone, the target bathroom, it all hinged on one massive,
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: fatal assumption.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: That Crystal was dead. They assumed that standing over a
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: pregnant woman and shooting her in the stomach at close
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: range guaranteed silence.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: Precisely. Their equation only worked if the variables remained static.
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: They believed that because they administered lethal force, they controlled
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: the narrative.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: But they didn't.
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: They completely underestimated the biological resilience of the human body
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: and the sheer unpredictability of violence. The moment Crystal survived
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: and spoke her name, every single piece of their elaborate
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: alibi transformed from a shield into a glaring spotlight of premeditation.
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: It is baffling. Richard is a cop. How could he
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: possibly think this incredibly messy, fragile plan would survive five
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: minutes of police scrutiny?
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: Because arrogance is blinding. When people construct these plots, they
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: suffer from a form of tunnel vision.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: They miss the big picture. Yes.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: They focus intensely on the mechanism of the murder and
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: the immediate alibi, but they completely fail to conceptualize the
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: omniscient view of an active investigation. They don't realize that
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: detectives aren't just looking at the phone call. They were
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: looking at the cell tower pings, the surveillance footage from
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: three mile away, the teenage witness at Walmart.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: So running on the fumes of this totally shattered plan,
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: Richard and Caroline drive back to their neighborhood. But remember,
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: the police have already raided their house.
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: Right. The SWAT team was there.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: The entire street is cordoned off with yellow crime scene tape.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: There are cruisers everywhere, lights flashing. A crowd of neighborhood
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: onlookers has gathered. So what do the masterminds do?
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: They try to blend in.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: They park their car, walk up to the edge of
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: the police tape, and just stand in the crowd. They
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: try to blend in with the onlookers, pretending they're just
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: curious neighbors wondering why the police are at their house.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: It is a sociopathic attempt at hiding in plain sight.
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: Imagine the psychological detachment required to stand shoulder to shoulder
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: with your neighbors, watching your own police colleagues secure a
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: crime scene that you orchestrated.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: Unbelievable.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: He is trying to leverage his identity as a cop
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: to shield himself from being a suspect.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: But the charade ends right there. Because while Richard is
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: standing in the crowd trying to look innocent, his cell
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: phone starts ringing. His supervisors at the police department have
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: been blowing up his phone for hours, and he has
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: been ignoring them.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: Bad move.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: Finally, he answers. The officer on the other end says,
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: where are you? Richard, playing dumb to the absolute end, says, why?
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: The officer replies, the Charles County Sheriff's Office needs to
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: make contact with you immediately.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: The walls are instantly closing in. His colleagues are no
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: longer treating him as a brother in blue. They are
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: treating him as a person of interest in a homicide.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: So Richard walks over to the sheriff at the crime
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: scene tape. He says, hey, I'm Richard Conway. I was
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: told I need to speak to you. The sheriff looks
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: at him and asks the only question that matters. Where
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: is your mother?
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: And what does he do?
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Richard, the guy who orchestrated this entire cover-up, who bought
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: the burner phones and hid the gun, just points a
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: finger into the crowd and says, oh, she's right over there.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: Carolyn is just standing there in her yellow shirt, and
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: the police slap the cuffs on her immediately.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: The absolute capitulation in that moment is staggering.
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: All the planning, the forced alibi calls, the elaborate lies.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: It evaporates the second he is confronted by direct authority.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: He throws her under the bus.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: He throws his mother to the wolves instantly because his
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: primary instinct shifts from protecting the conspiracy to protecting himself.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: And their self-preservation instincts are just as flawed as their
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: murder plot. They bring both of them into the interrogation rooms.
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: Richard is a seasoned police officer. He knows the Miranda
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: warning by heart.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: Better than anyone.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: Right. He knows exactly how interrogations are designed to extract confessions.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: He knows better than anyone on Earth that he needs
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: to shut his mouth and demand a lawyer.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: But he doesn't.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Neither of them do. They both wave their rights and
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: sing like birds for hours.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: Why do cops talk? Because they suffer from the delusion
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: that they are still colleagues, not suspects.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Oh, that makes sense.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: Richard likely believed he could manage the detectives. He thought
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: he could spin a narrative convincing enough to regain control
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: of the situation. He was relying on his badge to
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: afford him the benefit of the doubt. failing to realize
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: that the evidence against him was already insurmountable.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: And the narrative they try to spin is pathetic. They
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: claim they were just driving around looking at houses.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: That's their alibi.
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: That is the master alibi for their missing time during
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: the murder. We were looking at real estate. The detectives
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: are practically laughing at them. They have Crystal's direct eyewitness
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: testimony from a hospital bed.
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: They're doomed.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: They formally charge Caroline with first-degree murder right then and there.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: They release Richard initially just to build the file, but
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: isn't long before they come back for him too, armed
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: with the surveillance video of him taking out the trash
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: bag with the murder weapon.
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: The speed at which this airtight conspiracy imploded is a
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: testament to how fragile these criminal fantasies truly are when
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: exposed to basic investigative pressure. Yeah. But the unraveling of
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: the plot only forces us to confront the much darker question.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: Why? Why did they do it?
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: Exactly.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: What could possibly drive a grandmother to orchestrate the execution
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: of her grandchildren's mother? The motive that was presented during
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: the investigation and the subsequent trial was described by prosecutors
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: as a custody dispute on steroids.
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: Which is saying something.
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: Caroline claims she was acting purely out of a desperate
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: need to protect her grandchildren. She alleged that Robert and
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: his best friend Montana were sexually molesting the children.
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: These are the most severe nuclear allegations possible in a
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: family court setting.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: And unfortunately, there are weaponized tactics sometimes seen in the
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: absolute most toxic high-conflict custody battles when one side realizes
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: they are losing legal ground.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: Let's dissect the evidence Caroline presented to support these claims
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: because it really shows how she was trying to forcibly
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: architect a new reality. First, she claimed her young grandson
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: confided in her. She said he told her he was
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: forced to go into the bathroom, sit in a dry
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: bathtub with no water, while Robert and Montana, completely naked,
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: would come in and rub on him.
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: It is an incredibly specific, horrifying narrative designed to trigger
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: an immediate panic response from any authority figure hearing it.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: Then Caroline pointed to physical proof. She claimed the kids
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: would return from Crystal's house wearing what she explicitly called
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: blood-stained or raw pampers. She painted this picture of horrific
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: physical neglect and abuse.
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: But what did the doctor say?
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: Well, when she actually took the child to a pediatrician
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: to document this supposed trauma, the doctor examined the child
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: and diagnosed it as a completely standard, albeit severe, diaper rash.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: This is where we see the cognitive distortion clearly. Caroline
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: is observing a mundane, everyday pediatric reality, a diaper rash.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: But her brain is filtering it through her own deeply paranoid,
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: enmeshed narrative.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: So you don't think she was just lying?
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: She isn't just lying. She may genuinely be incapable of
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: perceiving the rash as anything other than evidence of her
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: own worst fears.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: Wow. But she didn't stop with the doctor. Caroline sent
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: the grandson to a therapist. And during a session, the
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: therapist conducted an exercise using the bad touch, good touch,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: confusing touch framework.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: Right. Very standard pediatric therapy.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: According to Caroline, during this exercise, the grandson pointed to
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: his private area and indicated that at his mom's house,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: he would be hurt if he told anyone. This prompted
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: the therapist, acting as a mandated reporter, to file a
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: legal report of suspected abuse with the Virginia Department of
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: Social Services.
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: We have to tread very carefully when analyzing this institutional involvement.
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: How do you get a child to report abuse that
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: never happened?
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, how does that happen?
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: The mechanism here is the extreme susceptibility of children to
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: leading questions in environmental coaching. If a very young child
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: is constantly immersed in an environment where their primary caregiver,
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: the grandmother, is visibly obsessed, anxious, and constantly asking suggestive
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: questions about the other household. The child's brain adapts to
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: survive that stress.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: They just tell her what she wants to hear.
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: Exactly. The child will often internalize the grandmother's paranoia and
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: reflect that narrative back to her and to the therapist,
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: simply to appease the adult and relieve the tension in
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: the room. It is a form of unintentional but highly
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: effective psychological brainwashing.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: And when you look at the actual facts, the defense's
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: entire narrative completely crumbles. Let's bring in Montana's side of
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: the story because it provides a massive reality check. Montana
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: was a former naval officer and he was Robert's best
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: friend from their time in the Navy. He vehemently, categorically
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: denies all of these claims. He points out a glaring
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: logical flaw. He didn't even live with Crystal and Robert.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: He lived on a naval base and had his own
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: separate residence. Yes, he visited frequently, but he stated unequivocally
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: that he never inappropriately touched those children.
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: And Montana's assessment of why the Conways fabricated these allegations
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: is critical here. He asserts that the Conways were acutely
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: aware that the custody momentum was shifting. They knew they
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: were on the verge of losing primary custody to Crystal.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: He explicitly said they were grasping at straws. He believed
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: the Conways calculated that if they accused Crystal, Robert, and
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: himself of sexual assault, It would be a judicial slam
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: dunk to terminate Crystal's parental rights permanently.
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: And the state investigated this? Yes.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: Here is the definitive, unarguable fact of the matter. The
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: Virginia Department of Social Services conducted a massive, full-scale investigation
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: into these abuse claims. They interviewed everyone, they examined the evidence,
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: and they completely cleared Montana and Crystal of any wrongdoing.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: The allegations were officially classified as entirely unfounded.
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: Which legally and factually evaporates Caroline's entire justification. The horrific
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: threat she claimed she was defending her grandchildren against simply
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: did not exist outside of her own constructed narrative.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: It's like watching an autoimmune system destroy a body to
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: save it from a phantom virus.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: That's exactly it.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: And when that defense failed, Caroline's legal strategy became even
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: more absurd. First, they try the looking at houses alibi.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: When the burner phone and surveillance video nuke that, They
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: pivot to the explosive child abuse allegations to claim it
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: was a twisted form of vigilante self-defense. Right. And then
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: when social services proves the abuse never happened, they just
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: invent a brand new psychological reality.
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: You are referring to the dissociative defense strategy introduced during
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: the trial. Yes.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: When the facts completely corner you, do you just invent
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: a brand new reality? Do you just claim your brain broke?
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: Because that is exactly what Caroline's defense attorney, James Farmer,
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: attempted to do in court.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: What did he argue?
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: He argued that Caroline had suffered a catastrophic psychological snap.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: He introduced claims that Caroline had suffered deeply suppressed childhood trauma,
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: specifically alleging she had been raped when she was two
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: years old. And because of this supposed trauma being triggered
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: by the custody battle, he claims she entered a state
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: of complete dissociative amnesia regarding the actual shooting. He argued
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: she just blanked out, acted on autopilot, and woke up
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: later with no memory of pulling the trigger.
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: We need to break down the psychology here because there
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: is a massive difference between a genuine dissociative fugue state
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: and legal malingering.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: Dissociative amnesia is a real documented psychological phenomenon where extreme
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: trauma causes the brain to essentially wall off certain memories
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: to protect the psyche. However, claiming this in a legal
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: context is exceptionally difficult for one specific reason. The cognitive
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: demands of the crime itself.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: Exactly. The prosecution absolutely eviscerated this theory. You cannot claim
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: you were in an unconscious fugue state of amnesia when
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: you were simultaneously executing a highly complex, multi-step, premeditated logistical plan.
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: Precisely. A true dissociative fugue is chaotic and reactive. But
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: Caroline's actions demonstrate high-level executive functioning.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: She was calling audibles in the middle of it.
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: Right. You do not have amnesia while you are holding
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: a gun to a pregnant woman's head, calculating the exact
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: phrasing of a fake alibi phone call. You certainly do
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: not have amnesia while you are utilizing a burner phone
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: that your son meticulously procured a month in advance.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: The burner phone ruins everything.
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: The burner phone is the silver bullet against the amnesia defense.
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: It proves empirically that the intent to kill and the
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: cognitive intent to conceal that killing existed for weeks before
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: the trigger was ever pulled. It was not a sudden
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: traumatic snap. It was a scheduled, calculated execution.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: And the jury saw right through the smoke and mirrors.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: After a two-week trial, both Caroline and Richard Conway were
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: found guilty of first-degree murder. They were both sentenced to
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: spend the rest of their natural lives behind bars.
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: A fitting end.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: Crystal, who survived an unimaginable physical and emotional trauma, eventually
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: moved to Florida with her children to try and rebuild
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: some semblance of a life far away from the wreckage
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: the Conaways caused.
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: Good for her.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: But the truly chilling part of this entire story. Even now,
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: sitting in a prison cell, Caroline still maintains her delusions.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: She admits to reporters that she feels guilt for tearing
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: her family apart, but she insists to this day that
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: she does not remember pulling the trigger. And she still
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: adamantly believes the children were being abused.
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: It speaks to the terrifying durability of a closed belief system.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: When a delusion becomes the foundation of your identity, destroying
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: the delusion means destroying yourself.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: Because then she'd have to admit what she is.
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: Even when confronted with a life sentence, the loss of
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: her son's freedom, and the irrefutable forensic evidence of her
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: own actions, she actively chooses to inhabit the false reality
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: she constructed. It is easier for her brain to accept
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: that she is an amnesiac savior We just spent 30
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: minutes dissecting how a lifetime of toxic, enmeshed family dynamics
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: and decades of psychological baggage can drive someone to orchestrate
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: a lethally complex cover-up. Very dense case. Very.
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: But does it always take years of obsession to build
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: that kind of legal detachment? What happens when the trigger
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: for extreme violence isn't decades of paranoia, but something that
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: takes literally two seconds?
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: This brings us to our second case, which requires us
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: to completely shift our understanding of motive.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: A total pivot.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: We are moving from a crime rooted in profound, albeit distorted,
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: attachment to a crime rooted in terrifying compulsion. absolute triviality.
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: We are heading to Smithfield, Utah. It is mid-February, and
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  Speaker 1: we need to introduce you to the victim, Desiree Turner.
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  Speaker 1: She is just 14 years old.
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  Speaker 2: Just a kid.
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  Speaker 1: Just a kid. By all accounts from her family and friends,
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  Speaker 1: she is a sweet, responsible student at Skyview High School.
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  Speaker 1: She is a competitive equestrian who absolutely loves horses. She
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  Speaker 1: is exactly who you picture when you think of an innocent,
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  Speaker 1: vibrant teenager just trying to navigate the awkwardness of high school.
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  Speaker 2: Keep that image of her humanity in mind. because it
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  Speaker 2: stands in stark, horrifying contrast to the individuals she is
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  Speaker 2: about to encounter.
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  Speaker 1: The suspects in this case are two 16-year-old boys who
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  Speaker 1: attend her school, Coulter Peterson and Jason Decker. And the
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  Speaker 1: way this murder plot originates, I mean, it honestly makes
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  Speaker 1: your stomach turn.
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  Speaker 2: It's so casual.
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  Speaker 1: It is. The boys are just hanging out in a
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  Speaker 1: bedroom playing video games. And casually, amidst the digital gunfire
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  Speaker 1: on their screens, they start discussing how easy it would
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  Speaker 1: be to just get rid of Desiree.
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  Speaker 2: Notice the specific linguistic framing there? Get rid of her.
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  Speaker 2: Not murder, not assassinate, not even kill. Get rid of. Right.
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  Speaker 2: It is the language you use for taking out the
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  Speaker 2: trash or deleting a file. It is the language of disposal.
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  Speaker 1: And the reason. Why on earth would two 16-year-old boys
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  Speaker 1: want to murder a 14-year-old girl they go to school with?
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: Because they were annoyed.
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  Speaker 2: Annoyed.
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  Speaker 1: They were annoyed that she was consistently contacting them on
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  Speaker 1: social media. Yeah. Coulter actually stood in a courtroom and stated,
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  Speaker 1: on the record, I just didn't want anything to do
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  Speaker 1: with Snapchatting her anymore.
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  Speaker 2: This is where we have to analyze the mechanism of
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  Speaker 2: digital detachment. What's fascinating here is how this perfectly encapsulates
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  Speaker 2: a horrific gamification of violence, exacerbated by the way screens
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  Speaker 2: rewire our empathy.
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  Speaker 1: Think about your own texting habits for a second. Think
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  Speaker 1: about the last time someone was blowing up your phone
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  Speaker 1: and you got intensely irritated.
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  Speaker 2: We've all been there.
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  Speaker 1: We all experience those micro doses of digital annoyance. But
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  Speaker 1: how does a Snapchat notification escalate into a literal death sentence?
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  Speaker 2: Because in the digital realm, human relationships are designed to
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  Speaker 2: be highly disposable. If someone annoys you online, the architecture
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  Speaker 2: of the app gives you instant power to eradicate them
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  Speaker 2: from your reality. You just block them. You block them.
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  Speaker 2: You swipe away their notification. You delete their profile. You
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  Speaker 2: silence their existence with a flick of your thumb. What
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  Speaker 2: we are seeing with Coulter and Jason is the terrifying
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  Speaker 2: application of that digital logic directly into the physical world.
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  Speaker 1: Taking it off the screen.
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  Speaker 2: Their brains, marinated in the disposable nature of online interactions,
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  Speaker 2: lacked the fundamental biological empathy required to distinguish between the
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  Speaker 2: annoyance of a glowing app notification and the termination of
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  Speaker 2: a breathing, feeling human life.
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  Speaker 1: It's terrifying.
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  Speaker 2: To them, Desiree was not a person with a family
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  Speaker 2: and a future. She was just an annoying avatar they
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  Speaker 2: wanted to permanently log off.
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  Speaker 1: It is a chilling detachment. And the way they execute
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  Speaker 1: their plan reflects that exact same cold transactional logic. The
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  Speaker 1: original plan they cooked up while staring at their video
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  Speaker 1: game was to slit her throat.
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  Speaker 2: A very hands-on approach.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Jason actually turned to Coulter and said, you've got
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  Speaker 1: a six-inch blade, why don't you do it yourself? They reasoned, logically,
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  Speaker 1: that slitting her throat would be quieter. But as a
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  Speaker 1: backup plan, Coulter decided to bring a gun.
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  Speaker 2: The casualness of the logistical debate, weighing the auditory benefits
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  Speaker 2: of a knife versus the efficiency of a firearm, as
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  Speaker 2: if they're selecting a loadout in a video game, further
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  Speaker 2: underscores their complete disconnection from the moral gravity of what
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  Speaker 2: they're about to do.
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  Speaker 1: It's all just mechanics to them.
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  Speaker 2: There is no passion here. There is only cold, calculated utility.
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  Speaker 1: So they put the plan in motion. It is two
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  Speaker 1: days after Valentine's Day. They decide to lure Desiree to
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  Speaker 1: an isolated dry canal. And the excuse they use to
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  Speaker 1: get her there is just as manipulative. Coulter texts her
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  Speaker 1: and tells her to meet him because he is going
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  Speaker 1: to sell her a knife.
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  Speaker 2: A classic Lord.
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  Speaker 1: She arrives at the canal expecting just to see Coulter
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  Speaker 1: for this transaction. But Jason is there, too, which surprises her.
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  Speaker 1: But she stays. They chat for a few minutes in
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  Speaker 1: the dirt.
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  Speaker 2: It is a perfectly orchestrated ambush. They utilized a false
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  Speaker 2: pretense of commerce. to place her in a geographically isolated
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  Speaker 2: location where she is separated from any potential witnesses or guardians.
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  Speaker 1: While they are standing there, ostensibly just hanging out, Jason
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  Speaker 1: pulls out his phone and sends a text message to Coulter,
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  Speaker 1: who is standing right next to him.
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  Speaker 2: What did it say?
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  Speaker 1: The message says, let's get this done, bro. Right around
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  Speaker 1: the exact same time, Desiree's phone buzzes. She gets a
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  Speaker 1: text from her mother telling her it's getting late and
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  Speaker 1: she needs to hurry home.
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  Speaker 2: The timing is awful.
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  Speaker 1: So Desiree turns her back to the boys to start
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  Speaker 1: walking up the embankment and head home. And the very
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  Speaker 1: moment she turns her back, Coulter raises the gun, aims
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  Speaker 1: at the back of her head, and pulls the trigger.
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  Speaker 2: They strike her when she is in a posture of
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  Speaker 2: complete trust and vulnerability. She is actively turning away from
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  Speaker 2: them to return to the safety of her family, completely
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  Speaker 2: unaware that the boys she was just speaking with have
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  Speaker 2: already decided her life is over.
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  Speaker 1: She falls face down into the dirt of the canal.
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  Speaker 1: And what do these boys do next? Do they drop
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  Speaker 1: the gun in horror? Do they panic and run away?
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  Speaker 2: No, they don't.
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  Speaker 1: No. Jason walks over to her seemingly lifeless, bleeding body,
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  Speaker 1: and he systematically removes her backpack. They rifle through her
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  Speaker 1: belongings as she is bleeding out into the mud. They
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  Speaker 1: steal her iPod, her cell phone, and $ 55 in cash.
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  Speaker 2: And then they leave.
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  Speaker 1: And then they just turn around and walk away, leaving
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  Speaker 1: a 14-year-old girl face down in a cold field to
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  Speaker 1: die alone. Now, I have to stop here and ask
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  Speaker 1: about the robbery. Why steal $ 55 after you just committed murder?
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  Speaker 1: They didn't kill her for the money. They killed her
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  Speaker 1: because of Snapchat. So what is the psychological function of
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  Speaker 1: the theft?
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  Speaker 2: The robbery is the final, ultimate act of dehumanization. It
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  Speaker 2: reduces a profound human tragedy to a mere transaction.
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  Speaker 1: Like looting in a game.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly like that. By looting her body, they are signaling
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  Speaker 2: to themselves that she is no longer a human being.
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  Speaker 2: She is simply a resource point. In their distorted, gamified mindset,
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  Speaker 2: they didn't just eliminate an annoyance. They collected the loot
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  Speaker 2: dropped by the avatar they just defeated. It completely strips
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  Speaker 2: away any lingering shred of humanity from the interaction.
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  Speaker 1: Hours go by. Night falls. Desiree's parents are frantic. They
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  Speaker 1: are waiting for her to come home from school and
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  Speaker 1: she isn't there. They file a missing persons report. They
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  Speaker 1: post desperately on Facebook, begging for any information.
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  Speaker 2: A parent's worst nightmare.
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  Speaker 1: The entire small community of Smithfield mobilizes, grabbing flashlights and
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  Speaker 1: searching the areas she frequents. Finally, just before 1.00 a.m.
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  Speaker 1: in the freezing cold, two family friends find her lying
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  Speaker 1: in that canal. She is covered in blood. But miraculously, impossibly,
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  Speaker 1: she is still breathing.
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  Speaker 2: The sheer biological resilience of the human body is astounding here.
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  Speaker 2: Despite a point-blank gunshot wound to the back of the cranium,
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  Speaker 2: massive blood loss, and hours of exposure to freezing temperatures,
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  Speaker 2: her body refused to shut down.
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  Speaker 1: She is immediately rushed to the trauma center and placed
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  Speaker 1: in a medically induced coma to try and control the
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  Speaker 1: swelling in her brain. Meanwhile, the police are moving with
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  Speaker 1: absolute urgency. They pull Desiree's cell phone records, which leads
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  Speaker 1: them straight via a clear digital footprint, the very last
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  Speaker 1: people she communicated with, Coulter and Jason.
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  Speaker 2: Again, we see the profound failure of the adolescent criminal mind.
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  Speaker 2: They utilize digital communication to orchestrate a physical ambush, completely
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  Speaker 2: oblivious to the fact that those very same cell towers
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  Speaker 2: and text logs will provide investigators with an indelible, time-stamped
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  Speaker 2: map directly to their front doors.
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  Speaker 1: The cops bring them both in for questioning. Coulter, the shooter,
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  Speaker 1: folds almost immediately. He confesses to being the trigger man,
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  Speaker 1: but true to form, he immediately tries to shift the
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  Speaker 1: ultimate blame, claiming Jason was the evil mastermind who pressured
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  Speaker 1: him into orchestrating the whole thing.
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  Speaker 2: Right, turning on each other.
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  Speaker 1: Jason initially plays dumb and denies any involvement whatsoever, but
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  Speaker 1: the police execute a search warrant on Jason's bedroom. And
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  Speaker 1: what do they find sitting in his room? They find
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  Speaker 1: the spent shell casing from the bullet used to shoot Desiree.
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  Speaker 2: Right there in his room.
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  Speaker 1: During his confession, Coulter claimed that Jason specifically asked to
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  Speaker 1: keep the casing as a memento of the shooting. A memento.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, this is beyond disgusting.
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  Speaker 2: Disgusting, yes. But clinically, it is incredibly revealing. Keeping a
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  Speaker 2: souvenir of a slaughter is a classic hallmark of emerging psychopathy.
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  Speaker 2: A memento serves a very specific psychological function. It allows
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  Speaker 2: the perpetrator to continually relive the rush of power, dominance,
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  Speaker 2: and control they exerted During the commission of the crime.
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  Speaker 1: It's a trophy for them.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. Finding that shell casing in his bedroom completely eradicates
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  Speaker 2: any potential defense strategy, claiming this was a terrible accident,
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  Speaker 2: a sudden panic or a mistake.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: It proves they were proud of it.
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  Speaker 1: Which leads right into the massive legal fallout of this
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  Speaker 1: case because the judge makes a monumental decision. He rules
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  Speaker 1: that these two 16-year-old boys will be stripped of their
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  Speaker 1: juvenile protections and tried as adults.
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  Speaker 2: Huge decision.
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  Speaker 1: They face severe adult charges of aggravated attempted murder, aggravated robbery,
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  Speaker 1: and obstructing justice.
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  Speaker 2: A judicial ruling like this rests on a very complex,
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  Speaker 2: often agonizing calculation. The juvenile justice system fundamentally is built
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  Speaker 2: around the philosophy of rehabilitation.
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  Speaker 1: Right, the idea that kids can change.
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  Speaker 2: The core belief is that a developing adolescent brain is malleable.
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  Speaker 2: capable of profound change and ultimate redemption. However, the system
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  Speaker 2: has a breaking point.
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  Speaker 1: And they crossed it.
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  Speaker 2: When a minor commits a crime of such calculated, premeditated,
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  Speaker 2: and extreme cruelty, when they debate using a knife versus
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  Speaker 2: a gun, and when they keep a shell casing as
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  Speaker 2: a trophy, the court often determines that the fundamental need
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  Speaker 2: to protect society from a predator and to ensure proportionate
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  Speaker 2: retribution vastly outweighs the idealized hope of rehabilitation.
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  Speaker 1: But not everyone agreed with that philosophy. And this is
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  Speaker 1: the part of the trial where my brain just short circuits.
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  Speaker 1: Coulter Peterson's defense attorney actually stood up in open court
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  Speaker 1: and expressed righteous outrage that his client was being moved
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  Speaker 1: out of the juvenile facility and into an adult prison.
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  Speaker 2: He called it a travesty, didn't he?
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  Speaker 1: Yes. He called the judge's decision a travesty and his reasoning.
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  Speaker 1: He said Coulter was thriving in the juvenile detention center.
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  Speaker 1: He said, and I quote, he started a cooking class.
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  Speaker 1: He's getting his education. He's really thriving in this environment.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, how does the justice system reconcile this absurd
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  Speaker 1: level of detachment from reality? He shot a 14-year-old girl
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  Speaker 1: in the back of the head, left her to die
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  Speaker 1: in a ditch, and we are supposed to mourn the
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  Speaker 1: interruption of his cooking class.
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  Speaker 2: Well, it is the defense attorney's ethical mandate to zealously
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  Speaker 2: advocate for their client's potential for rehabilitation.
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  Speaker 1: But still.
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  Speaker 2: But your visceral reaction... highlights the deep, painful friction between
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  Speaker 2: clinical legal advocacy and baseline public morality. When a crime
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  Speaker 2: involves such a profound, chilling lack of empathy, focusing on
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  Speaker 2: the perpetrator's extracurricular activities and cooking skills feels deeply offensive
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  Speaker 2: to the suffering of the victim. It legally minimizes the
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  Speaker 2: absolute permanent devastation they intentionally cause.
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  Speaker 1: And speaking of that devastation, we have to talk about Desiree.
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  Speaker 1: She survived. She woke up from that coma. But she
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  Speaker 1: did not walk away unscathed.
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  Speaker 2: She had a long road ahead.
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  Speaker 1: A brutally long road. She suffered a severe traumatic brain injury.
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  Speaker 1: She had to endure extensive, agonizing surgeries on her skull,
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  Speaker 1: leaving her once-long, curly hair cut short and patchy. The bullet, incredibly,
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  Speaker 1: is literally still lodged inside her head.
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  Speaker 2: Unbelievable.
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  Speaker 1: But when she finally spoke to the media about her ordeal,
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  Speaker 1: her spirit was just entirely unbroken. She said, I told
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  Speaker 1: my dad that I am tougher than a bullet.
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  Speaker 2: Tougher than a bullet. It is a profound... defiant declaration
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  Speaker 2: of survival. It represents the exact diametric opposite of the
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  Speaker 2: disposable transactional mentality her attackers possessed.
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  Speaker 1: She proved them wrong.
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  Speaker 2: I viewed her as something that could be deleted. She
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  Speaker 2: proved that her humanity was indelible.
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  Speaker 1: And despite battling for her life, despite struggling to relearn
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  Speaker 1: basic daily tasks, a brutal physical and cognitive battle she
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  Speaker 1: will wage for years, her first goal, the very first
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  Speaker 1: thing she wanted to do the moment she was allowed
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  Speaker 1: to go home was to go see her favorite horse, Junior,
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  Speaker 1: and ride him again.
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  Speaker 2: Her focus remains entirely on life, connection, and the things
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  Speaker 2: she loves. She completely defied the darkness and the gamified
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  Speaker 2: violence that was forced upon her in that canal.
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  Speaker 1: It is an incredible, humbling testament to her strength. But
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: as we pull back and look at both of these
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: Crimewatch Daily cases together, the contrast in how violence is
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  Speaker 1: generated is just staggering.
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  Speaker 2: It really is.
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  Speaker 1: On one hand, you have Caroline Conway, a 53 year
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  Speaker 1: old grandmother and her adult police officer son orchestrating a complex, convoluted,
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  Speaker 1: month long plot to forcibly rewrite their family's reality with
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  Speaker 1: a gun.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: And on the other hand, you have two 16 year
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  Speaker 1: old boys who treated a classmate's life like it was
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  Speaker 1: a disposable social media app shooting her in the back
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  Speaker 1: of the head. just to stop a notification from popping
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  Speaker 1: up on their screens.
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  Speaker 2: You have two radically different generations, two wildly different scopes
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  Speaker 2: of logistical planning, yet they're fundamentally united by the exact
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  Speaker 2: same terrifying core, the absolute total objectification of another human being.
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  Speaker 1: They didn't see them as people.
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  Speaker 2: In both instances, the victims ceased to be people with
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: their own lives, fears, and rights. To the Conways, Robert
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  Speaker 2: and Crystal were obstacles to a custody arrangement. To the teenagers,
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  Speaker 2: Desiree was a digital annoyance. In both minds, the victim
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  Speaker 2: became merely an object to be violently removed.
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  Speaker 1: We've spent this entire deep dive analyzing how these perpetrators
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  Speaker 1: viewed their victims. We've talked about digital detachment, the gamification
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  Speaker 1: of violence. But as we close out, I think we
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  Speaker 1: need to turn that psychological lens on ourselves for a second.
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  Speaker 2: That's a good point.
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  Speaker 1: Think about how we consume these stories. Millions of us
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  Speaker 1: listen to these horrific tragedies through our headphones on our
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  Speaker 1: morning commute or while we are folding laundry.
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  Speaker 2: It is a vital question to ask. Consider the role
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: of technology in both of these tragedies. A burner phone
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: was used to orchestrate a sloppy alibi and a smartphone
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: app triggered a near fatal shooting. How has the digital
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: age and the screens we hide behind fundamentally altered our
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  Speaker 2: empathy and the way we value human life itself?
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: It's terrifying to think about. Are we also in a
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: way gamifying their trauma by consuming it so casually? Right.
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: When we package the darkest moments of Crystal Manny's or
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: Desiree Turner's lives into a consumable audio format, we have
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  Speaker 2: to make sure we aren't turning real human suffering into
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  Speaker 2: just another form of digital entertainment.
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  Speaker 1: Entertainment that we just swipe away or pause when the
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  Speaker 1: hour is up.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. It forces us to examine whether our fascination with
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: the mechanics of violence is actually bringing us closer to
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  Speaker 2: understanding humanity, or if it's just another subtle way we
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  Speaker 2: distance ourselves from the reality of their pain.
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  Speaker 1: That is something that will definitely stick with me. Thank
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  Speaker 1: you everyone for joining us on this deep dive. Keep
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: questioning the narratives. Keep looking closely at the systems and
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  Speaker 1: the screens around you. And remember, just because you're standing
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  Speaker 1: in a brightly lit parking lot doesn't mean the illusion
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  Speaker 1: of safety can't shatter in an instant.