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EP 26 - WHY DON'T MEN CELEBRATE EACH OTHER ? · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables, take care, I can't like to listen. Yeah,
• 0:06
  Speaker 1: once again she ended the phone call.
• 0:09
  Speaker 2: She hit us with her reddlef and she power moved us.
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  Speaker 2: We told her and she ended the call.
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  Speaker 3: Relatable relati.
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  Speaker 4: Bodie, would you rather twenty thousand dollars a week but
• 0:30
  Speaker 4: you work a nine to five in an office? Or
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  Speaker 4: one thousand dollars a week for doing completely nothing?
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  Speaker 1: Oh shit, ae thousand dollars a week. That's only fifty
• 0:42
  Speaker 1: four grand a year, or for doing nothing? But it
• 0:46
  Speaker 1: was twenty times fifty four a lot doing nothing? Can
• 0:54
  Speaker 1: I make money on the side with a thousand happened? Oh?
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  Speaker 3: I can, sure?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I reckon, I'll cop the that sounds that makes
• 1:01
  Speaker 1: me sound weird. But twenty grand a week for doing
• 1:06
  Speaker 1: an office job is like most people's jobs. But you
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  Speaker 1: usually don't make twenty grand a week. That makes me
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  Speaker 1: sound so extra. But then they don't have the option
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  Speaker 1: to do nothing, do they? What does that mean? Like
• 1:17
  Speaker 1: O for a thousand dollars, I'm going to go with yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm looking into nothing, say a thousand bucks a week
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  Speaker 1: for doing nothing. In my adult years, I'm really starting
• 1:27
  Speaker 1: to appreciate peace. Well, I want to appreciate peace, but
• 1:30
  Speaker 1: I don't.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you're not good at it, but you know that
• 1:35
  Speaker 4: it's a good thing to do.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I reckon you know how, like everyone dies for
• 1:38
  Speaker 1: a certain reason, cancer, old age, random shit, whatever. It
• 1:43
  Speaker 1: stress kills people. Wait, I think stress is more than anything,
• 1:46
  Speaker 1: and it contributes to all these different factors. I think
• 1:48
  Speaker 1: stress kills people. Yeah, And like I would say, I'd
• 1:50
  Speaker 1: pretty stressed. I wonder how stressed you be if you
• 1:54
  Speaker 1: did nothing, That's what I mean. And like the stress
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  Speaker 1: is coming from out theory of sources. That's fucking pulled
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  Speaker 1: me in.
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  Speaker 4: Here's the thing is, do you think you would experience
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  Speaker 4: less stress with twenty thousand dollars a week and all
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  Speaker 4: you're doing is just going to your nine to five.
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  Speaker 4: You gotta work eight hours a day, five days a week.
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  Speaker 4: You come home and switch off. You never just that,
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  Speaker 4: you know, no, but it is.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but what the eight hours I'm there, people will
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  Speaker 1: probably be.
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  Speaker 3: Like, oh, you've got a deadline to do this.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, it's just I'm talking just normal.
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  Speaker 4: Like you're not a manager, You're just the fucking paper pusher,
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  Speaker 4: like chilling at a desk for eight hours a day.
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  Speaker 4: Getting bored, and you make twenty grand a week getting bored.
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  Speaker 1: But if that moment I'm staying with my hands are
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  Speaker 1: stop trying to swade me?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, what about you?
• 2:40
  Speaker 1: What about you? There's a part of me that really
• 2:42
  Speaker 1: wants that money.
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  Speaker 3: This is an easy answer for you, though.
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  Speaker 1: There's a part of me.
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  Speaker 4: That does really want the the twenty thousand dollars a week.
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  Speaker 1: And I go out and just live.
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  Speaker 4: My life on the afternoons and on the weekends, and
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  Speaker 4: I just like, really, you know, live lavish. Yeah, And
• 3:02
  Speaker 4: then there is a part of me that the thousand
• 3:04
  Speaker 4: dollars is appealing for doing absolutely nothing. But I think
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  Speaker 4: that I'm going to choose the twenty thousand a week
• 3:12
  Speaker 4: doing a nine to five.
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  Speaker 1: For the structure.
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  Speaker 4: So the constant structure and purpose then mixed with the
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  Speaker 4: also the fact that it's a lot of.
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  Speaker 5: Money is their purpose.
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  Speaker 1: Though your purpose is you go to work.
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  Speaker 4: You don't get your twenty thousand dollars a week anymore,
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  Speaker 4: and you, I don't know, maybe part.
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  Speaker 5: Of the conditions is you die.
• 3:33
  Speaker 1: If you just stop working, you die. I will say,
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  Speaker 1: I'm surprised of that, but think about it and really
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  Speaker 1: think about it. Yeah, I'm thinking I've thought about it
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  Speaker 1: when I answered.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, well so your reason for the thousand dollars
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  Speaker 4: a week is, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I'll have the thousand dollars on the side I don't
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  Speaker 1: live the life I want to live, and then I'll
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  Speaker 1: start some side hustles that I'm passionate for, okay, fair
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  Speaker 1: and like fall in love with something and like I
• 3:56
  Speaker 1: don't know, sell knitting or something.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and then I guess in the back of your
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  Speaker 4: head you coul alway drop everything and keep getting a
• 4:01
  Speaker 4: thousand bucks a week.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, And I could easily, like if I didn't
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  Speaker 1: have like you or a girlfriend or something like that,
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  Speaker 1: live in Balley. Thousand dollars a week, you're chilling anywhere,
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  Speaker 1: like I'm chilling for the rest of my life. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's a good point. That's a good point. You could go.
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  Speaker 4: Anywhere and just do what you want at a very
• 4:20
  Speaker 4: low overhead's lifestyle.
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  Speaker 1: Australia, stress with money, fucking the budget, bloody negative, gearing
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  Speaker 1: up yours. I'm out of here, mate, obviously, you know what.
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  Speaker 4: Another part of me also wouldn't mind, like the thousand
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  Speaker 4: dollars a week and you go, so the only thing
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  Speaker 4: with the thousand dollars a week is like, that's nothing
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  Speaker 4: to turn your nose up at, especially because you're doing nothing.
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  Speaker 4: But also in today's day and age, very difficult to
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  Speaker 4: save enough to like buy something and afford to pay
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  Speaker 4: for that thing, like a mortgage or.
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  Speaker 1: Dollars a week. Yeah, I know, and we do so much.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah true, but so that's where my thing.
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  Speaker 4: But it would be nice to go to do a
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  Speaker 4: thousand bucks a week and just live on a farm
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  Speaker 4: and live off the land or something.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. That's my dream of farm. Just be
• 5:09
  Speaker 1: old and do like data day task a lawn, pick
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  Speaker 1: some apples and shit. Sounds really nice. And then I reckon.
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  Speaker 1: I get over it after a week. Oh yeah, oh no,
• 5:19
  Speaker 1: I reckon a gym.
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  Speaker 3: That's all.
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  Speaker 1: I need a gym close to the beach and a farm.
• 5:25
  Speaker 1: And I'm happy, mate, But it's always the grass. You're
• 5:28
  Speaker 1: literally two out of three and you're not happy. I
• 5:32
  Speaker 1: like being three out of three. I'm happy, happy and
• 5:35
  Speaker 1: stressed a different thing. True, Yeah, I'm happy, just stressed.
• 5:41
  Speaker 1: The Roulata Was podcast is hosted by myself, Oddie Clark,
• 5:44
  Speaker 1: ak Mummy, and my partner in crime, Miss the Jake.
• 5:48
  Speaker 3: Craig aka Daddy.
• 5:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and all you guys listening, Ah, the.
• 5:53
  Speaker 3: Baddies, you are bad to the bone.
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  Speaker 1: But Jake, I wanted the top end of the episode
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  Speaker 1: for a certain reason, as a lot of you know
• 6:02
  Speaker 1: Jake especially, I am a marketplace menace.
• 6:07
  Speaker 5: That's a good I like that marketplace menace.
• 6:10
  Speaker 1: Facebook marketplace menace.
• 6:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 6:12
  Speaker 1: Fmm. I've got an addiction, an unhealthy addiction. I'll love
• 6:16
  Speaker 1: to scrolling that thing, and I'll scrolling the other day
• 6:18
  Speaker 1: as I do. That's where I get relaxed, Jake. That's
• 6:20
  Speaker 1: where I feel peace when I'm scrolling on Facebook market Some.
• 6:23
  Speaker 4: People kind of look forward to taking a shit going
• 6:28
  Speaker 4: on their phones and scroll on Instagram while they're at work.
• 6:32
  Speaker 4: You look forward to taking a shit scroll on Facebook Marketplace.
• 6:35
  Speaker 1: It was just like any other day.
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  Speaker 3: I was scrolling.
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  Speaker 1: Don't know what I was doing, but I was scrolling,
• 6:40
  Speaker 1: and up pops a Sony FX thirty camera, which for
• 6:44
  Speaker 1: all the bays listening is what we record on. Yes,
• 6:47
  Speaker 1: and in the background there's a lot of boring shit
• 6:48
  Speaker 1: where we need a new camera, but they're quite expensive,
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  Speaker 1: retails about twenty four hundred secondhand. That's without a lens
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  Speaker 1: by the way. Yeah, yeah, secondhand, they're about two grands
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  Speaker 1: a good deal and this one was for eighteen hundred,
• 7:01
  Speaker 1: and I did my thing. I messaged him and said, hey, mate,
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  Speaker 1: loadboard him. Would you take fifteen hundred? Didn't think he
• 7:09
  Speaker 1: would say yes, And then it came back with some
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  Speaker 1: bullshit blow blow blow, it's the cheapest on the market.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care. I'm a menace. I said, oh, best,
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  Speaker 1: I can do sixteen hundred. He left it for like
• 7:20
  Speaker 1: two days on red and I was like, ah, this
• 7:22
  Speaker 1: this has fallen through taken the loss. And then I
• 7:26
  Speaker 1: get a message and it said the start of it,
• 7:28
  Speaker 1: you know how on your phone. Only like the first
• 7:30
  Speaker 1: like couple of lines come up. It said, oh oddie.
• 7:33
  Speaker 1: I didn't realize it was you do you know them?
• 7:37
  Speaker 1: Or do they know you? And my egotistical mind immediately thought,
• 7:41
  Speaker 1: oh fuck about his lowboard.
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  Speaker 3: Like a baddie.
• 7:45
  Speaker 1: And like my gun kind of stuck like like loadboard
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  Speaker 1: and pretty hard.
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  Speaker 3: Sometimes feel bad like if I.
• 7:50
  Speaker 1: Know you, but if I don't know you, fucking you anyway,
• 7:53
  Speaker 1: also bad for me. It wasn't a baddie. It was
• 7:56
  Speaker 1: my brother's friend. In my defense, my brother has this
• 8:03
  Speaker 1: weird thing in all his group where they don't use
• 8:05
  Speaker 1: their real names on like social media, so his last
• 8:06
  Speaker 1: name was different. But I also wouldn't have clocked I
• 8:09
  Speaker 1: didn't have a Scooby Doo. And then so he goes
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  Speaker 1: at the bottom of that message it said hey, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'll take.
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  Speaker 5: Sixteen hundred legend.
• 8:19
  Speaker 1: I was like, fucking know, if this is a two
• 8:20
  Speaker 1: thousand and four camera for six it's pretty new as well. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's in great Nick and he's the kicker. I want
• 8:27
  Speaker 1: to tell you if you would have done what I did, Oh,
• 8:31
  Speaker 1: tell me how you feel as well, so we can
• 8:34
  Speaker 1: this turn into me. This is great, it's a great deal.
• 8:37
  Speaker 1: I caught up with him. He's part of a band
• 8:39
  Speaker 1: that like I like, and we're talking about what they're
• 8:41
  Speaker 1: doing and stuff, and he talked about the podcast and
• 8:43
  Speaker 1: then brings out the camera and he goes, oh, there's
• 8:48
  Speaker 1: one issue. But I was like, oh, yeah, what is
• 8:50
  Speaker 1: it? It's in Japanese.
• 8:56
  Speaker 3: And I go, I go oh.
• 8:58
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh okay, And I immediately thought, firstly,
• 9:01
  Speaker 1: I remember on our cameras there's a language setting my hand.
• 9:04
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, yeah, like that's a little bit annoying,
• 9:06
  Speaker 1: but I'm sure, I can change it. So I was like, oh,
• 9:09
  Speaker 1: I can, I can. I can deal with that. And
• 9:10
  Speaker 1: then I also thought like, if for some reason we
• 9:12
  Speaker 1: can't figure it out, it's like a BCAM for us.
• 9:14
  Speaker 1: We can put it next to our cameras we've got
• 9:16
  Speaker 1: in English and get the right set. But it was
• 9:21
  Speaker 1: one of those split decision, split time decision like moments
• 9:25
  Speaker 1: we had to like say yes or no right there,
• 9:26
  Speaker 1: and then in the back of my mind, I'm like,
• 9:28
  Speaker 1: I've driven twenty minutes for this. I'm not going home
• 9:30
  Speaker 1: without it.
• 9:31
  Speaker 3: Oh shit.
• 9:33
  Speaker 1: So I was like, sure, yeah, yeah, I'll buy it,
• 9:34
  Speaker 1: and I went home and tried to look up how
• 9:37
  Speaker 1: to get back to English and reset it. Nothing pops up.
• 9:42
  Speaker 1: Put it all on chat GBT like transfer this to English.
• 9:46
  Speaker 1: There's no language thing on a Japanese I think what
• 9:50
  Speaker 1: he's done maybe and he didn't tell me, or he
• 9:52
  Speaker 1: bought it from someone who's bought the actual camera from Japan.
• 9:55
  Speaker 1: So we are the proud owners. I was so Jacos
• 10:00
  Speaker 1: half of this FX thirty that works and it's in
• 10:04
  Speaker 1: great condition, but it's in Japanese. Do I Lingo do
• 10:08
  Speaker 1: O Lingo?
• 10:09
  Speaker 3: Hit us up for a sponsorship and teach us Japanese.
• 10:12
  Speaker 1: The good thing is we have these cameras to like
• 10:14
  Speaker 1: sink them to and then we can just leave them.
• 10:16
  Speaker 1: And how we actually record is we don't like set
• 10:17
  Speaker 1: the cameras up every single time, so it works. We
• 10:19
  Speaker 1: don't need to touch and that that camera will never
• 10:21
  Speaker 1: be touched. Wow. Wait, so we have a camera that's
• 10:26
  Speaker 1: just in Japanese.
• 10:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought that's kind of cool. By day.
• 10:29
  Speaker 5: How come we doesn't how can we come we switch?
• 10:31
  Speaker 1: I don't know, like you can do you remember back
• 10:33
  Speaker 1: in the day how you could jail break like xboxes
• 10:35
  Speaker 1: and iPhones, So you can do that and apparently that
• 10:37
  Speaker 1: gets it back.
• 10:38
  Speaker 5: Oh cool, okay, we can try that.
• 10:39
  Speaker 3: We could look into that.
• 10:40
  Speaker 1: But then also I was like, once we set it up,
• 10:42
  Speaker 1: we're taking actually fifteen minutes to go through like DUELINGO
• 10:44
  Speaker 1: or Google Translate.
• 10:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and then.
• 10:46
  Speaker 1: It's like set up every Yeah, and like the front
• 10:48
  Speaker 1: screen still has numbers, like they still use numbers.
• 10:52
  Speaker 3: Obviously, yeah like one oh.
• 10:54
  Speaker 4: Wait no, some countries have a different numerical system, right
• 10:56
  Speaker 4: right right, yeah, yah, they still use our numbers.
• 10:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 11:01
  Speaker 1: So like all like changing the shutter speed and shit's
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: all the same, Okay, okay, Like it's not just like
• 11:06
  Speaker 1: I think. I like that, it's a bit of character,
• 11:08
  Speaker 1: that's got a bit of personality.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, I've got the it's a because these
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  Speaker 4: ones are current three cameras we have obviously now have
• 11:15
  Speaker 4: a fourth. Our current three cameras are in English, and
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  Speaker 4: I saved eight hundred dollars, and to me worth it,
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  Speaker 4: Let's be real, if every single one of these were
• 11:24
  Speaker 4: in Japanese and we saved eight hundred bucks on each one,
• 11:27
  Speaker 4: I would have done that too.
• 11:28
  Speaker 1: Let's be real, let's be actually real.
• 11:31
  Speaker 4: What I think is quite funny is it's like it's
• 11:33
  Speaker 4: like it's a foreign exchange student in our land of
• 11:36
  Speaker 4: English camera.
• 11:38
  Speaker 1: I hope it it's in all right.
• 11:41
  Speaker 5: Wait on the topic of foreign exchange students.
• 11:43
  Speaker 4: Right, So, my my cousin came to Queensland for like
• 11:47
  Speaker 4: a week and she was staying at my parents place
• 11:51
  Speaker 4: and then obviously Beth andized granny Flat is on my
• 11:54
  Speaker 4: dad's property. Yeah, and so my youngest sister, Haley, she's nineteen,
• 11:58
  Speaker 4: and she was coming out and so like Emily and
• 12:01
  Speaker 4: my cousin, she would come and hang out with us.
• 12:03
  Speaker 1: And so Haley also came out and was just hanging
• 12:05
  Speaker 1: out with us a lot, and we were.
• 12:05
  Speaker 4: Just like chatting, like one afternoon. I don't know what
• 12:08
  Speaker 4: we'd done, but we're just chilling in the lounge room
• 12:10
  Speaker 4: chatting and my younger sister Hailey starts going on about
• 12:15
  Speaker 4: how she's got She goes, oh, how's I've got this
• 12:18
  Speaker 4: friend named Fanny.
• 12:21
  Speaker 5: And we were like, what you mean you have a
• 12:24
  Speaker 5: friend named Fanny.
• 12:26
  Speaker 1: Francis gets Fanny is the name Francis Francis No.
• 12:29
  Speaker 4: So so she goes, yeah, she's not from She's from Sweden.
• 12:33
  Speaker 5: And it's like a common name in Sweden is Fanny.
• 12:36
  Speaker 1: Oh is it? And I was like that's kind of cool.
• 12:38
  Speaker 3: I was like, okay, cool, cool cool.
• 12:40
  Speaker 1: And I was like, how did you meet her? And
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: she goes, oh, no, she lives in Sweden.
• 12:44
  Speaker 4: I was like what she goes, it's she goes mom,
• 12:47
  Speaker 4: like my stepmom, her mother when she was a kid,
• 12:51
  Speaker 4: had a pen pal from Sweden, which to me sounds
• 12:57
  Speaker 4: like a made up story.
• 12:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like cover your kid's ears, like you're right,
• 13:01
  Speaker 1: a lad of the Santa.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: But so I actually remember in like year two, they
• 13:08
  Speaker 4: did this whole pen pal thing and I had a
• 13:10
  Speaker 4: pen power.
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  Speaker 3: It's real.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I have had a pen pound in the past, but
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  Speaker 5: I forgot about it.
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  Speaker 1: AnyWho hope he's going all right.
• 13:17
  Speaker 5: I'm sure they are right.
• 13:19
  Speaker 1: AnyWho reckon he sees you online?
• 13:22
  Speaker 2: No way, Rod like, I don't know if I don't
• 13:24
  Speaker 2: even remember if it was a man or a woman,
• 13:26
  Speaker 2: it was a boy or girl.
• 13:26
  Speaker 5: It's time to be fair.
• 13:27
  Speaker 4: They were young, but basically so, my stepmom has somehow
• 13:32
  Speaker 4: kept in touch with her pen pow from primary school
• 13:35
  Speaker 4: and then as they grew up, you know, social media
• 13:38
  Speaker 4: comes in. They find each other on social media. They
• 13:40
  Speaker 4: keep in touch. That way they keep in touch. They
• 13:41
  Speaker 4: still keep in touch to this day. Kate, my stepmom
• 13:45
  Speaker 4: has a daughter, Hailey, and my younger sister, her pen
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  Speaker 4: power has a daughter Fanny at the similar time. There's
• 13:50
  Speaker 4: similar ages. And then and then Haley goes, yeah, Fanny's
• 13:54
  Speaker 4: gonna come live in Australia at our house at near
• 13:56
  Speaker 4: the end of the year. And I was like, what
• 13:57
  Speaker 4: are you talking about?
• 13:58
  Speaker 1: I was like, no, she's not. I was like, how
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: was the first time? Was just the first time I've
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: ever heard of Fanny. This could be like another case
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: of your imaginary friend justin and it runs in the
• 14:07
  Speaker 1: Craig family. To be fair, not to be mean, Hailey
• 14:12
  Speaker 1: doesn't have a huge amount of friend Yeah, Jake's oh,
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  Speaker 1: I've got this first friend, never seen him, and then
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: he was like, I've got this. I've got this pem power.
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: We've been riding for years. Literally we know it's actually
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: Kate Jake step Kate's feeling that.
• 14:25
  Speaker 4: She's like yeah, yeah, and then just like comes to
• 14:28
  Speaker 4: the time when Fanni is supposed to come in and
• 14:29
  Speaker 4: she goes, you can't come.
• 14:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, unfortunately, I'll tell you what is that?
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: Like that immediately made me thought of, like what men
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: do instead of pen paling is have like Xbox buddies, okay,
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: and like that play Call of Duty with like a
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: guy who lives on the other side of the world
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: or in a different state for years and years and
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: years and years, and you build this relationship online. Haven't
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: you seen the videos of like meeting my Call of
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: Duty buddy for the first time and then they like
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: meeting like hugging kiss and shiit I lost a ship
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: on that one bad.
• 15:02
  Speaker 3: Wait wait is this thing?
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 15:05
  Speaker 6: Wait, look look good enough on TikTok and it's like
• 15:08
  Speaker 6: like two like forty year old men, Like they're kind
• 15:10
  Speaker 6: of cute, like they got all like beers and shit,
• 15:12
  Speaker 6: and then they get all emotional because it's like they
• 15:13
  Speaker 6: call a duty friend from when they're like sixteen and
• 15:16
  Speaker 6: they've kept playing because they're game of boys.
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: It's really cute. That actually is adorable.
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and like four men, there's something about having something
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: in the background where you can communicate your feelings. And
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: they've gone through life together and never knowing each other
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: and probably kept in touch on social media and shit too.
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: But I remember when I was in high school and
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: shit too.
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: Like what men.
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: Our best mate Guffy, we used to do just like
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: jump on at six like he's just done that for
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: twenty years, Like I stopped. Imagine that. Imagine the relationship
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: you would form, Like it's like three four hoeurs a
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: fucking day of gaming together. So because so you can
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: just go on game online.
• 15:46
  Speaker 4: I don't know if it's obvious to any about it,
• 15:48
  Speaker 4: but I didn't really play video games, so you could
• 15:50
  Speaker 4: go on and play an online game and just be
• 15:52
  Speaker 4: chatting to a random from America and like we.
• 15:56
  Speaker 5: Live in Australia. That's pretty cool.
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, fox Chat or in game feed and like
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: Mike set up. Yeah, and like it happens all the time.
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: Like normally two players at the same level meet and
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: go like, oh do you want to team up? And
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: then they start the form a relationship and they fuck.
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: But there's any bit, there's been any like the fucking
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: game they actually do fucking game because sometimes they're like
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: a male character and like a female and in like
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: world a walkcraft or something pretty interesting. What about like
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: Dorenking any men and women, a man and a woman
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: or even a man and a man, Like you've fallen
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: in love? Yeah, like homosexual relationship or or lesbian relationship?
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: Have they fallen in love via online?
• 16:34
  Speaker 3: Like no badies?
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: Have any of you fallen in love online? Like not
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: through Tinder? Like through like yeah yeah, yeah, no, we're
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: talking about online gaming, imagine, like yeah, you shot me
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: in there. I felt like it was the one. Wait,
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: how do you even to be fair? Though?
• 16:47
  Speaker 4: Like I guess like you've said it before you go.
• 16:52
  Speaker 4: For some reason, men find it a lot easier, like
• 16:57
  Speaker 4: to open up when you're not looking another man in
• 17:00
  Speaker 4: the face. It feels less vulnerable nearly, and.
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: Like it could be the equivalent of a walk Yeah, like.
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: You could be playing a video game and then maybe
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: someone's like, how is your day, and you just you know,
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: you go, you know what, actually it was really shit,
• 17:12
  Speaker 4: like this happened, and this happened, and then they can
• 17:14
  Speaker 4: be like, oh my god, like I've been through that
• 17:17
  Speaker 4: or and it's just like you've are you know, feel
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: safe behind the fact that it's virtual.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, And I think there's something. There's definitely something
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: in feeling safe in your own environment, Like there's no
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: safer place than your own room, yeah, or your living room,
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: rather than like going out and like being in an
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: environment I get over stimulated too, and they don't know
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: what you look like.
• 17:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and there's some sort of safety in them if
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: they were like you know, if you've opened up and
• 17:44
  Speaker 4: then they were a dick, there's some sort of safety
• 17:46
  Speaker 4: in knowing that, like you can just block them and
• 17:49
  Speaker 4: be like, well, I won't do that again.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: I'm calling it now too. There's going to be a
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: Netflix documentary on like meeting through call of duty or
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: something that probably already is. Yeah, a Netflix stock on
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: like everything at the moment, this sig Netflix documentary on
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: actually pretty much everything.
• 18:02
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I used to love was I
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: think they used to like run them on TV was
• 18:08
  Speaker 4: how it's made.
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: How the Netflix documentaries are made. No, no, no, no no,
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: how it's made videos. So it's like they would have
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: an episode of how it's made, and it'd be like
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: how it's made pringles.
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: Well, they do like how it's made, golf balls, how
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: it's made this, and it's just it's just and it's.
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: Golf balls.
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: To be completely fair, my guilty pleasure is Alex Steele
• 18:30
  Speaker 4: on YouTube. Been watching him since I was like sixteen seventeen,
• 18:34
  Speaker 4: and he's a blacksmith metal worker.
• 18:37
  Speaker 5: I have zero interest in that.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: Give me two more. You said, pringles, golf balls, two
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: more things. I've watched.
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: Condom.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: I've watched how it's made condoms. That's interesting. I've watched
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: how it's made gummy bears they how do you do
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: interesting theory there?
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: Actually?
• 18:50
  Speaker 5: How were condoms made?
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: Did they have to test run them couples have to
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: have sex?
• 18:54
  Speaker 7: No.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: The way they test run them is blowing them up
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: like a balloon until they pop. Oh, it's like a
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: pressure gate.
• 19:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah, so it's like how much pressure can be put
• 19:02
  Speaker 4: into it?
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: Because that is a.
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: Kid like, what are you doing?
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: Surely blow so yeah, you you you have to.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: They would put them.
• 19:12
  Speaker 4: They put them in like this case, and then they
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: put them over obviously an air compressor and they shoot
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: air until it pops. And I think, like how long
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: or how big it gets is it's like obviously air
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: tight and that batch was all the same.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: And do you know how sometimes you have that random
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: thought where you're like, oh, where's my passport?
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: I sometimes still think, like I wonder what that condoms doing.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: That was in my wallet for like six years?
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: Do you ever think about that? I don't have it anymore.
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: I was never the type to hold I didn't think
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: that highly of myself.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: It became kind of like, uh, you know when you
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: check on a night out phone bill at keys phone,
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: will the keys check it's in there? I also, I
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: got my phone on my kids.
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: Don't that conduct in case I need it?
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: And you never used it?
• 19:55
  Speaker 4: I assume because I remember being told never put it
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: on them in your wallet.
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think I would.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: I think like the time, I remember like I had
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: a few dry spells when I was like eighteen or
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: twenty one or whatever.
• 20:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I had a few dry spells that were like
• 20:08
  Speaker 4: fucking years long.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think, I think, I remember, like I remember vividly.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: It was like tam I, it was like a girl's
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: weekend who I was getting with her from somewhere else
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: and went back to their place and then they just
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: had like this bowl full of condoms in the in
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: the living room, same sex. And I was like, I've
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: been carrying this bad boy around, so use it.
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I got to use a fresh one.
• 20:29
  Speaker 4: How you should have done so just like replaced it
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: like chucked yours out, chucked yours out, taken two, used
• 20:35
  Speaker 4: one that night, put the other one in someone up.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: No, no, I check in the bin.
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: You can't fucking teesus. I saw this.
• 20:41
  Speaker 5: I saw a funny, fucking Family Guy episode.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: Right, I don't like Family Guy really look fair. I
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: was Simpsons and Futrama, I like, I like like all
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: of them. South Park either can't get around South Park.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: To be honest with you, do you might like Family Guy?
• 20:57
  Speaker 5: Now?
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: Any understand it more?
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: Brother really liked it.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: So a couple of episodes like Megan shit like she's
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: a bit of a me. It is very funny. AnyWho.
• 21:06
  Speaker 5: I watched the Lois and Peter.
• 21:09
  Speaker 4: They meet a couple and they're like their age, but
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: they're super fit, healthy and just have like the best
• 21:17
  Speaker 4: sex life and they have no children, and so this
• 21:21
  Speaker 4: whole episode was about how like no children, you're a
• 21:23
  Speaker 4: lot happier or some shit. And Peter's obviously very fat
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: and Lois has like obviously settled for Peter, and they
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: like don't have a great sex life and this is
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: either sorry, this is either family or American Dad or
• 21:39
  Speaker 4: American dad any who the couple, So Peter and Lowis
• 21:43
  Speaker 4: will stick with family guy, but I think it's American Dad.
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: Peter and Lowis are like, fuck these guys, right, They
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: sneak into their bedroom, they get a pin, and they
• 21:51
  Speaker 4: pop a hole in every single condom small enough so
• 21:53
  Speaker 4: they don't see, and then they fall pregnant. The Happy
• 21:57
  Speaker 4: Couple four is pregnant and then they get a divorce.
• 21:59
  Speaker 4: But once then they have the kid, and Peter and
• 22:00
  Speaker 4: loves are like, let's I was like Jesus Christ.
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: Bro some of those shows, especially like south Park.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: What they had to pick is that it really dark sometimes, yeah,
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: like really really dark. South Park's fucking nah we do yeah.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: I as a kid, I always well, I like soft
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: stuff is the way I put it.
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: Like Futrama, Simpsons, like not that deep. It was like
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: the more you look into it, like I do like
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: being an adult though, and like you listen to certain
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: songs and like, oh yeah, Scooby Doo that was a
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: classic one. There's heaps of references to drugs in that.
• 22:30
  Speaker 5: Really Oh yeah yeah, yeah, they smoke a bunch of weeks.
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah.
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: But then like and also you listen to songs and
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: then I'll tell you what was funny. I saw a
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: video go viral the other day and I remember singing
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: it it was is it?
• 22:41
  Speaker 5: Is it?
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: Jlo? It's like I just had sick saying it felt
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: so good?
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: You think that that was written by Jlo?
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: Who was it? Are you insane?
• 22:53
  Speaker 5: Who was it?
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: Dude?
• 22:55
  Speaker 4: Please have a couple of guesses, because it wasn't Jaylo.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: It was the Brooklyn nine nine guy was in it,
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: Jake Perrault. Yeah, and then.
• 23:03
  Speaker 4: Who's the he used to have a band or he
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: had a little group. It was I just had and
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: he's like they also had a couple of I can't.
• 23:10
  Speaker 5: Confused with Sean Kingston. Hell, I don't know.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: That was a good song too, But what what did Sean.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: What does Sean Kingston sing?
• 23:18
  Speaker 5: I don't think you know anything I know?
• 23:21
  Speaker 4: Also Sean Kingston, Yeah, like a convicted rapist. Yeah, you
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: don't listen to him anymore, so Sean So no, so
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: Jake Prault.
• 23:34
  Speaker 5: What's his real name?
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 23:37
  Speaker 5: Andy Samberg?
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: Andy Samberg sings just I just had said it's Andy Samberg?
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: Who was it? Then?
• 23:43
  Speaker 4: And so no, it's Andy Samberg who sings it? I
• 23:47
  Speaker 4: just had sex and I felt so good.
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: But who like produces it? Ah?
• 23:50
  Speaker 5: Shit, Andy Samberg?
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: And he has this Acon That's what I'm thinking. Oh, yeah,
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: akon Is That's who I was jlo Acon. That's memory
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: Lonely Island, the Lonely Island.
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: So I remember, like being twelve.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: Do you remember a song about Lonely Island that was like?
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: And I just in my.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: Past I remember singing that or talking about riddles?
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: You know how you love it?
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: Riddle?
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: Did you ever?
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: It got stuck in my head. It's like the peanut
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: riddle was a peanut? How much peanuts? O?
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: Dude? You actually I actually.
• 24:37
  Speaker 4: Think that you're from a different planet pretending to be
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: a human, because what you're thinking of is how much
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: wood could have wood, cho wood or whatever.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: Peanut butter, jelly baddie, someone, someone give me that riddle
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: was like there was a peanut on a train track.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: Peanut on a train track. Give me a second, I
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: might be able to find it.
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: You actually are my god, No, that's not it.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: This is a good song. But you remember, Adam, Yeah,
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: that's all you can play.
• 25:07
  Speaker 4: So wait, peanut, it's another song about a peanuts.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: It's a riddle and it was like a song too.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: It's like peanut, how much peanuts? No, I can't remember.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Leave it with me, I asked my brother. He used
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: to do it all the time, like singing like wig
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: you out or something with me.
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: I'm stilln't.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: I didn't know that John Kingston was.
• 25:23
  Speaker 4: Convicted, convicted unlike that surf time. I think he's out,
• 25:27
  Speaker 4: but he's definitely serve time like that one. Yeah, don't
• 25:30
  Speaker 4: listen to him.
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: I've just talking about Sweden earlier. Reminded me about something.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: Do you remember when we did our DNA tests? Did
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: you get yours back?
• 25:40
  Speaker 5: I've got my DNA results.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: I never set mine off. Oh I did took him
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: like four months. Ship It's I thought i'd written it off.
• 25:48
  Speaker 4: Right, So I did the swab and then left it
• 25:52
  Speaker 4: in this little canister that keeps it like good and
• 25:54
  Speaker 4: says like Bayer hazard or whatever, don't open. So I
• 25:58
  Speaker 4: left it in that for like a good month, and
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: then I posted it right before I moved here. And
• 26:03
  Speaker 4: then when I posted it about a month after that,
• 26:06
  Speaker 4: I get an email being like, oh, getting it back
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: to America's you know, tricky, just like along those lines,
• 26:13
  Speaker 4: and I'd written it off.
• 26:14
  Speaker 5: I was like, oh, fuck, it's gone.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: It was like my heritage or something.
• 26:17
  Speaker 5: My heritage.
• 26:17
  Speaker 4: And then about three weeks ago I get an email
• 26:21
  Speaker 4: we have your DNA.
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: You have your results in three to four weeks, and
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: I got them all right, So wait, so your and
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: to reiterate, you're half Canadian half Australian. Yeah, but like
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: Canadian and Australian isn't really a thing?
• 26:33
  Speaker 5: Oh you know what I mean?
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: Is it not? Because if you're if you're Australian, you're indigenous,
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean?
• 26:41
  Speaker 3: Or English? Yeah?
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: Is Canadian Canadian? Then?
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: Or is that.
• 26:44
  Speaker 4: Canadian also has like the Aboriginals, indigenous originals, no Indians,
• 26:49
  Speaker 4: so to call them people used to call them indians?
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: Was that not right?
• 26:52
  Speaker 4: And so no, it's not right anymore because the reason
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: they got called that was when the English settled over
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: in America and saw the Indigenous, they genuinely thought they
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: had landed in India.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: And so they just like say indigenous. Yeah. So it's
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: like indigenous Aboriginal, the Aboriginal people.
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: So do you want to guess what I amage im?
• 27:12
  Speaker 5: Just tell you?
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: Ah, yeah, you tell me Scottish and Welsh.
• 27:16
  Speaker 4: Thirty four point eight per yeah, oring, twenty five point
• 27:20
  Speaker 4: five percent Norwegian, that's cool, yeah, and then twenty percent English,
• 27:25
  Speaker 4: eleven percent Irish, two point three percent Breton. Ever heard
• 27:29
  Speaker 4: of Breton? It's down in France, broh, I ever heard
• 27:33
  Speaker 4: of Yeah, and it's a like area of France.
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 27:37
  Speaker 4: Then we've got two point three percent Dutch, oh shit,
• 27:42
  Speaker 4: and one point five percent Danish.
• 27:45
  Speaker 5: Oh.
• 27:46
  Speaker 4: And then they come on also, look that they have
• 27:51
  Speaker 4: genetic group's confidence level at the highest it can be.
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that makes sense, right.
• 27:57
  Speaker 4: And then last one southern Central American brotie, it's like Colombia,
• 28:05
  Speaker 4: Costa Rica that area. But I think that that's my
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: indigenous Canadian because Johanna's two percent Indigenous Canadian.
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: That's kind of cool. You do have a bit of Indigenous, Yes,
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: I do.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: I've always known that.
• 28:18
  Speaker 4: My mum always told me that because like I get
• 28:20
  Speaker 4: the I get the Netherlands from my mom's side, and
• 28:25
  Speaker 4: it's like her biological dad's side above him is like
• 28:28
  Speaker 4: I think his grandparents or his parents was like one
• 28:31
  Speaker 4: of them was one hundred percent Norwegian and the other
• 28:35
  Speaker 4: one was like one hundred indigenous Canadian.
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: Wow.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: So yeah, that's my owe to you guys. I find
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: that that Viking brand, that Viking gene.
• 28:42
  Speaker 7: Yeah, body, I have an announcement to make.
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: What is it? I am officially.
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: Pause for silence, dramatic effecto A marcher, babe.
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: Man, I am so glad you said that, because I
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: am too.
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: I absolutely love Marcher. It's like a reward.
• 29:11
  Speaker 4: Couldn't agree more, my friend could not agree more. Throughout
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: the day, I do little tasks and I'm like, you
• 29:18
  Speaker 4: know what, I deserve a Marcher.
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: Same and I go to at the moment, Jake, are
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: these perfect head vanilla Marcher late cans?
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: Cans.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: Not only do they taste amazing, but it's also a
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: different source of caffeine to coffee.
• 29:33
  Speaker 4: Mate, that's true, and they're so handy like, it's just
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: a cafe quality marcher in a can in your hand.
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: Mate, I am obsessed, and I know the baddies listening.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: I're gonna be looking for a sign to get a
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: marcher today.
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: Here it is, so hey, you've heard it here.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: First, don't walk, but run to Cole's.
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: Okay, Baddie, so off campus has consumed my life.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: We know has seen the first episode Love Reacts on Patreon.
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: So what I.
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: Wanted to do was show Oddy photos of the characters
• 30:08
  Speaker 4: he knows right and that he's had a little bit
• 30:10
  Speaker 4: of an introduction to. I want him to tell me
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: whether or not he thinks thinks that they are a
• 30:14
  Speaker 4: red flag or a green flag, and then he needs
• 30:17
  Speaker 4: to go watch one to two episodes and on Patreon
• 30:21
  Speaker 4: this Thursday, he's gonna say if he's changed his mind
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: or not. Okay, okay, because he needs to get an education.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: How many episodes in the season again, eight six, eight altogether? Okay.
• 30:32
  Speaker 4: You know what's funny is like, if you really got
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: back to your hotel tonight and just decided to switch
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: everything off and just try and have a relaxing afternoon,
• 30:42
  Speaker 4: you could finish the whole season in one night.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: Like it's like, I'll do it in two nights. Maybe
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: the way they finish each episode makes you be like.
• 30:52
  Speaker 5: Well, I have to watch the next one more.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: I did feel like that after Patreon. Dude, we got
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: paid for that, so I was like, oh wait, yeah,
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: but he's more so Yeah, I would say I'm a
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: good tell of character too. I reckon, I'll be good
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: at this.
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, So I'm just going to do people.
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: I'm just going to do our faves. So number one
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: is Garret Graham Green Flag. You think he's a green Flag,
• 31:13
  Speaker 4: but basically.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that reaction makes me think, no, are we talking overall?
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: And just next two epis just what you think overall.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: At the end of the season, I'll be like, yeah
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: that's right or wrong? Yeah yeah.
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: So like as of from what you know right now
• 31:24
  Speaker 4: about each character, because you don't have a huge introduction
• 31:26
  Speaker 4: to all of them.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so this guy's got a really good heart, but
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: he's got a lot of trauma and like problems, but
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: he means.
• 31:33
  Speaker 4: Well you think he's gonna be green Yeah, yeah, Green
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: Dean Dealer enters.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: He's like you, So I want to say red Flag,
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: John Logan, Green Flag, he's a good friend.
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: This is Tucker.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: First episode. Would you have the least you know, the least.
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: About I'll say.
• 31:54
  Speaker 4: Green cool, that's all I've got. I was just doing
• 31:57
  Speaker 4: the men because the women are green flags.
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Yeah, who's her best friend? Ali?
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: Apparently she's like gone mega viral of how good she
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: is in this.
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: Apparently she was quite a big actor, Pryor.
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: I didn't know though, she's like the thing. She was
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: the highest part actor in it. Really, then go, yeah,
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: fucking let's go Ali.
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: She is a beast.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: She's from like some old Disney show or some ship.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: She gives Disney vibes. Actually, I think that'd be a
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: cool saying that I'm a Disney kid.
• 32:26
  Speaker 4: Disney What show would you be if I was a
• 32:29
  Speaker 4: Disney kid? Yeah, give me three seconds.
• 32:34
  Speaker 5: What would I want to be?
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: Radio three two one at the same time?
• 32:38
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, ready three two one?
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: That was Nickelodeon.
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: That wasn't it was a Disney No, no, that Disney.
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: But it's animated.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: Dude. You give what's the Phinias? Yeah? A little one.
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Phinis is a beast bro. I like, yeah,
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: that's a good dog name. I quite like that.
• 33:00
  Speaker 5: Yeah, Ferb Yeah, Erb.
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: My boy Ferb Hey erb Ferb Yeah, Erb Ferbierby.
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: I don't mind Ferbi, you give Ferb yeah whatever, No,
• 33:16
  Speaker 4: but I think had On Tanner.
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: I want to be one of the just some some
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: you know actually brother vibes a little bit. Yeah, that's
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: what you said. That's what I want to be. Yeah,
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: what about I Reckon? I could be in like Carly?
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: Maybe I could. I like the show Carly. Yeah, I
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: love that, isn't he? Yeah?
• 33:33
  Speaker 5: Where it was it?
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: Not Nickelodeon?
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: Oh, just getting confuse you.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: Had all the channels to pick from. I just got
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: what it was ever on ten.
• 33:44
  Speaker 4: Wait, growing up in Foxtown different different growing up with
• 33:47
  Speaker 4: Foxtown and being to watch w w E.
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't have that in my life.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: Well, I've watched a bloody documentary on the w w
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: E and learning golf balls and documentaries on w.
• 34:00
  Speaker 4: And I had no idea that what I was watching
• 34:03
  Speaker 4: was just like a facade of all this fucked up
• 34:06
  Speaker 4: shit going on in the background.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: That's what I've realized is like, actually, like the harsh
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: true of becoming an adult is like.
• 34:13
  Speaker 5: Everything's fucked.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone's mean, everyone's doing something that's really bad and
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: grubby or dirty or disrespecting people, and then like you
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: just have to navigate your way through it trying to
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: be a good person. Yeah, I'll tell you where it
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: pisses me off. Yeah, do you reckon?
• 34:26
  Speaker 3: So there's bullies in.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: Schools right at a bit of an epiphany. Have ever
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: been on the road and then someone's like right up
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: your fucking ass, like making you get out of the way,
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: and they're like bulling you off the road.
• 34:34
  Speaker 5: Yeah, do you reckon?
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: That's where bullies went. Look pretty good point, Pretty good point.
• 34:38
  Speaker 5: What was I going to say?
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: This was about this?
• 34:41
  Speaker 4: This doesn't make sense for me to say right now,
• 34:43
  Speaker 4: but it does make sense if we're talking about bullies back,
• 34:46
  Speaker 4: you know, five seconds ago. I am not the biggest
• 34:49
  Speaker 4: fan of the saying of someone being like it's my
• 34:53
  Speaker 4: first time living too, or like it's or trying to
• 34:56
  Speaker 4: defend someone trying to defend someone by being like it's
• 34:59
  Speaker 4: their first time living, like the cop out. I think
• 35:01
  Speaker 4: it's a cop out because like, yes, it's your first
• 35:07
  Speaker 4: time living, it's like everyone's first time living. But also, like,
• 35:11
  Speaker 4: you know that killing is bad, you know that fucking
• 35:15
  Speaker 4: belittling someone is bad. You know that doing drugs is bad,
• 35:18
  Speaker 4: like to like, you know, for example, you would tell
• 35:22
  Speaker 4: me earlier, like this whole active wear company that is
• 35:29
  Speaker 4: going that's.
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: Exactly what he said very far under Yeah, like.
• 35:32
  Speaker 4: Is trying to hit One of his excuses and one
• 35:37
  Speaker 4: of their excuses for not handling it well was like, oh,
• 35:40
  Speaker 4: you know, it's my first time living too.
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: But like.
• 35:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah, if you just like the way that this person
• 35:48
  Speaker 4: used it was just a cop out for doing some
• 35:50
  Speaker 4: stuff that is like objectively really bad, you know what
• 35:53
  Speaker 4: I mean. So like to use I'm to as some
• 35:57
  Speaker 4: to get out of something that you did that was
• 36:00
  Speaker 4: objectively bad.
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: I think it's just the biggest cop out. Well, I
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: think accountability is a massive character trait. There's a green flag,
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: and like admitting that you are in the wrong and saying, hey,
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: look what I did was wrong. I'm learning from that
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: is better than saying look we'll we'll make mistakes, Like
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: we're all doing this for the first time. I didn't
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: know that was wrong. Yeah, it's kind of like I
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: don't know what to say and understanding.
• 36:22
  Speaker 4: Something it's a good point also kind of makes it
• 36:25
  Speaker 4: it's like easier to forgive someone to if you tell
• 36:27
  Speaker 4: yourself it's their first time living.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like I used to. There was like a
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: sort of sort a bit of.
• 36:33
  Speaker 4: A trend going around maybe TikTok, and it was about
• 36:36
  Speaker 4: how it's like it was someone kind of crying on
• 36:39
  Speaker 4: screen being like I just realized that it's my mum's
• 36:41
  Speaker 4: first time living too, like gotta cut her some slack.
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: And I kind of thought, yeah, yeah I could.
• 36:46
  Speaker 5: I can get on on board with that.
• 36:48
  Speaker 4: And then I also thought like, yeah, but no, like
• 36:51
  Speaker 4: if you're doing something that is like objectively shitty, like yeah,
• 36:54
  Speaker 4: just because it's your first time living, like I also
• 36:56
  Speaker 4: didn't do that and it's my first time living.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like where the line too, though, because like
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: I would say, like you're not and you forget to
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: pay your taxes, Yeah that's like, oh it's my first
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: time moving.
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: I forgot. That's that's fair. Yeah, that's fair.
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: But then like I won't forget next year. I don't know,
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: Like I don't know, like yelling at your kids constantly,
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: and like I just realized my mom's first time moving too,
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: Like she's she's.
• 37:17
  Speaker 4: Yeah, like you getting abused when your parents are Like
• 37:20
  Speaker 4: my mom's first time, it's like come on, yeah, but
• 37:22
  Speaker 4: then we're switching it to is that a coping mechanism
• 37:24
  Speaker 4: for the person who it affects?
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: And true? True, So it's not good if the mum
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: was saying it, but it is good if it's helping
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: someone get over something that was traumatic and forgive someone.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: That would be a technique in psychology. I would say, like,
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: I'm sure it is. If you interesting about pay grade, yeah,
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: my atar didn't reach that one.
• 37:45
  Speaker 5: Don't have it.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: Right, Jack. We talk a lot about relationships on this
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: podcast and how some we would like to flourish, some
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: we would like to disappear, and some that are hard
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: to manage. And recently I did something I'm proud of
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: and asked my brother to attend a concert with me
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: and we got Indian before just chatting, catching up, talking,
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: talking about our lives and he I don't know why
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: we got onto it, but he said a quote It
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: really stuck with me. He can't take credit for it.
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: It was Fisher's wife's brother who he got it from
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: because he's in the surfing world. Cool, but the quote was.
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: The quote was which I think is very very relatable
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: for people online especially but more so for male friendship
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: groups in particular. The quote is if you only celebrate yourself,
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: you only celebrate once, But if you celebrate everyone, you
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: can celebrate so many times. Damn. And I thought like
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: that really like hit me, and I was like, wow,
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: Like we get so caught up in our own world
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: so much, and like forget that everyone around us is
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: also doing such cool things. And men especially have this
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: sort of like I'm not giving any excuses like human nature,
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: just to point fun at each other and give each
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: other shit for trying something new, But in reality life
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: would be so much better, especially we've lost all our
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: friends from this podcast because we're doing something different. Yeah,
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: I guess, and like maybe that's we're part of the problem,
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: but also I haven't celebrated their wins. But also our
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: lives would be so much funner rather than just celebrating ourselves.
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: We're also self centered as creatures.
• 39:33
  Speaker 5: I mean, good point.
• 39:35
  Speaker 4: I mean I could argue that I pretty much worry
• 39:36
  Speaker 4: about myself the whole time.
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because great example being like it's granted for a partner.
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: My girlfriend just run one hundred kilometers and it meant
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: the world to her, and it's granted because it's a
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: partner and I love her, but I went there and
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: supported her and I celebrated that win with her, and
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: it felt amazing to be there for her and support
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: her as a partner. And I was like, well, this
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: is so good. I'm so happy for you, And like
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: if I could replicate that with all the relationships. We're
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: kind of in relationship as well, because I celebrate your
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: wins because of this podcast. True, like outside of us,
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: I don't celebrate. We're like forced to celebrate wins together. Yeah,
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: And I was thinking, one of our kids is having
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: a one of our what did I say? I say
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: that backwards? One of our friends is having a kid. Yeah,
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: and like I'm happy for him, but I'm nowhere near
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: as happy as I should be.
• 40:16
  Speaker 5: I should be there, but like this.
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: And like it can go so much further than that
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: of people just like getting a cool job, getting a
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: new car, being there for people. And I feel like
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: that kind of mindset, that little switch would be just
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: a step to make in the world a better plays
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: because it sucks. Yeah, I agree.
• 40:33
  Speaker 4: I wonder what like context the what context did your
• 40:36
  Speaker 4: brother say it in?
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: Are you guys talking? And he was like, oh, I've
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: got this quote that I like, no, no, no, we're
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: talking in a sense of friends, and I think he
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: were bonding over like as men. I think women have
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: it too, but men more so. The older we get,
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: the less friends we have, and like we all get
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: so self centered and get we're all doing our own
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: things and life gets in the way. But I also
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: think that's an excuse, as you could put the conscious
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: effort into celebrate your friends wins as much as they
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: meant to them as I do to you.
• 41:01
  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a good point, Like do you reckon?
• 41:02
  Speaker 4: I would say, I feel like I'm almost in the
• 41:06
  Speaker 4: habit of being selfish, if that makes sense.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: I think every human makes it a habit. I'm definitely
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: selfish and too selfish to my own testament.
• 41:15
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Like to me, it's just like it's like it's
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: a habit. I would need to create a new habit
• 41:22
  Speaker 4: of checking in with friends, if that makes sense. I
• 41:27
  Speaker 4: would have to like set an alarm nearly to do
• 41:29
  Speaker 4: it and do it consistently to then have it to
• 41:31
  Speaker 4: be a thing like that's not something that's on my
• 41:34
  Speaker 4: mind to do, like how it is with my girlfriend.
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: But the girlfriend's granted, Like I know it's not really
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: to do with gender, but also this is a great example.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: And I know there's some bad women out there who
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: don't do this in a mean in the comment section.
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: But you go look at a woman's Instagram feed and
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: their comments or all their friends supporting them, and see
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: men doing that not very often. You don't see them
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: doing that at all, And I think, like that is taken.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: It's just a great little example of what is happening
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: in the real world too. And like those girls like
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: support Cassie for example, during her run. All her friends
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: are like, yeah, but you guys like ten twenty messages
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: from all the close friends. But men, we like to
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: isolate ourselves, and that could be part of the bigger
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: problem of like why men are so depressed. Yeah, well
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: we all hate each other. That's actually such a good point. Yeah.
• 42:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Like so, like it's pretty evident that men hate women.
• 42:28
  Speaker 4: You know, we're talking to averages here, big averages. It's
• 42:31
  Speaker 4: pretty evident, like men hate women, but also men hate men,
• 42:34
  Speaker 4: Men hate everyone.
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and then ourselves.
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, men hate everyone except for themselves, and they love
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: themselves even when they're toxic. I we have a friend, right,
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: and he so he's a mortgage broker obviously you know
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. He put on his story of
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: his mortgage brokerage account on Instagram that I follow that
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: he he was like celebrating because he had just gotten
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: like a massive loan for this company got a product
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: into Woolworths or something, and they needed this loan to
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: get a new area to make the product, and so
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: like a four million dollar loone I assume in the
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: mortgage world, mortgage broken world is like big, because he
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: even though like was posting like celebrating this or whatever,
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: and and I.
• 43:15
  Speaker 4: Was like, fuck, that's actually six So I met. I
• 43:17
  Speaker 4: replied to the story, and I said like, fuck, congrats man.
• 43:21
  Speaker 4: And when I after I sent it, I was like,
• 43:23
  Speaker 4: I hope he doesn't think I'm being sarcastic.
• 43:25
  Speaker 5: That's what I think too, you know what I mean.
• 43:26
  Speaker 4: I was like, I really hope he doesn't think I'm
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: being sarcastic because I'm being genuine. Like I almost like
• 43:30
  Speaker 4: wanted to send voice Pacis and be like, I'm fucking seriously,
• 43:32
  Speaker 4: that's sick.
• 43:32
  Speaker 5: But he ended up replying to like haha.
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: Thanks, and I was like, Nah, seriously, that's actually fucking sick, dude, yeah,
• 43:37
  Speaker 4: And it crossed my mind that he might think it's
• 43:40
  Speaker 4: being that I'm being psarcastic and giving him shit.
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: But I think it comes down to your intentions too true,
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: And like obviously a phone call goes a lot longer,
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: but obviously you know that close with him. But that's
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: better than nothing, and that's replicated on a massive scale
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: with everything. Like one of the best things about social
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: media is brought everyone so close together. It's done the
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: opposite in the sense is everyone just like to hate
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: rather than support.
• 44:01
  Speaker 4: I know. Yeah, true, like social media is community building
• 44:06
  Speaker 4: but also kind of what's the word isolating?
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think one of the biggest lessons I've
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: learned being in this industry but also every industry is
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: there's enough room for everybody. Yeah, and like everyone's like, oh,
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: it's so situated. Everything's so situated, Like I don't want
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: to like if I start now, it's too late. Wrong,
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: Like anyone can make anything happen if.
• 44:25
  Speaker 3: We all support each other.
• 44:26
  Speaker 4: Truely, I feel like the classic one's like a clothing brand. Yeah,
• 44:30
  Speaker 4: that's arguably a saturated market, but like.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: New ones come out all the time and do fine. Yeah,
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: I think it's more about like human connection too, and
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: if someone you know is doing something cool and like
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: they think it's cool to them and even though though
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: you don't care, but you can see how passionate they
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: are about that, just like that little mental switch of
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: you realizing how much that means to one person and
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: saying something, just even a message of saying, hey, I
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: like that shirt that you just made. They could make
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: someone's day because they put fucking who knows how many
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: hours into designing that shirt. I said a point like.
• 45:02
  Speaker 4: Even if just like like we've posted a few vlogs, right,
• 45:06
  Speaker 4: and a couple of people comment and be like really
• 45:08
  Speaker 4: like this style of content, like you know, would love
• 45:10
  Speaker 4: to see more of it, and like that is like
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: a motivating factor to keep on vlogging.
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: I feel like we've lost touch with being a human.
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: Like I went to the Evocal markets near where I
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: live on the weekend and just like there's all these
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: people with all these really niche passions.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, and like you're talking.
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: When they're so passionate about it. Yeah, I'm just like
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: this is so cool, and like I like to have
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: a conversation with him and like get involved in it
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: and like supporting someone like that, and that's obviously they've
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: had a nice network around them and they haven't done
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: it by themselves. And that's that sort of like has
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: happened in the older generations. But us, we're not going
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: to be doing anything because we're too scared to be criticized. Yeah,
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: criticism is scary though. Yeah, but you're right, people stop,
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: don't do stuff because of that. I reckon that many
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: bad is this thing right now, have a massive amazing
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: idea in their mind and then too afraid to too
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: afraid to start because they're scared what other people will think.
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: Because everyone's mean.
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  Speaker 4: Point, like even with other things in life, Like I
• 46:04
  Speaker 4: think we've said this before, but.
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  Speaker 5: Kind of I've got this like new.
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  Speaker 1: I I think I think I was a lot more
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  Speaker 1: judgmental when I was younger. I agree, I think.
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  Speaker 5: I was a lot more judgmental.
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: And I think I knew a lot more than I did. No, no, no,
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: I think I thought I knew a lot more than
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: I did.
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  Speaker 4: And and I feel like that that's every Yeah, I
• 46:26
  Speaker 4: think even only being like six seven years older. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: just like looking back and thinking of things, like you know,
• 46:36
  Speaker 4: it's just like very easy to be judgmental but it's
• 46:41
  Speaker 4: also very it's even easier to be not judgmental, if
• 46:45
  Speaker 4: that makes any sense. Like, if you're the type of
• 46:48
  Speaker 4: person that will comment, like I hate comment on someone
• 46:52
  Speaker 4: that's trying something new, like, it's so much easier to
• 46:56
  Speaker 4: just not comment that thing and try and catch yourself
• 47:00
  Speaker 4: in the moment being like, wow, I was going to
• 47:03
  Speaker 4: comment that thing. Like if you're typing out some sort
• 47:07
  Speaker 4: of comment that like you're doing because you want it
• 47:10
  Speaker 4: to get likes and it's going to bring someone else
• 47:13
  Speaker 4: down before you click the little fucking post button like
• 47:17
  Speaker 4: post comment, you should reread it and be like, well,
• 47:19
  Speaker 4: what if I was doing this and someone commented this,
• 47:21
  Speaker 4: Like it's such a simple thing.
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: As simple as that, You're like, if you're going to
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: be a mean person, just don't share that, don't share
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: those thoughts.
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: True.
• 47:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah, So, Like I'm a big believer in if you
• 47:33
  Speaker 4: don't have anything nice, don't say anything at all.
• 47:35
  Speaker 5: But I think that I don't know if.
• 47:38
  Speaker 4: It's like hypocritical, But even when I look at something
• 47:42
  Speaker 4: and think like I like that, yeah, you don't comment,
• 47:45
  Speaker 4: I don't comment like well.
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: Done, Yeah, you know, so maybe I was just doing it.
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 47:50
  Speaker 5: I'm not a commenter.
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: I feel like too though, like going off having mean
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: comments and having perspectives in the world, it's very easy
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: to be uneducated. And a part of this podcast, which
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: we're both very grateful for as well as our partners
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: is is kind of like sped run our education on
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: women in the world. Yeah, and a lot of those issues.
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: And I'm trying to connect the dots here. When we
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: were younger, we've said at countless times we didn't call
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: our friends out for saying misogynistic things. And I'm just thinking, like,
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: how can men or even mean women online sort of
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: like educate themselves as well that like they need to
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: have your mindset, like they need like they need a
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: different mindset. Yeah, Like they don't want to.
• 48:41
  Speaker 4: It's not something like they It's the way you're thinking
• 48:44
  Speaker 4: is like how someone has to be a choice. Yeah,
• 48:47
  Speaker 4: Like the way you're thinking is, yeah, not everyone's like
• 48:51
  Speaker 4: you or me or someone.
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: That does one. Which makes it hard because it's like
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: accepting that there are mean people out there that don't
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: want the best for other people, and there are people
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: out there who hate women.
• 49:02
  Speaker 3: There are people out there who don't.
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: Like men like it's it's not a well where like
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know, it's just not nice. Yeah, you know what,
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: it is a fucking hard thing. Yeah, it's a very
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: very difficult thing. Time for comments. You know what to
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: do by now. If you want to leave a comment
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: and get read by us, simply comment on the episode
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: you are listening to. I have last week's Monday should
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: he go on a Boy's Trip? Live? Clark said, I
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: relate so much with the optimizing trips. Hey, so you
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: you your mind is a prison as well? Be free live.
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: I did one the other day and it felt great.
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: What you do?
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: I think? I went and picked something up from my
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: car about gun to the gym.
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: It felt pretty good.
• 49:52
  Speaker 4: You know, I'm proud of you. It would have been hard,
• 49:54
  Speaker 4: that was growth. That would have been hard because you
• 49:57
  Speaker 4: wasted time, but you didn't because it was freeing.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: I was free, you were free. I felt free.
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: I'm glad I was flying through disguise.
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: From the same episode, but from YouTube, I've got I
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: am dollop. Oh.
• 50:12
  Speaker 4: I believe this is talking about the selling courses. If
• 50:17
  Speaker 4: someone discovers in quotes an infinite money glitch, in whatever business.
• 50:22
  Speaker 4: They don't sell it because then that ruins their market.
• 50:24
  Speaker 4: They just sell gullible people rubbish and tell them it's good.
• 50:29
  Speaker 3: That's a factual statement.
• 50:32
  Speaker 4: You've had it hear first from Iron Dollar guys, comment
• 50:36
  Speaker 4: below and you get it read.
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: Next week, batties, it is time for one of you
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: to sign off the episode.
• 50:41
  Speaker 3: Jake, who are we going to call?
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: Wait?
• 50:44
  Speaker 4: Actually, Ellen, So if you want to sign off the
• 50:48
  Speaker 4: episode in the link in the description, there'll be a
• 50:50
  Speaker 4: link to say something the episode.
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: You go and you put your name your number. Now,
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: I got to say we favor Australian numbers. We don't
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: let me just say this.
• 50:57
  Speaker 4: We actually we don't favor Australian numbers, but we only
• 50:59
  Speaker 4: choose Australian. We could call him what's happened working out
• 51:02
  Speaker 4: time difference and stuff? But tricky AnyWho? So basically, Ellen
• 51:07
  Speaker 4: put next to her name, I have a riddle, so
• 51:09
  Speaker 4: she better finding answer.
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: Oh that is you know how to get called.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: Now you just got to have a riddle in this guy,
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: I'll be like, oh.
• 51:14
  Speaker 3: My god, yeah, friend devil.
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: Hello Ellen, Hi Ellen, It's Jake and Noddy from the Relatables.
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: How are you? My god? No way. Ye? Yes, why Ellen,
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: that's so exciting.
• 51:31
  Speaker 7: Yes it is.
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: Do you know why I called you because I said
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: I had a riddle? Yes?
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: Yes, Ellen, you can read Jake like a book.
• 51:42
  Speaker 4: Yes, Oh my god.
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: Stop, guys, I'm so excited. Work trying not to yell.
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: Just fuck it, yell. I'm a counselor.
• 51:55
  Speaker 4: I can't do that.
• 51:57
  Speaker 5: Counselor.
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: Where so I go into school and work with kitties
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  Speaker 1: and things in w A.
• 52:03
  Speaker 3: Very very cool.
• 52:05
  Speaker 5: That's awesome. What's your riddle?
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, let's otherwise I'm going to be the biggest disappointment. Yeah,
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: let's get to business. What's okay? Are you ready? What
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: gets longer when pulled? It's snugly between breaths, insert neatly
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: into a hole and works best when jerked. Oh okay,
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: look the obvious answer.
• 52:34
  Speaker 3: It might not be the answer, you dirty dog.
• 52:37
  Speaker 7: Yeah I'm not.
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: I'm going to take a.
• 52:45
  Speaker 5: While stab and say is it a penis?
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: No, guys, I'm not dirty. It's a seat belt.
• 52:55
  Speaker 3: Oh whatever, Ellen, Well, I really appreciate that.
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: Thank you very much.
• 53:09
  Speaker 5: Ellen.
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: You are so welcome. I'm glad you appreciated it. Have
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: a lovely, lovely day. I think you might have started something. Ellen,
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: I think everyone's gonna be like, oh, thanks so.
• 53:22
  Speaker 7: Much for calling.
• 53:23
  Speaker 3: Guys.
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: I love you both so much. This is just my
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: whole day. Let's go.
• 53:28
  Speaker 3: You just made our day up.
• 53:31
  Speaker 7: All right, you guys take care.
• 53:32
  Speaker 4: I can't like to listen.
• 53:34
  Speaker 2: Yea.
• 53:37
  Speaker 5: Once again she ended the phone call.
• 53:39
  Speaker 2: She hit us with her riddle, and she power moved us.
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: We told her she ended the call to be fair.
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: You tried to end it, and I was getting there.
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: I kept it going. I was sort of getting there.
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: It's pretty funny. Ellen thinks like three steps ahead.
• 53:53
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: She she read us like a book three times.
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: She knew she knew how to get a phone call. Yeah,
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: and then she knew we'd choose peanut.
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: And then she knew we would try and hang up
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: on us. And she hanged up anyway. Guys, they let
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: you go.
• 54:08
  Speaker 3: I'm pretty ecusy.
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: All right, guys, thank you for listening.
• 54:13
  Speaker 3: We love your stay bad