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- 0:01Welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, the show dedicated to
- 0:05helping entrepreneurs use human design to shift from hustle to
- 0:09flow without sacrificing results.
- 0:11Come here to become an unshakeable human and build an unshakeable business
- 0:15according to your human design.
- 0:17I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
- 0:22Hello and welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, everybody.
- 0:24I'm Nicole Laino.
- 0:26We are here together today.
- 0:27This is going to be an entrepreneur focused episode.
- 0:29Entrepreneurs and human design combined.
- 0:32What I do best here, what I do most here.
- 0:35But this is going to be much more about the business side of human design.
- 0:39And really what I want to break down for you are three ways that human
- 0:43design can help increase your sales.
- 0:45And these are three things that I'm seeing across the board with
- 0:49entrepreneurs who come to me in various ways through various programs.
- 0:53Inside my Business by Design Mentorship, people who have signed up for the
- 0:56unshakeable Human Program, even, they're entrepreneurs starting out, not ready to
- 1:01take a leap into my mentorship just yet, they're looking to embody their design,
- 1:06but their ultimate goal is to start using human design in their business.
- 1:11And also just in my networking groups, other entrepreneurs that I work
- 1:14with that are friends of mine, what I'm seeing and what we're hearing.
- 1:18Now, I want to break down these three things that I notice come
- 1:22up with entrepreneurs all the time when it comes up with sales.
- 1:26And there's a shift with sales that we're seeing, we're definitely
- 1:29seeing things change, and that can be really scary for people if you
- 1:33aren't what I call unshakeable.
- 1:36It's not scary for me.
- 1:38It almost feels like an of course, and I'm welcoming it.
- 1:41And we're going to talk about that a little bit more too, but the three
- 1:45things that I hear entrepreneurs saying all the time, and if you fall into this
- 1:48category, you're definitely going to want to stay till the end of this episode.
- 1:51Cause I'm going to break each one of these down.
- 1:53Sometimes we need strategy and sometimes we need energetic practices.
- 1:57And that's why I teach both.
- 1:59I don't just say all you need is human design.
- 2:01I know that there are people out there who say that all you need is human
- 2:04design or some other energetic practice.
- 2:07All you need to do is get into the energy of something and then
- 2:10the rest takes care of itself.
- 2:12Now I agree that the energy makes the strategy so much easier.
- 2:17A lot of the bumps in the road, a lot of the so called blocks that we end up
- 2:21bumping up against when we try to make something happen, when we try to take
- 2:25action and we get stuck can be solved through understanding that the problem
- 2:30probably lies within you and starting to look at that and becoming a master at
- 2:35leading yourself through life in general but certainly being able to navigate those
- 2:41times when things aren't flowing smoothly.
- 2:44Do you know how to get back into your flow?
- 2:48And that's becoming more and more important because we're
- 2:51seeing the strategies of yesterday not work all the time.
- 2:56So I think that's why people are turning to these energetic practices.
- 2:59But we still do need strategy.
- 3:01But I'm going to talk about the shifts that we're seeing with strategy.
- 3:04And even in my own business, I'll talk about how we had an 80 percent close
- 3:08rate on our last launch with the sales for the Business by Design mentorship.
- 3:12So it's a high ticket mentorship.
- 3:14I'm not selling a $37 product or even a $500 product.
- 3:17It is in the multiple thousands of dollars because it's a year long mentorship
- 3:21with private coaching and stuff from me.
- 3:23So it's very involved, but we saw an 80 percent close rate.
- 3:27And I'm going to talk to you about the shifts that we made,
- 3:30and the shifts that I made within my business and what I didn't do.
- 3:33Actually, in order to make that happen.
- 3:36So, first of all, the things that we hear entrepreneurs saying a lot around
- 3:43sales, I hear that sales are icky, I hear that I wish I didn't have to
- 3:49sell and I could just coach, heal, create, whatever it is that you do,
- 3:55insert your job right at the end there.
- 3:59And then I hear people say that people aren't buying as much as they used to.
- 4:03And like I said, there's a shift in buyer behavior, yes.
- 4:08But I'm going to tell you how this can actually work in your favor,
- 4:11how this shift in buyer behavior is actually a good thing for you.
- 4:18So that's what I'm going to break down in today's episode.
- 4:20I'm going to take you through all of that and I'm going to tell you how human design
- 4:24fits into this, and I'm going to help you understand where strategy is necessary
- 4:29and where energetics are necessary .Because there is an energy to sales.
- 4:34And if you read even old sales books, they might be talking about strategy, but
- 4:38they used to refer to it as confidence.
- 4:41But now I think that we're seeing the veil be lifted on phony confidence.
- 4:47And people want something deeper.
- 4:50We're going to break all of that down in today's episode.
- 4:52So if you want to know how to increase your sales using both strategy and energy
- 4:56and incorporating human design into that process, then you're going to want
- 4:59to stay until the end of the episode.
- 5:00I also want to let you know that if this is a topic that interests you, if
- 5:03you're an entrepreneur who's interested in incorporating human design into your
- 5:06business, you should come to my party that I throw every couple of months.
- 5:11My Authority Accelerator Masterclass.
- 5:13This is a five day masterclass.
- 5:15This is my flagship free teaching that I do outside of the podcast.
- 5:20And what I'm told is that this free masterclass where I break down my entire
- 5:24framework, my sole strategy framework of how you bring in sales regularly, how you
- 5:31can have a semi evergreen process for your business and how you can use human design
- 5:35to elevate your business more so than anything else will ever allow you to do.
- 5:41I break that down for you in five days.
- 5:42It is a totally free masterclass for now.
- 5:45I haven't decided if I will charge for it in the future,
- 5:47but right now it is still free.
- 5:49All you have to do is DM me on Instagram.
- 5:51I'm @NicoleLainoOfficial DM me masterclass and we will register you right there.
- 5:58And if you want to go to the website, go to nicolelaino.com/masterclass and
- 6:01we'll register you on the website there.
- 6:03We'll also link all of this up in the show notes for you.
- 6:05So if you can't write it down, don't worry.
- 6:07All right, let's dive into the episode.
- 6:08First of all, let's tackle the first one.
- 6:10Sales are icky.
- 6:12Now you've probably heard this, but I'm going to say it again.
- 6:15And when I say it, I want you to pay attention to where
- 6:19this lands in your body.
- 6:20What do you feel when I say this?
- 6:24Selling is a service.
- 6:27What do you feel when I say that?
- 6:29Does it feel like, of course, yes, absolutely.
- 6:33Selling is service and you feel that to your bones, that when I sell
- 6:38something, anything that I do, it is a service to the people I am selling to.
- 6:45And do you believe that?
- 6:47Do you have that in your bones?
- 6:49Or does it feel like total bullshit?
- 6:52Like that sounds like something that sales people say to get you to buy
- 6:55something and then screw you over.
- 6:58Is that where selling as a service lands for you?
- 7:02Or do you roll your eyes?
- 7:03Yeah, right, selling as a service.
- 7:04Yeah, service for you because you're collecting the money.
- 7:08Or is it, is it somewhere in between where it's like I intellectually know that
- 7:13selling is a service, but I don't feel it.
- 7:17Or I don't feel it about my products.
- 7:21So this is one of those energy things.
- 7:23Selling is a service when you are living your purpose.
- 7:28When you're living your purpose and you're truly embodying your
- 7:31purpose, then it changes the way that you feel about what you do.
- 7:37Because you feel like you're doing what you are meant to do.
- 7:40And if you weren't doing what you were meant to do, then the
- 7:42world would be worse off for it.
- 7:46So when I show up and I teach human design and I teach business and I
- 7:50teach everything that I teach, I truly, truly believe in my bones this is
- 7:54of service, but it's only of service to the people who are right for it.
- 8:00And we're going to get into how we determine that in topic number three
- 8:03that I'm going to talk about in the show.
- 8:06But I know that I'm living my purpose.
- 8:10I know that every day I will deepen that connection.
- 8:14I will get better at it.
- 8:15It will get clearer to me how it will change and morph.
- 8:20But right now, I am embodying my purpose every day.
- 8:25I am working on it every day.
- 8:27I'm conscious of it.
- 8:28And everything that I do is of high integrity.
- 8:32I care.
- 8:35I told my team at the beginning of this year, we are obsessed with client results.
- 8:38That is number one, even before our results.
- 8:42We are obsessed with client results.
- 8:45And we're constantly changing and shifting things within my programs and
- 8:49within my other containers to make sure that we are showing up for our clients.
- 8:54I can't make you do the work.
- 8:56But I can help you get over whatever it is that you need to get over if
- 9:01you come to me for the right things.
- 9:03And that's my job.
- 9:04So when I sell, my whole purpose is to help you get clarity, to help you figure
- 9:11out if I'm the right person for you.
- 9:14That's my whole job.
- 9:16I don't hard sell.
- 9:18I don't push.
- 9:19I don't manipulate.
- 9:21I just show up, I'm honest, and I allow you to experience my energy.
- 9:26I do workshops like the Authority Accelerator, so that you can experience
- 9:30my teaching style, and you can decide whether I am for you or not.
- 9:36So, selling is a service when you are embodied in who you are meant to be.
- 9:44When you're doing what you're meant to do.
- 9:47It starts to take care of itself.
- 9:51So that's number one.
- 9:52Number two, I wish I didn't have to sell.
- 9:56I wish I could just coach.
- 9:57I wish I didn't have to market myself.
- 10:00I wish I didn't.
- 10:01I get that.
- 10:02I used to say it too.
- 10:03I don't say it anymore.
- 10:05Because underneath that statement, here's what you're
- 10:07really saying, selling is hard.
- 10:10I suck at it.
- 10:11It's no good.
- 10:13You wouldn't be saying that if you were making sales every time you sold or
- 10:20if you felt good and you felt like you were serving every time you showed up
- 10:23and you allowed somebody to experience you, experience your genius, experience
- 10:27your energy and let them decide.
- 10:29That confidence of the right people will find me would take care of that.
- 10:34But ultimately, underneath it, you're like, selling is hard.
- 10:38Here's what makes selling not hard.
- 10:41This is a strategy and energy combination and human design fits
- 10:46into this in the second half.
- 10:47The first half is the message.
- 10:49And it can sound manipulative when we talk about messaging, you have
- 10:53to be able to speak to the problems that your ideal client is having.
- 10:57You have to speak to the desires that your soulmate client
- 11:01really wants to connect with.
- 11:04And that can sound manipulative, like we're going to exploit their pain.
- 11:07That is not at all what I'm talking about.
- 11:10But products have to solve problems, or deliver on a desire.
- 11:13They have to do that, or they aren't worth the person's money.
- 11:17So in order to have integrity with what you sell, you need
- 11:20to know what the problems are.
- 11:23Otherwise you have people get out of your program, and they look
- 11:26at you like, this was good, but I didn't get what I wanted out of it.
- 11:30And the reason for that is, you never knew what they wanted in the first place.
- 11:35You didn't know what they wanted.
- 11:37You sold them on four calls a week and some sort of features.
- 11:43You're going to get Voxer with me.
- 11:45You're going to get access to this program, but you didn't really tell
- 11:49them what they would get at the end.
- 11:51So they're not clear and you're not clear.
- 11:54And then their expectation is that they will have something that
- 11:58you don't even know what it is.
- 12:00So how could you deliver on that?
- 12:02How could you create a program, an offer?
- 12:06Something that delivers when you don't know what they want you to deliver on.
- 12:11It's your job to know.
- 12:12That's how you create a better product.
- 12:16Do you think Apple isn't taking in user data and feedback about what
- 12:22people love and don't love about their products, what they wish they could do?
- 12:27Why do you think they keep upgrading the camera?
- 12:29Because it's the thing that most people will buy a new phone for because
- 12:33they want to take better pictures.
- 12:36Okay, that's how they decide what goes into these products and what doesn't.
- 12:40What do they put research and development dollars into and what don't they?
- 12:45Because of what people want.
- 12:46Because they understand that they're in the business of selling solutions.
- 12:51Products are solutions.
- 12:53So it's not manipulative.
- 12:54If you don't understand your message, then you don't understand the product
- 12:58and the offer that you need to create.
- 13:00And this is what makes selling hard because you feel like you're
- 13:03begging people to like you.
- 13:06And that sucks.
- 13:08Nobody wants to do that.
- 13:09And honestly, that's not what delivers results for people or for yourself.
- 13:14But when you start solving problems, then it takes the pressure off of you to
- 13:17sell because you're selling the solution.
- 13:20It becomes less personal.
- 13:22But let's talk about the personal side, because there is another aspect
- 13:25to being able to sell without selling.
- 13:29I call pitchless selling.
- 13:32The second half of that is your personal brand.
- 13:34What I call your genius brand.
- 13:37And I call it a genius brand because it should be rooted in your unique genius,
- 13:43as laid out through your human design.
- 13:46Why?
- 13:46Not because it says it on a piece of paper so that's what you have to do, but because
- 13:53the gifts in your human design are shadows until you start paying attention to them.
- 14:00Or have the potential to dip into shadow.
- 14:04And that means you live more in the shadow.
- 14:09The more you pay attention to your gifts and the more you lift into them, the
- 14:13more that's what people feel from you.
- 14:16That's when it becomes like a no brainer about what offer you should create
- 14:20because it's rooted in your genius.
- 14:22It's what you do.
- 14:24It's what you can't help but talk about.
- 14:25It's how you naturally show up.
- 14:29And then the more you focus on the gift, and the more you lift up into
- 14:32that, and the more you embody the gifts, the more it just becomes who you are.
- 14:38And then that becomes your brand.
- 14:40You don't have to think it through, you don't have to sit there
- 14:42and be like, what are my people loving on Instagram right now?
- 14:46I'm gonna make that my brand, because they really love this style.
- 14:50And so many people come to me looking for human design to tell them who they are.
- 14:55They want to do a reading and I tell you who you are.
- 14:58Now I can tell you what I see, but only you can understand how that
- 15:04plays off of your life experience, how you feel as a unique human being.
- 15:10And then that's the work that we do together.
- 15:12That's what my mentorship is all about.
- 15:14We help build a strategy, but that whole time, I'm helping you
- 15:17embody your design and figure out what does this all mean to you?
- 15:22How has this been triggering you your whole life?
- 15:25And how can we get over that trigger so you could start
- 15:26living in the gift of this?
- 15:29That's the magic.
- 15:31And that's when you start showing up and people feel something different from you.
- 15:37There's a massive shift between when I was learning about my design and talking about
- 15:40it and just giving keynotes versus when I shifted over into really just being it.
- 15:46And the way people reacted and interacted with me is completely different.
- 15:52People now feel from me, I don't know why, but I just need to work with you.
- 15:57I think I need to work with you.
- 15:58I hear that all the time.
- 16:02And that happens when you are embodying your gifts.
- 16:05People are reacting to that.
- 16:08The other aspect of this is that, I look at my clients inside my program right
- 16:12now, and so many of them have aspects of my design that I have embodied.
- 16:18They are attracted to the fact that I'm leading them to a path to
- 16:23maybe embodying that themselves.
- 16:26That's it.
- 16:27And some people will try to engineer that.
- 16:29Okay, well, Gate 64 means imagination and illumination, so if I talk
- 16:33about that, then I'm gonna get those people who want that.
- 16:37That doesn't really work.
- 16:38It might start there, you start to turn the rock over that way.
- 16:42But, when you start to actually become someone who embodies illumination,
- 16:47where you actually have that to offer.
- 16:49Where that's how you look at the world.
- 16:52That was the shift that had to happen for me.
- 16:54So, when you're leveraging your gifts and you're embodying them, you start to become
- 17:00your genius brand and that's where I say that you get to achieve pitchless selling.
- 17:05Where your energy is doing a lot of the work for you.
- 17:09You don't have to think about all of this all the time.
- 17:11And you pair that with some strategic messaging and you get a really,
- 17:14really powerful brand and business.
- 17:17Now the third thing is what we were talking about in the beginning.
- 17:21This buyer behavior shift.
- 17:22People aren't buying as much as they used to.
- 17:25They are just buying differently than they used to.
- 17:29People have been burned.
- 17:31People have not gotten an ROI on previous investments.
- 17:35So they are more discerning about what they buy and who they invest with.
- 17:42This is a great thing for anyone with integrity because you will stand out.
- 17:48But if you are shaky in your energy and you pair that with a buyer
- 17:53who is more discerning and who is like, I'm not just jumping in.
- 17:57Even if you've got testimonials and stuff, I really want to
- 17:59make sure I validate those.
- 18:01I want to interact with you.
- 18:02I want to feel your energy a bit.
- 18:06Because I just did a post on this recently.
- 18:08The fake it till you make it era is over.
- 18:10Thank God.
- 18:12Of people just saying things that sound good to other people, but not
- 18:18having anything to back them up with.
- 18:20That bullshit confidence, that veil that I was talking about in
- 18:24the beginning being lifted now.
- 18:27People sense whether you are for real or not now.
- 18:33And their guard is up.
- 18:35So even if you are for real, they're still going to probably spend a bit
- 18:38more time and energy sussing that out.
- 18:42But this is an amazing thing for you, for the embodied coach, for the embodied
- 18:48entrepreneur, for the person actually leading themselves with integrity.
- 18:54Cause that's what people are trying to figure out.
- 18:56If you can lead yourself, if you are what I call unshakeable, That's what people
- 19:02are looking for, because especially the people who are trying to figure this
- 19:05out, they're going through a transition, they want to create something new.
- 19:09That's very rarely a very smooth, flat, paved road.
- 19:13It's gonna have bumps, and hills, and pitfalls, and they need to know that the
- 19:19person that they invest in can hold them.
- 19:24And that starts with you demonstrating the fact that you can hold yourself.
- 19:28More important than it is for anybody, than for the coaches and
- 19:33for the healers, and for the people who provide a service to others.
- 19:40I'm talking to you copywriters, if you're a copywriter and you are frantic and you
- 19:47are reactive and you're producing the copy for like their launch or something.
- 19:53You're going to stress them out and they're going to regret ever hiring you.
- 19:58We don't want that.
- 20:00You want to be a steady force.
- 20:02If you're a real estate agent, when I sold my house in LA, I had two
- 20:07brokers that I could go with and I chose the agent I chose because
- 20:11they checked all the same boxes.
- 20:13It was like, okay, you guys all have great experience.
- 20:15You have great track records, all of that.
- 20:17But one of them had such a calm, grounded, yet powerful presence,
- 20:23not meek and meager at all.
- 20:25She was powerful, but super chill.
- 20:29And I was like, she's gonna make me feel really good through this process, and
- 20:33the other one I think will stress me out.
- 20:35And I chose the chill, calm one.
- 20:37We had an amazing experience.
- 20:38I couldn't recommend her more to anyone.
- 20:42But we had an 80 percent close rate for our last launch.
- 20:45I mentioned this at the beginning of the episode.
- 20:47We had an 80 percent close rate on our last launch into the
- 20:52business by design mentorship.
- 20:54And the reason that we did that, one thing that I did not do, I did not
- 20:57use a sales script, that old school sales script where you walk somebody
- 21:01through, tell me what your desires are.
- 21:03What do you hope to do?
- 21:05What is it that you really want to accomplish?
- 21:07What are the implications?
- 21:08Okay, fast forward six months from now, or a year from now.
- 21:11Where are you if you don't make this happen?
- 21:13Where you can just feel the script being read.
- 21:16I recently did a sales call with somebody I was gonna maybe invest with.
- 21:20And I got walked through that script.
- 21:22And he was fine.
- 21:24I liked his service and everything, but there was just something so icky
- 21:27about that sales process where I was like, Oh God, could you just talk to me?
- 21:32It's making me not trust you.
- 21:35Because I feel like you are just following this script to get me to say these things
- 21:39so you know what your next answer is.
- 21:41You're manipulating me.
- 21:44I don't do that.
- 21:45I threw all of that away and I just sat there, and I answered
- 21:48their questions, and I helped them identify what their issues were.
- 21:53And then I told them honestly, whether I felt that I could help them or not,
- 21:58if I thought they were ready for this.
- 22:00And some people weren't.
- 22:02And I suggested, book a reading with me, do something smaller, but I don't
- 22:08think that this will serve you right now.
- 22:09I think it will be more of a burden for you, so I don't recommend it.
- 22:14That's integrity, and that's what people respond to.
- 22:19That's being unshakeable, because I didn't sit there and think that if
- 22:21one person didn't sign, that another person wasn't right behind them.
- 22:25I know that if you're not right for me, somebody else is.
- 22:28And you're right for somebody else.
- 22:31That's power.
- 22:33So I hope you liked this episode.
- 22:35I hope that this broke down and demystified some of the energy versus
- 22:38strategy of sales and how human design can start to tune you into
- 22:44what I call pitchless selling and get you to that place where you're
- 22:47selling all the time with ever having to actually hard sell anybody.
- 22:51This is how sales feel good.
- 22:53This is how revenue starts coming in and generating itself and you
- 22:58start to feel very supported by your business, very supported by money.
- 23:03Without having to feel like you are manipulating or messing with people.
- 23:08And it helps you deliver the best product as well.
- 23:11So I hope that this became clear for you.
- 23:13Please, register for the Authority Accelerator Masterclass.
- 23:16DM me the word Masterclass on Instagram, I'm @NicoleLainoOfficial.
- 23:19Or go to nicolelaino.com/masterclass and we'll register you
- 23:23there right on the website.
- 23:24You can go to the show notes and we have all of those linked up
- 23:26for you there if you need to.
- 23:28Thank you so much for being here, I appreciate you.
- 23:30I hope to see you in the Masterclass.
- 23:32And remember, in order to have an unshakeable business, you must
- 23:34first become an unshakeable human.
- 23:36So thanks for letting us help you become unshakeable with human design, everybody.
- 23:39We'll see you next time.
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