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RHOC Season 17 Premieres · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod with Teddy Mellencamp and Camra Judge.
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  Speaker 1: So you guys, welcome to another episode, but instead of
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  Speaker 1: it being too teas in a pod, it is going
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  Speaker 1: to be one tea, one sea talking all things.
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  Speaker 2: Oh see, I am with my friend Cynthia Bailey. Hello,
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  Speaker 2: it's you. I've missed you too. So for those of
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  Speaker 2: you guys who don't.
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  Speaker 1: Know, Cynthia and I go way back to when we
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  Speaker 1: were essentially roommates, but I'm not really her.
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  Speaker 2: Roommate because I lived in the hallway and Cynthia got
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  Speaker 2: a bedroom.
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  Speaker 3: You're amount of time in my bedroom and in my
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  Speaker 3: bed actually.
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  Speaker 2: Well I my other options were lamar.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my goodness.
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  Speaker 2: So we had a.
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  Speaker 1: Lot of fun. But I have missed you. I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I haven't seen you and forever, but you have
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  Speaker 1: been seeing a lot of some other people. I know, uh,
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  Speaker 1: one thing I need. I need to understand. What's the deal?
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  Speaker 1: You and Sutton are tight? When did this happen and
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  Speaker 1: how did I miss it?
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  Speaker 3: Sutton and I connected at Bravocon. We actually were paired
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  Speaker 3: together for a panel I think or a meet and
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  Speaker 3: greet I can't remember, and we just hit it all
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  Speaker 3: I love her. She's awesome. She's like, you know, Southern,
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  Speaker 3: and she's just like really fun and really sweet. So
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  Speaker 3: we hit it off, and you know, it is when
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  Speaker 3: you know you meet people. It's like, yeah, yeah, you know,
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  Speaker 3: call me when you're in LA. We'll keep in touch.
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  Speaker 3: And I have to say to Sudden. Credit Sutton's credit,
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  Speaker 3: she did a really good job of just like, hey
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  Speaker 3: are you here, you know, because I'm like, yeah, I'm
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  Speaker 3: going to call you and then I get there and
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  Speaker 3: I'm like busy and I don't always call, and she's
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  Speaker 3: like like, hey, you got to call me. So she
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  Speaker 3: really did a good job of staying on me. And uh,
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  Speaker 3: we've become really really tight. Actually, I'm going to see
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  Speaker 3: her in New York soon. And I just saw her
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  Speaker 3: when she was in Augusta where the Masters.
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  Speaker 2: And oh I love the Master.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, yes, So I got a chance to hang out
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  Speaker 3: with her. Been spending some time with her on and well,
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  Speaker 3: I can't really get into that.
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  Speaker 2: You can't say, but a lot of off camera out
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  Speaker 2: of Vince this year.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but we're good.
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  Speaker 2: I love someton take the news that you are going
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  Speaker 2: to be co hosting with me.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, she just texted me actually some other stuff, and
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  Speaker 3: I told her I was gonna call it back because
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  Speaker 3: I was getting ready to do to tease in a
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  Speaker 3: pod with my girl Teddy, and she was like, oh Lord.
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  Speaker 2: Cares. The thing about.
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  Speaker 1: The thing about me and Sutton is like we have
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  Speaker 1: like we can have moments where we're having fun and
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  Speaker 1: we're laughing at everything, but then there are moments that
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  Speaker 1: like I don't know if we just miss each other's
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  Speaker 1: social cues because we both end up offending each other
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  Speaker 1: in some way, like every time, And I'm like, what
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  Speaker 1: is it? Because there are moments we laugh, we have fun,
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  Speaker 1: and then there are moments where I think maybe she
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  Speaker 1: doesn't understand my humor.
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  Speaker 2: I don't understand here her humor, and we just.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, listen, Sometimes you know the connections are there, but
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  Speaker 3: you just don't connect. It just is what it is. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you know.
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  Speaker 2: So question are you going to be more in Atlanta
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  Speaker 2: or are you going to be more in Beverly Health?
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  Speaker 3: Right now, I'm splitting my time. I'm here in Atlanta
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  Speaker 3: right now, here at Lake Bailey, and I just left
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  Speaker 3: LA two days ago and I was there for a
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  Speaker 3: couple of weeks. So honestly, Teddy I'm just wherever my
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  Speaker 3: money is, you know, eat the bag, and you know,
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  Speaker 3: my team is in LA. So I do spend quite
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  Speaker 3: a bit of time in LA, like shooting movies and
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  Speaker 3: stuff like that, but I shoot a lot in here
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  Speaker 3: as well, So I don't know. I'm just kind of
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  Speaker 3: all over the place. Really mostly LA in New York though,
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, really just mostly lay in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 2: And I know you made some appearances on Atlanta as.
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  Speaker 1: Well, So my question is, if you were going to peck,
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  Speaker 1: would you rather go back to Atlanta full time or
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  Speaker 1: be a friend on Beverly Hills.
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  Speaker 3: Ooh, okay, I love the way you phrase that, because
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  Speaker 3: I'm not really interested in being a full time housewife
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  Speaker 3: on any franchise at this point in my life. My
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  Speaker 3: focus is my acting career, which is thriving, by the way, So.
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  Speaker 2: I love that congratulation.
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  Speaker 3: I got to come back on when some of my
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  Speaker 3: movies come out. I have like probably about six or
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  Speaker 3: seven movies coming up this year anyway. But back to
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  Speaker 3: the question, since I kind of want to live in
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  Speaker 3: the friend space and I've been a houseway on Atlanta
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  Speaker 3: for so long, I just love kind of popping in
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  Speaker 3: on Atlanta and maybe being a friend on Beverly Hills.
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  Speaker 2: And have you been watching the season of Atlanta so far?
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  Speaker 3: The highlights you know on my Instagram.
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  Speaker 1: Well, because we actually said and this was before you
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  Speaker 1: were confirmed to come back and be on the show,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, they are missing a voice of reason,
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  Speaker 1: like they need a Cynthia right now, because it honestly
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  Speaker 1: feels like everyone is doing the most to create drama,
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  Speaker 1: but you're not seeing any fun right now.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, from what I've seen, it just definitely feels like
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  Speaker 3: they're very divided. It's like team Kenya, Drew, Candy, and
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  Speaker 3: then team Barlows, Chebre and Sanya, and then I think.
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  Speaker 2: Now there's Manietta.
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  Speaker 3: Pardon, I feel like I'm missing someone. Did I say
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  Speaker 3: d I think Drew's on the.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but then there's mon Yetta and then.
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  Speaker 3: Manetta. I think Monyetta trust to get along with everyone,
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  Speaker 3: but I think at the end of the day, she's
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  Speaker 3: team Candy and Kenya.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well now she's fighting with Marlowe.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, question, do you think that Marlowe is Do you
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  Speaker 1: think marlow has a good heart? Because there this last
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  Speaker 1: episode and I know, and we'll get into Orange County,
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  Speaker 1: but I just want to bmrail you on this because
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  Speaker 1: I don't. Every time I've had her on the pod,
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  Speaker 1: she's been really fun. Some of the women that from
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  Speaker 1: Atlanta that have come on are very media trained, so
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  Speaker 1: you don't get too much right. She's not like that.
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  Speaker 1: She comes on. She's just who she is and I
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  Speaker 1: love her for that. But when I'm watching the show
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  Speaker 1: sometimes I'm like, is she just trying so hard to
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  Speaker 1: keep the peach that she's doing things out of her
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  Speaker 1: character or is that who she is?
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  Speaker 3: I to be honest, I the first part of the question.
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  Speaker 3: I do think that marlow has a good heart. I've
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  Speaker 3: known her for years. I do think she has good intentions. However,
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  Speaker 3: on the show, I could definitely see how she could
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  Speaker 3: be very misunderstood. Something just don't land the way that
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  Speaker 3: I would think she would have wanted them to land,
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  Speaker 3: And it definitely, you know, looks a little crazy, Like
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  Speaker 3: I definitely am like, okay, Marlowe, like, were you trying
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  Speaker 3: to be a jerky in the sea? Turn out that way?
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  Speaker 3: And again, I love Marlowe. I think she has good intentions,
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  Speaker 3: but I think on the show sometimes things just don't
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  Speaker 3: land right.
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  Speaker 1: Have you been following the KROI Bearman and Kem Zondiac
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  Speaker 1: of it all.
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  Speaker 3: I am on planet Earth. I have no I can't
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  Speaker 3: get away from it. Of course, it's been all over
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  Speaker 3: my timeline. I would be have to, I would have
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  Speaker 3: to be living under a rock, not be following it.
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  Speaker 3: Of course I have. I was surprised. I was surprised,
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  Speaker 3: and you know, sad for them, of course, you know,
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  Speaker 3: I'd never want to see a happy marriage end. And
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  Speaker 3: I always thought that, you know, they were, you know, hack.
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  Speaker 1: That's a hard thing about when you when you see
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  Speaker 1: couples on Instagram and you see things happening, like you
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  Speaker 1: always make your own narrative, and then all of a sudden,
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  Speaker 1: it's so all of a sudden, there's so much toxicity
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  Speaker 1: and people are fighting back and forth, which is something
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  Speaker 1: I have not seen you do with your acts at
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  Speaker 1: this point. You guys have And how did you do that?
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  Speaker 1: Because I know a lot of our listeners, you know,
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  Speaker 1: have been divorced or getting divorced.
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  Speaker 2: Like, how did you guys decide to just keep it cool.
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  Speaker 3: Just leave each other respectfully?
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  Speaker 2: You know?
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  Speaker 3: And I did the same with my first ex, Peter,
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  Speaker 3: regardless of what issues we had in our marriage, even
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  Speaker 3: as public people. I feel like, at the end of
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  Speaker 3: the day, you know, we're all grown, we all chose
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  Speaker 3: to be together, and if things don't work out, I
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  Speaker 3: think there's always a space to leave in a very peaceful,
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  Speaker 3: respectful way. It didn't work out, I still don't love
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  Speaker 3: these people any less. I still, you know, I still
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  Speaker 3: root for these people. I still pray for them, but
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  Speaker 3: they're just not my person. And that's okay. But I
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  Speaker 3: had to find I had to go through the process
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  Speaker 3: to see if they were my person. If they're not,
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  Speaker 3: that's okay. So nothing but love. It was all kind
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  Speaker 3: of intentional.
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  Speaker 2: How did you know it was time to leave?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, because I think in every marriage that we
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  Speaker 1: all have ups and downs, Like it would be a
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  Speaker 1: complete lie to say, like, oh, every day of my
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  Speaker 1: life is just amazing with Edlin, and we are so
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  Speaker 1: happy all right time. Like there are days where I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I'm so lucky and I'm so in
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  Speaker 1: love and I'm so happy, and there are days where
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, honestly, if I never see you again, I'd
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  Speaker 1: be all right.
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  Speaker 3: Right, Well, yeah, no, I hear you. Look, this is
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  Speaker 3: not my first rodeo, so it's not my first marriage.
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  Speaker 3: I've been married before. I am a woman of a
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  Speaker 3: certain age, So not only do I know what I want,
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  Speaker 3: I just know what I don't want. And I think
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  Speaker 3: as you get older, you just are able to figure
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  Speaker 3: out what works for you a little quicker than when
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  Speaker 3: you're younger. You're just still the first time. You're still
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  Speaker 3: trying to figure it out. So just not even just
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  Speaker 3: in my personal life, in my professional life, I just
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  Speaker 3: don't want to continue anything that doesn't bring me peace
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  Speaker 3: or happiness. And at this point in life, so you know,
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  Speaker 3: the transition has been really really good for me. But
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  Speaker 3: I think again, with age, you just kind of go,
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  Speaker 3: you know what, this is not right for me, as
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  Speaker 3: opposed to when you're younger you might try to ride
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  Speaker 3: it out a little longer. You know, I don't have
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  Speaker 3: I'm like twenty five more summers left, girl. I don't
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  Speaker 3: have time to waste to.
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  Speaker 2: Figure out something.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 2: My dad always says.
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  Speaker 1: That he's always like, oh my god, he's always like
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  Speaker 1: ten years left, And I'm like, can you not say
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  Speaker 1: that you have no idea how many years now?
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  Speaker 3: The tending is true? Like you know, I was the
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  Speaker 3: queen of like you know, running towards like fifty. I
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  Speaker 3: made fifty cent like such a big thing, Like I
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  Speaker 3: literally wore you guys out with my fiftieth birthday. Now
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  Speaker 3: I just turned fifty six, and I have to tell you,
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  Speaker 3: fifty six does not get the same as fifty five
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  Speaker 3: because fifty five you're still in the middle. You're still
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  Speaker 3: close to fifty. You're right when you turn fifty six,
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  Speaker 3: you're closed in the sixty. That's when it gets real.
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  Speaker 3: You're like, wait a minute, now, now everything really counts,
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  Speaker 3: Like I really need to live my life to the
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  Speaker 3: fullest and do the things that I want to do,
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  Speaker 3: Like I still have so many dreams and goals and
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  Speaker 3: things that I want to do, So I'm like the
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  Speaker 3: clock is ticking, so I don't have any time to waste.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I also saw that you recently said you're single
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  Speaker 1: and ready to mingle. Yes, who have you gone any dates?
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  Speaker 3: I am single and I have been mingling. Yes, I've
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  Speaker 3: been on a couple of dates, and it is you know,
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  Speaker 3: there's some prospects out there, nothing serious right now, but
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  Speaker 3: I'm definitely having fun dating.
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  Speaker 1: And you've heard data guy from another reality show girl.
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  Speaker 3: At this point, I'm not ruling anyone out. I mean,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not it's not a preference for me from a
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  Speaker 3: reality show, but if that's what God sends my way,
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  Speaker 3: I can't rule anything out because I just don't know
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  Speaker 3: who who God has for me. I just honestly don't
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  Speaker 3: and I don't want to close minded. I don't want
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  Speaker 3: to miss my person because I have all these rules
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  Speaker 3: of like who I won't date. I don't know when
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  Speaker 3: my person comes. I feel like I'm going to know
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  Speaker 3: who that person is and I'm going to date him.
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  Speaker 2: Well, have you met Char's dude or Kenya's.
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  Speaker 3: I've met Scharaise dude. Yes, and he's really sweet. I've
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  Speaker 3: only had nothing but like great, you know, experiences around him,
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  Speaker 3: and they're so cute together. Charaies seems really happy with
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  Speaker 3: him and they look great. I mean, I'm I'm happy
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  Speaker 3: for what you know, I'm happy for them. I don't know,
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  Speaker 3: you know, the major details about their relationship, but we
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  Speaker 3: went to dinner one night together and I was very
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  Speaker 3: happy for them both.
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  Speaker 2: Did you get me?
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  Speaker 1: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Kenny On had what.
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  Speaker 3: Kenya, on the other hand, I have heard about her guy,
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  Speaker 3: but I've never met him yet or seen them together yet.
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  Speaker 3: But she seems pretty pretty smitten with him. For sure.
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  Speaker 1: She seems pretty into him, but I could tell even
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  Speaker 1: when you could see the FaceTime they had on the show.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, Oh, no, he's into that man for sure,
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  Speaker 3: even like the way she like lights up like a
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  Speaker 3: light bulb when she talks to him or about him.
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  Speaker 3: And uh, yeah, I actually just got back to Atlanta,
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  Speaker 3: like I said, so I'll probably catch up with Miss
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  Speaker 3: Kenya this week and get some more scoop on that.
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  Speaker 1: But she had a big episode this week, so she
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  Speaker 1: probably needs a friend right now. And then final question
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  Speaker 1: before we get into Orange County. Yes, when people found
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  Speaker 1: out are assumed that you were coming on because like
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  Speaker 1: I did that little post like who do you think
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be co hosting with?
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  Speaker 2: And people are like Cynthia, you know.
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  Speaker 3: They want to know about that because I've only done
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  Speaker 3: it like one other time, like maybe twice once.
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  Speaker 1: Or twice friends, Like So for me, something that's pivotal
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  Speaker 1: to me, like if I'm going to do this podcast,
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  Speaker 1: I want it to be with people that I truly
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  Speaker 1: have a relationship with. Yeah, because then to me, if
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  Speaker 1: you have a real relationship, you can disagree on something right.
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  Speaker 2: And no, we're still done.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly.
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  Speaker 2: I don't agree with you on this point of view.
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  Speaker 1: You don't agree with me, but like, let's laugh it
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  Speaker 1: off and move it on because we're only as good
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  Speaker 1: as last week's episode. But a lot of people want
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  Speaker 1: to know your first impressions. Denise and Camille.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god. Okay, First of all, I love Denise
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  Speaker 3: and Camille. I actually spend some time with them, and
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  Speaker 3: I'll and Denise and I've been texting back and forth.
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  Speaker 3: We're supposed to get together for lunch or for dinner,
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  Speaker 3: and then I got busy with all my movie stuff
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  Speaker 3: and I had to come here. But we're definitely getting together.
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  Speaker 3: And then Denise was gonna come to Atlanta to shoot
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  Speaker 3: a move and then the whole st right thing happened.
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  Speaker 3: But we definitely connected door Camille, We're gonna definitely do
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  Speaker 3: like a million lunches and dinners. We had a good time.
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  Speaker 3: I like those ladies. We've always been like friends from afar,
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  Speaker 3: but we definitely have crossed over too. We will see
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  Speaker 3: each other and and and you know, really, you know,
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  Speaker 3: get to know each other.
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  Speaker 2: You know, what's a good thing about you?
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  Speaker 1: Cynthia is like I feel like everyone likes you and
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  Speaker 1: you like everyone, which is quite abasit for me.
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  Speaker 2: So we're really we're.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just kiddy, you know, it's so crazy. It's so crazy. Well,
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  Speaker 3: first of all, everyone does not like me. I mean
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  Speaker 3: I think maybe more people like me than you. But trustingly,
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  Speaker 3: I got my hater's two girls. I just think maybe
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  Speaker 3: they're just tired of hating on me and they just
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: are like, Okay, I'm just gonna be I'm gonna just
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  Speaker 3: like Cynthia this boy. But but it's so crazy because
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: my experience with you, like we did Arlend together named
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  Speaker 3: that too? Did that ever come out?
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  Speaker 2: By the way, So I think it comes out in September?
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  Speaker 3: Oh okay, all right, and then we did Big Brother together.
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  Speaker 3: My only experiences with you have been amazing. So I'm
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  Speaker 3: always like, I love it. I don't know what everybody
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  Speaker 3: else is doing. That's why whenever you call, as you
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  Speaker 3: can see, I always should.
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  Speaker 2: Right there and I will do the same. And when
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  Speaker 2: you come out next week, we're doing pellicare for sure? Yes,
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  Speaker 2: all right? So to go into Orange County?
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  Speaker 1: Have you watched any past or just this most recent
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  Speaker 1: episode so I know to be.
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  Speaker 3: Honest, no, I have not I have not. If I
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: see something again on the ground, you know, I'll like yeah,
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  Speaker 3: but I did watch the episode. I did watch the
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  Speaker 3: screener last night.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so right from the beginning, who's your favorite?
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: Ooh, well, you know, I have a little sweet spot
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: for Tamra because I've gotten to know her a lot
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: through you and everything. I do. Like that she's back
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: on the show. I'm excited to see her. Intro. Was
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: bummed while she comes in on the motorcycle. I was like, Okay,
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: I don't even know if I ever want to go,
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: but if I do, copen, I know, good damn well,
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: I need that Tamera intro. Like, I don't even ride motorcycles,
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: but I'll learn to.
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: Just like know, you're gonna have to find you're gonna
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: have to like come in on like a helicopter that
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: you're piloting yourself, something no one else has done.
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: Like that was a badass intro they brought.
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: They brought my girl in right, Like she kind of
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: went out like like in the bushes, right. She didn't
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: go out right, so but they definitely brought her back
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: in right. So I was really glad they kind of
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: lift her up in a blaze of glory and just
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: let her have have that moment. I will say, I
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: don't know a lot of the ladies from Orange County.
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: I do know Vicky. I've done a bunch of stuff
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: with Vicky. But I can see Vicky in this episode.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: Is she is she back or she's she's gonna be back.
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: I don't know if she's even officially a friend, but
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: she will be back. We see her on a cast
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: trip like in the trailer, she does like a jump scare,
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: like she's like you kind of realize that she's back.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: The episode starts and Tamra's back. We hear Shannon ask
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: if Tamra can change and Gina calling Tamra a dick.
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: We find out Tamra's mom, Sandy, lives in the Casida.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: Okay, first things first, the OC women love a casida,
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: like Gina.
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: Lived in one, TAM's mom's in one seen.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: You know, as they're kind of setting up the tone
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: that Tama's coming back, it doesn't seem the women have
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: much positive things to say. Right then we get then
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: they kind of they showed the beginning stuff with tam
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: what'd you think about Tama's mom?
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: I love her? I love her. I love that she
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: has settled right on end, she's comfortable, she brings her
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: male friend over. I thought it was fun. You know,
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: it's not easy. I had my mom live with me before,
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: and I love my mom. Moms living living with your
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: mom not not easy. Love my mama. But I don't
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: know if I want to live with her or her
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: see her.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: Would you be okay with her at her house? What's
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: that okay with her being in your house.
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: Being in my house. I'm totally fine with my mom
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: visiting for like, you know, weeks at a time.
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: Living and visiting are very different.
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: My mom for a week, for like a week, two weeks,
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: she can visit for a month, but there always has
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: to be a cut off when she's going to leave,
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: for sure.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: But I also have to say, the only time I
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: want to hear about my mom's sex life is when
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: I want something to make me cry, Like.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: I absolutely don't. No, no, ma'am.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: Like I grew up with a mom who was like
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: all of my friend's best friends, like always giving them
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: it like sex, And I was like, no, I don't
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: want to hear it.
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: I don't want to know.
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: I can't that my mom having sex like like that
• 19:58
  Speaker 4: would that would be I don't think that conversation would
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: ever happen freely between us to talk about our sex.
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: Lives, but also having sex on the pullout couch.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: I was cracking up, like that is a small little
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: area to have sex on.
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: You never had sex on a pullout couch.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Not if I was sandy. I mean, of course I
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: did when I was younger, but like.
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: That was I mean, if you're I can't imagine sharing
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: a bed to go to sleep on that side, say.
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: It's the most ideal, a comfortable situation, but I'm definitely
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: had sex on a pullout couch before. And if it's
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: it's all about the person's not about the couch, Hey,
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: it's about the person and what they were.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: That's a good point.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: Did you see that two teas in a pod was
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: played right at the beginning. Right at the beginning, it
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: said clips from two teas and pod are played to
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: show what Tamra has said about Shannon.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: On the pod, camera says you just told the truth.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: So to give you any backstory that you you mostly
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: get on the episode. But when Tamra left and well
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: got fired or what as we like to call it
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: got vickied.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: She as I was.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: I don't know how you felt, but the majority of
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: women when they are asked to either step down and
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: become a friend or you get fired completely, there's a
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: moment in time where you feel lost, especially if it's
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: something that has taken over your life.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: And did you have those feelings at first?
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: I did? I did. I mean I was offered to
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: come back as a friend, and I just chose to
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: just cut the cord and just you know, move into
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: focus on my acting career. However, you know, once the
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: show actually came on, Like, I was fine until the
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: show came on, and it was like all over my
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: Instagram and everybody's like, oh, look at the outfits. A
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: good the tag was and I was like, oh.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: Man, yeah, did any of the women that you were
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: close to kind of distance themselves from you afterwards?
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: You know what's really funny, I feel like everyone actually
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: came to me more, like even the new girls didn't know.
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: They were like, hey, you know, I'm new on the show,
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: and I hear so much. You know, I heard so
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: many great things about you. I'd love to connect at
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: some point and just you know, talk to you or
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: whatever whatever. I actually got a lot of love, which
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: I was surprised honestly because Teddy, I thought like, you know, okay,
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: these women honestly, it's they really don't have to be
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: friends with me. You'll be around get this time. Yeah.
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: You know, it's different when you work together because you regardless,
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: you have to see jo.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you're showing up, You're going to a job.
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: Like they could have just dropped off, And I really
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: expected some of them to do that, to be honest,
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: and to my surprise, you know, everyone was like, hey,
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: you know, I see you're in Atlanta. Looks at dinner
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: like people all everyone, all of those ladies included the
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: new ones, did a really good job of, you know,
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: just keeping in touch. Was just why actually end up
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: popping up because they're always inviting me to their things
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: off cameraan on camera. So I was like, all right,
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: you know what, if I'm in town, I want to
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: go and support them.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: And that's that's something I said to Tamar.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: That is obviously different with OC than I'm like Hills
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: because the same thing happened to me when when they
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: got the news, like they filled me with love like
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: all guys friends, like they were like you know we
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: missed you.
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: This is we hate this, like this isn't right.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: We did so much for us for the show, like
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: all this shit we didn't even want to do.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: You'd do like all of it, we're going to be missing.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: So I so when Tamora was upset about it, I
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: truly related because they were best friends.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: For a lot of years. But then.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: You know, as they start to talk about it, you
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: see that they both have heard on both sides.
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: But I mean, I think facts are facts, Like that's true.
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: It's true. But but here's the thing too, if you like,
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: you know, just like show friends, and then there's like
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: real friends, because I'm like friends with some of the
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: ladies who I just mostly see them at work. But
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: then I have friends that I hang out and go
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: on vacations with and spend real time with.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: Us.
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: Well, some you're just closer to than others. The thing
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: about like when you know, tamer was saying, well, you know,
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: I did an interview and they asked me and I
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: told the truth. Okay, so here's here's the thing with that.
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: That's all fine and dandy, but you always know, you
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: always have to keep in mind if you do an
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: interview and say something. Even if it's the truth, someone
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: else in an interview is gonna ask that next person, well,
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: did you see the interview that ted that Teddy did
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: with you? You know that Teddy did and she said,
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: this is this about you? So we're always asked to respond,
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: whether we want to or not, you know, regardless of
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: how we feel. So in all fairness, like every reaction,
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: every everything you do is going to get some kind
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: of reaction. And I would say, even if I'm telling
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: the truth, like I feel like, if it's my real
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: friend who I care about, I'm going to I'm not
• 24:46
  Speaker 3: just gonna be like, oh, well someone out there, Like
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna say, you know what, that's my girl and
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: I always love her. But honestly, truthfully A B and
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: C and D, I think there's just a way to
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: put the truth out there. If you the friendship, if
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: you want not you don't want to protect the friendship,
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: then hey, let it do what to do.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: But I think what I've started to see is if
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: the anger is involved in the end of the friendship,
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: that's where things start to get.
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: Thrown out and hurt and hurt and hurt. Yeah, inituations
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: where my feelings were really really hurt, and I know
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: that I saw an episode that Tammer was going through
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: a lot, her dog died, her husband's going through stuff,
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: so I know at those are the times when you
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: really really want your friends to be there for you.
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: So I kind of get it if she was coming
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: from a place of hurt. I feel like, none of
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: it's so bad that they can't you know, get it,
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: you know, pull it together. I did. I would like
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: to say, though, in the scene when she and Shannon
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: finally talked, I feel like Shannon was definitely a little cold,
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: like I felt like, at least just from the dog
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: down along like I was, I just wanted to jump.
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: I was like, hug her, hug.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: Her, Yeah, because you could see Tamar getting emotional.
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: Yes, I wanted Shannon to just hug her old friend
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: and still hash out the stuff later. But in that moment,
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: even if you guys aren't getting a loan, like I
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: would hug my worst enemy if she told me their
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: dog that her dog died, I just would be like,
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: you know, I don't really like you that much, but
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna give you this gift hug because I know
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: you need it, and I know you're in pain.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: I don't even love hugs, but that like half assed
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: hug that Tamer and Shannon had made me uncomfortable.
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: I don't like it.
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: I know. I was like, m yeah, I didn't feel
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: that hug for sure.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely not there. Okay, then we go on the
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: hiking on Housewives kills me. I don't know if you
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: guys have to do it a lot on Atlanta, but like.
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: I'm big on hiking here.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like but OC and Beverly Hills is always hiking
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: where you have to walk really slowly because the camera
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: crews like sprinting.
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: Off the cliff.
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: So it's the most bs hiking.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: But Emily in the past has done kind of like
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: outlandish things like when it comes to like one time
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: that she was in a sauna and she called a
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: subway sandwich out of her.
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: Purse and ate it in the hot sauna.
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: So like do you think when she drank the dog's
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: water from the water ball that that was a shtick
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: or do you think that she was just like, oh
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: I'm thirsty, No, why.
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: She drinks bowl? I really just don't know why she
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: actually did that. And I will just like to say
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: I don't know how thirsty I have to be or
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: what deserted island that I have to be on. I
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: actually need to drink from my dogs. And I love
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: my dog. I mean, may Bailey rested in piece recently passed,
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: but I have seen the things that Bailly has done
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: with that mouth, and the whole thing with animal's mouths
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: are cleaner. I don't know, because I've been with some
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: humans too that have done some interesting things mouth.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: I mean, all I know is like my like some
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: of my past dogs own ship.
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: And I don't want to say it, but yes, absolutely.
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: It would be one thing maybe if it was her dog, right,
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: I know, you don't even know what Artie's been up to.
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: Exactly exactly, because at least if it's your dog, you
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: already know what you fed this dog. You know what
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: that ship looks like already, you've smelled that ship for years.
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: You're at least familiar. But really, I mean, I'm umpy, shit,
• 28:29
  Speaker 3: it's your shit, basically, it's your ship. It's like eating
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: your own like your dog is like an extension of
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: you in some way, not just something so yeah.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: But then Emily's talking about all the all the ship
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: that came out of Tamar's mouth.
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: I'm like, none of it is as bad as what
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: you're drinking right now, exactly.
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: Exactly.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: Get into Heather talking about how Gina has canceled on
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: her multiple times. Terry says, sometimes people don't want to
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: invite them since they think it won't be fancy.
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: Enough for them. Right, Okay, I here's the thing. I
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: am personally a person. If I have an event, I
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: try to.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: Group a group of people that I think will potentially
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: get along. It has no idea, has nothing to do
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: with fanciness. Like my fortieth birthday was a mish mash
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: of people from all over my life. Some have a
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: lot of money, some had very little money. But it's
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: about what kind of energy they're going to bring. So
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: I don't know if it's necessarily wanting to not invite
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: her because she's worried Heather's not gonna enjoy it because
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: they don't have the but by the way, she drinks dumb,
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: not the but yeah, like let's be clear. But also
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: it's more she thinks Heather is not going to be
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: appropriate to her other friends.
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: Well, this is how I feel about that. Okay, I
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: am super busy. I have a huge mix of friends.
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: Some I love to be around. Some I kind of
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: takeing doses, like you know, different age groups. It's a lot. Personally,
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: I always I always want the invite. I don't always
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: want to go, but I want to be included. So
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: I want the opportunity to say, oh thanks, But you
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: know what, I'm gonna set this one out. I think
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: if you're my friend and it seems like you know
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: they're friends, like you just got to like throw the
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: invite out there and be like, I hope she doesn't come,
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: Like I ran, I want to invite this person, but
• 30:35
  Speaker 3: if I don't, she's gonna feel some kind of way.
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: But it's not really her thing, it's not her crowd.
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: Hopefully she's not gonna come. But at least you know,
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: I did my part.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: Well, I mean, that's essentially what Heather said to Gina.
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: But this is what led me to the other thing
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: that we were talking about before, which is show friends
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: versus non show friends. In my opinion, Gina last season
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: became close with Heather because it was good for her
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: and the show. Then the show stops filming, and that's
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: why she didn't carry on the friendship.
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: Got it? Okay?
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: Okay, because you can eat, regardless.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: If she's not gonna want to be invited to an event, regardless,
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: if I thought, you know what, Cynthia would hate this event,
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: she doesn't like to do blah blah blah, why would
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: I invite her?
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: I could still say, hey, Cynthia, do you want to
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: go to lunch?
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: Right right?
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: I could still make an effort to see you doing
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: things that we and I know we both enjoy together.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: So if you're not making any effort to see somebody,
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: it's not necessarily about the event.
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: It's true, that's true. And even when she was explaining
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: why she hadn't reached out, it was like, oh, and
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: then you know, I had to go do my laundry,
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: and then I had to go bought my floor, and
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: you know it took a really long time to buy
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: my floor.
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: Like it was just a lad who's like, girl, like,
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: do you.
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: Want to continue this friendship or not?
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: And yeah, you know, well, how did you feel about
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: Heather's come when she was talking about her kids going
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: to college and they don't know how to do laundry
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: and blah blah blah, like how did you raise your plate?
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: Could totally relate when Noel went to college. I mean,
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: she didn't really know how to do much of anything either,
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: to be honest, and she had to kind of learn
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: when she was there and just be on her own
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: and like figure it out.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: Well, I know, I watched it at first, and then
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: I was like, I need to be better with my
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: kids because like there's a lot of stuff like I
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: have them put their in the sink, but I don't
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: have them wash their plates. Yeah, absolutely, things like that,
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: Like I had them forget Like.
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: I didn't even know Noel didn't know how to wash
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: dishes until she was it was time for the leave.
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: I was like, wait, you've never she would do the
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: same thing. She would put it in the sink. Maybe
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: rents at all, maybe you know what I'm saying. But
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: she didn't. She never really did dishes. She's like, we
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: have a dishwasher, I just put it in the dishwash.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: But like, actually, I'm having now flash of the Celebrity
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: Big Brother House and how disgusting all the men were
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: with leaving the ship everywhere from the toilet to the plates.
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: Like so I feel like, even more so than with
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: the girls, I need to like really hound in with
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: my son how to take care of himself. Even the
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: other day, I watched him go potty, and I go, dude,
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: why aren't you lifting up the toilet see and if
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: you need to keep it down, you have to wipe
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: it off when you're done.
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: Yes, yes, agree.
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, I'm doing this kid in disservice.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: His poor wife's gonna be like the hell did your
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: mom teach you nothing?
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: You know era like we had like I had to
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: learn how to cook, I had to know how to clean,
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: like because we had I had to know how to
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: base it my brother when he was younger, Like it
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: was just part of life that I was growing up,
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: Like you just had to you had to feed yourself
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: through with everything everything.
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: So like my mom getting up with me and getting
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: me breakfast before school, a well bounced.
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: I was like, here's a.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: Lucky charm mill exactly half fast lunch. Like there wasn't
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: any Like I needed my volleyball uniform. I had to
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: go wash it, like iron it.
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: Yourself, like whatever. We totally were. We were self sufficient.
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: And now like these kids like they don't like I
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: don't even think Noah would have survived like during my era,
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: like because she's literally like wait, what like, okay.
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: So audition for everything.
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it's it's crazy, and I actually feel bad
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: for them because it's actually good to know how to cook.
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: I don't know, like like they have these kids have
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: to be rich because they have to have somebody to
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: do these things for things for them, because what are
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: they gonna do when they get in a situation where
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: they have to actually cook and clean and do all
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: these things. It's it's really.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: Think I'm not a good cook either, Like, but I mean,
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: I know how to cook.
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: The things that I like to eat, but most other
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: humans are going to enjoy what I like.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: I can make five things that I like that were
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: my go to So I mean, maybe we all need
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: to take a cooking class from you, because you're an
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: excellent cooking where's your cooking show?
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: By the way, I've been waiting, I know.
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: I know, I know, you know what. The acting thing
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: has just taken off. Like I am super super busy
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: with my acting career, and I thought, like it would,
• 35:18
  Speaker 3: you know, I was prepared for it to kind of
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: roll out a little slower, but it's happening. I keep saying, Oh,
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: I'm transitioning, and I like even now just changed narrative.
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: I don't say I'm transitioning anymore. I'm an actress now,
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: Like I just flew from Miami even doing a movie yesterday.
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I probably have like again, probably both at
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: this point. You know, you know, the strike is going
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: on now, so things slow down a little bit. But
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: I probably have about eight movies coming out this year.
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like, I'm busy, I'm body.
• 35:44
  Speaker 3: Yet, but it's still on deck because cooking is definitely
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: my happy place, my peaceful place, and I feel like
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: that's something that, as you know, as far as reality TV,
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: something that I would enjoy doing for sure.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: So yeah, and then we have Jennifer ped DROWNTI. She
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: is the newest housewife. She's the one that has the
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: yoga event. She and her ex husband Will still share
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: a house. Will works in Oklahoma, Oklahoma for her family's business,
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: and instead of having her kids go between the houses
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: and Will comes into town, Jennifer stays at her boyfriend's house.
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: What is your initial vibe on her?
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: She seems cool. I like her energy. I think the
• 36:38
  Speaker 3: whole house situation is ridiculous. I just think that she
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: has a new man, Like you know, everybody has to
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: feel comfortable and even though they're friends, and I get
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: the whole kid thing, I get the convenience thing, but
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: I feel like, you know what, and I like being
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: friends with my exes, especially because kids and stuff involved,
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: But I think there has to be a cut off.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: Like some sort of a clean break.
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I just don't think it makes any sense
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: for this man's clothes to still be in the house
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: and my new man is there, my new man is
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: talking about well maybebout where is jacket? Like that's that's why.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: And then we get to the part where Emily said
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: she heard from Gina that Jennifer was not faithful to
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: her husband and that's why they ended up breaking up.
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: So I just feel like we're going to see a
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: lot of things unravel with her. I don't know, but
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: the way she kind of explained why she broke up
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: with her husband made a lot of sense until we
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: started hearing the other things from the other women.
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: Okay, why did she say she broke up with them?
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: Because I didn't see that.
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: She just said she didn't want to live in Oklahoma.
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: Okay, well neither do I, So yeah, GROUNDS get it.
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: So she Oklahoma, but I don't live there either.
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: Okay, what else she didn't want to live in oka
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: home and he works for her family, and I think
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: my guess, I don't actually know. My guess is she
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: they have the second house in Orange County. I think
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: probably she's allegedly stepped out on her marriage and then
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: left her husband, and then he's still just because he
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: works for her parents or runs the family business or
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: whatever it is.
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: Does he have a girlfriend?
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: I don't.
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's bizarre. I mean, granted, my
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: ex husband worked for my dad for about six more
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: months after we were divorced, Okay, and I was like,
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: this is weird.
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we gotta wrap this up.
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like, let's I realize you're doing a documentary on him,
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: but let's let's keep it moving.
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: Like we're friends, we're cool. But like, I don't need
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: to hear about you from my dad. I'm good, Like
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: I don't want to, like.
• 38:57
  Speaker 3: A clean break in a new beginning.
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think the thing and then you.
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: Guys figure out the kids stuff in between. But I
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: think it's even for the kids. I feel like that
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: could even be confusing. If dad is still in the
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: house and stuff is still there, and then the new
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: guy's there and it's like, wait, what it's a lot.
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: And I actually asked camera on the last podcast, I
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: go is Eddie always liked that?
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: Like is he always making sexual jokes? And she's like always.
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: But then I watched the scene with Jen where her
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: boyfriend picks her up they're filming, and he's like, yeah,
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: I want to get something.
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I would have you been sexual on camera?
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: Not sexual, but like.
• 39:39
  Speaker 3: No, but I've definitely, you know, made it very clear
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: that the sexual when I was with the person that,
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: you know, the sexual relationship was in a very healthy,
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: thriving space for sure. I did not hide that on camera.
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: I think there was definitely a scene where we're on
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: you know, we're at my kitchen counter, and I think
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: we may have mentioned, you know, some of my past
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: experiences on that, but like we yeah, if if I'm
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: having sex with my guy and we're filming, yeah, you
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: know what, things can definitely be thrown out there. I'm
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: I definitely don't shy away. You know, I'm pretty happy
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: when I'm when I'm getting some so filming or not.
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: When men are nervous, they start to make those jokes
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: a little more because they're like, what else are we
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: going to talk about?
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: So they're like, yeah, I want to get you. I'm ready,
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: but who knows.
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: Then we get to the yoga where Shannon falls down
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: five thousand times. I'm not shaming anyone for their physical ability.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: I'm not fall shaming, but I was like, is this
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: a stick at this point? But then we get we
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: get inside, they have the of course, they have the
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: intuitive Healer, who we've probably seen on past seasons with
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: a different job. And then they go inside and Gina
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: is talking to Tamra and they start talking.
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: About Shannon, and Shannon's like is this me right?
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: And I love that because that's so that always happens
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: where you walk into the scene, they're like go in now,
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: go now, and they're like literally dragging you in the
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: scene or whatever. They weren't really dragging her in this scene,
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: but I've been in scenes where they're like talking stuff
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: and then I just walk up and I'm like, hey, guys,
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: what's going on it?
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: And then everyone's like panicked. But then Tamra starts crying
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: and saying she missed her best friend. She tells Shannon
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: that Bronx died and they had to close the gym,
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: and Shannon says, you know, she's kind of in like
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: a nonchalant way, like we should get together.
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: We do have history, amiga.
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it was.
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: A little.
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: I got a little cold, and I don't know, like
• 42:01
  Speaker 3: all right, really okay, well yeah, I think soon.
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: I don't know a moment where I wanted her to
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: forget the bullshit, grab her old friend and give her
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: a tight hug and then say, hey, you know what,
• 42:18
  Speaker 3: my heart is breaking for you. You know, we have
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: to have real conversation at another time, but in this moment,
• 42:25
  Speaker 3: I just want to hug you and give you some lave.
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: But also just they have Instagram.
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: I don't believe that they unfollowed one another, so likelihood
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: that Shannon already know those things. She could have at
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: that point said like I know that I was sorry. Yeah,
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: like I know, I'm so sorry, and you know what,
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: I probably should have reached out, but so much has happened.
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: I didn't know how like I and those moments, you
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: just want to feel real connection absolutely so, I mean
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: I know we'll get there. But kind of two last
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: things to discuss, what are your thoughts on the three
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: fourth Confessionals, like now they show their legs and confessionals
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: like they do that on Dubai too, I would have
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: been so pissed because I love not having to wear
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: nice pants.
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: You can go either way for me, Like I do
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: like being able to have like sweatpants on at the bottom,
• 43:29
  Speaker 3: but if you have like a really I have had
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: like really gorgeous dresses on, or like a gorgeous outfit
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: on where I felt like it would be great to
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: see the entire outfit, you know what I mean. So
• 43:39
  Speaker 3: I like the option, like if you have a great
• 43:41
  Speaker 3: outfit on, show the whole thing, if you don't just
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: show the waist up, you know what I mean.
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: Did you drink during confessionals or were you sober?
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: Absolutely I drink. I wouldn't even do without drinking.
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: You realize that like the majority, I mean, it's half
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: and half.
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: But like one time I Kyle, I'm like, do you
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: drink during confessionals? Because I was struggling my last year
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: because I was pregnant and I couldn't drink during confessionals,
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: And I was like, you know, it doesn't feel as
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: effortless to be shitty. I never drink during confessionals because
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: I want my memory to be on point. And I
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: was like, I one million percent needed to.
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: He's a real one. I did I drink during confessionals.
• 44:23
  Speaker 3: I drink before the scenes. I drink during the scenes.
• 44:26
  Speaker 3: Like I think I drank the most in my life
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: while I was on Last Wise. But sure I drink.
• 44:33
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I definitely. I'm a social drinker, and I
• 44:36
  Speaker 3: have anxiety sometimes when I'm shooting, so I'm like, give me,
• 44:39
  Speaker 3: give me, what's tequila? What?
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: What? I just had a thought with I know you
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: can't talk about the filming, but you were with Kyle.
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: I forgot that you guys had a whole sitch. Yeah
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: on the girls trip.
• 44:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: Are you guys completely good now?
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: I think so, you know we we I moved past it.
• 45:01
  Speaker 3: I think she moved past it. She just sent me
• 45:04
  Speaker 3: Mauricio's book. I got a big beautiful box from her
• 45:08
  Speaker 3: for his stuff that he has going on with the show.
• 45:12
  Speaker 3: So she communicates my text her or whatever. She's lovely.
• 45:17
  Speaker 3: I think we're good. We just had to kind of
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: get over that. I mean, I don't think you know,
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: she wants to be my best friend. Read but.
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: You're not banging down your door right now. Yeah, she's not.
• 45:28
  Speaker 3: Fucker texting me or anything like that. But I think
• 45:31
  Speaker 3: we're in a great place and we shared you in common,
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: we shared justin in common. So Kyle just has to
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: be we just have to be friends. We're just too
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: connected to you know, other people that we're really good
• 45:41
  Speaker 3: friends with.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: So and I do think I set the tone for
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: girls trips because that Girl's trip had the perfect amount
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: of fun and drama.
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: I know it was part of it was really shitty
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: for you, but like seeing that, and as I.
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: Continue watching the otherwise, like especially the most recent one,
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: I was like, gosh, I miss I missed the Turk
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: and Cako's trip where I felt like real authentic drama.
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: It was fighting over like a tequila bottle.
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: Right, No, it's true, you know. I do feel like
• 46:14
  Speaker 3: our girls trip was definitely super authentic and super real.
• 46:18
  Speaker 3: It was the first one, so there was no formula
• 46:21
  Speaker 3: for it. We just went and we, Like I honestly
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: got on that trip and I was like, this is
• 46:25
  Speaker 3: gonna be so much fun. You know, I get along
• 46:27
  Speaker 3: with everyone. I have like friends already, like I was
• 46:30
  Speaker 3: already close to like Kenya Luan, I already had in
• 46:34
  Speaker 3: my mind playing Kyle as my friend because I was
• 46:37
  Speaker 3: like my friend because she's fun and we have friends
• 46:40
  Speaker 3: in common, and she has no choice but to be
• 46:42
  Speaker 3: my friend, and of course true to when the cameras
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: come up, she was the first close like what is happening?
• 46:50
  Speaker 3: This was like I had already like literally moved into
• 46:53
  Speaker 3: our guest house, like we were.
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: Gonna just what it is.
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: But it all worked out and we're in a good place.
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: And then if I were to remind myself, I can't
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: really remember who you connected with more Teresa or Melesisa.
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: Who was the person that was the most curious about
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: because of everything that she had gone through on the show,
• 47:17
  Speaker 3: Like I love like a comeback story.
• 47:20
  Speaker 2: Were you at the wedding? Yes, this is what I
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: don't understand. I have a question.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: Do you think the wedding was just like an extension
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: of Jersey or it was like its own full thing,
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: because I don't know, they didn't really give us much
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: of the other I wanted to see like more of you,
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: of Derenda, of Chanel, like all the different women that
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: were there, and it's like we just got like a second.
• 47:51
  Speaker 3: Okay, I didn't see the special yet, but I know
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: and real life being there, I don't even think I
• 47:56
  Speaker 3: was micd To be honest, I did get there, I
• 47:58
  Speaker 3: was running a little bit behind.
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: So did you get paid?
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: No?
• 48:02
  Speaker 3: No, no, I actually just went in real life because
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: I you know, Teresa's like my real friend in real
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: life from Girls Trips.
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: Well, how did you feel about how do you feel
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: about Louie? Like, have you seen any of the stuff
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: going down Louie?
• 48:16
  Speaker 3: Like, I've met him, We've all had dinner together. My
• 48:19
  Speaker 3: experience with him, he seems to be very into his wife.
• 48:23
  Speaker 3: She seems to be very into him. They seem to
• 48:25
  Speaker 3: be happy together. I feel like he's a good guy. Like,
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: but I don't. I don't know, Like I haven't watched
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: all the stuff. I've seen, like some clips, and I've
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: seen some very concerning clips where I'm like, oh, okay, yeah,
• 48:37
  Speaker 3: this doesn't feel right, but that is not again, I'm not.
• 48:42
  Speaker 3: All I know is what I have been around, and
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: he seems like a good guy.
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: Well, my prediction is what a little bit is that
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: Ryan Jen the new housewife from Ocay, I feel like
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: her boyfriend may have a slight case of the Louis.
• 49:02
  Speaker 3: Oh Okay, it's called the Louis.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: You have to look into the eyes. I feel such
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: a danger from both. I don't know, We're gonna have
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: to keep.
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: How do you think things are gonna work out with
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: Louis and Teresa?
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: This is my concern because I actually, even though you know,
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: tamer and I have had all these back and forth
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: with Teresa and Melissa and Jacqueline Lareda, and it's all
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: over the.
• 49:29
  Speaker 2: Place, and they're supposedly this big feud.
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: I loved hanging out with Teresa at Andy's baby shower.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: She was like one of my favorite Like, we had
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: a blast. She's cool, she's fine, like it out of
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: Jersey setting. I've always had fun with Teresa, But watching
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: this season, it is so toxic, and I worry that.
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: And this is not coming from a judgmental way. This
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: is just coming from like I tend to see things
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: in certain relationships, and you know, I see them.
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: About my own that are not positive or positive. But
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: there's something about the way that Louis is with her
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: that feels like gaslighting. Like I feel like he pumps
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: her up.
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: In the most authentic way, and then it gets her
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: in trouble and she doesn't know how to get her
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: way out of it without him, So it's like that
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: need to have him, and I hope that I do,
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: truly hope that I'm wrong.
• 50:34
  Speaker 2: But all the stuff we've seen allegedly from his past,
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: like now that we do this podcast, you'll see now
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: now that we're doing OC, people send you so much shit.
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that you don't even want to see, Like
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: you're gonna get so much stuff, Like there's ninety percent
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: of the things that I'm sent I don't talk about
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: on the pod because I just think it's crossing a line.
• 50:55
  Speaker 2: But the things on him, I just fear for her.
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: I just don't want her to.
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: End up in a similar situation that she had with
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: her first husband.
• 51:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, Well, I'm rooting for them. I want the
• 51:08
  Speaker 3: best for them. I have not watched the show. I've
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: only seen the clips online and my only experience is
• 51:14
  Speaker 3: with them in person. So I pray it works out for.
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: Them me too. I hope it's all figured out. But
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: we loved having you today.
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: Any final thoughts you want to share on OC, like
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: do you think this is going to be a good
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: season or do you think like do you think this
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: was a slow start?
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: Do you think it was a good one, Like were you?
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: I think I think it should be. I mean, I
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: hope it's going to be a good season. And what
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: I love is it seems like a really good mix
• 51:44
  Speaker 3: of women. It seems like authentic friendships and you know,
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: like friendships that are going through things. I think these
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: shows are the most successful when it's this, when there's
• 51:54
  Speaker 3: real connection with the women and the real issues. And
• 51:58
  Speaker 3: I think on Atlanta, you know, going back to Atlanta
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: I think what's kind of missing on Atlanta is those
• 52:04
  Speaker 3: like those friendships where like I mean, you know, the
• 52:08
  Speaker 3: ups and downs that you have to go through. Like
• 52:10
  Speaker 3: I've although I'm in a good space with everyone, I've
• 52:14
  Speaker 3: had moments with all of them.
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, we.
• 52:17
  Speaker 3: Were able to get past those moments. And it's real
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: because it's like, hey, you know, like this this is happening.
• 52:24
  Speaker 3: This is not a comfortable time for us in this friendship.
• 52:27
  Speaker 3: And it's such because you have to still be on
• 52:28
  Speaker 3: camera with this person, where in real life, when you
• 52:31
  Speaker 3: fall out with your friend, you just you know, put
• 52:33
  Speaker 3: them on ice for a couple of weeks.
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like, all right, we're gonna I'll.
• 52:37
  Speaker 3: See you in a couple of weeks here. You know
• 52:39
  Speaker 3: you have to you know you have to go back
• 52:40
  Speaker 3: the next day and you know everyone's have dinner with them.
• 52:43
  Speaker 3: So yeah, I I'm actually after watching it, I'm a
• 52:47
  Speaker 3: little invested to like kind of see how the season
• 52:49
  Speaker 3: plays out. And I'm super excited that Tara was back
• 52:52
  Speaker 3: and I know she's going to I know she had
• 52:54
  Speaker 3: plenty of time to rest up and bring it the season,
• 52:58
  Speaker 3: so I'm excited.
• 53:01
  Speaker 2: You had to ask her. I'm like, are you gonna
• 53:02
  Speaker 2: get mad at me?
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: Because I know there's going to be some things that
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: you're doing that I'm not going to be team tam On,
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: And she was like, listen all the ship.
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: That the good thing about Tamra.
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: She's like, I know when I cross the line right
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: and watching it back like, oh, shoot, like I made
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: a mistake there.
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: I was an ask so I drank too much, I
• 53:21
  Speaker 2: did this or whatever it is.
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: And then you guys for listening, Thank you so much
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: for having Cynthia on. Please send any questions that you
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: have for us so that we can talk about it
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: on the next episode. I will be back with Tamar
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: on Monday to talk all things at Lanta, which I
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: also need to ask you one last thing, Cynthia, how
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: do you feel about Sonya?
• 53:43
  Speaker 3: I like, so, how do I feel about Sonya? I
• 53:45
  Speaker 3: like Sonya. I think she is definitely stop it stop
• 53:51
  Speaker 3: stop stop so stop. You know, first season is hard.
• 53:54
  Speaker 3: I think she is still getting her, you know, getting this.
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: Her second season well, I know.
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: But I think she's I think Asanya has definitely stepped
• 54:03
  Speaker 3: up in her second season.
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: It's I like her. I like her.
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you want to go party with her.
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: Does she seem like a fun time too?
• 54:15
  Speaker 3: For sure? For sure, I'm really d with her. And
• 54:18
  Speaker 3: she was like, oh my god, like she's she's really
• 54:20
  Speaker 3: a nice woman, and I think she's great and I
• 54:23
  Speaker 3: think that, you know, as you go on. Here's the thing,
• 54:27
  Speaker 3: I'll say this, a lot of the people that you like, okay,
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: a lot of people who figured it out the first season,
• 54:34
  Speaker 3: A lot of people like, hmm, I don't get it.
• 54:37
  Speaker 3: You know. Matter of fact, I'm sure people said that
• 54:40
  Speaker 3: about me my first season. Well, Peter and I were
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: like a hot mess my first season, Like everything was
• 54:44
  Speaker 3: like the train went completely off. As soon as we
• 54:47
  Speaker 3: signed up. Everything went crazy. So we were like we
• 54:50
  Speaker 3: were a lot. But anyway, first season is tough. I
• 54:53
  Speaker 3: think it takes at least two, maybe possibly three seasons
• 54:57
  Speaker 3: for the fans to get invested and for you to
• 54:59
  Speaker 3: just kind of work out the kings.
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean I was only liked my first season, I.
• 55:08
  Speaker 3: Know, but like, let''s give her a chance, because like
• 55:11
  Speaker 3: even I was on twelve years, eleven years, and people
• 55:13
  Speaker 3: it was like, oh, either people thought I was great
• 55:15
  Speaker 3: or they thought I was boring. So there you go.
• 55:18
  Speaker 3: I like to think that I just picked, you know,
• 55:21
  Speaker 3: just you'd like to pick and choose the drama that
• 55:23
  Speaker 3: I wanted to be in.
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: But I think every I do think every single franchise
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: needs a voice of reason, and I think you were that.
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: I do think Sonia could be that, but she's too
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: much of a flip flopper at this point.
• 55:36
  Speaker 3: Oh my god. Okay, see I used to get like,
• 55:39
  Speaker 3: I used to get called that too, So that's like
• 55:41
  Speaker 3: a little bit of a trigger.
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: Oh shoot, sorry.
• 55:44
  Speaker 3: Triggering me right now. Because here's the thing. When you're
• 55:47
  Speaker 3: in a group of women, Teddy, and it's like one
• 55:51
  Speaker 3: day you may feel like, okay, I see what you're saying,
• 55:53
  Speaker 3: I agree with you, and then you talk to someone else,
• 55:55
  Speaker 3: you're like, yeah, I'm okay. I kind of agree with
• 55:56
  Speaker 3: you too. Sometimes you just kind of get caught in
• 55:58
  Speaker 3: the middle and it's all right when you're really trying
• 56:01
  Speaker 3: to be in a decent space with most of the women.
• 56:03
  Speaker 3: So I'm just gonna leave it right there.
• 56:05
  Speaker 2: I know we have to go, but you know, I
• 56:08
  Speaker 2: like about this next week. I said, we'll fight about
• 56:13
  Speaker 2: this next week exactly.
• 56:14
  Speaker 3: We'll come back on this is to be continued.
• 56:16
  Speaker 2: I love coming on your hand out and all right,
• 56:20
  Speaker 2: so you're my girl. Thank you so much. I'll see
• 56:22
  Speaker 2: you next week.
• 56:23
  Speaker 3: Yes, we're going to the spot, all right.
• 56:26
  Speaker 2: Bye bye,