Latest / THINK BEFORE YOU SLEEP / Why Most Women Are Undesirable to Men

Transcript

Why Most Women Are Undesirable to Men · THINK BEFORE YOU SLEEP

• 0:05
  Speaker 1: I've tried yoga before, but I'm kind of a little
• 0:09
  Speaker 1: nervous to get into it. I don't think I'd feel
• 0:12
  Speaker 1: very comfortable walking into most yoga spaces because I think
• 0:16
  Speaker 1: I would feel judged. People assume that because I'm curvy
• 0:19
  Speaker 1: and a size 14-16 that I don't work out and
• 0:23
  Speaker 1: I just eat potato.
• 0:23
  Speaker 2: Chips all day long. Yes, we do think that, because
• 0:27
  Speaker 2: that's what causes people to gain as much weight as
• 0:29
  Speaker 2: you have. I mean, it's hard for me to fathom
• 0:32
  Speaker 2: why so many women would romanticize self-destructive behavior, especially women
• 0:37
  Speaker 2: like Kelsey who clearly would be very attractive and valuable
• 0:40
  Speaker 2: if she were thin. Obviously, valuable men prefer thin women,
• 0:44
  Speaker 2: so why would Kelsey who, again, could have options, doom
• 0:48
  Speaker 2: herself to a lower quality man? Oh wait, I think
• 0:51
  Speaker 2: I found the reason. I wonder if she magically started
• 0:54
  Speaker 2: having weight problems right after that ring was purchased. So
• 0:57
  Speaker 2: when you hear the cliche, where have all the good
• 0:59
  Speaker 2: men gone? That's what we're dealing with. A whopping 70%
• 1:03
  Speaker 2: of American women are overweight. 70%. That makes most women
• 1:09
  Speaker 2: completely unviable partners. 40% of those women are obese and
• 1:13
  Speaker 2: good men are not attracted to women who are obese.
• 1:16
  Speaker 2: It doesn't matter how many degrees you have or how
• 1:18
  Speaker 2: great you think your personality is.
• 1:20
  Speaker 1: It's okay that I'm not married yet.
• 1:23
  Speaker 3: I'm independent. I'm intelligent.
• 1:25
  Speaker 4: I'm accomplished.
• 1:27
  Speaker 2: Actually, on that note, why don't I just spend maybe
• 1:30
  Speaker 2: the rest of this video explaining why being overweight or
• 1:33
  Speaker 2: obese is not just unattractive to most men, but it's
• 1:36
  Speaker 2: a precursor to a whole slew of negative personality traits.
• 1:40
  Speaker 2: Let's start with the abject lying about that negativity by
• 1:42
  Speaker 2: manipulating the words used. It reminds me of a George
• 1:45
  Speaker 2: Carlin bit.
• 1:47
  Speaker 3: I don't like words that hide the truth. I don't
• 1:48
  Speaker 3: like words that conceal reality.
• 1:50
  Speaker 2: I don't like.
• 1:51
  Speaker 3: Euphemisms or euphemistic language. And American English is loaded with euphemisms.
• 1:56
  Speaker 3: Because Americans have a lot of trouble dealing with reality.
• 1:59
  Speaker 3: Americans have trouble facing the truth. So they invent the
• 2:02
  Speaker 3: kind of a soft language to protect themselves from it.
• 2:05
  Speaker 3: And it is a function of time. It does keep
• 2:08
  Speaker 3: getting worse. Give you another example. Sometime during my life,
• 2:11
  Speaker 3: sometime during my life, toilet paper became bathroom tissue. I
• 2:17
  Speaker 3: wasn't notified of this. No one asked me if I
• 2:21
  Speaker 3: agreed with it.
• 2:22
  Speaker 2: It just happened.
• 2:23
  Speaker 3: Toilet paper became bathroom tissue. The dump became the landfill.
• 2:29
  Speaker 3: Car crashes became automobile accidents. Partly cloudy became partly sunny.
• 2:36
  Speaker 3: Motels became motor lodges. House trailers became mobile homes. Used
• 2:43
  Speaker 3: cars became previously owned transportation. And constipation became occasional irregularity.
• 2:54
  Speaker 2: And in just the same way, these women are taking
• 2:56
  Speaker 2: words like fat, obese, and overweight and trying to turn
• 2:59
  Speaker 2: them into something positive by changing the word.
• 3:02
  Speaker 4: As a big girl. As a big person. Look different
• 3:05
  Speaker 4: than the norm. Larger bodied people. As a larger bodied person.
• 3:09
  Speaker 4: Plus size women in bigger bodies.
• 3:11
  Speaker 1: As a plus size woman.
• 3:12
  Speaker 4: Curvy.
• 3:13
  Speaker 1: Curvaceous woman.
• 3:14
  Speaker 4: Other women who look like me.
• 3:16
  Speaker 2: Other women who look like me. Look at how many
• 3:19
  Speaker 2: words she had to use to say fat. She used
• 3:22
  Speaker 2: six words to describe one. Imagine how inconvenient it would
• 3:26
  Speaker 2: be if we all had to use six times as
• 3:28
  Speaker 2: many words just to describe what we were talking about.
• 3:31
  Speaker 2: And this is annoying because the fastest way from point
• 3:33
  Speaker 2: A to point B is a straight line. But if
• 3:36
  Speaker 2: someone doesn't want you to get to point B, they
• 3:39
  Speaker 2: might try to divert you. Point A is fat and
• 3:42
  Speaker 2: point B is thin. A person might say, I am fat.
• 3:46
  Speaker 2: and I want to be thin. A BuzzFeed employee might respond, no,
• 3:50
  Speaker 2: you aren't fat, you're curvaceous. Doesn't that sound nice? Or worse,
• 3:56
  Speaker 2: people go a step beyond the diversion tactics and start
• 3:59
  Speaker 2: changing their own words, and at that point, they're just
• 4:01
  Speaker 2: saying they have no desire to be healthy. Anyone who
• 4:04
  Speaker 2: deflects like that or gets comfortable has no desire to change,
• 4:08
  Speaker 2: and that's a sign of a bad personality. Certainly, anytime
• 4:11
  Speaker 2: you try to tell the truth, a person like that
• 4:13
  Speaker 2: will snap at you. Me personally, I stay thin because
• 4:16
  Speaker 2: when I get fat, I call myself fat. In fact,
• 4:20
  Speaker 2: after the busy holidays plus other drama, my body fat
• 4:23
  Speaker 2: percentage went up to 15%. Now technically, that's still a
• 4:26
  Speaker 2: perfectly healthy body fat percentage, but as a male who
• 4:29
  Speaker 2: teaches fitness, that's unacceptable. I need to be somewhere between
• 4:33
  Speaker 2: the 10 and 12% range, therefore, I identify myself as
• 4:37
  Speaker 2: fat and say, okay, it's time to start cutting calories
• 4:40
  Speaker 2: and start losing weight. Yeah, that takes a lot of
• 4:43
  Speaker 2: effort and it's uncomfortable, But all the other stuff that
• 4:45
  Speaker 2: people do to cover up for their obesity is way
• 4:48
  Speaker 2: more work than just being honest and direct with yourself
• 4:51
  Speaker 2: about your health. However, the deflection tactics keep getting worse.
• 4:55
  Speaker 2: Over the years I've been teaching yoga, I keep seeing
• 4:58
  Speaker 2: mainstream media trying to sneak in obese yoga teachers with
• 5:01
  Speaker 2: the body positivity movement. One of them who caught my
• 5:04
  Speaker 2: attention is Jessamyn Stanley because she says fantastic things like this.
• 5:08
  Speaker 4: Being fat just means that you're large.
• 5:10
  Speaker 2: That's all it means.
• 5:11
  Speaker 4: It can also be paired with healthy.
• 5:14
  Speaker 2: Now, I think a reason they get away with promoting
• 5:16
  Speaker 2: fat exercise teachers is because overweight and obese people think
• 5:20
  Speaker 2: that there is some stigma about them at the gym.
• 5:23
  Speaker 5: Honestly, after a decade of teaching, I've never seen this happen.
• 5:43
  Speaker 2: Any gym I've worked for will fire you instantly if
• 5:45
  Speaker 2: you make fun of someone for being fat. And as
• 5:48
  Speaker 2: far as the members go, most of them are highly
• 5:51
  Speaker 2: encouraging when an obese person walks in because they understand
• 5:54
  Speaker 2: how difficult it is to make a life-changing decision like
• 5:57
  Speaker 2: losing 200 pounds. However, there is one very consistent complaint
• 6:01
  Speaker 2: that I get from students, which is students don't like
• 6:04
  Speaker 2: it when teachers are fat. I think Tom Likas said
• 6:06
  Speaker 2: it best on one of his radio shows back in
• 6:08
  Speaker 2: the 2000s. If I'm trying to lose weight... then I
• 6:12
  Speaker 2: don't want the teacher to look like the before photo.
• 6:14
  Speaker 2: There's a reason for that, and it's not because these
• 6:16
  Speaker 2: people are fat shamers. These people pay to go to
• 6:19
  Speaker 2: exercise classes because they want to be healthy. Taking health
• 6:23
  Speaker 2: advice from a person who is obese is like taking
• 6:26
  Speaker 2: financial advice from a person who is broken in debt. Sure,
• 6:29
  Speaker 2: you can do it, but it's not going to lead
• 6:31
  Speaker 2: to your success. If they had a working program, then
• 6:34
  Speaker 2: they would be doing it. Let me further prove my
• 6:37
  Speaker 2: point with Jessamyn's terrible health advice.
• 6:39
  Speaker 4: Water is really important to me. I have a very
• 6:42
  Speaker 4: specific water ritual. The ingredients that I like in my
• 6:46
  Speaker 4: water in the morning are activated charcoal.
• 6:50
  Speaker 3: And lemon juice.
• 6:53
  Speaker 4: Lemon is a cleanser. Charcoal allows everything else to clean
• 6:57
  Speaker 4: out as well. I do not skip my skincare. I
• 7:03
  Speaker 4: like to start with a cleansing oil just to wipe
• 7:05
  Speaker 4: everything off. I like to follow that up with either
• 7:09
  Speaker 4: a soap or a skin milk just to do an
• 7:12
  Speaker 4: additional rinse. Then I spritz rose water toner on top
• 7:17
  Speaker 4: of my skin. I like to put a skin serum
• 7:22
  Speaker 4: on to seal in the toner. And then I take
• 7:26
  Speaker 4: an eye cream. An eye cream has been like the
• 7:30
  Speaker 4: game changer of my life. Then I just like to
• 7:34
  Speaker 4: dab a little bit of face cream all over my
• 7:37
  Speaker 4: whole face.
• 7:39
  Speaker 2: Is her biggest health problem the fact that she doesn't
• 7:41
  Speaker 2: have enough charcoal or lemon juice in her diet? I mean,
• 7:44
  Speaker 2: that's one thing I consistently see with a lot of
• 7:46
  Speaker 2: unhealthy people, is that they always have some kind of
• 7:49
  Speaker 2: disgusting health potion that they drink every day to cleanse themselves.
• 7:53
  Speaker 2: When in reality, we're talking about raindrops compared to the
• 7:56
  Speaker 2: ocean here. She would become vastly healthier by losing weight.
• 8:00
  Speaker 2: Drinking lemon water in the morning is not going to
• 8:02
  Speaker 2: stop her from getting type 2 diabetes. And also, look
• 8:06
  Speaker 2: at all the time she puts into rubbing six different
• 8:08
  Speaker 2: chemicals on her face to make herself look better, when
• 8:11
  Speaker 2: the most obvious thing she could do to make herself
• 8:13
  Speaker 2: look more attractive is to lose weight. That's just the thing.
• 8:17
  Speaker 2: Nobody wastes more time on getting pretty toenails or wastes
• 8:19
  Speaker 2: more money on expensive haircuts than obese women. If they
• 8:23
  Speaker 2: would just take a tenth of that time that they
• 8:25
  Speaker 2: waste trying to hide their obesity and put it towards
• 8:27
  Speaker 2: weight loss, then they would be thin in a heartbeat.
• 8:30
  Speaker 2: But that's not what happens. Look at our hero of
• 8:33
  Speaker 2: a healthy body, Jessamyn Stanley. Let's see how far she
• 8:36
  Speaker 2: has come in her journey to be healthy. This video
• 8:38
  Speaker 2: of her doing a backbend was filmed five years ago.
• 8:41
  Speaker 2: The morning routine video was shot four years later, and
• 8:44
  Speaker 2: she has gained a substantial amount of weight. If she
• 8:47
  Speaker 2: continues on this path, then she'll be dead by the
• 8:50
  Speaker 2: time she's 50. Now when you look at this, are
• 8:52
  Speaker 2: you asking yourself, is this someone you should be taking
• 8:55
  Speaker 2: health advice from? All Jessamyn Stanley's videos show is her
• 8:59
  Speaker 2: lack of ability to attack important problems. Now, just real quick,
• 9:03
  Speaker 2: because I feel obligated to say this as a fitness professional,
• 9:06
  Speaker 2: but if you're trying to lose weight, then you need
• 9:08
  Speaker 2: to cut calories. Your thyroid is not making you fat.
• 9:11
  Speaker 2: Your genetics are not making you fat. Nor, for the ladies,
• 9:14
  Speaker 2: is polycystic ovarian disease making you fat. Those are just excuses.
• 9:19
  Speaker 2: In fact, you would be amazed at how many people
• 9:21
  Speaker 2: I have watched who complained that they have a thyroid problem,
• 9:25
  Speaker 2: eat a full bag of M & Ms a day,
• 9:27
  Speaker 2: and two large pizzas as a single meal. It's the calories.
• 9:30
  Speaker 2: Stop lying to yourself. Nobody had a thyroid problem 50
• 9:34
  Speaker 2: years ago before the obesity epidemic. Find a way to
• 9:37
  Speaker 2: eat fewer calories and you will lose weight. After learning that,
• 9:41
  Speaker 2: if you still can't lose the weight, then the problem
• 9:44
  Speaker 2: is your mind, not your body. Start fixing your psychological
• 9:47
  Speaker 2: problems that get in the way and you will find
• 9:49
  Speaker 2: it a lot easier to cut calories, cook your own food,
• 9:52
  Speaker 2: and eat less junk food. But now back to why
• 9:55
  Speaker 2: it's appropriate for men to respond with disinterest in women
• 9:57
  Speaker 2: who are obese. If you learn the right tricks, then
• 10:00
  Speaker 2: there are a lot of things you can tell about
• 10:02
  Speaker 2: a person with very little information. I think one of
• 10:05
  Speaker 2: the things obese people hate is that their problems are
• 10:07
  Speaker 2: manifested physically so everyone can see them, and at the
• 10:11
  Speaker 2: same time, they have to carry those problems out in
• 10:13
  Speaker 2: the open everywhere they go. You can be an alcoholic
• 10:17
  Speaker 2: and not have everyone you meet instantly know it, But
• 10:19
  Speaker 2: everyone you meet who is obese is projecting to everyone
• 10:22
  Speaker 2: that they are addicted to food and can't stop eating,
• 10:25
  Speaker 2: or they don't want to stop eating. And when we
• 10:28
  Speaker 2: are talking about addicts, there's a whole set of problem
• 10:31
  Speaker 2: behaviors that come with that psychology. For one, addicts lie
• 10:34
  Speaker 2: a lot. Quite a number of addicts lie so much
• 10:37
  Speaker 2: that you basically can never trust them. Did we not
• 10:39
  Speaker 2: see that behavior here? Did we not see people lie
• 10:43
  Speaker 2: by saying being obese is healthy? Did we not see
• 10:46
  Speaker 2: people trying to direct you away from their problems with
• 10:49
  Speaker 2: distraction tactics like changing the words used to describe obesity?
• 10:53
  Speaker 2: Next point. Addictions can also be a sign of childhood
• 10:57
  Speaker 2: trauma that hasn't been overcome.
• 10:59
  Speaker 5: I started starving myself at age 11. I struggled with
• 11:03
  Speaker 5: an eating disorder, mostly bulimia, for a full decade. I
• 11:06
  Speaker 5: was molested for a year and a half in high
• 11:08
  Speaker 5: school and raped my first month of college the week
• 11:11
  Speaker 5: before my younger brother was hit by a car and killed.
• 11:15
  Speaker 2: Would you want to date someone who has a bunch
• 11:16
  Speaker 2: of baggage from the past she hasn't dealt with? Carolyn Rothstein,
• 11:21
  Speaker 2: the person in this example, claims she has overcome her trauma.
• 11:25
  Speaker 5: And I learned the art of intuitive eating, where I
• 11:27
  Speaker 5: eat what I want when I want, eat when I'm hungry,
• 11:30
  Speaker 5: and stop when I'm full. That has single-handedly been the
• 11:34
  Speaker 5: tangible practice that's allowed me to maintain full recovery for
• 11:38
  Speaker 5: the past 10 years.
• 11:39
  Speaker 2: But really, she has just switched out one addiction for another.
• 11:43
  Speaker 2: She used to be anorexic, and now she's overweight. She
• 11:46
  Speaker 2: didn't get better at all. This is very common behavior
• 11:49
  Speaker 2: with addicts. Heroin abusers will get off heroin and then
• 11:52
  Speaker 2: start drinking. When drinking becomes a problem, they'll stop that
• 11:55
  Speaker 2: and start overeating. They aren't getting better, they're just trading
• 11:59
  Speaker 2: one bad habit for another. Three more quick things. One,
• 12:03
  Speaker 2: if a woman is overweight or obese, it's saying that
• 12:06
  Speaker 2: she can't delay gratification, which means she's also likely to
• 12:09
  Speaker 2: be someone who does not save for the future. Second,
• 12:12
  Speaker 2: People can have multiple addictions at the same time. You
• 12:16
  Speaker 2: can be addicted to heroin, beer, and alcohol all at once.
• 12:19
  Speaker 2: So not only may she have zero savings, but she
• 12:22
  Speaker 2: might also have a large amount of credit card debt.
• 12:24
  Speaker 2: Eating out every meal and buying a bunch of extra
• 12:26
  Speaker 2: food gets quite expensive. Last, what about the medical bills?
• 12:31
  Speaker 2: Not only does obesity lead to several of the major
• 12:33
  Speaker 2: causes of death, but also a ton of day-to-day health
• 12:36
  Speaker 2: problems like skin folds, water retention, acid reflux, gallstones, abdominal hernias,
• 12:41
  Speaker 2: and joint pain just to name a few. All that
• 12:44
  Speaker 2: adds up, and you as a toxic male who unfairly
• 12:47
  Speaker 2: makes more money are going to be paying for that.
• 12:51
  Speaker 2: Remember that this one thing describes 70% of women. If
• 12:55
  Speaker 2: it also describes you, then get your shit together. I mean,
• 12:58
  Speaker 2: just look at how miserable those women are all the time.
• 13:02
  Speaker 2: They are constantly screaming misery with their actions and projections.
• 13:05
  Speaker 2: You don't want your life to go in that direction,
• 13:08
  Speaker 2: so learn from their bad examples. But with that said,
• 13:11
  Speaker 2: I think that will be enough for this video. If
• 13:12
  Speaker 2: you liked it, hit the like button, subscribe if you're new,
• 13:16
  Speaker 2: comment and share. If you would like to support this channel,
• 13:19
  Speaker 2: then you can donate through PayPal, Subscribestar, or Patreon. All
• 13:23
  Speaker 2: of those links are on my channel page, and they're
• 13:25
  Speaker 2: in the description of every video. Last, if you haven't
• 13:28
  Speaker 2: checked out my BitChute channel, that is also on the
• 13:31
  Speaker 2: channel page and in the description of every video. Other
• 13:35
  Speaker 2: than that, see you next time. Thanks for watching.