Latest / Motivational Podcast / WHAT IF YOU CAN – Overcome Doubts and Realize Your Full Potential
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- 0:01Speaker 1: You know what.
- 0:01Speaker 2: I'm sick and tired of, Harry.
- 0:05Speaker 3: I'm sick and tired of having to eke my way through.
- 0:07Speaker 4: Life, sick and tired of being a nobody.
- 0:15Speaker 5: If you believe it, if you really believe that you
- 0:18Speaker 5: could be something, if you have that little voice in
- 0:21Speaker 5: your head saying, hey, you got talent, you could do this,
- 0:27Speaker 5: then follow that voice.
- 0:29Speaker 6: Life isn't fair. We have to understand that it shouldn't
- 0:34Speaker 6: be fair. It's a tryout grounds, a testing ground. It's
- 0:36Speaker 6: apple to make us harder. It's able to make us
- 0:39Speaker 6: as strong as we.
- 0:39Speaker 7: Can, to test us, to drive us so. Mentality is
- 0:44Speaker 7: the only thing that gets.
- 0:45Speaker 8: Us through life.
- 0:46Speaker 7: I was an underdog. We are all underdogs in life.
- 0:50Speaker 6: Even the best person in the world to think that way,
- 0:52Speaker 6: she should always have.
- 0:53Speaker 7: I've never arrived.
- 0:54Speaker 6: Mentality doesn't matter where you come from the sewer or
- 0:58Speaker 6: wherever you think you're from. Nothing should be able to
- 1:01Speaker 6: hurt you. If you believe that, it starts.
- 1:03Speaker 7: To become true.
- 1:06Speaker 9: Why would you not go for it? Why would you
- 1:10Speaker 9: not take a chance. At one point in time, you
- 1:14Speaker 9: got to take a chance on you.
- 1:17Speaker 10: There's a payoff for bad. Eventually, there's a payoff it
- 1:21Speaker 10: can't be bad.
- 1:22Speaker 3: But for so long.
- 1:24Speaker 11: If you got the strength and the understanding to realize
- 1:26Speaker 11: that it will change, it will change.
- 1:30Speaker 6: It's impossible if the what if I can pull off
- 1:35Speaker 6: a miracle? What if I can become someone that no
- 1:39Speaker 6: one thinks I can be.
- 1:40Speaker 12: What most people do is they back away from adversity.
- 1:43Speaker 12: But if you want to see if you're a brave person,
- 1:46Speaker 12: wait when things go completely to pieces, when things are
- 1:49Speaker 12: the worst, when your very best deal falls apart, and
- 1:51Speaker 12: your rent is late, and you're tired and you're sick
- 1:54Speaker 12: and everybody is mad at you.
- 1:55Speaker 7: And your car doesn't work.
- 1:56Speaker 12: Then it's the person that picks himself up and says,
- 1:59Speaker 12: nothing is going to stop me.
- 2:01Speaker 13: Don't doubt your own ability. We've all got to deal
- 2:07Speaker 13: with the enemy of doubt. I'm asking you, don't let
- 2:10Speaker 13: that disease grab you by the throat. Yes, it's easy
- 2:14Speaker 13: to doubt that it can happen. It's easy to doubt.
- 2:17Speaker 13: We've all got fears that want to crowd in. You
- 2:20Speaker 13: can go through those strenuous times.
- 2:22Speaker 7: If I can make it, you can make it.
- 2:24Speaker 12: You know, you know the best quality in the world
- 2:26Speaker 12: that you can develop it to develop the quality of
- 2:28Speaker 12: being unstoppable.
- 2:30Speaker 7: Develop the quality of being unstoppable.
- 2:32Speaker 12: Say in yourself that no matter what life throws at me,
- 2:34Speaker 12: it will never stop me. No matter how rough it gets,
- 2:37Speaker 12: I will never quit and nothing will.
- 2:39Speaker 7: Ever stop me.
- 2:40Speaker 12: Make the decision that you can be tired, you can
- 2:42Speaker 12: be worn out, but nothing is ever going to stop you.
- 2:45Speaker 6: But once you figure out your brain, you become unstoppable
- 2:51Speaker 6: to almost anything.
- 2:53Speaker 14: Here's the deal.
- 2:54Speaker 15: Too many of you guys waste way too much time
- 2:56Speaker 15: worried about what's going on with other people. And yeah,
- 2:59Speaker 15: I understand it make you jealous, and yeah, I understand
- 3:01Speaker 15: it can piss you off, and yeah, I can understand
- 3:03Speaker 15: that it ain't fair.
- 3:04Speaker 7: But guess what. Life is not fair.
- 3:08Speaker 6: One big thing is you have to learn how to fail.
- 3:11Speaker 6: Because I'm gonna explain this to you. I have big dreams.
- 3:16Speaker 7: A lot of us have big dreams, big goals.
- 3:18Speaker 6: And when you have goals that are maybe outside your reach,
- 3:22Speaker 6: you have to know that getting to that goal, you
- 3:25Speaker 6: can have a lot of bad days, a lot of setbacks.
- 3:28Speaker 7: Like I told you, guys, I've lost in kickboxing.
- 3:30Speaker 16: I've lost in boxing, I've.
- 3:32Speaker 7: Lost the life, I've lost the love, I've lost the.
- 3:35Speaker 16: Family like life is. You know, you don't just win
- 3:38Speaker 16: all the time.
- 3:38Speaker 7: It's wins and lost it. So you just you roll
- 3:41Speaker 7: with the punches.
- 3:43Speaker 17: Going back to the gym work because you have more
- 3:46Speaker 17: to show. You understand life continue. You cannot live in
- 3:50Speaker 17: the past. I'm really good on that.
- 3:52Speaker 7: You understand.
- 3:52Speaker 17: I learned by the years that Listenrisiana, Let's go because
- 3:57Speaker 17: pain you're going to have all the time, and certainty
- 4:01Speaker 17: and constant work, constant work, constant work. It doesn't matter
- 4:04Speaker 17: what's go, it's going to happen in your life. You
- 4:06Speaker 17: have to continue.
- 4:07Speaker 7: This is the way I.
- 4:08Speaker 18: See the life.
- 4:09Speaker 19: Thoughts aren't true, feelings don't require actions. Things aren't good
- 4:13Speaker 19: or bad. They just saw how great this enemy is.
- 4:16Speaker 19: Ignorance to change your life, change your surroundings. Our actions,
- 4:20Speaker 19: not our pasts, define who we are.
- 4:23Speaker 20: Victims see their past as their fate. Champions see their
- 4:29Speaker 20: past as their origin story. And so a lot of
- 4:33Speaker 20: people are living through their origin story right now, or
- 4:36Speaker 20: they're living through the very reason that they'll never be successful.
- 4:39Speaker 20: But it could be the exact same situation, and the
- 4:44Speaker 20: only difference between either character is the actions they choose
- 4:48Speaker 20: to take.
- 4:50Speaker 7: There's no losing, only learning.
- 4:53Speaker 21: There's no failure, only opportunities, and there's no problems, only solutions.
- 4:58Speaker 21: So to me, what failure is is the mother of
- 5:00Speaker 21: all success. If it wasn't from Michael Jordan getting cut
- 5:03Speaker 21: from his ninth grade basketball team, he would have become
- 5:05Speaker 21: Michael Jordan.
- 5:07Speaker 6: Once you change one thing your mindset, you can attack everything.
- 5:14Speaker 6: When you go to war with yourself, you find a
- 5:17Speaker 6: lot of peace because you know exactly who you are.
- 5:21Speaker 13: Make this note, don't become a victim of yourself. Forget
- 5:29Speaker 13: the thief in the alley that's after your purse. What
- 5:31Speaker 13: about the thief in your mind that's after your promise.
- 5:36Speaker 13: But there isn't anything you can't walk away from. There
- 5:38Speaker 13: isn't any challenge you can't overcome. I want you to
- 5:40Speaker 13: have that kind of belief in yourself.
- 5:44Speaker 22: Sometimes bad things, horrible things, happen to good people. Life
- 5:53Speaker 22: isn't fair and it can be heart wrenching. And if
- 6:00Speaker 22: you're having one of those dark days, it's okay. It's
- 6:09Speaker 22: it's okay, it's okay to feel that darkness.
- 6:18Speaker 6: Maybe you want to be nobody. Maybe you're happy exactly
- 6:22Speaker 6: where you are alive. Maybe you don't have the determination
- 6:25Speaker 6: to be somebody better than who you are.
- 6:27Speaker 7: This is real, dude, This is real.
- 6:31Speaker 6: You have to envision something that is more powerful than you.
- 6:37Speaker 7: Something in you has.
- 6:39Speaker 6: To wake up, and usually the only person that can
- 6:42Speaker 6: wake it up is you. But if you don't have
- 6:46Speaker 6: a little flame, you know, just that, just barely, if
- 6:50Speaker 6: you're done.
- 6:52Speaker 7: I can't I can't light it for you. You know
- 6:55Speaker 7: it's crazy. You know you could be the one if
- 6:57Speaker 7: you really want it to right? You know what I right?
- 7:00Speaker 23: You keep playing the what if game? What if it
- 7:01Speaker 23: don't work out? Is what if it don't work out?
- 7:03Speaker 15: Dea?
- 7:03Speaker 7: What if it do? What if it do work out?
- 7:06Speaker 7: Then what You're gonna be happy?
- 7:08Speaker 22: Right?
- 7:08Speaker 23: You can't say you want to win, but then you're
- 7:09Speaker 23: scared to lose. What kind of sense does that make?
- 7:11Speaker 23: If you put your head down and lock it on
- 7:13Speaker 23: the vision, how could you not win? The only thing
- 7:15Speaker 23: that's going to cause you to lose is your mentality.
- 7:17Speaker 23: But that's between you and you.
- 7:18Speaker 6: Though. You have to be open minded to the possibilities
- 7:23Speaker 6: that I can do this. Once you shut your mind
- 7:25Speaker 6: down to the possibility that it can be a cheese,
- 7:27Speaker 6: there's no way can happen. So That's why my eyes
- 7:29Speaker 6: and my body light up about things, because I know
- 7:32Speaker 6: that if you're in a fight, you have to attack.
- 7:36Speaker 6: You have to keep attacking. The enemy has to know
- 7:40Speaker 6: he is not going to give up. You must break
- 7:42Speaker 6: the soul whatever the in front of you.
- 7:45Speaker 3: That's what I realized.
- 7:46Speaker 6: I was never breaking the soul of anything in front
- 7:48Speaker 6: of me. So that's why I came with a thing
- 7:50Speaker 6: called taking souls in my book. I started to devise
- 7:53Speaker 6: ways to break a soul of a human being, of
- 7:57Speaker 6: an object, of whatever's in front of me. If you
- 7:59Speaker 6: keep on the attacking something. Nothing wants to stand in
- 8:02Speaker 6: front of anything.
- 8:04Speaker 7: That is relentless.
- 8:05Speaker 20: Okay, something bad happens, how much would affect my behavior? Well,
- 8:09Speaker 20: the person who is indestructible would have something terrible happen
- 8:12Speaker 20: and then nothing with change.
- 8:14Speaker 7: Yeah. People don't know how to manage their emotions. I think.
- 8:19Speaker 20: The more, at least for me, the more I've tried
- 8:21Speaker 20: to create space between how I feel and what I do,
- 8:25Speaker 20: the more consistent my outcomes have been. I'm not feeling it,
- 8:31Speaker 20: or I'm feeling tired, or things like that. The more
- 8:34Speaker 20: times I give into that excuse or that feeling, then
- 8:38Speaker 20: the more superstitious. I've become about doing it in the future,
- 8:42Speaker 20: whereas a lot of times if I can just start
- 8:45Speaker 20: when I am tired or when something is painful and
- 8:48Speaker 20: then still execute about the same as before. The more
- 8:53Speaker 20: times you do what is required to get what you want,
- 8:55Speaker 20: the more times you get what you want.
- 8:58Speaker 7: I had to stop thinking normal. I had to stop
- 9:01Speaker 7: thinking normal.
- 9:02Speaker 6: I can no longer be a common man walking around
- 9:04Speaker 6: doing common things.
- 9:07Speaker 24: So who's the person that you care about the most
- 9:09Speaker 24: in this world?
- 9:11Speaker 7: My mama?
- 9:14Speaker 24: So someone came and took your mom and put on
- 9:20Speaker 24: a crowd in the sky, And the only way that
- 9:24Speaker 24: you could see her again is if you build a
- 9:27Speaker 24: tower high enough to be able to bring her back
- 9:32Speaker 24: down or to be there again. Would you wake up
- 9:37Speaker 24: tomorrow or wonder yu, what would you get built in?
- 9:43Speaker 4: Being a winner is a curse. It doesn't matter how
- 9:48Speaker 4: much you've won before. You're not a winner until you
- 9:55Speaker 4: win again and again and again. Nothing is enough. No
- 10:06Speaker 4: one understands, and you never wanted to stop.
- 10:12Speaker 25: It's you got to put your past behind you. Look,
- 10:16Speaker 25: bad things happen and you can't do anything about it.
- 10:18Speaker 25: Right right go When the world turns its back on you,
- 10:23Speaker 25: you turn your back onto the world, and I'll always.
- 10:26Speaker 11: Say, man, keep feeling, keep feeling why.
- 10:29Speaker 18: Can't I get this?
- 10:31Speaker 6: So they don't realize I keep feeling that things because
- 10:33Speaker 6: I'm shooting higher.
- 10:34Speaker 3: Than everybody in the day and working.
- 10:39Speaker 26: But the fact of the matter is is if you
- 10:40Speaker 26: want to be good, you really don't have a lot
- 10:43Speaker 26: of choices because it takes what it takes. You have
- 10:47Speaker 26: to do what you have to do to be successful.
- 10:49Speaker 26: So you have to make the choices and decisions to
- 10:53Speaker 26: have the discipline and the focus to the process of
- 10:55Speaker 26: what you need to do to accomplish your goals.
- 10:59Speaker 13: I'm asking you, what ever threatens you, threatened them back,
- 11:02Speaker 13: whatever pushes against you, push it back, whatever wants to
- 11:06Speaker 13: overwhelm you, like a father, stand up, take control, and
- 11:10Speaker 13: do battle with your enemies wherever you find it.
- 11:15Speaker 20: I think a hopeful message that anyone can think about
- 11:18Speaker 20: who's about who's in that hard period or in that
- 11:20Speaker 20: start period, is that it won't get harder, Like this
- 11:27Speaker 20: is the hardest part, and so if you can just
- 11:30Speaker 20: make it through this, everything else is downhill. It's not
- 11:33Speaker 20: that the things that you're the dragons are gonna slam
- 11:35Speaker 20: are gonna get bigger. They are, but you become so
- 11:37Speaker 20: much more equipped to slay them back. And you have
- 11:40Speaker 20: so many more allies. You have people in the stands
- 11:42Speaker 20: cheering for it, you have the audience, you have all
- 11:44Speaker 20: of these other things that are behind you. But at
- 11:46Speaker 20: the beginning, it's just you with a stick against a bear.
- 11:51Speaker 6: Lose it hundred and six pounds three months.
- 11:54Speaker 7: The first two months.
- 11:55Speaker 6: Or the first two weeks, it's like I was gaining weight,
- 11:58Speaker 6: you know, I would lose a pound to so I
- 12:01Speaker 6: was just failing.
- 12:02Speaker 7: I kept failing and kept failing, and kept failing. So
- 12:05Speaker 7: I had to teach.
- 12:05Speaker 6: Myself how to fail right. And what that means is
- 12:08Speaker 6: when I fail, I can't spend much.
- 12:11Speaker 7: Time in that fail zone. I have to be able
- 12:14Speaker 7: to get up and.
- 12:15Speaker 6: Get after the next day just as fast because my
- 12:17Speaker 6: goals would you know, to be a navy seal. I
- 12:19Speaker 6: don't have time to stay here and feel back myself
- 12:22Speaker 6: for weeks and months and years because I'll lose that time.
- 12:26Speaker 6: So the big thing is to know that if you
- 12:28Speaker 6: have big goals and big dreams along the way, failure
- 12:32Speaker 6: is going to happen. So how fast do you get
- 12:35Speaker 6: up from that and you got to teach yourself that.
- 12:38Speaker 19: The biggest risk to your future isn't your competition, it's
- 12:41Speaker 19: the distractions you insist on keeping in your life rather
- 12:44Speaker 19: than doing the things you know you should be doing.
- 12:46Speaker 19: But aunt people delay doing things they don't like for
- 12:50Speaker 19: longer than it takes to do them.
- 12:54Speaker 6: Running six miles five days a week, and that was
- 12:57Speaker 6: my goal, and so I just kept failed. I'll go
- 13:01Speaker 6: back to scratch. I use some positive motivation. I have
- 13:04Speaker 6: like one day defeated. But I started realizing this is
- 13:07Speaker 6: part of the process. This is part of the journey.
- 13:09Speaker 6: I had to realize this is part of my process,
- 13:11Speaker 6: versus just saying I got used to I'm just not
- 13:14Speaker 6: good enough. If I'm not good enough, we always say
- 13:16Speaker 6: that I must not good enough, and then.
- 13:18Speaker 7: Me try something else. I'm going to make myself good enough.
- 13:22Speaker 27: There's human beings that have different temperament and different minds
- 13:28Speaker 27: and different mentality and a ruthless competitive drive that's almost
- 13:32Speaker 27: terrifying to the ordinary person. But that guy, if we
- 13:36Speaker 27: were living a thousand years ago, he would be on
- 13:39Speaker 27: a horse with the biggest battle acts waiting in the back,
- 13:42Speaker 27: tacking heads off, and everybody would be running, and those
- 13:46Speaker 27: people have always existed, These dominators have always existed.
- 13:51Speaker 7: The world belongs to optimists.
- 13:54Speaker 20: Because if you're going to do anything big, you have
- 13:56Speaker 20: to believe that it can happen, otherwise it never will.
- 14:00Speaker 19: That's sean puri thing. The cynics get to be right
- 14:02Speaker 19: and the optimists gets to be rich.
- 14:04Speaker 20: Yeah, they're like, if you look at it from a
- 14:06Speaker 20: percentage of success rate, I've been wrong more times than
- 14:10Speaker 20: I've been right. I have failed more times than I've succeeded.
- 14:13Speaker 20: But you always succeed more and are right more in
- 14:17Speaker 20: the big ways than the people who've been right all
- 14:19Speaker 20: along and are wrong ninety nine percent right and one
- 14:22Speaker 20: hundred percent wrong. So like they're they're right ninety nine
- 14:27Speaker 20: percent of the time, but they're wrong one hundred percent
- 14:30Speaker 20: because the only thing that matters is the big one
- 14:32Speaker 20: at the end, this won't last, or like this business
- 14:35Speaker 20: idea is not going to work, and you might have
- 14:38Speaker 20: nine failures. I felt my first nine businesses didn't really
- 14:41Speaker 20: amount to anything.
- 14:42Speaker 3: Nine.
- 14:44Speaker 20: I'm just painting this picture because like it's painful as
- 14:46Speaker 20: because the whole time everyone is telling you I told
- 14:50Speaker 20: you so, and they're right today, but.
- 14:55Speaker 7: Not forever either.
- 14:57Speaker 28: The one that you have to really fight it is
- 14:59Speaker 28: to walk a It's just self. You have to fight
- 15:03Speaker 28: the work against yourself none. It's not easy to look
- 15:07Speaker 28: in the mirror and to change your own life. It's
- 15:09Speaker 28: hot as hell. You have to take responsibility, you have
- 15:13Speaker 28: to learn new things.
- 15:14Speaker 3: You have to feel.
- 15:15Speaker 18: Uncomfortable good because discomfort is how we grow, That's how
- 15:19Speaker 18: we become strong. If you run away from discomfort, from
- 15:23Speaker 18: desistance your whole life, you would always be weak.
- 15:27Speaker 1: After watching that film, I come to understand if I
- 15:30Speaker 1: could work that hard every day with being blessed with
- 15:37Speaker 1: the physical tools that I have, work with my career
- 15:42Speaker 1: being and I made a promise to myself from that
- 15:46Speaker 1: day that I was going to work that hard every
- 15:48Speaker 1: single day.
- 15:50Speaker 9: The difference between successful people and now successful people is here.
- 15:56Speaker 9: I'm no better than none of y'all. I'm not a
- 15:59Speaker 9: better a person than you. I'm not a better Christian
- 16:02Speaker 9: than you. God don't love me more than you, none
- 16:06Speaker 9: of that. If you want to be successful.
- 16:10Speaker 29: You have to change this.
- 16:14Speaker 11: This has to change.
- 16:17Speaker 6: I don't look at failure as failure. I look at
- 16:19Speaker 6: failure as your first, second, third, fourth, fifth attempt. I
- 16:23Speaker 6: look at them as attempts. I don't look at anything
- 16:26Speaker 6: as failure because when you're.
- 16:27Speaker 7: Willing to try to do something, not trying.
- 16:30Speaker 6: A failures that's and that's not some after school special.
- 16:35Speaker 7: But when you're able to go out there, there is
- 16:37Speaker 7: no failure.
- 16:37Speaker 3: It's attempts because.
- 16:39Speaker 6: When you're trying to do something that's bigger than you,
- 16:41Speaker 6: whatever you are, whoever you are. If you're paralyzed, you're
- 16:45Speaker 6: trying to walk one step and you didn't, you didn't fail.
- 16:48Speaker 7: Mother was your first attempt.
- 16:50Speaker 6: If that's your biggest thing, that's how your mindset needs
- 16:53Speaker 6: to go into everything. So I don't look at it
- 16:55Speaker 6: as failure as a big word like that gets people
- 16:58Speaker 6: down and it gets so much power to way. I
- 17:01Speaker 6: don't I take the power right away. How didn't feel shit.
- 17:04Speaker 19: Successful people see opportunity in every failure. Normal people see
- 17:08Speaker 19: failure in every opportunity both the right only one gets rich.
- 17:14Speaker 7: I like to see people do well. I've been around
- 17:17Speaker 7: a while.
- 17:17Speaker 2: I know what it takes to do what you do,
- 17:20Speaker 2: and I know that things don't just happen. It's not
- 17:22Speaker 2: just luck that you you know, you have to create
- 17:26Speaker 2: that luck. You have to will it into existence. And
- 17:30Speaker 2: I want you to know that I am always rooting
- 17:32Speaker 2: for you. I'm rooting for all of you. The better
- 17:35Speaker 2: you do in life and in your work, the better
- 17:37Speaker 2: every studio does, the better every film does, the better
- 17:40Speaker 2: we all do.
- 17:41Speaker 7: The better it is for everyone.
- 17:43Speaker 2: So I look forward to seeing what you create in
- 17:46Speaker 2: the future, and I will continue to do all that
- 17:48Speaker 2: I can to contribute and help this industry in this
- 17:51Speaker 2: art form that I love.
- 17:54Speaker 17: Some people they don't want to shoot Pam because I
- 17:56Speaker 17: feel they don't feel.
- 17:57Speaker 7: Consciously it's okay. I respect that.
- 18:00Speaker 17: But Christiano never will do that.
- 18:03Speaker 30: Never.
- 18:03Speaker 17: Even if I miss one time, I will shoot the
- 18:06Speaker 17: second time. You fellows, the second time, I will shoot
- 18:09Speaker 17: the third time. I'm not afraid.
- 18:12Speaker 22: What do you do when you fail? Other than death?
- 18:21Speaker 22: All failure is psychological. Other than death, All failure is psychological.
- 18:28Speaker 7: Think about that, I'm going to fail, I'm going to fail.
- 18:34Speaker 7: I'm going to fail. I'm going to fail and I
- 18:37Speaker 7: will succeed.
- 18:39Speaker 13: But here's what we do know. It's possible for us
- 18:42Speaker 13: to get through the winter. Here's what's exciting about the
- 18:46Speaker 13: passing of time. It takes you through whatever your experiencing
- 18:51Speaker 13: at the moment. That's what time will do take you
- 18:53Speaker 13: through the winter? Now, how do you handle the winters?
- 18:56Speaker 13: Make this little note. You can get better, and you
- 18:59Speaker 13: can get stronger, and you can get wiser. There's no
- 19:03Speaker 13: winter that you can't overcome. There's no winter that you
- 19:05Speaker 13: can't figure out how to survive. There's no winter powerful
- 19:09Speaker 13: enough that you cannot of figuring out a way to
- 19:12Speaker 13: get through it. Hang on, make this note. Winters don't
- 19:17Speaker 13: last forever.
- 19:20Speaker 31: There's no combatant, true combatant that has never gotten to
- 19:23Speaker 31: the point where there's nothing.
- 19:25Speaker 32: Left, when there's no physical strength left, when there's no
- 19:31Speaker 32: energy left, when there's no speed left, when there's no
- 19:35Speaker 32: joy left.
- 19:37Speaker 33: In that fight, all they have left is the will
- 19:40Speaker 33: to get back up again. And they don't know how
- 19:44Speaker 33: they're gonna pick their fist up. They don't know how
- 19:48Speaker 33: they're gonna move their feet, they don't know how they're
- 19:51Speaker 33: gonna take another swing. They don't know if they're going
- 19:55Speaker 33: to be able to get up when that next punchensial
- 19:59Speaker 33: in that fight, But that's all they got, so they
- 20:02Speaker 33: get up. May get up.
- 20:08Speaker 7: I need to know who am I, where do I belong?
- 20:13Speaker 2: But the point is stop trying so hard to be
- 20:16Speaker 2: something you're not.
- 20:18Speaker 3: Like so many things.
- 20:19Speaker 28: It is not what he's outside, but what is inside
- 20:22Speaker 28: that cos you must be.
- 20:23Speaker 14: Imaginative, strong hearted, you must try things that may not work,
- 20:27Speaker 14: and you must not let anyone define your limits because
- 20:30Speaker 14: of where you come from.
- 20:32Speaker 27: You gotta let go of that stuff from the past,
- 20:34Speaker 27: because it just doesn't matter.
- 20:35Speaker 14: If you focus on what you've left behind, you will
- 20:38Speaker 14: never be able to see what lesterhood.
- 20:40Speaker 3: Know that no one else will follow.
- 20:41Speaker 20: And I think if you can, if you can shift
- 20:43Speaker 20: from this is hard to no one else will be
- 20:46Speaker 20: able to do this, then it flips from being this
- 20:49Speaker 20: thing that you're like, oh poor me, to oh poor
- 20:51Speaker 20: everyone else who's gonna have to try. And I think
- 20:54Speaker 20: that is so much more motivating as a frame for
- 20:56Speaker 20: the exact same circumstance.
- 20:57Speaker 10: I got five eighty five on my essay TEA four
- 21:00Speaker 10: hundred for putting.
- 21:01Speaker 3: Your name on the paper. It's true story.
- 21:02Speaker 11: Wow, I guessed Abaca Da.
- 21:05Speaker 3: I did abocate Daba.
- 21:06Speaker 1: All the way down.
- 21:07Speaker 10: It's a true story, Abaca Da all the way down.
- 21:11Speaker 10: I didn't care because there was a class trip that
- 21:13Speaker 10: saved day.
- 21:14Speaker 3: I wanted to go great adventure.
- 21:16Speaker 10: I was told that not taking my SAT seriously were
- 21:20Speaker 10: prohibit me from furthering.
- 21:22Speaker 11: Myself in life. So I was told at the moment, I.
- 21:26Speaker 10: Said, damn, maybe I should have Maybe I should have
- 21:29Speaker 10: applied myself, Maybe I should have did different. When I
- 21:31Speaker 10: saw all my friends get their test scores back and
- 21:33Speaker 10: they were static.
- 21:34Speaker 11: Eight hundreds, nine hundreds, nine sixties. Everybody's going to college.
- 21:37Speaker 11: Found out the biggest idiot in the world.
- 21:40Speaker 10: The biggest idiot in the world because the same people
- 21:42Speaker 10: that I wanted to rush to go to Great Adventure
- 21:44Speaker 10: with they had taken to SAT the week before. They
- 21:47Speaker 10: already got their work done, They did everything they were
- 21:50Speaker 10: supposed to do, so that moment of fun was real
- 21:51Speaker 10: fun for them. I was the only dumb ass that
- 21:55Speaker 10: didn't prioritize and take care of my shit. So I'm
- 21:58Speaker 10: the only one going to community college. Everybody's else off
- 22:02Speaker 10: the Villanova, Temple University, Drexel University.
- 22:05Speaker 11: I just got left behind.
- 22:07Speaker 34: Why didn't y'all tell me that y'all did it the
- 22:09Speaker 34: week before? How come y'all ain't telling me that we
- 22:12Speaker 34: was serious about the college. Y'all ain't telling me y'all
- 22:14Speaker 34: was trying to go to Temple or Drexel all. Wait,
- 22:20Speaker 34: it's because my life isn't their life. They're focused on themselves.
- 22:27Speaker 3: Wow, they're doing what they're supposed to do.
- 22:30Speaker 10: Hey, Jack, go sit by yourself and figure it out,
- 22:33Speaker 10: because this is where you should be lesson, learned.
- 22:36Speaker 11: Any opportunity given should be taken serious.
- 22:39Speaker 6: From this point on, people don't want to see you
- 22:43Speaker 6: better than them.
- 22:44Speaker 3: That's when it comes down to you.
- 22:45Speaker 6: You make him feel good about themselves when you're fat
- 22:48Speaker 6: and lazy, and you make him feel like when.
- 22:51Speaker 7: You come from the depths of hell and decided to
- 22:54Speaker 7: make it. There's enough food in pot for everybody. Eat.
- 22:58Speaker 7: Don't hate him, mother, because you worked hard than you
- 23:00Speaker 7: stay hard.
- 23:01Speaker 31: Embrace the journey and the process of life. You only
- 23:06Speaker 31: get stronger hiking by going uphill. Nobody gets stronger hiking
- 23:11Speaker 31: by just going downhill.
- 23:14Speaker 7: Too many times, I haven't been able to run.
- 23:16Speaker 6: Two heart surgeries, multiple knee surgeries, and after every knee
- 23:19Speaker 6: surgery they say I can run again, and I'm fine
- 23:22Speaker 6: with that. There's no running up here, bro, none.
- 23:27Speaker 7: This was what it was all about. That's what they've lost.
- 23:30Speaker 6: Or if you can't run, give a when you can
- 23:33Speaker 6: find drive in your own doubt, fear, insecurities.
- 23:39Speaker 3: You become very unstoppable.
- 23:41Speaker 35: When you feel that pressure inside of you and it's
- 23:44Speaker 35: very heavy, like weather that's very heavy and thick, you're motivated.
- 23:50Speaker 35: You feel it. I've got to get up in the morning.
- 23:51Speaker 35: I've got to do this. I've got to accomplish this.
- 23:54Speaker 35: When that pressure goes away and you don't feel any
- 23:57Speaker 35: pressure in your life, you can do anything and there's
- 24:00Speaker 35: no consequences for it. You'll just waste time, You'll waste years,
- 24:04Speaker 35: you'll waste months, You'll never accomplish anything. You give somebody
- 24:08Speaker 35: a deadline, right, they'll accomplish in two months what would
- 24:14Speaker 35: take two years to do without a deadline.
- 24:17Speaker 26: I mean, we can be average at what we do.
- 24:20Speaker 26: I mean we can be good at what we do,
- 24:22Speaker 26: or we can be excellent, or we can be elite.
- 24:25Speaker 26: And everybody has a choice as to what they want
- 24:27Speaker 26: to do and how they want to do that. But
- 24:29Speaker 26: if you're going to be excellent or elite, you got
- 24:31Speaker 26: to do special things. You have to have special intensity,
- 24:34Speaker 26: you have to have special focus, you have to have
- 24:37Speaker 26: a special commitment and drive and passion to do things
- 24:41Speaker 26: at a high level and a high standard all the time.
- 24:44Speaker 26: And it doesn't matter what God given ability that you
- 24:48Speaker 26: have that probably can make you good, but without the
- 24:52Speaker 26: rest of it, I'm not sure you ever get excellent
- 24:56Speaker 26: or elite.
- 24:58Speaker 36: Don't be afraid to fail. Anything I've ever attempted, I
- 25:03Speaker 36: was always.
- 25:03Speaker 7: Willing to fail.
- 25:07Speaker 36: You can't always win, but don't be afraid of making decisions.
- 25:11Speaker 36: You can't be paralyzed that fear or failure or you
- 25:14Speaker 36: will never push yourself. You keep pushing because you believe
- 25:17Speaker 36: in yourself and in your vision and you know that
- 25:20Speaker 36: it's the right thing to do and success will comes that.
- 25:23Speaker 36: Don't be afraid to fail. Don't listen to the naysayers.
- 25:28Speaker 36: I mean, how many times have you heard that you
- 25:30Speaker 36: can't do this, and you can't do that, and it
- 25:32Speaker 36: has never been done before.
- 25:34Speaker 7: I hear this all the time.
- 25:35Speaker 36: Some fact, I love it when someone says no one
- 25:38Speaker 36: has ever done this before, because they mean I do it.
- 25:40Speaker 36: That means that I'm the first one that has done it.
- 25:43Speaker 36: So pay no attention to the people that say you
- 25:45Speaker 36: can't be done. Just remember you can't climb the ladder
- 25:52Speaker 36: of success with your hands in the pocket.
- 25:57Speaker 37: If the lion is the king of the jungle, can
- 26:00Speaker 37: he be the king of the jungle. If he's not
- 26:03Speaker 37: the biggest, the elephant is probably one of the biggest.
- 26:07Speaker 37: He can't be the fastest because that's the cheetah. He
- 26:10Speaker 37: can't be the smartest. So he's not the biggest, the fastest,
- 26:14Speaker 37: or the smartest. So how does the lion become the
- 26:19Speaker 37: king of the jungle?
- 26:21Speaker 18: His mentality.
- 26:23Speaker 37: That's the only difference of a lion and an elephant.
- 26:28Speaker 37: When a lion walks up and sees an elephant, he
- 26:30Speaker 37: thinks lunch. An elephant thanks, run And it's all mentality.
- 26:40Speaker 37: Because when a male lion walks up, he may be
- 26:43Speaker 37: out numbered by a pack of hyenas. But I'm team
- 26:48Speaker 37: of my jungle because of my mentality.
- 26:51Speaker 7: What is it that drives you forward? What motivates yousef?
- 26:56Speaker 38: Well, my best swords is words, it's dedication in and
- 27:00Speaker 38: art work. To achieve these kind of things, you need
- 27:02Speaker 38: to work hard and you know, be a great professional,
- 27:06Speaker 38: be serious in your job. And this is what I
- 27:08Speaker 38: tried to do, you know, to be here for a time.
- 27:11Speaker 38: I think it's not by concidence. It's it's because you know,
- 27:15Speaker 38: we all live talent, But the talent without the work,
- 27:21Speaker 38: it's nothing.
- 27:23Speaker 14: But I'm going to ask you one more time. I'm
- 27:25Speaker 14: going to ask you to go look in the mirror.
- 27:28Speaker 15: I'm going to ask you to take responsibility for where
- 27:31Speaker 15: you are and admit to yourself that you are where
- 27:34Speaker 15: you are because of decisions that you made, because there's
- 27:38Speaker 15: weakness that you had, because if your lack of ability
- 27:42Speaker 15: to do the hard things when things got hard, that's
- 27:45Speaker 15: why you are where you are.
- 27:47Speaker 14: You know it, and I know it.
- 27:50Speaker 15: So take responsibility for that, take ownership of that, and
- 27:56Speaker 15: start right now fixing that.
- 28:00Speaker 18: You need to work on yourself. If you just try
- 28:06Speaker 18: to be pampered, and if you're trying to be solved,
- 28:11Speaker 18: and if you're trying to be the victim, and always
- 28:13Speaker 18: if you're not going to go anywhere. We need to
- 28:17Speaker 18: get stronger. We need to get passier, we need to
- 28:21Speaker 18: get tougher. We need to not be afraid of failure.
- 28:25Speaker 18: You got to go into the work. We've got to
- 28:28Speaker 18: face adversity. Adversity breeds character strength and fighting and resistance
- 28:36Speaker 18: does not only make the muscle grow, but it makes
- 28:38Speaker 18: also your head grow, makes you a stronger person. We
- 28:42Speaker 18: have to be willing to go through hardship, through suffering,
- 28:47Speaker 18: through pain, through crying periods, all of that stuff. Don't
- 28:51Speaker 18: shy away from any of that because it just makes
- 28:53Speaker 18: you stronger.
- 28:55Speaker 16: If someone praise for patience, you think God give them patience,
- 28:59Speaker 16: or do to give the opportunity to be patient? If
- 29:04Speaker 16: it prayed for couragees got give them courage? Or is
- 29:06Speaker 16: it give them opportunities to be courageous?
- 29:10Speaker 30: Now, fear is going to be a player in your life,
- 29:14Speaker 30: But you get to decide how much you can spend
- 29:17Speaker 30: your whole life imagining ghosts, worrying about the pathway to
- 29:20Speaker 30: the future.
- 29:21Speaker 39: But all there will ever be is what's happening here
- 29:25Speaker 39: and the decisions we make in this moment, which are
- 29:28Speaker 39: based in either love or fear. So many of us
- 29:32Speaker 39: choose our path out of fear disguised as practicality. What
- 29:37Speaker 39: we really want seems impossibly out of reach and ridiculous
- 29:40Speaker 39: to expect, so we never dare to ask the universe
- 29:42Speaker 39: for it. I'm saying I'm the proof that you can
- 29:46Speaker 39: ask the universe for it.
- 29:49Speaker 7: Please.
- 29:52Speaker 40: You have to sacrifice your lower self to your higher
- 29:55Speaker 40: self in order for you to proceed in a healthy
- 29:59Speaker 40: manner to be resilient.
- 30:02Speaker 14: If you decide to be rich today, who gonna stop you.
- 30:05Speaker 9: Who If you decide you want to be rich, all
- 30:10Speaker 9: you gotta do is start why not who gonna stop.
- 30:14Speaker 29: You unless you tell it to the wrong person. Mama, Mama,
- 30:20Speaker 29: listen to me. I'm going to be rich. Anybody rich
- 30:22Speaker 29: in this family. Go in there and sit down somewhere
- 30:25Speaker 29: and get yourself a good job. Oh Mama, you must
- 30:29Speaker 29: be right. No, Mama could be wrong.
- 30:32Speaker 13: If Mark can make it through some tough times, you
- 30:35Speaker 13: can make it through. If Mark went through some strendous times,
- 30:41Speaker 13: you can go through those strenuous.
- 30:42Speaker 7: Times when the nights were long for Mark. I'm telling
- 30:45Speaker 7: you he made it.
- 30:45Speaker 13: If he made it, you can make it.
- 30:47Speaker 7: If I can make it, you can make it.
- 30:51Speaker 8: Just be calm when things get going well, be calm.
- 30:55Speaker 8: Don't think if you're on top of the world in
- 30:57Speaker 8: a sense, you always gotta be wary. Because I've seen it.
- 31:01Speaker 8: I've seen people come, I've seen people go. I've seen
- 31:03Speaker 8: them come, I've seen them go. You got to be chill.
- 31:06Speaker 8: You got to like just take what's good in your
- 31:08Speaker 8: life and move forward cautiously and carefully, and thank God
- 31:14Speaker 8: that you that you have that. Just it's very, very
- 31:17Speaker 8: important not to overextend yourself. When you when you think
- 31:21Speaker 8: you you know you've got it, There's no such thing.
- 31:24Speaker 8: Everybody's dispensable.
- 31:28Speaker 15: Become the person who cannot quit. Become the person who
- 31:34Speaker 15: can say no to the things that they know they're
- 31:38Speaker 15: supposed to say no to. Become the person who makes
- 31:42Speaker 15: the right decision, regardless of the circumstances, regardless of the hardships,
- 31:48Speaker 15: regardless of the pain, regardless of the frustration. If you
- 31:52Speaker 15: become that person, you have no limits in your life.
- 31:58Speaker 7: There is no stopping that.
- 32:01Speaker 15: And that is the only way to become who it
- 32:04Speaker 15: is you truly want to be. And so I invite
- 32:08Speaker 15: you one last time this year. Start today, and in
- 32:12Speaker 15: three hundred and sixty five days you will.
- 32:14Speaker 41: Look back and you will say, that was the day.
- 32:18Speaker 41: That was the day then everything changed. That was the
- 32:22Speaker 41: day that my life changed. That was the day that
- 32:25Speaker 41: my family changed.
- 32:27Speaker 28: That was the day my.
- 32:28Speaker 15: Community change, my state change, and my country change because
- 32:34Speaker 15: I changed. Make that day today.
- 32:39Speaker 42: The thing I hate the most of people going, Oh,
- 32:42Speaker 42: you've got to be gentle yourself. Taken eye off, darling.
- 32:45Speaker 42: You've done too much already, You've already earned your place. No, No,
- 32:51Speaker 42: I haven't No, I don't need time off. No I
- 32:54Speaker 42: haven't earned my place. No, I haven't done enough already.
- 33:00Speaker 42: So I'm feeling like this now is a fact.
- 33:03Speaker 7: You can try and.
- 33:04Speaker 42: Bend the truth to whatever you want to bend it
- 33:07Speaker 42: to you, but the facts will always.
- 33:09Speaker 7: Tell you how it really is.
- 33:11Speaker 42: And if you feel like you haven't done enough, you
- 33:13Speaker 42: probably haven't.
- 33:16Speaker 7: You know, it's the number one way you measure somebody
- 33:18Speaker 7: that's hungry. Very simple. Their sense of urgency, that's simple.
- 33:24Speaker 7: Let me explain to you why so people say.
- 33:28Speaker 43: You have no idea hungry, I am really Yeah, what
- 33:30Speaker 43: you do about it today or not today?
- 33:32Speaker 7: But tomorrow.
- 33:34Speaker 3: You ain't hungry, man.
- 33:35Speaker 7: You just think you're hungry. You are not hungry.
- 33:38Speaker 43: You may be hungry to go eat lunch, you may
- 33:40Speaker 43: be hungry to go have dinner.
- 33:41Speaker 7: Find I'll give that to you.
- 33:42Speaker 43: You ain't hungry to compet in a marketplace because a
- 33:45Speaker 43: person who's hungry, this is how they worked. I was
- 33:48Speaker 43: watching an interview earlier of Musk years ago. He said,
- 33:53Speaker 43: I don't recommend you wanting to be like me, he says,
- 33:56Speaker 43: because you don't know how many hours I work. You
- 33:58Speaker 43: don't know what it's like to be thinking about wanting
- 34:00Speaker 43: to win. You don't know what it was like. Everyre
- 34:02Speaker 43: not going to sleep, you know, thinking Tesla's about to
- 34:04Speaker 43: go out of business. When people say, hey, you think
- 34:07Speaker 43: Tesla stock's going to go down, it's gonna go up.
- 34:09Speaker 7: It's gonna go down. It's gonna go down. It's going
- 34:11Speaker 7: to go up.
- 34:12Speaker 43: But as long as Musk is behind it, he is
- 34:15Speaker 43: so flipping hungry, which is urgent. He's so urgent about
- 34:20Speaker 43: executing things now that no matter what he touches, it's
- 34:24Speaker 43: going to grow, because today he's hungry.
- 34:28Speaker 40: If you leave your zone of comfort, if you remove
- 34:31Speaker 40: yourself from your father's camp, if you move away from
- 34:33Speaker 40: infantile materialistic satiation and go out into the terrible world,
- 34:39Speaker 40: and you do that voluntarily, you have the adventure of
- 34:42Speaker 40: your life. This is what will happen. You'll be a
- 34:44Speaker 40: blessing to yourself. That's genuine. So instead of being racked
- 34:49Speaker 40: with self doubt and being self conscious and taking yourself
- 34:52Speaker 40: apart with guilt and shame, you'll ride the wave of
- 34:55Speaker 40: adventure and you'll feel that your life is a blessing.
- 34:57Speaker 40: Not only will you feel that it will be a blessing.
- 34:59Speaker 40: That's the first thing that will happen.
- 35:04Speaker 7: I don't care how you get there. I don't care
- 35:07Speaker 7: what you do to get there.
- 35:10Speaker 6: Goal is toy because that's the passion that comes out
- 35:15Speaker 6: of me, because that's it takes everything for me to learn.
- 35:19Speaker 6: So when I speak about David Goggins, I can't speak
- 35:22Speaker 6: about David Gagins in a way that's just calm and cool,
- 35:26Speaker 6: because when I wake up, I know the journey that
- 35:28Speaker 6: takes for me to find my greatness, and it's hard.
- 35:31Speaker 7: Every nothing is easy, nothing just like oh I wake
- 35:35Speaker 7: up and I just do this or I do that,
- 35:37Speaker 7: or it just know. I watch people every.
- 35:40Speaker 6: Day go through life, and it's so easy for me
- 35:43Speaker 6: to be where I'm at today.
- 35:45Speaker 7: It takes every bit of me.
- 35:47Speaker 6: So when I speak about it, and as I get
- 35:49Speaker 6: going here, you'll start seeing me.
- 35:51Speaker 7: The temple will rise.
- 35:53Speaker 6: The passion will come out because I'm back there. I'm
- 35:56Speaker 6: doing what I do every day to become a human being.
- 35:59Speaker 6: And so nothing is easy, like running is running. It sucks.
- 36:04Speaker 6: But you have a choice to make. Do you want
- 36:06Speaker 6: to sit down and go back to that guy you
- 36:08Speaker 6: once were.
- 36:10Speaker 42: If you feel like there is a reason why, if
- 36:15Speaker 42: you know in your have Hawes. Then you should do
- 36:18Speaker 42: something and guess what, get out there and get it done.
- 36:23Speaker 44: There's life and death and power in the tongue. Careful
- 36:26Speaker 44: what you say, Be careful what you say. Be careful
- 36:30Speaker 44: with the things you consistently talk about, because you're inviting
- 36:34Speaker 44: that energy and vibration into your life.
- 36:39Speaker 45: I didn't teach myself victory first. I taught myself failure.
- 36:45Speaker 45: I taught myself how to fail. And people, that's so depressing,
- 36:51Speaker 45: is it? When you're three hundred pounds and you can't
- 36:54Speaker 45: read and write and you're up. How many times you're
- 36:57Speaker 45: gonna fail on that process? So if you don't know
- 37:00Speaker 45: how to fail, there.
- 37:02Speaker 3: Is no victory.
- 37:04Speaker 6: I never talked about winning because I knew the path
- 37:08Speaker 6: to winning was could be years of failing first. So
- 37:12Speaker 6: I taught myself how to fail properly. No one teaches
- 37:17Speaker 6: you how to fail. But if you're going out for
- 37:21Speaker 6: insturmountable odds, that makes absolutely no sense. A black kid
- 37:27Speaker 6: that cast whim three is a probably be.
- 37:28Speaker 3: A Navy seal.
- 37:30Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, you.
- 37:33Speaker 6: Better teach you stuff how to fail first, because if
- 37:37Speaker 6: you sit in failure for too long, you will never
- 37:41Speaker 6: come out of it. So the first part of my
- 37:44Speaker 6: success was learning how to fail properly, and then eventually
- 37:52Speaker 6: I started getting a few victories.
- 37:55Speaker 3: But that's what people don't get.
- 37:57Speaker 6: When you have buried yourself in such a deep hole,
- 38:01Speaker 6: you better first talk about the failures you're gonna have first,
- 38:03Speaker 6: and that's when that other voice comes up. It tells
- 38:05Speaker 6: you we gotta do something. It also tells you, boy,
- 38:09Speaker 6: I'm not gonna lie to your goggins. You're in for
- 38:12Speaker 6: a incline, bro, You're gonna get your ass handed to.
- 38:15Speaker 6: You made fun of the outside noise the inside noise.
- 38:20Speaker 6: Both voices are gonna be telling you to go funds up.
- 38:23Speaker 7: You are in for hell, bro.
- 38:28Speaker 6: I am so I belin to fail.