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Bimbo Ademoye & VJ Adams End Their 4 Years Engagement, Unfollow Each Other On Instagram · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to the episode of Bands with Lorence
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  here. How are you all doing if you're
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  doing great? For today's episode, I want to
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  talk about Bimbo Ademoe and her alleged boyfriend because at
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  this point we don't know Vijay. Now Bimbo is a Hollywood actress
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  who she's very hard working. She has done so many movies.
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  Bimbo has her YouTube channel is popping, ranking millions of
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  views within days. So Bimbo is successful.
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  She she has worked hard. A lot of people have attested to
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  the fact that she is a very kind human being now.
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  According to the story, Bimbo started dating Vijay, who is the
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  media personality, five years ago.
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  They got into a relationship then got engaged four years ago.
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  So we're talking about probably 2021 now.
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  The two of them, a lot of people, they didn't make their
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  relationship public, but people in the industry knew they were
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  dating. People had always because Bimbo
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  is beautiful, Bimbo is pretty. So they've never seen Bimbo with
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  any man. And all the fingers were
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  pointing at Vijay. They had done so many skits
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  together. They had He has interviewed her
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  and she had posted him once in a while on her page.
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  And people on VJ's podcast had always asked about Bimbo.
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  You know how it's it's kind of an open secret that these two
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  people are dating, but for some reason they had refused to make
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  their relationship public. You can understand that, OK,
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  these are two popular people who don't want to be known or
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  defined by their relationship together.
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  And I am very sure that Vijay is the one who had made that
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  decision because Bimbo looks like a very She likes love,
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  she's a lover girl. If you watch her movies, you
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  could tell that she she she loves relationship.
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  So I am very sure. And according to what people are
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  saying, it is Vijay that had decided to keep that
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  relationship secret. Now they dated for 4-5 years,
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  engaged for four years and the news in town is that Bimbo
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  demanded for. She asked the question, what are
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  we doing? When are we going to get
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  married? We've been engaged for four
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  years, what is the deal? Fix it dates, you are
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  successful, I am successful. Wedding is not a problem if you
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  if you don't want a big wedding, we can go to the registry, get
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  married and just keep it moving. She gave VJ an ultimatum and he
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  didn't like it because according to Wali, he made a post talking
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  about the relationship. He said that he was not sure.
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  Vijay was not sure. How can you date somebody for
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  five years, engaged for four years, never made that public
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  and you are not sure she had never talked about her
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  relationship. She's a very private person.
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  He also, he is the one even making caricature of the whole
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  relationship because people in his podcast, I remember Simi,
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  you know, in his show, he would say, OK, ask me questions.
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  And the reason why he he always put that there is because he
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  knew or he knows that they would always ask him about his
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  relationship. Simi was asking him are you in a
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  relationship and he he refused to answer or to even acknowledge
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  Bimbo. Now some people are they've
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  unfollowed each other on Instagram.
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  So you know, now relationship is all on social media.
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  To know who is actually shipping with anybody or who is on
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  shipping with anybody, you go to their social media to find out
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  if they had unfollowed each other.
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  They did not just unfollow each other.
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  They blocked each other on social media just to tell you
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  how how bad it got. Now there's an interview that
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  Vijay did with Bimbo on his show.
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  He was asking her random questions.
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  I mean, if you watch that interview, let me just play it
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  for you to see talking. About tattoos, would you do more
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  tattoos? I don't think so.
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  Maybe when my kids come. What's your favourite part of
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  the chicken? The neck or the feet?
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  Oh, the head too, then the wing. Are you Daisy?
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  Am I Daisy? Yeah.
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  Uh huh. But.
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  Wait and try. Don't try, don't try.
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  Oh dear, the. Neck.
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  Yeah, the neck, we're already a part of the drumstick.
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  It's just one boring fleshy flesh and then just one bone in
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  the middle. No, you have to struggle.
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  Yeah, not struggle, but you have to, like, there has to be
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  obstacles, you know? So the neck, the head, and then
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  the wings. Do you like the head of fish as
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  well? Oh yes, that's that's, that's
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  the fish. What else?
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  That's the fish. The head of fish is the fish.
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  Have you ever eaten head of fish outside?
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  No, I can't, because I need to clean it.
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  I need to sit down. I need to take my shirt off, I
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  need to dissect, I need to perform surgery on it, I need to
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  lick the bones white, I need to eat the eyes, I need to eat the
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  brain. It's just a tiny piece of Jelly,
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  like you know, gooey stuff. So that takes like 0.5 seconds
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  to eat. Just one of your tongue and they
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  just let it melt on your mum, swallow, that's it.
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  So I need to do all of that. I can't really eat fish.
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  Head outside. I've never eaten crocodile.
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  Crocodile. Yes, I have one time, but I
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  didn't really get the taste because it wasn't well seasoned.
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  And then I don't, I don't know if it's supposed to like, you
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  know, take out the scale of a crocodile, but.
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  It was. It was.
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  It was. Scaly.
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  Yeah, it was still scaly. That skin was still there and
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  it's like. Whoever eating snake.
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  No, I haven't, but I like to try.
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  I hear it's very tough. I like to try and I hear it
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  tastes like chicken. If you were going to be an
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  animal, what animal would you think you would?
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  Be I'll be a gazelle because I'm beautiful, but I'd like to be a
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  lion or a tiger just so that I don't get taken down in the
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  jungle. But in terms of like beauty,
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  because they're but they're the easiest to take down, sadly.
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  Have you ever, Let's say you were to choose self defence of
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  some sort? Would you rather learn how to be
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  a boxer? Martial arts, kickboxing, Karate
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  or breaking bottles. So I already know how to break
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  bottles, and I feel like I already know how to throw a
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  punch. You feel me?
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  But OK, let's go. Come on. 112.
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  No, that was very mild. That was that was very mild.
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  But I don't. You don't break my heart
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  already. No, I don't really know like the
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  professional, like Clarissa Shields type of boxing, but like
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  you know, you know, St boxing where you just like you have to
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  like to seek you kind. Of eat just I eat.
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  Are you OK? I'm just wondering what's I'm.
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  I'm just wondering how he's surviving it.
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  That's. All OK, he's.
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  I he's, he's, I, he's doing good.
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  So a lot of people said that this was when Vijay realised
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  that he could not marry Bimbo. The questions were random.
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  And if you look at his facial expressions, you could tell that
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  he was trying to figure out something.
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  He was trying to put the pieces together to think, OK, is this
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  somebody I want to spend the rest of my life with?
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  Or is this just somebody? Is she too much?
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  You know, I think they're, they, they, they have chemistry.
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  Obviously, they, they do have chemistry, but I think their
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  backgrounds differ. Bimbo was raised in the streets,
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  not street Street, but she wasn't raised with this silver
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  spoon. She was raised by a single dad.
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  So you could tell she has that dominance character in her and
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  he looks like somebody or he pretends to look like somebody
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  who is raised with a silver spoon.
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  So when she was talking about eating chicken head, legs and
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  neck, he he looked horrified. But if you raised like 99% of
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  the children in Nigeria, those are what they give the kids, the
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  tie, the breast, they are for the elders, they are for the
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  parents. So you, you, you, you relish the
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  leg, the neck, the head, like those are what you're chewing
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  the bones and you're getting the whole, you know, the juicy part
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  of the whole thing. So I think their background kind
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  of clashed. I think at that point he was
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  realising, or he, he was realising that yes, she's
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  polished now, she's made money, she's all these things that on
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  paper she looks perfect, but in terms of their background, it
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  will not work. So I think he was thinking at
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  that point, yeah, not going to happen, not going to happen.
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  So it's sad because Bimbo, a lot of people are now saying that
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  they can't take his leftover. You know, these are very popular
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  people. These are stars relationship.
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  Sometimes I say it's lock. You can find the right person or
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  you think you found the right person.
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  You've been in that relationship, you've given it
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  your all. You've told everybody how much
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  you love this person, how how great this person is.
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  And then after five years, that doesn't work.
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  And that is, you know, you've dated this person when at that
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  marriageable age when everybody's hooking up to a
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  serious person to get married to.
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  And that to you was your serious person.
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  And it at the end of the day, he ended up being nothing.
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  What would you do? People are now trying to say oh
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  she is a leftover because Vijay did not marry her Nigerian man.
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  What do you want? What do you, what do you
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  actually? What do you people want?
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  Because some of you guys are yes, I can understand that.
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  Yes, she's all these things. People are saying she's nice,
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  but you don't know how she is in a relationship.
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  I get it, I get it. But if it takes you five years
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  to realise that you cannot be with a person, that person has
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  to force that out of you. That person has to give you an
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  ultimatum to make you realise that, OK, I don't want or to to
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  to make you make a decision that for me is is the wickedness.
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  It is. Yes, people can say, oh, he
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  never claimed her. He never, he never did online.
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  But behind the scenes everybody knew they were dating.
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  It shouldn't take you five years to tell somebody's daughter that
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  you don't want to marry them. It shouldn't take you four years
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  after engagement to make her give you an ultimatum for you to
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  allegedly break up the relationship.
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  But a broken engagement is always better than a broken
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  marriage. I say that and I will say it
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  again because most times people, let's say Peggy and Leonard,
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  they dated for seven years. Peggy gave him an ultimatum.
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  He decided to to just give her what she wanted.
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  They got married and a year after the whole marriage he knew
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  he did not want her, but she forced herself on him.
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  But he was not man enough to say I don't want you.
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  It took Peggy seven years to give him an ultimatum.
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  It took Bimbo four years to give him to give Vijay an automaton.
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  Ladies and gentlemen ladies, especially one year after a
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  relationship start asking the question.
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  In fact, six months like 6 months.
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  You should know if this is working or if this is not,
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  especially if you guys are both successful and you have
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  everything money to money for the wedding is none is not is
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  not a problem. Six months later you should
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  start having that conversation or you're going to wait five
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  years or seven years. Token Mac, you are waiting for
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  11 years and a year after that relation after that marriage,
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  the marriage ended. Longevity does not determine men
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  can meet somebody today and after three months they are
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  married to that person. So it's not about if they are
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  hesitating, if after six months they've not made that decision,
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  if after one year they've not made, if they are not actively
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  claiming you run, run. Somebody told me, listen, when a
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  guy sees you, he knows exactly what he wants from you.
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  You can then decide to, you know, change him to be what you
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  want. But once you made that change,
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  you are always going to take the lead because initially you are
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  not what he wanted. Men.
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  So men will take you to the desert and leave you without
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  water. Our our brothers.
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  You have sisters who if you're in a relationship and five
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  years, six years, seven years, you are not sure leave the gayly
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  alone tell her. But for sometimes they tell
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  these ladies and they just think he is having a bad day or he is
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  listen, always listen anyway, let me know what you think.
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  Do you think that it is better for them to go their separate
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  ways now or get married and separate after one year?
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  Or do you think that we are just reading meaning into them
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  blocking each other on social media?
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  Maybe they're still very much together and we're just here
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  bouncing. Thank you very much for watching
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  today's episode. Please like, like, like and
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  share. Thank you very much for
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  watching. Bye bye.