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Grief Is A Journey · Have A Little Faith with Delilah

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Delilah: Hello, my friend, Hello, my fellow friends of faith. Hopefully
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Delilah: you are a friend of faith. If you don't have
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Delilah: faith and you found this podcast somehow, hopefully your heart,
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Delilah: your mind, your spirit will be open to the possibility
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Delilah: that God is real, so very real. Hello to my
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Delilah: prayer warriors as well. Thank you for joining me for
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Delilah: another episode of our new podcast, Have a Little Faith.
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Delilah: If you found me today, then chances are you already
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Delilah: have that faith. Maybe you found me because you need
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Delilah: some faith, you feel like there's something missing in your life.
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Delilah: It's so weird, Like we can acknowledge that we are
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Delilah: more than the physical body that we walk around in.
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Delilah: We can acknowledge that we have a mind, that we
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Delilah: have a heart, that we have a soul. But it's
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Delilah: very hard for some people to knowledge that they are
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Delilah: not just physical beings or mental beings, that they are
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Delilah: also spiritual beings, and they don't know how to connect
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Delilah: to that part of themselves. So if you are searching
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Delilah: for faith, for a direction to your spiritual life, welcome aboard.
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Delilah: I am here to share the very best of me,
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Delilah: and please understand how much I appreciate you joining me today.
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Delilah: I've said it before, and I will keep saying it.
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Delilah: This podcast was created to be a place dedicated to faith.
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Delilah: I believe with every fiber of my being that there
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Delilah: is a supreme being, a higher power and almighty. I
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Delilah: call him God, and I believe that He sent his
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Delilah: son in the form of Jesus. And I believe that
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Delilah: through my faith, I will spend eternity in a glorious
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Delilah: state of being where there is no pain, no death,
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Delilah: no dying, no separation from the ones I love. That
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Delilah: is what my faith leads me to believe. That is
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Delilah: the basis for my life. Do I always follow God's word?
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Delilah: Of course not. Do I fall short every single day?
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Delilah: Of course I do. I'm human. But today's podcast is
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Delilah: about the subject of grief. We need to talk about grief.
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Delilah: We need to talk about the sadness in our life.
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Delilah: Our society does not hold space for grief. We don't
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Delilah: hold space for any big emotions. We really don't or
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Delilah: any monumental things. In other countries, when women give birth,
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Delilah: they're given time off to bond with their baby and
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Delilah: care for the baby. Here, it's like top chop back
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Delilah: to work, come onsen a few weeks, get back on
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Delilah: your feet. Same is true with grief. In other cultures,
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Delilah: in other parts of the world, when somebody that is
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Delilah: close to you, your parent, or your child, or your
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Delilah: spouse or your siblings, when they pass you are honored
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Delilah: and given ways to grieve. Here, you're like, oh, you
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Delilah: should be over it. It's been a few weeks, hasn't it.
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Delilah: Grief is a difficult and complex part of our life,
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Delilah: and as a society, we do not handle grief very well.
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Delilah: As someone who unfortunately has experienced grief over and over again,
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Delilah: I was in my thirties when I lost my parents,
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Delilah: I was in my twenties when I lost my brother,
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Delilah: and I have buried three sons, my birth son, my
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Delilah: adopted son, and my step son, and I would like
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Delilah: to help change the way we deal with and respond
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Delilah: to grief. I want to start a conversation or join
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Delilah: a convoy surrounding grief and give you permission to acknowledge
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Delilah: that your life has just been devastated and you need
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Delilah: time to cry, to weep, to wail, to mourn, to heal.
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Delilah: If you are someone who has experienced deep grief, this
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Delilah: episode is for you. And if you're someone who has
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Delilah: never experienced deep grief, you will experience deep grief in
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Delilah: your life, So this episode is for you too. Let
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Delilah: me start our conversation today by sharing a phone call
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Delilah: that I took on the air on my radio show
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Delilah: from a gentleman named Don. Don just lost the love
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Delilah: of his life, his wife of many many years. His
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Delilah: story will speak to you, I promise, Don. Thanks, thank
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Delilah: you for calling. What can I do for you? Tonight
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Delilah: on the Delilah Show.
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Speaker 2: Hi, Delilah, I'm finally glad I get to talk to you.
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Speaker 2: I feel like I've known you for forty years.
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Delilah: I've been here fifty one.
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Speaker 2: That's awesome. I just have to tell you. And I
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Speaker 2: didn't want to have a lot of time, but I've
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Speaker 2: been listening to you that long and tonight I come
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Speaker 2: home and sat on the front porch or the patio,
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Speaker 2: either one, and I'm feeling a little lonely. So I
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Speaker 2: thought I'm going to see if Delilah's out there. So
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Speaker 2: you didn't even know you were my girlfriend for years.
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Speaker 2: But the reason.
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Delilah: But I was always there, huh. I always showed up
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Delilah: every night.
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Speaker 2: Whether it's recorded or not. I know I can find
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Speaker 2: Delilah if I can't find anybody else. But the reason
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Speaker 2: I'm calling is if you could play something for my wife.
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Speaker 2: I lost her this year and it's been a bed here,
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Speaker 2: real bad. But I got to tell you, the worst
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Speaker 2: part about losinger is coming home at night and opening
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Speaker 2: the front door and there is nobody on the other
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Speaker 2: side of the door. But you know, it was always
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Speaker 2: there for me, Delilah.
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Delilah: I was going to say God, because God will be
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Delilah: there too, but it's hard to hear him sometimes.
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Speaker 2: I can finally understand now what depression and anxiety is
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Speaker 2: and be sympathetic to other people for I kind of
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Speaker 2: neglected to pay attention to what they were saying. But
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Speaker 2: it's been horrible, and I thank God for you and
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Speaker 2: what you do. You have your own mission and you
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Speaker 2: don't know how much it's doing for people. We love you.
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Delilah: So tell me about your bride.
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Speaker 2: She passed this year on a We went on a
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Speaker 2: cruise and she got sick on the cruise and long
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Speaker 2: story shorted it. Ultimately she ended up with pneumonia. She
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Speaker 2: was a labor and delivery nurse and I worked for
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Speaker 2: the airlines, so we were able to change our residences
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Speaker 2: around the country when we had to just to keep
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Speaker 2: the job. But she brought more kids into the world
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Speaker 2: than some of these doctors, because the doctors usually don't
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Speaker 2: get there on time. So but I miss her an
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Speaker 2: awful lot. If you could just play something for I'd
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Speaker 2: appreciate it.
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Delilah: And Don what's your wife's name?
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Speaker 2: Her name is Richelle, like Michelle with an R.
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Delilah: I will play a song to bring her memory. I
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Delilah: know I can't bring her presence. I wish, I wish
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Delilah: I could pray and do a miracle like Jesus did
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Delilah: with Lazareth for you, because I can hear in your
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Delilah: voice how much you miss your beloved, but I can't.
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Delilah: I can pray that God will ease the pain and
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Delilah: give you just a little glimpse into Heaven to give
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Delilah: you that hope to hang on to.
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Speaker 2: Thank you for your love and your caring.
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Delilah: Can I say a prayer for you, don before you
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Delilah: hang up?
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Speaker 3: Yes?
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Delilah: Please, thank you Father God. I thank you Lord for
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Delilah: letting this gentleman get through on the phone lines tonight.
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Delilah: I thank you God for allowing me the honor and
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Delilah: the privilege to speak with him and to pray with
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Delilah: him as well as be with him on the air
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Delilah: each night. Lord, I don't know why you called Rochelle home.
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Delilah: I don't understand, Lord, God, why such good people are
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Delilah: taken from us way too soon. But I do know,
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Delilah: Lord God, that you say that all of our days
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Delilah: are numbered before a single one comes to pass, you
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Delilah: know exactly when you're going to call me home. That
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Delilah: day has already been determined long before I came to
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Delilah: this world. And I pray, Lord God, that you would
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Delilah: sustain this gentleman and give him everything that he needs
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Delilah: to carry on each day. Lord, when you say the
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Delilah: two shall become one flesh, it's true. When we love
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Delilah: our spouse so much, we become one where they finish
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Delilah: our sentences, they know what we're thinking. We have code
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Delilah: words with the ones that we love. We have we
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Delilah: don't even have to say things. We can just look
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Delilah: at each other and know what the other is thinking.
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Delilah: I have that with my husband, and it's such a gift.
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Delilah: I pray, Lord God, that you would be there for
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Delilah: this gentleman as he tries to wrap his head around
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Delilah: the fact that half of him is missing, but he
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Delilah: still has to get up and get dressed and breathe
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Delilah: and carry on. I pray God you would show him
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Delilah: why he's still here. There is a story that is
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Delilah: left unwritten that he needs to finish before he gets
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Delilah: to join you in glory. Show him what that purpose is,
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Delilah: Show him exactly why he is still here. Show him
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Delilah: what it is that you want him to do to accomplish.
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Delilah: Who it is that you want him to love to
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Delilah: reach out to. I pray God that right now you
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Delilah: would just be with him in such a tangible way,
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Delilah: such a real way. He will feel your presence, feel
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Delilah: your hug, feel your love, and know how much you
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Delilah: love him and his beloved. I asked this in your
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Delilah: precious and your holy name. Amen.
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Speaker 2: I'll say, man, thank you very much, Delilah.
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Delilah: There is something that is still unwritten that you're to finish.
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Delilah: I don't know what it is. I don't know who
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Delilah: it is, but there's somebody that needs a touch from
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Delilah: the Lord, and you're the one that is going to
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Delilah: be impacting their life for all eternity.
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Speaker 2: I've prayed about it, and I don't know what the
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Speaker 2: purpose is, but I agree with you there's something there.
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Speaker 2: Because we both retired at the same time and all
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Speaker 2: we want to do is grow all together, and we
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Speaker 2: didn't get to do that. So hold your loved ones
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Speaker 2: close because that extra time you don't spend with them
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Speaker 2: you'll regret it.
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Delilah: Amen, God, bless you.
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Speaker 2: Thank you. I'm glad I got through listen to you
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Speaker 2: a long time.
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Delilah: Me too, good night, I love you.
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Speaker 2: Thank you.
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Delilah: Don's call broke my heart. I know full well what
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Delilah: it feels like to walk into the empty room. I
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Delilah: think we all do. This silence is deafening, opening the
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Delilah: door to a now empty house, a bedroom, a closet,
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Delilah: top drawer of the chester drawers, the drawer that was
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Delilah: once filled with evidence of a life being lived, so
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Delilah: very hard, so very lonely. If you're listening right now,
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Delilah: send on a prayer, Send a prayer to God and say,
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Delilah: please comfort this man. Trust me. Prayer is a very
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Delilah: powerful thing. I would not be alive today if it
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Delilah: weren't for the prayers of so many people who have
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Delilah: lifted me up during the darkest hours. The next call
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Delilah: I want to share with you is from a young
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Delilah: lady named Caitlin, a very sweet young lady who recently
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Delilah: lost her mama now finds herself dealing with her own
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Delilah: serious health concerns. Caitlyn's call coming up next. Hello, good evening.
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Delilah: You've called Delilah, who is on the phone line with me.
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Speaker 4: Hey, Delilah, my name is Caitlyn. I'm so so happy
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Speaker 4: to be talking to you.
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Delilah: Hi, Caitlin. You have a great voice too. You have
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Delilah: a like raspy radio voice.
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Speaker 4: Thank you. I appreciate that more than you know.
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Delilah: What can I do for you? How can I make
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Delilah: your night better?
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Speaker 2: Oh?
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Speaker 4: Actually, just being able to connect with you has honestly
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Speaker 4: made my night better. I'm actually going right now into
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Speaker 4: the hospital to get my brain.
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Speaker 5: Am I done?
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Speaker 4: Because I'm going through diagnostic process for multiple square fists?
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Speaker 4: But the real reason I'm calling is actually because my
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Speaker 4: mom had passed away two years ago this month, and
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Speaker 4: just I don't know, I asked her for a sign
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Speaker 4: tonight and I was listening to you a whole two
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Speaker 4: hour right up here, and I feel like just kind
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Speaker 4: of being able to get onto your line is that
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Speaker 4: sign for me? Because you are an impossible woman to
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Speaker 4: get a hold of.
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Delilah: Well, God knew you needed to get through tonight. And
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Delilah: your mom was like, Lord, could you just got her
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Delilah: a break here? Just I can't be there to wrap
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Delilah: my arms around her. Could you let another mama tell
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Delilah: her how much I love her?
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Speaker 4: And then thank you?
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Delilah: So you're going in tonight for an MRI. You have
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Delilah: like a procedure schedule. Late.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm walking from the parking garage. I'll read to
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Speaker 4: my MRI now, So I think I made it a
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Speaker 4: minute early.
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Delilah: Wow. Wow, Well, can I say a prayer for you quick?
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Delilah: Since I got a minute?
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Speaker 4: Absolutely? I would love that.
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Delilah: Father, God, I thank you for letting Caitlin get through
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Delilah: on the phone lines tonight. I pray God that this
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Delilah: test would not be too nerve wracking, that the noise
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Delilah: would not be jarring, that she would be able to
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Delilah: relax and not get claustrophobic. I pray God that it
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Delilah: would go quickly and smoothly and not be too uncomfortable.
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Delilah: I pray Lord that the results would show that she
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Delilah: does not have anything that is going to slow her down,
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Delilah: that she does not have any issue that's going to
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Delilah: impede her reaching her goals and her dreams. I pray
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Delilah: Lord that your holy spirit would be upon her. I
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Delilah: pray God, from the top of her head to the
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Delilah: bottom of her feet right now, she would feel you,
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Delilah: that you would do a miraculous work God, that you
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Delilah: would put everything into perfect order. I pray God for peace,
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Delilah: the peace that surpasses all understanding. And I pray for
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Delilah: a supernatural healing. Amen.
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Speaker 4: Amen, thank you so so much Forlilah.
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Delilah: What's mama's name, Eileen? And was mama when God called
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Delilah: her home?
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Speaker 4: She was fifty eight years young.
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Delilah: You had your mama one year more than I had mine,
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Delilah: And I know how much I miss her to this day.
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Delilah: And it's so unfair. It's so and people don't understand
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Delilah: when you're an adult and you're an orphan. Everybody's like, oh,
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Delilah: I'm sorry, but you want to scream. No, you don't
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Delilah: understand at all. I need my best friend here to
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Delilah: guide my steps. I need her here. I need her hugs,
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Delilah: I need her laughter, I need her sense of humor.
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Delilah: I need her recipes. I need her when I've had
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Delilah: a bad day. I need her when I've had a great.
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Speaker 4: Day, everything in between. You know, she sends me signs
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Speaker 4: really often to let me know that she's here. But
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Speaker 4: I think that people don't understand until they lose their
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Speaker 4: best friend that it's the physical things that you really
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Speaker 4: miss most, you know, hearing their laugh and feeling their.
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Delilah: Touch and having her drive you to an MRI that
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Delilah: you really don't want to have.
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Speaker 4: Right exactly exactly because I know that she would be
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Speaker 4: here with me otherwise, so.
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Delilah: Well, I'm glad that she had me pick up the
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Delilah: phone me too.
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Speaker 4: Thank you, Delilah, Thank you so much.
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Delilah: You're just going to pretend when you go into that
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Delilah: MRI that I'm there holding your hand and waiting on
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Delilah: the other side when you get out. Okay, Thank you, Delilah.
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Speaker 4: I really appreciate that more more than you know.
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Delilah: You are not alone.
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Speaker 4: I'm giving you a big, big hug right now.
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Delilah: You are not alone.
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Speaker 3: Thank you.
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Speaker 4: No idea how much I needed to hear that.
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Delilah: Yeah, I do. And I believe in you, and your
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Delilah: mama believed in you so much, and you're going to
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Delilah: get through this and you're going to come out victorious.
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Speaker 4: Absolutely.
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Delilah: Thank you, all right, good luck. I am so glad
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Delilah: that Caitlin was able to get through on my phone lines.
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Delilah: I really do believe her mom made that happen. I
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Delilah: believe that. I believe that actually God made it happen
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Delilah: so that there could still be a connection. If any
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Delilah: of you out there know a young person who has
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Delilah: lost a parent or the one person who loved them unconditionally,
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Delilah: please know that they need you. They won't ever say it,
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Delilah: they won't ever ever be able to say there is
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Delilah: a huge void in my life. My heart is shattered.
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Delilah: I need you to stand with me and love me
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Delilah: through it. I need you to help me cry. Those
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Delilah: are words we are not able to say. I wasn't
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Delilah: I don't know why. But we're not taught that grief
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Delilah: is okay, and that when our heart is shattered. We
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Delilah: need people not to come along and say trite things
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Delilah: or foolish things, or minimize our pain or tell us
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Delilah: we'll get through it. Just come and stand beside us
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Delilah: and help us cry. Every night I come into the
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Delilah: studio and I open up the phone lines so that
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Delilah: I can find out what's going on in your heart
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Delilah: and your world, who you love and why you love them.
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Delilah: But we can't ignore what's going on in the world
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Delilah: around us. This is a place to come and let
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Delilah: your heart beat freely and share love. But sometimes issues
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Delilah: going on are so overwhelming that we have to acknowledge
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Delilah: the hearts that are breaking. And so it is with
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Delilah: the flooding in Texas. We've had wildfires, we've had landslides,
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Delilah: we've had floods this year, crazy things going on around
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Delilah: the world, and it's getting crazier. And the floods that
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Delilah: happened last weekend in Texas were so crazy. A wall
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Delilah: of water came rushing through entire communities and now lives, homes,
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Delilah: camps have been washed Awayildren are still missing and our
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Delilah: prayers go out to them. And just a minute, I'm
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Delilah: going to talk to Randy, who's been trying all night
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Delilah: to get through to say a prayer for the people
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Delilah: in Texas. Stay tuned for that call coming up next. Hi, Randy,
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Delilah: how is your summer twenty twenty five going?
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Speaker 3: So far? So good?
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Delilah: What's been the best part so far?
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Speaker 3: Being able to drive again?
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Delilah: You had lost that ability, lost that privilege.
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Speaker 3: Yes, I had a seizure two days before Christmas and
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Speaker 3: I just started driving the last Friday of June.
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Delilah: And what can I do for you tonight?
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Speaker 3: I was wondering if we could spend our love and
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Speaker 3: our prayers to the families in the Texas that have
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Speaker 3: lost their children.
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Delilah: And do you have family in the Texas area or
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Delilah: your heart's just breaking like those of us that have
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Delilah: watched the horror unfold and just shake our heads, going God,
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Delilah: what is going on?
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Speaker 2: Lord?
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Speaker 3: God put it on my heart to call you. So
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Speaker 3: I've been calling for two hours and I finally got through.
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Delilah: I'm so glad you got through. Do you want to
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Delilah: say a prayer with me for them?
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Speaker 3: Yes, ma'am.
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Delilah: Father God, I thank you Lord for allowing Randy to
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Delilah: get through on the phone lines. I thank you God
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Delilah: for his heart, for his tender, tender heart. I praise
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Delilah: you God that you quickened his heart to call, and
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Delilah: that you quicken my heart to answer this line. Father,
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Delilah: we lift up everybody in Central Texas, everybody that has
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Delilah: been affected by the flooding. We lift them up and
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Delilah: we pray Lord, God, your hand upon them. The families
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Delilah: who lost children, especially over eighty people, are gone, God,
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Delilah: and lives have been destroyed. Families have been devastated. The
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Delilah: whole area. God, in the blink of an eye, happen
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Delilah: in less than an hour. Father, I pray that they
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Delilah: would be able to find more survivors, that they would
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Delilah: be able to bring peace to the families that are
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Delilah: looking for their loved ones. God, that you would help
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Delilah: them to find them. I pray you would help them
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Delilah: to find them alive. God. I pray Lord that your
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Delilah: arms would wrap around the whole community and give comfort
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Delilah: to those who are grieving. God, you are our shelter.
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Delilah: In the storms of life, and we will praise you
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Delilah: even in the midst of the crushing storms. God, we
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Delilah: praise you through all of this. We praise your Holy name. Amen. Amen,
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Delilah: you have a tender heart, Randy. I love that. Thank
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Delilah: you for calling.
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Speaker 3: You're welcome. God Bless you, God.
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Delilah: Bless you. The last call I want to share with
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Delilah: you today is from Angie. She has an incredible testimony
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Delilah: to share about one of her favorite friends friends, and
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Delilah: I'm going to share this beautiful call with you right now. Angie. Hi,
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Delilah: good evening, Welcome to the Delilah Show. Tell me who
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Delilah: is on your heart tonight and how I can bring
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Delilah: a little more hope to your life.
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Speaker 5: Oh, thank you to Alilah so much. Tonight. I have
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Speaker 5: a very very special friend on my heart. I've known
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Speaker 5: her for twenty years. We recently lost her this week.
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Speaker 5: She had a traumatic brain episode and she currently was
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Speaker 5: living in Virginia. She's a pastor's wife. They've adopted twelve children,
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Speaker 5: and she worked in the adoption world. Is where I
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Speaker 5: met her, as I have four of my own that
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Speaker 5: are adopted. She's matched hundreds of families all over the US,
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Speaker 5: brought people together. Just an amazing incredible human people. Up
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Speaker 5: until the day she passed. She donated her her workins
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Speaker 5: donated just absolutely incredible and her family was very unexpected.
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Speaker 5: They are, you know, of course hurting, and just there's
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Speaker 5: so many people that loved her. She was a comedy
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Speaker 5: and heart. She would just make everybody that came in
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Speaker 5: contact with her laugh, and she was a jokester, but
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Speaker 5: she was also a servant. And she is just one
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Speaker 5: of the most incredible humans I probably ever met. And
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Speaker 5: we are very sad that we have we have lost
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Speaker 5: or so seen.
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Delilah: And what's your friend's name?
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Speaker 5: Claudia Fletcher and she they currently are pastoring her husband's
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Speaker 5: pastoring in a church in Virginia.
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Delilah: And they've adopted how many kids?
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Speaker 5: They have adopted twelve of their own, mostly from the
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Speaker 5: foster care system. And she also has worked in the
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Speaker 5: adoption world for many many years, matching many families with
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Speaker 5: children and making families come together.
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Delilah: So did she help you facilitate your adoptions or you
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Delilah: just met her because you both were adoptive moms.
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Speaker 5: Well, she did not match me with my children. However,
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Speaker 5: we both lived in another state at the time, and
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Speaker 5: she would have adoption family weekends where families would come
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Speaker 5: with their children, and she had all these activities and
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Speaker 5: they would just you know, a chance for adoptive parents
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Speaker 5: and families to get together and meet each other and
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Speaker 5: just and have a nice, relaxing, fun weekend. And from
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Speaker 5: the first time I met her, she of course you
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Speaker 5: just can't help but love her. But she's just one
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Speaker 5: of the funniest people I think I've ever met, and
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Speaker 5: just was always there for anybody who needed anything, and
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Speaker 5: volunteered so many hours I can't even begin to tell you.
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Speaker 5: She worked for an adoption vagency, and she also volunteered
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Speaker 5: with one, matching families to children and foster heres that
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Speaker 5: were ready for adoption. Of course, her husband's a pastor,
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Speaker 5: and you know, there's so many things that go along
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Speaker 5: with that volunteering. You know, lots of time.
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Delilah: I think when you're married to a pastor, it's volunteerlding.
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Delilah: It's not volunteering, it's volunteerding. It kind of goes with
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Delilah: the territory. It goes with the territory that the three
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Delilah: am hysterical calls because somebody's in jail, because somebody's pregnant,
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Delilah: because somebody's in the hospital, because somebody ran out of
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Delilah: diapers because somebody needs prayer. It's kind of volunteering. Yeah,
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Delilah: you're right, but she did it with a smile and
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Delilah: made you laugh the whole time.
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Speaker 5: Always, always, yes, always the servant's heart.
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Speaker 1: You know why this makes me sad? This conversation makes
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Speaker 1: me sad, Angie, Why because I'm going to have to
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Speaker 1: wait until God calls me home before I get to
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Speaker 1: meet this angel.
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Speaker 5: Yes, and you will know her on YouTube.
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Speaker 3: She is.
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Speaker 5: Oh, she's just amazing.
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Delilah: I have never heard of another person. And I'm not
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Delilah: patting myself on the back, but I have twelve adopted
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Delilah: children and I've never heard of anybody who is that insane.
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Delilah: And now I could have met her and said, wow,
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Delilah: how do you do it? Because I'm not sure how
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Delilah: I'm going to keep doing it. My youngest is nine,
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Delilah: and she can't tell me that now because she's busy
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Delilah: dining with the King of Kings.
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Speaker 5: Yes she is, Yes, she is. She's probably telling jokes,
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Speaker 5: I'm sure right now. Yeah, and all of her children,
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Speaker 5: so you know, they live in different parts of the country,
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Speaker 5: and most of the children got to come and sayk
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Speaker 5: avised her, which was very special. Yeah, she's just anything,
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Speaker 5: and she I'm not even I can't even know account
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Speaker 5: of grandchildren at this point that they have. So wait,
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Speaker 5: let's tell all years get older and then you start
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Speaker 5: having all the to go along.
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Delilah: Well, I've got twenty three so far, and only half
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Delilah: of my children are partnered and you know, married off
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Delilah: or have a partner and kids. So I am the
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Delilah: old woman who lives in a shoe.
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Speaker 5: Wow, that's amazing.
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Delilah: Is there a song that you can think of that
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Delilah: I might have in my collection that would celebrate the
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Delilah: life of this phenomenal, beautiful, amazing, loving giving woman. That is,
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Delilah: like I said, now dining with the King of Kings.
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Speaker 5: You're the professional. I think you will pick out the
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Speaker 5: perfect song. So I'm going to leave that.
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Speaker 4: Up to you.
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Delilah: I think we need to celebrate the fact that Claudia
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Delilah: had love and she gave it all away. And I
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Delilah: am going to find a song and play a song
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Delilah: that celebrates when you give it away, when you give
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Delilah: the love away.
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Speaker 5: I love that. That's perfect.
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Delilah: I love Angie that you called thank you, thank you
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Delilah: for sharing this this person. And I will make a
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Delilah: mental note that when God calls me home, one of
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Delilah: the first people I'm going to look for. Well, after
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Delilah: I see my folks and my kids that are there.
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Delilah: This is going to be your friend, Claudie. And I'm
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Delilah: going to say, Claudia, you don't know me, but Angie
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Delilah: told me all about you.
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Speaker 5: What she say, Yes, that'll be wonderful.
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Delilah: I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sorry for the world's loss. Yeah,
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Delilah: sounds like she's got left some big shoes that you're
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Delilah: gonna you're gonna need to step into.
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Speaker 5: Yes, that is true. That is true.
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Delilah: Keep that legacy of love alive. Yes, absolutely, thank you,
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Delilah: Thank you, Thank you, Angie. Your faith just resonated with me.
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Delilah: I need to be reminded of that as much as
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Delilah: you do. You just helped illuminate a point that I
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Delilah: really want to make. When we grieve deeply, it's because
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Delilah: we love deeply. The deeper the love, the deeper that bond,
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Delilah: the stronger that bond, the harder it is to get
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Delilah: through the pain.
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Speaker 5: Thank you so much.
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Delilah: When it comes to grief, words are never enough, But
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Delilah: you know it is holding someone's hand, listening, even if
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Delilah: they share the same story over and over and over again, listening,
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Delilah: taking a walk, holding space for them. You can be
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Delilah: a witness who testifies to love. You can be a
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Delilah: witness who stands in the gap for someone who needs
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Delilah: a touch from God. Thank you to Don and Caitlin
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Delilah: and Angie for sharing your stories with me and with
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Delilah: all of us and speaking of that. If you have
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Delilah: something you would like like to share, something you'd like
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