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482: Why Your Human Design Chart Won't Tell You What to Do · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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Nicole Laino: Come here to become an unshakable human and build an unshakable business according to your human design.
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Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
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Nicole Laino: Hello and welcome to Unshakable with Human Design.
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Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Lino.
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Nicole Laino: Welcome, everybody.
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Nicole Laino: So have you been noticing anything change about your drive, the way that you see things, the way that you want to show up in the world?
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Nicole Laino: Over the last couple of months, has something changed?
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Nicole Laino: Certainly since the beginning of 2026, maybe like February through April, that March period where things have shifted.
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Nicole Laino: And I know it was a bit chaotic in those first couple of months, that first quarter, and then rolling into the second May, we got some stability and now it's going to get shaken up again.
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Nicole Laino: But I want you to check in with yourself right now and just see, like, has something shifted?
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Nicole Laino: Are you noticing something different?
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Nicole Laino: A different pull, a different calling, or just a call to do things differently?
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Nicole Laino: So something happened last week that I wanted to have a conversation around it here on the show because I have been feeling the need to do things a little bit differently as well.
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Nicole Laino: So I try not to follow a lot of human design people online, but then it is interesting to see what other people are talking about.
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Nicole Laino: I no longer worry.
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Nicole Laino: I didn't follow them in the past because I was worried I would copy.
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Nicole Laino: And I don't worry about that anymore because I really, I'm not at all impressed with what I see.
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Nicole Laino: I'm not at all taken in by what I see other people doing.
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Nicole Laino: I really don't think I run the risk of it infecting what I am here to talk about.
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Nicole Laino: So I have looked and I do see what's happening and I want to talk about it, and I want to talk a little bit through my process here.
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Nicole Laino: I'm a manifesting generator, so everything for me is going to be in response.
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Nicole Laino: And it's almost like if I cut off my exposure to some things, then maybe some things I am supposed to be in response to.
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Nicole Laino: So I have been feeling this.
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Nicole Laino: The questions that I asked you at the start of the episode are questions I've been asking myself.
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Nicole Laino: Like, things feel different.
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Nicole Laino: I feel different.
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Nicole Laino: I feel like I'm being called to say different things, to speak about the same things in different ways.
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Nicole Laino: I feel called to shift this conversation, at least the one that I control, the one that's on my platforms.
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Nicole Laino: So this show instagram substack.
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Nicole Laino: Wherever it is that I'm showing up, I feel like there needs to be a change in the way that I'm speaking about things.
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Nicole Laino: Not that the things I've said before aren't still valid.
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Nicole Laino: I'm not taking anything back necessarily, but I feel like me here and now.
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Nicole Laino: As we get closer to 2027, we have Uranus in Gemini, which is all about change in ways of communication, in messages, in actual methods of communication.
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Nicole Laino: So maybe we pick up new platforms.
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Nicole Laino: Maybe a new platform comes out.
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Nicole Laino: Who knows what's coming?
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Nicole Laino: But as these changes happen, as I see 20 as an era of at least what it's supposed to be now, remember all of these eras, the cross of planning was a time for us to master certain skills, to master certain abilities, to live through the challenges of the time, the gifts of the time, to have that experience, take what we can with us, take those lessons.
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Nicole Laino: But then the time will change.
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Nicole Laino: And when it changes, I believe if you were to wrap it all up in a word of what 2027 is meant to teach us, I think it's meant to teach us sovereignty.
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Nicole Laino: I think it is meant to teach us what it means to be a true individual.
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Nicole Laino: So I think it's natural, of course, again, because I'm always trying to be honest with you here.
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Nicole Laino: I don't know if my predictions or if my interpretations of these things.
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Nicole Laino: You might have a different word for 2027.
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Nicole Laino: You'll be like, it's not about sovereignty.
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Nicole Laino: Okay?
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Nicole Laino: That's my reflection on it.
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Nicole Laino: So there are many truths.
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Nicole Laino: This is mine.
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Nicole Laino: What I share here is what I know to be my truth now.
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Nicole Laino: And it doesn't have to be your truth.
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Nicole Laino: This is just something for you to respond to.
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Nicole Laino: If you're a generator.
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Nicole Laino: It's something for you to take in.
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Nicole Laino: It is something for you to have in your experience, and then for you to develop your own thoughts, opinions, and maybe judgments based on it.
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Nicole Laino: So for me, 2027, as I'm going through these changes, as I'm feeling these different polls and these different call to shift and change to me, as I contemplate it, I'm like, I guess that would make sense, that I want to say more things that just feel really true to me.
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Nicole Laino: And what I will call myself out for is sometimes saying things in a way that I know will get the attention that I want.
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Nicole Laino: I know that will sell.
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Nicole Laino: And I don't say anything that's not true.
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Nicole Laino: And I always do add my little caveats in there, where it's like, I'm telling you that this is not because I don't want to be manipulative, but in order to get seen on these platforms, you got to have a hook or people don't stop and they don't listen.
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Nicole Laino: So you're not going to get heard.
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Nicole Laino: So it's weird.
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Nicole Laino: There is this, like, bit of playing the game that I think my own Uranus in my first house, right on my ascendant, is like, the days of you conforming to this stuff are over.
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Nicole Laino: And this happens with me at a certain point, things become repulsive.
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Nicole Laino: And talking about things in certain ways that I have talked about them in the past.
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Nicole Laino: It's like, yeah, I believed that I was in alignment with that.
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Nicole Laino: I felt fine with that.
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Nicole Laino: But now I'm like, that's not at all what's exciting to me anymore.
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Nicole Laino: That's not the part that I think is fun anymore.
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Nicole Laino: So I'm not lit up by it.
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Nicole Laino: So it's very hard for me to talk about it because I'm a manifesting generator and I have no desire to push through anymore.
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Nicole Laino: Doesn't light me up.
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Nicole Laino: And I'm here to follow what lights me up.
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Nicole Laino: So to me, it says that the path is being lit in a slightly different direction.
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Nicole Laino: Still talking about the same things.
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Nicole Laino: I'm just going to talk about them in a different way.
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Nicole Laino: So we are in a place where there's a lot of hyperbole around human design and a lot of manipulation around it.
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Nicole Laino: And for some of you know that I launched the Integrated Human Design certification.
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Nicole Laino: If you're listening to this, on the day that this drops, we've started officially this week.
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Nicole Laino: No one can join anymore.
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Nicole Laino: So I'm not peddling it at all.
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Nicole Laino: But I did these info sessions while doors were open so people could ask me questions.
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Nicole Laino: I could tell you about the program and all of that.
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Nicole Laino: And someone asked in there.
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Nicole Laino: There was someone who came on and asked me the question of, is there anywhere in my chart that will say whether I should do this or not?
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Nicole Laino: Is there something in my chart that would tell me that the certification is right for me?
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Nicole Laino: And I want to make very clear, I am not at all calling this woman out.
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Nicole Laino: This is not about her.
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Nicole Laino: I am not faulting her at all.
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Nicole Laino: I don't think it was a bad question.
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Nicole Laino: I think it was a very reasonable question for the way that people talk about this stuff.
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Nicole Laino: Because I'm calling out the industry and the way that we speak about human design, about astrology, about all of these.
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Nicole Laino: Her question was very in alignment with what we are Seeing online, because I'm sure there was probably a human design practitioner who would have said, yeah, I can tell you if that's in your chart.
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Nicole Laino: Oh, you have gate 11.
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Nicole Laino: You're meant to teach.
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Nicole Laino: That's a teaching gate.
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Nicole Laino: And I don't mean that you can't see things in the chart.
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Nicole Laino: Of course you can.
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Nicole Laino: And what I want to break down in this episode is what human design is really here to do.
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Nicole Laino: How I teach it, why I teach it this way, and how does it.
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Nicole Laino: The business and interpreting a chart for a business, how does that really work?
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Nicole Laino: So that's what I'm gonna attempt to do in this episode.
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Nicole Laino: Okay, I'm gonna break that down as best I can, and I'll share with you how I guided this woman to whatever her decision was.
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Nicole Laino: I don't even know because at the time I'm recording this, we haven't closed cart.
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Nicole Laino: I don't know if she'll join.
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Nicole Laino: My instinct says probably not, but she might.
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Nicole Laino: I don't know.
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Nicole Laino: It's not about that.
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Nicole Laino: What I really wanna do is I wanna talk about what human design is really here to do.
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Nicole Laino: So this is what I told her, and I shared this on Instagram.
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Nicole Laino: And it got a decent response in the sense that people received it well, for the most part.
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Nicole Laino: But let's talk about it.
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Nicole Laino: So what is human design really here to do?
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Nicole Laino: And I want to talk to you about the concept of inner authority and outer authority.
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Nicole Laino: Of course, you hear us talk about strategy and authority.
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Nicole Laino: Strategy and authority.
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Nicole Laino: Strategy and authority.
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Nicole Laino: Well, what does that even mean?
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Nicole Laino: Why is it even important?
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Nicole Laino: We know that it's our decision making, but there's a layer beneath that I think gives us the context for this and why authority is so important.
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Nicole Laino: And what we're here to do with human design.
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Nicole Laino: It's here to bring you back to something.
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Nicole Laino: So the whole premise of human design is that humans are conditioned and we are conditioned by the outside world, that it's outer authority that we have given our power away to, that we look at the outside world.
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Nicole Laino: We look at coaches, gurus, parents, teachers, politicians, organizations, rock stars.
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Nicole Laino: Whoever it is that has perceived authority out in the world that we respect, we then give them our authority.
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Nicole Laino: We are conditioned by this.
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Nicole Laino: And this can be very overt.
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Nicole Laino: Like I just said, you might listen to somebody and be like, yeah, I agree.
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Nicole Laino: Or it can be more covert, where it's something that, you know, if you are a really open person.
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Nicole Laino: So if you have a lot of open centers, you might be internalizing the society stuff.
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Nicole Laino: Your parents Stuff the people who are close to your community.
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Nicole Laino: You might be taking all of that in and have absolutely no idea that's not you.
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Nicole Laino: So the whole concept of human design is based on this idea that we are giving our authority away to the outside world.
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Nicole Laino: And what human design is designed to do is to bring you back to yourself.
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Nicole Laino: And the core way that we do that is through giving you back your inner authority.
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Nicole Laino: Take the power away from the outer authority.
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Nicole Laino: How does the outer authority work?
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Nicole Laino: Outer authority works through the mind.
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Nicole Laino: Your mind says, ooh, that person, I like them.
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Nicole Laino: Oh, that rock star is super cool and I want to be like him.
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Nicole Laino: And I agree with those thoughts, I agree with those things.
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Nicole Laino: And it's the mind.
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Nicole Laino: The mind is the most conditioned thing that exists for us because it's literally that filter where all of our beliefs sit.
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Nicole Laino: It's where it all congregates.
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Nicole Laino: And it becomes that filter that we filter every decision through when we make decisions with the mind.
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Nicole Laino: So it's why we take the power away from the mind and we put it in the body someplace.
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Nicole Laino: We put it in a process for you.
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Nicole Laino: And even if you don't get it, perfect human design, what it does is it breaks the pattern.
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Nicole Laino: It is the pattern interrupt.
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Nicole Laino: So we all know that we need to break our limiting beliefs, right?
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Nicole Laino: Because if we operate in accordance with our beliefs that we've always had, we will get what we've always gotten.
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Nicole Laino: Because the beliefs are going to drive.
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Nicole Laino: Drive the behavior.
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Nicole Laino: If I believe a certain thing is not safe, I'm never going to do it.
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Nicole Laino: My mind won't let me, right?
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Nicole Laino: So in order to get something new in life, in order to shift things, in order to change ourselves, we have to change the way that we think.
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Nicole Laino: Change your thoughts, change your life.
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Nicole Laino: Right?
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Nicole Laino: You know, in the Wayne Dyer book, change your thoughts, change your life.
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Nicole Laino: Easier said than done.
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Nicole Laino: We have to have enough presence to know that the beliefs are there.
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Nicole Laino: We have to have a new way of interacting with the outside world because most of our thoughts are unconscious.
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Nicole Laino: So when we have unconscious thoughts that are driving our behavior, it's very difficult for us to know when we're even making those decisions.
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Nicole Laino: So there was a whole craze for many years of like, changing our thoughts, of becoming mindful, of trying to rewrite our limiting beliefs and to change the way that we think.
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Nicole Laino: All valid, all good.
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Nicole Laino: Not pooing or bad mouthing that at all.
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Nicole Laino: But it's limited because it's still the mind.
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Nicole Laino: And the mind is a cunning trickster and can Certainly figure out ways to, you know, it knows us, it is us.
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Nicole Laino: So when it wants to keep us safe, it has very cunning, covert little ways of pushing our buttons and getting us to do what it wants to keep us safe.
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Nicole Laino: That's how it works.
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Nicole Laino: So what human design does is it takes the power away from the mind and it puts it in the body.
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Nicole Laino: So that pattern interrupt alone of just saying, oh, well, I make decisions like this.
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Nicole Laino: So even in the beginning, when it's really rocky, even in the beginning when you like, am I in response, Am I this?
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Nicole Laino: And that's still the mind.
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Nicole Laino: And someone like me will try to get you out of that practice.
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Nicole Laino: But that's where it starts.
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Nicole Laino: We start with just, we have to do it a new way.
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Nicole Laino: It's like learning to ride a bike or some new vehicle that we have never ridden before.
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Nicole Laino: It's going to be messy in the beginning.
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Nicole Laino: We're not going to get it right away.
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Nicole Laino: It's not going to be right away.
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Nicole Laino: So what do we do?
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Nicole Laino: We have like that messy period.
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Nicole Laino: But that messy period is us training ourselves to go to something else, to a different mechanism than to just make a pros and cons list, weigh the options and make a decision.
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Nicole Laino: Right?
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Nicole Laino: So this is us building our inner authority.
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Nicole Laino: So according to human design, what it's telling you is it's like inner authority is going to bring you back to yourself.
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Nicole Laino: You're going to stop being other people.
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Nicole Laino: Because that's what human design would say, that because you are conditioned, all of this openness is taking in other people and you're actually becoming that other person or all the other people.
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Nicole Laino: You are just this amalgamation of all the things you've ever experienced, internalized, and haven't gotten rid of.
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Nicole Laino: That would be a nutshell statement, I suppose, for how this all works.
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Nicole Laino: Now, what human design is going to do is it's going to get you to the deconditioning, is getting rid of all of that, actually working through, making decisions as yourself.
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Nicole Laino: So you're no longer in alignment with that conditioning.
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Nicole Laino: And after seven years of deconditioning, because that's when cellular turnover happens.
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Nicole Laino: After seven years of deconditioning, you are no longer anybody else but yourself.
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Nicole Laino: You are 100% you, is theory here.
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Nicole Laino: Okay?
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Nicole Laino: So human design is meant to wake you up to being yourself when this happens, when you are truly the master of your own domain, when you are truly in alignment with your own inner authority.
15:09
Nicole Laino: And you've heard me say this, something that I have said that is part of My marketing.
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Nicole Laino: But it is true.
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Nicole Laino: When you have inner authority, then and only then can you have outer authority.
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Nicole Laino: This is a human design statement.
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Nicole Laino: When you have inner authority, when you are master of your own domain, then and only then will you have the ability to truly have outer authority.
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Nicole Laino: That's worth anything out in the world.
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Nicole Laino: You will see the world clearly.
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Nicole Laino: You will have a message.
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Nicole Laino: And it doesn't have to be a message that you're sharing with the masses.
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Nicole Laino: That might not be your path.
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Nicole Laino: I don't know what your path is.
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Nicole Laino: And this is really what I'm getting to, that it's through this process of remembering or reacquainting with our true selves, waking up, seeing the world the way we are meant to see it.
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Nicole Laino: And we can't see it until we get rid of all the other stuff we have been carrying, all the other voices, opinions, thoughts and perspectives.
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Nicole Laino: You can't have your own perspective until you get rid of everybody else's.
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Nicole Laino: Formulate your own that comes from your inner authority.
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Nicole Laino: Following inner authority means you're not following the outer authority.
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Nicole Laino: You're not following other people's stuff.
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Nicole Laino: You're not in alignment with that anymore.
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Nicole Laino: You are truly you.
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Nicole Laino: Now you have something to say.
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Nicole Laino: Now you have something to bring to the world that is uniquely yours.
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Nicole Laino: And when you wake up to that, then and only then can you have the ability to have outer authority in the world where you have that thing to say prior to that it's not really yours, is what the system would tell you.
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Nicole Laino: So having said all of that, when I am in this info session and this lovely woman asks me the question of, like, can you look at my chart?
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Nicole Laino: Tell me if I'm supposed to do this?
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Nicole Laino: Am I supposed to do your certification?
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Nicole Laino: I had to respond that the chart isn't a crystal ball.
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Nicole Laino: That's not what it's meant to do.
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Nicole Laino: So if I were to answer that question for her, what I did was I tried to guide her back to her own authority.
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Nicole Laino: The woman was a manifestor.
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Nicole Laino: And I told her, as a manifestor, you really have to know if this is in alignment with your mission in life.
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Nicole Laino: Is this the impact that you want to be making?
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Nicole Laino: And only you can answer that.
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Nicole Laino: I can't guide a Manifester anywhere.
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Nicole Laino: I can only guide them back to themselves in their own process, and I can give them their power back.
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Nicole Laino: Because the minute a manifester starts asking the outside world, they diminish the fastest.
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Nicole Laino: Because they're the ones we are all supposed to be inspired and initiated by.
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Nicole Laino: They are the ones that do the big thing.
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Nicole Laino: We see it, we go, oh, wow, now generators have something crazy to respond to.
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Nicole Laino: And now they're off building other stuff because this one person pushed in that one direction.
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Nicole Laino: I can't tell a manifester where to push.
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Nicole Laino: I can only guide them back to their own process so that they can make that decision as themselves, for themselves, for their mission, for their impact.
18:08
Nicole Laino: That's all I can do.
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Nicole Laino: Because if I were to answer that for her, that would be me taking her inner authority.
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Nicole Laino: I would become that outer authority.
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Nicole Laino: I would be taking away her sovereignty.
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Nicole Laino: I'd be helping her make that decision.
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Nicole Laino: And that's above my pay grade.
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Nicole Laino: It's a hard job to have because we do want to help.
18:30
Nicole Laino: We want to help people.
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Nicole Laino: And you might be saying, nicole, you teach human design for business.
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Nicole Laino: So how does this branding stuff fit in?
18:38
Nicole Laino: And the authority matrix and all the other things that I teach and do, I still stand behind them?
18:44
Nicole Laino: Of course I still stand behind them because I don't teach them as a prescriptive method.
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Nicole Laino: And it frustrates a lot of people.
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Nicole Laino: People would really like me to tell them what they are here to do, what their message is, what it's supposed to be.
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Nicole Laino: And my answer.
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Nicole Laino: There are some people that get really upset with me.
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Nicole Laino: Like, I'm paying you and why won't you just tell me what it is?
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Nicole Laino: Or why won't you tell me where to look?
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Nicole Laino: And the way that I teach this stuff is when you study yourself.
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Nicole Laino: I love this statement.
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Nicole Laino: We become what we contemplate.
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Nicole Laino: So if you contemplate the outside world, you become the outside world.
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Nicole Laino: If you contemplate yourself and you contemplate your gifts, and you contemplate what you're here for, and you contemplate your incarnation, Cross, without an agenda.
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Nicole Laino: That's the key.
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Nicole Laino: You can't have an agenda.
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Nicole Laino: You can't contemplate your incarnation, Cross.
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Nicole Laino: So you can go and do the right thing tomorrow.
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Nicole Laino: That's not how it works.
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Nicole Laino: Oh, how I wish it did.
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Nicole Laino: Because, man, would that be easier.
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Nicole Laino: And that is what people are selling.
19:48
Nicole Laino: People are selling people the magic pill.
19:51
Nicole Laino: People are selling people.
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Nicole Laino: Like, I can look at you and tell you how you make money.
19:55
Nicole Laino: I can just look at your chart and tell you how you make money.
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Nicole Laino: And it's true there are themes in the chart those exist, but it's not for me to tell you now this is what you have to go do.
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Nicole Laino: That's me taking away your inner authority.
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Nicole Laino: That's me taking away your power.
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Nicole Laino: My job is to give you back your Power.
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Nicole Laino: That's what human design is here for.
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Nicole Laino: So it makes me sad and mad when I see people taking that away.
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Nicole Laino: And then I see people what they're doing.
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Nicole Laino: People are so happy, they download the report and it tells you who you are.
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Nicole Laino: And all this.
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Nicole Laino: Like, if you've ever gotten one of my reports again, they're not prescriptive.
20:35
Nicole Laino: They are meant to give you a lot of context.
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Nicole Laino: Like, when I do my business readings with people and I give them a business reading report as a contemplation guide.
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Nicole Laino: And that contemplation guide, it's me giving context and my view on these different placements they have and the positions in their chart and kind of molding that together for them so they can see, like, okay, well, you have gate 36 in your Mercury.
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Nicole Laino: So here are some contemplation points for you to sort of swim in.
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Nicole Laino: Like, that's always how I see it.
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Nicole Laino: Like, get in the pool with this stuff and just like, immerse yourself in it.
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Nicole Laino: And eventually you'll see that it's seeping through your skin, it's getting in there.
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Nicole Laino: You just might not know it right away.
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Nicole Laino: But when I see these people that put out reports and things like that, where it's telling you should have this kind offer, here's what this is.
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Nicole Laino: And people are so happy.
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Nicole Laino: They're just like, it told me what I was supposed to do, and it gave me a full outline for my business and my funnel and this whole thing in like 20 minutes with AI and I'm like, of course that feels good because you gave your authority away to the thing.
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Nicole Laino: And who needs human design?
21:47
Nicole Laino: That.
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Nicole Laino: It's just.
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Nicole Laino: You just want to do something, then that's fine, you can do that.
21:52
Nicole Laino: But it's not human design anymore.
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Nicole Laino: It's not.
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Nicole Laino: At its core, it's the antithesis of what human design is meant to do, which is wake you up to yourself, make you the master of your own domain.
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Nicole Laino: Make every decision in your life comes through the strongest sense of truth that you have.
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Nicole Laino: And that gives you something uniquely special to add to the world.
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Nicole Laino: This whole idea that we are all parts of a greater whole.
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Nicole Laino: You have a role in this play, this grand play of life.
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Nicole Laino: All the world's a stage, and we are but players.
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Nicole Laino: We are.
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Nicole Laino: We are but players.
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Nicole Laino: And if you are not playing your role, this play needs that role.
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Nicole Laino: We didn't write the character for no reason.
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Nicole Laino: But if you are playing the role that somebody else gave you, it's for you to discover.
22:47
Nicole Laino: It's just like in Acting.
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Nicole Laino: When I acted, you have to discover that character yourself.
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Nicole Laino: My coach could tell me things about a character, but that's not how it works.
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Nicole Laino: The coach and I would sit down and we would do character development and we'd talk about, like, what did they go through and who are they?
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Nicole Laino: Why?
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Nicole Laino: Because it has to be in my body.
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Nicole Laino: It has to be a truth that I walk on stage with.
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Nicole Laino: It can't be just information.
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Nicole Laino: It has to be real or the performance is shit.
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Nicole Laino: And I have no interest in giving a shitty performance on a regular stage.
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Nicole Laino: And I really have no interest in giving a shitty performance on the stage of life.
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Nicole Laino: And I don't have any interest in helping other people do that either.
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Nicole Laino: My goal is for every single person to be whatever that unique expression of them is in this life.
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Nicole Laino: And I never know what that will look like for them.
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Nicole Laino: I will say, all I can tell you is it has something to do with these things.
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Nicole Laino: Here's how I read this chart.
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Nicole Laino: Here's the areas that seem like they will be challenging to you.
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Nicole Laino: That's why my readings are very interactive.
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Nicole Laino: We talk back and forth.
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Nicole Laino: We go back and forth.
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Nicole Laino: And my goal is for them to see their process, see themselves clearly, get that contemplation wheel turning, and then send them on their way.
24:12
Nicole Laino: And if they want to work together and they want help being guided on that process, I will do that.
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Nicole Laino: But the way that I guide you is through guiding you back to your process, showing you where you step out of it.
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Nicole Laino: That's what a human design guide's job is.
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Nicole Laino: That's what it is.
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Nicole Laino: And I hope that these changes mean, like, the changes that we're feeling 2027, all of the changes with, like, all of these outer planets changing sign and giving us new themes for the collective.
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Nicole Laino: I really hope that people are more drawn to this because I think that there are a lot of questions about what the future will look like.
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Nicole Laino: Will we even need some of the things that have been so important?
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Nicole Laino: Will we have the same relationship to money and wealth and all of these things as time goes on?
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Nicole Laino: I don't know.
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Nicole Laino: Story for another time, Conversation for another time.
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Nicole Laino: But I hope that people are pulled more to the real aspects of this work and not just the things of, like, what it can do for them.
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Nicole Laino: In your business, human design can help you because it's a byproduct, you living as yourself and having this outer authority, whatever that is.
25:19
Nicole Laino: Money is a byproduct of that.
25:21
Nicole Laino: Success is a byproduct of that.
25:23
Nicole Laino: You making progress in your life.
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Nicole Laino: We have so many people that come into business by design, and they come in with one goal and they end up moving in another direction because it feels better for them.
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Nicole Laino: So that has to be on the table for people's lives to change, for people's paths to change.
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Nicole Laino: And that's what their inner authority is driving them to.
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Nicole Laino: And I see those people have such greater confidence in all aspects of life.
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Nicole Laino: Even taking that step, it's like, wow.
25:51
Nicole Laino: Yeah, I realized I didn't really want any of that stuff in the first place.
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Nicole Laino: I want something so different.
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Nicole Laino: And now I feel totally in alignment with moving in that direction.
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Nicole Laino: That's freedom.
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Nicole Laino: So I think I'm gonna leave this episode here.
26:03
Nicole Laino: I said a lot.
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Nicole Laino: I hope you enjoyed it.
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Nicole Laino: I hope it gave you some food for thought.
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Nicole Laino: Send me a message on Instagram if something struck you.
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Nicole Laino: I'd love to hear what you thought about this.
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Nicole Laino: And yeah, just have a wonderful rest of your day and I hope to see you in the next episode.
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Nicole Laino: Remember, in order to have an unshakable business, you must first become an unshakable human.
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Nicole Laino: So thanks for letting us help you become unshakable with human design.
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Nicole Laino: We'll see you next time.
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