Latest / Stuff Mom Never Told You / Legacy and Fandom Ethics
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to Stephane
- 0:07Speaker 1: Never Told You reflection of iHeartRadio, and today we are
- 0:19Speaker 1: thrilled to be joined by the amazing of the wonderful Joey,
- 0:23Speaker 1: who helps us with TikTok and researching and episodes. Obviously,
- 0:27Speaker 1: so glad to have you here. Thank you. Yeah, I'm
- 0:31Speaker 1: excited to be here. Yes, yes, yes, um, we're very
- 0:34Speaker 1: excited to have you. You know, heads up, probably by
- 0:37Speaker 1: the title, you can tell this is very controversial topic
- 0:40Speaker 1: for sure. Not a sponsor also, I hope obviously, but
- 0:43Speaker 1: you know, not a sponsor. Um, we're gonna be a
- 0:48Speaker 1: fire if they were. Yes, but this is something, uh,
- 0:55Speaker 1: we really wanted to talk about and I had been
- 0:59Speaker 1: intending I had an episode kind of planned about it,
- 1:02Speaker 1: but it was going to be much more of a
- 1:04Speaker 1: like personal I know we're gonna talk about this later,
- 1:06Speaker 1: but kind of a personal take on like grieving and
- 1:09Speaker 1: fandom and what that that looks like. But yes, all
- 1:12Speaker 1: of that said, very excited to talk about this. No,
- 1:17Speaker 1: it's controversial, but come with us on this journey listeners. Joey,
- 1:21Speaker 1: do you want to introduce yourself anything that I missed
- 1:25Speaker 1: that I should have said, um, yeah, hi, I'm Joey
- 1:29Speaker 1: A good I don't think you're really missening. I think
- 1:32Speaker 1: I'm a producer here at iHeart, So I do research
- 1:36Speaker 1: for Smith you from time to time, and I also
- 1:38Speaker 1: run the TikTok. So you guys should all go follow
- 1:41Speaker 1: that if you haven't already. M yeah, yes, yes, yes, yes.
- 1:49Speaker 1: You have been such a good sport because we just
- 1:52Speaker 1: essentially send you very random long clips and are like
- 1:55Speaker 1: maybe this or really that, you have to go on
- 2:00Speaker 1: and make it with amazing like any crying, it's fine everything. Yeah,
- 2:08Speaker 1: I didn't get to do that. I don't know the
- 2:11Speaker 1: only when there's a little Valentine'sday when I did so
- 2:14Speaker 1: far with the So it's fun. It's fun. Definitely giving
- 2:22Speaker 1: me an excuse to like spend a lot more time
- 2:24Speaker 1: on TikTok too, which is you know, positives and negatives
- 2:27Speaker 1: to that. But it depends, well, there is a lot
- 2:38Speaker 1: of ground to cover with this. So can you let's
- 2:41Speaker 1: get into can you tell us what we're talking about today? Yeah?
- 2:45Speaker 1: So quick, just trigger warning off the top. I'm going
- 2:48Speaker 1: to be getting into a lot of like transphobic violence,
- 2:52Speaker 1: both like interpersonally and on a state level, some brief
- 2:55Speaker 1: discussion of sexual assault, nothing too explicit, the just transphobia,
- 3:01Speaker 1: the big thing. Yeah, I'm going to talk about the
- 3:06Speaker 1: whole ongoing I guess controversy regarding the Harry Potter franchise
- 3:14Speaker 1: as a whole, but particularly this video game that came
- 3:16Speaker 1: out recently. And yeah, as Annie had kind of mentioned,
- 3:22Speaker 1: also getting into like talking about fandom and what you
- 3:25Speaker 1: do when this sort of thing happens, and how to
- 3:29Speaker 1: kind of ethically or you know, somewhat ethically interact with
- 3:34Speaker 1: this kind of media and yeah, yeah, yeah, and I
- 3:40Speaker 1: I think we're gonna have some personal stuff throughout, but
- 3:44Speaker 1: I'll just say, like at the top, this is a
- 3:47Speaker 1: very We've talked about this several times because not this specifically,
- 3:52Speaker 1: but like, you know, everything has its problematic issues, and
- 3:58Speaker 1: everybody I always say, like people can do a lot
- 4:00Speaker 1: of mental gymnastics, and I guess what I'm saying ultimately
- 4:06Speaker 1: is there's no like ones set, one thing fits all,
- 4:09Speaker 1: prescriptive thing. And I know that a lot of her
- 4:14Speaker 1: has been done by this, so just to acknowledge that,
- 4:17Speaker 1: but oh yeah, sure, I don't know, it's just kind
- 4:21Speaker 1: of like it's a complicated issue. I mean, and we're
- 4:27Speaker 1: gonna get into like I don't think there's like there's
- 4:29Speaker 1: not really a right answer, which is the frustrating part.
- 4:32Speaker 1: And again, like you'll see what I go through a
- 4:34Speaker 1: lot of the background. It was really first frustrating writing
- 4:38Speaker 1: this whole thing because it's like it really is a
- 4:41Speaker 1: lot of like back and forth between like a lot
- 4:43Speaker 1: of this really violent, terrible things that are happening to
- 4:46Speaker 1: trans people and then talking about like nostalgic culture and
- 4:50Speaker 1: pop culture and how that affects people, which also is important,
- 4:53Speaker 1: but you know, like it again, it's it gets really complicated,
- 4:57Speaker 1: and I don't want to deny the experiences of anybody
- 5:02Speaker 1: or like kind of yeah, like there's a lot of
- 5:06Speaker 1: layers to this as we're going to get into. Yes, yes, um,
- 5:10Speaker 1: well let's get into it. Can you give us kind
- 5:14Speaker 1: of overview of what has been happening, what has brought
- 5:17Speaker 1: us to where we are today? So yeah, this this
- 5:20Speaker 1: whole I'm going to keep using the word controversy. I
- 5:23Speaker 1: don't know how to feel about the word, but anyways,
- 5:25Speaker 1: this whole controversy started around twenty seventeen twenty eighteen, when
- 5:29Speaker 1: fans of the Harry Potter series and noticed that JK.
- 5:33Speaker 1: Rowling had liked a number of tweets attacking the trans
- 5:36Speaker 1: rights movement, particularly tweets attacking trans women. Apparently at the
- 5:40Speaker 1: time she said this was a mistake, but I mean again, like,
- 5:44Speaker 1: we'll see where this is going. And then December twenty
- 5:48Speaker 1: nineteen it really started. JK. Rowling had tweeted her support
- 5:51Speaker 1: for a woman who had been fired from the Center
- 5:53Speaker 1: for Global Development in the UK for her transpopic comments,
- 5:57Speaker 1: and despite responses from LGBTQ plus activists and allies, Rowling
- 6:02Speaker 1: refused to back down from her stance. And then twenty twenty,
- 6:06Speaker 1: things really starting to spiral funnier for everybody in tune,
- 6:11Speaker 1: Rowling and tweeted something, Honestly, I'm just gonna say I
- 6:17Speaker 1: thought it was a pretty childish response to an article
- 6:20Speaker 1: that came out that was titled opinion creating a more
- 6:23Speaker 1: equal post COVID nineteen world for people who men Straight.
- 6:26Speaker 1: Rowling was upset over the use of the phrase people
- 6:30Speaker 1: who men straight rather than women. The article in particular
- 6:34Speaker 1: was pointing to how you know, women on binary, people
- 6:37Speaker 1: transpend people who men stright have been unfair like particularly
- 6:42Speaker 1: affected by the COVID nineteen pandemic and kind of a
- 6:44Speaker 1: lot of the dangerous consequences of this taboo on menstrual health,
- 6:47Speaker 1: which I think is a pretty you know, I think
- 6:50Speaker 1: that's a thing we should be talking about. I think, yeah,
- 6:53Speaker 1: like I haven't read the article, but I'm sure it
- 6:56Speaker 1: was you know, pretty well put together. But yeah, Rowling,
- 6:59Speaker 1: instead of you know, promoting that kind of thing, just
- 7:02Speaker 1: decided to take issue with the phrase people who went straight,
- 7:05Speaker 1: which I think it's important to remember because when we
- 7:07Speaker 1: talk about this, we talk about like turfs that all
- 7:10Speaker 1: love like transphobic arguments in particular, I think it's important
- 7:12Speaker 1: to remember they usually end up hurting CIS women too
- 7:15Speaker 1: and end up promoting patriarchy and like weird kind of
- 7:19Speaker 1: ways where it's like yeah, like again, this was an
- 7:22Speaker 1: article that was talking about a real issue that was
- 7:24Speaker 1: affecting a lot of CIS women and trans people and
- 7:27Speaker 1: not women too, but like, yeah, I don't know. And
- 7:33Speaker 1: then also just really quick note, I think like the
- 7:36Speaker 1: word TURF has made its way into the mainstream kind
- 7:39Speaker 1: of along with like the you know the fact that
- 7:42Speaker 1: the trans rights movement has gone a lot more attention.
- 7:44Speaker 1: TURF stands for trans exclusive radical feminist. I think it's
- 7:48Speaker 1: kind of become a catchall for like transphobe, but yeah,
- 7:51Speaker 1: it particularly is talking about a brand of transphobia that
- 7:54Speaker 1: like disguises itself as feminism, usually pretty like light feminism,
- 8:01Speaker 1: you know, generally exclusionary feminism. But also yeah, I think
- 8:07Speaker 1: and when we talk about the harm that like turfism
- 8:10Speaker 1: in particular has caused, it's important to remember that it's
- 8:12Speaker 1: like in disguises itself as feminism, and that's part of
- 8:14Speaker 1: where a lot of the harm comes in. Yeah, So
- 8:16Speaker 1: back to Rowling. Following those tweets Deck Rowling, in twenty twenty, JK.
- 8:21Speaker 1: Rowling had posted an article on her blog detailing her
- 8:24Speaker 1: transphobic views, making a lot of really terrible comments I'm
- 8:27Speaker 1: not going to get into because I don't think there's
- 8:29Speaker 1: many benefit and sort of just parenting those ideas. But yeah,
- 8:33Speaker 1: she at the time, again kind of going back to
- 8:36Speaker 1: this whole like turf thing, she takes a very like
- 8:40Speaker 1: liberal quote unquote stand like it's a very like well,
- 8:44Speaker 1: it's because I support women and because like she does
- 8:47Speaker 1: at one point say like I support trans people who
- 8:50Speaker 1: are victims of assault and like all the in violence,
- 8:53Speaker 1: So all that I just think that, like, and then
- 8:55Speaker 1: gets into like basically being like, here, I don't know.
- 8:58Speaker 1: It's it's a very like weird argument where sort of
- 9:00Speaker 1: like I support trans people except for the fact that
- 9:02Speaker 1: I don't. But yeah, I think at the time, like
- 9:06Speaker 1: she was using a lot of like fake niceties to
- 9:08Speaker 1: be like, I'm still progressive, I just don't think these
- 9:12Speaker 1: people should exist in public, yeah, and saying that like
- 9:15Speaker 1: trans women were basically just men and all this like
- 9:18Speaker 1: other terrible stuff. Yeah, this article is kind of a
- 9:20Speaker 1: turning point. A bunch of factors in the series ended
- 9:22Speaker 1: up speaking out against her, Daniel Radcliffe, Emma Watson, like
- 9:26Speaker 1: notably we're both, you know, the leads of those movies.
- 9:30Speaker 1: So I think it was interesting a lot of the
- 9:32Speaker 1: younger generation, particularly we're speaking out against her. Other celebrities
- 9:36Speaker 1: were speaking in support, which was not fun. And also
- 9:40Speaker 1: at this point, the Fantastic Beast movies were still coming out,
- 9:43Speaker 1: which for spinoffs from the original Harry Potter franchise. I
- 9:46Speaker 1: think she had actually written the screenplay for those. Eddie
- 9:50Speaker 1: Redmain was the lead of those, and he made like
- 9:54Speaker 1: a really vague statement basically being like I support trans people.
- 9:57Speaker 1: He literally like became super famous because he's played a
- 10:00Speaker 1: trans woman in the Danish Girl, So like, I don't know,
- 10:04Speaker 1: it was that was definitely a weird about it too,
- 10:06Speaker 1: where he was sort of like like a lot of
- 10:08Speaker 1: people pointed out this is especially when we talk about
- 10:11Speaker 1: like sis actors playing trans characters. This is a reason
- 10:15Speaker 1: why people are so critical. It is because a lot
- 10:17Speaker 1: of time it was like great, like this guy gained
- 10:20Speaker 1: so much fame from playing a trans woman and then
- 10:22Speaker 1: refuses to like actually make a statement in supportive trans people,
- 10:26Speaker 1: refuses to remove himself from the series that is benefiting
- 10:31Speaker 1: this person. Yeah, anyways, frustrating. Yeah, there's a lot of
- 10:35Speaker 1: exploitation when it comes to bettering their own careers without
- 10:38Speaker 1: having any sentiment or actual courage to be allies for
- 10:44Speaker 1: things like this. And that's the big problem when it
- 10:46Speaker 1: comes to overall usage of nonrepresentatives for characters that should
- 10:51Speaker 1: be representative. Right, And I bring up this franchise in particular,
- 10:54Speaker 1: like we're gonna talk about the video game because that's
- 10:56Speaker 1: the most recent thing that's kind of come out of
- 10:58Speaker 1: the Harry Potter franchise, but this was the Fantastic Beast
- 11:00Speaker 1: movies for a while. We're like the main thing that
- 11:03Speaker 1: was coming out from the series that was continuing jk
- 11:06Speaker 1: Rowling sort of like relevance at the time. So then
- 11:11Speaker 1: since twenty twenty jk Rowling is just double down in
- 11:14Speaker 1: her hate comments. She's totally dropped that sort of like
- 11:17Speaker 1: faked nicety, like I support some trans people, and just
- 11:21Speaker 1: like she started also like outright targeting specific activists on
- 11:25Speaker 1: Twitter and sometimes just trans people, like sometimes not even
- 11:28Speaker 1: like activists in particular to literally just be like trans
- 11:30Speaker 1: people trying to live their lives. She's also like used
- 11:32Speaker 1: her platform to speak out against specific legislation, notably this
- 11:37Speaker 1: Scotland's Gender Recognition Act in twenty twenty two, which we're
- 11:40Speaker 1: going to get to because that's all of it. And
- 11:42Speaker 1: then also so this past year in twenty twenty two,
- 11:47Speaker 1: the third Fantastic Beast movie came out, and that movie
- 11:51Speaker 1: ended up flopping and they ended up canceling like any
- 11:54Speaker 1: further movies that would end up coming out. I don't
- 11:56Speaker 1: know if this was like because of I think at
- 12:00Speaker 1: the time I was sort of like, this is great,
- 12:02Speaker 1: Like people are actually responding to the fact that like
- 12:04Speaker 1: Dick Carawling is saying all this terrible stuff and then
- 12:06Speaker 1: not seeing the movie and then this video game made
- 12:08Speaker 1: me like maybe not. There were a lot of other
- 12:11Speaker 1: issues with those movies. I also just like, don't think
- 12:13Speaker 1: they were very good. I don't know. I didn't end
- 12:15Speaker 1: up seeing them, so like, who's to say, But yeah,
- 12:18Speaker 1: that's kind of like where we were at the beginning
- 12:20Speaker 1: of twenty twenty. Sound to the topic of this episode.
- 12:39Speaker 1: Development of the game began in twenty eighteen, so kind
- 12:44Speaker 1: of before this became at least like a widely known issue.
- 12:48Speaker 1: I guess it officially came out last month. Jaki Rowling
- 12:52Speaker 1: wasn't involved in the development of the game, but she
- 12:56Speaker 1: gets royalties from it, which I want to point out
- 12:59Speaker 1: because I've seen a lot of really ridiculous Twitter arguments
- 13:03Speaker 1: of people being like, well, she wasn't directly involved in
- 13:06Speaker 1: the game, so it doesn't matter, and it's like, no,
- 13:08Speaker 1: she's still like royalties, she still makes money from it. Yeah, yeah,
- 13:13Speaker 1: you have to admit, no matter what, she's a smart
- 13:16Speaker 1: businesswoman and she makes sure to copyright the hell out
- 13:19Speaker 1: of this series and makes millions of dollars. And she
- 13:23Speaker 1: even tweeted in response to people who are criticizing her
- 13:26Speaker 1: in her comments that it doesn't matter. I'm still gonna
- 13:28Speaker 1: make money, like literally taunting people. So that's kind of like,
- 13:32Speaker 1: I have very strong opinions. That is not nice, So
- 13:33Speaker 1: I'm gonna leave it at that. But because of things
- 13:36Speaker 1: like that, it's kind of like, no, she knows, she
- 13:39Speaker 1: knows she's gonna make money, and she makes sure to
- 13:42Speaker 1: let you know no matter what you do, she's gonna
- 13:44Speaker 1: stay rich, oh for sure. Yeah. So basically like boycott's
- 13:49Speaker 1: or there were calls to like boycott the game in
- 13:52Speaker 1: the months leading up to it coming out, and that
- 13:55Speaker 1: was the thing that people, yeah kept pointing out was, Yeah,
- 13:57Speaker 1: there was that tweet from her where she was like,
- 13:59Speaker 1: I still make money, so I don't care like I
- 14:01Speaker 1: can say, I can say whatever I want, which is
- 14:03Speaker 1: like part of the problem because yeah, I don't know.
- 14:08Speaker 1: I think it's important for people to remember that because
- 14:09Speaker 1: I've seen again, like I've seen a lot of I'm
- 14:13Speaker 1: a very like online person, so I spent a lot
- 14:16Speaker 1: of time like reading through Twitter arguments and stuff like this,
- 14:19Speaker 1: which is probably not good for my book or whatever,
- 14:23Speaker 1: but like I've seen a lot of people that are
- 14:25Speaker 1: just like so caught up in this whole Like, well,
- 14:28Speaker 1: she wasn't directly involved in creating it. It's like, but
- 14:31Speaker 1: the point is the money. The point is like she's
- 14:33Speaker 1: making money, You're keeping irrelevant. She sees this money as
- 14:36Speaker 1: like I can keep saying all this stuff and there's
- 14:39Speaker 1: no consequences. I don't know. Yeah, So there was a
- 14:43Speaker 1: trans YouTuber named Jesse Earle who had tweeted any support
- 14:47Speaker 1: that Harry Potter franchise current projects while JK Rowling is
- 14:49Speaker 1: in charge of it and using her ongoing platform to
- 14:51Speaker 1: target and also just by her continued targeting of trans
- 14:54Speaker 1: people is harmful to trans people. I think this was
- 14:57Speaker 1: like the end of twenty twenty two, and then jk
- 15:00Speaker 1: Arling like responded to it on Twitter with like a
- 15:03Speaker 1: really nastier response and that sort of again sparked like
- 15:06Speaker 1: a lot of the discourse quote unquote about it, like
- 15:12Speaker 1: leading up to its release. Also just really quick about
- 15:16Speaker 1: this video game, because everybody forgot this really quickly. Back
- 15:19Speaker 1: in like May last year. I remember there was some
- 15:21Speaker 1: article that came out about the like plot of the
- 15:23Speaker 1: video game. So the video game came on to fire
- 15:26Speaker 1: because it was using a lot of like really anti
- 15:27Speaker 1: semitic tropes. A lot of it were from the Harry
- 15:31Speaker 1: Potter series, but they like really really like we're focusing
- 15:34Speaker 1: in on that sort of plot, particularly with like the goblins.
- 15:39Speaker 1: So I mean that's kind of a there's a big
- 15:42Speaker 1: conversation and that people were willing to ignore so much
- 15:45Speaker 1: the original and I'm one of them because I also
- 15:48Speaker 1: really enjoyed. I didn't. I wasn't at the beginning because
- 15:50Speaker 1: I was college years when this was happening when it
- 15:52Speaker 1: first started, but I was towards the middle, and then
- 15:55Speaker 1: as you start looking at it, they're like, oh, you
- 15:57Speaker 1: see that she's actually being racist and anti semitic, and
- 16:01Speaker 1: oh she talks about like enslaved people's and what is happening,
- 16:06Speaker 1: and nothing is really bad about it, Like even the
- 16:08Speaker 1: quip about it is like just taken out and you're like, yeah,
- 16:12Speaker 1: or why are we okay, Like we've ignored it for
- 16:14Speaker 1: so long until she outright said something and then you're
- 16:17Speaker 1: like yeah, yeah, yeah, we really really were blind to
- 16:21Speaker 1: her darkness for really Yeah, And again with the whole
- 16:26Speaker 1: thing about like again like yeah, like a lot of
- 16:28Speaker 1: this was coming from the series, and I was a
- 16:31Speaker 1: kid when these were coming out. I remember like I
- 16:33Speaker 1: don't know how to pick up on this, and I
- 16:35Speaker 1: think a lot of people didn't either. I will say
- 16:37Speaker 1: I do understand the whole like an, it wasn't that
- 16:41Speaker 1: long ago, but it was a little bit of a
- 16:42Speaker 1: different type. So people make mistakes sometimes, Like there's a
- 16:44Speaker 1: whole conversation we had about like we're focusing on the
- 16:47Speaker 1: Goblin stuff, like a lot of that is just from
- 16:48Speaker 1: European mythology being very anti semitic, rather then I think
- 16:52Speaker 1: jk Rowling in particular, although I do also think that
- 16:54Speaker 1: she's gonna be ani semitic. But anyways, like I think
- 16:58Speaker 1: the books came out like twenty years ago, he's also
- 17:00Speaker 1: came about twenty years ago. Whatever. She had time to
- 17:02Speaker 1: be like, oh I made a mistake and whoops, Like
- 17:06Speaker 1: my bad, I will but no, like it's gone to
- 17:09Speaker 1: the point where like again, she wasn't directly making this
- 17:12Speaker 1: video game, but like the company that was making it
- 17:14Speaker 1: was like rather than being like, hey, people have pointed
- 17:17Speaker 1: out that this is kind of like problematic, they're just
- 17:22Speaker 1: using it, and I don't know, I feel like that's
- 17:24Speaker 1: like I'm willing to be like if you made a
- 17:27Speaker 1: mistake twenty years ago and are like I'm sorry, we'll
- 17:30Speaker 1: try and like make the series more inclusive. That's one thing.
- 17:33Speaker 1: If you're still going to continue to like perpetuate that,
- 17:36Speaker 1: I don't know, it's weird. I mean, there's one thing
- 17:38Speaker 1: about accountability and taking responsibility. When when you don't see
- 17:42Speaker 1: that at all, then it doesn't really help the situation.
- 17:45Speaker 1: It definitely garners some more criticism, and it should for sure.
- 17:50Speaker 1: So yeah, leaning up to the video game's release, there
- 17:54Speaker 1: was like a variety of different responses for people. I
- 17:58Speaker 1: guess around January again, Okay, disclaimer real quick, I don't
- 18:02Speaker 1: know how anything about video games. We went over this
- 18:05Speaker 1: before we started recording, but I'm not a big gamer,
- 18:09Speaker 1: so Annie and Samantha feel free you to correct me
- 18:12Speaker 1: any of this. But I guess some users were posting
- 18:15Speaker 1: reviews on Steam, which is a distributor. Yeah, using tags
- 18:22Speaker 1: in the reviews that would make the game less popular,
- 18:25Speaker 1: so like psychological horror, nft W. Apparently capitalism was one
- 18:29Speaker 1: of the tags. I don't know. I just thought that
- 18:30Speaker 1: was funny, and then they also created a transphobia tag
- 18:34Speaker 1: for the game. Unfortunately, this like kind of campaign wasn't
- 18:38Speaker 1: super successful. But I don't know, I think it's a
- 18:40Speaker 1: unble that people were trying to like protest the game,
- 18:43Speaker 1: and you guys have talked about review bombing and how
- 18:46Speaker 1: review bombing can be bad podcasts. But also I don't know,
- 18:51Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes I don't know, it can be complicated,
- 18:57Speaker 1: So I'm not totally mad that people were trying to
- 18:59Speaker 1: do that with this game. A couple of streamers also,
- 19:02Speaker 1: like a couple of really prominent streamers, We're talking about
- 19:05Speaker 1: streaming the game to raise money for a trans charity
- 19:08Speaker 1: organization and then ended up receiving a lot of backlash.
- 19:11Speaker 1: I think a couple of streamers ended up actually doing this,
- 19:13Speaker 1: but Hassan Piker it was one that was like really prominent,
- 19:17Speaker 1: and again, like I don't play video games. I know
- 19:18Speaker 1: who he is, Like he's like he's a pretty prominent
- 19:21Speaker 1: like social media person. He apparently had said that he
- 19:24Speaker 1: was like thinking about streaming it and then was like,
- 19:26Speaker 1: never mind, I'm not going to do it because people
- 19:28Speaker 1: are bulling me online, and I was like all right,
- 19:31Speaker 1: Like I think people were just like maybe that's not
- 19:33Speaker 1: the best way to like I don't know, like if
- 19:37Speaker 1: trans creators are asking people to boycott it, maybe you
- 19:39Speaker 1: should just boycott it instead of streaming it, I don't know,
- 19:44Speaker 1: and then it'll lasted effort to appease critics, The game
- 19:48Speaker 1: added a trans character, which so it's like a side character.
- 19:56Speaker 1: I guess they show up in like one scene. The
- 19:58Speaker 1: character is named Sobrone Ryan, which I guess Sir Rona
- 20:02Speaker 1: is the name of a Celtic god for healing and rebirse,
- 20:05Speaker 1: and that's where the name is from. But yeah, as Samantha,
- 20:08Speaker 1: as you mentioned, um, jk Rowling is a bit infamous
- 20:12Speaker 1: for her like vilely and the nose names for minority characters,
- 20:16Speaker 1: and this was one where people were like, Hm, you're
- 20:18Speaker 1: naming your trans character sir Rona, Like that sounds like sir.
- 20:22Speaker 1: And then Bryan, which is like a male first name. Again,
- 20:26Speaker 1: I don't think jk Rowley wasn't one naming it. I
- 20:27Speaker 1: don't think she would have wanted this character to even
- 20:29Speaker 1: be involved in the game. But um, I don't know.
- 20:33Speaker 1: There are a lot of like really funny tweets of
- 20:34Speaker 1: like rejected names. They were all like very like they're punished. Yeah,
- 20:39Speaker 1: they're punish, but yeah, I mean there's so much, there's
- 20:46Speaker 1: so much to unpack with that, like how that could
- 20:48Speaker 1: just go so wrong? I kind of would have been like,
- 20:51Speaker 1: all right, we get it, you made an effort, but
- 20:54Speaker 1: maybe it's just a better not to just let it.
- 20:56Speaker 1: Just let it be because the people who you are
- 20:59Speaker 1: trying to hate or two are gonna be the most
- 21:01Speaker 1: Like this is more insulting because this is like a
- 21:04Speaker 1: level of lights, such a patronizing attempt to be like,
- 21:07Speaker 1: but here we did something, yay. Is she's still going
- 21:10Speaker 1: to get millions of dollars. Yeah, but there's a character
- 21:13Speaker 1: for you that you're really not going to play here
- 21:15Speaker 1: you go for sure? Yeah, yeah, Like I don't even
- 21:17Speaker 1: think it's a character you can play, like. I think
- 21:19Speaker 1: it literally is like like a bartender come across. So
- 21:23Speaker 1: it's yeah, And I don't know. It was so weird.
- 21:26Speaker 1: It was a really funny day on Twitter. But yeah,
- 21:30Speaker 1: it was. It was weird. It was a weird decision, definitely. Yeah,
- 21:34Speaker 1: So by is this all matters? This is a video game.
- 21:39Speaker 1: Going back to Jesse Earl, who's that YouTuber that Rowling
- 21:42Speaker 1: had publicly harassed on her Twitter, she had told The
- 21:46Speaker 1: Washington Post that buying this game quote keeps Rowling relevant,
- 21:49Speaker 1: and then she went on to say she's equating the
- 21:51Speaker 1: relevancy with people supporting her views, and her views are
- 21:55Speaker 1: directly harmful and attacking and doing damage to the trans community.
- 22:00Speaker 1: Which again, like as I said, part of the reason
- 22:02Speaker 1: that Decay Rowland keeps doing this is because so far,
- 22:05Speaker 1: we use the audience, have shown her that there's not
- 22:07Speaker 1: going to be any like financial harm to her doing
- 22:11Speaker 1: to continue like saying these kind of things and you know,
- 22:15Speaker 1: harassing trans people and really becoming this like spokesperson for
- 22:20Speaker 1: a hate movement. Again, I pointed that tweet from Rolling
- 22:24Speaker 1: where she sort of was like I don't care. I
- 22:26Speaker 1: get my royalty techs and I'm fine, So I don't know.
- 22:30Speaker 1: So yeah, there's the one side of it is it's
- 22:32Speaker 1: keeping her relevant, it's showing her that she can use
- 22:35Speaker 1: her platform to continue spousing hate and normalizing that hate.
- 22:40Speaker 1: But then also it goes a lot deeper than that.
- 22:43Speaker 1: The same Washington Post article stated that in twenty twenty,
- 22:47Speaker 1: Senator James lank Board in the US voted against Senate
- 22:51Speaker 1: consideration of the Equality Act and LGBTQ Plus LGBTQ Civil
- 22:56Speaker 1: Rights Bill, citing a rallying blog post that bill, by
- 22:59Speaker 1: the way, still hasn't I think it passed the House,
- 23:02Speaker 1: but it's kind of in limbo with like the Senate
- 23:04Speaker 1: right now. And then the article also printed to last month,
- 23:10Speaker 1: the British government blocked a Scottish bill that would have
- 23:12Speaker 1: made it easier for people to change their legal gender.
- 23:14Speaker 1: That was that Scottish gender quality bill that Rolling was
- 23:18Speaker 1: really outspoken against. And in her twenty twenty blog article,
- 23:22Speaker 1: she had said that the bill in effect means that
- 23:26Speaker 1: all a man needs to quote become a woman. It's
- 23:29Speaker 1: just that he is one, which isn't accurate. And to
- 23:33Speaker 1: the actual bill. Yeah, and again that that bill last
- 23:38Speaker 1: month was blocked by UK Parliament. I did read one
- 23:42Speaker 1: source that said that the particular legislation they used to
- 23:45Speaker 1: block it, this is the first time they've used that legislation, so,
- 23:47Speaker 1: you know, cool, super fun. And again, yeah, the Equality
- 23:53Speaker 1: Act in the US still hasn't passed, so it's going
- 23:56Speaker 1: back and forth between the US and the UK here.
- 23:57Speaker 1: But it's sort of like the on both. Her rhetoric
- 24:01Speaker 1: is being used to argue against specific legislation that literally
- 24:05Speaker 1: would just make it easier to exist as a transperson.
- 24:08Speaker 1: Neither these legislations get into like healthcare or anything like that.
- 24:12Speaker 1: It literally just makes it easier the Scottish bill in particular,
- 24:15Speaker 1: would have just made it easier to change your name
- 24:17Speaker 1: on official documents and change your gender on official documents.
- 24:20Speaker 1: There's one side here where it's just like, obviously the
- 24:24Speaker 1: rhetoric she's putting out is bad and it is hate
- 24:27Speaker 1: speech leads to violence, and both in her personal and
- 24:31Speaker 1: then on the legislative level, where like again her speech
- 24:34Speaker 1: is being used to just buy bills being shot down
- 24:37Speaker 1: that would make it easier to exists the transperson. None
- 24:40Speaker 1: of this stuff exists in a vacuum. All of it
- 24:42Speaker 1: affects each other. Again, Yeah, hate speech fuels violent crime,
- 24:47Speaker 1: if that's in her personal or on a state level. Well,
- 24:49Speaker 1: I'm going back to what you said earlier. I think
- 24:50Speaker 1: part of the real damage is too that she for
- 24:54Speaker 1: a long time was able to present herself as a feminist,
- 24:57Speaker 1: and so she was like on this other side of
- 25:00Speaker 1: you know, people would write articles like she described Donald
- 25:03Speaker 1: Trump as bolder morn or like you know, had all
- 25:05Speaker 1: this stuff, and so now you're seeing like these really
- 25:10Speaker 1: extreme conservatives use what she's saying but being like, but
- 25:16Speaker 1: remember you liked her so much, Like that's part of
- 25:19Speaker 1: the the damage of a terfism or like yeah, yeah,
- 25:24Speaker 1: I think that's that's what scares me because like when
- 25:26Speaker 1: we talk about transphobia coming from like the really fat right,
- 25:30Speaker 1: it's easy to just be like, Okay, well they're like
- 25:32Speaker 1: really conservative, Like I don't know, like I'm not going
- 25:34Speaker 1: to take obviously it is also serious and has like
- 25:36Speaker 1: serious impacts on people's like perception of trans people. But
- 25:39Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, I'm expecting it to come from like
- 25:41Speaker 1: a Tucker Carlson type person or like even that senitor
- 25:45Speaker 1: that I mentioned in the in the article who is Republican,
- 25:48Speaker 1: Like it's there are going to be the people who
- 25:49Speaker 1: are going to expect to say this kind of stuff.
- 25:50Speaker 1: When it's somebody like jk Rowling, it's like who, by
- 25:53Speaker 1: the way, I just want to say it, Like she
- 25:55Speaker 1: calls herself a feminist. I don't know about Like I
- 25:58Speaker 1: have a big believer and you need you need to
- 26:00Speaker 1: actually practice feminism. You can't just say her a feminist
- 26:02Speaker 1: and I don't know, Like I remember when when the
- 26:05Speaker 1: back last spring, when when the stuff about like Roe
- 26:08Speaker 1: versus Wade was coming out and they were like with
- 26:10Speaker 1: the Supreme Court. One thing that I saw that it
- 26:13Speaker 1: was interesting with somebody who was like, hey, take her all.
- 26:16Speaker 1: It is one of those people that keeps saying she's
- 26:17Speaker 1: a feminist and she sports like women's autonomy and and
- 26:21Speaker 1: not harming women's bodies and all this stuff, but then
- 26:24Speaker 1: she's completely silent on this issue that is like affecting
- 26:27Speaker 1: a lot of women and not women too. But like,
- 26:32Speaker 1: maybe this isn't about feminism, Maybe this is just about hate.
- 26:34Speaker 1: And there's a million other examples you can find in
- 26:37Speaker 1: like pretty much any turf argument of how it's just
- 26:39Speaker 1: like it is patriarchy under the facade of feminism and
- 26:45Speaker 1: women's rights. And I really would like encourage people to
- 26:50Speaker 1: like look deeper into a lot of those arguments and
- 26:52Speaker 1: how they specifically end up harming CIS women as well
- 26:56Speaker 1: as trans folks. Yeah, it's as a whole mess. And
- 27:00Speaker 1: I think another thing that has to be said about
- 27:03Speaker 1: where she was pre quotes and tweets, I guess is
- 27:07Speaker 1: that she really worked as if she was an ally
- 27:11Speaker 1: to the queer community, talking about like you know, oh,
- 27:14Speaker 1: yeah Dumbledore is definitely gay and all these things, and yeah,
- 27:18Speaker 1: absolutely Hermione could have been a black woman, what are
- 27:22Speaker 1: you talking about? And she gained the trust of so
- 27:24Speaker 1: many young people who for so long felt like they
- 27:28Speaker 1: were alone and isolated. And the reason and I'll never
- 27:30Speaker 1: We're going to talk a little more, but like the
- 27:32Speaker 1: reason they loved the Harry Potter series, it was a
- 27:34Speaker 1: light in this darkness because they saw as an outcast,
- 27:39Speaker 1: you can be special like less the message all kids
- 27:42Speaker 1: want to hear. But then to hear her go on
- 27:44Speaker 1: to say yeah, and I'm an ally for the queer
- 27:46Speaker 1: people and they definitely were part of the Wizarding World,
- 27:49Speaker 1: which we all wished was a real thing. Maybe it is,
- 27:52Speaker 1: I don't know, but it was a real thing, and
- 27:55Speaker 1: felt so so much love for the series and fell
- 27:59Speaker 1: in love with a series which we've talked about previously
- 28:01Speaker 1: about what happens when you really love the characters that
- 28:04Speaker 1: out there, that you have created, even for yourself, a
- 28:06Speaker 1: different world, and you put yourself in this world, and
- 28:09Speaker 1: then have her come and slash it, literally murder the
- 28:13Speaker 1: hopes and love and dreams of these kids who grew
- 28:16Speaker 1: up and maybe even found themselves a little bit through
- 28:19Speaker 1: her series. The betrayal of that in itself is so dangerous,
- 28:23Speaker 1: and we have come back to from being like Alli
- 28:26Speaker 1: and giving hope and giving someone and out and lights
- 28:30Speaker 1: to darkness of like, yeah, oh my god, she hates
- 28:33Speaker 1: me or she hates people like me. Everything that she
- 28:35Speaker 1: has said is falling apart, and she's celebrating it. She's
- 28:38Speaker 1: celebrating it by using her influence in society, in politics
- 28:44Speaker 1: and policy. She's using it as a way of gaining
- 28:48Speaker 1: more attention through the news media and all the media,
- 28:52Speaker 1: and then also teaching those parents who have already been
- 28:54Speaker 1: against the kids to once againe double down. And then
- 28:58Speaker 1: when we come to see a game that celebrates it's that.
- 29:00Speaker 1: But there's no way we can I mean, no, you
- 29:03Speaker 1: really can't. Even when people tell me they buy it,
- 29:05Speaker 1: or they did they're thinking of buying it, the first
- 29:07Speaker 1: thing they say is I know, I know she's bad.
- 29:11Speaker 1: So when that's the first statement that comes out of
- 29:13Speaker 1: your mouth, you know there's no way to separate this
- 29:16Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah, And that's what makes it complicated, I think.
- 29:20Speaker 1: And again, like I grew up with the series and
- 29:23Speaker 1: like it was my favorite books and I was a kid,
- 29:24Speaker 1: I definitely like have a lot of like really good
- 29:28Speaker 1: memories attached to it. I totally understand that aspect and
- 29:31Speaker 1: also like amas but involved in like the fandom today
- 29:36Speaker 1: so like I got thought too, but um yeah again
- 29:38Speaker 1: it just really good. A couple of stats too about
- 29:41Speaker 1: the state of trans rates as of right now, this
- 29:45Speaker 1: is gonna be focusing on the US just because it
- 29:47Speaker 1: shows based in the US. I don't know as much
- 29:49Speaker 1: about UK politics, although I've heard it's kind of a
- 29:52Speaker 1: show from friends that are there. But yeah, again, like well,
- 29:58Speaker 1: actually one thing really quick with the UK, so the
- 30:02Speaker 1: and again going back to the whole like people buying
- 30:04Speaker 1: the game and being like I know, like I know,
- 30:06Speaker 1: which's terrible. I know't the weekend this video game came out,
- 30:10Speaker 1: there was a sixteen year old trans girl that was
- 30:12Speaker 1: murdered in the UK. Does that murder have anything directly
- 30:15Speaker 1: to do with the video game? No, I don't think, like,
- 30:18Speaker 1: but at the same time, it's like this is a
- 30:21Speaker 1: lot of people on Twitter and on social media we're
- 30:23Speaker 1: pointing out kind of the sort of this weird feeling
- 30:25Speaker 1: of like you have this, you have all these discussions
- 30:28Speaker 1: about this video game, and like can you support playing
- 30:31Speaker 1: this video game or buying this video game or like
- 30:34Speaker 1: all of that are still like being a fan of
- 30:36Speaker 1: the series, but then the reality of the situation is
- 30:38Speaker 1: like this sort of hate speech the jk Rowling is
- 30:41Speaker 1: championing is what ends up getting people killed, is what
- 30:44Speaker 1: ends up like literally, like a sixteen year old girl
- 30:46Speaker 1: was killed because of the kind of hate speech that
- 30:49Speaker 1: jk Rowling has turned into her entire brand at this point.
- 30:53Speaker 1: According to a twenty twenty report from every Town for
- 30:55Speaker 1: Guns Safety in the US, the number of trans people
- 31:00Speaker 1: we've been murdered doubled between twenty seventeen and twenty twenty one.
- 31:04Speaker 1: So yeah, it's and again, it's not just k Rowling.
- 31:06Speaker 1: There's a lot of like people across the political spectrum
- 31:10Speaker 1: that I think, like have responsibility for this rise in
- 31:16Speaker 1: hate of trans people. But she is a very provident
- 31:19Speaker 1: spokesperson here a lot of the people of use so
- 31:21Speaker 1: we're like moral panic when talking about this, I would agree,
- 31:23Speaker 1: like I think we're in the middle of like a
- 31:24Speaker 1: full blown moral panic around queer people in particular, on
- 31:28Speaker 1: LGBTQ plus people in general, but like particularly trans people
- 31:32Speaker 1: and particularly trans women. I think, yeah, again, like it's
- 31:35Speaker 1: affecting everybody, it's affecting all trans people, but I think
- 31:38Speaker 1: trans women are sort of just like that's the main
- 31:40Speaker 1: group that jk Rowling's targeting that has been the main
- 31:42Speaker 1: group targeted in a lot of like grooming groomer like
- 31:46Speaker 1: stuff that's going around and all that. But yeah, as
- 31:51Speaker 1: of right now, the ACLU is tracking three hundred and
- 31:53Speaker 1: seventy one anti LGBTQ plus bills throughout the US. A
- 31:57Speaker 1: number of them particularly target trans people and trans kids. Literally,
- 32:02Speaker 1: like in the Times, I began putting together like research
- 32:05Speaker 1: for this episode, Tennessee passa bill the band drag performances
- 32:11Speaker 1: from public spaces or locations where they could be viewed
- 32:14Speaker 1: by a minor. And if you look at the bill,
- 32:17Speaker 1: the language that they use is super vague. I would
- 32:19Speaker 1: argue that's on purpose, And a lot of activists are
- 32:22Speaker 1: worried that like this kind of combined with the sort
- 32:24Speaker 1: of like transphobic view that like trans women are just
- 32:28Speaker 1: men in drag or vice versa, this bill could be
- 32:31Speaker 1: used to criminalize like trans people simply existing in public
- 32:35Speaker 1: or in spaces around children that are private. It's again,
- 32:37Speaker 1: it's it's not just public at this point now, it's
- 32:39Speaker 1: also private because it is like it could be a
- 32:42Speaker 1: private entertainment menu. It could literally be like your home
- 32:44Speaker 1: if you have kids, or like you know, ore had
- 32:48Speaker 1: children and your family unit. Yeah, and this isn't like
- 32:52Speaker 1: the only bill like thought that's going around. Tennessee also
- 32:55Speaker 1: passed a bill limiting, not limiting banning genderperving care for
- 33:00Speaker 1: trans kids in Tennessee, which, again really quick I think
- 33:03Speaker 1: says people get confused when we talk about like gender
- 33:06Speaker 1: affirming care for kids in particular, because I just assume
- 33:09Speaker 1: that it means like physical transition. That doesn't necessarily mean that,
- 33:14Speaker 1: like sometimes it can mean like puberity blockers, which aren't permanent.
- 33:18Speaker 1: And I'm also not a doctor, so nobody like take
- 33:21Speaker 1: my particular word for this. But sometimes that literally just
- 33:23Speaker 1: means like being able to like acknowledge that your kid
- 33:28Speaker 1: doesn't identify as the gender they've been assigned, which like
- 33:32Speaker 1: usually just means like letting them change how like their
- 33:37Speaker 1: hair looks, or how they dress, or like how they
- 33:40Speaker 1: want to be addressed in public, none of them. Like
- 33:43Speaker 1: if people people get so caught up and they're like, oh,
- 33:45Speaker 1: it's not reversible, Like I don't know about Like I'm
- 33:48Speaker 1: somebody who's changed the names that I've gone by, and
- 33:50Speaker 1: like that's reversible, Like that is really easy to change.
- 33:54Speaker 1: I have short hair, I can grow it out really easily.
- 33:58Speaker 1: Or cut it again, and I changed my outfits every day.
- 34:01Speaker 1: I don't know about you, guys. I thought that was
- 34:02Speaker 1: a pretty normal thing, but I don't know. Yeah, so
- 34:06Speaker 1: it's frustrating. We are living at like a really scary
- 34:10Speaker 1: time to be a trans person, to be a queer person,
- 34:13Speaker 1: but particularly to be trans person. Like yeah, and both
- 34:18Speaker 1: like legislatively on a state level, and also just like, yeah,
- 34:20Speaker 1: there are more and more trans people that are being murdered,
- 34:23Speaker 1: particularly trans women. Yeah, it's it's a mess. Yeah, but
- 34:41Speaker 1: let's talk about a video game. So yeah, the game
- 34:46Speaker 1: is doing well, which is unfortunate. And again, like the
- 34:52Speaker 1: frustrating thing, like Samanthony said, like as soon as everybody
- 34:55Speaker 1: breaks up, it's like, I know, like there really is there.
- 34:58Speaker 1: Most people know there's a pretty much strong argument against
- 35:00Speaker 1: getting it or against supporting any sort of like Harry
- 35:04Speaker 1: Potter franchise content, and yet people still do. And as
- 35:07Speaker 1: much as I want to be like everybody, look at
- 35:10Speaker 1: all of the facts, all this terrible stuff that's happening,
- 35:13Speaker 1: how this connects to hate speech, how it's connects to
- 35:15Speaker 1: this particular woman's platform. Let's stop, like, let's just like
- 35:21Speaker 1: pretend that this doesn't exist, that's not going to happen,
- 35:24Speaker 1: Like if it would have happened, it would have happened.
- 35:25Speaker 1: At this point, I'd rather just focus on like the
- 35:27Speaker 1: reality of the situation than like what I'd want in
- 35:29Speaker 1: an ideal world. So yeah, I think this does kind
- 35:33Speaker 1: of get the question. I'm also like, I don't want
- 35:36Speaker 1: to like vilify anybody that has gotten the game or
- 35:38Speaker 1: anybody that does continue to like enjoy this kind of content.
- 35:41Speaker 1: I will say the people like I keep saying on
- 35:43Speaker 1: Twitter that are like making these really elaborate excuses of
- 35:45Speaker 1: like here's why I particularly should be allowed to enjoy
- 35:48Speaker 1: the game or how I should Like that's dumb, Like
- 35:51Speaker 1: I don't know, that's another story. I will argue with
- 35:54Speaker 1: you about that, but whatever. I mean. At the same time,
- 35:56Speaker 1: like I get it again, Like I have no interest
- 35:58Speaker 1: in buying the video game. I don't think people should
- 36:00Speaker 1: buy the video game, but I do get being attached
- 36:02Speaker 1: to this universe, Like, yeah, I grew up with it.
- 36:05Speaker 1: I was a huge fan when I was a kid.
- 36:06Speaker 1: I have been somewhat involved with like the fandom stuff
- 36:09Speaker 1: on TikTok, and actually I have like a lot of
- 36:11Speaker 1: really close friends that are really involved with like TikTok,
- 36:14Speaker 1: like cosplay content and fan fiction and all that, and
- 36:18Speaker 1: like I get being attached to this series. And also
- 36:22Speaker 1: again because it's so popular like worldwide, there's a lot
- 36:24Speaker 1: of people that are just like casual fans and like
- 36:26Speaker 1: grew up with reading it or like you know, are
- 36:28Speaker 1: going to get it for their kids because it's like
- 36:29Speaker 1: a staple now sort of childhood like reading these books.
- 36:35Speaker 1: So it's hard. There's not like there's not an easy answer,
- 36:39Speaker 1: which is the fresh training part of all of this. Yeah,
- 36:43Speaker 1: I mean just the things, Like I obviously have very
- 36:45Speaker 1: strong opinions when it comes to morality issues. The biggest
- 36:50Speaker 1: thing to me is like, you know, just admit it.
- 36:52Speaker 1: It's fine, Like we get it. It's hard. Like the
- 36:55Speaker 1: game is set up beautifully. I have seen YouTube videos
- 37:00Speaker 1: previews of it and be like, people are so excited
- 37:02Speaker 1: because this is your Tiffany, so you can tell me
- 37:05Speaker 1: if I'm wrong. But the design of it is unique,
- 37:08Speaker 1: and the way they really created this world apparently is
- 37:11Speaker 1: really pretty and beautiful. The way you can play it
- 37:14Speaker 1: is newer, kind of like people's love for Elden Ring.
- 37:17Speaker 1: I'm sorry for those who think I'm being awful. For
- 37:19Speaker 1: compare the two, but the graphics of it is different
- 37:23Speaker 1: and has been upgraded over the years. So a lot
- 37:26Speaker 1: of the video gamer people, gamers as we would say,
- 37:30Speaker 1: try to say that's the reason, Like I literally has
- 37:34Speaker 1: say like, oh, they can do this in this world
- 37:36Speaker 1: and that's never been a thing, or you can do
- 37:39Speaker 1: these things on this level, and you know, people love
- 37:42Speaker 1: anything spectacular and new and changing, So whatever they have
- 37:48Speaker 1: created for this game, I get it. I get that
- 37:50Speaker 1: that's an appeal, but yeah, it is really hard not
- 37:55Speaker 1: to see when you see a community hurting, suffer and
- 38:00Speaker 1: being persecuted on such a depth level. Constantly hearing stories
- 38:06Speaker 1: of people being murdered or heard or kicked out, being
- 38:10Speaker 1: threatened to be removed from a family, like being threatened
- 38:14Speaker 1: to be arrested because you do support your family. It's
- 38:17Speaker 1: kind of hard to see. But it's also some of
- 38:20Speaker 1: these same people who would probways say that, but this
- 38:24Speaker 1: world when I was younger really weren't for me and
- 38:28Speaker 1: really helped me see some things. So the complicated place
- 38:32Speaker 1: that they are at it is it is painful because
- 38:36Speaker 1: you have this decision of like how do I grieve
- 38:39Speaker 1: but I don't want to let it go, yeah, and
- 38:42Speaker 1: I just just to know, I don't think you realized
- 38:44Speaker 1: you did this, that you did look at me via
- 38:47Speaker 1: this video call and say this is your turf Annie,
- 38:51Speaker 1: which give very very funny. That's the thing we should do, though,
- 39:02Speaker 1: is we should try to reclaim like to you are,
- 39:05Speaker 1: I just make whatever people share about like, I don't know,
- 39:09Speaker 1: this is your whelm, this is you, this is your
- 39:13Speaker 1: specially who well you have it on videos, we can
- 39:18Speaker 1: play it back. But I was very like, wait a minute,
- 39:21Speaker 1: I know actually you did make a face and I
- 39:23Speaker 1: didn't get it at that point, but yeah, your I
- 39:28Speaker 1: will say too when it comes to like also like
- 39:31Speaker 1: the fandom spaces and like the being your turf to
- 39:36Speaker 1: you are of the kind of thing and somebody like
- 39:39Speaker 1: I've spent a lot of time in online fandom spaces,
- 39:42Speaker 1: and I think in general they tend to be pretty queer.
- 39:46Speaker 1: This may also just be like my bubble, but like,
- 39:48Speaker 1: they tend to be pretty queer bubbles. I've seen the
- 39:51Speaker 1: same with the Harry Potter fandom. Like I think the
- 39:54Speaker 1: like online social media, very like fandom space usually tends
- 40:00Speaker 1: to be very queer, and I think that also makes
- 40:02Speaker 1: it complicated because like it can be frustrating as a
- 40:04Speaker 1: queer person, like feeling stuck and feeling yeah, I'm like
- 40:12Speaker 1: I don't know, like I just I recognize that's that's
- 40:14Speaker 1: that can be particularly frustrating. Is again as somebody else
- 40:19Speaker 1: or who is who's queer and like trans like it's
- 40:22Speaker 1: it's it can be frustrating. It could be really really
- 40:26Speaker 1: really frustrating. Yeah. Because also along with that, I've seen
- 40:30Speaker 1: a lot of like trans masculine people in particular speak
- 40:33Speaker 1: out and be like, well, I'm really attached to this thing,
- 40:36Speaker 1: so I'm just going to continue to sort of like
- 40:37Speaker 1: ignore it and like enjoy this media because it's really
- 40:40Speaker 1: important to me personally. I think it's important to recognize that,
- 40:43Speaker 1: like the majority of the people that are being really
- 40:45Speaker 1: really harmed are trans women. It's going to be transmulin general,
- 40:48Speaker 1: it's going to be queer people in general, but like
- 40:50Speaker 1: it's trans women, Like trans women are going to be
- 40:52Speaker 1: particularly targeted by this, and I think, I don't know,
- 40:56Speaker 1: I guess like I just would ask people to like
- 40:58Speaker 1: use this as a time to likely reflects on like
- 41:01Speaker 1: how do we stand up for one another within the community,
- 41:04Speaker 1: because I have also seen the argument of people again,
- 41:07Speaker 1: Like I've seen a frustrating number of videos of people
- 41:09Speaker 1: being like I'm trans and I'm saying that you can
- 41:12Speaker 1: buy the studio game it doesn't matter, and it's like
- 41:14Speaker 1: usually they're trans masculine people. I don't know. I just
- 41:18Speaker 1: I would encourage people to like really think about who's
- 41:20Speaker 1: being affected, who is being harmed, and just like stand
- 41:24Speaker 1: up for other people in your community. Like, this is
- 41:26Speaker 1: the time when we need to like have each other's backs. Again,
- 41:28Speaker 1: we're in the middle of a full blown oral panic
- 41:31Speaker 1: around trans people. We need to have each other's backs.
- 41:35Speaker 1: Queer sis queer people too, we need to have each
- 41:37Speaker 1: other's backs. You guys are not saying from this either,
- 41:39Speaker 1: like I don't know, it's yeah, I mean, and that's
- 41:42Speaker 1: absolutely when it comes down to it. When it's attacking
- 41:46Speaker 1: any type of marginalized community in general, it comes down
- 41:50Speaker 1: onto all of us. And obviously women are a part,
- 41:53Speaker 1: not necessarily of the overall marginalized, but they are marginalized.
- 41:57Speaker 1: You are not a sisman, so therefore you or do
- 41:59Speaker 1: not have the power, So yes, this will come down
- 42:02Speaker 1: onto you, which we've seen it is. It goes hand
- 42:05Speaker 1: in hand. When they go for one, they go for all,
- 42:07Speaker 1: and what we're seeing is when we're not banning together,
- 42:11Speaker 1: it allows for the breakdown. And then if we think
- 42:13Speaker 1: one aspect or one injustice is more important than the other,
- 42:17Speaker 1: then you've got a problem because you are not truly
- 42:20Speaker 1: seeing the fact that you're a part of the problem.
- 42:23Speaker 1: And it's really naive to think that you're one issue.
- 42:28Speaker 1: And I'm talking to women in general. It's just like
- 42:30Speaker 1: I'm a woman and trans women are affront to me
- 42:34Speaker 1: because that takes away from my woes and my inability
- 42:38Speaker 1: to get all the rights, which is not true. Then
- 42:41Speaker 1: you are woefully ignorant of the fact that you are
- 42:44Speaker 1: part of the problem. Absolutely, But yeah, I don't know. Again,
- 42:50Speaker 1: I yeah, with the whole kind of conversation about then,
- 42:53Speaker 1: like what do we do with this piece of media now,
- 42:56Speaker 1: like and I'm talking about Harry Potter and general in
- 42:58Speaker 1: any sort of Harry Potter thing, because again it's not
- 43:01Speaker 1: it's not just the video game. The video games like
- 43:02Speaker 1: the most obvious version of like here's this thing that
- 43:05Speaker 1: people can buy that people can give their money too.
- 43:07Speaker 1: But it was also like in all the like arguments
- 43:10Speaker 1: about it, people bring up like the attention economy, which
- 43:12Speaker 1: you got again going back to like the whole dayk
- 43:14Speaker 1: Rowling thing, like she's benefiting from the series being really
- 43:18Speaker 1: popular and benefiting from the attention economy. Like, but also
- 43:22Speaker 1: I don't want to say, like people just can't enjoy
- 43:24Speaker 1: this because I don't know. Again, like I think, I
- 43:28Speaker 1: do think people can enjoy things as long as it's
- 43:32Speaker 1: not like hert make somebody. I don't know, I think
- 43:35Speaker 1: it gets complicated, but like I do think, like I
- 43:37Speaker 1: get the whole like people just wanting to enjoy the
- 43:39Speaker 1: series too, And I mean, I think the sort of
- 43:42Speaker 1: obvious answer is like figuring out a way to like
- 43:46Speaker 1: be involved in fan culture and fan them and not
- 43:53Speaker 1: giving money that's going to go to jk Rowling, like
- 43:55Speaker 1: not buying merch that's directly going to benefit jk Rowling.
- 44:01Speaker 1: There's lots of an independent artists out there. Personally, I'm
- 44:04Speaker 1: a big advocate of fan fiction. I think like fan
- 44:07Speaker 1: fiction is always a good thing if definitely read some
- 44:11Speaker 1: like transversions of characters too, which is fine, um and
- 44:15Speaker 1: all of that. But yeah, I don't know, I don't know.
- 44:18Speaker 1: I would love to hear you guys. We have suggestions.
- 44:21Speaker 1: We had reader we had listeners who sent their own
- 44:25Speaker 1: and some really good uh rewrites of Harry Potter. Should
- 44:33Speaker 1: I would yeah, oh my gosh. Um. Uh So originally
- 44:38Speaker 1: this was you did a much better job than what
- 44:41Speaker 1: I was gonna do. I was literally just going to
- 44:42Speaker 1: have a conversation about grieving and what happens because for me,
- 44:48Speaker 1: like I you know, I graduated high school when the
- 44:52Speaker 1: seventh book came out, I graduated college from the seventh
- 44:54Speaker 1: movie came out. It was there on like my darkest times.
- 44:58Speaker 1: I loved it. I liked travel to lond the idea,
- 45:00Speaker 1: the whole I was like, like I said, fan doesn't
- 45:03Speaker 1: describe it. And it was such a big part of
- 45:07Speaker 1: my identity. And that's the danger. Because I've talked before
- 45:11Speaker 1: on here, I use fiction to cope with trauma. Um,
- 45:17Speaker 1: and it's very important to me when you let something
- 45:19Speaker 1: get that close and then it hurts you so bad,
- 45:24Speaker 1: and that's normal. Like I mean, I do this fare
- 45:26Speaker 1: but I think plenty, like it's a pretty common thing.
- 45:29Speaker 1: I'm like, that's the thing I keep trying to bring up,
- 45:30Speaker 1: Like I don't plan people for being fans of the series.
- 45:33Speaker 1: There's a lot of there's a lot of good stuff
- 45:35Speaker 1: in it, and like yeah, and people do use this
- 45:39Speaker 1: sort of stuff to cope with trauma. Again, I've seen it,
- 45:41Speaker 1: Like I've read a lot of fan fiction, so I
- 45:44Speaker 1: know a lot of people use like fan fiction and
- 45:45Speaker 1: the sort of stuff to also deal with like their
- 45:47Speaker 1: identities as like queer people and as trains people and um.
- 45:52Speaker 1: And that's impacted me a lot too, Like that's definitely
- 45:54Speaker 1: like I don't know, I get that side of it.
- 45:57Speaker 1: And that's why I'm like, I never would fault anybody
- 45:59Speaker 1: for being attached a series because again, now it's on
- 46:02Speaker 1: the hypocrite, but also like media affects us and we
- 46:05Speaker 1: can't always you know, none of us can predict where
- 46:08Speaker 1: these authors are going to go with their lives, unfortunately.
- 46:10Speaker 1: But yeah, well that's kind of the interesting thing because
- 46:13Speaker 1: I was like, you know, there's a lot of what
- 46:16Speaker 1: about is them that happens in this argument where they're like,
- 46:18Speaker 1: well you'd like that though, right, And that's problematic too,
- 46:20Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, but JK. Rowling is like the
- 46:24Speaker 1: heart of this, Like I can't I can't even read
- 46:27Speaker 1: fan fiction anymore, Like I can't not think of this
- 46:31Speaker 1: when I consume any of the media, and like I'm
- 46:33Speaker 1: not saying I'm like holier than that at all, because
- 46:36Speaker 1: it was like twenty twenty. I knew she was probably
- 46:39Speaker 1: meant before them, but that was when I was like, Okay,
- 46:41Speaker 1: I can't, I can't do this anymore. And like we said,
- 46:45Speaker 1: I'm a huge It's true. There's so many like personal
- 46:48Speaker 1: experiences and mental gymnastics and all of these things that
- 46:51Speaker 1: go into consuming a thing. And so I also, you know,
- 46:56Speaker 1: I have friends that have got the game, and I
- 46:58Speaker 1: don't fallow them, but for me, it's become like I
- 47:00Speaker 1: literally shut down when people bring it up because it
- 47:02Speaker 1: was so important to me and it hurt me so bad.
- 47:05Speaker 1: And so many listeners have written and I'm like all
- 47:08Speaker 1: kinds of the whole spectrum of this over the years
- 47:10Speaker 1: and now, like I think of what the stories they've sensed,
- 47:14Speaker 1: and it's just it's upsite, Like I guess what I'm saying.
- 47:17Speaker 1: It's like I get I get all sides of this,
- 47:20Speaker 1: and I also get if, like you're really hurting and grieving,
- 47:22Speaker 1: because that's kind of where I am, right, Oh for sure, Yeah, yeah,
- 47:27Speaker 1: I think that's that's the thing. It's like, You're not
- 47:29Speaker 1: the only one I've known people in my age group,
- 47:33Speaker 1: it's gonna say generational, like, I'm not doing this to
- 47:35Speaker 1: myself who use that too? Like literally, we're so traumatized
- 47:42Speaker 1: by family, by love, by abuse that held onto that world.
- 47:49Speaker 1: And I keep saying that as a world because it
- 47:52Speaker 1: is it was something that was created to keep them safe,
- 47:57Speaker 1: and then they created it as a bigger part of
- 47:59Speaker 1: themselves so they be who they were and who they are.
- 48:03Speaker 1: And then we look at the fact that she destroyed it.
- 48:08Speaker 1: She destroyed it, I think for those people, for all
- 48:10Speaker 1: of us because I liked it. I liked it. I'm
- 48:12Speaker 1: a casual person. Don't get me wrong. Now. I you
- 48:15Speaker 1: would watch Harry Potter the first one, especially as a
- 48:18Speaker 1: Christmas movie, like I liked it. I was not a diehard.
- 48:22Speaker 1: I that is not my escapism. But I as even
- 48:26Speaker 1: almost like the social work side of watching people being
- 48:29Speaker 1: able to really have a coping mechanism in a healthy way,
- 48:33Speaker 1: even though I'm like, oh, you're really really in this
- 48:35Speaker 1: imaginary world. But it's also good for you because it
- 48:39Speaker 1: is doing so much for you. And then to have
- 48:41Speaker 1: that go for a flip, it's such a disruption. It
- 48:46Speaker 1: takes the wind out of everything. It takes your breath
- 48:49Speaker 1: almost of the jarring turnaround of what it was. And yeah,
- 48:55Speaker 1: I again, I have a lot of opinions, and I
- 48:59Speaker 1: don't want to it sounds very critical. I sound very critical,
- 49:02Speaker 1: and I hate to be that way. When I'm like
- 49:05Speaker 1: this game, you don't have an excuse. But the fact
- 49:07Speaker 1: that the matter is that this goes hand in hand,
- 49:11Speaker 1: and it is it has been tainted, this, this reality,
- 49:15Speaker 1: this fiction, this conversation, something that was so pure at
- 49:19Speaker 1: one point in time, what we thought has been really
- 49:22Speaker 1: tainted and we can't not see why, so affecting everyone
- 49:28Speaker 1: her whole conversation. She had garnered so many right wing
- 49:33Speaker 1: people under her support group that it's overwhelming. The same
- 49:37Speaker 1: people she was tweeting against and yelling at in twenty
- 49:41Speaker 1: seventeen suddenly flipped and have become a part of her team.
- 49:45Speaker 1: And then we see women who have forever tried to
- 49:49Speaker 1: villainize trans women. It's being feeling justified because here's an
- 49:54Speaker 1: icon saying exactly what they've been saying for so years,
- 49:57Speaker 1: and now they have someone to justify that. And then,
- 50:00Speaker 1: also knowing that she's successful, there was no cancel culture
- 50:03Speaker 1: for her. She tried to pretend like there was there wasn't.
- 50:07Speaker 1: And then we also see that people like you Joey
- 50:10Speaker 1: and people like you Annie, who have so much emotion
- 50:14Speaker 1: and so much pain from people saying like, I'm sorry,
- 50:18Speaker 1: but I still want to be a part of it,
- 50:20Speaker 1: not because they're doing something against you, but they're definitely
- 50:22Speaker 1: not supporting you. Like that's if you're If you're not
- 50:26Speaker 1: doing something that is to be an ally, that means
- 50:28Speaker 1: you're not supporting them. I mean, that's kind of how
- 50:30Speaker 1: it turns out to be. And it's harsh and it's cruel.
- 50:33Speaker 1: And I say that to myself as well. I know
- 50:36Speaker 1: that hearing you as the people in my life that
- 50:39Speaker 1: I care about to do something that is going against
- 50:43Speaker 1: the community who are hurting because of this community, that
- 50:46Speaker 1: means I'm going against the support. I'm not supporting you
- 50:49Speaker 1: like I said I would. And that's the conversation and
- 50:52Speaker 1: things that you have to think about. And in this
- 50:55Speaker 1: it's just a game. I get it. It's just a game,
- 50:57Speaker 1: but it's also people's lives. It's also people hearts in
- 51:00Speaker 1: all of this, right, And that's one of the things
- 51:03Speaker 1: I think this episode I want to do because one
- 51:05Speaker 1: of the things I also keep saying is like a
- 51:07Speaker 1: lot of people that I think our allies and their
- 51:09Speaker 1: heart and our supporters, but just haven't like connected the
- 51:13Speaker 1: dots exactly between like they know, like O. Jk. Rowling's
- 51:16Speaker 1: really transphobic, but they haven't like totally realized, like no,
- 51:19Speaker 1: here's how the specific things that she's saying are affecting
- 51:21Speaker 1: people's lives, are affecting legislation are affecting like the general
- 51:26Speaker 1: kind of conversation that we are having about trans people
- 51:30Speaker 1: and about trans women in particular. And I think I understand,
- 51:38Speaker 1: Like that's it is a hard sort of thing to
- 51:41Speaker 1: really connect because it is a lot of like, yeah,
- 51:43Speaker 1: it is a lot of also just like how do hate?
- 51:45Speaker 1: How do these like cultures of hate happen? But it's there,
- 51:49Speaker 1: and this is like what I want to do is
- 51:51Speaker 1: sort of like connect those dots for people and again
- 51:55Speaker 1: also like remain sympathetic. I do understand, and yeah, again
- 51:58Speaker 1: like totally understanding it to the series. I'm not saying
- 52:01Speaker 1: people should just throw there. There was I had like
- 52:04Speaker 1: a bit like a TikTok break talked about this and
- 52:06Speaker 1: somebody like commented and was like I'm throwing away my
- 52:08Speaker 1: books right now, and I was like, no, you don't
- 52:11Speaker 1: have to do that, Like that doesn't do anything what
- 52:16Speaker 1: you think it does. This is an important conversation to
- 52:33Speaker 1: keep having, and it is a conversation that we do
- 52:35Speaker 1: keep happening because they're just keep There's been a Harry
- 52:37Speaker 1: Potter content that's been coming out like more or less
- 52:40Speaker 1: consistently for the past couple of years. There was a
- 52:42Speaker 1: Team Folk article I saw that kind of got into
- 52:45Speaker 1: the same thing that I came out a year ago
- 52:47Speaker 1: because of the twentieth anniversary special that was on HBO
- 52:51Speaker 1: Max that I had totally forgotten about it, but there
- 52:54Speaker 1: was again I remember like there was a whole conversation
- 52:55Speaker 1: around that too, um and people being like yeah, like
- 52:59Speaker 1: the same sort of conversation about like nostalgia and being
- 53:02Speaker 1: attached to the series, but then also like recognizing like
- 53:05Speaker 1: people's lives aren't being put in danger or like literally
- 53:07Speaker 1: physically armed or guilt and like that is also something
- 53:11Speaker 1: that is important to remember. Yeah. I don't think that
- 53:14Speaker 1: there's not an easy answer, and that is that's frustrating
- 53:17Speaker 1: about all this, but it is like I think the
- 53:19Speaker 1: best thing people can do is like just continue to
- 53:21Speaker 1: keep having this conversation, continue to keep acknowledging that what JK.
- 53:24Speaker 1: Rowling is doing is harmful, and beyond that too, like
- 53:27Speaker 1: continue to stay informed again, Like there's all of these
- 53:30Speaker 1: bills in the US right now that are targeting trans
- 53:34Speaker 1: people and queer people. Pay attention to that. Like, I'm
- 53:37Speaker 1: sure wherever you are listening to this, there's something in
- 53:40Speaker 1: your state right now that he's either past or is
- 53:42Speaker 1: like in consideration right now, Like, look into that. Pay
- 53:47Speaker 1: attention to what's happening. If you want to be an allay,
- 53:49Speaker 1: be an ally, that's more important than whether you're going
- 53:52Speaker 1: to like burn your boer merch that you bought in
- 53:55Speaker 1: twenty eleven, Like, I don't know. I like I still
- 53:58Speaker 1: have like a griffindor blank that I bought when I
- 54:01Speaker 1: was eleven that I'm like, I'm going to keep this
- 54:02Speaker 1: because I like it, and yeah, like me throwing it away,
- 54:06Speaker 1: it's not going to affection, okay. Rawlings like annual income right, yeah, exactly,
- 54:11Speaker 1: and just the annual income I I was looking this
- 54:14Speaker 1: up apparently for the standard apparently for a writer's royalties
- 54:21Speaker 1: is fifteen percent. So when the book sales happened, I
- 54:26Speaker 1: think as of twenty twenty two, she made one point
- 54:28Speaker 1: one five billion dollars, So we know she was a
- 54:33Speaker 1: savvy businesswoman, especially when it came down to the movies.
- 54:37Speaker 1: Likelihood of her making that much money off of this
- 54:40Speaker 1: game alone, it's pretty high. And because she is a
- 54:44Speaker 1: supporter of anti trans bills, the likelihood that she's giving
- 54:48Speaker 1: money to that very high. So oh and she has, Yeah,
- 54:52Speaker 1: she's definitely given so as a reminder that money does
- 54:56Speaker 1: go specifically against trans people. Yeah, happy days. Yeah. And
- 55:02Speaker 1: this is also where with this when we're talking about money,
- 55:06Speaker 1: like independent rich shops exists and didn't like we love
- 55:11Speaker 1: buy book second hand? Yes, I know, like streaming is
- 55:14Speaker 1: the norm now, so it's sort of hard to do
- 55:16Speaker 1: the whole like buy your DVD second hand, but like
- 55:18Speaker 1: I don't know, like there's other options. Does eBay still
- 55:21Speaker 1: do that? The second hand buying? What did that used
- 55:25Speaker 1: to be? I know, y'all, y'all are not old enough
- 55:29Speaker 1: in collod books and I think it was pre Amazon
- 55:34Speaker 1: and it was eBay and then it became Amazon. Oh
- 55:37Speaker 1: my god, I'm dating myself. I'm still talking yea, Oh
- 55:44Speaker 1: my god, Oh wow, my jello and put myself to
- 55:49Speaker 1: bed early. I mean wow, I mean that sounds nice. Yeah,
- 55:54Speaker 1: it is. It's like I feel like we could come
- 55:56Speaker 1: back and do a revisit because it is so complicated.
- 55:58Speaker 1: Because there's also a part of me that like, I
- 56:00Speaker 1: hate that she's done this because it's the movies weren't
- 56:03Speaker 1: made in a vacuum. Like sure, if some people agree
- 56:05Speaker 1: with her, but there was a lot of people who
- 56:07Speaker 1: didn't and who have come out against it. So I
- 56:11Speaker 1: hate that that's happening. And then I I would love
- 56:16Speaker 1: to bring someone else who knows more about this than me.
- 56:19Speaker 1: But there's been a lot of articles about what's going
- 56:20Speaker 1: on with trans women, specifically in the UK. It's not
- 56:24Speaker 1: it's still it's bad, but it's not quite the same
- 56:26Speaker 1: as what's going on in the US, so that is
- 56:29Speaker 1: a larger conversation to be had as well. Yeah, Like, again,
- 56:33Speaker 1: I don't know as much about UK like politics and culture.
- 56:37Speaker 1: I spent my entire life in the US. But at
- 56:40Speaker 1: least from what I've heard, it's like it doesn't I've
- 56:42Speaker 1: definitely like seen articles when I pointed too, like jk
- 56:45Speaker 1: Rowling in particular, in her attitude towards this, like it
- 56:47Speaker 1: doesn't come that also doesn't come out of a vacuum,
- 56:49Speaker 1: like that is very much reflective of how like the
- 56:53Speaker 1: culture around trans people and around career people is in
- 56:55Speaker 1: the UK. But again, I'm not an expertal of this.
- 56:58Speaker 1: While like I don't know, but yeah, above to hear
- 57:00Speaker 1: somebody's thoughts, who who knows more on this, because yeah,
- 57:04Speaker 1: and it's scary. It's it's a scary world to live in.
- 57:08Speaker 1: I do try to be an optimist against my better judgment. Um,
- 57:13Speaker 1: so like I am hopeful that I don't know, I
- 57:15Speaker 1: do the fact that we're having this conversation at least
- 57:18Speaker 1: like to me is like people are talking about it.
- 57:20Speaker 1: It's not like this is just something that's happening and
- 57:21Speaker 1: like nobody really cares, like there are there wasn't there
- 57:25Speaker 1: was an effort to boycott and it wasn't particularly successful,
- 57:29Speaker 1: but like it was there, and I have seen a
- 57:30Speaker 1: lot of people like sharing information about it and and
- 57:34Speaker 1: sharing information about like a lot of these like anti
- 57:36Speaker 1: trans and anti career bills that are going around, and
- 57:39Speaker 1: that gives me hope. I don't know. Again, it's everything's
- 57:45Speaker 1: about right now, Like, yeah, I don't know. I feel
- 57:51Speaker 1: like that's the overall Yeah, okay, job, Yeah, I mean
- 57:59Speaker 1: it is. I think like that's a good a good
- 58:03Speaker 1: takeaways to stay informed because I think a lot more
- 58:06Speaker 1: people know now at the very least where they they
- 58:08Speaker 1: didn't before, that this is something we should be talking
- 58:11Speaker 1: about or paying attention to. Oh yeah, and I want
- 58:14Speaker 1: to clarify, like I said before, like I want to
- 58:15Speaker 1: say realistic and just be like I do recognize that
- 58:18Speaker 1: I think at this point, like we can't just be like,
- 58:20Speaker 1: here's all these bad things and this is why everybody
- 58:22Speaker 1: should just forget the series exists and like make Jaker rawling,
- 58:25Speaker 1: like I don't think that's gonna work. But also the
- 58:27Speaker 1: fact that I don't think that's gonna work, I don't
- 58:29Speaker 1: think like it hasn't worked at this point, that doesn't
- 58:31Speaker 1: mean that like there aren't things that we can do
- 58:32Speaker 1: with that are going to like at least be like
- 58:34Speaker 1: harm reduction, you know, like, yeah, we shouldn't keep talking
- 58:36Speaker 1: about this. We should keep talking about all this stuff
- 58:38Speaker 1: that's happening, because that's always going to be better than
- 58:40Speaker 1: just ignoring it. And yeah, or like even if like
- 58:44Speaker 1: maybe a mass white cot isn't going to work, that
- 58:47Speaker 1: does not mean that you should just like give your
- 58:49Speaker 1: money to the corporations they're going to go directly rack
- 58:52Speaker 1: to Chaker rawling like you should or like whatever franchise
- 58:56Speaker 1: was what I am on the side of, Like, I
- 58:58Speaker 1: think if people enjoy the series, I under stand that,
- 59:00Speaker 1: and I respect people's ability to, like you consume the
- 59:04Speaker 1: media that works for you, but also have some responsibility
- 59:08Speaker 1: and think about how your actions and where you're putting
- 59:11Speaker 1: your money are affecting other people and are affecting the
- 59:13Speaker 1: queer community and the trans community. Um, and like what
- 59:16Speaker 1: are some alternatives that. Yeah, I think everybody should just
- 59:19Speaker 1: read fan fiction and everything will be fine. Yeah, yet
- 59:29Speaker 1: doub Joey, don't tell people. Yeah, I know you afections
- 59:36Speaker 1: like Luke Skywalkers of particular for it of like, so
- 59:40Speaker 1: you're gonna send me these right, I'm outing her. You
- 59:45Speaker 1: really did experiments to see like what gets more clicks.
- 59:49Speaker 1: It's been fun, I was what I was putting together.
- 59:54Speaker 1: This is because I think the one like internet fandom
- 59:56Speaker 1: thing that I had some I don't have a huge
- 59:58Speaker 1: chicks Doc account, but I have friends that are big
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: on like Harry Potter TikTok and like Marauder's TikTok in particular.
- 1:00:03Speaker 1: And this is like the point where I was like, oh,
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: my god, somebody's gonna find my TikTok through list Like,
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: somebody's gonna like I've set myself up, Oh my god,
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: like because there's gonna be some video that I was
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: in that my friend Typo that's gonna lead my account
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: and somebody's like, you're criticizing JK Rowling and yeah, you
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: make I don't know. That's the that's the worry. That's
- 1:00:26Speaker 1: the concern people find people find, Oh my god, especially
- 1:00:30Speaker 1: when you get out in which I guess that brings
- 1:00:35Speaker 1: us to wrap up, Joey. Thanks is always for coming on.
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: I know there was even more stuff we could talk about.
- 1:00:43Speaker 1: So come back any anytime, um to revisit this or
- 1:00:47Speaker 1: anything else where. Can the good listeners find you for sure? Yeah,
- 1:00:53Speaker 1: you guys can find me on Twitter or Instagram at
- 1:00:57Speaker 1: Pat not Pratt. That is Pat t which is my
- 1:01:00Speaker 1: last name, and then not an ot and then pr Att,
- 1:01:03Speaker 1: which is not my last name. I have mentioned my TikTok.
- 1:01:07Speaker 1: I will not be telling you guys my TikTok, but
- 1:01:08Speaker 1: if you can find it, good for you. But you
- 1:01:11Speaker 1: should follow the stuff Mom never told you tiktoka. Yes
- 1:01:15Speaker 1: I do that too, Yes you are we always love
- 1:01:20Speaker 1: having you on here, so thanks for coming. Thanks for
- 1:01:25Speaker 1: all this work on such a sensitive topic. I know
- 1:01:28Speaker 1: this is emotionally taxing. Yeah, and it's a lot, it's
- 1:01:32Speaker 1: a lot going on. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
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- 1:01:51Speaker 1: Thank you, Christina. Thanks again to Joey who helps with
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