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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to HBr Talk three seventy six. Marriage
- 0:05Speaker 1: is what brings us to geta Today. I'm your host,
- 0:09Speaker 1: Tanna Wallen here with the personification of perceptivity, Mike Stevenson,
- 0:14Speaker 1: and and we have the dose in charge, Brian Martinez
- 0:18Speaker 1: in the background. You won't get to hear him, but
- 0:21Speaker 1: he is making it possible for us to have the
- 0:25Speaker 1: vertical live stream as well as the horizontal live stream.
- 0:30Speaker 1: And it's always good when you can remain vertical when
- 0:34Speaker 1: you're supposed to be awake. So we'll see if I
- 0:36Speaker 1: can do that today. No sleep today, So but in
- 0:42Speaker 1: the meantime, before we get into this riveting feminist tripe,
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- 1:47Speaker 1: the top of the page. And with that, we are
- 1:52Speaker 1: still on you and women. That sounds like some kind
- 1:56Speaker 1: of a drug, doesn't it, But it's not. It's unfortunately
- 2:02Speaker 1: just a well a misfortune that we're we're stuck with
- 2:07Speaker 1: you and women, and it's mostly because no matter what
- 2:12Speaker 1: country you're in right now, they're screwing around with your laws.
- 2:18Speaker 1: If you live in any nation on the continent of
- 2:22Speaker 1: South America or the continent of Africa, they are actively
- 2:28Speaker 1: fucking with your laws right now. And that's what we've
- 2:32Speaker 1: been looking at. This one is about Africa. And so
- 2:36Speaker 1: if it's normal in your culture for marriage to have,
- 2:40Speaker 1: say a tradition of the husband being the head of
- 2:46Speaker 1: household and the wife being his helpmate, you might not
- 2:53Speaker 1: like the feminist outlook on marriage here.
- 2:56Speaker 2: It's like a drug that ruins your life and doesn't
- 2:58Speaker 2: even feel good, like meth.
- 3:02Speaker 1: Heroine. Yeah, uh but but unfortunately, Well, I guess I
- 3:09Speaker 1: don't know how heroin would feel for other people, but
- 3:12Speaker 1: I know I'm allergic to all opiates, so I don't.
- 3:16Speaker 2: I guess heroin is appropriate because it's named after a
- 3:19Speaker 2: female hero turns out to be uh an effect with
- 3:28Speaker 2: diminishing returns.
- 3:32Speaker 1: Yeah, well, there aren't really very many real heroic female heroes.
- 3:42Speaker 1: There are a lot of things people call female heroes,
- 3:48Speaker 1: but actual heroes that are female are few and far between.
- 3:54Speaker 1: Very sad situation. You have to go back in history
- 3:57Speaker 1: to find them.
- 3:58Speaker 2: For the most last the last we had in Britain
- 4:00Speaker 2: was Thatcher, and everyone hated her. The one the last
- 4:04Speaker 2: one before that was bout to see it, and that
- 4:06Speaker 2: was like two fucking thousand years ago, three thousand years ago,
- 4:09Speaker 2: I should say.
- 4:12Speaker 1: So there you go, guys.
- 4:13Speaker 2: And that's shrouded in the fog of history, shall we say.
- 4:20Speaker 1: Yep, But I don't want to go through the entire
- 4:24Speaker 1: thing to hear about marriage. But there's a couple of
- 4:26Speaker 1: things that I do want to highlight. And this is
- 4:32Speaker 1: kind of interesting, right, and again this is you and women.
- 4:37Speaker 1: They want this encoded specifically into law in all nations
- 4:44Speaker 1: in Africa. The first one sounds okay, right, No marriage
- 4:49Speaker 1: still take place without the free and full consent of
- 4:51Speaker 1: both parties, duh, right, But the second one is interesting.
- 4:57Speaker 1: The minimum age for marriage shall be eighteen years would
- 5:01Speaker 1: have been sufficient if that's the age of majority their
- 5:05Speaker 1: age of adulthood there, which it might be, but that's
- 5:10Speaker 1: not what it says. It says the minimum age of
- 5:14Speaker 1: marriage for women will be eighteen years. So they only
- 5:20Speaker 1: want it encoded into law that women can't get married
- 5:24Speaker 1: before the age of majority. They don't want it encoded
- 5:28Speaker 1: into law that women cannot marry underage boys. Kind of interesting.
- 5:37Speaker 1: And then they want to dictate what marriage means. Monogamy
- 5:43Speaker 1: is encouraged as the preferred form of marriage, and that
- 5:48Speaker 1: the rights of women in marriage and family, including in
- 5:51Speaker 1: poly polygamoust marital relationships, are promoted and protected. So this
- 5:56Speaker 1: is another one they want. They want to say something
- 6:01Speaker 1: is wrong, but then they also want to control it.
- 6:05Speaker 1: Some cultures do have a tradition of a man being
- 6:09Speaker 1: able to have more than one wife, and it is
- 6:14Speaker 1: a cultural practice. It might be legal in the nation
- 6:18Speaker 1: because it is a cultural practice, so they want to
- 6:22Speaker 1: legislate that the culture has to change.
- 6:27Speaker 2: Sorry, I had to read this step a few times. Monogamy.
- 6:31Speaker 2: Monogamy is encouraged as the preferred marriage, and that though
- 6:36Speaker 2: it should be, but that the rights of women in
- 6:39Speaker 2: marriage and family, including in polygamous marital relationships, are promoted
- 6:44Speaker 2: and protected. So we prefer monogamy on paper. But if
- 6:50Speaker 2: you happen to prefer uh, polygamy, that's fine too. This preference.
- 7:00Speaker 3: It's not a rule, it's just a suggestion. So if
- 7:06Speaker 3: you want your country taken over by certain religions and
- 7:11Speaker 3: certain legal traditions or even the legal obligations that in force,
- 7:20Speaker 3: that you have to go ahead with polygamous relationships.
- 7:25Speaker 2: If a particular religion tells you that it's okay, then
- 7:28Speaker 2: that's fine too. All right, Okay, that's good.
- 7:32Speaker 1: So you know what's funny to me about this is
- 7:35Speaker 1: in the United States, a lot of social justice warriors
- 7:40Speaker 1: promote a lifestyle called polyamory, in which a couple may
- 7:49Speaker 1: have another partner or two other partners or four or
- 7:54Speaker 1: five depending on what their what their choices are, and
- 7:59Speaker 1: one might have multiple male partners, or a man might
- 8:03Speaker 1: have multiple female partners and they think it's great, which
- 8:08Speaker 1: for most people, it's not. Most most couples, most groups
- 8:15Speaker 1: can't really handle it, and especially if there is not
- 8:20Speaker 1: a not a good gender balance to it, a lot
- 8:24Speaker 1: of jealousy ensues and it results in a catastrophic breakdown
- 8:31Speaker 1: of the relationship over time and eventually a blowout in
- 8:35Speaker 1: most cases. But they encourage it anyway, and in particular
- 8:43Speaker 1: multiple men with one woman, but apparently they're upset if
- 8:47Speaker 1: the genders are reversed on that because you know, tradition
- 8:51Speaker 1: is bad.
- 8:51Speaker 2: And this and this is why we keep pointing out
- 8:54Speaker 2: that the affectations of Islam, although of Westerners like to
- 9:01Speaker 2: call Islam just just this horrifically misogynistic system where where
- 9:10Speaker 2: where women are not given any advantages and only men
- 9:15Speaker 2: are given the advantages. But here here we see Islam
- 9:22Speaker 2: offers women the opportunity what, yes, it offers women the opportunity.
- 9:29Speaker 1: To be with.
- 9:32Speaker 2: Uh, the perfect man who earns millions every year, and
- 9:39Speaker 2: and it offers multiple women to be with that same man.
- 9:44Speaker 2: Like this is difficult to obtain in a monogamous culture
- 9:50Speaker 2: where it's one woman to one man, because a lot
- 9:54Speaker 2: of men will rise to the top of the heap,
- 9:58Speaker 2: and that leaves shall we say, three quarters of men
- 10:02Speaker 2: below the heap and uh and and in a culture
- 10:05Speaker 2: where women demand all the power that men have, it
- 10:11Speaker 2: is gives women the opportunity two to crowd together in
- 10:16Speaker 2: fours and fives and sixes and and and crowd around
- 10:22Speaker 2: the most successful men. It's the tournament species, folks. It's
- 10:27Speaker 2: like what gorillas have. It's like, well, a lot of
- 10:29Speaker 2: primates have where where women don't have to worry about
- 10:34Speaker 2: having to settle for a for a lesser man or
- 10:39Speaker 2: even the average man, the vast majority of them can
- 10:44Speaker 2: can rally around the most successful men. And this is
- 10:50Speaker 2: what we're seeing in so much of the West nowadays,
- 10:55Speaker 2: ever since, ever since feminism h took route in our civilization,
- 11:03Speaker 2: Like they all want the best of men, Like eighty
- 11:06Speaker 2: percent of women want the best one percent of men,
- 11:13Speaker 2: And like, how is that supposed to work? If anything
- 11:16Speaker 2: is supposed to be monogamous. But yeah, it doesn't make
- 11:21Speaker 2: sense from the from the pair bonding point of view,
- 11:25Speaker 2: but it makes perfect sense from the tournament point of view,
- 11:30Speaker 2: where where the majority of the women surround the the
- 11:40Speaker 2: top percentile of men. And I feminists will say, this
- 11:46Speaker 2: isn't feminism. Polygamy isn't feminism. Yes it is. Yes, it
- 11:51Speaker 2: fucking is, because you all want resources from the very
- 11:59Speaker 2: best of men. And so obviously, when when feminism reaches
- 12:04Speaker 2: reaches its final conclusion, you will, you will all you'll
- 12:08Speaker 2: be fine with sharing the top one percent of men
- 12:13Speaker 2: because it's much better for you than than just pair
- 12:18Speaker 2: bonding with someone at your same level. And how to
- 12:25Speaker 2: quite explain what that same level is, Well, it's mostly financial,
- 12:29Speaker 2: it's mostly based on resources. It's a difference between pair
- 12:36Speaker 2: bonding and and tournament. Like I say, this is what
- 12:44Speaker 2: made us distinct from the other ape species, that we
- 12:48Speaker 2: could finally develop a pair bonding situation where women can
- 12:56Speaker 2: be like, I don't need resources, I just need a
- 13:02Speaker 2: man who's at my same level and will help me
- 13:05Speaker 2: raise my children at the same level. But and that's
- 13:08Speaker 2: what that is what we had for many thousands of years.
- 13:13Speaker 2: But that wasn't good enough for women. Certainly not since
- 13:17Speaker 2: the advent of romantic chivalry, and certainly not since the
- 13:20Speaker 2: advent of the politicization of romantic chivalry that we call feminism.
- 13:27Speaker 2: So yeah, the end game of feminism is in fact
- 13:34Speaker 2: something a bit like Islam. Yeah, I know, I know
- 13:38Speaker 2: that's hard for people to hear because they think, well,
- 13:41Speaker 2: surely Islam is the opposite of feminism. No, no, it is.
- 13:46Speaker 2: It is. It is the end game of feminism where
- 13:50Speaker 2: women can just be like, I don't give a fuck
- 13:51Speaker 2: about men as human beings. I only we only give
- 13:54Speaker 2: a fuck about men as as as as bank as wallets,
- 14:01Speaker 2: as resource monkeys. And if it and if it means
- 14:07Speaker 2: four of us have to share the same rich man
- 14:11Speaker 2: rather than each one of us having to pare bond
- 14:16Speaker 2: with the average man, then hell yes, we'll take four
- 14:20Speaker 2: of us crowding around the richest man, or indeed more
- 14:25Speaker 2: than four of us, or indeed all of us crowding
- 14:28Speaker 2: around the richest entity called the government. And that's what's
- 14:37Speaker 2: happening at this point. The majority of women in any
- 14:41Speaker 2: given country in the West is crowding around this abstract
- 14:48Speaker 2: secular replacement for the male godhead, that is the government.
- 14:55Speaker 1: The most well known historical incarnation that I think is
- 15:02Speaker 1: King King Solomon and his five hundred wives. And I
- 15:08Speaker 1: just I just want to remind everybody that in in
- 15:11Speaker 1: the Book of Proverb Proverbs written by King Solomon, no
- 15:16Speaker 1: less than four times he talked about just how awful
- 15:21Speaker 1: it is living under the same roof as a quarrelsome woman.
- 15:28Speaker 1: He also he also wrote other verses about the character
- 15:36Speaker 1: of a quarrelsome woman, and you know, it's just stuff
- 15:40Speaker 1: like that, but no less than four times he specified
- 15:46Speaker 1: that it was better to live in the far far
- 15:50Speaker 1: corner of the roof of the house than under the
- 15:53Speaker 1: roof with a quarrelsome woman exposed to the to the
- 15:57Speaker 1: weather and sandstorms and whatever else might be happening, because
- 16:04Speaker 1: who wants to be around her? Who wants to be
- 16:06Speaker 1: around that bitch? Right? And and as essentially the conclusion
- 16:14Speaker 1: of having five hundred wives is that that bitches be unpleasant.
- 16:23Speaker 1: So there you go. Uh And in terms of in
- 16:28Speaker 1: terms of you know, multiple partner marriage, though it's it
- 16:34Speaker 1: is very interesting to me feminists treat polygamy uh in
- 16:43Speaker 1: in Western countries as though it demeans women and as
- 16:49Speaker 1: though it is ownership and such, right, but then then
- 16:57Speaker 1: they encourage polyandria. So what does that say about how
- 17:03Speaker 1: they think of men? And in the meantime, you know,
- 17:08Speaker 1: again like this, this is a cultural thing. You cannot
- 17:12Speaker 1: just dictate in law that a culture will change. It
- 17:16Speaker 1: doesn't work. And the way that people handle it is
- 17:19Speaker 1: simply the same way that people who want to be
- 17:22Speaker 1: in polyamorous relationships in the West handle it. They have
- 17:26Speaker 1: maybe one couple actually gets married, maybe two couples actually
- 17:32Speaker 1: get married, and then all four of them live together,
- 17:36Speaker 1: but they're obviously not all four able to be married
- 17:39Speaker 1: to each other. Some of the partners aren't legally married,
- 17:46Speaker 1: and some of them are. And it doesn't seem to
- 17:51Speaker 1: be the thing that destroys these relationships. Like I said,
- 17:55Speaker 1: it usually does result in things like jealousy, and they're
- 17:59Speaker 1: really rotten. Thing about polyamorous relationships as opposed to you know,
- 18:06Speaker 1: cultural polygamy is that a lot of times you have
- 18:13Speaker 1: it starts out open, or people confuse polyamory with open relationships,
- 18:19Speaker 1: and then you have this discovery that for every opportunity
- 18:27Speaker 1: the male partner gets to be with somebody other than
- 18:32Speaker 1: the female partner, the female partner will get ten to
- 18:35Speaker 1: fifty opportunities and turn most of them down but not
- 18:43Speaker 1: all of them, and she will accept more than he
- 18:50Speaker 1: gets in most cases, and that usually leaves him out
- 18:55Speaker 1: in the cold. And it's particularly bad thing when it
- 18:59Speaker 1: is that that gender balance, because men do have stronger
- 19:06Speaker 1: and more frequent libido than women do. Where with polygamous relationships,
- 19:13Speaker 1: at least, what you've got going on in that household
- 19:18Speaker 1: is the sex with the the lower libido gets to
- 19:23Speaker 1: split the the wifely duties among themselves, and the sex
- 19:30Speaker 1: with the higher libido has more opportunity, so that that
- 19:35Speaker 1: that actually fits the sex is better. Not that it's
- 19:39Speaker 1: an ideal relationship. I have come to the conclusion that
- 19:44Speaker 1: for the majority of people, monogamy works best. It's a
- 19:48Speaker 1: very rare thing for you run into people that actually
- 19:50Speaker 1: can handle any polyamorous relationship, whether it's polygamy, polyandry, whether
- 20:01Speaker 1: it's an open relationship, whatever. I think that more often
- 20:06Speaker 1: than not, what you end up with is multiplication of
- 20:09Speaker 1: the conflicts that take place in relationships, the problems that
- 20:13Speaker 1: you have to solve in order to keep your relationship strong.
- 20:17Speaker 1: And you don't necessarily get a multiplication of the dedication
- 20:22Speaker 1: that it takes and the the ethics that it takes
- 20:29Speaker 1: in your relationship to keep the relationship strong, and so
- 20:34Speaker 1: it falls apart. But again, you know, I wouldn't go
- 20:40Speaker 1: to some other country where the norm is polygamy and
- 20:46Speaker 1: say you guys have to change, because I think because
- 20:51Speaker 1: that's bullshit. Things are different in a culture where that's
- 20:56Speaker 1: the cultural norm that you know, that's their business to
- 21:01Speaker 1: figure out, and I don't a world government shouldn't be
- 21:05Speaker 1: getting involved in that. And in fact, I genuinely think
- 21:09Speaker 1: the government should get the fuck out of marriage altogether.
- 21:13Speaker 1: The only thing that government should have to do with
- 21:16Speaker 1: it is if you make a marriage contract and then
- 21:20Speaker 1: someone violates the contract, the other person should be able
- 21:23Speaker 1: to take the violator to court for breach of contract.
- 21:27Speaker 1: That's it. Everything else, you know, should be handled by
- 21:34Speaker 1: the contract and not by the government. The church maybe
- 21:38Speaker 1: if your if your marriage is through a church, and
- 21:43Speaker 1: if it's not a contract, would would still cement the marriage.
- 21:50Speaker 2: I have to I have to contend this idea that
- 21:55Speaker 2: men have a greater libido than women. It seems that
- 21:58Speaker 2: way in a lot of contexts, but when you look
- 22:03Speaker 2: at the the kind of entertainment that women prefer compared
- 22:07Speaker 2: with the kind of entertainment that men prefer. I mean
- 22:11Speaker 2: men prefer action movies and women prefer romance movies and that,
- 22:15Speaker 2: and that's just the tip of the iceberg.
- 22:19Speaker 1: Yeah, but romance movies are made to appeal to women's egos,
- 22:23Speaker 1: not necessarily their libido. No, like especially rom coms like
- 22:30Speaker 1: those are those are ego not they're they're vanity boosters.
- 22:37Speaker 2: And again we look at the pawn that men and
- 22:41Speaker 2: women consume. There's this stereotype that men that men need
- 22:45Speaker 2: pornography because they can't possibly survive without thinking of sex
- 22:50Speaker 2: every seven seconds. And that's a total lie. By the way,
- 22:53Speaker 2: this one of this is one of these factoids that's
- 22:55Speaker 2: just been expressed across the civilization with their ever being
- 23:00Speaker 2: fact checked, that men think about sex every seven seconds,
- 23:05Speaker 2: without ever expressing how often women think about sex. I
- 23:09Speaker 2: think I think women think about sex more than men do.
- 23:14Speaker 2: And is only one element of this difference, the idea
- 23:25Speaker 2: that men think about sex more than women think about sex.
- 23:29Speaker 2: It seems like utter bollocks to me. It's just the
- 23:34Speaker 2: main difference is what turns men on and what turns
- 23:38Speaker 2: women on. Men can easily find something that turns them
- 23:44Speaker 2: on sexually. With women, they find it more difficult to
- 23:48Speaker 2: find something that turns them on sexually, because with men,
- 23:51Speaker 2: all they need is a woman, a woman who looks
- 23:55Speaker 2: like a woman and acts like a woman, and who
- 23:57Speaker 2: is generally nice to them. But a woman is not
- 24:00Speaker 2: turned on until she has found a towering resource monkey,
- 24:10Speaker 2: you know what I mean. That's more difficult to find.
- 24:14Speaker 2: It's not it's it's it's not though the women have
- 24:16Speaker 2: a lower libido. It's just that they have higher standards
- 24:19Speaker 2: in partners.
- 24:21Speaker 1: Than there's There's been numerous studies that have shown that
- 24:25Speaker 1: men have more frequent and more intense sexual desires in women.
- 24:31Speaker 1: Women might think about sex a lot, but a lot
- 24:34Speaker 1: of women's thoughts about sex are about how to use
- 24:38Speaker 1: it in a manipulative way, or that's still how to
- 24:41Speaker 1: be the center of a man's No, it's not libido.
- 24:45Speaker 1: That's not libido. Uh, that that's ego again, like libido
- 24:52Speaker 1: is your desire, your desire for sexual gratification and sexual
- 24:58Speaker 1: intimacy and relativeness isn't intimacy and it's not sexual gratification,
- 25:05Speaker 1: it's material gratification. So there there is a difference, and
- 25:11Speaker 1: it's the reason why women are so able to use
- 25:14Speaker 1: sex to manipulate men, because I.
- 25:16Speaker 2: Guess that explains why almost all prostitutes are women.
- 25:20Speaker 1: Yeah, well, almost all prostitutes are are Almost all prostitutes
- 25:28Speaker 1: are are in service to men, but that there are
- 25:32Speaker 1: prostitutes that are in service to women as well, And
- 25:35Speaker 1: and that's the other thing. Women's libido peaks at a
- 25:42Speaker 1: much older age than men's libido peaks at, which is odd.
- 25:50Speaker 1: But see, then you get these horny, divorced, middle aged
- 25:55Speaker 1: women that go to foreign countries where male prostitution is
- 26:01Speaker 1: more it's easier to find on sex tourism vacations basically,
- 26:11Speaker 1: and usually they go looking for teenage boys, which I
- 26:16Speaker 1: think is really gross, But that's because I raised kids.
- 26:21Speaker 1: I would think that most women who raised kids would
- 26:23Speaker 1: think that was really gross, but apparently that's not the case.
- 26:26Speaker 1: Then again, some women apparently like men who are built
- 26:30Speaker 1: like cattle. So what do I know? But yeah, women's
- 26:37Speaker 1: women's libido is weirder than men's libido, and women will
- 26:42Speaker 1: respond with sexual readiness to things that have absolutely nothing
- 26:47Speaker 1: to do with sex. But they in terms of actually
- 26:54Speaker 1: being in the mood and deciding to do something or
- 26:57Speaker 1: wanting to do something, it is a more frequent experience
- 27:02Speaker 1: among men, and as a result, women do end up
- 27:06Speaker 1: using sex to manipulate men. Women do sell sex more
- 27:11Speaker 1: than men sell sex. And you know, men are stuck
- 27:17Speaker 1: in a position of involuntary celibacy more often than women are.
- 27:24Speaker 1: And I would say the women that are all clamoring
- 27:27Speaker 1: for the top guy that don't merit the top guy
- 27:32Speaker 1: are not involuntarily celibate. They're just refusing to uh to
- 27:38Speaker 1: play in their own league. So whereas there are men
- 27:45Speaker 1: who don't have a league, and it's it sucks and
- 27:49Speaker 1: it doesn't seem fair that there should be people who
- 27:53Speaker 1: don't have a league, there are not very many women
- 27:55Speaker 1: who don't have a league, but there are men who
- 27:58Speaker 1: don't even even women who are in the category of
- 28:03Speaker 1: like profound intellectual disabilities and physical disabilities like where that
- 28:10Speaker 1: might keep a man from being able to find a partner,
- 28:13Speaker 1: it doesn't keep a woman from being able to find
- 28:15Speaker 1: a partner. So you know, there is a significant difference
- 28:20Speaker 1: in standards, and a lot of it is partly because
- 28:26Speaker 1: now part of it I think is because men have
- 28:29Speaker 1: always had to be nicer, but part of it is
- 28:32Speaker 1: because men are more The word is desperate doesn't fit,
- 28:40Speaker 1: but definitely interested. Men are more interested.
- 28:44Speaker 2: All things being equal, it sounds the reason that the
- 28:47Speaker 2: most sex desperate people the elderly, The elderly who have
- 28:53Speaker 2: not found a partner, and that seems to be the
- 28:55Speaker 2: case with women. Elderly or middle aged women who have
- 28:59Speaker 2: not yet found a partner are the horniest, but the
- 29:05Speaker 2: horniest males. It goes all the way up and down
- 29:10Speaker 2: the age spectrum, including men in their twenties and men
- 29:15Speaker 2: in their thirties, because they find it so difficult to
- 29:18Speaker 2: find a woman. And I don't think that's necessarily natural.
- 29:21Speaker 2: I think it's because we live in an age where
- 29:23Speaker 2: women have unbelievably high standards, and if anything, men have
- 29:28Speaker 2: unbelievably low standards, but not such low standards that they
- 29:33Speaker 2: will that they will get with a sixty year old woman.
- 29:37Speaker 2: And that's why a sixty year old woman has to
- 29:39Speaker 2: go to these tropical locations to find all the way
- 29:44Speaker 2: all the way to these tropical locations in order to
- 29:48Speaker 2: find a teenage man slash boys who's willing to give
- 29:55Speaker 2: it up for money. Whereas whereas, whereas men of all ages,
- 30:05Speaker 2: including teenagers, can have trouble finding a woman with low
- 30:11Speaker 2: enough standards, I mean even average enough standards to pair
- 30:18Speaker 2: up with the average twenty year old or teenage boy
- 30:24Speaker 2: such I mean, a woman in her twenties or indeed
- 30:29Speaker 2: a teenager woman or even a woman in her thirties
- 30:33Speaker 2: doesn't have to look for a male prostitute, because, as
- 30:39Speaker 2: Karen's often said, they could just go to a man
- 30:42Speaker 2: at a bar and whisper some whispers and sweet nothings,
- 30:48Speaker 2: some dirty somethings in a man's ear, and that's that.
- 30:55Speaker 2: They can just go ahead and do that, whereas whereas
- 30:59Speaker 2: men don't have option, And that seems normal to us
- 31:06Speaker 2: in this day and age. But let's not forget this
- 31:09Speaker 2: day and age has been ravaged with feminism for the
- 31:13Speaker 2: last dred years and indeed romantic chivalry for the last
- 31:16Speaker 2: thousand years. So it's hard to say how much of
- 31:21Speaker 2: this is natural, how much of this comes down to
- 31:24Speaker 2: the natural libido of men and women. I think men
- 31:30Speaker 2: and women have similar libidos. I think they both think
- 31:34Speaker 2: about sex all the time, especially if they're not having sex.
- 31:39Speaker 2: It's the younger they are down to and including teenage years,
- 31:45Speaker 2: the more they think about sex. But it's just it's
- 31:49Speaker 2: remarkably difficult for men in the West to find sex
- 31:54Speaker 2: unless they happen to be millionaires, and it's remarkably easy
- 31:59Speaker 2: for women in the world to find sex even if
- 32:01Speaker 2: they happen to be milkmaids.
- 32:04Speaker 1: Or whatever whatever. By the way, we did get a
- 32:08Speaker 1: super super child from Meredith G for five dollars and
- 32:12Speaker 1: she said, HBr talk three seventy six honey for the Badgers.
- 32:16Speaker 1: Thanks for the thought provoking conversation and speaking of thoughts.
- 32:23Speaker 1: So you and women, not only are they wanting to
- 32:26Speaker 1: dictate how marriage works, but also where people how people's
- 32:32Speaker 1: agreements on where to live work. So in some cultures
- 32:38Speaker 1: it is normal that when men and women get married,
- 32:44Speaker 1: the man already has property. In fact, he's not an
- 32:49Speaker 1: eligible bachelor without it, and so when he gets married,
- 32:54Speaker 1: his wife is expected to move in with him because
- 32:58Speaker 1: he is her provider. And that's been historically traditional for
- 33:05Speaker 1: a long time. But in this they want it set
- 33:13Speaker 1: in all nations legislation. They want it legislated that the
- 33:19Speaker 1: husband and wife shall, by mutual agreement, choose their matrimonial
- 33:22Speaker 1: regime and place of residence. Which is interesting because if
- 33:27Speaker 1: you are in a polygamous marriage. So the husband already
- 33:32Speaker 1: has a mansion or palace or other big place of residence,
- 33:38Speaker 1: and he's got three other wives, and you are wife
- 33:41Speaker 1: number four. Do you really get to say, I want
- 33:44Speaker 1: you all to move to my village or my town,
- 33:47Speaker 1: my community, my city, my province, whatever, so that we
- 33:52Speaker 1: can be close to my family. It is quite an
- 33:58Speaker 1: interesting question. If they're not going to suggests that monogamy
- 34:02Speaker 1: is required, then it's kind of silly to suggest that
- 34:08Speaker 1: the the the fourth wife gets to say and where
- 34:12Speaker 1: the family is going to live, you know, and obviously
- 34:19Speaker 1: you know when it is a monogamous relationship, and and
- 34:24Speaker 1: if the marriage is consensual by both parties, then you
- 34:31Speaker 1: know she is consenting to either move in with him
- 34:36Speaker 1: or they've made arrangements otherwise. But nope, they want it
- 34:41Speaker 1: legislated as if women somehow don't get that consent. And
- 34:47Speaker 1: then they also want married women to be able to
- 34:49Speaker 1: keep their maiden name retain their nationality. So say, for example,
- 34:58Speaker 1: if a Canadian woman came to the United States and
- 35:02Speaker 1: married a US man, they want the Canadian woman to
- 35:06Speaker 1: remain Canadian, which would really complicate things in a marriage
- 35:12Speaker 1: like that in the US but in African nations, this
- 35:18Speaker 1: is what they want. They want the woman to be
- 35:24Speaker 1: able to determine the national nationality of their children unless
- 35:30Speaker 1: the other national legislation basically contradicts it or it's a
- 35:39Speaker 1: national security risk. Like you marry somebody from a warring nation,
- 35:44Speaker 1: they can't decide their kids are part of that nation.
- 35:47Speaker 1: And they want they want women to have separate property
- 35:55Speaker 1: of their own in a marriage. So what they're essentially
- 35:58Speaker 1: doing there is saying that they want women to be
- 36:04Speaker 1: able to be married on paper and remain unmarried. Everywhere
- 36:12Speaker 1: else you think about that. Feminism has fought tooth and
- 36:21Speaker 1: nail in the West to break down and destroy the
- 36:25Speaker 1: institution of marriage, to separate wives from their husbands and
- 36:31Speaker 1: fathers from their children, and to ensure that women feel
- 36:36Speaker 1: enslaved by marriage rather than in a partnership being in
- 36:44Speaker 1: a partnership. And this seems to be part of that.
- 36:51Speaker 2: But they've fought tooth and nail to reduce men's rights
- 36:55Speaker 2: in the event of a marriage, but not the government's
- 37:00Speaker 2: stranglehold over how marriage works legally. And I've often been
- 37:07Speaker 2: of the opinion that the government should not be evolved
- 37:10Speaker 2: involved in marriage inso far as the government is involved
- 37:15Speaker 2: in anything, Like, if two people love each other and
- 37:18Speaker 2: they want to bring their families together in matrimony, then
- 37:25Speaker 2: they should absolutely be able to, but the government shouldn't
- 37:29Speaker 2: be involved in it. And in light of my own situation,
- 37:36Speaker 2: I'm like, well, I really want to move to the
- 37:39Speaker 2: US because my country is fucked. It's gonna get taken
- 37:43Speaker 2: over by sharia law any day now, So I really
- 37:48Speaker 2: want to move to the US. And if marriage is
- 37:51Speaker 2: what it takes, then fuck it. I'll go against all
- 37:54Speaker 2: my megtail vows and all the fucking do it. But
- 37:59Speaker 2: the fact any of this is even held hostage by
- 38:01Speaker 2: the government in the first place is I like to
- 38:07Speaker 2: think it's it's it's a way into the country, but
- 38:10Speaker 2: it isn't. It's it is it should never have been
- 38:17Speaker 2: a way to keep people out in the first place.
- 38:21Speaker 1: It's the worst part about it is it's the only
- 38:26Speaker 1: way to get to live in the same country as
- 38:29Speaker 1: the woman you're going to be with, and it's you
- 38:34Speaker 1: have to tell the government, yes, we will make this
- 38:37Speaker 1: legal and we'll get you involved in a relationship. So technically,
- 38:43Speaker 1: every every relationship in the United States and any western
- 38:50Speaker 1: nation that you know, any nation that has legislation that
- 38:55Speaker 1: just determines what happens in a marriage and what defines
- 38:59Speaker 1: a marriage and so on. It's they're all in a
- 39:03Speaker 1: way polyamorous and all incestuous. It's husband, wife and uncle Sam,
- 39:12Speaker 1: although in other countries it's not uncle Sam. So there
- 39:14Speaker 1: you go. But yeah, it is a rotten situation. My
- 39:20Speaker 1: husband and I, the only reason that we went with
- 39:25Speaker 1: getting married legally or was because people treat your relationship
- 39:31Speaker 1: like it's not real if you don't get the government
- 39:34Speaker 1: involved in it. I care about the church's involvement in
- 39:39Speaker 1: it simply because the church family will support the marriage,
- 39:44Speaker 1: but the government doesn't do that. In fact, the government
- 39:51Speaker 1: kind of facilitates the breakup of the marriage more than
- 39:56Speaker 1: it facilitates the unity of the marriage. So I saw
- 40:01Speaker 1: the government as a problem and didn't really want to
- 40:05Speaker 1: get it involved. But the government doesn't give you much choice.
- 40:09Speaker 1: You know, it doesn't really count your relationship. If something
- 40:13Speaker 1: happens to your partner and you you need to be
- 40:19Speaker 1: there for the partner. You don't have any rights in
- 40:23Speaker 1: regard to your your marital relationship and your responsibilities to
- 40:28Speaker 1: your partner if you have not made the government a
- 40:30Speaker 1: part of your relationship. So it's a terrible thing. And
- 40:35Speaker 1: if you are from a different country than your partner,
- 40:38Speaker 1: you don't have the legal right to live in the
- 40:41Speaker 1: same country as your partner unless you make the government
- 40:44Speaker 1: part of your relationship.
- 40:46Speaker 2: And that's that's the only thing the government is supposed
- 40:48Speaker 2: to be full, isn't it. I mean controlling the relationships,
- 40:52Speaker 2: controlling the borders between people from one country and another country.
- 40:57Speaker 2: And yeah, in many ways that sucks, but in many ways,
- 41:01Speaker 2: that's what a government is for. That's the only thing
- 41:05Speaker 2: a government is for controlling and the rights of citizens
- 41:12Speaker 2: between one nation and another. And Okay, fine, I guess
- 41:16Speaker 2: that's what stops. That is what's supposed to stop millions
- 41:24Speaker 2: of shadow beasts from invading your country just because it's
- 41:31Speaker 2: the they can force the hand of whatever maidens they
- 41:38Speaker 2: can find in another country. Yeah, And I don't know
- 41:43Speaker 2: any easy way through this situation other than having at
- 41:47Speaker 2: least a small government. Like I'm not a total fucking
- 41:51Speaker 2: anarchist in any of these ways. Like it's important. The
- 41:55Speaker 2: whole idea of having a national government is to uphold
- 41:59Speaker 2: an as opposed to another nation, to keep these nations separate,
- 42:09Speaker 2: so that they don't get invaded by other nations.
- 42:14Speaker 1: Yeah, so that you and women can't come along and
- 42:16Speaker 1: tell you what marriage has to be in your country
- 42:19Speaker 1: because of the way they feel about marriage in their countries. Yeah.
- 42:25Speaker 1: And of course everything that we just read, the ultimate
- 42:30Speaker 1: goal of it is actually right here in Part D
- 42:35Speaker 1: of their statement on separation, divorce and an allment of marriage.
- 42:39Speaker 1: In case of separation, divorce or a moment of marriage,
- 42:42Speaker 1: which they're attempting to cause with their stipulations on marriage,
- 42:46Speaker 1: women and men shall have the right to an equitable
- 42:49Speaker 1: sharing of joint property deriving from the marriage. So what
- 42:52Speaker 1: they really want is women to be able to monopolize
- 42:55Speaker 1: a rich man and then divorce him and take half
- 42:59Speaker 1: hish it like they do in the US. That is
- 43:03Speaker 1: the end game for you and women. Not making marriage
- 43:13Speaker 1: better for men and women, not uh, supporting functional relationships,
- 43:22Speaker 1: not helping to prevent abuse or abandonment or you know,
- 43:28Speaker 1: neglect or anything like that. Nope, in case of in
- 43:35Speaker 1: case of divorce, which they will encourage, she gets half
- 43:41Speaker 1: half Eddie. So that was the main thing I wanted
- 43:47Speaker 1: to look at tonight in terms of this, Uh, the
- 43:51Speaker 1: the their their little thing about marriage. I may come
- 43:56Speaker 1: back to more as I go through this uh more
- 44:00Speaker 1: details of this particular document, but I think you guys
- 44:07Speaker 1: get the gist at this point. They don't notice that
- 44:10Speaker 1: they discuss rights that the wife shall have. Mostly occasionally
- 44:18Speaker 1: they reference mutual agreement when when the woman gets to
- 44:24Speaker 1: decide if the man has to move, and then of
- 44:29Speaker 1: course you have an equitable division of property that was
- 44:35Speaker 1: owned by the husband before the marriage more likely than not.
- 44:44Speaker 1: And they're doing the same thing in Spain. I'm not
- 44:47Speaker 1: going to I don't know if I'm going to try
- 44:49Speaker 1: to get into that tonight. I think I might look
- 44:52Speaker 1: more at that on another day, because if I remember,
- 44:56Speaker 1: I had to have it go through a translation. So
- 45:01Speaker 1: we are going to finally look at the second article
- 45:05Speaker 1: that I referenced earlier, UH five or six shows ago
- 45:11Speaker 1: how to counter the manispheer's toxic influence. Remember, the goal
- 45:16Speaker 1: encountering the manuspher's toxic influence is to stop us from
- 45:21Speaker 1: influencing men and the men that we influence from influencing
- 45:27Speaker 1: governments against the passage of legislation like we just looked at.
- 45:35Speaker 1: So they don't want men to stop governments from ensuring
- 45:41Speaker 1: that women can marry wealthy men and then divorce them
- 45:45Speaker 1: and take half their shit. They want to make sure
- 45:49Speaker 1: that women. Women are considered uh special. They don't have
- 45:57Speaker 1: to earn anything, they can just marry into it and
- 45:59Speaker 1: then take with them when they leave.
- 46:01Speaker 2: Yeah, why why why does such institutions never speak of
- 46:05Speaker 2: such a thing as the femisphere. Why is there not
- 46:09Speaker 2: considered to be any such thing as as this femisphere. Well,
- 46:14Speaker 2: it's because the un is part of the femisphere. It's
- 46:17Speaker 2: because the mainstream media is part of the femosy. It's
- 46:20Speaker 2: because world governments are part of the femisphere, and so
- 46:23Speaker 2: they're just considered normal. It's much like this illustration that
- 46:30Speaker 2: I've been trying to paint since since ten years ago,
- 46:34Speaker 2: that the femisphere is the outer mantle of the human species,
- 46:43Speaker 2: and the manisphere is is this inner part that's considered
- 46:50Speaker 2: to be normal, but at the same time considered to
- 46:52Speaker 2: be so abnormal as to be toxic. Like, the femisphere
- 46:59Speaker 2: is not a thing. It's not considered to be a thing,
- 47:02Speaker 2: even though it must be. If there's a manisphere, there
- 47:05Speaker 2: must be a femisphere. But it's not just it's just
- 47:09Speaker 2: it's not considered a threat, no matter how, no matter
- 47:14Speaker 2: what happens, no matter how deeply into our civilization, feminism
- 47:21Speaker 2: buries its clause. It's is never considered to be a
- 47:26Speaker 2: threat to the status quo because it is the status quo.
- 47:33Speaker 2: It's been the status quo, and not just for a
- 47:35Speaker 2: hundred years, but for a thousand years. And and I
- 47:40Speaker 2: don't know if, even though, if that's the top end
- 47:43Speaker 2: of the estimation or if it's the lower end, but
- 47:46Speaker 2: it's ever since romantic chivalry has been installed as part
- 47:51Speaker 2: of our civilization, and that is at least a thousand years.
- 47:55Speaker 1: Interestingly, an example of this is actually your organization. We're
- 48:00Speaker 1: looking at you and women. Did you know that there
- 48:03Speaker 1: is no such organization as you and men?
- 48:08Speaker 2: Of course not. Why would it be. Men have always
- 48:12Speaker 2: been in charge. They don't need rights.
- 48:15Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's what we're told. Men have always been
- 48:17Speaker 1: in charge and they don't need rights. That's why anytime
- 48:21Speaker 1: human rights activism takes place in another country where there's starvation, war, poverty, disease, uh,
- 48:29Speaker 1: you know, any kind of despotism, and where women are
- 48:35Speaker 1: being you know, treated like like meat and men are
- 48:42Speaker 1: being treated like dead people because they're getting killed then uh, yeah,
- 48:49Speaker 1: all of the women's organizations rush to make sure that
- 48:52Speaker 1: women get the lie in's share of resources and protections. So,
- 48:58Speaker 1: and even in nations that are not not what you
- 49:02Speaker 1: would necessarily call third world, like India is it sort
- 49:08Speaker 1: of fits that second world definition where it has a
- 49:11Speaker 1: lot of first world amenities and a lot of first
- 49:15Speaker 1: world issues, but it still has third world problems at
- 49:17Speaker 1: the same time, and one of those is widespread poverty.
- 49:22Speaker 1: And as soon as a system existed to provide through
- 49:31Speaker 1: through government through people's tax dollars, essentially to provide food
- 49:39Speaker 1: for people who couldn't afford to buy their own food,
- 49:43Speaker 1: it was given to the women to control. And to
- 49:48Speaker 1: the degree that men can't get help on their own.
- 49:53Speaker 1: If a man doesn't have a wife or a mother,
- 49:56Speaker 1: or a sister or a daughter living in his home,
- 50:00Speaker 1: he has no access to this system because only women
- 50:04Speaker 1: are allowed to receive this free food, and then then
- 50:11Speaker 1: they determine they're supposed to distribute it who gets It's again,
- 50:17Speaker 1: the majority of people living without any family support at
- 50:22Speaker 1: all in India are men. So they essentially took took
- 50:30Speaker 1: a problem that it affects both sexes, and it affects children.
- 50:37Speaker 1: But there are more men who are totally on their
- 50:39Speaker 1: own than there are women who are totally on their own.
- 50:42Speaker 1: And they went, well, we've got to help those women,
- 50:46Speaker 1: completely ignoring the men. Yeah, in the US, only only
- 50:51Speaker 1: twenty five percent of the homeless are are women. And
- 50:56Speaker 1: if I remember my stats right, only five percent of
- 51:00Speaker 1: unsheltered homeless or women. The rest, the seventy and the
- 51:04Speaker 1: ninety five percent are men. And the lion's share of
- 51:10Speaker 1: resources are reserved for women, women with children, women without children.
- 51:15Speaker 1: Their order seems to go women with children, women without children,
- 51:18Speaker 1: men with children, men without children. And so men who
- 51:21Speaker 1: are alone, men who I'll often end up. You know,
- 51:27Speaker 1: they have a mental illness or they have an addiction,
- 51:30Speaker 1: which in its own way is a mental illness. They
- 51:36Speaker 1: they are nothing, They don't have anybody to take them in.
- 51:42Speaker 1: They don't have they can't go to shelters because they're
- 51:45Speaker 1: considered dangerous, especially if they have an addiction, you know,
- 51:49Speaker 1: like you can't be on a substance and go to shelter,
- 51:54Speaker 1: So soup kitchens will even kick you out. So men
- 52:00Speaker 1: with real serious issues, they're just on the street until
- 52:04Speaker 1: they die. And it's a horribly unfortunate situation for them.
- 52:11Speaker 1: And yet when you see reporting on homelessness, it almost
- 52:17Speaker 1: always features the women who are getting the most help
- 52:23Speaker 1: as opposed to the men who need the most help. Right, so, yeah,
- 52:30Speaker 1: women are the femisphere is the establishment, You're right? So
- 52:39Speaker 1: how this is why you and women wants to counter
- 52:42Speaker 1: the manisphere, by the way, because we're a threat to
- 52:45Speaker 1: their grift. How to counter the manisphere's toxic influence? What
- 52:51Speaker 1: do they think will stop us? What will get rid
- 52:55Speaker 1: of us forever? So they say, everybody loses in a
- 53:01Speaker 1: world with gender inequality, even the digital world. But in
- 53:08Speaker 1: the manisphere, influencers are spreading and profiting from controversial content
- 53:14Speaker 1: that fuels misogyny. So everybody loses in a world with
- 53:18Speaker 1: gender and inequality, but apparently not when it affects men.
- 53:22Speaker 1: It's misogyny. When we talk about the fact that sometimes
- 53:26Speaker 1: it affects men.
- 53:32Speaker 2: Contra, if you have if you have such a thing
- 53:35Speaker 2: as gender, yeah, then you necessarily have such a thing
- 53:40Speaker 2: as inequality. I mean, gender is this bullshit word that's
- 53:46Speaker 2: it means essentially the same thing as genre. It's not
- 53:50Speaker 2: a coincidence that these are similar words. They're the same
- 53:54Speaker 2: words gender and genre me mean the same thing. It's
- 53:58Speaker 2: just another word for type, and acknowledging that there are
- 54:04Speaker 2: different types of human it counts as inequality, And yes
- 54:09Speaker 2: it does, because yes, there are different types of human,
- 54:13Speaker 2: just like there are different types of genre among anything
- 54:18Speaker 2: that you can get to call genre, like different genres
- 54:21Speaker 2: of movie or book or whatever. Yes, there are differences
- 54:25Speaker 2: between horror and thriller and romance and stuff like this,
- 54:33Speaker 2: And yes that does track onto men and women because
- 54:37Speaker 2: men and women like different genres because they are different genders. Like,
- 54:46Speaker 2: like I say, it's whatever, the opposite of a tautology
- 54:51Speaker 2: is gender inequality is well, well, the gender inequality is
- 54:57Speaker 2: a tautology because in the existence of genders, you necessarily
- 55:01Speaker 2: have the existence of inequality. And yeah, it's we could
- 55:06Speaker 2: have a government that doesn't treat men and women differently legally,
- 55:14Speaker 2: except in instances where they necessarily have whether they're necessarily
- 55:21Speaker 2: are differences like pregnancy and and that's why it's so
- 55:28Speaker 2: easy for feminists to focus on these differences when it
- 55:31Speaker 2: comes to things like pregnancy and abortion and stuff like that,
- 55:35Speaker 2: because that necessarily is a difference. But it's harder for
- 55:39Speaker 2: them to see the issues that men face because they're
- 55:46Speaker 2: less tangible than the things that women face. I mean,
- 55:53Speaker 2: women get pregnant, what do men get? Well, evolution has
- 55:57Speaker 2: started this out, and indeed the society and civilization they
- 56:00Speaker 2: have started this out because they sort of figured out
- 56:04Speaker 2: that women get pregnant, So what should we do with
- 56:08Speaker 2: men two to equal out the what what women have
- 56:16Speaker 2: to deal with in the event of pregnancy. And yet, yes,
- 56:19Speaker 2: this is already been figured out, that constraints should be
- 56:25Speaker 2: put on men in the event of being party to
- 56:28Speaker 2: a pregnancy. And yeah, that has already happened. Like, if
- 56:34Speaker 2: a man is party to a pregnancy, he should be charged,
- 56:39Speaker 2: he should be tracked down and forced two two to
- 56:52Speaker 2: give what he owes to the pregnancy. All these feminists
- 56:59Speaker 2: and all these un women people sort of acting as
- 57:03Speaker 2: though men have never been forced to contribute to the
- 57:10Speaker 2: well being of child, whereas they have for a long
- 57:14Speaker 2: ass time if you go back as far as prehistoric times. Yeah, no,
- 57:17Speaker 2: I guess they haven't.
- 57:20Speaker 1: Family have always done that. Actually, families of historically families
- 57:25Speaker 1: have tracked down fathers and uh imposed accountability on them
- 57:30Speaker 1: if you want to. If you want a more recent
- 57:33Speaker 1: historical example, the Elizabethan Poor Laws introduced the idea that
- 57:38Speaker 1: the government will track down the father of a wayward mother,
- 57:43Speaker 1: and it.
- 57:43Speaker 2: Predates, it predates, it predates governments for as long as
- 57:46Speaker 2: we've had tribes, and we've had tribes for tens of
- 57:50Speaker 2: thousands of years. But you can't just escape your tribe
- 57:53Speaker 2: and go in and go into the wilderness if you
- 57:56Speaker 2: if you're a man who's impregnated a woman and doesn't
- 57:59Speaker 2: want to have to do with that. But that's a
- 58:01Speaker 2: rare case because when a man impregnates a woman, even
- 58:04Speaker 2: in the pre post prehistoric tribal days, he would like
- 58:10Speaker 2: be yay, I've got a child, because yeah, I I men,
- 58:15Speaker 2: it's homo sapien. Homo sapien. Males have this cognitive ability
- 58:24Speaker 2: because because they have such big brains, they're able to
- 58:26Speaker 2: figure out that, oh, yeah, because this woman is pregnant
- 58:31Speaker 2: because I did this thing that we now realize makes
- 58:34Speaker 2: it a pregnant that they're like, oh, this means my
- 58:38Speaker 2: child is involved, and and and this is where I
- 58:41Speaker 2: have to argue with the ghost of Terence McKenna and
- 58:44Speaker 2: many other people like the idea that when a man
- 58:48Speaker 2: knows a child is his, that that's that's a terrible
- 58:52Speaker 2: thing that brings down that that can bring the human
- 58:59Speaker 2: race into into into uh disrepute and despoils and and
- 59:06Speaker 2: and and can turn us all in the right direction. No,
- 59:09Speaker 2: I completely disagree. When a man knows that a child
- 59:12Speaker 2: is his, he will do anything for that child.
- 59:17Speaker 1: Yep.
- 59:17Speaker 2: This is something that didn't happen in in the days
- 59:19Speaker 2: before that, when when a man had no way of
- 59:23Speaker 2: knowing that a child was it. And that goes back
- 59:25Speaker 2: a long fucking way long before we had anything like
- 59:29Speaker 2: the human brains we have now. I mean, I think
- 59:33Speaker 2: even gorillas and chimpanzees sort of have some perhaps pheromonal
- 59:39Speaker 2: sense of knowing which children are theirs. But Homo sapiens
- 59:44Speaker 2: has this intellectual way of even allowing men to know
- 59:49Speaker 2: which children are theirs, and when they do, they will
- 59:52Speaker 2: do anything for that child. In fact, that they don't.
- 59:57Speaker 2: They don't need to be forced to to do whatever
- 1:00:01Speaker 2: they can for that child. They they will do it
- 1:00:03Speaker 2: by default because they have this this this psychological bonding
- 1:00:09Speaker 2: with that child like it. It can work on its own.
- 1:00:14Speaker 2: You don't need to force them to figure it out
- 1:00:18Speaker 2: using the government. I mean, in some rare cases in
- 1:00:24Speaker 2: some cases that have been applied with these racist stereotypes
- 1:00:30Speaker 2: or whatever. But I don't think any of these racist
- 1:00:32Speaker 2: stereotypes really apply like anywhere. Like men love their children,
- 1:00:41Speaker 2: Homo sapien, males love their children just as much as
- 1:00:46Speaker 2: female hope Homo sapiens does. I'm sorry if that's controversial,
- 1:00:50Speaker 2: but I don't think it is. I think more actually
- 1:00:54Speaker 2: because what.
- 1:00:56Speaker 1: Many men killing their babies as you do?
- 1:00:59Speaker 2: Well indeed, but maybe that's because they're not afforded to.
- 1:01:04Speaker 2: But but yeah, this is one of the unique This
- 1:01:07Speaker 2: is one of the unique things about Homo sapiens, that
- 1:01:10Speaker 2: that men are just as chemically and neurologically bonded to
- 1:01:16Speaker 2: their children as as women are. And we do ourselves
- 1:01:20Speaker 2: a disservice if we if we deny this, and we've
- 1:01:26Speaker 2: we've been ravaged with this denial of this a biological
- 1:01:32Speaker 2: evolutionary truth, and we should probably get back to that truth.
- 1:01:38Speaker 1: Yeah, just just a note for the chat. We already
- 1:01:43Speaker 1: know that Mike's microphone, the static thing is happening, and
- 1:01:48Speaker 1: there's not a lot to can be done about it
- 1:01:49Speaker 1: at this point unless it is replaced. So we're just
- 1:01:55Speaker 1: going to deal with it. I think the more that
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: it gets moved to and messed with the worst the
- 1:02:01Speaker 1: worst that they dound so but in any case, yeah,
- 1:02:08Speaker 1: I mean when you look at what men do when
- 1:02:13Speaker 1: they when they parent a child versus what women do,
- 1:02:20Speaker 1: especially in modern sense, because women have a tendency to
- 1:02:23Speaker 1: drop their children off with strangers to to and pay
- 1:02:27Speaker 1: them to watch the child for hours and hours so
- 1:02:29Speaker 1: that they can emulate men in the workplace where and
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: women today as a as a population. And I know
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: that this is probably similar to violent crime, and that
- 1:02:46Speaker 1: the percentage of women who are doing it is smaller,
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: and many of them are repeat offenders. But three and ten,
- 1:02:56Speaker 1: so nearly a third of pregnancies that occur today are
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: are ended. They they end in a elective abortion. That is,
- 1:03:09Speaker 1: it's not a miscarriage, and it's it's not done because
- 1:03:15Speaker 1: they the doctor is reducing the number of imminent deaths
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: caused by the pregnancy by one by saving the mother's life.
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: But yeah, men, men will work themselves to death to
- 1:03:31Speaker 1: provide for their children, to give them a better life,
- 1:03:34Speaker 1: to make sure that they're able to provide for themselves
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: when they become adults. They will They'll die in a
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: fire trying to get their children out of the house.
- 1:03:44Speaker 1: They will, you know, they'll protect their whole family. They
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: will live with a woman who treats them like shit,
- 1:03:53Speaker 1: who abuses them, who spends their their money before they
- 1:03:59Speaker 1: make it, who doesn't even have sex with them anymore,
- 1:04:04Speaker 1: as long as they can take care of their children.
- 1:04:08Speaker 1: And men are they sex that has had to fight
- 1:04:13Speaker 1: for their custodial rights for the last one hundred years.
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: And men have had to fight not only weird preconceived
- 1:04:26Speaker 1: notions like the idea that God made women parents but
- 1:04:29Speaker 1: not men, which was a feminist idea. Carolyn Norton who
- 1:04:36Speaker 1: wrote the Oh, I can't think of what it was called.
- 1:04:42Speaker 1: It had a word of infants in it with an
- 1:04:44Speaker 1: e something of Infants Act. But it's essentially it was
- 1:04:48Speaker 1: the tender years doctrine, and the legislators in the UK
- 1:04:55Speaker 1: bought that, and then it being English common law, it
- 1:05:00Speaker 1: bled over into US law, and the US kind of
- 1:05:05Speaker 1: did the same thing, that women would get primary custody
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: and divorce up to like the age of seven, and
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: you know, unless there was some really weird extenuating circumstance,
- 1:05:18Speaker 1: and ever since then, you know, men had to first
- 1:05:21Speaker 1: fight for joint custody and then shared parenting and eventually
- 1:05:27Speaker 1: equally shared parenting, and every step of the way, feminist
- 1:05:30Speaker 1: groups fought against it. Every step of the way, feminists
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: have opposed fathers taking care of their children. Men have
- 1:05:39Speaker 1: fought for the right to mentor and protect their children.
- 1:05:48Speaker 1: You know, so clearly you have a difference there. Women
- 1:05:52Speaker 1: fought for the right to kill their babies, and men
- 1:05:56Speaker 1: fought for the right to mentor and protect their children,
- 1:06:00Speaker 1: to love and care and nurture for their children and
- 1:06:03Speaker 1: not just be walking wallets. Which is again one of
- 1:06:09Speaker 1: the reasons why the femisphere fears us, because we notice
- 1:06:19Speaker 1: things like that and we point out these laws are important.
- 1:06:24Speaker 1: They're good for children, they're good for fathers, and despite
- 1:06:29Speaker 1: many mothers vehement protests, they are good for mothers. There
- 1:06:34Speaker 1: are benefits to the mother when the father is involved.
- 1:06:36Speaker 1: Women who are not raising their children by themselves live longer.
- 1:06:45Speaker 1: Women who have an involved father raising their children with
- 1:06:51Speaker 1: them are happier, They show less signs of stress. Because
- 1:06:59Speaker 1: I shouldn't say they. My husband and me raised our
- 1:07:03Speaker 1: kids together. We were a team and for me that
- 1:07:09Speaker 1: was a very fun time, even even with the stress
- 1:07:14Speaker 1: of having you know, the second family and ex wife
- 1:07:17Speaker 1: and child support bills to pay and all that. Just
- 1:07:24Speaker 1: having that partnership and the teamwork and the family being
- 1:07:28Speaker 1: together and everything that meant a lot, and it does
- 1:07:33Speaker 1: change your whole life. It does make your whole life better.
- 1:07:38Speaker 1: And these women will cut their nose off despite their face,
- 1:07:42Speaker 1: and they will con other women into doing the same thing.
- 1:07:47Speaker 1: I think. And it's more important to get half the
- 1:07:49Speaker 1: marital property all to yourself without the husband than it
- 1:07:53Speaker 1: is to have his partnership in raising your children. It's insane.
- 1:08:01Speaker 1: So they go on, they claim that we promote unhealthy
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: definitions of masculinity and normalize violence against women and girls.
- 1:08:17Speaker 1: So if you look at the men's rights movement, the
- 1:08:19Speaker 1: most vocal aspects of our our participation in the discussion
- 1:08:28Speaker 1: on innimate partner and sexual violence have all been about
- 1:08:32Speaker 1: ways to reduce that type of violence and the fact
- 1:08:36Speaker 1: that female violence is a huge contributing factor to family violence.
- 1:08:44Speaker 1: So we don't advocate that violence be met with violence.
- 1:08:52Speaker 1: We advocate that violence be met with accountability, that when
- 1:08:56Speaker 1: women and girls in relationships with men or boys engage
- 1:09:03Speaker 1: in violence against their partner, their heterosexual partner, that they
- 1:09:07Speaker 1: should be just as accountable as a partner of a
- 1:09:13Speaker 1: woman or a girl is when they engage in violence
- 1:09:17Speaker 1: against their female partner. And that's that's it, that's all
- 1:09:23Speaker 1: we want. We want to see that men should have
- 1:09:28Speaker 1: some recourse if they are abused. Boys should have some
- 1:09:31Speaker 1: recourse if they are abused, and you know, they should
- 1:09:36Speaker 1: be able to get out of the relationship or you know,
- 1:09:40Speaker 1: get the same stipulation that their partner has to go
- 1:09:44Speaker 1: through abuser therapy and learn to not handle conflict by
- 1:09:53Speaker 1: engaging in abuse just like a man, because it's just
- 1:09:58Speaker 1: as bad when she does it. It's just as damaging
- 1:10:03Speaker 1: for the children when she does it, and it can
- 1:10:06Speaker 1: be just as dangerous, especially if she chooses to use
- 1:10:09Speaker 1: a weapon or if she uses lies and gets him
- 1:10:16Speaker 1: jailed for things that he didn't do. So, yeah, they're
- 1:10:20Speaker 1: terrified that that might actually happen and women might not
- 1:10:24Speaker 1: be able to manipulate the public into giving them lots
- 1:10:32Speaker 1: of money to fight the evil men while pretending that
- 1:10:37Speaker 1: women are never violent.
- 1:10:39Speaker 2: And I'd like to know where they draw these boundaries
- 1:10:41Speaker 2: as to where the manisphere ends and begins. I'd like
- 1:10:44Speaker 2: them to give me some examples and when they do.
- 1:10:47Speaker 2: I wonder how many of those examples I can point
- 1:10:51Speaker 2: to and how they address the immigration problem, because so
- 1:10:59Speaker 2: many of these content creators that I listen to when
- 1:11:02Speaker 2: they talk about immigration, will frame it principally, if not entirely,
- 1:11:07Speaker 2: as to how much of a threat it is against
- 1:11:11Speaker 2: quote unquote our women and girls. Mm hmmm, because it's
- 1:11:16Speaker 2: just our women and girls to whom these immigrants pose
- 1:11:20Speaker 2: a threat, because they're the only people being raped, they're
- 1:11:23Speaker 2: the only people being endangered. I don't want to name
- 1:11:27Speaker 2: any names, but yeah, you all can probably figure out
- 1:11:33Speaker 2: who I'm talking You can probably figure out many examples
- 1:11:35Speaker 2: of them I'm talking to talking about, because there are
- 1:11:37Speaker 2: so many of them. Like when it comes down to
- 1:11:42Speaker 2: an otherwise neutral topic, they will be like, well, the
- 1:11:48Speaker 2: problem with these immigrants is they're all men. They're all
- 1:11:51Speaker 2: fighting age men, and they're all graping and essaying our
- 1:12:00Speaker 2: our women and girls, completely leaving out that they're also
- 1:12:04Speaker 2: graping in essaying our boys and assaulting and murdering our men.
- 1:12:12Speaker 2: But that doesn't seem to matter to the vast majority
- 1:12:16Speaker 2: of what these kinds are calling the manosphere. The vast
- 1:12:20Speaker 2: majority of what they call the manisphere is still very
- 1:12:24Speaker 2: much laser focused on how to demonize the men of
- 1:12:32Speaker 2: other nations so as to keep in their minds the
- 1:12:37Speaker 2: fact that the only victims are the women and girls
- 1:12:39Speaker 2: of our own nation. And yeah, this is this is
- 1:12:45Speaker 2: just what happens when other nations are only interested in
- 1:12:48Speaker 2: exiling the men of their nation because they're perfectly happy
- 1:12:56Speaker 2: to subsidize the women and girls of their own nation.
- 1:12:59Speaker 2: They please, don't leave girls and women of our nation.
- 1:13:03Speaker 2: We need you so as so as to to keep
- 1:13:05Speaker 2: our nation going. But you, you other men, you three
- 1:13:09Speaker 2: quarters of men who don't get wives because of our
- 1:13:13Speaker 2: poligamous set up. You could all fuck off you, yeah,
- 1:13:17Speaker 2: you can all. You can all get shipped off to
- 1:13:21Speaker 2: those countries where they where the government will uh will
- 1:13:27Speaker 2: give you a free life for nothing. And then when
- 1:13:30Speaker 2: they arrive here our so called manisphere, like, look at
- 1:13:34Speaker 2: all these men. We fucking hate these men. Look at
- 1:13:37Speaker 2: what a threat they pose to to our women and girls.
- 1:13:42Speaker 2: But they're also murdering the men. Doesn't matter, doesn't fucking matter.
- 1:13:46Speaker 2: Think of the women and the girls, and like and
- 1:13:50Speaker 2: and here's and here's you and women going. The manisphere
- 1:13:56Speaker 2: is prioritizing men over boys over girls grow. If only
- 1:14:02Speaker 2: you knew how bad things really were, Like it's the same.
- 1:14:06Speaker 2: It's the same, not just across the West, but in
- 1:14:09Speaker 2: the Middle East and across the East, Like it's the
- 1:14:14Speaker 2: same problem everywhere. We're trying, we're trying to get rid
- 1:14:17Speaker 2: of the men we don't want, and and and and
- 1:14:23Speaker 2: pamper and prioritize all women and girls, even the women
- 1:14:28Speaker 2: and girls from other nations, like, come, ye, come all,
- 1:14:31Speaker 2: as long as you're female, like, we will protect you
- 1:14:34Speaker 2: from the evil men across the oceans and across the land.
- 1:14:39Speaker 2: Fucking sick of it.
- 1:14:41Speaker 1: Like the worst thing about that is that that they're
- 1:14:45Speaker 1: definitely going to come and end up on welfare, of course,
- 1:14:51Speaker 1: because they can, right Whereas the single males that show up,
- 1:14:58Speaker 1: they may be able to get temporary sistance for a while,
- 1:15:01Speaker 1: but because they are single males, they don't have children.
- 1:15:05Speaker 1: In a lot of countries and a lot of western nations,
- 1:15:08Speaker 1: your welfare system, whatever it's called, your public assistance, your
- 1:15:13Speaker 1: social safety net, usually requires recipients to be parents with children,
- 1:15:20Speaker 1: And so those men will have a short amount of
- 1:15:25Speaker 1: time where their situation is better, and then suddenly they're
- 1:15:31Speaker 1: dropped like a rock. From that system, and at the
- 1:15:36Speaker 1: same time they're treated like a liability by employers and
- 1:15:41Speaker 1: by anybody that might be a colleague if they are
- 1:15:45Speaker 1: seeking work. And what happens then they end up in
- 1:15:50Speaker 1: trouble with the law. And when you have that combination,
- 1:15:53Speaker 1: and then you also have things like people who are
- 1:15:57Speaker 1: part of terrorist organizations, whether it's ISIS or drug cartels
- 1:16:05Speaker 1: or or mafia's gangs, whatever you want to uh to
- 1:16:10Speaker 1: point out in countries with you know, more more poverty
- 1:16:18Speaker 1: situations and less less uh the rule of law in
- 1:16:23Speaker 1: their nation. Uh, then then you get this mix of
- 1:16:27Speaker 1: criminal underworld and people with no jobs that can't support
- 1:16:32Speaker 1: themselves and can't get help from the government because they
- 1:16:34Speaker 1: have no children and and their mail and so there's
- 1:16:37Speaker 1: nothing specifically for them. What what are they going to do?
- 1:16:44Speaker 1: What pathway is available for them to take? Any good ones?
- 1:16:51Speaker 1: Or are you know, are we setting ourselves up for
- 1:16:55Speaker 1: a huge homeless population that's going to die off or
- 1:17:00Speaker 1: a huge criminal population? It's desperate, it's all, you know,
- 1:17:08Speaker 1: a very bad idea. And in the end, the men
- 1:17:13Speaker 1: involved are generally speaking, victims of something. Human beings do
- 1:17:22Speaker 1: not grow up to be insanely violent if they are
- 1:17:25Speaker 1: not raised in an environment where they learn to be violent,
- 1:17:30Speaker 1: they grow up to be maybe more contentious if they
- 1:17:38Speaker 1: have that natural personality, but they learn more socially acceptable
- 1:17:42Speaker 1: ways or more effective ways of interacting with other people
- 1:17:47Speaker 1: and getting what they want, even if even if they're assholes,
- 1:17:54Speaker 1: then to use violence that will get them jailed or
- 1:17:57Speaker 1: killed someday if they grow up in any kind of
- 1:18:02Speaker 1: healthy home environment. It's generally speaking, only people who grow
- 1:18:06Speaker 1: up in an environment where a family member is abusive,
- 1:18:11Speaker 1: or they're in a gang ridden neighborhood where violence is
- 1:18:15Speaker 1: all around them, or they're in a war torn area
- 1:18:19Speaker 1: where violence is all around them, or some combination thereof
- 1:18:24Speaker 1: that end up like the MS thirteen members that you
- 1:18:28Speaker 1: see in the news getting deported and the newscaster is
- 1:18:32Speaker 1: telling you their long laundry list of violent crimes that
- 1:18:35Speaker 1: they committed while they were here before the government finally
- 1:18:39Speaker 1: kicked them out of the country. Like those guys didn't.
- 1:18:42Speaker 1: They weren't born that way, right, And not that that
- 1:18:48Speaker 1: makes us responsible for them, but it is always a
- 1:18:53Speaker 1: situation in which a complete lack of compassion and consideration
- 1:18:59Speaker 1: for the boy created the man that everybody sees as
- 1:19:05Speaker 1: a monster. And unfortunately, until we start holding our government
- 1:19:15Speaker 1: accountable for the conditions that it's creating in other countries
- 1:19:18Speaker 1: that lead to this, and rather than demanding that they
- 1:19:23Speaker 1: let people in and just let them run free, when
- 1:19:29Speaker 1: when this is what they're importing, and this is what
- 1:19:33Speaker 1: they're setting them up for, it's going to continue.
- 1:19:40Speaker 2: So and this is probably why empires fall, by the way,
- 1:19:43Speaker 2: this is probably why we've been in this constant cycle
- 1:19:47Speaker 2: of empires rising and then empire is falling because as
- 1:19:51Speaker 2: empires rise, they get more and more decadent, they get
- 1:19:55Speaker 2: more and more self assured, and and they find themselves
- 1:20:04Speaker 2: consumed with issues that don't matter, like like how we
- 1:20:13Speaker 2: can make life better for women.
- 1:20:17Speaker 1: Yeah, And eventually you get to a situation where there's
- 1:20:23Speaker 1: no choice but to recognize that if you don't make
- 1:20:25Speaker 1: life better for men, there won't be life anymore.
- 1:20:29Speaker 2: Yeah. And the bigger the empire, the larger the fall.
- 1:20:32Speaker 2: And this appears to be what we're living through right
- 1:20:36Speaker 2: now because I'm effectively we have the biggest empire ever
- 1:20:44Speaker 2: because because we have binding forces between nations such as
- 1:20:50Speaker 2: the UN I know that doesn't do much all in all,
- 1:20:55Speaker 2: but the empires don't just don't just extend to country boundaries.
- 1:21:04Speaker 2: We have we have all kinds of country binding forces,
- 1:21:12Speaker 2: like the U N and like the w a F,
- 1:21:13Speaker 2: and like like NATO and all this such and and
- 1:21:17Speaker 2: and yeah, we have we have empires that span continents
- 1:21:24Speaker 2: at this point, and they've become so decadent, so uh
- 1:21:30Speaker 2: self assured, and so lazy, largely due to this technocratic
- 1:21:41Speaker 2: easing of all of our hardships. We don't have any
- 1:21:45Speaker 2: of very few of the hardships that we've had over
- 1:21:49Speaker 2: the years, and and and so we can focus our
- 1:21:52Speaker 2: attention on needless, pointless things like that our can micro
- 1:22:01Speaker 2: manage how much easier we can make it for the
- 1:22:05Speaker 2: people that we fundamentally care about, namely women and children,
- 1:22:10Speaker 2: especially women, because they can actually advocate for their own
- 1:22:17Speaker 2: self interest in ways that children cannot. Like, we are
- 1:22:25Speaker 2: sort of designed to to encourage the strong to protect
- 1:22:33Speaker 2: the weak, and in the case of men, that means, well,
- 1:22:38Speaker 2: we're we're clearly the strongest people in the world, so
- 1:22:41Speaker 2: we have to focus all their efforts on protecting those
- 1:22:44Speaker 2: weaker than us, Whereas with women, they're like, Okay, I
- 1:22:47Speaker 2: guess we are stronger than children, but we're weaker than men,
- 1:22:52Speaker 2: and so they hold this middle ground where they can.
- 1:22:56Speaker 2: They can they can claim all the rights for themselves
- 1:23:00Speaker 2: because they're weaker than men. But they can just forego
- 1:23:03Speaker 2: they could they can just ignore all of this responsibility
- 1:23:07Speaker 2: that they have over children because they can focus on
- 1:23:12Speaker 2: how much how much they're weaker than men. And and yeah,
- 1:23:18Speaker 2: this is how this happens because because women are the
- 1:23:21Speaker 2: middle ground between men and children and and and so
- 1:23:26Speaker 2: they can they can get all the advantages of being
- 1:23:29Speaker 2: weak and all the advantages of being strong over whoever
- 1:23:33Speaker 2: it may be. And so that's what I'm saying that
- 1:23:36Speaker 2: this is probably much historical evidence for this, but this
- 1:23:42Speaker 2: is probably why so many empires collapse, because they focus
- 1:23:49Speaker 2: on the human beings who can advocate for their strength
- 1:23:54Speaker 2: and weakness at the same time, namely women. And this
- 1:23:59Speaker 2: cycle of empires rising and falling is going to keep
- 1:24:02Speaker 2: happening happening until we can acknowledge that women are in
- 1:24:07Speaker 2: fact strong even in relation to men, that women have
- 1:24:11Speaker 2: strengths with which they can dominate men. Now, I know
- 1:24:19Speaker 2: that's something that a manisphere like me would say, but
- 1:24:23Speaker 2: once you understand evolutionary psychology, it becomes fairly obvious. Yes,
- 1:24:30Speaker 2: women have strengths that can dominate men. And know they're
- 1:24:34Speaker 2: not physical strength, they are psychological strengths because we are
- 1:24:39Speaker 2: a very cerebral species. That is, it was driven by
- 1:24:45Speaker 2: our brains more than our muscles. I mean, that's that's
- 1:24:52Speaker 2: that's one of the most unusual things about Homo sapiens,
- 1:24:56Speaker 2: that we have some huge brains. Evolution has dealt us
- 1:25:01Speaker 2: huge brains that can uh, that can override whatever strength
- 1:25:06Speaker 2: we might have. I don't mean just I don't mean
- 1:25:10Speaker 2: brains just in a a mental sense, in an in
- 1:25:15Speaker 2: an intellectual sense, I mean in an emotional sense. Yes,
- 1:25:18Speaker 2: men have emotions. Sorry, feminists, It's true. Men are very
- 1:25:22Speaker 2: much driven by their emotions, and one of their strongest
- 1:25:26Speaker 2: emotions is how much we love women and how much
- 1:25:30Speaker 2: we will override everything else in our brain in order
- 1:25:34Speaker 2: to to give women everything they want. It's unfortunate, it's
- 1:25:40Speaker 2: what e it's the hand evolution has dealt us, and
- 1:25:46Speaker 2: it's it's up to us to overcome these these irrational
- 1:25:52Speaker 2: gynocentric tendencies. I'm not saying gynocentrism is necessarily ingrained in us,
- 1:26:01Speaker 2: but it's a shortfall that it's very easy for us
- 1:26:05Speaker 2: to fall into if we can't work our way out
- 1:26:09Speaker 2: of it intellectually. And that's that's what we're trying to
- 1:26:13Speaker 2: do here around the Budger Radio. We're trying to do
- 1:26:15Speaker 2: in many aspects of this here manisphere, we're trying to say, like, yes,
- 1:26:20Speaker 2: I I know we're sort of evolutionary built to deal
- 1:26:27Speaker 2: with this in some ways, but we're also blessed with
- 1:26:33Speaker 2: the with this sense of logic and rationality. And I
- 1:26:37Speaker 2: know that's often painted as the enemy, and yes, in
- 1:26:40Speaker 2: many ways it is, but it can be used to
- 1:26:46Speaker 2: our advantage if we can just realize that this instinct
- 1:26:52Speaker 2: we have to protect the week at the expense of
- 1:26:56Speaker 2: the strong is not necessarily the be all and the
- 1:27:00Speaker 2: end all. Sometimes the strong deserve to be thought of.
- 1:27:11Speaker 2: The strong deserved deserved to be uh protected and preserved
- 1:27:17Speaker 2: just as much as the week, arguably more. I mean,
- 1:27:21Speaker 2: if it's talking.
- 1:27:24Speaker 4: Strong in evolutionary terms, yeah, I have that the strong
- 1:27:31Speaker 4: ought to be prioritized over the week, if only in
- 1:27:36Speaker 4: pragmatic terms, it can It can go either way.
- 1:27:39Speaker 2: We shouldn't necessarily destroy the week just because they're weak,
- 1:27:42Speaker 2: but we certainly shouldn't destroy the strong just because they're strong.
- 1:27:47Speaker 2: That's even more retarded.
- 1:27:50Speaker 1: In fact, historically, historically women were encouraged to have at
- 1:27:56Speaker 1: least some sort of trigger discipline when it comes to
- 1:28:00Speaker 1: hiring off the prioritize me because I'm weaker, gun and
- 1:28:05Speaker 1: h Historically, women were also expected to uh, you know,
- 1:28:14Speaker 1: use what strength they did have to support their protectors
- 1:28:20Speaker 1: and their providers. It was a reciprocal relationship and women
- 1:28:28Speaker 1: women relied on men's strengths, and men relied on women's strengths.
- 1:28:36Speaker 1: And today women have declared that that having to reciprocate
- 1:28:43Speaker 1: for the reliance that they have on men is uh
- 1:28:47Speaker 1: is oppression, and therefore they shouldn't have to do it
- 1:28:52Speaker 1: no reciprocation. And that's that's essentially the situation we're in now.
- 1:28:57Speaker 1: So the themisphere is complaining that that men have rejected the deal. No,
- 1:29:03Speaker 1: we don't want to protect, provide and and uh love
- 1:29:07Speaker 1: and nurture with no reciprocation, only to be punished for
- 1:29:11Speaker 1: it in the end. We don't we don't like that deal, right,
- 1:29:18Speaker 1: The femisphere says, how dare you, how very dare you?
- 1:29:22Speaker 1: How dare you reject this excellent deal that gives us
- 1:29:25Speaker 1: everything we want? What's wrong with you? Don't you love women?
- 1:29:31Speaker 1: You know, don't you respect women? That's that's essentially what
- 1:29:34Speaker 1: this article is, uh and and that's that's where we
- 1:29:37Speaker 1: are now, the idea that we promote unhealthy definitions of masculinity.
- 1:29:48Speaker 1: Feminism has promoted the idea that the things that that
- 1:29:54Speaker 1: have gotten men through hard times, the ability to reserve
- 1:30:02Speaker 1: being emotional for when it is safe to be emotional,
- 1:30:06Speaker 1: and to be outwardly stoic when it is necessary to
- 1:30:10Speaker 1: do so in order to get shit done and create
- 1:30:14Speaker 1: a safer situation for being emotional, is apparently misogyny. And
- 1:30:23Speaker 1: they really think that if men don't cry the way
- 1:30:28Speaker 1: that women cry, and as often as women cry, and
- 1:30:32Speaker 1: for the same reasons that women cry, in other words,
- 1:30:34Speaker 1: when bad things happen to women, then there's something wrong
- 1:30:39Speaker 1: with men. And they advocate this idea that men should
- 1:30:45Speaker 1: be allowed to express their emotions and they should be
- 1:30:48Speaker 1: allowed to cry and talk about their problems and give
- 1:30:55Speaker 1: their grievances and complaints. In other words, right, what does
- 1:31:00Speaker 1: the rest of this article say about men who air
- 1:31:05Speaker 1: their grievances and complaints or you know, women who listen
- 1:31:11Speaker 1: when men air their grievances and complaints. Well, that's that's
- 1:31:16Speaker 1: normalizing violence against women and girls. That's spreading misogyny. That's uh,
- 1:31:22Speaker 1: that's that's the minisphere. And how very dare we allow
- 1:31:26Speaker 1: men to air grievous grievances and complaints that are not
- 1:31:30Speaker 1: feminists approved? What do you do feminists when you say
- 1:31:36Speaker 1: that men should be allowed to talk about their problems,
- 1:31:39Speaker 1: but the problems they talk about are you so here?
- 1:31:47Speaker 1: They say, they're talking about the article that we read
- 1:31:50Speaker 1: the first time, and uh, you know that that we
- 1:31:56Speaker 1: are a real world threat. The minisphere is a real
- 1:31:59Speaker 1: world threat threat guys. And then it goes on to
- 1:32:05Speaker 1: describe who we are. So who are we? It says
- 1:32:10Speaker 1: mental health impacts on boys and men. The man is sphears.
- 1:32:15Speaker 1: Unrealistic definitions of manhood can promote anxiety, self harm, and
- 1:32:20Speaker 1: risky behaviors, and young men who feel pressured to be
- 1:32:23Speaker 1: more manly. So there you go. Feminists don't want men
- 1:32:28Speaker 1: to be able to express themselves. They don't want men
- 1:32:31Speaker 1: to be able to form their own identities. They want
- 1:32:33Speaker 1: men to be feminized. Whereas the men's rights movement has
- 1:32:40Speaker 1: supported men who are gay, men who are straight men
- 1:32:45Speaker 1: who are rugged, men who are nerdy, men who are
- 1:32:50Speaker 1: in great shape, men who are fat, men who are
- 1:32:57Speaker 1: able bodied, and working men who are disabled. It's not
- 1:33:02Speaker 1: just one type of man. But feminists only support men
- 1:33:06Speaker 1: if they are feminized. If they are not feminized, they're
- 1:33:10Speaker 1: not real men to feminists because they don't they don't
- 1:33:15Speaker 1: worship women enough. And their example isn't from the men's
- 1:33:23Speaker 1: rights movement, it's from the in cell community looks maxing.
- 1:33:29Speaker 1: Looks maxing communities subject men's photos to brutal commentary, which
- 1:33:35Speaker 1: maybe they do, but the fact is they have a reason,
- 1:33:42Speaker 1: and that is women will reject men based on looks,
- 1:33:47Speaker 1: and they will reject men harshly and cruelly. They will.
- 1:33:51Speaker 1: They will not only say I'm not interested, but get
- 1:33:56Speaker 1: away from me, you creep. And that's the that's not
- 1:34:01Speaker 1: Missonry's that's that's you know, completely harmless. They're allowed to
- 1:34:06Speaker 1: do that, right. Women who hear complaints about that kind
- 1:34:11Speaker 1: of behavior say that you're making excuses for the creep.
- 1:34:15Speaker 1: But if the so called creep goes to a community
- 1:34:19Speaker 1: that is trying to show him how to be more
- 1:34:21Speaker 1: attractive and they suggest your eyebrows, you know need to
- 1:34:29Speaker 1: be divided into two eyebrows and not one going across
- 1:34:33Speaker 1: the middle. Or you know, you have to shower every day,
- 1:34:39Speaker 1: not just when you feel like it. Or you you
- 1:34:43Speaker 1: look like shit with long hair, cut your hair, or
- 1:34:47Speaker 1: do you look like shit with short hair? Grow it out,
- 1:34:49Speaker 1: you know, or anything like that. From from things that
- 1:34:54Speaker 1: you can change easily to you need plastic surgery, and
- 1:35:01Speaker 1: suddenly it's it's bad. The same thing that girls do
- 1:35:06Speaker 1: and women do when approached by these men is bad
- 1:35:11Speaker 1: when the men say it to each other, but it's
- 1:35:15Speaker 1: not bad when women say it. You see how that goes.
- 1:35:20Speaker 2: That's a lot has been loaded into this adverb manly. Yeah, like,
- 1:35:26Speaker 2: they haven't explained what they mean by manly. You think
- 1:35:29Speaker 2: what they mean is looking like a man. And pardon
- 1:35:34Speaker 2: me for being perhaps controversial, but what women generally find
- 1:35:38Speaker 2: attractive is manly. And again they haven't they have explained
- 1:35:45Speaker 2: what this means, and presumably they don't have to because
- 1:35:49Speaker 2: they've been so buried in this idea that there shouldn't
- 1:35:52Speaker 2: be a difference between a man and a woman other
- 1:35:56Speaker 2: than men and women should both advocate for women and
- 1:36:00Speaker 2: only women, and if that means men men becoming women
- 1:36:05Speaker 2: or becoming as esthetically womanly as possible, then that's absolutely fine. Again,
- 1:36:13Speaker 2: it's this is un women. They have no problem with
- 1:36:15Speaker 2: women being womanly, and they have no problem with men
- 1:36:19Speaker 2: being womanly. Yeah, that's that's what I think. They mean,
- 1:36:22Speaker 2: everyone should be womanly. That's why they have a un
- 1:36:26Speaker 2: women and no un men. It's it's no problem that
- 1:36:30Speaker 2: women are being encouraged to be womanly because their idea
- 1:36:35Speaker 2: of womanly is just being a woman, just having a
- 1:36:40Speaker 2: just having a vagina, just presenting as a woman, even
- 1:36:44Speaker 2: if that means being a useless, fat bloater with blue hair,
- 1:36:48Speaker 2: they're still womanly, so that still counts. But this idea
- 1:36:54Speaker 2: that men should be strong, oh heavens no, that's that's top.
- 1:37:01Speaker 2: Men should not be strong. It's not as though women
- 1:37:04Speaker 2: are attracted to strong men. You know, why would women
- 1:37:09Speaker 2: ever be attracted to a strong man? And and I mean,
- 1:37:16Speaker 2: whenever anyone pictures in their head what manly might mean,
- 1:37:22Speaker 2: it's invariably strong, right, it's men are.
- 1:37:29Speaker 1: Expected to quit quite frequently.
- 1:37:31Speaker 2: Yeah, men are expected to be strong, whether it be
- 1:37:34Speaker 2: physically strong or esthetically presenting strength, or you know, psychologically
- 1:37:41Speaker 2: or mentally strong. And yeah, pardon me. But I think
- 1:37:48Speaker 2: if anything, women should be expected to be more man.
- 1:37:53Speaker 2: I mean it's they as in, they should expect it
- 1:37:55Speaker 2: to be strong too. Everyone should be expected to be strong, Charlie,
- 1:38:01Speaker 2: I mean strong is better than weak. Yeah, no matter how,
- 1:38:06Speaker 2: no matter how femininely you're defining, you're defining strength, it's
- 1:38:12Speaker 2: still strength. I mean, you're obsessed with this strong woman stereotype,
- 1:38:20Speaker 2: and and any attribute you can attribute to a strong woman,
- 1:38:28Speaker 2: it is something that can also be attributed to a
- 1:38:31Speaker 2: strong man. Right. It's it's being it's having the courage
- 1:38:37Speaker 2: of your convictions, stuff like that. It means being confident
- 1:38:41Speaker 2: and secure in in whatever you happen to be, whatever
- 1:38:47Speaker 2: form God happens to have given you or whatever like.
- 1:38:52Speaker 2: That's what they mean by manly like. But they're just
- 1:38:57Speaker 2: they don't it's toxic. When when when this uh, when
- 1:39:05Speaker 2: when this type is applied to men? Yeah, they want
- 1:39:10Speaker 2: men to be weak. They want men to be weak
- 1:39:14Speaker 2: and affectible and malleable. Right, they don't want they don't want,
- 1:39:22Speaker 2: they don't want men to be strong. They they want
- 1:39:26Speaker 2: women to be strong, and they want men to melt
- 1:39:30Speaker 2: in the presence of women, because that's their idea. Of
- 1:39:34Speaker 2: what men should be.
- 1:39:36Speaker 1: They want men to be controllable by women. That is
- 1:39:40Speaker 1: what they want. They want men to do, for women
- 1:39:45Speaker 1: to be dedicated to women, to prioritize women over themselves.
- 1:39:53Speaker 1: And that's the only stoicism they're allowed to have, is
- 1:39:55Speaker 1: to prioritize women over themselves. They can't be stoic to
- 1:40:01Speaker 1: achieve something that is their goal for themselves, but only
- 1:40:06Speaker 1: to achieve something that is to meet the needs of
- 1:40:10Speaker 1: a woman. And they want men to be slaves essentially,
- 1:40:18Speaker 1: you know, workhorses, financiers, sugar daddies, right, but not equal partners.
- 1:40:29Speaker 1: And in terms of manly like, if you ask a
- 1:40:33Speaker 1: feminist what constitutes manly in the end, she will describe
- 1:40:40Speaker 1: a protector and supporter of women.
- 1:40:45Speaker 2: Ask a woman to describe a good man, and watch
- 1:40:47Speaker 2: her describe a slave. I don't know who quoted that first,
- 1:40:52Speaker 2: but it's it's yeah, it's perfect, that's exactly what it is.
- 1:40:59Speaker 1: And I look at I look at it a totally
- 1:41:01Speaker 1: different way. Like I think about my dad and my grandpa,
- 1:41:05Speaker 1: and both of them had, you know, aspects of ruggedness.
- 1:41:09Speaker 1: My dad was a big man and he was very strong,
- 1:41:12Speaker 1: and you know, my grandpa was an average sized man,
- 1:41:17Speaker 1: but he was a boxer and a hunter and that
- 1:41:19Speaker 1: kind of stuff. He was a welder. But one of
- 1:41:23Speaker 1: the most manly things each of them did, they did
- 1:41:25Speaker 1: for themselves, and you know, they shared them with the
- 1:41:29Speaker 1: people around them. But it was an area of interest
- 1:41:33Speaker 1: each of them that was creative interest that wouldn't necessarily
- 1:41:38Speaker 1: be considered masculine per se, and in Grandpa's case, some
- 1:41:46Speaker 1: people considered it feminine. Grandpa grew roses, my hunting, welding, boxing.
- 1:41:53Speaker 1: Grandpa grew roses. And he was an expert, absolute expert,
- 1:42:01Speaker 1: because he'd been a farmer, so he grew things for
- 1:42:04Speaker 1: a living before he grew roses. So when he grew roses,
- 1:42:08Speaker 1: he threw himself into that the same way that he
- 1:42:10Speaker 1: threw himself into into growing you know, corn and beans
- 1:42:16Speaker 1: and potatoes and carrots and stuff and animals. And he
- 1:42:24Speaker 1: competed and it was great. And you know, I'm allergic
- 1:42:28Speaker 1: to roses. I didn't get to get up close to them,
- 1:42:32Speaker 1: but I can be outdoors in the yard where there
- 1:42:34Speaker 1: are roses in the yard and it's not a problem.
- 1:42:37Speaker 1: So it was neat for me because I got to
- 1:42:40Speaker 1: I got to see all kinds of beautiful different breeds
- 1:42:42Speaker 1: of these beautiful flowers. And then when I wanted to
- 1:42:46Speaker 1: grow my own vegetables, Grandpa was right there, you know,
- 1:42:51Speaker 1: giving me advice. He knew exactly what to tell me
- 1:42:54Speaker 1: to do, and I had an expert right at my fingertips.
- 1:43:00Speaker 1: Dad was the same way with music. He played by ear.
- 1:43:03Speaker 1: He didn't learn to read notes, but all he had
- 1:43:07Speaker 1: to do was hear at once. He played all of
- 1:43:11Speaker 1: the pop music from his youth, and he played a
- 1:43:15Speaker 1: lot of the pop music from my youth on on piano.
- 1:43:20Speaker 1: And you know, eventually we got synthesizer keyboards and he
- 1:43:23Speaker 1: played on those as well, and it was it was
- 1:43:27Speaker 1: always great being at home and listening to my dad play.
- 1:43:32Speaker 1: I'm always a little kid. Sometimes I would just spend
- 1:43:35Speaker 1: hours sitting in the room with my dad playing the
- 1:43:38Speaker 1: piano and listening to him, and I didn't have to
- 1:43:42Speaker 1: be doing anything else. I was just enjoying the music.
- 1:43:46Speaker 1: And it's it's not particularly a gendered thing music. People
- 1:43:51Speaker 1: both sexes do it. But you know, again, like with
- 1:43:57Speaker 1: with my grandpa and his roses, my dad had that
- 1:43:59Speaker 1: down to a science to the degree that when he
- 1:44:01Speaker 1: got synthesizer keyboards. He threw himself into all of the
- 1:44:06Speaker 1: programming you can do with a keyboard and all of
- 1:44:13Speaker 1: the different ways in which you can try out. You know,
- 1:44:17Speaker 1: let me try making this country song reggae and see
- 1:44:21Speaker 1: how it sounds, you know, and stuff like that. He
- 1:44:24Speaker 1: explored the keyboard, the synthesizer, keyboard, all the different instruments
- 1:44:29Speaker 1: and everything, and you know, and just was incredibly masculine
- 1:44:36Speaker 1: about his exploration of music. I know, both of them
- 1:44:41Speaker 1: had that. Grandpa was very masculine about his exploration of
- 1:44:45Speaker 1: growing roses. And so this idea that masculine expression can't
- 1:44:54Speaker 1: be rugged and still refined and still include emotional expression
- 1:45:05Speaker 1: and self interest and things things that are therapeutic for
- 1:45:11Speaker 1: the individual. You know, garden away your stress, play away
- 1:45:15Speaker 1: your stress on your musical instrument. Feminists are full of
- 1:45:20Speaker 1: shit when they say that it's abnormal for men to
- 1:45:24Speaker 1: be able to do different things besides be this stereotype
- 1:45:30Speaker 1: of the stoic, rugged, you know, mountain man or whatever,
- 1:45:35Speaker 1: and and nothing else. They paint men as more one
- 1:45:40Speaker 1: dimensional than any other group of people paints them and
- 1:45:45Speaker 1: then project that onto other people. You're treating men like
- 1:45:50Speaker 1: they're one dimensional because you don't want them feminized. No,
- 1:45:56Speaker 1: we don't want men's freedom to express their masculinity in
- 1:46:02Speaker 1: their own personal idiom to quote Monty Python, taken away
- 1:46:09Speaker 1: from them by some gaggle of gossiping geese who have
- 1:46:16Speaker 1: to make up bullshit about what makes them men.
- 1:46:24Speaker 2: Yeah, they don't want men to be more emotional. They
- 1:46:26Speaker 2: want them to be less intellectual. I want them to
- 1:46:30Speaker 2: be less physical. They want them. They want to strip
- 1:46:33Speaker 2: men away from all of these elements and leave them
- 1:46:38Speaker 2: nothing with nothing but the emotional And then when men
- 1:46:42Speaker 2: express their emotions, they go, well, you're just being emotional,
- 1:46:45Speaker 2: and your emotions don't count because you're not oppressed like
- 1:46:50Speaker 2: we are. And they want to do the same thing
- 1:46:52Speaker 2: to women because women can also be highly intellectual and
- 1:46:56Speaker 2: highly physically capable of things these things. Maybe maybe less
- 1:47:01Speaker 2: evolutionarily primed for these things, but yeah, they want the
- 1:47:09Speaker 2: same thing for women as they want men. They want
- 1:47:12Speaker 2: to strip them of of every every objective quality that
- 1:47:17Speaker 2: they can possibly have and leave them with the sheer
- 1:47:21Speaker 2: subjectivity of emotions, so that they can either dismiss or
- 1:47:27Speaker 2: prioritize these emotions depending on what subject to which these
- 1:47:33Speaker 2: emotions pertain. And it's usually along political lines. If you're
- 1:47:43Speaker 2: if you're emotionally advocating for the left wing, then then
- 1:47:51Speaker 2: you're a perfectly good person be you female. But if
- 1:47:55Speaker 2: you're emotionally supporting the right wing, fuck you, you're just being
- 1:47:59Speaker 2: emotional and your emotions don't count factors. Do care about
- 1:48:04Speaker 2: your feelings as long as they pertain to the political
- 1:48:11Speaker 2: direction we want you to take. And why it is
- 1:48:15Speaker 2: that women prefer the left wing direction is up for debate.
- 1:48:20Speaker 2: I don't quite know why that is. I think it's
- 1:48:22Speaker 2: probably because they've been manipulated in that direction by certain
- 1:48:29Speaker 2: forces in the left wing. And then we get back
- 1:48:33Speaker 2: into the subject of what communism is done to us in.
- 1:48:39Speaker 1: But yeah, well, and if women have this issue in
- 1:48:46Speaker 1: general of preferring to feel secure over the freedom to
- 1:48:55Speaker 1: make themselves actually secure, It's like a with a cardboard box.
- 1:49:01Speaker 1: Cats will if it fits, they sits right, they'll they'll
- 1:49:05Speaker 1: they'll hide in a cardboard box because it feels safe
- 1:49:10Speaker 1: inside the box. It feels like nothing can come at
- 1:49:13Speaker 1: them from any direction except one. Uh, And anyone who's
- 1:49:17Speaker 1: claustrophobic would think of it exactly the opposite way. I
- 1:49:21Speaker 1: have only one direction that I can escape if something
- 1:49:25Speaker 1: bad happens in here. Right, I've got family that's that's claustrophobic,
- 1:49:30Speaker 1: So I've I've kind of heard plenty about what that's like.
- 1:49:34Speaker 1: But imagine, you know, you have a cat in a
- 1:49:40Speaker 1: situation where there is something truly dangerous, like say, a coyote,
- 1:49:47Speaker 1: and the only box around is a the box from
- 1:49:52Speaker 1: a twelve pack of sodas of pop. I'm from Ohio,
- 1:49:56Speaker 1: it's pop, but for everybody else, SODA's carbonated beverages in
- 1:50:04Speaker 1: twelve ounce cans to two rows of six. And so
- 1:50:09Speaker 1: the cat gets in there, right, The cardboard box is
- 1:50:12Speaker 1: very thin, one bite, and the coyote is through it,
- 1:50:16Speaker 1: and a cat is dead. It wasn't safe, but it
- 1:50:21Speaker 1: would still go in there because it would feel safe.
- 1:50:24Speaker 1: It would still hide in a place like that. And
- 1:50:29Speaker 1: the problem is women will do that, even though a
- 1:50:34Speaker 1: woman should be logically able to recognize when they are
- 1:50:40Speaker 1: substituting the illusion of safety and security for the reality.
- 1:50:49Speaker 1: For instance, the idea that we support the dumbest choices
- 1:50:54Speaker 1: that women can make screwing around like a three dollars horr.
- 1:51:00Speaker 1: And then oh gosh, now you know, I'm an unwed
- 1:51:04Speaker 1: mother and how am I going to support this child? Hey,
- 1:51:07Speaker 1: uncle Sam, can I have some money? Instead of suggesting
- 1:51:12Speaker 1: that we teach girls as they are growing up to
- 1:51:16Speaker 1: be very careful and avoid that circumstance so that they
- 1:51:22Speaker 1: never have to deal with it, they never have to
- 1:51:27Speaker 1: ask for that help and they never have to try
- 1:51:30Speaker 1: to avoid asking for that help by working harder and
- 1:51:35Speaker 1: because instead they planned for their adult life as they
- 1:51:40Speaker 1: were maturing, And we can't suggest that without having feminists
- 1:51:48Speaker 1: get all hateful about it. Oh, that's misogynistic. You're slut shaming.
- 1:51:53Speaker 1: There's no shame in this discussion. This isn't about morals,
- 1:51:57Speaker 1: This is about practicality. Smart thing to have your daughter
- 1:52:02Speaker 1: do growing up is learn about the consequences of careless liaisons,
- 1:52:10Speaker 1: the hygienic issue involved in indiscriminate sex, the emotional hygienic issue,
- 1:52:19Speaker 1: because there are brain chemistry issues that happen when you
- 1:52:23Speaker 1: have sex with a bunch of different people, and you know,
- 1:52:26Speaker 1: there's brain issues for women and there's brain issues for men.
- 1:52:31Speaker 1: In that it's not good for either sex to just
- 1:52:35Speaker 1: have sex with a bunch of people and then disconnect
- 1:52:38Speaker 1: each time and go to the next person. It's very unhealthy.
- 1:52:41Speaker 1: It's mentally unhealthy and it's physically unhealthy. It doesn't have
- 1:52:46Speaker 1: anything to do with shame. It has to do with
- 1:52:49Speaker 1: your not protecting your body against the invasion of microbes
- 1:52:54Speaker 1: that can hurt you, and you're not protecting your mind
- 1:52:58Speaker 1: against manipulation that nobody may be deliberately doing to you,
- 1:53:03Speaker 1: but you're still going to experience it. And you know,
- 1:53:09Speaker 1: we're in a situation today where we can't talk about
- 1:53:11Speaker 1: that stuff without feminist politicizing it. Right, the most practical
- 1:53:16Speaker 1: thing you can raise your daughter to do is remain
- 1:53:21Speaker 1: a virgin until she gets married, get a job when
- 1:53:25Speaker 1: she's in high school, start socking money away into a
- 1:53:30Speaker 1: dowry account, and have enough for a down payment for
- 1:53:34Speaker 1: a house when she decides to get married. And if
- 1:53:37Speaker 1: she decides to uh have any kind of professional career
- 1:53:43Speaker 1: before she before she gets married, you know, to to
- 1:53:48Speaker 1: minimize as much as possible how much money she spends
- 1:53:52Speaker 1: on college. The most practical thing she can do is
- 1:53:58Speaker 1: go into that marriage with a nest egg in tow
- 1:54:04Speaker 1: so that when she decides to have children, you know
- 1:54:09Speaker 1: the burden is not all on her husband in terms
- 1:54:12Speaker 1: of financial support. And if they decide that, you know,
- 1:54:18Speaker 1: she wants to stay home or he wants to stay
- 1:54:20Speaker 1: home with the kids for a period of time after
- 1:54:23Speaker 1: they're born. They'll be in a financial position to do that.
- 1:54:30Speaker 1: But unfortunately we talk about stuff like that, it becomes
- 1:54:35Speaker 1: why is that the woman's responsibility? You women should earn
- 1:54:38Speaker 1: just as much as men do, but men have to
- 1:54:41Speaker 1: have more money so they can provide for women's choices. Unrealistic,
- 1:54:47Speaker 1: and women will hold these contradictions in their heads with
- 1:54:54Speaker 1: no concern that they are mutually incompatible, right, mutually exclusive
- 1:55:01Speaker 1: from each other. He can't have more money than you
- 1:55:03Speaker 1: if you're earning the same amount, and your earnings can
- 1:55:08Speaker 1: never be unnecessary. You can't take time off to have
- 1:55:12Speaker 1: your baby and stay home with the child if your
- 1:55:16Speaker 1: earnings are just as important to the finances of the
- 1:55:20Speaker 1: home as your husbands are, unless you come in with
- 1:55:26Speaker 1: a dowry in this egg. And as soon as you
- 1:55:30Speaker 1: know women are confronted with stuff like that, they have
- 1:55:35Speaker 1: the shut off switch. Misogyny. You hate women, You must
- 1:55:40Speaker 1: not have any friends. Nobody likes you. How dare you
- 1:55:43Speaker 1: talk about things that way? Well, you can't get laid,
- 1:55:46Speaker 1: that's the problem, right, But they can't consider the ideas
- 1:55:50Speaker 1: because they don't feel safe. Considering your own accountability, your
- 1:55:56Speaker 1: own responsibility, not having someone else to fall back on
- 1:56:03Speaker 1: and rely on for your own welfare up until a
- 1:56:07Speaker 1: certain point doesn't feel safe unless you think all the
- 1:56:15Speaker 1: way through to the recognition that if you are accountable
- 1:56:20Speaker 1: for yourself and you are responsible for yourself, that's freedom,
- 1:56:27Speaker 1: and you don't have you're not always under somebody else's control,
- 1:56:31Speaker 1: because you're not always dependent on somebody else. And men
- 1:56:38Speaker 1: live with that their whole lives. They start living with
- 1:56:40Speaker 1: that before they're adults, so it doesn't necessarily come naturally,
- 1:56:49Speaker 1: but it feels natural to a degree if you do
- 1:56:55Speaker 1: that your whole life. But if you never have to,
- 1:56:59Speaker 1: and you're never in cur to and you never learned to,
- 1:57:02Speaker 1: and you get to adulthood legally, you know, at least
- 1:57:08Speaker 1: without ever reaching that level of adulthood mentally, you have
- 1:57:12Speaker 1: no context by which to understand it. And it looks terrifying.
- 1:57:19Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I might someday be on my own.
- 1:57:21Speaker 1: What am I going to do if I don't have
- 1:57:25Speaker 1: a safety net? And so what do women do? They
- 1:57:29Speaker 1: look at what politicians are offering, What are we going
- 1:57:32Speaker 1: to do for women? What safety nets are we going
- 1:57:35Speaker 1: to promise to women? And they picked up politicians that
- 1:57:39Speaker 1: promise the most attractive, softest looking safety nets, and they
- 1:57:44Speaker 1: vote for those guys. And that's how we end up
- 1:57:47Speaker 1: with socialists and communist leaders in charge of our countries
- 1:57:54Speaker 1: in high taxes and more and more function, social dysfunction,
- 1:58:02Speaker 1: and even you know, law breaking criminality over time in
- 1:58:08Speaker 1: our country because women trust safety nets more than they
- 1:58:13Speaker 1: trust themselves. Until we can change that. And that's a
- 1:58:20Speaker 1: big change to make, because that's a there's a lot
- 1:58:23Speaker 1: of history of women having that attitude. Until we can
- 1:58:27Speaker 1: change that, everything else that we're dealing with will not improve.
- 1:58:36Speaker 1: Men can't rescue women from that. Women's attitude actually has
- 1:58:41Speaker 1: to change. That's going to be the hardest thing to do.
- 1:58:44Speaker 1: And we are influencing more and more women's attitude to change.
- 1:58:52Speaker 1: There are more women speaking up now, There are more
- 1:58:54Speaker 1: women openly rejecting feminism. There are more women talking openly
- 1:58:59Speaker 1: about out the importance of dedication to your husband and
- 1:59:06Speaker 1: reciprocal partnerships and so on, not necessarily on a left
- 1:59:11Speaker 1: right basis, but on an individual basis, and that's probably
- 1:59:19Speaker 1: what has them the most scared. The real reason that
- 1:59:22Speaker 1: you and women and other feminist groups hate the manisphere
- 1:59:28Speaker 1: because their income, their political power, their influence very solidly
- 1:59:38Speaker 1: relies on women's addiction to safety nets and that kind
- 1:59:43Speaker 1: of women. If women overcome that addiction, these people are fucked, and.
- 1:59:50Speaker 2: They're kind of telling on themselves by testing along the
- 1:59:56Speaker 2: lines of no kings, even in even in countries, whether
- 2:00:00Speaker 2: there's no threat of a king ever becoming apparent, but
- 2:00:06Speaker 2: what women really need right now king after centuries of
- 2:00:12Speaker 2: democracy of of women, ah uh, bending the need to
- 2:00:23Speaker 2: governments to big daddy government. This this abstract machine that's
- 2:00:30Speaker 2: there's that's going to give them all these gibbs at
- 2:00:34Speaker 2: the expense of men, and that let's let's be perfectly honest.
- 2:00:39Speaker 2: This is what has caused all of this. The replacement
- 2:00:42Speaker 2: of the not just south a male, but the male
- 2:00:46Speaker 2: in general, the head of a family, the head of
- 2:00:49Speaker 2: any corporation, the head of any private enterprise. The replacement
- 2:00:55Speaker 2: of that with this, with this entirely artificial mob boss
- 2:01:02Speaker 2: that we call the government that has what not necessarily
- 2:01:06Speaker 2: caused this, I mean it's been caused by romantic chivalry
- 2:01:09Speaker 2: again since a thousand years ago, since before even a
- 2:01:12Speaker 2: government existed that was the precursor to governments. But yeah,
- 2:01:20Speaker 2: the fact that what they're protesting against is kings, even
- 2:01:25Speaker 2: in the event that kings haven't existed. For that, they're
- 2:01:29Speaker 2: sort of showing their ass that they're showing the behind
- 2:01:34Speaker 2: of what they're protesting rather than the front of what
- 2:01:38Speaker 2: they're protesting deep down. I mean they I say, they
- 2:01:44Speaker 2: say they don't know. But when I say they and
- 2:01:48Speaker 2: I just mean women, I mean this, this mass of
- 2:01:55Speaker 2: people kneeling before government. They what people protest against is
- 2:02:04Speaker 2: very often an indication of of what they know they
- 2:02:11Speaker 2: really need. And I know that that could that could
- 2:02:15Speaker 2: bite me on the ass having said that, But yes,
- 2:02:20Speaker 2: what you need as a king, because you really want kings.
- 2:02:24Speaker 2: Just like just like this meme about how how we
- 2:02:29Speaker 2: call how how we compliment people by calling them queens,
- 2:02:34Speaker 2: and how we compliment people by calling them kings. It's
- 2:02:38Speaker 2: it's because that's what's best for humanity and and not
- 2:02:42Speaker 2: that we should give absolute power to kings. And no,
- 2:02:47Speaker 2: we shouldn't in the same way we shouldn't give absolute
- 2:02:50Speaker 2: power to government. But given that we've given how much
- 2:02:56Speaker 2: power we've given to governments over the centuries, they've ended
- 2:03:00Speaker 2: up with absolute power, far more absolute power than has
- 2:03:04Speaker 2: ever been given to king.
- 2:03:06Speaker 1: I think that's actually the biggest part of the problem
- 2:03:10Speaker 1: women more than anything. They don't want it, but they
- 2:03:15Speaker 1: need total societal collapse in order in order to make
- 2:03:21Speaker 1: them grow at this point, and it's hopefully something that
- 2:03:27Speaker 1: doesn't actually happen, and hopefully another way for women to
- 2:03:32Speaker 1: grow and evolve is found, because total societal collapse would
- 2:03:37Speaker 1: hurt a lot, not just for one group of people,
- 2:03:41Speaker 1: everybody would suffer. The truth is that you know women,
- 2:03:47Speaker 1: what women are clamoring for versus what women need, like
- 2:03:54Speaker 1: the gap between those two conditions is so wide you
- 2:03:59Speaker 1: can't see what from if you're standing on the other
- 2:04:03Speaker 1: And yeah, women might be calling for a king, women
- 2:04:08Speaker 1: might be begging for big daddy government to be personified
- 2:04:14Speaker 1: by a big daddy, but it's not the best thing
- 2:04:18Speaker 1: that could happen. Having an amount of power political power
- 2:04:27Speaker 1: that such as government consolidated to one individual like that
- 2:04:33Speaker 1: is even worse than having a representative republic with with voters.
- 2:04:40Speaker 1: It's it would be better to have almost no government
- 2:04:46Speaker 1: at all or no government at all than to have
- 2:04:49Speaker 1: either one. And unfortunately I think women. Most women would
- 2:04:54Speaker 1: freak the fuck out if if we started going in
- 2:04:57Speaker 1: that direction, because there would be no safety nets.
- 2:05:03Speaker 2: I'm not talking about total societal collapse.
- 2:05:08Speaker 1: There was no I am.
- 2:05:10Speaker 2: There was this old Joe Rogan joke about if you
- 2:05:13Speaker 2: had a sandwich made of ninety percent shit and ten
- 2:05:16Speaker 2: percent ham, would you be prepared to call that a
- 2:05:19Speaker 2: ham sandwich? And I'm like, the society we have now
- 2:05:26Speaker 2: is ninety nine ham with one percent of shit on
- 2:05:32Speaker 2: top of that. And I'm just talking about removing the
- 2:05:35Speaker 2: one percent of shit that is that is feasible, especially
- 2:05:38Speaker 2: if the shit is merely sprinkled on top of the
- 2:05:41Speaker 2: slice of bread that is on top of that. I'm
- 2:05:44Speaker 2: talking about shave off the ship. In fact, remove the
- 2:05:48Speaker 2: top slice of bread onto which the shit has been sprinkled,
- 2:05:53Speaker 2: and put a fresh slice of bread on top of that.
- 2:05:59Speaker 2: And that's not that's not necessarily regress. I mean, I
- 2:06:02Speaker 2: suppose it is. But you've still got the ham sandwich
- 2:06:05Speaker 2: underneath it. You've still got the fresh slice of bread
- 2:06:08Speaker 2: on the bottom and all that delicious ham in the middle.
- 2:06:12Speaker 2: Just remove the top slice of bread that's been infected
- 2:06:14Speaker 2: with all the human shit. I put a different slice
- 2:06:19Speaker 2: of bread on top of it. One would no shit
- 2:06:23Speaker 2: on top of it. I mean, I don't know if
- 2:06:27Speaker 2: you can call that regress or progress. I don't know
- 2:06:29Speaker 2: if you call it woke left or woke right.
- 2:06:34Speaker 1: But I'm just wondering if the cook that was handling
- 2:06:37Speaker 1: this shitty ham sandwich washed his or her hands, because
- 2:06:43Speaker 1: otherwise it won't matter the whole sandwich is contaminated.
- 2:06:46Speaker 2: In your You can figure that out too. We can
- 2:06:49Speaker 2: make that contingency too.
- 2:06:51Speaker 1: There we go. But I I just can't with the
- 2:06:56Speaker 1: idea of there being a monarchy. I think that's just
- 2:07:02Speaker 1: it takes away a certain amount of accountability because the individual,
- 2:07:10Speaker 1: especially in the modern terms where fighting off the government
- 2:07:15Speaker 1: like the way that the revolutions of the past happened,
- 2:07:21Speaker 1: those avenues.
- 2:07:23Speaker 2: Are not.
- 2:07:25Speaker 1: As available today as they were. And the most available
- 2:07:31Speaker 1: avenue today is to have a system like Trump's trying
- 2:07:36Speaker 1: to create in the US, where we have elections that
- 2:07:41Speaker 1: are free from being manipulated, at least in terms of
- 2:07:46Speaker 1: putting votes in that aren't real and or aren't legal.
- 2:07:53Speaker 1: I think that's better than if you end up with
- 2:07:59Speaker 1: somebody that maybe the public it isn't seeing any of
- 2:08:03Speaker 1: their interests served by your government, that you can't replace
- 2:08:10Speaker 1: that individual because their heir has god given right to
- 2:08:18Speaker 1: rule the country next. It just does, it doesn't. I'm
- 2:08:21Speaker 1: not the reason that the early Americans fled that type
- 2:08:28Speaker 1: of system was because it always results ultimately in problems
- 2:08:36Speaker 1: and often in despotism.
- 2:08:39Speaker 2: Well, it certainly hasn't worked out for the UK because
- 2:08:43Speaker 2: we've had a king for this whole time and the
- 2:08:46Speaker 2: UK is a fucking hellscape this point and the existence
- 2:08:52Speaker 2: of a monarch hasn't helped us. The fact that we
- 2:08:55Speaker 2: are technically a constitutional monarchy because we don't really have
- 2:09:01Speaker 2: a constitution, certainly, not like like you'll have in the US.
- 2:09:05Speaker 2: We have the Magna Carta and that's as close as
- 2:09:07Speaker 2: we can really point to in terms of a constitution.
- 2:09:11Speaker 2: And but that's not really a constitution, that's just an
- 2:09:14Speaker 2: element of what I guess we're calling our constitution. But
- 2:09:18Speaker 2: the fact that the prime Minister in Britain has to
- 2:09:22Speaker 2: kneel before the king is important because it is it
- 2:09:29Speaker 2: is it is supposed to hold them back, It is
- 2:09:31Speaker 2: supposed to give them humility before something greater than the government.
- 2:09:42Speaker 1: Unfortunately it is it is not stopped them from.
- 2:09:48Speaker 2: No No, largely because we've we've been a vassal state
- 2:09:53Speaker 2: of the U. S. Service. Yeah, and we've had to
- 2:09:57Speaker 2: do whatever the US tells them since the war. And
- 2:10:01Speaker 2: the fact that the US has been has been doing
- 2:10:07Speaker 2: nothing but whatever the government tells it since then. I mean,
- 2:10:10Speaker 2: I just, I'm.
- 2:10:11Speaker 1: Just you have just actually been, to a degree the
- 2:10:15Speaker 1: vassal state of another country.
- 2:10:18Speaker 2: Oh well, we can't talk about that.
- 2:10:20Speaker 1: Yes, I have noticed that, John.
- 2:10:23Speaker 2: That's only been since nineteen forty eight. Right, if you're
- 2:10:27Speaker 2: talking about the state, I think, imagine, imagine, imagine if
- 2:10:34Speaker 2: imagine if George Washington was made the king. I know,
- 2:10:38Speaker 2: I know this would change so much of history, because
- 2:10:41Speaker 2: that doesn't mean you wouldn't be without a government. You'd
- 2:10:44Speaker 2: be much like the UK constitutional monarchy. With John was
- 2:10:50Speaker 2: the strength is the country.
- 2:10:53Speaker 1: The strength of the country came from the history we
- 2:10:56Speaker 1: did have. The country's power came from the history that
- 2:11:01Speaker 1: we did have. And well, yeah, we do because the
- 2:11:10Speaker 1: country came from the countries that our ancestors fled. My
- 2:11:17Speaker 1: ancestors fled from several countries, most of them are in
- 2:11:21Speaker 1: the European Union now. So in my opinion, I think
- 2:11:28Speaker 1: the parliamentary system that doesn't involve a king has been
- 2:11:36Speaker 1: shown to be at least somewhat superior, at least in
- 2:11:43Speaker 1: terms of strengthening a country. Now, once we got to
- 2:11:46Speaker 1: the point where, like, honestly, at the downfall of this
- 2:11:51Speaker 1: country wasn't voting, and it wasn't the parliamentary system. It
- 2:12:01Speaker 1: was when women began voting. Because women, instead of voting
- 2:12:08Speaker 1: in the interests of their homes and their communities, voted
- 2:12:13Speaker 1: for safety nets.
- 2:12:14Speaker 2: Well, you know how you could develop a counterpoint to that, eventuality,
- 2:12:19Speaker 2: having some kind of king who can go no, fuck.
- 2:12:23Speaker 1: It doesn't it doesn't work that way. Because you had
- 2:12:26Speaker 1: a king. No, women still got the right to vote
- 2:12:30Speaker 1: in your country. In fact, they had the right to vote,
- 2:12:33Speaker 1: and then they lost it for only a little while,
- 2:12:36Speaker 1: and they threw a massive, wild temper tantrum, thus increasing
- 2:12:40Speaker 1: the amount of time it took for their parliament to
- 2:12:42Speaker 1: give it back. But eventually they did, and again you
- 2:12:48Speaker 1: still have Like when it was only men voting, you
- 2:12:52Speaker 1: had a much more practical response to what government was
- 2:12:59Speaker 1: doing and what it was supposed to be doing. We
- 2:13:02Speaker 1: didn't have an escalating, a constantly escalating, uh massive growing
- 2:13:13Speaker 1: system of overspending and building debt until women started voting
- 2:13:20Speaker 1: for social safety nets and and UH for more and
- 2:13:25Speaker 1: more regulation. Hell, we didn't, we didn't need any type
- 2:13:30Speaker 1: of federalized police force until women pushed for the government
- 2:13:36Speaker 1: to control what people drank. And then we got organized crime,
- 2:13:43Speaker 1: and then we ended up with a federalized police force
- 2:13:48Speaker 1: because of that. It was a direct result the the
- 2:13:53Speaker 1: FBI and and UH, the the whole system of federalizing
- 2:14:02Speaker 1: law enforcement came into existence to control a type of
- 2:14:09Speaker 1: crime that only happened in the United States because women
- 2:14:16Speaker 1: tried to micromanage people's choices lifestyle choices, right, and a
- 2:14:23Speaker 1: king didn't prevent that. In the UK, a king didn't
- 2:14:28Speaker 1: prevent that. In France, king didn't prevent that. In Spain,
- 2:14:34Speaker 1: you still ended up with that same situation of women
- 2:14:37Speaker 1: trying to micromanage people's choices and confiscate people's resources for
- 2:14:43Speaker 1: feminine interests. So there will never be a situation where
- 2:14:50Speaker 1: as long as women are allowed the same style of
- 2:14:57Speaker 1: say in politics that men have and the same influence
- 2:15:03Speaker 1: social influence that women have at the same time, there
- 2:15:07Speaker 1: will never be a type of government that can rein
- 2:15:09Speaker 1: them in.
- 2:15:11Speaker 2: The best we can get as a free market and
- 2:15:13Speaker 2: in very politics can work in the same way as
- 2:15:16Speaker 2: a free market as long as there is competition between entities.
- 2:15:22Speaker 2: Those various entities will have to compromise amongst each other
- 2:15:28Speaker 2: based on what the majority of people want. And this
- 2:15:35Speaker 2: is why it's important to have this back and forth
- 2:15:38Speaker 2: between the government and the monarchy. And this is something
- 2:15:41Speaker 2: we don't have in the UK. We haven't had it
- 2:15:44Speaker 2: for a while. The government one that the government has
- 2:15:50Speaker 2: cornered that market, like the monarchy has no power anymore.
- 2:15:54Speaker 1: They do.
- 2:15:55Speaker 2: They do technically have. The king can or indeed the
- 2:15:58Speaker 2: Queen previously the king can turn up in Parliament and
- 2:16:02Speaker 2: say no, I hear by veto this bill. But he's
- 2:16:04Speaker 2: never going to do that because if he did, the
- 2:16:07Speaker 2: monarchy would be abolished overnight. And that's the problem. The
- 2:16:11Speaker 2: point is you need a back and forth so that
- 2:16:14Speaker 2: you have the competition that represents the free market.
- 2:16:20Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the powers we have. We have the the
- 2:16:26Speaker 1: legislative branch that is it's one power. We have the
- 2:16:32Speaker 1: executive branch that's a second power, and then we have
- 2:16:35Speaker 1: the judicial branch that is a third power, and each
- 2:16:38Speaker 1: has some degree of override capability for the other two. Uh,
- 2:16:45Speaker 1: and and what's interesting, like Congress can still override the
- 2:16:51Speaker 1: president too. You have to have more votes. It takes
- 2:16:55Speaker 1: a bigger effort, but they can do it. And you know,
- 2:17:00Speaker 1: if if the courts determine a law to be unconstitutional,
- 2:17:05Speaker 1: the legislators can look at what were the reasons they
- 2:17:08Speaker 1: gave and try to find workarounds to have the law
- 2:17:12Speaker 1: do what they want and still have it be constitutional.
- 2:17:16Speaker 1: And of course you have the Constitution itself laying out
- 2:17:22Speaker 1: the rights that are protected for citizens and placing limitations
- 2:17:27Speaker 1: on what the government can do and determining what the
- 2:17:31Speaker 1: government's roles are. And with that document all three of
- 2:17:37Speaker 1: the branches being beholden to it, that is supposed to
- 2:17:41Speaker 1: act as sort of the fourth check, the fourth balance,
- 2:17:46Speaker 1: and it's worked for all these years. The only issue
- 2:17:54Speaker 1: that we've had, and I'm still going to lay it
- 2:17:58Speaker 1: at the feet of women, that that women don't think
- 2:18:02Speaker 1: all the way through when they look at those social
- 2:18:07Speaker 1: safety nets to the other side of it, where they
- 2:18:09Speaker 1: are voting for dependence and and they are voting for
- 2:18:16Speaker 1: being being controlled agreed, And it's the there's no form
- 2:18:26Speaker 1: of government that you can come up with that undoes
- 2:18:30Speaker 1: that it the attitude itself, the failure to think ahead
- 2:18:35Speaker 1: and think through has to change. And now there is
- 2:18:39Speaker 1: one way that men can fix this, But it's a
- 2:18:41Speaker 1: it's a generational fix. It's not something that's going to
- 2:18:43Speaker 1: happen overnight. Every father that has the the access and
- 2:18:50Speaker 1: ability to raise his daughter should raise his daughter to
- 2:18:56Speaker 1: think better, think all the way through, and not just
- 2:19:02Speaker 1: want safety nets, you know. And there's little things that
- 2:19:08Speaker 1: a got. Like when I was a kid, I had
- 2:19:12Speaker 1: two different attitudes from my parents about my tendency to
- 2:19:16Speaker 1: pick up bugs like my brother did. My dad thought
- 2:19:22Speaker 1: it was cute and so he helped me find interesting
- 2:19:27Speaker 1: bugs that weren't going to bite me and encouraged me
- 2:19:31Speaker 1: to be tough about the bugs that did bite. My
- 2:19:35Speaker 1: mom warned me that the bugs would bite, and it
- 2:19:40Speaker 1: was one of the most feminine things he ever did.
- 2:19:41Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, they bite. One day, I was playing
- 2:19:44Speaker 1: with a spider and it was trapped in a corner.
- 2:19:48Speaker 1: I was a little kid, so I didn't realize how
- 2:19:50Speaker 1: mean this was at the time, but it was trapped
- 2:19:53Speaker 1: in the corner and it would start running out of
- 2:19:54Speaker 1: the corner and I would flick it with my finger
- 2:19:57Speaker 1: and it would roll into a ball and roll back
- 2:19:59Speaker 1: into the corner, and that would try to get out
- 2:20:00Speaker 1: another way, and you know which as a as an adult,
- 2:20:04Speaker 1: you know, my first response would be to go back
- 2:20:06Speaker 1: and tell that kid, don't do that. That's mean you
- 2:20:09Speaker 1: might hurt the bug, you know. But my mom, oh, handy,
- 2:20:15Speaker 1: they bite. You know, she was near panicked because he
- 2:20:19Speaker 1: was allergic to spider rights, so she didn't and she
- 2:20:22Speaker 1: didn't know if I would be or not. I'm not,
- 2:20:24Speaker 1: It's one of the few things I'm not allergic to.
- 2:20:27Speaker 1: But you know, scared the crap out of me. She
- 2:20:31Speaker 1: had to peel me off the ceiling with a spatula
- 2:20:35Speaker 1: where my dad, you know, taught me how funny it
- 2:20:39Speaker 1: is to let a daddy long leg a Huntsman spider,
- 2:20:42Speaker 1: not the Australian kind, you know, crawl up your arm.
- 2:20:47Speaker 1: They can't bite, they can't do anything. They're just these weird,
- 2:20:51Speaker 1: little leggy you know, creatures, and you know, to to
- 2:20:57Speaker 1: pick up and carry around crickets and you know, go
- 2:21:00Speaker 1: fishing with them and bait my own hook and that
- 2:21:02Speaker 1: kind of stuff. It's better to encourage your daughters to
- 2:21:10Speaker 1: have that that the guts to to, you know, explore
- 2:21:17Speaker 1: their environment and to maybe care about their impact on it, like,
- 2:21:24Speaker 1: you know, don't hurt the spider, that's mean. Don't be
- 2:21:28Speaker 1: mean to things just for the sake of having some
- 2:21:30Speaker 1: kind of fun. But it's perfectly acceptable to get a
- 2:21:33Speaker 1: good close look at it and there's there's nothing wrong
- 2:21:36Speaker 1: with that, and you shouldn't be too scared. Look how
- 2:21:39Speaker 1: little it is, you know. And again not in Australia, clearly,
- 2:21:46Speaker 1: but instead a lot of times we coddle little girls.
- 2:21:52Speaker 1: Little girls get taught that it's okay to be delicate
- 2:21:55Speaker 1: and fragile and scared of everything. And you know, when
- 2:22:01Speaker 1: when they hit the first grade six seven year old
- 2:22:04Speaker 1: age and they start tattling on everybody for everything, it's
- 2:22:08Speaker 1: encouraged instead of discouraged, you know, and you know, handle it.
- 2:22:15Speaker 1: And you know, anytime that it's not something that an
- 2:22:19Speaker 1: adult should handle, this person is is breaking this minor
- 2:22:24Speaker 1: rule in the classroom. Well, nobody likes a tattletale, right,
- 2:22:29Speaker 1: that should be the answer most of the time. But
- 2:22:33Speaker 1: instead we teach little girls from the time they're toddlers
- 2:22:40Speaker 1: that they should be seeking safety nets instead of independence
- 2:22:44Speaker 1: and accountability. Little boys grow up learning to seek accountability
- 2:22:49Speaker 1: and independence. But we can't do that. If we want
- 2:22:57Speaker 1: a functional society, both sexes need to grow up learning
- 2:23:02Speaker 1: to seek accountability and independence and to try to help
- 2:23:07Speaker 1: other people to be a bit of a safety net,
- 2:23:11Speaker 1: and to be grateful when they have a real functional
- 2:23:14Speaker 1: safety net, but not to rely on the idea that
- 2:23:19Speaker 1: there will always be one. It's destroying our society. And
- 2:23:26Speaker 1: that's one thing that fathers can do. Fathers are good
- 2:23:29Speaker 1: at teaching independence. Fathers are good at teaching risk taking
- 2:23:37Speaker 1: and functional risk taking. Not Hey, I want to see
- 2:23:41Speaker 1: if I can use a blanket as a parachute when
- 2:23:44Speaker 1: I jump off the roof. Risk taking. But okay, so
- 2:23:48Speaker 1: I might get an itchy welt if this bug bites me.
- 2:23:50Speaker 1: Risk taking. Don't pick up mosquitoes, they carry diseases. But yeah,
- 2:24:01Speaker 1: and it'll take thirty years. And that's the unfortunate part
- 2:24:07Speaker 1: of it. It'll take thirty years to get in enough
- 2:24:11Speaker 1: of a generation of girls raised that way that they'll
- 2:24:15Speaker 1: counter the uh, the namby pamby vote. It looks like
- 2:24:22Speaker 1: that's already started to a degree. But that's what we
- 2:24:27Speaker 1: need more of. And so probably the most important issue
- 2:24:33Speaker 1: that the men's rights movement can fight for. Out of
- 2:24:36Speaker 1: everything that we fight for is father's rights.
- 2:24:41Speaker 2: And we've been pushing for this from the bottom up
- 2:24:45Speaker 2: for as long as we can remember, and nature itself,
- 2:24:49Speaker 2: evolution itself, has been pushing for this from the bottom
- 2:24:53Speaker 2: up ever since we became Homo sapiens, and even before that,
- 2:24:57Speaker 2: since we were austrol epithecus or whatever. But we find
- 2:25:03Speaker 2: ourselves in an unfortunate modernist situation where we've been canceled
- 2:25:11Speaker 2: out from the top down with this feminist bullshit that
- 2:25:14Speaker 2: has taken over the media and the government and all that.
- 2:25:19Speaker 2: And yeah, for for our lifetimes, we've been trying to
- 2:25:25Speaker 2: combat this with this bottom up system, with this grassroots
- 2:25:29Speaker 2: movement of trying to say, look, fathers are important, just
- 2:25:37Speaker 2: as important as mothers. But I don't know how to
- 2:25:43Speaker 2: approach this when when when we're when we are grassroots
- 2:25:48Speaker 2: against sky down, Like, I don't I don't know what.
- 2:25:53Speaker 2: I don't know how I can poetically paint this as
- 2:25:57Speaker 2: something that's the opposite of grassroots than sky down. And
- 2:26:01Speaker 2: I don't know what to call sky down other than
- 2:26:04Speaker 2: this fucking this, this government and media monopoly over things.
- 2:26:09Speaker 2: And I don't know how to fight that other than
- 2:26:12Speaker 2: with a a leadership, a rulership. And that's why I'm
- 2:26:18Speaker 2: that's why I'm talking about something needs to happen to
- 2:26:22Speaker 2: overhaul this this sky down system. And and that's and
- 2:26:29Speaker 2: that's why I keep talking about monarchy or something similar
- 2:26:34Speaker 2: to it, that that's what monarchy is.
- 2:26:37Speaker 1: It's just another sky down system going on. What's been
- 2:26:42Speaker 1: going on during the last forty or fifty years is
- 2:26:45Speaker 1: that the father's rights movement has been making slow but
- 2:26:50Speaker 1: steady progress from changing custody standards in the United States,
- 2:26:56Speaker 1: in particular, changing custody standards from presumptive maternal custody to
- 2:27:03Speaker 1: joint custody, to shared parenting and now to equally shared
- 2:27:07Speaker 1: parenting as the default in divorce cases. And where equally
- 2:27:13Speaker 1: shared parenting becomes the default, divorce goes down and children
- 2:27:17Speaker 1: end up being raised in stable, two parent homes. So
- 2:27:22Speaker 1: that's one thing. And the lobbying and and you know,
- 2:27:29Speaker 1: letter writing end of the men's rights movement that contacts
- 2:27:33Speaker 1: legislators have been putting on a pressure campaign for that
- 2:27:37Speaker 1: route for for years. And there are now several states
- 2:27:42Speaker 1: in the US that have default equally shared parenting as
- 2:27:49Speaker 1: how they you know, approach if if the parents decide
- 2:27:52Speaker 1: to do something else or uh, there's a real serious problem,
- 2:27:56Speaker 1: right one of the parents is to go to rehab
- 2:28:01Speaker 1: or is an abuser, or you know, it's going to
- 2:28:05Speaker 1: move across the country and and be thousands of miles
- 2:28:09Speaker 1: away from their kid, you know, like you can't transfer
- 2:28:12Speaker 1: every week all the way across country like that. But
- 2:28:18Speaker 1: in most cases, they they when the kids, you know,
- 2:28:24Speaker 1: or when the parents get divorced, the kids live part
- 2:28:27Speaker 1: time with one parent, part time with the other parent,
- 2:28:30Speaker 1: and it's half and half. So the father does get
- 2:28:33Speaker 1: time to be more than just a walking wallet. He
- 2:28:38Speaker 1: does get time to go out in the backyard and
- 2:28:42Speaker 1: play catch and teach the kid to you know, have
- 2:28:47Speaker 1: the sportsmanship, to tough out disappointment when he misses the
- 2:28:51Speaker 1: ball or when she throws and it doesn't quite reach dad,
- 2:28:57Speaker 1: or you know, when she's out, you know, if they're
- 2:29:01Speaker 1: playing a game and stuff like that, which teaches a
- 2:29:05Speaker 1: lot about character that mothers ignore. And you know, so
- 2:29:09Speaker 1: you do have change taking place. It's just very very
- 2:29:14Speaker 1: important that we keep it up. It's exhausting, but it
- 2:29:18Speaker 1: is very very important. People continue to write their legislators,
- 2:29:23Speaker 1: they continue to support organizations like the National Coalition for
- 2:29:27Speaker 1: Men that actually go through and they don't just lobby,
- 2:29:34Speaker 1: They also use the court system to get things changed,
- 2:29:40Speaker 1: and you know, supporting organizations like US and a Voice
- 2:29:44Speaker 1: for Men so that we can get the word out
- 2:29:46Speaker 1: to more people. We've gotten this discussion into the mainstream
- 2:29:54Speaker 1: and it's only taken you know, only the last ten
- 2:29:59Speaker 1: years to really push it forward. This discussion has been
- 2:30:05Speaker 1: going on in the men's rights movement before. Many of
- 2:30:10Speaker 1: us were involved in it for decades without the mainstream
- 2:30:14Speaker 1: realizing or understanding it. And now you have influencers that
- 2:30:22Speaker 1: ten or fifteen years ago, they'd have been talking about
- 2:30:26Speaker 1: everything except men, and everything except men's situations and issues,
- 2:30:32Speaker 1: and they are talking about it now, and they're looking
- 2:30:35Speaker 1: at the various details and they're not just considering it
- 2:30:39Speaker 1: from a guyinocentric perspective. And even those that had been
- 2:30:44Speaker 1: considering it from just a ginocenter perspective are starting to
- 2:30:49Speaker 1: consider more egalitarian perspectives. So things are changing and positive.
- 2:30:57Speaker 1: It's just, you know, it seems slow, but we've had
- 2:31:05Speaker 1: in comparison to how things were during say the previous
- 2:31:09Speaker 1: hundred years, we have had a giant leap forward in
- 2:31:12Speaker 1: the last ten. But with that, I think we really
- 2:31:16Speaker 1: need to call it a night for the for HBr
- 2:31:21Speaker 1: talk because it has been a couple of hours and
- 2:31:23Speaker 1: poor Brian's got to be doing this in the background
- 2:31:25Speaker 1: the whole time. So I am going to say, and
- 2:31:30Speaker 1: we don't have any other super chows and I haven't
- 2:31:33Speaker 1: seen any super chats go through. I haven't. I haven't
- 2:31:38Speaker 1: seen any brightly colored mentions here go through, so I
- 2:31:44Speaker 1: don't think we have them. Hopefully I haven't missed anything,
- 2:31:48Speaker 1: and if I did, I apologize, But thanks Mike for
- 2:31:53Speaker 1: going through more you and women bullshit with me. We
- 2:31:58Speaker 1: will finish this article next week and then we might
- 2:32:04Speaker 1: look at the If there's anything in the Brazil it's
- 2:32:09Speaker 1: not just Brazil, it's all of South America and the
- 2:32:11Speaker 1: South America document that's not any Africa document, we'll look
- 2:32:15Speaker 1: at that. But otherwise, I'm pretty sure most of what
- 2:32:21Speaker 1: I saw in most documents, they mirrored each other. They
- 2:32:24Speaker 1: just had a slightly different wording based on the cultures.
- 2:32:29Speaker 1: So that's what will be. That's what we'll be doing
- 2:32:32Speaker 1: next week. Thanks everybody for listening, and we will see
- 2:32:37Speaker 1: you next Thursday. Good night all,