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Johnjay & Rich Present: WAR of the ROSES · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: All right, we're getting ready for War of the Roses.
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  Speaker 1: We've got Monet on the line. Good morning, Mornee, Good morning.
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  Speaker 1: What's going on?
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  Speaker 2: So? I think that my boyfriend is cheating on me.
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  Speaker 2: We've been together since high school, but lately she's been
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  Speaker 2: acting super weird, just constantly on his phone and being
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  Speaker 2: super protective of his phone. So I'm worried that something
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  Speaker 2: is going on.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that's all we need to know. Okay, hold on,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna get more details coming up next. War the
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  Speaker 1: Roses starts next with John Jay and Rich and my
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  Speaker 1: best friend dummy. If you get free roses, it's a trap.
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  Speaker 1: War of the Roses starts right now on John Jay
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  Speaker 1: and Rich, John Daye. Rich's time for War of the Roses.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Monet.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome, Hi, good morning.
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  Speaker 1: So you think so much cheating on you? Right, so
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  Speaker 1: we want to hear your story. We want to hear
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  Speaker 1: why you think that, and who they are and all
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  Speaker 1: that jazz. So welcome to program. Let us in what happened?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I really think that my boyfriend might be cheating
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  Speaker 2: on me. Actually, and we've been together time since high school,
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  Speaker 2: but lately I really feel insecure, you know, like I'm
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  Speaker 2: falling behind in life, and he's leveling up because he's
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  Speaker 2: doing so well with work, and I'm really proud of
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  Speaker 2: him for that, but you know, I'm not really in
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  Speaker 2: the best place career wise myself, so it scares me.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just worried that one day he's going to wake
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  Speaker 2: up and realize that he can do better than me.
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  Speaker 3: That's sad.
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  Speaker 2: And also, yeah, he's he's been on his phone, just
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  Speaker 2: glued to his phone twenty four to seven, and whenever
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  Speaker 2: I mentioned that or bring it up to him ask
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  Speaker 2: him about it, he says that he's just posting content
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  Speaker 2: or responding to comments. But I know the difference between
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  Speaker 2: engagement and hiding something because he's been super protective of
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  Speaker 2: his phone. He won't let it out of his sight,
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  Speaker 2: and I've seen him smiling at messages that he doesn't
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  Speaker 2: want me to see. I mean, that's what it looks
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  Speaker 2: like to me. So yeah, my gut is really telling
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  Speaker 2: me that there's more going on here than just work
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  Speaker 2: or regular social media stuff. And I really need to
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  Speaker 2: know if I'm just being paranoid or if there's actually
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  Speaker 2: something going on here that I should be worried about.
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  Speaker 4: Sounds a little weird. I think whenever someone's super protective
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  Speaker 4: or overprotective of their phone, it's like one of two things. Yes,
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  Speaker 4: they are being shady and hiding something, or they're trying
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  Speaker 4: to get you a nice gift. Do you have any
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  Speaker 4: birthdays or anniversary.
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  Speaker 1: Is coming up?
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  Speaker 4: Like they're definitely hiding something smiling or bad right, Like
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  Speaker 4: I can't believe want.
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  Speaker 3: That to pull this off?
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  Speaker 2: Unfortunately, No, I don't have a birthday coming up, No anniversary.
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  Speaker 5: I mean Christmas is around.
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  Speaker 2: The corner either, Yes, Chris, we can cross our fingers
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  Speaker 2: sat together.
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  Speaker 5: You're finished Christmas shop? And what do you mean does
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  Speaker 5: aren't really?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe he's an engagement ring. Look for me, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: a psychiatrist or a psychologist, but there's like common sense
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  Speaker 1: and to me, it sounds like you got a lot
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  Speaker 1: of insecurities. I mean, you first started saying that he's
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  Speaker 1: going to find somebody better than you and you don't
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  Speaker 1: think you're good enough for him. But you've been with
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  Speaker 1: him since high school? Like why would you have those thoughts?
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  Speaker 1: I would think that maybe you had previous relationships where
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  Speaker 1: maybe you were mentally, you know, put down, but he's
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  Speaker 1: been with you since high school, so like why do
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  Speaker 1: you think that about yourself?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just because he's been acting so different lately,
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  Speaker 2: you know, like he has a lot of followers on
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  Speaker 2: social media now and making all this content and I
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  Speaker 2: don't know, I think it might really be going to
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  Speaker 2: his head. And yeah, he's just been really different than
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  Speaker 2: he was before and.
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  Speaker 5: Also too to me, like John Jay, like, I've definitely
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  Speaker 5: felt that way, the same way that you have Monet
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  Speaker 5: and relationships. It's like, dang, like, is one day this
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  Speaker 5: person gonna wake up and does not want to be
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  Speaker 5: with me anymore? But a big part of that is
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  Speaker 5: one absolutely insecurity, but then another part like I feel
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  Speaker 5: like it's on your partner to lift you up and
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  Speaker 5: show you and love on you and you know, let
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  Speaker 5: you know and have that reassurance. And it seems to
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  Speaker 5: me that he's not giving her the reassurance that she needs.
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  Speaker 1: Regardless, doesn't mean you're wrong. Let's see who he sends
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  Speaker 1: the flowers to. What's your boyfriend's name, Monette, Okay, his
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  Speaker 1: name is Matt. Okay, we're gonna get him on the phone,
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  Speaker 1: tell him he won a dozen red roses, and we'll
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  Speaker 1: see who he sends me to. And Kyle, you could
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  Speaker 1: be all like your social media following humongous. Yeah, we
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  Speaker 1: definitely need you to plug us on your social media
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  Speaker 1: apps since you're always on your phone. All right, Monday,
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  Speaker 1: Hey tid, we'll getting mad on the phone. War the
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  Speaker 1: Roses continues next with John Jaye Rich. John Jane Rich,
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  Speaker 1: we're in the middle of war in the Roses. You
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  Speaker 1: got Monette and Matt boyfriend and girlfriend since high school?
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  Speaker 1: Where are you guys now? Money? Are you in college?
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  Speaker 1: Are you in your thirties? Do you guys have grandkids?
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  Speaker 1: Where are you guys now?
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  Speaker 2: We're both twenty nine right now?
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  Speaker 1: Actually, okay, it's a long.
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  Speaker 2: Time, in a while since high school?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, And now you think he could be cheating.
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  Speaker 1: You feel like he's had his come up, he's blown
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  Speaker 1: up with his career. You feel like you're stable or stale,
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  Speaker 1: and then he's going to find somebody better than you.
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  Speaker 1: You feel that way. He's also always on his phone.
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  Speaker 1: He's laughing, looking at stuff, but he won't let you
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  Speaker 1: see his phone. So we're gonna see who sends the
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  Speaker 1: flowers to Colin FuG You ready to go?
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  Speaker 3: I'm ready?
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  Speaker 1: Hello?
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  Speaker 3: Hi? Is Matt available?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: This is Matt perfect I'm at.
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  Speaker 4: So, my name is Journey. I'm calling you with the
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  Speaker 4: new company. We're called jan Ar Flowers. We're running a
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  Speaker 4: new social media campaign and your account really stood out
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  Speaker 4: to us. You've got great engagement, a great following, and
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  Speaker 4: so we'd love for you to take a part in it.
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  Speaker 4: It's called post for Pedals. So we get to send
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  Speaker 4: out our most romantic bouquet of roses.
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  Speaker 3: In a nice crystal vase.
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  Speaker 4: It's very, very gorgeous, usually almost two to three hundred
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  Speaker 4: dollars depending on which one you choose, and we'll get
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  Speaker 4: to that in a second, but it's totally free for you,
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  Speaker 4: and all we ask in return is that you post
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  Speaker 4: for the pedals and you know, maybe say something great
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  Speaker 4: about us.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, nice, Yeah, yeah, I'll.
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  Speaker 1: Go for it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, perfect, Okay, So I'm guessing most people pick the
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  Speaker 4: more expensive one. It does come with a you know,
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  Speaker 4: a little extra like jushing if you will, So we'll
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  Speaker 4: go ahead and put you down for that. The only other
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  Speaker 4: information that I'll need from you is I'll send it
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  Speaker 4: out with a nice little card. And like I did say,
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  Speaker 4: it was, it is our most romantic book cat So
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  Speaker 4: if you want to go that vibe that's great or
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  Speaker 4: you know, depending on the nature of your relationship. Just
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  Speaker 4: let me know the message you want on it, and
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  Speaker 4: then we can go name an address and I'll tell
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  Speaker 4: you when it's sent out, and we can send you
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  Speaker 4: like social media handles and all that.
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  Speaker 1: Cool.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, could I actually have two of those things of
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  Speaker 6: roses too? Uly ten thousand followers, so I could. I'd
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  Speaker 6: be willing to make a post if two of them.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, perfect, we can do that.
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  Speaker 4: I would just probably have to do like the more
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  Speaker 4: affordable one. But they're just as gorgeous. They're so so gorgeous.
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  Speaker 4: So yeah, you can go ahead and we'll just do
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  Speaker 4: two messages right now, go ahead and start with the
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  Speaker 4: first one.
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  Speaker 6: Sorry for the message to put a message on it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm going to send both of them out with
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  Speaker 4: a card, so that's your chance to personalize it. You've
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  Speaker 4: got two of them going out, so whatever message you
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  Speaker 4: want on each one of them, let me know and
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  Speaker 4: then we'll talk name and address on both of those
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  Speaker 4: for you.
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  Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I guess. Uh here, enjoy these flowers then
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  Speaker 6: is the same message for both of them.
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  Speaker 4: Do you want to put enjoy these flowers on both
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  Speaker 4: of them? I mean, some people usually get a little
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  Speaker 4: more like lovey dovey, but that's okay.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, sure, it's easier.
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  Speaker 4: Enjoy these flowers. Okay, we'll put that on both of them.
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  Speaker 4: And then who did you want to address the first
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  Speaker 4: one too?
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  Speaker 3: Uh?
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  Speaker 6: The first one for Cali and then this second I guess, uh? Money,
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  Speaker 6: what what are you serious?
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  Speaker 2: Right now? You're sending flowers to another girl and.
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  Speaker 6: You whoa whoa your own girlfriends?
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  Speaker 2: What that is? Super weird?
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  Speaker 1: Money? What? What?
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  Speaker 6: What?
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  Speaker 1: What is?
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  Speaker 6: Why are you on the phone? What's going on?
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  Speaker 2: Don't play down that you really thought you could send
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  Speaker 2: flowers just some random girl and I wouldn't find out?
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  Speaker 6: My god, Lonet, it is not like that. Okay, I
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  Speaker 6: sent you flowers? Did I not?
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  Speaker 1: Did I? Okay?
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  Speaker 6: The other boat uquay is thank you?
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  Speaker 1: You know, Matt, you're on the air. You're on the radio.
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  Speaker 1: You're on the radio, John Dye, rich Ward of the roses?
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  Speaker 6: What put me on the radio?
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  Speaker 2: Sending her? This other girl? Why are you sending her
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  Speaker 2: of okay of roses? At a thank you thank you.
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  Speaker 6: For what I'm as a thank you for helping me
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  Speaker 6: out with content. Okay, it's literally we've just been making
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  Speaker 6: videos and stuff. She's got a following. We've done TikTok
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  Speaker 6: wise a few times. I've got a following. Its networking.
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  Speaker 2: Oh god, yes, he's helping you. This is the first
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  Speaker 2: time I've ever even heard her name. How did you
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  Speaker 2: even meet? And like this is this is not just
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  Speaker 2: regular networking type of stuff to just send someone flowers,
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  Speaker 2: especially roses.
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  Speaker 6: She got me a bunch of me followers money. I
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  Speaker 6: met her on TikTok She's got me a bunch of
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  Speaker 6: followers where it's part she's part of the content journey, Okay,
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  Speaker 6: and it's it's fine, it's nothing weird. Like I said,
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  Speaker 6: I sent you roses too, Okay, But I don't understand her.
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  Speaker 2: That's a big part of your content journey. Why am
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  Speaker 2: I only hearing about her right now?
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  Speaker 1: You? You literally act like.
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  Speaker 6: I'm cheating just because I'm talking to someone with followers. Okay,
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  Speaker 6: You're being really dramatic.
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  Speaker 2: Talking to another girl constantly is super inappropriate. And I
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  Speaker 2: don't care if TikTok live DN or content brainstorming or whatever.
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  Speaker 2: You're giving another woman access to you and that crosses
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  Speaker 2: a line.
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  Speaker 6: Durma, what are you?
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  Speaker 2: No way?
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  Speaker 1: Okay?
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  Speaker 6: You maybe you just need to level up and keep up. Okay,
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  Speaker 6: I'm not gonna do there. It is because you're stuck. Okay,
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  Speaker 6: I'm I'm about to blow up in a and this
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  Speaker 6: is what comes with it. Okay, I'm gonna stop talking
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  Speaker 6: to people.
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  Speaker 2: Wow. Wow, So now I'm the problem because I have boundaries.
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  Speaker 6: I'm just saying, if you can't handle it, maybe it
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  Speaker 6: isn't for you.
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  Speaker 1: That's the feeling that you had. That's not paranoia. That
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  Speaker 1: was the feeling she had. Also, she has boundaries, but
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  Speaker 1: does not sound like they were ever set. So he's
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  Speaker 1: kind of like crossed those boundaries as she like, they
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  Speaker 1: haven't talked about. Now that's so stated. I think you
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  Speaker 1: got really rude there at the end here.
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  Speaker 5: You should know about it, obviously. Yeah, it's like you
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  Speaker 5: think you're better than her.
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  Speaker 6: Well keep doing to me right now, Like what are
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  Speaker 6: we even talking?
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  Speaker 1: Like?
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  Speaker 4: You know, No, it's one thing for you to like
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  Speaker 4: go out and network and create and do your business,
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  Speaker 4: and that's great for you, but the fact that you're
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  Speaker 4: hiding this person from your significant other is what makes
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  Speaker 4: it shady.
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  Speaker 6: This is well, wait, but and then she asked you
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  Speaker 6: about it, and you make her feel bad about it.
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  Speaker 1: That's not cool.
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  Speaker 6: Would she set me up on some sort of like
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  Speaker 6: entrapment scenario. I feel like, you know, hey, man.
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  Speaker 1: You're blowing up. That's going to happen. You're blowing up.
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  Speaker 2: I was worried that you were seating, and now obviously
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  Speaker 2: I find out that you are.
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  Speaker 6: So I was right.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not right not cheating.
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  Speaker 6: You've literally made up your mind that on cheating, I'm not.
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  Speaker 6: I'm telling you I'm not.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, that's a pretty big attitude to have
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  Speaker 1: early ten thousand followers. Rich has ten thousand followers in
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  Speaker 1: his stool, which is a whole problem.
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  Speaker 2: You know what. It seems like you can't handle being
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  Speaker 2: loyal to me because all of this stuff, all of
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  Speaker 2: this social media content creation stuff is going to your head.
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  Speaker 2: And so maybe I'm just not for you anymore.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, since high school, you guys just gonna end it
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  Speaker 1: just like that because of social media.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, I mean obviously there's been some issues before.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think there's mental abuse to me, That's what
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  Speaker 1: it seems like to me, Like he's just mean to her. Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, And like here's the thing, say, like Matt does
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  Speaker 5: blow up, Like imagine how much more that's going to
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  Speaker 5: go to his head and then he really might step
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  Speaker 5: out and really cross boundaries and you don't want any
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  Speaker 5: part of that money.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean you lately has just been I'm
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  Speaker 2: purchased though off and it just wasn't like how I
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  Speaker 2: remember him being before when we first met and got together,
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  Speaker 2: and he just seems like a different person. Now. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I mean that's really sad. But yeah, I just I
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  Speaker 2: can't deal with how he is right now.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Well he did send you flowers. He also sent
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  Speaker 1: it to the other girl, but he also didn't do
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  Speaker 1: anything romantic on the card, Joers. What if you said
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  Speaker 1: was a lesser bouquet? Right? Or they're both equal.
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  Speaker 4: I just said I'll give you the less expensive one
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  Speaker 4: that he could do too.
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  Speaker 1: So I wonder which one he was sending, Uh, less
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  Speaker 1: exactly the same one is just less like if you're
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  Speaker 1: sending like just trying to put yourself in his brain
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  Speaker 1: for a second, a stupid brain. Is he going, oh
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  Speaker 1: this girt if everything he says is true, is he
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  Speaker 1: sending a coworker or somebody's working with, Hey, these are
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  Speaker 1: just a nice flowers, thanks for your help. And then
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  Speaker 1: he also send the romantic red flowers to his girlfriend.
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  Speaker 5: I feel like a text message would do if he
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  Speaker 5: really wants to help, You.
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  Speaker 1: Can text, right, Can I get two flowers? Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Sure, And that's your opportunity to say hey, thank you
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  Speaker 4: in the message.
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  Speaker 1: What do you say the message? Both just do the
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  Speaker 1: same thing. Yeah, you guys got issues. I think you
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  Speaker 1: guys could go to therapy work it out, or you
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  Speaker 1: have to end it and you need to let us
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  Speaker 1: know right now.
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  Speaker 5: It's a lot of relationships that they've been in and.
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  Speaker 1: How to deal with. Well, thank you both for going
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  Speaker 1: on the air with us.
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  Speaker 3: I think you're better off without him. Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I don't like his ego.
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  Speaker 4: ANTI kind of feel like he is holding you.
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  Speaker 1: I just unfollowed him, That's what I said. I just
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  Speaker 1: un followed you. Well, Monette Matt, thanks for being on
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  Speaker 1: a program that's War of the Roses with John Jay
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  Speaker 1: and Rich