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MohBad's Son DNA Drama - Family Threaten 300 Million Naira Lawsuit · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to another episode of Banter
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  Laurencia. How are you all doing?
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  Now let me dive right straight into today's episode because
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  it's it's been a sad one. The past couple of weeks has
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  been really down for, I think, everybody, everybody with a
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  conscience regarding the mobile ads.
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  Yeah, it's, it's been crazy on social media with crazy videos
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  going around. We've heard about him being
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  exhumed, We've seen videos, autopsy being carried out.
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  We're just waiting for the results of that.
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  But the bone of contention now is that, I mean, we all saw the,
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  you know, procession, candlelight procession and
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  everything both in Lagos and Abuja Enugu.
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  Like, this guy was loved. Not necessarily because most
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  people knew him before his demise, but because of the fact
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  that his lyrics spoke to a lot of people.
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  I mean, when he said that me or more ghetto, all the ghettos
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  stood up. Everybody, if you've been in
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  that situation before, if you've ever lived in a ghetto, if
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  you've ever had an experience, you will relate to that.
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  Just that line got everybody. It's been crazy on social media
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  with people, conspiracy theories.
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  We all know, like the established facts was that this
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  guy has come out online several times, made videos and talked
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  about how Malian records or Malians are after his life.
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  This is a known fact. We have seen videos where the
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  Malian group Sam Larry to be precise, chase this guy flogged
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  him beat him sent people to attack him during video shoots
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  during the whole even during shows he was there was a video
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  yeah just surfaced where he was attacked at LASU.
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  This guy was living in fear according to his mother.
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  She said that her son has always lived in fear because of after
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  leaving the. The issue actually started in
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  2021 when he was not happy with the manager and then the he was
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  having kind of issues with the manager and he thought this is
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  not working for me. He actually wanted to drop the
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  manager's not necessarily the whole record label, but because
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  you know he they according to them, he doesn't have a say who
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  as long as Sam Larry is part of that Malian record, he must
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  manage him. And that was the where the issue
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  started. And Sam, Larry took it personal.
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  This guy, a man with three children chased the 27 year old
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  man until he ended up losing his life.
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  We've seen the procession. We've seen videos.
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  Now the bone of contention is actually people asking for a DNA
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  test for his child. This guy was bullied until he
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  died. I know people.
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  The very dark, is it very dark skinned man or very dark man,
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  whatever he's called, he's just coming out talking about DNA
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  test. I understand that everybody is a
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  suspect in this situation, both the father, both Naira Malice
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  and Larry, whatever Malian, whoever.
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  Everybody is a suspect until proven innocent.
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  But I think that asking a grieving widow for a DNA test is
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  very insensitive, especially when this guy, more bad, claimed
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  this child. It was a video.
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  He introduced the child as lights.
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  Mobile is Imola, which Imola is lights.
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  And he said he introduced the child as light.
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  So regardless of whether this child is adopted, whether the
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  child is not biologically his, it is his child, it is his off
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  they were married. This is not like a relationship
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  situation. These are two married people who
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  a child came forth with their union.
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  Now let me just go back when they were burying Murbad and
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  their ikorodu people or family members could we we saw videos
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  of them accusing the wife, talking about properties the
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  father made so many he granted so many interviews talking about
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  ohh they had landed property has not seen any document that they
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  gave him to 1,000,000 inside. To me, like this guy, this man
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  was just talking about House. This man was talking about
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  properties, very insensitive if you'd ask me bore people grieve
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  differently. And I understand that the online
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  people are now doing the same thing to his wife because of the
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  fact that OK, people said OK, let's raise fund for this boy,
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  let's help Mobad raise his child.
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  This whole thing started when people came together thing today
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  notes said let us raise funds and to help take care of this
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  child. Even that the freeze was talking
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  about sending the wife abroad so that she could start in life
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  because I don't even know the kind of life you want to live in
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  Nigeria anymore. Everybody know who she is.
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  Everybody knows the situation. Everybody knew the
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  circumstances. So it would be very difficult
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  for us to kind of start a new like start a life in Nigeria.
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  So everybody was trying to rally around even some Claire trying
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  to get people get donations talking about starting a go fund
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  me page. This was where once he gets to
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  money everybody like the father, everybody is now talking about
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  money talking about oh before you hand over the money to her
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  they have they they will have to do a DNA test.
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  They have to check if the child belongs to Mobad or they have to
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  see the child does not look like more bad.
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  More bad is the spitting image of his mother literally replica
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  and his son may not look like, I don't know, because this is a
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  child. This is a 5 month old child.
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  OK, let's say he does not look like more bad, he looks like the
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  mother. What is the problem with that?
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  Why are people leaving the main issue at hand, chasing rats,
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  talking about DNA, talking about all all this money that
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  donating, Why do they want to give?
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  Who do you want them to give this money to?
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  I don't get it. If this guy, if more bad, did
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  not have a child, let's say if he was not even if it was a baby
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  mass situation then I could understand.
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  But this is a wife espouse situation.
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  People are coming out online making insensitive statements
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  honest and I want something things like this happen.
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  People have to look you know leave no stone unturned.
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  People have to look at the wife. There was a no deal that was
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  released that said ohh the wife he was trying to accuse the wife
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  or something. I this guy was paranoid before
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  his passing and we can see clearly why he was because
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  definitely people were chasing him.
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  He knew that people they sent people after him but his
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  profession or he's a musician or he was a musician that will have
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  to perform to the audience to the crowd to be able to earn a
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  living. So his hands were tied in that
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  instance so I could understand. Even inside the house, he was
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  paranoid. But then again, what has that
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  got to do is with his wife, we know the people who, Yeah, who
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  made this guy depressed? We know the people who bullied
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  this guy. We know the people who were
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  responsible for his. You know, the lights literally
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  left him. I was watching some videos, old
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  videos. You could see the twinkle in his
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  eyes when he was laughing, when he was dancing, performing, what
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  was the end? He was just like a shell of
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  himself. And we know who is responsible.
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  So let's. In developed countries, there's
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  this story of two Nigerian teenagers who catfished
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  somebody, I think in the US online and made him send nudes.
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  He sends nudes to them and they started using that news to
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  blackmail him. They wanted money.
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  He was sending them. The more, I mean, this is a high
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  school child. He was giving them what he could
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  afford, decided threatening that they were going to release all
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  the news and all that. This guy ended his life as a
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  result of that. These two people have not been
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  extradited to the US to face charges of murder.
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  OK, so they did not directly pull the trigger, but what
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  happened to him was as a direct result of people who were
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  blackmailing him. These people are facing gaol
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  time, almost life imprisonment. Two of them.
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  So I can't understand, OK, they would say they've done autopsy.
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  Maybe something else might might have been the cause of death or
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  whatever they're going to find out in that autopsy.
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  But we know who are responsible now.
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  This guy was bullied. This guy was.
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  He suffered before his death. Why do you want to put his wife
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  and child through that? She is 24 years old.
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  Obvious. I know why people are screaming
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  about this whole thing is because she's going to move on
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  to a different man. She's going to move on and live
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  her life. She is 24.
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  You don't expect her to leave the the rest of her life being a
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  widow? No, she's going to move on.
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  I think the problem here is people are now looking at when
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  it comes to money. People lose their marbles.
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  We were complaining about the father, literally talking about
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  properties, lands, not getting up to fight.
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  You could see, you could see how these things are happening.
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  The mother came out and actually talked about how the son was
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  taking care of her. You know, the son wanted her to
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  stay around. The son wanted.
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  She talked about the son, you know, getting to shops for her.
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  The son, I remember more bad, bought a truck for the dad and
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  people were like, oh, this is what you're buying for your
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  father. Hey, move band, I think people
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  coming from Gatos. I mean, most of half of
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  Nigerians, Nigerian youths came from the ghettos.
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  Now there's a difference between a ghetto, a slum, and a middle
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  class. 90% of Nigerian youths are from the ghettos.
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  Let's not pretend about it. This is why this case is so
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  relatable to people. And when you are coming out from
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  that place and you're trying to to to to get out of that waters,
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  you easily get dropped, drawn back into it.
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  Because Papa wants, Mama wants siblings wants, extended family
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  wants. Your friends are looking at you
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  like, OK, I need something help me and you're just trying to
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  breathe fresh air before you even It wasn't like he was not
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  trying to help the family. He was doing his best.
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  Music requires money to produce. He I am very sure he was doing
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  the best that he could plus the challenges he was having with
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  the Malian group. But at the same time the society
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  we are still now trying to bully him, even in that victimising
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  his widow, his child, doubting the legitimacy, OK, you go and
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  do the journey and then the child is not his.
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  What happens to to to to to to the child?
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  What happens to him? There was a lawyer that
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  explained this very well. That said, in a marriage, once a
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  child is born, in a marriage the child belongs to the man, the
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  couple. What is yours or not?
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  That child is going to answer your name.
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  That's and that's. That's tradition.
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  That's African tradition. So whether you want to accuse
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  her of cheating, of bringing a pregnancy, does not.
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  These people, they've been together for 10 years.
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  So I I I don't. I don't understand.
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  I don't. I don't get it.
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  She did not cheat when he was Imola Carpenter.
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  More bad the Carpenter. It is now that he is an
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  international star. Travelling to shows that he will
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  she will now start cheating. People should respect people's
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  privacy. The very dark skin man.
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  Have you got do DNA you this. Well, before you ask anybody for
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  DNA, make sure that you've done a DNA on yourself.
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  You know that's OK. This is my mother.
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  This is my father's. These are my parents.
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  Before you start asking people for DNA's.
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  He's so insensitive just because of money, just because of money.
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  The Malian group chased him because of money.
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  When he died, his father buried him within 24 hours because of
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  money. The father granted interview
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  after he died because of money and now the society who are
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  protesting, trying to protect, you know, his rights, trying to
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  seek justice for him, They're still doing the same thing.
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  Where do we go from here? All I can say is anybody coming
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  from the ghettos, anybody coming from a situation where you're
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  trying to get out of something and you know you can see that
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  you need to leave people behind. You need to leave people behind.
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  This guy was facing so many demons.
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  I am not saying that his marriage was perfect because
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  there were so many text messages.
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  She was recording him the the, the sister was trying to explain
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  her way out of the whole thing. Their marriage, obviously was
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  not perfect. Nobody.
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  Nobody's marriage is perfect. You very dusky.
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  May your relationship your girlfriend is probably cheating
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  on you or you're probably cheating on her.
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  Nobody knows that. So for you to now people to now
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  start judging their relationship or judging, nobody will be in a
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  relationship for more than five years and you've not said
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  certain things to that person that is.
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  That is a blatant lie. OK, you must you would have said
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  there are things that you have said that if it comes to light
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  you will you would hide your your, your head in shame.
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  But that is relationship. That is two people dealing with
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  their, their, their BS together. That is not our business.
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  People should just stay away. Let's seek justice and get
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  justice for this young man and stop bringing up DNA test.
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  The child does not look like him.
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  The child does not. He in fact, they even said that
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  he has another child. That one woman in a Kitty said
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  she had a child for him. Now she was pregnant and he told
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  her to give it. See.
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  I don't know. I don't know where we go from
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  here. This is a young man that was
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  bullied. He was chased, he spoke out and
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  at the end of the day, we're still doing the same thing to
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  his family. The wife, sister has threatened
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  300 million lawsuits. It's so sad.
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  It is sad. And we just pray that everything
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  turned out, you know, the way that people are hoping.
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  Because I can see another protest brewing because let's
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  say the police come out now and say, oh, he had a heart attack,
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  He died of heart attack. People are going to start
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  protesting because once Naira Mali and Sam Larry don't get
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  any, not even a slap on the wrist is going to be another
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  issue. I think everybody should just
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  calm down. He he there's no there's no
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  amount of, I don't know how to put it that will bring him back.
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  What we can do now is support his child and his wife and
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  anybody that is not trying to do that should go and be looking
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  for Sam, Larry and Naira Mali even That is what you can do, Go
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  and do it. Allow the police to do their
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  job. The father is not coming out to
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  say that. OK, I will say it's that man,
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  that man, that man weary. And that man can say it's but
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  let's not distract ourselves. This guy introduced, there was
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  videos coming out where he introduced her as his wife.
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  He said, Ohh, my wife would know that you did this for me.
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  So it was not like he was hiding it, but he just didn't want.
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  I think he was a very private person.
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  We all should learn from this whole thing.
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  There are friends that you're not supposed to be friends with.
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  There are circle that are you're not supposed to be in.
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  Not every friend is a friend. So on friends who collude with
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  your family, they will. They definitely they will.
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  But how you take yourself out of that situation would guarantee
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  your mental health. Don't let anybody push you.
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  Don't let any, even family members, anybody that is waiting
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  for you to to do and bring on more.
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  Go and do your own. See this man, the man's father
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  was trying to be a musician and failed at his.
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  And then he's now saying the son did not give him 500,000 landed
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  properties. This, this, that, that.
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  And the same online people are trying to do the same to his
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  child. Let's be guided.
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  Let's be guided. Anyway, that's all I have to say
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  for today. I mean, we're still waiting for
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  the autopsy results and I will still come back here and give
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  you updates based on that. But I pray that he gets justice.
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  I pray that sound Larry and Nirmali should come and answer.
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  They will have to answer question.
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  They will have to Thank you very much for watching today's
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  episode. Please like, like, like and
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  share. Thank you very much.
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  Bye, bye.